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Stories by Rose O’Connor, Correspondent

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You can be fearless or you can fear less.”

Those were the words of Father Martin O’Reilly, diocesan youth chaplain, to the almost 700 teens in grades eight through 12, youth ministry leaders, adults, and men and women religious who converged Feb. 10 on Christian Brothers Academy, Lincroft, for the 2018 Diocesan Youth Conference.

“We can’t always be fearless, but we can definitely fear less IT ’S ALL HOW when we know God is on our side. With God all things are YOU LOOK AT THE possible,” said Father O’Reilly, paWORDS. YOU CAN BE rochial vicar in St. Catharine-St. Margaret Parish, Spring Lake.

FEARLESS OR YOU Under the theme “Fearless CAN FEAR LESS.” 365” – a nod to the hundreds of times the Bible references the phrase “be not afraid” – the young Church gathered to celebrate being fearless in their faith and learn how to fear less growing up in today’s world.

“I feel like I was maybe moving away from my faith a little bit,” Charlene Turrubiarte, 14, of Mother of Mercy Parish, Asbury Park, shared at the beginning of the day. “Society sometimes makes it difficult to have a relationship with God. I wanted to come to encounter God more closely.”

Turrubiarte and fellow youth would soon realize

 Teens give a thumbs-up as they recognize that God’s love will carry them through whatever they may face in their lives as they attend the 2018 Diocesan Youth Conference held Feb. 10 in Christian Brothers Academy, Lincroft.

Photos by Craig Pittelli

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 A young man prays at the beginning of the daylong Diocesan Youth Conference, which drew almost 700 teens, youth ministry leaders and men and women religious.

they were about to encounter Christ in many different ways throughout the daylong conference that featured keynote speakers and Catholic evangelists Oscar Rivera and Franciscan Friar of the Renewal Brother Pierre Toussaint, as well as breakout sessions, faith sharing, Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament, Reconciliation and Mass with Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., as principal celebrant.

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o stand on stage and look out over a crowd of nearly 700 people, teens and their adult leaders – and know they have come together to celebrate and grow in our Catholic faith – was nothing less than inspiring.

It was a beautiful sight, and it made a powerful statement. Based on the energy, openness and enthusiasm of the eighth- to 12th-graders, you could clearly see that the young Church of the Diocese of Trenton is alive and hungry for a deeper relationship with Jesus!

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LEFT THE DAY KNOWING THAT ABOVE ALL, JESUS IS THE PATH TO GOD’S LOVE.” The theme of our conference was “Fearless365.” Our hope was that it would serve as an invitation for all to embrace the truth about God’s unconditional love, and help us remember that he is with us and empowering us so we can be fearless in our faith every day.

Our “Fearless365” journey took us through three topics that built on each other. First, we broke open what it means to be “Fearless in God’s Love” and to know that our God loves us perfectly and unconditionally. Our keynote helped make

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Next, we explored what it means to be “Fearless in Battle.” We all face different battles in our lives, especially the sin and temptations of the world that try and pull us away from God’s love. Our workshops acknowledged some of these battles and helped our participants look for spiritual and practical tools to help fight them.

Lastly, we took steps to be “Fearless in Jesus Christ.” To know that Jesus lived and died for us … and no matter what we face, he is with us and reaching out – all we have to do is give him permission. I pray our young people left the day knowing that above all, Jesus is the path to God’s love, and we NEVER have to be afraid to turn to him!

It was a blessing to watch our teens fearlessly, and literally, go to Jesus both in Adoration and in the Sacrament of Confession. One of the most powerful moments in the day was when Confession began and so many young people immediately stood and formed lines around the room.

It was once again a profound testimony to the faith of our young Church.

DYC perfectly came to a close in the celebration of Mass as we fearlessly received Jesus in the Eucharist. It was a true celebration filled with joyful singing and a strong sense of community. During the homily, our Bishop shared a powerful witness on how faith helped him to overcome his fear, and it offered many moments of inspiration and encouragement.

One of the most impactful moments was when Bishop reminded us that “to be ‘fearless’ does not mean not to have fears: it means not to let fears overcome you.”

He went on to offer many insights on how to remain strong as we face difficulty and challenged us to remember that “God created you and loves you, no matter what; God loves you just as you are, even with the struggles you face.” His message brought our whole day together – you could have heard a pin drop as he spoke.

This day was truly a blessing for me and I hope for all who were involved. I could feel the hand of God influencing each aspect of DYC. I felt his loving presence was so evident in every talk, presentation and conversation. It was an honor to be a part of the team, which with the guidance of the Holy Spirit, made this year’s DYC come to life. I cannot thank enough all those who shared their gifts, talents and faith in any way to help make DYC a success.

Most of all, I thank the young Church of the Diocese of Trenton for their witness and for being so willing to embrace what it means to be fearless in their faith every day.

Dan Waddington is the diocesan director of Youth and Young Adult Ministries.

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 Franciscan Friar of the Renewal Brother Pierre Toussaint, right, enlists the help of a fellow Franciscan Friar of the Renewal in starting off the day with some icebreakers to relax and energize the youth. Brother Toussaint, one of the day’s keynote speakers, also served as emcee for the day.

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 Participants share a laugh as they take part in a balance game intended to serve as one of the icebreakers before the start of the day.

side from sports banners hanging from the rafters, CBA’s Varsity Gym was almost unrecognizable as teens filtered into what looked – and felt – like a live music concert.

Emblazoned with a red and black “#BEFEARLESS365” logo, which included Christ on the Crucifix, the stage was set with a full band led by Gez Ford, youth ministry coordinator in St. Raphael-Holy Angels Parish, Hamilton.

The band covered popular Christian rock songs, bringing teens and adults alike out of their seats to

dance along.

Energized for the day ahead, attendees cheered as Dan Waddington, diocesan director of youth and young adult ministries, took the stage, formerly welcomed the crowd and discussed the day’s theme.

“Be fearless in God’s love,” he said. “If we know that truth, there is nothing we can’t face. We want you to know that God’s love is bigger and stronger than anything we face. If our God is with us, no one can be against us, and we can be fearless.”

 Attendees get animated during the DYC.

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“Be fearless in battle,” he continued. “We know God has our back. Be fearless in Jesus. Jesus is God’s love in us. If we have Jesus, we can be fearless.”

He concluded his opening greeting with his signature, “Amen?”

“Amen!” the crowd roared in unison.

 Catholic evangelist Oscar Rivera speaks about fatherhood, his faith in God and the importance of trusting one’s heavenly father.

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ringing his upbeat urban style to the first keynote talk, Oscar Rivera spoke of his own fears as a father, raising two young children.

“Love is something we are born with; we are born to love. We are not created to fear,” he stressed and added, “If fear can do a lot of things, then love can do a lot more.”

Rivera, aka Two Ten, was raised in Waterbury, Conn., and learned at an early age how to be a survivor by avoiding the inner-city streets where he lived through his faith in God and hip hop.

In his discussion, Rivera – an alumnus of Franciscan University of Steubenville, Ohio, who earned a master of arts degree in theology from St. Leo University in Florida – referred to 1 John 3:1. “See what love the Father has bestowed on us that we may be called the children of God. Yet so we are.

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that it did not know him.” be ordained a priest in May. Brother Pierre Toussaint picked up on Brother Pierre spoke to the story in that theme during his keynote address later the Gospel of Matthew where Jesus apin the day, explaining how he, too, heard proached the apostles walking on water.

God speaking to him at a young age.

He recalled the words of Jesus when the apostles became frightAfter growing up in ened and thought they Freeport, Long Island, were seeing a ghost. “Take N.Y., Brother Pierre went IF FEAR courage, it is I – do not be on to attend Ave Maria CAN DO afraid.” (Matthew 14:27) University near Naples, Fla. As a student, he ex“My brothers and sisA LOT OF perienced a conversion. ters, this is a beautiful moTHINGS, THEN ment, not just in the Bible Tired of living what he called a selfish life, Broth- LOVE CAN DO and for the disciples, but er Pierre stopped into a it’s true for us, too,” Brother A LOT MORE.” chapel where Jesus was Pierre said. “He’s inviting exposed in the Blessed us today. That’s what this Sacrament. He knelt and prayed, “I’m tired, whole day is – for us to stop and take a mohelp me,” and in his heart, he said, he heard ment and invite the Lord into your boat, God respond, “I want you for myself.” into the boat of your life.”

Upon graduating with a bachelor’s deDuring the day, the teens also broke gree in economics, he into groups separated by gender and age entered the Friars of the and discussed the theme of being “FearFranciscan Renewal as a less in Battle.” Rivera and Brother Pierre postulant 10 years ago. spoke with the boys, while the girls met He is currently a deacon with Felicia Navarro, director of Lifelong attending St. Joseph’s Faith Formation in the Diocese of Camden, Seminary, Dunwoodie, and Vincenza Cerami of the Archdiocese of N.Y., and is scheduled to Newark, who works with chastity ministry.

Youth ministers from throughout the Diocese gathered with Waddington to  Hundreds of youth from the four counties of the discuss the challenges they face in youth Diocese listen intently to ministry as they strive to support teens in the day’s keynote speakers. their battles and be a witness to their faith.

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 Youth come together with Franciscan Friars in the school gym to show reverence for the Blessed Sacrament.

Service project, camaraderie, Adoration

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n CBA’s Intramural Gym was a place for teens to relax and connect with one another throughout the day. Here students danced, took selfies and jumped in a photo booth, visited various exhibits including those on diocesan organizations, respect life campaigns, vocations and Catholic religious communities and even wrote prayer requests to be remembered at Mass.

They also had the chance to participate in a service project organized by Holy Eucharist Parish, Tabernacle.

Ahead of DYC, Jeff Siedlecki, youth THIS WAS MY minister in the Burlington County FAVORITE PART parish, had contacted Cathedral Kitchen, Camden, to inquire about OF THE DAY.” the nonprofit’s needs. The organization’s response had the teens spending part of the day assembling more than 1,600 packets with utensils, napkins, and salt and pepper.

“This was the kids’ idea,” Siedlecki said. “We’ve volunteered at Cathedral Kitchen before and wanted to expand on that.”

This is Siedlecki’s fifth year at the DYC with the parish’s youth ministry, and he explained that the teens themselves are the real “cheerleaders” for the annual event, promoting DYC with each other.

“It’s great for the kids to see the faith they have invested so much in amplified here,” he said as

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he gestured to all the exhibits, faith and camaraderie happening at the DYC. All of the noise and excitement from the gym quickly subsided as the room was transformed in a quiet, serene and holy area for the monstrance containing the Blessed Sacrament during Adoration.

“The Eucharist is the source and summit of our faith,” Ford said as music played and the youth quieted by singing, “Trust, Surrender, Believe, Receive” in the dimly lit room full of candles.

While at Adoration, the youth had the opportunity to participate in the Sacrament of Reconciliation in another part of the school, as priests from parishes throughout the Diocese heard individual confessions.

“This was my favorite part of the day,” said Nicole Flores, an eighth-grade parishioner of St. Anthony Claret Parish, Lakewood. “I felt something at Adoration I never felt before.”  Bishop David M. Connell, C.M., administers the Sacrament of Reconciliation during DYC.

 Franciscan Friar of the Renewal Father Sebastian Kajko holds the monstrance above adorers during Eucharistic Adoration.

 Candles add to the reverence of Eucharistic Adoration.

 A young woman illuminated only by dim lighting and candles reflects during Eucharistic Adoration.

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Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., addresses the DYC during Mass celebrated in the Christian Brothers Academy gym. Joining him are Franciscan Friar of the Renewal Brother Pierre Toussaint, far left; Father Martin O’Reilly, diocesan youth chaplain, second from left, and Gez Ford, youth ministry coordinator in St. Raphael-Holy Angels Parish, Hamilton, and fellow bandmates, right.

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he day came to a close with Bishop O’Connell celebrating the Mass with his brother priests from around the Diocese.

“You know I love you, right? I love you so much I can’t stand it!” Bishop O’Connell said to cheers from the youth.

 A temporary tattoo of the Blessed Mother peeks out from beneath a teen’s shirtsleeve during silent prayers after the distribution of Holy Communion.

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In his homily, the Bishop addressed his own fears, sharing the story of how on Christmas Eve three years ago, he received news while in the hospital that if his leg was not amputated, he would be in danger of dying.

“I thought about all the times as a priest I talked to people and advised them as they faced the most difficult things in life you can imagine: kids who felt unloved or were abused; teenagers on drugs or thinking about suicide because of bullying; students who were failing in school; unwed mothers considering abortion; married couples wanting to divorce; old people who were all alone; people like myself who were sick or dying. I had the same message for them all: have faith in God, you are not alone, do not be afraid. Now, that message was for me.

“As I lay in that hospital bed in that empty room all alone on Christmas Eve, a feeling of peace came over me, peace – not denial, not fear – but the peace that only comes when you have faith and trust in God and in his love and presence always, at every moment and in every experience in our lives,” he continued. “I reached for my Rosary and started to pray and drifted off to sleep, knowing I might not wake up. But I did wake up with my Rosary still in my hand. My faith calmed my fears.”

 Two young women sing acapella for the responsorial psalm during Mass.

“AS I LAY  IN THAT HOSPITAL BED … A FEELING OF PEACE CAME OVER ME.”

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 Ocean County teens join hands during the Lord’s Prayer.

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 Friends enjoy a laugh as nearly 700 teens clap and dance to the tunes of live Christian music at the start of DYC 2018.

 A young man wears a “#BEFEARLESS365” DYC T-shirt as he takes part in the day’s events.

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he energy among those who attended DYC 2018 was apparent as the day came to a close.

“It was a beautiful day. We came and learned about God’s love and also deepened our experiences and relationships with our friends. But my favorite part of the day was the Mass,” said eighth-grade student Hugo Palacios of Our Lady of the Angels Parish, Trenton.

DYC 2018, which drew nearly 200 more attendees than last year, was memorable not only for the camaraderie, speakers, service and prayer opportunities, it was the first time in two years that eighth-graders attended, which was appreciated by parish catechetical leaders across the Diocese.

In addition, leaders from the four county youth ministry teams – groups that meet regularly to support each other in ministry and coordinate events – took active roles in the event by taking on DYC projects and preparing their teens by having youth ministry meetings around the DYC themes. For example, Burlington County organized the exhibit hall; Mercer leaders took charge of welcoming the attendees; Monmouth coordinated liturgical participants and scriptural banners, and Ocean was responsible for banners and the main stage and the large cross that adorned it.

Youth ministry leaders said they were pleased with the day and the graces it brought their young parishioners.

“The kids enjoyed it, and I’m glad that the kids wanted to come and learn more about their faith. It was just simply amazing,” said Leonardo Aceituno, youth ministry coordinator in Our Lady of the Angels Parish.

The youth agreed.

Chris Landry, a high school senior from St. James

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 Young men and women perform Christian rock music to a crowd of hundreds of their peers.

Parish, Red Bank, said he enjoyed the interactive style of this year’s DYC and found the entire day relatable.

“I’ve been coming to the DYC for a few years, and each year it keeps getting better,” he said. “I learned that you are not alone in love. You have God, and he’s on your side. That message became even more clear today.”

Turrubiarte, who had shared at the start of the day that she wanted to feel closer to God, said, “I’m going to be fearless while expressing my love for God and not be worried or fearful of what others think of me.”

Added first-time attendee Jeffrey Frankenburg of St. Dominic Parish, Brick. “It brought me deeper into my faith. It was very informative and fun. I’ll definitely be back.”

 Youth ministry leaders, religious and other adults join in the excitement of DYC.

By Nikole Russek and Amanda McNally Special Contributors

connections, whilst some struggle to relate. There are some who scramble to get in front of the monstrance he Diocesan Youth Conference is an during Adoration and gaze empowering experience that invites young upon the face of Christ, and Nikole Amanda teens from the Diocese of Trenton to as always for some, AdoMcNally Russek congregate together in an enthusiastic atmosphere ration for that long is just confusing! to share their faith journey with one another.

No one is shamed for their feelings because we are all on For the duration of the day, teens are exposed to local service our own personal journey to discover God. At the end of the projects, enriching stories from speakers and small group discusday, it doesn’t matter how sociable you were, the personal will sions relative to our society, including what it means to be Catholic to attend DYC and delve deeper into your love for your faith is today. In addition, teens can really glimpse into their personal spirwhat counts. ituality and strengthen their friendFearless is God’s faith in ship with God through Adoration. you, and his love is unquesThe day draws to a close with Mass AT THE DYC, FEARLESS tionable. In our everyday socilead by our Bishop, David M. O’Conety, young Christians are chalIS A COMBINATION OF nell, C.M. The fantastic music and lenged to stand up for their heavenly hymns are ingrained in the VULNERABILIT Y, INNER beliefs and show their faith. As fibers of existence, so when heard mentioned, being fearless isn’t PEACE AND STRENGTH back at home, they serve as the reabout being physically strong minder and call to return yet again.

THAT YOU RECEIVE AMIDST or having no fear, but the will What does it mean to be fearnot to turn your back on who THE PRESENCE OF GOD.” less? The word fearless conveys you are and what you believe. many things, but for those who atTo truly be fearless is to not be tended this year’s DYC, the word became a new way to signify that fearless at all, but rather acknowledge that God carries all our God is always with us. One has no need to be afraid if “Christ’s got fears for us – because if God is for us, who could be against us! this!” Being fearless is more than just being bold and courageous Nikole Russek is a 10th-grader from Holy Eucharist Parish, – at the DYC, fearless is a combination of vulnerability, inner peace Tabernacle. Amanda McNally of St. Mary of the Lakes Parish, and strength that you receive amidst the presence of God. Medford, is also in the 10th grade.

Fearlessness is letting God in. There’s something about the conference that strips a person of any worries, almost like peeling the skin from an orange. From the moment you cross the threshold, you are enveloped in a feeling of warmth. As you walk in, you can feel God standing behind you with his hand on your shoulder.

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Father O’Re try in his or work, Fatheattend even if they could ticipants an opportunity to examine these topics difin youth minis Diocese, reto is open Encore to presentation students years ested ficult 15 and older. The program will arguments, prepare for college studies and the inter dozen through seminal works that are an integral part group e coming to be directed by Dr. Michael P. Krom, professor of integrate their moral, intellectual and spiritual January 20 • “Prayer in Ireland befor ience leading a youth and any Catholic, liberal arts program.” chair of the college’s philosophy department. called his exper School”… As Catholic The integration of faith and education is a key development. ent parts differ people should not be afraid to exall from “Our goal is to encourage ongoing spiritual Christians, we follow the call se we’re“Young element of the seminar.

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fter watching, with her famil “A Christmas Carol” WHAT CHIL Gibilisco want y, 15-year-old Angela Gibilisco, left, D IS THIS? • Ange la ed to take is handed and give it portrayed Baby Jesus the story a religi by born, by Julia a parishioner’s new- , “It was durin ous twist.

Bulvid, who the Blesse Ghost of Chris g the scenes with portrayed d January 20 the of Christmas,Mother in “The Heart • “Prayer in ined an angel tmas Past that I first imagSchool”… the youth ” a play organized by Scrooge and appearing to a man minis Christians, we As Catholic simil taking him Laboure Parish try of St. Catherine ar to happened , Middletow to “pray alway follow the call courtesy of on the very to see what actually n. Photo Theresa Gibilis s.” first Gibil Jesus’ Christmas isco, mem words co “I am with you always” remin St. Catherine ber of the youth minis ,” said learned to us that praye d Labo try trust each r is other, trust Hence “The ure Parish, Middletow in the directors the presence “practicing Heart of Chris n. of presented together in that it would all come tmas Dec. 29 by remembering God and the end.”

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In the play, a Scrooge-lik to be accepted? you go Anthony, 14, d to her younger broth and named Mich support roles additions to the cast rse character ael er, , and of cours and Encore present ber, he could also a youth ministry ian angel and is visited by his guard how transform ation e had to some memn’t refuse. brought back our parish play “With Christmas theat woul hall to out er, the into d not have him, this which we did to first been happened,” by way of verya parish is truly abou experience what the curtains to she said, grate as successful or holiday divid t. ing’ and ‘back e the hall into ‘thea long ful. ter seat- youthTheresa Gibilisco said stage.’” she believed , as well as Through it the herself, all, she said, God while “the kids creating the were inspired by performan ce.

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