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“Peace be with you,” proclaims Bishop O’Connell, stretching out his arms before nearly 8,000 teens and their chaperones as he begins the Opening Mass of the Diocese of Trenton’s Eucharistic Congress Oct. 12. The bishop convoked the threeday congress to take place in the dawning days of the Year of Faith, proclaimed by Pope Benedict XVI to mark the 50th anniversary of the Second Vatican Council and the 20th anniversary of the promulgation of the Catechism of the Catholic Church. Held in the PNC Bank Arts Center, Holmdel, the congress drew an estimated 20,000 men, women, teens and children, who took part in Masses, Eucharistic Adoration, concerts, prayer services, dramatic and cultural performances, spiritual talks and more. Photo by Jeff Bruno. See inside for full coverage.

Place of Prayer

Engaging Children, Teens and Families

Unity and Diversity

Congress goers were offered many opportunities for prayer throughout the congress, from Morning Prayer and Vespers to silent prayer before the Blessed Sacrament in the on-site chapel and instructions on different prayer traditions in the Church, such as the Liturgy of the Hours.

Kids and families were a main focus of the congress, with Oct. 12 devoted just for youth, and Oct. 13 focusing on the Church Family. The Saturday itinerary featured fun kid activities, a blessing of anniversary couples and a Mass that highlighted the importance of God’s family.

A prayer gathering for the Spanish and Portuguesespeaking faithful, and a multicultural song and dance expo celebrated the diverse heritage that is the Church, whose members came together as one family, more than 3,000 strong, on Sunday afternoon for the Great Mass.

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The lasting gift of the Eucharistic Congress terpiece of Friday’s Day for Youth, in which nearly 8,000 students, teachers, parents and advisors overflowed the expansive amphitheater. hen Bishop David M. The excitement and the exuberance O’Connell, C.M. convoked that young participants experithe diocese’s first-ever Euenced were obvious, and those same charistic Congress, he was very clear feelings were seen again and again about the blessings he wished for it throughout the congress. to bring to his flock.

It would be hard to imagine Scheduled to be held during that anyone could have returned the first days of the nascent Year of to their homes, their parishes and Faith, Bishop O’Connell wanted the their schools after participating in congress to be catechetical and inthe congress without considering spirational, reinforcing our Catholic earnestly what their Catholic faith identity, strengthening our knowlmeant to them and how they are edge of the faith and moving us to living it. It is not only hopeful, but a vibrant celebration of Jesus Christ entirely plausible, that the practice in the Eucharist. In his messages of the faith in the Diocese of Trenabout the congress, Bishop preton will be enriched throughout this sented the Oct. 12-14 gathering as Year of Faith, due in large part to a way to embrace the call from Pope the experience of this congress.

Lasting Memory – A young girl smiles at Bishop O’Connell as he reaches out to her durBenedict XVI to observe this special But the greatest gift that this ing the Opening Procession of the Great Mass Oct. 14. Jeff Bruno photo year, renewed in our spiritual beliefs Eucharistic Congress has brought and rededicated to a fervent practice of the faith, most especially coming together to us may be more far-reaching than this most immediate Year of Faith. Perhaps for weekly Mass and receiving the Body and Blood of Jesus Christ. the most enduring blessing that will come from it is one that was not formally By all measures, the congress was a huge success, and could very well bear the planned, or staged, or in any way programmed. Quite simply, it is the very real, fruit that Bishop O’Connell had envisioned when he first charged the planning loving, human connection that Bishop O’Connell was able to make with the committee with building this historic gathering. The PNC Bank Arts Center children who attended with their parents through his consistent presence and the reported impressive head counts – a cumulative total of nearly 14,000 individuals warm way that he reached out to so many. was cited for the three major Masses; overall foot traffic through the venue over This connection, this reaching out, is not something that was easily perceivthe three days was placed at a remarkable 20,000 persons, and many of the activiable during the congress, with so much activity and movement. It is possible that ties staged in the satellite venues enjoyed robust attendance.

Bishop O’Connell himself may not have recognized it as it was happening.

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ver the decades, silvery ice rinks, dazzling Broadway, opera and ballet sets and heavy metal pyrotechnics have drawn admiring glances from audiences in the PNC Bank Arts Center, Holmdel.

But when it comes to, “can you top that?” the answer is well, yes, in a wonderfully reverent way, we can!

Indeed many Catholics attending the Masses at the Eucharistic Congress Oct. 12-14 recognized the “great chair” situated to the left of the altar as “one of a kind,” so profoundly special that its like will almost certainly never be seen at the arts center again.

Made for the visit of Pope John Paul II to Giants Stadium Oct. 5, 1995, the simple, white wooden chair with its plush, red insets and distinctive papal seal had been loaned by the Newark Archdiocese for use in the liturgies in the vast auditorium throughout the congress.

Carefully transported to the arts center by a team

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Father Papalia, who co-chaired the Eucharistic Congress Committee along with Father Brian Woodrow, chaplain of Capital Health Systems, Mercer County, said pains had been taken to honor the significance of the congress by scouring the region for glorious appointments.

“Archbishop ( John J.) Myers, who was the principal concelebrant at the concluding Great Mass, let us use the chair and it really (affected people). The chair is a sign, really, of our unity in Christ…Where the bishop is, the Church is.”

Having it present signified not only the “very real way the bishop presides in love and charity” but “the presence of Jesus in our midst,” Father Papalia said.

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A Day for the YOUTH Open to God’s Grace – The Eucharistic Congress’ Day for the Youth Oct. 12 began with a keynote talk filled with rocking missionaries and prayerful teens, and everything in between as Catholic school students, parish religious education students and youth group members praised God with open arms at the PNC Bank Arts Center, Holmdel.

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FRIDAY OCTOBER 12 Jamming for Jesus – Trenton Diocese’s Bishop David M. O’ Connell, C.M., joins the youth’s exuberant style of praise as John Angotti’s JAMM band plays songs of worship during the Eucharistic Congress’ Day for the Youth.

Professing the Faith – Young people participated in a live, interactive presentation in the format of the diocesan teenage television program, Realfaith TV after Mass with Bishop O’Connell. Among the teens to participate in the live presentation and profess his faith in the Eucharist was Daniel Napoleon of Our Lady of the Angels Parish, Trenton.

Being Christ’s Hands – Young people from around the diocese had an opportunity to perform works of service during the Eucharistic Congress, including Catholic Relief Services’ Helping Hands project. Youth prepared packages of food to send to the impoverished West African country, Burkina Faso. Food items that were sent included vitamins, vegetables, rice and soy.

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Giving Praise to Jesus – Almost 8,000 youth from all around the Diocese of Trenton came together on the morning of the first day of the first Eucharistic Congress in New Jersey Oct. 12 at the PNC Bank Arts Center in Holmdel. Trenton Diocese’s Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., chose to open the congress with a day for the youth as a testimony to how alive and young the Church truly is. The teens coped with the cold October morning weather, and many expressed how glad they were to experience the vastness of their diocesan community.

Bright Beginnings Nearly 8,000 teens open Eucharistic Congress with excitement, reverence, camaraderie Story by David Kilby Correspondent Photos by Jeff Bruno

Youthful Energy – Bishop David M. O’ Connell, C.M., lifts his hands to bless the packed crowd at the PNC Bank Arts Center, which was filled with teens from schools, religious education programs and parish youth groups from all around the Diocese of Trenton, at the Mass Oct. 12, a day Bishop O’ Connell, later called “Youth Day Jersey style”.

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crisp autumn morning at the PNC Bank Arts Center, Holmdel, brought thousands of youth from around the Diocese of Trenton to the first day of the first Eucharistic Congress in New Jersey.

The morning events were filled with Catholic traditions and innovative evangelization as the youth took part in Morning Prayer and a keynote talk by Christian musician John Angotti.

St. Catharine Parish, Holmdel, was the first youth group to arrive at the congress a little after 8 a.m.

Mike West, a chaperone for the group, said the congress helps the teens “get a sense of spending days with people of your faith. Seeing how many people show up will help them see that they’re not alone.”

Kevin Krastins, 17, of St. Catharine Parish, had the same notion.

“It’s good being around all my friends, being together,” he said.

“We all enjoy doing community service together. And that’s kind of like this, with the music and everything, because it’s more than just talk.”

“It’s kicking off the Year of Faith, giving a reason to gather together,” said Kristin West, 17, of St. Catharine.

“It’s a new venue, the first Eucharistic Congress. There are so many more people here.”

Kelly Welsh, a teacher who came with 21 seventh-graders and 12 eighth-graders from Our Lady of Mount Carmel School, Asbury Park, said seventh and eighth grade is an important time to learn about the Catholic faith, since at that age students have to make choices as they get older.

She said the congress is important because it gives her students the chance to discover “other kids that are learning the same things about their faith every day.”

As the youth groups and Catholic school students filed into the amphitheater, Sibling Rivalry played praise songs like “Now is the Time to Worship” and “Yes, Lord.”

The cheers became loudest when the local band sang “How Great is our God” by Chris Tomlin.

By that time groups were coming in such great numbers, the stairs down to the amphitheater got backed up as they searched for the best place to sit.

By the time Sibling Rivalry was done singing, the cheers

from the teens made it clear that they were present, awake, and ready for a day of praise and worship.

The jumbo screens on each side of the stage showed slide shows of youth from around the diocese, and many of the groups shouted at the top of their lungs when they saw a picture of themselves, and their parishes and schools.

Once the amphitheater was packed, Father Brian Woodrow, co-chair of the Eucharistic Congress planning committe, gave an introduction to Morning Prayer, saying “These are the prayers Jesus prayed when he walked the earth, the Psalms.”

The cheers from the music and slideshow turned to quiet as the precession with Jesus and the Blessed Sacrament proceeded down the steps with a company of priests while bells echoed around the stage.

Teens offered the Scripture reading and responsorial psalm before a brief prayer was given by Bishop David M. O’ Connell, C.M. “As your bishop, it is a joy to welcome you to the first Eucharistic Congress,” the bishop said to the audience, and thanked all of the schools and youth groups for coming.

As John Angotti prepared for his keynote talk, youth groups, students and their leaders had to find seats on the upper lawn since the amphitheater was packed.

Angotti is a music missionary who travels the world providing music and witness to all ages through song, stories, retreats, missions and conferences. His time on stage was less of a traditional keynote talk, and more of a natural interaction with the youth, and, from their enthusiasm, they loved it. Emphasizing the message that “Sunday’s all about Monday,” Angotti had the audience doing more than just listening, as they sang along and even danced along on stage with the missionary-performer.

“It’s cold, but it’s worth it because I like his story,” said Jorge Arrisueno, 14, from St. Anthony of Padua Parish, Hightstown.

“His story is pretty cool,” said Molly Walsh, also of St. Anthony Parish. “He brings a lot of people closer to God by interacting with them. He shows them movements that go with songs so the song gets stuck in their head for the rest of the day.”

Angotti did just that as he led teens on stage in a dance to “Everywhere I Look I See Your Face.”

He also mixed up the music, singing praise songs like “I Can Only Imagine,” followed by “Don’t Stop Believing” by Journey.

The teens waved their arms back and forth as Angotti seamlessly went from powerful message to song.

“Everything around us is a sacrament,” he said, adding that everyone can be a sacrament, too. “There’s no sense in doing what you do if you don’t know why you do it.”

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Music and Message Rockin' bishop, rapping priest help teens get in the groove of their faith

Uplifting Message – Teens reached for the heavens during the John Angotti concert Oct 12.

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ver the years, closing sets on the main stage at the PNC Bank Art Center have featured finales from stellar performers from Luciano Pavarotti to James Taylor to Journey.

But the Oct. 12 finale was definitely a significant first for Catholics as Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., accepted an invitation from headliner John Angotti to share the microphone in a lively rendition of Journey’s “ Don’t Stop Believing.”

As the crowd of young people signaled their ap-

Rapping Religion – Franciscan Friar of the Renewal Father Stan Fortuna shared a positive, Christian message of love, devotion and joy through his unique brand of music for an energized audience of teens.

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Dynamic Duo – Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., joins headliner Christian musician John Angotti for a prayer-filled rendition of Journey’s “Don’t Stop Believing” on the main stage.

proval with applause, whistles and stomps, the bishop sang, danced to the beat, gave high fives to the kids in the front section who had made their way to the stage to join in the fun and posed for pictures with them before departing with an encouraging call of “Don’t Stop Believing!”

“It was excellent,” said Alina Zimmerman, one half of the sister and brother team “Sibling Rivalry” who also performed yesterday.

Alina and her brother, Justin, were definitely en-

thusiastic about the way the day ended, with Angotii inviting them to join the jam with bishop and the other kids. “It was great,” said Justin. “A great way to end the day.”

Justin Zimmerman said the two, who perform all over the area in secular venues as well as sacred ones, said today’s concert was a marvelous opportunity to share their faith. “You just knew that nearly 8,000 who share your faith were with you. There was a great spirit and a great feeling

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roclaiming this as a “year to think big in faith,” Franciscan Friar of the Renewal Father Stan Fortuna, known throughout the country as ‘the rapping priest,’ spread his musical message of joy and devotion to Jesus through hip lyrics and a booming voice, rocking the main stage of the Eucharistic Congress Oct. 12.

“Are you ready for this?” Father Fortuna shouted to the throngs of youth who had begun to rush the front aisles by the stage. “Your bishop was thinking big with this event because it’s the first of its kind in the Diocese of Trenton. I know he thinks big, and I want all of you to think big, too. I invite all young people to think big and to bring new flavor to your faith,” he exclaimed.

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he teen-themed festivities at the PNC Arts Center Friday featured speakers, clergy, actors and athletes from all fields and of all ages. One band, the locally-renowned Howell-based group known as Sibling Rivalry spoke to the teens from a unique perspective: the exact same age.

An overflow crowd filled the VIP Club pavilion, as Justin and Alina Zimmerman, the brother and sister duo who make up Sibling Rivalry, performed a number of their Catholic Christian hits proclaiming their love and respect for the Lord. The duo has appeared at the See Siblings | P31

Tuneful Teens – Alina and Justin Zimmerman of the Howell-based band Sibling Rivalry entertained faith-fueled teens under the VIP Tent during Friday’s Eucharistic Congress session for teens.

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On Their Way to Stopping Hunger – During the congress’ Day for Youth Oct. 12, students participated in the Helping Hands program in which they prepared more than 34,000 packages of food to send to the West African nation of Burkina Faso, which is regarded as being one of the least developed countries in the world. Helping Hands is a special outreach effort created for Catholics

by Catholic Relief Services and Stop Hunger Now. Each of the food packages included servings of rice, soy, vitamins and vegetables.

Giving Hearts Eucharistic Congress gives young people a chance to help others locally, globally

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Generous Hearts – On behalf of the students of the Diocese of Trenton’s Catholic schools, parish religious education programs and parish youth groups, Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., presented a check for more than $17,000 to Catholic Relief Services and the agency’s efforts in assisting the poor of Burkina Faso. The money was collected by students of the diocese in weeks prior to the Eucharistic Congress. Looking on at left is JoAnn Tier, diocesan superintendent of Catholic schools.

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ive young people a chance to help their brothers and sisters in need, and they come

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That was evident during the Eucharistic Congress when youth from around the diocese took part in a comprehensive social outreach effort that provided non-perishable foods to local charitable agencies within the diocese, and sorely needed food and money to the West African country of Burkina Faso.

The effort began in local parishes and schools many weeks ago, resulting in the collection of food and funds that materialized at the congress.

Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., presented a check for more than $17K to representatives of Catholic Relief Services, the U.S. Bishops’ charitable organization, and commended the students, saying, “In your helping one of the poorest countries in Africa, you are showing your faith in this Year of Faith.”

“As Jesus gave of his body and blood to us in the Eucharist, you, through your sweat and tears, are helping the people” who live in another part of the world.

“And I thank you for that,” said Bishop O’Connell.

Local Outreach Daughter of Charity Sister Joanne Dress, diocesan executive director of Catholic social services, and JoAnn Tier, diocesan superintendent of Catholic schools, explained that the Diocesan Food Project began many weeks ago when all young people in Catholic schools, parish religious education programs and youth groups, had been asked to collect non-perishable food items to be distributed to four Catholic social service agencies that provide emergency assistance: Catholic Charities’ Emergency and Community Services, Burlington County; Mount Carmel Guild, Trenton, Mercer County; Project Paul, Monmouth County, and St. Francis Community Center, Brant Beach, Ocean County.

Part of the outreach service project on Oct. 12 had scores of students helping to transport the donated food items, which included soups, vegetables and peanut butter and jelly, from the 163 buses to the four trucks that had been sent by the outreach agencies to collect the goods.

Helping Others Globally In a second outreach effort, the diocese participated in the Helping Hands program to help provide food assistance to Burkina Faso, which is regarded as being one of the least developed countries in the world. Helping Hands is a special outreach effort created for Catholics by Catholic Relief Services, the U.S. bishops’ charitable organization, and Stop Hunger Now, an international hunger relief organization.

Throughout the Day for Youth that opened the Oct. 12-14 Eucharistic Congress, thousands of students funneled through the outreach tent, more

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The teens rolled up their sleeves, put on hair nets, sanitized their hands and got to work in preparing more than 34,000 packages of food to send to Burkina Faso. The food items included rice, vegetables, vitamins and soy.

Students who weren’t involved with the effort were invited to help create colorful cards and posters to send along with the food. Because the majority of Burkinabe do not speak English, the students were asked to draw pictures of themselves, their families or school communities.

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‘Youth Day: Jersey Style’ At opening Mass of Congress, Bishop O'Connell urges young people to remain close to Jesus Story by Mary Stadnyk News Editor and David Kilby, Correspondent

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ver the years, audiences who have filled the amphitheater of the PNC Bank Arts Center in Holmdel have welcomed special guests of all sorts, most with all the trappings that come with their particular brand of celebrity.

But, according to Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., the special guest who entered the main stage during the diocese’s Eucharistic Congress Mass Oct. 12, “doesn’t have a Facebook account and cannot be contacted on Twitter. He doesn’t play a musical instrument. He doesn’t have a reputation as a great singer or dancer. He’s not hip-hop or a rapper… he won’t appear with great fireworks, dry ice or a spectacular ice show.

“On this stage which has played host to some of the world’s greatest musical artists, bands and performers, we will welcome another important guest – the most important guest to appear and be present anywhere,” Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., said in his homily during the Mass celebrated with the nearly 8,000 youths present from across the diocese.

It is Jesus, the bishop continued as he looked out among the rapt throng of energized teenagers, who “comes today not to perform but, rather, to give himself to us, to give us his life...completely and forever.

“And what’s his price of admission?”

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Young Faithful Celebrate – Every seat in the main stage area of the PNC Bank Arts Center, Holmdel, was filled when the nearly 8, 000 young people from around the diocese gathered for a Mass celebrated by Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., on the first day of the diocese’s Eucharistic Congress. Jeff Bruno photo

the bishop asked, then added, “Faith, that’s all he asks for.”

The Mass, which was concelebrated by dozens of priests of the diocese, took on a majestic tone as the stage became a sanctuary and a place of reverent worship.

The music, under the direction of Shawn Mack, was traditional and many youths joined in the singing of hymns – “Ave

Verum Corpus,” “Panis Angelicus,” “The Lord Bless You and Keep You” – as they viewed the words that were printed on the jumbo screens hung alongside the stage.

The bishop’s homily described the Eucharistic Congress as the ideal way to begin the Year of Faith.

“Catholics everywhere, of every age and description will turn their attention

to their Catholic faith and reflect on what it means to be Catholic in today’s world,” he said. “This is the best way I can think of for us to begin our own participation in the Year of Faith,” he added.

He said of all the people, he chose the young people of the diocese to begin this event. “Today you are making history,” he said.

Calling to mind the World Youth Days that have been held over the years, Bishop O’Connell said, “Today is Youth Day, Jersey style. This day belongs to you.”

The main message that Bishop O’Connell had for his young faithful was simple and succinct – to keep Jesus close to them. He urged them to attend Mass regularly, and to receive the Eucharist.

“Today you want to – no, you need to – think about the place that Jesus holds in your lives, no matter how young you may be, age doesn’t matter,” Bishop O’Connell exhorted the youth.

“Even though you are young and your future lies wide open before you, you have already been baptized as Catholics; many of you have already received the Sacrament of Confirmation while others are preparing for it; you have already received the Eucharist many times and you have already read and heard God’s Word at Mass or in school or at home.

You have already begun your journey of faith as young Catholics.”

Bishop O’Connell asked the youth to think about the difference that having faith in Jesus Christ made in their young lives. “Your Catholic faith will enable you, as young people, to reach for the sky in life if you sink your roots deeply in Christ, in the Church, in all that is good and true and right,” said Bishop O’Connell.

“Your friendship with Jesus Christ and your faith in him and what he teaches us in and through the Church will make all the difference in your life if you want it to and if you let it.”

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Prayerful Stance – Young students bow their heads as they pray during the Mass celebrated by Bishop O’Connell for youth of the diocese. Autumn Pittelli photo

n a day designed to motivate, educate and uplift teens, it is little surprise that the music for the Mass would be performed by teens as well.

About 240 young soprano, alto, tenor, baritone and bass voices blended as a multi-layered vocal symphony supplied the sung praise for the Mass held at noon on the main stage.

Representatives from six of the eight Catholic high schools reflected upon the novel experience backstage as they practiced before the sacred liturgy.

A quartet of basses from Monsignor Donovan High School, though seasoned choir members at the Toms River institution, still were awed at the magnitude of what they were about to experience. Freshman Joe Maher and seniors Ryan Molicki, Christian Cieri and Joe Galante sat clad in their blue and white school jackets in the back row surveying the thousands of red metal seats quickly being filled by their peers. “This is the See Choir | P29

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Celebrating the Priesthood

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riests of the diocese truly appreciate opportunities when they can gather with fellow priests for prayer, dialogue and renewal.

While there are several occasions throughout the year that bring them together, the priests were especially grateful to have a session built into the Eucharistic Congress schedule that was geared just for them.With the session, there was time for spiritual renewal through presentations given by Bishop Arthur Joseph Serratelli of the Diocese of Paterson and Franciscan Friar of the Renewal Mariusz Koch, as well as time for them to socialize during a buffet dinner.

“Not only are we getting together as priests, pastors and seminarians, but we’re coming together as friends,” said Father Miguel Virella, pastor of Our Lady of Mount Carmel and Holy Spirit Parishes, Asbury Park. “There’s a sense of unity being promoted among us and we’re being encouraged and strengthened

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Meaning of Eucharist – Franciscan Friar of the Renewal Mariusz Koch of the Newark Archdiocese presented a Eucharistic reflection for Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M, as well as priests and seminarians of the diocese Oct. 12.

Brothers in Christ – Priests of the diocese were appreciative to have an opportunity to gather during the Eucharistic Congress Oct. 12.

in our vocation.”

Father Virella also expressed how he sees the three-day event as “bringing the whole community of the diocese together” in celebration of their Catholic faith.

As a first year theology student who is preparing for the priesthood in St. Mary Seminary and University, Baltimore, seminarian Roy Ballacillo said he appreciated diocesan seminarians being included in the gathering for priests at the congress.

As a “new guy,” Ballacillo, whose

home parish is St. William the Abbot, Howell, said he enjoyed meeting more priests of the diocese and gaining insight on what he might expect in years to come as a future priest of the diocese.

He added how energized he was to see so many youth in attendance at the congress and to participate in the Mass that Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., had celebrated for the youth earlier in the day.

Priests of the diocese “love to get together,” said Father Michael T. McClane, parochial vicar of St. Paul

Parish, Princeton. And the Eucharistic Congress provided an occasion for them to socialize, pray together and hear a “special talk” on the Eucharist that “was very powerful,” he said.

“We were all united in prayer for one another and sharing our common focus as priests,” Father McClane said.

Father McClane added that he regards the Eucharistic Congress as “a beautiful way for our diocese to begin the Year of Faith.”

“I think it will be a very grace-filled year for our diocese,” he said.

Bishop Serratelli: Like the Eucharist, the priesthood is about building unity Story by Mary Stadnyk News Editor Photo by Jeff Metzner While social work and counseling are among the many areas of service in which a priest becomes involved throughout the course of his ministry, his “greatest act” in helping to make the Church grow is when he “reverently and daily celebrates the Eucharist.”

This was the message of Bishop Arthur Joseph Serratelli, Diocese of Paterson, during his presentation to Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., and the diocese’s priests, seminarians and those discerning a vocation to the priesthood on the special relationship between priests and the Eucharist.

Bishop Serratelli’s presentation was held on the first day of the diocese’s first Eucharistic Congress Oct. 12.

Speaking of how the Eucharist is meant to create unity, Bishop Serratelli said the unity that Christ shared with his apostles at the Last Supper when he instituted the Eucharist, is the same unity that Christ shares with his people during the celebration of the Eucha-

Encouraging Words – Bishop Arthur Joseph Serratelli of the Paterson Diocese addressed Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., and priests of the diocese the evening of Oct. 12. Bishop Serratelli spoke on how the priesthood is about building unity.

rist. It is through the Eucharist, which is celebrated by the priest, that the unity between Christ and the people is formed.

Along with serving as a unifying

force, the bishop noted that the Eucharist is the “sacrament of charity” and it is a priest’s responsibility to “exercise this charity” in his pastoral ministry.

Bishop Serratelli explored the Gospel story of the miracle of the loaves and fishes, which is recounted (in various ways) by all four authors – Matthew, Mark, Luke and John, as an example that can help to “develop a truly Eucharistic spirituality for our priestly ministry.”

Though the Gospel accounts differ among the four authors, each depicts different aspects of Jesus’ ministry as he tended to the crowds he fed.

“Without doubt, the early Church regarded this as a most significant event in the Galilean ministry of Jesus,” said Bishop Serratelli. “Not simply because something happened, but because something ought to happen again and again because of that miracle.”

“The evangelists, in remembering the event, saw this miracle as connected with the Eucharist, and the Church even today sees that connection,” said Bishop Serratelli. “This connection is important for our priesthood. It is a reminder that there must always be a real connection between the sacrifice we offer to God and the service we offer to man between

our Masses and the masses.”

Like Jesus who tended to the crowds of many people of many different walks of life, the bishop reminded the priests they too must remember that they have been called to serve many different people.

“In simple terms, there can be no divorce between the sanctuary and the street, between the mystery of faith we celebrate and the miseries of life we alleviate,” said Bishop Serratelli.

“A true priest is not a sanctuary priest, an office priest, but one involved – according to his abilities – in the very lives of his people.”

Bishop Serratelli exhorted the priests of the Trenton Diocese to remember that, “In our daily celebration of the Eucharist, we ourselves are made one with Christ who humbled himself in the Incarnation, poured out himself in love on the Cross, rose in the power of the Spirit on the third day and already is present with the triumph of the last day.”

“And so it is our relationship to the Eucharist that most clearly challenges us and strengthens us to lead a ‘sacred’ life,” Bishop Serratelli said, “where Christ shines forth in words and deeds and the Church is built up in love and unity.”

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A Day for the CHURCH FAMILY Faith-Filled Market Place – Thousands of Catholics from around the diocese who attended the Eucharistic Congress stopped by the vendor’s tent where all manner of Catholic religious goods and information about services offered by Catholic agencies, institutions and Catholic merchants were available for browsing.

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SATURDAY OCTOBER 13 Smile and Wave – Bishop O’Connell, smiles broadly and waves as he arrives via golf cart with one of the many Filippini sisters who attended the early morning gathering of women religious.

Father Alberto Tamayo, diocesan vice chancellor and priest secretary to Bishop O’Connell, accompanies them.

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Hearing the Word – Sisters who attended the morning reception for vowed religious with Bishop O’Connell and Sister of St. Joseph Rose McDermott, diocesan delegate for religious, went on to morning prayer in the amphitheater of the PNC Bank Arts Center.

There, they listened attentively to Bishop O’Connell’s homily.

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O Sacrament Most Holy – Those who braved the chilly temperatures were warmed by the opportunity for Eucharistic Adoration at Vespers. Here, Msgr. Sam Sirianni, diocesan director of worship, prepares to gather the clergy who will participate in the procession.

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Knights in Waiting – Many Knights of Columbus gathered at the PNC Bank Arts Center where they attended morning prayer and went on to form an honor guard for a procession to the Vietnam Veterans Memorial on Telegraph Hill. There, Bishop O’Connell led a prayer service for all veterans.

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Deacons find spiritual renewal at Congress Story by Mary Stadnyk News Editor Photo by Ken Falls Permanent deacons, along with their wives and family members, spent some quality time with Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., during an informal gathering at the Eucharistic Congress Oct. 13.

Together, the bishop and the diaconate community prayed together, shared conversation and a meal.

Deacons from around the diocese expressed collective support for the diocese’s first Eucharistic Congress, commenting on the selection of inspiring speakers, performers, liturgies and prayer experiences.

“It’s very exciting to see so many people coming together for a common purpose and to see their expressions of faith,” said Deacon John Klincewicz of Holy Innocents Parish, Neptune.

Throughout the day, Deacon Klincewicz said he enjoyed participating in the Mass celebrated by Bishop O’Connell and the question/answer sessions facilitated by Catholic apologist Patrick Madrid and Father Pablo Gadenz, a priest of the diocese, in which audience

members could ask questions about the Catholic faith. Among the questions asked of Father Gadenz, Deacon Klincewicz recalled, pertained to the perpetual virginity of the Blessed Virgin Mary; divorce, annulment and remarriage issues, and “why the bishop takes off and puts on his miter so many times during Mass.”

“I think the Eucharistic Congress achieved its purpose in bringing people together,” he said.

Deacon Rolf Friedmann of St. Robert Bellarmine Parish, Freehold, said he attended several events on Saturday, including the bishop’s Anniversary Blessing ceremony for married couples celebrating one year, 25 and 50 years or more of marriage “We should celebrate the Sacrament of Marriage as much as possible,” he said.

Expressing how “heartwarming” it was for him to attend the dinner with Bishop O’Connell and his brother deacons and their families, Deacon Friedmann said, “The bishop is our shepherd and through this Eucharistic Congress he is reaching out to the community he serves.”

Besides spending time at the congress on Saturday, Deacon Marty McMahon said he was privileged to accompany eighth grade religious education students

Food and Fellowship – Permanent deacons of the diocese and their wives enjoyed an informal gathering with Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., the evening of Oct. 13.

from St. Ann Parish, Keansburg, where he serves as religious education coordinator, to the Day for the Youth held Oct. 12.

“I really wanted them to be part of this historical diocesan event,” said Deacon McMahon. “And they enjoyed it. It was exciting for them to celebrate

their faith with 8,000 other kids their own age.”

Deacon McMahon said that the Eucharistic Congress provided him an opportunity to reflect on his vocation as a deacon and the “honor I’ve been given to serve the Church.”

Religious sisters from around the diocese receive warm welcome at Eucharistic Congress Story by Lois Rogers Features Editor Photos by Ken Falls On the second day of the Eucharistic Congress, Oct. 13, women religious from around the diocese braved the first frost of the season and chilly winds to travel to the PNC Bank Arts Center, Holmdel, for an early morning meeting with Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M. There, they found the atmosphere warmed not only by electric heaters, but the welcoming presence of Bishop O’Connell and Sister of St. Joseph Rose McDermott, diocesan delegate for religious.

After sharing coffee, a light breakfast and impromptu conversation, the sisters listened intently as Bishop O’Connell not only addressed the challenges of the past year for women religious in this country in a forthright manner, but expressed appreciation for their lives of dedication and devotion.

Looking directly into the faces of the sisters, the bishop acknowledged that the “recent discussions between American From North and South – Mercy Sister Donna M. D’Alia, director of religious education in St. Rose Parish, Belmar, and Franciscan Missionary Sister of the Infant Jesus Clare Sabini, director of religious education in St. Isaac Jogues Parish, Marlton, were among the religious who traveled from all over the diocese for the early morning meeting with Bishop O’Connell.

religious women and the Holy See have been painful for both sides.”

In April, after completion of an assessment initiated by the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith in 2008, the Holy See called for reform within the U.S. Leadership Conference of Women Religious. Cited in the assessment were a number of areas of apparent dissent by the LCWR to Church teaching on human sexuality, relative silence on the right to life and too strong an emphasis on social justice issues.

The Holy See appointed Seattle Archbishop J. Peter Sartain to work with the LCWR to revise its statutes, which will be submitted for approval by the Holy See and to review its links to affiliated organizations.

Calling the whole experience complicated, the bishop said that “to be fair, both sides have something to contribute to the questions raised and the answers being given,” and attributed much of the reaction to the Vatican assessment to the way the media reported and interpreted it.

He encouraged the sisters to focus on the fact that there will always be some

Honest Dialogue – Bishop O’Connell speaks from the heart to the religious women assembled at the Eucharistic Congress on Oct. 13, encouraging them to keep him abreast of ideas that can energize their religious life.

tension in the Church between those who follow the religious charism of their founders and the Church as an institution. “One represents reform and certain points in history, and the other struggles to preserve the status quo.”

But, he said, “tension isn’t always the worst thing. There is no growth without it. Think of the seed in the ground pushing up and breaking through the soil, reaching for sunlight and becoming a beautiful plant. Religious life, consecrated life, is that ecclesial seed that becomes the magnificent garden that is the Church.”

Bishop O’Connell reminded the sisters that as a religious and a bishop, he understands the challenges and difficulties in both of these dimensions of the Church. He called on the women religious for patience and understanding, as both sides have to acknowledge difficulties and work out issues that will contribute to growth and maturity in the Body of Christ.

He thanked the sisters for all that they do for the diocese and the Church, he encouraged them to let him know “what I can do for you,” by keeping him abreast of ideas that can help make their religious life “energized.”

That message was echoed by Sister Rose who assured the sisters that “Bishop O’Connell deeply appreciates your service; that is why I am here.”

Sister Rose assumed her responsibilities in the chancery Sept. 1 following 19 years on the faulty of The Catholic University of America as a professor of canon law. There, she specialized in Church law dealing with the sacraments and consecrated life and ministry.

“As a member of the Congregation of the Mission, better known as the Vincentian Fathers, he understands your vocation with all of its demands and challenges,” she said. “I want to do all I can to assist him in serving you, as you give of yourselves in Christ-like witness and service to the people in our Diocese of Trenton.”

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All in the Family

Bread of Life – A Missionary of Charity receives the Body of Christ at stations located throughout the amphitheater during the Saturday Mass, Oct. 13. The second day of the Eucharistic Congress was themed, “A Day for the Church Family.”

Sharing the Message – The image of Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., is projected upon the giant LED screens at the PNC Bank Arts Center during Mass, assuring that everyone in the large crowd would hear the message of the bishop’s homily about the role and importance of families.

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ishop David M. O’Connell, C.M. entered the PNC Bank Arts Center in Holmdel on Oct. 13 to celebrate Mass on the second day of the Eucharistic Congress, “A Day for the Church Family,” and was greeted with enthusiasm by the faithful from around the diocese. Those particularly charged up among the congregation were children from Our Lady of Mount Carmel Parish, Asbury Park, who offered him many smiles, waves and a barrage of high fives as he processed down the aisle.

Joined by priests, deacons, and seminarians, Bishop O’Connell welcomed those in attendance and shared in his homily the importance of family life.

“As Catholics, as Christians, we believe that family life begins in God. We call him 'Father.'

We call Jesus, his only Son, 'Brother.' We live in the Holy Spirit. That is our faith.”

Bishop O’Connell also shared personal stories of his own family life and recalled the focal point that produced many memories, the kitchen table.

“In my family home, the kitchen table was the center of our life. We didn’t have a dining room, just a small kitchen with a table in the center. That table was the place where Mom and Dad had their quiet, sometimes whispered conversations late into the night. That table was the place where Dad unburdened himself to Mom when he came home from work and where Mom let Dad know what was going on with us.

For a text of Bishop O’Connell’s homily, We did our video highlights, expanded story homework at coverage and photo galleries, go to … that table after school, times TrentonMonitor.com tables, spelling and catechism. d to come home when we We waited there for Dad didn’t quite live up to Mom’s expectations. That table was the place where we celebrated Thanksgiving and Christmas, birthdays and anniversaries, baptisms and funerals, feasts when times were good

and less when times were not so good. That table caught our tears and absorbed our laughter. That table was the center of life in our home and family and it helped us ‘stick together.’”

He likened the family table to the altar; “It is at the Eucharistic table that he gives us himself, whole and entire, his very Body and Blood, to unite us to him and to one another in our journey of life.

“In this Eucharistic Congress, in this Year of Faith,” he continued, “we realize with ever more understanding, the meaning of the words of the Second Vatican Council that this Year of Faith commemorates, ‘The Eucharist is the source and summit of the Christian life.’ It is what draws us together; it is what keeps us together; it is what makes us one body, one family in Christ.”

As “A Day for the Church Family,” was celebrated, Bishop O’Connell reiterated the paramount importance of the Eucharist in the lives of the faithful.

“The Eucharist is, without a doubt, the most important ‘family event’ we could ever hope for. In faith and hope and love, then, let us take the Lord Jesus Christ home with us.”

As families filed out of the amphitheater following the Mass, they all had high words of praise for the Eucharistic Congress and the fact that a day had been designated to recognize and honor them through the choice of speakers and activities. The families were heartened by Bishop O’Connell’s homily, which stressed the importance of the family unit.

Kim Compton, a member of St. Theresa Parish, Little Egg Harbor, said it was important for her to bring her two children, Jordan, 8, and Morgan, 5, to the Family Day because she likes to “expose them to as many positive events” that relate to the Catholic faith.

“I want to find ways that they can learn more about the Church,” said Compton.

When Jordan and Morgan Compton were asked about what they enjoyed most about the family day, the two chimed that they “really liked the Donut Man” and how he “talked about God.” The Donut Man was also a hit with fouryear-old Kyleigh Foster and her six-year-old brother, Aidan, according to their father, Mike Foster, who was primarily drawn to the Eucharistic Congress based on the number of activities that were child-related.

Small Miracles – A child and father share a gaze during the Mass on Saturday, when hundreds of families came to the congress to be nourished in faith and affirmed as families.

Foster, a member of Holy Innocents Parish, Neptune, said he enjoyed hearing Bishop O’Connell’s “kitchen table” story during the homily at Mass.

“That hit home,” said Foster, “because in our home, the kitchen table is where we gather as a family every evening, have a meal and spend time together.”

With 10-year old Anthony Jr., and eight-yearold Grace Mary, in tow, Anthony and Debbie Gaudino of St. Veronica Parish, Howell, echoed similar sentiments about the day for families and said they wanted to have their children experience the Eucharistic Congress, which was a most historical occasion for the diocese.

Coming to the congress “makes you proud to be Catholic,” said Anthony Gaudino. “This is an event that is bringing the whole diocesan community together.”

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Everlasting Love Gleeful Gaze – A wife’s gaze upon her beloved reflect the joy of their union during the anniversary blessing ceremony conducted by Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M.

Joy-filled – Damon Owens, founder of Joy Filled Marriage NJ, reminded anniversary couples of the sanctity of the sacrament during his presentation. Ken Falls photo

Couples, families reminded of the dignity and goodness of marriage

By Rose O’Connor Correspondent Damon Owens, founder of Joy Filled Marriage NJ, an organization that provides support and resources for married and engaged couples, addressed married couples and their families as they visited the Eucharistic Congress to receive an anniversary blessing from Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., at the PNC Bank Arts Center, Holmdel, Oct. 13.

In 2002, Owens experienced what he describes as “an explosive conversion of heart,” when he was introduced to the Theology of the Body, the teaching of Pope John Paul II on human sexuality.

New Jersey native Owens is a husband, father of eight children and a nationallyknown speaker who has given numerous talks on Church teaching about marriage and family life. As a published author and executive director of the Theology of the Body Institute, Owens has appeared on many television shows including EWTN Life on the Rock, ABC World News Tonight, CBS News, 48 Hours, BET Evening News, and NPR. His discussion on the Sacrament of Marriage served as a perfect preface to the anniversary blessing for hundreds of couples gathered in the amphitheater who had been married one year, 25 years and 50 years or more, and all those guests who had gathered to learn more about the connection between the Eucharist, marriage and family life. “ A blessing is not creating something new,” Owens explained, “but it is raising up to the original dignity, the original good and original truth, and we recognize that the original hope is being called forth and being restored.”

Owens reflected on that original good in the Sacrament of Marriage and looked to both the Old and New Testaments to illustrate the importance and goodness of marriage.

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ishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., greeted couples who were celebrating their first, 25th, 50th year or more of married life at the Eucharistic Congress on Oct. 13 at the PNC Bank Arts Center in Holmdel. The tradition of blessing couples on milestone anniversaries in the Diocese of Trenton is one that began in 1963 with Bishop George W. Ahr. “It’s a great joy to be with you today, to welcome you to the Eucharistic Congress during this great Year of Faith proclaimed by our Holy Father to celebrate your wedding anniversaries as we pray on this beautiful day. As bishop, congratulations to you all and my prayerful best wishes on this occasion,” said Bishop O’Connell.

While he shared humorous stories of his own parents’ marriage and offered colorful quotes and anecdotes to the delight of those in attendance, he also acknowledged the

Soul Mates – Father Douglas Freer assisted in the blessing of anniversary couples in the PNC Bank Arts Center amphitheater.

Bountiful Blessings – The bishop extends his prayerful greetings to the scores of married couples present at the Oct. 13 ceremony.

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Give God the thanks today and save a little gratitude to your spouse as well.”

As he addressed the couples, he acknowledged the blessings they have received from God. “You have found your life’s partner, your soul mate, and how fortunate, how truly blessed to have someone to travel with on life’s journey with all of its twists and turns.

“As your bishop I can give you a special anniversary blessing but I can only do that because of the blessing you have been to each other all these many years and forever more.”

He encouraged the couples to “ask the intercession of Mary and Joseph that you may have happiness and joy, good health and prosperity in your married lives now and forever.”

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Service of veterans celebrated at Eucharistic Congress Story by Lois Rogers Features Editor Photos by Ken Falls

In Solemn Prayer – At the N.J. Vietnam Veterans’ Memorial, Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., center, rear, led scores of faithful in prayer for all who fought for this nation. In the foreground, the statues of two men and one woman, represent all who served.

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s bagpipes skirled and the brisk step of a Knights of Columbus honor guard set the pace, hundreds of veterans, their families, friends and members of the Catholic diocesan community at large journeyed the morning of Oct. 13 from the PNC Bank Arts Center with Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M. to the N.J. Vietnam Veteran’s Memorial atop Telegraph Hill.

There, on the second day of the Eucharistic Congress, they recalled with solemn prayer and reflection the generous dedication of millions of men and women in America’s armed services over the centuries wherever and whenever they were called to duty.

In a tree shaded vale, overlooked by a wall inscribed with the names of all who fell during the Vietnam War, Bishop O’Connell evoked the memories of their devotion in a simple homily that moved many to tears.

The bishop reminded those present that in a month’s time, the nation will celebrate Veteran’s Day – a day initially proclaimed to commemorate the armistice at the end of the First World War which became, over time, an occasion to, as he said, “honor and thank all military personal who served the United States in all wars, particularly living veterans.”

“It is good,” he said, that during the first Eucharistic Congress in the diocese and indeed, the state’s history, “that we come together as Catholics here in Holmdel” not only to “honor and thank our veterans but also to lift them up to Almighty God in grateful prayer for their service and sacrifice.”

He recalled the words of President John Fitzgerald Kennedy nearly 50 years ago who, when speaking of his brothers and sisters in uniform, remarked: “’As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest apprecia-

tion is not to utter words but to live by them.’ It was President Kennedy who placed before our country and the world in his inaugural address this reminder of the price of the freedoms for which our veterans fought.”

The bishop continued quoting Kennedy, noting, “The rights of man come not from the generosity of the state but from the hand of God.” The bishop commended the veterans who paid the ultimate price, having “gone before us marked by the sign of faith, we recall the words of John’s Gospel: ‘Greater love than this no man has than to lay down his life for his friends’ ( John 15:13).

“For those veterans still among us, we recall the words of the Psalm: ‘Now I know that the Lord saves his anointed; he will answer him from his holy heaven with the saving might of his right hand…”

As the bishop spoke, Navy veteran Rosemary Lloyd let tears fall unrestrained down her face. As the service concluded, Lloyd smiled through her tears. “The bishop made me cry,” she said.

“He made the lady next to me cry.”

Lloyd said that when she learned about the Eucharistic Congress, she wanted to attend. When she read that the veteran’s service would be part of it, she became determined to attend. “I’m very glad I did so,” she said. “As a veteran, this made it all the more meaningful for me.”

Echoing her thoughts were Marine Veteran Richard Clark and fellow parishioner Linda Graff, whose husband, William, is a veteran of the U.S. Submarine Service.

Like many, Clark and Graff, both members of St. John Neumann Parish, Mount Laurel, visited the museum that is part of the memorial after the service.

To view a photo gallery for this story, go to TrentonMonitor.com m They found the service moving and inspiring.

“I had been planning to come to the Eucharistic Congress since I heard about it,” said Clark, a Vietnam Veteran.

“When I learned of this service I wanted to be here. I come to the memorial twice a year,” said Clark, who lost many buddies in the war.

“I really appreciated the idea of having this service,” he said.

Graff called the service “wonderful.

It touches me in a way I can’t explain, especially since it was here at the Vietnam Memorial,” she said choking up. “This was our war.”

Path of Honor – Pipers offer a somber musical salute as the procession led by Father Michael Hall, parochial vicar, St. Barnabas Parish, Bayville, left and Msgr. Sam A. Sirianni, director of the diocesan Office of Worship, makes its way from the PNC Bank Arts Center, along the long path leading to the N.J. Vietnam Veterans’ Memorial on neighboring Telegraph Hill.

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Rainbow the Clown and Mr. T rock catechesis and Muppet-like characters presented lessons from the Bible and the catechism in front of a black backdrop from which a picture of Jesus smiled down on the “We’re going to be joyous today!” audience of nearly 100. promised Rainbow the Clown to the Honoring the theme of the conaudience of young families in the VIP gress, Rainbow opened with a lesson on tent – and she did not fail. So began the Eucharist and Jesus’ Feeding of the the hour-long program teaching grade 5000. Referring to the PNC Bank Arts school children the elements of the Center’s 7000-seat capacity, she helped Catholic faith with puppets, rhyme, and the children grasp the enormity of the music that begged for foot-stomping, Gospel story. hand-clapping, and fist – pumping.

“Jesus got a boy with a basket to Rainbow and Mr. T – usually known help him,” she said, “because Jesus asks as Joanne and John Tyne, members of children to do very special things.” The St. Anthony of Padua Parish, Hightpinafore-clad curly-wigged clown taught stown – and their cast of marionettes the words: “I am hungry! You feed them!” and a rhythmic, bass-driven cross between a litany and a major-league football cheer filled the air.

Later, nine members of the audience were called to the stage, where each was given a sign bearing a letter that spelled out the word “Eucharist.” Not missing an opportunity to deliver the joy, Rainbow exhorted her participants, “Make the signs dance.” The lesson about the meaning of the sacrament was driven home with signs swaying to a Latin beat.

A cast of puppets taught important, timely Making the Message Known – Rainbow the Clown and lessons about practicing Mr. T presented a puppet show to tell the Gospel story of the faith, including how to decide between going Jesus feeding the 5,000.

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‘E is for Eucharist’ – Joanne and John Tyne make it a point to host interactive presentations that get children involved in learning about the Catholic faith. Here nine youngsters had an opportunity to spell out the word Eucharist. Autumn Pittelli photos

to Mass on Sunday or soccer practice, giving food to the needy, and loving one’s neighbor as oneself. Symbols, such as the light of Christ, and basic facts, such as prayer and the Fruits of the Holy Spirit, were brought to life by characters G.E. Watson, a puppet fashioned into a light bulb, and Farmer Bob – and by willing audience participation.

Since 2000, when John Tyne, also known as Mr. T, who works the puppets behind the scenes, was laid off from his job in the computer industry, the Tynes have devoted their lives fulltime to this ministry.

They often are invited to parishes to give retreats to the first Penance or first Eucharist class.

“We have been all over New Jersey, Delaware and Pennsylvania. We have even been to Lancaster, where a Mennonite parish invited us. It is a Catholic program, but it’s adaptable to other

Christian denominations,” said Mr. T. “We use creative presentation techniques to teach the Word of God. Children will listen to a puppet or a clown rather than an old guy. They’ll remember what the puppet told them.”

Suzanne Fitzsimmons, St. Jerome Parish, West Long Branch, agreed. “It was fun and faith-filled.” Her daughter Mary added, “It was very creative.”

Barbara Vidal, St. Mary Parish, Barnegat, commented, “ You see programs like this from other religious groups, so it was good to get one that was Catholic. It was so good to get families and their kids energized about their faith.”

Her fellow parishioner Jackie Stack, agreed. “It was great that they brought them up on stage. We learned about this from our mother’s group.

The program is part of JMT Productions.

DonutMan offers unique lessons in faith for kids

By Rose O’Connor, Correspondent “I love his songs,” an excited Kerri Anne Gellman, eight, from Assumption Parish, New Egypt, shared of The DonutMan, a children’s songwriter and performer who wowed the crowd Oct. 13, the second day of the Eucharistic Congress at the PNC Bank Arts Center in Holmdel.

The theme of the day, “A Day for the Church Family,” resonated loudly with the youngest members at the

Teaching Children – Vibrant music with lots of singing and dancing is the approach that Rob Evans, otherwise known as the DonutMan, uses to teach little ones about the Bible. Jeff Bruno photo

congress who enjoyed singing and dancing to the Bible songs by Rob Evans, known to his young fans and their parents as, “The DonutMan.” The DonutMan uses his puppet donut, Duncan, to teach about Jesus and his love for all of us. He has been featured on Eternal World Television Network, EWTN, and has produced an assortment of music CDs and DVDs for children of all ages.

“Who here loves Jesus? Who loves to meet Jesus in the Mass?” he asked the children as he took to the stage that colorfully depicted the story of Noah’s Ark . From that point on, he led the children and parents in attendance through all of the parts of the Mass in the Liturgy of the Word and Liturgy of the Eucharist.

His interactive presentation allowed for many children in attendance to lead the audience in song and dance. And the reward for audience participation? Why a donut, of course!

The DonutMan explained that he is really a Donut Repair Man and “uses the donut to show how something can be good, but still missing something and broken.”

The DonutMan uses what he refers to as an “edible Gospel lesson” to teach children that through his Death and Resurrection “Jesus was broken to fill my heart with God’s love.”

He offers children membership in the Donut Repair Club, synonymous for The Church of Jesus Christ, where members are encouraged to become the Eucharist for one another and promise each other, “I will be your friend and I will pray for you.”

Children will have the opportunity to learn even more about the Eucharist and parts of the Mass as Evans indicated that he has been contracted by EWTN to produce additional videos next summer.

“The videos will contain real scenes from a real

Mass,” he said and added that he hopes the videos will continue to allow children to “know Jesus Christ personally through the Mass.”

Evans shared that he and his wife, Shelley, “were received into the Church during the Easter Vigil in 2006.”

Together they have six children and eight grandchildren.

Parent Gary Gellman shares the same excitement and enthusiasm for the DonutMan as his daughter, Kerri Anne does. “I like how he takes the Mass and breaks it up and explains it to the kids,” he stated.

While some guests were unfamiliar with the DonutMan prior to his show, there’s no doubt many became instant fans.

“We came to Congress to see what it’s all about and to get them involved with their faith,” explained Mike Foster from Holy Innocents Parish, Neptune. He spoke of his two children, Aidan, age six, and Kyleigh, age four, who he brought to the Eucharistic Congress. Both children loved seeing Duncan, the donut puppet, and Kyleigh was excited that she received a donut from dancing on stage with the DonutMan, that she so kindly shared with her brother.

As the DonutMan attracted guests from around the diocese to see his performance, some of his fans traveled even further.

“On the way here we sang the songs, and we watched his video last night,” Adeline Montes, six years old, spoke excitedly. Her family, which included her parents, grandparents, and brother and sister traveled to see the show from Somerset in Union Country.

Her mother, Rebecca, originally purchased a DVD from a Christian bookstore and her children became instant fans!

“They have a lot of the CDs and know his songs,” Barbara Brown offered as she held her excited granddaughter, three-year old Lily, and her three-year old brother Daniel. “The kids love the DonutMan!”

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The Eucharist: Source & Summit Celebrating Faith and Culture – A multi-cultural expo featuring speakers and perfomers representing Guatemalan, Filipino, Mexican, African American, Ukrainian, Polish and Brazilian heritages was an enjoyable and prayerful experience for many.

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SUNDAY OCTOBER 14 Teachable Moment – Part of the Eucharistic Congress agenda had Bishop O’Connell meeting with some 30 young people from parishes around the diocese who received their First Holy Communion last spring.

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Body of Christ – The sun was shining upon the PNC Bank Arts Center as more than 3,000 faithful from all corners of the diocese gathered for the celebration of the Great Mass that closed out the Eucharistic Congress. In this photo a young boy prepares to receive the Eucharist from Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M. Jeff Bruno photo

In Thanks and Adoration – The Blessed Sacrament is carried in procession from the Cenacle Chapel to the main stage area before the celebration of the Great Mass.

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Sharing Fraternity – Priests and deacons from throughout the diocese prepare to join in the celebration of the Great Mass with Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M. Jeff Bruno photo

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Opening Hearts and Minds At Eucharistic Congress closing Mass, Bishop O’Connell exhorts his flock to keep the faith

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he fervent desire to celebrate their Catholic faith and their love of Jesus continued in large numbers Oct. 14 as more than 3,000 faithful from Burlington, Mercer, Monmouth and Ocean counties, including priests, deacons, seminarians, religious women and men and laity, joined Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., for the celebration of the Great Mass that concluded the Diocese of Trenton’s and New Jersey’s first Eucharistic Congress.

Centered on the theme “His Presence. Our Faith. Celebrate!” the congress was announced in March by Bishop O’Connell to stand as the diocese’s observance for the opening of the Year of Faith proclaimed by Pope Benedict XVI. The Year of Faith, which began Oct. 11, was timed to align with the anniversary of the Second Vatican Council 50 years before and the 20th anniversary of the Catechism of the Catholic Church. It is the time the pope has set aside for the Church throughout the world to seek deeper conversion and renewal in Christ.

“What a great joy it is for me as your bishop to be here with you today as we bring this wonderful Eucharistic Congress – three days of grace for the Diocese of Trenton – to a close,” said Bishop O’Connell. “Together we join as a family of faith, a community of faith.”

Place of Worship All aspects of the Great Mass took on a majestic tone as the main stage of the PNC Bank Arts Center, Holmdel, became a sanctuary and a place of reverent worship.

With Shawn Mack, music teacher in Red Bank Catholic High School and newly appointed director of the Diocesan Festival Choir, at the baton, the choir was composed of some 200 adult voices, including members of the Diocesan Festival Choir, choir members from Red Bank Catholic High School and others who are involved in their respective parish music ministries.

The Sunday choir was accompanied by a 60-piece professional orchestra with Shea Velloso, music director of United Methodist Church, Middletown, at the organ.

An Honorable Seat – Bishop O’Connell takes his seat in the same chair used

by Pope John Paul II during his visit to Giants Stadium in October, 1995.

At left, is Archbishop John J. Myers of Newark, who was principal concelebrant of the Great Mass that concluded the Eucharistic Congress. Ken Falls photo

Bread of Life – Bishop David M. O’ Connell, C.M., of Trenton raises the Eucharist at consecration during the Great Mass Oct. 14. More than 3,000 faithful were present at the liturgy which was the climax of the diocese’s first Eucharistic Congress. To the bishop’s right is Archbishop John J. Myers of the Archdiocese of Newark, who was principal concelebrant of the Mass. Jeff Bruno photo

The repertoire of music included a blend of traditional selections as well as congregational pieces that served as sources of inspiration for the throngs of faithful to raise their voices in song as they gave glory and thanks to almighty God. For the entrance procession, as Bishop O’Connell, Archbishop John J. Myers of Newark who was principal concelebrant, and the clergy filed into the amphitheater, the choir sang Anton Bruckner’s “Ecce Sacerdos Magnus,” which is Latin for “Behold the Great Priest.” “Ecce Sacerdos Mangus” was composed as a sacred piece in 1885 to specifically serve as an accompaniment for a bishop's procession into a cathedral.

As the bishop approached the altar, the congregation joined in the glorious singing of the ever-familiar “All Creatures of Our God and King,” which brings a message of joy and a great hymn of praise for God and for all creation.

Other music selections, such as the

Lift Him High – During the Reposition of the Blessed Sacrament after the Great Mass on the final day of the Eucharistic Congress, the bishop lifts the early 20th-century monstrance discovered in St. Barnabas Parish, Bayville.

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choir’s beautiful rendition of “Let All Mortal Flesh Keep Silence” at the presentation of the gifts, and the hymns sung during the reception of Holy Communion, “Pescador de hombres” (“Lord, You Have Come to the Seashore”), “Pan de For a text of Bishop O’Connell’s homily, Vida” (“Bread of Life”), video highlights, expanded story “The King of Love My coverage and photo galleries, go to …

Shepherd Is,” and Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart’s TrentonMonitor.com “Ave Verum Corpus,” as well as the readings that were proclaimed for the 28th Sunday in Ordinary Time, all resonated with the theme of believing and remaining faithful to God in order to gain everlasting life in heaven.

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Honorees recognized for extraordinary service to the Church

Joined in Prayer – A row of believers lock hands as the Lord’s Prayer is recited at the Great Mass celebrated at 4 p.m. Oct. 14. Ken Falls photos Msgr. Thomas J. Mullelly

Msgr. Joseph Roldan

Brother Robert Ziobro

Sister Dorothy Payne

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Shepherd’s Words In his homily, Bishop O’Connell incorporated the theme of the Scripture readings with the significance of the three-day Eucharistic Congress and the Year of Faith which began Oct. 11 and will conclude Nov. 24, 2013 on the feast of Christ the King. He exhorted his people to never stop believing in their Catholic faith and to remember that they will always find a place of belonging in the Catholic Church.

Looking to the Gospel to emphasize his point, the bishop first spoke about the “man who wanted to belong”, to be a follower of Jesus. And even though the man followed the teachings of the Church and the commandments, he was not willing to give up his possessions to follow Christ.

The bishop continued that there are people today who, although they might want to belong to the Church, are not willing to “give up” their possessions, such as doubts in faith, in order to be followers of Christ.

“I’m referring to those things that people hold on to and just won’t give up that keep them from living their

life of faith, from believing what the Church believes and teaches, from humbling themselves before God and one another in the Church,” said Bishop O’Connell.

Stressing how the Year of Faith can serve as an opportunity for all Catholic Christians to become renewed in their faith, Bishop O’Connell said, “If we want to belong, we have to believe. And if we believe the faith of our Baptism, the faith and teachings of our Catholic Church, we will belong; we will not walk away sad like the man in the Gospel because our possessions are many.”

“As we draw this Eucharistic Congress to a close, as we embark now upon a Year of Faith, my message as your bishop is a simple and clear one: please, don’t stop believing. In that way, you’ll never stop belonging,” said Bishop O’Connell.

The PNC Bank Arts Center resounded with joy as the entire congregation joined in jubilant singing when Bishop O’Connell removed the Blessed Sacrament from the monstrance at the end of the Mass. The closing hymn for the Eucharistic Congress was “Holy God We Praise Thy Name.”

Musical Perspective – The Festival Choir and instrumentalists on stage look out over the sea of faithful seated in the amphitheater during the Great Mass.

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s the Great Mass drew the Eucharistic Congress to its grand conclusion, papal honors were bestowed by Bishop David M. O’Connell on two priests, two religious, one deacon and three lay persons who have served the diocese, and indeed the Church, exceptionally well.

In the brief ceremony that prompted grateful applause from more than 3,000 attendees, the bishop also recognized two recipients for their many years of service to Catholic social justice efforts with the diocese’s Gaudium et Spes Award and newly created Lumen Gentium Award.

Applause rolled like a wave over the great amphitheatre as the commendations were made and there were many expressions of heartfelt congratulations and well deserved words of recognition uttered about the priests, religious and lay women and men.

The honorees included: Msgr.

Thomas J. Mullelly, diocesan vicar for clergy and consecrated life; Msgr. Joseph Roldan, rector of St. Mary of the Assumption Cathedral, Trenton, and liaison for Hispanic and Portuguese Ministry; Sister of St. Joseph Dorothy Payne, president of Trenton Catholic Academy, Hamilton; Sacred Heart Brother Robert Ziobro, director of religious education in St. David the King Parish, West Windsor; Deacon John Flanagan of St. Catharine Parish, Holmdel; Maureen Fitzsimmons, diocesan victim assistance coordinator; James Manfredonia and

Cheryl Manfredonia, who co-founded Domestic Church Media and currently operate local radio stations WFJS 1260 AM and 89.3 FM; Father Brian McCormick, recently-retired director of Martin House, the diocese’s former inner-city Trenton social service agency, and Immaculate Heart of Mary Sister Janet Yurkanin, who was the diocese’s director of the Office of Migration and Refugee Services.

Msgr. Mullelly and Msgr Roldan were named Chaplains to His Holiness and given the new titles of “Reverend Monsignor” by Pope Benedict XVI. A Chaplain to His Holiness is a distinction given by the pope to certain Roman Catholic priests in recognition of their service to the Church. Candidates are nominated for the honor by their bishop for consideration by the Holy Father. Priests who hold the title of “monsignor” are part of the Prefecture of the Pontifical Household, which includes the Papal Chapel and the Papal Family. as a member of the “papal family,” the monsignors are included in the Pontifical Yearbook, Annuario Pontificio, an official directory of the Holy See.

Pro Ecclesia et Pontifice Cross Bishop O’Connell awarded the Pro Ecclesia et Pontifice Cross to Sister Dorothy and Brother Robert.

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Speaking the language of faith at Hispanic Catholic gathering Interviews with a number of attendees, who came from different places, revealed people who left the congress with renewed strength and joy in their hearts and filled with faith and hope:

Story by Erica Rodriguez Correspondent Photos by Jeff Bruno

Diego Valencia and his wife, Maria Tamayo, of Jesus the Lord Parish, Keyport What do you expect after what Bishop O’Connell shared this morning during this Eucharistic Congress? What do you think?

On Oct. 14, the third day of the diocesan Eucharistic Congress began with an event organized especially for Spanish and Portuguese-speaking Catholics.

Coming together in a multicultural space where members of different parishes gathered to worship Jesus in the Blessed Sacrament, Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., led morning prayer and addressed the community in Spanish.

Bishop O’Connell emphasized devotion to the Blessed Virgin Mary as part of Hispanic culture under her many different titles, including: The Immaculate Conception, Our Lady of Charity, Our Lady of the Rosary, Our Lady of Divine Providence, Aparecida, Guadalupe and Chinquinquirá. This devotion is a turning to Mary as a model of protection and defense of her son.

The bishop also mentioned that “we are one Church” and that Spanish and Portuguese-speaking Catholics came to this country looking for a dream of freedom and hope for a better life, taking Mary as nurturer of the strength to keep walking and to strengthen our faith in Christ.

The event continued with the animated participation of “Fire of Life Music Ministry” (Ministerio de Musica Fuego de Vida) composed of eight members, including Colombians and Hondurans, with four years serving the Lord through music. Among the members of this ministry are, Deacon Juan Carlos Camilo and Juan Carlos Muñoz, seminarian from Madison.

Following the music ministry’s vibrant performance, keynote speaker Father Carlos Garcia, preached about

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(Diego): It's the first time I've heard him speaking in Spanish. I was waiting for the message in English, but he made his speech in Spanish and it was wonderful. He focused on the Hispanic families and migrants who come looking for the American dream.

What did you expect from this Eucharistic Congress?

(Maria): I leave with a bigger faith in the Lord. It

In Praise of Families – Father Carlos Garcia, a prominent speaker in the Charismatic movment, shared his gift of evangelization with the large gathering of Hispanic families who attended the Eucharistic Congress on Oct. 14.

Father Garcia focused his presentation on the importance of families.

was amazing, and the best decision that we made; we came to the right place. It is so wonderful that I could cry. It is a big joy in my heart. I told my husband, we must not only go to church to meet the Lord. We can find the Lord in our home. I always go to work with him, and if I'm home all the time, I have him with me. It's beautiful, it’s a wonderful moment. What we experienced today was wonderful.

There is a phrase that Father Garcia said: "Things are created to be used and people are created to be loved." What do you think of that?

Yes, it is a very clear difference, and we should apply it more in our love of others.

the importance of families, as the school of holiness and heritage of God. He stressed that as love is the foundation of the family, it must also be what the family offers. Love is the moving force of the family, building functional families to build a better society, he explained.

He also called for building strong families in faith and discovering faith in the family.

Father Garcia, a native of Lima, Peru, who is a prominent speaker on evangelization and the Charismatic Renewal, also reminded participants that true love will never be a burden. Love is waiting, love is not taking; love means to protect the other. Most importantly, he stressed that things were created to be used and people to love.

César Hernández González and Julieta from St. Mary of the Assumption Cathedral, Trenton (César): What do you think of Bishop O’Connell's words in Spanish?

He spoke very clearly. Everything that he said, I was able to understand very well.

What impact did the bishop’s words have this morning?

They were a very big joy, all that he said I have in my heart, and Mary is really a role model as a Hispanic.

What do you think of the words of Father Carlos Garcia?

Celebration of Faith and Heritage – Hundreds of Spanish and Portuguese speaking Catholics turned out for morning prayer at the Eucharistic Congress Oct. 14. The gathering included an address in Spanish by Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., a presentation

by Fire of Life Music Ministry and a keynote address by Father Carlos Garcia.

Excellent, all he said is the truth.

Are you leaving happy from this Congress?

Yes, very, very, happy and motivated to have a bishop that I could see his love for us Hispanic immigrants.

Mirna and Frank Betanse from Christ The Redeemer Parish, Mount Holly What do you think about the Eucharistic Congress?

Beautiful, beautiful, very emotional when Father Carlos Garcia spoke of the families. It filled my heart and all my expectations.

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Celebrating Diversity Worldwide cavalcade of dance, song and faith delights congress goers Story by Lois Rogers Features Editor Photos by Ken Falls Catholics whose ancestries span the world, gathered at the Eucharistic Congress Oct. 14 to share their faith as well as their artistic gifts.

In a Multicultural Expo that captured their devotion to the Body of Christ in song, dance and pageantry, they came together in the VIP tent on the periphery of the PNC Bank Art Center and lit up the day with the fire of their faith.

Representing traditions drawn from Europe, Asia, the U.S., Latin America and the Caribbean, time and time again throughout the morning and into the afternoon, the troupes and choirs were rewarded with rounds of applause, standing ovations and shouts of jubilation.

Looking around at the vastly diverse gathering, Angela Dodson, host of the “Black Catholics Yes!” radio program sponsored by the diocesan Department of Radio and Television, who sings with the African American Gospel Choir of Blessed Sacrament – Our Lady of the Divine Shepherd Parish, Trenton, smiled and said “You know this is what heaven is going to be like.”

The expo program, coordinated by the diocesan

Flying High – Iskra Ukrainian Dance Ensemble from St. John the Baptist Ukrainian Catholic Church, Whippany, kicked off the expo, literally, with a tour de force display of the energetic folk dances that are a cultural hallmark.

department of Multicultural Ministry, included breathtaking dancing ensembles such as the Issa Ukrainian Dance Dance Ensemble, St. John the Baptist Ukrainian Catholic Church, Whippany; the Shea-Jennings Irish Dance School, Spring Lake; Maki Polish Dance School, Columbus; Filipino Dance Troup, Trenton, with Rondalla, Trenton; Cultura Maya Guatemalan Dance Folk Group, St. Anthony of Padua Parish, Hightstown and Danza Guadalupana, the Mexican dance company from Sea Girt, among others.

Aside from the Gospel choir, musical groups includ-

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A Crown for Our Lady – Young members of the Brazilian Song and Dance Group are pictured with the statue of Our Lady of Aparecida after they dressed her with a flowing mantle and tenderly placed a crown on her head.

Greetings From Poland – Youngsters from Maki, the Polish dance school from Columbus, brought a touch of Polish culture, dance and song to the Multicultural Expo.

Here, one of the boys smiles after exchanging hats with Bishop O’Connell.

ed the Brazilian song and dance group from Christ the King Parish, Long Branch, the Haitian choir from Our Lady of Sorrows-St. Anthony Parish, Hamilton, and the Filipino Adult Choir and Outreach Ministry Choir, St. Charles Borromeo Parish, Cinnaminson.

Applauding from the sidelines during the four-hour performance, Father Pasquale Papalia, called the expo a true example of the profound gifts Catholic around the world bring to their Church.

Father Papalia, pastor of St. Elizabeth Ann Seton, Whiting, and co-chair of the Eucharistic Congress planning committee said the expo highlighted the marvelous mix of Catholicism and culture the groups represent.

“This shows in a very unique fashion that we are a family of faith – that’s what keeps us connecting,” he said.

And truly, the performances reflected those sentiments.

From the young people in the Polish dance company Maki, who interspersed their whirling terpsichore with hymns such as “Lord, You Have Come to the Seashore” in Polish, to Danza Guadalupana – a company that performs dances in honor of Our Lady of Guadalupe in sparkling, Mexican Indian costumes, to the African American Gospel Choir which called on everyone assembled under the big tent to celebrate the Eucharistic Congress, this was truly a day the Lord had made.

Deanna Sass, director of the diocese’s department of Multicultural Ministry, emceed the proceedings and didn’t miss an opportunity to praise the companies for illustrating so well that “though we are many parts, we are all one body in Christ."

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Flags and Faith – A festive recreation of their annual celebration of Our Lady of Aparecida, the patroness of Brazil, began with members of the Brazilian Song and Dance Group of Christ the King Parish, Long Branch, carrying the flags of that nation’s 26 states into the tent.

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First Communicants at First Congress Bishop spends time with the ‘smartest first Communion class’ he’s ever met Story by Mary Stadnyk News Editor Photos by Ken Falls

“Faith does make a difference in your lives.”

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Children of God — About 30 children who recently received their first Holy Communion gather around Trenton Diocese’s Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M. as he explains to them the significance of a Eucharistic Congress on Oct. 14 in the VIP Tent at the PNC Bank Arts Center, Holmdel.

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s a priest who spent many years serving in Catholic education, Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., has taught and ministered to young people on high school and university levels.

During the Eucharistic Congress Oct. 12-14, however, the bishop had an opportunity to reach out and bring the message of God’s love to another age group – the seven and eight-year-olds from the diocese who received their first Holy Communion last spring.

With the children seated before him, many wearing their first Holy Communion outfits, Bishop O’Connell delighted in explaining the meaning of a Eucharistic Congress in terms they could understand.

“Like you received Jesus on your first Holy Communion day, this three-day Eucharistic Congress is bringing people together around the Eucharist,” he said.

The children and their parents were all smiles as the bishop asked a question and then called on a different youngster to come up and say the answer in the microphone so that everyone in the audience could hear.

Questions the bishop asked included: “Who is Jesus?” and “Why do we go to Mass on Sundays?”

One young girl got a round of applause when the bishop asked about how many Gospels there are in the Bible and she promptly responded “four.”

Other questions the bishop asked related to the Ten Commandments and the seven sacraments.

The bishop nodded in agreement when a young boy described the Sacrament of Penance as a time “when you go to confess your sins to a priest because you did something wrong and you feel bad about it.”

“This is the smartest First Communion class I’ve ever met,” Bishop O’Connell said. The bishop encouraged the children to remain close to Jesus by going to Mass and receiving the sacraments regularly.

“Faith does make a difference in your lives,” he said.

“And faith not only strengthens you. Other people, when they see your faith, are strengthened too.”

Two girls who not only enjoyed meeting Bishop O’Connell, but were happy to have their pictures taken with him were Alessandra Prados of St. Joseph Parish,

Teacher and Student — One of the dozens of first Communion children who came to meet and spend time with Bishop O’Connell answers the bishop’s questions with childlike faith.

Toms River, and Jessica Barker of St. Benedict Parish, Holmdel.

“Today, we’re reliving Alessandra’s first Holy Communion day,” said Alessandra’s mother, Carolina Prados. “We were happy to meet the bishop.”

“I thought the bishop spoke to the children in a way they could understand and there was a lot of laughter,” Carolina Prados said. “You can really reach and teach children when you use humor and make them laugh.”

Michelle Barker said she was in a bit of a quandary when her calendar showed that a big family gathering was scheduled for Oct. 14, and that a decision needed to be made as to which event her daughter would attend.

Surprisingly, she said, “Jessica was so excited about the Eucharistic Congress and wanting to meet the bishop. She chose coming to the congress over our family gathering where there would be a lot of cousins and friends and family members.”

Jessica smiled and nodded her head “yes” when asked if she was glad that she came to the Eucharistic Congress.

Youthful Faith — A child who received his first Holy Communion last spring responds confidently to a question posed by Bishop O’Connell as parents look on.

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Catholic identity means knowing and sharing the faith Story by Michael Hallman Correspondent

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ixing humor with poignant exhortation, Patrick Madrid delivered a strong presentation on the responsibility that Catholics have to know and understand the faith of the Church, in order to defend the faith against the many false representations present in the world today.

He pointed to the increasing hostility and scorn with which the Church is treated in media and entertainment, and the realistic possibility that this attitude could continue in the direction of true

persecution.

Jokingly referring to himself as the “token cradle Catholic” among apologists today, unlike the converts who seem to dominate the field, Madrid spoke of the strong Catholic upbringing he experienced growing up in Los Angeles, Calif., evidenced by the fact that while many of his cohorts who grew up in the 1970s have fallen away from the faith, every one of his siblings remains staunchly Catholic.

He attributed this to two factors in particular: a familial Marian piety, where the family would frequently pray the Rosary together; and an abiding sense that the Catholic faith was not merely a Sunday affair, but was an essential character-

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istic of their identity. This was evidenced by simple things, like saying grace before meals, and images of Christ and the saints hung throughout the house.

In his characteristic humor Madrid noted, “The house was not weirdly pious, don’t get me wrong. It didn’t smell like incense or anything.” But an unmistakable Catholic identity permeated the household, and this took root in each of the children, subtly fortifying the formal instruction in the faith that they received.

The overriding theme of Madrid’s presentation was the importance of the Church’s ability to speak the truth, no matter how unpopular. He noted, for instance, that every Christian church and ecclesial community in the world opposed artificial contraception prior to 1930, when the Anglican Church became the first to change their stance. This led to a domino effect, where now the Catholic Church alone remains true to that which has been taught always and everywhere.

Madrid remarked that today the majority of Catholics are practicing contraception, which makes the Church’s teaching ever more unpopular. For this reason, serious Catholics have the responsibility to understand the Church’s teaching and stand up for it publicly, regardless of the quizzical looks it will engender.

He recounted one such experience when a waitress at a restaurant discovered that he and his wife have 11 children. After a group of incredulous waitresses gathered around, and proceeded to subtly mock them for such an “outdated” belief system, all providing their reasoning for contraception, his wife smiled and said, “My husband and I believe that children are a gift from God, and we believe in being open to life so that God will bless our marriage.”

While this had what he described as a “wet-blanket” effect on the conversation (which pleased Madrid, who had been thinking, “I just want to have a plate of lasagna.”), it was not long before they discovered the powerful impact of a firm but gentle defense of the faith.

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At the Eucharistic Congress, it is unlikely that anyone will forget the image of 8,000 youth filling the PNC Bank Arts Center in Holmdel for the Youth Mass with Bishop David M. O’Connell Oct. 12.

A privileged group of 15 youths experienced the Mass from the same perspective as the bishop as altar servers in front of thousands of their peers.

“It was a huge privilege for me to be able to serve Mass at the Diocese of Trenton’s first ever Eucharistic Congress,” said altar server William Downing of St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Parish, Whiting, and freshman in Monsignor Donovan High School, Toms River.

“I was with Bishop O’Connell and Jesus in the same place where some of the biggest stars performed! It was really amazing sitting on the stage and seeing the whole arena completely filled with teenagers waiting for Jesus to come. I don’t even know how I had the opportunity to be one of the 15 people to serve Mass out of the 8,000 people at the congress, but it was absolutely amazing!”

John Scott, also from St. Elizabeth Parish, joined his classmate William on the stage. He offered one brief comment that summed it all up. “It was an honor to be part of the biggest thing that ever happened on that stage…the Mass!”

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~Deacon John Flanagan~ 2012 Recipient of the Papal

Benemerenti Medal for Exceptional Service to the Catholic Community in the Diocese of Trenton

Congratulations to Maureen Fitzsimmons,

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The Eucharist and Lectio Divina, a prayerful connection Story by Michael Hallman Correspondent

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n the presence of the Blessed Sacrament, on the second day of the Eucharistic Congress, Oct. 13, Sister of St. Joseph Marcy Springer drew the connection between the Eucharist and Sacred Scripture in a presentation on Lectio Divina, the ancient, monastic practice of prayer.

Addressing a group of approximately 50 people, Sister Marcy unfolded the practice made popular by St. Benedict in the 12th century. Through a slow reading and re-reading of a short passage of Scripture, this practice allows the one praying to enter more deeply into the

Word of God, both enabling the person to speak more intimately with Christ and allowing for the silence that invites Christ to speak directly to the heart.

After explaining the four stages of Lectio Divina (Lectio, Meditatio, Oratio, Contemplatio – Latin for Reading, Meditation, Prayer, and Contemplation), Sister Marcy led the group in a communal exercise of the practice. The group listened to Sister Marcy’s slow reading and re-reading of Isaiah 43:1-5, and were then invited to share words or phrases that caught their attention.

Sister Marcy spoke of the final stage of prayer as an opportunity to sit in silence and just “be with God.” In this silence, she said, the one praying can find a word or message from

the meditation to carry throughout the day. Returning frequently to this word or short phrase becomes a source of nourishment, complementing the nourishment received in the Eucharist.

Sister Marcy explained the connection between Lectio and the Liturgy as being the same Word of God speaking in Scripture and present in the Eucharist.

She recommended the practice of using the readings from the Lectionary as the basis for Lectio in order to help realize more fruitfully this inherent connection.

Pat and John Welsh, from St. Catherine Labouré Parish, Middletown, both had previous experience with Lectio Divina. They said they appreciated the simple manner of Sister Marcy’s presentation. “She made it very easy to grasp,”

said Mrs. Welsh.

Many attending were encountering the monastic practice for the first time, including Irene Mary Morris who called the presentation invaluable, allowing her “to absorb God’s Word” more intimately than she had ever known. She particularly appreciated the methodical rhythm of the process. “The steps of Lectio helped me to see a purpose in prayer, a way to find a word to stay with me throughout the day,” Morris said.

At the conclusion of her presentation Sister Marcy distributed guides for the steps of Lectio Divina, along with several other passages for meditation. Many of the participants remained in Adoration, building upon their newfound experience of prayer.

The hallmarks of Catholic identity Continued from P22 Nancy for her words, and said that she, too, wanted her marriage to be blessed.

Not knowing how her husband would react, the waitress had decided that she was informing him that night that she would no longer take the birth control pill she had been using since the birth of their second child. She, too, would remain open to the gift of life.

He recounted several other stories that taught him the importance not only of knowing and understanding the faith, but of learning the ability to speak the truth of the faith. Speaking the truth unabashedly, he said, has a mysterious way of waking people up to the realities of sin and forgiveness. “The power of telling the truth is not only inexplicable in human terms, but it is irresistible in divine terms.”

Madrid’s presentation was immediately followed by Eucharistic Adoration accompanied by praise and worship mu-

sic performed by John Angotti, a popular Christian musician who had spent the day entertaining and catechizing youth the previous day. Many of the 200 or so in attendance at Madrid’s talk remained for Adoration. Among them was a group of Franciscan Sisters of the Renewal, in their distinctive gray habits and sandals.

Striking in their youth and unmistakably authentic joy, two of the sisters spoke of the importance of the Eucharist in their own community life. Sisters Francesca and Jacinta recounted the intimacy with Jesus they experience in their daily Holy Hours, and the importance of the day of recollection every Friday, taking their inspiration from Blessed Teresa of Calcutta’s exhortation to her sisters.

Sister Francesca noted that the sisters’ devotion to Adoration played a fundamental role in her attraction to the community. “I know for me, when I was visiting communities, I had my conversion and calling in the presence of the Blessed

Humor of Truth – Catholic apologetic Patrick Madrid shares the light side of the faith at the Eucharistic Congress to the enjoyment of the young adults present at his talk in the PNC Bank Arts Center VIP tent Oct. 13. Autumn Pittelli photo

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added. She said that Adoration provides them with that “intimate connection to the Lord,” and allows them a unique opportunity to pour out their hearts to Jesus. This intimacy with Jesus, she said, allows them to build upon their fraternal intimacy with one another, as well.

The day came full circle, then, as Madrid began by exhorting the importance of speaking the truth lovingly and unabashedly, and the sisters spoke of the loving way in which the Truth speaks intimately with those who adore him.

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Hispanic community feels bishop's love at Spanish language celebration Continued from P18

How do you go to your home differently after this experience?

We leave with more faith in our marriage, more united, wanting to follow the ways of the Lord together.

Pedro Batista of St. Anthony Claret Parish, Lakewood What did you expect from this Eucharistic Congress?

I was expecting to get to know Bishop O’Connell and get closer to him. I liked that he preached in Spanish, and to see that all the diocese participated as one Church.

Looking at the dynamics involved, what do you think of Bishop O’Connell?

I think he’s becoming Hispanic. I liked this a lot because there is almost no chance to see one American bishop integrated with Hispanics.

What did you think of the message of Father Carlos Garcia?

Very good, it touched many points I need to listen to.

What is your vision now, as you leave the congress?

I feel more secure and happy, thanking God for being Catholic.

Alex Maldonado from St. Joseph Parish, Trenton For the first time the bishop was speaking in Spanish, what did you think?

Excellent to know that he made time to study Spanish. I felt the love he has for Hispanics.

The bishop mentioned Mary as the center of faith of the Hispanic Community.

Yes, indeed, most important, because he doesn’t leave her aside. He respects all

the devotions that we revere.

How do you feel, now, as you leave from the Eucharistic Congress?

Amazed, it was something really special.

I felt God’s presence, and all of us united as Hispanics.

Guadalupe and Teresa Hernandez Reyes from Holy Spirit Parish, Asbury Park What do you think of this Eucharistic Congress?

Guadalupe: We found out last night about the congress and we just decided to come today. It was no accident, God gave us this gift to prove his love.

Sister Maria del Rocio Peralta from Ecuador, South America What did you think of the Eucharistic Congress?

It was wonderful, beautiful, especially to see a bishop gathered with the Hispanic community and to see a domestic church come alive. On behalf of the Community of Mothers Marianitas, bless you all and bless the Diocese of Trenton and Bishop O’Connell.

Father Carlos Garcia, presenter Father Garcia, many people had the desire to cry, praise and bless the Lord, because of the message that has permeated their hearts. Families were eager to hear a word of encouragement and guidance as you gave this morning.

We would like a couple of words, for all those people who came today.

When I was studying in Rome and had to prepare my thesis, I saw comrades prepare topics like the wedding ring, married spirituality or the duty of the spouses in the family.

I told my tutor I did not want to talk about how nice [marriage] is, but, rather, about reality and to get involved in sorrow and the darkness a family often

Sing to the Lord – Raising their voices in song and prayer with those in attendance for the Spanish speaking celebration Oct. 14 are, from left, the members of the Fire of Life Music Ministry (Ministero de Musica Fuego deVida), Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., evangelist Father Carlos Garcia and Father Daniel Peirano, pastor of Christ the King Parish, Long Branch. Jeff Bruno photo

experiences and that’s how I ended up devoting my thesis on pastoral care to those suffering separation. I wanted to study what to do with those who passed through the drama of a failed marriage.

The Church does not condemn or marginalize them.

Speaking of the Christian family is increasingly difficult. There are more and more attacks on the family, and there is increasingly less time with families shared. Overwork often makes the time we spend on families minimal.

I just usually say to people, when we are on our death bed, none of us are going to regret having spent less time at work.

If there is something we regret, it is not having shared time with those we love. We have our children until they

are 12 years-old; at 13 there is already a metamorphosis and a change in values and interests.

Sometimes mom and dad work so hard during their children’s adolescence, that when they finally have time to enjoy their children, the children no longer want to be with them. We must not lose this time because it counts.

Father, you heard the words of our bishop, speaking in Spanish to the Hispanic community. What do you think of these words?

He’s a real father, a true shepherd showing his love for all his sheep. His is the love of a shepherd for his entire Hispanic community.

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Blessings overwhelm anniversary couples Story by Dottie LaMantia,Correspondent Photos by Jeff Bruno

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t was one of those classic October afternoons— perfect weather for a Eucharistic Congress or a wedding—or both. For the couples attending the Diocesan Anniversary Blessing, honoring those celebrating their first, 25th or 50th wedding anniversary, it was a time to reaffirm their marriage and their faith. As they queued up to receive their blessings, many looked as radiant as they might have been on the day they had been brides and grooms.

Yardley and David Matlack, Our Lady Queen of Peace Parish, Hainesport, celebrating their first year of marriage, commented, “It was a beautiful ceremony, and we felt blessed and special to be included.” The couple will welcome their first baby within the month.

Michael and Jennifer Hess, St. Peter Parish, Point Pleasant, also celebrating their first year, expressed awe over the event. Michael was “amazed to look into my wife’s eyes as we renewed our vows.” Jennifer mused, “I reaffirmed that one year ago I made the best decision of my life to marry Michael.”

“It was great to have the bishop who is personable and down to earth,” said Mike Morton, who has been married to Carol for 25 years. The couple are parishioners in St. Catherine of Siena, Farmingdale. “I enjoyed how he related his experience of his parents’ marriage. It is so nice to celebrate with a larger group of people who are in love with the Church.” Carol said, “I was moved by the renewal of vows,” to which her husband added, “She had tears in her eyes.”

John and Regina Scott, Saint Elizabeth Ann Seton Parish, Whiting, brought their children John, Faith and Lauren to celebrate their 25 years. “It was such a gift to do this with our children,” said John, who proudly revealed that his son served at the Congress' Mass for Youth Day. Regina commented, “I thought about what our secret is [to our happy marriage]. It’s God.” Their children, who attend All Saints Regional and Monsignor Donovan High School, agreed.

Rafael and Miguelina Herrera, St. Mary of the

Bride and Groom Renewed – A husband and wife receive their marriage blessing from a priest during the Anniversary Blessings portion of the Eucharistic Congress at the PNC Bank Arts Center, Holmdel. Couples celebrating their first, 25th, 50th year or more had a chance to renew their marriage vows at the congress.

“Seeing those couples married for 50 years showed us promise.”

An Eternal Bond – A couple embraces during the renewal of their wedding vows at the Eucharistic Congress Oct. 13. Bishop David M. O’Connell of Trenton used the second day of the congress as an opportunity to strengthen marriage and family bonds through blessings and encouragement.

Assumption Cathedral, Trenton, dressed splendidly to celebrate their 25 years together. Miguelina, wearing white, said, “We are very blessed today. We were blessed at the Cathedral on May 5, our actual anniversary, but today it was special,” because of the bishop’s blessing.

Rafael commented, “It was so happy to see so many people married 50 years plus. We too are still in love, we have three kids, a beautiful family. We are happy.”

Raymond and Patricia Zebrowski, Resurrection Parish, Mount Laurel, credited their 50 years to the grace of God in their marriage. Patricia commented,

Anniversary blessings renew couples Continued from P12 The couples were invited to stand and face each other as they reaffirmed their marriage vows to their spouses. They were then asked to touch each other’s wedding rings as Bishop O’Connell prayed over the couples, “May these rings continue to be a rich symbol of [the couples'] true faith in one another and remind them always of their love.”

They concluded their anniversary blessings with a kiss as a symbol of their love.

Linda Richardson, diocesan director of the Department of Youth, Marriage and Family Life, welcomed the couples from the four counties around the diocese who gathered to receive the special anniversary blessing from Bishop O’Connell.

“We are thankful for the holy men and women who bear witness through the Sacrament of Marriage,” she said, adding that it is “through your marriage that we catch a glimpse of God’s divine love.”

She included her own best wishes for the couples celebrating their anniversaries, “I wish your lives together will continue to be a source of grace and blessing for you and for all who know and love you.”

The couples received their special blessings in groups based on the number of years they have been married. The vast majority of the couples married have been married for 50 or more years, which brought overwhelming and heartfelt applause from the crowd.

Couples were then invited to receive an individual

blessing from parish priests who were present at the prayer service. The couples also received a prayer card as a memento of the special day.

Whether they were married for 50 or more years or only for one, the couples acknowledged that their Catholic faith was the reason for the strong marriages.

Deacon Francis Groff and Gerry Groff, from St. Martha Parish, Point Pleasant, have been happily married for 56 years, have 10 children, 30 grandchildren and eight great grandchildren.

“Any success we have had in marriage has been a gift from God,” Francis shared to which his wife, Gerry, whole heartedly agreed.

Fred and Jane Proulx, parishioners of St. RaphaelHoly Angels Parish, Hamilton, received their first anniversary blessing and also thanked God for his blessings in their marriage.

“We’re so excited,” Jane Proulx said of receiving the anniversary blessing, adding that “marriage is a beautiful and challenging way to grow together in faith and holiness and I never quite realized how much I needed Fred to become holier,” she said of her husband.

Fred Proulx agreed with his wife’s sentiments, “It’s a path to sanctification through the other person and it’s about the reality of Christ present through the other person, that’s the main part of our vocation and that’s the way we experience God in our day-today lives.”

“It was great to see so many people married 50 years. It sets a good example to young married people to keep it together,” to which Raymond added, “It keeps the family together.” Patricia reflected, “It takes work and dedication, and a lot of faith. You’ve got to keep God the Father in the marriage who will guide you.”

For John and Frida McLaughlin of Holy Cross Parish, Rumson, this was the third year in a row that they have been blessed by the bishop. Married 52 years, Frida said, “Everyone is blessed to be here today.”

Some came to be blessed even though they are not celebrating a jubilee year. Dennis and Linda Quinn of St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Parish, Whiting, found the blessing “very moving. We’re married 34 years, but this gave us something to look forward to. Seeing those couples married for 50 years showed us promise. It is important to bring faith back into marriage.”

Dignity is focus of Owens' talk Continued from P12

out of nothing.”

“God created mankind in His image,” he continued, “In the image of God he created them; male and female.”

He illustrated the innate goodness in the physical aspect of love as well.

“There’s an original dignity to our sexuality that even in the reality of the world that we live in now, in all of the brokenness and in all of the brokenness we have seen projected in our world, even now an echo remains.

It is first and foremost an echo and it’s an echo that Bishop O’Connell will call forth and restore to its original dignity.

“Before we can understand the original good and blessing of marriage we need to recall and remember the original good and dignity of our sexuality, of our masculinity and femininity. We don’t always get a chance to meditate on the goodness of our sexuality,” said Owens.

He then acknowledged the sanctity and goodness of marriage in the New Testament, recalling that in the Book of Revelation, “we see Christ as the bridegroom and the Church as the bride.

“My prayer is that through the anniversary blessing we restore that original good to our marriage, we see the negative gaps in our marriage and we fall in to the mercy of God and seek a redeeming through him.”

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Congress Comments Social media came in handy for congress-goers to share their experiences By all accounts, the Diocese of Trenton’s first Eucharistic Congress was a monumental success. People were energized going into the congress, were excited throughout the three-day event and still talking about it, blogging about it, and using all kinds of social media outlets nearly two weeks later to share their experiences about attending this most historical event in the life of our diocese.

Some of the comments that have come through on The Monitor’s and Eucharistic Congress’ Facebook pages are posted below.

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Commenting on Eucharistic Congress 2012’s link, Beth Carman wrote: “I was blessed to attend this Holy Mass with my teenagers! The celebration was very beautiful! GOD has blessed the Diocese of Trenton with a “BIG” Bishop!

JESUS was the star on the PNC stage this day!”

Here’s what Father Jeffrey Kegley, pastor of St. Mary Parish, New Monmouth, had to say about Day 1 of the Eucharistic Congress: “Wonderful day at the Eucharistic Congress 2012 with our

Christine Mueller Born Christine Mueller Born shared: “The bishop looks like he’s really having fun!!!”

Cathy Limeri In her comment on Eucharistic Congress 2012’s link, Cathy Limeri wrote: “We are very blessed to have Bishop O’Connell in our Diocese. What a wonderful speaker and a spirit-filled man!!”

Patricia Sheridan Laino Patricia Sheridan Laino wrote how she “Shared the day with family and the experience of the Eucharistic Congress.

Very excited to meet Bishop O’Connell on the way to our seats. The procession was moving and the Mass was one I will always remember. The sacred music and beautiful ‘angelic’ voices made it extra special. God bless all who worked so hard to put this spectacular event together.”

Maria Pascale Phillips Maria Pascale Phillips stated: “This was NOT your typical Sunday Mass!

All the traditions of our Faith could be experienced ... From the grand procession, to the heavenly sounds of the choir singing traditional songs in Spanish and

in Latin, to the Holy procession with the Host! It was amazing! Not to mention we are so Blessed to have a Bishop with this kind of vision for us! Thank you and God Bless all who worked so hard to make this happen!”

Diana Darre de Oliveira attended the Great Mass with her husband on Sunday.

Here’s what Diane had to say: “It was so beautiful to see our Church…to celebrate our faith, especially in the presence of the Holy Eucharist. Guadalupe Virgem, pray for us!”

school students, and a blessed evening with brother priests with evening prayer, dinner and Eucharistic Holy Hour.

Thank you Bishop O’Connell.”

Lisa Burke Lisa Burke simply stated: “The Congress is a wonderful and grace-filling event.”

Joan Login Joan Login shared her enthusiasm, inviting others to attend. “The opening day for the youth of the Eucharistic Congress at PNC was AWESOME!!!

Come and see for yourself tomorrow and Sunday. See you there!”

Trish Teague Trish Teague said: “I am so grateful to Saint Raphael School’s Principal and teachers who made it possible for our 7th and 8th graders to be there.”

Congress on the Net – The instant response made possible these days by social media outlets such as Facebook and Twitter made instant feedback a reality. Folks of all ages signed on and sent in their reactions to the Eucharistic Congress.

Congress brings diocesan family together in faith Continued from P2 But in going over the hundreds of photos during the last week or so, I began to see this interaction between the bishop and young congress-goers emerge in photo after photo. As he reached out to shake their hands, pat them on the shoulder, ask them a question, offer them Communion, or touch their sweet little faces, the connection between them is undeniable.

How many of us can say that we’ve had such an extraordinary experience with our bishop as children? For many of us in the older generation, our memory of our bishop was as an authority figure who came to confirm us and asked us a lot of hard questions that we studied for months out of fear of being called upon and not knowing the answer. How might our own understanding of Church have changed if we’d had this connection with our bishop?

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it not for the congress. The youngsters at the congress now have an invaluable memory of a loving bishop to carry with them. It can prove to be a powerful memory as they grow up in the faith.

And it can prove to be a true blessing for the future of the Church of Trenton.

I invite all of the readers of this keepsake edition of The Monitor to share in the amazing experience that took on life during those three days, not only as presented within the printed pages you are now holding, but also in the web package that has been prepared for you on www.TrentonMonitor.com.

For every photo you see in this issue, there are 50 beautiful images on the website, and there are 20 stories that did not make it into this print edition.

By viewing some of the video footage made available through our website, you can hear the homilies from Bishop O’Connell, and get some of the high-

lights of the talks and musical performances.

I must also take this opportunity to recognize and thank the wonderful diocesan Communications team that worked around the clock, before, during and after the congress to ensure that its beautiful and poignant movements were captured in word and image, and made available to all who wished to access them. I speak specifically of the hard-working editorial team of The Monitor, both staff and freelance; our incredible freelance photographers, our videotaping team spearheaded by the Department of Radio and Television and supported by Riverview Studios in Bordentown; and our Department of Digital Media, which has coordinated much of this online coverage.

May we all move forward from the congress, strengthened for the journey through the Year of Faith!

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Hunger abroad fought by teens at Congress Continued from P6 seven and eight, $2, and $3-$5 for high school students. In all, the students raised more than $17,000 to be used toward funding the 30,000 meals.

According to statistics compiled by the international hunger relief organization Stop Hunger Now, more than one billion people do not have enough to eat. In developing countries, 10.9 million children under age five die each year. In fact, a child dies every six seconds from a hunger-related cause.

“There is a great need,” stated Sara Robinson, manager of community giving for Catholic Relief Services. In addition to the meals, the ‘Helping Hands’ initiative provides an educational component called livelihood programming – which teaches recipients how to start and operate farming enterprises in the region.

“We cannot end hunger by just sending food overseas. Change begins after the meal-packaging event through advocacy, awareness and continuation of services through the Burkina Faso region,” Robinson said.

Sister Joanne, Tier and Andrew Sullivan, program manager for Stop Hunger Now, marveled as they watched the hardworking young people do their part to reach out to people in need.

“They were ready to help,” said

Sister Joanne, emphasizing that when planning the outreach projects, it was important to find ways that the students could help people in need on both local and international levels.

“The students of the diocese showed a beautiful expression of good will and outreach to those less fortunate,” said Tier. “They loved knowing that they could touch another’s heart and show kindness toward others. It’s a wonderful thing to see that what the students are learning in their Catholic schools and religious education programs is being lived out.”

“Our goal today is to package 30,000 meals,” Sullivan said, but based on the speed and diligence with which the students were working, he said: “I think they will push us over the top.”

Students found it heartwarming to not only join in the Day for Youth at the Eucharistic Congress, but to participate in the social service outreach projects.

As Madison Nerey, an eighth grader in Trenton Catholic Academy, Hamilton, adjusted her hair net, she said she appreciated the opportunity to attend the Eucharistic Congress and help with the Burkina Faso effort.

“When I woke up at 5:55 a.m. this morning, I wasn’t so sure what to expect today,” Nerey admitted. “But now

Outpouring of Love – Students measure a fortified rice-soy blend into bags intended for the poor of Burkina Faso during the Day for Youth at the Eucharistic Congress Oct. 12.

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that I’m here, I’m glad. I’m glad to be able to praise God with so many other kids my age and by helping with this

project, I am reminded of how blessed and fortunate I am. I hope I can help the people of Burkina Faso.”

Sibling Rivalry Fan Timothy E. Ryan Home for Funerals Lavallette, Seaside Park, Toms River, Bayville & Jackson, New Jersey September 27, 2012 Dear Friend, It is said that one of the greatest gifts that God has bestowed on us is the gift of memories. Recalling memories can be comforting to us at times when we feel at our lowest.

Understanding these deep feelings, the Church sets aside the month of November as a time of prayer for all those who have died. In particular, we celebrate the FEAST OF ALL SOULS. Keeping in mind this tradition, I felt it would be proper for THE RYAN FAMILY to remember all the faithful departed by having a Mass celebrated in their memory. In conjunction with ST. MAXIMILIAN KOLBE PARISH, I have arranged with Father Stephen Piga to have a special MEMORIAL MASS on Wednesday, November 7, 2012, at 12 Noon in ST. MAXIMILIAN KOLBE CHURCH located at the end of Mule Rd., Toms River, NJ. Father Stephen and the Ryan Family hope you can join us to remember and give thanks for the lives of those who have gone before us. If you will be attending please call my office at 732-505-1900 so we will have an idea about how many will be in attendance.

May the Lord bless you and keep you in His care.

Sincerely,

For Connor Dosch, an eighth grader in St. Peter School, Point Pleasant Beach, a highlight of the Eucharistic Congress was attending a performance by Sibling Rivalry, the local musical group featuring brother-sister duo, Justin and Alina Zimmerman. In this photo, Dosch was happy to meet and have his picture taken with Alina Zimmerman. Photo courtesy of Theresa Dosch

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Choir of angels adds beauty Continued from P7 biggest thing I’ve ever sang,” said Molicki with a smile. Maher guessed, “Our school auditorium only seats 500 people, maybe.”

Soprano Kaitlin Olsen, a choir member in St. John Vianney High School, Holmdel, agreed, noting she had participated in smaller Masses in the school gym. She held a binder with music to be sung during the approaching liturgy; her penciled notations on sheet music which ranged from Bruckner’s “Ecce Sacerdos Magnus” to “Behold the Lamb of God” from Handel’s Messiah assured the singer she would blend with her peers.

“It’s a nice mix,” she said of the selections they would be singing.

Vocal musicians from Red Bank Catholic were somewhat seasoned, having sung with the pope’s choir two years ago at the Trenton War Memorial.

Bridget Foley and Deana Gialanella, both seniors, and junior Grace Timko sat near the front of the large group of teens near Grace Duddy, a ninth-grade soprano from Monsignor Donovan. “We’ve been practicing for about two or three weeks,” she explained, “both together and at separate schools. There’s a lot of good music.”

“It is the first time for them to sing together; it gives them a sense of belonging to something bigger than themselves.”

Indicating the seven rows of teens, he observed, “It is the first time for them to sing together; it gives them a sense of belonging to something bigger than themselves.” The shepherd looked over his young flock with a father’s smile and concluded, “Any time that I am with the young people of the diocese, I am proud.”

With Heart and Voice – Under the baton of Shawn Mack, newly named director of the Diocesan Festival Choir, the music during the Eucharistic Congress Masses and prayer services was provided by students from six of the eight diocesan high schools, as well as a group of professional singers and musicians.

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THURSDAY, OCTOBER 25, 2012 6-9 PM The young musicians faced challenges much different than at typical school or church choir performances. A strong breeze ruffled their hair and the music they held, and multiple lighting and sound technicians intermittently blocked their view of the director. Spectators buzzing, fellow teens waving, and amphitheatre workers stopped to ogle the busy musicians, but choral director Shawn Mack, a music teacher at Red Bank Catholic High School, quelled the pandemonium and kept the teens focused.

Mack, newly named the diocesan director of music, selected the music performed at the liturgy and presented it to the high schools’ music directors in May. One last rehearsal the Friday before the Eucharistic Congress, held in St. Robert Bellarmine Parish, Freehold, assured that the large choir would learn the music to his satisfaction.

“It was a huge undertaking,” Mack reflected later. The fourth-year teacher at Red Bank Catholic High School faced another set of challenges while preparing for the liturgy: his marriage to fiancé Eileen was just a week later. “I didn’t know where it would all go,” he admitted with a sigh."

As the musicians sang warm-ups and excerpts from the music for the open-air Mass, principal celebrant Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M., stood just offstage, fully vested and leaning on his staff as he listened to the multi-voiced choir sing excerpts from the “Ecce Sacerdos Magnus.”

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Awards reflect service to God and man Continued from P17 Pope”) was established by Pope Leo XIII in 1888 to commemorate the golden jubilee of his priesthood. It is given for distinguished service to the Church by clergy and lay people. It is the highest honor that can be awarded to the laity by the papacy.

As she left the amphitheater, Sister Dorothy smiled broadly and spoke of the honor as one that will inspire the students she works with at Trenton Catholic Academy.

“Hopefully, this honor will be an example for the kids,” she said. “Hopefully, it will inspire them to go on in service to the Church and be willing to stretch themselves and look for where God is leading them.”

Benemerenti Medal Deacon Flanagan, Fitzsimmons and the Manfredonias were presented with the Benemerenti Medal which was instituted by Pope Gregory XVI and is conferred on those who have exhibited long and exceptional service to the Catholic Church, their families and community. The word “benemerenti,” which means “to a well deserving person,” is on the back of the medal, surrounded by a crown of oak leaves; the ribbon bears papal colors, yellow and white.

At the conclusion of the Great Mass, Fitzsimmons, the Manfredonias and Deacon Flanagan expressed their joy in this significant recognition.

Standing with many members of her family and friends on the promenade as the evening drew to a close, Fitzsimmons said she was “so honored to have been nominated for this award,” adding that she “accepted it in the name of all the people of the diocese I’ve worked with

over the years. Their faith in God and in me has energized and inspired me,” she said with a smile. “I am deeply grateful for the opportunity to have served.”

James Manfredonia reflected on the fact that it was reading Blessed Pope John Paul II’s encyclical letter, “Veritatis Splendor” – the Splendor of Truth – in 1993 which “lit a fire under me. I couldn’t put it down and I began to feel called into working for the Church in some capacity.

“I loved John Paul II,” he said. “And that feeling has carried on to Pope Benedict. And to receive such an honor from His Holiness in recognition for the work we do is truly humbling.

“I thank God for allowing me to be used as his humble instrument in the great work of the New Evangelization and I thank Bishop O’Connell and Pope Benedict for this honor. It means more to me than I can ever express.”

Cheryl Manfredonia called receiving the honor “amazing, overwhelming and a completely unexpected surprise! My first reaction was – I don’t deserve this. We are all called to evangelize and share our joy in the Lord – how can I be receiving an award for doing something I love?”

For Deacon Flanagan, receiving the honor was a “very humbling experience.”

Speaking of the liturgy, so rich in symbolism, prayer, preaching and music, he said that he had been extremely moved. “Quite frankly, I was so impressed by the number of people in attendance and the beauty of the liturgy.

“Even my non-Catholic friends who were with me commented on its beauty.

I thought about the fact that this was a once-in-a-lifetime event, a pinnacle. It was so overwhelming.

“What an inspiration!”

Flanagan said that he shares the

Papal chair was seat of honor Continued from P2 the main altar used and a large wooden crucifix created by the master carvers of Oberammergau, Germany, which was also situated near the altar. “It is a wonderful piece,” said Father Papalia.

“It appears at many liturgies in the Newark Archdiocese.”

He noted that many parishes throughout the diocese also contributed to the goal of creating an immaculate and perfect atmosphere for the liturgies. “Everything that was transported…bells, candles, other appointments, created a good and holy context,” he said.

Among the contributors, the diocesan chancery loaned the ambo and gift table from the chapel in Lawrenceville; Our Lady of Sorrows-St. Anthony Parish, Hamilton, contributed four red chairs for the sanctuary and the processional “umbrelino” or Liturgical umbrella under which the ornate monstrance from St. Barnabas Parish, Bayville, was carried.

A second monstrance for exposition for the young adult Holy Hour came from St. Robert Bellarmine Parish, Freehold, Red Bank Catholic High School loaned a tabernacle for

the Cenacle Chapel and St. Gregory the Great Parish, Hamilton, contributed a thurible (incense sensor) and five privacy screens for use in the Sacrament of Reconciliation.

St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Parish, Whiting, loaned a number of items including candlesticks and the large bells that were rung to call the faithful to prayer, Father Papalia said. “It was really a family affair.”

He added that one of St. Elizabeth Ann Seton’s parishioners, Elfriede Crisafi, a talented seamstress, had created the altar linens used in the liturgy at his request.

After the congress, Crisafi called attending the congress the “most beautiful experience I’d had in a long, long time,” and said she was especially moved to see once again the papal chair she remembered so clearly from the Giants Stadium Mass.

She also said she felt she was “seeing the altar linen for the first time. I felt very honored.”

Crisafi said her moment of personal joy was compounded many times over by “every detail: the homily; the monstrance; the choir; the procession; the pope’s chair. It was all perfect.”

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Deacon John Flanagan

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honor with the priests and laity and fellow deacons with whom he serves.

Gaudium et Spes Award It was a standing ovation for Father McCormick when Bishop O’Connell presented him with the Gaudium et Spes Award in recognition of his 42 years of ministry as president of the Martin House Community Justice Foundation. Father McCormick, who recently retired from Martin House, has tirelessly devoted his priestly life to working among, ministering to and championing for thousands of poor adults and children living in one of the poorest sections of the city of Trenton by helping them to improve their lives through housing and educational opportunities.

The Gaudium et Spes (Church in the Modern World) Award is named after the document promulgated by Pope Paul VI in 1965, the longest and most significant of the Second Vatican Council covering such subjects as conscience, marriage, culture, politics and warfare.

Looking to the Gaudium et Spes document, Bishop O’Connell noted that Father McCormick’s vision of ministry was reflected in the following citation: “The joys and the hopes, the griefs and the anxieties of the men of this age, especially those who are poor or in any way afflicted, these are the joys and hopes, the griefs and anxieties of the followers of Christ.” (Pastoral Constitution on the Church in the Modern World, Gaudium et Spes, art. 1)

Lumen Gentium Award Bishop O’Connell presented the inaugural diocesan Lumen Gentium Award to Sister Janet Yurkanin, who served as director of the diocesan Office of Migration and Refugee Services from 1997 to 2012.

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Bishop O’Connell noted that the title of the award is derived from Lumen Gentium, the Dogmatic Constitution on the Church, which was one of the principal documents promulgated by Pope Paul VI on Nov. 21, 1964.

In reviewing the Lumen Gentium document, Bishop O’Connell noted that Sister Janet and her tireless work among immigrants and refugees, is especially reflected in the following citation: “Christ is the Light of All Nations...at all times and in every race, God has given welcome.” (Dogmatic Constitution on the Church, Lumen Gentium, art. 1:9) As she departed, Sister Janet said she had accepted the award in “thanksgiving to God and with great humility.”

She paused a moment and added: “I am most grateful for the opportunity given me to have encountered and served the many faces of Christ who came to our door.”

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Expo showcases faith and culture with religious customs Continued from P20 “This is just an amazing explosion of unity,” Sass said as shouts of joy echoed through the tent at the conclusion of a dynamic performance by the Filipino Dance Troupe and the Rondalla stringed instrument ensemble.

The audience had been particularly charmed by the children of the dance troupe showing off dances that reflected the many regions and cultures of the Philippines.

Later, as the company gathered for photos, Jocelyn Bautista, a director of the company which was formed by the Charismatic community BLD Trenton Mark 10 & John 6, said the members were “so happy to be here for the Eucharistic Congress. We devote our ministry

Rapping priest engages youth Continued from P5 Fueled by the frenetic and excited energy of the audience, Father Fortuna exploded in song and moved around with electric guitar in hand, chanting the words “All For You Jesus.”

Inspired by what they saw on stage, thousands of youth shouted in agreement and swayed to the music with hands in the air, echoing Father Fortuna.

“Sometimes you might feel stupid in front of your friends as your faith identifies you as a ‘church person.’ But so what, and who cares?” Father Fortuna declared.

Mixing his music with social commentary, Father Fortuna spoke about lust, evil intention and the far-reaching and detrimental effects of the media as a prelude to his next song, explaining that each person’s body belongs to the Lord. He encouraged youth to abstain and to save sex for marriage with his song which he humorously named “The Zipper Zone,” causing waves of laughter from the crowd. “It’s all a big lie,” he yelled. “Abstain, abstain and save yourselves for marriage!”

Megan Quinn, 16, a student in St. Rose High School, Belmar, thought that Father Fortuna’s message was even more effective because of the way it was delivered. “I love it. It’s great,” she said.

Father Fortuna set up his next song, declaring, “There Ain’t No Party Like a Catholic Party.” With that declaration, Father Fortuna was joined by dozens of youths who danced, jumped and embraced each other. “Cause a Catholic party doesn’t stop,” he boomed, as the lyrics seemed to become secondary to the sheer joy of the youth on stage.

“Jesus, we love you,” Father Fortuna chanted, and the youth echoed his words.

Amidst the groove on stage, Father Fortuna cautioned that sometimes people have to suffer for their faith, but declared that nobody is alone. And as the concert concluded, he hit a high note with his message of joy, taking everyone along with him. “What joy I feel. My spirit wants to fly, soaring way up high.”

to Christ and having the kids involved is so important to us.

As the memorable morning and afternoon moved toward its conclusion, the Brazilian Song and Dance Group drew admiring gasps from some members of the audience and tears from many as they presented a traditional celebration given each year Oct. 12 in Christ the King Parish in honor of Our Lady of Aparecida (Our Lady who Appeared), the patroness of Brazil.

Following a procession of all flags of the regions of Brazil, the statue of Our Lady was carried in on a flower-decked litter and placed reverently on stage where small “angels” festooned her with rose petals.

As the music swelled, dancers in

white came down the aisle, raising two of their company high as they carried aloft Our Lady’s crown and mantle. When she was crowned, a delighted sigh swept through the tent.

When the concert concluded, Lourdes Borba, of the Brazilian Song and Dance Group, echoed many throughout the day, saying that bringing so many Catholic companies together was a wonderful accomplishment and worthy of an encore.

We Call Him Jesus – Rupert E. Z. Peters, director of music in Blessed SacramentOur Lady of the Divine Shepherd Parish, Trenton, leads Gospel Choir.

Siblings use their voices to uplift teens Continued from P5 Diocesan Youth Conference and are active on Realfaith TV, the diocesan television program for teenagers, where Justin is a co-host and Alina is a guest.

Deanna Sass, director of the Department of Multi-Cultural Ministry, introduced the group, reminding the audience of teens and their chaperones, “Each of you has a gift; their gift is music.” Justin invited the teens to stand as the group sang, “Won’t you stand up for your faith/ Use your voice” to the driving beat on guitar and drums ground out by fellow band members.

The modern-day instruments beat out the ancient yet eternal message of God’s love and redemption for his creatures. The

teens and their adult chaperones, dressed in warm hoodies emblazoned with their school insignia, huddled against the cold breeze yet attentive to the band.

“God made you the way you are for a reason,” Justin continued as his band slowly picked out another hit. “He made you perfect.” His sister Alina continued the conversation in song, belting out, “I’m on the right track, baby, I was born this way,” as the teens clapped and swayed in harmony.

“They are actually really good!” exclaimed audience member Brooke Harvey of Holy Cross High School, Delran.

Fellow senior Dan Schmid agreed with a smile as he rocked in his folding chair to the beat. “They do have good voices.”

Two Notre Dame High School juniors also enjoyed the short concert.

Caitlyn Sweeney, a veteran listener of the band, noted, “They came to my church, Our Lady of Sorrows in Hamilton Township.” Her friend Catie Toomey, though a first time listener, echoed, “Wow, they’re great!”

A small group of teens from the religious education program of St. Aloysius Parish, Jackson, stood in the forestage area to get closer to the music. The girls and boys nodded and swayed in time to the music. “I like them, they’re good,” said Nick Alexander of Jackson. “It’s really different music than in church,” admitted Lindsey Bischoff, as she and her friend made chugging motions as the band performed.

The Holy Sacrifice of the Mass will be offered in Remembrance of all deceased relatives and friends at St. Mary’s Cemetery & Mausoleum.

All Souls Day Mass will be celebrated by Msgr. James H. Dubell Friday, November 2, 2012 10 a.m. in Building A All are cordially invited to join us for this special liturgy.

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