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Well-rested children are happy children. They’re also healthier, better behaved and better learners too. With school starting again soon, make sure you’re aware of the most recent sleep guidelines given by the experts at the American Academy of Sleep Medicine. 12-16 hours for children 4-12 months; 11-14 hours for children 1-2 years; 10-13 hours for children 3-5 years; 9-12 hours for children 6-12 years and 8-10 hours for teens 13-18 years.
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A. Montessori education founded in 1907 by Dr. Maria Montessori, who based her educational methods on scientific observation of children’s learning processes. The Montessori process emphasizes learning through all five senses, not just through listening, watching, or reading. Children in Montessori classes learn at their own, pace and according to their own choice of activities from hundreds of possibilities. Research studies show that Montessori children are well prepared for later life academically, socially, and emotionally. Ask: If they are affiliated with AMI or AMS and teacher training. Visit the School and observe a classroom in action; ask a prospective teacher about child development and education to see if it’s compatible with yours.
A. There are common misconceptions of why eye exams in children are not important. Like, my son doesn’t complain of blurry vision, or my child’s grades are good…. School screenings don’t qualify as an eye exam; and they were never intended to replace a professional eye exam. It’s important to know that the American Optometric Association, American Academy of Ophthalmology and Prevent Blindness America has begun to recommend that your child receive their first eye exam at 6 months of age. So go ahead and get that on your calendar as a to-do! MARY ELLEN CALDWELL, Editor
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Q. My kids want to download Pokémon Go. What do other families think of the hunt? A. Several requests came in on this topic here at Suburban Parent headquarters, and there are several important aspects to consider. *Know that in-app purchases range from 99-cents to $99.99 for Pokécoins. *This game consumes a lot of mobile data, keep a close eye on it to avoid overages. *Safety-kids running around with phones in hand and watching screens can be dangerous. *The real opportunity with this “trending” hunt is the chance to explore together, to learn from one another, and engage in your broader community. *Children 5th grade and up probably have the capacity to explore familiar areas on their own, although the idea of a two-person team, one acting as a safety spotter, is a good idea. *Teaching the value of teamwork and taking turns has many benefits even beyond Pokémon Go. Children younger than 5th grade can be part of a parent team. You can find much more info online.
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MOMENTS { BY PATRICK HEMPFING }
The Half Way Point
I
unscrewed the child safety cap from the white,
orange juice, ate her yogurt and oatmeal, and then
plastic bottle, and turned it upside down. A single
went to get dressed. While she prepared for her big
Flintstones chewable vitamin, the last one in the
day, I packed her lunch and wrote a little note to
bottle, dropped into the palm of my left hand. Since
include in her lunch bag, wishing her a great first day
Jessie turned two, my days have begun this way. This morning though, the empty pill bottle feels a bit more significant. It’s Jessie’s first day of 5th grade. Except for the early wake-up call, Jessie says “Hooray.” She likes school and is anxious to see her friends. After a wonderful summer with lots of
the rear seat to the front passenger seat when it’s just it’s easy for her to change the radio station to songs I
in school. It’s important that a writer writes.
can barely understand, but that’s a different column. As I drove Jessie to school for the first time as a
grader, I’m at the halfway point.” I quickly did
front-seat passenger, it felt strange. I couldn’t help but
the math in my head. Pre-K plus kindergarten
think that I was just buckling my baby in her car seat. I
plus grades 1-12 totals 14, divided by 2
recalled the days I carried my little girl into the house
equals seven. Pre-K done. Kindergarten
when she fell asleep in the car, or pretended to, which
at the halfway point.
we called “playing possum.” This morning, however, I didn’t see my baby. I didn’t see the little girl with the squished-tight eyes and smile
I mentally walked
playing possum, though Jessie would have enjoyed an
to the bedroom,
extra hour or two of sleep. No, today, I saw a girl who
grabbed a pillow
could easily pass for a teenager.
for over my
During the drive, I shared my standard lines, “Give
mouth, and yelled,
it your all,” “keep a positive attitude,” and “tell the boys
“Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh!”
your dad has golf clubs” (to chase them away from my
I didn’t do it, but the thought definitely crossed my mind. How can Jessie be a 5th grader? I just read, “Children 2 to 3 years
little girl). Reluctantly, I dropped her off at the carpool lane, rather than holding her hand and walking her to class as we had done in previous years. The wheels of her coral-colored book bag hit the sidewalk, and she headed off to 5th grade.
of age – Chew one-half tablet
I’m confident Jessie will have a great year in school.
daily with food” on the back of
She’ll need some more vitamins, though. On my way to
the Flintstones bottle. We went from a half tablet to a full tablet to empty bottle after empty bottle way too quickly. Jessie chewed her vitamin, drank her
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Over the summer, I allowed Jessie to move from
have more quiet time to write while Jessie is
Jessie completes 5th grade, indeed, she’ll be
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photo. Moments like this are meant to be captured.
the two of us in the vehicle. She loves to sit up front as
complete. Grades 1-4 in the books. When
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Prior to driving Jessie to school, she rolled her book bag out to the driveway. Of course, I had to take a
cherished moments, Dad says “Hooray,” too. I
Last night Jessie said, “Dad, as a 5th
FOLLOW PATRICK
of 5th grade.
pick up a bottle, I might need to stop at the donut shop for some “glazed comfort.” Until next month, remember to cherish the moments. SP
Patrick Hempfing had a 20-year professional career in banking, accounting, and auditing before he became a father at age 44. He is now a full-time husband, stay-at-home dad, and writer. If you enjoyed this column, you’ll like Patrick’s first book, MoMENts: A Dad Holds On. The book compiles favorite stories and new material and is for sale on Amazon.com. facebook.com/patricklhempfing
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A PA R E N T P E P TA L K
BY C H R I S T I N A K AT Z
Middle School Years...
Expect Memories, Not Mayhem
ny parent who has survived the middle school years will assure you that you can navigate them, too. Although the honeymoon period of elementary school is over and middle school comes with ample trials and tribulations for most kids, try not to expect the worst. Parents who welcome the challenges of middle school as opportunities for growth will be still be smiling by the time they attend the eighth grade promotion ceremony. Expect your child to face and overcome hurdles in middle school. Middle school is supposed to be about making mistakes and bouncing back from disappointments. Kids who navigate turbulence with spunk will mature in middle school. Kids who struggle with self-awareness and assertiveness are going to need extra support to develop skills they will need in high school. If you want your kids to thrive in middle school, don’t leave them to their own devices. Parents who expect everything to be hunky dory all the time will likely be disappointed. Parents who think
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kids can figure everything out for themselves at this age with little adult supervision may want to wake up. This is middle school, the preparation for high school, which is the preparation for college, which is preparation for adulthood. Your child is going to need you each and every day. Middle-Schoolers are embarking on a two or three-year journey and they will come out the other end of the process transformed. Whether or not they are changed for the better is largely up to you, parents. Here is a list of some of the challenges middle school kids face and how tuned-in parents can help.
kids about how they are adjusting to these new learning modes so you can help smooth the way. DEALING WITH SOCIAL PRESSURES . How much social pressure exists in middle school? Tons. So role up your sleeves, parents, and always be ready to trouble-shoot. The best advice takes your child’s personality into account and eschews going along with all the crowds all the time. Middle school is a great time for kids to learn how to say, you do things your way and I’ll do things mine.
EXPRESSING INDIVIDUALITY . At the
KEEPING UP WITH SCHOOL ASSIGNMENTS & PROJECT DEADLINES . Kids tend to procrastinate.
end of the summer, sit down with your child and make a list of words that describe who he is. Do this every year before heading back to school to remind your student that he has interests and he’s allowed to like whatever he chooses. This list will evolve over the years, and that’s great, too. EXPANDING LEARNING ABILITIES . Middle school is an opportunity to try new ways of learning. Kids will get to do science labs for the first time, peer edit each other’s writing, work on projects with partners or in groups. Talk to your
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Some have trouble understanding that projects and papers must be worked on incrementally to be adequately prepared. A little bit of planning support goes a long way until dreamy tweens can get the hang of due dates.
NAVIGATING THE ONLINE WORLD. Your child is carrying a phone, a camera, and a computer in her pocket. Giving kids too much responsibility too soon can lead to extra expenses
and shaken confidence. So trust your instincts, parents. You will know when your child is ready to embrace the job of caring for a phone. FINDING HEALTHY TRIBES . Kids will be kids but no parent wants their child hanging out with a bunch of troublemakers. Your child’s peer group has a huge influence on his daily life. Teach your kids to choose friends wisely and to distance themselves from those who make consistently unhealthy choices.
COMMUNICATING WITH TEACHERS AND COACHES . You know how to do this, but now it’s time to let your child step up and converse with authority figures. You can encourage her, confirm it’s happening, and even follow up with adults to make sure your child isn’t blowing you smoke. But let her do it or she won’t learn how. CONFRONTING BULLIES. Not avoiding bullies. Not hiding from bullies. Not doing whatever bullies want so they won’t pick on you. Confronting bullies means being able to stand up to someone being mean to your child whether his friends will back him up or not. Let your kids know you expect them to stand up for themselves and for others in need of assistance and watch them do it.
BECOMING A POSITIVE CONTRIBUTOR . Everyone hates substitutes. No one likes the new math teacher. That kid is so weird. But guess what, kiddo? It doesn’t matter because you are expected to be kind and respectful to everyone at your school, including teachers and substitutes. Furthermore, you will actively contribute in your classes and make positive contributions to your school on an ongoing basis. Got it?
BOUNCING BACK FROM FAILURE AND DISAPPOINTMENTS . Perhaps the toughest days in middle school are the not-making-the-cut days or the performing poorly on the test days or the getting sent to the principal days. How you respond to this is important. Kids need to process their feelings before they can bounce back and do the right thing. Be calm and patient as you help them figure it all out.
TEST-DRIVING ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS . Some kids will dive right into relationships in middle school. Others will stay on the sidelines so they can spectate and speculate. Others may not seem interested at all. This is the beginning of practicing intimacy, so be sure to have lots of conversations with your child about the differences between healthy and unhealthy romantic relationships. PRIORITIZING NEEDS . Kids have needs and those needs matter even when life is hectic. Maybe your daughter needs a jog bra for gym class. Maybe she needs a new notebook for algebra. Maybe she needs you to sign a field trip form and write a check. Have a regular plan-the-week meeting on the weekend to discuss what your child is going to need from you and avoid lastminute crunches that create needless stress and bickering. LEARNING ABOUT THE WORLD . There is a whole wide world out there, and now your child is old enough to start learning about all of its complexities. What a great time to teach your child about respecting diversity, tolerating differences, and envisioning a more peaceful world. They can practice all of these principles right in middle school. REMEMBERING TO REST. Taking nice long baths with soft music and candles. Pulling the black-out curtains for a three-hour afternoon nap. A six-episode, BBC Pride and Prejudice binge-watching sessions to recover from the sniffles. Growing kids need to unwind sometimes, but they may have trouble recognizing this. When this happens, give them a nudge in a decompressing direction.
SHINING DESPITE SPEED BUMPS . Guess what, parents? Your kid is going to stumble, fall, and maybe even face-plant in middle school. But he will still have plenty of shining moments, where he is ecstatic and in his element. If your child isn’t having enough moments like these, call a family meeting, put your heads together, and look for new opportunities where he is more likely to succeed. SP
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Author, journalist, and writing coach Christina Katz is actually a bit sad that the middle school adventures are over. But she’s looking forward to the challenges that high school will bring.
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SEEDS OF SCHOOL SUCCESS
NURTURING THE PARENT-TEACHER RELATIONSHIP
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ids are notoriously reticent when it comes to divulging details of their school lives. Questions from parents often receive a single-word response. Or a shrug. The first indication of a problem may come via an unexpected call or email from the teacher. Want better insight into classroom dynamics? There’s a solution: Get to know your child’s teacher. Research shows that a solid working relationship between teacher and parent can lead to fewer behavioral problems and better academic performance for the child. Sally McEntire, mother of two, has made a practice of nurturing the parent-teacher relationship early on. She says, “I don’t want the teacher to hesitate talking to me if they have concerns regarding my child.” My son’s elementary teacher, Ms. Isabel, who has been teaching for nine years, sends a memo to parents shortly after school starts, noting times when help is needed. She’s aware that many parents are unable to volunteer during the school day, and lists many tasks that can be done off site. She laughs, “It was one of my parents who set up the online volunteer sign-up system for my classroom last year!” Following are “building blocks” for that parent-teacher relationship.
VOLUNTEER
INTRODUCE YOURSELF
Let the teacher know if you have particular strengths, interests, and preferences. Do you like working directly with students? Or would you rather prepare materials? If your schedule doesn’t allow you to be in the classroom, can you chaperone an occasional field trip?
Face-to-face contact is best, but a brief email or handwritten note works, too. You want the teacher to connect your child specifically to you.
HELP WITHOUT HELICOPTERING
You can volunteer in the classroom without being your child’s personal assistant. Look for opportunities to help other students or prep materials while observing your child. If your presence distracts your child, perhaps you can assist in the library, lunchroom, or another classroom.
DEFINE COMMUNICATION
Some teachers prefer to correspond via email. Others like a quick handwritten note, and still others prefer an after-school phone call. Pay attention to specifics. As Ms. Isabel says, “Don’t send an important email before school starts in the morning—I won’t be able to read it.”
KEEP THE TEACHER IN THE LOOP
Convey circumstances likely to affect your child’s classroom performance. A recent illness, lack of sleep, side effects from medication, an impending move, a death or divorce in the family—all can impact a child’s behavior and achievement. A heads-up allows the teacher to be proactive. As McEntire concludes, “Because I have spent time building a relationship with the teacher, it’s much easier to approach her when difficulties arise.”
IDENTIFY CHALLENGES
Approach the teacher as a partner, rather than relieving your child of responsibility. Instead of, “Danny has trouble keeping track of things, so don’t be surprised if he loses his homework,” try, “Danny has difficulty with organization. Here’s what has helped at home, and I’d be happy to hear your suggestions.”
RESPECT THE TEACHER'S TIME
Remember how many other students are in the class, and understand that the teacher simply doesn’t have time for extended daily conversations with parents.
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AUGUST 2016 MON 1
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NIKOLA TESLA EXHIBIT 10:00am-5:00pm. Come learn about Nikola Tesla, inventor of the future diesel, master of lighting. Exhibit runs through 9/2. Interurban Railway Museum, 901 East 15th St., Plano, 972-941-2117 www. planoconservancy.org
PLANO COMMUNITY BAND PRESENTS “HOT SUMMER JAZZ” 7:00pm-8:15pm. Concert in the park under the trees. Bring a picnic, lawn chair, dog, etc. and enjoy a family friendly fun time. Featured Guest performer is Stockton Helbing on drums. Free. Haggard Park, 901 East 15th St., Plano, www. planoband.com
DOLLAR DAYS - EVERYDAY IN AUGUST 12:30pm-2:30pm. $1 general garden admission and $2 Rory Meyers Children’s Adventure Garden admission to all guests for the month of August. There will also be $1 and $2 food and drink items including hot dogs, juice boxes, root beer floats and more. Tickets must be purchased at the gate in order to receive this special offer. Dallas Arboretum, 8525 Garland Rd, Dallas, www.dallasarboretum.org
PICTURES AND PAGES 10:30am-11:45am. Museum learning begins early with this special program for preschoolers (ages 4–6) and their adult partners. Space is limited for this free program. Maximum two children per adult. Kimbell Art Museum, 3333 Camp Bowie Blvd, Fort Worth - 817-322-8451 ext. 351 www.kimbellart.org
10:00am-1:00pm. For students 17 and under. Save some money on the cost of getting kids ready to go back to school, while giving students in the Remington College of Cosmetology program real-world, hands-on experience with actual clients. Call to make an appointment. Walk-ins are also welcome. Free cuts run through August. The Salon at Remington, 1640 Eastgate Dr, 972-698-3890
FIRST FREE TUESDAYS AT THE MUSEUM 11:00am-2:00pm. Children of all ages and their families enjoy thematic art-making activities, story times, performances, and gallery activities. Dallas Museum of Art, 1717 N. Harwood, Dallas www.dma.org
THE MODERN ART MUSEUM 2:00pm. Aug 2-4. Free and open to the public. Take a break from the Texas heat for Modern Kids - Summer Flicks! Share the art of the screen with your children as they watch stories unfold and ideas form in delightful and innovative films. Visit the galleries before or after the show. Enjoy a selective slate of the best animated shorts from the 2016 New York International Children’s Film Festival as well as the critically acclaimed feature films Nocturna and Mia and the Migoo. The Modern Art Museum of Fort Worth, 3200 Darnell St, Fort Worth www.themodern.org
FAMILY MOVIE 2:00pm-4:00pm Maleficent (PG, 97 min) All ages, Schimelpfenig Library, 5024 Custer Rd, Plano, 972-769-4200, www. planolibrary.org
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RINGLING BROS. AND BARNUM & BAILEY: CIRCUS XTREME
9:30am. $1 per show if purchased at box office. Different movie each Tuesday. Cinemark Frisco Square, 5655 Frisco Square Blvd, Frisco, 214-705-9901
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THUR 4 UPCYCLED WEAVING 3:00pm-5:00pm. Create a rug out of old t-shirts, recycled fabric, and a hula hoop. Free tickets available on a first-come, first-served basis 30 minutes before the program. Grades 6-12 Harrington Library, 1501 18th St, Plano, 972-941-7175, www. planolibrary.org
ROBOT RACING 6:00pm-8:00pm. Test your engineering and programming skills by building the fastest robot you can! Registration required. A Plano Library Card is required to register. Grades 6-12, Schimelpfenig Library, 5024 Custer Rd, Plano, 972-7694200, www.planolibrary.org
FRI 5 SHOP UNTIL YOU DROP! TAX FREE WEEKEND All Weekend! Shop your local stores and malls for tax free shopping! Most clothing, footwear and backpacks priced under $100 are tax free this week-end. Lay-away plans can be used again this year to take advantage of the sales tax holiday.
FREE MOM & KIDS YOGA 5:30-6:00pm. Enjoy a complimentary Yoga session courtesy of SMARTS Club on the first Friday of every month. Find out how our Multisensory Kids Yoga can help improve your child’s focus and grades while keeping you both fit. 8780 Preston Trace Blvd, Frisco, Smartsclub.net
STORY TIME AT THE INTERURBAN RAILWAY MUSEUM IN PLANO 10:30am-11:00am. Every Friday morning in the lobby, spellbound children take a magical train ride through the tales of
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professional storyteller Genie Hammel and her sidekick Eugene the Motor Mouse. The 30-minute fun-filled, interactive experience is aimed at toddlers and preschool children. However, kids of all ages are welcome and often attend. 901 E. 15th Street, Plano, 972-241-2117 www. planoconservancy.org
FUN ON THE FARM AT HERITAGE FARMSTEAD 10:30am-12:00pm. Take a tour of our Farmstead - different themes each week! Tours run through 8/26. 1900 W. 15th St, Plano, 972-881-0140 www. heritagefarmstead.org
LEGO PARTY 2:00pm. Come build with LEGOs, make a LEGO craft, and watch The LEGO Movie (PG, 100 min). All ages, Parr Library, 6200 Windhaven Pkwy, Plano, 972-769-4300 www.planolibrary.org
DRAGON BALL Z – BATTLE OF THE GODS 3:00pm. An afternoon of excitement even the prince of all Saiyans would approve, as we have over 9,000 levels of fun watching Dragon Ball Z: Battle of Gods and making crafts inspired by the anime. Grades 6-12, Haggard Library, 2501 Coit Rd, Plano, 972769-4250 www.planolibrary.org
SUMMER CONCERT SERIES/ FOOD TRUCK FRIDAYS - WALK THE LINE - JOHNNY CASH TRIBUTE 7:00pm-9:00pm. Come unwind and have some fun while listening to some amazing tunes. There will be FOOD TRUCKS on site offering up some tasty food so make sure to come hungry! Pecan Grove Park, 5326 Old State Hwy 66, Rowlett, www.ci.rowlett.tx.us
FREE FIRST FRIDAY FLICKS 8:00pm. FREE and outdoors behind the rail car at Sixth and Walnut Streets. Bring your picnics and blankets for a fun family night. We will be showing The Neverending Story. Heritage Crossing, 393 N. Sixth St, Garland, 972-205-2992
DIVE IN MOVIES – THE GOOD DINOSAUR 8:00pm. Gates open at 8:00 p.m. and the movie starts at sunset. Bring the family to float the lazy river or relax on the lawn while watching one of your favorite movies on the big screen. Frisco Athletic Center, 5828 Nancy Jane Lane, Frisco, www.friscofun.org
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on a first-come, first-served basis 30 minutes before the program. All ages, Haggard Library, 2501 Coit Rd, Plano, 972-769-4250
SLICK JUGGLING 3:00pm. See world-record breaking skills including juggling, magic, unicycling, and more! You’ll laugh as he uses bowling balls, swords, police cuffs, and a grass skirt for his crazy stunts. All ages, Davis Library, 7501-B Independence Pkwy, Plano, 972-208-8000 www.planolibrary.org
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All Weekend! Shop your local stores and malls for tax free shopping! Most clothing, footwear and backpacks priced under $100 are tax free this week-end. Lay-away plans can be used again this year to take advantage of the sales tax holiday.
3:00pm-5:00pm. Curious about the Digital Creation Space? Explore the space and learn what you can make using the software and equipment. Ages 13 & up. Parr Library, 6200 Windhaven Pkwy, Plano, 972-769-4300 www.planolibrary.org
OPEN HOUSE AT ELDORADO MONTESSORI
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18TH ANNUAL NORTH TEXAS WELLNESS FAIR PRESENTED BY THE HISPANIC WELLNESS COALITION 8am-1pm. Free health screenings for children, parents, and grandparents, plus vaccines, mammograms, body fat analysis, hearing tests, school physicals, cooking demonstrations, exercise demonstrations, a blood drive and more. Forest Hill Civic & Convention Center, 6901 Wichita Street, Forest Hill, 817-735-2784 www. hispanicwellnesscoalition.org.
ROCKWALL FARMERS MARKET 8:00am-12:00pm. Saturdays through October. Downtown Rockwall, 101 Rusk Street, Rockwall, rockwallfarmersmarket.org
FRISCO ROTARY FARMERS MARKET 8:00am-1:00pm. Through Oct 22. 8221 Fourth Street, Frisco,, friscofarmersrotarymarket.com
GELLI PLATE PRINTING 10:30am-12:30pm. Have fun learning this technique for making prints from gelatin plates using paint, stencils, and more. For Adults and Teens, Richardson Public Library, 900 Civic Center Dr., Richardson, www.cor.net
MAKEY MAKEY MADNESS 3:00pm. Play with our MaKey MaKey boards and turn everyday objects into touchpads as you combine them with the internet. Use fruit as a space bar, play a video game using a pencil-drawn joystick, and more. Free tickets available
SHOP UNTIL YOU DROP! TAX FREE WEEKEND Last day to shop your local stores and malls for tax free shopping!
SADDLE UP SUPER SUNDAY! 9:30am-1:30pm. Once a quarter, thousands of Team Beachbody Coaches gather across the continent to recognize success, share tips, and MAKE THINGS HAPPEN. Join us as we host celebrity trainer Autumn Calabrese and Beachbody CEO, Carl Daikeler, for motivation, training, and exciting product announcements before closing it all out with a massive live workout with Autumn! Rally your team, invite your friends, and bring your family! Buy your ticket early and save! Embassy Suites Dallas Frisco Hotel Convention Center & Spa , 7600 John Q Hammons Drive, TX 75034 , Frisco, danielle@iamfitandfunky.com tbbdallas.com
FOUR SEASONS MARKET BELT LINE 10:00am-3:00pm. Dal-Rich Village, 101 Coit Road, Richardson, fourseasonsmarkets.com
MON 8 THE BIG FEAT – THE WORLD’S LARGEST SHOE DRIVE, A RINGLING BROS. SPECIAL EVENT Circus fans across North Texas are invited to participate in a Guinness World Records attempt for “Most Shoes Donated to a Charity in a 24-Hour Period.” On Aug. 8-9, Ringling Bros. will be accepting shoe donations on the Plaza at American Airlines Center. There will be a circus
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KNOW IT ALL party on Aug. 9 from 5-8 p.m. on the AAC Plaza with a host of fun activities for kids and families including performances by the Ringling Bros. Clown Alley, face painting, circus games, and more. Once counted, the shoes will be donated to Rockwall-based The Shoe Bank, a non-profit providing shoes to families locally and throughout the world. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Ave., Dallas, www.ringlingcharityshoedrive.com
TUES 9 DANCE PARTY 10:30am. Music helps with early literacy! Move to the music, listen to books with beat, and have lots of fun! Ages 2-6, Haggard Library, 2501 Coit Rd, Plano, 972-769-4250 www.planolibrary.org
WED 10 FREE BACK-TO-SCHOOL HAIRCUTS 10:00am-1:00pm. For students 17 and under. Save some money on the cost of getting kids ready to go back to school, while helping students in the Remington College of Cosmetology program get real-world, hands-on experience with actual clients. Call to make an appointment. Walk-ins are also welcome. Free cuts run through August. The Salon at Remington, 1640 Eastgate Dr, 972-698-3890
THUR 11 PARACHUTE PARTY 10:30am. Up, down, and round and round - join us for rhymes and songs using giant parachutes. Free tickets available on a first-come, first-served basis 30 minutes before the program. Ages 2-6, Haggard Library, 2501 Coit Rd, Plano, 972-769-4250 www.planolibrary.org
DOWNTOWN PLANO ART & WINE WALK 5:00pm-8:00pm. Held monthly on the second Thursday through November 10, the Downtown Plano Art & Wine Walk is a sip and shop event where participants get to sample selected wines at their favorite shops throughout the arts district while enjoying live music and curated art exhibitions. Downtown Plano Arts District, 1010 E. 15th Street, Plano, 972-948-5916
FRI 12 QUILT PLANO 9:00am-5:00pm. This year’s show runs Fri and Sat and will house over 300 quilts along with some very special exhibits.
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With over 45 vendors, this can be your one-stop shopping event for everything quilting. With door prizes, free skill sessions and special kids’ activities, this is an event you don’t want to miss. Plano Centre, 2000 E. Spring Creek Pkwy, Plano, www.plano.gov
FUN ON THE FARM AT HERITAGE FARMSTEAD 10:30am-12:00pm. Take a tour of our Farmstead - different themes each week! Tours run through 8/26. 1900 W. 15th St, Plano, 972-881-0140 www.heritagefarmstead.org
ART CENTRE THEATRE PRESENTS “BEAUTY AND THE BEAST” 6:00pm. Youth and adult casts. Art Centre Theatre, 5220 Village Creek Dr., Plano, Texas, 214-810-3228 www.artcentretheatre.com
SUMMER CONCERT SERIES/ FOOD TRUCK FRIDAYS ESCAPE – JOURNEY TRIBUTE 7:00pm-9:00pm. Come unwind and have fun while listening to tunes by one of the area’s best cover bands. There will be FOOD TRUCKS on site offering up some tasty, food so make sure to come hungry! Pecan Grove Park, 5326 Old State Hwy 66, Rowlett, www.ci.rowlett.tx.us
SAT 13 ROCKWALL FARMERS MARKET 8:00am-12:00pm. Saturdays through October. Downtown Rockwall, 101 Rusk St, Rockwall, rockwallfarmersmarket.org
FRISCO ROTARY FARMERS MARKET 8:00am-1:00pm. 8221 Fourth Street, Frisco, friscofarmersrotarymarket.com
QUILT PLANO 9:00am-5:00pm. This year’s show runs Fri and Sat and will house over 300 quilts along with some very special exhibits. With over 45 vendors, this can be your one-stop shopping event for everything quilting. With door prizes, free skill sessions and special kids’ activities, this is an event you don’t want to miss. Plano Centre, 2000 E. Spring Creek Pkwy, Plano, www.plano.gov
PLANT THE SEEDS OF EARLY LEARNING AT THE GROW A READER WORKSHOP 9:00am-5:00pm. Frisco Public Library is hosting a full day of free early learning workshops. Local librarians and guests from across the country will lead seminars throughout the day. Parents, caregivers, and early learning professionals will learn how to make the most of everything from story time to nap time.
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KNOW IT ALL Attendees can earn up to six hours of Continuing Education Credit. Starting at 9am with a two hour session about the power of play. Other topics covered include: STEM for young learners; ways to make story time memorable; and, how to enhance children’s oral language skills. A 3pm class focused on classroom management will be followed by open mic resource sharing from 4-5pm. Frisco Library, 1601 Frisco Square Blvd, Frisco, friscolibrary.com/earlyliteracyday
ST. AIR SPACE WORKSHOPS: BOOKBINDING: PAMPHLET BINDINGS 2:00pm-4:00pm. Pamphlet binding is one of the oldest forms of bookbinding. Artist Lisa Covert will teach how to create blank journals using single and dosa-dos (two by two) pamphlet binding techniques. Ages 10 & up, Harrington Library, 1501 18th St, Plano, 972-941-7175 www.planolibrary.org
DOCTOR WHO CELEBRATION 2:00pm-4:00pm. The TARDIS lands at the library! Dress up and take your picture with the Doctor’s trusty ship before she flies away. Smith Public Library, 300 Country Club Rd., Bldg 300, Wylie, 972-516-6250
T-SHIRT CROCHET 3:00pm-4:00pm. Upcycle old t-shirts by making yarn and then crocheting a masterpiece. Grades 4-8, Haggard Library, 2501 Coit Rd, Plano, 972-7694250 www.planolibrary.org
BACK TO SCHOOL BASH 3:00pm-5:00pm. Join the fun on the ice for various games and activities. All onice participants must wear skates. Bring a school supply donation and receive a free skate rental. Allen Community Ice Rink at Allen Event Center, 200 E. Stacy Rd., #1350, Allen, www.cityofallen.org
SUN 14 OPEN HOUSE AT FRISCO MONTESSORI ACADEMY 2-4pm. Come learn more about our school that serves children ages 18 months – 8th grade. 8890 Meadow Hill Dr, Frisco, 972-712-7400 FriscoMontessori.com. See ad in this issue.
MON 15 NIKOLA TESLA EXHIBIT 10:00am-5:00pm. Come learn about Nikola Tesla, inventor of the future diesel, master of lighting. Exhibit runs through 9/2. Interurban Railway Museum, 901 East 15th St., Plano,, 972-941-2117 www. planoconservancy.org
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TUE 16 FREE BACK-TO-SCHOOL HAIRCUTS 10:00am-1:00pm. For students 17 and under. Save some money on the cost of getting kids ready to go back to school, while giving students in the Remington College of Cosmetology program real-world, hands-on experience with actual clients. Call to make an appointment. Walk-ins are also welcome. Free cuts run through August. The Salon at Remington, 1640 Eastgate Dr, 972-698-3890
WED 17 ZOO! HALF PRICE WEDNESDAYS 10:00am-4:00pm. Every Wednesday is half price so join us at the zoo! Fort Worth Zoo, 1989 Colonial Parkway, Fort Worth, www.fortworthzoo.org Make it fun – Ride on DART!
THUR 18 SPIRIT OF MATH OPEN HOUSE 5-7pm. Come visit us to learn about our exclusive after-school math program for high performing students. Carrollton Christian Academy, 2205 E. Hebron Pkwy, Carrollton 469-606-1701, northtexas@spiritofmath.com. See ad in this issue.
KINDERGARTEN, HERE WE COME! 11:00am. Celebrate starting kindergarten with a special storytime full of stories and songs to inspire your child! Ages 5-6, Parr Library, 6200 Windhaven Pkwy, Plano, 972-769-4300 www. planolibrary.org
FRI 19 STORY TIME AT THE INTERURBAN RAILWAY MUSEUM IN PLANO 10:30am-11:00am. Every Friday morning in the lobby, spellbound children take a magical train ride through the tales of professional storyteller Genie Hammel and her sidekick Eugene the Motor Mouse. The 30-minute fun-filled, interactive experience is aimed at toddlers and preschool children. However, kids of all ages are welcome and often attend. 901 E. 15th Street, Plano, Texas, 972-241-2117 www.planoconservancy.org
SUMMER CONCERT SERIES/ FOOD TRUCK FRIDAYS - TIME TRAIN (VARIETY) 7:00pm-9:00pm. Come unwind and have some fun while listening to some of the area’s best cover bands.
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KNOW IT ALL In addition to some amazing tunes, the Summer Concert Series will have FOOD TRUCKS on site offering up some tasty, awesome food so make sure to come hungry! Pecan Grove Park, 5326 Old State Hwy 66, Rowlett, www.ci.rowlett.tx.us
SAT 20 THE MARKETPLACE DFW IN GARLAND 9:00am-2:00pm. Join us at The MarketPlace every 3rd Saturday through Sept featuring Local Produce/Growers, Artisans/Craftsman, Food Vendors & Entertainment! Historic Downtown Square Garland, 108 N. 6th Street, Garland, 469-275-9616 www.themarketplacedfw.com
SUN 21 FOUR SEASONS MARKET BELT LINE 10:00am-3:00pm. Dal-Rich Village, 101 Coit Road, Richardson, fourseasonsmarkets.com
MON 22 FREE BACK-TO-SCHOOL HAIRCUTS 10:00am-1:00pm. For students 17 and under. Save some money while giving students in the Remington College of Cosmetology program real-world, hands-on experience with actual clients. Call to make an appointment. Walk-ins are also welcome. Free cuts run through August. The Salon at Remington, 1640 Eastgate Dr, 972-698-3890
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THUR 25 DOLLAR DAYS - EVERYDAY IN AUGUST 12:30pm-2:30pm. $1 general garden admission and $2 Rory Meyers Children’s Adventure Garden admission to all guests for the month of August. As a part of August Dollar Days, there will also be $1 and $2 food and drink items including hot dogs, juice boxes, root beer floats and more. Tickets must be purchased at the gate in order to receive this special offer. Dallas Arboretum, 8525 Garland Rd, Dallas, www. dallasarboretum.org
FRI 26 FUN ON THE FARM AT HERITAGE FARMSTEAD 10:30am-12:00pm. Take a tour of our Farmstead - different themes each week! Tours run through 8/26. 1900 W. 15th St, Plano, 972-881-0140 www. heritagefarmstead.org
SUMMER CONCERT SERIES/ FOOD TRUCK FRIDAYS - ME AND MY MONKEY – BEATLES TRIBUTE 7:00pm-9:00pm. Come unwind and have fun while listening to tunes by one of the area’s best cover bands. There will be FOOD TRUCKS on site offering up some tasty, food so make sure to come hungry! Pecan Grove Park, 5326 Old State Hwy 66, Rowlett, www.ci.rowlett.tx.us
BALLOONAPALOOZA HOT AIR BALLOON FESTIVAL
5-7pm. Come visit us to learn about our exclusive after-school math program for high performing students. View the curriculum, and meet the principal and teachers. Disciples Christian Church, 2001 Independence Pkwy, Plano 469606-1701, northtexas@spiritofmath.com. See ad in this issue.
Runs through the 28th. From morning and evening glows, food vendors, concerts and rides, the festival also offers the chance to get up close with the balloons and balloonists to see how they operate. Rides are available through the balloonists for a fee. Information: 1000 Lone Star Pkwy, Grand Prairie www.lonestarpark.com
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ZOO! HALF PRICE WEDNESDAYS
MOVIES IN THE PARK: CINDERELLA 8:00pm. Bring a blanket or chairs, and a picnic (no alcohol allowed). Dogs are welcome (as long as they are leashed). There will be a fairy godmother commendation for all princesses. Food trucks will be on site to sell refreshments. Haggard Park, 901 East 15th St, Plano, www.visitdowntownplano.com
SUN 28 DIVINE CONSIGN CHILDREN’S AND MATERNITY CONSIGNMENT SALE 12:00pm-5:00pm. The Metroplex’s favorite twice-yearly children’s consignment sale specializing in the highest quality gently worn children’s and maternity clothing, toys, books, games, DVDs, baby equipment, baby and children’s furniture. Runs through 8/30. Plano Centre, 2000 E. Spring Creek Pkwy, Plano, divineconsign.net
MON 29 DIVINE CONSIGN CHILDREN’S AND MATERNITY CONSIGNMENT SALE 10am-9pm. The Metroplex’s favorite twice-yearly children’s consignment sale continues. Plano Centre, 2000 E. Spring Creek Pkwy, Plano, divineconsign.net
TUE 30 DIVINE CONSIGN CHILDREN’S AND MATERNITY CONSIGNMENT SALE 8am-12pm. Final day of The Metroplex’s favorite twice-yearly children’s consignment sale. Plano Centre, 2000 E. Spring Creek Pkwy, Plano, divineconsign.net
10:00am-4:00pm. Every Wednesday year round is half price so join us at the zoo! Fort Worth Zoo, 1989 Colonial Parkway, Fort Worth, www.fortworthzoo. org Make it fun – Ride on DART!
SAVE THE DATE… SEP 24 HEROES FOR CHILDREN HEART OF GOLD 5K & FUN RUN Heroes for Children advocates for & provides financial and social assistance to families with children 0-22 battling cancer. The Plaza at Galatyn Park, Richardson. Register at thedriven.net/2016heroes5K. See ad in this issue.
SEP 30 STATE FAIR OF TEXAS OPENS The Fair runs from Sept 30-Oct 23. Come enjoy a celebration as big as Texas. New this year, print-at-home tickets and coupon vouchers. Fair Park, Dallas. Visit BIGTEX.COM. See ad in this issue.
OCT 1 20TH ANNUAL WALK TO REMEMBER AND DEDICATION OF THE GARDEN OF HOPE 1pm. In commemoration of National Pregnancy & Infant Loss Awareness month, M.E.N.D. (Mommies Enduring Neonatal Death) is hosting a ceremony for parents who have lost a baby to miscarriage, stillbirth or early infant death. We’ll also unveil and dedicate the Garden of Hope Calvary Church, 4401 State Hwy 161, Irving, 972-506-9000, www.mend.org. See ad in this issue.
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FUN STUFF { LIFE IS BETTER WHEN YOU’RE LAUGHING }
WHAT IS THE SMARTEST STATE?
WHY WAS THE TEACHER CROSS-EYED?
WHERE DID THE MUSIC TEACHER LEAVE HER KEYS?
SHE COULDN’T CONTROL HER PUPILS!
IN THE PIANO! Source: enchantedlearning.com
ALABAMA, IT HAS FOUR A’S AND ONE B!
GOTTA LOVE ‘EM My daughter wanted to take my picture. “Mommy! Chin up, not too much, just like a princess” and continued, “When I grow up, I’m going to be a princess.” My reply – “Yes honey, you could be a princess.” Her reply – “Mommy, why didn’t you choose to be a princess instead of a Countess?” Laughing – I replied “Anna Elisa, I’m an accountant!!! She must be thinking, Silly mommy, what were you thinking!!! Wonder how many of her friends and their parents have been told I’m a Countess! — ELSIE VILLANUEVA, MOM TO A FUTURE PRINCESS
A Lunch Full
of Encouragement!
As we get ready to send our kids off to another year of school, let’s remember to remind them of who they are, and how strong they are. Tell them that even when things are bad, they will get better, and that sometimes it’s our attitude that makes the difference in a situation. You can put these words of encouragement in your kids’ lunch boxes, slip them in a pocket or tape onto the bathroom mirror. Courage doesn’t always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying I will try again tomorrow.
– Unknown
– Mary Anne Radmacher
LOL WITH JAMES ESTES!
It is our choices that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities. – Dumbledore You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose.
Become a possibilitarian. No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see possibilities — always see them, for they’re always there.
– Art Williams
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– Socrates
There are far better things ahead than any we leave behind. – C.S. Lewis
We all must make the choice between what is right, and what is easy. – Dumbledore
– Norman Vincent Peale
Be curious, not judgmental. – Walt Whitman
– Dr. Seuss
ou I’m not telling y it’s going to be easy. I’m telling you it’s going to be worth it.
Wisdom begins in wonder.
You are allowed to scream. You are allowed to cry. You are allowed to scream. But, you are not allowed to give up.
When something goes wrong in your life, just yell, “PLOT TWIST,” and move on. – Unknown
You are br than you aver believe, stronger th you seem an and smarter than you think .
– Winnie the Pooh
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BACKTALK { BY KEN SWARNER }
THEY ALL CAN’T BE SPORTS STARS
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ot all boys march to the same whistle. They can’t all be
I was particularly eager to hear how the game went last week because
the star athletes at their schools or neighborhood sports
I knew Drew asked his dad to take him out over the prior weekend to
programs. Some boys are just the average kids on the field
work on his ball handling skills. Bill, being the great dad he is, drilled
or court. They do their part for the team but never receive the
Drew’s passing game.
accolades that are saved for the mighty few. And then there is my nephew Drew. Bless his little heart. Drew is eight. He’s a sensitive kind of kid. The boy you’d expect to grow up and become anyone who can’t do a lay up or catch a fly ball or keep the ball inside the
That next Monday morning, Bill announced Drew had successfully caught several passes and then dribbled down the court and made the shots - after several attempts and a juice break. Tuesday morning, Bill announced that the first pass Drew received at
box at the Putt-Putt Golf Course. They say white men can’t jump? Drew
the team practice that night went like clockwork. Drew deftly held up his
can’t even get his GI Joe to do it.
hands to catch the ball, and then, at the very last minute, ducked. Tuesday
Some dads would think the world came to an end if they had Drew as
night, at Drew’s insistence, Bill worked with Drew some more. At the game
a son. They would brow-beat their kid - ask him why he can’t be like the
Wednesday, Bill said Drew was pumped up and ready to play. In fact, run-
other kids - look to the heavens and say “God, why me?”
ning up and down the court, Drew was in the face of the opposing team
Drew’s dad is an avid sports fan and played quite a number of sports while growing up. I work with Drew’s dad - my brother-in-law Bill.
member. Bill said he was certain some parents who didn’t know Drew were quite impressed.
Thankfully, Bill is cool with Drew’s lack of game. Bill isn’t trying to make Drew anything that Drew is not.
talking trash with the other player,” Bill said.
In fact, it’s Drew that has
“Of course, what Drew was really saying
been eager to join sports.
to the other player was “do you like
Right now, Drew is in the
Legos too?”
middle of basketball
The world needs kids like Drew.
season. Seeing that
Those boys and girls who despite
he has yet to score
being uncoordinated still show
a basket, Drew has
up to every practice and
been asking his
game and do their best.
dad for help on his
They remind us that it’s not
skills. And, luckily
about winning and losing
for my column, Bill has been providing me with the post-mortem, the play-by-play of sorts, for Drew’s regular Monday night practices and Wednesday
suburban parent
games - it’s about measuring success by perseverance and having fun. I know Drew will grow up to be brilliant in some way, and though ESPN will never cover it, I for one will wish I had a bubblegum card with Drew’s picture on it. SP
night games.
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“I’m sure they thought Drew was a tough kid
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