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AVOIDING FLAT HEAD SYNDROME

PSYCHOLOGY OF SUMMER CAMP KINDNESS IS THE KEY!

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MARY SHARES MINDING OUR HEARTS

here are a lot of “firsts” us parents have with our children throughout their lives. This month is about first dental checkup and first summer camp! I can tell you it was hard the first time I sent my son to a day camp along with his cousin. A bus picked them up at a local church. My sister and I followed the bus, just to be sure! Next, my daughter wanted to go to an away camp (4 hours away) in third grade with her best friend. My husband and I stayed in that town the whole week, just in case! So you see, “firsts” may be uncomfortable for us parents, but the benefits are long lasting. Learn the benefits from our Camp articles this month and every month through July. You will be inspired to find the perfect camp. That first dental check-up is important too. February is Dental Awareness month for Children. We share with you in our article, “The Tooth about your Kids Dental Health,” tips and first visit recommendations to inspire you to consider that first visit. Of course Valentine’s Day is celebrated this month, and we celebrate with the ones we love. For our kids and teenagers, it may be hard to see beyond the glitter of cards and boxes of chocolate to the real meaning of love; so be certain to talk about the godly perspective of true love. It’s more than a feeling! We need to consider that the most important thing to God is that we love each other. Love is not a theory or a gooey feeling; it’s about how you treat people. In 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, love is defined by what it does or does not do. We read that “love endures long and is patient and kind; love is never envious nor boils over with jealousy, is not boastful…. It is not conceited (arrogant and inflated with pride); it is not rude (unmannerly); it is not quick tempered and does not act unbecomingly. This is a tall but manageable order. Here are some tips to help your family show true love. *Serve other people before yourself. This mere act of putting someone else first says you view their needs above your own; *Meet a need of someone without them knowing it was you. It’s hard to do for others without getting the acknowledgement, but try and see! *Is there something you want? Well, give that “want” to someone who has a “need” for it. Sometimes we have more than we need; bless someone else! *Commit to holding your tongue the next time someone is gossiping, and instead, say something good about that person; be bold, you could change someone for the better. At the close of this letter, know that I may not know you (whoever reads this note) but I can tell you that I see God’s love reflected in the faces of our communities by the way we come together. I so enjoy meeting our readers and advertisers at expos or from an email that is sent my way and of course through the beautiful images of your children that grace my mailbox daily. Keep a look out in this issue for upcoming Expos that we will be sponsoring. We would love to meet you! SP

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Maybrie, 2 years Meet Maybrie. She loves to shop, watch princess movies and play with her big sis, Madds (6). She also has fun with her two dogs Heidi and Henry. If given the choice, she’ll choose pizza for dinner and she has plans to be a super model when she grows up. Go for it Maybrie!

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YOU SHOULD KNOW TEEN LOVE! It’s so important to be playful with our teens. When life is becoming more serious for them, our interactions have a tendency towards being more serious too. So make every effort to keep an element of play going. This is a great way to stay physically in touch too. They may shy away from cuddles, but are comfortable with a tussle!

TWO MINUTE RULE

CLEAN, HEALTHY

CONSIDER CAMP Do you remember the first time you tried something new and succeeded? Well, summer campers are given the chance to try sports and activities they never imagined they could do. And further, peers and counselors champion them through these experiences, giving campers a sense of accomplishment and value! It’s amazing how a skilled, caring, camp counselor can nudge a child outside their comfort zone and encourage a new experience. And the absolute best part is at pick-up! Oh, the excited conversations in the car are amazing!

teeth come from brushing longer, not harder. Children (and adults too) should brush their teeth for two minutes at least twice a day (after breakfast and before bedtime). Singing a favorite song or using a toothbrush that plays a melody can encourage brushing for the full two minutes. Be sure to use a toothbrush with soft bristles.

KINDNESS IS KEY It’s Valentine’s Day. With love in the air, we ask, “Why do some relationships last and some don’t?” Scientific evidence says it comes down to kindness. Kindness in the way partners interact with each other. And the evidence also shows that the more someone receives kindness, the more they will be kind themselves, which leads to upward spirals of love in a relationship. So be kind to your Valentine.

CLASSIC PLAY

PEEK-A-BOO! Not only is it great fun, playing peek-a-boo stimulates baby’s senses, builds gross motor skills, strengthens visual tracking and encourages social development. Plus it teaches object permanence, the understanding that objects still exist even when they can’t be seen. Object permanence develops between 6-12 months, but babies of all ages love playing peek-a-boo. It’s also a great game for older siblings to play with babies as they share a connection laughing together. Other classic interactive games include “this little piggy”, “pop goes the weasel” or “clap hands.”

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QUESTIONS { + PROFESSIONAL ANSWERS }

MARIA, MOM OF 3 Q. What is the most important vitamin that I should be taking to stay healthy?

J A N N E T T E F R O M DA L L A S Q. Is IBS a serious illness?

A. There are about 12 vitamins and 15 min-

affects about 20 percent of Americans; however remains a mystery! Exactly what causes IBS symptoms can’t be definitively identified by members of the medical field. Symptoms vary with each person. For some, IBS symptoms are mild and manageable. These usually do not interfere with daily lifestyles. For others, IBS may severely reduce their quality of life. Determining what the triggers are for symptoms is key. Certain foods stimulate the GI tract, and for those with IBS eating too much of these (foods) might worsen symptoms. Also, stress can be a trigger for IBS symptoms. If you are suffering from symptoms often it’s best to get some guidance on starting an elimination diet. Your registered dietitian can help you identify foods that are a problem for you.

erals that are essential to optimal health, so picking just one as the most healthy is difficult! The good news is you can get adequate vitamins and minerals from your daily food choices. Whole grains for B vitamins, fruits and veggies for anti-oxidants and dairy for calcium, magnesium, potassium and protein. Taking a multi-vitamin daily or every other day is fine. Consider though that Vitamin D it is not found in adequate amounts in most multi-vitamins, so supplementing with around 1000IU daily is a good idea. Ask your doctor to test your vitamin D level at your next check up. Not sure - ask your Registered Dietitian! CAROL IRETON-JONES, PHD, RDN, LD Good Nutrition for Good Living

A. Irritable Bowel Syndrome is a disorder that

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A. Students who are above grade level often need additional challenges to ensure they reach peak academic performance. Work with his/her teacher to create a more challenging curriculum through online tutoring services or specialized apps like Tynker, that teach computer programming. You can also use these types of personalized learning services at home and even on vacation. Students who are engaged in their learning and aren’t held back will grow in confidence academically and emotionally. You may even find you have a student who will then take time to help her classmates when they have difficulty with material that he/ she’s already mastered. SYLVIA KINCER Leader, Gifted and Talented Online Tutoring

Q. I am due to deliver twins in 2 months. I am concerned about flat head developing. Are there ways of avoiding this? I would like advice on how to position my children to avoid flat head. A. Great question! Multiples are at higher risk for plagiocephaly (flat head syndrome) so it is terrific that

you are planning ahead. Here are a few tips to help keep your babies’ heads round. *Be mindful of time spent in containers like swings, bouncy seats, boppy pillows and Rock n Play sleepers, especially for the first few months. They should not be in these devices more than 3 hours a day, total, so vary their positions regularly and remember, back sleeping on a flat surface is best! *Watch the shapes of their heads daily (looking from the top is easiest). Flattening happens very quickly (first two months.) Be proactive when you see a change and talk to your pediatrician right away to get a therapy referral. Specific repositioning strategies can correct a misshapen skull if done early on.

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SASHA, MOM OF 2 Q. My child is well above her grade level in Math and is starting to get bored and act out in class. What should I do?

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LET’S SWADDLE

1 These soft, comfy and versatile blankets are a generous size for swaddling, but they can also be used as a play mat or to cover a stroller. Created by an Australian born mom who, when transplanted to the US, couldn’t find muslin swaddles for her newborn. Now moms all over the world appreciate them! We really love the jungle jam swaddles. www.adenandanais.com $49.95

A BRUSH WITH DARTH VADER

2 Little Jedi everywhere who were eagerly anticipating the release of Stars Wars Episode VII can now indulge in a little good clean Star Wars fun! Dr. Fresh has just introduced the new Firefly Star Wars Ready Go Brush. The toothbrush lights up green, yellow, and red like a traffic light, turning the bathroom into a galaxy of good hygiene. Your choice of Darth Vader or Yoda, $3.99 at your local drugstore or supermarket.

LITTLE BOX OF LOVE

3 Like poetry? Then you’re going to love Magnetic Poetry®. Each little box holds a collection of 72 loving, encouraging or happy word magnets perfect for a fridge or other steel surface. They’ll bring out your inner poet and inspire those around you too. www.fatbraintoys.com $6.00

CELEBRATORY BEVERAGE!

4 Pregnant and nursing women can raise a glass of bubbly and celebrate Valentine’s Day with a fizzy treat thanks to a new beverage called 9Months! This sparkling non-alcoholic beverage is made from grapes grown in southern Australia and undergoes a unique process that prevents fermentation while preserving the fresh natural grape goodness. 100 percent natural with no added sugar, no artificial coloring or flavoring, and gluten free. Pop the cork and know you are doing something good - a portion of proceeds goes directly to the March of Dimes. www.9monthslove.com $16.50

STINK-FREE TIP!

5 There are great uses for dryer sheets that don’t involve the dryer! Here’s a favorite of moms with smelly kid sneakers at home. Put a sheet into each stinky shoe and leave it overnight to minimize shoe odors in the morning. Also try putting a sheet in suitcases and sleeping bags before storing to keep them smelling fresh too. And put one in your new empty vacuum cleaner bag before vacuuming for a fresh scent all over the house.

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Self-Determination at

camp BY HEIDI SMITH LUEDTKE, PHD

arents spend a lot of time trying to motivate kids. We use chore charts, checklists, reminders and rewards to get them to feed the dog, clean their rooms, and complete schoolwork. But these techniques don’t change behavior long-term. Real motivation must come from within.

The Psychology of Summer Camp

Time at camp may be all it takes to spark a little self-determination in your kid. I know it sounds too good to be true. Your school-age slacker – the one who expects you to find his homework and pack his lunch – might start doing some things for himself. And your oftenbored tween might come home with more pep in her step. Psychologists use self-determination theory (SDT) to explain why some experiences make us feel engaged and excited while others drain and deplete us. The premise is simple: when an activity meets our needs for autonomy, competence, and relatedness, we are energized and empowered. Kids’ basic needs are no different from adults’. Kids want to do things for themselves. They crave a sense of accomplishment and routinely seek feedback. (“Look what I made, Mom!”) And kids thrive on connections with loved ones and peers. Feelings of belonging will boost their self-worth. Summer camp

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offers loads of opportunities to meet all these needs. And that should make kids (and the parents who love them) very happy campers indeed.

Autonomy

The need for autonomy is satisfied when kids control their own lives. At camp, your son will have endless opportunities to care for himself. Staff won’t select his clothes, organize the contents of locker, or remind him to put on deodorant. No one will delay dessert until he eats his veggies. Independence is what camp is all about. Don’t worry. The world won’t stop if your son wears the same shirt three days in a row. His peers will speak up if he gets super stinky. During the school year, many kids jump from one regularly scheduled activity to the next with no unstructured time in between. Camp puts kids in charge of their own activities. Maybe your daughter will take a hike. Maybe she’ll paint pottery. Maybe she’ll write you an email. It’s up to her to decide how she’ll spend her free time. One thing is certain: she won’t sit around whining about having nothing to do. And if she does, you won’t be there to hear it.

Competence

The need for competence is satisfied when kids learn new things and get positive feedback about their efforts. Your kid might choose a camp focused on art, science, sports, or music. Or he may opt for a good old-fashioned sleep-away experience, complete with row boats and weenie roasts. Some camp activities may be outside your kid’s comfort zone. Stretching is good. Your child may be unsure she can cross the slippery log over the creek. She may tremble with excitement about her role in the theater production. Peers and counselors will coax her along and give constructive advice. By the end of camp, she’ll be the star of her own adventure stories. If your kid is an experienced camper, encourage him to share what he knows with newbies. Being an ambassador or mentor affirms kids’ competence in a big way. Teaching a peer how to trim a sail or chip a golf ball out of the tall grass will take your son’s skills to a higher level. His confidence will soar in response.

Relatedness

Your biggest concerns about summer camp may center on the social scene. Your child may not know anyone on arrival. That’s okay. Camps create connections in many ways. Your kid will be instantly bonded with bunkmates because they share a home base. Familystyle dining and friendly competitions encourage interaction. The pursuit of shared goals – like building a robot or putting a frog in the counselor’s sleeping bag – cements kids’ camaraderie. Extroverted kids may make lots of friends at camp. Less sociable souls may not. What matters most is that kids have opportunities to talk, play and live with a diverse group of peers. They won’t all become fast friends. Learning to navigate the choppy waters of friendship formation is a big part of the camp experience. Your kid’s social skillset will expand – even if she doesn’t find a new BFF. No matter what your kid takes to camp, he’ll come home with a suitcase full of memories and a renewed sense of self-determination. You’ll see it as soon as he wakes from his long post-camp nap! SP

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PECAN CREEK DAY SCHOOL 972-463-1661 www.pecancreekkids.com See ad on p. 11

R.I.S.E. (Rockwall Indoor Sports Expo) 972-772-9061 www.riserockwall.com See ad on p. 21

469-834-8450 www.texaspremieryouthsports.com See ad on p. 19

UTD CHESS CAMP 972-883-4899 www.utdallas.edu/chess See ad on p. 21

YOUTH ADVENTURE PROGRAM www.yap.tamu.edu See ad on p. 11

SAFESPLASH SWIM SCHOOL 214-930-4112 www.safesplash.com See ad on p. 15

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MOMENTS { BY PATRICK HEMPFING }

TAILS OF LOVE

M “

attie, will you be my Valentine?” On February 1, I’ll pose

in the chair next to Jessie’s. The

this question to my wife of almost 30 years. She’ll be

little guy did pretty well until the

noncommittal. Over the 14 days that follow, I’ll continue to

hairdresser broke out her noisy

romance Mattie with poems, small gifts, and various acts of

shaver, which resulted in a few

service in an effort to convince her that I’m the Valentine for her. Finally,

tears. My eyes moved back and

late in the evening on Valentine’s Day, Mattie will say “Yes, I’ll be your

forth between the two young customers.

Valentine this year.”

The one received a slight trim, while the

We started playing this game before we were married. It’s not easy to come up with fresh rhymes 14 times each February, even for a writer.

My mind wandered back to the scene

A wiser man would have quit years ago. I thought things would get

in our kitchen years ago, when Mattie

easier when my ten-year-old daughter, Jessie, was younger. She joined

gave Jessie her first haircut. At the time, I

in the efforts to convince her mom to select me. Unfortunately, my

highly questioned her decision to do it herself,

proponent turned into my opponent during the last few years, as Jessie

as I remembered Mattie’s only haircutting

started lobbying for Mattie to choose her. Could Valentine’s Day get any

experience, the “trim” she gave our first dog.

more challenging? Surprisingly, yes.

The long strands on the Sheltie’s hindquarters

Jessie is now also campaigning on behalf of our dog, Sadie, who

touched the ground and dragged leaves into

joined in the competition to be Mattie’s Valentine. Jessie sends emails

the house. That didn’t happen after Mattie made some lopsided cuts

and hand-written notes, some stamped with an inked dog paw, and

and then had to even them out. The remaining fur barely covered the

often with drawings or cut-out hearts, signed by the dog. One example

poor dog’s behind. Thank goodness dogs can’t talk … oh that’s right,

read, “Dear Woofy Mom, I love you! Be my Woofitine.” How can I

mine is competing to be my wife’s Valentine. The hairdresser cut off Jessie’s two ponytails and carefully placed

compete with dog love? Recently, though, I witnessed a

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or removing ink from a dog’s paw. The love came from Jessie’s head

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as she had nine inches of hair cut off and donated it to an organization

that makes wigs for women fighting cancer. Of course, I had my camera

them in a plastic bag, then posed with our pretty, short-haired girl for some pictures. At home, we addressed a padded envelope and slid in the bag containing Jessie’s hair, along with her name and address. Many times, I’ve left the post office feeling happy that in a few days, a card, letter, or photo I had mailed would make someone’s day. I won’t soon forget the feeling I had when I mailed my daughter’s hair. Love can be expressed in many ways. I’m confident that in the days ahead, I’ll overcome my daughter’s

and camcorder to capture Jessie’s haircut. Mattie pulled away from

rivalry, as well as my dog’s, and win Mattie’s heart for another

work. Even Jessie’s grandmother, who happened to be in town, came to

Valentine’s Day. And when I hug my Valentine this year, I’ll think about

watch. The beauty salon should have sold tickets.

other husbands who are thankful they can hug their wives, regardless of

As the hairdresser formed two tight ponytails to prepare Jessie’s hair for the scissors, I observed a mother holding her one-year-old son

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other lost a lot of hair.

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how much hair either spouse has. Until next month, remember to cherish the moments.

Patrick Hempfing had a 20-year professional career in banking, accounting, and auditing before he became a father at age 44. He is now a full-time husband, stay-at-home dad and writer. www.facebook.com/patricklhempfing

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The T th ABOUT YOUR KIDS DENTAL HEALTH

ood dental habits begin early on, and by caring for your baby’s mouth and teeth from the get go, you will help your children develop good dental habits.

• Even before a baby cuts her first tooth, parents should be wiping the gums clean with a bit of moistened gauze wrapped around your finger or you can use a moistened baby washcloth. When a tooth erupts, continue this wiping method after meals and before bed. • It is recommended that you begin brushing your child’s teeth as soon as they break through the gum with a soft infant toothbrush and water. Unless it is advised by your child’s pediatric dentist, do not use fluoridated toothpaste until age 2-3. • Gentle flossing should begin when two adjacent teeth touch. You are just disrupting the bacterial flora between the teeth. By about kindergarten or first grade, you can start to teach kids how to floss on their own. • Avoid putting anything other than water in baby’s bed-time bottle to prevent baby-bottle tooth decay. • Encourage your child to drink from a cup as they approach their first birthday. • Drinking juice from a bottle should be avoided, juice should only be offered in a cup. • Dental sealants are an excellent way to prevent tooth decay in children. This procedure takes only minutes, is painless, is less than half the cost of a filling and is effective at stopping decay. Discuss this with your dentist. • Children involved in sports need proper mouth protection. Ask your child’s dentist about customized mouth guards. • If a permanent tooth gets knocked out follow these procedures: Gently rinse (not scrub) the tooth off and place it in a cup of warm milk (salt water is the second best choice; plain water, the third best), call the dentist and bring the child and the soaking tooth in immediately. SP

FIRST DENTAL VISIT SHOULD BE WITHIN A FEW MONTHS OF THE FIRST BABY TOOTH ERUPTING OR BY THE AGE OF ONE AT THE LATEST.

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SWALLOWING FLUORIDATED TOOTHPASTE AT A YOUNG AGE CAN LEAD TO FLUOROSIS (DISCOLORATION) OF YOUR CHILD’S PERMANENT TEETH.

DID YOU KNOW... A PEDIATRIC DENTIST HAS A MINIMUM OF 2-3 YEARS MORE EDUCATION IN ORDER TO WORK WITH CHILDREN?

KNOW IT ALL { YOUR COMMUNITY CALENDAR }

FEBRUARY 2015 SUN 1 SKIPPYJON JONES AT THE DALLAS CHILDREN’S THEATER Through Feb. 22. Be among the first audiences to enjoy this brand new musical adaptation of Judy Schachner’s beloved book! Skippyjon Jones is a rambunctious Siamese kitten with big ears and an even bigger imagination. When his loving but exasperated mother puts Skippyjon in time-out, he starts to daydream. His imagination takes him far, far away to Mexico, where he pretends that he is a swashbuckling Chihuahua named Skippito Friskito. This silly, sweet tale celebrates the power of imagination. As Skippyjon would say... mucho fun! Visit website for show times/dates and to purchase tickets. Enjoyed by ages 4 and up Dallas Children’s Theater, 5938 Skillman, Dallas, 214-740-0051. dct.org.

ARTISTS ROUND TEXAS MEMBERSHIP SHOW Through Feb. 28. 10am-4pm. Join Artists Round Texas for their membership show in the Gallery Space of the Granville Arts Center. The exhibit will feature a variety of media, including photography, which makes this show a must see for an overview of different creative visions. Artists Round Texas have a variety of talented artists in their art organization. From small, detailed pen and ink, to large multi-media paintings using oils and/or acrylics, along with accomplished sculptors and ceramic artists, the club has a variety of art to display. For more information contact Laurieann Dygowski at 972-4751836. Viewing hours are Monday through Friday, 10am – 4pm and during all night and weekend performances. Admission is free. The Granville Arts Center, 300 N. 5th Street, Garland, 972-205-2790.

ODYSSEO Through Feb. 8. Odysseo, Cavalia’s new production will gallop into Dallas. The internationally acclaimed Cavalia pushes the limits of live entertainment once again with its second production: a multidimensional extravaganza that is wowing critics and audiences alike across North America. With its latest creation, Cavalia marries the equestrian arts, stage arts and high-tech

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theatrical effects at never-before-seen levels. A veritable revolution in live performance that will send hearts racing. Visit website for performance times and ticket information. Tickets start at $29.50. Dr. Pepper Ballpark, 7300 Rough Riders Trail, Frisco, cavalia.net/en.

10am. Tutoring for High Beginners will be offered on Mondays at 6pm and Wednesdays at 1pm*. *Weekly 1pm classes will be at City Hall in Conference Room B. Rowlett Public Library, 3900 Main Street, Rowlett, 972-4126161, www.ci.rowlett.tx.us/CurrentEvents. aspx?EID=6087.

MARVEL UNIVERSE LIVE

PAJAMA STORY TIME AT THE SACHSE PUBLIC LIBRARY

Jan. 30-Feb. 1. Marvel Universe LIVE! is taking the live entertainment experience to a whole new level, with a mind-blowing show unlike anything you’ve seen before. Watch your favorite Marvel Super Heroes including Spider-Man, The Avengers-Iron Man, Hulk, and more, and threatening villains come to life in an action-packed arena extravaganza, coming to cities around North America. You’ll definitely feel the energy with cutting-edge special effects, pyrotechnics, aerial stunts, martial arts, motorcycles and more. Show times: Friday: 7:30pm; Saturday: 11am, 3pm, 7pm; Sunday: 11am, 3pm. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, www.americanairlinescenter.com.

7-8pm. Bring the whole family to the library on the first Tuesday of each month! Moms, Dads, Grandparents, Aunts, Uncles, Cousins, Brothers, Sisters, and (of course) KIDS are all invited to our special evening story time. It’s a great opportunity to get the whole family together to hear stories, sing songs and do other fun activities. It’s even more fun if you wear your pajamas! Sachse Public Library, 3815-C Sachse Rd, Sachse, 972-530-8966.

WED 4 “PEANUTS…NATURALLY”

7:30pm. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Ave, Dallas, www.mavs.com

Runs through Apr. 22. How many suns? Is the Earth flat? Charles Schulz touched on many aspects of the natural world during the nearly 50 years he created the Peanuts comic strip (October 1950 to February 2000). During the 1950s and 1960s, Schulz’s characters explored aspects of the natural world with wonder and delight, and their cockamamie understanding of the world around them afforded many opportunities to introduce readers of the strip to fun facts about the natural world. Visit website for gallery hours. Admission is free. Grapevine Tower Gallery, 636 S. Main Street, Grapevine, 800-457-6338, www.grapevinetexasusa.com/includes/calendar-of-events/-Peanuts-Naturally-/19155/

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ESL CLASSES-ROWLETT PUBLIC LIBRARY

MESQUITE PUBLIC LIBRARY BOOK CLUB

Free ESL classes are being offered by the Rowlett Public Library. Please read below for specific dates, times and locations: Tutoring will be offered for beginners on Mondays and Tuesdays at 1pm* and Saturdays at

7-8pm. Each Month the Club will read a different book and then meet to discuss it. Mesquite Main Library, 300 W. Grubb Dr., Mesquite, 972-216-6220 www.cityofmesquite.com.

PENGUIN DAYS AT THE DALLAS ZOO Through Feb. 28. 9am-4pm. Admission is just $5/person & parking is $8. A great way for guests to experience the Dallas Zoo during the winter months. Dallas Zoo, 650 South R.L. Thornton Freeway (I-35E), Dallas, 469-554-7500, www.dallaszoo.com

MON 2 DALLAS MAVERICKS VS. TIMBERWOLVES

FIRST THURSDAY LATE NIGHT: PANDEMICS 7-9pm. Our world is a petri-dish for disease and pandemics. Explore these rare and deadly diseases, learn how to protect yourself from everyday colds, find out which pandemic is the deadliest and hear all about infectious diseases from Dr. Jeffrey Kahn, Professor of Pediatrics and Microbiology, and the Director of Infectious Diseases at UT Southwestern. All you need to get in on the fun is the cost of general admission, so purchase your tickets online early. Your exhibit hall ticket on the date of First Thursday Late Night gives you FREE access to our special programming that evening. The Perot Museum will stay open from 10am-9pm first Thursdays. Come early and stay late! Perot Museum of Nature and Science, 2201 N. Field Street, Dallas, 214428-5555, www.perotmuseum.org.

DALLAS STARS VS. LIGHTNING 7:30. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, stars.nhl.com.

FRI 6 MESQUITE DADDY DAUGHTER DANCE 6-10:30pm. Mesquite Parks and Recreation will host the Daddy Daughter Dance for fathers and their daughters between the ages of 4-12 years. Activities include music, dancing, door prizes and light refreshments. There will be a coat check service available for no extra charge. Flowers and professional portraits by will be available for purchase. Session 1: (Ages 4-8) 6-8 p.m.; Session 2: (Ages 9-12) 8:30-10:30. $15 per person, per session in advance. $20 per person, per session at the door. For more information, please contact Mesquite Parks and Recreation at 972-216-6260. Mesquite Convention Center, 1750 Rodeo Drive, Mesquite, 972-216-6260.

PAJAMA STORY TIME AT THE ROWLETT PUBLIC LIBRARY 7pm. Wind down the day with a blankie, pillow, lullaby and bedtime story. Rowlett Public Library, 3900 Main St., Rowlett, 972.412-6161, www.rowlett.com/library.

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KNOW IT ALL HCA EAGLE THEATER PRESENTS: SHREK THE MUSICAL Friday and Saturday. Sit back and relax as you enjoy the sights and sounds of the world of Shrek presented by HCA’s secondary drama students. There will be three performances spanning two days. Showtimes are Feb. 6 at 7pm, and Feb. 7 at 2:30pm and 7pm. Tickets are $10 and may be purchased at the door or in advanced at the HCA school office. HCA Eagle Theater is also proud to announce dinner and a show! If you choose, an optional dinner will be served at the two evening performances for an additional $10. The dinner will begin prior to the shows at 6pm. So what are you waiting for; come out and watch this amazing show! Heritage Christian Academy, 1408 S. Goliad St., Rockwall, 972-772-3003.

THE 6TH ANNUAL COLLIN COUNTY HOME & GARDEN SHOW Feb. 6-8. Homeowners unite as over 250 exhibitors take over Allen Event Center and fill the venue with incredible displays spotlighting the latest products and trends in remodeling, gardening, outdoor living, kitchens, and interior design. Celebrity expert Brian Santos, “The Wall Wizard” is appearing and teaching expert painting tips and tricks for any home project. Celebrity expert Brian Santos, “The Wall Wizard” is appearing and teaching expert painting tips and tricks for any home project. The family-friendly event also includes gourmet food trucks, pet adoptions, handmade crafts, and giveaways. Show Hours: Friday, February 6, 2pm-7pm; Saturday, February 7, 10am-7pm; Sunday, February 8, 11am-5pm. Allen Event Center, 200 East Stacy Road, Allen, 818-324-4533 www.allenhomeandgardenshow.com.

SAT 7 FABULOUS FATHERS PRIEST TALENT SHOW BENEFITTING REGINA CAELI ACADEMY Enjoy performances from local priests, dinner, show, raffle, live & silent auctions. Emcee is Dave Palmer. 5pm. Museum of Biblical Art in Dallas. Purchase tickets at www.rcahybrid.org.

CERT CLASSES IN ROWLETT 8am-6pm. The Rowlett area CERT (Community Emergency Response Team) team is actively recruiting residents to be trained in the CERT program, which includes Disaster Medical Operations, Light Search and Rescue and Fire Suppression following FEMA guidelines. The Rowlett Citizen Corps Council sponsors this two-day class, which is open to the public. During a natural or man-made disaster, CERT teams assist Fire and Police in doing damage assessment, accounting for residents and securing quick, accessible routes into neighbor-

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hoods. Rowlett CERT is also an essential component of large City events, providing access and traffic control, fire watch, courtesy patrols, communications and information technology services, first aid stations, public information and education. A course fee of $20 covers disposable materials used in the class. For more information or to register for the class, visit www.RowlettCERT.com or email CERT@rowlettcitizencorps.org City of Rowlett, Rowlett, www.rowlettCERT.com.

MOVIE & POPCORN AT THE LIBRARY 2-4pm. Come to the library and enjoy a movie and popcorn! February’s movie is “Hook”. Rowlett Public Library, 3900 Main St., Rowlett, 972-412-6161.

SWEETHEART DANCE IN GARLAND 5:30-9:30pm. Garland Parks and Recreation and Garland Power and Light are proud to bring you the 18th Annual Sweetheart Dance. We cordially invite you to attend a Masquerade Dance. Dads, grandads, and uncles, experience a magical evening with your special little one. The evening includes dinner, dancing, a 5x7 photo and each little girl will receive a special gift. Register online or at any Garland recreation center. Each person in attendance must have a ticket. Ages 3-7 take the dance floor from 5-7 p.m. and Ages 8-15 take the floor from 7:30-9:30 p.m. Tickets are $14 per person. The Atrium, 300 N 5th St, Garland, 972-205-2790, garlandparks.com.

HOT CHOCOLATE 15/5K 7:30am. Hot Chocolate is headed back to Dallas! Enjoy an unforgettable run through Fair Park and reward yourself with piles of rich, melty chocolate - you’ve earned it. Fair Park Dallas, 1300 Robert B. Cullum Boulevard, Dallas, www.hotchocolate15k. com/dallas.

DALLAS MAVERICKS VS. PORTLAND TRAIL BLAZERS 7:30pm. African American Heritage Night. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, www.mavs.com.

SUN 8 DALLAS OPERA FAMILY CONCERT: MOZART AND COMPANY 2-4pm. The Dallas Opera’s Family Concert is a parade of opera’s greatest hits! Opera fans of all ages will hear a variety of types of arias and overtures. You may recognize many of them!The Family Concert features the Dallas Opera Orchestra. Be sure to come early to enjoy family activities in the lobby beginning at 12:30pm. Winspear Opera House, 2403 Flora Street, Dallas, 214-443-1043, www.dallasopera.org/family.

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VALENTINE’S DAY CRAFT AT THE LIBRARY

DALLAS MAVERICKS VS. LOS ANGELES CLIPPERS

4-5pm. Celebrate Valentine’s Day by making a craft. Mesquite Main Library, 300 W. Grubb Drive, Mesquite.

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DALLAS STARS VS. PANTHERS 7:30pm. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, stars.nhl.com.

DALLAS MAVERICKS VS. UTAH JAZZ

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7:30pm. Bobblehead: Monta Ellis (First 5K). American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, www.mavs.com.

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THU 12 LA LECHE LEAGUE OF GARLAND 10am. Diana 972-202-7644 Se Habla Espanol; Hannah 972-414-0527; Alison alisonegrady@yahoo.com. Peace Lutheran Church, 2929 S. First St, Garland, www.texaslll.org.

TEXAS HOMESCHOOL CONVENTION Feb. 12-14. Make plans now to join 1000s of homeschoolers at the TEXAS Homeschool Convention at the Fort Worth Convention Center. Shop 100s of Exhibitor booths, meet many of the authors behind the curriculum, and receive Special Convention Pricing from many of your favorite Exhibitors! Visit our website to register for this event, see a list of speakers, and for event hours. Fort Worth Convention Center, 130 E. Exchange Ave., Fort Worth, 513-748-6998, www.greathomeschoolconventions.com/texas-homeschool-convention-fort-worth-texas.

“A MIDSUMMER NIGHT’S DREAM” BY CORP Feb. 12-15. “A Midsummer Night’s Dream,” William Shakespeare’s most popular comedy, was written around 1594 or 95. It portrays the adventures of four young lovers and a group of amateur actors, their interactions with woodland fairies and a duke and duchess. This work is widely performed around the world, and no wonder – it’s about the world’s most popular pastime, falling in love. But as Puck knows, falling in love can make fools of us all. Visit website for specific showtimes/dates and tickets. The Plaza Theatre, 521 W. State Street, Garland, 972-205-2790, corptheatre.org.

FRI 13 MESQUITE COMMUNITY THEATER: LIGHT UP THE SKY A comedy about Broadway! Check website for showtimes/dates and to purchase tickets. Mesquite Arts Center, 1527 N. Galloway Ave., Mesquite, 972-216-6444 www.mesquitecommunitytheater.com

8am-6pm. The Rowlett area CERT (Community Emergency Response Team) team is actively recruiting residents to be trained in the CERT program, which includes Disaster Medical Operations, Light Search and Rescue and Fire Suppression following FEMA guidelines. The Rowlett Citizen Corps Council sponsors this two-day class, which is open to the public. The Rowlett CERT program is well established and integrated into the City of Rowlett’s Emergency Plan. It serves an essential role in disaster preparedness and emergency response in the Rowlett area. During a natural or man-made disaster, CERT teams assist Fire and Police in doing damage assessment, accounting for residents and securing quick, accessible routes into neighborhoods. A course fee of $20 covers disposable materials used in the class. For more information email CERT@rowlettcitizencorps.org. City of Rowlett,, Rowlett, www.rowlettCERT.com.

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SATURDAY CRAFTS AT THE LIBRARY! 2-4pm. Families are invited to join us on the second Saturday of the month in the Meeting Room of the Rowlett Public Library. Make crafts, then browse the library for a great selection of books and more! Free and open to all ages. Rowlett Public Library, 3900 Main Street, Rowlett, 972-412-6161.

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7:30. Star Wars night. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, www. mavs.com.

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SUN 15 PRINCESS & PAPA WONDERLAND BALL DADDY DAUGHTER DANCE 5-9pm. A Daddy Daughter Dance LIKE NO OTHER! Dinner, Dessert, Dancing with Professional DJ David Allen, Photo Shoot, Photo Booth, Artists, Dinner Show, Contests, Games, Prizes, Party Favors and M-O-R-E!!! Email: linda@princessagirls.com. Hilton Dallas/Lakeside, 2055 Summer Lee Dr., Rockwall, 972-475-5754, www.princessandpapawonderlandball.com.

TUE 17 SACHSE-WYLIE AUTHORS GROUP (SWAG) MONTHLY MEETING 6:30-8pm. Join a motivated group of both experienced and new writers meeting to share ideas and learn from other writers! If you love to write, please attend. Whether your interest is fiction, non-fiction, articles, short stories…you are invited to attend and see if you would like to participate. SWAG meets at the Sachse Public Library on the 3rd Tuesday of every month. Ruth Glover (author, career coach and volunteer) facilitates the meetings. She writes career articles and has published MORE than a Paycheck: Inspiration and Tools for Career Change. She is eager to bring together people with similar interests to spark inspiration and creativity for writing. Sachse Public Library, 3815-C Sachse Rd, Sachse, 972-530-8966.

WED 18 7pm. The Rock & Worship Roadshow 2015 is coming to Dallas. Make plans now to come out to Christian music’s most entertaining tour for the whole family! Visit website to purchase tickets. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, www.americanairlinescenter.com.

THU 19 FRIENDS OF THE NICHOLSON LIBRARY MONTHLY MEETING 6-7pm. The Friends of the Library Board meets every third Thursday of the month at the Central Library. Anyone interested in the activities of the Friends is welcome to attend. For more information visit the Friends of the Library page call 972-205-2543. Friends of the Nicholson Memorial Library is a community organization supporting and promoting the Library. The Friends sponsors activities to raise funds for the purchase of library materials and equipment, and underwrites programming to benefit all library users. Garland Central Library, 625 Austin St., Garland, www.nmls.lib.tx.us.

DALLAS STARS VS. SHARKS 7:30pm. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, stars.nhl.com.

FRI 20 PAJAMA STORY TIME AT THE ROWLETT PUBLIC LIBRARY 7pm. Wind down the day with a blankie, pillow, lullaby and bedtime story. Rowlett Public Library, 3900 Main St., Rowlett, 972.412-6161, www.rowlett.com/library.

TEEN BRAIN! A NEW MUSICAL

10am-6pm. Can’t get down to the “BIG EASY” for Mardi Gras? We will bring it to you! Come out and enjoy great food, great fun and great festivities. Featuring “NAWLINS” favorites: Beignets, Gumbo, Jambalaya, Shrimp Po-Boys, Beverages AND a chance to get the “Baby” in a slice of the Mardi Gras KING CAKE! If interested in presenting a float in the parade, please contact Tammie Dennis at EVENTS “R” THE PASSION at

Runs Feb. 2-Mar. 1. Enjoyed by ages 12 and up. Not suitable for younger children. This energetic musical follows a day in the life of eight young people as they navigate the rough waters of high school. With fastpaced, witty dialogue and original songs like “Like Me, Like Me,” an ode to social media, and “When I Was Small,” a winsome reflection of the simplicity of childhood, DCT resident playwright Linda Daugherty and

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Exhibit Runs Feb. 14 - May 10. Elementary? Maybe for Sherlock Holmes, but how will you fare when you try to solve a captivating, original murder mystery in the tradition of the master detective? Come inside and find out! You’ll learn to use investigative tools and techniques from Holmes himself, and test yourself with exciting, interactive crime-solving opportunities. Hurry along! The game’s afoot! Perot Museum of Science and Nature, 2201 N. Field Street, Dallas, 214428-5555, www.perotmuseum.org.

(972) 679-2671 for application. Volunteers are needed Mardi Gras food and merchandise will be available for purchase. Remember to wear the Mardi Gras colors of purple, green and gold whenever you’re not in costume! “THROW ME SOME BEADS, MISTER”! “LAISSEZ LES BON TEMPS ROULEZ”!! (“LET THE GOOD TIMES ROLL”!) Dallas City Hall, 1500 Marilla, Dallas, 972-679-2671.

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composer Nick Martin capture the complexities of the modern adolescent experience. An honest, powerful look at the inner workings of the mysterious teenage brain. Believe in the Power of Choices! Check website for showtimes/dates and ticket information. Dallas Children’s Theater, 5938 Skillman St., Dallas, 214-740-0051, dct.org.

Bring Him Home to American Dream, this concert stirs the soul. Tickets start at $14. Eisemann Center, 2351 Performance Drive, Richardson, www.planosymphony.org

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4pm. Mostly unchanged since the 16th century, Evensong continues to be one of the most treasured liturgies of the Anglican tradition, especially as celebrated in cathedral churches. Evensong has become a cultural phenomenon in many parts of the country as a way to find inner peace through reflection and reintegration. When: Sunday, February 22, 4 p.m. Where: Cathedral Men of the Cathedral Camerata Music: Preces and Responses – Plainsong Psalm – Plainsong Magnificat and Nunc Dimittis in C minor – George Dyson Anthem: The Night is Come – Maurice Besly St. Matthew’s Episcopal Cathedral, 5100 Ross Avenue, Dallas, 214-887-6552.

FAMILY SATURDAY GAME DAY AT THE ROWLETT PUBLIC LIBRARY

DALLAS MAVERICKS VS. HORNETS

Runs Feb. 20-22. Relive childhood memories with scenes from the new golden age of Disney animation accompanied by the Dallas Symphony Orchestra. Featuring music from Frozen, Aladdin, The Lion King, Beauty and the Beast, The Little Mermaid and many more. Performance times are Friday & Saturday at 7:30pm and Sunday at 2:30pm. Morton H. Meyerson Symphony Center, 2301 Flora Street, Dallas, 214-6920203, www.mydso.com/disney.

10:30am-12:30pm. Get your game face on and come to the Rowlett Public Library to outsmart your opponents in a variety of board and video games. Games will vary and participants may choose what games to play; however, not every game will be available every Family Saturday Game Day. Rowlett Public Library, 3900 Main St., Rowlett, www.rowlett.com/library.

DALLAS STARS VS. RED WINGS 7pm. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, stars.nhl.com.

DO YOU HEAR THE PEOPLE SING 8pm. The performance celebrates the lives and music of two of the world’s most prolific writers of musical theatre with music from Les Miserables, Miss Saigon, Martin Guerre, The Pirate Queen, and Wuthering Heights. The performance also includes never-before-heard songs from these musicals and surprises! From I Dreamed a Dream and

SUN 22 CHORAL EVENSONG

6:30pm. Bobblehead: Chandler Parsons (first 5k). American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, www.mavs.com

TUE 24 RESUME CLASS 9-11am. The class includes what a resume is about, common mistakes and the first step in writing. Types of resumes, objectives, work history and education sections will be addressed. Students will learn the importance of highlighting your strengths and promoting positive information which will support your objective. REGISTRATION IS REQUIRED for all classes. Sign up in person at the Reference Desk or call the North Branch Library at 972-681-0465. Mesquite North Branch Library, 2600 Oates Drive, Mesquite.

FRIENDS OF THE SACHSE PUBLIC LIBRARY MONTHLY MEETING 7-8:30pm. The Friends of the Sachse Public Library is a group composed of people who

believe in the importance of books, reading, learning, and libraries for people of all ages. The Friends group sponsors events and programs designed to: Add to the cultural life of the community, Encourage gifts, endowments, and memorials, Provide direct financial assistance to the library. They meet on the fourth Tuesday of the month at 7pm at the Library to discuss upcoming programs and fundraisers and welcome the ideas of newcomers. We are a small, dedicated group who truly wants to grow its membership. Sachse Public Library, 3815-C Sachse Rd, Sachse, 972-530-8966.

DALLAS SUMMER MUSICALS: KINKY BOOTS Feb. 24-Mar. 8. KINKY BOOTS is the exhilarating Broadway musical that will lift your spirits to new high-heeled heights! Winner of six Tony Awards® including BEST MUSICAL, this inspirational story follows a struggling shoe factory owner who works to turn his business around with help from Lola, a fabulous entertainer in need of some sturdy stilettos. Together, this unlikely pair finds that they have more in common than they ever dreamed possible… proving that when you change your mind about someone, you can change your whole world. Come join the sold-out audiences who’ve discovered why – sometimes – the best way to fit in is to stand out! Content Warning: Suitable for audiences aged 12 and upwards. Run Time: Two hours and 25 minutes (including intermission). Please visit website for showtimes and to purchase tickets. Music Hall at Fair Park, 909 First Avenue at Parry, Dallas, 214691-7200, www.dallassummermusicals.org.

DALLAS MAVERICKS VS. RAPTORS 7:30. T-shirt night (first 10k). American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, www.mavs.com.

FRI 27 DALLAS STARS VS. AVALANCHE 7:30pm. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, stars.nhl.com.

SAT 28 DALLAS BLOOMS 2015: DEEP IN THE HEART OF TEXANS Runs Feb. 28-Apr. 12. Dallas Blooms at the Arboretum begins today. This is the largest floral festival in the Southwest and has been a tradition “Deep in the Hearts of Texans”

for 31 years. This year’s Texas-sized extravaganza will feature more than 500,000 blooming spring bulbs along with themed topiaries, entertainment, food and other activities celebrating the iconography of our state that is recognizable world-wide. Dallas Arboretum, 8525 Garland Road, Dallas, 214515-6500, dallasarboretum.org.

PROFESSIONAL BULL RIDERS BUILT FORD TOUGH SERIES 6pm. Every event begins with pyrotechnics, explosions, and flames. Then the excitement really begins when the Top 35 bull riders in the world compete against the fiercest bucking bulls on the planet, providing two hours of thrills and spills guaranteed to keep you on the edge-of-your-seat and your heart pounding. The highest-paid bull riders in the world are not only competing for the coveted Championship Buckle, but also the $1 million bonus awarded to the winner. Tickets start at $20. AT&T Stadium, One AT&T Way, Arlington, 719-242-2800, www.pbr.com.

DALLAS MAVERICKS VS. NETS 7:30pm. Poster night. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, www. mavs.com.

SAVE THE DATE… MAR 21 THE 6TH ANNUAL DFW FAMILY EXPO 10am-5pm. Discover the best products, services, venues & entertainment for North Texas Families. Enjoy bounce houses, face painting, an indoor trampoline park, petting zoo, massage stations, character appearances and more. Dallas Market Center, Main Hall, 2200 Stemmons Frwy, Dallas. $5, all ticket proceeds donated to Children’s Medical Center. 214-605-0006, dfwFamilyExpo. com. See ad in this issue.

JUN 8-12 SUMMER CHESS CAMP AT UT DALLAS Join beginner, intermediate or advanced chess classes for ages 7-14. 9am-noon or 1-4pm and extended playing classes available. Other sessions June 15-19, July 13-17 and July 20-24. Register at www.utdallas. edu/chess. For more info, call 972-8834899 or email james.stallings@utdallas.edu. See ad in this issue.

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10 Reasons Why Camp is Important for Children 1 Adventure and exploration 2 Friendships with peers and adults 3 Reduced summer learning loss 4 Connectedness with nature 5 Positive risk-taking 6 Increased physical activity 7 Opportunities for play and imagination 8 Safety 9 Skill building 10 Engagement and leadership opportunities

YOU KNOW YOU’RE IN LOVE WHEN YOU CAN’T FALL ASLEEP BECAUSE REALITY IS FINALLY BETTER THAN YOUR DREAMS.

DID YOU HEAR ABOUT THE ROMANCE IN THE TROPICAL FISH TANK? IT WAS A CASE OF GUPPY LOVE

WHAT DO YOU CALL TWO BIRDS IN LOVE? TWEETHEARTS! WHAT DID THE VALENTINES DAY CARD SAY TO THE STAMP?

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LOL WITH JAMES ESTES!

GOTTA LOVE ‘EM I took my 6 year old son to see a play at our local community theater. The main character was a little boy who did a great job singing and dancing. It made me wonder if my own son would enjoy acting, so at the intermission break I asked him, “Do you think you could get up on the stage and sing and dance?” Not missing a beat, he replied “Okay, but they’re probably going to ask me to get off.” ANNE OF FLOWER MOUND

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BACKTALK { BY KEN SWARNER }

MY FAVORITE CHILD “

ou like him best!”Have your kids hit you with that one? It’s almost as much fun as a cold sore. The phrase usually spills out of my daughter’s mouth the minute I have

disciplined her for something that she testifies I didn’t punish her brother for doing. On other occasions my son will accuse me of favoritism because, according to him, I ALWAYS go easier on his sister for crimes that he paid dearly for doing. It’s at times like these I stand before them as they argue and whine...wondering what single people are doing. My daughter approaches this issue as if she’s an actor in a melodramatic reading. Throwing herself to the floor she’ll twist and moan: “You like Alasdair better. You probably wish I were never born. Maybe I should just stay in my room all day and never say a word - that way you can work on your will and give everything to your son. Uh!” Finally she’ll look up from the kitchen floor. “Dad, what are you doing?” “Making popcorn. Bravo.” My son takes a more direct approach. “Well, you obviously have to live with yourself.” I don’t know where this mistrust and paranoia comes from. I am sure child psychologists could explain it to me, but whatever they said

slaughtered: “WHAAAAAAAAT?!” Opening the door, I’ll find the other child standing there shaking her head in disbelief. “A week? He got a week?” My problem, of course, is that I engage. I immediately take the stand as if I’m the defendant in court. “Yes, your honor, a week.”

wouldn’t change the fact that my son asked me the other day if his

“For messing up your den?”

sister had diplomatic immunity.

“Yes, for messing up my den.”

The part I hate the most however is the extra work caused by these disputes. I now record and gather evidence solely so I can defend myself in cross-examination. I know I not only have to hand down judgments, but I have to be ready for the appeal process as well. Foolishly, I thought this behavior would improve with age, but as my children approach the teen years it’s getting worse. If I didn’t know better, I’d think they were destined to be trial lawyers...or pro basketball players. My children are always watching - recording - checking up to see

The child steadies herself on the doorjamb. “I left a paperclip out of place on your desk last year and I got a month...a month.” That was how this Tuesday started. I guess I had finally had enough and I snapped. I ushered my daughter into the den and closed the door. “You know why I gave you a month, don’t you?” She looked confused. “No. Why?” I grabbed her hands into mine, stared warmly into her eyes, and said sarcastically: “Because sweetie, mom and I like your brother better.”

how my rulings and discipline measure up. The minute I pass judgment,

She didn’t miss a beat: “I-knew-it.”

they descend.

From under the door crack I heard a seal cry out: “THAAAAT’S

I’ll dish out a sentence to one child in my den, and from the crack under the door, I’ll hear something that sounds like a seal being

NOT TRUE!” I should really stop engaging. SP

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