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GIFTS? THINK OUTSIDE THE TOY BOX! WISHING YOU A VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS!

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t’s been a wonderful year for our publications; filled with lots of great opportunities of growth and many new friendships. Of course we have had challenges too; but we rose up to meet those!

“DON’T BE AFRAID OF OPPOSITION. REMEMBER, A KITE RISES AGAINST, NOT WITH THE WIND.” — Hamilton Wright Mabie

Reflecting on the relationships I have developed over the past several years, I’ve come to realize that feeling vulnerable is not a bad thing. Do you know what I mean? Like when you first walk into a new woman’s group, and “THE BEST AND MOST you’re not privy to the relationships the women you are joining have already BEAUTIFUL THINGS IN developed; however, you participate, share and realize that these women are THE WORLD CANNOT just like you. They are concerned about family, community, business, even BE SEEN OR EVEN fashion and food. They may be struggling with something, have a story about TOUCHED. THEY MUST BE FELT WITH THE successes, or just like being with other like-minded women. I’m so fortunate HEART. WISHING to have the support of women I may only see once a month, however in that YOU HAPPINESS.” 2 hours there are moments of inspiration, motivation, laughter, support, and — HELEN KELLER yes, fashion and good food too. I encourage women to also seek this type of community; you’ll be happy you did!

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To you, I wish the happiest End of Year 2015 and hope you are looking forward to 2016 as I am. With that, enjoy some wonderful quotes to fill your heart with good news and well wishes! SP “THE HOLIEST OF HOLIDAYS ARE THOSE KEPT BY OURSELVES IN SILENCE AND APART; THE SECRET ANNIVERSARIES OF THE HEART.” — Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

“EVERY PIECE OF THE UNIVERSE, EVEN THE TINIEST LITTLE SNOW CRYSTAL, MATTERS SOMEHOW. I HAVE A PLACE IN THE PATTERN, AND SO DO YOU. THINKING OF YOU THIS HOLIDAY SEASON!” - T.A. Barron

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Meet Lane. He loves sports and superheroes. His favorites are Jordan Spieth and Batman. He can also tell you everything there is to know about sharks and dinosaurs. He has a little sister named Ellis(18 mos) and a Jack Russell Terrier named Scout. His favorite food is Chick Fil A.

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YOU SHOULD KNOW ON THE ROAD AGAIN Taking a road trip this holiday with a baby in tow?

You’ll be fine as long as you realize your baby won’t be any different in the car on a long trip than she is any other time. So, plan ahead. If she sleeps well in the car then make the trip around nap times. If not, then leave right after she wakes up.

Bring plenty of books and new or forgotten toys, and divvy them out periodically. A window shade is helpful too. Be flexible and be willing to stop.

Plan extra time for unexpected stops. And, be safe; keep that kid in the car seat. Happy travels!

WHAT MATTERS MOST

WHY THE HOLIDAYS SMELL SO GOOD The holidays smell so good, don’t they? Come to find out, these smells aren’t just good for our noses, they’re good for our bodies and brains too. So, breathe it all in. The smell of pine can decrease stress and lower feelings of depression. The smell of peppermint can boost brain power and soothe stomachs.

There’s also thought it can curb cravings. And, smelling chocolate may improve memory. Might as well have a bite too because we know eating it is good for you. Enjoy.

As you work your way through your shopping list this Christmas, think about this. After the gift giving and getting is over, it’s the experiences that stay with us, not the things. Sure, new

FIRST BORN JEALOUSY

(DON’T BLAME THE BABY)

toys are fun for a while, but experiences provide more fun and lasting value. So, experience the holidays this

First-born jealousy is a thing. And it won’t get better if you always blame the baby for things.

Author Elizabeth Pantley suggests that instead of saying “We can’t go to the park; the baby’s sleeping,” say, “We’ll go to the park after lunch.”

Or instead of saying “After I change the baby, I’ll help you,” say, “I’ll help you in three minutes.”

Let your first born know that you understand his feelings and that you too are adjusting to the new situation. Then he won’t feel the need to act up for your attention.

GIFTS FOR THE ELDERLY Thinking about your elderly parents or grandparents’ Christmas gifts? What about a Light Therapy Lamp. Very often our older parents are not exposed enough to natural light and this can disrupt their sleep cycle. These lamps mimic the brightness of the sun, and stimulate the body’s production of Vitamin D. A bonus is that it also boosts their mood! How about a Brain Training Game too! These are fun and can help with cognition, awareness and memory. And of course there is always a good game of solitaire! Find some fancy cards, or have some made with your kids pictures on them.

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year. Bake together. Have a Christmas movie watching marathon. Put on your PJs, pack some hot cocoa and take a drive to look at lights.

That’s what they’ll remember – the time, the love, the attention. Not the stuff.

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A Throwback to MomSolvers Q. What is an appropriate Christmas gift for teachers? What if your child has several teachers?

A. Give them all the same “homemade” gift!

A. I like to make small packages with gift cards. Like a coffee cup with a Starbucks gift card; nicely wrapped in cellophane.

A. You may want to see if a homeroom mom has received a list of favorite treats each teacher likes. Then you and your child could bake together and package sweet treats creatively!

A. I buy those large tins of popcorn and put a bow on top!

Q. I scroll through my children’s phones often. My friend says

that I am being unfair and spying. I feel I am being a good parent.

What would MomSolvers say about this?

A. That’s totally acceptable. As long as children are in my house, I have access to EVERYTHING they have.

A. The bill is in my name, I pay for it… officially that makes it my phone!

A. We need to know what our kids are doing on their phone and computers. Text messages, search engines, photos, etc. If we see something that could be a red flag, we need to educate them and remind them the dangers of social media, etc. You are being a good parent.

Q. In your experiences, what are the top 3 most important things I should teach my daughter before she leaves our home for College and moves far away?

A. You make sure she, 1. Follows her dreams, 2. Believes in herself, and 3.

Makes good choices. Of course make sure she knows that no matter what you will always love her!

A. Make sure your child knows how to organize important documents. 1.

Have them start before leaving home with a filing system for health records, birth certificate, etc. 2. Make sure they know how to do laundry well! 3.

Make sure they know how to avoid the drug scene (saying no and not worry about what others may say).

A. I think our teenagers should know how to speak up for themselves.

Teach your daughter how to speak to another adult with confidence. Our young adults need to be able to deal with whatever they need to do, by being thoughtful and careful about their choices. You may let her take the lead while still at home. Do not answer questions for her, allow her to take control. She may look at you, and you should just tilt your head a little as if saying, go ahead and answer. And never correct her, at that moment.

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MOMENTS { BY PATRICK HEMPFING }

THE BEST GIFTS

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’m not a big fan of Black Friday, Cyber Monday, or any of the shop-

than me, also noted that the waitress “will be glad she started using terms

ping days leading up to Christmas. Though I enjoy giving gifts, the

of endearment when she was young, because age has a way of making the

problem is, “What do you get year after year for loved ones who have

use of them a necessity!”

everything they need?” Even buying presents for Jessie, my 10-year-

Ah – age. Yes, time zooms by quickly. Which brings me back to

old daughter, is becoming more of a challenge. No Jessie, you won’t be

Christmas shopping. Do I want to waste my precious minutes fretting over

getting a horse for Christmas.

presents? No! The best presents aren’t tangible anyway (though Jessie

What to buy? Rush to purchase. Stand in long lines. Time to wrap. Too

thinks a very tangible horse would make a fantastic gift). I’ll take family

few presents. Too many presents? Big credit card bills in January. More

hugs in the kitchen with the dog sandwiched between Mattie, Jessie, and

long lines to return gifts. I’m not trying to impersonate Scrooge, but “Bah

me. Massaging Mattie’s feet, propped on my lap, as we laugh together at

Humbug!” We all know the holiday season is about love, peace and goodwill.

a TV show. Holding hands during walks. Hearing kind, supportive words

Why do we drive ourselves crazy?

– daily terms of endearment like “my love”… from my wife. These are the

Speaking of love, and crazy, after a relaxing night of tennis a few weeks ago, I stopped for dinner at a local restaurant. Through the years, I’ve heard waitress-

best gifts, ones that fill my days with joy.

With that said, I’m not Ebenezer Scrooge, and I agree that it’s nice to have a few presents to open, especially for children. Last

es use many different terms of endearment, like

Christmas, I printed out a couple of pages from the Save the

“Darling,” “Hon,” and “Sweetie.” However, when

Manatee Club and let Jessie select a manatee to adopt. She

the 20-something waitress delivered my double

chose a 3-year-old named Squeaky, the youngest manatee in

steakburger and said, “Here you go, my love,” I

the adoption program from Blue Spring State Park in Florida. I

thought I heard her wrong. “My love?” Heck, I’ve

thought she’d enjoy this, because we visit the park to look for

been married over 30 years and I don’t even get a

manatees at least once a year. I was surprised, however, that

“My love, would you please take out the garbage?”

it turned out to be her favorite gift. Go figure.

I enjoyed my meal, and then paid with a credit card.

When the waitress handed my card back, she said, “Here you go, my love.” I gave her a 20% tip.

Of course, I drove straight home and playfully bragged to my wife, Mattie, that a woman more than 20 years my junior called me “my love” – twice. Mat-

We asked about Squeaky on our last trip to Blue Spring State Park, but she hadn’t been spotted in the springs. We hope to see her next time. I can already hear Jessie shouting “Hi Cutie” at her adopted manatee. We just have to hope this term of endearment doesn’t go to Squeaky’s head.

Love, peace, goodwill and helping an endangered

tie rolled her eyes, not a bit concerned, and told me

species. They all beat standing in long lines and trolling

to get over myself. Mattie keeps me humble.

online stores, and cost a lot less than stall rent and food

However, I couldn’t let the fun end. I emailed my wise writing buddy, Jan, to see if she had

bills for a horse.

Until next month, remember

ever heard a waitress use this expression. Jan

to cherish the moments.

felt that “my love” was the server’s go-to term

Happy Holidays! SP

for customers, rather than a special name for a sweat-soaked tennis player, but suggested I enjoy the moment anyway. She pointed out that when working for tips, using terms of endearment is a good strategy.

Hey, it worked with me. Jan, a few years older

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LEARN MORE ABOUT SAVE THE MANATEE CLUB: www.savethemanatee.org

Patrick Hempfing had a 20-year professional career in banking, accounting, and auditing before he became a father at age 44. He is now a full-time husband, stay-at-home dad and writer. www.facebook.com/patricklhempfing

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Classic Christmas

BY JAN PIERCE

Everyone enjoys White Christmas and It’s a Wonderful Life when the holiday season rolls around each year, but we thought we would share seven more classic movies to watch with the whole family! Gather everyone together, pop some popcorn, pass the Christmas cookies and enjoy these quality, fun and heartwarming Christmas movies.

A CHRISTMAS STORY This 1983 film chronicles the ups and downs of the holiday season for Ralphie, who just wants a BB gun for Christmas. Played by Peter Billingsley, Ralphie may not have a picture-perfect Christmas, but he goes to sleep on Christmas night with a BB gun beside him.

THE HOMECOMING This inspiring family movie features Patricia Neal as the mother of a large family living a hardscrabble life during the depression. The family is about to celebrate another Christmas, when…. This was actually the pilot for the long-running television show we all remember, The Walton’s. Richard Thomas is John Boy.

M O V I E S A MUPPET CHRISTMAS CAROL Made in 1992 this Muppet movie features Michael Caine as Scrooge and Kermit the Frog as Bob Cratchit. Who can resist the Muppets singing happy Christmas songs and the whole array of Muppet characters stepping into the roles of this classic Christmas story?

MIRACLE ON 34TH STREET Made in 1947 this Christmas classic showcases a young Natalie Wood as Susan Walker, the girl who believes the Macy Santa Claus is the real deal. Kris Kringle played by Edmund Gwen ends up in court, trying to prove his identity.

ARTHUR CHRISTMAS This 2011 animated film tells the story of Arthur, Santa’s youngest son, tasked with delivering one last Christmas present just in the nick of time. Santa’s state of the art control center, located under the ice of the North Pole somehow missed just one child.

FROSTY THE SNOWMAN This cartoon story follows the lyrics of the 1950 Frosty the Snowman song recorded by Gene Autry. The story follows each line of the song as Frosty tries to avoid his ultimate doom—melting.

MILLIONS Made in 2004 this clever story chronicles what happens when a seven year old British boy finds a sack full of money. First he shares it with his brother and then the two learn all about the heart of charity. SP

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Thinking

Outside the (Toy) Box

The holiday season’s hottest toys have hit the shelves, and children around the world are eagerly adding these coveted items to their holiday wish lists. But how many new toys do our children actually need?

I 11 Creative, Non-Toy Christmas Gift Ideas for Kids

BY ALYSSA CHIRCO

f you are tired of spending your hard-earned money on presents that get played with briefly and then tossed aside, keep in mind that toys are not the only type of gift that parents can place beneath the Christmas tree. When doing your holiday shopping this year, try thinking outside the proverbial toy box. You will discover many creative, non-toy gift ideas sure to surprise and delight children of all ages.

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A MEMBERSHIP. When you invest in season passes or annual memberships, your kids get to visit the places they love all year long.

Choose from favorite local destinations like zoos, wildlife centers, amusement parks, water parks and children’s museums.

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AN EXPERIENCE. Instead of buying a gift card to yet another store at the mall, why not give a gift certificate or voucher for an experience or activity your child

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would enjoy? Consider options like bowling, ice skating, horseback riding or indoor rock climbing. Or fill a bucket with tokens from a nearby arcade and promise to visit over the holiday break from school.

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A SUBSCRIPTION. Popular children’s magazines like Highlights and Cricket help build literacy skills – and they also encourage kids to read for fun. Give your child one copy for Christmas, and then watch his eyes light up each time a new issue arrives in the mail or becomes available for download.

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TICKETS. Tickets to a sporting event like a hockey or football game make a great gift for a tiny sports fan, especially when accompanied by a team jersey. Not into sports? Encourage your kids to embrace the arts with tickets to a play, symphony or ballet. Many troupes offer short, interactive performances geared specifically towards children.

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LESSONS. From weekly dance or karate lessons to a special parent-child cooking class, kids love the opportunity to learn new things.

Wrap up an item they can use for their lessons – perhaps a new leotard for dance or a personalized apron for cooking – to place under the tree.

her princess bedroom a few years ago, but does the room reflect her interests now? If she is ready for a change, surprise her with a new set of bedding beneath the Christmas tree. Include accessories like curtains and pillows, and also some paint swatches so she can choose a new color for her walls.

A COUPON BOOK. Why not turn the tables on those handmade coupon books that kids love to give as gifts? Design a book of your own featuring coupons your children will be excited to redeem. Possible coupon ideas include: · A “Get Out of Chores Free” pass · An ice cream date with Mom or Dad · A “Technology Ticket” for extra time using an electronic device · A chance to stay up 30 minutes past bedtime

A PET. Give your children the gift of responsibility this year by surprising them with a pet of their very own. Start small with a low-maintenance pet like a fish or a hamster, or go all out and get a puppy or a kitten. Keep costs down by asking relatives to give your kids the necessary accessories – such as food, cages and pet toys – as presents.

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A HOMEMADE GIFT BASKET. Instead of buying one large gift, make a themed gift basket comprised of smaller gifts related to something your child enjoys. Raising an avid reader? Build a Book Basket filled with books, bookmarks, a book light and a gift certificate to a local bookstore. Have a movie buff on your hands? Build a Family Movie Night Basket filled with DVD’s, boxes of movie theater candy and, of course, popcorn.

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A GIFT THAT GIVES BACK. Not ready to bring an animal into your home? Make a donation to the World Wildlife Fund at www. worldwildlife.org and you can adopt one in your child’s name. Or buy a new pair of TOMS shoes as a Christmas gift and a second pair will automatically be donated to a child in need. When you give a gift that gives back, you also give your children one of the best gifts of all: a reminder that Christmas is about far more than just the presents – toys or not – beneath the tree. SP

A SHOPPING SPREE. For the teen or tween who wants a new wardrobe, a special shopping spree can be a much appreciated gift. Plan to spend an entire day together trying on outfits, having lunch and enjoying some quality, one-on-one time.

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A BEDROOM MAKEOVER. Your daughter may have loved

Alyssa Chirco is a freelance parenting journalist and mother of two.

Every year, she buys her children fewer and fewer toys as Christmas gifts.

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Jungle JumpaRoo

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The Jungle JumpaRoo is perfect for backyards, indoor playrooms, pre-schools, daycare centers and playgrounds. The metal steel poles are painted with a special powder coating that insures a rust-free and weather resistant frame.

The inner tube is also weather resistant and is acceptable to place in homes, on carpet, hard flooring or outside. Sprinkler and Swing are sold separately. Recommended for ages 2 and up. Black Friday Jungle Jumaparoo only $299, a $100 savings as our gift to you! Use our discount code “SUBPARENT100” at check out! www.junglejumparoo.com

Brio Ice Cream

A Nourishing Indulgence!

New at Central Market: Brio ice cream. Richly delicious and surprisingly nutritious; ideal for discriminating ice cream lovers.

Made with r-BST-free milk, Brio is non-GMO and certified gluten free, Contains NO artificial flavors, colors or sweeteners. Includes 6g protein, balanced Omega 3-6-9s and 24 essential micronutrients. Just 165 calories with half the fat of comparable super premium flavors. www.brioicecream.com

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Calling all Mermaids!

Let your child’s dreams come true with these majestic mermaid tails. The perfect gift for that water loving special person in your life. These mermaid tails are great for poolside or in the ocean fun.

We found them at www.themermaidacademy.com starting at $109, includes the monfin!

Get in the Cryo Zone!

CryoZone’s whole body, holistic approach to recovery through cryotherapy can treat conditions such as • insomnia • skin conditions/psoriasis/acne • weight loss • reduction in cellulite • reducing inflammation • enhanced energy & endorphin release and more! Become a FREEZE CLUB member for as little as $99. www.thecryozone.com

Springfree Trampoline Your kids will Jump for Joy! A fun way to exercise and stay healthy! Springfree Trampoline’s one-of-a-kind design eliminates 90 percent of impact areas on traditional trampolines that typically cause injury by replacing the springs and rigid enclosure with fiber-glass rods, a soft-edge, and flexible enclosure. Yes, you can jump for joy too! For sizes and pricing go to www.springfreetrampoline.com

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Code Master Just launched in August! Code Master is a new puzzle board game that takes kids on the ultimate coding adventure. The big brother to Robot Turtles, Code Master is easy enough for any kid to play, but challenging to master. Albeit a single-player game, friends can collaborate to solve the puzzles while learning coding logic and computer programming. $19.99, Available exclusively at Target and target.com (ages 8+)

Land of Nod

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Land of Nod opened a new store; and to celebrate, you have a chance to win a Cool Beans 30” Beanbag! You’ll love knowing that The Land of Nod Shop at Crate and Barrel are right here in Dallas, on Knox Street! Check out their specially curated collection of toys, bedding, décor and more! Enter to win at editor@suburbanparent.com. www.landofnod.com

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Ask Amy Talking Doll

Laser Maze Jr. Your mission: Expertly transport the laser beam to the rocket so that it can safely return to earth! Younger players can now experience the fun of the award-winning game, Laser Maze, with an age-appropriate design and challenge for grade school children with real lasers. Available on Amazon and neighborhood toy stores. (Age 6+). $29.99, www.ThinkFun.com

World of Magic Toys has combined traditional pretend play with technology to create the new Ask Amy™ doll which encourages emotional and language development! Ask Amy responds to 12 verbal prompts to answer questions, provide words of inspiration, and motivates children to sing along or recite a variety of poems. $120, www.askamydoll.com

A GIFT THAT SAVES LIVES

MORE BEST PLACES OUTSIDE OF THE NORTH POLE FOR LOCAL TOYS & WONDERS FOR KIDS • THE OWLS NEST TOY SHOP www.owlsnesttoys.com Southlake • THE TOY MAVEN www.thetoymaven.com Two locations: Dallas & Southlake

Sesame Street™ Wash Up Kit Join World Vision and Sesame Street™ in bringing hygiene behaviors to schoolchildren in Sub-Saharan Africa. Along with Sesame Street’s lovable new Muppett™, Raya, and her friend Elmo, your gift will empower children to take important health lessons home to their families and out into their communities. You can honor a special person, like a teacher, for this gift at checkout! $100, donate.worldvision.org/sesamestreet-wash-up-kit

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10 WAYS TO TEACH YOUR CHILDREN

TO BE GRATEFUL

Gratitude is a talent, and one that must be refined. We must not allow our children to grow up entitled or spoiled. Kids who are cut off from the richness of lives defined by grateful hearts, service, joy, sacrificial love and appreciation for what they have, are very shallow indeed. Thankful children are able to enjoy the blessings that come their way, even if it’s not much. Kids who don’t know gratitude are seldom satisfied, no matter how much they have. But don’t despair—children (and adults) can be taught. Here are 10 ways to teach your children to be grateful:

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SAY “GRACE” BEFORE EACH MEAL.

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TEACH THEM TO LOVE GOD.

Rather than lose its meaning, gratitude habituated through practice takes residence in the soul. “Thanks God,” is foundational to the grateful life.

God teaches gratitude as a way of life. We can’t teach our kids to be grateful without involving the Source of all we are grateful for.

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EXPOSE THEM TO REALITY.

It’s easy to live in a bubble created by media, and the veneer of affluence that separates us from the rest of the world. Take your kids on mission trips to Central America, poverty-stricken Appalachia, storm-ravaged Mississippi or right at home in your community. Remember what your English teacher said about writing? Show, don’t tell.

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BE GRATEFUL PARENTS.

Kids learn from us 24-7—we don’t get to choose that. So let’s make sure they live with parents who are grateful for what they have, express it frequently, and back that up in the way they live.

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DO NOT SPOIL THEM.

It’s a fact—kids who have more stuff than they need don’t even like what they have anymore. When parents help feed the ungrateful habit, we sabotage the growth of grace in our children. Think about it.

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MAKE THEM EARN STUFF.

When kids miss the natural relationship between work and reward they also lose the connection between good things and pleasure. It’s tough to be grateful when things are acquired unnaturally.

MAKE SURE THEY SOMETIMES DON’T GET WHAT THEY WANT.

You’re the dad, you’re allowed to manipulate the playing deck for a good cause. Make sure—once in a while—the kids don’t get the cheese.

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TEACH THEM TO SERVE OTHERS.

Drive a weekly “Meals-on-Wheels” route together; serve the homeless; organize a gift drive; share with those who have nothing.

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TEACH THEM TO BE GENEROUS.

This is the next step. Generosity is not passing along our left-overs. Generosity is giving on a sacrificial level. Real generosity costs something. Real generosity is a huge step toward gratitude.

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NEVER BAIL THEM OUT OF RESPONSIBILITY.

When children are not allowed to own the consequences of their decisions or actions, then they bypass fundamental lessons and fail to understand the reason for gratitude. If we think the lessons are too hard, they will never fully understand.

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KNOW IT ALL { YOUR COMMUNITY CALENDAR }

DECEMBER 2015 TUE 1 ICE AT GAYLORD TEXAN: CHRISTMAS AROUND THE WORLD Experience the magic of Christmas Around the World as you journey through colorful holiday displays in more than 2 million pounds of hand-carved ice sculptures. Tickets on sale at ChristmasAtGaylordTexan.com, 817-778-1000. See ad in this issue.

HOLIDAY MOVIE MAGIC: 23RD ANNUAL EXHIBITION AND TREE DECORATING CONTEST Runs December 1-31. Lights, cameras, Christmas! The Irving community, with the help of Irving Independent School District elementary students, will make Holiday Movie Magic at Irving Arts Center with a wonderland of decorated trees in the gallery inspired by holiday movie moments through the years. Irving Arts Center-Main Gallery, 3333 N. MacArthur Blvd., Irving, 972-252-7558, www.irvingartscenter.com.

WED 2 DAVID (SHANNON) GOES TO THE MUSEUM Runs through January 31, 2016. Internationally acclaimed picture-book creator David Shannon has always been an artist.

Born in Washington, D.C., Shannon grew up in Spokane, Washington. He graduated from Art Center College of Design in Pasadena, California, and then moved to New York City. His illustrations have appeared in a wide variety of publications, including The New York Times, Time, and Rolling Stone. A portion of the exhibit is accessible only by stairs. Irving Arts Center, 3333 N. MacArthur Blvd., Irving, 972-252-7558, www.irvingartscenter.com.

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yond “story time” the first Thurs of each month (through May), engaging youth through the pairing of art and literature.

For December, we’ll celebrate all things cold and snowy as we gear up for winter and the holidays! Irving Arts Center, 3333 North MacArthur Blvd., Irving, 972252-7558, www.irvingartscenter.com.

JAZZ IN THE ATRIUM 6-8pm. Enjoy live jazz every Thursday and join us for a casual dinner and cocktails in the DMA Cafe. FREE admission to performance; food and cocktails available for purchase. Dec. 3- Tom Braxton - Dynamic, energetic, charismatic, and warm-hearted are just a few words that have been used to describe saxophonist Tom Braxton, whose distinct melodic sound has thrilled audiences of all ages from coast to coast and abroad for nearly two decades. He’s been described

by Jazz Review as “one of smooth jazz’s most prolific saxophonists . . . with all the required tools to become a major force.”

His most recent album features Grammy winners Bob James, Earl Klugh, and Ricky Lawson. During this set, Braxton will also perform festive arrangements of Christmas classics from his album Comfort and Joy. Dallas Museum of Art, 1717 N. Harwood, Dallas, 214-922-1200, dma.org.

FRI 4 HOLIDAY OPEN HOUSE AT IRVING ARTS CENTER 5:30-7:30pm. Come for Santa selfies, train rides, refreshments, stilt walkers, jugglers, crafts, and more. Watch performances featuring Lone Star Youth Orchestra, Irving Chorale & Momentum Dance. Also enjoy A Very Electric Christmas, a glow-in-the-dark performance by Lightwire Theatre at 7:30pm (doors open at 6:45pm). All free. 3333 N. MacArthur Blvd, Irving. See ad in this issue.

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SAT 5 FAMILY FUNDAY: PHOTOS WITH SANTA 2-4pm. Irving Arts Center continues to embrace “Holiday Movie Magic” with a Family Funday featuring Movie Magic-themed hands-on art activities; free photos with Santa; Holiday Greeting Card workshops with the Irving Art Association; and a concert performance from the Lamar Middle School Advanced Girls’ Choir at 2:30 p.m. in the Main Gallery. Irving Arts Center, 3333 N. MacArthur Blvd., Irving, 972-252-7558, www.irvingartscenter.com.

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THE TUBES 9am-9pm. Listed as one of the best FUN & FREE family friendly activities in DFW, The Tubes is an indoor play scape located at the Irving Bible Church. It’s open to the public SEVEN DAYS A WEEK, from 9A to 9P. It’s great for preschoolers, toddlers, infants, playdates and birthday parties. Parties aren’t free but worth mentioning. Contact the church for further information. Irving Bible Church, 2435 Kinwest Pkwy. , Irving, 972-5604600, www.irvingbible.org.

HOLIDAY EXTRAVAGANZA 4-6:30pm. The Holiday Extravaganza is a two-part event, featuring a community parade through the Heritage District followed by a tree lighting ceremony outside of Irving City Hall. This annual celebration is a tradition for many Irving families. The fun will begin at 4 p.m. when the parade winds through the streets of downtown Irving, featuring floats, bands, and community organizations. Immediately following the parade, head to Irving City Hall for the official lighting of the City of Irving’s tree! The festivities include a holiday stage show with dance, music, and a special appearance by Santa Claus. Enjoy carols, food vendors and complimentary hot chocolate as we count down to the lighting of the tree and a fireworks display. City Hall, 825 W. Irving Blvd., Irving, www.cityofirving.org/1327/Holiday-Extravaganza.

THE GIFT OF CHRISTMAS MUSICAL December 5-6 & 9-13. A spectacular multimedia presentation! This year’s production includes new visually-stunning elements and favorite songs of the Christmas season. But the most important aspect has not changed— sharing the awesome wonders of our Savior’s birth! The Gospel message comes to life through a breathtaking and powerful presentation that depicts the miraculous birth of Jesus Christ. This year’s presentation includes: Elaborate, completely redesigned staging and lighting State-of-the-art, high-resolution video technology with a massive LED video wall Live, 50-piece orchestra and nearly 1,000-member cast and choir Brilliant musical scoring Flying angels, live animals, living Nativity and much more!

Don’t miss this wonderful opportunity to experience The Gift of Christmas! See website for show dates/times and to purchase tickets. Prestonwood Church, 6801 W. Park Blvd, Plano, 888-424-3977, prestonwoodgoc.org.

CHRISTMAS IN THE STOCKYARDS 11:30am-5pm. The Fort Worth Stockyards National Historic District at Stockyards Station will hosts its annual Christmas in the Stockyards event from 11:30 a.m. to 5 p.m. The event will be on the lawn of the Historical Livestock Exchange Building, inside Stockyards Station and along East Exchange Avenue. This is a FREE holiday event centered on western heritage activities 2015 Christmas in the Stockyards activities include: COWCAMP presented by the Fort Worth Herd The 92.1 Hank FM Party Patrol Live music with local children’s choirs Coloring contest at Texas Cowboy Hall of Fame Holiday face painter Games and fun Cowboy Santa pictures (bring your own camera) Armadillo Races and chicken roping Fort Worth Herd Cattle Drive Stockyards Christmas Parade begins at 4pm Stockyards Tree Lighting and caroling – following the parade. Admission is free. Fort Worth Stockyards, 140 E. Exchange, Fort Worth.

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KNOW IT ALL CELEBRATE THE HOLIDAYS AT KLYDE WARREN PARK

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12-6pm. Free photos with Santa and Mrs. Claus • Live reindeer• Holiday kids’ crafts• A mailbox to send letters to Santa• Face painting• Food trucks• Activities and demonstrations from our Dallas arts and cultural friends and neighbors• Holiday music entertainment• A tree lighting of the Klyde Warren Park Christmas tree. The celebration culminates with the lighting of our tree at 5:45pm! Following the tree lighting, Santa and Mrs. Claus will lead the crowd to the AT&T Performing Arts Center. Attendees are encouraged to make the five-minute walk from Klyde Warren Park where the Reliant Lights Your Holidays festivities will be under way! Klyde Warren Park, 2012 Woodall Rodgers Freeway, Dallas, 214-716-4500.

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Runs through Feb. 21, 2016. This exhibition will feature work by 60 artists including Andy Warhol, Robert Rauschenberg, Jackson Pollack, Roy Lichtenstein, Willem de Kooning, and Robert Motherwell. Modern art has brought a fresh and unconventional approach to the creative community, expressing the loves, hates, ideas, beliefs, interests, passions, strengths, and weaknesses of a generation emerging in the mid-Twentieth Century.

This exhibit will explore traditional mediums of art, outside the box, and how the art world embraced the work that represents a movement that changed the face of fine art in America. Hours of Operation: Tues-Sat: 10 a.m.-5 p.m.

Sunday: 1 p.m.-5 p.m. Closed Mondays and major holidays. Admission is $8 for adults, $5 for students and seniors.

Children 12 and under are FREE. Donations are also welcome. Arlington Museum of Art, 201 W. Main Street, Arlington, 817-275-4600.

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MIRACLE ON 34TH STREET HERITAGE HOUSE AND MARY’S PLAYHOUSE TOURS 3-5pm. The Heritage House will be decorated and open for tours on Sunday, December 6, from 3pm-5pm.

Docent led tours will be given at 3pm and 4pm. Located at 303 South O’Connor, the home was built in 1912 for the C.P. Schulze family. It was designated a Recorded Texas Historic Landmark in 1986. Admission is free. The newly dedicated Mary’s Playhouse in the backyard garden area will also be open for visitors. Originally built as a chicken coop, the building was converted into a playhouse for the young Mary Schulze in the 1920’s. Irving Heritage House, 303 S. O’Connor Road, Irving, 972-2523838, www.irvingheritage.com.

MON 7 HOLIDAY AT THE ARBORETUM Runs through Jan. 3. Celebrate the most wonderful time of the year with Holiday at the Arboretum, featuring the return of the magnificent The 12 Days of Christmas outdoor exhibit from November 8 to January 3 and The Artistry of the Nativity at the DeGolyer House, November 27 to January 3. Dallas Arboretum, 8525 Garland Road, Dallas, www.dallasarboretum.org.

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Runs through Dec. 20. The beloved sell-out holiday spectacular is back again! See why audiences were smitten with DCT’s jolly Kris Kringle who rescues a single working mother and her young daughter who have given up on Christmas. Even the hardest hearts will melt as the nostalgic film classic comes to colorful life with holiday music, humor and merry elves. Make this miracle a holiday tradition and see why everyone agrees that Santa Claus is alive and well on our stage! Recommended for ages 6 and up. Please check website for show dates/times and for ticket information.

Dallas Children’s Theater, 5938 Skillman, Dallas, 214-740-0051, www.dct.org.

EXHIBIT: SEASON’S GREETINGS: PHOTOGRAPHERS’ HOLIDAY CARDS Runs through Jan. 25, 2016. Season’s Greetings: Photographers’ Holiday Cards features contemporary greeting cards created by both professional and amateur photographers selected from a competition sponsored by Blair-Murrah Exhibitions. Entries were received from all over the United States and Canada, and the best images were selected for the exhibition. Themes include the holiday seasons of Christmas, New Year’s, and Hanukkah. The wide variety of subjects include traditional

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religious and sacred themes, as well as contemporary and humorous cards.

Media range from traditional straight color or black and white photographic prints, to digitally enhanced images, and photo silk-screen prints. The exhibit is organized and toured by Blair-Murrah Exhibitions. Free. Irving Arts Center, 3333 N. MacArthur Blvd., Irving, 972-252-7558, www.irvingartscenter.com.

DALLAS STARS VS. HURRICANES 7:30pm-10pm. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Lane, Dallas, stars.nhl.com.

WED 9 THE TRAINS AT NORTHPARK, BENEFITING THE RONALD MCDONALD HOUSE Runs through Jan. 3. The Trains at NorthPark™, is a NorthPark Center holiday tradition that includes trains rolling across 1,600 feet of track on a journey across America. Cityscapes include downtown Dallas, with the iconic Margaret Hunt Hill Bridge, the State Fair of Texas, the Cotton Bowl and the Perot Museum; New York City’s Times Square and Grand Central Station; Washington, D.C. with The White House; New England’s fall foliage; the Grand Canyon, Route 66, San Francisco’s Golden Gate Bridge and hot air balloons in Albuquerque. The exhibit encompasses train-themed environments, with all the trimmings of the holiday train travel experience—steam engines and coach cars, a ticket booth and a train station.

More than 80,000 people visit The Trains at NorthPark™ each season as part of their holiday tradition. Northpark Center, 8687 N. Central Expressway, Dallas, 214-369-1234.

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THU 10 TEXAS CHRISTKINDL MARKET Runs through Dec. 23. Inspired by a cherished German tradition, the Texas Christkindl Market in Arlington, Texas is one of the largest open-air holiday markets in the Southwest. Nestled next to Globe Life Park (Road to Six Flags and Nolan Ryan Expressway), this family-friendly market features a unique shopping experience for gifts and holiday decorations along with authentic German cuisine, holiday beverages,

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live entertainment, children’s activities, and much more! Admission is free.

Market Hours: Sunday thru Friday noon – 9pm; Saturday 10am – 10pm. Globe Life Park, 100 Ballpark Way, Arlington, txchristkindlmarket.com.

JAZZ IN THE ATRIUM 6-8pm. Enjoy live jazz every Thursday and join us for a casual dinner and cocktails in the DMA Cafe. FREE admission to performance; food and cocktails available for purchase. Dec 10-Chris Milyo Big BandLed by saxophonist Chris Milyo, the group will perform Duke Ellington and Billy Strayhorn’s arrangement of the Tchaikovsky’s famous and well-loved Nutcracker Suite, as well as smokin’ arrangements of other holiday favorites and selections from the big bands of the era. Dallas Museum of Art, 1717 N. Harwood, Dallas, 214-922-1200, dma.org.

FRI 11 NOT A CREATURE WAS STIRRING Runs through Dec. 23. Come along for an enchanting holiday fantasy hidden within the walls of a cozy farmhouse.

On this Christmas Eve, the Mouse Family is jubilantly preparing for the holiday. Decorating, however, requires a harrowing journey to snag a branch from the farmer’s Christmas tree and a frightening episode with the household cat! Journey with two adventurous mice as they make their way through a maze of pipes and passages and ultimately emerge to appreciate the safety and comfort of family. With a delightful showcase of various puppetry styles, this holiday story will give you and your little ones a memorable snuggle. Recommended for ages 4 and up. Please see website for show times and tickets.

Dallas Children’s Theater, 5938 Skillman, Dallas, 214-740-0051, www.dct.org.

THE NUTCRACKER Runs Dec. 11-27. Ring in the holiday cheer with an enchanting afternoon in The Kingdom of Sweets at Texas Ballet Theater’s annual production of The Nutcracker! Prior to matinee performances on December 12, 19, 26 and 27, children of all ages will enjoy participating in glittering festivities that include: Story time, Crafts, Special surprises. Bass Hall doors will open at 1pm and the performance will begin at 2pm; admission is free with your ticket to The Nutcracker. Please see website for show times/dates and to purchase tickets. Bass Performance Hall, 330 E. 4th Street, Fort Worth, texasballettheater.org./performance/the-nutcracker.

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KNOW IT ALL DALLAS STARS VS. FLYERS 7:30pm. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Lane, Dallas, stars.nhl.com.

SAT 12 FAMILY FUNDAY: PEROT MOBILE DISCOVERY LAB & PHOTOS WITH SANTA 2-4pm. Irving Arts Center continues to embrace “Holiday Movie Magic” with a Family Funday featuring Movie Magic-themed hands-on art activities; free photos with Santa; Holiday Greeting Card workshops with the Irving Art Association; and a presentation and cool hands-on STEAM experiences from the Perot Museum of Nature and Science’s mobile discovery lab. Irving Arts Center, 3333 N. MacArthur Blvd., Irving, 972252-7558, www.irvingartscenter.com.

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THE 1ST DFW CHRISTMAS CARNIVAL 11am-7pm. Come celebrate the JOY of CHRISTMAS People from all cultures are invited to enjoy Gospel Bands, Food Vendors, Christmas Play and Sermon. As well as Games & Bounce Houses for the little ones. Learn about the different products and services from over 40 vendors. Join in on the Raffle. More than 30 Gifts to be Won! Free Event Dallas Market Hall, 2100 Stemmons Freeway, Dallas, 972302-7012.

POSADAS 2-5pm. Join us for our annual community celebration. Calliope Puppets presents bilingual puppet tales, Stories from South of the Border: “The Singing Tree” from Guatemala, “Juancito y Maria” from Argentina, and “El Tlauache y el Coyote” from Mexico. Raíces Argentinas presents Argentinean Folkloric Dance. Children can create a holiday craft. Refreshments will be served. East Branch Library, 440 S. Nursery Road, Irving, 972-721-3722.

IRVING CHAUTAUQUA PRESENTS “YULETIDE JOY: A HOLIDAY SING-ALONG WITH WATKINS & WEST 2-3pm. Lift your voice and sing along to all your favorite Christmas and holiday songs with DFW’s own acoustic guitar duo, Randy Watkins and Brad West.

Enjoy holiday snacks and simple holiday crafts. A family event. South Irving Library, 601 Schulze, Irving, 972-721-2606.

TEEN JAM 7-11pm. Join your friends for a night of food and fun. There will be pizza, fun and games including a live deejay! It will

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be a free event open to all middle and high school students with a valid school I.D. Lively Pointe Youth Center, 909 N. O’Connor Blvd., Irving, 972-721-8090.

DALLAS MAVERICKS VS. WIZARDS 7:30pm. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory lane, Dallas, www.mavs.com.

SUN 13 FAMILY FILM FESTIVAL: MUPPET CHRISTMAS CAROL 2-4pm. Irving Arts Center continues to embrace “Holiday Movie Magic” with a three-part Family Film Festival. The first screening will be “The Muppet Christmas Carol,” 1992, 85 minutes, Rated G (Director: Brian Henson). Free.

Irving Arts Center, 3333 N. MacArthur Blvd., Irving, 972-252-7558, www. irvingartscenter.com.

TREASURES FROM THE HOUSE OF ALBA Runs through Jan. 3, 2016. For its 50th anniversary, the Meadows Museum will be the first in the world to bring together masterpieces collected since the 16th century by the Dukes of Alba. Truly the second family of Spanish aristocracy — and collecting — after the royal family, the House of Alba owned major masterpieces by Spanish, Flemish, Italian, and French artists, fully embodying the transnational power and influence of Spain. See website for museum hours. Closed on Mondays and holidays. Meadows Museum of Art, 5900 Bishop, Dallas, 214-768-2516, www. meadowsmuseumdallas.org.

MON 14 MILK & COOKIES WITH SANTA 7-8pm. Come and enjoy snacks, arts & crafts, an open gym with games and fun and a special story time. Each child that participates in story time will receive a free book to take home! Irving Family YMCA, 2200 W. Irving Blvd., Irving, 972-986-8898.

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THU 17 JAZZ IN THE ATRIUM 6-8pm. Enjoy live jazz every Thursday and join us for a casual dinner and cocktails in the DMA Cafe. FREE admission to performance; food and cocktails available for purchase. Dec 17-Freddie Jones Jazz Group. Freddie Jones is a popular DFW-based jazz trumpet player and composer who can kick up the energy of a room by several notches.

He has taken his trumpet and his group on the road throughout the Southwest, performing in hot spots from Austin’s The Elephant Room to Little Rock’s Riverfront Auditorium to numerous festivals in the DFW area, Oklahoma City, and elsewhere. His band, the Freddie Jones Jazz Group, never fails to pull in the audience and deliver an exciting sound. Dallas Museum of Art, 1717 N. Harwood, Dallas, 214-922-1200, dma.org.

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HOLIDAY IN SOUND (IRVING SYMPHONIC BAND) 7:30-9pm. March into the holidays with the sounds of the season as performed by the Irving Symphonic Band.

Tickets $6-$12. Irving Arts Center, 3333 MacArthur Blvd., Irving, 972-2527558, www.irvingartscenter.com.

DALLAS MAVERICKS VS. GRIZZLIES 7:30pm. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Lane, Dallas, www.mavs.com.

SAT 19 FAMILY FUNDAY: PHOTOS WITH SANTA 2-4pm. Irving Arts Center continues to embrace “Holiday Movie Magic” with a Family Funday featuring Movie Magic-themed hands-on art activities; free photos with Santa; and Holiday Greeting Card workshops with the Irving Art Association; and a concert performance from the Lamar Middle School Advanced Girls’ Choir at 2:30 p.m. in the Main Gallery. Irving Arts Center, 3333 N. MacArthur Blvd., Irving, 972252-7558, www.irvingartscenter.com.

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7-11pm. You are cordially invited to Christmas a Pemberley, a holiday-themed dance featuring Jane Austen’s timeless novel “Pride and Prejudice.” Under the glow of twinkle lights and festive decorations, families can make Austen-inspired crafts and learn English Country Dance steps to frolic the night away at a Regency Ball. Costumes are encouraged. Presented as part of the Lit’s Alive and Friday Night Library series. South Irving Library, 601 Schulze, Irving, 972-721-2606.

9am-9pm. Listed as one of the best FUN & FREE family friendly activities in DFW, The Tubes is an indoor play scape located at the Irving Bible Church. It’s open to the public SEVEN DAYS A WEEK, from 9A to 9P. It’s great for preschoolers, toddlers, infants, playdates and birthday parties.

Parties aren’t free but worth mentioning. Contact the church for further information. Irving Bible Church, 2435 Kinwest Pkwy., Irving, 972-560-4600, www.irvingbible.org.

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KNOW IT ALL YULE BALL 6-8:30pm. Teens in grades 6-12 are invited to join us for a Harry Potter Yule Ball celebration! Wear your favorite Harry Potter cosplay or your dress robes & come ready to dance! Don’t feel like dancing? Don’t let your date down! We’ll also enjoy refreshments, Harry Potter themed crafts, and a Horcrux hunt throughout the library. Prizes will be awarded to the 3 teams that find all of You-Know-Who’s horcruxes the fastest! Irving West Library, 4444 W. Rochelle, Irving, 972-721-2691.

DALLAS STARS VS. CANADIENS 6pm. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Lane, Dallas, stars.nhl.com.

DALLAS COWBOYS VS. NEW YORK JETS 7:25pm. AT&T Stadium, One AT&T Way, Arlington, www.dallascowboys.com.

SUN 20 FAMILY FILM FESTIVAL: THE POLAR EXPRESS 2-4pm. Irving Arts Center continues to embrace “Holiday Movie Magic” with a three-part Family Film Festival. The second screening will be “The Polar Express,” 2004, 100 minutes, Rated G (Director: Robert Zemeckis). Free. Irving Arts Center, 3333 N. MacArthur Blvd., Irving, 972-252-7558, www.irvingartscenter.com.

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THU 24 CHRISTMAS EVE CANDLELIGHT SERVICES AT MACARTHUR BLVD BAPTIST CHURCH 4-5pm or 5:30-6:30pm. No childcare provided. 8001 Mustang Dr, Irving 972-373-933 mbbcirving.org. See ad in this issue.

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Readers are welcome to join in to listen and provide feedback. Writers are encouraged to bring samples of their work to share, but it’s not required.

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2-4pm. Irving Arts Center continues to embrace “Holiday Movie Magic” with a three-part Family Film Festival.

The final holiday film screening will be “Arctic Tale,” 2007, 96 minutes, Rated G (National Geographic Films/Directors: Adam Ravetch and Sarah Robertson).

Free. Irving Arts Center, 3333 N. MacArthur Blvd., Irving, 972-252-7558, www. irvingartscenter.com.

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KNOW IT ALL STORY TIMES EAST IRVING BRANCH 440 S. Nursery Rd • 972-721-3722 Mon Brick-by-Brick Storytime 4:30pm, 18mos-6yrs Tue Family Story Time 4:30pm (dual language), all ages Thur Family Story Time 4:30pm, all ages

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Mother Goose Story Time 10:15 & 11:15am, ages 0-18 mos Brick by Brick Storytime, 10:30am, 18mos-4yrs; Toddler Time 10:30am, ages 1-4 yrs Preschool Storytime 4pm, ages 4-6yrs 1,2,Me & You 10:30am, ages 1-3 yrs Play & Learn Time 10:30am, ages 1-3yrs

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Play and Learn Time 10:30am, ages 0-5 yrs Preschool Story Time 10:30am, ages 18-36 mos; Toddler Time 10:30am, ages 1-2yrs Family Story Time 7pm (dual language), all ages All Storytimes are FREE. Listed are the regularly scheduled storytimes.

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an accompanying adult ticket. Check website for other performance ticket information. Fair Park, 1300 Robert B. Cullum Blvd., Dallas. www.day1dallas.com.

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7-9pm. Your daughter can enjoy a night with her first love. Ages 4-13, pre-registration is required. $25 per couple; $10 for each additional daughter.

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DAY 1 DALLAS 10am. A Family Fair specifically designed for children and families to celebrate New Year’s Day hosted at historic Fair Park. This celebration will be entirely focused on kid-friendly, interactive activities and performances by nationally known entertainers that will create long-lasting memories for all in attendance. Adults $10, Kids 4yrs+ $5.

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FUN STUFF HOW DO SHEEP SAY MERRY CHRISTMAS IN MEXICO?

FLEECE NAVIDAD!

“It came without ribbons! It came without tags! It came without packages, boxes or bags!” ...

Then the Grinch thought of something he hadn’t before!

“Maybe Christmas,” he thought “doesn’t come from a store Maybe Christmas means a little bit more!”

WHAT HAPPENED WHEN THE SNOWWOMAN GOT ANGRY AT THE SNOWMAN? SHE GAVE HIM THE COLD SHOULDER.

WHAT DID THE GINGERBREAD MAN PUT ON HIS BED? A COOKIE SHEET!

William Sonoma Signature Scent Potpourri An amazing scent for the Holidays or any day!

IN A SMALL SAUCEPAN ADD: • 2 sliced up lemons • 3 springs of fresh rosemary • 1-2 teaspoons vanilla extract • Water to about 1 inch below the rim.

• Place on stove and simmer on low.

– DR. SEUSS, HOW THE GRINCH STOLE CHRISTMAS (EXCERPTED)

LOL WITH JAMES ESTES!

(WARNING! If you find yourself longing to go shopping at William Sonoma, please make sure to turn off the stove!)

GOTTA LOVE ‘EM Last year, my 5 year old and I were making reindeer food and we were missing one of the ingredients. I told my daughter it would be okay, Santa would never know. She replied, “What, he knows when I’ve been bad or good, but he won’t know we ruined the Reindeer food?”

— CAMILLE, MOM OF 1

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BACKTALK { BY KEN SWARNER }

I’VE FALLEN AND CAN’T GET UP!

M

y wife has finally done it. After years and years of

in our community’s theater program – I researched audition times

talking about it, she’s auditioned for a play at our local

and helped her pick out a song. In certain women’s circles, I’m what’s

community theater and won a part.

called a “supportive husband.” In many men’s circles, I’m referred to as

I think it’s fantastic. Working around the clock as

“that idiot.”

both a schoolteacher and mom, it’s time for her to have something

I think my wife took so long to finally

she can call her own. She’s an incredibly gifted person with a beautiful

jump start her acting career

singing voice, so it’s neat that she can share those talents with her

because she knew I wasn’t up to

greater community.

the task of holding down the

Needless to say, her rigorous rehearsal schedule HAS changed

fort evening after evening

a few things around our house. With only one parent home in the

after evening.

evenings to make dinner, help with homework and get the children to

The first night of

bed, I am a bit overwhelmed. Of course, my children are old enough

rehearsals, she called

now to know when a parent is in over his head. At the first sign of our

the house to check up

harried schedule, my son and daughter rolled up their sleeves, took

on me. I was still high on

a long look around to see what needed to be done...and then

the moment. The children

made crank calls from my PTA handbook.

were somewhere in the

With two parents at home, my wife and I had the luxury to play man to man. With her gone, I’ve had to switch to a zone defense. The score is Kids – 10, Dad – 0.

How is it that I could lose control so fast? I blame those

all about the show: “How are rehearsals going? Is it fun? Did

DAUGHTER: Mom is going to be home late again tonight.

SON: Great. You create a diversion in the family room while I slide past dad’s right flank with a box of Twinkies. We’ll meet on my top bunk and divvy up the spoils.

you get a good part?”

The second night she called, I had more questions to ask: “When are you coming home?”

DAUGHTER: What if I get caught?

The third night, I got right to the point:

SON: Name and serial number

“I’ve fallen and I can’t get up!”

only.

I am all for my wife pursuing her own I shouldn’t blame anyone

but myself. I more than encouraged my wife to get involved

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nothing had been broken yet. So instead of talking about me, I excitedly asked her

military strategy specials on the History Channel.

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interests. I’m glad that I can give her this time to blossom as a creative, dynamic person. Really – I am. I just wish the director had cast my kids, too! SP

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