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AVOIDING FLAT HEAD SYNDROME

PSYCHOLOGY OF SUMMER CAMP KINDNESS IS THE KEY!

CAN YOU HANDLE THE “TOOTH?”

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MARY SHARES MINDING OUR HEARTS

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here are a lot of “firsts” us parents have with our children throughout their lives. This month is about first dental checkup and first summer camp!

I can tell you it was hard the first time I sent my son to a day camp along with his cousin. A bus picked them up at a local church. My sister and I followed the bus, just to be sure! Next, my daughter wanted to go to an away camp (4 hours away) in third grade with her best friend. My husband and I stayed in that town the whole week, just in case! So you see, “firsts” may be uncomfortable for us parents, but the benefits are long lasting. Learn the benefits from our Camp articles this month and every month through July. You will be inspired to find the perfect camp.

That first dental check-up is important too. February is Dental Awareness month for Children.

We share with you in our article, “The Tooth about your Kids Dental Health,” tips and first visit recommendations to inspire you to consider that first visit.

Of course Valentine’s Day is celebrated this month, and we celebrate with the ones we love. For our kids and teenagers, it may be hard to see beyond the glitter of cards and boxes of chocolate to the real meaning of love; so be certain to talk about the godly perspective of true love. It’s more than a feeling! We need to consider that the most important thing to God is that we love each other. Love is not a theory or a gooey feeling; it’s about how you treat people. In 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, love is defined by what it does or does not do. We read that “love endures long and is patient and kind; love is never envious nor boils over with jealousy, is not boastful…. It is not conceited (arrogant and inflated with pride); it is not rude (unmannerly); it is not quick tempered and does not act unbecomingly. This is a tall but manageable order. Here are some tips to help your family show true love. *Serve other people before yourself. This mere act of putting someone else first says you view their needs above your own; *Meet a need of someone without them knowing it was you. It’s hard to do for others without getting the acknowledgement, but try and see! *Is there something you want? Well, give that “want” to someone who has a “need” for it. Sometimes we have more than we need; bless someone else! *Commit to holding your tongue the next time someone is gossiping, and instead, say something good about that person; be bold, you could change someone for the better.

At the close of this letter, know that I may not know you (whoever reads this note) but I can tell you that I see God’s love reflected in the faces of our communities by the way we come together. I so enjoy meeting our readers and advertisers at expos or from an email that is sent my way and of course through the beautiful images of your children that grace my mailbox daily. Keep a look out in this issue for upcoming Expos that we will be sponsoring. We would love to meet you! SP

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Rayney, 4 years This month’s cover kid is Rayney. She has two siblings, Easton (5 yrs.) and Everly (7 mos.) and one dog, Louie. She’s an active little thing who likes to cheer, model and play tennis.

Ask her what she wants for dinner most nights? She’ll say Mexican. Yummy!

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YOU SHOULD KNOW TEEN LOVE! It’s so important to be playful with our teens. When life is becoming more serious for them, our interactions have a tendency towards being more serious too. So make every effort to keep an element of play going. This is a great way to stay physically in touch too. They may shy away from cuddles, but are comfortable with a tussle!

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CONSIDER CAMP Do you remember the first time you tried something new and succeeded? Well, summer campers are given the chance to try sports and activities they never imagined they could do. And further, peers and counselors champion them through these experiences, giving campers a sense of accomplishment and value! It’s amazing how a skilled, caring, camp counselor can nudge a child outside their comfort zone and encourage a new experience. And the absolute best part is at pick-up! Oh, the excited conversations in the car are amazing!

teeth come from brushing longer, not harder. Children (and adults too) should brush their teeth for two minutes at least twice a day (after breakfast and before bedtime). Singing a favorite song or using a toothbrush that plays a melody can encourage brushing for the full two minutes. Be sure to use a toothbrush with soft bristles.

KINDNESS IS KEY It’s Valentine’s Day. With love in the air, we ask, “Why do some relationships last and some don’t?”

Scientific evidence says it comes down to kindness. Kindness in the way partners interact with each other. And the evidence also shows that the more someone receives kindness, the more they will be kind themselves, which leads to upward spirals of love in a relationship. So be kind to your Valentine.

CLASSIC PLAY

PEEK-A-BOO! Not only is it great fun, playing peek-a-boo stimulates baby’s senses, builds gross motor skills, strengthens visual tracking and encourages social development. Plus it teaches object permanence, the understanding that objects still exist even when they can’t be seen. Object permanence develops between 6-12 months, but babies of all ages love playing peek-a-boo.

It’s also a great game for older siblings to play with babies as they share a connection laughing together. Other classic interactive games include “this little piggy”, “pop goes the weasel” or “clap hands.”

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QUESTIONS { + PROFESSIONAL ANSWERS }

MARIA, MOM OF 3 Q. What is the most important vitamin that I should be taking to stay healthy?

J A N N E T T E F R O M DA L L A S Q. Is IBS a serious illness?

A. There are about 12 vitamins and 15 min-

affects about 20 percent of Americans; however remains a mystery! Exactly what causes IBS symptoms can’t be definitively identified by members of the medical field. Symptoms vary with each person. For some, IBS symptoms are mild and manageable. These usually do not interfere with daily lifestyles. For others, IBS may severely reduce their quality of life.

Determining what the triggers are for symptoms is key. Certain foods stimulate the GI tract, and for those with IBS eating too much of these (foods) might worsen symptoms. Also, stress can be a trigger for IBS symptoms. If you are suffering from symptoms often it’s best to get some guidance on starting an elimination diet.

Your registered dietitian can help you identify foods that are a problem for you.

erals that are essential to optimal health, so picking just one as the most healthy is difficult!

The good news is you can get adequate vitamins and minerals from your daily food choices. Whole grains for B vitamins, fruits and veggies for anti-oxidants and dairy for calcium, magnesium, potassium and protein. Taking a multi-vitamin daily or every other day is fine.

Consider though that Vitamin D it is not found in adequate amounts in most multi-vitamins, so supplementing with around 1000IU daily is a good idea. Ask your doctor to test your vitamin D level at your next check up. Not sure - ask your Registered Dietitian!

CAROL IRETON-JONES, PHD, RDN, LD Good Nutrition for Good Living

A. Irritable Bowel Syndrome is a disorder that

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A. Students who are above grade level often need additional challenges to ensure they reach peak academic performance. Work with his/her teacher to create a more challenging curriculum through online tutoring services or specialized apps like Tynker, that teach computer programming. You can also use these types of personalized learning services at home and even on vacation. Students who are engaged in their learning and aren’t held back will grow in confidence academically and emotionally. You may even find you have a student who will then take time to help her classmates when they have difficulty with material that he/ she’s already mastered.

SYLVIA KINCER Leader, Gifted and Talented Online Tutoring

Q. I am due to deliver twins in 2 months. I am concerned about flat head developing. Are there ways of avoiding this? I would like advice on how to position my children to avoid flat head.

A. Great question! Multiples are at higher risk for plagiocephaly (flat head syndrome) so it is terrific that

you are planning ahead. Here are a few tips to help keep your babies’ heads round. *Be mindful of time spent in containers like swings, bouncy seats, boppy pillows and Rock n Play sleepers, especially for the first few months. They should not be in these devices more than 3 hours a day, total, so vary their positions regularly and remember, back sleeping on a flat surface is best! *Watch the shapes of their heads daily (looking from the top is easiest). Flattening happens very quickly (first two months.) Be proactive when you see a change and talk to your pediatrician right away to get a therapy referral. Specific repositioning strategies can correct a misshapen skull if done early on.

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1 These soft, comfy and versatile blankets are a generous size for swaddling, but they can also be used as a play mat or to cover a stroller. Created by an Australian born mom who, when transplanted to the US, couldn’t find muslin swaddles for her newborn. Now moms all over the world appreciate them! We really love the jungle jam swaddles. www.adenandanais.com $49.95

A BRUSH WITH DARTH VADER

2 Little Jedi everywhere who were eagerly anticipating the release of Stars Wars Episode VII can now indulge in a little good clean Star Wars fun! Dr. Fresh has just introduced the new Firefly Star Wars Ready Go Brush.

The toothbrush lights up green, yellow, and red like a traffic light, turning the bathroom into a galaxy of good hygiene. Your choice of Darth Vader or Yoda, $3.99 at your local drugstore or supermarket.

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3 Like poetry? Then you’re going to love Magnetic Poetry®.

Each little box holds a collection of 72 loving, encouraging or happy word magnets perfect for a fridge or other steel surface. They’ll bring out your inner poet and inspire those around you too. www.fatbraintoys.com $6.00

CELEBRATORY BEVERAGE!

4 Pregnant and nursing women can raise a glass of bubbly and celebrate Valentine’s Day with a fizzy treat thanks to a new beverage called 9Months! This sparkling non-alcoholic beverage is made from grapes grown in southern Australia and undergoes a unique process that prevents fermentation while preserving the fresh natural grape goodness. 100 percent natural with no added sugar, no artificial coloring or flavoring, and gluten free. Pop the cork and know you are doing something good - a portion of proceeds goes directly to the March of Dimes. www.9monthslove.com $16.50

STINK-FREE TIP!

5 There are great uses for dryer sheets that don’t involve the dryer! Here’s a favorite of moms with smelly kid sneakers at home. Put a sheet into each stinky shoe and leave it overnight to minimize shoe odors in the morning. Also try putting a sheet in suitcases and sleeping bags before storing to keep them smelling fresh too. And put one in your new empty vacuum cleaner bag before vacuuming for a fresh scent all over the house.

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MOMENTS { BY PATRICK HEMPFING }

TAILS OF LOVE

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attie, will you be my Valentine?” On February 1, I’ll pose

in the chair next to Jessie’s. The

this question to my wife of almost 30 years. She’ll be

little guy did pretty well until the

noncommittal. Over the 14 days that follow, I’ll continue to

hairdresser broke out her noisy

romance Mattie with poems, small gifts, and various acts of

shaver, which resulted in a few

service in an effort to convince her that I’m the Valentine for her. Finally,

tears. My eyes moved back and

late in the evening on Valentine’s Day, Mattie will say “Yes, I’ll be your

forth between the two young customers.

Valentine this year.”

The one received a slight trim, while the

We started playing this game before we were married. It’s not easy to come up with fresh rhymes 14 times each February, even for a writer.

My mind wandered back to the scene

A wiser man would have quit years ago. I thought things would get

in our kitchen years ago, when Mattie

easier when my ten-year-old daughter, Jessie, was younger. She joined

gave Jessie her first haircut. At the time, I

in the efforts to convince her mom to select me. Unfortunately, my

highly questioned her decision to do it herself,

proponent turned into my opponent during the last few years, as Jessie

as I remembered Mattie’s only haircutting

started lobbying for Mattie to choose her. Could Valentine’s Day get any

experience, the “trim” she gave our first dog.

more challenging? Surprisingly, yes.

The long strands on the Sheltie’s hindquarters

Jessie is now also campaigning on behalf of our dog, Sadie, who

touched the ground and dragged leaves into

joined in the competition to be Mattie’s Valentine. Jessie sends emails

the house. That didn’t happen after Mattie made some lopsided cuts

and hand-written notes, some stamped with an inked dog paw, and

and then had to even them out. The remaining fur barely covered the

often with drawings or cut-out hearts, signed by the dog. One example

poor dog’s behind. Thank goodness dogs can’t talk … oh that’s right,

read, “Dear Woofy Mom, I love you! Be my Woofitine.” How can I

mine is competing to be my wife’s Valentine.

The hairdresser cut off Jessie’s two ponytails and carefully placed

compete with dog love?

Recently, though, I witnessed a

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as she had nine inches of hair cut off and donated it to an organization

that makes wigs for women fighting cancer. Of course, I had my camera

them in a plastic bag, then posed with our pretty, short-haired girl for some pictures. At home, we addressed a padded envelope and slid in the bag containing Jessie’s hair, along with her name and address.

Many times, I’ve left the post office feeling happy that in a few days, a card, letter, or photo I had mailed would make someone’s day. I won’t soon forget the feeling I had when I mailed my daughter’s hair. Love can be expressed in many ways.

I’m confident that in the days ahead, I’ll overcome my daughter’s

and camcorder to capture Jessie’s haircut. Mattie pulled away from

rivalry, as well as my dog’s, and win Mattie’s heart for another

work. Even Jessie’s grandmother, who happened to be in town, came to

Valentine’s Day. And when I hug my Valentine this year, I’ll think about

watch. The beauty salon should have sold tickets.

other husbands who are thankful they can hug their wives, regardless of

As the hairdresser formed two tight ponytails to prepare Jessie’s hair for the scissors, I observed a mother holding her one-year-old son

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how much hair either spouse has.

Until next month, remember to cherish the moments.

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Patrick Hempfing had a 20-year professional career in banking, accounting, and auditing before he became a father at age 44. He is now a full-time husband, stay-at-home dad and writer. www.facebook.com/patricklhempfing

The T th ABOUT YOUR KIDS DENTAL HEALTH

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ood dental habits begin early on, and by caring for your baby’s mouth and teeth from the get go, you will help your children develop good dental habits.

• Even before a baby cuts her first tooth, parents should be wiping the gums clean with a bit of moistened gauze wrapped around your finger or you can use a moistened baby washcloth. When a tooth erupts, continue this wiping method after meals and before bed.

• It is recommended that you begin brushing your child’s teeth as soon as they break through the gum with a soft infant toothbrush and water. Unless it is advised by your child’s pediatric dentist, do not use fluoridated toothpaste until age 2-3.

• Gentle flossing should begin when two adjacent teeth touch. You are just disrupting the bacterial flora between the teeth. By about kindergarten or first grade, you can start to teach kids how to floss on their own.

• Avoid putting anything other than water in baby’s bed-time bottle to prevent baby-bottle tooth decay.

• Encourage your child to drink from a cup as they approach their first birthday.

• Drinking juice from a bottle should be avoided, juice should only be offered in a cup.

• Dental sealants are an excellent way to prevent tooth decay in children. This procedure takes only minutes, is painless, is less than half the cost of a filling and is effective at stopping decay.

Discuss this with your dentist.

• Children involved in sports need proper mouth protection. Ask your child’s dentist about customized mouth guards.

• If a permanent tooth gets knocked out follow these procedures: Gently rinse (not scrub) the tooth off and place it in a cup of warm milk (salt water is the second best choice; plain water, the third best), call the dentist and bring the child and the soaking tooth in immediately. SP

FIRST DENTAL VISIT SHOULD BE WITHIN A FEW MONTHS OF THE FIRST BABY TOOTH ERUPTING OR BY THE AGE OF ONE AT THE LATEST.

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SWALLOWING FLUORIDATED TOOTHPASTE AT A YOUNG AGE CAN LEAD TO FLUOROSIS (DISCOLORATION) OF YOUR CHILD’S PERMANENT TEETH.

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AFTER A LONG PERIOD OF TIME, THE PASSION IN A MARRIAGE CAN BEGIN TO FADE. KEEP THE FLAME ALIVE WITH THESE

TEN WAYS TO ROMANCE YOUR WIFE

1

LEARN HER LOVE LANGUAGE, AND THEN USE IT EVERY DAY. Read “The 5 Love Languages” by Gary

Chapman and figure out what you can do to become fluent in your wife’s love language. Then use what you have learned.

2

DATE YOUR WIFE. If you asked her out again today,

would she still be excited to say yes? You must have been pretty good at this at one time or she wouldn’t have married you! So why stop now? One date a month at a minimum.

Use your imagination, get creative, and make it special.

3

MAKE HER FEEL SPECIAL (DON’T TAKE THE RELATIONSHIP FOR GRANTED). “She al-

ready knows she’s important to me,” is not a useful response.

If you haven’t done something to demonstrate how special she is in – say – the past four hours, then you’ve already waited too long. This is not a high-budget item; it’s high-consideration. How about an “I love you” phone call, a simple card slipped in her purse, a mid-week lunch date, or flowers delivered to her office. Do you still open the car door? Serve her hot tea, wash her car, deliver an unexpected embrace, a foot rub, candles with dinner? You get the idea.

4

USE SOME IMAGINATION. Plan events, dates, eve-

nings at home, vacations – even stolen moments – with the kind of creative thinking that motivated you when you first asked her out. There’s a psychological concept known as the “self-fulfilling prophesy.” Simply put it means this: believe she’s worth the trouble and she will be; stop trying hard and so will she; bring some creative intention to your romance as if she still knocks your socks off – and she will.

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TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF. Check the scales, think

about how you dress around your wife, throw away the cigarettes, start some regular exercise, don’t be a slob. When she sees you, does she take a second look – or does she look away? Does the way you present yourself tell your wife you want her to be attracted to you – or do you take all that for granted?

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SAY “I LOVE YOU”, AND SAY IT OFTEN. The

#1 misnomer believed by unromantic men is this, “I shouldn’t have to say it – she should know.” Saying “I love you” is the opposite of inflationary; it turns out “I love you” amplifies exponentially with usage.

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BE KIND. Kindness could well be the “X-Factor” in romance. Being kind is underplayed, undervalued, underrated, and certainly underutilized. Want romance? Be “Mr. Kindness.” Learn to make thoughtfulness and consideration your second nature. NIice-guys really do finish first - and she’ll fall for you all over again.

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BE A GENTLEMAN. Please don’t confuse being a gentleman with the medieval brand of chauvinism known as chivalry. Chivalry died a well-deserved death several centuries ago. Gentlemen, on the other hand, are courteous, respectful, well-mannered, faithful, generous, modest and charming. Stand up when she leaves the table, open the car door, walk on the street side of the walkway, help her on with her jacket, run to the car for her umbrella… you get the picture.

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TELL HER SHE’S BEAUTIFUL. Women who hear their husband tell them they’re beautiful become more beautiful. Men who tell their wives they’re beautiful believe it with more conviction every time the words leave their lips.

Love expressed = beauty; beauty = romance. It’s win-win.

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SPEND UNINTERRUPTED TIME TOGETHER.

There are only 168 hours in each week – the number never varies. The amount of time we offer our relationships can appear like a vote as to how much we value the people we say we love. Romance, like anything else worthwhile, is worth the investment of time and attention.

Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask her: Name three things you think of when I say the word “romance”.

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Self-Determination at

camp

BY HEIDI SMITH LUEDTKE, PHD

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arents spend a lot of time trying to motivate kids. We use chore charts, checklists, reminders and rewards to get them to feed the dog, clean their rooms, and complete schoolwork. But these techniques don’t change behavior long-term.

Real motivation must come from within.

The Psychology of Summer Camp

Time at camp may be all it takes to spark a little self-determination in your kid. I know it sounds too good to be true. Your school-age slacker – the one who expects you to find his homework and pack his lunch – might start doing some things for himself. And your oftenbored tween might come home with more pep in her step.

Psychologists use self-determination theory (SDT) to explain why some experiences make us feel engaged and excited while others drain and deplete us. The premise is simple: when an activity meets our needs for autonomy, competence, and relatedness, we are energized and empowered. Kids’ basic needs are no different from adults’.

Kids want to do things for themselves.

They crave a sense of accomplishment and routinely seek feedback. (“Look what I made, Mom!”) And kids thrive on connections with loved ones and peers. Feelings of belonging will boost their self-worth. Summer camp

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offers loads of opportunities to meet all these needs. And that should make kids (and the parents who love them) very happy campers indeed.

Autonomy

The need for autonomy is satisfied when kids control their own lives. At camp, your son will have endless opportunities to care for himself. Staff won’t select his clothes, organize the contents of locker, or remind him to put on deodorant. No one will delay dessert until he eats his veggies. Independence is what camp is all about. Don’t worry. The world won’t stop if your son wears the same shirt three days in a row. His peers will speak up if he gets super stinky.

During the school year, many kids jump from one regularly scheduled activity to the next with no unstructured time in between.

Camp puts kids in charge of their own activities. Maybe your daughter will take a hike. Maybe she’ll paint pottery. Maybe she’ll write you an email. It’s up to her to decide how she’ll spend her free time. One thing is certain: she won’t sit around whining about having nothing to do. And if she does, you won’t be there to hear it.

Competence

The need for competence is satisfied when kids learn new things and get positive feedback about their efforts. Your kid might choose a camp focused on art, science, sports, or music. Or he may opt for a good old-fashioned sleep-away experience, complete with row boats and weenie roasts. Some camp activities may be outside your kid’s comfort zone. Stretching is good.

Your child may be unsure she can cross the slippery log over the creek. She may tremble with excitement about her role in the theater production. Peers and counselors will coax her along and give constructive advice. By the end of camp, she’ll be the star of her own adventure stories.

If your kid is an experienced camper, encourage him to share what he knows with newbies. Being an ambassador or mentor affirms kids’ competence in a big way. Teaching a peer how to trim a sail or chip a golf ball out of the tall grass will take your son’s skills to a higher level. His confidence will soar in response.

Relatedness

Your biggest concerns about summer camp may center on the social scene. Your child may not know anyone on arrival. That’s okay.

Camps create connections in many ways. Your kid will be instantly bonded with bunkmates because they share a home base. Familystyle dining and friendly competitions encourage interaction. The pursuit of shared goals – like building a robot or putting a frog in the counselor’s sleeping bag – cements kids’ camaraderie.

Extroverted kids may make lots of friends at camp. Less sociable souls may not. What matters most is that kids have opportunities to talk, play and live with a diverse group of peers. They won’t all become fast friends. Learning to navigate the choppy waters of friendship formation is a big part of the camp experience. Your kid’s social skillset will expand – even if she doesn’t find a new BFF.

No matter what your kid takes to camp, he’ll come home with a suitcase full of memories and a renewed sense of self-determination.

You’ll see it as soon as he wakes from his long post-camp nap! SP

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camps Above & Beyond Center for Children

Irving Gymnastics Association

St. Luke Catholic School

972-870-9282 See ad on p. 36

972-721-2344 www.irvinggymnastics.net See ad on p. 25

972-253-8285 www.stlukeschool.us See ad on p. 35

Kids Palace Learning Centers

StoneGate Christian

Children’s Discovery Center 214-755-5603 www.firstirvingfamily.org/cdc.html See ad on p. 28

Dana’s Dance Academy

Kinwest Montessori Academy

972-259-1258 See ad on p. 41

972-401-8311 www.kinwestmontessori.com See ad on p. 19

Figaro Academy of Music

Las Colinas Children’s Academy

214-331-0000 www.figaroacademyofmusic.com See ad on p. 33

First Baptist Church Kids Day Out 972-822-9034 www.firstirving.org/ministries/kids-day-out/ See ad on p. 24

Grapevine Faith Christian 817-422-1605 www.grapevinefaith.com See ad on p. 28

Holy Family of Nazareth Catholic School

972-870-1616 www.lccatx.com See ad on p. 13

Mathnasium 972-467-8577 www.mathnasium.com/irving See ad on p. 29

Miss Bloomingdale’s Academy 972-869-9145 www.missbloomingdales.com See ad on p. 5

Primrose Schools

972-790-0070 www.sgca.net See ad on p. 37

Texas Karate Do 972-258-8333 www.texaskaratedo.com See ad on p. 26 & 31

The Sloan School 972-659-1199 www.thesloanschool.com See ad on p. 15

The Sugar & Spice Ranch Camp 830-460-8487 www.texashorsecamps.com See ad on p. 24

Wesleyan Academe 972-252-4733 www.wesleyanacademe.org See ad on p. 21

972-255-0205 www.hfns.com See ad on p. 33

Las Colinas 972-831-1000 Valley Ranch 972-444-9500 www.primroseschools.com See ad on p. 11

Huntington Learning Center

Riverside Butterfly School

972-883-4899 www.utdallas.edu/chess See ad on p. 37

972-745-0372 See ad on p. 30

Youth Adventure Program

Irving Aquatics

St. Monica Catholic School

972-264-2774 www.differentstrokesswimschool.com See ad on p. 34

214-351-5688 www.stmonicaschool.org See ad on p. 37

www.yap.tamu.edu See ad on p. 31

972-745-4343 See ad on p. 26

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UTD Chess Camp

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The 6th Annual

DFW FAMILY EXPO SATURDAY • MARCH 21 • 10-5 DALLAS MARKET HALL • 2200 Stemmons Freeway @ Wycliff

DISCOVER THE BEST CAMPS, CLASSES, PRODUCTS, ENTERTAINMENT AND MORE FOR NORTH TEXAS FAMILIES All Entertainment FREE with Admission!

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ADMISSION ONLY $5!

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KNOW IT ALL { YOUR COMMUNITY CALENDAR }

FEBRUARY 2015 SUN 1 BIG BEND: PHOTOGRAPHS BY TERRY COCKERHAM Exhibit runs through May 31, 2015.

1-am-5pm. Featuring dramatic black and white photographs of Big Bend National Park, famous for its natural resources and spectacular geology, by Irving Resident Terry Cockerham. Price: Free Irving Arts Center, 3333 N. MacArthur Blvd., Irving, 972-252-2787, www. irvingartscenter.com.

GOLDEN LEGACY: ORIGINAL ART FROM 65 YEARS OF GOLDEN BOOKS Exhibit runs through Apr 26, 2015.

10am-5pm. Sixty masterpieces of original illustration art are included in the most extensive public showing ever from American publishing’s best loved and most consequential picture-book series, Little Golden Books. Launched in 1942 against the backdrop of WWII, Little Golden Books made high quality illustrated books available at affordable prices for the first time to young children and their parents. Toured by the Center for Children’s Illustrated Literature, Abilene Texas. Price: Free Irving Arts Center, 3333 N. MacArthur Blvd., Irving, 972-252-2787, www.irvingartscenter.com.

YOUTH AMERICA GRAND PRIX COMPETITION 2015 Jan. 29-Feb. 1. Youth America Grand Prix (YAGP) is the world’s largest student ballet scholarship competition that awards over $250,000 annually in scholarships to leading dance schools worldwide. The competition is held annually around the world and in New York City, and is open to dance students of all nationalities 9-19 years old. Schedule: Jan 29, 1pm-10pm; Jan 30, 8am-10pm; Jan 31, 8am-10pm; Feb 01, 9am-6pm. Price: $5 at the door Irving Arts Center, 3333 N. MacArthur Blvd., Irving, 972-252-2787, www. irvingartscenter.com.

REACH OUT: GOING TO THE DOGS 2-3pm. This dog therapy program is designed for participants five years and older with an adult caregiver.

Activity centers include certified therapy dogs, learning toys, stories, crafts and computers. Space is limited.

Irving Public Library’s “Reach Out” programs are inclusive and designed for individuals with special needs and their peers. Irving West Library, 4444 W. Rochelle Road, Irving, 972-721-2691.

SKIPPYJON JONES AT THE DALLAS CHILDREN’S THEATER Through Feb. 22. Be among the first audiences to enjoy this brand new musical adaptation of Judy Schachner’s beloved book! Skippyjon Jones is a rambunctious Siamese kitten with big ears and an even bigger imagination.

When his loving but exasperated mother puts Skippyjon in time-out, he starts to daydream. His imagination takes him far, far away to Mexico, where he pretends that he is a swashbuckling Chihuahua named Skippito Friskito. This silly, sweet tale celebrates the power of imagination. As Skippyjon would say... mucho fun! Visit website for show times/ dates and to purchase tickets. Enjoyed by ages 4 and up Dallas Children’s Theater, 5938 Skillman, Dallas, 214-7400051. dct.org.

ARTISTS ROUND TEXAS MEMBERSHIP SHOW Through Feb. 28, 10am-4pm. Join Artists Round Texas for their membership show in the Gallery Space of the Granville Arts Center. The exhibit will feature a variety of media, including photography, which makes this show a must see for an overview of different creative visions.

Artists Round Texas have a variety of talented artists in their art organization.

From small, detailed pen and ink, to large multi-media paintings using oils and/or acrylics, along with accomplished sculptors and ceramic artists, the club

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has a variety of art to display. To learn more about the group, you can visit their Facebook page, or their web page at; www.artistsroundtx.org. For more information contact Laurieann Dygowski at 972-475-1836. Viewing hours are Monday through Friday, 10am – 4pm and during all night and weekend performances. Admission is free. The Granville Arts Center, 300 N. 5th Street, Garland, 972-205-2790.

pyrotechnics, aerial stunts, martial arts, motorcycles and more. It\’s being hailed as the most technically advanced live show ever. Join Marvel fans of all ages for this once-in-a-lifetime, monumental performance. The fate of the universe depends on it! Show times: Friday: 7:30pm; Saturday: 11am, 3pm, 7pm; Sunday: 11am, 3pm. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, www.americanairlinescenter.com.

ODYSSEO

PENGUIN DAYS AT THE DALLAS ZOO

Through Feb. 8. Odysseo, Cavalia’s new production will gallop into Dallas.

The internationally acclaimed Cavalia pushes the limits of live entertainment once again with its second production: a multidimensional extravaganza that is wowing critics and audiences alike across North America. With its latest creation, Cavalia marries the equestrian arts, stage arts and high-tech theatrical effects at never-before-seen levels.

The unique theatrical production is first and foremost a grandiose show where spectators are taken to a live Hollywood-style movie set while the touching interactions between human and horse are at the core of the action. A veritable revolution in live performance that will send hearts racing. Visit website for performance times and ticket information. Tickets start at $29.50. Dr. Pepper Ballpark, 7300 Rough Riders Trail, Frisco, cavalia.net/en.

MARVEL UNIVERSE LIVE Jan. 30-Feb. 1. Marvel fans, assemble!

Marvel Universe LIVE! is taking the live entertainment experience to a whole new level, with a mind-blowing show unlike anything you’ve seen before.

Watch your favorite Marvel Super Heroes including Spider-Man, The Avengers-Iron Man, Hulk, and more, and threatening villains come to life in an action-packed arena extravaganza, coming to cities around North America.

You’ll definitely feel the energy with cutting-edge special effects,

Through Feb. 28. 9am-4pm. Admission is just $5/person & parking is $8. A great way for guests to experience the Dallas Zoo during the winter months.

Dallas Zoo, 650 South R.L. Thornton Freeway (I-35E), Dallas, 469-554-7500, www.dallaszoo.com.

MON 2 HOT LUNCH PROGRAM FOR SENIORS Heritage Senior Center offers a hot lunch program. Lunch is served Monday through Friday at 11:30 a.m. for senior citizens in the community. At no time will membership to HSC or membership fees be required to participate in the congregate meal program, only a completed client intake form must be on file for a patron to be eligible for this meal program. Eligible persons may contribute a dollar donation or more, it is voluntary. Ineligible participants (under 60) will pay the full price of the meal, $6.75. The lunch program is sponsored by the City of Irving, Dallas Area Agency on Aging and the Texas Department of Aging and Disability Services. Heritage Senior Center, 200 S. Jefferson Street, Irving, 972-721-2496.

DALLAS MAVERICKS VS. TIMBERWOLVES 7:30pm. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Ave, Dallas, www.mavs.com.

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Kids Day Out

TUE 3 LEADERSHIP COMMUNICATION

ENROLLING FOR SUMMER & FALL 2015

SUMMER: 15 mos. - 3rd grade • FALL: 15 mos. - 5 yrs 2 DAYS PER WEEK • MON & FRI • 9AM – 2:30PM • Christ-Centered Learning Environment • Planned Pre-school Curriculum • Weekly Music Classes • Weekly Chapel

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Weekly Fitness Classes Learning Centers Large/Small Group Activities Excellent Student/Teacher Ratio Quiet Location Loving, Mature Teaching Staff

FirstIrving The First Baptist Church in Irving

www.firstirvingfamily.org

FREE LEGO MINI BUILD 5-6:30pm. Children ages 6-15 ONLY can celebrate every month with a free mini build at LEGO stores at Stonebriar Mall & Northpark Center.

First Tuesdays beginning at 5pm until all the kits are gone.

O’Connor

Irving Blvd Main

For Enrollment Info Contact ADRIENNE SITTIG 972-822-9034 • asittig@fbcirving.org 403 S. Main Street, Irving

4-5pm. Open to students in grades 4-8. Presented as a youthcentered version of the renowned Toastmaster’s Program, this course is an opportunity to sharpen public speaking skills. Space is limited and registration is recommended by calling 972-721-4669. Valley Ranch Library, 401 Cimarron Trail, Irving, 972-721-4669.

Sixth St

WED 4 CONVERSACIONES @ YOUR LIBRARY 6:30-7:30pm. Conversation tables will be available weekly for English language learners to practice conversational English skills in an informal, friendly environment. East Irving Library, 440 S Nursery Rd., Irving, 972-721-3722.

“PEANUTS…NATURALLY” Runs through Apr. 22. How many suns? Is the Earth flat? Charles Schulz touched on many aspects of the natural world during the nearly 50 years he created the Peanuts comic strip (October 1950 to February 2000). During the 1950s and 1960s, Schulz’s characters explored aspects of the natural world with wonder and delight, and their cockamamie understanding of the world around them afforded many opportunities to introduce readers of the strip to fun facts about the natural world. Visit website for gallery hours. Admission is free. Grapevine Tower Gallery, 636 S. Main Street, Grapevine, 800-4576338, www.grapevinetexasusa.com/ includes/calendar-of-events/-PeanutsNaturally-/19155/

THU 5 JUMPSTART STORIES AND ART - GET SWEET ON VALENTINE’S DAY! 10am-12pm. Candy, chocolate, friends,

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cards! What’s not to love about this special day? Irving Public Library joins the Irving Arts Center to celebrate this sweet holiday. Following the story, kids can make a “heART” project to take home with all supplies provided.

Ages 2 and up. Call 972-252-2787 to pre-register groups of 10 or more. 10 a.m. FREE. Irving Arts Center, 3333 N. MacArthur Blvd., Irving, 972-252-2787.

CONVERSATIONS @ YOUR LIBRARY 6:30-7:30pm. Conversations @ Your Library provides a regular opportunity for adult English-language learners to pair with bilingual students to practice and improve conversational language skills in an informal, friendly environment. No registration is required. For information about additional table locations, please call 972-721-4612. Valley Ranch Library, 401 Cimarron Trail, Irving.

FAMILY FUN NIGHT: COME AND GO CRAFTS 7-8pm. Celebrate Chinese New Year with this fun family oriented, come and go craft night. We supply the materials, you provide your imagination. Valley Ranch Library, 401 Cimarron Trail, Irving.

FIRST THURSDAY LATE NIGHT: PANDEMICS 7-9pm. Our world is a petri-dish for disease and pandemics. Explore these rare and deadly diseases, learn how to protect yourself from everyday colds, find out which pandemic is the deadliest and hear all about infectious diseases from Dr. Jeffrey Kahn, Professor of Pediatrics and Microbiology, and the Director of Infectious Diseases at UT Southwestern. All you need to get in on the fun is the cost of general admission, so purchase your tickets online early. Your exhibit hall ticket on the date of First Thursday Late Night gives you FREE access to our special programming that evening.

The Perot Museum will stay open from 10am-9pm first Thursdays. Come early and stay late! Perot Museum of Nature and Science, 2201 N. Field Street, Dallas, 214-428-5555, www. perotmuseum.org.

DALLAS STARS VS. LIGHTNING 7:30. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, stars.nhl.com.

Irving Gymnastics G E T F I T + H AV E F U N

+ MEET NEW FRIENDS + L E A R N H O W TO SET AND ACHIEVE GOALS + BUILD CONFIDENCE + ENROLLING YEAR ROUND

www.irvinggymnastics.net 9 0 0 N . O ’ C o n n o r, I r v i n g , T X 7 5 0 6 1 • 9 7 2 - 2 5 4 - 1 9 1 4 On the campus of Irving High School

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KNOW IT ALL FRI 6 FRIDAY NIGHT LIVE 2015 7-9pm. City of Irving Parks and Recreation presents Friday Nite Live, Irving’s premier Teen Talent Competition. Carpenter Hall.

Free Irving Arts Center, 3333 N. MacArthur Blvd., Irving, www. irvingartscenter.com.

THE 6TH ANNUAL COLLIN COUNTY HOME & GARDEN SHOW

WHEN YOU CALL BEFORE 3/31/2015

COPPELL/VALLEY RANCH 817 S. MacArthur Blvd, Suite 100 • Coppell, TX 75019 972-745-4343

Feb. 6-8. Homeowners unite as over 250 exhibitors take over Allen Event Center and fill the venue with incredible displays spotlighting the latest products and trends in remodeling, gardening, outdoor living, kitchens, and interior design. Celebrity expert Brian Santos, “The Wall Wizard” is appearing and teaching expert painting tips and tricks for any home project. Celebrity expert Brian Santos, “The Wall Wizard” is appearing and teaching expert painting tips and tricks for any home project. The family-friendly event also includes gourmet food trucks, pet adoptions, handmade crafts, and giveaways. Show Hours: Friday, February 6, 2pm-7pm; Saturday, February 7, 10am-7pm; Sunday, February 8, 11am-5pm.

Allen Event Center, 200 East Stacy Road, Allen, 818-324-4533 www. allenhomeandgardenshow.com.

SAT 7 FABULOUS FATHERS PRIEST TALENT SHOW BENEFITTING REGINA CAELI ACADEMY Enjoy performances from local priests, dinner, show, raffle, live & silent auctions.

Emcee is Dave Palmer. 5pm. Museum of Biblical Art in Dallas. Purchase tickets at rcahybrid.org.

HOT CHOCOLATE 15/5K 7:30am. On February 7th, Hot Chocolate is headed back to Dallas!

Enjoy an unforgettable run through Fair Park and reward yourself with piles of rich, melty chocolateyou’ve earned it. Visit website for more information and to register.

Fair Park Dallas, 1300 Robert B. Cullum Boulevard, Dallas, www. hotchocolate15k.com/dallas.

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SATURDAY SCHOOL SESSION #2-WEAVING INSPIRED BY NATURE (6 WEEKS) 2-4pm. Kids ages 6-10 learn the basics of weaving and how to dye fabrics naturally, then finish the class by crafting a beautiful woven bowl. Instructor: Elementary art teacher Carleen Michener. 2-4 p.m.

Art Lab $75; with a discount for Art Connection members. Irving Arts Center, 3333 N. MacArthur Blvd., Irving, 972-252-2787, www. irvingartscenter.com.

DANGEROUS EDISON’S MAGNIFICENT TRAVELING SCIENCE EMPORIUM 2:30-3:30pm. Watch out-Dangerous Edison is coming to a library near you! West Library that is, and he is going to amaze you with a variety of science experiments. West Branch Library, 4444 W. Rochelle Road, Irving, 972-721-2691.

FATHER DAUGHTER VALENTINE MASQUERADE DANCE 7-9pm. For ages 4-13. $25 per couple; $10 each additional daughter. Price includes photo with professional photographer, refreshments, DJ and door prizes. Pre-registration is required as space is limited. Mustang Park Recreation Center, 2223 Kinwest Pkwy., Irving, 972-556-1334.

ART: A PROFOUND IMPACT Enjoy the annual Irving Black Arts Council exhibition in the Main Gallery will feature the works of local artists Thomas Weddle, Ashley Frye, Dennis Webb Jr., and Beth Ritter-Perry.

Opening Reception: 5 p.m. (Woman, color photograph, Dennis Webb, Jr.). Free. Irving Arts Center, 3333 N. MacArthur Blvd., Irving, www. irvingartscenter.com.

EXHIBIT: JESSICA MARTINEZ: FACT, FICTION AND WHIMSY Through Mar. 22. Enjoy a gallery of print media created by University of Dallas MFA candidate, Jessica Martinez. Free. (Untitled, 2014, silk screen, mixed media, 15” x 11”) Irving Arts Center, 3333 N. MacArthur Blvd., Irving, www.irvingartscenter.com.

DALLAS MAVERICKS VS. PORTLAND TRAIL BLAZERS 7:30pm. African American Heritage Night. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, www.mavs.com.

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Childrens Discovery Center

KNOW IT ALL SUN 8

THU 12

CHRISTIAN MONTESSORI SCHOOL

FAMILY FUNDAY – CELEBRATE BLACK HISTORY MONTH

TEXAS HOMESCHOOL CONVENTION

3 to 6 Year Olds • Full Day Offered • Before & After School Care

2-4pm. Families are invited to create an art project inspired by Black History Month. All supplies provided.

Irving Arts Center, 3333 N MacArthur Blvd., Irving, www.irvingartscenter. com.

First Baptist Church of Irving

ESTABLISHED IN 1977 • Art and Music Classes • Enrichment Classes • Bible and Chapel • Science and Spanish • Motor Development Class

TRADITIONAL MONTESSORI CURRICULUM MONTESSORI CERTIFIED TEACHERS

403 South Main St • Irving TX 75060

214-755-5603 • 972-253-1171 jmays@fbcirving.org

DALLAS OPERA FAMILY CONCERT: MOZART AND COMPANY 2-4pm. The Dallas Opera’s Family Concert is a parade of opera’s greatest hits! Opera fans of all ages will hear a variety of types of arias and overtures. You may recognize many of them!The Family Concert features the Dallas Opera Orchestra.

Be sure to come early to enjoy family activities in the lobby beginning at 12:30pm. Winspear Opera House, 2403 Flora Street, Dallas, 214-4431043, www.dallasopera.org/family.

www.firstirving.org/ministries/childrens-discovery-center/

MON 9 DALLAS MAVERICKS VS. LOS ANGELES CLIPPERS 7:30. Star Wars night. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, www.mavs.com.

TUE 10 BE MY VALENTINE STORYTIME 11am-12pm. Join us for Valentine’s Day stories, games, a puppet show, craft and refreshments. East Branch Library, 440 S. Nursery Road, Irving.

WED 11 CONVERSACIONES @ YOUR LIBRARY 6:30-7:30pm. Conversation tables will be available weekly for English language learners to practice conversational English skills in an informal, friendly environment. East Irving Library, 440 S Nursery Rd., Irving, 972-721-3722.

DALLAS MAVERICKS VS. UTAH JAZZ 7:30pm. Bobblehead: Monta Ellis (First 5K). American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, www. mavs.com.

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Feb. 12-14. Make plans now to join 1000s of homeschoolers at the TEXAS Homeschool Convention at the Fort Worth Convention Center.

Speakers such as Dr. Ben Carson, Heidi St. John, Dr. Kathy Koch, Dr. Jay Wile, Cathy Duffy, and dozens of others are included in the fantastic line-up of speakers. Be encouraged and informed! 100s of informationpacked workshops are included in your Individual or Family Registration to the TEXAS Homeschool Convention in Fort Worth. Additional options, such as Friday Night Family Comedy Night with Bob Smiley, REAL FAITH for the REAL WORLD Teen Track, Mom’s Night PJ Party with Heidi St. John, are also available for purchase when registering for the TEXAS Homeschool Convention.

An optional, high-energy Children’s Conference is also offered through The Giant Cow Ministries. Don’t miss the opportunity to hear Inge Auerbacher, a Holocaust survivor or Rebecca Kiessling, an attorney, former homeschooling mom, and prolife advocate. You don’t want to miss hearing these powerful and impacting stories at the 2015 Conventions. Shop 100s of Exhibitor booths, meet many of the authors behind the curriculum, and receive Special Convention Pricing from many of your favorite Exhibitors! Are you considering a new homeschool curriculum?

Do you have questions about a specific book or resource? Speak one-on-one with representatives from these great companies and get all of your questions answered.

Please visit website to register for this event, see a list of speakers, and for event hours. Fort Worth Convention Center, 130 E. Exchange Ave., Fort Worth, 513-748-6998, www. greathomeschoolconventions.com/ texas-homeschool-convention-fortworth-texas.

“A MIDSUMMER NIGHT’S DREAM” BY CORP Feb. 12-15. “A Midsummer Night’s Dream,” William Shakespeare’s most popular comedy, was written around 1594 or 95. It portrays the adventures of four young lovers and a group ofamateur actors, their interactions with woodland fairies and a duke and duchess. Taking place in a mythical Athens and an enchanted forest, there is a handsome fairy king, a

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KNOW IT ALL misguided parent, star-crossed lovers, a weaver who’s transformed into a half-donkey, wood sprites and elves.

This work is widely performed around the world, and no wonder – it’s about the world’s most popular pastime, falling in love. But as Puck knows, falling in love can make fools of us all. Please visit website for specific showtimes/dates and to purchase tickets. The Plaza Theatre, 521 W. State Street, Garland, 972-205-2790, corptheatre.org.

FRI 13 DALLAS STARS VS. PANTHERS 7:30pm. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, stars. nhl.com.

SAT 14 THE INTERNATIONAL EXHIBITION OF SHERLOCK HOLMES Exhibit Runs Feb. 14 - May 10.

Elementary? Maybe for Sherlock Holmes, but how will you fare when you try to solve a captivating, original murder mystery in the tradition of the master detective? Come inside and find out! More than a century ago, in 1886, a struggling young doctor named Arthur Conan Doyle wrote a story about a brilliant and enigmatic detective. The 26-year-old author would probably have been amazed to know that Sherlock Holmes would become one of the most inspiring and influential characters of all time. The legendary sleuth of Baker Street, a chemistry and forensics expert ahead of his time, used seemingly trivial observations of evidence that others missed to solve the most baffling mysteries imaginable. His practices and techniques changed the way police work was conducted in the real world, lighting the way to the modern forensics of today. The International Exhibition of Sherlock Holmes brings this world to life as never before as you step into Conan Doyle’s Victorian London and work side-by-side with his legendary detective. You will become Holmes’ eyes and ears as he tackles a baffling new case in a world steeped in innovation and experimentation. Along the way you’ll see a dazzling array of original manuscripts, publications, period artifacts, film and television props and costumes. You’ll learn to use

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investigative tools and techniques from Holmes himself, and test yourself with exciting, interactive crimesolving opportunities. Hurry along!

The game’s afoot! Perot Museum of Science and Nature, 2201 N. Field Street, Dallas, 214-428-5555, www. perotmuseum.org.

CUPID’S CHASE 8am. Community Options, Inc. will hold its Annual Cupid’s Chase 5k Run that will take place on Saturday, February 14, 2015, in twentyseven race locations. Community Options, Inc. is a national non-profit organization incorporated in 1989 and headquartered in Princeton, NJ. Our mission is to provide housing and employment support to people with disabilities. Race Location: Bachman Lake Park3500 Northwest Highway, Dallas, TX 75220. Registration: 8AM Race Begins: 10AMEarly Registration (Before February 13th): $30.00 Race Day: $50.00Registration Packet Pickup Information: February 12, 2015 10am-6pm, Academy Sports + Outdoors 8050 Forest Lane (at Central Expressway next to Home Depot) Dallas, TX (214-355-3200).

Register for Cupid’s Chase at Academy or pick-up packet and get an extra raffle for a chance to win an Academy gift card! Bachman Lake, 3500 Northwest Hwy, Dallas, imatter. comop.org.

SATURDAY SCHOOL SESSION #2-WEAVING INSPIRED BY NATURE (6 WEEKS) 2-4pm. Kids ages 6-10 learn the basics of weaving and how to dye fabrics naturally, then finish the class by crafting a beautiful woven bowl. Instructor: Elementary art teacher Carleen Michener. 2-4 p.m.

Art Lab $75; with a discount for Art Connection members. Irving Arts Center, 3333 N. MacArthur Blvd., Irving, 972-252-2787, www. irvingartscenter.com.

MINUTE TO WIN IT: VALENTINE’S DAY EDITION 2-4pm. Come compete against your friends and try your luck during this afternoon of wacky games and fun. How high can you stack candy hearts? How many times you can pass a tissue paper heart without tearing it to tiny shreds? You only have 60 seconds to find out! When the games are done, the snacks come out! Because what is Valentine’s Day without a little chocolate? Open to teens in grades 6-12. West Branch

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KNOW IT ALL Rabile Family Dentistry

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CREATED EQUAL: A. G. FORD VISIT 4:30-6:30pm. School age children are welcome to join us for a presentation by A. G. Ford, a local illustrator. He talks about his art, life and connection to the civil rights movement. Families are invited to make a diversity craft after the presentation. Created Equal is a month-long program, funded through a partnership of the National Endowment for the Humanities (NEH) and the Gilder Lehrman Institute of American History. East Branch Library, 440 S. Nursery Road, Irving, 972-721-3722.

TUE 17 GRAPEVINE FAITH CHRISTIAN SCHOOL OPEN HOUSE 7-8pm. Private school for preschool – 12th grade. Details& Registration online: GrapevineFaith.com.

Grapevine Faith Christian School, 729 E. Dallas Rd, Grapevine, grapevinefaith.com. See ad in this issue.

BILINGUAL STORYTIME 11am. Join this storytime with crafts and puppet shows in English and Spanish. For groups, please call (972) 721-3722 for details. East Irving Library, 440 S Nursery Rd., Irving, 972-721-3720.

2015 MARDI GRAS FESTIVAL AND PARADE 10am-6pm. Can’t get down to the “BIG EASY” for Mardi Gras? We will bring it to you! Come out and enjoy great food, great fun and great festivities.

Featuring “NAWLINS” favorites: Beignets, Gumbo, Jambalaya, Shrimp Po-Boys, Beverages AND a chance to get the “Baby” in a slice of the Mardi Gras KING CAKE! Vendor booth spaces available for $175 or Corner Booth $225 or Float TBD on size (For Vendor Booth or Parade Float participation payment due no later than (Friday 1/12/2015 via Cash, Cashier’s Check, Credit Card or Money Order: (Make Cashier’s Check or Money Order payable

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to: Events “R” The Passion/Tammie Dennis for MARDI GRAS 2015) If interested in presenting a float in the parade, please contact Tammie Dennis at EVENTS “R” THE PASSION at (972) 679-2671 for application.

You will receive address and all other information when we mail you the application. *You will receive a receipt and confirmation letter when payment is received. Call (972) 6792671 for additional information or if you have any questions. Volunteers are needed Mardi Gras food and merchandise will be available for purchase. Remember to wear the Mardi Gras colors of purple, green and gold whenever you’re not in costume! “THROW ME SOME BEADS, MISTER”! “LAISSEZ LES BON TEMPS ROULEZ”!! (“LET THE GOOD TIMES ROLL”!) Dallas City Hall, 1500 Marilla, Dallas, 972-679-2671.

WED 18 ROCK & WORSHIP ROADSHOW 7pm. The Rock & Worship Roadshow 2015 featuring MercyMe, Crowder, Matt Maher, Jamie Grace, Tedashii, Group 1 Crew, guest speaker Shaun Groves, and introducing Iam They and Jon Guerra is coming to Dallas, TX on February 18, 2015. Make plans now to come out to Christian music’s most entertaining tour for the whole family! Visit website to purchase tickets. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, www. americanairlinescenter.com.

THU 19 OPEN HOUSE AT WESLEYAN ACADEME 10am. Come learn about our Nurturing, Preparing & Challenging Curriculums for ages 2 years through 1st grade.

New Enrollment is Feb 21 8am-12pm.

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OPEN HOUSE AT THE SLOAN SCHOOL 7-8pm. Come learn more about our accelerated academics, loving environment and Christian education. The Sloan School, 3131 N. O’Connor Road, Irving, 972-6591199, www.thesloanschool.com. See ad in this issue.

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KNOW IT ALL FAMILY FUN NIGHT: HAPPY PIG DAY! 7-8pm. Join us as we celebrate the characters from the popular Mo Willems series Elephant and Piggie!

There will be a small play, games, crafts, prizes, snacks and photo ops!

Fun for the entire family! Valley Ranch Library, 401 Cimarron Trail, Irving.

DALLAS STARS VS. SHARKS 7:30pm. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, stars. nhl.com

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KNOW IT ALL of the simplicity of childhood, DCT resident playwright Linda Daugherty and composer Nick Martin capture the complexities of the modern adolescent experience. An honest, powerful look at the inner workings of the mysterious teenage brain. Believe in the Power of Choices! Check website for showtimes/dates and ticket information. Dallas Children’s Theater, 5938 Skillman St., Dallas, 214-740-0051, dct.org.

DISNEY IN CONCERT Runs Feb. 20-22. Relive childhood memories with scenes from the new golden age of Disney animation accompanied by the Dallas Symphony Orchestra. Featuring music from Frozen, Aladdin, The Lion King, Beauty and the Beast, The Little Mermaid and many more.

Performance times are Friday & Saturday at 7:30pm and Sunday at 2:30pm. Morton H. Meyerson Symphony Center, 2301 Flora Street, Dallas, 214-692-0203, www.mydso. com/disney.

SAT 21 SATURDAY SCHOOL SESSION 3: ADINKRA STAMPING & PRINTMAKING 2-4pm. Budding artists ages 6-10 explore printmaking with patterns based on traditional symbols developed by the Ashanti people of Ghana in West Africa. Creations on paper and cloth will then be embellished with beads, threads, shells, stones and other found objects. Instructor: VET, a native Texas artist who incorporates environmental recycling awareness through her artwork. 2-4 p.m. l Art Lab l $75; discount for Art

Connection members. Irving Arts Center, 3333 N. MacArthur Blvd., Irving, www.irvingartscenter.com.

DO YOU HEAR THE PEOPLE SING 8pm. Twenty years ago, the creative team of Alain Boublil and ClaudeMichel Schonberg changed the course of musical theatre with their masterpiece, “Les Miserables” And now, their musical collaboration comes together in one exclusive and unforgettable concert evening- “Do You Hear the People Sing.” The performance celebrates the lives and music of two of the world’s most prolific writers of musical theatre with music from Les Miserables, Miss Saigon, Martin Guerre, The Pirate Queen, and Wuthering Heights.

The performance also includes never-before-heard songs from these musicals and surprises! From I Dreamed a Dream and Bring Him Home to American Dream, this concert stirs the soul. Tickets start at $14. Eisemann Center, 2351 Performance Drive, Richardson, www. planosymphony.org.

DALLAS STARS VS. RED WINGS 7pm. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, stars.nhl.com.

SUN 22 CHORAL EVENSONG 4pm. Mostly unchanged since the 16th century, Evensong continues to be one of the most treasured liturgies of the Anglican tradition, especially as celebrated in cathedral churches.

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TUE 24 DALLAS SUMMER MUSICALS: KINKY BOOTS Feb. 24-Mar. 8. KINKY BOOTS is the exhilarating Broadway musical that will lift your spirits to new high-heeled heights! Winner of six Tony Awards® including BEST MUSICAL, this inspirational story follows a struggling shoe factory owner who works to turn his business around with help from Lola, a fabulous entertainer in need of some sturdy stilettos.

Together, this unlikely pair finds that they have more in common than they ever dreamed possible… proving that when you change your mind about someone, you can change your whole world. Inspired by a true story, KINKY BOOTS features a joyous, Tony-winning score by CYNDI LAUPER, direction and Tony-winning choreography by JERRY MITCHELL and a hilarious, uplifting book by four-time Tony winner HARVEY FIERSTEIN. Come join the sold-out audiences who’ve discovered why – sometimes – the best way to fit in is to stand out! Content Warning: Suitable for audiences aged 12 and upwards. Run Time: Two hours and 25 minutes (including intermission).

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FRI 27 DALLAS STARS VS. AVALANCHE 7:30pm. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, stars. nhl.com.

SAT 28 DALLAS BLOOMS 2015: DEEP IN THE HEART OF TEXANS Runs Feb. 28-Apr. 12. Dallas Blooms at the Arboretum begins today. This is the largest floral festival in the Southwest and has been a tradition “Deep in the Hearts of Texans” for 31 years. This year’s Texas-sized extravaganza will feature more than 500,000 blooming spring bulbs along with themed topiaries, entertainment, food and other activities celebrating the iconography of our state that is recognizable world-wide.

Dallas Arboretum, 8525 Garland Road, Dallas, 214-515-6500, dallasarboretum.org.

PROFESSIONAL BULL RIDERS BUILT FORD TOUGH SERIES 6pm. Every event begins with pyrotechnics, explosions, and flames. Then the excitement really begins when the Top 35 bull riders in the world compete against the fiercest bucking bulls on the planet, providing two hours of thrills and spills guaranteed to keep you on the edge-of-your-seat and your heart pounding. The nationally-televised Built Ford Tough Series visits some of the most famous arenas across the United States. Each event has a winner, and riders accumulate points towards the ultimate goal, the Professional Bull Riders World Championship. The highest-paid bull riders in the world are not only competing for the coveted Championship Buckle, but also the $1 million bonus awarded to the winner.

Tickets start at $20. AT&T Stadium, One AT&T Way, Arlington, 719-2422800, www.pbr.com.

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SAVE THE DATE… MAR 3 7TH-12TH GRADE OPEN HOUSE AT STONEGATE CHRISTIAN ACADEMY Find out more about our warm safe environment of preparation where Christian values are supported and life skills for success are developed.

6-8pm. Upper School Campus, 2833 W Shady Grove Rd, Irving 972-790-0070 www.sgca.net. See ad in this issue.

MAR 9 SPRING SWIM LESSONS BEGIN AT NORTH LAKE AND HERITAGE AQUATIC CENTERS Lessons for kids and adults.

Mon & Wed at Northlake; Tues & Thurs at Heritage. $50 for Kids; $70 for Adults. Other start dates are 4/6 & 5/4. Saturday morning

lessons available starting 3/7, 4/11 & 5/9. Register in person at North Lake Pool, 972-264-2774, www. differentstrokesswimschool.com.

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MAR 9-13 SPRING BREAK MATH CAMP AT MATHNASIUM Unlock the Mystery of Math and advance your child’s math skills in a 5-day fun program tailored to three levels: Investigator (K-Grade 2), Spy (Grades 3-5), and Detective (Grades 6-8). 9am-12pm, $199/child. 4000 N MacArthur Blvd, Ste 106, Irving. Call Chloe for details and to sign up 972467-8577. See ad in this issue.

MAR 21 THE 6TH ANNUAL DFW FAMILY EXPO 10am-5pm. Discover the best products, services, venues & entertainment for North Texas Families.

Enjoy bounce houses, face painting, an indoor trampoline park, petting zoo, massage stations, character appearances and more. Dallas Market Center, Main Hall, 2200 Stemmons Frwy, Dallas. $5, all ticket proceeds donated to Children’s Medical Center.

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JUN 8-12 SUMMER CHESS CAMP AT UT DALLAS Join beginner, intermediate or advanced chess classes for ages 7-14.

9am-noon or 1-4pm and extended playing classes available. Other sessions June 15-19, July 13-17 and July 20-24. Register at www.utdallas. edu/chess. For more info, call 972883-4899 or email james.stallings@ utdallas.edu. See ad in this issue.

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BACKTALK { BY KEN SWARNER }

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The phrase usually spills out of my daughter’s mouth the minute I have

disciplined her for something that she testifies I didn’t punish her brother for doing. On other occasions my son will accuse me of favoritism because, according to him, I ALWAYS go easier on his sister for crimes that he paid dearly for doing.

It’s at times like these I stand before them as they argue and whine...wondering what single people are doing.

My daughter approaches this issue as if she’s an actor in a melodramatic reading. Throwing herself to the floor she’ll twist and moan: “You like Alasdair better.

You probably wish I were never born. Maybe I should just stay in my room all day and never say a word - that way you can work on your will and give everything to your son. Uh!” Finally she’ll look up from the kitchen floor. “Dad, what are you doing?”

“Making popcorn. Bravo.”

My son takes a more direct approach. “Well, you obviously have to live with yourself.”

I don’t know where this mistrust and paranoia comes from. I am sure child psychologists could explain it to me, but whatever they said

Opening the door, I’ll find the other child standing there shaking her head in disbelief. “A week? He got a week?”

My problem, of course, is that I engage. I immediately take the stand as if I’m the defendant in court. “Yes, your honor, a week.”

wouldn’t change the fact that my son asked me the other day if his

“For messing up your den?”

sister had diplomatic immunity.

“Yes, for messing up my den.”

The part I hate the most however is the extra work caused by these disputes. I now record and gather evidence solely so I can defend myself in cross-examination. I know I not only have to hand down judgments, but I have to be ready for the appeal process as well.

Foolishly, I thought this behavior would improve with age, but as my children approach the teen years it’s getting worse. If I didn’t know better, I’d think they were destined to be trial lawyers...or pro basketball players.

My children are always watching - recording - checking up to see

The child steadies herself on the doorjamb. “I left a paperclip out of place on your desk last year and I got a month...a month.”

That was how this Tuesday started. I guess I had finally had enough and I snapped. I ushered my daughter into the den and closed the door.

“You know why I gave you a month, don’t you?”

She looked confused. “No. Why?” I grabbed her hands into mine, stared warmly into her eyes, and said sarcastically: “Because sweetie, mom and I like your brother better.”

how my rulings and discipline measure up. The minute I pass judgment,

She didn’t miss a beat: “I-knew-it.”

they descend.

From under the door crack I heard a seal cry out: “THAAAAT’S

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