Hill Country Weddings and Events Magazine Spring/Summer 2020

Spring/Summer 2020

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PUBLISHED QUARTERLY BY Hill Country Weddings & Events Magazine Publishers Brenda Sealy Crystal Wiedenfeld Editors Ron and Cheryl Lehman Graphic Design/Art Direction Brenda Sealy Advertising Sales Lisa Bourgeois Brenda Sealy Contributing Writers Crystal Wiedenfeld Kristin Voss Contributing Photographers Kaylee Hunter Photography Megan Smart Photography Hill Country Weddings is published quarterly and promotes city, community, and business activities in and around the Texas Hill Country.

Our mailing address and editorial office is located at: 512 N. Main St. Boerne, TX 78006 Ph # 830-816-5215 info@hillcountryweddingsmagazine.com sales@hillcountryweddingsmagazine.com submissions@hillcountryweddingsmagazine.com www.hillcountryweddingsmagazine.com © Hill Country Weddings Magazine © Hill Country Weddings, LLC

Send queries about articles or photographs to Hill Country Weddings Magazine at 512 North Main St, Boerne TX 78006. For advertising information call (830) 816-5215; email sales@hillcountryweddingsmagazine. com.

NEWS POLICY Hill Country Weddings Magazine encourages submission of news and event announcement items. News and event announcements must include contact name and contact phone number. All news and event items must be for activities that occur inside the Texas hill country and are subject for review prior to submission. Publication cannot be guaranteed.

If you would like to submit an item to Hill Country Weddings Magazine, email us at info@hillcountryweddingsmagazine.com or call us at (830) 816-5215.

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From the Publishers

We are excited to bring you the sixth Spring/Summer issue of the premier Hill Country Weddings & Events Magazine!

This is the first offical combined issue we have ever done due to the pandemic so we hope you enjoy the change. We are greatly overwhelmed with the positive response from readers of our previous issues! We are excited that we have officially made it over the six-year hump. Thank you so much for your support. We hope that you enjoy this issue as much as we enjoyed preparing it for you.

Brenda, a Boerne native and owner of Hill Country Planning, the premier wedding and event planner in the Texas Hill Country, has over sixteen years of experience and enjoys all aspects of the industry.

Brenda has dreamed of planning special events since she was little. Now that she is doing what she loves, she has decided to expand her dreams into something larger.

Crystal has always had a love for fashion and style, whether it is hair and makeup or clothes and design. After doing what she loved for over fifteen years, she opened Simply Serene Salon and Spa in her hometown of Boerne, TX. She

spent years telling anyone who would listen about her fashion tips and hair trends.

Hill Country Weddings & Events Magazine combines the sisters’ passions and features everything from weddings to events, style, fashion and more.

Nothing could be more exciting or anticipated than a bride’s walk down the aisle! If you’re planning on tying the knot, the Texas Hill Country has proven to be an ideal location to say your I Do’s. We have provided all the resources you will need to plan your special day. If there’s one piece of advice that continues to ring true, it’s this: take time to enjoy your engagement, plan a wedding that reflects you as a couple, and get a wedding planner. This is just the beginning.

Other unique ideas, columns and features will be added as we continue growing and expanding Hill Country Weddings & Events Magazine.

We started this publication with just thirtysix pages and have increased to fifty-six already. Can you believe how much we have grown over the past six years? We are beyond excited for the amazing things to come and thank everyone for being a part of this journey with us.

cheers, Brenda & Crystal

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Cover Photo Contest

Cover by: Katherine Elaine Photography

TOP FIVE COVER PHOTOS

Hill Country Weddings & Events Magazine holds a contest on our Facebook page inviting all fans to post their favorite Hill Country Wedding photos for a chance at the cover. Our 2019 issues were a success and we are excited to continue the contest in our 2020 issues.

So find your favorite photo and share it on our Facebook page for a chance at the cover!

Here are the top 5 winners from top to bottom...

MG Photography TX, Katherine Elaine Photogrphy, Kayla Jane Photography, Frame Photography, Kayla Jane Photography

Hill Country Weddings staff will select up to 100 photos to highlight in an album to be posted and will then invite our entire Facebook community to “vote” for their favorite photo by liking and/ or sharing the photo.

The Top 10 pictures will be chosen and then the committee will narrow down to the Top 5! The Top 5 will be published in the magazine and one lucky winner will be featured on the cover once chosen by the committee.

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Spring Engagement Photo Contest TOP 10 ENGAGEMENT PHOTOS

For a chance to be in the magazine, send your engagement photos to submissions@hillcountryweddingsmagazine.com Photos from: Ariel Raquel Photography, Emily Kimbro Photography, Karissa Barta Photography and Kayla Jane Photography

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Hill Country Weddings and Events Magazine sat down to plan for the year after the Covid-19 outbreak, as it has set us and most all wedding and event professionals in a tailspin scrambling to postpone and reschedule all the weddings and events we had in March - May and now even July.

For the first time in 6 years we are combining two issues to one. The Spring 2020 magazine will be combined with the Summer For 22020 020 magazine for print as we do not want everyone missing out on any of the amazing things we have in each issue.

How to plan a wedding during the coronavirus outbreak...

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You’ve said yes and now the planning begins. Getting married is a life-changing experience and we want yyour our wedding to bring you decades d ecades of memories and happiness. h appiness. Planning at a time like this is ever changing however, we have lots of vendors making the necessary adjustments in the meantime. Pictures aren’t enough for such a big decision but maybe a virtual meeting, zoom or facetime tour could help. You can stay in the comfort of your own home while having others join in on the tour as well and get a head start on what is available.

Don’t stop planning!

Wedding planning is not quick and easy, and it does require months so we never want to put things off as you may also have some extra time on your hands if you are stuck at home.

No one knows when this will be over however, you should plan ahead and plan on getting a wedding insurance policy just in case. Make sure you get the full details of the policy to make sure it would also provide you with the coverage you were needing.

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MEET THE COVER PHOTO COUPLE...

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On December 29th of 2015 Tyler was scheduled to leave for his 6 month long basic and AIT training to begin his career in the Army. Tyler and I had been set up by friends and he asked if he could take me out on a date before he was supposed to leave. Our infamous first (and only) date was on December 27th of 2015, just two days before he shipped out. Tyler drove all the way

from Fredericksburg to San Antonio to take me on a dinner and Top Golf date.

What I would later find out is that he left early from his surprise going away party in Fredericksburg with friends and family to come see me.

We had a blast, talked for hours, and the date was one that neither of us wanted end, especially knowing that a second would be a long ways off. I was instantly

head over heels and crushed by thought of this perfect man I had met having to leave. The first date was all it took for me to know Tyler was something special and if he felt the same way I did, he was worth waiting six months for. Two days later Tyler was shipped off to basic training and in the last moments before he

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Ryan and Ana met their freshmen year at the University of Mary Hardin-Baylor (UMHB). It was love at first sight, and from then on, Ryan and Ana made every excuse to see each other.

Sometimes it meant having study dates so they could get homework done while also being with each other. When Christmas came along, they couldn’t stand not seeing each other so they would text each other nonstop and even

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wanted the break to end, unlike normal people, just so they could hang out again.

Soon after returning to campus, they started dating and on St. Valentine’s Day, Ryan decided to take Ana out on their first official date - a date where studying didn’t have to be involved. He took her to lunch first and then took her on a trip to Austin which is about an hour from UMHB. They first stopped continued on page 9

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had his phone confiscated he asked for my address to possibly write me a letter. I waited anxiously wondering if he was thinking of me as continued on page 17

Engagement Story continued fron page 8 at Peace District Park to walk around and then ended their date watching the sunset at Mount Bonnell. The next three and a half years consisted of being together during school and making the longdistance thing work for all of their school breaks since Ana would return home to Dallas and Ryan would return to Boerne.

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August 1st, 2020, at D’vine Grace Vineyards in McKinney, TX, and will be enjoying a nice honeymoon in St. Lucia!

They are so lucky and grateful to have both decided to go to UMHB and to have found each other! They are super excited for the next phase in their life and can’t wait to begin their happily ever after!

In March of 2019, Ryan finally popped the question in the most thoughtful and special way! He re-created their first date, and once they reached the top of Mount Bonnell, knelt on one knee and asked her to marry him; without hesitation she said YES!! After finally graduating college this past December, they are starting to plan their wedding! They will be getting married this coming

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Mason and I have known each since we were teenagers.

We grew up in a small town and have been best friends for over a decade. We were high school sweethearts and we attended Texas A&M together where we made so many incredible memories with family and friends. We graduated a few semesters apart and started working full-time...

The night of his grandmother’s birthday, or so I thought, we were all supposed to dress up for family

pictures. Between running late and getting ready I was oblivious to everything going on. I drove to Mason’s house, which is actually on their Christmas tree farm, and finished getting ready. Mason’s dad asked us if we’d shut off the well before we headed out for the evening. We hopped on the golf cart and headed that way. After asking why we were taking a weird route through the Christmas trees several times and getting no answer, Mason pulled up to a wide walkway that was filled with canvases and flower vases. It was a walk down SPRING

our own memory lane. From our awkward middle school dances, football games, proms, college days, and graduations we laughed and reminisced on how much we’d grown. The last picture was us at Christmas and it said, “ last Christmas without a ring”. He led me under an oak tree and there next to more flowers was a small box.

He got down on one knee and asked me to marry him, and of course I said yes! Our families were hiding in the trees and came running out to congratulate us. To make it more perfect, Mason arranged for a surprise engagement party that night with our close family and friends.

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Spring Florals and a Helpful Florist

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If you are planning a wedding in the springtime, which includes March, April, May and June, you are in luck! It is prime blooming season for some of the prettiest wedding flowers including peonies, ranunculus and tulips.

out-of-season flowers. Outof-season flowers must be imported from other parts of the country or even from around the world. The right florist can offer lots of options to help you obtain the ideal floral décor for your wedding.

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not getting married in the spring, she may suggest a doppelganger to you instead.

It has the same shape or feeling but will be easier to get for another season if needed. Don’t limit your options as the right florist can help guide you in the right direction.

If you want to stretch the floral budget, try an

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oversized flower. You won’t need as many to create a full and dramatic look and they will still be affordable.

Even if you are not looking for that flower in season, you could incorporate other spring elements in your design with all the colors associated with spring.

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Hill Country Wedding’s Best of the Best Choice Awards 2020 Winners

Lodging/Accommodations St. Anthony Hotel Tapatio Springs Resort Camp Comfort Doubletree by Hilton Eilan Hotel La Cantera Resort The Otis Hotel in Austin Canyon Lake Cabins and Cottages Bevy Hotel Wyndham Garden Camp Lucy Omni Resorts Barton Creek The Driskill

Love, Lipstick, and Lashes Jax Studio

Music/DJ Lumen Events 5150 Productions Four Star DJ South Texas Cutting Edge Entertainment At Last Entertainment Cedar and Oak Entertainment

Video Mark Thomas Pro Photo and Video Limelight San Antonio Dos Kiwis Studio Driskill Films

Dresses Olivia Grace Bridal Liv & Love Bridal Bella Bridesmaids Officiant Texas Wedding Ministers Everlasting Elopements Bar Service Bartenders4you The Aero Bar in Austin

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Cake Creations Cake Shop HEB Sweet Traditions The Cake Shop Sophie’s Planner/Coordinator All In The Details Events Reese Events Group Hill Country Planning Pearl Events Austin Weddings by Diana Boucher Eclipse Event Company Flowers Couture Dezigns Evember - Floral and Event Design HEB Blooms Uptown Flowers Chic Concepts De Vinnie’s Paradise

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Cookies/Desserts Handful of Cookies 2 Tart Bakery Photobooth Vogue Vignette MirMir Austin Four Star DJ Rentals CRU Vintage Rentals Marquee Rentals Illusions Rentals Whim Hospitality Loot Rentals Photography BT Photography - Boerne Allison Jeffers Photography Mint Photography Rebecca McCoy Photography Specialty Frost 321 Leslie Lane Llamas Signature Ice Sculptures Percolator Letter Press Harpistry by Sarah Hall Grazeology Grazing

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Venues Contigo Ranch Food/Catering Fredericksburg Smoke in the Hills BBQ Saddle Creek Weddings Jimmy Lyn’s The Dominion Country Tim The Girl Catering Club Absolutely Delicious Catering Gruene Estate Heavenly Gourmet Altstadt Brewery River City Catering Firefly Farm All Occasions of Texas Rocking B Ranch Catering The Ivory Oak Don Strange Ranch Catering Horseshoe Bay Resort The Allan House Cartwheels Catering Kendall Plantation Ma Maison Hair and Makeup Simply Serene Salon and Spa Sunset Ranch Event Center A Very Good Hair Day

Vista West Ranch The Oaks at Heavenly Hoffman Haus Star Hill Ranch Lost Mission Harper Hill Ranch JW Marriott Lucky Arrow Retreat Hilton Palacio del Rio Western Sky Cedars Ranch The Oasis on Lake Travis Prima Vista The Lodge at Country Inn Cottages La Bonne Vie Ranch

Old World Charm, Modern Conveniences And A Breathtaking Hill Country Backdrop FROM INTIMATE PARTIES TO EXTRAVAGANT EVENTS, ALTSTADT BREWERY OFFERS THE BEST OF TEXAS.

More than just an award-winning brewery, Altstadt offers a wedding destination unlike any other with several indoor and outdoor venues available.

Private parties up to 180 can dine from a custom menu curated by our classically trained chef and tailored to your taste buds. Our on-site event coordinator will ensure that all the details of your big day are taken care of so you can focus on what really matters. And, to top it all off, Altstadt is nestled on 120 sprawling Hill Country acres making it a wedding photographer’s dream.

Learn more about what makes Altstadt an impressive yet approachable venue at AlstadtBeer.com

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Who is getting married in 2020? Now is the time for all those 90’s babies to get married. The average age of a person getting married in 2020 is 33, meaning this year most of the couples were born in the 90’s. Who didn’t love the 90’s?

Are you ready to find out what the trends are for this new year? Here is a shocker: the biggest trend is being laid back doing what you want.

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2020 Trends

them as a couple and what they like - rather than following what everyone else is doing. We love seeing that as a top priority because remember, it is your day.

And while couples are doing what they want for their wedding. It’s important to note that many are embracing the look of vintage and 1920’s décor. We are talking the modern look that incorporates everything your grandparents loved with a current-day twist.

Velvet is on the rise in both décor and wedding attire this year. Let us not also forget about the mismatched patterns of the buffalo check and bold florals. Instagramworthy wedding details are trending big this year too.

The goal is to create a wedding that feels personal but has the “I need a picture of this for social media” look.

One of the best ways for this is through the food. Charcuterie boards as centerpieces, dessert tables instead

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of the traditional cake or grooms’ cake. And unique escort cards (Champagne walls, shots or liquor or a small plant or memorabilia) to name a few.

Wedding Décor: The bolder the better! There is not a “too much” this year.

So, go big or go home when it comes to 2020 trends in the décor department. Do you.

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EDITOR’S PICK

Vendors: Venue:@gatewayhousefbg Host: @hillcountrycreativeworkshops Coordinator: @hillcountryplanning Wedding Dress: @livandlovebridal Bridesmaid Dress: @livandlovebridal Tux: @rexformalwear Rings: @rawbyoliviamar Hair & MakeUp: @lily_antoniette Florals: @dontquit_yourdaydream Cake: @gingersnapscakeco Rentals: @fivestarpartyevents Mobile Bar: @the_party_aair_store Llamas: @susan_leslie_llamas Photography: @MeganSmartPhotography

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much as I was him and if I would get a letter in the mail. The day finally came and that first letter arrived, and so began three months of writing letters and us getting to know one another in a way that so few people in our generation will ever get to experience. At the end of the three months he graduated basic and was able to then use his phone for the remaining three months of training.

Our relationship continued to grow through hours and hours of FaceTime calls, more letters, messages, care packages, and counting down the days till we would soon be together again for only the second time. In July of 2016 he was finally home and we began to build a relationship that only got stronger each day. In December of 2017 Tyler pulled off the greatest surprise in the world when he proposed. He told me that I was going to assist him in guiding a black buck hunt, but little did I know when we got there he would tell me that the hunt was for me and I would be getting to shoot my dream black buck.

Once the hunt was over and we walked up to the animal on the ground I was convinced that I was having the best day ever and couldn’t believe he had pulled off such an incredible surprise. I admired the animal and when I excitedly turned around to look at Tyler he was down on one knee. Hunting together is such a special thing to us and I couldn’t have asked for a more perfect proposal. Due to the fact that Tyler was scheduled to deploy in May of 2018 we decided to marry in a cont’d on page 19 Food: Heavenly Gourmet

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If you are in the middle of wedding planning, then you have likely checked out Pinterest, Minted or have googled different wedding stationery suite packages.

The couples of 2020 have so many options now with all the papers, colors, fonts, foil press, embellishments and more. Before you buy something online or over the counter, make sure to do your research. Before you eagerly pop these fresh-offthe-press paper goods in the mail, you’ll want to research everything there is to know about properly formatting all the information typically included on the invitation.

With most things weddingrelated, there’s a code of conduct to follow when addressing guests, assembling pieces in a specific order, and (most importantly!) choosing a time to get the invitations in the mail.

Thankfully, these must-know wedding invitation tips will help you mail your invites without a hitch. Trust us— you’ll find this cheat sheet particularly helpful with the details While these invitation customs have history, there are endless ways to make your paper suite your own but it’s important to nail down a few of the big-

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ger rules to ensure that the invitations make it into your guests’ hands safe and sound. # 1 - Get organized about a month before your desired invitation send-out date. This should be six to eight weeks before the wedding, allowing your guests adequate time to respond and ensure that you will get a reliable head count at least two weeks before the event. # 2 - Decide if you need to hire a calligrapher or not.

Depending on your handwriting and the level of formality of your wedding, you may want to have your envelopes inscribed by a professional calligrapher. You’ll have to get the envelopes to the calligrapher at least two to three weeks before you need them.

Alexander vs. The Alexander Family.

Shapes – Think outside the traditional shape of the wedding invitation is on trend for 2020. We have seen everything from geometric, circular and triangular. Just be careful with these as the cost of mailing might make a big difference as well. # 4 – Packaging has so many options as well. You can do

a patterned or lined envelope and you can add embellishments like ribbons, wax seals and more. #5 Map – Don’t forget the map! Hand drawn maps of your hometown or destination venue are so fun. You can use the design for save

# 3 – Be sure to use your guests’ proper names.

Though etiquette for addressing wedding invitations has relaxed, there are some important requirements. For example, your guests’ names should be written in full detail on the outer envelopes avoiding any nicknames or initials. If you are not inviting the family or children make sure that is addressed in the invitation – Mr. and Mrs. hillcountryweddingsmagazine.com

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the dates, welcome bags and other details to add that personal touch. If you are that creative couple, take it a little further and create yourself a treasure map or scavenger hunt for the wedding party to do at the rehearsal or over the weekend. Depending on your venue of course.

If you choose to use a calligrapher, make sure to go over these points and make sure that they agree and understand with the protocols for addressing your envelopes.

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cont’d from page 17 very small ceremony on the Beckmann family ranch in Harper, TX on March 25th of 2018. Shortly after we married Tyler deployed to the Middle East for another long 9 months spent apart. Tyler returned home in May of 2019 and on September 7th we finally had our big dream wedding in Fredericksburg with all of our friends and loved ones. It was an absolute dream wedding held in a farmhouse style venue close to where Tyler grew up. The style was what I like to call “rustic glam”. Unlike our first ranch wedding, this time Tyler wore his formal military dress blues and I had on my DREAM rhinestone mermaid dress. The event was formal with all over the sparkle and shine of glitzy event, however a main focus in our decoration was antlers, peacock feathers, greenery, and turquoise.

It truly embodied everything that we are and it could not have a more incredible or well-deserved day.

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Summer hairstyles should be fast, easy, and sweatproof. Hair accessories like ribbon, scarves and bandanas are here this summer to help. Think slightly elevated bun or sleek ponytail braids are a genius solution to any unwanted flyways and frizz.

Style & Beauty Tips for Summer By: Crystal Wiedenfeld All picks can be purchased at Simply Serene Salon and Spa. www.simplysereneboerne.com Â

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If you are leaving the house this summer you still want to look somewhat put together for those Zoom meetings and virtual happy hours. All you need is a dewy skin tint, a lightweight foundation and lip gloss. Brow gel, a black or brown mascara, and a warm blush. Keep it simple and easy this summer and just do not forget the sunscreen.

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Brighten the summer with a little Tie-dye because it is back again! Some of these trends can be hard for some of us older ones to bring ourselves back to, but the Youngsters love it!! How fun is it to make tie dye shirts this summer? A walk down memory lane for sure. Bring in some bright colors make it fun to mix but neon green you will probably see a lot of.

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How do you tell your “guests” no kids and not offend them?

Some believe that a wedding is for adults only which others feel like it’s a family event and should involve the kids.

There are however some good reasons for opting for no kids at your wedding.

The budget is already tight for most weddings and sometimes just adding on the additional kids and space can save you a little bit in the funds department.

Distraction is next on the list.

Although we all love our children and enjoy the time with them, imagine getting to sit there without the distraction so that you can truly hear the ceremony and engagement with what is taking place as a guest.

Why not enjoy a night out as a couple or get away for the weekend with no kids for some time to yourself?

The best way to let your guests know that you have chosen to the no kids rule at

your wedding it is the following: Address the invitation clearly: Mr. and Mrs. Alexander instead of The Alexander Family

Put it on your wedding website: We will have an adult only wedding reception. Don’t hold back or confuse your guests.

Make sure they are aware ahead of time.

Stay firm on the rules: remember there are no exceptions to this – your sisters’ baby or best friends 2-yearold. If you are saying no kids, there should be no kids because it’s others are leaving their kids behind and if they show up to see kids, they are not going to be happy.

Be understanding: Someone may bring it up to you that they are coming from out of town or they don’t have a sitter for that day. Let them know you absolutely love their children and wish everyone could be a part of your special day however you just don’t have it in the budget for the kids on this day.

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Use professional vendors! When you hire professionals, you not only get someone who knows what to do, but you also get quality.

When scouting outdoor venues, be sure you ask about the rain plan.

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WEDDING GIFTS OF 2020

The registries used for weddings used to include fine china, toasters and mixers but now most couples have those items already. Home goods that include tools, electronics and camping gear are always a good idea but let’s not forget those gifts that the couple will never forget.

Some unique ideas: Changing the name after wedding day can be a pain however they now have companies such as HitchSwitch that can make it a lot smoother so a gift card for the couple could save them time and energy to start that process.

You can’t go wrong with Netflix gift card. Every couple needs a date night or even a night even every now and

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then so the Netflix card can help with a monthly plan they may be interested in or a binge-watching weekend they decide to spend at home.

We live in a world of convenience these days so why not send them a food, flower or drink subscription? Meal delivery such as Hello Fresh could provide them a great way to cook together and enjoy some new recipes they don’t normally cook. Or who can say no to a wine of the month that they can save for a special dinner or date night? Let’s not forget there are also some great monthly flower delivery services as well that would be nice to get fresh flowers once a month and it’s the gift, they will remember every month.

Think of what kind of couple they are. Do they love to tailgate or hit up the beach or maybe need some fun camping gear? Do they like to spend their time fishing or hunting and would enjoy a weekend trip later down the line? Find out their hobbies and what they enjoy and how you could help them to spend a memorable time after the wedding day stress.

Wedding gift etiquette says a guest should spend from $70 to $250 depending on if you are going solo or with a significant other. The closer you are with the couple you may choose to spend more. Let’s not forget they are providing you with dinner, drinks and entertainment for the night as well how much does it cost these days to go have a night out?

Do couples still use a registry? Yes about half your guests will still pick the gifts you actually want or need that you put together as options however the other half want to get a gift that feels more personal than just a toaster or coffee pot. They want that keepsake feel so that you can remember them for months or years to come.

One last note is spend what you can afford because they are not inviting you for a gift they are inviting you because they want you there and for you to be with them on this special day and you mean more to them than your gift.

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Do This, Not That : Venue Tours 101 By: Kristin Voss at Kendall Plantation

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We love venue tours! We love showing brides Kendall Plantation and giving all the warm and fuzzies. But there are somethings that you just don’t know, until you know!

For those of you who do your homework—here’s another short read for ya!

Make an appointment: Tours are by appointment only.

Make sure you’ve scheduled one before you show up!

Don’t show up on a Friday, Saturday, or Sunday afternoon for a tour! Wedding day!

you and your fiancé, mom and dad, and or the immediate most important.

Saturday’s are wedding days; So we limit our tour time on Saturdays to accommodate many couples, and most important, we are considerate to the bride of the day! So, to make sure you can see every-

We are not sleezy salespeople!

No pressure, we won’t ask you to book onsite, we won’t follow you to your car, we won’t email you 500 times.

We get it, choosing the right venue is kind of a big deal!

When you are ready, we are ready.

If you tour on a Saturday, consider who you bring with you! Limit your invites to

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Ever been HANGRY? Don’t come to the tour hungry, you can’t focus!

Read Reviews. Google is helpful from a guest’s (or any random persons) perspective, but The Knot and Wedding wire tell the good, the bad and the ugly from real brides. Also, read the venue responses to reviews. It will tell you a lot about the ethics of a business.

Show up on time. #1 !! Especially on Saturdays! Tours are scheduled back to back to back to accommodate as many brides as possible! If you arrive late, yikes, it puts a kink in everything! Allow for about 20 minutes for a tour on a Saturday!

If you need a moment, take one! We don’t mind. If you are not comfortable discussing something in front of us, don’t be shy, ask for space J

love with your venue, not your date” …SOOOOO this means you can ask what dates we have open. We would love to share our calendar with you so you can see what dates are available, going, or gone!

Questions: Ask away! But first, get through tour. We bet most of your questions are answered before you have to ask them! thing and get the most out of your tour, limit the amount of people you bring with you for less distractions! Hey, if you book a tour during the week, bring all the people… we have more time and attention to give to you J

Want to see a contract? Cool, we can email you one so you can read it without distraction. We have nothing to hide, we are happy to share a sample contract with you!

Ask us what dates are open.

Our golden rule…” Fall in

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Be sure to ask about any hidden fees, or “plus-plus” fees.

Heads up, Kendall Plantation has no hidden fees or plusplus fees. We keep it simple, the way it should be.

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Looking for a fun way to bring something different to your wedding or event? You cannot go wrong with a mobile bar. A mobile bar is exactly what it sounds like: A stocked bar (bartender usually included) that brings the party to wherever you are.

These cute little bar trailers can be maneuvered into any tight space and work great for a private party, wedding, corporate event, or other gathering. While we cannot pull up on a street corner selling cocktails you can pull a cute mobile bar for your next rehearsal dinner, bridal shower and more.

MARGARITA I do not know about you, but a Margarita goes great for a summer cocktail in my books. I like to add just a little jalapeno too for the Spicy margarita.

Ingredients • 2 oz. silver tequila • 1 oz. Cointreau • 1 oz. lime juice • coarse salt Directions Chill a cocktail glass, and then rub the rim with lime juice and dip it in coarse salt. Add tequila, Cointreau, lime juice, and ice together in a cocktail shaker. Shake and then strain into the glass over ice.

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WEDDING QUIZ

Photo by: Megan Smart Photography LLamas: Susan Leslie Llamas

Pick a suit for the best man: A. Basic black or traditional B. Navy blue C. Red or pinstriped – something wild and stylish Location: A. Church B. Beach C. Garden

Main Course: A. Steak B. Lobster C. Sushi Invite: A. Wax Seal or foil stamping B. Hand illustrated or laser cut C. Eco friendly

Mostly A’s: You’re a traditional person with tried and true methods. Your true focus in life is keeping things simple for happiness. You are deeply passionate and loyal person who isn’t afraid to stand up for what you believe in.

Mostly B’s: You’re a boho-beach person with a free spirit and craving for all things fun. You go with the flow and trust that whatever happens is meant to be.

Mostly C’s: You’re the life of the party!

Your unique style is magnetizing and catches eyes. You are extremely ambitious and energetic, and you have a zest for life. You enjoy the attention and go out of your way to get it.

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The world and the wedding and event industry have never experienced anything like COVID-19 before and we are all navigating our way through it. We have all been seeing lots of posts from couples who were ready to get married and who are now having to make some changes. Some of the posts reveal that the couples and families are upset and confused about why their vendors will not fully refund them non-refundable deposits and payments. We want to help shed some light on this issue for everyone as we all go through these hard times together.

We want to first note that the COVID-19 virus is not forcing anyone to cancel their wedding. It is putting restrictions on some wedding plans, such as venues, so the couple may want to consider their options in postponing or rescheduling their wedding date. Some venues, for example, are having to decrease the number of guests, and maybe your out of town guests can no longer

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come to the wedding. If a couple decides to cancel their wedding all together because of this pandemic, that is a choice they are making.

We completely understand the frustration on both sides: the client’s and the small business owners. We want to help explain the vendor’s view, such as keeping the non-refundable deposits or payments. Every single wedding vendor is stuck in a hard spot now because we are trying to take the pandemic into consideration, but we are also trying to keep our businesses open as well. This crisis is no one’s fault.

As a wedding planner I have extremely limited dates available for the year, and same goes for venues. There are only 52 weekends in a year.

Most people do not want weekday weddings, and our inventory may be limited.

Some vendors may be able to book multiple weddings on one date, but venues, planners, and others are extremely limited in our supply of

dates. When you booked the wedding date – that venue or planner reserved the date for you and no one else. In turn, we more than likely turned away other business and money to keep that date for your event, since, of course you signed the contract and paid the non-refundable deposit and costs. Look at it as inventory - if there is no more inventory (dates) for other couples then there is no money coming in.

Suddenly, vendors don’t have just one or two cancellations or rescheduled events. I know for us that March – May is 50% of our income for the year - which of course is when the COVID-19 virus hit. This is not play money for us (we of course LOVE our jobs) however. This income pays for our office, mortgage, internet, telephone and other expenses. Let us not forget about our employees as well- it is certainly a disaster.

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as best as possible. Some are not charging any fees, and some must charge minimal fees. Keep in mind these businesses are going to be barely scaping by. Not only did the vendor just lose out on the date for you, but they are rescheduling and losing another precious date on the books as well.

We know this pandemic is beyond your control and you probably feel frustrated, anxious, angry, and helpless.

Please remember that the vendors feel the same and we are all losing out. What we are asking for all is to compromise and cooperate during this situation and let us focus on the good. If we work together we can get through this challenging time together.

There is no right or wrong in this situation. At the end of the day, you will be married and you will have a story of a lifetime!

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Historically speaking, the mother of the groom’s “role” was to sit back, relax and show up on wedding day.

Fast forward to today and it’s safe to say the rules have been nixed.

It’s a good idea for the mother of the groom to touch base with the mother

of the bride to find out what they feel is actually wanted and/or needed. This helps to make sure no one is stepping on someone else’s toes in the process.

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throw the engagement party or post-wedding brunch as well. The groom’s parents normally help financially with these events (rehearsal or wedding brunch), however these rules are becoming much more relaxed as well.

is to communicate – and communicate clearly! It’s all about figuring out what works best for each couple and honoring that.

The best rule of thumb when dealing with wedding duties

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Calendars JULY 23rd: Herbal Cocktail Class online 24th: Date Night: Surf and Turf distance Learning 25th: Back to the 80’s New Wave Retro Virtual 28th: Getting ready to grow a fall vegetable garden online

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SEPTEMBER 1 7:56 PM SEPTEMBER 15 7:38 PM

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7th: The Peddler Show in New Braunfels 8th: Pari-Mutuel Horse Races

5th: The Lion & the Pirate Virtual Open Mic

9th: Jason Boland’s Live Stream Sundays

6th: Breathe Meditation “Virtual”

11th: Pop 40 @ Avenue online

9th: Daughtry: Live From Home

20th: Gillespie County Fair

17th: Imagine A Way’s MASK-erade Gala

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Lance & Shelby Andrews VENUE: THE EVERMORE FLORAL & DECOR: 180 RENTAL & DESIGN PHOTOGRAPHER: LARAINA HASE PHOTOGRAPHY BOUQUET: URBAN RUBBISH

MUA & HAIR: SUN KISSED AND MAKUP BRIDES DRESS: MADE WITH LOVE BRIDESMAIDS DRESSES: SHOW ME YOUR MUMU

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Destination W Glenn & Camille Hedgess

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How did you and your partner meet?

We met online… not on Tinder! Camille’s profile picture included a dinosaur, which ended up being one of the themes in our wedding. Glenn loved how different it was and started chatting about difficulties and impracticalities of pooper and scoopering after such a large pet. Camille thought it was a gusty move to talk about…poo … so soon, so after many hours chatting and joking we went for a coffee date at a local café. The coffee date turned into lunch and would have turned into dinner if we both didn’t have other obligations.

How did he propose?

We went for a bushwalk in our favourite spot and while I was distracted by baby birds, he started rustling loudly in his pocket for something. I turned around and said in an annoyed voice “What have you got in your pocket?”. He grinned and pulled a ring out of a plastic bag, got down on one knee and asked me to be his wife.

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What do you love most about your partner?

Camille described her first impression of Glenn as though she was meeting a “Steve Irwin” like character and struggled to believe anyone could be that nice. Camille said she loves how kind-hearted and helpful Glenn is. She is so appreciative of their relationship and admires how passionate Glenn is of his career and family. She says, “he has helped me to be braver than I ever thought I could be”.

Glen said that he loves that everyday with Camille is an adventure. He admires that their personalities are so complimentary and enjoys seeing Camille live life in the moment. He says, “she makes me feel alive”!

What’s your most important piece of advice for creating and maintaining a strong relationship?

We support each other through the hard times and make time for fun.

Tell us about your wedding gown and how you chose it: I didn’t want to try the gown on, and my bridesmaids made me. I then didn’t want to ever take it off!

What sort of style did you envision for your wedding day?

A colorful festival feel, nice and relaxed but with lots of fun.

What was your favourite moment from the day?

Coming back from taking photos, the sun had just gone down and as we were approaching the reception listening to the sounds of our guests laughing and talking. At this moment we were surrounded by fireflies and had an amazing moment together reveling in the magic of our wedding day.

Name your wedding soundtrack (aisle, reception entry, first dance songs): Aisle – Stand by me by Florence and the Machine, entry – can’t remember, first dance – can’t remember the first dance however, later in the night there was an epic dance off to Dance off by Macklemore and Ryan Lewis.

WEDDING INVITATIONS: GIANT INVITATIONS DRESS: CASAR ELEGANCE BRIDAL MAKEUP: MELISSA COLEMAN MAKEUP ARTIST

FOOD: CRUSTA WOODFIRED PIZZA PHOTOGRAPHER: KELLY ADAMS VENUE: MT GLORIOUS GETAWAYS CELEBRANT: KRISTA WEBB

HAIR: WHISK HAIR

MARQUEE: MONTVILLE YURTS

SHOES: DIANA FERRARI

BAR: TINKER TRAVELLING EVENTS

GROOMS SUIT: PAGE TAILORS

EVENT COORDINATION: MAPLE WEDDINGS AND EVENTS

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Laura Gorman began her career as a professional makeup artist nearly 11 years ago. She has traveled extensively and has worked as a regional makeup artist for such iconic brands as Estée Lauder, Smashbox, and Benefit cosmetics.

During this time, Miss Gorman also apprenticed under several nationally renowned celebrity makeup artists.

Miss Gorman devoted a year to immersing herself in different genres of makeup artistry, from bridal, to editorial, pageantry, and film.

Miss Gorman opened the doors to her studio in the fall of 2018, with only herself, a lead makeup artist, and a lead stylist on staff.

To date, Miss Gorman now has an artistry team of nearly 20 makeup artists and hair stylists.

After leaving the corporate artistry world to pursue independent endeavors in 2017,

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2021 WEDDING TRENDS

“GRANDMILLENIAL” DECOR This grandma-inspired, modern Millennial style is inspiring a lot of fun, bold wedding trends. Popular “Grandmillenial” decor elements include eclectic twists on antique furniture, funky floral wallpaper, and mix-and-matched patterns. Couples are playing with different textures, like wood and metallic accents: think greens, branches, and grasses spray painted for dramatic hanging floral pieces. Unexpected combinations of materials like velvets, suedes, and satins add bold pops of color and depths.

MICROWEDDINGS Couples looking for more intimate, affordable celebrations are planning microweddings—they are eco-friendly, super affordable, and significantly less stressful to plan, which is why it is one of the top wedding trends. This style soiree is a more casual, condensed version of what most people could consider a traditional wedding—usually 40 guests or less. Couples like the simplicity and feeling more connected to their guests in a more relaxed atmosphere.

RELAXED AND INFORMAL Going Big. New wedding reception trends include cutting back on guests does not mean you have to cut back on extravagance. ...

Large Florals. ...

Beautiful Lighting. ...

Videography. ...

The Dress. ...

If you are planning a 2021 wedding, you are probably already diving into all the details: the date, the venue, the size of the bridal party. Maybe you are trying to find a theme and color palette, or maybe you feel stuck at square one and do not even know where to begin.

REGISTRY REMIX Place settings and hand towels are nice to have, but most newlyweds are asking for cash, not things, as wedding gifts: a European honeymoon, starter funds for a new home, passes to national parks and, tickets to sporting events. Lots of couples also create a charity registry, so guests can donate to a cause that means something to them, like foundations that support animal rescue efforts or cancer survivors.

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CHEERS TO SELF-SERVICE BARS When we say self-service bars, we are not talking about coolers and chilled wine racks, but more like beer tap and wallmounted champagne dispensers. Do-it-yourself drink stations let guests be their own mixologists—imagine an ice cream sundae bar, but for margaritas, with different flavors and a spread of garnishes and mix-ins for guests to create their own signature drink. Couples love this trend because it gives their guests a hands-on culinary experience, a photo-worthy moment, and it means one less bartender!

LIGHTS What is a wedding without mood lighting? Couples are getting hitched at more unconventional venues, like breweries, gardens, and pop-up barns, so they must bring their own source of light to set the vibe for the celebration. String lights, candles, and lanterns will never go out of style.

Bold fashion, creative cocktails, earth-friendly soirees, miniguest lists—you can put your own spin on what’s trending to plan your 2021 wedding.

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For ages the bride’s family has carried most of the burden of wedding expenses but times have changed. Sit down with the family and talk about who will pay for what so everyone is on the same page and doesn’t have any surprises or high expectations

of the other family members.

The best way to merge both families is to make everyone feel involved.

for the events leading up to the wedding and after the wedding (rehearsal dinner and honeymoon).

A common split of costs is the bride’s family pays for the actual wedding (venue, food, cake, alcohol, vendors, etc.) and the groom’s family pays

Find a budget that is comfortable for everyone so you know what range to stay within for the wedding festivities.

The couple and their parents should pay for: Wedding ceremony Reception location Attendants should pay for: Hair, makeup and spa appointments Airfare to and from the destination, if needed Formalwear and accessories Guests should pay for: Hotel stay Airfare

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BEST QUESTIONS YOU CAN ASK YOUR MUSIC AGENCY Remember how distasteful the music was at your junior high dance? Don’t let people refer back to those days when they’re at your wedding! The DJ is a huge contributor to the over-all atmosphere of your big event, so be sure to pick someone who knows what he or she is doing.

4. How many events do you perform at in a day?

1. Do you provide a written contract for your clients?

5. Have you played at our wedding venue before?

Most professional DJs offer written contracts. This is the best way to be sure you’re getting what you paid for. A contract guarantees that the DJ will fulfill his or her requirements and perform up to par.

Being familiar with a venue can make the DJs night that much more smooth. It helps tremendously if the DJ knows the procedures and rules, outlets, etc. This will eliminate surprises and additional stressors on your wedding day.

Sometimes DJs will try to fit as many events in a day as they possibly can. Try to book with a DJ whose first gig of the day is yours. This will assure that the DJ is alive and prepared. You wouldn’t want your DJ to show up tired, or better yet late, from a previous event!

2. Who will be the DJ at my wedding?

Sometimes the person you plan your music details with will not be the DJ who performs at your actual wedding. I highly suggest meeting with the DJ for your event so you can figure out if he or she is the right person. Find out with makes this DJ unique from their competitors. Also, be sure the person’s name is on your wedding contract so you don’t get put with someone else.

3. Are you experienced with performing at weddings?

This is your big day and the last thing you want is a DJ who has never played for a wedding crowd! The amount of weddings your DJ has performed at will be a good indicator of his or her experience. Also be sure to find out what type of training your DJ has been through, whether it be formal training through a company or even a school.

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Llamas and Weddings

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Did you know you can have Llamas or Alpacas at your wedding? Of course, ask the venue and get permission before you scheduled something like this but how fun are these animals at a wedding?

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What better way to make your wedding or event the most talked about of the year by adding some dressed up and decked-out animals?

What a great photo op for guests as well.

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honeymoon Publisher’s Pick for a Summer Honeymoon

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Selecting where to celebrate one of your life’s biggest moments can feel like a lot of pressure. But let us tell you, when it comes to honeymoon destinations, you can’t go wrong with St. Lucia.

St. Lucia is in the southern Caribbean and often referred to as “little Hawaii”. You can find some great all-inclusive resorts in St. Lucia including: Sandals Grande St Lucian, Jade Mountain, Sugar Beach and more.

St. Lucia is a little harder to get to from most US cities compared to destinations like Jamaica, however it takes a little longer to get to Paradise they say. It is a little more off the beaten path, but it is more alluring for a Caribbean honeymoon, wedding or just a romantic getaway.

Cost-wise, you are looking at roughly $1,100 to $1,500 per person for a 5-night stay. There are some great deals year-round

and even some honeymoon packages that might include wine, rose petals and breakfast in bed—so always make sure to ask for all the extra perks!

Travel through the quaint fishing villages of Ansse La Raye and Canaries or visit the world-famous drive-in volcano at Sulphur Springs. You can go for a sky-high glide through the rainforest or take a jeep tour through the mountains. My favorite is dep sea fishing and it is recognized as one of the most populated fishing grounds in the Caribbean!

Don’t forget to try out the Caribbean cuisine while there, such as Orlando’s, Petit Peak and many more. St. Lucian cuisine dishes include local ingredients from farmers and fishermen.

Think: plantains, green figs, and fresh fish like Yellowfin Tuna.

Yum!

Enjoy!

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family dinner PUBLISHER’S NOTE: There is nothing more important than time with your family. That is why we have decided to do a recipe page.

Pick a favorite recipe you would like to make and get your family together. Use this time cooking to bond and create memories.

Don’t forget to have fun and take pictures or even include a short story on how much fun you had together.

Submit your recipes and photos to submissions@ hillcountryweddingsmagazine. com for a chance to share with your Hill Country Weddings friends.

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My go to this Spring and Summer has been a charcuterie board. Who does not love meat, cheeses, and fruit? It also makes for a perfect healthy and keto/Atkins option as well. This is our go to for a summer campout, pool day snacks or midday snack. We of course change up the board with different chesses, meats, fruits and nuts to make it seem just a little different each time however, the adults and kids enjoy this snack all summer long.

For Dinner Hot summer days and endless nights calls for a casual relaxed meal. If your family is anything like mine, you are looking for a quick, convenient meal to serve your hungry family after a day in the sun.

Ingredients: • • • •

4 tomatoes, quartered • cucumber, chopped • red onion, sliced thinly • 1/8 cup, olive oil (or more, to taste)

Directions: • • • •

Toss veggies in a medium-sized bowl, drizzle olive oil and vinegar on top.

Add salt and pepper as desired.

Stir to mix veggies in dressing.

Best with pizza!

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1/8 cup, red wine vinegar (or more, to taste) salt & fresh ground pepper Feta Cheese and Black Olives optional

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Post Wedding and Honeymoon To-Do List Your honeymoon was just what you needed after your long-anticipated needed wedding day. But what do you need wedding to do now that your honeymoon is over?

DEAL WITH THE DRESS If you plan on keeping your wedding dress, you’ll need to preserve it as soon as possible.

After all, it was an investment!

To preserve the dress professionally, contact a gown preservation specialist. If you would simply like to store your gown at home, keep it in a cool, dry closet space inside. Be sure this space is climate controlled.

THANK YOU Once you’re home, take an evening to go through all the gifts and cards with your new spouse. Be sure to keep a running list of who gave what, so that you can send a thank you note to each of them. If you have any duplicates, make returns or exchanges as soon as possible.

CHANGE YOUR NAME Changing your name after the wedding is no simple task and requirements vary from state to state, so research before you start the process. Usually the first task is to change your name at the Social Security Administration. You’ll also need to update your driver’s license and passport, as well as the HR department at your workplace. Don’t forget to update your bank accounts, credit cards, utility accounts, rental agreements, and insurance policies as well.

PRINT WEDDING PHOTOS Once you receive the wedding photos from your photographer, get them printed and in a photo album. It will be worth it when you’re able to thumb through all your photos on your first anniversary! If you don’t do it right away you will never get it done.

TALK MONEY Now that you’re home, it’s time to get all the gritty financial details worked out if you haven’t already. Talk about all your debts, spending habits, budgeting, and whether you’ll keep your credit and bank accounts separate or joint. Just SPRING

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RECONNECT The wedding chaos is over with so start off your marriage by reconnecting with the friends and family members you may have neglected during the engagement. Have fun and enjoy your married life with friends!

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HOW TO USE SOCIAL MEDIA FOR YOUR WEDDING:

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1. Create a wedding hashtag and share it from the start.

It should be promoted on all wedding marketing materials like your invitations, website, etc., as well as throughout the venue. We even recommend using it to capture content from your bachelorette party, rehearsal dinners and more.

You can search the hashtag

after the wedding and see all the content that guests created and shared across platforms.

2. Design Instagram-worthy photo opportunities that inspire guests to whip out their camera (or phone!) and snap some shots. Everyone loves a good photo op these days.

3. Create an entirely new Instagram account just for your wedding photos - a digital photo diary of sorts!

4. Build “collaboration albums” where friends and guests can drop photos and share content.

LIVING TOGETHER necessities, add details and accessories to fill in the gaps.

Take a break from Pinterest.

Sometimes inspiration boards can be overwhelming and offer too many ideas. Stay focused!

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So you were married and did the honeymoon. Now the final step: living together!

You either get to merge two homes together or you start fresh creating one. The furniture for your new home will be the next step in the process, so where do you start?

Do you want to purchase a

new bed for the bedroom or maybe start by adding a few key pieces of living room furniture such as a couch or chair?

A few things to keep in mind before you begin your shopping journey: Buy the big pieces of furniture first. After you have your

Embrace the serendipity. Your first home will not be perfect.

There will be old chairs and odd furniture pieces. It takes time to learn what you like and you’ll eventually figure out what works and what doesn’t.

It’s time to head down to your local furniture store and start doing some shopping! Sit on

the couches and chairs, look through magazines and start envisioning your life together in the new home.

Happily Ever After THE SIGMAN FAMILY

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Engaged December 25th, 2013 Married December 6th, 2014 Lauren Ashley Sigman October 28th, 2008 Doc Riggs Sigman December 30th, 2016 Kolt William Sigman February 7th, 2020 Photo by: Jena Craig Photography

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I absolutely love sitting down with couples that have been married for years. I crave the inside scoop on how they’ve made their marriage last and hope to share their tips with our newlyweds getting married.

For this issue specifically, I had the pleasure of sitting down with Bob and Jerri Gruber – a beautiful couple that tied the knot May 28th, 1960. 60 years – how fabulous is that?!

Robert (who goes by Bob) Gruber grew up as the middle child with three brothers. His mom and dad were married for 47 years (only because his dad passed away at 94 and mom was 91). Jeraldine (Jerri) has 3 sisters (4 girls, wow) and her parents were married for 66 years – yes 66 years!!

When I sat with Bob and Jerri to find out how they met they said, “Over a loaf of bread and gallon of milk.”

Bob worked at a small drivein grocery store and went to get a loaf of bread and gallon of milk for his mom when he ran into a school friend that was dating Jerri’s roommate.

When they met, Bob said he knew that Jerri was a good

The Gruber’s married May 28th, 1960

By: Brenda Sealy

woman and naturally, they started dating. Jerri said Bob was a Catholic boy and she just knew he was a good one too.

After only 3 months, Bob gave Jerri a ring and asked her to marry him. A couple months later, he took the ring back – his dad told him he was too young to get married and it was too fast. They still remained dating and in December at her Christmas party, Bob gave the ring back to Jerri and they married shortly after.

Bob was going to college at UT and then went into the service for 2 years in Alaska.

When he came back, he finished up school at the University of Houston. Bob’s career was started just after college when he did a short time at Goodyear in sales before quitting. He then had a friend with a with a double drive-in grocery store who offered him a partnership.

Bob’s dad loaned him a little money at 10% interest (yes, 10% back then was good incentive for both of them).

Bob went on to purchase many more properties and restaurants. It was as if everywhere he turned something amazing fell into his lap and he became an extraordinarily SPRING

successful entrepreneur in real estate, restaurants and more.

It appears every location and restaurant that Bob and Jerri opened was successful right away. Bob was ordering, purchasing and doing behind the scenes work, while Jerri was hostess, bartender, bookkeeper and much more.

They worked hard in all their businesses and did a great job before retiring in 1996.

They moved to Mexico for a while and loved it there, but due to some health concerns they decided to come back to Texas.

Bob and Jerri have two girls, Tammy and Donna. Tammy has a son named Robert Wayne and Donna has a daughter named Sarah. Bob and Jerri just could not stop talking about how amazing their kids and grandchildren are.

I love watching a couple answer questions about what they have done in life, their children and grandchildren.

It was so fun meeting with

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Bob and Jerri. They welcomed me in just as family would. It was too cute to watch them as they completed each other’s sentences as they spoke, or Bob would look to Jerri to fill in the dates and names of places.

Bob and Jerri’s advice to keep a long-lasting marriage is to know when to keep your mouth shut (they both laughed when saying this).

A marriage is full of giving and taking—and sometimes you just need to stay quiet.

As far as business goes, the couple shared that what goes around, comes around. If you work with great people and stay honest, it will come back around to you.

As they are retired now, Jerri enjoys bowling and genealogy and Bob enjoys golf and hunting. Together they enjoy their family and grandkids.

Congrats to Bob and Jerri on 60 years of marriage and thank you for the inspiration and joy through sharing your love story!

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