Are You in Charge of Your Life?

Are You In Charge

of Your Life?

Becky Schenk, wife to Raymond Schenk, was born and raised in Burleson County and is a mother of three children, Austin, Alyssa and Easton. She loves reading, listening to spiritual or motivational speakers, networking and volunteering. Becky is a Licensed Realtor at ORO Realty in Caldwell and may be reached at 979-587-0059 or becky@ororealtytx.com. Becky would love to hear from you and receive feedback on her writings.

This is a question that many people ask themselves, and the answer can be different for each person. Some people may say that they are in charge, while others may say that their boss, their parents, or some other force is in charge. The truth is, though, that you are always in charge of your own life. You have the power to choose what you do and how you act.

Develop your inner strength. Many of us find ourselves in difficult situations on a daily basis. We may be dealing with difficult people at work or struggling to overcome our own personal challenges. Set aside time each day for self-reflection. During this time, focus on your breathing and allow your thoughts to flow freely. You can also connect with nature, meditate regularly and practice compassion for others.

Focus on one thing at a time. It’s easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of everyday life and lose focus on what’s truly important. When you focus on one task, you can give it your full attention and get it done more quickly and efficiently. And when you’re finished with that task, you can move on to the next one without feeling overwhelmed. So next time you’re feeling scattered, take a deep breath and focus on one thing at a time.

Simplify your to do list. If you’re anything like me, your to-do list is a neverending source of stress. There always seems to be more to do than there is time in the day, and it can be tough to stay on top of everything. Try to break down each task into smaller, more manageable steps. Take advantage of technology and use apps or tools to help you keep track of your tasks. Don’t be afraid to delegate or ask for help when needed. There’s no shame in admitting that you can’t do it all yourself, and delegating tasks can actually help simplify your overall workload, thus taking charge of your life.

The answer, of course, is that we are all in charge of our own lives. We make our own choices and we are responsible for the consequences of those choices. Talk to a trusted friend or mentor when making difficult choices if you feel you need to. So the next time you find yourself questioning who’s really in charge, just remember that it’s you! You’re the one in charge of your life, so make it count!