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s our children grow up and are socially active we need to understand that for them to comprehend the true value of kindness, its best when caught, not taught. Our children will only

understand how to be kind by witnessing it from parents, other adult role models, other children, and given opportunities I know most of us parents have said to our child, “oh, that’s not nice,” and your child looked blankly at you. Well, that’s when we explain what they did and how it was not nice; followed by what would have been nice. Teaching moments come throughout the life cycle; beginning with sharing toys, kissing boo-boos, and hugging a crying sibling.

Now with school starting it’s important that we too “play nice.” Being mindful of our own actions is important because everything we do — or don’t do — affects the way our children act. So keep in mind that our kids are watching (and learning.) So make sure to have your child bring their new teacher a small gift at the beginning of school (not an apple); and we should sign up to help out when

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taken by the school. It has always been a favorite of mine. She is being so nurturing to a younger and smaller friend. I love that my sweet

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SETTING LIMITS Dr. Michael Bradley, a psychologist and author, recommends that you talk to teenagers about your expectations and what the consequences will be for ignoring them. Also discuss - a clean room, decent grades, 9 hours of sleep, and remind your teenager that with responsibility comes privilege (for example, decent grades means you’re more likely to let them go to a concert on a school night). Lastly, with the transition from middle school to high school, parents should be willing to backoff just a bit for things like clothes, non-offensive slang, hair styles, music …“Your teenager is just trying to figure out who they truly are.” adds Bradley

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Whether this is your first year with a kid in school or your last, be sure to join the PTA. You may not be eager to attend another meeting, but when you do, good things happen. First, you set a great example for your child as you show them your commitment to their education, whether it’s just starting or coming to an end.

You also get to connect with teachers and other parents. Plus, you’ll stay in the know about what’s going on at school. Then, there’s the opportunity to put your skills to good use for a good cause. Who knows, you may even develop some new ones. Sign up!

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Back to school means back to school pictures. Here are some tips to get good portraits of your kids this year. First, dress them cute, but comfortable.

Uncomfortable clothes make for uncomfortable poses. Boys, schedule haircuts at least a week in advance. Girls, wear only age appropriate makeup. And finally, have fun with it. Missing some teeth or just got braces? Sporting a new set of specs? Show ‘em off! You want to capture this age and stage in all its glory.

Besides, what good is a “Remember Them When” picture if it’s not even funny?

Well-rested children are happy children. They’re also healthier, better behaved and better learners too. With school starting again soon, make sure you’re aware of the most recent sleep guidelines given by the experts at the American Academy of Sleep Medicine. 12-16 hours for children 4-12 months; 11-14 hours for children 1-2 years; 10-13 hours for children 3-5 years; 9-12 hours for children 6-12 years and 8-10 hours for teens 13-18 years.

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August is Children’s Eye Health and Safety Month – a great reminder that it’s important to have a good eye health check-up for your child so they can perform at their personal best in academics and sports. The American Optometric Association (AOA) recommends the first comprehensive eye exam at 6 months of age, then again at 3 years of age, and just before they enter kindergarten or the first grade at about age 5 or 6 years.

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ELANA G., MOM OF 2 Q. I see Montessori Schools in our community. What is a “true” Montessori Education?

JAMIE, CONCERENED MOM Q. Do I need to have my child visit an eye doctor? I was not sure if I should rely on the School’s eye exams.

A. Montessori education founded in 1907 by Dr. Maria Montessori, who based her educational methods on scientific observation of children’s learning processes. The Montessori process emphasizes learning through all five senses, not just through listening, watching, or reading. Children in Montessori classes learn at their own, pace and according to their own choice of activities from hundreds of possibilities. Research studies show that Montessori children are well prepared for later life academically, socially, and emotionally. Ask: If they are affiliated with AMI or AMS and teacher training. Visit the School and observe a classroom in action; ask a prospective teacher about child development and education to see if it’s compatible with yours.

A. There are common misconceptions of why eye exams in children are not important. Like, my son doesn’t complain of blurry vision, or my child’s grades are good…. School screenings don’t qualify as an eye exam; and they were never intended to replace a professional eye exam. It’s important to know that the American Optometric Association, American Academy of Ophthalmology and Prevent Blindness America has begun to recommend that your child receive their first eye exam at 6 months of age. So go ahead and get that on your calendar as a to-do!

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It’s important for a child’s success to see that his parents are involved in the school; like volunteering, library duty, fundraising, participating in parent/teacher conferences, etc. There is research that indicates there are many benefits for students when parents make the effort to develop good parent-teacher relationship. An added bonus! When you’ve established that parent-teacher relationship, it’s much easier to trust your child and teacher to work through any classroom issues on their own. And at a scheduled conference with the teacher you can gain more insight into his development.

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Q. My kids want to download Pokémon Go. What do other families think of the hunt?

A. Several requests came in on this topic here at Suburban Parent headquarters, and there are several important aspects to consider. *Know that in-app purchases range from 99-cents to $99.99 for Pokécoins. *This game consumes a lot of mobile data, keep a close eye on it to avoid overages. *Safety-kids running around with phones in hand and watching screens can be dangerous. *The real opportunity with this “trending” hunt is the chance to explore together, to learn from one another, and engage in your broader community. *Children 5th grade and up probably have the capacity to explore familiar areas on their own, although the idea of a two-person team, one acting as a safety spotter, is a good idea. *Teaching the value of teamwork and taking turns has many benefits even beyond Pokémon Go. Children younger than 5th grade can be part of a parent team. You can find much more info online.

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PATRICE, MOM TO KYLE Q. In the upcoming new school year for my third grader, I’ll be eager to know how he is faring in the classroom. How can I and other parents become informed about classroom dynamics and support their children’s progress?

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No one likes the Homework Cop, so don’t be one.

Instead, set a timer each day to signal the start of homework time. Then you can be the good cop and encourage them to take short breaks between assignments for a snack, a short walk or a stretch. And as long as you’re setting alarms, set a notification alarm that goes off 30 minutes before bedtime so kids know it’s coming and can get done what they need (or want) to get done before it’s time to turn in.

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20 minutes a day! That’s all it takes to prepare your child for Kindergarten with this all-in-one learning kit designed for ages 4+. Prepare now for great results later! Included are the tools to teach spelling, money, telling time and the year. Your kindergartener can master 100 spelling words, counting money, analog and digital time as well as days of the week, months of the year, dates, years, weather and seasons. The best part is Teach My Kindergartener is designed to be screenfree, one-on-one learning time. The kit aims to promote school readiness and a head start for kindergarten, in just 20 minutes a day. teachmy.com $29.99.

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SEEDS OF SCHOOL SUCCESS

NURTURING THE PARENT-TEACHER RELATIONSHIP

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ids are notoriously reticent when it comes to divulging details of their school lives. Questions from parents often receive a single-word response. Or a shrug. The first indication of a problem may come via an unexpected call or email from the teacher. Want better insight into classroom dynamics? There’s a solution: Get to know your child’s teacher. Research shows that a solid working relationship between teacher and parent can lead to fewer behavioral problems and better academic performance for the child. Sally McEntire, mother of two, has made a practice of nurturing the parent-teacher relationship early on. She says, “I don’t want the teacher to hesitate talking to me if they have concerns regarding my child.” My son’s elementary teacher, Ms. Isabel, who has been teaching for nine years, sends a memo to parents shortly after school starts, noting times when help is needed. She’s aware that many parents are unable to volunteer during the school day, and lists many tasks that can be done off site. She laughs, “It was one of my parents who set up the online volunteer sign-up system for my classroom last year!” Following are “building blocks” for that parent-teacher relationship.

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INTRODUCE YOURSELF

Face-to-face contact is best, but a brief email or handwritten note works, too. You want the teacher to connect your child specifically to you.

DEFINE COMMUNICATION

Some teachers prefer to correspond via email. Others like a quick handwritten note, and still others prefer an after-school phone call. Pay attention to specifics. As Ms. Isabel says, “Don’t send an important email before school starts in the morning—I won’t be able to read it.”

IDENTIFY CHALLENGES

Approach the teacher as a partner, rather than relieving your child of responsibility. Instead of, “Danny has trouble keeping track of things, so don’t be surprised if he loses his homework,” try, “Danny has difficulty with organization. Here’s what has helped at home, and I’d be happy to hear your suggestions.”

Let the teacher know if you have particular strengths, interests, and preferences. Do you like working directly with students? Or would you rather prepare materials? If your schedule doesn’t allow you to be in the classroom, can you chaperone an occasional field trip?

HELP WITHOUT HELICOPTERING

You can volunteer in the classroom without being your child’s personal assistant. Look for opportunities to help other students or prep materials while observing your child. If your presence distracts your child, perhaps you can assist in the library, lunchroom, or another classroom.

KEEP THE TEACHER IN THE LOOP

Convey circumstances likely to affect your child’s classroom performance. A recent illness, lack of sleep, side effects from medication, an impending move, a death or divorce in the family—all can impact a child’s behavior and achievement. A heads-up allows the teacher to be proactive. As McEntire concludes, “Because I have spent time building a relationship with the teacher, it’s much easier to approach her when difficulties arise.”

RESPECT THE TEACHER'S TIME

Remember how many other students are in the class, and understand that the teacher simply doesn’t have time for extended daily conversations with parents.

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A PA R E N T P E P TA L K

BY C H R I S T I N A K AT Z

Middle School Years...

Expect Memories, Not Mayhem

ny parent who has survived the middle school years will assure you that you can navigate them, too. Although the honeymoon period of elementary school is over and middle school comes with ample trials and tribulations for most kids, try not to expect the worst. Parents who welcome the challenges of middle school as opportunities for growth will be still be smiling by the time they attend the eighth grade promotion ceremony.

Expect your child to face and overcome hurdles in middle school. Middle school is supposed to be about making mistakes and bouncing back from disappointments. Kids who navigate turbulence with spunk will mature in middle school. Kids who struggle with self-awareness and assertiveness are going to need extra support to develop skills they will need in high school.

If you want your kids to thrive in middle school, don’t leave them to their own devices. Parents who expect everything to be hunky dory all the time will likely be disappointed. Parents who think

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kids can figure everything out for themselves at this age with little adult supervision may want to wake up. This is middle school, the preparation for high school, which is the preparation for college, which is preparation for adulthood. Your child is going to need you each and every day.

Middle-Schoolers are embarking on a two or three-year journey and they will come out the other end of the process transformed. Whether or not they are changed for the better is largely up to you, parents. Here is a list of some of the challenges middle school kids face and how tuned-in parents can help.

kids about how they are adjusting to these new learning modes so you can help smooth the way.

DEALING WITH SOCIAL PRESSURES .

How much social pressure exists in middle school?

Tons. So role up your sleeves, parents, and always be ready to trouble-shoot. The best advice takes your child’s personality into account and eschews going along with all the crowds all the time. Middle school is a great time for kids to learn how to say, you do things your way and I’ll do things mine.

EXPRESSING INDIVIDUALITY . At the

KEEPING UP WITH SCHOOL ASSIGNMENTS & PROJECT DEADLINES . Kids tend to procrastinate.

end of the summer, sit down with your child and make a list of words that describe who he is. Do this every year before heading back to school to remind your student that he has interests and he’s allowed to like whatever he chooses. This list will evolve over the years, and that’s great, too.

EXPANDING LEARNING ABILITIES .

Middle school is an opportunity to try new ways of learning. Kids will get to do science labs for the first time, peer edit each other’s writing, work on projects with partners or in groups. Talk to your

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Some have trouble understanding that projects and papers must be worked on incrementally to be adequately prepared. A little bit of planning support goes a long way until dreamy tweens can get the hang of due dates.

NAVIGATING THE ONLINE WORLD. Your child is carrying a phone, a camera, and a computer in her pocket. Giving kids too much responsibility too soon can lead to extra expenses

and shaken confidence. So trust your instincts, parents. You will know when your child is ready to embrace the job of caring for a phone.

FINDING HEALTHY TRIBES .

Kids will be kids but no parent wants their child hanging out with a bunch of troublemakers. Your child’s peer group has a huge influence on his daily life. Teach your kids to choose friends wisely and to distance themselves from those who make consistently unhealthy choices.

COMMUNICATING WITH TEACHERS AND COACHES . You know how to do this, but now it’s time to let your child step up and converse with authority figures.

You can encourage her, confirm it’s happening, and even follow up with adults to make sure your child isn’t blowing you smoke. But let her do it or she won’t learn how.

CONFRONTING BULLIES. Not avoiding bullies. Not hiding from bullies.

Not doing whatever bullies want so they won’t pick on you. Confronting bullies means being able to stand up to someone being mean to your child whether his friends will back him up or not. Let your kids know you expect them to stand up for themselves and for others in need of assistance and watch them do it.

BECOMING A POSITIVE CONTRIBUTOR . Everyone hates substitutes. No one likes the new math teacher. That kid is so weird. But guess what, kiddo? It doesn’t matter because you are expected to be kind and respectful to everyone at your school, including teachers and substitutes. Furthermore, you will actively contribute in your classes and make positive contributions to your school on an ongoing basis. Got it?

BOUNCING BACK FROM FAILURE AND DISAPPOINTMENTS . Perhaps the toughest days in middle school are the not-making-the-cut days or the performing poorly on the test days or the getting sent to the principal days. How you respond to this is important. Kids need to process their feelings before they can bounce back and do the right thing. Be calm and patient as you help them figure it all out.

TEST-DRIVING ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS . Some kids will dive right into relationships in middle school.

Others will stay on the sidelines so they can spectate and speculate. Others may not seem interested at all. This is the beginning of practicing intimacy, so be sure to have lots of conversations with your child about the differences between healthy and unhealthy romantic relationships.

PRIORITIZING NEEDS . Kids have needs and those needs matter even when life is hectic. Maybe your daughter needs a jog bra for gym class.

Maybe she needs a new notebook for algebra. Maybe she needs you to sign a field trip form and write a check. Have a regular plan-the-week meeting on the weekend to discuss what your child is going to need from you and avoid lastminute crunches that create needless stress and bickering.

LEARNING ABOUT THE WORLD .

There is a whole wide world out there, and now your child is old enough to start learning about all of its complexities. What a great time to teach your child about respecting diversity, tolerating differences, and envisioning a more peaceful world.

They can practice all of these principles right in middle school.

REMEMBERING TO REST. Taking nice long baths with soft music and candles. Pulling the black-out curtains for a three-hour afternoon nap. A six-episode, BBC Pride and Prejudice binge-watching sessions to recover from the sniffles.

Growing kids need to unwind sometimes, but they may have trouble recognizing this. When this happens, give them a nudge in a decompressing direction.

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SHINING DESPITE SPEED BUMPS . Guess what, parents? Your kid is going to stumble, fall, and maybe even face-plant in middle school. But he will still have plenty of shining moments, where he is ecstatic and in his element. If your child isn’t having enough moments like these, call a family meeting, put your heads together, and look for new opportunities where he is more likely to succeed. SP

Author, journalist, and writing coach Christina Katz is actually a bit sad that the middle school adventures are over. But she’s looking forward to the challenges that high school will bring.

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ZOO! HALF PRICE WEDNESDAYS 10:00am-4:00pm. Have you visited the Fort Worth Zoo this summer? - Every Wednesday year round is half price so join us at the zoo!

Fort Worth Zoo, 1989 Colonial Parkway, Fort Worth, www.fortworthzoo.org Make it fun – Take DART!

18TH ANNUAL NORTH TEXAS WELLNESS FAIR PRESENTED BY THE HISPANIC WELLNESS COALITION

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Through Aug 5th. Got a Dino Loving Kid? The Heard Natural Science Museum & Wildlife Sanctuary is hosting a Designa-Dino Coloring Contest. As the Heard prepares for the 11th anniversary of the Dinosaurs Live! exhibit, children ages 12 and under will have the opportunity to submit their own original designs for a chance to have their artwork replicated through a custom paint job on one of this year’s exhibit dinosaurs—the Stegosaurus.

The winning artist and two runner-ups will also receive multiple prizes. Let your kids get their creative juices flowing. Deadline is August 5th for entries. Details: www. heardmuseum.org/designadino

PICTURES AND PAGES 10:30am-11:45am. Museum learning begins early with this special program for preschoolers (ages 4–6) and their adult partners. Space is limited for this free program; sign-up begins one month prior to each session. Maximum two children per adult. Kimbell Art Museum, 3333 Camp Bowie Blvd, Fort Worth - 817-322-8451 ext.

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TUE 2 TEXAS STARGAZING 2:00-3:00pm. Sit back and watch the night unwind in a live star talk. Discover the rings of Saturn, the Milkyway galaxy and the constellations in the night sky in this fun tour of Arlington’s skies. Have a favorite constellation? Let the educator know! The Planetarium at UT Arlington, 700 Planetarium Place (Chemistry Physics Bldg.)

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2016 ONE ACT PLAY CONTEST – COME WATCH! 7:00pm. Beat the heat and visit Carpenter Hall to watch the talented young thespians from summer drama classes perform in short, one-act plays. Awards presented for best play, actor and actress. Irving Arts Center-Carpenter Hall, 3333 North MacArthur Blvd., Irving 972-252-2787 FREE.

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THUR 4 STORIES AND MORE! 11am-1pm. Join our butterflies for story time!

We’ll make crafts, read a book, meet special friends and enjoy themed snacks! The programs end with our daily noon butterfly release and are geared for the under-five/ stroller crowd. Let’s read! Adults pay regular admission. $8 ages 3-11 / $6 members $3 ages 1-3 / $2 members at door purchase; $2/child surcharge. Discovery Gardens, 3601 Martin Luther King Jr. Blvd., Dallas. texasdiscoverygardens.org

LA LECHE LEAGUE DALLAS 7-8pm. Lower Level Conference Room, Margot Perot Building LEADER INFORMATION: Hannah 214-562-0738 hlpoole_82@yahoo.com Heather 214507-7564 heather.traylor@yahoo.com Alison alisonegrady@yahoo.com Health Presbyterian Hospital of Dallas, 8200 Walnut Hill Ln, Dallas. Email to confirm.

FRI 5 SHOP UNTIL YOU DROP! TAX FREE WEEKEND

8am-1pm. Free health screenings for children, parents, and grandparents, plus vaccines, mammograms, body fat analysis, hearing tests, school physicals, cooking demonstrations, exercise demonstrations, a blood drive and more. Forest Hill Civic & Convention Center, 6901 Wichita Street, Forest Hill, 817-735-2784 www. hispanicwellnesscoalition.org.

ST. MICHAEL’S FARMERS MARKET 8:00am-12:00pm. Buy Fresh and Local.

Open every Saturday through Sept. 17th. St. Michael’s and All Angels Episcopal Church, 8011 Douglas, Dallas, stmichaelsmarket.com

GOOD LOCAL MARKET LAKESIDE 8:00am-1:00pm. Buy Fresh and Local. It’s a neighborhood destination for local produce, artisan foods, crafts and community.

Come join us, every Saturday! Lakeside Baptist Church, 9150 Garland Road, Dallas, goodlocalmarkets.org

NEW SATURDAY COMPUTER CLASSES 9:00am-11:00am. The Mesquite Main Library is now offering Saturday morning computer classes. For more information, please call the Main Library at 972-216-6220. Mesquite Main Library, 300 West Grubb Drive, Mesquite, 972-216-6220

All Weekend. Shop your local stores and malls for tax free shopping! Most clothing, footwear and backpacks priced under $100 students are tax free this week-end. Layaway plans can be used again this year to take advantage of the sales tax holiday.

EDEN’S ORGANIC GARDEN CENTER AND CSA FARM

SUMMER MOVIE NIGHTS KLYDE WARREN PARK

10am-5pm. Target First Saturdays are designed especially for children in preschool to elementary school and feature a line-up of activities that encourage creative thought through a monthly “Big Idea”. Nasher Sculpture Center, 2001 Flora Street, Dallas. 214-242-5100

8:30pm. Jurassic Word – Rated PG-13 **Note: Typically Summer Movie Nights In The Park are on Saturdays. This event has been rescheduled for a Friday** info@ klydewarrenpark.org

9am-1pm. Open first and third Saturdays, through December. 4710 Pioneer Road, Balch Springs, edensorganicfarm.com

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9:30am-2:00pm. Join Beachbody coaches on Sunday, August 7th with celebrity trainer Autumn Calabrese for motivation, training, and exciting product announcements. Closes with massive live workout with Autumn! Buy your ticket early and save! Embassy Suites Dallas Frisco Hotel Convention Center & Spa, 7600 John Q Hammons Drive. Get tickets: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/saddleup-super-sunday-dallas-tickets-25412666971

GOOD LOCAL MARKET VICKERY MEADOW 10:00am-3:00am. Partnering with the Vickery Meadow Improvement District, this market is the first farmers market in the diverse Vickery Meadow neighborhood.

Every Sunday, through December. Located outside Half Price Books.5803 E. Northwest Hwy, Dallas, goodlocalmarkets.org

TRANSFORMERS: THE MOVIE SPONSORED BY THE OAK CLIFF CULTURAL CENTER 3:00pm-3:00pm. The Autobots must stop a colossal planet consuming robot who goes after the Autobot Matrix of Leadership. At the same time, they must defend themselves against an all-out attack from the Decepticons.

Tickets are just $1 Texas Theatre, 231 W. Jefferson Blvd, Dallas. www.movietickets.com

MON 8 RIVER RANCH AT TEXAS HORSE PARK 10am-6pm. Get off the beaten path and explore the hidden beauties within the Trinity Forest by horseback! River Ranch has it all when it comes to trail ridin’ at the Texas Horse Park. Let us saddle up a horse just for you and then get ready to take an awesome ride. No experience required. Starting at $40.

811 Pemberton Hill Rd., Dallas 469-804-2660. www.riverranch-texashorsepark.com

TUES 9 VISIT THE DALLAS WORLD AQUARIUM. 9:00am-5:00pm – You may want to check their website at www.dwazoo.com

for information on feeding times and special performances. The manatee and penguin feedings are popular, so plan on being their 20 mins early. 1801 N Griffin St. Dallas – 214-720-2224.

VISIT THE DALLAS ZOO! 9am-5pm. The home to over 2,000 animals (from roughly 400 species), including all the favorites – chimps, lions, elephants, camels, zebras, hippos and giraffes. Enjoy a monorail safari; there’s also a children’s area with a petting farm, pony rides and more. Daily presentations include animal encounters and special feeding times, plus the zoo hosts an assortment of special events throughout the year. 650 S R L Thornton Fwy, Dallas. 214-670-6826, www.dallaszoo.com. Want tickets? Visit www.suburbanparent.com and enter to win!

WED 10 EVERYDAY DOLLAR DAYS DALLAS ARBORETUM 12:30pm-2:30pm. For the month of August - $1 general garden admission and $2 Rory Meyers Children’s Adventure Garden admission to all guests for the month of August as the dog days of summer bring August Dollar Days. As a part of August Dollar Days, there will also be $1 and $2 food and drink items including hot dogs, juice boxes, root beer floats and more. August Dollar Days tickets must be purchased at the gate in order to receive this special offer. Dallas Arboretum, 8525 Garland Rd, Dallas, Texas, www.dallasarboretum.org

ZOO! HALF PRICE WEDNESDAYS

VITRUVIAN NIGHTS LIVE 7:00pm-9:30pm. Some of DFW’s favorite entertainers along with local gourmet food trucks will have you dancing and singing along and enjoying sweet and savory offerings to keep you going! Plan to bring the whole family and all your friends. These outdoor events are FREE and open to the public along with onsite parking. Vitruvian Park, 3875 Ponte Ave, Addison. www.vitruvianpark.com

FRI 12 EVERYDAY DOLLAR DAYS DALLAS ARBORETUM 12:30pm-2:30pm. For the month of August - $1 general garden admission and $2 Rory Meyers Child ren’s Adventure Garden admission to all guests for the month of August as the dog days of summer bring August Dollar Days. As a part of August Dollar Days, there will also be $1 and $2 food and drink items including hot dogs, juice boxes, root beer floats and more. August Dollar Days tickets must be purchased at the gate in order to receive this special offer. Dallas Arboretum, 8525 Garland Rd, Dallas, Texas, www.dallasarboretum.org

SAT 13 ST. MICHAEL’S FARMERS MARKET 8am-12pm. Buy Fresh and Local.

Open every Saturday through Sept.

17th. St. Michael’s and All Angels Episcopal Church, 8011 Douglas, Dallas, stmichaelsmarket.com

GOOD LOCAL MARKET LAKESIDE

10:00am-4:00pm. Have you visited the Fort Worth Zoo this summer? - Every Wednesday year round is half price so join us at the zoo! Fort Worth Zoo, 1989 Colonial Parkway, Fort Worth, www. fortworthzoo.org Make it fun – Take DART!

8am-1pm. Buy Fresh and Local. It’s a neighborhood destination for local produce, artisan foods, crafts and community. Come join us, every Saturday!

Lakeside Baptist Church, 9150 Garland Road, Dallas, goodlocalmarkets.org

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CHAMPIONS DAY (SPECIAL NEEDS CHILDREN AND ADULTS)

BUTTERFLY TEA PARTY FEATURING BONJOUR BUTTERFLY 10:30am-12:30pm. Enjoy ‘fancy’ activities, crafts, tea, and snacks, as we celebrate the book, “Bonjour Butterfly,” by Jane O’Connor! We end our party with our noon butterfly release. Fancy Nancy Series Texas Discovery Gardens, 3601 Martin Luther King Jr. Blvd, Dallas. texasdiscoverygardens.org

8:30am-10:00am. Champions will get in free on Champions Day. One family member or caregiver accompanying them can get in for only $5, while additional immediate family members are also offered discounted tickets. More importantly, the Champions and their families will have special access to the park before it opens to the public. The Champions, caregivers and families can stay all day for no additional charge.

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KNOW IT ALL events throughout the year. 650 S R L Thornton Fwy, Dallas. 214-670-6826, www. dallaszoo.com Want tickets? Visit www. suburbanparent.com and enter to win!

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8:00am-12:00pm St. Michael’s and All Angels Episcopal Church, 8011 Douglas, Dallas stmichaelsmarket.com

THE MESQUITE MARKETPLACE

UNIVERSOUL CIRCUS

9:00am-2:00pm. Shop the Marketplace for locally grown and produced food and goods in Heritage Square. Heritage Square, Historic Downtown Mesquite, 150 West Main Street, 469-275-9616

7:00pm. An unforgettable journey of light, sound and soul. Get ready for electrifying, edge-of- your-seat performances. Hailed as the most interactive circus in the world, UniverSoul Circus will present a multicultural/multinational cast featuring the Comedy Dog Act from Chile, Aerial Duet from Colombia, and more! Southwest Center Mall, 3662 West Camp Wisdom Rd., Dallas https://tickets-center.com/ search/southwest-center-mall/universoulcircus-tickets

GOOD LOCAL MARKET LAKESIDE

BUTTERFLIES AND BUGS! FAMILY FESTIVAL 10:00am-3:00pm. Join us for our annual celebration of insects! Discover live and pinned insects, activities, butterfly house tours, crafts and more. Texas Discovery Gardens, 3601 Martin Luther King Jr. Blvd, Dallas. www.texasdiscoverygardens.org

TEA TIME! 10:00am-5:00pm. At the Lone Star Iced Tea Festival. Celebrate the “house wine of the South” with tea samples, talks and workshops, vendors and shopping, live music, entertainment, and children’s activities in an air-conditioned, handicapped accessible indoor location.

The theme is “Texas Tea,” a reference to the Lone Star State’s oil and gas heritage as well as a modern reference to the delicious beverage. Get tickets www. icedteafest.net

SUMMER MOVIE NIGHTS KLYDE WARREN PARK 8:30pm. Iron Man – Rated PG-13 info@ klydewarrenpark.org

SUN 14 GOOD LOCAL MARKET VICKERY MEADOW 10:00am-3:00am. Buy Fresh and Local!

Partnering with the Vickery Meadow Improvement District, this market is the first farmers market in the diverse Vickery Meadow neighborhood. Every Sunday, through December. Located outside Half Price Books, 5803 E. Northwest Hwy, Dallas, goodlocalmarkets.org

MON 15 VISIT THE DALLAS ZOO! 9am-5pm. The home to over 2,000 animals (from roughly 400 species), including all the favorites – chimps, lions, elephants, camels, zebras, hippos and giraffes. Enjoy a monorail safari; there’s also a children’s area with a petting farm, pony rides and more. Daily presentations include animal encounters and special feeding times, plus the zoo hosts an assortment of special

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During the special Champions Day hours, the music volume will be turned down for those who deal with sensory issues and extra staff will be on hand to create a more favorable staff-to-guest ratio. All Hawaiian Falls Waterparks, in North Texas, www. hfalls.com/championsday

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WED 17 ZOO! HALF PRICE WEDNESDAYS 10:00am-4:00pm. Have you visited the Fort Worth Zoo this summer? - Every Wednesday year round is half price so join us at the zoo! Fort Worth Zoo, 1989 Colonial Parkway, Fort Worth, www. fortworthzoo.org Make it fun – Take DART!

EVERYDAY DOLLAR DAYS DALLAS ARBORETUM 12:30pm-2:30pm. For the month of August - $1 general garden admission and $2 Rory Meyers Children’s Adventure Garden admission to all guests for the month of August as the dog days of summer bring August Dollar Days. As a part of August Dollar Days, there will also be $1 and $2 food and drink items including hot dogs, juice boxes, root beer floats and more. August Dollar Days tickets must be purchased at the gate in order to receive this special offer. Dallas Arboretum, 8525 Garland Rd, Dallas, Texas, www. dallasarboretum.org

THUR 18 TRINITY RIVER AUDUBON CENTER - FREE 3RD THURSDAY 9:00am-4:00pm. An interactive exhibit hall inviting hands-on exploration; 4-5 miles of hiking trails through the Great Trinity Forest, prairies, and wetlands; nature store offers enticing artwork from local artists and fun kids games. The Trinity River Audubon Center is highly diverse because the area includes bottomland hardwood forest, wetlands, river, and prairie habitats.

It’s easy to see over 50 species in a day.

Trinity River Audubon Center, 6500 Great Trinity Forest Way, Dallas, Texas, www. trinityriver.audubon.org

8:00am-1:00pm. Lakeside Baptist Church, 9150 Garland Road, Dallas. goodlocalmarkets.org

Rory Meyers Children’s Adventure Garden admission to all guests for the month of August as the dog days of summer bring August Dollar Days. As a part of August Dollar Days, there will also be $1 and $2 food and drink items including hot dogs, juice boxes, root beer floats and more. August Dollar Days tickets must be purchased at the gate in order to receive this special offer. Dallas Arboretum, 8525 Garland Rd, Dallas, Texas, www. dallasarboretum.org

TALENT SATURDAYS AT LAKEWOOD CONSERVATORY OF FINE ARTS

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ST. MICHAEL’S FARMERS MARKET

9:00am-12:00pm. Children can receive a complimentary talent evaluation, tinker on the musical petting zoo, watch a movie, play at the coloring table and join in any ongoing group class and enjoy light sips & bites. The talent evaluation is conducted by fine arts professionals helps to identify a child’s natural inclinations, interests and long term artistic potential. In addition guests, at times, Talent Saturday will feature a special guest from the fine arts/entertainment industry. Lakewood Conservatory of Fine Arts, 7328 Gaston Ave Suite 130, Dallas. 214-843-2060 www. lakewoodconservatory.com

EDEN’S ORGANIC GARDEN CENTER AND CSA FARM 9:00am-1:00pm. Open first and third Saturdays, 4710 Pioneer Road, Balch Springs, edensorganicfarm.com

SUMMER MOVIE NIGHTS – KLYDE WARREN PARK 8:30pm. Captain America – Rated PG -13 info@klydewarrenpark.org

SUN 21 GOOD LOCAL MARKET LAKESIDE 8:00am-1:00pm. Lakeside Baptist Church, 9150 Garland Road, Dallas. goodlocalmarkets.org

THE MESQUITE MARKETPLACE 9:00am-2:00pm. Shop the Marketplace for locally grown and produced food and goods in Heritage Square. Heritage Square, Historic Downtown Mesquite, 150 West Main Street, 469-275-9616

GOOD LOCAL MARKET VICKERY MEADOW 10:00am-3:00am. Half Price Books Parking Lot, 5803 W. Northwest Hwy., Dallas, goodlocalmarkets.org

MON 22 EVERYDAY DOLLAR DAYS DALLAS ARBORETUM 12:30pm-2:30pm. For the month of August - $1 general garden admission and $2

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VISIT THE DALLAS WORLD AQUARIUM. 9:00am-5:00pm – You may want to check their website at www.dwazoo.com for information on feeding times and special performances. The manatee and penguin feedings are popular, so plan on being their 20 mins early. 1801 N Griffin St. Dallas – 214-720-2224.

WED 24 ZOO! HALF PRICE WEDNESDAYS 10:00am-4:00pm. Have you visited the Fort Worth Zoo this summer? - Every Wednesday year round is half price so join us at the zoo! Fort Worth Zoo, 1989 Colonial Parkway, Fort Worth, www. fortworthzoo.org Make it fun – Take DART!

THUR 25 JUMP MANIA! 10am–12pm. This time is for kids 3 and younger (and their slightly older brothers and sisters – up to 5) and gives the little kids time on larger bouncers without the big kids around. The toddlers are always welcome to play on the larger bouncers during our regular open jump time as well.

Jump Mania, 3045 West 15th Street, Plano 75075, Tuesdays and Thursdays from 10:00 – 12:00 is Toddler Mania –$7/toddler, siblings are $10

FRI 26 CHILDREN’S SUMMER SERIES. Check for times. Studio Movie Grill Children’s Summer Series offers a budget friendly entertainment option for families to escape the summer heat to watch $1 screenings of recent, popular, children films. Please note: Children’s Summer Series varies from state to state based on each school district’s summer vacation schedules. Therefore, not all titles will be available for all states. Check for times: www.studiomoviegrill.com

STORY TIMES SAT 27 ST. MICHAEL’S FARMERS MARKET 8:00am-12:00pm. Saturdays through September 17. St. Michael’s and All Angels Episcopal Church, 8011 Douglas, Dallas. stmichaelsmarket.com

GOOD LOCAL MARKET LAKESIDE 8:00am-1:00pm. Lakeside Baptist Church, 9150 Garland Road, Dallas. goodlocalmarkets.org

THE MESQUITE MARKETPLACE 9:00am-2:00pm. Shop the Marketplace for locally grown and produced food and goods in Heritage Square. Heritage Square, Historic Downtown Mesquite, 150 West Main Street, 469-275-9616

GOOD LOCAL MARKET VICKERY MEADOW 10:00am-3:00pm. Half Price Books Parking Lot, 5803 W. Northwest Hwy., Dallas. goodlocalmarkets.org

PARTY ON THE LAWN! 5-10pm. Reunion Lawn Party on the last Saturday of every month, through September, Reunion Tower will host the Reunion Lawn Party at Reunion Park, located near the base of the tower. The party will be a free hangout featuring live music, food trucks, a beer garden, lawn games and more. Reunion Park, 302 Reunion Blvd. E., Dallas 214-205-1086

LAKEWOOD LIBRARY BOOK DISCUSSION GROUP 3:30-4:30pm.This group meets every 4th Saturday of the month and reads award-winning literature.

Please contact the Lakewood Library for details about the book of the month. Lakewood Branch Library, 6121 Worth St., Dallas.

214.670-1376

SUN 28 GOOD LOCAL MARKET VICKERY MEADOW 10:00am-3:00am. Partnering with the Vickery Meadow Improvement District, this market is the first farmers market in the diverse Vickery Meadow neighborhood.

Every Sunday, through December.

Located outside Half Price Books.5803 E. Northwest Hwy, Dallas, goodlocalmarkets.org

MON 29 CHILDREN’S SUMMER SERIES - $1 WEEKDAY MOVIES Check for times. Studio Movie Grill Children’s Summer Series offers a budget friendly entertainment option for families to escape the summer heat to watch $1 screenings of recent, popular, children films. Please note: Children’s Summer Series varies from state to state based on each school district’s summer vacation schedules. Therefore, not all titles will be available for all states. Check for times: www. studiomoviegrill.com

TUES 30 TEXAS STARGAZING – WORTH THE TRIP 2:00-3:00pm. Sit back and watch the night unwind in a live star talk. Discover the rings of Saturn, the Milkyway galaxy and the constellations in the night sky in this fun tour of Arlington’s skies.

Have a favorite constellation?

Let the educator know! The Planetarium at UT Arlington, 700 Planetarium Place (Chemistry Physics Bldg.) Arlington 76109 – 817-272-0123 - www.uta.edu/ planetarium Check pricing

WED 31 EVERYDAY DOLLAR DAYS - DALLAS ARBORETUM 12:30pm-2:30pm. For the month of August - $1 general garden admission and $2 Rory Meyers Children’s Adventure Garden admission to all guests for the month of August as the dog days of summer bring August Dollar Days. As a part of August Dollar Days, there will also be $1 and $2 food and drink items including hot dogs, juice boxes, root beer floats and more. August Dollar Days tickets must be purchased at the gate in order to receive this special offer. Dallas Arboretum, 8525

Garland Rd, Dallas, Texas, www. dallasarboretum.org

ZOO! HALF PRICE WEDNESDAYS 10:00am-4:00pm. Have you visited the Fort Worth Zoo this summer?

- Every Wednesday year round is half price so join us at the zoo! Fort Worth Zoo, 1989 Colonial Parkway, Fort Worth, www.fortworthzoo.org Make it fun – Take DART!

SAVE THE DATE… SEP 24 HEROES FOR CHILDREN HEART OF GOLD 5K & FUN RUN Heroes for Children advocates for & provides financial and social assistance to families with children 0-22 battling cancer. The Plaza at Galatyn Park, Richardson. Register at thedriven.net/2016heroes5K. See ad in this issue.

SEP 30 STATE FAIR OF TEXAS OPENS The Fair runs from Sept 30-Oct 23.

Come enjoy a celebration as big as Texas. New this year, print-at-home tickets and coupon vouchers. Fair Park, Dallas. Visit BIGTEX.COM. See ad in this issue.

HIGHLAND PARK LIBRARY 4700 Drexel Dr. • 214-559-9400 Wed Baby Lapsit Story Time 10am, birth-24 mos Thur Toddler Story Time 10am, 2 yrs Fri Preschool Story Time 10am, 3-4yrs

UNIVERSITY PARK LIBRARY 8383 Preston Center Plaza, Suite 200 • 214-363-9095 Wed Story Time 3:45pm (ages 4 &-5) Thur Toddlers Story Time 10:45am (ages 18-24mos.)

Fri Babysit Story Time 10:30am, 0-24 mos with caregiver

RENNER FRANKFORD BRANCH 6400 Frankford Road • 214-670-6100 Tue Tadpole Tales Toddler Storytime 11:15am, 2-4yrs

BOOKMARKS (at North Park Mall) 8687 N. Central Expressway, Suite 1514 • 214-671-1381 Mon Mon Wed Thur Thur Fri Fri

NorthCourt - Baby Bounce Basics 10:30am (up to 24 mos.)

Inside Bookmarks - Baby Bounce Basics 12:30pm (up to 24 mos.)

Inside Bookmarks - Wiggly, Waggly Words 3:30pm (preschoolers) NorthCourt - Tickles for Toddlers 10:30am & 3:30pm (2 & 3 year olds) Inside Bookmarks – Baby Bounce Basics , 12:30pm (up to 24 mos.)

Inside Bookmarks - Baby Bounce Basics 12:30pm (up to 24 mos.)

Inside Bookmarks – Preschool Palooza - 3:30pm (ages 2-4)

LAKEWOOD BRANCH LIBRARY 6121 Worth Street • 214-670-1376

OCT 1 20TH ANNUAL WALK TO REMEMBER AND DEDICATION OF THE GARDEN OF HOPE 1pm. In commemoration of National Pregnancy & Infant Loss Awareness month, M.E.N.D. (Mommies Enduring Neonatal Death) is hosting a ceremony for parents who have lost a baby to miscarriage, stillbirth or early infant death. We’ll also unveil and dedicate the Garden of Hope, a place of solitude to reflect and remember loved ones who have died. Calvary Church, 4401 State Hwy 161, Irving, 972-5069000, www.mend.org. See ad in this issue.

Wed Boogie Woogie Books 10:30am (ages 6 & under) Fri Books and Crafts 10:30am (elementary age)

AUDELIA ROAD BRANCH LIBRARY 10045 Audelia Road • 214-670-1350 Tue Wed Wed Thur Thur

Awesome After School Activities 3:15pm (grades 1-6) Bouncing Babies Lapsit Storytime 10:15am (0-12mos) Tales for Tots 1,2,3 11:00am (ages 1-3) Boogie Woogie Books 10:30am (ages 2-6) Awesome After School Activities 3:15pm (grades 1-6)

MESQUITE MAIN BRANCH 300 W. Grubb Dr. • 972-216-6220 Tues Tues Wed Thur

Preschool Story Time 10:30am (ages 3-5) Evening Story Time 7pm (all ages) Young & Restless Story Time 10:30am (1-2yrs) Toddler Story Time 10:30am (ages 2-3yrs))

MESQUITE NORTH BRANCH 2600 Oates Dr., 972-681-0465 Tue Preschool Story Time 10:30am (ages 3-5) Thur Toddler Time 10:30am (ages 2-3yrs)

Please note: Although we strive to bring you the most current information available regarding event dates & times, confirming with the event venue before going is always a good idea.

All Storytimes are FREE. Listed are the regularly scheduled storytimes.

Call to confirm as schedules are subject to change.

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MOMENTS { BY PATRICK HEMPFING }

The Half Way Point

I

unscrewed the child safety cap from the white,

orange juice, ate her yogurt and oatmeal, and then

plastic bottle, and turned it upside down. A single

went to get dressed. While she prepared for her big

Flintstones chewable vitamin, the last one in the

day, I packed her lunch and wrote a little note to

bottle, dropped into the palm of my left hand. Since

include in her lunch bag, wishing her a great first day

Jessie turned two, my days have begun this way. This morning though, the empty pill bottle feels a bit more significant. It’s Jessie’s first day of 5th grade.

Except for the early wake-up call, Jessie says “Hooray.” She likes school and is anxious to see her friends. After a wonderful summer with lots of

the rear seat to the front passenger seat when it’s just it’s easy for her to change the radio station to songs I

in school. It’s important that a writer writes.

can barely understand, but that’s a different column.

As I drove Jessie to school for the first time as a

grader, I’m at the halfway point.” I quickly did

front-seat passenger, it felt strange. I couldn’t help but

the math in my head. Pre-K plus kindergarten

think that I was just buckling my baby in her car seat. I

plus grades 1-12 totals 14, divided by 2

recalled the days I carried my little girl into the house

equals seven. Pre-K done. Kindergarten

when she fell asleep in the car, or pretended to, which

at the halfway point.

we called “playing possum.”

This morning, however, I didn’t see my baby. I didn’t see the little girl with the squished-tight eyes and smile

I mentally walked

playing possum, though Jessie would have enjoyed an

to the bedroom,

extra hour or two of sleep. No, today, I saw a girl who

grabbed a pillow

could easily pass for a teenager.

for over my

During the drive, I shared my standard lines, “Give

mouth, and yelled,

it your all,” “keep a positive attitude,” and “tell the boys

“Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh!”

your dad has golf clubs” (to chase them away from my

I didn’t do it, but the thought definitely crossed my mind. How can Jessie be a 5th grader? I just read, “Children 2 to 3 years

little girl). Reluctantly, I dropped her off at the carpool lane, rather than holding her hand and walking her to class as we had done in previous years. The wheels of her coral-colored book bag hit the sidewalk, and she headed off to 5th grade.

of age – Chew one-half tablet

I’m confident Jessie will have a great year in school.

daily with food” on the back of

She’ll need some more vitamins, though. On my way to

the Flintstones bottle. We went from a half tablet to a full tablet to empty bottle after empty bottle way too quickly.

Jessie chewed her vitamin, drank her

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Over the summer, I allowed Jessie to move from

have more quiet time to write while Jessie is

Jessie completes 5th grade, indeed, she’ll be

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photo. Moments like this are meant to be captured.

the two of us in the vehicle. She loves to sit up front as

complete. Grades 1-4 in the books. When

@PatrickHempfing

Prior to driving Jessie to school, she rolled her book bag out to the driveway. Of course, I had to take a

cherished moments, Dad says “Hooray,” too. I

Last night Jessie said, “Dad, as a 5th

FOLLOW PATRICK

of 5th grade.

pick up a bottle, I might need to stop at the donut shop for some “glazed comfort.”

Until next month, remember to cherish the moments. SP

Patrick Hempfing had a 20-year professional career in banking, accounting, and auditing before he became a father at age 44. He is now a full-time husband, stay-at-home dad, and writer. If you enjoyed this column, you’ll like Patrick’s first book, MoMENts: A Dad Holds On. The book compiles favorite stories and new material and is for sale on Amazon.com. facebook.com/patricklhempfing

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FUN STUFF { LIFE IS BETTER WHEN YOU’RE LAUGHING }

WHY WAS THE TEACHER CROSS-EYED?

WHAT IS THE SMARTEST STATE?

WHERE DID THE MUSIC TEACHER LEAVE HER KEYS?

SHE COULDN’T CONTROL HER PUPILS!

IN THE PIANO! Source: enchantedlearning.com

ALABAMA, IT HAS FOUR A’S AND ONE B!

GOTTA LOVE ‘EM My daughter wanted to take my picture.

“Mommy! Chin up, not too much, just like a princess” and continued, “When I grow up, I’m going to be a princess.” My reply – “Yes honey, you could be a princess.” Her reply – “Mommy, why didn’t you choose to be a princess instead of a Countess?” Laughing – I replied “Anna Elisa, I’m an accountant!!! She must be thinking, Silly mommy, what were you thinking!!! Wonder how many of her friends and their parents have been told I’m a Countess!

— ELSIE VILLANUEVA, MOM TO A FUTURE PRINCESS

A Lunch Full

of Encouragement!

As we get ready to send our kids off to another year of school, let’s remember to remind them of who they are, and how strong they are.

Tell them that even when things are bad, they will get better, and that sometimes it’s our attitude that makes the difference in a situation. You can put these words of encouragement in your kids’ lunch boxes, slip them in a pocket or tape onto the bathroom mirror.

Courage doesn’t always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying I will try again tomorrow.

– Unknown

– Mary Anne Radmacher

LOL WITH JAMES ESTES!

It is our choices that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities. – Dumbledore You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose.

Become a possibilitarian.

No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see possibilities — always see them, for they’re always there.

– Art Williams

– Socrates

There are far better things ahead than any we leave behind.

– C.S. Lewis

We all must make the choice between what is right, and what is easy.

– Dumbledore

– Norman Vincent Peale

Be curious, not judgmental. – Walt Whitman

– Dr. Seuss

ou I’m not telling y it’s going to be easy. I’m telling you it’s going to be worth it.

Wisdom begins in wonder.

You are allowed to scream. You are allowed to cry. You are allowed to scream. But, you are not allowed to give up.

When something goes wrong in your life, just yell, “PLOT TWIST,” and move on. – Unknown

You are br than you aver believe, stronger th you seem an and smarter than you think .

– Winnie the Pooh

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BACKTALK { BY KEN SWARNER }

THEY ALL CAN’T BE SPORTS STARS

N

ot all boys march to the same whistle. They can’t all be

I was particularly eager to hear how the game went last week because

the star athletes at their schools or neighborhood sports

I knew Drew asked his dad to take him out over the prior weekend to

programs. Some boys are just the average kids on the field

work on his ball handling skills. Bill, being the great dad he is, drilled

or court. They do their part for the team but never receive the

Drew’s passing game.

accolades that are saved for the mighty few.

And then there is my nephew Drew. Bless his little heart. Drew is eight.

He’s a sensitive kind of kid. The boy you’d expect to grow up and become anyone who can’t do a lay up or catch a fly ball or keep the ball inside the

That next Monday morning, Bill announced Drew had successfully caught several passes and then dribbled down the court and made the shots - after several attempts and a juice break.

Tuesday morning, Bill announced that the first pass Drew received at

box at the Putt-Putt Golf Course. They say white men can’t jump? Drew

the team practice that night went like clockwork. Drew deftly held up his

can’t even get his GI Joe to do it.

hands to catch the ball, and then, at the very last minute, ducked. Tuesday

Some dads would think the world came to an end if they had Drew as

night, at Drew’s insistence, Bill worked with Drew some more. At the game

a son. They would brow-beat their kid - ask him why he can’t be like the

Wednesday, Bill said Drew was pumped up and ready to play. In fact, run-

other kids - look to the heavens and say “God, why me?”

ning up and down the court, Drew was in the face of the opposing team

Drew’s dad is an avid sports fan and played quite a number of sports while growing up. I work with Drew’s dad - my brother-in-law Bill.

member. Bill said he was certain some parents who didn’t know Drew were quite impressed.

Thankfully, Bill is cool with Drew’s lack of game.

Bill isn’t trying to make Drew anything that Drew is not.

talking trash with the other player,” Bill said.

In fact, it’s Drew that has

“Of course, what Drew was really saying

been eager to join sports.

to the other player was “do you like

Right now, Drew is in the

Legos too?”

middle of basketball

The world needs kids like Drew.

season. Seeing that

Those boys and girls who despite

he has yet to score

being uncoordinated still show

a basket, Drew has

up to every practice and

been asking his

game and do their best.

dad for help on his

They remind us that it’s not

skills. And, luckily

about winning and losing

for my column, Bill has been providing me with the post-mortem, the play-by-play of sorts, for Drew’s regular Monday night practices and Wednesday night games.

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games - it’s about measuring success by perseverance and having fun. I know Drew will grow up to be brilliant in some way, and though ESPN will never cover it, I for one will wish I had a bubblegum card with Drew’s picture on it. SP