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ith our kids now back in school; make sure they’re learning more than reading, writing and arithmetic!

BE KIND TO ONE ANOTHER, Some of you may know that I have a son in college TENDERHEARTED, FORGIVING ONE ANOTHER, AS GOD IN and a daughter in 8th grade. I was a stay at home mom for CHRIST FORGAVE YOU. many years and had the joy of being very involved in both of — EPHESIANS 4:32 my children’s educational development. I can say with certainty that the most important education came from our own home environment. Respecting each other and trusting in God. It’s important to introduce the concept that people are different, and sometimes we are not on the same page with each other or with those outside our home. So being attentive to other’s differences is important. We are all uniquely created!

Along with all the other life lessons, we need to teach our children the gesture of kindness. Engaging in the practice of kindness immediately shifts our demeanor from busy/frazzled to a more positive place by moving outside ourselves and recognizing those around us. There are many opportunities to be kind.

It’s kind to pray for others and offer blessings. Example: Together, pray a small prayer for a homeless person you see on the street; ask God to lessen their load that day. Hold them in your thoughts for a little while.

Find the good in someone and then compliment them. Doing this may completely alter their day and help them feel good about themselves. Example: If you notice a good behavior of a friend, tell them that you think that was very kind, and smile. Did you know that simply smiling at someone can lift their spirits?

Teach your children to forgive others. Holding a grudge or revenge will never be gratifying. Nothing can top forgiveness, which helps to prevent aggressive behavior, and is good for our mental and spiritual health. Sometimes we may ask someone to forgive us. Example: Please forgive me for getting annoyed with you on the playground. That was not nice.

It’s kind to really listen. Sometimes we are mostly thinking of what we are going to say next, rather than actually listening to someone speaking to us. A great act of kindness is to fully listen to someone; giving them your full attention.

And lastly, teach your children self-kindness. It’s a good thing to recognize our own good behaviors, so it’s okay to pat ourselves on the back and say “that was good; I did good!”

You should just go ahead and give yourself a compliment, right now! SP

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Meet Miles, aka “Oatie.” With his two sidekicks, twin brother Samuel (2) and big brother Julian (4), he loves to dress up (as cowboys, pirates or superheros) and go on adventures. He also enjoys playing piano and guitar with his dad. When done doing those things, he likes to cuddle. How nice!

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YOU SHOULD KNOW PUT IT IN YOUR HANDS SOAP AND WATER THAT IS!

According to a study published in the American Journal of Infection Control, more than 164 million school days are missed due to the spread of infectious diseases. Three million of those missed days are the direct result of acute conjunctivitis, also known as pink eye. It’s important to remind your children to wash their hands regularly and avoid touching their eyes as much as possible.

WHEN IT’S OK TO $PLURGE We know. You’re on a budget. We all are. But is there ever a time when it’s ok to splurge a little? Yes. For something tied to a memory like a special dress for a special occasion (can you say wedding dress?) or a vacation, perhaps. Financial planner Laura Scharrbykowsky explains that it’s not these infrequent purchases that get us in trouble, it’s the impulse buys and “got to have that” thoughts.

HELP KEEP IT IN PERSPECTIVE With unrealistic portrayals of beauty and masculinity all over the media, adolescents often have distorted views of their own body image. We, as parents, can help fix that by teaching them to think critically about claims regarding diet and body. Explain how amazingly buff athletes devote many hours a day to body building and super skinny models are probably photoshopped.

Ask them how many people they see every day who actually look like that. Rather, encourage them to live a healthy lifestyle.

Keep it in perspective..

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If your perfect pumpkin is missing its stem, don’t worry! You can still use it to create the perfect Jack-O-Lantern. Just carve the bottom out for the opening instead of the top. Once you’re done cleaning and carving your pumpkin, sit your light source on the bottom piece and place the pumpkin over it. No need for a stem handle. Hey, you could add a funny hat!

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EXPOSING KIDS TO THE ARTS There are many reasons to expose our kids to the arts, not the least of which is how it teaches problem solving skills and persistence despite setbacks. Think about the decision making process used when creating something: what color to use, how to make a line, etc.

These choices don’t just influence their art, they influence their lives. Researchers from Michigan State University found a strong correlation between childhood engagement in the arts and measurable success later in life. Give your child access to the arts and see what they do with it, be it music lessons, a trip to a museum or a simple arts & crafts box.

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CARLA, MOM OF 2 Q. My preschooler really wants to chew gum. Is there an age appropriate time to allow kids to chew gum? I’m afraid she might swallow it or worse yet, get it in her hair. Am I being too cautious? Is it really that bad if she swallows a piece or two?

JAMIE, MOM OF 1 SON Q. What is Super Lice and how do I treat it?

A. Studies have confirmed that lice and,

A. Good news! Research actually shows that

Swallowing too much gum can cause health problems including diarrhea, abdominal pain, gas, mouth ulcers, dental problems and choking. The American Academy of Pediatrics guideline for when to allow a child to chew gum is to ensure she understands it shouldn’t be swallowed. If she understands that and knows how to properly dispose of it once it’s been chewed, she should be fine. A good indicator would be if she can hold toothpaste in her mouth and spit it into the sink.

especially nits, have become resistant to most of the chemicals in the OTC treatments. Here are 3 options to successfully treating them: 1.

Remove every single nit/lice through a very meticulous comb out process. Unfortunately it can take hours or days to complete and there’s always the possibility of missing a few nits that can re-start the infestation. 2. Cutting the hair to 1/8” (buzz cut); a drastic option and you still need to check for nits. 3. Dehydrating lice and nits with a controlled flow of heated air. There is a FDA-cleared device (Air Alle) that uses precise temperature, time and air volume to effectively kill lice and nits without toxic chemicals or spending hours in the process.

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A. As parents, we can never be too cautious.

seeds of empathy, caring and compassion are clearly visible early in a person’s life. You may remember your oldest caring for his younger sibling. It’s also noted that parents (adults) need to help kids nurture these seeds into full development. Consider serving others! Engage in a community service with your kids. It’s important that they see and hear from you that caring about others is a top priority. Also, it’s important for your kids to appreciate the many people who contribute to their lives. Make sure they know that it’s more important to be kind and grateful than it is to be happy. Of course, being kind will help make us happy!

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Q. I have a 13 year old and a 7 year old, and I am thinking about enrolling my youngest in music lessons and would like to encourage my 13 year old to also enroll. He feels he is too old, however, I can sense he has a bit of interest. Any suggestions?

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would have either taken music lessons when younger or not quit music lessons they took in their younger years.

There are many methods to teach an older beginner student that motivates them and many times they catch on quickly and find an immediate sense of accomplishment after just a few lessons. Music studies like piano, voice, guitar, drums or a band instrument continue to build students’ self confidence, concentration, problem solving skills and other life skills these teens will need as they move into young adulthood. We believe that an education in music is education for life and empowers a student to excel in the classroom and beyond at any age.

A. Music is such a big part of our society and it’s sometimes around the teen years when students wish they

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MOM IN NEED OF DIRECTION Q. My kids are 8 and 10. Raising them to be caring seems challenging. They tend to be selfish.

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SMARTY BLOCKS

1 They’re not just blocks they’re Smarty Blocks. Each set comes with 10 easy-tohandle wooden blocks, 160 challenge cards, a sand timer and tons of fun. The object? Complete as many challenges in one minute that you can. Good for readers and non readers and the challenges range from simple stacking puzzles to sequencing, reading, spelling and logic. Ages 5 & up. We found it at www.fatbraintoyco.com, $28.95

DON’T BE CHICKEN...

2 Make a chicken! You can do this. (Need: white onesie, pilot cap, some felt, leggings, feathers and glue.) No-Sew Simple and you get to “strut your stuff”; and the cost is as much as “chicken feed!” So go ahead and “shake a tail feature”! We found it at lovelymorning.com/index.php/2013/11/ halloween-2013 Hey, readers! We would love an image if you make this!

MAIL ART!

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3 Turn your fave art or images into a Postage Stamp! Upload an image and turn it into a totally legit, U.S. Postal Service-approved stamp (scan in the piece of artwork, or take a digital pic of it and upload it from your computer). This is a great way to add a personal touch to any letter or holiday card you send. We like pictureitpostage.com because you can create oversize stamps (all the better to see the artwork), with lots of options for customizing type color and background.

Two printed sheets of 20 stamps for $17.95. www.pictureitpostage.com

SHARE ART!

4 We love our kids’ art; however it can become overwhelming to find space to store all of it! Well, “there’s an app for that.” The ARTKIVE app lets you tag and store images of your kids’ art work in seconds. You can even create a book and other keepsakes. www.artkiveapp.com, $4.99 at App Store

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MOMENTS { BY PATRICK HEMPFING }

A SPECIAL HALLOWEEN

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essie, my ten-year-old daughter, loves to be in charge of decorating

then left my experienced decorator in charge while I finished the car. Back

for holidays. “I want to decorate all by myself” is something I’ve

outside, I enjoyed my freedom to squirt the hose whenever I wanted.

heard many times. She enjoys decorating for Christmas best, because we have lots of boxes filled with Christmas ornaments, lights,

About 30 minutes later, I walked in to Halloween. Jessie had taped a foam ghost to my computer. She hung spider webs from the light above my

etc. However, whether she has many boxes or only one, Jessie has fun and

desk. Two stuffed animals, a white ghost and a black cat, peeked out from

makes the most of her decorating supplies.

under the comforter in the master bedroom. If they didn’t scare Mattie, the

On a beautiful Saturday morning three weeks before Halloween, I de-

spider attached to the toilet tank would.

cided to wash my wife’s van. My wife, Mattie, was returning from a business

When I walked into the living room, I found Jessie at the coffee table,

trip that night, so I thought it would be a nice welcome-home surprise. Jessie

crayon in-hand. She had printed Halloween-themed coloring pages from the

likes to help wash cars and anything, or anyone, else the hose will reach.

computer as she felt the walls needed a little more color.

When Jessie helps wash the family vehicles, she prefers rinsing over

Jessie and I picked up Mattie a few hours later. I thought we’d surprise her

scrubbing. As I vacuumed the van’s interior, Jessie watered the watermelon

with the clean car and Halloween decorations. Jessie had a different plan. She

plants, air, and grass. Since she likes to be in charge of the water hose, the

greeted her mom with a hug and promptly gave her a detailed report.

new nozzle added to the excitement. Of course, Jessie had to try all the

We had a nice evening, which included Jessie dressing Sadie, our dog,

settings, clicking from one to the next by twisting the plastic nozzle head to

in her Halloween costume. Jessie decided to be a cat and dress Sadie as

achieve a spray, jet, or various other configurations of water flow. Jessie is

a mouse. Sadie didn’t mind the gray T-shirt, but I can’t say she enjoyed the

a lot like her mom. Mattie’s younger brother bestowed upon her the title “Dic-

gray sock pulled over her tail.

tator of the Bathroom,” when they were growing up together in a one-bath-

Mattie, tired from her trip, went to bed early. I allowed Jessie to stay up

room house. Jessie is apparently striving to be “Dictator of the Water Hose.”

past her bedtime to watch a little college football. My two favorite teams lost,

During a snack break, I asked if Jessie would like to decorate for Hallow-

one on a last-second field goal. As I crawled into bed, disappointed over the

een before her mom got home. She enthusiastically responded, “Yay! May

loss, I landed on something. I reached behind me and pulled a ghost and

I do it all myself?” I retrieved the box marked “Halloween” from the garage,

black cat out from under my back. My frown changed to a smile.

I smiled again a few weeks later when a cat, a mouse, and a 6’5” block of moldy cheese greeted trick-or-treaters on our front porch. The cat, who had painted my face and selected my cheese-colored shirt, wore a big grin, too.

As for the mouse, she was the cat’s best friend.

Jessie already has this year’s costumes planned. Recently, Mattie purchased a swimsuit and removed the foam pads from the top. Jessie held each pad to my chest and said, “This year, we’re going to be cheerleaders.”

Here’s my response, Jessie, in the form of a cheer. “Give me an N. Give me an O. Give me a W-A-Y. What’s that spell? NO WAY! Louder now, NO WAY!” No matter what costume I wear, or how much my face gets painted, I’m confident we’ll have another wonderful Halloween … with special decorations. And if our house gets egged, I only need to call Jessie and her trusty water hose.

Until next month, remember to cherish the moments. Rah-rah!

Happy Halloween! SP

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Patrick Hempfing had a 20-year professional career in banking, accounting, and auditing before he became a father at age 44. He is now a full-time husband, stay-at-home dad and writer. www.facebook.com/patricklhempfing

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BY HEATHER LEE LEAP

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5 Ways to Find the Fun in Your Child’s Music Practice Who knew practicing an instrument could be fun-and-games? In many homes it involves shouting, grumbling and even tears, but it doesn’t have to. You can break out of a routine of arguing over music practice by playing instead. Playing games that is.

Children cannot see the long-term benefits of practicing; they rely on their parents support and encouragement to get them through the rough spots. But what if you are just as frustrated as your child and each practice session turns into a power struggle? Remember that music can bring great joy, and we all learn best in a harmonious environment.

At your child’s next practice, sound a positive note by trying the following activities.

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GET MOVING, GET THE WIGGLES OUT, AND GET THE SONG EMBEDDED IN YOUR CHILD’S BRAIN: Listen to recordings of the songs your child is learning. Music-listening is a foundation of the Suzuki method, but is also used widely by professional musicians who listen to several versions of a piece they

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are preparing. Listen to the songs, march to the beat or dance with the rhythm, then sing the tune before playing. If there is a tough section in the music, sing it to your child and have him sing it back to you. Keep singing it, and having him sing it back until he gets it right. Singing the notes and rhythm correctly is a magic trick for improving your child’s playing.

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SHIFT FOCUS ON YOUR OWN TERMS: Young children will find anything to focus on other than their music, so get creative and provide yours with a controlled distraction.

Keep a box of colored pencils and a special coloring book in the practice area. Each time your child finishes a musical task, ask him to color a small, specific portion of a picture in the book, such as a character’s shirt or the dog’s tail. Have him play another section of music or the next song, then color another part of the picture. This will get him moving and provide a break from focusing. Why colored pencils?

There are usually twelve or fewer in a box, and you don’t want your child to spend the whole time choosing a color.

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SET UP A NO-RISK AUDIENCE: Invite all of the dolls and stuffed animals in your house to a special performance by their favorite musician. Your child can line the toys up on the couch while you set up the stand or get out the instrument. Announce the performer with a flourish and have her enter and bow before she begins her practice for the day. When she feels confident with her latest piece, have her perform for the whole family.

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Everywhere there are kids learning to play an instrument, there are families caught in power struggles over practicing.

When those same families have the tools to create joy in daily practice, tensions are relieved and the student becomes more proficient at playing.

A LITTLE REWARD GOES A LONG WAY: As long as candy is not a daily treat at your house, the lure of twenty M&M’s or jelly beans in a small dish can be a big thrill. Start with all twenty or so in the bowl. If your mini-Mozart gets off-task, talks back, or tries to sabotage his practice in some other way, you get to eat one of the treats. Keep eating them slowly until he settles down. Works like a charm because he gets to eat the ones that are left – if any – at the end of practice.

Best of all, you won’t resort to yelling and cajoling.

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REPETITION REAPS REWARDS: When your young musician is struggling, help her identify a trouble spot, then play “wipe-out!” Place three beads, buttons or small toys on the music stand and have her repeat the troublesome measure or line a minimum of three times. Let her slide one bead from one side of the stand to the other each time she plays it correctly. If she plays it wrong, even the last time - Wipe-out! She has to put all the beads back and start over until she can play it correctly three times in a row. Start with three beads for younger children. Some teachers recommend practicing specific measures up to fifteen times in a row.

Start your child’s music practice with one of these activities, or hold them in reserve for when frustrations are running high. Spread them out and use them sparingly for best results.

Whatever games you try, stop practice when your child is having fun and things are going smoothly. Ending at a peaceful moment when your child feels successful creates positive feelings which will carry over into the next day’s practice. SP Don't forget to tell our advertisers you saw them in Suburban Parent!

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The Art of Words

BY HEATHER LEE LEAP

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oetry suffers an undeserved reputation as something cool and standoffish, but that may be because poems are so often left to lie flat and lifeless upon the page. It’s time to brush off the ashes and find the glow in poetry. Giving breath to poems, like blowing on fading embers, will light a fire in children and adults as they discover the magic and art of words. Share them, read them aloud and poems come to life.

Poetry has a vital place in our culture. Whether you are a life-long poetry fan or giving poetry another chance, for the sake of your children, let the following ideas inspire you and your family to explore poetry throughout the year.

Choose a Poem of the Day or Week. Have family members take turns choosing a poem to share at breakfast, at dinner or at any time you can all be together. Encourage your family to respond to the poems and make connections. When introducing poetry to children at home consider the rhythm, cadence and emotion in a poem rather than pushing them to search for meaning.

Sneak it in. Offer poetry as a snack. Copy a short poem onto a slip of paper and tuck it into your child’s lunchbox as a surprise.

Read poetry and sing songs to babies and toddlers. Little ones will build language skills, absorbing rhymes and rhythms of music and poetry, long before they comprehend the content.

Write your own poems. Try a progressive poem where each person begins a poem, then passes the paper to the next person to add a line. Read through various types of poems and see if you can mimic a particular style.

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Volunteer to lead a poetry group at your child’s school or homeschooling group. Read poems aloud and choose poems to memorize. Include time to write poetry and share your creations.

Visit your public library. A great source for local activities, look for announcements of upcoming poetry events. Ask a children’s librarian for recommendations and bring home an armload of poetry books to peruse.

Memorize and recite poetry. Children build stamina and determination, eventually memorizing poems with as many as fifteen verses. There is power in their achievement, and they are always amazed and proud of their accomplishments.

In a classroom setting, students can practice in pairs, reciting aloud and prompting each other to aid in memorization. Patrice Vecchione, editor of Whisper and Shout: Poems to Memorize, suggests creating visualizations to make associations between images in a poem and something you already know.

Memorizing with the intent to perform at a specific time and place establishes a deadline and purpose and can provide momentum and boost enthusiasm for the challenge of learning a piece by heart. Invite friends to a poetry slam at your home, and perform your own work, or recite favorite poems by others. Prepare a poem to recite for grandparents, perform a poem at a senior center or register for a public event.

Stand up as you read or recite; move to the cadence of the text. Poetry as performance art comes to life, rises from the page and can kindle a new interest in children, or simply light their way to the next discovery. SP

Heather Lee Leap is a freelance writer and mother of three. She is not at all embarrassed to admit she memorized several verses of “The Lady of Shallot” in high school, inspired by excessive doses of Anne of Green Gables on public television.

• A Child’s Garden of Songs, and Back to the Garden, the Poetry of Robert Louis Stevenson in Song, recording by Ted Jacobs • A Journey through Time in Verse and Rhyme, edited by Heather Thomas • My Uncle Emily, by Jane Yolen • Poem in your Pocket for Young Poets, selected by Bruno Navasky • Poems to Learn by Heart, edited by Caroline Kennedy • Read a Rhyme, Write a Rhyme, selected by Jack Prelutsky

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10 PARENTING IDEAS YOU (PROBABLY) NEVER THOUGHT OF When my wife and I found out we were going to be parents, we immediately knew we needed wisdom.

There was a couple with grown kids we asked to meet with to ask questions. Little did we know but a number of other couples had asked them for the same thing. They ended up hosting all of us for dinner to discuss parenthood. Some of the things they said were so simple I couldn’t believe I hadn’t thought of it myself. Whether you are a new father or a seasoned veteran, we all need help. There’s nothing more beneficial than sharing wisdom, ideas, and best practices. So here, in all humility, are 10 random parenting ideas that perhaps you never thought of.

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KEEP IT SIMPLE. We tend to overdo the rule making.

Keep the rules to a number you can actually enforce. That way you will be consistent and the kids will know what to expect. Also, be able to bring it all back to one or two big picture ideas for your kids to move toward.

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DON’T GO IT ALONE. Yes, the car door thing is cliché.

But it – and every door – is such a good opportunity to let both our wife and the entire world know how you honor her.

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action. It’s called family leadership. When we’re wrong, which will happen quite a bit, we need to own it. If we don’t, they never will.

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LET KIDS HELP MAKE THE RULES. A family is not a

democracy. But, a family is a place where we teach, we all learn, and problem solving is practiced. Studies clearly demonstrate greater “buy-in” from children who have a hand in developing rules and consequences.

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TRY A DAY WITHOUT RULES. Well, maybe one rule:

what to expect (and you know what to expect), a lot of the stress evaporates.

They still need to stay safe. Take a weekend and let them choose everything: meals (even if it’s candy), activities (you must join in), their bedtime (or lack of one), etc. They may see the value of all of your rules the next day.

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RAMP UP THE ROUTINE AND THE PREDICTABILITY. Children thrive on predictability. When they know

what’s a day with the shoe on the other foot? You’ll learn something, they’ll learn something; it’s a win-win.

IT’S NOT ALL ABOUT THE KIDS. Strong families are built around strong marriages. Ultimately, the most important element of family life is the relationship between mom and dad. That’s job one. Your kids will be happier. Even if you are no longer together, the way you treat each other will affect them.

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HAVE KIDS TAKE TURNS BEING “IN CHARGE” OF CHORES FOR A DAY. (THEY MAKE THE ASSIGNMENTS AND YOU HAVE TO WORK TOO). Seriously,

TRY “FAMILY GAME NIGHT.” Again, make this routine.

Board games and card games help reinforce the idea that “there’s a bigger plan.” Everyone’s on the same page; problem solving skills are enhanced. It sounds “old school,” we know, but there’s a lot in “old school” we could all use right about now.

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APOLOGIZE WHEN YOU’RE WRONG. As parents,

BABYSITTING RECIPROCITY. Find other families

that are in the same season of life. Consistent date nights with babysitters can get expensive. Take turns babysitting one another’s kids to keep date night affordable. Obviously, choose carefully. I recommend having medical information and consents in place ahead of time. There may come a time when you need it.

we should constantly model appropriate behavior and inter-

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OCTOBER 2015 THU 1 STATE FAIR OF TEXAS Runs thru Oct. 18. It’s time once again to gather the family and go to the fair. With rides, exhibits and food vendors galore, there will be something for everyone to love. Don’t forget to take the Dart and not have to worry about traffic or parking. Fair Park, Dallas www.bigtex.com

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series by Jane O’Connor. Parlez-vous francais? Well, Nancy does because it’s fancy!

But her refined etiquette is not enough to get her the lead role in the upcoming school play. The Mermaid Ballet, complete with a scene-stealing dancing shark, will have your spirit dancing and make your children hysterically happy. Dallas Children’s Theater. 5938 Skillman St, Dallas, TX 75231. 214-740-0051. www.dct.org.

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8-5pm. Runs thru Oct 4. High banked hot rodding excitement returns to the Great American Speedway as Goodguys presents the 23rd Lone Star Nationals! It’s three big, Texas-sized days of motorsports excitement the whole family will enjoy! Check out over 2,500 1972 & older hot rods, customs, muscle cars, trucks and classics on display! Visit website for ticket purchase. Texas Motor Speedway, 3545 Lone Star Circle, Fort Worth www. good-guys.com

LEBANESE FOOD FESTIVAL 11am-11pm. Runs thru Oct 4th. Celebrating 20th Anniversary of Lebanese FoodFest, homemade Like Mama makes it!. Special Welcome to Fr. Mitch Pacwa S. J. who will be joining us during our festival with a Special Presentation. Our Lady of Lebanon Maronite Catholic Church. 719 University Place Lewisville, Texas 75067.

972-436-7617. www.ourladylebanon.com.

SCREAMS 2015 7:30pm -1:30am. Runs Fri & Sat thru Oct 31. The ultimate Halloween experience with three Haunted Houses -- the all new Castle of the Doomed, the Ghoulish Graveyard and the CarnEvil Clown Maze.

Plus, there is live entertainment on the Screams stage, games of skill, human powered rides, shops, a food court. Not recommended for children younger than 10. 2511 FM 66, Waxahachie www. screamspark.com

FANCY NANCY – THE MUSICAL 7:30pm Fri; 1:30 and 4:30pm Sat and Sun. Through Oct 25. Based on the book

8-12pm. Local growers and specialty food producers to connect with the community about the value in organic, or sustainable, locally produced food items. Old Town Coppell, 768 W. Main St., Coppell.

TEXAS SMARTSCAPE TOUR OF COPPELL 8:30am. Keep Coppell Beautiful’s annual Texas SmartScape Tour is a self-guided tour of Coppell landscapes and gardens featuring drought-tolerant native and adapted plants that require minimal irrigation. Maps can be picked up the day of the tour starting at 8:30 am at the Helping Hands Community Garden. 255 Parkway Blvd, Coppell. 888-267-5939. www.coppelltx.gov.

30TH ANNUAL ARTS & CRAFTS FAIR 9-4pm. Beat the crowds and get a head start on your Christmas Shopping with over 60 artisan booths plus food, bounce house, face painting and more.

Woodhaven Presbyterian Church, 3650 N O’Connor Rd., Irving 972-541-0747. www.woodhavenpres.org.

CHILI N DOGS FALL FESTIVAL 11-2pm. This is a pet-friendly, family-friendly, free, community outreach event and all are welcome! Animal blessing by Fr. Tim Cherry at noon. Show off your pet’s talents in our Pet Games! Prizes for winners! Best Pet Trick, Pet that looks most like its owner, Race to the owner. Enjoy live music, food trucks, bounce houses and other kid’s activities. Have a picture taken of you and your pet by Professional Photographer Jim Moss of DFW Photog-

raphy. Church of the Apostles. 322 South MacArthur, Coppell, Texas 75019 .

WALK TO REMEMBER 1pm. M.E.N.D. hosts the Walk To Remember, which is a ceremony that honors and commemorates our babies. This is a non-profit Christian organization that reachs out to families who have suffered the loss of a baby. Please go online to register for the event. Calvary Church, 4401 TX161, Irving 972-261-1919 www.mend.org/ support/wrt-chapter-home-register.jsp

CONCERT IN THE PARK 7-9pm. Grab your lawn chairs and blankets and head out to Pilot Knoll Park for Concerts in the Park. Feel free to come out and enjoy the park before then and pick out your spot. It will be a fun evening for the whole family to enjoy. There will not be an entry fee at the gatehouse for these concerts. Q’s Tropical Sno be on site selling food, snacks and drinks. Pilot Knoll Park. 218A Orchid Hill Rd. Argyle.

972-317-7430. www.highlandvillage.org.

GATHER AT OUR CAMPFIRE 7-9pm. Pull up a chair at our cozy campfire. Watch the sun set and the stars appear as you enjoy traditional campfire fun: stories, songs, and of course, s’mores! Lewisville Lake Environmental Learning Area. 201 E. Jones Street, Lewisville, Texas 75057. 972-219-3930. www. cityoflewisville.com.

GATEWAY GHOST TOURS 7:15pm. Your local psychic tour guides, Cindy Ross & Heidi Barr welcome you to enjoy a 90 minute after dark tour through Old Town Lewisville. The tour is family friendly for all ages from 5 to 105. Tours start at Tierney’s Cafe & Tavern. 208 E Main St, Lewisville, TX 75057. 972-9224675. www.cityoflewisville.com.

SUN 4 MORE THAN DOTS AND DASHES 1-4pm. Meet in the park’s Train Station and Caboose for a Morse code demonstration for all ages. A real-life telegraph operator will be on hand to explain how

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to send a telegraph and allow guests to try their hand with dots and dashes.

Farmers Branch Historical Park, 2540 Farmers Branch Ln., Farmers Branch, TX 75234. www.fbhistoricalpark.com

MON 5 AUTUMN AT THE ARBORETUM 9-5pm. Runs thru Nov 25. The highlight of the festival is the nationally acclaimed Pumpkin Village, which is created with more than 75,000 pumpkins, gourds and squash by the talented horticulture team. This year, to continue with the ongoing Texas theme, the display will be recreated into an Old Texas Town in the Pecan Grove. Dallas Arboretum, 8525 Garland Rd., Dallas 214-515-6500 www. dallasarboretum.org.

WILD MONDAYS-ANIMAL ARCHITECTS 6:15-7:30pm. Why do animals build homes?

What materials do they use? Find the answer to these questions and more through hands-on experience and discussion at “Animal Architects”! Participants will investigate different types of animal homes and be invited to “build” their own using natural supplies, such as twigs, leaves, twine, pinecones, acorns, and more. Families and youth ages 4-14. RSVP’s are requested, but not required, by contacting cnp@coppelltx. gov or calling 972-304-3581. Biodiversity Education Center at Wagon Wheel Park.

367 Freeport Pkwy, Coppell

TUE 6 LEGO NINJAGO TRAINING CAMP Bring the kids to LEGOLAND Discovery Center to see if they have what it takes to join the Ninjago team and take on the bad guys at the new LEGO® Ninjago Training Camp. Enhance your coordination and test your reactions with ninja missions, grow your creativity by building Ninjago out of LEGO® bricks, then demonstrate your agility and skill by taking on the laser maze.

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KNOW IT ALL WED 7 FLIGHT SCHOOL FOR PRESCHOOLERS 10:30-11:20am. We will learn and experiment about the four different forces of flight. To demonstrate what we learn we will make our very own flying tool!

This program is recommended for children ages 3-5. Registration is required.

Central Library, 2nd Floor Children’s Center Kahn Pavilion, 1515 Young St., Dallas 214-670-1671.

THU 8 HOLOCAUST BY BULLETS 9:30-5pm. Runs daily thru Dec. 31st.

The exhibit chronicles the lesser-known side of the Holocaust in which more than 2 million Jews were gunned down and left in unmarked mass graves across Ukraine, Belarus and Russia. Dallas Holocaust Museum, 211 N. Record St., Dallas 214-741-7500 www.dallasholocaustmuseum.org

FRI 9 ARMENIAFEST 5-10pm. Runs thru Sun. Oct 11th. This is an incredible opportunity for children to get a hands-on experience about a different culture while having fun!

You will find plenty of outdoor games and activities available for our young visitors and older ones too!! Spend a leisurely day with your family viewing beautiful handcrafts or idling through the exhibits that capture the fascinating history of Armenians. Take time to learn about the unique Armenian alphabet that was invented in 404 A.D. and used in the earliest translations of the Bible.

1805 Random Rd., Carrollton 972-2456995 www.armeniafest.com

DOZE WITH THE DINOSAURS SLEEPOVERS 7pm-8am. Go behind the scenes with after-hours access to intriguing exhibits, exclusive demonstrations and handson discovery — with a late-night snack, 3D movie and light breakfast to round out the experience! Register yourself and your child today for the opportunity to proudly proclaim “I Dozed with the Dinosaurs.!” Perot Museum of Nature & Science, 2201 N. Field St., Dallas 214428-5555. www.perotmuseum.org.

SAT 10 RED RIVER SHOWDOWN More than 100,000 people travel to the State Fair for the AT&T Red River Showdown game between the Oklahoma

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Sooners and the Texas Longhorns. The game, played in Cotton Bowl Stadium since 1929, is an iconic staple of the State Fair. Cotton Bowl Stadium, 3750 The Midway, Dallas. 214-565-9931. For more information visit bigtex.com.

BIRD WALK 7:30am. Accompany a master birder on a guided hike. Over 280 species of birds have been documented at LLELA Nature Preserve, so there’s no telling what you might find! Birders of all skill levels (but at least 10 years old) are welcome. Lewisville Lake Environmental Learning Area. 201 E. Jones Street, Lewisville, Texas 75057. 972-219-3930. www.cityoflewisville.com.

DESIGN YOUR OWN SMARTSCAPE 11-12:30pm. Create a landscape that conserves water and saves money on your water bills, beautifies your home and local environment, attracts native butterflies, hummingbirds and other wildlife, and prevents/helps reduce storm water pollution! Free to the public and registration is not required.

Helping Hands Community Garden, 255 Parkway Blvd., Coppell www. coppellcommunitygarden.org.

SUN 11 FLOMO FOOD TRUCK FEST 11-7pm. Food, Fun, Entertainment and more! 1887 Timber Creek Dr., Flower Mound www.facebook.com/flomofoodtruckfest.

MON 12 WHAT DO THE BIRDS EAT? 6:15-7:30pm. What foods can you place in your yard to feed birds? Learn how different types of foods attract different birds, as well as the importance of water and cover habitat. Bring your empty milk jugs or water/soda bottles with you and build a bird feeder using these upcycled milk jugs and water/soda bottles. Biodiversity Education Center at Wagon Wheel Park. 367 Freeport Pkwy, Coppell

TUE 13 LOVE & LOGIC PARENTING: EARLY CHILDHOOD (2-6 YEARS) 6:30-8pm. It’s never too early to use love and logic. It even works with the teeny tiny ones! Turn the terrible 2s into terrific 2s with easy to use steps. Great solutions to “I waaant it!” and “You can’t make me!” and a favorite, the grocery

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• Art and Music • Computer Lab • Hands-on Math Lab • Hands-on Science Lab • Call for a Tour

397 S. STEMMONS FWY. • LEWISVILLE, TX 75067 972-219-3939 • LCAPRESCHOOL.ORG www.facebook.com/LakelandChristianAcademyPreschool

store “gimmies.” Hear how parents successfully model the behaviors they want to see. Build your child’s self-esteem early in life. Get direct talk on potty training. This class offers parents an alternative way to communicate with your child. Cost: $25. Highland Park United Methodist Church, Room 3.

3300 Mockingbird Ln., Dallas 214-5232231 www.hpumc.org.

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SONGWRITER OPEN MIC NIGHT

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7-9pm. Acoustic Songwriter Open Mic Night. Come on out and play your original songs, all ages venue, all songs should be family friendly! PA provided please bring your own instruments. C2 Café. 1101 S Broadway, Carrollton.

WED 14 BLAST OFF AT THE LIBRARY 4-5:30pm. Do you love space? Join us for an out-of-this-world adventure!

In this STEM program, we will explore science and technology hands-on with craters, comets, and rockets. Learn about moon craters, test out your engineering skills with straw rockets and explore chemistry by creating edible comets! Ages 7 - 12 recommended.

Farmers Branch Manske Library. 13613 Webb Chapel Rd, Farmers Branch.

972.247.2511 www.farmersbranch.info.

THU 15 CHRISTMAS IN COWTOWN HOLIDAY GIFT MARKET 11-8pm. Runs thru Oct 17. Come shop from our wide range of merchants while knowing you’re making a positive impact on your local community. Event will also run Friday & Saturday. See website for ticket purchase. Will Rogers Memorial Center, 3401 W. Lancaster Ave., Fort Worth www.juniorleaguefw.org.

FRI 16 BLOOMIN’ BLUEGRASS FESTIVAL & CHILI COOK-OFF 4:30-10pm. Runs thru Sat. The top names in Bluegrass entertainment converge on Farmers Branch for this weekend music festival. In addition to music on the main stage, guests will enjoy some of the best chili in DFW and learn about our magnificent rose gardens. Admission is free and the event features lots of fun for the entire family, including a free KidZone and the arts and crafts marketplace. Farmers Branch Historical Park. 2540 Farmers Branch Lane, Farmers Branch. 972-919-2631. www.farmersbranch.info.

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5-9pm. At Oak Fest, we celebrate life in Co​ppell being as diverse as the oak trees. Building on our community’s roots and growing strength, we pause for an evening of community fun, live music, and fellowship. Enjoy miniature train rides, bounce houses, face painting, great food, and more!​​Andrew Brown Park East, 260 E. Parkway Blvd., Coppell.

CELINA BALLOON FESTIVAL 7am-11pm. Runs thru Oct 18. Colorful balloons fill the sky at the Celina Balloon Festival. The fest also includes carnival rides & games, giant inflatables, hamster balls for humans, a 200 ft zip line, dog adoptions, 100+ vendors, live music and fireworks on Saturday. Old Celina Park, 12670 Farm to Market 428, Celina.

FOOD DAY FOR KIDS 8-12pm. Observe Food Day with a focus on kids and raising their awareness of healthy foods. Fun food and farm-oriented activities are planned throughout the farmers market including a petting zoo and kid-sized food samples!​.​​Coppell Farmers market. 768 W.Main St. Coppell. 888-267-5939. www.business. coppellchamber.org.

33RD KOMEN DALLAS RACE FOR THE CURE 8am. This annual 1K and 5K fundraising walk/run is one of the most highly anticipated events of the year.

The Race will raise funds, increase awareness, and educate people about breast health, as well as recognize and celebrate breast cancer survivorship with the powerful Survivor March.

North Park Center, 8687 N. Central Expy., Dallas www.komen-dallas.org.

CRAFT FAIR 9-4pm. This yearly tradition features over 100 crafters and artists selling one-of-a-kind items. It’s a great opportunity for shoppers to find special items and meet the people who made them.

There is no admission fee and concessions are available on site. Farmers Branch Senior Center. 14055 Dennis Ln, Farmers Branch, TX. 972-919-1433. www.farmersbranch.info.

MARKET TO KITCHEN CHEF SERIES 10-11am. The Market to Kitchen Chef Series continues with a cooking demonstration by Coppell resident Ryan Kate who was a competitor on the third season of MasterChef Junior. At the time of the competition, Ryan Kate

was 12 years old. Look for the tent and chairs in the grass on the SE side of the pavilion.​​Coppell Farmers market.

768 W.Main St. Coppell. 888-267-5939. www.coppelltx.gov.

CELEBRATION OF ROSES 10:30-4:30pm. Celebrate roses in the gardens with an exceptional slate of speakers in the City Hall Council Chamber. Shuttles will provide easy access to the rose gardens and the Bloomin’ Bluegrass Festival at the Historical Park. For a hands on experience, there will be an opportunity to participate in an interactive session. Farmers Branch City Hall. 13000 William Dodson Pkwy, Farmers Branch. 972-919-1433. www. farmersbranch.info.

HALLOWEEN AT THE HEARD 6-10pm. Experience Collin County’s premier family-friendly Halloween event! Kids will trick-or-treat on the Dinosaurs Live! exhibit trail. Watch a family-friendly movie under the stars in the amphitheater. Stroll through the “Haunted Forest,” participate in a costume contest (for kids ages 12 & under), and more! Heard Natural Science Museum & Wildlife Sanctuary, 1 Nature Place, McKinney 972-562-5566 www.heardmuseum.org.

CONCERT IN THE PARK – VAN GOGH’S EAR 7-9pm. Grab your lawn chairs and blankets and head out to Pilot Knoll Park for Concerts in the Park. Feel free to come out and enjoy the park before then and pick out your spot. It will be a fun evening for the whole family to enjoy. There will not be an entry fee at the gatehouse for these concerts. Q’s Tropical Sno be on site selling food, snacks and drinks. Pilot Knoll Park.

218A Orchid Hill Rd. Argyle. 972-3177430. www.highlandvillage.org.

SUN 18 GLUTEN FREE & ALLERGEN FRIENDLY EXPO 10-4pm. Dedicated to meeting the needs of the celiac community, those with gluten and food sensitivities, auto-immune/inflammatory diseases, and autism. The public is helped through vendor expositions, educational sessions, and online resources.

The manufacturers are serviced through vendor expositions, marketing programs, and consultative services.

See website for ticket purchase.

Dallas Market Center, 2100 Stemmons Freeway, Dallas www.gfafexpo.com/ locations/dallas-tx-2015.

WELLNESS EXPO IN ADDISON 11-4pm. Over 100 exhibits featuring products and services to enhance your body, mind and spirit. Shop for breakthrough nutritional products, energized jewelry & stones and experience bodywork, Reiki, reflexology & intuitive readings.

Includes 24 talks on Treating the Common Symptoms of Heart Stress, Sleep Apnea, Natural Beauty & Pain Relief, and Medical Intuition. See website for ticket purchase. Addison Conference Centre, 15650 Addison Rd., Addison www. eventbrite.com/e/wellness-expo-in-addison-october-17-18-tickets-16530115019.

MON 19 AUTHORS LIVE! BETTY CAROLI 7-8pm. A look at Lady Bird Johnson that upends her image as a plain Jane who was married for her money and mistreated by Lyndon. This Lady Bird worked quietly behind the scenes through every campaign, every illness, and a trying presidency as a key strategist, fundraiser, barnstormer, peacemaker, and indispensable therapist. In Lady Bird and Lyndon, Betty Caroli restores Lady Bird to her rightful place in history. Its free and open to the public. Highland Park United Methodist Church. 3300 Mockingbird Lane, Highland Park, TX 75205.

214-559-9400. www.hpumc.org.

TUE 20 OPEN HOUSE AT GRAPEVINE FAITH CHRISTIAN SCHOOL We develop and graduate Authentic Christian Leaders. Primary 3s-12th Grade. Additional dates Nov 10 & Dec 8. Visit GrapevineFaith.com to register for an Open House or call 817-4421605. See ad in this issue.

THU 22 COOL THURSDAY CONCERT SERIES 7pm. They are the World’s Greatest 80s Experience. Hailing from Sheffield, England, this legendary quintet has been able to combine their individual and very formidable talents to create the true essence of the most radical decade to ever be called “The 80s. Dallas Arboretum, 8525 Garland Rd., Dallas 214-5156500 www.dallasarboretum.org

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SAT 24 ANNUAL WILDFLOWER SEEDING 9-9:20am. Gather your friends, family, scout troop, and neighbors and do the “buffalo stomp” with the herd of seeders! Enhance the beauty of the trail system by participating in the annual seeding. This is a short event, so please arrive on time to share in the experience. Free to the public and registration is not required. Moore Road Park Coppell www.coppell.gov.

2ND ANNUAL BABY & KIDZ EXPO 10-5pm. Affordable family fun with family friendly vendors, parent resources, entertainment , activities, prizes and more. Adults $10, 65+ and Military $5, kids 12 & under free. Dallas Market Hall, 2200 N. Stemmons Frwy, Dallas See ad in this issue.

FREE & FANTASTIC: FALL FEST & FAMILY FUNDAY 11-3pm. IAC joins with neighboring Villages on MacArthur to offer a day of family fun in the parking lot, sculpture garden and inside the center with face painting, bounce house, pumpkin patch, hands-on crafts, hot dogs & hamburgers, fire trucks, and the DFW Humane Society Mobile Adoption trailer. Irving Arts Center, 3333 N. MacArthur Blvd, Ste 300, Irving www.IrvingArtsCenter.com.

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PUMPKIN DIVE

with a visit of 4 hours or more!

One per family. Not to be combined with other coupons or offers. This coupon is the current coupon and is the only one which we are currently accepting. Expires 10/31/15

1-3pm. Dive for pumpkins in the CAC Indoor Pool. Wear a swimsuit and bring a towel. After you find the perfect pumpkin, decorate it in the Party Room.

All supplies will be provided. Space is limited, so register early! An adult must be in the water for all 3-5 year olds and non-swimmers. Community Activity Center (CAC). 1200 Gerault Rd, Flower Mound. 972-874-6280. www. flower-mound.com.

VOCAL JAZZ ENSEMBLE 2-3:30pm. Brookhaven college Vocal Jazz Ensemble will hold a free concert.

Please come and join us and enjoy the music. Farmers Branch Manske Library.

13613 Webb Chapel Rd, Farmers Branch 972.247.2511. www.farmersbranch.info.

From angels to zombies, thousands of people come out for a frightfully fun time. The Spooktacular Trails Festival is a FREE event that offers tons of activities for all ages. Our haunted hayride, digital photo contest, trick-or-treating trail are just a few activities that will leave you with lots of treats, laughs and great memories. Participants light up the night in this off-road course loaded with spooky surprises. Each participant will receive a shirt, medal, bib and glow product. Registration and additional fees are required for Glow Runs.

Toyota of Lewisville Railroad Park. 1301 S. Railroad Street, Lewisville 75050.

972.219.5061. www.cityoflewisville.com.

FANG-TACULAR MOVIE FEST 6-9pm. Participants will enjoy an outdoor family friendly Halloween movie in the Town’s beautiful Heritage Park. Bring a blanket or lawn chair and stretch out under the nighttime sky!

Food trucks will be on hand with great food available for purchase. Event is FREE. 600 Spinks Rd. Flower Mound.

972-874-7275. www.flower-mound.com.

CONCERT IN THE PARK – WAREHOUSE: A DAVE MATTHEWS TRIBUTE BAND 7-9pm. Grab your lawn chairs and blankets and head out to Pilot Knoll Park for Concerts in the Park. Feel free to come out and enjoy the park before then and pick out your spot. It will be a fun evening for the whole family to enjoy. There will not be an entry fee at the gatehouse for these concerts. Q’s Tropical Sno be on site selling food, snacks and drinks. Pilot Knoll Park.

218A Orchid Hill Rd. Argyle. 972-3177430. www.highlandvillage.org.

SUN 25 ALVIN AND THE CHIPMUCKS: LIVE ON STAGE! 1pm. This is a brand new, music-filled interactive live show featuring the Chipmunks and Chipettes, America’s favorite animated music group. Based on the characters from the hit Fox movies, the show will bring the music and excitement of a live rock concert to life as the Chipmunks perform hit music. Visit website to purchase tickets. Verizon Theatre at Grand Prairie, 1001 Performance Pl., Grand Praire www.axs.com.

MON 26 ZOMBIE ANIMALS

SPOOKTACULAR TRAILS & GLOW RUN 5-9pm. This event has become a unique staple to the City of Lewisville.

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4:30-5:30pm. Like zombies? Or maybe just creating something really weird?

Then come down to the library for a great time turning innocent stuffed animals

into masterpieces of zombie art! Farmers Branch Manske Library. 13613 Webb Chapel Rd, Farmers Branch, TX 75234.

972-247-2511. www.farmersbranch.info.

WED 28 BOO-VILLE HALLOWEEN BASH 6-8pm. Celebrate Halloween at the library with a fun-filled romp through the Boo-ville Pumpkin Patch or one of our many exciting activities like Spider Toss and Pin the Tie on Mr. Bone! Come dressed in your best costume and try for first place in our costume contest!

All ages welcome. Farmers Branch Manske Library. 13613 Webb Chapel Rd, Farmers Branch 972-247-2511. www. farmersbranch.info.

THU 29 AUTHORS LIVE! JAMES KAPLAN 7-8pm. Just in time for the centennial of Sinatra’s birth comes the definitive biography of the mature Frank Sinatra, beginning with his 1954 Oscar. James Kaplan goes behind the legend to give us Sinatra in all his complexity - singer, actor, mogul, lover, and associate of the powerful and infamous. Sinatra: The Chairman is the second and final volume in Kaplan’s biography of Sinatra.

The first volume, Frank: The Voice, was published in 2010. It’s free and open to the public. Highland Park United Methodist Church. 3300 Mockingbird Lane Highland Park 214-559-9400 www.hpumc.org.

FRI 30 MOVIE ON THE SQUARE/ DOUBLE FEATURE

ers will receive a finisher’s stainedglass medal. 10K and 5K runners get a stained-glass finisher’s medal. Wear your funny and creative costumes to run in during the race and you could win a fabulous prize. Costume judging will happen after the race. Panther Island Pavilion, 395 Purcey St., Fort Worth 469233-4243 www.dfwmonster.org

BOOKS FOR TREATS ON HALLOWEEN! 10-6pm. Wear your Halloween costume to the Library and pick out a free book. While supplies last. Ages 0-12.

Both Carrollton Public Library Locations. 1945 E. Jackson Road. 972-4663000. www.cityofcarrollton.com.

RALLY DAY: SEHAWKS @ COWBOYS 10-6pm. Rally Day includes Self guided tour, super bowl trophies, alumni appearances, DCC appearances. AT&T Stadium. One AT&T Way, Arlington, TX 76011. www.attstadium.com.

HALLOWEEN IN THE PARK 5-10pm. This wildly-popular event features Trick-or-Treat stations, game booths, stage entertainment, great food, and the one-of-a-kind Haunted Hedge. Farmers Branch Historical Park.

2540 Farmers Branch Lane, Farmers Branch. 972-919-1433. www.farmersbranch.info.

SAVE THE DATE NOV 2 HALLOWEEN CANDY BUY BACK

6:30pm. Come celebrate Halloween with a movie. We’ll be playing two movies tonight. Ghostbusters and Charlie Brown, Historice Downtown Carrollton. 1103 W 3rd St, Carrollton, Texas 75006. 972-4663000. www.cityofcarrollton.com.

Runs thru Nov. 6th. Got candy?

Want cash? Bring in your unopened Halloween candy along with a canned good to our office and receive $1.00/ pound of candy. 2701 Old Settlers Rd, Flower Mound 972-724-1617 www.debraduffydds.com. See ad in this issue.

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MONSTER DASH HALF MARATHON, 10K, 5K AND 5K YOUTH

FESTIVAL AT THE SWITCHYARD

6am. Monster Dash is a healthy way to celebrate Halloween together at North Texas’ premier costumer race. All distances get the full zip Monster Dash performance jacket. All Half-Marathon-

11am -10pm. Free concerts, rides & games, children’s entertainment and more. Featuring 3 Doors Down with Fastball. Rain or shine. Historic Downtown Carrollton Carrolltonfestival.com.

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Please note: Although we strive to bring you the most current information available regarding event dates & times, confirming with the event venue before going is always a good idea.

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FUN STUFF

Source: guy-sports.com/humor

{ LIFE IS BETTER WHEN YOU’RE LAUGHING }

WHY DON’T SKELETONS LIKE PARTIES?

WHAT’S THE RATIO OF A PUMPKIN’S CIRCUMFERENCE TO ITS DIAMETER?

THEY HAVE NO BODY TO DANCE WITH.

PUMPKIN PI (3.1428571428571428571428571428571)

WHAT WAS A WITCH’S FAVORITE SUBJECT WHEN THEY WERE IN SCHOOL?

MAY YOUR WALLS KNOW JOY, MAY EVERY ROOM HOLD LAUGHTER, AND EVERY WINDOW OPEN TO GREAT POSSIBILITY. — MARY ANNE RADMACHER

LOL WITH JAMES ESTES!

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SPELLING!

Decorate for Autumn with Spin Art We know our kids love to display their art. So let them bring some seasonal warmth and color inside with this Spin Art activity.

THESE ARE THE SIMPLE STEPS: • Cut some leaf shapes from card and invite your children to color and decorate them using oil pastels, crayons, pens or pencils (or a combination of them all) • Attach to the inside basket of a salad spinner using a blob of blu-tac • Squirt paint and glitter glue onto the card • Spin really fast (a great gross motor development skill!)

• Add more colors of paint and glitter, then re-spin, to create a build-up of overlapping layers • When dry, sew through the leaves using a needle and thread, taping the back of each leaf to keep them in place on the garland • Hang up and admire!

GOTTA LOVE ‘EM My son (4 years) was sitting with us at the table coloring while his Grampa was talking about problems with his ear. My son said, “what’s wrong Grampa?” He replied, “my ear is ringing and I don’t know what to do.”

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BACKTALK { BY KEN SWARNER }

A REALLY FRIGHTENING COSTUME

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his Halloween, my wife and I are dressing up as the scariest,

of us to pass the bean dip, my wife or I will reply: “Why do I have to do

most dreadful, bone chilling things that we can think of to be.

EVERYTHING around here?”

We are going to a costume party as... Teenagers.

It makes my blood curl just to think about it.

If another guest tells me to watch out for ice walking to my car, I’ll shout “Stop treating me like a baby!”

And if the hostess politely

We already have our costumes picked out for the event. For starters,

informs my wife that

my wife plans to raid her own wardrobe without asking - wearing her

she needs to move

own clothes and jewelry for a costume because that’s what a teenage

our car because

daughter would do. She’ll even lose an earring at the party then

it’s blocking

flippantly say the next morning: “I put the

someone’s way,

earrings back last night – someone must have taken one in the middle

she’ll yell “When

of the night. GOSH!”

I’m a grown up, I’ll never treat

Me – I’ll buy a trendy outfit

MY guests this

at the store then throw the new

way!”

clothes on my floor – stepping

The rest of

on them for a few days before

the time, we’ll only

picking them up and putting

answer questions

them on my body. I also won’t

with the words “fine” and

bathe for a week. But, when

“whatever.”

people ask when was the

“Ken, you’re looking good.”

last time I took a shower, I’ll say: “Yesterday – jeez. Get off my back!”

My wife will not only shower for the party, she’ll also hog the bathroom from 9 a.m. until we leave at 6 p.m. I’ll bang on the bathroom door from time to time to add just the right amount of

My wife also plans to look mortified the entire time as if every adult in the room is invading her privacy. I’ll slump on the couch and stuff 24 potato chips into my mouth and then talk with my mouth open: “Whabbever.”

Finally, before we leave our house for the party, and to

tension to the day. When I do finally

set a good example for our own children, my wife and I will

get in, I’ll shave but leave one whisker

promise to stay sober, fasten our seat belts, abstain from

on my chin – which I will circle with a

sex, call if we’ll be late, mind our P’s and Q’s, and be home

highlighter pen so no one will miss it.

before curfew.

We’ve also been practicing how

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“Whatever.”

If everything goes well and our costumes are as perfect

we will move and act at the party –

as planned, the children will worry constantly and won’t be

especially what we will say to people.

able to sleep a wink until my wife and I get home. That’s all

For example, when someone asks one

the prize I’ll need!

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