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AVOIDING FLAT HEAD SYNDROME

PSYCHOLOGY OF SUMMER CAMP KINDNESS IS THE KEY!

CAN YOU HANDLE THE “TOOTH?”

PUBLISHER/EDITOR Mary Ellen Caldwell, RD, LD, CLT editor@suburbanparent.com

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MARY SHARES MINDING OUR HEARTS

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here are a lot of “firsts” us parents have with our children throughout their lives. This month is about first dental checkup and first summer camp!

I can tell you it was hard the first time I sent my son to a day camp along with his cousin. A bus picked them up at a local church. My sister and I followed the bus, just to be sure! Next, my daughter wanted to go to an away camp (4 hours away) in third grade with her best friend. My husband and I stayed in that town the whole week, just in case! So you see, “firsts” may be uncomfortable for us parents, but the benefits are long lasting. Learn the benefits from our Camp articles this month and every month through July. You will be inspired to find the perfect camp.

That first dental check-up is important too. February is Dental Awareness month for Children.

We share with you in our article, “The Tooth about your Kids Dental Health,” tips and first visit recommendations to inspire you to consider that first visit.

Of course Valentine’s Day is celebrated this month, and we celebrate with the ones we love. For our kids and teenagers, it may be hard to see beyond the glitter of cards and boxes of chocolate to the real meaning of love; so be certain to talk about the godly perspective of true love. It’s more than a feeling! We need to consider that the most important thing to God is that we love each other. Love is not a theory or a gooey feeling; it’s about how you treat people. In 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, love is defined by what it does or does not do. We read that “love endures long and is patient and kind; love is never envious nor boils over with jealousy, is not boastful…. It is not conceited (arrogant and inflated with pride); it is not rude (unmannerly); it is not quick tempered and does not act unbecomingly. This is a tall but manageable order. Here are some tips to help your family show true love. *Serve other people before yourself. This mere act of putting someone else first says you view their needs above your own; *Meet a need of someone without them knowing it was you. It’s hard to do for others without getting the acknowledgement, but try and see! *Is there something you want? Well, give that “want” to someone who has a “need” for it. Sometimes we have more than we need; bless someone else! *Commit to holding your tongue the next time someone is gossiping, and instead, say something good about that person; be bold, you could change someone for the better.

At the close of this letter, know that I may not know you (whoever reads this note) but I can tell you that I see God’s love reflected in the faces of our communities by the way we come together. I so enjoy meeting our readers and advertisers at expos or from an email that is sent my way and of course through the beautiful images of your children that grace my mailbox daily. Keep a look out in this issue for upcoming Expos that we will be sponsoring. We would love to meet you! SP

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Our cover model, Hudson, is big brother to his best friend, little sister Hadley (1). When not playing with her, his train set or toy cars, he enjoys drawing, going to the park or visiting the zoo. He’s also bilingual because he can speak in both English and Korean.

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YOU SHOULD KNOW TEEN LOVE! It’s so important to be playful with our teens. When life is becoming more serious for them, our interactions have a tendency towards being more serious too. So make every effort to keep an element of play going. This is a great way to stay physically in touch too. They may shy away from cuddles, but are comfortable with a tussle!

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CONSIDER CAMP Do you remember the first time you tried something new and succeeded? Well, summer campers are given the chance to try sports and activities they never imagined they could do. And further, peers and counselors champion them through these experiences, giving campers a sense of accomplishment and value! It’s amazing how a skilled, caring, camp counselor can nudge a child outside their comfort zone and encourage a new experience. And the absolute best part is at pick-up! Oh, the excited conversations in the car are amazing!

teeth come from brushing longer, not harder. Children (and adults too) should brush their teeth for two minutes at least twice a day (after breakfast and before bedtime). Singing a favorite song or using a toothbrush that plays a melody can encourage brushing for the full two minutes. Be sure to use a toothbrush with soft bristles.

KINDNESS IS KEY It’s Valentine’s Day. With love in the air, we ask, “Why do some relationships last and some don’t?”

Scientific evidence says it comes down to kindness. Kindness in the way partners interact with each other. And the evidence also shows that the more someone receives kindness, the more they will be kind themselves, which leads to upward spirals of love in a relationship. So be kind to your Valentine.

CLASSIC PLAY

PEEK-A-BOO! Not only is it great fun, playing peek-a-boo stimulates baby’s senses, builds gross motor skills, strengthens visual tracking and encourages social development. Plus it teaches object permanence, the understanding that objects still exist even when they can’t be seen. Object permanence develops between 6-12 months, but babies of all ages love playing peek-a-boo.

It’s also a great game for older siblings to play with babies as they share a connection laughing together. Other classic interactive games include “this little piggy”, “pop goes the weasel” or “clap hands.”

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QUESTIONS { + PROFESSIONAL ANSWERS }

MARIA, MOM OF 3 Q. What is the most important vitamin that I should be taking to stay healthy?

J A N N E T T E F R O M DA L L A S Q. Is IBS a serious illness?

A. There are about 12 vitamins and 15 min-

affects about 20 percent of Americans; however remains a mystery! Exactly what causes IBS symptoms can’t be definitively identified by members of the medical field. Symptoms vary with each person. For some, IBS symptoms are mild and manageable. These usually do not interfere with daily lifestyles. For others, IBS may severely reduce their quality of life.

Determining what the triggers are for symptoms is key. Certain foods stimulate the GI tract, and for those with IBS eating too much of these (foods) might worsen symptoms. Also, stress can be a trigger for IBS symptoms. If you are suffering from symptoms often it’s best to get some guidance on starting an elimination diet.

Your registered dietitian can help you identify foods that are a problem for you.

erals that are essential to optimal health, so picking just one as the most healthy is difficult!

The good news is you can get adequate vitamins and minerals from your daily food choices. Whole grains for B vitamins, fruits and veggies for anti-oxidants and dairy for calcium, magnesium, potassium and protein. Taking a multi-vitamin daily or every other day is fine.

Consider though that Vitamin D it is not found in adequate amounts in most multi-vitamins, so supplementing with around 1000IU daily is a good idea. Ask your doctor to test your vitamin D level at your next check up. Not sure - ask your Registered Dietitian!

CAROL IRETON-JONES, PHD, RDN, LD Good Nutrition for Good Living

A. Irritable Bowel Syndrome is a disorder that

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A. Students who are above grade level often need additional challenges to ensure they reach peak academic performance. Work with his/her teacher to create a more challenging curriculum through online tutoring services or specialized apps like Tynker, that teach computer programming. You can also use these types of personalized learning services at home and even on vacation. Students who are engaged in their learning and aren’t held back will grow in confidence academically and emotionally. You may even find you have a student who will then take time to help her classmates when they have difficulty with material that he/ she’s already mastered.

SYLVIA KINCER Leader, Gifted and Talented Online Tutoring

Q. I am due to deliver twins in 2 months. I am concerned about flat head developing. Are there ways of avoiding this? I would like advice on how to position my children to avoid flat head.

A. Great question! Multiples are at higher risk for plagiocephaly (flat head syndrome) so it is terrific that

you are planning ahead. Here are a few tips to help keep your babies’ heads round. *Be mindful of time spent in containers like swings, bouncy seats, boppy pillows and Rock n Play sleepers, especially for the first few months. They should not be in these devices more than 3 hours a day, total, so vary their positions regularly and remember, back sleeping on a flat surface is best! *Watch the shapes of their heads daily (looking from the top is easiest). Flattening happens very quickly (first two months.) Be proactive when you see a change and talk to your pediatrician right away to get a therapy referral. Specific repositioning strategies can correct a misshapen skull if done early on.

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SASHA, MOM OF 2 Q. My child is well above her grade level in Math and is starting to get bored and act out in class. What should I do?

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LET’S SWADDLE

1 These soft, comfy and versatile blankets are a generous size for swaddling, but they can also be used as a play mat or to cover a stroller. Created by an Australian born mom who, when transplanted to the US, couldn’t find muslin swaddles for her newborn. Now moms all over the world appreciate them! We really love the jungle jam swaddles. www.adenandanais.com $49.95

A BRUSH WITH DARTH VADER

2 Little Jedi everywhere who were eagerly anticipating the release of Stars Wars Episode VII can now indulge in a little good clean Star Wars fun! Dr. Fresh has just introduced the new Firefly Star Wars Ready Go Brush.

The toothbrush lights up green, yellow, and red like a traffic light, turning the bathroom into a galaxy of good hygiene. Your choice of Darth Vader or Yoda, $3.99 at your local drugstore or supermarket.

LITTLE BOX OF LOVE

3 Like poetry? Then you’re going to love Magnetic Poetry®.

Each little box holds a collection of 72 loving, encouraging or happy word magnets perfect for a fridge or other steel surface. They’ll bring out your inner poet and inspire those around you too. www.fatbraintoys.com $6.00

CELEBRATORY BEVERAGE!

4 Pregnant and nursing women can raise a glass of bubbly and celebrate Valentine’s Day with a fizzy treat thanks to a new beverage called 9Months! This sparkling non-alcoholic beverage is made from grapes grown in southern Australia and undergoes a unique process that prevents fermentation while preserving the fresh natural grape goodness. 100 percent natural with no added sugar, no artificial coloring or flavoring, and gluten free. Pop the cork and know you are doing something good - a portion of proceeds goes directly to the March of Dimes. www.9monthslove.com $16.50

STINK-FREE TIP!

5 There are great uses for dryer sheets that don’t involve the dryer! Here’s a favorite of moms with smelly kid sneakers at home. Put a sheet into each stinky shoe and leave it overnight to minimize shoe odors in the morning. Also try putting a sheet in suitcases and sleeping bags before storing to keep them smelling fresh too. And put one in your new empty vacuum cleaner bag before vacuuming for a fresh scent all over the house.

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MOMENTS { BY PATRICK HEMPFING }

TAILS OF LOVE

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attie, will you be my Valentine?” On February 1, I’ll pose

in the chair next to Jessie’s. The

this question to my wife of almost 30 years. She’ll be

little guy did pretty well until the

noncommittal. Over the 14 days that follow, I’ll continue to

hairdresser broke out her noisy

romance Mattie with poems, small gifts, and various acts of

shaver, which resulted in a few

service in an effort to convince her that I’m the Valentine for her. Finally,

tears. My eyes moved back and

late in the evening on Valentine’s Day, Mattie will say “Yes, I’ll be your

forth between the two young customers.

Valentine this year.”

The one received a slight trim, while the

We started playing this game before we were married. It’s not easy to come up with fresh rhymes 14 times each February, even for a writer.

My mind wandered back to the scene

A wiser man would have quit years ago. I thought things would get

in our kitchen years ago, when Mattie

easier when my ten-year-old daughter, Jessie, was younger. She joined

gave Jessie her first haircut. At the time, I

in the efforts to convince her mom to select me. Unfortunately, my

highly questioned her decision to do it herself,

proponent turned into my opponent during the last few years, as Jessie

as I remembered Mattie’s only haircutting

started lobbying for Mattie to choose her. Could Valentine’s Day get any

experience, the “trim” she gave our first dog.

more challenging? Surprisingly, yes.

The long strands on the Sheltie’s hindquarters

Jessie is now also campaigning on behalf of our dog, Sadie, who

touched the ground and dragged leaves into

joined in the competition to be Mattie’s Valentine. Jessie sends emails

the house. That didn’t happen after Mattie made some lopsided cuts

and hand-written notes, some stamped with an inked dog paw, and

and then had to even them out. The remaining fur barely covered the

often with drawings or cut-out hearts, signed by the dog. One example

poor dog’s behind. Thank goodness dogs can’t talk … oh that’s right,

read, “Dear Woofy Mom, I love you! Be my Woofitine.” How can I

mine is competing to be my wife’s Valentine.

The hairdresser cut off Jessie’s two ponytails and carefully placed

compete with dog love?

Recently, though, I witnessed a

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beautiful display of love that didn’t involve poetry, flowers, chocolate …

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or removing ink from a dog’s paw.

The love came from Jessie’s head

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as she had nine inches of hair cut off and donated it to an organization

that makes wigs for women fighting cancer. Of course, I had my camera

them in a plastic bag, then posed with our pretty, short-haired girl for some pictures. At home, we addressed a padded envelope and slid in the bag containing Jessie’s hair, along with her name and address.

Many times, I’ve left the post office feeling happy that in a few days, a card, letter, or photo I had mailed would make someone’s day. I won’t soon forget the feeling I had when I mailed my daughter’s hair. Love can be expressed in many ways.

I’m confident that in the days ahead, I’ll overcome my daughter’s

and camcorder to capture Jessie’s haircut. Mattie pulled away from

rivalry, as well as my dog’s, and win Mattie’s heart for another

work. Even Jessie’s grandmother, who happened to be in town, came to

Valentine’s Day. And when I hug my Valentine this year, I’ll think about

watch. The beauty salon should have sold tickets.

other husbands who are thankful they can hug their wives, regardless of

As the hairdresser formed two tight ponytails to prepare Jessie’s hair for the scissors, I observed a mother holding her one-year-old son

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how much hair either spouse has.

Until next month, remember to cherish the moments.

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Patrick Hempfing had a 20-year professional career in banking, accounting, and auditing before he became a father at age 44. He is now a full-time husband, stay-at-home dad and writer. www.facebook.com/patricklhempfing

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Self-Determination at

camp

BY HEIDI SMITH LUEDTKE, PHD

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arents spend a lot of time trying to motivate kids. We use chore charts, checklists, reminders and rewards to get them to feed the dog, clean their rooms, and complete schoolwork. But these techniques don’t change behavior long-term.

Real motivation must come from within.

The Psychology of Summer Camp

Time at camp may be all it takes to spark a little self-determination in your kid. I know it sounds too good to be true. Your school-age slacker – the one who expects you to find his homework and pack his lunch – might start doing some things for himself. And your oftenbored tween might come home with more pep in her step.

Psychologists use self-determination theory (SDT) to explain why some experiences make us feel engaged and excited while others drain and deplete us. The premise is simple: when an activity meets our needs for autonomy, competence, and relatedness, we are energized and empowered. Kids’ basic needs are no different from adults’.

Kids want to do things for themselves.

They crave a sense of accomplishment and routinely seek feedback. (“Look what I made, Mom!”) And kids thrive on connections with loved ones and peers. Feelings of belonging will boost their self-worth. Summer camp

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offers loads of opportunities to meet all these needs. And that should make kids (and the parents who love them) very happy campers indeed.

Autonomy

The need for autonomy is satisfied when kids control their own lives. At camp, your son will have endless opportunities to care for himself. Staff won’t select his clothes, organize the contents of locker, or remind him to put on deodorant. No one will delay dessert until he eats his veggies. Independence is what camp is all about. Don’t worry. The world won’t stop if your son wears the same shirt three days in a row. His peers will speak up if he gets super stinky.

During the school year, many kids jump from one regularly scheduled activity to the next with no unstructured time in between.

Camp puts kids in charge of their own activities. Maybe your daughter will take a hike. Maybe she’ll paint pottery. Maybe she’ll write you an email. It’s up to her to decide how she’ll spend her free time. One thing is certain: she won’t sit around whining about having nothing to do. And if she does, you won’t be there to hear it.

Competence

The need for competence is satisfied when kids learn new things and get positive feedback about their efforts. Your kid might choose a camp focused on art, science, sports, or music. Or he may opt for a good old-fashioned sleep-away experience, complete with row boats and weenie roasts. Some camp activities may be outside your kid’s comfort zone. Stretching is good.

Your child may be unsure she can cross the slippery log over the creek. She may tremble with excitement about her role in the theater production. Peers and counselors will coax her along and give constructive advice. By the end of camp, she’ll be the star of her own adventure stories.

If your kid is an experienced camper, encourage him to share what he knows with newbies. Being an ambassador or mentor affirms kids’ competence in a big way. Teaching a peer how to trim a sail or chip a golf ball out of the tall grass will take your son’s skills to a higher level. His confidence will soar in response.

Relatedness

Your biggest concerns about summer camp may center on the social scene. Your child may not know anyone on arrival. That’s okay.

Camps create connections in many ways. Your kid will be instantly bonded with bunkmates because they share a home base. Familystyle dining and friendly competitions encourage interaction. The pursuit of shared goals – like building a robot or putting a frog in the counselor’s sleeping bag – cements kids’ camaraderie.

Extroverted kids may make lots of friends at camp. Less sociable souls may not. What matters most is that kids have opportunities to talk, play and live with a diverse group of peers. They won’t all become fast friends. Learning to navigate the choppy waters of friendship formation is a big part of the camp experience. Your kid’s social skillset will expand – even if she doesn’t find a new BFF.

No matter what your kid takes to camp, he’ll come home with a suitcase full of memories and a renewed sense of self-determination.

You’ll see it as soon as he wakes from his long post-camp nap! SP

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camps Adventure Kids Playcare

Flower Mound 972-899-2060 Highland Village 972-317-4158 www.adventurekidsplaycare.com See ad on p. 25

Black Mustang Ranch

817-915-8455 www.blackmustangranch.com See ad on p. 27

Coppell Montessori Academy 972-462-8311 www.coppellmontessori.com See ad on p. 16

CST Soccer Camp Club 972-318-2881 www.cstsoccerclub.com See ad on p. 11

Destination Science

www.destinationscience.org See ad on p. 21

Explorations Preparatory School 972-539-0601 www.explorationsprep.com See ad on p. 17

Grapevine Faith Christian 817-422-1605 www.grapevinefaith.com See ad on p. 27

Holy Family of Nazareth 972-255-0205 www.hfns.com See ad on p. 21

I College Prep 214-287-0904 See ad on p. 24

Lakeland Christian Academy 972-219-3939 www.lakelandchristianacademy.org See ad on p. 7

Lakeland Christian Academy 972-219-3939 (Preschool) www.lakelandchristianacademy.org See ad on p. 26

NTA TaeKwondo 214-295-8719 www.ntafm.com See ad on p. 25

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Oak Crest Private School 214-483-5400 www.oakcrestschool.org See ad on p. 19

Primrose Schools

Coppell 972-304-8888 Highland Village 972-317-9332 N. Lewisville 972-434-4001 N.E. Flower Mound 972-691-3815 Old Orchard 972-315-9495 Wellington 972-691-9595 www.primroseschools.com See ad on Inside Front Cover

Rex Programming

972-215-9962 www.rexprogramming.com See ad on p. 27

Riverside Butterfly School 972-745-0372 See ad on p. 24

SafeSplash Swim School 214-422-4287 www.safesplash.com See ad on p. 23

Temple Christian Academy 972-874-8700 www.templechristian.com See ad on p. 13

Texas Premier Youth Sports

469-834-8450 www.exaspremieryouthsports.com See ad on p. 23

UTD Chess Camp

972-833-4899 www.utdallas.edu/chess See ad on p. 27

Willow Bend Academy

971-436-3839 www.willowbendacademy.com See ad on p. 21

WinKids Inc.

972-355-9988 www.winkids.net See ad on p. 19

Youth Adventure Program www.yap.tamu.edu See ad on p. 17

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The T th ABOUT YOUR KIDS DENTAL HEALTH

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ood dental habits begin early on, and by caring for your baby’s mouth and teeth from the get go, you will help your children develop good dental habits.

• Even before a baby cuts her first tooth, parents should be wiping the gums clean with a bit of moistened gauze wrapped around your finger or you can use a moistened baby washcloth. When a tooth erupts, continue this wiping method after meals and before bed.

• It is recommended that you begin brushing your child’s teeth as soon as they break through the gum with a soft infant toothbrush and water. Unless it is advised by your child’s pediatric dentist, do not use fluoridated toothpaste until age 2-3.

• Gentle flossing should begin when two adjacent teeth touch. You are just disrupting the bacterial flora between the teeth. By about kindergarten or first grade, you can start to teach kids how to floss on their own.

• Avoid putting anything other than water in baby’s bed-time bottle to prevent baby-bottle tooth decay.

• Encourage your child to drink from a cup as they approach their first birthday.

• Drinking juice from a bottle should be avoided, juice should only be offered in a cup.

• Dental sealants are an excellent way to prevent tooth decay in children. This procedure takes only minutes, is painless, is less than half the cost of a filling and is effective at stopping decay.

Discuss this with your dentist.

• Children involved in sports need proper mouth protection. Ask your child’s dentist about customized mouth guards.

• If a permanent tooth gets knocked out follow these procedures: Gently rinse (not scrub) the tooth off and place it in a cup of warm milk (salt water is the second best choice; plain water, the third best), call the dentist and bring the child and the soaking tooth in immediately. SP

FIRST DENTAL VISIT SHOULD BE WITHIN A FEW MONTHS OF THE FIRST BABY TOOTH ERUPTING OR BY THE AGE OF ONE AT THE LATEST.

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SWALLOWING FLUORIDATED TOOTHPASTE AT A YOUNG AGE CAN LEAD TO FLUOROSIS (DISCOLORATION) OF YOUR CHILD’S PERMANENT TEETH.

DID YOU KNOW...

A PEDIATRIC DENTIST HAS A MINIMUM OF 2-3 YEARS MORE EDUCATION IN ORDER TO WORK WITH CHILDREN?

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AFTER A LONG PERIOD OF TIME, THE PASSION IN A MARRIAGE CAN BEGIN TO FADE - KEEP THE FLAME ALIVE WITH THESE

TEN WAYS TO ROMANCE YOUR WIFE

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LEARN HER LOVE LANGUAGE, AND THEN USE IT EVERY DAY. Read “The 5 Love Languages” by Gary

Chapman and figure out what you can do to become fluent in your wife’s love language. Then use what you have learned.

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DATE YOUR WIFE. If you asked her out again today,

would she still be excited to say yes? You must have been pretty good at this at one time or she wouldn’t have married you! So why stop now? One date a month at a minimum.

Use your imagination, get creative, and make it special.

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MAKE HER FEEL SPECIAL (DON’T TAKE THE RELATIONSHIP FOR GRANTED). “She al-

ready knows she’s important to me,” is not a useful response.

If you haven’t done something to demonstrate how special she is in – say – the past four hours, then you’ve already waited too long. This is not a high-budget item; it’s high-consideration. How about an “I love you” phone call, a simple card slipped in her purse, a mid-week lunch date, or flowers delivered to her office. Do you still open the car door? Serve her hot tea, wash her car, deliver an unexpected embrace, a foot rub, candles with dinner? You get the idea.

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USE SOME IMAGINATION. Plan events, dates, eve-

nings at home, vacations – even stolen moments – with the kind of creative thinking that motivated you when you first asked her out. There’s a psychological concept known as the “self-fulfilling prophesy.” Simply put it means this: believe she’s worth the trouble and she will be; stop trying hard and so will she; bring some creative intention to your romance as if she still knocks your socks off – and she will.

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TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF. Check the scales, think

about how you dress around your wife, throw away the cigarettes, start some regular exercise, don’t be a slob. When she sees you, does she take a second look – or does she look away? Does the way you present yourself tell your wife you want her to be attracted to you – or do you take all that for granted?

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SAY “I LOVE YOU”, AND SAY IT OFTEN. The

#1 misnomer believed by unromantic men is this, “I shouldn’t have to say it – she should know.” Saying “I love you” is the opposite of inflationary; it turns out “I love you” amplifies exponentially with usage.

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BE KIND. Kindness could well be the “X-Factor” in romance. Being kind is underplayed, undervalued, underrated, and certainly underutilized. Want romance? Be “Mr. Kindness.” Learn to make thoughtfulness and consideration your second nature. NIice-guys really do finish first - and she’ll fall for you all over again.

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BE A GENTLEMAN. Please don’t confuse being a gentleman with the medieval brand of chauvinism known as chivalry. Chivalry died a well-deserved death several centuries ago. Gentlemen, on the other hand, are courteous, respectful, well-mannered, faithful, generous, modest and charming. Stand up when she leaves the table, open the car door, walk on the street side of the walkway, help her on with her jacket, run to the car for her umbrella… you get the picture.

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TELL HER SHE’S BEAUTIFUL. Women who hear their husband tell them they’re beautiful become more beautiful. Men who tell their wives they’re beautiful believe it with more conviction every time the words leave their lips.

Love expressed = beauty; beauty = romance. It’s win-win.

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SPEND UNINTERRUPTED TIME TOGETHER.

There are only 168 hours in each week – the number never varies. The amount of time we offer our relationships can appear like a vote as to how much we value the people we say we love. Romance, like anything else worthwhile, is worth the investment of time and attention.

Huddle up with your wife tonight and ask her: Name three things you think of when I say the word “romance”.

— Reprinted with permission

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KNOW IT ALL { YOUR COMMUNITY CALENDAR }

FEBRUARY 2015 SUN 1 SKIPPYJON JONES AT THE DALLAS CHILDREN’S THEATER Through Feb. 22 (sensory-friendly performance Feb. 21). Be among the first audiences to enjoy this brand new musical adaptation of Judy Schachner’s beloved book! As Skippyjon would say... mucho fun! Visit website for show times/ dates and to purchase tickets. Enjoyed by ages 4 and up Dallas Children’s Theater, 5938 Skillman, Dallas, 214-7400051. dct.org.

ODYSSEO Through Feb. 8. Odysseo, Cavalia’s new production will gallop into Dallas.

Cavalia marries the equestrian arts, stage arts and high-tech theatrical effects at never-before-seen levels.

The unique theatrical production is first and foremost a grandiose show where spectators are taken to a live Hollywood-style movie set while the touching interactions between human and horse are at the core of the action.

Visit website for performance times and ticket information. Tickets start at $29.50. Dr. Pepper Ballpark, 7300 Rough Riders Trail, Frisco, cavalia.net/en.

MARVEL UNIVERSE LIVE Jan. 30-Feb. 1. Marvel fans, assemble!

Marvel Universe LIVE! is taking the live entertainment experience to a whole new level, with a mind-blowing show unlike anything you’ve seen before.

Watch your favorite Marvel Super Heroes including Spider-Man, The Avengers-Iron Man, Hulk, and more, and threatening villains come to life in an action-packed arena extravaganza.

Join Marvel fans of all ages for this once-in-a-lifetime, monumental performance. The fate of the universe depends on it! Show times: Friday: 7:30pm; Saturday: 11am, 3pm, 7pm; Sunday: 11am, 3pm. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, www.americanairlinescenter.com.

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PENGUIN DAYS AT THE DALLAS ZOO Through Feb. 28. 9am-4pm. Admission is just $5/person & parking is $8. A great way for guests to experience the Dallas Zoo during the winter months. Dallas Zoo, 650 South R.L. Thornton Freeway (I-35E), Dallas, 469-554-7500, www. dallaszoo.com.

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book club designed for homeschool children. Books will come alive on the first Wed. of every month at the Homeschool Book Club. Ages 7-10. Carrollton Library at Hebron & Josey, 4220 N. Josey Ln., Carrollton, cityofcarrollton.com/index. aspx?page=20&recordid=15864.

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4-5pm. Join us weekly on Wednesdays for crafts, games and reading fun! Grades 4-6. Farmers Branch Manske Library, 13613 Webb Chapel Rd., Farmers Branch, 972-247-2511.

7:30pm. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Ave, Dallas, www.mavs.com.

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TUE 3 GIRLS NITE OUT BOOK CLUB 6:30-7:30pm. Meets the 1st Tuesday of the Month in the Crawford Meeting Room. Join us for a girls’ night at the library as we discuss women’s fiction, chic lit, and the occasional romance in our newest book club. Open to Adults 18+ .Tuesday, February 3- Attachments by Rainbow Rowell. Lewisville Public Library, 1197 W Main St, Lewisville, 972-219-3570.

SOCIAL MEDIA MARKETING WITH CONFIDENCE 7-8pm. Get ready for an insider’s view of the social media world with local sales and marketing veteran, Charles Fansler, at the Flower Mound Public Library. On Tuesday, February 3, 2015, at 7 p.m., learn strategies that can help improve your online persona and help bring your business communications to the next level. This class will help you get started and become an expert. To register, email fmpl@flower-mound.com or call 972-8746165. Flower Mound Public Library, 3030 Broadmoor Lane, Flower Mound.

WED 4 HOMESCHOOL BOOK CLUB 1:30-2:30pm. All are welcome to this pilot

Runs through Apr. 22. How many suns? Is the Earth flat? Charles Schulz touched on many aspects of the natural world during the nearly 50 years he created the Peanuts comic strip. Visit website for gallery hours. Admission is free. Grapevine Tower Gallery, 636 S. Main Street, Grapevine, 800-4576338, www.grapevinetexasusa.com/ includes/calendar-of-events/-PeanutsNaturally-/19155/

THU 5 LEWISVILLE CHESS CLUB 7-8pm. Lewisville Chess Club EVERY Thu 7pm Barnes& Noble Lewisville 972-3157966; 2325 S. Stemmons Fwy, Ste 401, Lewisville, barnesandnoble.com.

FIRST THURSDAY LATE NIGHT: PANDEMICS 7-9pm. Our world is a petri-dish for disease and pandemics. Explore these rare and deadly diseases, learn how to protect yourself from everyday colds, find out which pandemic is the deadliest and hear all about infectious diseases from Dr. Jeffrey Kahn. Get in on the fun and purchase your tickets online early.

The Perot Museum will stay open from 10am-9pm first Thursdays. Come early and stay late! Perot Museum of Nature and Science, 2201 N. Field Street, Dallas, 214-428-5555, www.perotmuseum.org.

DALLAS STARS VS. LIGHTNING 7:30. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, stars.nhl.com.

FRI 6 THE 6TH ANNUAL COLLIN COUNTY HOME & GARDEN SHOW Feb. 6-8. Homeowners unite as over 250 exhibitors take over Allen Event Center and fill the venue with incredible displays spotlighting the latest products and trends in remodeling, gardening, outdoor living, kitchens, and interior design. The family-friendly event also includes gourmet food trucks, pet adoptions, handmade crafts, and giveaways. Show Hours: Friday, February 6, 2pm-7pm; Saturday, February 7, 10am-7pm; Sunday, February 8, 11am5pm. Allen Event Center, 200 East Stacy Road, Allen, 818-324-4533 www. allenhomeandgardenshow.com.

SAT 7 HOT CHOCOLATE 15/5K 7:30am. On February 7th, Hot Chocolate is headed back to Dallas! Enjoy an unforgettable run through Fair Park and reward yourself with piles of rich, melty chocolate-you’ve earned it. Visit website for more information and to register. Fair Park Dallas, 1300 Robert B. Cullum Boulevard, Dallas, www.hotchocolate15k.com/dallas.

FARMERS BRANCH TAILS 2-3pm. Learn more about man’s best friend. Topics include dog hygiene, how to approach strange dogs and different breeds. You might even get a chance to pet one of our special guests! Farmers Branch Manske Library, 13613 Webb Chapel Road, Farmers Branch, 972-247-2511.

DADDY DAUGHTER DANCEFARMERS BRANCH 6-8pm. Pre-sale tickets available through February 5. $5/person for Farmers

CHOCOLATE MANIA! 5-6pm. Join us for some great Valentine’s activities like Chocolate Tasting, Guessing Jar, and Heart to Heart Memory Game! Farmers Branch Manske Library, 13613 Webb Chapel Road, Farmers Branch, 972-247-2511.

TEXAS HOMESCHOOL CONVENTION Feb. 12-14. Make plans now to join 1000s of homeschoolers at the TEXAS Homeschool Convention at the Fort Worth Convention Center. 100s of information-packed workshops are included in your Individual or Family registration. An optional, high-energy Children’s Conference is also offered through The Giant Cow Ministries.

You don’t want to miss hearing these powerful and impacting stories at the 2015 Conventions. Speak one-on-one with representatives and get all of your questions answered. Please visit website to register for this event, see a list of speakers, and for event hours. Fort Worth Convention Center, 130 E. Exchange Ave., Fort Worth, 513-748-6998, www. greathomeschoolconventions.com/texashomeschool-convention-fort-worth-texas.

“A MIDSUMMER NIGHT’S DREAM” BY CORP Feb. 12-15. “A Midsummer Night’s Dream,” William Shakespeare’s most popular comedy! This work is widely performed around the world, and no wonder – it’s about the world’s most popular pastime, falling in love. Please visit website for specific showtimes/ dates and to purchase tickets. The Plaza Theatre, 521 W. State Street, Garland, 972-205-2790, corptheatre.org.

FRI 13 DALLAS STARS VS. PANTHERS 7:30pm. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, stars.nhl.com.

SAT 14 THE INTERNATIONAL EXHIBITION OF SHERLOCK HOLMES Exhibit Runs Feb. 14 - May 10.

Elementary? Maybe for Sherlock Holmes, but how will you fare when you try to solve a captivating, original murder mystery in the tradition of the master detective? You’ll learn to use investigative tools and techniques from Holmes himself, and test yourself with exciting, interactive crime-solving opportunities. Hurry along! The game’s

afoot! Perot Museum of Science and Nature, 2201 N. Field Street, Dallas, 214428-5555, www.perotmuseum.org.

CUPID’S CHASE 8am. Community Options, Inc. will hold its Annual Cupid’s Chase 5k! Race Location: Bachman Lake Park, 3500 Northwest Highway. Registration: 8AM Race Begins: 10AM. Early Registration (Before February 13th): $30.00 Race Day: $50.0. Registration Packet Pickup Information: February 12, 10am-6pm, Academy Sports, 8050 Forest, Dallas (214-355-3200). Register for Cupid’s Chase at Academy or pick-up packet and get an extra raffle for a chance to win an Academy gift card! Bachman Lake, 3500 Northwest Hwy, Dallas, imatter.comop.org.

MON 16 DCMGA SPRING GARDENING SERIES The Flower Mound Public Library will host four free-gardening sessions full of useful tips and information as part of the 2015 Spring Gardening Series.

Sessions include: “The Great Indoors: Houseplants” on February 16; “Vertical Gardening” on February 23; and “Maintaining a Healthy Tree in an Urban Environment” on March 2. Registration is requested. To register, email fmpl@ flower-mound.com or call 972-874-6165.

Flower Mound Public Library, 3030 Broadmoor Lane, Flower Mound.

TUE 17 GRAPEVINE FAITH CHRISTIAN SCHOOL OPEN HOUSE 7-8pm. Private school for preschool – 12th grade. Details& Registration online: GrapevineFaith.com. See ad in this issue.

Grapevine Faith Christian School, 729 E. Dallas Rd, Grapevine, grapevinefaith. com. See ad in this issue.

2015 MARDI GRAS FESTIVAL AND PARADE 10am-6pm. Can’t get down to the “BIG EASY” for Mardi Gras? We will bring it to you! Come out and enjoy great food, great fun and great festivities. Vendor booth spaces available! If interested in presenting a float in the parade, please contact Tammie Dennis at EVENTS “R” THE PASSION at (972) 679-2671 for application. Volunteers are needed!

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DALLAS MAVERICKS VS. PORTLAND TRAIL BLAZERS 7:30pm. African American Heritage Night. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, www.mavs.com.

SUN 8 BE MINE, VALENTINE DANCEMOMS & SONS 1-2:30pm (moms and sons); 3:305:30 (dads and daughters). Grab your Valentine and join us for an afternoon of fun! Couples will enjoy dancing, valentine treats, and go home with a 5x7 portrait! Cost is $24 per couple and $9 for each additional child. For ages 1 -14 and their parents. Moms & Sons Dance 1-2:30pm. Coppell Aquatic & Recreation Center. Registration required 972-3047077 Coppell Aquatic & Recreation Center, 234 East Parkway Blvd, Coppell, http://www.coppelltx.gov/aquaticreccenter/valentine.html.

DALLAS OPERA FAMILY CONCERT: MOZART AND COMPANY 2-4pm. The Dallas Opera’s Family Concert is a parade of opera’s greatest hits! Opera fans of all ages will hear a variety of types of arias and overtures.

You may recognize many of them!

Be sure to come early to enjoy family activities in the lobby beginning at 12:30pm. Winspear Opera House, 2403 Flora Street, Dallas, 214-443-1043, www. dallasopera.org/family.

MON 9 DCMGA SPRING GARDENING SERIES The Flower Mound Public Library will host four free-gardening sessions full of useful tips and information as part of the 2015 Spring Gardening Series, presented by the Denton County Master Gardener Association. Sessions include: “Shade Gardening” on February 9; “The Great Indoors: Houseplants” on February 16; “Vertical Gardening” on February 23; and “Maintaining a Healthy Tree in an Urban Environment” on March 2. Registration is requested. To register, email fmpl@flowermound.com or call 972-874-6165. Flower Mound Public Library, 3030 Broadmoor Lane, Flower Mound.

GREATER LEWISVILLE EARLY CHILDHOOD PTA General Meeting Mon-9:30am-11:30am GLECPTA is a support organization

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for moms of infants, toddlers, and preschoolers that offers monthly meetings (with great speakers and childcare!), playgroups, children’s outings, holiday parties, and adult activities. Trietsch Memorial UMC, 6101 Morriss Road, Flower Mound, 972-7429315 www.glecpta.org.

DALLAS MAVERICKS VS. LOS ANGELES CLIPPERS 7:30. Star Wars night. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, www.mavs.com.

TUE 10 BROWN BAG BOOK CLUB 12-1pm. Meets the 2nd Tuesday of the Month in the Crawford Meeting Room. Have lunch with fellow readers and discuss a range of popular fiction and non-fiction, bestsellers, and classics.

Open to Adults 18+. Lewisville Public Library, 1197 W. Main Street, Lewisville, 972-219-3570

WED 11 VALENTINE CRAFT AT THE LIBRARY 4-5pm. Celebrate Valentines at the library!

Make a valentine or two for your friends, family or secret admirer and indulge in a little candy while you craft! Open to the whole family! Farmers Branch Manske Library, 13613 Webb Chapel Road, Farmers Branch, 972-247-2511.

ROCKIN’ READERS 4-5pm. Stories, activities, and snacks for children grades K-3 only. Reservations required for groups of eight or more; call 972.874.6167. 2015 Themes: February 11: Be My Valentine; March 11: Out of This World. Flower Mound Public Library, 3030 Broadmoor Lane, Flower Mound.

DALLAS MAVERICKS VS. UTAH JAZZ 7:30pm. Bobblehead: Monta Ellis (First 5K). American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, www.mavs.com.

THU 12 RANDOM FANDOM 4-5pm. What’s your fandom? The Teen Advisory Group will randomly select one fandom to feature each month with crafts, games, and trivia. For ages 12-18.

Attend Random Fandom for your chance to suggest fandoms for consideration!

No registration required. Flower Mound Public Library, 3030 Broadmoor Lane, Flower Mound, 972-874-6167.

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KNOW IT ALL costume! “THROW ME SOME BEADS, MISTER”! “LAISSEZ LES BON TEMPS ROULEZ”!! (“LET THE GOOD TIMES ROLL”!) Dallas City Hall, 1500 Marilla, Dallas, 972-679-2671.

booths and door prizes will be on site.

Texas Health Presbyterian Hospital, 4400 Long Prairie Road, Flower Mound, 469322-7085 www.texashealthflowermound. com. See ad in this issue.

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COOL AFTER SCHOOL 4-5pm. Join us weekly for crafts, games and reading fun! Grades 4-6. Farmers Branch Manske Library, 13613 Webb Chapel Rd., Farmers Branch, 972-247-2511.

ROCK & WORSHIP ROADSHOW 7pm. The Rock & Worship Roadshow 2015 is coming to Dallas! Make plans now to come out to Christian music’s most entertaining tour for the whole family! Visit website to purchase tickets. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, www. americanairlinescenter.com.

THU 19 DALLAS STARS VS. SHARKS 7:30pm. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, stars.nhl.com.

FRI 20 TEEN BRAIN! A NEW MUSICAL

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Runs Feb. 2-Mar. 1. Enjoyed by ages 12 and up. Not suitable for younger children. This energetic musical follows a day in the life of eight young people as they navigate the rough waters of high school. An honest, powerful look at the inner workings of the mysterious teenage brain. Check website for showtimes/dates and ticket information.

Dallas Children’s Theater, 5938 Skillman St., Dallas, 214-740-0051, dct.org.

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Runs Feb. 20-22. Relive childhood memories with scenes from the new golden age of Disney animation accompanied by the Dallas Symphony Orchestra. Featuring music from Frozen, Aladdin, The Lion King, Beauty and the Beast, The Little Mermaid and many more. Performance times are Friday & Saturday at 7:30pm and Sunday at 2:30pm. Morton H. Meyerson Symphony Center, 2301 Flora Street, Dallas, 214692-0203, www.mydso.com/disney.

SAT 21 WOMEN’S HEALTH FAIR 8-11:30am. This health fair will provide women with free health screenings of the heart, blood pressure, sleep apnea, cholesterol, body composition (BMI), and glucose levels. Speakers, wellness

7pm. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, stars.nhl.com.

DO YOU HEAR THE PEOPLE SING 8pm. The performance celebrates the lives and music of two of the world’s most prolific writers of musical theatre with music from Les Miserables, Miss Saigon, Martin Guerre, The Pirate Queen, and Wuthering Heights. Tickets start at $14.

Eisemann Center, 2351 Performance Drive, Richardson, www.planosymphony.org.

SUN 22 CHORAL EVENSONG 4pm. Mostly unchanged since the 16th century, Evensong continues to be one of the most treasured liturgies of the Anglican tradition! St. Matthew’s Episcopal Cathedral, 5100 Ross Avenue, Dallas, 214-887-6552.

DALLAS MAVERICKS VS. HORNETS 6:30pm. Bobblehead: Chandler Parsons (first 5k). American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, www.mavs.com.

MON 23 DCMGA SPRING GARDENING SERIES The Flower Mound Public Library will host four free-gardening sessions. Registration is requested. To register, email fmpl@ flower-mound.com or call 972-874-6165.

Flower Mound Public Library, 3030 Broadmoor Lane, Flower Mound.

BATTERIES NOT INCLUDED 3:30-4:30pm. Join us for a brand new program, for ages 4-11, as we explore our world through nonfiction books and STEM (science, technology, arts, and math) activities! Meets every 4th Monday of the month. Flower Mound Public Library, 3030 Broadmoor Lane, Flower Mound, 972-874-6167.

TUE 24 DALLAS SUMMER MUSICALS: KINKY BOOTS Feb. 24-Mar. 8. KINKY BOOTS is the exhilarating Broadway musical that will lift your spirits to new high-heeled heights! Come join the sold-out audiences who’ve discovered why – sometimes – the best way to fit in is to

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7:30. T-shirt night (first 10k). American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, www.mavs.com.

DALLAS STARS VS. AVALANCHE 7:30pm. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, stars.nhl.com.

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when the Top 35 bull riders in the world compete against the fiercest bucking bulls on the planet. Tickets start at $20. AT&T Stadium, One AT&T Way, Arlington, 719242-2800, www.pbr.com.

Runs Feb. 28-Apr. 12. The largest floral festival in the Southwest” for 31 years!

This year’s Texas-sized extravaganza will feature more than 500,000 blooming spring bulbs along with themed topiaries, entertainment, food and other activities celebrating the iconography of our state that is recognizable world-wide. Dallas Arboretum, 8525 Garland Road, Dallas, 214-515-6500, dallasarboretum.org.

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“DADDY’S LITTLE ANGEL” DANCE

10am-5pm. Discover the best products, services, venues & entertainment for North Texas Families. Enjoy bounce houses, face painting, an indoor trampoline park, petting zoo, massage stations, character appearances and more. Dallas Market Center, Main Hall, 2200 Stemmons Frwy, Dallas. $5, all ticket proceeds donated to Children’s Medical Center. 214-605-0006, dfwFamilyExpo. com. See ad in this issue.

6-9pm. The Carrollton Police Officers Association presents the 9th Annual Daddy Daughter Dance. Fathers, come dance the night away with your little angel! Join us for a lively dance party with cookies, punch, crafts, games, prizes and photo opportunities. Proceeds benefit the Carrollton Police Officers Association.

For more information and to register, visit https://www.eventbrite.com/e/9thannual-cpoa-daddy-daughter-dancetickets-11176052875 or call 972-4663323. Sorry, no moms or sons allowed and dinner will not be served. Bent Tree Bible Fellowship Church, 4141 International Parkway, Carrollton, 972-466-3323.

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6pm. Every event begins with pyrotechnics, explosions, and flames.

Then the excitement really begins

7:30pm. Poster night. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, www.mavs.com.

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JUN 8-12 SUMMER CHESS CAMP AT UT DALLAS

Join beginner, intermediate or advanced chess classes for ages 7-14. 9am-noon or 1-4pm and extended playing classes available. Other sessions June 15-19, July 13-17 and July 20-24. Register at www. utdallas.edu/chess. For more info, call 972-883-4899. See ad in this issue.

Please note: Although we strive to bring you the most current information available regarding event dates & times, confirming with the event venue before going is always a good idea.

FUN STUFF { LIFE IS BETTER WHEN YOU’RE LAUGHING }

10 Reasons Why Camp is Important for Children 1 Adventure and exploration 2 Friendships with peers and adults 3 Reduced summer learning loss 4 Connectedness with nature 5 Positive risk-taking 6 Increased physical activity 7 Opportunities for play and imagination 8 Safety 9 Skill building 10 Engagement and leadership opportunities

YOU KNOW YOU’RE IN LOVE WHEN YOU CAN’T FALL ASLEEP BECAUSE REALITY IS FINALLY BETTER THAN YOUR DREAMS.

DID YOU HEAR ABOUT THE ROMANCE IN THE TROPICAL FISH TANK? IT WAS A CASE OF GUPPY LOVE

WHAT DO YOU CALL TWO BIRDS IN LOVE? TWEETHEARTS! WHAT DID THE VALENTINES DAY CARD SAY TO THE STAMP?

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STICK WITH ME AND YOU’LL GO PLACES!

LOL WITH JAMES ESTES!

GOTTA LOVE ‘EM I took my 6 year old son to see a play at our local community theater. The main character was a little boy who did a great job singing and dancing. It made me wonder if my own son would enjoy acting, so at the intermission break I asked him, “Do you think you could get up on the stage and sing and dance?”

Not missing a beat, he replied “Okay, but they’re probably going to ask me to get off.”

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ou like him best!”Have your kids hit you with that one? It’s almost as much fun as a cold sore.

The phrase usually spills out of my daughter’s mouth the minute I have disciplined her for something that she testifies I didn’t punish her brother for doing. On other occasions my son will accuse me of favoritism because, according to him, I ALWAYS go easier on his sister for crimes that he paid dearly for doing.

It’s at times like these I stand before them as they argue and whine... wondering what single people are doing.

My daughter approaches this issue as if she’s an actor in a melodramatic reading. Throwing herself to the floor she’ll twist and moan: “You like Alasdair better.

You probably wish I were never born. Maybe I should just stay in my room all day and never say a word - that way you can work on your will and give everything to your son. Uh!” Finally she’ll look up from the kitchen floor. “Dad, what are you doing?”

“Making popcorn. Bravo.”

My son takes a more direct approach. “Well, you obviously have to live with yourself.”

I don’t know where this mistrust and paranoia comes from. I am sure child psychologists could explain it to me, but whatever they said wouldn’t change the fact that my son asked me the other day if his sister had diplomatic immunity.

The part I hate the most however is the extra work caused by these disputes.

I now record and gather evidence solely so I can defend myself in crossexamination. I know I not only have to hand down judgments, but I have to be ready for the appeal process as well.

Foolishly, I thought this behavior would improve with age, but as my children approach the teen years it’s getting worse. If I didn’t know better, I’d think they were destined to be trial lawyers...or pro basketball players.

My children are always watching - recording - checking up to see how my rulings and discipline measure up. The minute I pass judgment, they descend.

I’ll dish out a sentence to one child in my den, and from the crack under the door, I’ll hear something that sounds like a seal being slaughtered: “WHAAAAAAAAT?!”

Opening the door, I’ll find the other child standing there shaking her head in disbelief. “A week? He got a week?”

My problem, of course, is that I engage. I immediately take the stand as if I’m the defendant in court. “Yes, your honor, a week.”

“For messing up your den?”

“Yes, for messing up my den.”

The child steadies herself on the doorjamb. “I left a paperclip out of place on your desk last year and I got a month...a month.”

That was how this Tuesday started. I guess I had finally had enough and I snapped. I ushered my daughter into the den and closed the door. “You know why I gave you a month, don’t you?”

She looked confused. “No. Why?” I grabbed her hands into mine, stared warmly into her eyes, and said sarcastically: “Because sweetie, mom and I like your brother better.”

She didn’t miss a beat: “I-knew-it.”

From under the door crack I heard a seal cry out: “THAAAAT’S NOT TRUE!” I should really stop engaging. SP

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