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Bob Stashak, champagne master for Bronco

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for the wedding toast. Its crystal-clear virgin

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wedding or big celebration you attend.

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Wine Company, the worldwide supplier

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With This Ring A wedding ring is an endless circle that traditionally represents the love that you, the bride and groom, have for each other. It is wise to make a careful selection of these immortal tokens of love.

Since you are unique, your wedding rings should portray your uniqueness.

Choosing or designing your rings can be one of the most pleasurable experiences of your engagement. The variety of styles is endless. Many couples prefer to visit the jeweler together to learn about each others’ style preferences. Your jeweler can advise you on the style and design most becoming to your lifestyle and tastes.

Decide if you prefer a single wedding band, a wedding ring with a matching engagement ring, or an engagement ring with guard rings. Other decisions that will need to be made are what type, size and shape of gem you prefer; whether or not you would like smaller diamonds on your band to accentuate your main stone; DQG LI \RX ZRXOG OLNH \RXU ÀDQFp¡V ULQJ WR match.

After you have searched for the ultimate rings and have found them, congratXODWLRQV ,I \RX FDQQRW ÀQG WKH SHUIHFW ULQJV for you, then commission your jeweler to custom-design and create an original set of wedding rings for you. A custom jeweler can create magic by simply learning your preferences and designing your rings according to your liking. The jeweler will then hand-carve and create your perfect rings.

Diamonds are an important part of engagement and wedding rings. You need to know a few basic facts and standards for diamonds. The most widely accepted diamond-grading standards were established by the Gemological Institute of America (GIA), and the basic concepts can be mastered by you with the help of your jeweler.

Diamond grading is divided into the Four C’s: Carat, Cut, Clarity, and Color.

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Carat refers to the weight of a diamond.

One carat weight is divided into 100 points of weight. A 25-point diamond can be referred to as a stone that weighs 0.25 carats.

Size is determined by the weight and is also a factor in the price of a diamond because the larger the diamond, and the heavier it is, the more rare the stone, and the more valuable it becomes.

Cut refers to the make and shape of your diamond. The make is the faceting or cutting of the diamond surface. Most round diamonds have 58 facets. A good cut, or make, allows for the maximum light UHĂ HFWLRQ WKURXJKRXW WKH GLDPRQG 6RPH diamonds are cut shallow, some deep, while the superbly cut diamond achieves the most brilliance.

The shape of the diamond is also a part of the cut. The most common shapes include the round brilliant, marquis, pear, oval, heart, emerald, and baguette. Diamond shapes are not limited to these. Diamonds have been cut in the design of stars, Ă RZHUV WUHHV DQG HYHQ WKH VWDWH RI 7H[DV

and poor cut. The more informed you are about diamond basics, the better you can intelligently choose your diamond.

ALTERNATIVES TO THE DIAMOND Another idea to consider when discussing your rings is the use of alternative stones instead of a diamond. The main reason that diamonds are the choice of most couples can be attributed to the fact that diamonds are the hardest stone known to man, thus they are better able to withstand the stress of daily wear. A myth exists about diamonds that they cannot be chipped nor can they break. But beware ... it is a myth. A diamond, like all gemstones, must be properly cared for by you.

On a regular basis, preferably at least once every six months, ask your jeweler to clean and inspect your rings and stones so that you can maintain their glowing beauty. In between your visits to your jeweler, it does help to clean your wedding rings as often as you wish. Your jeweler can advise you as to the best way to clean your rings at home. The cleaner your rings are, the more they sparkle.

Colored gemstones, such as ruby and sapphire, have also been used throughout history as a wedding ring center stone or as an enhancement to the center diamond. For example, you may choose an intense blue sapphire as your center stone and encircle it with smaller diamonds.

After you receive your rings from your jeweler, you should check with your insurance agent as to how to insure your rings on your insurance policy. Inquire about an all-risk policy to fully insure your rings. Your insurance agent can give explanations and

A good cut allows for the maximum light reflection throughout the diamond. Some diamonds are cut shallow, some deep, while the superbly cut diamond achieves the most brilliance.

Clarity refers to the ability to see through a diamond, which is affected by LQWHUQDO LGHQWLI\LQJ FKDUDFWHULVWLFV RI à DZV formed in nature in the diamond. The fewer DQG OHVV YLVLEOH WKH à DZV NQRZQ DV LQFOXsions, the better and more valuable the diamond becomes. Diamonds are graded RQ ; PDJQLÀFDWLRQ XQGHU D PLFURVFRSH or jeweler’s loupe, with good lighting. It is important to examine your major diamond purchase under a microscope so that you FDQ VHH WKH à DZV WKHLU VL]HV DQG ORFDWLRQV Overall, the fewer the inclusions, the more brilliant and valuable the diamond. &RORU DV D JUDGLQJ GHÀQHV GLDPRQG color very critically. The closer a diamond appears to colorless, the better the color grade. Color grading is done by comparing the diamond to a color test kit with stones graded by GIA. The lights used in this process are highly specialized.

All of the Four C’s affect the price of a diamond. For example, a diamond that weighs 1 carat, is VS1 clarity, G color and good cut will cost more than a diamond that weighs 1 carat, is SI1 clarity, K color

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OTHER WEDDING JEWELRY Your jeweler can assist you with other wedding jewelry, such as cultured pearls.

This is a traditional wedding gift given by the groom to the bride to wear with her wedding gown. Pearls are an elegant jewelry gift and may be enjoyed for many occasions.

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Your jeweler can guide you in making your choices.

Check with your jeweler for bridesmaids’ and groomsmen’s gift ideas and give a gift that will remind them of the special day they will share with you.

Choosing your wedding and engagement rings can be fun and exciting! With the professional guidance of your jeweler, your wedding rings will become cherished reminders of the love you share. •

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Ask the Experts HOW DO I MAKE MY EVENT SPECIAL AND NOT LOOK LIKE JUST ANOTHER PINTEREST BOARD? A wedding is a special ceremony that joins two households together and is witnessed by supportive family and friends. Integrating those families together is what makes each event unique and provides an opportunity to carry on or begin new traditions. Instead of purchasing twelve of the same lanterns from a local craft store, talk to your family about what items they have that can be used to set your romantic scene. A mixture of different hurricane lamps and candle settings from both sides can help family members feel incorporated while creating a personal look. You can also place decorative notecards next to the items for your guests to enjoy the history and sentimental notions you are creating. A seasoned certiÀHG SODQQHU FDQ KHOS \RX XWLOL]H ´VRPHWKLQJ ROG VRPHWKLQJ ERUURZHG¾ WR KHOS PLQLPL]H \RXU GpFRU H[SHQVHV ZKLOH FUHDWLQJ WKH complete event you envisioned.

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SO WE ARE ENGAGED. WHAT’S NEXT? Post-engagement time is glorious, so revel in the moment! Take time to enjoy each other, sit back, and think about your vision of your wedding day. List all of the things you like, you dislike, you have seen, and you have imagined. At this stage, do not think about the budget. If you do, you will limit yourself, so just dream as if you have all of the money in the world. As you come up with this YLVLRQ GHÀQH WKH IHHOLQJ \RX ZRXOG OLNH \RXU JXHVWV WR KDYH WKDW day and the memory you would like them to forever hold about your wedding. Write down the colors, things you like, and things you like to do. List the music and food you love. The answers to these questions will help you create a theme for your wedding.

The next step is to move to reality, where you are now prioritizing your dream items. Highlighting the most important things for your wedding helps to classify the thoughts into two categories: 1) Must have, for things that you feel strongly about and you feel your wedding would be spoilt without, and 2) Nice to have, for things you are willing to forgo. From this priority list, you can then start considering hiring a wedding planner to help you with things like the budget, selecting and booking the venue, and hiring vendors.

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SHOULD I HOST A BRUNCH THE DAY AFTER THE WEDDING? 7KH ZHGGLQJ LV RYHU WKH EULGH DQG JURRP KDYH VDLG ´, GR ¾ EXW LV the weekend really over? It’s always a treat for the parents of the EULGH WR KRVW D ´&KHHUV 7HDUV¾ EUXQFK DW WKHLU KRPH RU DW D KRWHO the morning after the big day. It makes a nice send-off for close family members, friends, and out-of-town guests. It can be simple, with quiche, fresh fruit, croissants, orange juice, and coffee‌or a IXOO EUHDNIDVW EXIIHW WKDW LQFOXGHV RPHOHWV D ZDIà H EDU DQG %ORRG\ Marys. If you have leftover wedding cake, guests will enjoy another piece! This brunch is a fun way to say goodbye to everyone who helped to celebrate the couple’s big day. If the newlyweds have not left on their honeymoon, it’s always nice for them to attend, so guests can give them one last hug and wish them well. What a wonderful way to wrap up a fabulous weekend!

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Wedding Cupcakes These cupcake recipes are all from Joanna Farrow’s book, Wedding Cupcakes. In it are some of the best cupcake recipes around, perfect for your big day, your bridal shower, or any other special occasion!

Bollywood Cakes Add a splash of vibrant color to your wedding with these quirky cupcakes, which can be decorated several days in advance.

TO PREPARE THE CUPCAKES Use a spatula to spread the cupcakes with a thick layer of buttercream icing, doming it up slightly in the center.

TO MAKE THE DECORATION Divide the rolled fondant into three pieces. Working on a surface dusted with confectioners’ sugar, knead blue food coloring into one piece, pink into the second, and orange into the third.

Wrap the colored fondants tightly in plastic wrap until ready to use.

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5ROO RXW WKH EOXH IRQGDQW WR Ÿ inch (2.5-mm) thickness on a surface dusted with confectioners’ sugar. Cut out circles using a 3-inch (7-cm) cutter and place the circles on the cupcakes in the blue baking cups, pressing the fondant down gently around the edges to cover the buttercream.

Use the pink fondant to cover the cakes in pink cups and the orange for those in orange cups.

TO FINISH Beat yellow food coloring into the royal icing and put in a small paper, nylon, or plastic pastry bag ÀWWHG ZLWK D ZULWLQJ WLS 8VH WR SLSH swirling lines over the cupcakes.

Fill any large gaps between the piping by positioning the gold dragĂŠes, securing them in place with dots of icing from the bag.

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TO PREPARE THE CUPCAKES Press the apricot jam through a sieve into a small bowl and beat in the brandy or liqueur, if using, or 2 tablespoons water to make a glaze. Brush the glaze over the cakes. Roll out the marzipan to Ÿ LQFK PP WKLFNQHVV RQ D VXUIDFH GXVWHG ZLWK FRQIHFWLRQHUV¡ sugar and cut out circles using a 2-inch (5-cm) cutter. Place a circle of marzipan on each cake, rerolling the trimmings to make enough.

Reserve 6 tablespoons of the royal icing. Use the remainder to cover the cupcakes in a thin layer, spreading the icing fairly smooth with a spatula.

TO MAKE THE DECORATION Knead black food coloring into 1 lb (500 g) of the rolled fondant on a surface dusted with confectioners’ sugar. Knead a little pink food coloring into an additional 3½ oz (100 g) of the fondant, leaving the remainder white. Wrap each color tightly in plastic wrap until ready to use.

Thinly roll out half the black fondant and cut circles using a 3-inch (7cm) cutter. Cut a deep “v� shape from one side so the points reach the centers of the circles and secure the shapes on the cupcakes in the black baking cups. Reroll the trimmings with the remaining black fondant and use to cover the rest of the black cakes. Thinly roll out half the white fondant and cut out circles with the same cutter. From each circle cut away three curved sides to leave a bodice shape.

Secure on the cupcakes in the pink or white baking cups. Reroll the trimmings with the remaining fondant to cover the rest of the cakes.

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TO FINISH Color half the reserved royal icing black and put in a small paper, Q\ORQ RU SODVWLF SDVWU\ EDJ ÀWWHG ZLWK D ZULWLQJ WLS 3XW WKH UHPDLQLQJ UR\DO LFLQJ LQ D VHSDUDWH SDVWU\ EDJ ÀWWHG ZLWK D ZULWLQJ WLS 8VH WKH white icing to pipe outlines around each bodice on the bride cakes, WKHQ ÀOO LQ WKH FHQWHUV ZLWK VPDOO GRWV 8VH WKH EODFN LFLQJ WR SLSH FROlars and buttons onto the groom cakes.

Thinly roll and cut out “cravatâ€? shapes from the pink fondant and seFXUH LQ SODFH Ă€QLVKLQJ ZLWK SLSHG OLQHV RI EODFN LFLQJ 5ROO WKLQ OHQJWKV RI SLQN IRQGDQW XQGHU \RXU Ă€QJHUV WKHQ WZLVW WZR OHQJWKV WRJHWKHU WR shape necklaces. Press gently in place on the bride cakes. Use the UHPDLQLQJ SLQN IRQGDQW WR PDNH Ă RZHUV IRU ERXTXHWV DQG ERXWRQneires using a ½-inch (1-cm) plunger cutter (see page 6). Secure in place with a dampened paintbrush and pipe dots of white icing LQWR WKH FHQWHUV 6HUYHV

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PREPARATION AND DECORATING TIME About 3½ hours ITEMS NEEDED • 2/3 cup apricot jam • 2 tablespoons brandy or orange liqueur (optional) • TXDQWLWLHV $OPRQG &XSFDNHV VHH SDJH RI ERRN KDOI baked in white or pale pink baking cups, half in black baking cups • 1 lb, 2 oz marzipan • Confectioners’ sugar, for dusting • TXDQWLWLHV 5R\DO ,FLQJ VHH SDJH RI ERRN

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Picture Perfect A tender moment, captured in a silver frame on DQ RIĂ€FH GHVN $ VSHFLDO KRPH PRYLH WR SRS in the DVD player on a snuggly winter night.

Wedding images keep the memories alive.

Long after the wedding dress is packed away, the caterer is on to the next wedding, and the thank-you notes are mailed—the photographs and DVDs remain. The documentation of the beginning of your new family will be cherished for future generations.

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Choose a photographer with whom you are compatible and who puts you DW HDVH ,I WKHUH LV D SHUVRQDOLW\ FRQĂ LFW between you and the photographer, you may end up with photos of your best sneer instead of your best smile!

PHOTOGRAPHY Book your photographer at least six months in advance to ensure availability for your wedding date. When choosing a photographer, there are several important things to remember.

Select a photographer who works for a living, not as a part-time or weekend job. Do not entrust this blessed event to an amateur or friend. You don’t want to risk losing the recording of this once-in-alifetime occasion.

Protect your wedding memories by using a professional. And make sure your photographer has extra cameras, lenses and lighting equipment on hand as backups in case of emergency.

Most photographers now prefer to use digital cameras for wedding photography. Of course, no matter what style camera is used, make sure your photographer will also have an appropriate backup strategy to preserve the images from your precious day.

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VIDEOGRAPHY Once a mere stepchild of photography, videography has quickly become an exciting, essential part of the wedding celebration.

The guidelines for selecting a videographer parallel those for choosing a photographer. The number one rule—use a professional! Don’t be tempted to take advantage of your Uncle Joe’s camcorder.

There are no “second takes.’’ Hire a professional with professional equipment, so your memories are safe.

Make sure your videographer has top-notch audio-visual cameras and editing equipment. Your videographer must be experienced and well trained on the equipment.

Different audio techniques include the use of wireless remote microphones, a feed from the church’s sound system, a shotgun microphone and ambient sound,

Select a photographer who works for a living, not as a part-time or weekend job. Do not entrust this blessed event to an amateur or friend.

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come prepared with pertinent information regarding your wedding. It’s also helpful if the photographer knows the style, color and setting of the wedding so that the mood and the moment can be captured.

Let your photographer know the size of your wedding party and with whom you would like to be photographed. It’s helpful to designate a friend or relative to point out those special friends and relatives you want photographed during the reception.

Look for a photographer whose judgment and opinions you trust. Remember, you’ll be spending a lot of time with the “camera person� on your wedding day, relying on that person to capture those special moments.

When you meet with a photographer, view sample wedding albums to obtain a clear impression of the overall style in which the photographer covers a wedding. Look for color, sharpness and detail of the photographs.

Determine the type of photographs you prefer—a formal posed look, candids, or a combination of both formats. Communicate clearly with your photographer to ensure the best results. Make sure your photographer knows exactly what you want—you only get one chance to make things right.

Obtain information on package sizes and prices, deposits, retouching charges, travel expenses and any other costs. Wedding packages can range from several hundred dollars to well into the thousands.

Make sure everything you need is included in your package—formal portrait, black-and-white print for the newspaper, wedding album, and anything else you are looking for. Find out the cost of additional prints and “mini-albums� for parents and close friends.

Finally, be sure everything you’ve agreed to is written in a contract. Other details that should be in writing include: when the photographer will arrive at the wedding and leave the reception, how the photographer will be dressed, and the number of images that will be provided.

When you meet with your photographer,

and a separate recording dubbed in during editing. Determine with your videographer the technique best suited to your wedding location.

Ask to view DVDs of actual weddings that were shot and produced within the past year. By watching these samples, \RX¡OO VHH ÀUVW KDQG WKH YLGHRJUDSKHU¡V level of talent and professionalism.

Look for sharp images, adequate lighting and clear sound. The video should Ă RZ VPRRWKO\ IURP VFHQH WR VFHQH ZLWK highlights fully covered to tell the whole wedding story. Look for special effects, such as fades, wipes, dissolves, multiple images, freeze-frames and background music.

The videographer should dress appropriately, and be able to comfortably mingle with your guests. Wedding videography prices range from several hundred dollars to the thousands. Find out what’s included in the package deals, and if items such as duplicate DVDs, adding music and titles, special effects, overtime and second cameras are additional. Obtain a contract including date, time, location, cost, equipment used, editing time, deposits and delivery date.

It’s so important to choose professionals to record your wedding celebration.

The expense is well worth the future returns.

Preserving the memories of your nuptials is too important to leave to chance. Take care to ensure that your photographs and DVDs are of the quality you’ll be proud to share with your family and friends. You’ll enjoy your memories for many years to come.•

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Bridal Archetypes

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THE SUPER-ORGANIZED BRIDE: In your hand you always carry your wedding planner book completely intact and SHUIHFWO\ RUJDQL]HG ,W LV Ă&#x20AC;OOHG ZLWK DOO the information you have collected over the years to make your wedding the perfect event. You have control of every detail, and when you meet with the right vendors, you book their VHUYLFHV EHFDXVH WKH\ Ă&#x20AC;W ZLWKLQ \RXU well-structured wedding ensemble perfectly. Your big day will go perfectly and will be a detail-driven and exFLWLQJ HYHQW IRU DOO WR VHH Ă&#x20AC;UVWKDQG )RU example, what would happen if an invited guest arrives with a date who

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THE INCESSANT DREAMER: You have spent the past twenty-plus years cutting pictures from magazines and creating your dream wedding book. You Ă&#x20AC;QDOO\ ZUDQJOHG \RXUVHOI D JURRP DQG now you spend lots of time looking at many pictures in Martha Stewartâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s wedding publications. You love all PHOTOS BY CRYSTAL WILLIAMSON

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of Marthaâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s ideas, even those which are just not realistic. The tulip boutonniere is your favorite. Who cares if it falls apart before the men walk down the aisle? Martha said that it would be okay, so it will! Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll bet you even have a cake topper that you have been saving since you were six years old! It does not matter how tacky it is, just use it! It FRVW LQ EXW QRZ LW LV SULFHless! Your reception will consist of a buffet with many appetizers and other DVVRUWHG FRFNWDLO WUHDWV DQG ZLWK Ă&#x20AC;IW\ percent guest seating. You are terriĂ&#x20AC;HG WKDW \RXU ZHGGLQJ DWWHQGHHV ZLOO simply sit down and not mingle and mix. After all, it is such fun to sit at an unset table or to stand and hold your glass with one hand and your plate with the RWKHU 6HYHUDO JXHVWV ZLOO EH VQLIĂ&#x20AC;QJ WKHLU plates, because they will not have any way of actually getting the food into their mouths! However, it will be festive!

THE INDECISIVE SCHIZOPHRENIC: You have absolutely no idea what you want. You see sample after sample of ideas and still cannot make a decision.

You leave with ideas and come back to the table needing more because none of the previous ones â&#x20AC;&#x153;spokeâ&#x20AC;? to you. The voices were talking but nothing actually got through. You do not want a cookie- cutter wedding. However, you must see photos of something that you do want, even though you donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t know what exactly it is that you want. I think that you know what I mean when I say that you do not know what you want, even though I know that you know what I mean, ya know? You will not have food at the reception because you never made a decision to begin with and the caWHUHUV Ă&#x20AC;QDOO\ JDYH XS DQG WRRN WKH evening off.

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CROUCHING BRIDE, HIDDEN MOTHER DRAGON: You have an idea of what you want, but will never see any of your ideas come to fruition because of your mother dragon that lurks in the shadows demanding that this is her wedding and not yours. Consistently and continually, your mother tells you, â&#x20AC;&#x153;When you have a daughter, and are therefore paying for it, then you can

decide.â&#x20AC;? Until then, you will do what â&#x20AC;&#x153;Mommy Dearestâ&#x20AC;? says. Your mother will make it clear that it will be her sole mission in life to destroy the vendors or planner should they defy her wishes in favor of what it is you prefer. For your reception, you would love a selection of tasty, hot and cold passed hors dâ&#x20AC;&#x2DC;oeuvres and a buffet presentation.

However, your dear mother will have something to say about that as well.

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THE WANT IT BUT CANâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;T AFFORD IT BRIDE or THE BEER-POCKET BUDGET BRIDE: You are pleasant and very sweet. However, you might bend the truth when you say that you will be faxing over the contract as soon as you hang up the phone with your wedding planner or vendors. You will not. You have every intention of making your payment installments on time. But, somehow you will not. Alternatively, when you say you will do your required homework and get your planner what they need in order to get their job doneâ&#x20AC;Śyou wonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t. Then, all of a sudden, two weeks before the wedding, you turn about face and

scream when nothing is done on your timeline; you fail to realize that you are only behind schedule because of your indecisiveness. You just want to keep up with the other ten brides that you previously stood for as an attendant, even though your limited budget cannot afford the related exSHQVHV 1RW WR ZRUU\ \RX ZLOO Ă&#x20AC;QG WKH funds somehow. You made money at the blood bank earlier in the day, but if you still fall short, perhaps your wedding planner or professional vendors will take pity on you and help you in some way. Overall, this is not going to be the most stress-free wedding you, your vendors or your guests will ever witness. You want an elegant buffet of carved beef tenderloin and a seOHFWLRQ RI VXVKL DQG VKHOOĂ&#x20AC;VK +RZHYHU what you will have in the end is an array of beanie weenies and spam meatballs smothered in a lovely â&#x20AC;&#x153;Mad Dog 20-20â&#x20AC;? reduction.

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To Veil or Not To Veil

By Lynette Coughlin, Owner Providence Place Bridal Boutique Rockwall, Texas www.purelyprovidential.com

Through the years, bridal fashion has changed, but one thing that has not changed is the wearing of a veil. The history of the veil goes back to the ancient Greek and Roman times where there was a true fear of evil spirits and demons.

The veil served to shield the brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s face from her groom. It was considered bad luck for the groom to see the brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s face. The bridesmaids wore bright colors to distract the evil spirits and demons from the bride.

The father would walk the bride down the aisle since she could not see very well through the veil. In the 19th century, the veil came to symbolize womenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s virginity

and modesty. Veils covering the back and face symbolized their virginity. The bride would wear the face veil throughout the ceremony, and then the father would lift the veil, presenting her to her groom.

In todayâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s world, brides may or may not wear a veil.

There truly are no set rules and it is a personal preference. Many women who are getting married outside or at a destination location may not want to wear D YHLO DQG RSW IRU Ă RZHUV LQ their hair instead.

The most popular trend now is a simple, natural-cut YHLO WKDW LV HLWKHU Ă&#x20AC;QJHUWLS length or cathedral length.

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of the bride often voices her opinion and asks the bride to at least wear the veil during the ceremony and pictures. Mothers love to have wedding pictures with the veil on their daughter.

Some brides order extra lace packages when they order their wedding dress.

The matching lace is then added to a plain veil by the seamstress. This can be a cost-effective way to have your lace veil, which matches your dress perfectly. For the bride that is wearing blush or champagne dress, the veil can be dyed to match the color of the dress.

There are also numerous different trim options, such as pearls, crystal, rhinestones, ribbon and color edging.

There are unlimited options to customize the look of the veil. In the end, brides, it truly is up to you whether you decide to veil or not to veil.â&#x20AC;˘

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â&#x20AC;˘ Prepare a budget for the wedding and reception. â&#x20AC;˘ Begin your guest list. â&#x20AC;˘ Select the time and place for the wedding and reception. â&#x20AC;˘ Ask your attendants to be in your wedding. â&#x20AC;˘ Schedule consultation for selecting the color and style of wedding gown and attendantsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; attire for a picture-perfect wedding. â&#x20AC;˘ Order your wedding gown and bridal accessories. Â&#x2021; ,QWHUYLHZ Ă RULVWV FDWHUHUV SKRWRJUDSKHUV YLGHRJUDSKHUV EDNHUV DQG reception entertainers.

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3 To 6 Months Before â&#x20AC;˘ Register for your china, crystal and other items. â&#x20AC;˘ Order bridesmaidsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; dresses and accessories. â&#x20AC;˘ Order invitations and other stationery, including informals and map cards. â&#x20AC;˘ Meet with your clergyman and obtain a copy of the churchâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s wedding policies, if you plan to have your ceremony in a church. â&#x20AC;˘ Purchase the groomâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s wedding ring. Â&#x2021; 0DNH \RXU Ă&#x20AC;QDO GHFLVLRQV RQ \RXU Ă RULVW FDWHUHU SKRWRJUDSKHU videographer, bakery and entertainment. â&#x20AC;˘ Make arrangements for accommodations for your out-of-town guests.

10 To 12 Weeks Before â&#x20AC;˘ You and your attendants must be measured for the tuxedos. â&#x20AC;˘ Inform the wedding party where and when the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner will take place.

10 To 12 Weeks Before â&#x20AC;˘ Arrange transportation to the wedding and reception for your attendants and out-of-town guests. â&#x20AC;˘ Choose your house party, such as friends and family to hand out programs, attend the guest book, and greet guests. â&#x20AC;˘ Meet with your music director. â&#x20AC;˘ Finalize the reception menu. Â&#x2021; %HJLQ Ă&#x20AC;WWLQJV IRU \RXU JRZQ DQG WKH EULGHVPDLGV¡ GUHVVHV â&#x20AC;˘ Coordinate showers with gift-registry sources. â&#x20AC;˘ Have your bridal portrait taken. â&#x20AC;˘ Address invitations and announcements. â&#x20AC;˘ Arrange a time and place for your bridesmaidsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; luncheon. â&#x20AC;˘ Select gifts for your attendants. Â&#x2021; 'RXEOH FKHFN DUUDQJHPHQWV ZLWK \RXU Ă RULVW FDWHUHU SKRWRJUDSKHU videographer, bakery and entertainment. â&#x20AC;˘ Schedule appointment with professionals for makeup and hair styling.

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â&#x20AC;˘ Finalize arrangements with your clergyman and music director. â&#x20AC;˘ Inform the wedding party and close family members of the time and place of the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner. â&#x20AC;˘ Apply for your marriage license with your groom. â&#x20AC;˘ Change your name on your social security card, driverâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s license, credit cards DQG EDQN DFFRXQWV DQG Ă&#x20AC;OH FKDQJH RI DGGUHVV FDUGV ZLWK SRVW RIĂ&#x20AC;FH DQG correspondents. â&#x20AC;˘ Go over special seating arrangements for the wedding. Â&#x2021; )LQDOL]H DUUDQJHPHQWV ZLWK WKH Ă RULVW FDWHUHU SKRWRJUDSKHU YLGHRJUDSKHU bakery, entertainers and gift registries. â&#x20AC;˘ Arrange for the pressing of your wedding gown and bridesmaidsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; dresses. â&#x20AC;˘ Arrange for someone to take your dress to be heirloomed or preserved after the wedding. â&#x20AC;˘ Arrange for someone to take your bouquet to be preserved or dried after the wedding, if you choose to do so.

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2 To 4 Weeks Before â&#x20AC;˘ Apply for your marriage license with your bride. â&#x20AC;˘ Ask your best man to prepare a toast to give you and your bride at the reception.

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JUNIOR BRIDESMAID â&#x20AC;˘ Wears a dress similar to that of a bridesmaid, but in an age-appropriate style. â&#x20AC;˘ Participates in the processional (recessional participation is optional).

USHER/GROOMSMAN â&#x20AC;˘ Pays for his own wedding attire (boutonnieres provided by the groom). â&#x20AC;˘ Seats guests at the church as they arrive â&#x20AC;&#x201D; offers his right arm to each woman. Asks if they are friends of the bride or groom and seats them accordingly. Brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s guests are seated to the left, the groomâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s to the right; order is reversed in Jewish services. When one side has more guests than the other, the usher may begin seating guests on the side with fewer people. â&#x20AC;˘ Decorates the coupleâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s going-away car.

FLOWER GIRL Usually a young girl between 3 and 10 years old. Â&#x2021; &DUULHV D EDVNHW RI Ă RZHUV WLQ\ QRVHJD\ RU D EDVNHW RI ORRVH URVH SHWDOV to strew in the brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s path, if the ceremony venue allows.

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Usually someone very close to the bride, such as her sister or a dear friend or relative.

Usually a young boy between 3 and 10 years old.

â&#x20AC;˘ Assists the bride in any way she can: helping plan the wedding, shopping, addressing invitations, taking charge of recording and displaying wedding gifts. â&#x20AC;˘ Lends the bride moral support. â&#x20AC;˘ Attends rehearsal and rehearsal dinner. Â&#x2021; 3D\V IRU KHU RZQ JRZQ DQG DFFHVVRULHV QRW LQFOXGLQJ Ă RZHUV

â&#x20AC;˘ Helps bridesmaids prepare for their wedding-day duties and organizes their Ă&#x20AC;WWLQJV LI QHFHVVDU\ 0DNHV VXUH WKH\ DUULYH DW WKH FHUHPRQ\ RQ WLPH FRQĂ&#x20AC;UPV transportation arrangements. â&#x20AC;˘ Helps bride get ready before the ceremony and before departure from the reception. â&#x20AC;˘ Holds the groomâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s ring during the ceremony until time to pass it to the bride. â&#x20AC;˘ Holds brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s bouquet and arranges bridal veil and dress during the ceremony. Â&#x2021; ,V XVXDOO\ RQH RI WKH WZR ZLWQHVVHV VLJQLQJ WKH PDUULDJH FHUWLĂ&#x20AC;FDWH â&#x20AC;˘ Stands to the left of the groom in the receiving line; sits to the left of the groom at the honor table, if there is one.

BEST MAN Usually the groomâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s best friend, brother, father or other close relative. â&#x20AC;˘ Assists the groom in any way he can. â&#x20AC;˘ Pays for his own wedding attire. â&#x20AC;˘ Attends rehearsal and rehearsal dinner. â&#x20AC;˘ Holds brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s wedding ring, producing it at the proper time in the ceremony. Â&#x2021; 0DNHV VXUH FHUHPRQ\ RIĂ&#x20AC;FLDQW LV SDLG Â&#x2021; 6LWV WR WKH ULJKW RI WKH EULGH DW WKH KRQRU WDEOH RIIHUV WKH Ă&#x20AC;UVW WRDVW WR WKH newlyweds. â&#x20AC;˘ Helps newlyweds prepare for the honeymoon departure. Takes care of luggage, makes sure car is ready to go â&#x20AC;&#x201D; hands over keys to groom or makes sure limousine is ready and sees that the groom has travel documents in order. Â&#x2021; 0DNHV VXUH WKDW DOO PHQ¡V UHQWDO FORWKHV DUH UHWXUQHG WKH Ă&#x20AC;UVW EXVLQHVV GD\ after the wedding.

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â&#x20AC;˘ During the ceremony, carries a white satin pillow with two fake rings tied or sewn on. After the ceremony, the pillow is turned upside down so the dummy ring wonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t show. The real rings can also be used if he is old enough.

CANDLELIGHTER Young boys or girls, usually between 9 and 14 years old. â&#x20AC;˘ Light the candles at the altar just before the brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s mother is seated.

Children should attend rehearsal to practice their parts, although it is optional for them to attend pre-wedding parties. After walking down the aisle, they might quietly slip into their parentsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; pew to avoid disrupting the FHUHPRQ\ ZLWK Ă&#x20AC;GJHWLQJ 7KH\ QHHG QRW SDUWLFLSDWH LQ WKH UHFHVVLRQDO

MOTHER OF THE BRIDE â&#x20AC;˘ Usually acts as hostess of the reception. â&#x20AC;˘ Helps the bride compile the guest list, arrange details of the ceremony and reception, and may help her select her wedding gown. â&#x20AC;˘ Is accorded special honor at the wedding service and is seated last, just a few minutes before the wedding begins. â&#x20AC;˘ Greets guests at the head of the reception line. Sits in place of honor at parentsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; table. â&#x20AC;˘ Makes sure guests are having a good time and is on hand to bid them goodbye.

FATHER OF THE BRIDE â&#x20AC;˘ Rides to the ceremony with the bride; chauffeured transportation suggested. â&#x20AC;˘ Escorts the bride down the aisle, then joins his wife on the front row. Â&#x2021; $FWV DV RIĂ&#x20AC;FLDO KRVW RI WKH UHFHSWLRQ â&#x20AC;˘ Keeps an eye on the bar and champagne supply. â&#x20AC;˘ Makes a short toast at the reception. â&#x20AC;˘ Is the last person to leave the reception; says goodbye to the guests. â&#x20AC;˘ Traditionally pays for the majority of the wedding. It is now appropriate IRU RWKHU Ă&#x20AC;QDQFLDO DUUDQJHPHQWV WR EH PDGH Â&#x2021;

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Youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll need to order your gown and veil six to nine months before the wedding. Make an appointment with a reputable bridal salon, and let the consultant know what type of wedding youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re planning before you arrive. Take along a friend or relative whose honesty and good taste you can count on â&#x20AC;&#x201D; youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll need an objective opinion. Bring your checkbook â&#x20AC;&#x201D; a 50% deposit is customary when placing an order.

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Choose a veil thatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s appropriate to the style of your wedding. And remember, your back gets lots of attention during the ceremony â&#x20AC;&#x201D; your dress, veil and train should look elegant from that angle.

Check out store policy on alterations, and make sure thereâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a good seamstress on hand.

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the dress itself â&#x20AC;&#x201D; all buttons and trim should be hand sewn, not glued. $W GUHVV Ă&#x20AC;WWLQJV ZHDU WKH VDPH heel height and type of undergarments youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll wear on your wedding day. When shopping for veils and headpieces, style your hair as youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll wear it at the ceremony. Every detail is important to the creation of a stunQLQJ SDFNDJH ATTENDANTSâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; ATTIRE Now that youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re taken care of, itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s time to dress the rest of your bridal party. â&#x20AC;˘ Ask for help. Enlist the aid of your maid of honor or another friend, and FKRRVH VW\OHV DQG FRORUV WKDW Ă DWWHU WKH IDFH DQG Ă&#x20AC;JXUH RI HDFK DWWHQdant. As bridesmaids usually pay for their own dresses, shop conservatively. Carefully coordinate shoes and accessories to achieve a balanced look. â&#x20AC;˘ Be selective. Be just as careful in selecting attire for the groom and his attendants. Menâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s wedding clothing is usually rented â&#x20AC;&#x201D; place your order six to eight weeks before the wedding. â&#x20AC;˘ Tux tips. The groom may dress differently from his attendants, or wear the same tux as the other men.

He might consider wearing a bow tie and cummerbund in a contrasting color or pattern from the others. The menâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s attire should complement the bridal gown. Choose tuxedos appropriate to the style of your wedding. Â&#x2021; 3URSHU Ă&#x20AC;W 0HQ KDYH GLIIHUHQW builds, so shop accordingly. Your formal wear professional can offer great advice on which styles are appropriDWH DQG SURSHUO\ Ă&#x20AC;W WKH WX[HGR \RX choose.

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bring out your best facial features.

You may wonder why you need a professional to do something for you that you do for yourself almost every day. After all, you can GR \RXU PDNHXS MXVW Ă&#x20AC;QH IRU HYHU\day wear, and sometimes even for special occasions. But consider this: what will you remember the mostâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;how you know you looked on your wedding day, or how you looked in your photographs from your wedding day? Trained makeup artists know how to make you look good, not only in person, but for photographs as well. Makeup for photography is a learned skill and one most women donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t have.

In planning what you want to look like, donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t forget your eyeEURZV 7KH\ FDQ PDNH DOO WKH GLIference in a polished look. If your brows look good and are shaped to complement your eyes, your ZKROH IDFH ZLOO ORRN PRUH Ă&#x20AC;QLVKHG Have a professional do this, as often women tweeze too many hairs out of their brows and come away with having to resort to pencil lines.

Trained makeup artists know how to make you look good, not only in person, but for photographs as well.

HAIR ARTISTRY Many, many things can go wrong when people try to not only style their own hair, but also use harsh chemicals at home. A trained colorist has the chemistry knowledge to change the color of your hair slightly or altogether differently, while still making it look natural. Some eager people even try perming or straightening their own hair at home, and

some of these people have horror stories to tell. Rather than becoming a casualty, hire a professional to design the look thatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s right for you and your hair.

If youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re one of the lucky women who has long, healthy hair, there are countless ways your hair can be styled. Be sure the hair artist in which you are interested has experience with long hair, whether you just want it styled or want a chemical process. It behaves nothing like short hair, and if you mess it up at home, it just takes that much longer to grow it back out to the same length again.

SCHEDULING About six months before your wedding youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll want to start a skincare program designed especially IRU \RXÂłDQG VWLFN ZLWK LW 'XULQJ stressful times your skin can do all sorts of panicking on its own, so if you start being good to it you shouldnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t have as many problems when that special day arrives. Licensed estheticians can help devise such a regimen with you and can lead the way to healthy skin.

If you are considering changing the look of your hair, whether it be the cut, style, color or texture, now is the time to book those appointments, too, so the person working on your hair can have the time to perfect your new look before the last minute.

It is wise to choose your hair and makeup artists early so that youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll be working with the same people throughout the whole process; not only because they will become familiar with your skin and hair, but because when you look back at the photographs, you will be looking at your wedding as an event, rather than something occurring over a few months, and youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll want

Pampering Packages to have the same look in all of them.

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About a month before the big day is the time to have any processes done to your hair that you are needing. You may think that this is too early, but in actuality, it is the prime time to have these processes done, so your hair will have a chance to get reconditioned and healthier afterward. Have all of your hair touch-ups done about a week before the wedding. :KHQ WKDW GD\ Ă&#x20AC;QDOO\ DUULYHV and you wake up in the morning, you can be assured that absolutely everything has been taken care of for you, and there isnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t anything for you to worry about. Your skin and hair will be planned for, just as you planned everything else. Good skin care, makeup applied by a professional, and hair styled to perfection will not only help you look your very best, but will help ease that lastminute stress. After all, a relaxed bride is a beautiful bride. So enjoy a nice breakfast and get ready for WKH WLPH RI \RXU OLIH Â&#x2021;

Now that you have planned your hair and makeup for your big day, you need to turn your attention inside. All the stress of planning your wedding can leave you feeling depleted. A day of spa pampering is the antidote to stress and will leave you feeling like the most beautiful woman in the world.

The number of men and women indulging in the spa experience is JURZLQJ )URP WKH GD\ VSDV WR GHVtination spas to resort spas, those on the cutting edge are having to specialize in services to attract loyal clients. That means you will have no WURXEOH Ă&#x20AC;QGLQJ D VSD WR PHHW \RXU needs.

0DQ\ VSDV RIIHU ´SDFNDJHV Âľ These are groups of treatments and pampering techniques. They include full-body massages, sugar scrubs, facials, waxing and body peels, to name a few. Prices can range from less than a hundred dollars to several hundred dollars, depending on the package. A day at the spa makes a great wedding gift for your bridal SDUW\ÂłLQFOXGLQJ WKH PHQ The treatments are designed to soothe you and help you escape the chaos of wedding planning. So take a deep, relaxing breath and HQMR\ $UULYH DW \RXU DSSRLQWPHQW ² PLQXWHV DKHDG RI WLPH )LUVW WLPHUV ZLOO EH DVNHG WR Ă&#x20AC;OO RXW PLQRU but important health questions to determine the best treatments. Not all treatments are appropriate for heart patients, diabetics or people with other health considerations. This information also gives your therapist an idea of what your needs are.

Some spas include warm, soothing showers after which you will be provided with a robe and slippers and escorted into a private room for your treatment.

MASSAGE There are several styles of massage with varying intensity, so try a variety to learn how your body reacts to each. A massage helps loosen sore muscles and soft tissue. It can be targeted to certain body parts or lavished over the entire body. Aromatherapy by use of essential oils enhances the massage and deepens the sense of relaxation. Expect soothing, soft music to provide a nice backdrop to your experience.

SKIN CARE )DFLDOV FDQ WUHDW D P\ULDG RI LPperfections, including acne, rosacea and dry skin. It is usually one hour, and includes cleansing, sloughing and moisturizing that you wonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t soon forget. Creams, masks, peels and lotions are gently applied and massaged over the entire face and neck to maximize rejuvenation and relaxation.

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SCHEDULE It is recommended you start your facials at least two months prior to your wedding day. Hydrating body wraps should be started six months prior to your wedding. Massages should be started one month out.

Make sure you schedule a massage for yourself one week before and then the day before your big day.

Most importantly, drink plenty of water the entire time you are receiving treatments. Water helps get rid of toxins released during treatments and it also helps improve your mood.

BEFORE YOU GO Many spas will offer special rates for bridal parties. Compare them, noting what spa services are included and what scheduling is necessary.

Ask if gratuities are included in that price. Some packages include a gratuity. If not, use your discretion.

Check to see if there is a cancellation or change policy. Some spas will charge up to 100% of the scheduled services if you miss your appointment.

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Financial Matters Dreaming about the perfect wedding is one thingâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;actually paying for it is another. Establish a realistic budget up front, and youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll be able to create an affordable fantasy.

You are in loveâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s the real thing.

Now that youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve found your partner in life, you want to share your happiness with everyone. You want your wedding celebration to be the talk of the townâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;the biggest and best ever. Before your fantasies get ahead of your checkbook, ask yourself: whoâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s paying for this wedding, and how much can you afford to spend?

Traditionally, the brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s parents paid the majority of the wedding costs. Back in the old days, the groom DVVXPHG IXOO Ă&#x20AC;QDQFLDO UHVSRQVLELOLW\ IRU his bride after they rode off into the sunset. He didnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t have to chip in much for the weddingâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;he paid his share later.

Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a different story now. Both partners in a modern marriage tend to go back to work after the honeymoon, and these newlyweds have a bit more Ă&#x20AC;QDQFLDO LQGHSHQGHQFH ,W VHHPV RQO\ natural for both families to contribute to the wedding celebration.

Decide the kind of wedding youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;d like. Discuss your plans with those contributing to the cost, and determine D EXGJHW 0DNH HYHU\RQH¡V Ă&#x20AC;QDQFLDO limitations clear at this pointâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;it will prevent hard feelings later.

Nowadays, the average wedding costs around $27,000. Remember, there are always places you can cut costs to save money if you are wanting to spend less. As a rule, the more guests you invite and the more expensive the venues you choose, the more your costs will increase. Most brides DOVR Ă&#x20AC;QG WKDW WKHLU FRVWV JR RYHU WKHLU actual budget, so try to plan accordingly.

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sandwiches at the church to a formal sit-down dinner complete with orchestra. Purchasing services separately is D ORW RI ZRUN 0DQ\ FRXSOHV RSW IRU DW least a partial packageâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;it saves time and energy.

Costs for the reception room itself vary. Prices range from free to several hundred dollars per hour. Professional planners suggest the reception last from three to four-and-a-half hours.

Any shorter, and people who have traveled from afar may feel cheated.

Any longer, and guests tend to start leaving before it is over.

Deciding whether or not to serve a PHDO GHSHQGV RQ \RXU Ă&#x20AC;QDQFHV DQG what is expected in your community.

Many ethnic and religious cultures traditionally celebrate with a hearty meal. If many of your guests have traveled a long distance, itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s hospitable to feed them.

If you plan your wedding during mealtimes, you are expected to proYLGH VXVWHQDQFH ,I WKLV FUHDWHV D Ă&#x20AC;VFDO panic, change your reception style, or invite fewer guests. One workable optionâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;plan a large reception with light refreshments, then ask close family, friends and out-of-town guests to your parentsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; house for a buffet dinner. )RRG DQG EHYHUDJH FRVWV YDU\ greatly. Depending on whether you serve a buffet of hot appetizers, a complete buffet differ, or a multi-course seated dinner, prices can range from $10 to more than $100 per person. Caterersâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; estimates usually include the cost of beverages, but do make sure.

Some caterers include champagne, beer and wine, but charge extra for mixed drinks at an open bar. You may pay for drinks individually, or include the libations in the catererâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s package.

Most professionals offer reasonable pricesâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;they get it wholesale.

With careful planning and a lot of investigating, you and your family can host the wedding youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve always wantedâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;without ruining your budget. And you can go on dreaming about how special your wedding day will be. â&#x20AC;˘

Tipping Tips â&#x20AC;˘ Caterer, hotel or club banquet manager, bridal consultant. 15 â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 20% if not covered in fee. Reception hosts pay bill on receipt. Add any special tip to payment after reception. â&#x20AC;˘ Waiters, waitresses, bartenders, table servers. 15 â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 20% of billâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;given to the captain or maitre dâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; of hotel to distribute to rest of staff. If included, reception hosts pay tips with bill. If not, right after the reception. â&#x20AC;˘ Powder room, coat room attendants in hotels or clubs. 50¢ â&#x20AC;&#x201C; $1 per guest, RU DUUDQJH D Ă DW IHH ZLWK KRWHO RU FOXE PDQDJHPHQW ,I D Ă DW IHH UHFHSWLRQ hosts pay tips with bill. If not, right after the reception. â&#x20AC;˘ Florist, photographer, baker, musicians you hire, limousine driver. 15% for driver, others tipped only for extra special service, up to 15%. Ceremony hosts tip driver at reception site. Add other tips to bill payments. â&#x20AC;˘ &LYLO FHUHPRQ\ RIĂ&#x20AC;FLDOV Usually a Ă DW IHH 6RPH MXGJHV FDQQRW DFFHSW money; ask when you apply.) Groom gives fee to best man, who pays the RIĂ&#x20AC;FLDO DIWHU FHUHPRQ\ â&#x20AC;˘ Clergy members who perform the ceremony. Groom gives donation to best man who pays after ceremony. â&#x20AC;˘ Ceremony assistants. Sometimes covered by church feeâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;ask clergy member whatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s customary. Ceremony hosts pay church fee when billed; separate fees and tips after service. â&#x20AC;˘ Custodians or kitchen help if reception is in church. Ask church secretary. Ceremony hosts pay when billed or after service.

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Will it be a religious or civil ceremony?

Whatever your wish, the Dallas/Fort Worth area offers a splendid selection from over-the-top lavish to simple sophistication.

BEST WESTERN PLUS DALLAS HOTEL & CONFERENCE CENTER All brand new! The Best Western Plus Dallas Hotel & Conference Center is the perfect venue, not only for weddings, but for all of your meetings and events. They can provide catering for weddings, holiday parties, meetings, conferences, and much more, with creative and delicious menu options.

From intimate settings for 10 to extravaganzas for 300, the Best Western Plus Dallas Hotel & Conference Center has the event space thatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s just right. In addition, their experienced event staff can provide you with the planning and coordination services you need to ensure that your Dallas social event ends up being something truly worth celebrating. Call the sales department to schedule a tour: 972.680.3000 or 972.952.9554, or visit www.bwdallas.com for more information.

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CLEBURNE CONFERENCE CENTER The Cleburne Conference Center is an ideal location to help make those precious memories of your wedding and/or reception even more special. Only minutes away from the Dallas/Fort Worth area, this beautiful facility is very conveniently ORFDWHG :LWK LWV VTXDUH IHHW RI Ă H[LEOH HYHQW VSDFH the conference center can handle anything, from a small intimate party of 20 to a gala reception for 600. A few of the many features at the center include three catering kitchens, a multitiered 2,000-square-foot lobby area perfect for wedding party photos and receptions, a 297-seat, state-of-the-art performing arts center, and free parking for more than 500 vehicles.

The Cleburne Conference Center is ready to assist you with all your wedding needs, so contact them at 817.556.8860 or visit www.cleburneconference.com for more information.

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HUMPHREYS RESTAURANT AND EVENT CENTER Humphreys Restaurant and Event Center, in beautiful Celina, Texas, is preparing to formally open and is accepting event bookings for 2017 and beyond. Their vision is to bring a new, vibrant place to North Texas for people to gather and enjoy life. Humphreys is located in the country, away from noisy roads and the city. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a family-owned property with outstanding views and plenty of privacy.

The old-world charm and natural feel of Humphreys provide a unique setting for all types of gatherings. Events at Humphreys are memorable, and the natural elegance of the backdrop takes experiences to a level people will talk about for a lifetime. The interior of Humphreys has details that wow visitors, and their beautiful lighting can match any style or wedding color theme. The main room accommodates 125 guests, while the outdoor area can facilitate much larger gatherings.

Friday night restaurant options at Humphreys include rehearsal dinners, private parties, and more! For rental information on wedding receptions, rehearsal dinners, bridal luncheons, outdoor weddings, and other special events, contact owner Lance Haynes at 972.322.7229, e-mail info@humphreystx.com, or visit www.humphreystx.com.

Humphreys makes a great choice for weddings or other special occasions!

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Wedding Venues THE HYATT PLACE DALLAS/GARLAND/RICHARDSON AND FIREWHEEL CONFERENCE CENTER The Hyatt Place Dallas/Garland/Richardson and the Firewheel Conference Center is conveniently located in the Dallas northeast suburb of Garland on the President George Bush Turnpike, easily accessible from both DFW International Airport and Dallas Love Field Airport. They are located in the prestigious Firewheel area, and the hotel is minutes from the world-class shopping, golf, and family fun of Firewheel Town Center Mall, the 63-hole Firewheel Golf Club, and the Hawaiian Falls Water Park. <RXU ZHGGLQJ JXHVWV ZLOO HQMR\ Âľ Ă DW SDQHO +'79 the Hyatt Grand Bedâ&#x201E;˘, complimentary Wi-Fi, and continental breakfast. They offer more than 15,000 square IHHW RI Ă H[LEOH HYHQW VSDFH LQFOXGLQJ D VTXDUH foot ballroom. Their staff is always available to ensure everything goes exactly the way you want. Because when it does, greatness happens. The Hyatt Place is located at 5101 North President George Bush Turnpike, Garland, Texas 75040. Call 972.414.3500 to book your event, or visit www.HyattPlaceDallasGarland.com.

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THE OLD WARSAW RESTAURANT AND EVENTS The Old Warsaw Restaurant & Events has a new home in Uptown Dallas. The 4,000 square feet of Ă&#x20AC;UVW Ă RRU UHVWDXUDQW VSDFH KDV EHHQ QHZO\ UHQRvated in the beautiful New Orleans-style building.

Your guests will be greeted by a luxe foyer and grand chandelier. They will then be ushered into the courtyard, reminiscent of the French Quarter.

A beautiful gazebo, running waterfall, and lush landscaping will serve as the perfect backdrop to saying â&#x20AC;&#x153;I do!â&#x20AC;? A walk back down the aisle and itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s time for cocktails and dinner inside. At the front of the restaurant is a sprawling, custom bar with original stained glass and antique chandeliers. The URRP IHDWXUHV EHDXWLIXO KDUGZRRG Ă RRUV ZRRG FRIIHUHG FHLOLQJV WKUHH JUDQG Ă&#x20AC;UHSODFHV FXVWRP lighting, and many more architectural details.

The space is unique to Dallas, and a destination of its own. Visit their new location at 2512 Maple Avenue, in Dallas! For more information, call the on-site Events Director at 214.528.0032, Monique at 214.288.4257, or visit www.oldwarsaw.com.

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Unity of Dallas sits on 6 1/2 acres with mature trees and a large shaded lawn, on Forest Lane (between Preston and Hillcrest) in North Dallas. There is also a pond that makes a lovely backdrop for outdoor photographs. Three beautiful venue options are available. Each one is perfect for memorable weddings and receptions. Features and options include a wedding chapel for up to 80 guests, a reception/banquet or alternative wedding venue for up to 135 guests, a sanctuary for up to 800 guests, and a small chapel available for 10 guests. Unity of Dallas is open to non-member weddings. Your own minister or RIĂ&#x20AC;FLDWH LV ZHOFRPH WR SHUIRUP \RXU FHUHPRQ\ 2IĂ&#x20AC;FLateâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s services are available, and a venue coordinator is available for an additional fee. Alcohol is allowed when served by TABC-approved bartenders. Unity of Dallas has ample free parking, and a new catering kitchen. Ivory chair covers are included in the rental fee. Unity of Dallas has a private preparation space for bride or groom and attendants, and an upstairs room available for additional preparation space. Let Unity of Dallas host your special day in their freshly renovated venue. For more information, contact Nicole Spaller at 972.233.7106, extension 219, or e-mail events@unitydallas.org.

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WAXAHACHIE CIVIC CENTER Make your wedding day memorable at the Waxahachie Civic Center. Conveniently located at the intersection of I-35E and Highway 287, the center is within 25 minutes of the DFW Metroplex. The Waxahachie Civic Center has a 20,000-square-foot subdividing ballroom that seats up to 1,000 guests. The &UDSH 0\UWOH 5RRP VKRZFDVHG E\ HOHJDQW Ă RRU WR ceiling windows throughout the room will be the highlight of your event. This opportune location makes the Waxahachie Civic Center the picture-perfect place for your event.

From the wedding to the reception, our staff will work closely with each client to create a customtailored event that will exceed your expectations and leave you looking forward to planning your next event with us. Whether a small private wedding or a large reception, the Waxahachie Civic Center truly makes every event a special event.

The Waxahachie Civic Center is located at 2000 Civic Center Lane in Waxahachie, Texas.

For more information call 469.309.4040 or visit www.waxahachieciviccenter.org.

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Selecting the Right Gown for Your Wedding

By Style Networkâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Celebrity Wedding Planner, Donnie Brown (Excerpt from the book Donnie Brown Weddings: from the couture to the cake) Fashion designers reinvent the bridal gown every season. Those brides who require a fresh-off-therunway look will also be looking at huge price tags. And keep in mind, by the time you head down your own catwalk the day of your wedding, your dress will already be a couple of seasons old.

To some, the search for the perfect gown is the most exciting part of the planning process; to others, it is the most overwhelming. You could begin shopping now, look until the day of your wedding, and still not see all that is available to you.

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ding, I suggest looking through magazines and tearing out pages featuring gowns that appeal to you. This will give you an idea of what you like and what you donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t, which translates into less wasted time for you and the sales associates at the bridal boutiques.

Even if you begin shopping with a clear image of what you want, Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;d still encourage you to take suggestions from the boutiqueâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s knowledgeable staff. These sales associates spend hundreds of hours researching dresses, body types, and designers. Innumerable times, a bride has rejected a style out of hand only to be stunned into purchasing it when she sees the dress on.

Todayâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s gowns boast a variety of luxurious fabrics: silk, taffeta, damask, dupioni, organza, satin, batiste, bro-

cade, peau de sole, rayon, tulle, and the less-often-used polyester. Consider weather and climate when selecting a fabric. Todayâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s brides are exploring new colors and abandoning white for candlelight, champagne, maize, gold, and light shades of blue.

Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve even seen stunners in red. You can also count on endless degrees of formality in the current gown market.

Wedding gown necklines are broken into off the shoulder, spaghetti strap, halter, scoop, strapless, sweetheart, jewel, and the less-often seen V-neck. Waist styles are basque, dropped waist, empire waist, princess cut, and natural. For bodice styles you ZLOO Ă&#x20AC;QG FRUVHW HPSLUH KDOWHU PLGULII asymmetrical, princess-line, surplice, and tank. With all those options, here are a few guidelines on how to best

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5. When selecting couture rather than off-the-rack, expect the price tag to be at least $5,000. Although, donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t be shocked if the cost exceeds $25,000.

6. Crystals, stones, beads, pearls and jewelsâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;embellishments are in these days. Many brides shop for a simple dress and have it custom embellished to turn an ordinary gown into a custom-couture piece for much less than one created for them from scratch.

7. Note that there are twelve shades of white, starting with stark white and ending in antique. When selecting your gown color, take your skin tone into account. If you are fair complected, a stark white gown could clash with your coloring. You are better off wearing ivories. If you have medium skin with pink tones, a

creamier color may work best with you. If you have dark or tanned skin, go with white.

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Wedding Gown Shopping 101

By Lynette Coughlin, Owner Providence Place Bridal Boutique Rockwall, Texas www.purelyprovidential.com

Many brides enter bridal salons not knowing the process of wedding gown shopping, let alone the logistics behind the gorgeous gown you wear down the aisle. The salonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s job is to not RQO\ DVVLVW EULGHV LQ Ă&#x20AC;QGLQJ WKHLU dream dress, but also to educate them on the entire bridal shopping process.

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ing even more time to delivery.

Donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t panic if you are getting married in less than six months!

Many designers have â&#x20AC;&#x153;priority gowns,â&#x20AC;? which means they have various sizes already in stock and can get them to you based on the designerâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s ship time. There are also salons who sell sample dresses off the rack!

Before you walk into a bridal salon, make sure to make an appointment. This allows you to have one-on-one time with a sales representative, and allows your party to feel welcomed rather than rushed. Many salons do not allow walk-ins, so donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t take it offensively! Appointments generally last an hour and a half. Make sure to wear something comfortable and easily removable. Also, a warning to all modest ladies out there: a sales representative will have to step into the dressing room to help you get into the wedding gowns, just as your maid-of-honor (or someone from your bridal party) will help you on your wedding day!

When it comes to your â&#x20AC;&#x153;entourage,â&#x20AC;? try to limit it to three to Ă&#x20AC;YH SHRSOH 7RR PDQ\ RSLQLRQV can be overwhelming, emotionally and physically! Some salons are small and canâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t accommodate more than that, per bride.

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When brides narrow down the dress choices, many of them want to take pictures.

Even though cell phones have great cameras these days, they are not anything close to the magic of professional cameras.

Most salons donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t allow photos.

Once you have found the dress that is â&#x20AC;&#x153;the One,â&#x20AC;? the salon will measure you, since all designersâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; sizes are different.

Color can also vary: white and ivory can be quite different, so make sure the representative shows you each color. Donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t worry about â&#x20AC;&#x153;the traditional white dressâ&#x20AC;? because bright white is no longer the most common color for wedding gowns.

Most ivory shades are so light you wouldnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t notice they were not white.

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What is the facility rental fee?

What is included in the cost?

How many guests can the space accommodate (including table and chair availability)?

How long does the fee reserve the space for and what are the overtime charges?

What time can setup begin?

What time must the space be vacated?

Who’s responsible for cleanup?

How far in advance must reservations be made?

Are parking, rest room and changing room facilities adequate?

Are air, heating and electrical (outlets) systems adequate? ,V WKH GDQFH ÁRRU DGHTXDWH" Can you review staging, lighting, audio and video needs?

Is there a public address system or microphone available?

Is it necessary to use in-house catering: if so, will beverages and hors d’oeuvres be served before dinner?

Are security guards, coat check, parking attendants, bartenders and similar services provided?

How much is the deposit; when is it due; and when is the remainder due?

What is the cancellation policy and is their liability insurance adequate?

Is there a security deposit; if so when will it be refunded?

Are there special rules and regulations that may affect the party?

RECEPTION STYLES The time and formality of your wedding determines what kind of reception will follow.

Early Morning: Breakfast gathering at local restaurant. It’s unnecessary to serve alcoholic beverages at this early hour.

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It’s important to plan at least nine months in advance. Book your reception site as soon as you set the big date. If your location is in demand, you may have to set the wedding date around its availability.

If an outdoor wedding and reception is on your agenda, consider the possibility of inclement weather. Rent a tent or arrange for a back-up inside site — you don’t want your party called off because of rain!

Now that you know how to book your reception, you may have questions about what goes on at this once-in-a-lifetime event.

Read on for details about the order of activities at the reception, and other guidelines to follow when planning your festivities.

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Afternoon (2 p.m. to 4 p.m.): Afternoon tea; serve coffee, tea or punch with light hors d’oeuvres.

Late Afternoon (4 p.m. to 6 p.m.): Cocktail party; feature 11 to 12 varieties of hot and cold hors d’oeuvres. Alcoholic beverages are served — an open bar is usually provided.

Evening: Serve a full meal; a cocktail hour often precedes dinner. Anything from a buffet to a sit-down meal is appropriate.

RECEPTION TIMETABLE Here is a basic guide to the timeframe of a typical wedding reception.

Upon Arrival At Reception Site Bridal party forms the receiving line, if you choose to have one. Guests pass through into the reception area where drinks and hors d’oeuvres are waiting.

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After Two Hours Tables are cleared of food; itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s time to cut the cake!

The Last Half Hour The bouquet and garter are thrown; the grand march (optional) takes place. The bride and groom bid farewell to their guests.

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RECEIVING LINE The receiving line allows parents and principals to greet guests and receive their good wishes.

The line usually begins just inside the reception site; it may also be held at the church immediately following the wedding ceremony, if you choose.

A church reception line is appropriate when not all guests are invited to the reception.

An alternative way to greet guests at the church: the bride and groom re-enter after the recessional, greeting guests as they Ă&#x20AC;OH RXW 7KLV PHWKRG LV DSSURSULDWH if the gathering is not too large, and eliminates awkwardness if parents are divorced or donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t wish to participate in a formal receiving line.

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Make sure guests sign your guest book before they enter the receiving line. Place an attendant near the book to remind them to sign. Guests should move quickly down the line, saving conversation for later at the reception.

SEATING ARRANGEMENTS Place cards should be set by the caterer at the head table and honor tables to avoid confusion and embarrassment. At the rest of the tables, feel free to allow guests to choose their own seats.

The head table showcases the bride and groom, who sit in full view, facing the guests. The EHVW PDQ Ă DQNV WKH EULGH ZKLOH the maid of honor is seated next to the groom. Bridesmaids and groomsmen are seated, alternating males and females.

At a small wedding, the parents of the bride and groom may sit at the head table, as well as WKH RIĂ&#x20AC;FLDWLQJ FOHUJ\ DQG VSRXVHV of married attendants. Otherwise, there is a separate honors table, with the brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s parents at opposite ends. The groomâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s father sits to the right of the brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s mother; the ZHGGLQJ RIĂ&#x20AC;FLDQW WR KHU OHIW 7KH groomâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s mother sits to the right of the brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s father, the wedding RIĂ&#x20AC;FLDQW¡V VSRXVH WR KLV OHIW You may also arrange two parentsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; tables, with the brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s parents at one, while the groomâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s mother and father head the other.

In this arrangement, more friends and relatives may be given a seat of honor at these tables.

Divorced parents should be seated at separate tables, among their own friends and family. The bride and groom should divide their time between their families.

CUTTING THE CAKE The cutting of the wedding cake is a charming ritual, and the highlight of the reception. Guests are signaled by the best man tapping his glass, or by an announcement from the band. Using a special knife, the bride and groom FXW WKH Ă&#x20AC;UVW VOLFH +H RIIHUV KHU D bite, and she presents a piece for him to sample, symbolizing their willingness to share their lives. The rest of the cake is sliced by an at-

tendant and served as dessert.

Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s an extra treat to have a groomâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s cakeâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;usually a chocolate cakeâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;contrasting with the brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s cake, which is usually white, although it comes in all FRORUV DQG Ă DYRUV QRZDGD\V 7KH groomâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s cake may also be served for dessert, or packed in small boxes for guests to take home as a memento.

WEDDING CAKES: A SLICE OF LIFE The wedding cake has long served as a symbol of fertility and JRRG OXFN 7KH Ă&#x20AC;UVW SLHFH LV VKDUHG by the bride and groom as they cut the cake. Guests then partake of this tasty good luck charm, joining in the coupleâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s happiness.

Start shopping for your cake about four months before the wedding if you can. Look at pictures or models of cakes, and compare quality and workmanship. Many bakers allow potential customers to sample cakes before ordering. What a delicious way to shop!

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In addition to the wedding cake, you can have a groomâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s cake. This cake sits on a separate table, and can be chocolate or WKH JURRP¡V IDYRULWH Ă DYRU 7KH theme may depict his favorite hobby. Wedding folklore holds that an unmarried person who sleeps with a sliver of the groomâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s cake under their pillow will dream of his or her future mate.

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spotlight, on its own tableâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;perhaps in the center of the dance Ă RRU GXULQJ WKH FXWWLQJ FHUHPRQ\ Guests love to watch the newlyZHGV FXW LW DQG WDNH WKH Ă&#x20AC;UVW ELWH Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s long been customary to freeze the top layer of the cake IRU \RXU Ă&#x20AC;UVW ZHGGLQJ DQQLYHUVDry. Your bakery can give you tips on how to best wrap it for keeping. Or, many bakeries now offer to recreate a miniature version of the original cake for your oneyear celebration.

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After all guests have arrived, the line disperses. The bridal couple takes their place at the head table, if they have chosen to have one.

Some couples elect to eliminate the receiving line, circulating with their guests throughout the reception instead.

DANCING If a reception features a buffet, the bride and groom may GDQFH WKHLU Ă&#x20AC;UVW GDQFH DV VRRQ DV theyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve recovered from the rigors of the receiving line, or, if they are not having a receiving line, when WKH\ Ă&#x20AC;UVW HQWHU :KHQ D IXOO PHDO is served, dancing usually begins after the last course is cleared.

After the newlyweds begin the Ă&#x20AC;UVW GDQFH RWKHUV PD\ MRLQ LQ DV follows: Second Couple The brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s father cuts in and dances with his daughter.

Third Couple The groom asks the mother of the bride to dance.

Fourth Couple The groomâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s father dances with the bride.

Fifth Couple The father of the bride cuts in on the groom and dances with the brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s mother.

Sixth Couple The groom dances with his mother.

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1RQH RI WKH Ă&#x20AC;UVW FRXSOHV PXVW GDQFH D full dance. After a few minutes, other guests are invited to join in the dancing. Ethnic dancing may be featured, or a grand march may also be formed well into the reception.

As the activities end, a second receiving line is sometimes formed beside a small WDEOH Ă&#x20AC;OOHG ZLWK FDNH ER[HV IDYRUV RU D ODVW drink for the guests as they depart. This gives guests a chance to say goodbye to the newlyweds, who then have a last dance and prepare to depart the reception.

TOSSING THE BOUQUET AND GARTER The bouquet and garter are usually tossed just before the end of the reception.

All of the single men and women gather in a semi-circle. The bride tosses the bouquet over her shoulderâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;the lucky girl who catches it is supposedly the next to be married. The groom tosses the brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s garter into the crowd of bachelors; the recipient, according to the myth, will become the next groom.

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LEAVING THE RECEPTION After the bouquet and garter ceremony, the bride and groom can opt to change clothes, or remain in their wedding attire.

In a shower of rose petals, birdseed, sparklers, or anything else you can imagine, the happy couple heads for their car or limo, which has often been decorated by the groomsmen and ushers. The newlyweds leave the reception for a local hotel, or for their honeymoon, ready to start their new life together.

CATERING CONNECTION: FOOD FOR THOUGHT Wining and dining your wedding guests takes the largest bite out of your wedding budget. A well-planned reception is crucial to the success of your marriage celebration.

Choose your caterer with careâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;a talented, well-organized culinary artist can create a fabulous feast youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll never forget.

If youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve chosen a hotel or restaurant for your reception site, theyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll probably provide their own food and beverage services. If youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve chosen a different type of facilityâ&#x20AC;&#x201D; such as a church hall or park pavilionâ&#x20AC;&#x201D; youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll need to arrange for catering.

Book catering services well in advance; six to nine months before the wedding is ide-

Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;LL DRINK TO THAT: THE TRADITION OF TOASTS No matter how informal the party may beâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s traditional to toast the bride and groom at their wedding reception. The festive air that toasting lends to pre- or postwedding celebrations creates a feeling of shared good will for everyone present. Toasts are a tribute to the bridal couple and the wedding party.

Champagne is usually used for toastingâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;the bubbly brew is synonymous with romance and gaiety. If alcohol is not a part of this party, well-wishers can toast with sparkling cider or ginger ale.

Toasting can begin after the receiving line breaks up, and can be made all throughout the reception. At a less formal function,

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al. Give your caterer the pertinent dataâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;date, time, place, reception style, budget, and the number of guests attending. For food service, most caterers charge a Ă DW IHH SHU SHUVRQ OLTXRU FRVWV DUH usually by the bottle or per drink.

Waiters may be paid by the hour or be included in the package.

Your caterer can help you determine the kind of food to serve, and provide china, glasses, and everything else you need. He or she can usually arrange for servers, bartenders and valet parking services as well. Be sure charges for these services are included in your cost estimate. Check to see if gratuities are automatically DGGHG WR WKH Ă&#x20AC;QDO ELOO Your contract should specify the food and beverages to be served and the guest count.

Look into postponement and cancellation policies before you sign. A deposit is usually required when you sign the contract.

By all means, comparison shopâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s important to get the most for your money. Just make sure the caterer you choose has a reputation for quality and serviceâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;the success of your reception depends on it!

toasts are presented just before the cutting of the cake.

The best man acts as master RI FHUHPRQLHV RIIHULQJ WKH Ă&#x20AC;UVW toast. This toast may be just for the bride, or aimed at both newlyweds. The best man gets everyoneâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s attention by clinking on his glass. He may introduce himself and others in the wedding party, and explain his relationship to the newlyweds. At this time he may tell an amusing anecdote about the bridal couple, making a wish for their future happiness.

The toast may be in the form of a poem, quotation or the likeâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;it should be brief and sincere. Those offering toasts should plan what they wish to say ahead of time.

Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s important to speak loudly and clearly when making the toastâ&#x20AC;&#x201D; everyone wants to hear this!

After the best manâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s tribute, the groom usually responds with toasts honoring his wife, parents and new in-laws. The bride may then rise to offer toasts to her husband, the coupleâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s families, attendants and guests. (A special thank-you is expressed particularly well in the form of a toast.) The fathers of the bride and groom may propose toasts to their new

son and daughter, and other members of the wedding party may then offer their own toasts.

When youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re the object of a toast, remain seated, and donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t sip from your glassâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re allowed to imbibe between toasts.

Smile and nod at whoÂŹever is offering the toast.

The tradition of toasting is one to treasureâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;long after your wedding day, youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll look back and smile when you think of those special words: the funny stories the best man told about you; the love your parents expressed as they welcomed your spouse into the family.

Above all, remember the tide of good wishes from all those present as they raised their glasses and drank to your happiness during every toast that was made.

TOASTS WITH THE MOST Best Man To Couple â&#x20AC;&#x153;And now, ladies and gentlemen, I shall ask you to rise.â&#x20AC;?

Give guests adequate time to respond. If they are already standing, say: â&#x20AC;&#x153;I now ask you to raise your glasses.â&#x20AC;? Turning to the couple, say: â&#x20AC;&#x153;May your

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wedding day be the threshold of a wonderful future of sharing as you walk together through life, hand in hand. To Jane and John.â&#x20AC;?

Groom To Bride â&#x20AC;&#x153;Hereâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s to the prettiest, hereâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s to the wittiest, hereâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s to the truest one of all who are true, hereâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s to the neatest one, hereâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s to the sweetest one, hereâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s to them all in oneâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;hereâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s to you.â&#x20AC;?

Bride To Groom â&#x20AC;&#x153;I wonder if you realize how much you mean to me, how wonderful youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve been, how dear youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll always be. Youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve brought such love and happiness into my life. No wonder Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;m so thankful and so proud to be your wife. To John!â&#x20AC;?

Brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Father To Couple â&#x20AC;&#x153;To Jane and John. May your lives be full of the kind of happiness we are enjoying here today.â&#x20AC;?

Bride To Parents â&#x20AC;&#x153;To my new family, with thanks for raising such a loving and supportive person, and to my parents, for all the love and strength theyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve given me. May we all have many more memorable days together.â&#x20AC;?

THE REHEARSAL DINNER: A TIME TO RELAX WITH FAMILY AND FRIENDS

The groomâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s family or a close relative or friend usually hosts the rehearsal dinner. The dinner is usually given after the wedding rehearsal, an evening or two before the actual ceremony.

Rehearsal dinners are sometimes two-part affairs. A cocktail party may be held before the rehearsal and dinner. This is especially helpful in introducing the two families, who may not live in the same town. The cocktail party acts as an icebreaker for all mem-

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bers of the wedding â&#x20AC;&#x201D; it can help the rehearsal proceed smoothly.

Invitations to the traditional dinner should be sent about two weeks in advance. The guest list includes all members of the wedding party, both sets of parents DQG LPPHGLDWH IDPLO\ DQG RIĂ&#x20AC;FLating church members. Spouses and dates of these guests should also be invited. Another thoughtful gestureâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;invite those guests who have traveled from out-oftown.

Since the rehearsal dinner is not ruled by convention, it can be very casual or ultra-formal.

You can plan a picnic, buffet, or a sit-down dinner. If the occasion warrants, consider putting place cards at each seat. The bridal couple usually sits together at the head table, with hosts of the opposite sex seated at either side.

Parents and grandparents of the bride and groom complete the table.

The host, or the best man, offers WKH Ă&#x20AC;UVW WRDVW WR WKH EULGDO FRXSOH Other guests may then follow with their own toasts.

To achieve the best results, prepare toasts before dinner. Add a special touch to the festivitiesâ&#x20AC;&#x201D; have guests bring pictures of the bridal couple when they were younger, and make a collage for the newlyweds. Or have the rehearsal dinner videotaped.

To make the occasion especially memorable, hand out notecards on which guests may write good wishes directed to the bride and groom. Each note should be sealed by the author, and kept safe by the hostess for presentation to the bridal couple on their Ă&#x20AC;UVW DQQLYHUVDU\ The rehearsal dinner also presents an opportunity for the bride and groom to give presents to their attendants, and thank everyone for their participation in the wedding ceremony. â&#x20AC;˘

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Booking Guest Rooms

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that special weekend extra pleasant for everyone involved. Show your hospitality by making guest room arrangements for them.

Youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve got it all under control, right? Your invitations have been ordered and you were thoughtful enough to include maps to your ceremony and reception sites to avoid confusion and lost friends and relatives. Think youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve got your bases covered? Where are your outof-town guests going to stay? Streets that may look familiar to those friends and relatives who live nearby may look confusing, and even imposing, to those unfamiliar with the area.

Having all of your guests stay at one appointed hotel can help calm the nerves of those people so close to you who live so far away. Fortunately, there are several different types of hotels from which to choose.

Because all hotels offer different amenities, consider those things you think your guests may Ă&#x20AC;QG LPSRUWDQW 7KH ODVW WKLQJ E\ ZKLFK \RX¡G want your guests to remember your wedding would be that they had an unpleasant stay in an unfamiliar town.

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happens if all the rooms asked the hotel to block reserved.

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â&#x20AC;˘ How convenient is the location to your ceremony and reception sites? â&#x20AC;˘ Does your wedding date coincide with any conventions that may be booking all of the choice rooms? â&#x20AC;˘ Is there a shuttle to and from the airport and/or around town? â&#x20AC;˘ Does the location offer rooms and/or suites? â&#x20AC;˘ How much are the rooms? They may offer a group rate, depending on how many rooms you need. â&#x20AC;˘ If you need just a few rooms, do they have special weekend rates? â&#x20AC;˘ Do they offer a hospitality room where all of your guests can meet to pick up anything left VSHFLĂ&#x20AC;FDOO\ IRU WKHP RU IRU MXVW spending time together? â&#x20AC;˘ Do they have smoking and nonsmoking rooms? â&#x20AC;˘ Do they provide irons/hair dryers/ an in-room safe? â&#x20AC;˘ Is there cable TV with movie channels? â&#x20AC;˘ Is there a coffee bar/small refrigerator/freezer/microwave in the rooms? â&#x20AC;˘ Do they have free local calls/ internet access/voice mail? â&#x20AC;˘ Is a complimentary continental or buffet breakfast offered?

Happy hour? â&#x20AC;˘ Do they have an on-site swimming pool/hot tub/exercise facilities? â&#x20AC;˘ Do they have a guest laundry or valet service? â&#x20AC;˘ Is there a charge for additional services, such as for delivering gift baskets?

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What to Consider When Making Arrangements For Your Guests:

Estimate how many rooms you may need and remember to reserve a block of rooms three to six months prior to your wedding date to avoid any confusion. Forward the room information to your out-of-town guests DV VRRQ DV SRVVLEOH VR WKDW WKH\ PD\ FRQĂ&#x20AC;UP WKH URRP at least two weeks prior to the wedding. Your guests will truly appreciate knowing in advance that you have taken their stay into consideration.

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Flower Power A bountiful array of beautiful blossoms creates an atmosphere of romance! On your wonderful wedding day, pretty posies tell the world how you feel about each other! )/2:(56 %< /,==,( %((¡6 )/2:(5 6+233( 3+272 %< .(//< $/(;$1'(5 3+272*5$3+<

BRIDEâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;S FLOWERS: BRIDAL BOUQUET Youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll want to carry a bouquet that complements your wedding gown and is scaled to your proportions. Traditional bouquets are composed of all white and ivory bloomsâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;roses, orchids, stephanotis, lilies of the valley and gardenias are commonly used. Today, brides often carry bouquets in colors taken from their wedding palette.

One currently popular style is the natural-look bouquetâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;an airy arrangePHQW ZKLFK PD\ LQFOXGH ZLOGĂ RZHUV ZLWK stems showing. This type of bouquet can be held in front or draped over the brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s arm. Other favorite arrangements include a round or crescent-shaped bouquet, a QRVHJD\ D VLQJOH Ă RZHU RU D Ă RZHU FRYered prayer book.

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BRIDEâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;S THROWAWAY BOUQUET Although some brides may toss their actual bridal bouquet, most prefer to keep that arrangement. At the bouquettossing ceremony, a detachable section or another small bouquet may be thrown.

BRIDAL ATTENDANTS Bridesmaids and maid of honor usuDOO\ FDUU\ VLPLODU DUUDQJHPHQWV WKH PDLG of honorâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s may be more elaborate. Attendants may carry traditional bouquets, or alternative arrangements: baskets of EORRPV ORQJ VWHPPHG Ă RZHUV RYHU RQH arm, or a single, perfect rose. ,I WKH EULGH ZHDUV D Ă RUDO KHDGSLHFH attendants may wear a single bloom, spray or wreath of the same blossoms.

GROOM AND MALE ATTENDANTS The groom and each male member of the wedding party, including fathers, customarily wear a boutonniere in the left lapel. Traditionally, the bloom was a white rose or carnation, but as bridal bouquets have become more colorful, so have boutonnieres. The groomâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s boutonniere should differ from the othersâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;he might FRQVLGHU ZHDULQJ D Ă RZHU IURP WKH EULGH¡V bouquet.

YOUNG ATTENDANTS Flower girls traditionally carry baskets of loose petals to be strewn in the brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s path, but may also carry a miniature bouquet in a basket or a small nosegay.

7KH\ DOVR PLJKW ZHDU D VLQJOH Ă RZHU RU D ZUHDWK RI Ă RZHUV LQ WKHLU KDLU The ringbearer should wear a bouton-

niere just like the groom. You may wish to decorate the ringbearerâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s cushion with a VSULJ RI Ă RZHUV MOTHERS, GRANDMOTHERS & OTHER VERY SPECIAL PEOPLE It is customary to present the mothers and grandmothers of the bridal couSOH ZLWK Ă RZHUV WR ZHDU DW WKH ZHGGLQJ These arrangements may be made up of Ă RZHUV WKDW FRRUGLQDWH ZLWK WKHLU GUHVVHV personal preferences should also be considered. If grandfathers are present, they, too, would receive boutonnieres.

A corsage or boutonniere is a perfect way to honor others who contribute to your wedding. The guest book and gift table attendants are examples of special helpers to thank.

CEREMONY SITE Flowers at the ceremony vary considerably depending on location and style of the wedding. If the marriage takes place in a church, at least one arrangement should decorate each side of the altar. $GRUQ WKH HQGV RI SHZV ZLWK Ă RZHUV DQG ribbons if you choose.

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Placing wedding and engagement announcements is a piece of cake. Simply contact the paper(s) of your choice and request an anQRXQFHPHQW IRUP H PDLO WKHP Ă&#x20AC;OO LW out online, or stop by in person. Complete the form and return it with a photograph (some papers print the brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s picture only). Most newspapers prefer black-and-white glossies or high-resolution photos e-mailed to them.

Engagement announcements are usually short, listing only the names of the prospective bride and groom, their parentsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; names and the wedding date. Pictures are sometimes published with engagement announcements.

Wedding announcements go into more detail, featuring the coupleâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s names, parentsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; names and their city and state if theyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re from out of town.

Also listed are the church, wedding date and members of the wedding party. A photograph may be included at this time.

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bridal gown has been bought, the invitations are in the mail, and the caterer is cooking. Getting your marriage license is one of the last tasks before you can say, â&#x20AC;&#x153;I do.â&#x20AC;?

The procedure for obtaining your license is basically the same all over Texas. Together, the prospective bride DQG JURRP PXVW YLVLW WKH RIĂ&#x20AC;FH RI WKH county clerk. %ULQJ D YDOLG IRUP RI LGHQWLĂ&#x20AC;FDWLRQÂłD GULYHU¡V OLFHQVH FHUWLĂ&#x20AC;HG FRS\ RI \RXU RULJLQDO ELUWK FHUWLĂ&#x20AC;FDWH 8 6 passport, or military ID. Also be sure to bring your Social Security Card. Cost for the license: $71, cash. They donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t take checks. However, there is a new premarital education program sponsored by the state of Texas called â&#x20AC;&#x153;Twogether in Texasâ&#x20AC;? that is only $50. Take the class, and receive a $60 discount on your marriage license. Visit www.BeTheChampion.org, call 214.426.0900, or e-mail parer@anthemstrongfamilies.com for more information.

Thereâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s one important detail you must not forget: a 72-hour waiting period is required after the license is issued.

Your license is good 30 days from that date. Good newsâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;blood tests are not required in the tri-county area.

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Party Time!

Finally! The details have all been taken care of. Now, it's time to relax and have some fun. Bachelor and bachelorette parties are designed to send off the bride and groom into their new lives with one last outing.

Get your wedding party to plan the time of your life with creative outings and entertainment.

Event planners and wedding coordinators will be a big help in generating ideas, making contacts and setting up reservations for those trendy dinner and entertainment spots for the bachelor and bachelorette parties. Ask them to contact your maid of honor and best man to coordinate your parties. Then sit back and be surprised.

A day at the races or attending a professional football, basketball or baseball game is a natural for a menâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s outing. If the man in your life is more of a doer than a watcher, a day at the golf course might be in order. Friends might meet for breakfast, head for the golf course, and enjoy lunch and a party at the â&#x20AC;&#x153;19thâ&#x20AC;? hole.

They might arrange for the golf pro to play with them, helping everyone with their game. This could tie in with the ladies spending an afternoon of pampering at a sauna or salon following their own golf game, or on the tennis court.

A more mature groom might enjoy a gentlemenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s night at a wonderful restaurant. A â&#x20AC;&#x153;tastingâ&#x20AC;? of scotch, wines, or cordials might be arranged with the maitre dâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;. Some restaurants have a private room, allowing for cigars, preselected by the groom for each of his guests. Perhaps friends and other members of the wedding SDUW\ PLJKW PHHW WR Ă&#x20AC;QLVK WKH HYHQLQJ

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with dancing and a nightcap.

For the ultimate â&#x20AC;&#x153;bachelorâ&#x20AC;? gettogether, a weekend spent at a FDELQ IRU Ă&#x20AC;VKLQJ FDUG SOD\LQJ DQG reminiscing about the â&#x20AC;&#x153;good olâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; college daysâ&#x20AC;? is hard to beat. The boys might have so much fun that it could become the traditional party each year, even after everyone is married!

An outing (prearranged with instruction) at a skeet range provides an opportunity for camaraderie and, later, greatly exaggerated stories of shooting prowess, even if no one has ever shot before.

If the bachelor party takes place the day before the wedding, it might start with a trip to the tuxedo shop where any last-minute alterations could be made while thereâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s still time before the big day. After ensuring their Ă&#x20AC;W WKH PHQ DUH RII WR WKH JROI FRXUVH while the store manager arranges for the tuxedos to be delivered directly to the hotel or the groomâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s home.

Your bridesmaids will enjoy a day at the spa for some long-overdue pampering. Cap it off with a light lunch or early dinner at your favorite food spot.

For the more active ladies, plan a golf outing, a day of shopping at an outlet mall, or tickets to a live theatre show or comedy club. Make it extra special by hiring a limousine to deliver your party in a safe manner.

The worst time for a bachelor or bachelorette party is the night before the wedding. Everyone needs to be at their best for the big day, without worrying about headaches, lack of sleep or a queasy stomach. Plan the parties several days or weeks ahead.

If all the participants live in the same city, the weekend before is a perfect time. If travel plans preclude â&#x20AC;&#x153;getting that old gang togetherâ&#x20AC;? until the day before, all the more reason for an afternoon outing that leaves everyone ready for the rehearsal and dinner to follow.

The bachelor/bachelorette party has long been regarded as the last JUHDW Ă LQJ EHIRUH WKH IXQ LV RYHU IRUever. Todayâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s couples donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t regard marriage and family as the end of freedom, but the beginning of a reODWLRQVKLS WKDW LV LWV RZQ IXOĂ&#x20AC;OOPHQW 5Hlationships of commitment change oneâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s perspective on many facets of life. A bachelor or bachelorette party that everyone feels comfortable discussing and participating in, is a part of that commitment.

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Musical Notes Set your wedding-day memories with your wedding music and relive those special moments every time you hear â&#x20AC;&#x153;your song.â&#x20AC;?

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countless wedding ceremonies, Clarkeâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s â&#x20AC;&#x153;Prince of Denmarkâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Marchâ&#x20AC;? or Wagnerâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s â&#x20AC;&#x153;The Bridal Chorusâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;â&#x20AC;&#x2122; (â&#x20AC;&#x153;Here Comes The Brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;) is the processional song of choice. Mendelssohnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s â&#x20AC;&#x153;Wedding Marchâ&#x20AC;? from A Midsummer 1LJKW¡V 'UHDP RU +DQGHO¡V ´+RUQpipe in Dâ&#x20AC;? from Water Music Suite is often played during the recessional. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s tradition, right?

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organist, clergy, choir director or bridal coordinator in making musical decisions.

Your ceremony might feature an organist, pianist, harpist, string or woodwind quartet, or vocal performers. The musical program should begin 15 to 30 minutes before the ceremony, as guests arrive.

At the rehearsal, you may want to spend a little time practicing walking to the music you have chosen. Wedding music is highly emotional, and many brides have cried their way to the altar because of the sudden effect the music has had on them. It might also be a good idea to tell your

father you need practice walking on his arm to the music, giving him a chance to get used to it, too. Elaborate wedding walks are unpopular today, but a lovely bride will want to have an aura of FRQĂ&#x20AC;GHQFH DERXW KHU DELOLW\ WR Ă RDW GRZQ WKH DLVOH WR WKH PXVLF she has chosen.

Select a processional march WKDW¡V MR\RXV \HW GLJQLĂ&#x20AC;HG <RXU recessional music should be livelier in tempoâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;after all, youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve just been married!

RECEPTION CONSIDERATIONS Music sets the mood for your receptionâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;consider your selections carefully. You might have a DJ

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Just remember to feature a variety of musicâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;slow romantic numbers as well as rousing dance tunes.

Music should entertain both younger and older guests. Plan some selections for dancing, others just for listening. The band shouldnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t be so loud as to hinder conversation.

At a small wedding, a pianist or jazz trio is a good choice.

A â&#x20AC;&#x153;wedding bandâ&#x20AC;? is a popular choiceâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;theyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re trained to play to all different age groups.

When interviewing musicians, Ă&#x20AC;QG RXW WKH VL]H RI WKH JURXS LQstruments played, and whether or not they feature vocalists. Ask to see a current song list. Youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll want to have a large variety of music to choose from, including selections from the following categories: Top 40, showtunes, ballads, rock & roll, and country. If possible, catch the band in a live situation for a sneak preview of their performance style.

Make sure the group can accommodate your personal preferences. Indicate songs youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;d like played during special moments. You might request one of the groomâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s favorite tunes as the wedding party sits down to dinner. Music is also played during the cake cutting, when the brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s bouquet and garter are tossed, and to signal that itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s time for the bride and groom to leave.

You should expect a professional attitude and appearance in the musicians you hire. Ask if one of the band members can act as master of ceremonies, if you need one. Determine how long the band plays and learn how many breaks they will take.

Make sure they can provide recorded music during breaks.

From setting up the musical equipment to tearing it back down, the band will spend four to six hours at your reception, and they will get hungry. Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s customary to provide them with refreshmentsâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;sandwiches and nonalcoholic beverages, or a plate from the buffet. A happy band

contributes greatly to the festive mood of your party.

Inform the band manager whom to contact at the reception site so they can check out the facilities ahead of time for acoustics, lighting arrangements, etc. If youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re planning an outdoor reception, decide where the party will move in case of rain.

Donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t leave any of the details to chance or memoryâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;write them down in a contract. Your contract with the band should include the date, time, location, set-up time, number and length of sets, payment, overtime fees, cancellation and postponement policies, musiciansâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; attire, and any special considerations.

If live entertainment doesnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t Ă&#x20AC;W LQWR \RXU UHFHSWLRQ SODQV FRQsider hiring a professional disc jockey. These entertainers can provide a great variety of music, from rock & roll to waltzes, usually at a lower cost than a live band.

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Intriguing Invitations A wedding invitation peeking out of the mailbox is always a pleasant sight. Make sure your message expresses the warmth and happiness you wish to share with your guests.

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s with every aspect of planning a wedding, traditional guidelines exist for wording, paper and engraving of wedding invitations and announcements. Many couples, however, come up with informal and creative variations.

A very formal wedding still commands the use of very proper wording engraved on thick, creamy paper. A less formal celebration might call for pastel ink on parchment.

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THE GUEST LIST After youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve decided on a budget and the number of guests to inYLWH DVN \RXU Ă&#x20AC;DQFp DQG KLV IDPLO\ WR make up their list. Let them know how PDQ\ \RX KRSH WKH\¡OO LQYLWH 1RUPDOO\ each family invites half the guests. Another option: divide the guest list into

three sections. The groomâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s family, the brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s family and the bridal couple each invite a third. As a rule of thumb, expect about three-fourths of those invited to attend.

Invitations should be sent to your ZHGGLQJ RIĂ&#x20AC;FLDQW DQG VSRXVH \RXU Ă&#x20AC;DQFp¡V LPPHGLDWH IDPLO\ DQG PHPbers of your wedding party and their parents. You are not obligated to invite companions for single friends on your list.

If you do wish to invite the friend or Ă&#x20AC;DQFp RI D VLQJOH JXHVW DVN IRU WKDW personâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s name and address and send a separate invitation. If the couple lives together, mail a joint invitation, as you would for a married couple.

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nouncements. This list should include acquaintances not invited to the wedding with whom you wish to share the JRRG QHZV 1HLWKHU DQ LQYLWDWLRQ QRU announcement requires a giftâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;feel free to send them to everyone. Order about 50 extra envelopes to allow for addressing mistakes.

PAPER AND PRINTING While handwritten invitations are appropriate for a small ceremonyâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;50 guests or lessâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;for a larger wedding, youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll want printed invitations. A classic formal invitation is printed or engraved on the top page of a folded sheet of white or off-white paper. A small inner envelope, ungummed and unsealed, encloses the invitation or announcement. This is placed inside a larger envelope which is addressed and stamped.

Add a personal touch to your invitations using translucent or shiny paper, colored ink or a special border. If you select colored ink, use the same shade to address the envelopes. Select someone with beautiful handwriting, perhaps a professional calligrapher, to address envelopes or write invitations.

Order invitations and announcements at least three months before the wedding to allow time for printing, addressing and mailing. Engraving may take longer. Have the envelopes delivered early for addressing ahead of time.

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Invitations should be mailed four to six weeks before the ceremony. Two months is courteous if you plan to marry during the holidays.

Allow people time to consider your invitation and word their replies. Depending upon the formality of your invitation, theyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll respond with formal written acceptances or regrets, informal notes, phone calls or response cards.

If you havenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t had a response from a guest two weeks before the wedding, call and check. When each invitation is accounted for, tell your caterer how many guests to expect.

Formal announcements, created in the style of your invitation, should be mailed the day of the wedding or immediately afterward if you plan to send them. Ask a bridesmaid or family member to do this if you donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t have time.

KEEPING TRACK As soon as your invitations are sent, youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll begin receiving calls and notes from guests, saying they can hardly wait. Promptly record whoâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s coming, and who wonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t be able to attend. AlORZ VSDFH LQ \RXU Ă&#x20AC;OLQJ V\VWHP WR GHscribe gifts received, and make a notation when a thank-you note is sent.

SPECIAL ENCLOSURES Enclosures are printed in the same style as the invitation itself. At-home cards may be enclosed with formal invitations, but are usually sent with announcements. These are small cards informing everyone of your new address and the date youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll be ready to receive mail and visitors there.

Ceremony cards are sent if thereâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a chance that uninvited persons may try to attend, or if the wedding is held in a public or historic place. Engraved cards may be enclosed with the invitations, to be presented at the door for admittance. For other types of enclosures you may wish to ask your printer, stationer or wedding consultant.

WEDDING PROGRAMS A program is extremely helpful in guiding your guests through the ceremony and is a wonderful memento of your wedding. It provides vital information and might be an elaborate booklet, a calligraphy-inscribed scroll, or a preprinted wedding bulletin with your wedding service photocopied inside.

ANNOUNCEMENTS 1RUPDOO\ DQQRXQFHPHQWV DUH QRW mailed to anyone who has been invited to the wedding. But they may go out after an intimate ceremony for family only, after an elopement, or a wedding so far away that many people could not attend. Business associates with whom the couple work day-to-day might also receive announcements. (Remember, no one receiving an announcement need feel obligated to send a gift.)

Printing and paper for the announcements are the same as for invitations. Announcements should be addressed like invitations and, whenever possible, mailed out immediately after the ceremony.â&#x20AC;˘

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are

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ue. For more information,

fee. Alcohol is allowed when

preparation space for bride

contact Nicole Spaller at

served by TABC-approved

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bartenders. Unity of Dal-

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las has ample free parking,

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las.org.

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their freshly renovated ven-

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ACCESSORIES Clique Gallery: 214.219.7777 Providence Place Bridal Boutique at The Harbor: 214.435.8962 ALL-INCLUSIVE WEDDINGS MK Travel, Inc: 972.256.3879 You Deserve It! Vacations: 972.830.2040, ext. 1 BABYSITTING Black-Tie Babysitting: 214.450.1245 BEAUTY/SPA Brandy Hughes-Chenault, Independent Distributor, Lipsense by SeneGence: 214.399.1618 Carol Short, Independent Mary Kay Sales Director: 214.693.3473 Jouve Skin, Susan Beaudean, Independent Consultant: JouveSkin.com/cleanandpure BRIDAL SALONS, TUXEDOS, & BRIDAL ALTERATIONS Clique Gallery: 214.219.7777 Providence Place Bridal Boutique at The Harbor: 214.435.8962 BRIDAL SHOWERS & LUNCHEONS 1899 Farmhouse: 469.212.6975 Eldorado Country Club: 972.529.6779 ext. 203 Green Gables House: 214.499.5290 Midlothian Conference Center: 972.775.7125 Sky Creek Ranch Golf Club: 817.498.1414 ENTERTAINMENT 4HarpMusic.com: 214.282.5354 Carol Marks Music Entertainment Agency: 972.231.4091 Creative Touch DJs: 214.207.2389 FINE JEWELRY Clique Gallery: 214.219.7777 GUEST LODGING Courtyard by Marriott Midlothian: 888.236.2427 Green Gables House, Trenton: 214.499.5290 Hampton Inn Dallas/Las Colinas: 972.753.1232 The Wildwood Inn, Denton: 940.479.2223 HONEYMOONS & DESTINATION WEDDINGS MK Travel, Inc: 972.256.3879 You Deserve It! Vacations: 972.830.2040, ext. 1

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INVITATION SERVICES & CALLIGRAPHY Calligraphy by Angela: 214.957.2155 OFFICIANTS & PREMARITAL COUNSELING 4Romantic Weddings.com: 214.282.5354 PHOTOGRAPHY & GREEN SCREEN PHOTOS Triana Studios: 214.369.3375 QUINCEAÃ&#x2018;ERAS, BAR & BAT MITZVAHS Eldorado Country Club: 972.529.6779 ext 203 Midlothian Conference Center: 972.775.7125 Skycreek Ranch Golf Club: 817.498.1414 RECEPTION & REHEARSAL DINNER SITES 1899 Farmhouse: 469.212.6975 Eldorado Country Club: 972.529.2475 ext. 203 Green Gables House: 214.499.5290 Midlothian Conference Center: 972.725.7125 Occasions at Stone River: 214.674.0818 Skycreek Ranch Golf Club: 817.498.1414 Walters Wedding Estates: info@waltersweddingestates.com WEDDING & EVENT PLANNING Danielle Hasty, One Fine Day Wedding & Events: 817.717.5478 Similo Mpala, Events Xtra Ordinaire: 469.251.6637 WEDDING VENUES & OUTDOOR WEDDINGS 1899 Farmhouse, Princeton: 469.212.6975 Celebrations in the Country, Fairview: 972.562.8119 Eldorado Country Club, McKinney: 972.529.2475 ext. 203 Green Gables House, Trenton: 214.499.5290 Midlothian Conference Center, Midlothian: 972.775.7125 Occasions at Stone River, Royce City: 214.674.0818 Skycreek Ranch Golf Club, Keller: 817.498.1414 Walters Wedding Estates: info@waltersweddingestates.com.

And see Aristide through Wildwood Inn below: Aristide, Flower Mound: 972.539.6464 $ULVWLGH 0DQVÃ&#x20AC;HOG Hidden Pines Chapel, Highland Village: 469.213.1256 Northeast Wedding Chapel, Hurst: 817.581.3777 The Chapel at Ana Villa: 972.624.8017 The Milestone Mansion/Morgan Creek Barn, Aubrey: 940.365.9953 The Milestone Mansion, Denton: 940.479.2223 The Wildwood Inn, Denton: 940.243.4919

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BRIDAL SHOWERS & BRIDAL LUNCHEONS Cleburne Conference Center 817.556.8860; Cleburne

GUEST ACCOMMODATIONS BEST WESTERN PLUS Dallas Hotel & Conference Center 972.680.3000; Dallas

Humphreys Restaurant and Event Center 972.322.7229; Celina

Hyatt Place Dallas/ Garland/Richardson 972.414.3500; Garland

Old Warsaw Restaurant & Events 214.528.0032; Dallas

LGBT WEDDINGS BEST WESTERN PLUS Dallas Hotel & Conference Center 972.680.3000; Dallas

Unity of Dallas 972.233.7106, ext. 219; Dallas

RECEPTION & REHEARSAL DINNER SITES BEST WESTERN PLUS Dallas Hotel & Conference Center 972.680.3000; Dallas Cleburne Conference Center 817.556.8860; Cleburne Humphreys Restaurant and Event Center 972.322.7229; Celina

Blanc de Bleu www.blancdebleu.com; DFW

Hyatt Place Dallas/ Garland/Richardson 972.414.3500; Garland

Cleburne Conference Center 817.556.8860; Cleburne

Old Warsaw Restaurant & Events 214.528.0032; Dallas

Old Warsaw Restaurant & Events 214.528.0032; Dallas

Unity of Dallas 972.233.7106, ext. 219; Dallas

Denton Bridal Show www.dentonbridalshow.com; Denton

Stradivarius String Quartet 972.949.4111; DFW

Waxahachie Civic Center 469.309.4040; Waxahachie

Great Bridal Expo 800.422.3976; DFW

Unity of Dallas 972.233.7106, ext. 219; Dallas

Soiree Boutique Bridal Shows 866.242.8078; DFW

PARTY RENTALS Taylor’s Rentals 817.332.5258; Fort Worth

WEDDING VENUES/ OUTDOOR WEDDINGS BEST WESTERN PLUS Dallas Hotel & Conference Center 972.680.3000; Dallas

Waxahachie Civic Center 469.309.4040; Waxahachie BRIDAL SHOWS Bridal Shows, Inc. 972.713.9920; DFW

CATERING Blanc de Bleu www.blancdebleu.com; DFW ENTERTAINMENT Stradivarius String Quartet 972.949.4111; DFW FAVORS/FINE WINES & SPIRITS Blanc de Bleu www.blancdebleu.com; DFW GIFT REGISTRY/NEW HOME Blanc de Bleu www.blancdebleu.com; DFW

QUINCEAÑERAS, BAR & BAT MITZVAHS BEST WESTERN PLUS Dallas Hotel & Conference Center 972.680.3000; Dallas Cleburne Conference Center 817.556.8860; Cleburne

Cleburne Conference Center 817.556.8860; Cleburne Humphreys Restaurant and Event Center 972.322.7229; Celina Hyatt Place Dallas/Garland/ Richardson 972.414.3500; Garland

Hyatt Place Dallas/ Garland/Richardson 972.414.3500; Garland

Old Warsaw Restaurant & Events 214.528.0032; Dallas

Taylor’s Rentals 817.332.5258; Fort Worth

Unity of Dallas 972.233.7106, ext. 219; Dallas

Waxahachie Civic Center 469.309.4040; Waxahachie

Waxahachie Civic Center 469.309.4040; Waxahachie

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