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f all the responsibilities of parents, teaching kindness should be at the top of the list. I know most of you have at some point said to your child, “oh, that’s not nice,” and your child looked blankly at you. Well, that’s when we explain what they did and how it was not nice; followed by what would have been nice. Teaching moments come throughout the life cycle; beginning with sharing haring toys, kissing boo-boos, and hugging a crying sibling.

As our children grow up and are socially active we need to understand that for them to comprehend the true value of kindness, its best when caught, not taught. Our children will only understand how to be kind by witnessing it from parents, other adult role models, other children, and given opportunities.

I can remember my kids wanting to have a lemonade stand. It was right when Katrina came through Louisiana.

I asked them what they were going to do with the money. They were not sure; so we discussed what was going on around us in our community and state.

Then their eyes lit up! We continued to discuss the impact of the deadliest hurricane in the history of the United

States and they decided to call their campaign “Lemon-“AID” for Lives.”

Well, our neighbors were amazingly kind! Most stopped just to donate to the cause and thanked the kids for giving them a way to help too. My son ran to me and said “Mom, this guy emptied a container filled with quarters, like 100 of them!” And the generosity was contagious and large! They did this for two days and were thrilled. The Spirit o of Texas fund accepted the money from the lemon-aid campaign, took pictures for the local paper and our kids, well they were empowered knowing they were helping many people in two different ways.

For contributing all the money they collected to a fund set up to help the victims; and for giving an avenue for our neighbors to contribute to this cause (the Lemon-AID stand) as well.

Not too long ago, researchers at the University of Michigan found that college age kids were less likely to look at situations from another point of view and would likely focus on their own need above others. They coined this as an empathy deficiency. We, the parents, can reverse this! And you can start with a lemon-aid stand. SP

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When you consider all the factors that shape your personality; your genes, parents, peers, you should know that your siblings are at the top, according to one major theory of human development. Sibling relationships will likely last longer than any others in your lifetime. Studies show that the way you interact with your siblings while growing up can affect your relationships, happiness, and even the way you see yourself throughout the rest of your life.

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So next time you’re at the store, grab some toothpaste for the kitchen.

Your dish sponge is easily one of the dirtiest things in your kitchen (harbors bacteria) and it needs to be cleaned and sanitized often; at least every other day is a good idea. You can toss it in the dishwasher to get it clean, but to really decontaminate it, toss it in the microwave. Two minutes at full power and your sponge will be practically bacteria free. Note: Microwave only sponges or plastic scrubbers that don’t contain steel or metals. Also, make sure the sponge is wet before microwaving it and be careful when removing it. It will be hot!

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Recent studies published in Neurology found people with low levels of omega-3s had brains that appeared two years older in MRI scans! Prescription, heavy on produce, legumes, nuts and fish, less meat. It’s that simple!

May want to supplement with B12 and Vit.D (ask your doctor).

germs be gone If you have little ones at home then hen you proba probaobably have lots of little plastic toyss lying ly ying g around aroun ar o d the house too (think legos!) You likely have lots of bath toys in the bathroom as well. When was the last time you washed these? Well, here’s a tip! You can wash these in your washing machine. Just put the toys in a mesh bag, place in machine and add a couple of towels at the same time. Use warm, not hot, water. It’s easy and an especially good idea if your kids have been sick. You can wash toys in the dishwasher too (minus the towels) on the top rack.

Just make sure there aren’t any electronic parts.

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Q Dear Editor, My teenager seems to be what I may consider a slow learner. How can I help him to focus more on the task at hand?

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Q How can I tell if my child is shy

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Well, you actually have part of the answer for this in your question. Help him to realize that multi-tasking is less effective.

Research actually suggests that multi-tasking can make learning less effective because switching from one activity to another is less efficient and he may make more errors.

Have him become more efficient by setting a pre-determined amount of time to study, read, explore or create. One subject at a time.

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My fiancé has 2 children, ages 8 and 11 (boys); I have one 13 year old girl.

I am divorced and he is widowed.

What’s the best scenario for blending our families?

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Congratulations! While blending a family can bring so much joy, the initial phases of becoming a family can be challenging. It’s important to remember that you and your husband will be the foundation of this new relationship.

Being open to change is important. Healthy blended families are patient; keep re-assessing expectations and work on forming healthy step-relationships. Consulting with each other before setting expectations is imperative for success. Family therapy for blended families serves as a critical tool to give members a safe and neutral ground to discuss issues and possibly minimize resentment.

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A child who does not exhibit these physical changes may simply be shy and guarded around peers. A child may cling to their caregiver for emotional safety in these situations. With either the shy or frightened child, the caregiver’s role remains the same which is to provide emotional support and safety for the child through the child’s experiences.

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I AM FEELING PRESSURE IN MY PELVIC AREA; MY FRIEND SAID IT COULD BE UTERINE PROLAPSE. I AM ONLY 32 YEARS OLD WITH TWO TERM PREGNANCIES (5 YEAR OLD AND 2 YEAR OLD). SHOULD I BE WORRIED?

It is possible that you have utero-vaginal prolapse. Prolapse is caused by a weakening of the muscles and connective tissues of the pelvic floor. The risk of developing prolapse increases with each delivery, age and weight gain. Prolapse symptoms can be managed conservatively with weight loss (if needed), pelvic floor exercises and Pelvic Floor Rehabilitation to strengthen the pelvic floor muscles, avoiding surgery. A visit to your ObGyn can confirm if you have prolapse, and if needed, a referral to an Urogynecologist for Pelvic Floor Rehabilitation can help your symptoms.

— Dr. Kevin O’Neil specializes in Urogynecology along with Obstetrics and Gynecology.

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Learning to Chill

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don’t enjoy packing for trips. In fact, I’d almost rather have my dentist fix a cavity without novocaine. Don’t ask me how I managed to squeeze a high chair, stroller, and playpen into the van, along with the rest of our luggage, during my daughter, Jessie’s, baby years. I must admit that packing is a lot easier without that stuff. Jessie is eight years old now, so the most important piece of luggage is her “entertainment” suitcase – books, crayons, colored pencils, gel pens, paper, glue, scissors, and markers. Jessie’s bottles of glitter remain at home – always. To be honest, I wouldn’t be disappointed if they stayed in her art drawer – always.

Wikipedia defines glitter as “an assortment of very small pieces of copolymer plastics, aluminum foil, titanium dioxide, iron oxides, bismuth oxychloride or other materials painted in metallic, neon and iridescent colors to reflect light in a sparkling spectrum.” I have my own definition, but I think its best not to put it in print. Let’s just say that I’m not a big fan.

Jessie, on the other hand, can’t wait to do art projects using glitter. I enjoy watching her create things with Play-Doh. I applaud the masterpieces that she paints on her easel. I even smile when she pulls out her assorted containers of glue, even though I know that my fingers will end up sticking to something before all is said and done. But oh those very small pieces of copolymer plastics…

According to Wikipedia, in 1934 machinist Henry Ruschmann invented a way to grind up plastics to make large quantities of glitter.

He founded Meadowbrook Inventions, still a major supplier of the substance. Its slogan is, “Our glitter covers the world.” I can’t verify the accuracy of the slogan, but I can attest that by the time Jessie finishes using it, glitter covers our house.

Although I will never win a Good Housekeeping award for having the cleanest house, I do like to keep a tidy one. I’d give myself good grades for cleaning, except for dusting where I’d be happy with a C-. My wife and I were married for 19 years before Jessie came along. It was a lot easier to keep things tidy (and glitter-free) back then.

When I compare our 19 years as a couple to the 8 years we’ve been a family of three (four really, with the dog), I have happy memories of both periods that I wouldn’t trade for anything. The status of the house (tidy or a mess) is not too important. That doesn’t mean, though, that I don’t need to take a few extra breaths when it seems like I’m taking one step forward and two steps back as I attempt to keep the house in order. I guess you could say I’m “learning to chill.”

Jessie just finished making an 8-page, glitter-filled activity book at the kitchen table. She had so much fun working on this project as she drew ovals on the pages with glue, then buried them with glitter. Right now, glitter is everywhere – the table, chairs,

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floor, her clothing, and the dog. Even though I’ll vacuum the entire work area including her, glitter will somehow find its way into every room of the house. The “pre-chilled” dad would moan and groan. However, the “post-chilled” dad sees the sparkle in his child’s eyes, along with various places on her face and body, as she shows off her book. So thank you, Mr. Ruschmann, for your shimmery invention. But bigger thanks goes out to the inventor of the vacuum cleaner.

Jessie prepared her activity book to take on an upcoming trip. She says it will make the time pass faster in the car. I praise Jessie for her creative idea and for taking responsibility for her own entertainment. However, that glitter-dripping book isn’t going anywhere near the family van. I guess I haven’t fully mastered the art of “chilling.”

Here’s wishing you a fantastic summer of safe travels. May you be blessed with sufficient engineering skills to get everything packed. May you “chill” when your tank of patience runs on empty, which is bound to happen when family members are in a confined space for hours on end. But most importantly, may your travels leave you and your loved ones with glittering memories.

Until next month, remember to cherish the moments. SP Patrick Hempfing had a 20-year professional career in banking, accounting, and auditing before he became a father at age 44. He is now a full-time husband, stay-at-home dad and writer.

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e calls, texts, ema to maintain contact through phon within your same area, set ol If you are moving to a new scho the first weeks of the new and mer sum the up play dates over from their old school are still school year. Knowing their friends ly as they make new friends. lone less out there will help them feel

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Tell them stories about al and natural part norm a it e Mak es. your school experienc site together and web ols of your conversation. Visit the scho h menus and basics lunc ed, offer ities read about the staff, activ s code. Tell your child how facts, such as arrival time and dres and that you think they’re ol excited you are for their new scho feel sad, angry, nervous may They . year going to have a great okay to feel that way. and afraid. Let them know that it’s

Talk about the new school often.

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works in advance. the school often. Point it re’s your new school!” each out to younger children, saying, “The your child to visit the and you time you pass by. Arrange for during the summer. tour a take and ipal princ school, meet the

Make the school familiar. Drive by

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Learn about the bus system. If your

TIPS FOR THE FIRST DAY NIGHT BEFORE Help your child get all of their supp lies organized and ready to go the nigh t before.

Layout their outfit and prepare a checklist of what they need to do and bring in the morning. Go over this list with them before they walk out the door.

ARRIVE EARLY If you drive your child to school on the first day, arrive early. My daughter is muc h less anxious if she arrives to a new loca tion before the crowd. Watching peop le trickle in slowly is much less overwhelmin g than being thrown directly into the crow d.

SAYING GOODBYE Try to keep your own emotions unde r control. If your child sees you cryin g or worried, they will feel even more anxious.

Keep the goodbye short, upbeat and encouraging.

FINAL BELL Have a special treat (milk and cook ies, anyone?) and a big hug waiting for them when you reunite. Give them time to deco mpress and process their day before grilli ng them for details. They may need several weeks to feel comfortable in their new scho ol.

AFTER HOURS Continue talking about the change and reassuring your child that it will get easier.

Keep the hugs and high fives com ing as they adjust. Treat yourself to a cook ie, too.

Transitioning to a new school is hard , but your child will survive - and so will you!

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fri 1 A Summer Under the Big Top at Irving Gymnastics Full day and Ð day camps for kids 4-12 years old. Gymnastics, sports skills, arts & crafts, obstacle courses, swimming and more. Camps run through Aug. 22. See ad in the August issue of Irving Parent. Irving Gymnastics, 900 N. O’Connor, Irving, 972-254-1914 www. irvinggymnastics.net

Exhibit-A David Small World Through Aug. 16. See this exhibition in the Carpenter Hall Lobby showcasing 70 original works by award-winning children’s book illustrator and author, David Small. Organized and toured by the National Center for Children’s Illustrated Literature in Abilene.

His droll wit shines through his art and writing in books like George Washington’s Cows and Fenwick’s Suit. In 2001, he received the Caldecott Medal for So You Want to Be President? written by Judith St. George. Many of his books have been created in partnership with his wife Sarah Stewart, a native of Texas. Gallery Hours: Monday-Friday, 9 am to 5 pm Thursday evenings, 5 pm to 8 pm Saturday, 10 am to 5 pm Sunday, 1 pm to 5 pm Irving Arts Center, 3333 N. MacArthur Blvd., Irving, 972-252-2787 irvingartscenter.org

school during the academic year. The lunch menu will feature both hot and cold meals, and will include one meat, two vegetables/fruit, bread and milk. Children age 18 and younger are eligible to participate in the free summer lunch program regardless of income. See link for a list of recreation centers to find the location nearest you. All Irving Recreation Centers, Irving, www. ci.irving.tx.us/Parks-and-Recreation/parks-and-recreation-aquatics-pages/Recreation%20List.asp

Phantom-Presented by Mainstage Irving/Las Colinas Runs through Aug. 9. Arthur Kopit and Maury Yeston take the familiar story of Phantom of the Opera to new heights with glorious music. MainStage Irving Las Colinas presents this sweeping tale of music, mystery, betrayal, love and salvation that begins with a disfigured boy raised in the catacombs of the Paris Opera House. Discover what truly lies behind the mask of the tormented Phantom. Performance Schedule | July 25-Aug. 9 Thurs., Fri., & Sat. at 8 pm; Sun. at 2:30 pm, Dupree Theater, Tickets run $19-$24. Irving Arts Center, 3333 N. MacArthur Blvd., Irving, 972-252-2787 www. irvingartscenter.org

August Dollar Days at the Dallas Arboretum Irving Summer Snack Program The Irving Public Libraries are participating in the Irving ISD Food and Nutrition Services Summer Meal program. Weekdays from June 9 to August 8, any child 18 years and younger is entitled to a free, healthy snack at any of the four library branches. Central Irving Library: 2 pm East Branch Library: 1 pm M/W; 10 am Tuesday; 3 pm Thursday Valley Ranch Library: 2:30 pm West Irving Library: 1:30pm. All Irving Public Libraries, Irving, 972-721-2606

Through Aug. 31. Get discounted general admission to the arboretum during the entire month. As always, members receive free general admission and parking year-round. This is a great opportunity for new arboretum visitors to bring the kids out to experience the eight-acre Children’s Adventure Garden .Guests can also enjoy $1 hotdogs, small drinks, smoothies and sno cones. Dallas Arboretum, 8525 Garland Road, Dallas, 214-515-6615 www.dallasarboretum.org

Hot Lunch Program for Seniors Free, Healthy Meals Available for Kids at Irving Recreation Centers From June 9 through Aug. 15, youth - age18 and younger - can get a free lunch Monday through Friday at any Irving recreation center. Irving’s Parks and Recreation Department is offering its summer lunch program for the third consecutive year. The program results from a partnership among the City of Irving, Irving Independent School District (ISD), Texas Department of Agriculture and U.S. Department of Agriculture. Lunch preparation and delivery will be administered by Irving ISD. The healthy meals will complement the city’s summer camp activities at city recreation centers. Lunches will be similar to those served at

Heritage Senior Center offers a hot lunch program.

Lunch is served Monday through Friday at 11:30 am for senior citizens in the community. At no time will membership to HSC or membership fees be required to participate in the congregate meal program, only a completed client intake form must be on file for a patron to be eligible for this meal program. Eligible persons may contribute a dollar donation or more, it is voluntary. Ineligible participants (under 60) will pay the full price of the meal, $6.75. The lunch program is sponsored by the City of Irving, Dallas Area Agency on Aging and the Texas Department of Aging and Disability Services. Heritage Senior Center, 200 S. Jefferson Street, Irving, 972-721-2496

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Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey presents Built to Amaze 10:30am & 7:30pm. See more than 110 of the world’s best performers representing 17 countries along with 95 exotic and domestic animals. The show features a cowboy ringmaster, basketball with the legendary King Charles Troupe from New York City and, new to Ringling Bros., the Tower Tumblers, a troupe of competitive aerial athletes from the Ukraine. Get $10 tickets on opening night only. Arrive an hour early for the All-Access Preshow to learn juggling and balancing skills from the circus clowns. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, 800745-3000 www.ticketmaster.com

La Cage Aux Folles 8pm. From Jerry Herman, the creator of Mame and Hello Dolly!, comes the story of two families: nightclub owner, Georges, and his partner and star performer, Albin, and the ultra-conservative parents of their son’s fiancée. With glorious nightclub chorines as background, the love story of Jean-Michel and Anne plays out on the glamorous French Riviera. How the families reconcile their very different lifestyles for the love of their children is the stuff of musical comedy legend. The original 1983 Broadway production received nine nominations for Tony Awards and won six, including Best Musical, Best Score and Best Book. There have been multiple revivals and tours of this endearing show with its beautiful score, including rousing songs like “I Am What I Am” and “The Best of Times”. Moviegoers may remember a 1996 non-musical comedy version of the show titled The Birdcage, directed by Mike Nichols and starring Robin Williams and Nathan Lane. Greater Lewis Community Theatre, 160 W. Main Street, Lewisville, Texas, 972.221.SHOW (7469) www.glct.org

Theatre Coppell Presents: Annie 8pm. Join the famous red-head as she and her buddies sing Hard Knock Life, NYC, Never Fully Dressed Without a Smile and Little Girls. And of course, the musical would never be complete without Annie’s promise that the sun will come out Tomorrow. GROUP RATE AVAILABLE: $12 for 10 or more tickets. Please note their ticket policy does not permit children under 6 years of age. Theatre Coppell, 157 S. Moore Rd., Coppell, 972-745-7719 www.theatrecoppell.com

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the know it all sat 2 Gustafer Yellowgold 11am. Part concert, part animated movie and 100 percent fun, The New York Times describes Gustafer Yellowgold as, “Dr. Seuss meets Yellow Submarine!” The brain child of singer/songwriter/illustrator Morgan Taylor, Gustafer Yellowgold is a creature who hails from the sun. During the concert, the story of Gustafer and his friends comes to life on a giant screen while Morgan and his band play lush harmonies and sing-along-worthy tunes. This concert is perfect family fun. Irving Arts Center, 3333 N. MacArthur Blvd., Irving, (972) 252-2787 www.irvingartscenter.org

Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey presents Built to Amaze 11:30am, 3:30 & 7:30pm. See more than 110 of the world’s best performers representing 17 countries along with 95 exotic and domestic animals. The show features a cowboy ringmaster, basketball with the legendary King Charles Troupe from New York City and, new to Ringling Bros., the Tower Tumblers, a troupe of competitive aerial athletes from the Ukraine. Get $10 tickets on opening night only. Arrive an hour early for the All-Access Preshow to learn juggling and balancing skills from the circus clowns. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, 800-745-3000 www.ticketmaster.com

Just Between Friends Consignments-Primetime Pre Sale Anyone is welcome to shop the Primetime Presale between 5:30 p.m. & 8:00 p.m.

Admission is $10 per person. Shop early at the nation’s leading children’s and maternity consignment sales event. Grapevine Convention Center, 1209 S Main St, Grapevine, Texas, 817-705-4744 www.jbfsale.com

Theatre Coppell Presents: Annie 2:30 & 8pm. Join the famous red-head as she and her buddies sing Hard Knock Life, NYC, Never Fully Dressed Without a Smile and Little Girls. And of course, the musical would never be complete without Annie’s promise that the sun will come out Tomorrow. GROUP RATE AVAILABLE: $12 for 10 or more tickets. Please note their ticket policy does not permit children under 6 years of age. Theatre Coppell, 157 S. Moore Rd., Coppell, 972-745-7719 www.theatrecoppell.com

La Cage Aux Folles 8pm. From Jerry Herman, the creator of Mame and Hello Dolly!, comes the story of two families: nightclub owner, Georges, and his partner and star performer, Albin, and the ultra-conservative parents of their son’s fiancée. With glorious nightclub chorines as background, the love story of Jean-Michel and Anne plays out on the glamorous French Riviera. How the families reconcile their very different lifestyles for the love of their children is the stuff of musical comedy legend. The original 1983 Broadway production received nine nominations for Tony Awards and won six, including Best Musical, Best Score and Best Book. There have been multiple revivals and tours of this endearing show with its beautiful score, including rousing songs like “I Am What I Am” and “The Best of Times”. Moviegoers may remember a 1996 non-musical comedy version of the show titled The Birdcage, directed by Mike Nichols and starring Robin Williams and Nathan Lane. Greater Lewis Community Theatre, 160 W. Main Street, Lewisville, Texas, 972.221.SHOW (7469) www.glct.org

sun 3 Heritage House Tour Features Antique Wedding Gowns In a bedroom called “The Bride’s Room, ” many wedding gowns spanning several decades, are displayed in the Irving Heritage House. The Heritage House will be open Sunday, August 3, from 3–5pm. Docent led tours begin at 3pm and 4pm.Admission is free. Group tours may also be scheduled on alternate days. The Heritage House is a Recorded Texas Historical Landmark. On display is the 1903 wedding gown, coat and slippers worn by Mrs. J.O. (Agnes Sueppel) Schulze of Iowa City, Iowa.It was custom designed and made by Marshall Field of Chicago. Given by her daughters to the Irving Heritage Society, the gown was lovingly and painstakingly restored by Amy Senter of Irving. It took her about two years to complete this task, finished in 1997.With wallpaper similar to the original pattern used when the house was built in 1912, this bedroom contains furniture, bed, dresser and washstand originally the property of the Paschal P. Tuckers of Dallas, Mrs. Virginia Schulze’s parents. It is Victorian walnut with burl walnut inlay. The bedspread was crocheted by Mrs. Tucker to fit the bed. Irving Heritage House, 303 S. O’Connor Rd., Irving, 972-252-3838 www. irvingheritage.com

Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey presents Built to Amaze 10:30am, 2:30 & 6:30pm. See more than 110 of the world’s best performers representing 17 countries along with 95 exotic and domestic animals. The show features a cowboy ringmaster, basketball with the legendary King Charles Troupe from New York City and, new to Ringling Bros., the Tower Tumblers, a troupe of competitive

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the know it all aerial athletes from the Ukraine. Get $10 tickets on opening night only. Arrive an hour early for the All-Access Preshow to learn juggling and balancing skills from the circus clowns. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, 800-745-3000 www.ticketmaster.com

Just Between Friends Consignment Sales Event 12-7pm. Open to the Public. $3 Admission today. Grapevine Convention Center, 1209 S Main St, Grapevine, Texas, 817-705-4744 www.jbfsale.com

Theatre Coppell Presents: Annie 2:30pm. Join the famous red-head as she and her buddies sing Hard Knock Life, NYC, Never Fully Dressed Without a Smile and Little Girls. And of course, the musical would never be complete without Annie’s promise that the sun will come out Tomorrow. GROUP RATE AVAILABLE: $12 for 10 or more tickets. Please note their ticket policy does not permit children under 6 years of age. Theatre Coppell, 157 S. Moore Rd., Coppell, 972-745-7719 www.theatrecoppell.com

La Cage Aux Folles 3pm. From Jerry Herman, the creator of Mame and Hello Dolly!, comes the story of two families: nightclub owner, Georges, and his partner and star performer, Albin, and the ultra-conservative parents of their son’s fiancée. With glorious nightclub chorines as background, the love story of Jean-Michel and Anne plays out on the glamorous French Riviera. How the families reconcile their very different lifestyles for the love of their children is the stuff of musical comedy legend. The original 1983 Broadway production received nine nominations for Tony Awards and won six, including Best Musical, Best Score and Best Book. There have been multiple revivals and tours of this endearing show with its beautiful score, including rousing songs like “I Am What I Am” and “The Best of Times”. Moviegoers may remember a 1996 non-musical comedy version of the show titled The Birdcage, directed by Mike Nichols and starring Robin Williams and Nathan Lane. Greater Lewis Community Theatre, 160 W. Main Street, Lewisville, Texas, 972.221.SHOW (7469) www.glct.org

mon 4 32nd Annual Ms. Mature Irving Pageant Seeking Contestants Heritage Senior Center is seeking contestants for its 32nd Annual Ms. Mature Irving Pageant. This is a pageant for women aged 60 years and older. The pageant will be held Friday October 3rd at the Irving Arts Center. Our theme is “Phenomenal Woman”, so it’s guaranteed to be special! We are in need of energetic, adventurous and outgoing women to participate in this gala event. Applications and information are available in the Heritage Senior Center office, please see Pageant Director Pat Davenport for details. Rehearsals start on July 14th and go every Monday until the show. For more information contact the Pageant Director Pat Davenport at 972 7217313. Heritage Senior Center, 200 S. Jefferson Street, Irving

7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens 1:30-2:15pm, through Aug. 25. Your habits make you or break you! Highly effective people form habits that help them become more successful in life, in their relationships and in achieving their personal and professional goals. If you are interested in learning how to form those habits and get great results for yourself, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens program will get you on the path to do just that. Based on Stephen Covey’s best-seller, “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People,” Nancy Bartlett will teach teens how to apply these habits in their own life. This 8 week program is free, but registration is required. For ages 12-15 years old. To register or for more information, call the library West Irving Library, 4444 W. Rochelle, Irving, 972-721-2691

Studio Movie Grill Children’s Summer Series See a different family-friendly movie each week of the summer for just $2 per ticket.

Movies start at 11am. Check the website for a location close to you! August 4–8: Puss in Boots. Movie Studio Movie Grill, All D/FW Locations, www.studiomoviegrill.com

Dallas Mavericks Hoop Camp Boys and girls ages 8-18 of all skill levels learn the game from the best camp coaching staff in Texas. Professional coaches are handpicked for their basketball knowledge and ability to work well with kids. Combining excellent coaching and a proven program focused on each camper, Dallas Mavericks Hoop Camp delivers valuable lessons and plenty of fun! Find more details and register online! Hoop Camp runs Monday – Friday. 9am-4pm Cost: $240. Aug. 4-8, University of Texas at Dallas.

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Just Between Friends Consignment Sales Event 10am-6pm. Half-Price Sale. Open to the Public. Grapevine Convention Center, 1209 S Main St, Grapevine, Texas, 817-705-4744 www.jbfsale.com

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the know it all Your Community Story Times Central Branch

Valley Ranch Branch

801 W. Irving Blvd, 972-721-2606 Mon - Preschool Story Time 7:30pm, ages 3-6. Tue - Preschool Story Time 10:30am, ages 3-6; Family Story Time 7pm. Wed - Toddler Story Time 10:30am, 18 mos - 2yrs. Thur - Bilingual Story Time 7:30pm

401 Cimarron Trail, 972-721-4669 Mon - Mother Goose Story Time 10:30am, ages 4mo-18mo, registration required. Tue - Family Story Time 7pm, all ages, registration requited Wed - Family Story Time 10:30am, all ages, registration required

East Branch 440 S. Nursery Rd, 972-721-3722 Tue - Bilingual Story Time 11am, all ages

West Irving Branch 4444 W. Rochelle Rd, 972-721-2691 Wed - Mother Goose Story Time 10:30am, ages 6mos-18mos. Thur - Family Story Time 7pm, all ages. Fri - Family Story Time 11am, all ages

All Storytimes are FREE. Listed are the regularly scheduled storytimes. Call to confirm as schedules are subject to change.

tue 5 Leadership Communication 4-5pm. Open to students in grades 4-8. Presented as a youth-centered version of the renowned Toastmaster’s Program, this course is an opportunity to sharpen public speaking skills. Space is limited and registration is recommended by calling 972-721-4669. Valley Ranch Library, 401 Cimarron Trail, Irving

Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey presents Built to Amaze 7:30pm. See more than 110 of the world’s best performers representing 17 countries along with 95 exotic and domestic animals. The show features a cowboy ringmaster, basketball with the legendary King Charles Troupe from New York City and, new to Ringling Bros., the Tower Tumblers, a troupe of competitive aerial athletes from the Ukraine. Get $10 tickets on opening night only. Arrive an hour early for the All-Access Preshow to learn juggling and balancing skills from the circus clowns. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, 800-745-3000 www.ticketmaster.com

wed 6 Sharing the Journey: Coping with Grief Heritage Senior Center will host a six week grief support group for family and friends who have lost a loved one. The group will meet on Wednesdays from 10 to 11:30 am from July 9th to August 13th. This six week group, called “Sharing the Journey: Coping with Grief” will be led by Sue Rafferty of the Visiting Nurse Association Hospice. For more information or to register, call Sue Rafferty, Hospice Bereavement Coordinator, at 214 689-2922. Heritage Senior Center, 200 S. Jefferson St., Irving, 214-689-2922

The Phantom of the Opera

Through Aug. 24. Watch Andrew Lloyd Webber’s musical The Phantom of the Opera, now on tour across North America. This Phantom features a new scenic design by Paul Brown, Tony Award-winning original costume design by Maria Björnson, lighting design by Tony Award-winner Paule Constable, new choreography by Scottambler, and a new staging by director Laurence Connor. This new production is suggested for audiences aged 6 and older. The show runs 2 hours and 45 minutes (including a 20-minute intermission), and includes gun shots and pyrotechnics.

Parents are encouraged to consider these factors when making their decisions about attending the performance. Multiple dates/show times, check website for details and to purchase tickets. Winspear Opera House, 2403 Flora Street, Dallas, 214-880-0202 www.attpac.org/phantom

Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey presents Built to Amaze 7:30pm. See more than 110 of the world’s best performers representing 17 countries along with 95 exotic and domestic animals. The show features a cowboy ringmaster, basketball with the legendary King Charles Troupe from New York City and, new to Ringling Bros., the Tower Tumblers, a troupe of competitive aerial athletes from the Ukraine. Get $10 tickets on opening night only. Arrive an hour early for the All-Access Preshow to learn juggling and balancing skills from the circus clowns. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, 800-745-3000 www.ticketmaster.com

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the know it all thu 7 Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey presents Built to Amaze 7:30pm. See more than 110 of the world’s best performers representing 17 countries along with 95 exotic and domestic animals. The show features a cowboy ringmaster, basketball with the legendary King Charles Troupe from New York City and, new to Ringling Bros., the Tower Tumblers, a troupe of competitive aerial athletes from the Ukraine. Get $10 tickets on opening night only. Arrive an hour early for the All-Access Preshow to learn juggling and balancing skills from the circus clowns. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, 800-745-3000 www.ticketmaster.com

The Lab at the Perot Museum 7pm. Unwind and rewind scientific concepts through unique interactions with scientists, researchers, artists, and performers on first Thursdays. Try out the latest new technology gizmos, participate in a fun social experiment, discover groundbreaking research, experience dynamic performances, or even make your own creation. All you need to get in on the fun is the cost of general admission, so purchase your tickets online early. Your exhibit hall ticket on the date(s) of The Lab will give you FREE access to this program. The Perot Museum will stay open from 10am-9pm first Thursdays. Come early and stay late! Perot Museum of Nature and Science, 2201 N. Field St., Dallas, 214.428-5555 www.perotmuseum.org

fri 8 Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey presents Built to Amaze 7:30pm. See more than 110 of the world’s best performers representing 17 countries along with 95 exotic and domestic animals. The show features a cowboy ringmaster, basketball with the legendary King Charles Troupe from New York City and, new to Ringling Bros., the Tower Tumblers, a troupe of competitive aerial athletes from the Ukraine. Get $10 tickets on opening night only. Arrive an hour early for the All-Access Preshow to learn juggling and balancing skills from the circus clowns. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, 800-745-3000 www.ticketmaster.com

sat 9 Irving Chautauqua Performance Series 2pm. The Irving Chautauqua series offers free, monthly performances on the second Saturday of each month in the Central Library’s Auditorium. Call (972) 721-2606 for more information. Central Library, 801 W. Irving Blvd, Irving

Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey presents Built to Amaze 11am, 3:30 & 7:30pm. See more than 110 of the world’s best performers representing 17 countries along with 95 exotic and domestic animals. The show features a cowboy ringmaster, basketball with the legendary King Charles Troupe from New York City and, new to Ringling Bros., the Tower Tumblers, a troupe of competitive aerial athletes from the Ukraine. Get $10 tickets on opening night only. Arrive an hour early for the All-Access Preshow to learn juggling and balancing skills from the circus clowns. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, 800-745-3000 www. ticketmaster.com

Runway Revue 12-6pm. Always the destination for premier shopping in Dallas, Galleria Dallas is THE source of fall fashion trends for 2014 with Runway Revue at Galleria Dallas on August 9, hosted in conjunction with the state’s Sales Tax Holiday, August 8-10, 2014. A full day of high-energy runway shows highlighting the top trends for fall, the free event gives everyone in the family the inside track on what to wear and how to wear it for back-to-school and the fall season. Hosted by Galleria Dallas Fashion Stylist Holly Quartaro, Runway Revue showcases fall fashions from many of the center’s more than 200 retailers like H&M, Apricot Lane, Belk, BCBGeneration, and Macy’s. Galleria Dallas packs the day with three professionally produced runway shows highlighting seasonal looks for the whole family. Shows begin at noon, 2 p.m. and 4 p.m. The day closes with the high-energy Toni & Guy Hairdressing Academy 21st Annual Student Show at 6 p.m., which promises an avant-garde look at both style and beauty.

Coupled with Texas Tax-Free Holiday, the weekend makes a perfect opportunity for back-to-school and fall shopping. “Runway Revue is an exciting way to experience fall trends from tween to trend-setter,” notes Angie Freed, Galleria Dallas General Manager. “Perfectly timed for back-to-school, this event provides everyone with a preview of the season’s must-have looks. And as always, Galleria Dallas is excited to welcome residents as well as visitors for such a fun and engaging event. ”WHAT: Galleria Runway Revue WHEN August 9, 2014; 12 p.m. – Kids Show 2 p.m. – Trend Show 4 p.m. – Tax-Free Show 6 p.m. – Toni & Guy Hairdressing Academy 21st Annual Student Show Galleria Dallas (Level 1 near Tiffany & Co.), 13350 Dallas Parkway, Dallas, Texas, 972-702-7100 www.galleriadallas.com

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the know it all FC Dallas Soccer 8pm FC Dallas takes on Colorado. Toyota Stadium, 9200 World Cup Way, Frisco, 469-365-0000 www.fcdallas.com

sun 10 Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey presents Built to Amaze 10:30am, 2:30 & 6:30pm. See more than 110 of the world’s best performers representing 17 countries along with 95 exotic and domestic animals. The show features a cowboy ringmaster, basketball with the legendary King Charles Troupe from New York City and, new to Ringling Bros., the Tower Tumblers, a troupe of competitive aerial athletes from the Ukraine. Get $10 tickets on opening night only. Arrive an hour early for the All-Access Preshow to learn juggling and balancing skills from the circus clowns. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, 800-745-3000 www.ticketmaster.com

mon 11 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens 1:30-2:15pm. Your habits make you or break you! Highly effective people form habits that help them become more successful in life, in their relationships and in achieving their personal and professional goals. If you are interested in learning how to form those habits and get great results for yourself, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens program will get you on the path to do just that. Based on Stephen Covey’s best-seller, “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People,” Nancy Bartlett will teach teens how to apply these habits in their own life. This 8 week program is free, but registration is required. For ages 12-15 years old. To register or for more information, call the library West Irving Library, 4444 W. Rochelle, Irving, 972-721-2691

Dallas Mavericks Hoop Camp Boys and girls ages 8-18 of all skill levels learn the game from the best camp coaching staff in Texas. Professional coaches are handpicked for their basketball knowledge and ability to work well with kids. Combining excellent coaching and a proven program focused on each camper, Dallas Mavericks Hoop Camp delivers valuable lessons and plenty of fun! Find more details and register online! Hoop Camp runs Monday – Friday. 9am-4pm Cost: $240. Aug. 11-15, Collin County Community College – Spring Creek Campus. 214-747-MAVS(6287) or hoopcamp@dallasmavs.com www.mavs.com/community/hoop-camp

Studio Movie Grill Children’s Summer Series See a different family-friendly movie each week of the summer for just $2 per ticket.

Movies start at 11am. Check the website for a location close to you! August 11–14: Madagascar 3. Movie Studio Movie Grill, All D/FW Locations, www.studiomoviegrill.com

Texas Rangers Baseball 7:05pm. Rangers take on the Tampa Bay Rays. Globe Life Park, 1000 Ballpark Way, Arlington, www.texas.rangers.mlb.com

tue 12 Leadership Communication 4-5pm. Open to students in grades 4-8. Presented as a youth-centered version of the renowned Toastmaster’s Program, this course is an opportunity to sharpen public speaking skills. Space is limited and registration is recommended by calling 972-721-4669. Valley Ranch Library, 401 Cimarron Trail, Irving

Texas Rangers Baseball 7:05pm. Rangers take on the Tampa Bay Rays. Globe Life Park, 1000 Ballpark Way, Arlington, www.texas.rangers.mlb.com

wed 13 Sharing the Journey: Coping with Grief Heritage Senior Center will host a six week grief support group for family and friends who have lost a loved one. The group will meet on Wednesdays from 10 to 11:30 am from July 9th to August 13th. This six week group, called “Sharing the Journey: Coping with Grief” will be led by Sue Rafferty of the Visiting Nurse Association Hospice. For more information or to register, call Sue Rafferty, Hospice Bereavement Coordinator, at 214 689-2922. Heritage Senior Center, 200 S. Jefferson St., Irving

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the know it all Texas Rangers Baseball 7:05pm. Rangers take on the Tampa Bay Rays. Globe Life Park, 1000 Ballpark Way, Arlington, www.texas.rangers.mlb.com

thu 14 Texas Rangers Baseball 7:05pm. Rangers take on the Tampa Bay Rays. Globe Life Park, 1000 Ballpark Way, Arlington, www.texas.rangers.mlb.com

fri 15 Highland Village Balloon Festival 6pm. The Highland Village Lion’s Club Presents the 27th Annual Highland Village Balloon Festival. This fun-filled weekend begins Friday evening at 6pm and includes a classic car show & various vendors in addition to the events below: Saturday, August 16th, Hot Air 5k & Fun Run. 1K begins at 8 a.m., 5K begins at 8:30 a.m. Registration Fees: 5K (18 & over) • $35; 5K (17 & under) • $25; 1K (18 & over) • $20; 1K (12-17) • $15; 1K (11 & under) • $10. Sunday, August 17th, Weiner Dog Races. Qualifying Races begin at 8 a.m. Winner’s Race immediately following Qualifying Races (estimated 11 a.m.). Registration Fees: Through July 18, 2014 • $25, July 19 – August 5, 2014 • $30, After August 5 (on site only) • $35BandsFriday 5:00 pm • Zac Stokes Band Friday 8:00 pm • Saints & Saviors Saturday 3:00 pm • School of Rock Saturday 5:00 pm • Justin Exit Saturday 8:00 pm • Burning Sky Band Unity Park, 2200 Briarhill Blvd., Highland Village, 972-317-9073 www.lionsballoonfest.com

Late Nights at the Dallas Museum of Art 6pm-12am. Free admission and special activities. Dallas Museum of Art, 1717 N. Harwood, Dallas, www.dallasmuseumofart.org

Texas Rangers Baseball 7:05pm. Rangers take on the Los Angeles Angels. Globe Life Park, 1000 Ballpark Way, Arlington, www.texas.rangers.mlb.com

sat 16 The Race is On! Vacation Bible School at Belt Line Road Church of Christ 8:30am-12pm. Join us as we run for Jesus every day! For ages 2 years to 12th grade.

8:30am-12:30pm. Beltline Road Church of Christ, 1202 N. Beltline Road, Irving, 972790-8606. See ad in this issue.

Texas Rangers Baseball 7:05pm. Rangers take on the Los Angeles Angels. Globe Life Park, 1000 Ballpark Way, Arlington, www.texas.rangers.mlb.com

Big Hoss TV Ultimate Drive-In Movie Night 7:30pm. Pack up your family, the lounge chairs and cooler and enjoy awesome summer movies presented on the world’s largest HD screen in the infield at Texas Motor Speedway presented by 92.1 Hank FM, 95.9 The Ranch, and Red Hot & Blue! August 16th: The Little Rascals. Gates at the South Tunnel will open at 7:30 pm, the movie will start at 8:30 pm. ADMISSION IS ONLY $20 PER CAR! CALL 817-215-8564 FOR MORE INFORMATION. Texas Motor Speedway, 3545 Lone Star Circle, Fort Worth, 817-215-8564 www.texas.speedwaycharities.org/events/

sun 17 Texas Rangers Baseball 2:05pm. Rangers take on the Los Angeles Angels Globe Life Park, 1000 Ballpark Way, Arlington, www.texas.rangers.mlb.com

Celebrate Pets at American Girl 3pm. Eat a meal at the bistro and enjoy activities that celebrate pets, including a color-in bandanna craft that shows off her American Girl pet’s one-of-a-kind style.

Plus, take home a special book and a set of Crayola Fabric Markers. Reservations are required. For girls ages 8 and older. American Girl Boutique and Bistro, 13464 Dallas Parkway, Dallas, 877-247-5223, www.americangirl.com

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mon 18 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens 1:30-2:15pm. Your habits make you or break you! Highly effective people form habits that help them become more successful in life, in their relationships and in achieving their personal and professional goals. If you are interested in learning how to form those habits and get great results for yourself, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens program will get you on the path to do just that. Based on Stephen Covey’s best-seller, “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People,” Nancy Bartlett will teach teens how to apply these habits in their own life. This 8 week program is free, but registration is required. For ages 12-15 years old. To register or for more information, call the library West Irving Library, 4444 W. Rochelle, Irving, 972-721-2691

Studio Movie Grill Children’s Summer Series See a different family-friendly movie each week of the summer for just $2 per ticket. Movies start at 11am. Check the website for a location close to you! August 18–22: Rugrats Movie. Movie Studio Movie Grill, All D/FW Locations, www.studio moviegrill.com

tue 19 Leadership Communication 4-5pm. Open to students in grades 4-8. Presented as a youth-centered version of the renowned Toastmaster’s Program, this course is an opportunity to sharpen public speaking skills. Space is limited and registration is recommended by calling 972-721-4669. Valley Ranch Library, 401 Cimarron Trail, Irving

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thu 21 Neighborhood Memory Café Heritage Senior Center and Avalon Memory Care will host a program for Alzheimer’s and Dementia patients and their families called “Neighborhood Memory Café” on the third Thursday of each month from 2:30 to 3:45 pm This is a time for individuals with memory loss and their caregivers to get together in a safe, supportive, and engaging environment. It’s a place for the group to interact, share concerns and socialize without feeling embarrassed or misunderstood. The July meeting will take place Thursday the 17th. Heritage Senior Center, 200 S. Jefferson Street, Irving, 972-721-2496

fri 22 Social Science 7-11pm. Explore your ego and your alter ego during an evening exploring the science of superheroes, genetics, psyche, and DNA. Participate in a social experiment, learn more about your genes, and dress as your favorite alter ego for a fashion challenge. This adults-only (21 & over) event makes for a perfect date night or fun evening with friends. Discover the Perot Museum after hours, for a unique evening filled with innovative experiments, signature cocktails, dynamic performances, engaging discussions, unique inventions and more. Members $13; Non-Members $18. Perot Museum of Science & Nature, 2201 N. Field Street, Dallas, 214-428-5555 www.perotmuseum.org

Texas Rangers Baseball 7:05pm. Rangers take on the Kansas City Royals. Globe Life Park, 1000 Ballpark Way, Arlington, www.texas.rangers.mlb.com

FC Dallas Soccer 8pm. FC Dallas takes on Real Salt Lake. Toyota Stadium, 9200 World Cup Way, Frisco, 469-365-0000 www.fcdallas.com

sat 23 Texas Rangers Baseball 7:05pm. Rangers take on the Kansas City Royals. Globe Life Park, 1000 Ballpark Way, Arlington, www.texas.rangers.mlb.com

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the know it all Gala of Royal Horses 7:30pm. Watch equestrian master Rene Gasser and professionally trained horses – including Andalusian, Friesian, Lipizzaner and Arabian breeds-and flamenco dancers perform stunning maneuvers in this show celebrating the European tradition of royal horses. American Airlines Center, 2500 Victory Avenue, Dallas, 800-745-3000 www. americanairlinescenter.com

sun 24 Texas Rangers Baseball 2:05pm. Rangers take on the Kansas City Royals Globe Life Park, 1000 Ballpark Way, Arlington, www.texas.rangers.mlb.com

mon 25 Classes Begin at North Lake College Register now at www.northlakecollege.edu. Northlake College, 5001 N. MacArthur Blvd., Irving, 972-273-3000 www.northlakecollege.edu. See ad in this issue.

mon 25 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens 1:30-2:15pm. Your habits make you or break you! Highly effective people form habits that help them become more successful in life, in their relationships and in achieving their personal and professional goals. If you are interested in learning how to form those habits and get great results for yourself, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens program will get you on the path to do just that. Based on Stephen Covey’s best-seller, “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People,” Nancy Bartlett will teach teens how to apply these habits in their own life. This 8 week program is free, but registration is required. For ages 12-15 years old. To register or for more information, call the library West Irving Library, 4444 W. Rochelle, Irving, 972-721-2691

tue 26 Leadership Communication 4-5pm. Open to students in grades 4-8. Presented as a youth-centered version of the renowned Toastmaster’s Program, this course is an opportunity to sharpen public speaking skills. Space is limited and registration is recommended by calling 972-721-4669. Valley Ranch Library, 401 Cimarron Trail, Irving

wed 27 Story Time Under the Stars 10am. Although the city lights can wash out the brilliance of the night sky, children ages 4-6 and their adult companions can experience children’s literature and a brief tutorial on the moon, stars and constellations, all under a shining starry sky in the Perot Museum’s popular Portable Planetarium. Join us on the last Wednesday of the month for Story Time Under the Stars. Each month will feature new stories for your little ones to enjoy. While this program is free with admission, space is limited to 12 children and 12 adults. Reserve your ticket online, in advance. We will happily accommodate walk-ups if space is available. The Portable Planetarium will be set up in a Learning Lab or the Forum near the Moody Family Children’s Museum. Groups meet from 10:00am-10:30am, 11:00am-11:30am, 1:00pm-1:30pm and 2:00pm-2:30pm.

The Perot Museum of Nature and Science , 2201 N. Field St., Dallas, 214.428-5555 www.perotmuseum.org

fri 29 Deadline to Register for Fall i9 Sports Registration includes 7-8 weeks of games & practices, team jersey and end of season trophy or medal. i9 Sports, Irving, 972-514-4263 www.i9sports.com. See ad in this issue.

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the know it all LEGO KidsFest 4-7:30pm. LEGO KidsFest brings all of the creative hands-on, minds-on fun of LEGO building and experiences together in one activity- and entertainment-packed family event for children of all ages and builders of all skills and interests. Dallas Convention Center, 650 S. Griffin St, Dallas, www.legokidsfest.com.

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Dallas DanceFest 8pm. Dance Council of North Texas (DCNT) is excited to announce the companies and artists selected to perform at the inaugural Dallas DanceFest (DDF) which runs August 29-31, 2014. The three-day event promises to deliver excellence, vibrancy, vitality, and diversity in dance. DDF features performances by Dallas luminaries including Texas Ballet Theater, Bruce Wood Dance Project, Dallas Black Dance Theatre in addition to established, emerging, and academic dance companies and artists. Dallas City Performance Hall, 2520 Flora Street, Dallas, 214-2192290 www.dallasdancefest.org

sat 30 LEGO KidsFest Session 1: 9am-1:30pm; Session II: 3-730pm. LEGO KidsFest brings all of the creative hands-on, minds-on fun of LEGO building and experiences together in one activity- and entertainment-packed family event for children of all ages and builders of all skills and interests. (Note: Each session offers the same exhibits and activities). Dallas Convention Center, 650 S. Griffin St, Dallas, www.legokidsfest.com.

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Session 1: 9am-1:30pm; Session II: 3-730pm. LEGO KidsFest brings all of the creative hands-on, minds-on fun of LEGO building and experiences together in one activity- and entertainment-packed family event for children of all ages and builders of all skills and interests. (Note: Each session offers the same exhibits and activities). Dallas Convention Center, 650 S. Griffin St, Dallas, www.legokidsfest.com.

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Potluck Survivor

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’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again…neighborhood potlucks are dangerous.

I was scoping out the food on the potluck table during our annual summer block party in our neighbor’s backyard last weekend when my wife and teenagers walked over to me from the volleyball net. “Hungry, dad?” my son asked. “A little,” I said. “Why?” “Because you’re watching the food like a weirdo or something.”

I blinked. “I’m trying to decode who brought what.” I turned to my wife. “The potato salad over there looks store bought, right?” My daughter raised her eyebrows. “And why are you doing this?” “So I know where the food came from,” I said mater of fact, and then pointed out a plate of brownies to my wife. “Honey, don’t the Miller’s have this plate pattern?”

My daughter cleared her throat and repeated herself.

“Uh, hello, why are you doing this?”

I raised my hands in the air. “Call me cautious, but do we reallllllllllly know where this food came from…I mean, really?

All of this was prepared behind closed doors, right? A lot can happen in a person’s kitchen when no one is looking. We have no idea who might have sneezed into their casserole dish or tested the batter with their fingers. It’s always better to just eat those things that you can trust.”

My son pointed to the macaroni salad. “Can you trust this?”

“Mayonnaise?” I scoffed. “I think not.” “But macaroni salad is good,” he argued.

“Sure,” I said. “And so is sleeping through the night without painful gas pains.”

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My wife rolled her eyes. “We’re going back to the volleyball game. If people ask what you are doing over here, I’m telling them you have heat stroke.”

“Fine,” I said as they walked away. “But, why do people insist on getting together without the health department’s seal of approval? Huh?”” Okay, so maybe I have this thing about what I put in my mouth. Some people might call it a phobia – I prefer to think of it as a plan to keep living.

When we returned home that night, however, I was famished. The only thing I ate at the potluck was an individually wrapped Twinkie and what we brought. As I assembled my dinner in the kitchen, my wife asked the obvious.

“How do you know that our neighbors weren’t thinking the same thing about us, and they were concerned with what we brought?”

I laughed. “We brought a bag of chips and store bought onion dip,” I answered. “And I made sure to have witnesses when I broke the seal.”

My wife got that exasperated look. “It’s a summer picnic, Ken,” she exclaimed. “This is what people do. They go to barbecues and have potlucks. It’s called having fun.”

“Great,” I exclaimed. “But while I am enjoying my day at work tomorrow – pain free – there’s a good chance, ‘Miss I’ll Try Everything at the Potluck,’ that your conversation with friends will involve the words ambrosia, the runs and dropping five pounds.”

My wife felt my forehead. “Maybe you really do have heat stroke, Ken.” Arrive alive – that’s what I always say. SP