Destiny Magazine Special Edition I

DESTINY Special Edition I MOTIVATION

Kaylea Moss Healthy Lifestyle Tips “Kalyea’s Six Pack.”

Attorney Jocelyn Calvin Wright The Love of Family and Law

Pastor Hope Carpenter Birthday Bash www.destinymagazineforwomen.com

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C O N T E N T S

Pastor Hope Carpenter 2013 Birthday Bash | 4

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IN EVERY ISSUE 4 | Community 6 | Health 7 | Motivation 12 | Plus Size Models 17 | Business Directory 18 | Student Writer

8 | Anisha King and Baby Boy Jordyn

FROM THE EDITOR

Motivation Is the KEY!

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or MOST women, motivation is more than just a

word. Of course it has a meaning to inspire or a driving force to move forward. In today’s society a driving force is a necessity with family, community and every day routines. Unless we have an automatic brain device to stay motivated, one must find outlets and avenues that inspire.

There are times in life when the inevitable will occur in everybody’s life. Through situations in which we all must cope with are death, illness, a broken relationship or personal issues.

With those situations some type of therapy has to occur in order to motivate ourselves enough to move forward through the pain.

Motivation is about a positive motion to stimulate, prompt and encourage oneself. This type of motivation comes from within the dept of our souls. Digging deep within ourselves will allow us to see the bigger picture that life has to offer. Hopefully that bigger picture will provoke us to stay motivated for ourselves and the love of our family and friends.

“ Motivation is an incentive to inspire yourself with enthusiasm to succeed in life!”

SPECIAL THANKS TO WORLDWIDE PHOTOGRAPHERS LISTED ON PHOTOS African Student Writer: Zama Peter The Curvy Health Coach: Kalyea Moss Cover Story: Anisha King Wedding Story: Attorney Jocelyn Wright DESTINY MAGAZINE is published online by THE VOE GROUP www.destinymagazineforwomen.com destinymagazine@live.com

Some tips that I have researched and applied to my life in a means to stay Motivated are: 1 Find your passion in life, something that’s makes your heart beat faster and your smile larger and build a solid foundation from that passion 2 Network around Positive Individuals with common goals and build you a circle of positive people 3 Read books that are inspirational towards your growth 4 Make a list of duties and do not try to memorize your daily routines 5 Find time to Connect with friends, relax and rejuvenate your mind, body and soul

Tawana S. Dirton Editor-in-Chief

Community

WOMEN OF HOPE Kyleigh Dirton Chanlin Carpenter

Pastor Hope Carpenter

Tawana Dirton Editor-In-Chief

Pastor Hope Carpenter 2013 Birthday Extravaganza with Family and Friends of RWOC My

daughter and I formed a new family at RWOC’s Beautiful Birthday Extravaganza for Pastor Hope Carpenter. As soon as you walked into the door, absolute love from EVERYBODY that you passed.

Warm hellos, smiles, hugs and blessings were shared through the entire gym. Blessings were coming from Mothers, Daughters, Granddaughters, Sisters, and Aunts.

Hope Carpenter is the first lady of RWOC and the wife of Pastor Ron Carpenter. She celebrated another birthday with friends, family and church members. This type of event is not usually shared with church members in such a large capacity but it shows the love and support that Hope has for her friends. We commend

Hope Carpenter on extending an invitation to bring together a large group of women for a spirit filled night with laughter, fun, dance, food and a delicious straw berry birthday cake.

Her time was spent taking pictures with everybody, dancing with everybody and spreading lots of hugs and blessings. People were lined up to get ALL of the above! If you have not had the opportunity to attend A Hope Carpenter Birthday Bash, you are truly missing out on a fun filled spirited party. To get more information about RWOC Ministry, please visit

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HEALTH

Kalyea Moss a Health Coach from the Institution of Integrative Nutrition is passionate about Educating Women on Holistic Nutrition.

Anyone

has the ability to live beautifully.

When you look in the mirror do you see a confident, determined and courageous woman? You should because everything that you need to live beautifully lies within you. Losing weight and becoming fit are right within your reach. I’m going to share with you My Top 6 weight loss Tips, which I affectionately call “Kalyea’s Six Pack.”

1. Stay Positive. When positive energy flows, you would be surprised how things turn around. Say positive affirmations such as, “I am getting fit every day.”

Avoid negative talk like, “I’m so fat and ugly.” Your words have power. Only affirm the positive!! 2. It has been said, “The company you keep will determine the levels you reach.” Make sure you surround yourself with positive people who will support your efforts. When attempting to lose weight, stay away from negative people and conversation.

3. Stay Active. Physical Activity is important; it

keeps your heart strong, burns fat, and makes you feel great. Start off by walking; there is nothing wrong with taking baby steps. After gaining 60 pounds from my pregnancy and an emergency c –section I was scared to work out. Once I started walking, I wanted to try jogging and before I knew it I loved working out. The benefits were incredible; the weight started to melt off, and I felt energized.

4. Take your time. In order to keep the weight off you must do it slowly. When you lose the weight quickly you’re more likely to gain it back and more.

It may seem like it’s taking forever, but it’s well worth the wait.

5. Eat more veggies. Can you imagine craving kale instead of chocolate? I couldn’t either. Dark leafy greens have been proven effective in Cancer prevention, improved circulation, and a strengthened immune system.

6. Water, Water, Water- I can’t say it enough. Water does wonders in the body. Your body is made up of mostly water and you must keep it hydrated. Water detoxifies the body, transports nutrients and oxygen into cells and helps with metabolism. It doesn’t get any better than that. Ladies water is also great in keeping our skin clear and looking refreshed.

Weight loss is like anything else in life you want.

You must stay focused on your goal and true to yourself. I can’t say there won’t be times when you want to give up and just say forget it.

There will be times when you don’t want to eat a salad and that burger and fries look better. I know because I’ve been there. Ladies it gets better and easier. You have to stick to it and believe me you will be elated that you fought through the hard times. It takes months, sometimes years for us to put on the weight, and it will take time and patience to get it off. Your time is now, Live Beautifully. Contact Kaylea on Facebook @Live Beautifully Health Coaching

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Written By Kalyea Moss

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Model Entrepreneur

Anisha King

Q: Where do you reside and where are you originally from?

A: I reside in Greenville, South Carolina and originally from Silver Spring, MD. Q: What is your occupation, Passion and Purpose in Life?

A: I currently work at a local hospital in the Upstate as a Visitor Service Rep and a student in school for Early Childhood Education, on the Deans List and I hope to one day own a Child Care Center for special needs children. I am passionate about special needs kids because earlier in life I worked with special needs children and always wanted to contribute to the growth of the kids.

Q: Do you have any children and are you in a relationship?

A: I am in a relationship (blushing) and I have a wonderful little boy who is sixteen months and his name is Jordyn.

Q: What are some of your favorite VACATION SPOTS or soon to become!

A: I haven’t really been to many places but I LOVE the city lifestyle and my favorite city is New York. I just recently visited Atlanta and actually had the chance to enjoy the city and accomplished allot while there and I can’t wait to go back.

Q: What Spiritual Beliefs or Other steps do you practice to get motivated every morning?

A: I am a Christian but I don’t practice or worship as often as I should, but I am going to start more because God has truly blessed me in life.

Q: Where and when did you Go to college and what are your future Goals?

A: I am currently in college at Greenville Technical College. My future goals are to complete school and become a wonderful example for my son. My special goal is to open a child care center for disabled children and expand my company Big Girls Rock. My journey to loss weight will also continue. I think overall I am a great example to my son and my community.

Q: What encouraging words would you say to women on following their passion in life and fulfill their purpose?

A: I say GO FOR IT and don’t give up. Unfortunately, people don’t like to see other people succeed.

You must showcase a positive attitude in order to overcome negativity. Get to a level where it doesn’t matter what others think and proceed toward success with or without others support. If you are passionate about something then you will not give up regardless of any obstacles in your path. Always fulfill your passion from inside out.

Q: What do you think about the current economic conditions of the World?

A: It really saddens me with the bad situations that are going on in the world today.

I can only hope and pray it gets better. I rather not speak in details about world political or economical issues because I have supporters from different walks of life and I do not want to stir up controversy among people.

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Q: I love to cook and eat gourmet food! What is "We promote positivity, showcase beauty, and acyour favorite food and type of restaurant? knowledge a species of intelligent, beautiful, and A: I am a cook and I love cooking and trying to dominant plus size women." make foods that aren’t basic. My favorite food is Lasagna and I LOVE seafood especially crabs. I recently dined at Rick Erwin’s downtown Greenville and I think I would have to say that it is my favorite restaurant right now. My favorite type of restaurant would have to be Steakhouses.

Q: Do you have any siblings? Do you have other family members, that you would like to mention, that motivated you on your journey?

A: I have five siblings, three brothers and two sisters.

My Mommy Teresa Thomas is my rock and the most amazing woman in my life. My mother and I have gone through allot but she is always my great support system. I appreciate my mother more then she knows and more then I tell her.

Q: What Charity organization do you contribute to or volunteer for?

A: I am the founder of Big Girls Rock, LLC. The organization is my baby outside of Jordyn (my son). I founded BGR in 2010 and have been working slowly but steadily to make it a success through out the country.

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TODAY

Destiny Magazine Plus Size Model 2013 Grand Winner

Shnai Arias

is a full figured actress, model and Army veteran with military and weapons training. Her experiences include modeling, television and print. Recent projects include two appearances on Kevin Hart's new "Real Husbands of Hollywood". Also appearances in several shows during Fashion week and on reality show" Kiss The Runway" as the only Full figured model.

With Modeling and Acting as her passion, growing up, Shnai was always told that her face would be posted on billboards with celebrity status. Born and raised in Los Angeles, CA allowed her to take advantage of great opportunities to travel.

Her motivation, determination and faith will guide her to superstar status.

1st Runner Up

Lisa Barfield

is a New York City-based fashion, fit, and runway plus model. Native Texan and Magna Cum Laude graduate of Texas A&M University with a master’s degree in Clinical Psychology. A former therapist, and current resident therapist to friends, family and acquaintances.

A Freelance Copy/Technical Writer and Web Content Editor. Lisa Modeling experience includes: Plus Model Magazine, Vogue Italia Online, Good Day NY and Venus Divas Cover Model. Appeared in Full Figured Fashion Week New York runway model for Igigi, Kiyonna, and Jewel Shannon as well as for Divabetics and other charity events. Currently making plans to branch out to other areas of fashion, entertainment, media, hosting and acting. Her ultimate goal is to fulfill entrepreneur ideals within the industry.

Top Winner

Dawn Hall

is a Philadelphia native, who received a Masters degree in Psychology from LaSalle University. She is employed in a field that affords her the opportunity to help others to re-enter society and become productive members of our community. Dawn balances this challenging career with being a wife and also a mother of a precocious four year old.

Dawn pursued modeling as a teen and was often met by size and height requirement barriers.

However, with the movement towards size acceptance and plus size models finding their place in the fashion industry, she is realizing her personal goals and dreams in an industry that she adores.

Dawn has worked with Elite Unlimited, Aiden 7 & Capitol Model Management. She has participated in local fashion shows; promotional modeling projects, and has theatre and media experience. She was cast in a project with MyWardrobeLLC.com, as an avatar model and was featured in The 2010 American Fashion Look Book. She is working as a model with Curvation Nation the Movement and is preparing to grace to runway in Philadelphia Full Figured Fashion Week.

Top Winner

Armekia

currently lives in Dallas Texas as a Plus Size Model and Actress. Modeling has become the heart and soul of her determination to succeed.

With a major passion to be in front of the camera as an actress. Pursuing a Plus Size Modeling career has developed her a thick skin for the Modeling Industry with the daily dealings of people looking down on her and not wanting to give her a chance. She uses that negativity with determination to fulfill her dreams and become the next big thing. One of her goals are to help others follow there passion in the industry.

Top Winner

Nicole Marie,

is a Claims Analyst from Rhode Island, a mother, mentor and an aspiring model. She is new to the modeling industry working in Runway Shows and meeting interesting people. Her runway moves are developing quickly with the help of DESTINY MAGAZINE FOR WOMEN 2011 WINNER Shen Bennett.

Nicole’s goals are to pursue modeling within the Runway and Print division and to finish writing her book. Her daily motivation is to be a blessing to someone else and continue to uplift woman who have suffered the similar issues in life. Nicole’s low selfesteem comes from being overweight and past physical and sexual abuses. She is currently finding positive avenues to build self esteem and help others.

Her plan is to start a Fashion House in 2013 and become a bigger part in the growth of Smart chicks.

Nicole positive encouragement is to teach women not to be afraid, and don’t allow things to become a hindrance to their future.

Winner On The Move

Shironda M. Hayslett is employed as a Contract Negotiator for the U.S. Navy and Coast Guard. She has written and published her first novel and working on the second. Participating in local fashion shows for the past 10-12 years. No professional modeling but would love at some point in life.

Shironda’s goal is to be a well known full figured model and bestselling author. She is a member of the Professional Women of Elegance Social Group as well as American Business Wo m e n o f America.

She believes that her positive mind, body and soul will represent curvy women all over the world in a positive matter. Loving and always respecting herself is a priority in her life.

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Student Guest Writer

THE UNAPOLOGETIC WOMAN By: A Native African Student

Zama Peter WOMAN, I can't help but think of the word Woman and find myself smiling. Years back the reference was never one of my preferred names. I remember when the time came for my menstrual transition of leaving my “girly body” and embracing a more mature me. This was not a time I welcomed in a light-hearted manner.

For me the process seemed unnecessary and I just couldn't make sense of the transition. The fact was that I had to buy sanitary towels, wear bras and behave like a lady. Simply because my body was reaching a stage of adolescence with major hormone changes.

The necessity of this process never made sense to me because I had enjoyed and became very attached to the person I was, what I wore and how I behaved. The idea of having to adapt and embrace unrequested change in nature was not appealing to me.

I still find myself puzzled at the reference “WOMAN”. After years of owning a body which seemingly qualifies me for the term 'WOMAN'. To try and make better sense of this reference “WOMAN”, I researched the history of both South African Women as well as a broad spectrum of World Re-

nowned Women. I came across the likes of Princess Diana, Mother Theresa and Maya Angelou. The light was clearer only when I researched deep into the contributions of these women that the reference “WOMAN” seemed appealing to me.

These women had been responsible for change in so many dynamics. They are symbols and statures of life, ability, success, freedom, strength and courage. All traits that are worth the recognition and credit they have been given.

A question arose in my mind and as I looked deeper into many instances which had given women such as Princess Diana their recognition. I asked myself the question, did these women get their recognition because of achieving something inline with the opinions of everyone.

Or did they rise above the status quo to achieving greatness? Some people believe that high tributes and recognition are unachievable.

As I tried to answer my questions I found myself asking the question, ''What do their achievements, inspirations and motivation mean to me? What type of inspiration are other women obtaining?

Of course I do not bare all the answers to my questions. When referencing these women and apDestiny 18

plauding their ability, a part of me worry about the reaction as opposed to the intent of using these famous women as beacons of hope to encourage and remind WOMEN that we are ABLE. I cannot stress enough how important it is that we make our unique contributions in our respective fields of interest and not limit our endeavors to imitating the achievements of others.

This insight we need to apply in all spheres of our lives from the religious content of being aware for Christians that the bible had for Mary, Ruth and Esther and you were not born to copy Mary, Ruth or Esther. You should by all means refer to some traits of historical women, but also establish your individual purpose.

You are NOW in that position to trust that you are the perfect model.

Look within you and ONLY then will you see how much of a unique history you are called to make. Do not desire anything but to be the Best “YOU” can be. No matter where you are located.

By : Zama Peter of Africa

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Mr. and Mrs. Wright

Assistant District Attorney Jocelyn Calvin Wright talks about the Love of Family and the Love of Law

J

ocelyn is very dedicated to her family and friends. She is originally from Sumter, SC but currently

lives in Durham, NC with her wonderfully funny husband Paul “Ta� Wright and beautifully smart five year old daughter Taya. Mrs. Wright is a graduate from NC Central University School of Law, where she obtained her law degree. She is currently working as Assistant District Attorney for Alamance County, NC.

Jocelyn is a member of the well respected worldwide organization Delta Sigma Theta Sorority Incorporated, in which she is an active member. Her other activities consist of being involved with the NC Black Girls Run Group. Hard work and determination has always been a way of life for Jocelyn. As a very young girl, she knew that her goal in life was to pursue the Law. Her inspiration and support came from her beautiful mother, Meochia Ford and her late grandmother, Viola Calvin. The two women together had a strong guidance that motivated Jocelyn throughout her journey.

She is the eldest of three children and has always strived to be a great role model for her younger brothers.

Jocelyn encourages women to never let anyone’s negative comments become your reality. “Always keep the power to control your own destiny and put God first and everything else will fall into place with hard work, dedication, and perseverance.”

Mrs. Wright has claimed as her favorite vacation spots to be Myrtle Beach, Orlando, Florida and Dominican Republic. With her favorite type of foods being Italian and Asian cuisine.

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