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St. Johns Magazine is an upbeat magazine focused on the good things in life, and one of them is living is St. Johns Florida!

Our main purpose is to help connect local communities in northwestern St. Johns, Florida.

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First comes love, then comes ah, yes the wedding.

Ours was an intimate affair on the sand at Boynton Beach Florida. There was a sunset, lots tears (mine) and laughter (Darren’s) and blessings. The shocking thing was that we planned Photo by Graham Martin it during the 3-week window we had in the states before reAncient City Photography turning to South Korea to teach English. We were engaged for about a year and finally just decided to make it happen. My only two regrets were that because it was such short notice, many friends I love could not make it, and we did not have a professional photographer so there are very few good pictures. Ironically, we will celebrate seventeen years together on January 27th!

Did you know that most people become engaged at Christmastime?

That is why the bridal planning season is in full swing by January. In today’s world, a three-week planning period just would not cut it. There are so many choices and making the day perfectly reflect your style and personality takes much forethought. This month we give you The Bride Guide – we hope it helps our newly engaged brides, their fiancés, and their families plan it just the way they want it with a little help from the local businesses featured in our magazine this month.

I also wanted to wish everyone a Happy New Year 20-14! My personal resolution is to take care of myself better by exercising more, eating right and going to the doctor for a physical. This is my year to appreciate my health.

What is your resolution for 20-14?

THANK YOU TO OUR CONTRIBUTORS: Darren Rosenbaum, Co-Editor Erica Bean Dr. Faull Dr. Veling Nicholas Brockwell Gary McKinley Michele Bombard Greg Sessions Lynn Covington Ryan Westover Dan Harris - Photography Kiara J Carmichael - Photography St. Johns Magazine 904-687-8538 debbie@stjohnsmag.com

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22 Mistakes Brides Make

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26 Audiology Corner

16 BRIDE GUIDE

28 A Message from the Vet

18 Making the Most of the Bridal Show

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Planning for the Future TOGETHER

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As you begin your new life together it is easy to

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that go into your wedding. So what do you do? You hire a

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will is important but can often lead to confusion, tension

to start thinking about your new life together. What are

and extra expenses. There is much more that goes into

your plans? Buy a home? Children? How many children?

deciding if a trust is right for you. To make the planning

College? Oh and don’t forget retiring together. It is never

process easier it is a good idea to work with your Certified

too early to begin a planning process to ease the tension

Estate Planner. No matter what your financial position,

most couples feel about discussing finances. As you plan

you do have an estate, and now you have created the most

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Just for Babies @ Bartram Trail Just for Babies Just for Babies: Tuesdays @ 11:05am Just for Babies meets every Tuesday through April.

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Children’s Movie Matinee Wednesday, January 8 @ 3pm It’s an early release day, so grab your friends and join us for a movie. Please contact us at 827-6960 to find out what we’re showing this week on our big screen. Snacks are provided; bring your own drinks.

Chess Club for Grades 5-12 Teen chess club Wednesday, January 8 @ 4:30pm Check or Checkmate? Do you play chess or are you interested in learning? Wonder what the terms pins, ranks, and skittles mean? If you’re in 5th through 12th grades, and would like to be part of a chess club, we have the right one for you.

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“Just for Babies” 1st and 3rd Tuesdays of January at 10:15 am All babies birth – 15 months and their caregivers are invited for this lapsit program especially designed for one-on-one interaction between caregiver and baby with Ms. Anne! Families with a baby and older children are encouraged to attend our Family Storytime programs.

Teen Volunteer Orientation Teen orientation Thursday, January 9 @ 6pm Teens, the library is a great place to get your volunteer hours. Orientation is mandatory and counts as your first service hour. Class size is limited; please call 827-6960 for registration information. about the Friends and what it is they do.

Family Storytime Every Tuesday in January at 11:00 am Families with young children are invited to come out to enjoy songs, dancing, stories, nursery rhymes, and more with Ms. Anne! Although these programs are aimed at ages 16 months – 5 years, all children (including babies) and their families are very welcome at Family Storytime!

Family Bingo for Books Bingo Saturday, January 18 @ 2pm Looking for fun for the whole family? Come in and play Bingo for Books from 2pm to 3pm today. Everyone is guaranteed to go home with at least one free book. Books are generously donated by the Friends of the Bartram Trail Branch Library.

After-School Crafts with Teens Wednesday, January 8 from 4:00 – 5:00 pm Children in Kindergarten – 5th grades ONLY and their caregivers are invited for a special monthly crafting event with the teens of Nease High School’s Arts in Motion Club in the PGA Tour Media Room! Please Note: All children under the age of 10 must be accompanied by an adult for the duration of the program.

Teen Anime Club Teen anime Tuesday, January 21 @ 6pm Teens, grades 6 -12, are you looking for something different to do tonight? We’re showing a popular anime movie on our big screen. Refreshments will be provided.

Kids (Grades K-5) LEGO Club Kids LEGO Club Wednesday, January 22 @ 3pm Come into the library to play with our LEGO bricks and pieces. We supply the LEGO bricks and fun - all you need to bring is your imagination. There is no registration or fee for this program.

Teen Gaming Night Wednesday, January 8 from 5:00 – 7:00 pm Held the 2nd Wednesday instead of the 1st due to the New Year’s Holiday! Teens 13 - 18 ONLY are invited to have fun with your friends at the library and play “E” and “T”-rated games on our PlayStation 3 (with the new Move), Nintendo WiiU, and X-Box 360 (with the new Kinect) set up on three TVs for simultaneous playing! Snacks will be served Call the Library at 827-6950 for more details!

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Nemours BrightStart Screenings for Ages 3 – 5 Tuesday, January 21 from 10:00 am – 12:30 pm Children ages 3 - 5 are invited to receive a 10-minute FREE Early Literacy Screening at the Library courtesy of Nemours BrightStart! Registration will be taken on a first-come, first serve basis on this day by a representative of Nemours. Nemours BrightStart will be returning monthly in 2014 to conduct more screenings at the Library for those not able to take advantage of the opportunity on this date. Utilize this free screening to find out where your child’s literacy strengths lay and what you can do to help them improve before they start school!

Family Game Time Wednesday, January 22 from 3:00 – 6:00 pm The whole family is invited to the library to play board games! Simply use your library card or driver’s license to check out a board game or two and play anywhere in the library.

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BRIDE Guide

Depending on how you approach it, planning a wedding can be an overwhelming experience, or you could have a laid back, St. Johns-style attitude and have a lot of fun!

Experienced Wedding Planner, Pauala Navaro of A Vision Events, says you need the right componenents to come together for the big day to be a stress-free. One of these is finding the right planner who not only understands your vision but has the ability to pull it out of your imagination and make it real. Navaro also says that the key to choosing a planner is chemistry.

For stress that inevitably comes as the big day gets closer, local Wedding Planner Lynn Covington of Unique Signature Events, shares some pointers that will help you remain calm and carry on with ease: Step 1: Make a list of all your vendors. This will make sure that you have a vendor for each category and you have not missed one.

Step 2: Call to confirm them. DO NOT EMAIL, emails sometimes get over looked lost or do not make it to the vendor at all.

When confirming you should make sure they have the date correct and confirm the time they will be there.

Step 3: Pick a day of Coordinator, although hiring one is best because the professional knows how to fix things when they go wrong. If that is not in the budget your coordinator should be someone who is NOT in the Bridal party. The coordinator will be responsible for checking vendors in, making sure the set up is going ok. They cannot do this if they are supposed to be getting ready with you.

Step 4: Get a lot of rest the night before, plan to arrive early on that day, do all of your appointments in one place so that you can eliminate getting stuck in traffic or getting into an accident because you are rushing.

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Best Bridal Show & Make the Most of It!

Getting married? Your local bridal shows can help in many different ways. Bridal shows allow you to meet and ask questions from a variety of wedding professionals all under one roof. These events allow you to gather information, compare prices and services, register for prizes, see the latest fashion, sample culinary delicacies, and have a lot of fun with family and friends.

Here are some suggestions that will help you get the most from your local bridal show experience:

Buy Your Tickets In Advance

Many shows will offer discounts with online ticket purchases. By purchasing tickets in advance will provide a greater convenience and value for you and your attending guests.

Do Your Homework

Planning a wedding does not happen by itself. You should brainstorm with others prior to the bridal show and bring with you questions to ask the vendors. Check the bridal show’s website for a list of participating businesses and target those you are most interested in seeing. Calling and introducing yourself in advance of the show is perfect and a great ice-breaker. If you are visiting the show to look for ideas come with some sense of what you’d like. The general idea is to gather information at the event and then ask the vendors you like best for an appointment at their place where they can go over the finer details.

Be Sociable and Engaging

ing these shows is to see which vendors match your personality the best.

Not all vendors are the same. Don’t necessarily go for the louder and more boisterous persona. There are some very talented wedding professionals who possess a quiet demeanor. A shy florist might easily provide services as impressive as those of an outgoing coordinator. Listen to the vendors.

If their product or service is one you need and they are busy talking with someone else, stand close and feel free to wait until they are available.

Take Advantage Of Everything

Show promoters will often provide honeymoon vacations as well as other services they have solicited from the vendors and use them as grand-prize giveaways, runner-up prizes, and door prizes. However, some vendors will offer drawings for prizes at their individual booths too. Take advantage of them all! Bring address labels with your printed name, address, phone number, email, and wedding date to use with these registrations. This will provide convenience, save you lots of time, and possibly prevent you from getting writers cramp. IMPORTANT: You may wish to set up a separate email account and use this for your wedding planning and when visiting bridal shows. After such an event vendors will want to contact you and it would be more convenient to have a separate account to use and review at your leisure instead of your personal email blowing up with messages after each event.

Make A Day Of It

Try and visit every booth. You may have your preferred vendors and targeted list but these shows are full of a variety of professionals; some spending a thousand dollars or more to be there. Chances are you’ll find something you like or something you’ll decide later to use in your wedding and by visiting all the booths you’ll then have the information in hand and ahead of time.

Plan a “recess” about every hour or so. Go play the casino tables, sample more of the food, get a drink, or schedule a bathroom break. Take your time. They’ll be plenty of opportunity to visit all the vendors.

Make an effort to be friendly and initiate the conversation. Part of visit-

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Jacksonville wedding expos and bridal shows are great for planning quickly and they can also be lots of fun while you do it.

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Venues: The Road Less Traveled From Breathtaking Beaches to First City History, Art & Architecture,

Downtown St. Augustine is an Unforgettable Location for a Wedding Photograph Courtesy of FLagler College

Whether your nuptials are intimate or a grand affair choosing a venue is one of the most important decisions you will make. If you want to forget convention and wander off the beaten path, look no further than downtown St. Augustine.

Our little city receives many accolades in the national press for its unique combination of history meets beachy art scene, so it is no surprise brides searching for that one-of-a-kind venue will find it here. With some of the most unusual architecture (courtesy of the Robber Barons & Spanish dignitaries) and places of historical interest as well as just plain interesting attractions, St. Augustine is an amazing location for your wedding.

St. Johns Magazine has put together a list of our Top 6 favorites:

receptions, galas, parties, and dinners.

Highlighting the architectural heritage of the former Hotel Ponce de Leon, the Ponce de Leon Ballroom is considered one of the finest examples of Spanish Renaissance architecture. The ballroom is surrounded by Tiffany stained glass windows, murals

by George W. Maynard and lavishly carved wooden columns. This spectacular room is the largest of the three venues and has a high arching ceiling and hardwood floors. There is a kitchen area with a private entrance for caterers. The 8,990 square-foot facility serves as a cocktail reception area for 400 guests and a dining salon for 300. http://www.flagler.edu/departments/SpecialEvents/

Flagler College & Ponce De Leon Ballroom The glamour of a grand historic ballroom. The charm

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of an elegant Southern estate. The grace of a stately and contemporary art gallery. Flagler College presents three unique, showstopping venues for your unforgettable day. Once an exclusive and opulent playground for the world’s most privileged elite, the grounds of Flagler College today offer one of the most unique, most charming wedding and banquet facilities in the Southeast.

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Historical types may wish to go back in time and hold their wedding ceremony & reception at the Oldest House Museum, a National Historic Landmark situated in downtown. The Garden at the Oldest House Museum is protected from the street by high walls. It is a traditional ornamental garden containing plants grown by the Spanish, British and American colonists and makes an idyllic and historic site for your special day. http://www.staugustinehistoricalsociety.org/oldhouse.html

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The Ripley’s Believe It Or Not! Museum is housed in one of St. Augustine’s most unique buildings, an 1880’s poured concrete castle. Originally built

by Standard Oil partner William G. Warden, it later became a classy hotel when owned by Pulitzer Prize winning author Marjorie Kinnan Rawlings (“The Yearling”) and her hotelier husband Norton Baskin. Last January over 600 couples gathered here to try and set the world record for wedding vows taken! (*It will happen again on Feb 16, 2014 - see calendar ) One couple decided to use the grounds to have a Pirate Wedding (pictured here). http://www.ripleys.com/staugustine/

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Breathtaking architecture, lush tropical gardens and flowing fountains give one the impression of a wedding set in paradise. Whether you are envisioning a grand gala or intimate celebration, Casa Monica offers the romance, luxury, and ambiance that will be sure to sweep you off your feet.

The ultimate setting for magical weddings, Casa Monica features enchanting ballrooms, adorned with gilded mirrors and brass chandeliers, as well as the outdoor Sultan’s Pavilion, offering blue skies and sparkling pool waters in a Moroccan inspired setting. http://www.casamonica.com/weddings/

Lighnter Museum

The Museum offers a variety of options for weddings. The former indoor swimming pool of the Alcazar Hotel can accommodate 200 - 300 guests for your reception. The third floor ballroom is available for an hour prior to your reception, cocktails and passed hors d’oeuvres may be served in this standing only space for 200-300 guests. The magnificent lobby of the Museum is available for wedding ceremonies. The limit is 100 guests. http://www.lightnermuseum.org/events_lightner.html

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Top 10 Mistakes Mistakes Top Brides Make Brides Make LynnCovington Covingtonof of Unique Unique Signature Signature Event bybyLynn Events

10. Shopping by Price only:

Budgets are important and they will allow you to see which vendors you can afford. The saying,” You get what you pay for” holds true. Vendors who hold value in what they offer will cost more than a novice but these vendors are season and will ensure that your wedding is the reality you envisioned.

9. Bringing to many people to vendor meetings: Having too many opinions will make, making a decision harder. When it comes to wedding planning everyone wants to be involved, however, it should be the Bride plus two at the vendor meetings. Keep in mind the Brides’ opinion is the one that matters.

8. Having too many Brides maids: The rule of thumb is one bridesmaid for every 30

people. So if you are planning a wedding for 100 people there should be three (three) Bridesmaids. This helps when you are ordering dresses and having people attending rehearsals. The less people that are in the bridal party the less drama you should have when it comes to the planning of the Bridal shower and bachelorette parties.

7. Not setting a budget: Weddings are emotional and most brides want what they want.

However, the wedding is just one day. Bills still have to be paid after the wedding. The budget allows for you and your fiancé to not go into debt. Set a budget and stick with it.

6. Buying all inclusive packages: One stop shops are convenient. Vendors will begin

to pair services and products that they don’t use all the time into these inclusive packages. Inclusive packages are the bases of each service and if you want to customize as most clients do it will cost you extra to “upgrade”. The best way to avoid the upgrades is to only pay for what you want.

5. Having Family as your vendors: Family is always there to help when needed. Family should enjoy this day with you and not serving your guests.

Professionals have done the research and have the experience to adapt to any sudden changes that might happen that day. Family members are not equipped to do so. Always hire a professional.

4. Not knowing what the average wedding cost: Once engaged most couples begin just planning their wedding they do not know what the average wedding in their city costs. This will be helpful in knowing if you should plan a destination wedding or if the budget will allow for you to have an elegant wedding.

3: Not asking for referrals: Once you have booked a trusted vendor ask them who they trust for your other vendor needs. You will be surprised what each vendor knows about the others in the wedding industry. These referrals are just as good as reviews.

2. Procrastination: The average wedding takes about a year to plan. This sounds like a long time but a year will quickly go by if you do not work on items a little by little. Keeping in mind that some things must be done ahead of time in order for the day to run smoothly.

1. Not Hiring a Planner: The Wedding planner is the bride’s personal assistant! The planner’s job is to make sure the bride and her guests are taken

care of at the wedding. The wedding planner works with the bride to bring her dream wedding to reality. The day of the wedding the planner is the quarterback ensuring that each vendor is in place to make sure the wedding goes off without a hitch. Even if you do not have full service wedding planner a day of coordinator is always needed!!!

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3 Local Couples Tie the Knot in Style

Photos Courtesy of Dan Harris Photoart

The Farhat-Murcias Elizabeth & Hector Ceremony - Basilica of the Immaculate Conception; Reception - Hyatt Regency Jacksonville Riverfront August 17, 2013

The Glass-Groppers Julie & Michael

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A St. Johns Bride Guide would not be complete without a wedding held at a golf venue. Looking out over the course from the Mediterranean revival style clubhouse truly does make one feel they are in the Italy.

Inside, its rich, vaulted wood ceilings, iron chandeliers, terra cotta tile, old world tapestries and stunning grand staircase make this a first class wedding venue.

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How many attended? 150 What made your day unique? Our day was unique because we were combining our two cultures (Middle Eastern and Hispanic) so we had music from both cultures along with unique elements like our entrance to the reception to the Florida State University war chant, the school we met at.

Something you were thrilled about? I was thrilled with everything including being able to spend the day celebrating with family and friends.

We had a great reception room with a beautiful view of the river, the DJ kept everyone dancing and we had a photo booth that was a big hit and lots of fun.

Something you wish you had done differently? I wish I didn’t worry so much about the small details because either way everyone had a great time.

Advice for a new bride? Be organized and don’t worry too much about all the small details.

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How many attended- 150 What made your day unique- I think my wedding cake was the most unique. Every year on my birthday my mom makes me a yellow cake, with chocolate icing and rainbow sprinkles. My dad does not like sprinkles so I always had to leave one piece of the cake plain for him.

I always told him that on my wedding day my cake would be covered in rainbow sprinkles, but I don’t think he ever thought that could really happen. Well it did! My wedding cake was a rainbow sprinkle cake and was the cutest most unique thing in my eyes.

Something you were thrilled aboutI was thrilled about everything! The day was absolutely perfect. I knew everything would turn out exactly how I dreamed and would be beautiful. I did worry a lot about the weather since my wedding was outside in the gardens and luckily it was the most perfect day, I couldn’t of asked for better weather conditions.

Something you wish you had done differently- I wish I would of planned my exit a little better. When I was planning my wedding the exit didnt seem that important to me.

Looking back I wish I would of done something because I dont think I saw anyone as I was finally leaving.

Advice for a new bride- Dont dwell on the small things like linens. To be honest I don’t even remember my linens. Have fun with the wedding planning because soon it’ll all be over, dont let it stress you out. And take in every single moment starting at rehearsal dinner because it flies by! The whole day seems like a complete blur to me, but what I do know is I smiled more that day

than I ever have in my life. I wish I could replay my wedding every weekend. I am sad it is over.

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Planning (Ahead) for the Big Day Rosann W. Faull, Au.D. CCC-A Board Certified Doctor of Audiology Your Community Resource for Better Hearing www.drfaull.com/ 904-262-5550

Happy New Year, 2014!!! In this issue we are celebrating weddings, which is a wonderful time for families and friends to get together. Many of us use weddings as an excuse for family reunions. This often is an excuse to buy a new dress, suit or lose that weight. My sister-in-law Pat lost 30 pounds before her daughter’s wedding just to show her ex-husband how good she ‘still look’s’. Or, finally come in and get help for Grandma’s hearing, Dad’s hearing or your hearing.

Yes, I’ve had those calls: “You have got to help me hear better at my daughter’s wedding, next week”. NEXT WEEK!!! No, No, not next week, the process takes more time than that. So, let’s review the process. Of course there is the hearing evaluation.

Do you know that by FDA (Food and Drug Administration) definition hearing aids are medical devices? And as such both the FDA and Florida Department of Health has minimum requirements for hearing evaluations. A complete hearing evaluation includes testing your ability to detect pure tone and speech, and very importantly is to determine your ability to understand speech. Speech understanding or discrimination testing is done by presenting a researched list of at least 25 words to determine how clearly you recognize words. These words are presented in both quiet at a level that is easily heard and in the presence of background noise.

A diagnostic hearing test determines if surgery or medicine can correct your hearing.

If your hearing loss is from damage to your hearing nerves, no surgery or medicine can correct it. But properly prescribed and fit hearing aids can help you. I work with more than one hearing aid manufacturer to find the best hearing aid for your listening needs and wallet.

Another very important part of prescribing a hearing aid is the trial period.

By Florida law it is 30 days. I use this time to slowly accommodate/acclimate the newly fit person to this noisy world. The first visit is when the hearing aid is fit and completely orienting you on how to use hearing aids. Demonstrating and teaching you to insert the battery and hearing aids and scheduling a 1 week follow-up appointment. At least 3 follow-up appointments are schedule, usually at 1 week, 2 or 3 weeks after fitting hearing aids. This is when questions are answered and slowing the volume is increased.

And then, at the end of 30 days you decide. Are you happy with this model? If not let’s try another manufacturer. If nothing I do helps you may return the hearing aids, it is state law. I do not know another device that you can use and return after 30 days. But you may, there will be a small fee, if returned.

Now you know the process, let’s get started. Now is the time to try hearing aids before a summer wedding. Get a complete diagnostic hearing evaluation, get the right model for your listening needs, complete the 30 day trial period and become acclimated to this noisy world. When you attend that special event you can hear all the wonderful music and conversation. Your family and friends will be happy you can join the conversation and you will not miss any family news. Like my sister-in-law Pat, you’ll be putting your best face forward.

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3. All-inclusive adults-only resorts of Punta Cana, Dominican Republic, like Secrets & Excellence Resorts.

4. The Valentin Imprial Maya of the Mayan Riviera of Mexico 5. Couples, Secrets and Sandals adults-only, all-inclusive resorts of Negril, Jamaica.

6. See it and do it all in Las Vegas! Strip hotels like Paris, Planet Hollywood, Mandalay Bay, the Venetian and Bellagio make for a great honeymoon getaway!

For couples who want to get there by car: 7. Disney World, of course!

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For couples who want to see a lot but unpack only once.

9. Sailing on the newest largest cruise ships sailing from Ft. Lauderdale and Miami such as Royal Caribbean’s Oasis or Allure of the Seas; NCL’s Epic and the all-new Carnival Breeze.

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Pet Care & Health with Dr. Veling, DVM

When Referral Is Needed A Message from The Vet Dr. Veling, DVM Palencia Pet Clinic

Recently, a wonderful, 9 year old, black Labrador Retriever

named Noelle was brought in for a lump on her lower right eyelid. The growth was approximately a centimeter (cm) wide. The eye otherwise looked normal. Hair still grew on it. On a passing look, the tumor was no big deal. The owner, a neighbor, related that the lump had gotten larger for a while. It got smaller again a day later. This bothered me. Noelle deserved more than a passing look.

Normally, I would do a fine needle aspirate on a lump like this.

Because of the lump’s location that test would endanger her eye if done while Noelle was awake. A few days later we ended up sedating her. When I stained the microscope slide and looked at it under the microscope I could see our old enemy, the mast cell tumor.

I am no stranger to mast cell tumors. I know how dangerous

they are – very. I know that they need to be removed fast and with a 3 cm perimeter margin. The problem with Lucy’s is the fact that it occurred on her eyelid. If I remove the tumor I have to remove 4+ cm of the right side of her face leaving her without her lower eyelid. Cosmetically, this would

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Hopefully, by the time you read this Noelle will have begun her radiation.

We have very high hope of a cure without disfiguring her. The point of this article is to ask a question. If this happened to your pet would you be able to pay for the treatment for your dog or cat? If you can afford several thousand dollars to fix your dog at a specialty center, count yourselves lucky. Most pet owners can’t. Most pet owners assume that they will always be able to pay the bill. Then they find out a regular veterinarian cannot do all the treatments a pet may need. If a referral is necessary, it gets expensive quickly. It is not the fault of the specialist. They go to years of extra training to be a specialist. They pay for expensive medications and treatments to use on pets. The simple answer is to use pet insurance. Do your homework. Check them out on-line. Then get pet insurance if you can’t afford thousands of dollars of care.

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....After the Wedding The post-wedding checklist

by Erica Bean Print My Picture Online Congratulations on your upcoming nuptials! Your wedding day will be beautiful and the memories will last a lifetime.

Remember, thank you cards are not the only thing left to do before you can relax and enjoy newlywed bliss.

CAUTION- Don’t wait until after the wedding to read this!

1. Make sure your signed marriage certificate has been mailed to the local Registrar in the town where you were married.

2. If you are going to change your name, get to it! Bring a certified copy of your marriage certificate and your old Social Security card to the Social Security Office.

3. If you have changed your name or address, bring your new Social Security Card, marriage certificate and driver’s license to your local DMV for a new driver’s license.

4. Change your name and address at work, including your W4s and other tax forms. Usually you can contact your HR department to obtain the proper paperwork.

5. About those finances...... If you are going to be combining accounts, wait until you have your new IDs (if you are changing your name) so that you can avoid having to change the account information later.

6. Don’t wait until tax time to speak with your accountant about how you will be filing your taxes.

7. Update your name and address on all of your credit cards accounts and bank or brokerage accounts..

8. Change your life insurance beneficiary information to include your husband, (go ahead, we know you want to say it! HUSBAND). Additionally, add him to your emergency contact information at work.

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MYPICTUREONLINE.COM 10. Preserving your wedding bouquet? Make arrangements ahead of time, fresh flowers have a 2 day shelf-life for proper preservation.

11. Preserving your gown? Use a dress shop such as David’s Bridal to have it cleaned and preserved.

12. Traditionally the top tier of the wedding cake is frozen to be eaten together on the first year anniversary.

Assign someone to get your top cake tier packaged up properly. However, I may forgo waiting till the first year anniversary! You picked the perfect cake for the event; I suggest you enjoy it at your one month anniversary, before it tastes like everything else in your freezer! Should you choose to go with the traditional one year, ask about the best cakes for preservation at your cake tasting appointment.

13. If you have Gift Registry returns you should get those done within a few weeks. Most stores have a 60-90 day return policy- even with a receipt. If any of your guests are like me, they shopped early!

14. What about the Bridesmaids Dresses? Did you choose a dress they will love to wear over and over; or did you choose a dress that was meant for a once in a life time event-YOUR WEDDING!? If your Bridesmaids are not going to wear their dress again, consider suggesting that they make it a once in a life time dress for someone else!

I have listed a few sites that provide free prom dresses to girls who otherwise could not afford one to attend their prom. Each of them has inspiring stories! * Becca’s Closet * *The Princess Project* *The Princess and the Prom* * Fairy Godmothers* 15. And after all of that, do not forget to send those thank you notes we mentioned! These should be done within 3 months of receiving the gift.

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January Calendar Happy New Year 20-14 January 2 to February 2 The St. Augustine Art Association hosts a juried exhibition of expressions of the human face and form lending personality to a variety of styles and media. The gallery is open Tuesday - Saturday noon - 4 p.m. and Sunday 2-5 p.m. Admission is free. 22 Marine St. St. Augustine.

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January 4 First Friday Art Walk

From 5 - 9 p.m. on the first Friday of every month, new exhibits, music, entertainment and refreshments are featured at more than 20 participating galleries in St. Augustine. Tours begin at San Sebastian Winery. Complimentary shuttle service to most galleries is provided by St. Augustine Sightseeing Trains and Old Town Trolleys. 157 King St., St. Augustine. 904-829-0065 www.artgalleriesofstaugustine.com/

January 4 Living History Day at Fort Matanzas National Monument From 10:30 a.m. until 3:30 p.m., authentically clad re-

enactors will demonstrate Spanish cannons at this fortress that guarded the southern approach to St. Augustine. Admission is free including the ferry ride to and from Rattlesnake Island. Fort Matanzas National Monument is located at 8635 A1A at the south end of Anastasia Island approximately 15 miles south of St. Augustine. Info:www.nps.gov/foma; 904-471-0116

January 5 to January 26 The Eight: Reindeer Monologues at The Raintree Restaurant

Get an inside look at Christmas when eight reindeer spill all the details about the real Santa Claus and the elves; Rudolph’s “little secret;” the true story of Vixen and much more in this entertaining Dinner and a Show. Some mature content. Tickets to this exciting dinner theatre experience in the upstairs dining room of the Raintree Restaurant are $39.95 (adult beverages served separately). Dinner is served at 6 p.m.

(5:30 p.m. arrival suggested) and the show begins at 7 p.m. 102 San Marco Ave., St. Augustine. 904-824-7211 www.raintreerestaurant.com

January 11 St. Augustine Chocolate Tour

Guided journey to the finest chocolatiers in St. Augustine. Learn the history of chocolate while sampling truffles, pastries, and gooey delights. The 2-hour tour departs at 1:30 p.m. from the Old Town Trolley Welcome Center. The tour is $60 per person and reservations are required. 27 San Marco Ave., St. Augustine. 904-829-3800 www.trolleytours.com/st-augustine/tour-chocolate.asp

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January 15, GUIDED TRAIL WALK AT RIVER TO SEA PRESERVE, MARINELAND -- 9:00 to 10:30 a.m.,Free and Open to the

Public --join other nature lovers on a guided walk by GTM Research Reserve volunteers, through the wooded hammock between the ocean and the Matanzas River. Expect to learn about the bountiful native vegetation along the trail. Observe signs of wildlife including the resident ospreys. Learn how Native Americans made use of various plants for food and medicine. The Preserve is located at the south end of the town of Marineland across from the ocean. Turn west at the River to Sea Preserve entrance. You will see a temporary directional event sign posted at the drive. Follow the lane to the parking lot where you will meet your guide. Please reserve by calling 904.823.4500 or RSVP online at https:// gtmnerrmarinelandtrail.eventbrite.com.

January 16, to January 19 St. Augustine Film Festival

The 4th Annual Saint Augustine Film Festival features more than 20 films from around the world including France, Italy, Spain, Brazil, Argentina, Kenya, Laos, Israel, Belgium, Paraguay Puerto Rico and USA. Films will be shown at Lewis Auditorium, Gamache-Koger Theatre and Epic Theatres. The Thursday Opening Night Party takes place at The Lightner Museum. Friday evening features a Lifetime Achievement Award to actor Keir Dullea (DAVID & LISA, 2001: SPACE ODYSSEY).

Film tickets are $8 General Admission, $6 Seniors & Students. Opening Night Party is $25. Other parties are $15. A FAST Pass good for all films and parties is $55. The Casa Monica Hotel and Saragossa Inn offer special rates for festival attendees. 80 King Street, St. Augustine, FL 32084.

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January 18 Third Saturdays Nocatee Farmers’ Market

Featuring more than 70 vendors from 10 a.m. - 2 p.m. every third Saturday of the month at 245 Little River Road, Ponte Vedra FL 32081. Info: www.nocatee.com

January 18th The River House on Marine Street Saturday 6 p.m.

Tickets: $125 An elegant evening with dancing, dining, silent auction while supporting St Augustine Community School of Performing Arts & Kids Bridge. Go to the following link for ticket purchases voting for your favorite local celebrity! http://dancingstarsofsjc.com/ St Augustine Community School of Performing Artswww.sacspa.org. 904-824-0664

January 18th Ponte Vedra Women’s Club -Exclusive Event at Fantasy Farm 6-11pm- (see on on next page and contact PVWCWestern@aol.com for more details

January 24 Mantazas Inlet Guided Hike

9:00 to 10:30 a.m.-- Free -A GTM Research Reserve expert volunteer, in partnership with the National Park Service, will take hikers to the Matanzas Inlet shores to learn about inlet dynamics and movements of sand as the sea constantly rearranges the land. Learn about seashells, sea birds, coquina rock, dune vegetation, heavy minerals, mollusks, the habits of crabs, and the history of beach sand. Meet your guide at the Westside parking lot on Hwy A1A, north of the Inlet Bridge, no later than 8:30 a.m. Reservations please call 904.823.4500 or http://gtmnerrmatanzashike.eventbrite.com/ to register.

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January 21 - 26 Broadway in Jacksonville Presents BLUE MAN GROUP

An explosion of comedy, music, and technology, the critically acclaimed Blue Man Group creates experiences that defy categorization. Blue Man Group is best known for multi-media performances that feature three bald and blue characters who take the audience on a journey that is funny, intelligent and visually stunning. A live band, whose haunting tribal rhythms help drive the show to its climax, accompanies the Blue Men. The first-ever theatrical tour of Blue Man Group features brand new content highlighted by classic Blue Man favorites. The new sound, set, and video design centering around a proscenium-sized LED curtain and high-resolution screen create an entirely new, high-impact visual experience for Broadway houses across the nation. Blue Man Group premieres in Jacksonville for 8 performances only: Tuesday, January 21st at 7:30PM – Family Night on Broadway!

Wednesday, January 22nd at 7:30PM Thursday, January 23rd at 7:30PM Friday, January 24th at 8PM Saturday, January 25th at 2PM and 8PM Sunday, January 26th at 1:30PM and 7PM

January 21 Opening Night of Blue Man Group is the 12th Annual Family Night on Broadway, with special family-friendly ac-

tivities pre-show and post-show at the Times-Union Center. All Family Night activities, which begin at 6:30PM for the 7:30PM show, are free with paid show admission tickets. With no spoken language, Blue Man Group is perfect for people of all ages, languages, and cultures. Experience the Phenomenon. The Artist Series is the official presenter of Blue Man Group and Broadway in Jacksonville. Times Union Center - Moran Theater https://www.artistseriesjax.org/peo/

January 25 Uptown Saturday Night in St. Augustine

From 5 – 9 p.m. on the last Saturday of each month, experience live music, refreshments, new exhibits, book signings and much more at the galleries, antique stores and unique shop on St. Augustine’s San Marco Avenue between Ripley’s Museum and the Mission Nombre de Dios.

The Mission Nombre de Dios provides FREE PARKING. Info: 904-8239263

iPad Art Holiday Arts Workshop (Ages 9-14) The Cultural Center at Ponte Vedra Beach

50 Executive Way, Ponte Vedra Beach Phone: 904-280-0614 ext. 204 http://www.ccpvb.org/general/holiday-arts-camps-workshops.html Event Pricing: Members: $40 Non-members: $50 Did you get a new iPad for the holidays? Learn how to use simple art applications to create original art work. (Ages 9-14)

UPCOMING ~ SAVE THE DATE February 16 Ripley’s Believe it or Not! Wedding Vow Renewal Ceremony!

Once again Ripley’s will attempt to set a Guinness World Record for the largest wedding vow renewal ceremony on Sunday, February 16th, 2014 at 19 San Marco Ave. Registration begins at Ripley’s at 11:00 am, and the ceremony will be held at 2:00 PM. For more information, visit www.ripleys.com/staugustine, or call 904-824-1606.

On Going Lectures 3rd Saturday of the month from 8:30 to 10:00 a.m.

10 am until 4 pm:00am - 2:00pm - Check-in at 8:50am GUIDED BEACH EXPLORATION

-- Beach Stroll and Discovery --Join GTM Research Reserve Docents for a beach walk at the Guana South beach location. Learn about the animals that call the beach their home as well as seashells and other interesting facts. This is a “Beaches 101” experience that the entire family will enjoy. Park at the GTM Research Reserve South Beach Access Lot, 1798 Ponte Vedra Blvd (A1A), Ponte Vedra, FL 32082. There is a $3/per vehicle parking fee. After the walk, visit the GTM Research Reserve Environmental Education Center (EEC) or enjoy our many miles of trails.

The EEC is located at 505 Guana River Road, Ponte Vedra Beach, FL 32082. Admission fee into the EEC is $2 for adults, $1 for children ages 10-17, and children under ten are free. Space is limited so please RSVP. You can make reservations at http://gtmnerrbeachexploration.eventbrite.com/ or call 904.823.4500. Please provide your email and phone number, in case we need to cancel due to inclement weather.

3rd Tuesday of the month from 10 to 11 a.m. GTM RESEARCH RESERVE MARINELAND LECTURE

-- Free and Open to the Public -This lecture series is held on the (plus optional field time) at the GTM Research Reserve Marineland Field Office, 9741 N Oceanshore Blvd in the town of Marineland. The series is designed to help inform the public about their coastal natural world. This month, Scott Adkins, photographer/filmmaker/videographer based in St. Augustine, will conduct a mini-workshop on Digital Photography 101: A Guide to Understanding the Basics of Digital Photography in Nature. The workshop will be followed by an optional photo session on the beach or the River to Sea Preserve Trail (site determined by weather conditions). It is suggested that attendees bring their cameras, but not required.These events are FREE so space is limited and reservations are requested. Reservations can be made online at https://gtmnerrmarinelandlecture.eventbrite. com/ or call 904.823.4500.

CARTOONING ILLUSTRATION CLASS (ART

LEAGUE OF JACKSONVILLE) Students will learn about how to create expressive figures, and how to pose them from different angles. Super hero to Manga to indie comic book/graphic novel styles will be introduced, and students will be encouraged to cultivate their own style. Storytelling and layouts will be discussed, students will be asked to create thumbnail sketches of different ways to layout a specific scene. Students will work on creating a range of different types of characters. 6 sessions only $80 – Members $70 or Choose 4 sessions for only $60 – Members $55• A seventh week make-up session for this class is available! www.artsjax.org for more information.

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