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Features

15 Unexpected Summer Fun Unique, unusual, and off-the-beaten-path things to do in NYC

26 The Summertime Health Blues How to avoid—or beat—six childhood ailments that commonly strike during the warmer months 44 Grilling with Chef John Stage Tips for cooking on the barbecue from a grill master—just in time for a Father’s Day feast 46 It’s Never Too Early to Prevent Drug Abuse With changing laws and attitudes about recreational marijuana, it’s more important than ever for parents to talk to their kids about drug use.

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 Quotables 11 NYMP Q&A: Diaper Dude’s Chris Pegula talks dads’ roles in parenthood. 28 Voices of the Next Generation: My family celebrates the Muslim holiday Eid al-Fitr, which takes place in June this year— here’s why it’s so special to me 66 Voices: How we, a gay couple with two adopted sons, raised our kids during changing times

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12 Humor: Happy Father’s Day to the Fellas! 13 Last Chance to Enter the Cover Contest 30 Outing: Aviation Hall of Fame and Museum of New Jersey 33 Family Activities Calendar 42 Where-To Guide: Beaches 43 Where-To Guide: Amusement Parks

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id you know you can see wild parakeets in Brooklyn? Visit a museum housed in an old freight elevator in Manhattan? Play on a former landfill on Staten Island? We at NYMetroParents pride ourselves on knowing all about how to have fun with kids around New York City, but to kick off summer, we decided to dig deeper. So Katelin Walling took on the challenging assignment of uncovering our region’s hidden gems—and found many exciting options we hadn’t known before. See her round-up of the best unexpected ways to have fun this summer (p. 15), and then get out and start exploring! Unfortunately, we all sometimes have to cancel fun plans to run our children to the doctor—their illnesses, ailments, and injuries certainly don’t take the summer off. That’s not unusual, as I learned from Stacey Pfeffer’s report on children’s summertime health issues (p. 26). From Coxsackie virus to athlete’s foot to lice, we offer advice on how to prevent summertime ailments, and failing that, how to treat them. June marks the end of our Kids Cover Contest, so make sure to enter your child before it’s too late! Submissions close June 9. Head to nymetroparents.com/cover and follow the directions there to upload a photo and enter the contest. Ten finalists will participate in a professional photo shoot, and any of them may appear on upcoming magazine covers. Two grand-prize winners will be guaranteed cover spots and will win awesome prizes—a family vacation at Kalahari water park or a Barbizon modeling scholarship. And once you’ve entered, don’t forget to get your friends and family to vote! The Fan Favorite—the child with the most votes—will be one of the 10 finalists (the others are chosen by our editors) and will win tickets to Sesame Place. There is so much to celebrate in June! Summer officially starts, graduations take place, and we’ll salute Dad on Father’s Day. If you’re planning a barbecue as part of your celebration, make sure to check out our tips—and recipes—for grilling meals everyone will love (p. 44). Plus, in our Voices column, dads Rod Howe and Mark Pedersen—who met and fell in love more than 30 years ago and are grandparents today—look back on parenting their sons during an era of changing attitudes about gay parents (p. 66). Muslims also are celebrating one of their biggest holidays of the year, Eid al-Fitr (which falls on different dates every year but in 2017 is in June); 12-year-old Farah Husain, a student at Manhattan’s Trinity School, shows us how she and her family celebrate this joyous festival (p. 28). If you have a unique personal story to tell about life as a parent, we want to hear from you: Submit essays (600800 words) to NYMPWriter@davlermedia.com. Happy Father’s Day to all you dads out there, and wishing all the best to our region’s graduates! Michael Kress Editorial Director, NYMetroParents

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Who: Westchester Therapy Solutions What’s New: A state-of-the-art location, which opened in Harrison in February. Westchester Therapy Solutions provides occupational, physical, and speech therapies for infants through teens with motor, language, or sensory processing difficulties. Previously in White Plains, the pediatric therapy center’s new location has a café and more space for therapy equipment and facilities, including a pirate ship, sensory exploration room, and speech clinic. Therapist-led social skills playgroups—including a picky eaters group and a buddy club—are scheduled start in July and will facilitate pragmatic language and turn-taking, and aim to increase self-esteem. Want More Info: 450 Mamaroneck Ave., Suite 412, Harrison; 914-6863116 x1101; info@wtstherapy.com; wtstherapy.com

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UOTABLES I was watching Finding Nemo with Marlowe the other day, and there was an exchange between Dory and Nemo’s father that I hadn’t ever paid close attention to before. Nemo’s father tells Dory, anxiously, “But I told him I’d never let anything happen to him!” Dory replies, “But then nothing would ever happen to him.” And there it is. Letting go is hard, but wishing for a full, vibrant, messy, beautiful life for both of my children is a lot louder than my fear. I can guarantee I will never stop trying to fight for that. —Eva Amurri Martino, in a post entitled “Parenting a Rainbow Baby,” on her blog HappilyEvaAfter.com

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“You also never know how much a kind glance or a few words can mean to a mom. Several years ago, we were in a restaurant and desperate to subdue Max, who was wailing loudly. Finally, we distracted him with a video. I felt drained and sad. A mom at another table caught my eye. “You OK?” she mouthed. And that was exactly the comfort I needed.” —Ellen Seidman, in a post entitled “Stop the Special Needs Mom Shaming,” on her blog LoveThatMax.com

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“If you want to know what’s going on in your child’s head, you need to discuss things beyond, ‘How was school today?’ When you journal together, you can write about things like: ‘What is my biggest dream?’ and ‘What was my recent mistake and what have I learned from it?’ These are important conversational questions that are not typically asked at the dinner table.” —Stamford, CT, mom Alexandra Eidens in an article entitled “Why You Should Start Journaling With Your Child.” Read the whole thing at nymetroparents.com/journal.

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Why did you want to write a book for dads about parenthood? I felt that if there was something geared toward men it would help them feel more secure and confident in wanting to be prepared. Both of my books were written about approaching parenthood from a more emotional point of view and preparing men emotionally for the journey ahead. I give tips on how to not lose your identity when you become a parent; you throw yourself into this parenting world but it’s still important to nurture yourself and your relationships. There are plenty of books that tell you how a baby or pregnancy is developing, but I didn’t feel there was something that addressed the emotional things that men go through or how to be there for their partner or how to feel secure enough as a father for the first time or how to put on that dad role and still maintain your individual role as the person that you were. How have dads’ roles evolved? They have changed dramatically, and I felt that when I became a parent myself. I thought, “Why wouldn’t more dads want to be more involved?” So many women have gone back into the workforce after having children and solidified their positions as more powerful and financially stable then their counterparts, so there are more stay-at-home dads today. It’s exciting and tremendous to see that shift happening. What was the most challenging thing for you in your children’s early years? I have so much love for my children that it was almost to a fault. The love can confuse and alter your decisions as a parent; you just want to do anything and everything for your children. But I feel like being able to be strong with your discipline and set boundaries and establish your role as a parent is important so that you can set an example for what you expect from your children. It was challenging for me because I was kind of a pushover. My wife would be the first to say, “You need to be more stringent as a dad.” What are some ways dads can feel more involved? Having something that gives you confidence is so important and a great way for dad to get more involved in parenting. That’s where the ideas of the diaper bags came from. It helped to establish the connection that dads belong. Pregnancy can be especially difficult to connect to your baby because, after all, it’s growing inside of your partner. She’s experiencing everything and everyone is falling over her and congratulating her, and until you actually hold that baby in your arms, it can be very difficult to feel connected. I think products for dad that get him involved absolutely give him the feeling that he has a purpose and that he can be involved early on.

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e live near (what is arguably) the greatest city in the United States, with its dozens of museums and cultural institutions, landmarks, and historical sites. Yet, sometimes it can feel like you visit those kid-friendly locations too often already, and the thought of schlepping the kids there for the nth time is draining. Let’s face it: You and your kids are bored—itching for a new adventure. Now what? We scoured the city and created a scavenger hunt of 37 unique, unusual, or off-the-beaten-path things to do, see, or explore with your kids. If you post photos of your adventures on Instagram, make sure you tag us @NYMetroParents, and let us know if you find anything we should add to our list! continued on next page ››

The Fearless Girl statue will remain facing the Charging Bull in the Financial District of Manhattan through February 2018.

Each year Randall’s Island Urban Farm purchases 10 chicks to raise in the garden.

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At Brooklyn Cat Café, run by Brooklyn Bridge Animal Welfare Coalition, families can play and hang out with adoptable cats.

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Pinkie, a talking parrot from Pet Resources in the Bronx, is drawn by students at the Frank Sinatra School of the Arts in Astoria, Queens, on March 8 as part of Lenka Clayton and Jon Rubin: ...circle through New York.

Several wild monk parakeets (aka Quaker Parrots) mob a bird feeder in Sunset Park, Brooklyn.

Hang with Animals without Going to the Zoo Get a hug from a golden retriever. If you’re walking around Chelsea in Manhattan, and you see a dog giving hugs, go ahead; stop and see if you can get a hug, too. Louboutina, or as her fans call her Loubie, became a social media sensation earlier this year for clinging to the legs of passersby. As with all dogs, make sure you ask her owner if it’s okay to get some puppy lovin’.

Hang out with adoptable kitties. Love felines but can’t have one due to an allergy in the family or a strict landlord? Head to 1 of 3 cat cafés in New York City, where you can enjoy snacks, play with cats, or cuddle with the adoptable felines while you read a book: Koneko Cat Café and Meow Parlour, both located on the Lower East Side of Manhattan, or Brooklyn Cat Café, located in Brooklyn Heights, Brooklyn. Reservations are not needed but strongly recommended to guarantee time with the kitties. Visit nymetroparents.com/cat-cafes for information about what you’ll find at each location.

Go on a safari in Midwood, Brooklyn.

See all the animals mentioned in the Torah.

A Wild Parrot Safari, that is. Wild monk parakeets live near the Brooklyn College campus, and multiple sources have confirmed that they either escaped or were released from JFK airport, likely in the late 1960s, according to Steve Baldwin, who leads the tours. Participants gather at Brooklyn College, at the intersection of Hillel Place and Campus Road, and will be led on a tour to see and learn about the parrots. Summer tours are scheduled for Saturdays, June 3, July 1, and Aug. 12. Visit brooklynparrots.com to learn more and to RSVP for a tour date.

You can see every beast, great and small, named in the Hebrew Bible in taxidermy form at Torah Animal World, located at 1601 41st St., Borough Park, Brooklyn (torahanimalworld.com). Exhibits include Animals of the Torah, Birds of the Torah, and Animals of the Tefillah (prayer).

Become one with a brood. Every year the folks at Randall’s Island Urban Farm purchase 10 chicks and raise them in the garden. You can hang out with the chickens during Urban Farm Exploration Days on Saturdays and Sundays, 11am-5pm, May 13-Oct. 14. Visit randallsisland.org for more information.

Spot the red-eared sliders in Central Park. I used to think the lake at the Loeb Boathouse was Turtle Pond, until I took the time to wander around Central Park and found myself near Belvedere Castle. That’s where Turtle Pond, a smaller, more secluded pond, is located (mid-park, between 79th and 80th streets). The man-made pond is home to five species of turtles, the easiest of which to identify is the red-eared slider—it has small red spots near its ears. See how many you and your kids can find.

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Talk to a parrot. Pinkie, a salmon-crested cockatoo from Pet Resources in the Bronx, will spend June at the Solomon R. Guggenheim Museum on the Upper East Side of Manhattan, July at St. Philips Church in Harlem, Manhattan, and will return home in August, as part of …circle through New York, a unique project of circulating things commissioned as part of Guggenheim Social Practice. For more information about the project, and what Pinkie will be doing at each location, visit circlethroughnewyork.com.

Say “Hi” to Max on Governors Island. Governors Island (govisland.com) used to have a problem with too many goose droppings on the lawns—until Max, a border collie, was hired in 2015. Max’s job on the island, apart from being an official greeter, is to herd and discourage geese from hanging out to ensure the enjoyment and safety of guests. Jim Reed, the director of park and public space for Governors Island, adopted Max from the Mid Atlantic Border Collie Rescue Program in Maryland. Visitors are encouraged to take pictures, and are allowed to say hi if Max is not actively herding. continued on next page ››

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Originally built in the mid-19th century as part of the Croton Aqueduct system, High Bridge opened in 2015 as a pedestrian walkway.

Activities for the Adventurous Explore the Gowanus Canal. Join the Gowanus Dredgers Canoe Club (gowanuscanal.org) for a self-guided canoe trip of the Gowanus Canal during walkup canoeing. The canoe trips aim to raise awareness of harbor issues, and you may even see such wildlife as ducks, herons, horseshoe crabs, fiddler crabs, and jellyfish. Walk-up canoeing is held Wednesdays, 6-8pm, MaySeptember, and Saturdays, 1-5pm, JuneOctober. Canoeing and equipment use is free, though donations are accepted, and no reservation is needed. Meet the club at the 2nd Street Launch Site: 165 2nd St., Gowanus, Brooklyn.

Let your kids play in a junkyard. No, not an actual junkyard! This summer, Governors Island (govisland.com) will again be home to play:groundNYC, a junkyard playground that gives young adventurers the opportunity to work with tools and building materials to explore physical, social, and emotional problem solving. Don’t

Children participating in canoeing with the Gowanus Dredgers Canoe Club must have a waiver signed by a parent.

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Located at 61 Hester Street, Lower East Side, Manhattan, this mural was painted by Jessica Blowers as part of the 100 Gates Project.

The junkyard area of play:groundNYC on Governors Island, for kids only, is filled with materials and tools such as nails, hammers, saws, wood, tires, and fabric for children to create and play.

worry, though, trained staff provides support to help children construct and create. Play:groundNYC is free and open to the public May 6-Oct. 1, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-3pm.

Bike, scoot, or walk across NYC’s oldest bridge. Built in the mid-19th century as a part of the Croton Aqueduct system, which carried water from the Croton River in Westchester to Manhattan, High Bridge is now a pedestrian walkway that connects Washington Heights in Manhattan and Highbridge in the Bronx. It’s accessible in Manhattan via a staircase in Highbridge Park (West 172nd Street and Amsterdam Avenue) or a ramp at 167th Street and Edgecombe Avenue; and in the Bronx at University Avenue and 170th Street, or a ramp north of there.

Whisper secrets to each other in Central Park. While most of us know about the Whispering Gallery in Grand Central Station, a lesser-known place to whisper

to each other is at the Charles B. Stover Bench—colloquially known as the “Whisper Bench” because if you whisper into one corner, your voice travels to the other side—in the Shakespeare Garden in Central Park (located on the west side between 79th and 80th streets).

Go on an art walk. In an effort to deter graffiti artists and beautify the Lower East Side, the 100 Gates Project—started by local artist and pro skateboarder Billy Rohan in 2014—connects local artists with businesses to collaborate on original murals that are painted on the roll-down security gates of those businesses. Over two years the project installed 100 gates throughout the Lower East Side of Manhattan, and currently has plans to expand to Harlem and Staten Island. Visit 100gates.nyc for more information and to find a map of the participating businesses.

Get your fortune told. A 1907 Cleveland Grandma, who sits in a wooden booth at Deno’s Wonder Wheel Amusement Park in Coney Island, Brooklyn,

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has been predicting fortunes for almost 100 years. When her booth first opened, predictions were 1 cent, but due to inflation, they now cost a whopping 50 cents. Visit wonderwheel.com for more information about Deno’s.

Zip through the air in Glendale, Queens. Families can zipline, rock climb, or air jump at Zip Jump Climb, stationed at The Shops at Atlas Park (8000 Cooper Ave., Glendale, Queens), for just $10 each, but only through July 9. Visit zipjumpclimb.com to reserve your adventure. continued on next page ››

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Hippo Ballerina will leave Manhattan’s Lincoln Center July 31

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Black Tap milkshakes are piled high with goodies; pictured are Sweet N’ Salty, Cotton Candy, and The Cookie Shake.

Susan Gardner has been affixing items to her brownstone since just after 9/11 to create this amazing mural in Boerum Hill, Brooklyn.

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Snap a photo of the sunset.

The Fearless Girl statue appeared suddenly in Manhattan’s Financial District for International Women’s Day and immediately became a symbol of female strength and confidence. Snap a pic of your own fierce females posing with Fearless Girl this summer, if you haven’t already. While there has been controversy surrounding Fearless Girl (because of a plaque that used to be at her feet, and backlash from the artist of the Charging Bull), she is sticking around through February 2018, according to NY Daily News.

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Indulge in over-the-top milkshakes.

But not just any sunset. Unique to Manhattan, Manhattanhenge— when the sunset is perfectly aligned with the grid of the streets in Manhattan—will occur twice this summer. If you miss the May 30 (8:12pm) sunset, mark your calendars for July 12 at 8:20pm. The best streets to get breath-taking photos are 14th, 23rd, 34th, 42nd, and 57th, according to famed astrophysicist Neil deGrasse Tyson, Ph.D. Just make sure to be as far east as possible, while having a clear sightline west, and be in position 30 minutes before the above times. The installation of artist Bjorn Skaarup’s bronze statue has been dancing outside Lincoln Center since February, and will remain until July 31. Jeté over to Dante Park (at 64th Street and Broadway) on the Upper West Side of Manhattan to ’gram your tiny dancers before she disappears.

Milkshakes have taken over Instagram. No, not your classic milkshakes—we’re talking indulgent, over-the-top, work-of-art milkshakes from Buns Bar, located in Chelsea, Manhattan, and Black Tap, located in Soho, Manhattan. We won’t try to describe these treats with words—we’ll let the pictures do the talking.

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Eat cereal out of a shoebox.

Enjoy a bowl of the traditional breakfast meal for lunch at KITH Treats, a cereal “bar” at which you can order up a combination of your favorite cereals (there are 23 different cereals to choose from) with choice toppings, or choose one of the specials. Plus, you choose how you eat it: in a commuter cup, a shoebox, or as a custom ice cream flavor or milkshake. KITH Treats is located within KITH Brooklyn (233 Flatbush Ave., Boerum Hill, Brooklyn), a clothing store founded by Queens native Ronnie Fieg.

Revel in the beauty of the mosaic house.

The Flat White, Cinnamon Toast Crunch with toffee crunch and almond milk, served in a shoebox at KITH Treats in Boerum Hill, Brooklyn

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Stop by and see what treasures you can find affixed to the façade of a Brooklyn Brownstone. Susan Gardner, creator and inhabitant of the mosaic house, began affixing items to her brownstone after 9/11 because she didn’t want to be alone in her studio, she says in a Moonshot Productions New Yorkers video. The house is located at 108 Wyckoff St., Boerum Hill, Brooklyn.

Visit a locksmith.

Even if you don’t need keys made, you’ll want to stop by Greenwich Locksmiths to see an amazing key mosaic on the shop’s façade. Owner Philip Mortillaro, who started locksmithing in 1964 and opened this location in 1980, says he had always wanted to make a chair out of keys, and when that was accomplished, he started on his door and then moved onto the building itself. Greenwich Locksmiths is located at 56 Seventh Ave. S., West Village, Manhattan.

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Philip Mortillaro, owner of Greenwich Locksmiths welded the key mosaic on the façade of his shop, as well as the chair sitting out front, and the inside of the door.

Call on the Ghostbusters!

Buns Bar adds artistic flair to its milkshakes by decorating the mug with frosting, cookies, cereals, and candies.

Well, actually, the firehouse that was used as the Ghostbusters’ home base in the 1984 movie. Hook and Ladder No. 8, located at 14 N. Moore St., Tribeca, Manhattan, was used for the exterior shots of Ghostbusters HQ, and the logo sign used in the movies still hangs in the station today. This is a working firehouse, so be prepared to move quickly if the firefighters are called into action. continued on next page ››

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Families can learn about agriculture during Urban Farm Exploration Days on Randall’s Island.

Explore Nature Explore the Urban Farm on Randall’s Island.

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Families can ride their bikes around Freshkills Park on Staten Island during Discovery Day on June 4.

Home to Icahn Stadium and the site of Governor’s Ball music festival, Randall’s Island (randallsisland.org) is also home to an urban farm. Families can experience and learn about agriculture at the 40,000-square-foot environmentally sustainable garden and outdoor classroom during Urban Farm Exploration Days on Saturdays and Sundays, 11am-5pm, May 13-Oct. 14.

Get a taste of the Adirondack Mountains in Manhattan.

Explore the North Woods of Central Park—one of the most secluded areas of the park—where the landscape isn’t manicured (located on the west side, between 101st and 110th streets). The highlight of the 90-acre section of the park is the man-made waterfalls— contrary to TLC’s advice, these are ones you definitely should chase.

Get your green thumb a little dirty.

A young forager on one of Marie Viljoen’s walks picked some dandelions, which are good for digestion, according to The Old Farmer’s Almanac.

Bushwick City Farms is a community farm that relies on donations and help from volunteers of all ages to run. So if you want to work in a garden but don’t have the space for your own, you can stop by on Saturdays and Sundays, 12:30pm to dusk, to help with and learn about composting, animal care,

transplanting, weeding, garden cleanup, spreading wood chips, and other garden tasks. There are also opportunities to donate items and time in other ways. Bushwick City Farms is located at Lewis Avenue and Stockton Street, Bushwick, Brooklyn. Visit bushwickcityfarm. wordpress.com for more information.

Go on a foraging walk.

Did you know you can find edible plants in NYC’s parks? “Wildman” Steve Brill and Marie Viljoen offer foraging walks in various parks in the city to point out which plants—most of which are often thought of as weeds and destroyed—can be used in everyday cooking. Visit wildmanstevebrill.com or 66squarefeet. blogspot.com for more information and to sign up for a walk.

Play on an old landfill on Staten Island.

Freshkills Park is a new park being built over NYC’s former primary landfill on Staten Island. Opening in phases from the outside in, the park currently offers programs and events to learn about and explore currently closed sections of the landfill-to-park project. Events include Discovery Day on June 4, a bike tour on June 10, and kayak tours for ages 16 and older on June 18 and July 16 and 30. Visit freshkillspark.org for more information.

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Brooklyn Grange’s Flagship farm hosts open houses on Saturdays (May 20-Oct. 21, 11am-4pm), but families should be sure to visit May 20, June 17, July 15, Aug. 19, or Sept. 16 for Family Farm Day, when City Growers, an educational nonprofit that connects urban communities with agriculture, food, and environment, hosts free family-friendly workshops and children’s activities geared toward children ages 2 and older at Brooklyn Grange. Family Farm Day activities vary, and are typically announced via City Growers’ social media—Instagram and Twitter: CityGrowersNYC; Facebook: City Growers. The flagship farm is located on the roof of 37-18 Northern Blvd., Long Island City, Queens. Visit brooklyngrangefarm.com to learn more.

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See the original stuffed animals that inspired the stories of Winniethe-Pooh at the New York Public Library in Midtown, Manhattan

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The City Island Land Ferry is free on the first Friday of the month, April-December.

Catch a ride to City Island in the Bronx.

Yonah Schimmel’s Knish Bakery is the oldest knishery in the U.S.

Uniquely New York Check out one of Manhattan’s smallest museums.

Housed in a former freight elevator, Mmuseumm’s exhibitions aim to engage, educate, and inform the public in a unique cultural approach to looking at the current world. The tiny museum is located at 4 Cortlandt Alley in Chinatown, Manhattan, and the 2017 season opens May 11.

See a lot of gold.

Tour the New York Federal Reserve, located in Lower Manhattan, where you’ll learn about the role of the New York Fed and the Federal Reserve System through displays and interactive exhibits, as well as the U.S. economy and how money is made. Plus, you’ll descend into the Fed’s Gold Vault to see the gold bricks housed there. Unfortunately visitors can’t take pictures. Visit newyorkfed.org to reserve a free tour; children must be 16 and older.

Ride the subway through an abandoned stop.

There are two ways you can see the restored City Hall station on the 6 subway line in Manhattan: be a member of the New York Transit Museum and sign up for tour tickets quickly, or stay on the downtown 6 train as it turns around through City Hall station to head uptown. Look out the windows on the right side of the train as you’re facing the direction the train is moving (and make sure you double check with the subway attendant that it’s okay with them for you to stay on the train).

Adventure to City Island, which is reminiscent of a small fishing village, via the City Island Land Ferry. Ride the 6 train to the Pelham Bay Park station, and on the first Friday of the month (April-December) from 5:30-9:30pm, you can hitch a ride on the trolley for free. While there, you can play at the Ambrosini Field playground, enjoy dinner, stop by Lickety Split Ice Cream for dessert, and watch the sun set before taking the land ferry back to Pelham Bay Park station.

See the stuffed animals that inspired Winnie-the-Pooh. The original stuffed animals of Pooh, Eeyore, Piglet, Kanga, and T-I-double Guh-Errr are housed in the New York Public Library’s Children’s Center at 42nd Street (Stephen A. Schwarzman Building, 476 Fifth Ave., Midtown, Manhattan). While you’re there with your little book lovers, check out a few books or participate in a story time.

Watch a giant chess match.

A larger-than-life chessboard is affixed to the north wall of 212 E. 48th St., Midtown East, Manhattan. Each Wednesday at 12pm, one piece is moved using a cherry picker, in a recreation of some of history’s greatest matches. You can learn more about the current match by visiting the concierge in the building’s lobby.

Enjoy a knish.

And not just any knish. Yonah Schimmel’s Knish Bakery, established in 1910 and located at 137 E. Houston St., Lower East Side, Manhattan, is the oldest knish bakery in the United States. And, man, are they delish!

Learn how pianos are made.

Participate in a Steinway & Sons Factory Tour and learn what goes into making a piano by going through the working factory. Tours are free, and children younger than 16 are not allowed on the tours. Tours are offered Tuesdays, 9:30am-12pm, September-June. While tours are completely booked through December 2017, you can email tours@ steinway.com to be placed on a waiting list for this year’s tours.

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The Good Samaritan window by Marc Chagall was originally commissioned by David Rockefeller in 1963 as a memorial to his father, John D. Rockefeller, Jr. It has since expanded to include eight windows in the nave of the church.

While making the trek into NYC is worth it, sometimes we don’t want to venture too far from home. We found five hidden gems in Westchester County to add to your summer scavenger hunt.

Eat hot dogs from a temple-like stand.

Walter’s Hot Dogs, a Westchester institution and nationally registered historic landmark, has been serving its frankfurters since 1919, and has been housed in a copper-roofed Chinese pagoda since 1928. Sink your teeth into the beef-pork-and-veal dogs, served on a toasted bun with Walter’s signature mustard. Walter’s Hot Dogs is located at 937 Palmer Ave., Mamaroneck.

Visit Washington Irving’s gravesite.

Originally opened in 1849 as Tarrytown Cemetery, Sleepy Hollow Cemetery (sleepyhollowcemetary.org) is the final resting place of many famous New Yorkers, including Washington Irving, author of the town’s eponymous legend, and Walter Chrysler, who commissioned the Chrysler Building in Manhattan. Wander the 85acre grounds to see beautiful gravestones and sculptures (maps are available), or participate in a walking tour to learn about what makes the cemetery so special.

See Matisse and Chagall works in an unassuming church. Visit Kykuit, and you’ll discover the Rockefellers were lovers of fine art. But you don’t need to tour the estate to see fine works commissioned or purchased by the family. Union Church of Pocantico Hills is home to stained glass windows by Henri Matisse and Marc Chagall. The rose window was Matisse’s last work of art before his death in 1954, and the Good Samaritan window by Chagall, which spans eight windows in the nave of the church, memorializes a number of the Rockefellers. Union Church of Pocantico Hills is located at 555 Bedford Road, Pocantico Hills.

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Go on a foraging walk.

You can find edible foods right in your local parks! Though his home base is in the city, Wildman Steve Brill regularly hosts foraging walks in White Plains, Bedford, and Dobbs Ferry. You’ll learn about renewable, wild edible and medicinal plants and mushrooms that many destroy as weeds, and how to utilize them every day. Visit wildmanstevebrill.com for more information and tour dates.

Watch the progress of the New NY Bridge.

Do you have a little engineer who is curious about the New NY Bridge? Do you wonder how the bridge has progressed since work started in 2015? Head to the viewing platform in Tarrytown’s Scenic Hudson RiverWalk Park to get a view of the action. The platform features viewing scopes and informational panels, including a spotter’s guide that identifies different equipment being used. Plus, see if you can spot the peregrine falcons that reside on the current Tappan Zee Bridge. Visit newnybridge.com for more information.

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The Summertime Health Blues ›› How to avoid—or beat—childhood ailments that commonly strike during the summer months By Stacey Pfeffer

ike most parents, I am overjoyed when winter is over. This winter my house was a revolving door of germs with flu, strep, and pneumonia running rampant and causing my kids to miss way too many school days. When the warm weather approaches, I look forward to fewer trips to the pediatrician and hope my kids will have a fun-filled and illness-free summer. Yet there are some common childhood ailments that are actually more prevalent during the summer months. I spoke with area health experts to learn about the most common health problems for kids during the summer and what you can do to prevent them, or failing that, treat them effectively.

Coxsackie Virus

Dubbed the “summer flu,” Coxsackie virus is an enterovirus that lives in the gastrointestinal tract and can be spread through swimming pools. It is most common in young children and is highly contagious. Symptoms can include fever, sore throat, crankiness, and a rash that occurs on the hands, feet, and mouth. The virus is spread through nose and mouth secretions or from contact with the feces of an infected child, so thorough hand washing after diaper changes is key. All shared toys or objects should be cleaned since the virus can live on surfaces. Jay Berger, M.D., a Long Island pediatrician and the associate chairman of pediatrics of ProHEALTH Care, has seen his fair share of summertime Coxsackie cases. The virus often “masquerades as strep,” he says. “Unfortunately Coxsackie usually gets worse before it gets better,” Dr. Berger adds. “The patient might have higher temperatures or more blisters may appear before they start to feel better.” Sometimes young children with Coxsackie avoid solid food because it is too painful to eat, so it’s essential to ensure your child remains well hydrated with cold drinks. Avoid acidic or 26

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tangy foods, which can aggravate mouth sores. Dr. Berger prefers Motrin for Coxsackie because it is anti-inflammatory, helping with pain and discomfort. He also suggests parents make a concoction of equal parts Maalox and Benadryl for their older children who can swish it around in their mouths and then spit it out. “This can really help heal the lesions in the mouth and alleviate discomfort,” Dr. Berger says. The rash and blisters can remain visible for several days, so parents often are confused about when the virus is no longer contagious. A good rule of thumb is when your child is fever free and has no visibly oozing blisters, she can return to camp or other summer activities.

Heat Exhaustion and Heat Rash

Searing temperatures during the dog days of summer can take a toll on young children who play outdoors for hours. Children are more prone than adults to heat exhaustion because a child’s body surface area makes up a much greater proportion of his overall weight than an adult’s. “Babies are also more likely to get heat exhaustion because they can’t self-regulate like older children. They are depending on adults to give them drinks or remove them from a sunny spot,” Dr. Berger says. Heat exhaustion occurs when children become dehydrated. Early signs can include lack of energy, fatigue, thirst, and dry lips and/or tongue. We’ve all heard that children should drink regularly before they get thirsty to avoid dehydration, but kids don’t really get thirsty until they’ve lost 2 percent of their body weight as sweat—so be sure to be giving them water regularly. If you suspect your child is suffering from heat exhaustion, get her into the shade or air conditioning. Make sure he is drinking water and eating salty pretzels or bananas to help replenish electrolytes.

Heat rash looks like tiny red dots or pimples on the skin. It tends to happen in hot, humid weather, and babies are most likely to get it. “Heat rash is actually a blockage of sweat glands,” Dr. Berger says. It can cause itching and discomfort in children. Most cases of heat rash go away after three or four days. Try to keep your child’s skin cool and dry and avoid overdressing her. Hydrocortisone cream can help alleviate the symptoms. If the heat rash is accompanied by a fever, contact your doctor.

Lice

Ask any lice removal specialist about his busiest week in business, and chances are he will say it is the week when kids return from sleepaway camp. In fact, many parents make a beeline to lice removal specialists for screening before their kids even step foot in their house. “I think that camps are a breeding ground for head lice and I think the reason is the close proximity of kids to each other, less supervision, sharing of towels, brushes, etc.,” says Anna Krosche, founder and owner of The Lice Lady of Westchester. “It really only takes one kid to have lice and then before you know it the whole bunk has it.” Children should be reminded not to share brushes, towels, or hair ties. Girls should keep their hair up and in a braid or tight bun to minimize exposure. Krosche suggests daily use of a lice-repellant spray with lemongrass, peppermint, lavender, or rosemary oils, which are lice-resistant. Krosche also recommends using an enzyme shampoo, which works well because the bugs themselves are made out of enzymes, so they can’t develop a resistance to it. “Some lice have actually become resistant to OTC [over-the-counter] shampoos such as Rid or Nix,” she says. When Krosche and her team treat a client, they will use a conditioner and combing solution, and she suggests combing the hair out in all four directions with a special nit-picking comb. “Nits are only on one side of an individual’s hair, so that’s why it’s important to comb it in all four directions.” Krosche and her team then blow dry the hair and do another lice check. “Parents should follow up with a comb-out each day for a week and then come back for a re-check after seven days. It is important to do daily comb-outs because if the lice lay eggs, it takes about three days for it to grow big enough to be removed with a comb-out,” she says.

Plantar Warts & Athlete’s Foot

Most kids love running barefoot in the summer, but this carefree attitude puts them at higher risk for plantar warts and athlete’s foot. “A wart is a virus, and a viral particle is tiny. The body is generally wellequipped to prevent warts, but the second there’s an opening through small cuts is when you can have trouble,” says Ari Rubinstein, M.D., a podiatrist at Lower Westchester Foot and Ankle. Dr. Rubinstein sees a large influx of kids with plantar warts during the summer. Warts are treated through several methods, including strong acid medicines, freezing (cyrotherapy), or laser treatments. Most cases can be treated with an excision and applying salicylic acid. “Several treatments might be needed though to fully eliminate the warts,” Dr. Rubinstein says. Athlete’s foot is a fungal skin infection that causes itching, redness, and burning between the toes. The infection thrives in moist, warm environments such as communal locker rooms and public showers. “Although there are several OTC products for it, a prescription product might be more effective and help speed up the healing process with a difficult case,” Dr. Rubinstein says. It’s also great to remind kids that flip-flops are their friends and can help prevent warts and athlete’s foot.

Sunburn

Parents need to be vigilant with sunscreen application and look for a broad-spectrum sunscreen with SPF 30 or higher that offers both UVA and UVB protection, advises Julie Karen, M.D., a board-certified dermatologist in Manhattan and an assistant clinical professor at NYU Langone Medical Center. UVA and UVB refer to two kinds of harmful rays, ultraviolet A and ultraviolet B. “Both types of rays contribute to skin cancer, but a broad-spectrum sunscreen has to protect proportionately against both UVA and UVB rays,” she says. In fact, if a child has five or more sunburns in his lifetime, the risk for melanoma is doubled. With so many sunscreen options available, it can be difficult for parents to choose one. Dr. Karen prefers sunscreens with zinc oxide or titanium dioxide because, she says, “the benefits are manifold. They are not just physical blockers but they are also better tolerated for children with sensitive skin.” If your child is going to the pool or beach, opt for a water-resistant formula that is less susceptible to degradation from water exposure. Other helpful tips are to apply the sunscreen 20 minutes prior to sun exposure and then reapply every two hours, or sooner if your child is excessively perspiring or swimming. Keep the sunscreen in a temperate environment and check the expiration date on the bottle. “No one uses nearly enough sunscreen,” Dr. Karen says. “Always use more than you think you could possibly need and spend time rubbing it in.” She recommends complete sun avoidance for infants 6 months and younger. Children younger than 1 have particularly sensitive skin and should avoid the sun during peak hours (10am–4pm). Besides seeking shade and limiting sun exposure, children should also wear a broad-brimmed hat and clothing such as rash guards with ultraviolet protection factor. “Parents need to understand that sunscreens aren’t perfect,” Dr. Karen says. “They are not intended for you to wear and stay all day out in the sun. They are meant for the necessary exposure to the sun that comes with living a healthy, active lifestyle.” If your child still gets sunburned, a cool bath can help lower the skin’s temperature and then a gentle moisturizer should be applied to hydrate the skin. If your child has a high fever with the sunburn or your infant gets sunburned, call your pediatrician.

Swimmer’s Ear

Children are susceptible to swimmer’s ear because their small ear canals can easily trap moisture. “Moisture is a key ingredient for swimmer’s ear, so parents need to keep their children’s ears dry after swimming,” says Joey Bernstein, M.D., chief of the division of pediatric otolaryngology at New York Eye and Ear Infirmary of Mount Sinai in Manhattan. Chlorinated pools are actually less of a risk factor for swimmer’s ear than swimming in lakes or rivers where bacteria counts are higher. Dabbing your ears with a towel is a good first step in keeping your child’s ears dry. Blow dryers on a low setting about a foot away from the ear can also help keep moisture out. “If simple things like this don’t work, some kids may need to wear ear plugs, but that’s rarely necessary,” Dr. Bernstein says. If you suspect your child has swimmer’s ear, it is important to treat it early, before the infection escalates and the pain becomes severe. Minor discomfort and itching are early signs of an infection. At-home treatments can help acidify the ear canal—meaning, make it a more acidic environment—which helps prevent bacteria from growing, while also helping dry the ear as much as possible. A 1-to-1 solution of white vinegar, an acidifier, and rubbing alcohol, a drying solution, can help. If this doesn’t work, pay a visit to your doctor, who can prescribe antibiotic eardrops. Stacey Pfeffer is a writer based in Chappaqua.

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My family celebrates the Muslim holiday Eid al-Fitr, which takes place in June this year—here’s why it’s so special to me By Farah Husain

he sound of laughter echoed through the house as people bustled about, and the faint, delicate twinkling of glass bangles filled the apartment. This day was special, and the weather happened to be absolutely gorgeous. It was warm and the sun was beaming down onto New York City with a few wisps of pink-tinged clouds drifting lazily across the horizon. A couple of birds let out a few clear, sweet notes as if to announce that it was Eid. My parents, brother, grandfather, and some visiting cousins all sat around the table, cheerfully chatting as they ate the feast my mom had prepared. I noticed a few family members were missing, but they soon joined the merriment not too long after I did. I seated myself in between my younger brother and my cousin, Zoha. We all ate our fill. Once my mom was satisfied everyone was full, she started shooing us away to get ready. I put on a white kameez with gold embroidery and small, white, pearly beads over cotton straight pants with silvery-gold trimming. I had styled my long dark hair into loose, silky curls. Zoha sat next to me with her knees crossed wearing a dark green and light pink kameez over black leggings and natural makeup. The male members of my family were dressed in plain shalwar kameez in various shades of blue and black. My aunt and mom emerged from their rooms in outfits similar to Zoha’s and mine. Theirs finished with a necklace and high heels. Then everyone left for the Eid prayer except for the two older women, who stayed back to prepare the food for later. As our cab neared the mosque, I could see a throng of people surging through the big gates while calling out Eid greetings and hugging each other. On our way in, we stopped by the donation boxes and my dad paid fitr, which is money the mosque passes on to the poor. Fitr is mandatory because it helps us remember those who have less than us. The head of the family (in my case, my dad) has to give the appropriate amount for all family members, including our caregiver; Eid prayer is not accepted unless you pay fitr before praying.

Farah (in red clothes and glasses) is joined by her brother and cousins for a family photo on Eid.

After dropping the cash into the box, the women separated from the men as we all headed to our allocated sections. I could barely hold on to Zoha as we squeezed through the crowd to get to the prayer area. Women sporting their own cultural clothing in all sorts of colors were talking to each other while young children either clung to their mother’s clothes or happily played with one another. While we waited, we compared the intricate henna designs on our hands until the imam’s voice filled the room through giant speakers. He started off with the call to prayer, the adhan, and then started the actual prayer. Everyone stood up, shoulder to shoulder, all different skin colors, all different ages, but all equal in the eyes of God. Prayer ended with great scrambling as everyone tried to reach their shoes and get out of the way before they got swept up into the tide of people. When we returned home, we were met by the delicious smells of the food my aunt and mom had made in honor of Eid. After sampling some of these delicious dishes, we visited a few friends and stuffed ourselves with many more yummy treats. We exchanged gifts and greetings as we chatted about what we planned to do with the money we had received from elders throughout the day, and we snapped some pictures to preserve the memory of this Eid. We finally headed back home to unwind after a long day of visiting and fun. Zoha and I decided to finish a movie we had started watching the previous night and before long the rest of the cousins had joined us too. I sat on the bed sandwiched between Zoha and another one of my cousins, Areeb, with everyone else sprawled on the floor. Looking around, I smiled. To me, this is the magic of Eid: a time to share my joy and excitement with family and friends; a time to celebrate with others, no matter where they’re from or how old they are; a time to bring people together and spread happiness. Happy Eid!

Farah Husain, 12, attends the Trinity School in Manhattan. She enjoys horseback riding, tennis, and soccer, and plays the violin. She also volunteers with the organization Muslim Volunteers for NY.

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Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the nine events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

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WHEN: Saturday, June 3, 7:30am WHERE: Boscobel House, 1601 Route 9D, Garrison AGES: All WHAT: A dramatic presentation about the habits and history of snapping turtles. Meet live specimens and then walk Boscobel’s grounds in search of nesting females. WHY WE LOVE IT: Turtle fans, unite! WANT TO GO? $12; $8 for children younger than 12. 845-265-3638. boscobel.org.

WHEN: Saturday, June 10, 8-10am WHERE: Muscoot Farm, 51 Route 100, Katonah AGES: All WHAT: Join this family-friendly experience. Registration required. WHY WE LOVE IT: It’s a great day to teach your child what happens on the farm! WANT TO GO? $6; $20 per family of 4. 914-864-7282. muscootfarm.org.

Farm Fest

Family Fun Day with Joanie Leeds & The Nightlights FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 3, 11am-4pm WHERE: Hilltop Hanover Farm, 1271 Hanover St., Yorktown Heights AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a local artisan’s fair, food, children’s games, tractor rides, hikes, and farm tours, and help celebrate Cricket’s birthday with some ice cream. There will be organic seedlings for sale and the farm stand will open its doors for the season. WHY WE LOVE IT: There’s lots of fun or families with children of all ages. WANT TO GO? $5 suggested donation. 914-962-2368. hilltophanoverfarm.org.

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WHEN: Sunday, June 11, 4pm WHERE: Shames JCC on the Hudson, 371 S. Broadway, Tarrytown AGES: All WHAT: Award-winning kids’ musicians Joanie Leeds & The Nightlights will rock out for families with a fun-filled, all-ages concert, as part of Family Fun Day, which marks the official unveiling of the new and improved Shames JCC on the Hudson. WHY WE LOVE IT: This music will entertain the whole family. WANT TO GO? 917-366-7898. shamesjcc.org.

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WHEN: June 2-16, Fridays, 5-10pm WHERE: Playland Park, 1 Playland Park, Rye AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy $15 admission and have fun on the rides. WHY WE LOVE IT: All of the rides for $15 is a pretty great deal! WANT TO GO? $15. 914-813-7010. playlandpark.org.

Clearwater Music Festival

WHEN: June 17-18, Saturday-Sunday, 9am-7pm WHERE: Croton Point Park, 1 Croton Point Park Ave., Croton-on-Hudson AGES: All WHAT: Get ready for seven sustainably powered stages with diverse music, dance, storytelling, and family-oriented programming, as well as a juried Handcrafters’ Village, Green Living Expo, Working Waterfront with small boat exhibits and rides, and more. WHY WE LOVE IT: There are lots of activities for everyone in the family to enjoy! WANT TO GO? $68 and up. 914-271-4705. clearwaterfestival.org.

‘Mamma Mia!’

WHEN: Through June 25: Wednesday-Sunday, 8pm WHERE: Westchester Broadway Theater, 1 Broadway Plaza, Elmsford AGES: 9 and older WHAT: A 20-year-old woman named Sophie wants to have a traditional wedding and hopes her father will walk her down the aisle, but there’s one problem: She has no idea who her father is! With help from her mother’s journal, she narrows the possibilities down to three men. Based on the catchy songs of the Swedish pop group ABBA. WHY WE LOVE IT: A fabulous show and soundtrack for tweens and young adults! WANT TO GO? $50 show only. 914-592-2222. broadwaytheatre.com.

A Night on Fire

WHEN: June 30-July 2, Friday, 8:30pm; Saturday-Sunday, 8pm; Saturday, 9:30pm WHERE: Philipsburg Manor, 381 N. Broadway, Sleepy Hollow AGES: 3 and older WHAT: A Night on Fire brings fire juggling and comedy troupe extraordinaire A Different Spin for a fully choreographed, live display of fire arts, featuring flame-wielding, fire-eating performers twisting and turning, juggling and dancing, spinning and sword fighting, and more. WHY WE LOVE IT: This will take your breath away! WANT TO GO? $22; $16 for children 17 and younger. 914-366-6900. hudsonvalley.org/events/night-fire.

The Stars Come Out at Boscobel

WHEN: June 3-Aug. 5, 9am, 10am, and 11am WHERE: Boscobel House, 1601 Route 9D, Garrison AGES: All WHAT: An inflatable planetarium lets you gaze up at the night sky. Look for star patterns Cygnus the Swan, Big Dipper, Little Dipper, Cassiopeia, Polaris the North Star, and more. WHY WE LOVE IT: Get ready, little astronomers! WANT TO GO? $10. 845-265-3638. boscobel.org. ››

Head to Governors Island for mini-golf art fun

Art Ahoy! A trip to Governors Island is a summer must-do. One of the best weekends to visit is in early June when the arts festival FIGMENT NYC arrives. Get your hands dirty with art making such as painting and sculpture, and enjoy some performance art and music. There’s something for all ages, and while it isn’t a festival just for families, both kids and adults will love it. A particular highlight for little ones is the artistdesigned miniature golf course, where you can putt your ball on, in, up, down, or around unique art! Don’t forget to bring sunscreen and check out Slide Hill. June 3-4, 10am-5pm. Age: All. The event is free. The ferry is $2-$2.75, some routes are free before 11:30am, ferries leave from various pick-ups in Brooklyn and Manhattan, see website for details including new routes for 2017. Governors Island. govisland.com.

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The Egg Rolls, Egg Creams, and Empanadas Festival is a celebration of the different cultures of the neighborhoods surrounding the Eldridge Street Synagogue. This annual block party celebrates Jewish, Chinese, and Puerto Rican culture and draws thousands every year. Wander around the busy stalls and experience traditional art and music, dance, crafts, and delicious traditional foods. There will be klezmer, cantorial, Chinese opera is just one of the Chinese opera, Puerto performances going on at this celebration of the immigrant culture of Rican folk music, Hebrew the Lower East Side. and Chinese scribal arts, yarmulke making, Puerto Rican mask and lace making, mah jongg, and more! Don’t leave without trying the kosher egg rolls, egg creams, and empanadas that have made the festival famous. June 18, 12-4pm. Age: All. Museum at Eldridge Street, 12 Eldridge St., Lower East Side. 212-219-0302. eldridgestreet.org. WestchesterParent 35

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Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the four no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome. Teddy Bear Tea Party with Lori Cohen FREE

WHEN: Friday, June 16, 11am WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Grab your favorite teddy bear and come to an old-fashioned tea party. Join children’s entertainer Lori Cohen for music and movement, light refreshments, and a free book for each child. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Tot Shabbat FREE

WHEN: Friday, June 16, 4pm WHERE: Chabad of the Rivertowns, 303 Broadway, Dobbs Ferry AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Bring your little ones for a program full of Shabbat songs, spirit, and tradition. Enjoy grape juice, challah, matzah balls, and more. WANT TO GO? 914-693-6100. chabadrt.org/totshabbat.

Repair Cafe FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 17, 10am-1pm WHERE: Boscobel House, 1601 Route 9D, Garrison AGES: All WHAT: Rather than tossing that appliance, article of clothing, or ceramic keepsake into a landfill, bring it to Boscobel’s Repair Café. Under the outdoor pavilion, community volunteers will share their fix-it skills. WANT TO GO? 845-265-3638. boscobel.org.

Sciencetellers FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 24, 3pm WHERE: Warner Library, 121 N. Broadway, Tarrytown AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Science experiments and storytelling combine for an action-packed adventure about a crew of quirky pirates marooned on a desert island. WANT TO GO? 914-631-7734. warnerlibrary.org.

CRAFTY KIDS Family Art Project: Rainbow Passage

WHEN: June 3-4, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-1pm WHERE: Wave Hill, West 249th Street and Independence Avenue, Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Examine the colors of the rainbow, look at light refracted through water, and create your own spectrum. WANT TO GO? Free with admission: $8; $4 seniors and students; $2 children; free for children younger than 6. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Color Your World: Field Family Coloring Club FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 10, 12pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: All WHAT: They share the art supplies, you bring the creativity. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

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Lotus Paper Lanterns

WHEN: June 10-11, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-1pm WHERE: Wave Hill, West 249th Street and Independence Avenue, Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Visit the Aquatic Garden to sketch and observe, then use bright tissue paper to make floating flowers. WANT TO GO? $8; $4 children. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Arts in the Afternoon

WHEN: Wednesday, June 14, 1:30pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburtone Ave., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Pattern and decoration artist Robert Zakanitch is interviewed by curator Laura Vookles. WANT TO GO? $6; $3 children. 914-963-4500. hrm.org.

Lego My Library FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 24, 11am WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Love to build? Kids can enjoy a monthly Lego My Library fun. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

T-Shirt Painting FREE

WHEN: Tuesday, June 27, 11:30am and 12pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Bring a plain T-shirt and turn it into a work of art. Fabric paints and pastels are provided. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Maker Space Friday FREE

WHEN: June 2-30, Fridays, 2:30-5pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 47-01 111th St., Corona, Queens AGES: All WHAT: Familes can explore different materials, concepts, and ideas while making and tinkering together. Activities cover a wide range of topics including simple circuits, wind-powered racers, hand sewing, and more. WANT TO GO? 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

Toy Boat-Making Workshop

WHEN: June 3-Aug. 26, Saturdays, 11am-3pm WHERE: Maritime Aquarium at Norwalk, 10 N. Water St., Norwalk, CT AGES: All WHAT: Visit the toy boat-making area for a fun boat-building project and take it home as a keepsake. WANT TO GO? $5 with admission: $22.95; $15.95 children. 203-8520700. maritimeaquarium.org.

Second Saturdays

WHEN: Through Dec. 9: Saturdays, 9:30-11:30am WHERE: Boscobel House, 1601 Route 9D, Garrison AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Explore the past through hands-on chores, games, and crafts the second Saturday of each month. Take a flashlight tour of the Boscobel mansion and plant your own mini herb garden. WANT TO GO? $45 for a family of four; $8 per additional person. 845265-3638. boscobel.org.

THE GREAT OUTDOORS YMCA Family Movie Night

WHEN: Friday, June 2, 6:30-9:30pm WHERE: Lake Purdys Clubhouse, 33 Lake Way, Purdys AGES: All WHAT: Bring a blanket and enjoy a movie night in the great outdoors at the beautiful Lake Purdys. WANT TO GO? See website for prices. 914-276-2398. community.ymca-cnw.org.

Family Garden Walk

WHEN: Saturday, June 3, 12pm WHERE: Wave Hill, West 249th Street and Independence Avenue, Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Join naturalist and educator Gabriel Willow on a family-friendly walk through the gardens or woodlands. WANT TO GO? $8; $2 children; free for children younger than 6. 718549-3200. wavehill.org.

FIGMENT NYC

WHEN: June 3-4, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Governors Island, Ferries leave from various locations in Brooklyn and Manhattan, see website for details, New York Harbor, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: Get your hands dirty with art making such as painting and sculpture, as well as enjoying performance art and music. WANT TO GO? $2-$2.75 ferries; some routes are free before 11:30am. 212-440-2200. govisland.com.

Mushroom Walk FREE

WHEN: Sunday, June 4, 1-3pm WHERE: Muscoot Farm, 51 Route 100, Katonah AGES: All WHAT: Learn all about mushrooms on this fun hike. WANT TO GO? 914-864-7282. muscootfarm.org.

Pollination Headquarters

WHEN: Saturday, June 24, 11am-4pm WHERE: Wave Hill, West 249th Street and Independence Avenue, Bronx AGES: All WHAT: See butterfly and insect displays, pick up self-guided tours, take home pollinator-friendly plants, and adopt a bee condo. WANT TO GO? $8; $2 children; free for children younger than 6. 718549-3200. wavehill.org.

Getting Grounded FREE

WHEN: Through Sept. 29: Wednesday-Sunday, 1-1:45pm WHERE: Stone Barns, 630 Bedford Road, Pocantico Hills AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Tour the field and engage in a conversation about farming. Learn why soil is key and what being a food citizen is all about. WANT TO GO? 914-366-6200. stonebarnscenter.org.

Insider’s Tour

WHEN: Through Oct. 7: Saturday-Sunday, 11am-12:30pm WHERE: Stone Barns, 630 Bedford Road, Pocantico Hills AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Enjoy a behind-the-scenes view of the farm. As you stroll through the pastures, talk about farm innovation and how to build a healthy and sustainable food system. WANT TO GO? $20. 914-366-6200. story.stonebarnscenter.org.

Family Farm Tour

WHEN: Through Nov. 17: Saturday-Sunday, 11:15am-12pm WHERE: Stone Barns, 630 Bedford Road, Pocantico Hills AGES: All WHAT: On this family-friendly tour, explore the farm and some of the seasonal highlights. Then walk around the farm to have a look at the animals and the vegetable gardens. WANT TO GO? $10. 914-366-6200. story.stonebarnscenter.org.

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WHEN: June 2-Oct. 27, Fridays, 12-5pm WHERE: Philipse Manor Hall, 29 Warburton Ave., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: A weekly teen-run market in downtown Yonkers features organic produce from community gardens and partnering farms in the Hudson Valley, as well as local baked goods, honey, and jams. WANT TO GO? Prices vary. 914-375-2151. groundworkhv.org. ››

Maritime Aquarium Family-Friendly TGIF Cruises

WHEN: June 2-30, Fridays, 6:30pm WHERE: Maritime Aquarium at Norwalk, 10 N. Water St., Norwalk, CT AGES: All WHAT: Take a 90-minute cruise with the family on the Spirit of the Sound. Educators will be on baord to point out signs of wildlife. All participants must be at least 42 inches tall. WANT TO GO? $29.95. 203-852-0700. maritimeaquarium.org. WestchesterParent 37

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Newsboys

WHEN: Sunday, June 25, 7pm WHERE: Stamford Center for the Arts, 61 Atlantic St., Stamford, CT AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Since arriving on the scene in 1985 in their native Australia, the Newsboys have taken Christian music by storm. WANT TO GO? $30 and up. 203-325-4466. palacestamford.org.

Sunset Wednesdays: Outdoor Music

SHOW TIME! ‘Urinetown the Musical’

WHEN: Through June 4: Sundays, 2pm and 7pm WHERE: The Play Group Theatre, 1 N. Broadway, White Plains AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Urinetown is an outrageous, laugh-out-loud musical about a lovestruck young man who becomes the leader of a revolution. This playful musical satires politics and populism, corruption and capitalism, and even musical comedies themselves. WANT TO GO? $18; $15 for children younger than 12. 914-946-4433. playgroup.org.

Boomer Comedy Unlimited

WHEN: Friday, June 9, 8-10pm WHERE: Paramount Hudson Valley Theater, 1008 Brown St., Peekskill AGES: Adult WHAT: Boomer Comedy Unlimited is the brainchild of Carol Siskind, a comedian who has performed professionally throughout the U.S. and around the world for more than 35 years. WANT TO GO? $45. 914-739-0039. paramounthudsonvalley.com.

‘Lilo & Stitch’

WHEN: Saturday, June 17, 12pm WHERE: Jacob Burns Film Center, 364 Manville Road, Pleasantville AGES: 5 and older WHAT: The galaxy’s most-wanted alien escapes his faraway planet and crash-lands in the tropical paradise of Hawaii. He’s adopted by Lilo, a lonely little girl, who names her new “dog” Stitch, and their quirky friendship blossoms as Stitch wreaks havoc, makes us laugh, and learns the meaning of ohana. WANT TO GO? $13; $7.50 for children age 13 and younger. 914-7737663. burnsfilmcenter.org.

The Sisterhood of Hip-Hop

WHEN: Saturday, June 17, 4pm WHERE: ArtsWestchester, 31 Mamaroneck Ave., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: The Sisterhood of Hip-Hop will feature a lesson in party dances led by Deena Clemente, a panel discussion with graffiti artists and b-girls, and will be followed by a DJ and dance performance. Participating artists include DJ Perly, Karen “KayLove” Pedrosa, and Peaches Rodriquez. WANT TO GO? $10. 914-428-4220. artswestchester.org.

School’s Out Celebration: Magic Show with The Great Charlini FREE

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WHEN: Wednesday, June 28, 7pm WHERE: Wave Hill, West 249th Street and Independence Avenue, Bronx AGES: All WHAT: Mary Courtney hails from a large musical family in Ireland. She is the lead singer and songwriter with her trio Morningstar. From rock ‘n’ roll to the ethereal strains of ancient Celtic music, she can sing anything and make it unforgettable. WANT TO GO? $10; $4 for children ages 6-18. 718-549-3200. wavehill.org.

Beatles vs. Stones: A Musical Showdown

WHEN: Thursday, June 29, 7:30-9:30pm WHERE: Paramount Hudson Valley Theater, 1008 Brown St., Peekskill AGES: All WHAT: Abbey Road plays beloved songs spanning the Beatles’ career and engage in a musical “showdown” of the hits against Stones tribute band Satisfaction/The International Rolling Stones Show that offers renditions of the music and style of Mick Jagger, Keith Richards, and the bad boys of the British Invasion. WANT TO GO? $30 and up. 914-739-0039. paramounthudsonvalley.com.

ONCE UPON A TIME Tales for Tails FREE

WHEN: Through June 1: Thursdays, 6pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 5-8 WHAT: The purpose of a reading to Good Dogs is to provide children with a comfortable environment to practice their reading skills. Each month, children are invited to read to a certified Good Dog at the Field Library. Sign-up is required. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Wag Your Tale! FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 10, 3pm WHERE: Yoga Tots, 54 Olmstead Road, Scarsdale AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Come and practice your reading skills with a story-loving dog. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 914-722-1300. scarsdalelibrary.org.

Book Babies FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, June 21, 11am WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 3-5 WHAT: An interactive program for the littlest library lovers and their caregivers. Enjoy stories, songs, puppets, and play time. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Rhyme Time by the Hudson

WHEN: June 16-30, Fridays, 9:30-10:15am

WHERE: Boscobel House, 1601 Route 9D, Garrison AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Joyful learning through nursery rhymes, songs, parachute play, and storytelling will spark your little one’s curiosity and imagination. WANT TO GO? $15. 845-265-3638. boscobel.org.

see the new exhibition Between I and Thou, and work with HVCCA educators and staff on a variety of fun art projects. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 children ages 8-18; free for children younger than 8. 914-788-0100. hvcca.org.

Interactive Story Time FREE

WHEN: Through Aug. 13: daily, 10am-5:45pm WHERE: American Museum of Natural History, Central Park West and 79th Street, Upper West Side, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: A bilingual exhibit exploring Cuba like never before, in partnership with the Cuban National Museum of Natural History, featuring live animals and a chance to explore recreations of the island’s wetlands, as well as a typical Cuban street and interactive zones that kids will love. WANT TO GO? $27; $17 students and seniors; $12.50 children ages 2-12. 212-769-5100. amnh.org.

WHEN: Through Aug. 9: Wednesdays, 11am WHERE: North Castle Public Library, 19 Whippoorwill Road E., Armonk AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Come listen to stories, sing songs, and play games with an interactive felt board every other week. WANT TO GO? 914-273-3887. northcastlelibrary.org.

SMARTY PANTS Bring the Kids: 2nd Saturdays

WHEN: Saturday, June 10, 9:30am-11:30am WHERE: Boscobel House, 1601 Route 9D, Garrison AGES: 3-5, adult WHAT: This month the theme is amazing architecture. Explore the past through hands-on chores, games, and crafts. Take a flashlight tour of the Boscobel mansion, take a break with a snack, and bring home a special craft. WANT TO GO? $20. 845-265-3638. boscobel.org.

Stories & Sounds From Back in the Day with Hip-Hop

WHEN: Friday, June 16, 7pm WHERE: ArtsWestchester’s Gallery, 31 Mamaroneck Ave., White Plains AGES: All WHAT: Join us for a night of performance and storytelling with songwriter, MC, and DJ, Curtis “Grandmaster Caz” Brown: an icon of early hip-hop as a member of the Cold Crush Brothers. Caz will be accompanied by Grand Wizzard Theodore, the DJ credited with the “scratching” technique. WANT TO GO? $10. 914-428-4220. artswestchester.org.

Bug Day

WHEN: Saturday, June 24, 12-4pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 47-01 111th St., Corona, Queens AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Learn about and handle a variety of bugs, and if you’re craving something more adventurous, eat some bugs at the Bug Café, where you can taste different bug-based products and learn about entomophagy, the practice of eating insects. WANT TO GO? $16; $13 children ages 2-17. 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

Good Deed of the Month Club

WHEN: Saturday, June 24, 11am-12pm WHERE: Westchester Children’s Museum, 100 Playland Park, Rye AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a kindness-themed book reading and discussion followed by an art-educator led good deed project. This program will be held the fourth Saturday of each month. Sponsored by the Make a Difference with Loukoumi Foundation. WANT TO GO? $7. 914-421-5050. discoverwcm.org.

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Picturing Female Robots and Androids

WHEN: Through Sept. 3: Monday-Friday, 9:30am-5pm; SaturdaySunday, 10am-6pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 47-01 111th St., Corona, Queens AGES: All WHAT: View images of female robots, mannequins, and dolls in films, television, video games, and more. This exhibit, curated by Julie Wosk, is based on her recent book My Fair Ladies: Female Robots, Androids, and Other Artificial Eves. WANT TO GO? $16; $13 seniors and children ages 2-17. 718-6990005. nysci.org.

CHIHULY

WHEN: Through Oct. 29: Tuesday-Sunday, 10am-6pm WHERE: The New York Botanical Garden, 2900 Southern Blvd., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: CHIHULY will spotlight world-renowned artist Dale Chihuly’s bold innovation and experimentation in a variety of media throughout his celebrated career, with approximately 20 installations, drawings, and early works revealing the evolution and development of his artistic process. WANT TO GO? Weekdays: $20; $8 children ages 2-12; weekends: $25; $10 children ages 2-12. 718-817-8700. nybg.org.

What in the World is a Herbarium?

WHEN: Through Oct. 31: Tuesday-Sunday, 10am-4pm WHERE: New York Botanical Garden, 2900 Southern Blvd., Bronx AGES: All WHAT: This special exhibition in Ross Gallery celebrates the Steere Herbarium as the centerpiece of the garden’s botanical research program, and a priceless resource for scholars from around the world. Through this exhibition, learn some of the many ways that garden scientists are working to study and save the plants of the world. WANT TO GO? Weekdays: $20; $8 children ages 2-12; weekends: $25; $10 children ages 2-12. 718-817-8700. nybg.org. ››

Drop-In & Create Saturday

WHEN: Sunday, June 25, 1-4pm WHERE: Hudson Valley Center for Contemporary Art, 1701 Main St., Peekskill AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Families and friends of all ages and abilities are welcome to

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ANIMAL LOVERS

Coffee with the Wolves

WHEN: Saturday, June 10, 8am WHERE: Wolf Conservation Center, 7 Buck Run, South Salem AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy your morning coffee, read your newspapers, and spend a relaxing morning with the wolves. WANT TO GO? $12. 914-763-2373. nywolf.org.

Pack Chat for Kids

WHEN: Sunday, June 11, 11am WHERE: Wolf Conservation Center, 7 Buck Run, South Salem AGES: All WHAT: This is the best introduction to wolves for families with young children. Learn about the role of wolves in the natural world. Then visit the ambassador wolves. WANT TO GO? $14; $11 for ages younger than 12. 914-763-2373. nywolf.org.

Wildlife Photography Workshop for Kids

WHEN: Saturday, June 17, 2pm WHERE: Wolf Conservation Center, 7 Buck Run, South Salem AGES: 9-17 WHAT: This is a special opportunity for children to photograph the wolves, with the staff offering tips and guidance. Bring iPhones and cameras. WANT TO GO? $50. 914-763-2373. nywolf.org.

Faces From the Southern Ocean

WHEN: June 3-Sept. 3, Monday-Friday, 9:30am-5pm; SaturdaySunday, 10am-6pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 47-01 111th St., Corona, Queens AGES: All WHAT: View photographs by J.J. L’Heureux featuring some of the world’s most amazing creatures. The portraits feature the faces of unique birds and mammals from Antarctica, the Southern Ocean, and its islands. WANT TO GO? $16; $13 seniors and children ages 2-17. 718-6990005. nysci.org.

Meet the Farmers, Greet the Season

WHEN: Through Nov. 19: Wednesday-Sunday, 10am-4pm WHERE: Stone Barns, 630 Bedford Road, Pocantico Hills AGES: All WHAT: Participate in hands-on activities, and drop-in tours. WANT TO GO? $20; $10 children. 914-366-6200. story. stonebarnscenter.org. 40

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WHEN: Saturday, June 3, 10am-4pm WHERE: Clay Art Center, 40 Beech St., Port Chester AGES: All WHAT: Clay Art Center Celebrates its 60th anniversary with hands-on clay activities. Try the potter’s wheel, face painting, raffle, auction, food trucks, and music. Hand-made pottery pieces will be available to the public at greatly reduced prices, with all proceeds benefitting the Clay Art Center’s programs. WANT TO GO? 914-937-2047. clayartcenter.org.

Albanian Festival FREE

WHEN: Sunday, June 4, 12-7pm WHERE: Kensico Dam, 1 Bronx River Parkway, Valhalla AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate Albanian culture with music, entertainment, and food vendors. WANT TO GO? 914-328-1542. parks.westchestergov.com/kensico-dam-plaza.

Portuguese-American Heritage Festival

WHEN: Sunday, June 18, 12-7pm WHERE: Ridge Road Park, 287 Ridge Road, Hartsdale AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy music and entertainment, crafts, and vendors. WANT TO GO? Prices vary. 914-946-8133. parks.westchestergov.com/ridge-road-park.

African-American Heritage Festival

WHEN: Sunday, June 25, 12-7pm WHERE: Kensico Dam, 1 Bronx River Parkway, Valhalla AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy music and entertainment, crafts, and food vendors. WANT TO GO? Free admission. 914-328-1542. parks.westchestergov.com/kensico-dam-plaza.

HOLIDAY FUN Father’s Day Cards FREE

WHEN: Thursday, June 15, 4:30pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: All WHAT: Make a special Father’s Day card for a dad in your life. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Burgers, Beers and B-Flat Minor

WHEN: Sunday, June 18, 3pm concert; 5pm barbecue WHERE: The Concert Hall at the Purchase College Performing Arts Center, 735 Anderson Hill Road, Purchase AGES: All WHAT: This event stars Andrew Litton as the conductor and Conrad Tao on piano. There will be a post-concert Father’s Day barbecue that will include live music and a chance to mingle with the artists. WANT TO GO? $25; $12 children with concert ticket purchase. 914-682-3707. westchesterphil.org.

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Father’s Day

WHEN: Sunday, June 18, 12-10pm WHERE: Playland Park, 1 Playland Park, Rye AGES: All WHAT: Admission is $15, and dads ride for free. WANT TO GO? $15. 914-719-7145. playlandpark.org.

Throw Daddy to the Wolves

WHEN: Sunday, June 18, 11am WHERE: Wolf Conservation Center, 7 Buck Run, South Salem AGES: All WHAT: Learn about wolves and celebrate Father’s Day. WANT TO GO? $14; $11 for children younger than 12. 914-763-2373. nywolf.org.

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MUSICIANS Fiesta with Flor FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 3, 11-11:30am WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 3-8 WHAT: A fun bilingual (English-Spanish) music program for children with a parent or caregiver. Flor Bromley teaches Spanish through music, movement, puppetry, and theater-based games. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Carnegie Hall Neighborhood Concert: Sbongiseni Duma

WHEN: Sunday, June 4, 2-3pm WHERE: New York Hall of Science, 47-01 111th St., Corona, Queens AGES: All WHAT: When singer, songwriter, dancer, and choreographer Sbongiseni Duma takes the stage, he transports audience members to South Africa’s KwaZulu-Natal province. “Bongi” is joined by an ensemble that features African djembe drums, percussion, acoustic guitar, and bass for a family-friendly performance that explores the unique features of South African music. WANT TO GO? $16; $13 seniors and children ages 2-17; free with registration. 718-699-0005. nysci.org.

Story Garden with Miss Alexia FREE

WHEN: June 9-23, Fridays, 11am WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Join Miss Alexia for stories, songs, and her magic ukulele. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Petite Concert with Chi Chi Bestman FREE

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MOVERS & SHAKERS Baby Yoga FREE

WHEN: Monday, June 5, 9:30am WHERE: Scarsdale Public Library, 54 Olmsted Road, Scarsdale AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Enjoy a special time practicing yoga with your baby. This yoga class will integrate stretching, strength building, and mindfulness meditation. WANT TO GO? 914-722-1303. scarsdalelibrary.org.

Yoga in the Garden

WHEN: Saturday, June 17, 11am-12pm WHERE: Hudson River Museum, 511 Warburtone Ave., Yonkers AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy the view as you breathe and move in nature in this mixed-level class. WANT TO GO? $6; $3 children. 914-963-4500. hrm.org.

Family Yoga FREE

WHEN: June 8-22, Thursdays, 5:30-6pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: All WHAT: Energize your body and find some inner calm with the whole family. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Bicycle Sunday FREE

WHEN: June 4-25, Sundays, 10am-2pm WHERE: Bronx River Parkway, Scarsdale Road, White Plains AGES: All WHAT: During Bicycle Sundays in June, a portion of the Bronx River Parkway is closed to cars for the exclusive use of bicyclists, joggers, walkers, scooters, and strollers. WANT TO GO? 914-422-1400. westchestergov.com.

Yoga with a View

WHEN: June 5-Sept. 4, Mondays, 6pm WHERE: Boscobel House, 1601 Route 9D, Garrison AGES: Adult WHAT: Enjoy yoga with a view. WANT TO GO? $18. 845-265-3638. boscobel.org.

WHEN: Tuesday, June 27, 10:30am and 11:30am WHERE: Scarsdale Public Library, 54 Olmsted Road, Scarsdale AGES: 3-5 WHAT: A child-friendly concert with Chi Chi Bestman. WANT TO GO? 914-722-1303. scarsdalelibrary.org.

Musical Tots FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, June 28, 1pm WHERE: The Field Library, 4 Nelson Ave., Peekskill AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Join Lori Cohen for an interactive program of music and movement. WANT TO GO? 914-737-0847. fieldkids.wordpress.com.

Coming up next month: JULY 3-4: Special Holiday Celebration Fireworks at Playland, Rye JULY 9: Butterfly Walk at Muscoot Farm, Katonah JULY 22: Family Fun Day at Tibbetts Brook Park, Yonkers

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It’s time to feel the sand between your toes! Pack up an umbrella, some chairs, a picnic, and a good book, and hit the beach with the kids. We’ve got all of your local sandy spots to enjoy a sunny day this summer, so why hesitate? There’s an entire ocean out there waiting for you to splash around. Want some time to relax? Have the kids compete in a sandcastle contest so you can focus on “me time” until you have to pick a winner. Note: Dates and prices are projected; call ahead or check your local beach’s website to confirm all details.

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on weekends. Residents (9am-4pm): $8 weekday parking fee, $9 on weekends; $7 beach admission on weekdays, $8 on weekends. From 4pm-close, parking is $5 and from 4-7pm, beach admission is $5 per person for residents, $7 for non-residents on weekdays, and $8 per person on weekends. Children younger than 13 are admitted free. Swimming and park

Located at Pelham Bay Park, this beach 1.1-mile sandy beach offers picnic areas and playgrounds.

Croton Point Park Croton-on-Hudson 914-862-5290; westchestergov.com/parks Hours: Beach: May 27-June 18: weekends and holidays, 11am-6:30pm; June 23-Sept. 4: Wednesday-Sunday, 11am-6:30pm. Park: daily, 8am to dusk. Cost: $4; $3 children ages 5-11; free for children younger than 5; $10 parking ($5 with Westchester County Parks pass). This 508-acre park on a peninsula on the east shore of the Hudson River offers a beach, boating, fishing, picnic grounds, hiking, a playground, a nature center, and camping. Glen Island Park/Beach New Rochelle 914-813-6720; westchestergov.com/parks Hours: Beach: May 27-June 18: weekends and holidays, 11am-6:30pm; June 23-Sept. 4: Wednesday-Sunday, 11am-6:30pm. Park: daily, 8am-dusk. Cost: Open only to Westchester residents who hold a New York state driver’s license with a Westchester address or a Westchester County Park pass: $150 (valid for two adults and any children ages 12-18 in the same household, for three years); $75 seniors ages 60 and older (valid for six years). Daily 42

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parking fee is $10 without a pass ($5 with Westchester County Parks pass). Beach admission for New Rochelle residents: $4; $3 children ages 5-11; free for children younger than 5. Beach admission for Westchester residents: $10; $5 children 5-11. Swimming, fishing, picnic grounds, playground, hiking, boat ramp, and refreshments Harbor Island Park Beach/Steven E. Johnston Beach Mamaroneck 914-777-7784; village.mamaroneck.ny.us/rec Hours: May 26-Sept. 4: 9am-8pm; swimming, 9am-6pm. Cost: $7 parking on weekdays; $10 weekends and holidays. Beach admission: $7; $4 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 2. Swimming, spray park, baseball, soccer, tennis (private club), boating, and fishing Oakland Beach/Rye Town (Municipal Beach) Rye 914-967-0965 townofryeny.com/rye-town-park-and-beach Hours: May 26-Sept. 4: daily, 9am-7pm Cost: Non-residents (9am-4pm): $15 weekday parking fee, $20 weekends; $10 beach admission on weekdays, $15

Rye Playland Pool and Beach Rye 914-813-7010; playland.org Hours: Beach: May 27-June 18: weekends and holidays, 11am-6:30pm; June 23-Sept. 4: Wednesday-Sunday, 11am-6:30pm. Pool: June 23-Sept. 4: Wednesday-Sunday, 11am-6:30pm. Cost: Beach admission: $4; $3 children ages 5-11 and seniors with county ID; free for children younger than 5. Pool: $6; $4 children ages 5-11; $3 seniors; free for children younger than 5. Parking: $10 daily and $15 holidays. Lockers and umbrellas are available to rent for a small fee. Pool, boardwalk, rides, boating, arcade, mini golf, and concerts

Bronx Orchard Beach and Promenade Pelham Bay Park 718-430-1891; nycgovparks.org/parks/ pelham-bay-park/facilities/beaches Hours: Year-round: daily, 10am-6pm. Swimming: Memorial Day Weekend through Sept. 4. Cost: FREE admission. Parking: $7 weekdays, $9 weekends and holidays. A 1.1-mile beach, promenade, changing areas, showers, food and specialty shops, playgrounds, picnic areas, basketball, volleyball, and handball courts

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Zoom down twisty roller coasters, splash around on a water slide, and don’t forget to collect a big prize at the arcade. This summer, take your family to a local amusement park, or get out of town for a weekend of big play. Every place on our list has kid-friendly rides and attractions, and something for the grown-ups, too. Call ahead or visit the website before your day out at the amusement park, as hours, ticket prices, and attractions are subject to change.

Take a ride on the Wooden Warrior junior roller coaster at Quassy Amusement Park in Middlebury, CT.

Westchester County Rye Playland 100 Playland Parkway, Rye 914-813-7010; ryeplayland.org Hours: Late May-Sept. 4, hours vary; see website. Price: Pay-one-price admission: $30 (includes all rides); $20 for children shorter than 48 inches; $10 for spectators; free for children younger than 2. Westchester County residents receive $5 off with proof of residency. Along with many rides, Rye Playland has a beach, pool, boardwalk, and pier with lake boating, picnic area, and mini golf. There are fireworks every Friday night in the summer, starting in July. Willson’s Waves Willson’s Woods Park, East Lincoln Avenue, Mount Vernon 914-813-6990 parks.westchestergov.com/willsons-woods-park Hours: daily, 8am-dusk, year-round. Pool hours: (June 23-Sept. 4) daily, 11am-6:30pm

Price: $15; $8 park pass holder; $10 guests of park pass holders; $5 children ages 5-11 of park pass holders; free for children younger than 5 The park consists of an historic bathhouse, wave pool with 3-foot waves, 18-foot-high water slide, cascades, and fountains in a water playground; spray deck; plus areas for picnics and fishing.

Connecticut Lake Compounce 822 Lake Ave., Bristol 860-583-3300; lakecompounce.com Hours: May 25-Sept. 4; hours vary, check the website. Price: Platinum Pass: $84.99. Summer Pass: $55. Single day ticket: $43.99; $33.99 juniors shorter than 52 inches; $22.99, seniors ages 60 and older; discounts available online. This is Connecticut’s largest waterpark, where thrills and chills await the family with more than 50 rides and a kids’ area for ages 3-10.

Ocean Beach Park 98 Neptune Ave., New London 800-510-7263; ocean-beach-park.com Hours: May 29-Sept. 4: daily; opens at 9am on weekdays and 8am on weekends; closing times vary. Price: $6 walk-in admission (includes beach and boardwalk access); $7 for swimming pool access; $7 for miniature golf. Parking fee (includes admission for everyone in the car: $30 holidays; $24 weekends; $18 weekdays; $8 weeknights, $10 fireworks nights; free on Monday Cruise Nights. Features a carousel and old-time kiddie and adult rides as well as a ½-mile boardwalk, arcade, 18-hole miniaturegolf course, playground, waterslide and Spray Park, and a beach on the Atlantic Ocean. There are also festivals and nightly entertainment throughout the summer; check the website for a full schedule of events. Ocean Beach Park has an Olympic-sized pool as well as a food court and banquet halls with catering abilities. There are also guided kayak tours, a gift shop, and a seasonal fullservice restaurant and café. Quassy Amusement And Waterpark 2132 Middlebury Road (Route 64), Middlebury 203-758-2913; quassy.com Hours: June 2-Sept. 4; hours vary; check the website for full schedule. Price: Pay-one-price: $28.99; $24.99 for children shorter than 45 inches. Pay-perride: $3.75 per ticket; 12 tickets: $42 (each ride is 1 ticket). Features a wooden roller coaster, The Wooden Warrior. Quassy also has the Free Fall ‘N Drop tower along with the Kiddie Playport, a mega playground complete with slides and crawl-through spaces. Check out Splash Away Bay Water Park and Quassy Beach for summer water fun. Find the full guide at ›› nymetroparents.com/amusementparks

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FOOD & NUTRITION

Grilling with Chef

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Tips for cooking on the barbecue from a grill master—just in time for a Father’s Day feast By Katelin Walling; recipes by Chef John Stage

Chef John Stage, owner of Dinosaur Bar-B-Que in Brooklyn and Manhattan, and, most recently, Flip Bird and Apizza Regionale, located in Gotham Market at The Ashland in Downtown Brooklyn

arm weather brings grilling season, and what better time to grill a feast than Father’s Day? But before you crank up the heat and throw some meat on the fire, you’ll want to check out these do’s and don’ts from Chef John Stage, the man behind Dinosaur Bar-B-Que, with nine locations, including Brooklyn and Manhattan, and two new restaurants located in Gotham Market at The Ashland in Brooklyn: Apizza Regionale, serving pizza made from locally sourced ingredients, and Flip Bird, serving rotisserie and fried free-range, antibiotic- and growth hormone-free chicken. So grab your tongs and wire brush, fire up the grill, and cook a feast fit for the king of your castle—maybe one of Stage’s recipes (right)?

Grilling Do’s

Clean your grill before and after cooking. Food releases more easily from a clean grill, so “while the grill is still warm, at the end of your grilling, take a wire brush to it and hit it pretty good. You don’t want all the build up from the grilling,” Stage says. “And do it again before you start [next time].”

Try fruits and veggies on the grill. Stage says any fruit or vegetable that won’t fall through the grate on the grill will work, but this time of year he especially enjoys grilled asparagus, and corn on the cob a little later in the season.

Grilling Don’ts

Manhandle the meat. Try to avoid poking the meat and flipping it too early. “If it doesn’t want to be flipped, it lets you know. If it’s sticking to the grill just leave it alone, don’t flip it. It will release on its own when it’s ready to flip,” Stage says. Buy just any meat. “I like to look for marbling,” Stage says. “I’m looking for a decent fat content.” You want to see the white flecks of fat throughout the meat, he says, which will self-baste the meat while cooking, and fat is the flavor of the meat. Lose your patience. This goes hand in hand with not manhandling the meat. Cooking on the grill takes patience, Stage says, and that’s when people flip the meat too early. “That’s the wrong approach,” he says.

Master the fire. Every grill has hot and low spots, Stage says, and you’ll want to know where they are. “There are some meats that you want to grill low and some you want to grill high. With any type of barbecue you want to go low, and you tend to go high on any type of grilled meat Use expensive cuts, especially if it’s your first time cooking on a grill. “Keep it simple,” Stage says. “Do a burger. That way if you like steaks or burgers or chops,” Stage says. “Then you want be able to screw it up, you’re not out a lot of money. That will give you a get that food from high to low to get it in a resting spot.” good understanding of how the fire and grill works.” Season your meat before grilling. Especially with a burger or Keeping all these do’s and don’ts in mind, as with anything, the steak, give it a good salt and then get a sear on it. “You want to get that crust. It’s a matter of putting the meat on the grill, getting more you practice, the better you’ll get at it. “Whether it’s a gas or that good crust, and leaving it on one side before flipping it so you charcoal grill, once you understand the nuance of it and understand the fire, get a good piece of meat, and have a little patience,” Stage do get that good sear. Then once you get that good sear, the meat says. “That’s how you get good at it.” will release from the grill,” Stage says. 44

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Serves 4 Ingredients For the steak: • 4 8oz. skirt steaks, trimmed • ¼ cup red rub (recipe below) • ¼ cup olive oil For the Salsa: • 1½ lbs. plum tomatoes • 2 Tbsp. olive oil • ¼ cup diced red onion • ½ tsp. minced garlic • 2 tsp. minced jalapeno • ½ cup avocado, diced • 2 Tbsp. chopped fresh cilantro • 2 tsp. lime juice • 1 tsp. kosher salt • 1 tsp. sugar • ¼ tsp. Tabasco sauce • 2 tsp. barbecue sauce For the Rub: • ¼ cup smoked paprika • ¼ cup Kosher salt • ¼ cup sugar in the raw • 2 Tbsp. dark chili powder • 1 Tbsp. granulated garlic • 1 Tbsp. granulated onion • 1½ Tbs. black pepper • 1 tsp. cumin • 1 tsp. celery salt • ¼ tsp. cayenne pepper

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grill to medium heat. Core and split tomatoes in half lengthwise, place them in a bowl, and toss them with the oil. Grill them on both sides until charred, transfer them to a cutting board, and chop to a chunky texture. Add them back to the bowl and gently stir in the rest of the ingredients until combined. 2. Make the steaks: Mix rub ingredients together. Combine ¼ cup of rub and the olive oil in a bowl to form a paste and rub it on both sides of the steak. Preheat grill to high. Remove the steaks from the marinade and pat them dry. Grill steaks to desired temperature, let rest, and slice across the grain. 3. Serve with the Charred Tomato and Avocado Salsa.

Flip Bird’s Spatchcock: Chicken with Harissa spices

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Red Rub Skirt Steak with Charred Tomato and Avocado Salsa

Cooked on a gas grill Chicken

Ingredients • 1 Whole Chicken, approximately 3½ lb. • 3-4 Tbsp. Harissa spices (recipe below) • 2 Tbsp. Olive oil Directions 1. To Spatchcock Chicken: Using poultry shears or a sharp knife, cut down on each side of backbone/spine and remove completely. Turn chicken over and press down, flattening chicken as much as possible. 2. Coat chicken with olive oil and spices, completely cover, and let sit in refrigerator for a couple of hours. 3. For gas grill, turn on two burners to medium high and leave off one burner. This will create indirect heat. You want the internal temperature of grill to be approximitely 350-375º. Adjust burners as necessary. 4. Place chicken skin side up on the side of grill with the burner off. Close lid and cook for 50 minutes, until the thickest part of thigh reads 165º.

5. Lower heat on burners to medium-low and flip chicken skin side down onto direct heat for 5-8 minutes to crispen and tender skin. Don’t let it burn. Remove from grill, let rest, light season, and serve. Harissa spices

Ingredients • ¼ cup smoked paprika • 2 Tbsp. fine sea salt • 2 Tbsp. Sugar • 1½ Tbsp. turmeric • 1½ Tbsp. cumin seed • 1½ Tbsp. fennel seed • 1½ Tbsp. granulated garlic • 1½ Tbsp. sumac • 1½ Tbsp. cinnamon • 1½ Tbsp. ground ginger • 1½ Tbsp. black pepper • 1½ Tbsp. Szechuan peppercorns Directions 1. Toast and grind cumin and fennel seed. 2. Blend all spices evenly.

Chef John Stage is the owner of Dinosaur Bar-B-Que, which has nine locations including Harlem and Brooklyn, and two newly opened restaurants in Gotham Market at The Ashland in Downtown Brooklyn: Flip Bird, a rotisserie and friend chicken establishment, and Apizza Regionale, which uses only locally sourced ingredients.

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opular opinion on the legalization of recreational marijuana has changed dramatically in the last decade. Today, 57 percent of U.S. adults say the use of marijuana should be made legal, while 37 percent say it should be illegal. A decade ago, opinion on legalizing marijuana was nearly the reverse: 32 percent favored legalization, while 60 percent were opposed, according to a 2016 Pew Research Poll. While marijuana is still illegal federally, recreational and medical use is permitted in eight states, and medical use is allowed in more than half the country, including New York and New Jersey. “With legalization [for recreational use] comes increased availability and a decrease in the perception of harm among children and adolescents,” says Amy Goldstein, communications director of the National Family Partnership. But studies from the World Health Organization and The National Academy of Sciences show just the opposite: Marijuana can be addictive and harmful. Chances of becoming dependent on marijuana can be up to 50 percent for some users, according to Smart Approaches to Marijuana, an alliance dedicated to a health-first approach to marijuana policy, and regular use is dangerous to the adolescent brain—in some cases linked to permanent reductions in IQ, respiratory problems, injury, psychosis, and suicide. “When people begin using marijuana as teenagers, the drug may reduce thinking, memory, and learning functions and affect how the brain builds connections between the areas necessary for these functions. Marijuana’s effect on these abilities may last a long time or even be permanent,” Goldstein says. But with these new state laws, kids are being inundated with messages 46

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that the drug is harmless—and it’s more important today than ever that parents understand the risks of marijuana when used recreationally. “There are new television commercials coming after kids and young adults,” says Sue Rusche, president and CEO of National Families in Action. She refers to the T-Mobile Super Bowl commercial featuring Martha Stewart and Snoop Dog having a potluck supper with thinly veiled references to pot. “There were purple cushions, marijuana vines, and other pot references,” she says. “That kind of stuff comes after kids. It’s the new tobacco industry, only worse.” Medical marijuana—which has been approved for treating symptoms of a number of diseases including cancer, HIV infection or AIDS, multiple sclerosis, and epilepsy—is a different story: Though it remains controversial and the American Academy of Pediatrics disapproves of its use in children, it is a topic that parents should discuss with their doctor if their child suffers from one of these diseases. In states where marijuana is fully legal, there are billboards advertising where to get it. Nationally, there are websites such as weedmaps. com that tell you where you can buy pot and even have it delivered. Paraphernalia is not the only way to indulge anymore. Legalization has spurred a boom in pot “edibles.” THC concentrate is mixed into almost any type of food or drink, including candies, soda, and baked goods. Today, these edibles comprise at least half of Colorado’s marijuana market, according to a report by SAM. There are even edible recipes on the Internet. “These foods are being left around,” Rusche says. “Babies and toddlers are eating them. They are rushed to the ICU.” “Marijuana is more potent today than it was in the 1960s and ’70s

even through the ’90s,” Rusche continues. “In those days the THC levels were 1, 2, 3, 4 percent. As marijuana growers begin cross breeding the average level of THC is now 12-15 percent.” But all is not lost. “Parents have the power to help our children grow up to be healthy and drug free,” Goldstein says. And it is never too early to start.

Ages 3-6

Model a healthy relationship to drugs and alcohol. “In very young children parents want to model behaviors,” says Susan Newman, Ph.D., a social psychologist who specializes in parenting issues. “Always use drugs and alcohol moderately. You think kids aren’t watching but they are.” Take advantage of teachable moments. “There are teachable moments,” says Peggy Sapp, executive director of the National Family Partnership. “You can use gummy vitamins. You can say, ‘These taste like candy but they’re not, they’re medicine and you can only have one a day.’” Eat dinner as a family. Even at this young age getting together for meals has a positive impact on kids, Newman says. You can model listening and sharing events of your day. “There are several studies that show the more dinners you have with children, the less likely they are to try dangerous substances,” she says. “They feel supported, they get heard, and it’s a great opportunity to talk about all this.”

Elementary School

Express clear disapproval for drug use. “Marijuana use was much less prevalent among youths who perceived strong parental disapproval for trying marijuana once or twice than for those who did not,” according to the 2013 National Survey on Drug Use and Health from the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration. What Happens When You See Commercials and Billboards? “Help [kids] become media literate by asking questions about what they think the commercial or message are trying to tell them and why. It’s a good opportunity to ask questions about what they think they know about marijuana, what they’ve heard from their friends, who they perceive to be using it—and responding to those questions with facts, calmly and clearly,” Goldstein says. Tell your kids that even in states where marijuana is legal, it is only legal for adults of a certain age, and regulated by law the way alcohol is, until age 21. It is still considered illegal and harmful for teens and the developing teen brain, which is not fully matured until age 25, according to Josie Feliz, director of communications for the Partnership for Drug-Free Kids. Talk about family values. “Discuss incidents with friends in general about anti-social behavior,” Newman says. “If some child in the neighborhood throws rocks at someone’s dog, you need to discuss values and what’s important. For example you can say, ‘In this family we value respect and not following negative examples.” Address negative behaviors. According to Joseph Lee, M.D., American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry member and expert specializing in substance abuse, there can be telltale signs and many years of behavior before a child turns to substance abuse. “A child might have behavior problems in school,” he says. “He could be telling white lies and have trouble with remorse or empathy. These issues should be addressed.”

Middle School

Know your kids’ friends. Studies show younger teens, those 13 and

older, are much more influenced by their peers. “Be aware of where your kids are and who they are with,” Newman says. “Being vigilant can pay off.” “Ask them how their friends are using and why they are,” adds Susan Weiss, Ph.D., director of the Division of Extramural Research at The National Institute on Drug Abuse. “Tell them, ‘Your friends may be taking risks with things you may not want to do.’” Team up with other adults in your kids’ lives. “Know who the parents are,” Goldstein says. “Work together with the parents of your children’s friends to set common boundaries and monitor behavior. There’s strength in numbers. By getting to know your children’s friends’ parents and joining forces, you are essentially building a safety net for your children. Plus, supporting each other during times when you feel worn out can empower you to stay focused on helping your kids grow up healthy and drug free.” Model and introduce healthy coping mechanisms and hobbies. Middle School can be a time of high stress, Goldstein says. Children go through puberty while experiencing pressure to fit in and gaining more independence. It’s important for children to be exposed to healthy ways of coping with stress, whether it’s through daily exercise, getting out in nature, yoga, meditation, or playing their favorite sport.

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Be Available. Parents should be honest about the risk to kids, Weiss says. “But if your child is using it find out why—some are depressed, some are anxious. They are using it to solve problems. Tell them this is not a good way and there are better ways of coping.” Discuss family history and what they see in the news. Talk about family members with addictions and family members with mental illness, Weiss says. “When a celebrity or local person in the news is in trouble for marijuana or other substances, it is an opportunity for parents to take advantage of the situation and discuss it in detail,” Newman says. “You want to say something like this happened to this person and these are the dangers of using marijuana and other drugs.” Make them aware that not everyone is doing it. According to the latest National Survey on Drug Use and Health, only 7 percent (1 out of 14) of 12- to 17-year-olds have reported using marijuana in the last month. “Sadly the misconception that everyone is doing it, which is common for teens, leads to increased use,” Goldstein says. “Many prevention organizations are aware of this and are investing in marketing campaigns, which help to reduce alcohol and drug use by educating teens about the actual use by their peers, based on surveys done in a school or community.” “You can show them a site like weedmaps.com and say, ‘Look how many sites are exploiting kids and breaking federal laws. These folks don’t care about your health, they only care about making money’,” Rusche says. Cultivate a positive family culture. It’s important that you spend quality time with your kids and have a good relationship, Goldstein says. Your kids need to know that they can trust and talk to you. “You don’t know what outside influences are going to do to your teenager,” Newman says. “The only way to combat this is by how you as a parent behave.” Dana Klosner-Wehner is a Long Islander who enjoys writing about parenting issues. Her topics are quelled from her own experiences in raising two kids.

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PARTY PLACES A-GAME SPORTS 856 Main St., New Rochelle 914-278-9477 agamesports.net; info@agamesports.net A-Game Sports offers a variety of birthday party packages for children of all ages. Each 90-minute party includes supervised playtime with two coaches on a private section of turf. ARTISTREE PERFORMING ARTS 114 W. Boston Post Road, Mamaroneck 914-835-2200 artistreearts.com; heather@artistreearts.com Artistree Performing Arts creates amazing birthday parties for children ages 1-10. Have your party in our beautifully renovated studio or let us come to you with just the entertainment. BACH TO ROCK MAMARONECK 130 Mamaroneck Ave., Mamaroneck 914-341-1457 mamaroneck.bachtorock.com mamaroneck@bachtorock.com Looking for a fun birthday party at a reasonable price? We have three different parties: Rock Star, Karaoke, or Rock City, for an unforgettable experience! BLUE MOON MEXICAN CAFÉ 7-27 Pondfield Road, Bronxville 914-337-4000 42 Kinderkamack Road, Woodcliff Lake, NJ 201-782-9500 23 E. Palisade Ave., Englewood, NJ 201-541-0600 327 Franklin Ave., Wyckoff, NJ 201-891-1331 595 Broadway, Norwood, NJ 201-784-3311 bluemoonmexicancafe.com Looking to spice up your child’s next birthday party without sending your savings south of the border? Your party guests will revel in a fun-filled celebration with a mouth-watering menu. Call today to find out more! CHOCOLATIONS 607 E. Boston Post Road, Mamaroneck 914-777-3600 chocolations.com; maria@chocolations.com Have your child’s next party at Chocolations. Each child will become a chocolatier and create their own chocolate bar, and have a cupcake lesson in which they will transform a plain cupcake into an elaborate one.

CREATIVE CORNER OF LARCHMONT 7 Addison St., Larchmont 914-833-2880 creativecornerlarchmont.com creativecornerlarchmont@gmail.com Creative Corner is the perfect place to celebrate a birthday! Art party options include wood toys, treasure boxes, canvas bags, ceramic piggy banks, and canvas paintings. We will help every step of the way. DAVE AND BUSTER’S PELHAM MANOR 881 Pelham Parkway, Pelham Manor 914-380-8506 daveandbusters.com/specialevents beatriz_peneda@daveandbusters.com Dave & Buster’s of Pelham Manor is the best place for birthday parties, with great food and games all in one place, it’s the perfect party space. DINOSAURS ROCK®, GEMS ROCK®, OCEANS ROCK® EVENTS AND SUPPLIES 800-411-3466 dinosaursrock.com dinosaursrocksuperstore.com dinosaursrock2@gmail.com We bring the museum to you! Amazing parties and school events for ages 3-13. Hands-on! Take home real fossils and minerals from a dig, excavation, or gemstone mining. Fascinating themes: Dinosaurs and Fossils, Minerals, or Oceans. FASHION ARTS STUDIO OF WESTCHESTER 168A Irving Ave., Port Chester 917-995-3191 fashionartsstudio.com Have a fashion design theme party with The Fashion Arts Studio. It offers three themes: a Fashion Drawing Party, a Fashion Tote-Making Party, and a Fashion T-Shirt Decorating Party! FUNFUZION AT NEW ROC CITY 29 LeCount Place (Exit 16 off I-95), New Rochelle Party Central: 914-637-7575, option 1 funfuziononline.com Calling all birthday superstars! You and your guests will be dazzled by a unique, interactive party experience! GYMCATS GYMNASTICS AND BIRTHDAY PARTY CENTER 1 Odell Plaza at Equalize Fitness, Yonkers 914-965-7676; gymcats.net We are famous for our unique private birthday parties. Our enthusiastic, interactive staff will have partygoers laughing

and yelling as they swing on rings, jump, bounce, climb, and roll through our super obstacle course. HOMMOCKS PARK ICE RINK Boston Post Road and Weaver Street, Larchmont 914-834-1069 hommocksparkicerink.org Have your birthday party on ice! Host your next special party at the coolest place in town, Mamaroneck’s popular enclosed Hommocks Park ice-skating rink. HOUSE OF SPORTS WESTCHESTER 1 Elm St., Ardsley 914-479-5419 houseofsportsny.com The House of Sports is Westchester’s ultimate birthday party zone for children of all ages! Give your child the party of their dreams by hosting a sports-themed bash at Westchester’s premier athletic facility. THE HUDSON CREAMERY 55 Hudson Ave., Peekskill 914-293-7811 thehudsoncreamery.com Westchester birthday parties with a sweet twist! Let us host your next birthday party. We provide the fun, a whimsical place, and all the ice cream you can eat. JODI’S GYM 25 Hubbels Drive, Mount Kisco 914-244-8811 244 E. 84th St., Manhattan 212-772-7633; jodisgym.com Kids run, jump, climb, tumble, slide, bounce, and giggle to their hearts’ delight at Jodi’s Gym, at which action-packed parties and unmatched experience have won children’s hearts for 35 years. LIFE THE PLACE TO BE 2 Lawrence St., Ardsley 914-591-4400 lifetheplacetobe.com/kids-parties/ steven@lifetheplacetobe.com LIFE turns children’s parties into lifelong memories. Choose from a wide array of exciting themes, from laser tag to dance parties, runway glamour to inflatable madness to bowling, karaoke, and create-a-furry-friend parties! THE LITTLE GYM 777 White Plains Road, Scarsdale 914-722-0072; tlgscarsdaleny.com 2121 Broadway, 2nd Floor (between 74th and 75th streets), Upper West Side, Manhattan 212-799-1225; tlgupperwestsideny.com 207 E. 94th St. (between Second and Third avenues), Upper East Side, Manhattan 212-787-1124; tlguppereastsideny.com 28 Franklin Turnpike, Waldwick, NJ 201-445-4444; tlgwaldwicknj.com

A private party at The Little Gym is a perfect way to celebrate your child’s next birthday. Gymnastics, games, obstacle courses, trampoline, sports, and music are tailored to your child’s interests! MUSIC CONSERVATORY OF WESTCHESTER 216 Central Ave., White Plains 914-761-3900 musicconservatory.org Celebrate your child’s birthday at the Music Conservatory with an introductory music skills class, or perhaps treat them to a trial lesson in any instrument or voice! MUSICAL MUNCHKINS 167 Scarsdale Road, Tuckahoe 914-771-7000 musicalmunchkins.com Musical Munchkins is the perfect birthday party activity for babies through age 5! Enjoy group drumming, funny favorite sing-along songs, fabulous dancing scarves, and more! PLAYLAND ICE CASINO 100 Playland Parkway, Rye 914-481-5941 playlandice.com Kids and families love PlayLand Ice in Rye. You and your guests can have the ice all to yourself. Visit us online for more information. SPORTIME USA 380 Saw Mill River Road, Elmsford 914-592-2111 x2 sportimeusa.com Birthday parties? That’s our specialty! Celebrate your birthday at Sportime USA, the coolest place to have a party in Westchester. STUDIO B DANCE CENTER 277 White Plains Road (entrance on Prospect Avenue), Eastchester 914-793-2799 studiobdance.com Each party at Studio B is uniquely designed to give the birthday child an exciting, personalized experience. Boys and girls ages 2 and older enjoy dancing and playing games to their favorite music. WESTCHESTER SKATING ACADEMY (WSA) 91 Fairview Park Drive (Route 9A), Elmsford 914-347-8232 skatewsa.com Westchester Skating Academy: the coolest place to have your party! All parties include ice-skating, skate rentals, a private party room, a party facilitator, pizza, and beverages. YOUNG AT ART WORKSHOP INC. 1088 Central Ave., Scarsdale 914-723-9229 A unique birthday party experience—each child brings home a personalized piece of art!

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Rod Howe and Mark Pedersen

VOICES Three Decades and Counting ››

How we, a gay couple with two adopted sons, raised our kids during changing times By Rod Howe and Mark Pedersen

e met in Boston in 1986 and quickly cut to the chase. One of us indicated that he planned to adopt a child, since he had known he wanted to be a parent since the age of 12. The other shared he was HIV positive and had never thought about the possibility of parenthood. Fast forward through a brief romance, moving in together, marching in front of then-governor Michael Dukakis’ home to oppose an intolerant foster care policy, and then turning to foreign adoption options. It is now 31 years later; we have raised our two adopted sons from Cambodia and now are enjoying being grandfathers to two granddaughters. The journey in many ways is very different than the one we had envisioned, but it is ours, and we are in equal measures humbled, proud, a bit bruised, and ultimately contented. As far as we are concerned, whoever coined the phrase “Practice makes perfect” clearly was not a parent. We have made our share of mistakes—as did our parents and their parents and so on throughout history—but we haven’t been terrible parents. Sometimes it was the thing we swore we would never say to our child that we did say in the heat of the moment. Sometimes it was something of our own creation that was equally hurtful or certainly not very helpful. Sometimes it seemed like we didn’t have better options. Now that our sons are adults (ages 19 and 30) the challenges they present are vastly different from when they were younger (not surprisingly), and we are sometimes at a total loss for how to react or what to say. We try to remember the maxim that if you openly disagree with something your child is doing he will tend to cling all the more tightly to that behavior. And as parents of children from another culture, we have always had to consider whether our perspective is objectively “right” or only makes sense from the standpoint of the lens with which we see the world. Biological parents sometimes say their children are so different from themselves that they swear the child must have been switched at birth. We held no expectations that our children would look like us or act like us, and they haven’t disappointed. The world certainly has changed since we were in our 20s, especially in terms of how alternative families are perceived and

The authors’ sons when they were children, circa 2001

received. Not too long ago our teenage son introduced us to one of his friends, and she shrieked, “You have two gay dads! That’s awesome!” We were surprised that she—and everyone else in the school—didn’t already know, and we wondered if our son was somehow ashamed of our family constellation. (Weren’t we all ashamed of our parents for one reason or another at some point in our lives?) On the other hand, maybe he just did not see any need to mention it. In his last year of high school, this same young man came out to us as bisexual in the midst of a play in which he was acting. He had blocked us from a number of Facebook posts in which he had been questioning who he was, but some family members and friends had reported back to us already. Prior to this we had always been forbidden from setting foot anywhere near where he might be street dancing or acting in a play, so we knew something was up when he invited us to this performance. I’m afraid that the shock value wasn’t present on our faces as he made his announcement during the talk-back after the play. Both of our sons have felt free to experiment with who they are and are very accepting of others whose way of being in the world may not be considered the norm. They are very empathetic to those who are bullied or are somehow labeled and treated as different or other. Perhaps we haven’t done such a bad job after all.

Rod Howe is the product of a large, ever-expanding, and inclusive family from upstate New York, where he and Mark Pedersen have resided for the past 27 years. He is now the executive director of a history center after retiring from Cornell University. Pedersen, originally from the Boston area, now works for a local Unitarian Universalist congregation. Their two sons and grandchildren all live within 10 miles of each other.

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