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15 Unexpected Summer Fun Unique, unusual, and off-the-beaten-path things to do in NYC

26 The Summertime Health Blues How to avoid—or beat—six childhood ailments that commonly strike during the warmer months 30 Grilling with Chef John Stage Tips for cooking on the barbecue from a grill master—just in time for a Father’s Day feast 46 It’s Never Too Early to Prevent Drug Abuse With changing laws and attitudes about recreational marijuana, it’s more important than ever for parents to talk to their kids about drug use.

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6 Editor’s Note 8 New Places, New Programs 10 Quotables 11 NYMP Q&A: Diaper Dude’s Chris Pegula talks dads’ roles in parenthood. 28 Voices of the Next Generation: My family celebrates the Muslim holiday Eid al-Fitr, which takes place in June this year— here’s why it’s so special to me 66 Voices: How we, a gay couple with two adopted sons, raised our kids during changing times

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12 Last Chance to Enter the Cover Contest 13 Humor: Happy Father’s Day to the Fellas! 32 Outing: Aviation Hall of Fame and Museum of New Jersey 35 Family Activities Calendar 44 Where-To Guide: Beaches 45 Where-To Guide: Amusement Parks

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id you know you can see wild parakeets in Brooklyn? Visit a museum housed in an old freight elevator in Manhattan? Play on a former landfill on Staten Island? We at NYMetroParents pride ourselves on knowing all about how to have fun with kids around New York City, but to kick off summer, we decided to dig deeper. So Katelin Walling took on the challenging assignment of uncovering our region’s hidden gems—and found many exciting options we hadn’t known before. See her round-up of the best unexpected ways to have fun this summer (p. 15), and then get out and start exploring! Unfortunately, we all sometimes have to cancel fun plans to run our children to the doctor—their illnesses, ailments, and injuries certainly don’t take the summer off. That’s not unusual, as I learned from Stacey Pfeffer’s report on children’s summertime health issues (p. 26). From Coxsackie virus to athlete’s foot to lice, we offer advice on how to prevent summertime ailments, and failing that, how to treat them. June marks the end of our Kids Cover Contest, so make sure to enter your child before it’s too late! Submissions close June 9. Head to nymetroparents.com/cover and follow the directions there to upload a photo and enter the contest. Ten finalists will participate in a professional photo shoot, and any of them may appear on upcoming magazine covers. Two grand-prize winners will be guaranteed cover spots and will win awesome prizes—a family vacation at Kalahari water park or a Barbizon modeling scholarship. And once you’ve entered, don’t forget to get your friends and family to vote! The Fan Favorite—the child with the most votes—will be one of the 10 finalists (the others are chosen by our editors) and will win tickets to Sesame Place. There is so much to celebrate in June! Summer officially starts, graduations take place, and we’ll salute Dad on Father’s Day. If you’re planning a barbecue as part of your celebration, make sure to check out our tips—and recipes—for grilling meals everyone will love (p. 30). Plus, in our Voices column, dads Rod Howe and Mark Pedersen—who met and fell in love more than 30 years ago and are grandparents today—look back on parenting their sons during an era of changing attitudes about gay parents (p. 66). Muslims also are celebrating one of their biggest holidays of the year, Eid al-Fitr (which falls on different dates every year but in 2017 is in June); 12-year-old Farah Husain, a student at Manhattan’s Trinity School, shows us how she and her family celebrate this joyous festival (p. 28). If you have a unique personal story to tell about life as a parent, we want to hear from you: Submit essays (600800 words) to NYMPWriter@davlermedia.com. Happy Father’s Day to all you dads out there, and wishing all the best to our region’s graduates! Michael Kress Editorial Director, NYMetroParents

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Who: Tower Talent What’s New: Private lessons to help children ages 5 and older prepare for a big audition. The staff at Tower Talent will record a child’s audition and give feedback to capture the best audition possible. The video will then be sent to the child’s agent to be submitted to the casting director. “Our coaches are all industry working actors, models, and singers—they all have a master’s in fine arts,” says owner Megan Tower. Tower Talent also offers acting, modeling, and singing programs for children, beginners to professionals, as well as ongoing summer workshops. Want More Info: 535 Broadhollow Road, Suite A2A, Melville; 516-7652400; towertalent.com

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Who: @ Play Amusements What’s New: A video maker booth, a second bounce house, and bumper cars are coming to the family-friendly venue in Farmingdale within the next couple months. The fully remodeled facility is open year-round and offers a wide variety of attractions, including a carousel, roller coaster, and laser tag, as well as traditional and cutting-edge arcade games. Private party rooms are also available. The interactive video maker booth will allow families and friends to capture memorable moments with special effects and fun props. The facility’s second bounce house will be dedicated to jumpers ages 9 and younger. And the newly remodeled bumper cars hit the indoor tracks in June. Want More Info: 229 Broadhollow Road, Farmingdale; 631-815-5355; info@playamusement.com; atplayamusement.com

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Who: Fire Island School District What’s New: Full-day pre-K and an expanded non-resident enrollment program for all grades, both starting at Woodhull School in the 2017-2018 school year. “There has been a statewide interest in full-day pre-K,” says Philip Tamberino, Fire Island School District teacher. “We have the resources to do it and we’re excited about it.” The pre-K to sixth grade public elementary school will be accepting more non-residents than in the past. “We’ve had most of our non-resident students come from neighboring districts like Bay Shore, Babylon, and West Islip, but we can accept them from anywhere,” Tamberino says. Want More Info: Ocean Beach, Fire Island; 631-583-5626; fi.k12.ny.us

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UOTABLES I was watching Finding Nemo with Marlowe the other day, and there was an exchange between Dory and Nemo’s father that I hadn’t ever paid close attention to before. Nemo’s father tells Dory, anxiously, “But I told him I’d never let anything happen to him!” Dory replies, “But then nothing would ever happen to him.” And there it is. Letting go is hard, but wishing for a full, vibrant, messy, beautiful life for both of my children is a lot louder than my fear. I can guarantee I will never stop trying to fight for that. —Eva Amurri Martino, in a post entitled “Parenting a Rainbow Baby,” on her blog HappilyEvaAfter.com

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“You also never know how much a kind glance or a few words can mean to a mom. Several years ago, we were in a restaurant and desperate to subdue Max, who was wailing loudly. Finally, we distracted him with a video. I felt drained and sad. A mom at another table caught my eye. “You OK?” she mouthed. And that was exactly the comfort I needed.” —Ellen Seidman, in a post entitled “Stop the Special Needs Mom Shaming,” on her blog LoveThatMax.com

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“If you want to know what’s going on in your child’s head, you need to discuss things beyond, ‘How was school today?’ When you journal together, you can write about things like: ‘What is my biggest dream?’ and ‘What was my recent mistake and what have I learned from it?’ These are important conversational questions that are not typically asked at the dinner table.” —Stamford, CT, mom Alexandra Eidens in an article entitled “Why You Should Start Journaling With Your Child.” Read the whole thing at nymetroparents.com/journal.

MORE NYMetroParents.com HIGHLIGHTS: CELEBRATE DAD: Tips for making Father’s Day extra special (nymetroparents.com/fathers-day) DAY TRIP: Visit Hyde Park, home of President Franklin Roosevelt (nymetroparents.com/hyde-park). ACTIVITY QUIZ: Plan the perfect day for your family (nymetroparents.com/activity-quiz). FREE ADVICE: Download a helpful parenting guide at nymetroparents.com/freebies.

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Why did you want to write a book for dads about parenthood? I felt that if there was something geared toward men it would help them feel more secure and confident in wanting to be prepared. Both of my books were written about approaching parenthood from a more emotional point of view and preparing men emotionally for the journey ahead. I give tips on how to not lose your identity when you become a parent; you throw yourself into this parenting world but it’s still important to nurture yourself and your relationships. There are plenty of books that tell you how a baby or pregnancy is developing, but I didn’t feel there was something that addressed the emotional things that men go through or how to be there for their partner or how to feel secure enough as a father for the first time or how to put on that dad role and still maintain your individual role as the person that you were. How have dads’ roles evolved? They have changed dramatically, and I felt that when I became a parent myself. I thought, “Why wouldn’t more dads want to be more involved?” So many women have gone back into the workforce after having children and solidified their positions as more powerful and financially stable than their counterparts, so there are more stay-at-home dads today. It’s exciting and tremendous to see that shift happening. What was the most challenging thing for you in your children’s early years? I have so much love for my children that it was almost to a fault. The love can confuse and alter your decisions as a parent; you just want to do anything and everything for your children. But I feel like being able to be strong with your discipline and set boundaries and establish your role as a parent is important so that you can set an example for what you expect from your children. It was challenging for me because I was kind of a pushover. My wife would be the first to say, “You need to be more stringent as a dad.” What are some ways dads can feel more involved? Having something that gives you confidence is so important and a great way for dad to get more involved in parenting. That’s where the ideas of the diaper bags came from. It helped to establish the connection that dads belong. Pregnancy can be especially difficult to connect to your baby because, after all, it’s growing inside of your partner. She’s experiencing everything and everyone is falling over her and congratulating her, and until you actually hold that baby in your arms, it can be very difficult to feel connected. I think products for dad that get him involved absolutely give him the feeling that he has a purpose and that he can be involved early on.

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e live near (what is arguably) the greatest city in the United States, with its dozens of museums and cultural institutions, landmarks, and historical sites. Yet, sometimes it can feel like you visit those kid-friendly locations too often already, and the thought of schlepping the kids there for the nth time is draining. Let’s face it: You and your kids are bored—itching for a new adventure. Now what? We scoured the city and created a scavenger hunt of 37 unique, unusual, or off-the-beaten-path things to do, see, or explore with your kids. If you post photos of your adventures on Instagram, make sure you tag us @NYMetroParents, and let us know if you find anything we should add to our list! continued on next page ››

The Fearless Girl statue will remain facing the Charging Bull in the Financial District of Manhattan through February 2018.

Each year Randall’s Island Urban Farm purchases 10 chicks to raise in the garden.

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At Brooklyn Cat Café, run by Brooklyn Bridge Animal Welfare Coalition, families can play and hang out with adoptable cats.

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Pinkie, a talking parrot from Pet Resources in the Bronx, is drawn by students at the Frank Sinatra School of the Arts in Astoria, Queens, on March 8 as part of Lenka Clayton and Jon Rubin: ...circle through New York.

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Hang with Animals without Going to the Zoo Get a hug from a golden retriever. If you’re walking around Chelsea in Manhattan, and you see a dog giving hugs, go ahead; stop and see if you can get a hug, too. Louboutina, or as her fans call her Loubie, became a social media sensation earlier this year for clinging to the legs of passersby. As with all dogs, make sure you ask her owner if it’s okay to get some puppy lovin’.

Hang out with adoptable kitties. Love felines but can’t have one due to an allergy in the family or a strict landlord? Head to 1 of 3 cat cafés in New York City, where you can enjoy snacks, play with cats, or cuddle with the adoptable felines while you read a book: Koneko Cat Café and Meow Parlour, both located on the Lower East Side of Manhattan, or Brooklyn Cat Café, located in Brooklyn Heights, Brooklyn. Reservations are not needed but strongly recommended to guarantee time with the kitties. Visit nymetroparents.com/cat-cafes for information about what you’ll find at each location.

Go on a safari in Midwood, Brooklyn.

See all the animals mentioned in the Torah.

A Wild Parrot Safari, that is. Wild monk parakeets live near the Brooklyn College campus, and multiple sources have confirmed that they either escaped or were released from JFK airport, likely in the late 1960s, according to Steve Baldwin, who leads the tours. Participants gather at Brooklyn College, at the intersection of Hillel Place and Campus Road, and will be led on a tour to see and learn about the parrots. Summer tours are scheduled for Saturdays, June 3, July 1, and Aug. 12. Visit brooklynparrots.com to learn more and to RSVP for a tour date.

You can see every beast, great and small, named in the Hebrew Bible in taxidermy form at Torah Animal World, located at 1601 41st St., Borough Park, Brooklyn (torahanimalworld.com). Exhibits include Animals of the Torah, Birds of the Torah, and Animals of the Tefillah (prayer).

Become one with a brood. Every year the folks at Randall’s Island Urban Farm purchase 10 chicks and raise them in the garden. You can hang out with the chickens during Urban Farm Exploration Days on Saturdays and Sundays, 11am-5pm, through Oct. 14. Visit randallsisland.org for more information.

Spot the red-eared sliders in Central Park. I used to think the lake at the Loeb Boathouse was Turtle Pond, until I took the time to wander around Central Park and found myself near Belvedere Castle. That’s where Turtle Pond, a smaller, more secluded pond, is located (mid-park, between 79th and 80th streets). The man-made pond is home to five species of turtles, the easiest of which to identify is the red-eared slider—it has small red spots near its ears. See how many you and your kids can find.

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Talk to a parrot. Pinkie, a salmon-crested cockatoo from Pet Resources in the Bronx, will spend June at the Solomon R. Guggenheim Museum on the Upper East Side of Manhattan, July at St. Philips Church in Harlem, Manhattan, and will return home in August, as part of …circle through New York, a unique project of circulating things commissioned as part of Guggenheim Social Practice. For more information about the project, and what Pinkie will be doing at each location, visit circlethroughnewyork.com.

Say “Hi” to Max on Governors Island. Governors Island (govisland.com) used to have a problem with too many goose droppings on the lawns—until Max, a border collie, was hired in 2015. Max’s job on the island, apart from being an official greeter, is to herd and discourage geese from hanging out to ensure the enjoyment and safety of guests. Jim Reed, the director of park and public space for Governors Island, adopted Max from the Mid Atlantic Border Collie Rescue Program in Maryland. Visitors are encouraged to take pictures, and are allowed to say hi if Max, and his new friend Quinn (who joined the goose-patrol team May 18), are not actively herding. continued on next page ››

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Originally built in the mid-19th century as part of the Croton Aqueduct system, High Bridge opened in 2015 as a pedestrian walkway.

Activities for the Adventurous Explore the Gowanus Canal. Join the Gowanus Dredgers Canoe Club (gowanuscanal.org) for a self-guided canoe trip of the Gowanus Canal during walkup canoeing. The canoe trips aim to raise awareness of harbor issues, and you may even see such wildlife as ducks, herons, horseshoe crabs, fiddler crabs, and jellyfish. Walk-up canoeing is held Wednesdays, 6-8pm, MaySeptember, and Saturdays, 1-5pm, JuneOctober. Canoeing and equipment use is free, though donations are accepted, and no reservation is needed. Meet the club at the 2nd Street Launch Site: 165 2nd St., Gowanus, Brooklyn.

Let your kids play in a junkyard. No, not an actual junkyard! This summer, Governors Island (govisland.com) will again be home to play:groundNYC, a junkyard playground that gives young adventurers the opportunity to work with tools and building materials to explore physical, social, and emotional problem solving. Don’t

Children participating in canoeing with the Gowanus Dredgers Canoe Club must have a waiver signed by a parent.

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Located at 61 Hester St., Lower East Side, Manhattan, this mural was painted by Jessica Blowers as part of the 100 Gates Project.

The junkyard area of play:groundNYC on Governors Island, for kids only, is filled with materials and tools such as nails, hammers, saws, wood, tires, and fabric for children to create and play.

worry, though, trained staff provides support to help children construct and create. Play:groundNYC is free and open to the public through Oct. 1, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-3pm.

Bike, scoot, or walk across NYC’s oldest bridge. Built in the mid-19th century as a part of the Croton Aqueduct system, which carried water from the Croton River in Westchester to Manhattan, High Bridge is now a pedestrian walkway that connects Washington Heights in Manhattan and Highbridge in the Bronx. It’s accessible in Manhattan via a staircase in Highbridge Park (West 172nd Street and Amsterdam Avenue) or a ramp at 167th Street and Edgecombe Avenue; and in the Bronx at University Avenue and 170th Street, or a ramp north of there.

Whisper secrets to each other in Central Park. While most of us know about the Whispering Gallery in Grand Central Station, a lesser-known place to whisper

to each other is at the Charles B. Stover Bench—colloquially known as the “Whisper Bench” because if you whisper into one corner, your voice travels to the other side—in the Shakespeare Garden in Central Park (located on the west side between 79th and 80th streets).

Go on an art walk. In an effort to deter graffiti artists and beautify the Lower East Side, the 100 Gates Project—started by local artist and pro skateboarder Billy Rohan in 2014—connects local artists with businesses to collaborate on original murals that are painted on the roll-down security gates of those businesses. Over two years the project installed 100 gates throughout the Lower East Side of Manhattan, and currently has plans to expand to Harlem and Staten Island. Visit 100gates.nyc for more information and to find a map of the participating businesses.

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Susan Gardner has been affixing items to her brownstone since just after 9/11 to create this amazing mural in Boerum Hill, Brooklyn.

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The Fearless Girl statue appeared suddenly in Manhattan’s Financial District for International Women’s Day and immediately became a symbol of female strength and confidence. Snap a pic of your own fierce females posing with Fearless Girl this summer, if you haven’t already. While there has been controversy surrounding Fearless Girl (because of a plaque that used to be at her feet, and backlash from the artist of the Charging Bull), she is sticking around through February 2018, according to NY Daily News.

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But not just any sunset. Unique to Manhattan, Manhattanhenge— when the sunset is perfectly aligned with the grid of the streets in Manhattan—will occur twice this summer. If you miss the May 30 (8:12pm) sunset, mark your calendars for July 12 at 8:20pm. The best streets to get breath-taking photos are 14th, 23rd, 34th, 42nd, and 57th, according to famed astrophysicist Neil deGrasse Tyson, Ph.D. Just make sure to be as far east as possible, while having a clear sightline west, and be in position 30 minutes before the above times. The installation of artist Bjorn Skaarup’s bronze statue has been dancing outside Lincoln Center since February, and will remain until July 31. Jeté over to Dante Park (at 64th Street and Broadway) on the Upper West Side of Manhattan to ’gram your tiny dancers before she disappears.

Milkshakes have taken over Instagram. No, not your classic milkshakes—we’re talking indulgent, over-the-top, work-of-art milkshakes from Buns Bar, located in Chelsea, Manhattan, and Black Tap, located in Soho, Manhattan. We won’t try to describe these treats with words—we’ll let the pictures do the talking.

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Eat cereal out of a shoebox.

Enjoy a bowl of the traditional breakfast meal for lunch at KITH Treats, a cereal “bar” at which you can order up a combination of your favorite cereals (there are 23 different cereals to choose from) with choice toppings, or choose one of the specials. Plus, you choose how you eat it: in a commuter cup, a shoebox, or as a custom ice cream flavor or milkshake. KITH Treats is located within KITH Brooklyn (233 Flatbush Ave., Boerum Hill, Brooklyn), a clothing store founded by Queens native Ronnie Fieg.

Revel in the beauty of the mosaic house.

The Flat White, Cinnamon Toast Crunch with toffee crunch and almond milk, served in a shoebox at KITH Treats in Boerum Hill, Brooklyn

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Stop by and see what treasures you can find affixed to the façade of a Brooklyn Brownstone. Susan Gardner, creator and inhabitant of the mosaic house, began affixing items to her brownstone after 9/11 because she didn’t want to be alone in her studio, she says in a Moonshot Productions New Yorkers video. The house is located at 108 Wyckoff St., Boerum Hill, Brooklyn.

Visit a locksmith.

Even if you don’t need keys made, you’ll want to stop by Greenwich Locksmiths to see an amazing key mosaic on the shop’s façade. Owner Philip Mortillaro, who started locksmithing in 1964 and opened this location in 1980, says he had always wanted to make a chair out of keys, and when that was accomplished, he started on his door and then moved onto the building itself. Greenwich Locksmiths is located at 56 Seventh Ave. S., West Village, Manhattan.

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Philip Mortillaro, owner of Greenwich Locksmiths welded the key mosaic on the façade of his shop, as well as the chair sitting out front, and the inside of the door.

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Buns Bar adds artistic flair to its milkshakes by decorating the mug with frosting, cookies, cereals, and candies.

Well, actually, the firehouse that was used as the Ghostbusters’ home base in the 1984 movie. Hook and Ladder No. 8, located at 14 N. Moore St., Tribeca, Manhattan, was used for the exterior shots of Ghostbusters HQ, and the logo sign used in the movies still hangs in the station today. This is a working firehouse, so be prepared to move quickly if the firefighters are called into action. continued on next page ››

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Families can ride their bikes around Freshkills Park on Staten Island during Discovery Day on June 4.

Home to Icahn Stadium and the site of Governor’s Ball music festival, Randall’s Island (randallsisland.org) is also home to an urban farm. Families can experience and learn about agriculture at the 40,000-square-foot environmentally sustainable garden and outdoor classroom during Urban Farm Exploration Days on Saturdays and Sundays, 11am-5pm, through Oct. 14.

Get a taste of the Adirondack Mountains in Manhattan.

Explore the North Woods of Central Park—one of the most secluded areas of the park—where the landscape isn’t manicured (located on the west side, between 101st and 110th streets). The highlight of the 90-acre section of the park is the man-made waterfalls— contrary to TLC’s advice, these are ones you definitely should chase.

Get your green thumb a little dirty.

A young forager on one of Marie Viljoen’s walks picked some dandelions, which are good for digestion, according to The Old Farmer’s Almanac.

Bushwick City Farm is a community farm that relies on donations and help from volunteers of all ages to run. So if you want to work in a garden but don’t have the space for your own, you can stop by on Saturdays and Sundays, 12:30pm to dusk, to help with and learn about composting, animal care,

transplanting, weeding, garden cleanup, spreading wood chips, and other garden tasks. There are also opportunities to donate items and time in other ways. Bushwick City Farm is located at Lewis Avenue and Stockton Street, Bushwick, Brooklyn. Visit bushwickcityfarm. wordpress.com for more information.

Go on a foraging walk.

Did you know you can find edible plants in NYC’s parks? “Wildman” Steve Brill and Marie Viljoen offer foraging walks in various parks in the city to point out which plants—most of which are often thought of as weeds and destroyed—can be used in everyday cooking. Visit wildmanstevebrill.com or 66squarefeet. blogspot.com for more information and to sign up for a walk.

Play on an old landfill on Staten Island.

Freshkills Park is a new park being built over NYC’s former primary landfill on Staten Island. Opening in phases from the outside in, the park currently offers programs and events to learn about and explore currently closed sections of the landfill-to-park project. Events include Discovery Day on June 4, a bike tour on June 10, and kayak tours for ages 16 and older on June 18 and July 16 and 30. Visit freshkillspark.org for more information.

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Brooklyn Grange’s Flagship farm hosts open houses on Saturdays (through Oct. 21, 11am-4pm), but families should be sure to visit June 17, July 15, Aug. 19, or Sept. 16 for Family Farm Day, when City Growers, an educational nonprofit that connects urban communities with agriculture, food, and environment, hosts free family-friendly workshops and children’s activities geared toward children ages 2 and older at Brooklyn Grange. Family Farm Day activities vary, and are typically announced via City Growers’ social media—Instagram and Twitter: CityGrowersNYC; Facebook: City Growers. The flagship farm is located on the roof of 37-18 Northern Blvd., Long Island City, Queens. Visit brooklyngrangefarm.com to learn more.

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The original stuffed animals that inspired the stories of Winnie-the-Pooh are housed at the New York Public Library in Midtown, Manhattan

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Yonah Schimmel’s Knish Bakery is the oldest knishery in the U.S.

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Uniquely New York Check out one of Manhattan’s smallest museums.

Housed in a former freight elevator, Mmuseumm’s exhibitions aim to engage, educate, and inform the public in a unique cultural approach to looking at the current world. The tiny museum is located at 4 Cortlandt Alley in Chinatown, Manhattan, and the 2017 season opened May 11.

See a lot of gold.

Tour the Federal Reserve Bank of New York, located in Lower Manhattan, where you’ll learn about the role of the New York Fed and the Federal Reserve System through displays and interactive exhibits, as well as the U.S. economy and how money is made. Plus, you’ll descend into the Fed’s Gold Vault to see the gold bricks housed there. Unfortunately visitors can’t take pictures. Visit newyorkfed.org to reserve a free tour; children must be 16 and older.

Ride the subway through an abandoned stop.

There are two ways you can see the restored City Hall station on the 6 subway line in Manhattan: be a member of the New York Transit Museum and sign up for tour tickets quickly, or stay on the downtown 6 train as it turns around through City Hall station to head uptown. Look out the windows on the right side of the train as you’re facing the direction the train is moving (and make sure you double check with the subway attendant that it’s okay with them for you to stay on the train).

Adventure to City Island, which is reminiscent of a small fishing village, via the City Island Land Ferry. Ride the 6 train to the Pelham Bay Park station, and on the first Friday of the month (April-December) from 5:30-9:30pm, you can hitch a ride on the shuttle for free. While there, you can play at the Ambrosini Field playground, enjoy dinner, stop by Lickety Split Ice Cream for dessert, and watch the sun set before taking the land ferry back to Pelham Bay Park station.

See the stuffed animals that inspired Winnie-the-Pooh. The original stuffed animals of Pooh, Eeyore, Piglet, Kanga, and T-I-double Guh-Errr are housed in the New York Public Library’s Children’s Center at 42nd Street (Stephen A. Schwarzman Building, 476 Fifth Ave., Midtown, Manhattan). While you’re there with your little book lovers, check out a few books or participate in a story time.

Watch a giant chess match.

A larger-than-life chessboard is affixed to the north wall of 212 E. 48th St., Midtown East, Manhattan. Each Wednesday at 12pm, one piece is moved using a cherry picker, in a recreation of some of history’s greatest matches. You can learn more about the current match by visiting the concierge in the building’s lobby.

Enjoy a knish.

And not just any knish. Yonah Schimmel’s Knish Bakery, established in 1910 and located at 137 E. Houston St., Lower East Side, Manhattan, is the oldest knish bakery in the United States. And, man, are they delish!

Learn how pianos are made.

Participate in a Steinway & Sons Factory Tour and learn what goes into making a piano by going through the working factory in Astoria, Queens. Tours are free, and children younger than 16 are not allowed on the tours. Tours are offered Tuesdays, 9:30am12pm, September-June. While tours are completely booked through December 2017, you can email tours@steinway.com to be placed on a waiting list for this year’s tours.

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Close to Home Flock to the Big Duck.

Waddle down Flanders Road in Flanders, and you’ll eventually spot a gigantic duck nesting on the horizon. Listed on the National Register of Historic Places, the Big Duck was designed by Broadway set designers and built by locals in 1931. It is now the home of the Long Island Duck Farming Exhibit & Museum. Visit bigduck.org for more information.

Learn to square dance.

Head out to Wildwood State Park (parks.ny.gov) in Wading River on a summer Friday night, and you and the family can learn country western and line dancing with caller Primo Fiore (July 7-Aug. 4; all ages and abilities welcome). Trust us, y’all will have a blast.

See wild monk parakeets.

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You don’t have to schlep into Brooklyn to see wild monk parakeets, as some live along the South Shore, and have been spotted in Freeport, West Islip, Merrick, and Seaford. Though on Long Island, you won’t find an informational tour.

Ride a miniature train.

Walk around Southaven County Park in Brookhaven, and you’ll likely come across a mini train yard—home to the Long Island Live Steamers (lilivesteam.org), a club of steam model enthusiasts. During Public Run Days, held May-October, visitors can ride the mini trains around the tracks. This summer’s Public Run Days are June 11 and 25, July 9 and 30, and Aug. 13 and 27. All aboard!

Go on a foraging walk.

You can find edible foods right in your local parks! Though his home base is in the city, Wildman Steve Brill regularly hosts foraging walks in Kings Park and North Babylon. You’ll learn about renewable, wild edible and medicinal plants and mushrooms that many destroy as weeds, and how to utilize them every day. Visit wildmanstevebrill.com for more information and tour dates.

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The Summertime Health Blues ›› How to avoid—or beat—childhood ailments that commonly strike during the summer months By Stacey Pfeffer

ike most parents, I am overjoyed when winter is over. This winter my house was a revolving door of germs with flu, strep, and pneumonia running rampant and causing my kids to miss way too many school days. When the warm weather approaches, I look forward to fewer trips to the pediatrician and hope my kids will have a fun-filled and illness-free summer. Yet there are some common childhood ailments that are actually more prevalent during the summer months. I spoke with area health experts to learn about the most common health problems for kids during the summer and what you can do to prevent them, or failing that, treat them effectively.

Coxsackie Virus

Dubbed the “summer flu,” Coxsackie virus is an enterovirus that lives in the gastrointestinal tract and can be spread through swimming pools. It is most common in young children and is highly contagious. Symptoms can include fever, sore throat, crankiness, and a rash that occurs on the hands, feet, and mouth. The virus is spread through nose and mouth secretions or from contact with the feces of an infected child, so thorough hand washing after diaper changes is key. All shared toys or objects should be cleaned since the virus can live on surfaces. Jay Berger, M.D., a Long Island pediatrician and the associate chairman of pediatrics of ProHEALTH Care, has seen his fair share of summertime Coxsackie cases. The virus often “masquerades as strep,” he says. “Unfortunately Coxsackie usually gets worse before it gets better,” Dr. Berger adds. “The patient might have higher temperatures or more blisters may appear before they start to feel better.” Sometimes young children with Coxsackie avoid solid food because it is too painful to eat, so it’s essential to ensure your child remains well hydrated with cold drinks. Avoid acidic or 26

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tangy foods, which can aggravate mouth sores. Dr. Berger prefers Motrin for Coxsackie because it is anti-inflammatory, helping with pain and discomfort. He also suggests parents make a concoction of equal parts Maalox and Benadryl for their older children who can swish it around in their mouths and then spit it out. “This can really help heal the lesions in the mouth and alleviate discomfort,” Dr. Berger says. The rash and blisters can remain visible for several days, so parents often are confused about when the virus is no longer contagious. A good rule of thumb is when your child is fever free and has no visibly oozing blisters, she can return to camp or other summer activities.

Heat Exhaustion & Heat Rash

Searing temperatures during the dog days of summer can take a toll on young children who play outdoors for hours. Children are more prone than adults to heat exhaustion because a child’s body surface area makes up a much greater proportion of his overall weight than an adult’s. “Babies are also more likely to get heat exhaustion because they can’t self-regulate like older children. They are depending on adults to give them drinks or remove them from a sunny spot,” Dr. Berger says. Heat exhaustion occurs when children become dehydrated. Early signs can include lack of energy, fatigue, thirst, and dry lips and/or tongue. We’ve all heard that children should drink regularly before they get thirsty to avoid dehydration, but kids don’t really get thirsty until they’ve lost 2 percent of their body weight as sweat—so be sure to be giving them water regularly. If you suspect your child is suffering from heat exhaustion, get her into the shade or air conditioning. Make sure he is drinking water and eating salty pretzels or bananas to help replenish electrolytes.

Heat rash looks like tiny red dots or pimples on the skin. It tends to happen in hot, humid weather, and babies are most likely to get it. “Heat rash is actually a blockage of sweat glands,” Dr. Berger says. It can cause itching and discomfort in children. Most cases of heat rash go away after three or four days. Try to keep your child’s skin cool and dry and avoid overdressing her. Hydrocortisone cream can help alleviate the symptoms. If the heat rash is accompanied by a fever, contact your doctor.

Lice

Ask any lice removal specialist about his busiest week in business, and chances are he will say it is the week when kids return from sleepaway camp. In fact, many parents make a beeline to lice removal specialists for screening before their kids even step foot in their house. “I think that camps are a breeding ground for head lice and I think the reason is the close proximity of kids to each other, less supervision, sharing of towels, brushes, etc.,” says Anna Krosche, founder and owner of The Lice Lady of Westchester. “It really only takes one kid to have lice and then before you know it the whole bunk has it.” Children should be reminded not to share brushes, towels, or hair ties. Girls should keep their hair up and in a braid or tight bun to minimize exposure. Krosche suggests daily use of a lice-repellant spray with lemongrass, peppermint, lavender, or rosemary oils, which are lice-resistant. Krosche also recommends using an enzyme shampoo, which works well because the bugs themselves are made out of enzymes, so they can’t develop a resistance to it. “Some lice have actually become resistant to OTC [over-the-counter] shampoos such as Rid or Nix,” she says. When Krosche and her team treat a client, they will use a conditioner and combing solution, and she suggests combing the hair out in all four directions with a special nit-picking comb. “Nits are only on one side of an individual’s hair, so that’s why it’s important to comb it in all four directions.” Krosche and her team then blow dry the hair and do another lice check. “Parents should follow up with a comb-out each day for a week and then come back for a re-check after seven days. It is important to do daily comb-outs because if the lice lay eggs, it takes about three days for it to grow big enough to be removed with a comb-out,” she says.

Plantar Warts & Athlete’s Foot

Most kids love running barefoot in the summer, but this carefree attitude puts them at higher risk for plantar warts and athlete’s foot. “A wart is a virus, and a viral particle is tiny. The body is generally wellequipped to prevent warts, but the second there’s an opening through small cuts is when you can have trouble,” says Ari Rubinstein, M.D., a podiatrist at Lower Westchester Foot and Ankle. Dr. Rubinstein sees a large influx of kids with plantar warts during the summer. Warts are treated through several methods, including strong acid medicines, freezing (cyrotherapy), or laser treatments. Most cases can be treated with an excision and applying salicylic acid. “Several treatments might be needed though to fully eliminate the warts,” Dr. Rubinstein says. Athlete’s foot is a fungal skin infection that causes itching, redness, and burning between the toes. The infection thrives in moist, warm environments such as communal locker rooms and public showers. “Although there are several OTC products for it, a prescription product might be more effective and help speed up the healing process with a difficult case,” Dr. Rubinstein says. It’s also great to remind kids that flip-flops are their friends and can help prevent warts and athlete’s foot.

Sunburn

Parents need to be vigilant with sunscreen application and look for a broad-spectrum sunscreen with SPF 30 or higher that offers both UVA and UVB protection, advises Julie Karen, M.D., a board-certified dermatologist in Manhattan and an assistant clinical professor at NYU Langone Medical Center. UVA and UVB refer to two kinds of harmful rays, ultraviolet A and ultraviolet B. “Both types of rays contribute to skin cancer, but a broad-spectrum sunscreen has to protect proportionately against both UVA and UVB rays,” she says. In fact, if a child has five or more sunburns in his lifetime, the risk for melanoma is doubled. With so many sunscreen options available, it can be difficult for parents to choose one. Dr. Karen prefers sunscreens with zinc oxide or titanium dioxide because, she says, “the benefits are manifold. They are not just physical blockers but they are also better tolerated for children with sensitive skin.” If your child is going to the pool or beach, opt for a water-resistant formula that is less susceptible to degradation from water exposure. Other helpful tips are to apply the sunscreen 20 minutes prior to sun exposure and then reapply every two hours, or sooner if your child is excessively perspiring or swimming. Keep the sunscreen in a temperate environment and check the expiration date on the bottle. “No one uses nearly enough sunscreen,” Dr. Karen says. “Always use more than you think you could possibly need and spend time rubbing it in.” She recommends complete sun avoidance for infants 6 months and younger. Children younger than 1 have particularly sensitive skin and should avoid the sun during peak hours (10am–4pm). Besides seeking shade and limiting sun exposure, children should also wear a broad-brimmed hat and clothing such as rash guards with ultraviolet protection factor. “Parents need to understand that sunscreens aren’t perfect,” Dr. Karen says. “They are not intended for you to wear and stay all day out in the sun. They are meant for the necessary exposure to the sun that comes with living a healthy, active lifestyle.” If your child still gets sunburned, a cool bath can help lower the skin’s temperature and then a gentle moisturizer should be applied to hydrate the skin. If your child has a high fever with the sunburn or your infant gets sunburned, call your pediatrician.

Swimmer’s Ear

Children are susceptible to swimmer’s ear because their small ear canals can easily trap moisture. “Moisture is a key ingredient for swimmer’s ear, so parents need to keep their children’s ears dry after swimming,” says Joey Bernstein, M.D., chief of the division of pediatric otolaryngology at New York Eye and Ear Infirmary of Mount Sinai in Manhattan. Chlorinated pools are actually less of a risk factor for swimmer’s ear than swimming in lakes or rivers where bacteria counts are higher. Dabbing your ears with a towel is a good first step in keeping your child’s ears dry. Blow dryers on a low setting about a foot away from the ear can also help keep moisture out. “If simple things like this don’t work, some kids may need to wear ear plugs, but that’s rarely necessary,” Dr. Bernstein says. If you suspect your child has swimmer’s ear, it is important to treat it early, before the infection escalates and the pain becomes severe. Minor discomfort and itching are early signs of an infection. At-home treatments can help acidify the ear canal—meaning, make it a more acidic environment—which helps prevent bacteria from growing, while also helping dry the ear as much as possible. A 1-to-1 solution of white vinegar, an acidifier, and rubbing alcohol, a drying solution, can help. If this doesn’t work, pay a visit to your doctor, who can prescribe antibiotic eardrops. Stacey Pfeffer is a writer based in Chappaqua.

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My family celebrates the Muslim holiday Eid al-Fitr, which takes place in June this year—here’s why it’s so special to me By Farah Husain

he sound of laughter echoed through the house as people bustled about, and the faint, delicate twinkling of glass bangles filled the apartment. This day was special, and the weather happened to be absolutely gorgeous. It was warm and the sun was beaming down onto New York City with a few wisps of pink-tinged clouds drifting lazily across the horizon. A couple of birds let out a few clear, sweet notes as if to announce that it was Eid. My parents, brother, grandfather, and some visiting cousins all sat around the table, cheerfully chatting as they ate the feast my mom had prepared. I noticed a few family members were missing, but they soon joined the merriment not too long after I did. I seated myself in between my younger brother and my cousin, Zoha. We all ate our fill. Once my mom was satisfied everyone was full, she started shooing us away to get ready. I put on a white kameez with gold embroidery and small, white, pearly beads over cotton straight pants with silvery-gold trimming. I had styled my long dark hair into loose, silky curls. Zoha sat next to me with her knees crossed wearing a dark green and light pink kameez over black leggings and natural makeup. The male members of my family were dressed in plain shalwar kameez in various shades of blue and black. My aunt and mom emerged from their rooms in outfits similar to Zoha’s and mine. Theirs finished with a necklace and high heels. Then everyone left for the Eid prayer except for the two older women, who stayed back to prepare the food for later. As our cab neared the mosque, I could see a throng of people surging through the big gates while calling out Eid greetings and hugging each other. On our way in, we stopped by the donation boxes and my dad paid fitr, which is money the mosque passes on to the poor. Fitr is mandatory because it helps us remember those who have less than us. The head of the family (in my case, my dad) has to give the appropriate amount for all family members, including our caregiver; Eid prayer is not accepted unless you pay fitr before praying.

Farah (in red clothes and glasses) is joined by her brother and cousins for a family photo on Eid.

After dropping the cash into the box, the women separated from the men as we all headed to our allocated sections. I could barely hold on to Zoha as we squeezed through the crowd to get to the prayer area. Women sporting their own cultural clothing in all sorts of colors were talking to each other while young children either clung to their mother’s clothes or happily played with one another. While we waited, we compared the intricate henna designs on our hands until the imam’s voice filled the room through giant speakers. He started off with the call to prayer, the adhan, and then started the actual prayer. Everyone stood up, shoulder to shoulder, all different skin colors, all different ages, but all equal in the eyes of God. Prayer ended with great scrambling as everyone tried to reach their shoes and get out of the way before they got swept up into the tide of people. When we returned home, we were met by the delicious smells of the food my aunt and mom had made in honor of Eid. After sampling some of these delicious dishes, we visited a few friends and stuffed ourselves with many more yummy treats. We exchanged gifts and greetings as we chatted about what we planned to do with the money we had received from elders throughout the day, and we snapped some pictures to preserve the memory of this Eid. We finally headed back home to unwind after a long day of visiting and fun. Zoha and I decided to finish a movie we had started watching the previous night and before long the rest of the cousins had joined us too. I sat on the bed sandwiched between Zoha and another one of my cousins, Areeb, with everyone else sprawled on the floor. Looking around, I smiled. To me, this is the magic of Eid: a time to share my joy and excitement with family and friends; a time to celebrate with others, no matter where they’re from or how old they are; a time to bring people together and spread happiness. Happy Eid!

Farah Husain, 12, attends the Trinity School in Manhattan. She enjoys horseback riding, tennis, and soccer, and plays the violin. She also volunteers with the organization Muslim Volunteers for NY.

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Chef John Stage, owner of Dinosaur Bar-B-Que in Brooklyn and Manhattan, and, most recently, Flip Bird, Egg @ The Bird, and Apizza Regionale (and oversees Bar Granger), located in Gotham Market at The Ashland in Fort Greene, Brooklyn

arm weather brings grilling season, and what better time to grill a feast than Father’s Day? But before you crank up the heat and throw some meat on the fire, you’ll want to check out these do’s and don’ts from Chef John Stage, the man behind Dinosaur Bar-B-Que, with nine locations, including Brooklyn and Manhattan, and three new restaurants located in Gotham Market at The Ashland in Brooklyn: Apizza Regionale, serving pizza made from locally sourced ingredients; Flip Bird, serving rotisserie and fried freerange, antibiotic- and growth hormone-free chicken; and Egg @ The Bird, a coffee and breakfast counter (he also oversees Bar Granger). So grab your tongs and wire brush, fire up the grill, and cook a feast fit for the king of your castle—maybe one of Stage’s recipes (right)?

Grilling Do’s

Clean your grill before and after cooking. Food releases more easily from a clean grill, so “while the grill is still warm, at the end of your grilling, take a wire brush to it and hit it pretty good. You don’t want all the build up from the grilling,” Stage says. “And do it again before you start [next time].” Master the fire. Every grill has hot and low spots, Stage says, and you’ll want to know where they are. “There are some meats that you want to grill low and some you want to grill high. With any type of barbecue you want to go low, and you tend to go high on any type of grilled meat like steaks or burgers or chops,” Stage says. “Then you want be able to get that food from high to low to get it in a resting spot.” Season your meat before grilling. Especially with a burger or steak, give it a good salt and then get a sear on it. “You want to get that crust. It’s a matter of putting the meat on the grill, getting that good crust, and leaving it on one side before flipping it so you do get that good sear. Then once you get that good sear, the meat will release from the grill,” Stage says. 30

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Try fruits and veggies on the grill. Stage says any fruit or vegetable that won’t fall through the grate on the grill will work, but this time of year he especially enjoys grilled asparagus, and corn on the cob a little later in the season.

Grilling Don’ts

Manhandle the meat. Try to avoid poking the meat and flipping it too early. “If it doesn’t want to be flipped, it lets you know. If it’s sticking to the grill just leave it alone, don’t flip it. It will release on its own when it’s ready to flip,” Stage says. Buy just any meat. “I like to look for marbling,” Stage says. “I’m looking for a decent fat content.” You want to see the white flecks of fat throughout the meat, he says, which will self-baste the meat while cooking, and fat is the flavor of the meat. Lose your patience. This goes hand in hand with not manhandling the meat. Cooking on the grill takes patience, Stage says, and that’s when people flip the meat too early. “That’s the wrong approach,” he says. Use expensive cuts, especially if it’s your first time cooking on a grill. “Keep it simple,” Stage says. “Do a burger. That way if you screw it up, you’re not out a lot of money. That will give you a good understanding of how the fire and grill works.” Keeping all these do’s and don’ts in mind, as with anything, the more you practice, the better you’ll get at it. “Whether it’s a gas or charcoal grill, once you understand the nuance of it and understand the fire, get a good piece of meat, and have a little patience,” Stage says. “That’s how you get good at it.”

Serves 4 Ingredients For the steak: • 4 8oz. skirt steaks, trimmed • ¼ cup red rub (recipe below) • ¼ cup olive oil For the Salsa: • 1½ lbs. plum tomatoes • 2 Tbsp. olive oil • ¼ cup diced red onion • ½ tsp. minced garlic • 2 tsp. minced jalapeno • ½ cup avocado, diced • 2 Tbsp. chopped fresh cilantro • 2 tsp. lime juice • 1 tsp. kosher salt • 1 tsp. sugar • ¼ tsp. Tabasco sauce • 2 tsp. barbecue sauce For the Rub: • ¼ cup smoked paprika • ¼ cup Kosher salt • ¼ cup sugar in the raw • 2 Tbsp. dark chili powder • 1 Tbsp. granulated garlic • 1 Tbsp. granulated onion • 1½ Tbsp. black pepper • 1 tsp. cumin • 1 tsp. celery salt • ¼ tsp. cayenne pepper

Directions 1. Make the salsa: Fire up the

grill to medium heat. Core and split tomatoes in half lengthwise, place them in a bowl, and toss them with the oil. Grill them on both sides until charred, transfer them to a cutting board, and chop to a chunky texture. Add them back to the bowl and gently stir in the rest of the ingredients until combined. 2. Make the steaks: Mix rub ingredients together. Combine ¼ cup of rub and the olive oil in a bowl to form a paste and rub it on both sides of the steak. Preheat grill to high. Remove the steaks from the marinade and pat them dry. Grill steaks to desired temperature, let rest, and slice across the grain. 3. Serve with the Charred Tomato and Avocado Salsa.

Flip Bird’s Spatchcock: Chicken with Harissa spices

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Red Rub Skirt Steak with Charred Tomato and Avocado Salsa

Cooked on a gas grill Chicken

Ingredients • 1 Whole Chicken, approximately 3½ lb. • 3-4 Tbsp. Harissa spices (recipe below) • 2 Tbsp. Olive oil Directions 1. To Spatchcock Chicken: Using poultry shears or a sharp knife, cut down on each side of backbone/spine and remove completely. Turn chicken over and press down, flattening chicken as much as possible. 2. Coat chicken with olive oil and spices, completely cover, and let sit in refrigerator for a couple of hours. 3. For gas grill, turn on two burners to medium high and leave off one burner. This will create indirect heat. You want the internal temperature of grill to be approximitely 350-375º. Adjust burners as necessary. 4. Place chicken skin side up on the side of grill with the burner off. Close lid and cook for 50 minutes, until the thickest part of thigh reads 165º.

5. Lower heat on burners to medium-low and flip chicken skin side down onto direct heat for 5-8 minutes to crispen and tender skin. Don’t let it burn. Remove from grill, let rest, light season, and serve. Harissa spices

Ingredients • ¼ cup smoked paprika • 2 Tbsp. fine sea salt • 2 Tbsp. Sugar • 1½ Tbsp. turmeric • 1½ Tbsp. cumin seed • 1½ Tbsp. fennel seed • 1½ Tbsp. granulated garlic • 1½ Tbsp. sumac • 1½ Tbsp. cinnamon • 1½ Tbsp. ground ginger • 1½ Tbsp. black pepper • 1½ Tbsp. Szechuan peppercorns Directions 1. Toast and grind cumin and fennel seed. 2. Blend all spices evenly.

Chef John Stage is the owner of Dinosaur Bar-B-Que, which has nine locations including Harlem and Brooklyn, and three newly opened restaurants in Gotham Market at The Ashland in Fort Greene: Flip Bird, a rotisserie and friend chicken establishment; Apizza Regionale, which uses only locally sourced ingredients; and Egg @ the Bird, a breakfast and coffee counter (he also oversees Bar Granger).

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1 Popular among younger visitors but appealing to all, guests can sit in an ejection seat from a B-52 bomber. 2 Visitors can board the cabin of an authentic Martin 202 airliner from the 1950s in the museum’s courtyard—it’s said to be the last one left in the world. 3 “Little Cut Up” is an airplane assembled from actual “cut-up” airplane parts. Children are encouraged to sit in the cockpit and make the control surfaces move on the wings and tail. 4 Learn more about the astronauts, aviators, and more who made an impact on New Jersey’s aerospace industry inside the Aviation Hall of Fame. 5 The Aviation Hall of Fame and Museum of New Jersey has 10 aircraft on display inside and outdoors.

ave you ever wanted to climb into the cockpit of an airplane? At the Aviation Hall of Fame and Museum of New Jersey you can do just that—and more. Founded in 1976, the Teterboro, NJ-based aviation museum offers a wealth of history, artifacts, artwork, and aircraft spanning “from early balloons to the space age,” says Shea Oakley, the executive director of the museum. The museum’s collections focus on the historic events and technological advances by New Jersey’s air and space pioneers over more than 200 years. The two-level museum has 10 aircraft on display (inside and outdoors), thousands of artifacts to view, more than 400 aircraft models, and interactive exhibits.

Think Like a Pilot

The museum offers a host of interactive exhibits, including a hot-air balloon basket that guests can carefully climb into and an ejection seat from a B-52 bomber that guests can sit in. A favorite among young visitors is “Little Cut Up,” an airplane assembled from actual “cut-up” aircraft parts. Kids are encouraged to sit in the cockpit of the aircraft and make the control surfaces move on the wings and 32

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tail, just like a pilot would. The museum’s custom-built Fundamentals of Flight interactive aerodynamics exhibit provides hands-on opportunities for guests to experience the principles of flight.

exclusively for Scout troops—to the public in the future (for groups of 15 or more). It also hosts tours for school groups.

Get In the Cockpit

Though you can board two of the museum’s aircraft year-round (“Little Cut Up” and The Aviation Hall of Fame contains bronze an authentic Martin 202 airliner outside), plaques and information about the aerospace Open Cockpit Weekend is worth marking on the calendar. Held six weekends pioneers inducted from 1973 to present throughout the year, including June 17-18, who have made an impact on the New it allows guests to sit in the cockpit of most Jersey aerospace industry. Inductees include of the aircrafts on display at the museum. former NASA astronaut Buzz Aldrin as well as identical twins Scott Kelly and Mark Kelly, The annual Wings and Wheels Expo, Sept. 23-24 at Essex County Airport in Fairfield, both retired NASA astronauts and the only NJ, will have several aircraft, vintage military twins who have ever traveled to space (All vehicles, and show cars on display. three were born in The Garden State!).

Honoring Aerospace Pioneers

Inspiring the Next Generation

In addition to preserving the history of New Jersey aviation, the museum is also dedicated to educating and inspiring the next generation of aerospace pioneers. Through the Dare to Fly Program kids learn about aerodynamics by designing, building, and flying balsa wood gliders. The museum hopes to open its Night at the Museum program—currently offered

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Address: 400 Fred Wehran Road, Teterboro, NJ Directions: Approximately a 1-hour, 40-minute drive from Huntington Hours: Tuesday-Sunday, 10am-4pm Admission: $8; $6 seniors and kids. Groups of 10 or more: $7; $5 seniors and kids. Open Cockpit Day: $10; $8 seniors and kids. For more information: 201-288-6344 or njahof.org

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WHEN: Saturday, June 10, 9am-12pm WHERE: Long Island Sports Park, 149 Edwards Ave., Calverton AGES: 3 and older WHAT: An intense cornucopia of colorful bubbles will rain down on you and your friends in this 3-mile course. WANT TO GO? $40; $4 children younger than 7. 631-418-0978. bubblepalooza.com.

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WHEN: Saturday, June 10, 10am-5pm WHERE: Maritime Explorium, 101 E. Broadway, Port Jefferson AGES: All WHAT: Visit makers, meet a scientist, and enjoy music and entertainment. WANT TO GO? $10; $37.50 per family (two adults and up to five children ages 2-17). 631-331-3277. easternlongisland.makerfaire.com.

Riverhead Medieval Festival

WHEN: June 10-11, Saturday-Sunday, 12-5pm WHERE: Dorothy P. Flint 4-H Campground, 3186 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Experience the pageantry of medieval Europe with a medieval fashion show, children’s games, entertainment, arts and sciences of the middle ages, a maypole dance, tournaments, archery, merchants, and food. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 children ages 4-12; free for children younger than 4. 516-567-2490. kingdomofacre.org.

Father’s Day Fun

WHEN: Sunday, June 18, 10am-6pm WHERE: Long Island Game Farm Wildlife Park & Children’s Zoo, 489 Chapman Boulevard, Manorville AGES: All WHAT: Dads (grandpas, uncles, and other father-figures) enjoy halfpriced admission all day, with the purchase of a full-priced adult or children’s ticket. WANT TO GO? $16.95; $14.95 children ages 3-13; free for children younger than 3. 631-878-6644. longislandgamefarm.com.

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Teen Driver Safety Program FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 3, 10am-1pm WHERE: Safety Town, 249 Buckley Road, Holtsville AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Teens drive electric cars to complete obstacle courses designed to simulate driving while texting and impaired. Registration required. WHY WE LOVE IT: This is an effective way to develop safe driving habits. WANT TO GO? 631-363-3770. brookhavenny.gov.

Fishing Fun: I Fish NY

WHEN: Saturday, June 3, 10am-12pm WHERE: Belmont Lake State Park, 625 Belmont Road, North Babylon AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Learn how to tie line, identify fish, and cast. Registration required. WHY WE LOVE IT: Nice to know the younger generation will learn this past time. WANT TO GO? $4. 631-667-5055. nysparks.com.

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AGES: 3 and older WHAT: An intense cornucopia of colorful bubbles will rain down on you and your friends in this 3-mile course. WHY WE LOVE IT: Colored cornstarch and bubbles are great motivators to get us moving! WANT TO GO? $40; $4 for children younger than 7. 631-418-0978. bubblepalooza.com.

Riverhead Medieval Festival

WHEN: June 10-11, Saturday-Sunday, 12-5pm WHERE: Dorothy P. Flint 4-H Campground, 3186 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Experience the pageantry of medieval Europe with a medieval fashion show, children’s games, entertainment, arts and sciences of the Middle Ages, a maypole dance, tournaments, archery, merchants, and food. WHY WE LOVE IT: A fun way to learn about life in the Middle Ages. WANT TO GO? $10; $5 children ages 4-12; free for children younger than 4. 516-567-2490. kingdomofacre.org.

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Daddy & Me Rockets!

WHEN: Sunday, June 18, 10am-1pm WHERE: Center for Science Teaching and Learning, 1450 Tanglewood Road, Rockville Centre AGES: 3-8, adult WHAT: Celebrate Father’s Day by building a rocket and launching it with your child. Staff is available to assist in fabrication questions and to help you blast off. Bring a camera. WHY WE LOVE IT: Dads and their children can have an up, up, and away bonding experience. WANT TO GO? $40. 516-764-0045. cstl.org.

Long Island FunFest

WHEN: June 15-25, Monday-Friday, 5-11pm; Saturday-Sunday, 12-11pm WHERE: Suffolk County Community College Brentwood, Crooked Hill Road, Brentwood AGES: 3 and older WHAT: Attractions include the Hambone Racing Pigs, live bands, karaoke, carnival rides, and the Commerford Petting Zoo. WHY WE LOVE IT: Did we mention there would be funnel cakes and cotton candy? WANT TO GO? $20 Thursdays; $5 Friday-Sunday; $2 Monday-Wednesday.

Family Program: Firefly Fun

WHEN: Friday, June 30, 7:30-9pm WHERE: Caleb Smith State Park Preserve, 581 W. Jericho Turnpike, Smithtown AGES: All WHAT: Bring an empty, dry jar to catch, observe, and release the fireflies. Registration required. WHY WE LOVE IT: The best summer activity ever! WANT TO GO? $4; free for children younger than 3. 631265-1054. nysparks.com.

Bubble Trouble

WHEN: June 30-July 1, Friday-Saturday, 11am and 2pm WHERE: The Gateway, 215 S. Country Road, Bellport AGES: All WHAT: Jeff Boyer juggles bubbles, sculpts and builds with bubbles, makes fog-filled bubbles, and more. WHY WE LOVE IT: Would you believe he can even make a bubble roller coaster? WANT TO GO? $15 and up. 631-286-1133. thegateway.org.

Head to Governors Island for mini-golf art fun

Art Ahoy! A trip to Governors Island is a summer must-do. One of the best weekends to visit is in early June when the arts festival FIGMENT NYC arrives. Get your hands dirty with art making such as painting and sculpture, and enjoy some performance art and music. There’s something for all ages, and while it isn’t a festival just for families, both kids and adults will love it. A particular highlight for little ones is the artistdesigned miniature golf course, where you can putt your ball on, in, up, down, or around unique art! Don’t forget to bring sunscreen and check out Slide Hill. June 3-4, 10am-5pm. Age: All. The event is free. The ferry is $2-$2.75, some routes are free before 11:30am, ferries leave from various pick-ups in Brooklyn and Manhattan, see website for details including new routes for 2017. Governors Island. govisland.com.

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The Egg Rolls, Egg Creams, and Empanadas Festival is a celebration of the different cultures of the neighborhoods surrounding the Eldridge Street Synagogue. This annual block party celebrates Jewish, Chinese, and Puerto Rican culture and draws thousands every year. Wander around the busy stalls and experience traditional art and music, dance, crafts, and delicious traditional foods. There will be klezmer, cantorial, Chinese opera is just one of the Chinese opera, Puerto performances going on at this celebration of the immigrant culture of Rican folk music, Hebrew the Lower East Side. and Chinese scribal arts, yarmulke making, Puerto Rican mask and lace making, mah jongg, and more! Don’t leave without trying the kosher egg rolls, egg creams, and empanadas that have made the festival famous. June 18, 12-4pm. Age: All. Museum at Eldridge Street, 12 Eldridge St., Lower East Side. 212-219-0302. eldridgestreet.org. LongIslandParent 37

SMARTY PANTS Build a Drone FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 3, 6pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Learn to assemble a drone and then fly it. Library staff will walk you through all the steps. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

WE CAN’T BELIEVE IT’S FREE Think a freebie has to be ho-hum? Don’t let the price tag (or lack of one) fool you. Here are the five no-cost events we’re excited about now. You’re welcome. Touch-A-Truck Free Family Event FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 10, 10am-12pm WHERE: Sachem Public Library, 150 Holbrook Road, Holbrook AGES: 3-12, adult WHAT: Sit in, climb on, and honk the horn while you get a close up look at some of the biggest rigs on the road. WANT TO GO? 631-588-5024. sachemlibrary.org.

Stuffed Animal Sleepover FREE

WHEN: Friday, June 16, 7-7:30pm WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Bring a stuffed animal friend for stories and a craft. Then leave your stuffed animal overnight for lots of sleepover fun. Animals can be picked up on Saturday, June 17. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.

Creative Arts Program FREE

WHEN: Through June 17: Saturdays, 11:30am-12:30pm and 12:30-1:30pm WHERE: YMCA East Hampton RECenter, 2 Gingerbread Lane, East Hampton AGES: 4-11 WHAT: Learn to paint, write, draw, or act through these programs that offer a creative outlet for kids. The first session is for children ages 4-6 and second is for ages 7-11. WANT TO GO? 631-329-6884. ymcali.org.

Senator Croci’s Child Safety Day FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 17, 10am-2pm WHERE: Shorefront Park, Smith Street and Rider Avenue, Patchogue AGES: 3-12, adult WHAT: This course shows how to prevent sensitive situations from occurring and provides simple yet affect self-defense techniques to escape. WANT TO GO? 631-360-3356. nysenate.gov.

Family Fridays: Cinderella FREE

WHEN: Friday, June 30, 6:30pm WHERE: The Common Ground, Rotary Park between Gillette and Candee avenues, Sayville AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Come dressed as Cinderella or her Prince Charming, then help Fairy Godmother Purple Nancy release hundreds of ladybugs into the gardens. WANT TO GO? 631-664-4230. thecommonground.com. 38

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Bilingual Family Gallery Talks & Art Workshops

WHEN: Sunday, June 4, 2pm WHERE: Parrish Art Museum, 279 Montauk Highway, Water Mill AGES: All WHAT: Explore the galleries and create art in the studio. Space is limited and available on a first-come, first-serve basis. WANT TO GO? $12; free for children younger than 18. 631-283-2118. parrishart.org.

Walk Through Maritime History: Down the Ways the Wooden Ship Era WHEN: Sunday, June 4, 2-3:30pm WHERE: Town of Brookhaven Dock, Shore Road, East Setauket AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Explore the Dyer’s Neck-East Setauket Historical Shipbuilding District. where ships were built and these families lived and worked. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-751-3730. threevillagehistoricalsociety.org.

Life-Sized Board Games FREE

WHEN: Monday, June 12, 7pm WHERE: Central Islip Public Library, 33 Hawthorne Ave., Central Islip AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Play familiar games on a grand scale. WANT TO GO? 631-234-9333. centralisliplibrary.org.

Mad Science FREE

WHEN: Wednesday, June 14, 7pm WHERE: Central Islip Public Library, 33 Hawthorne Ave., Central Islip AGES: 5-12 WHAT: It’s all about lights, color, and action. WANT TO GO? 631-234-9333. centralisliplibrary.org.

Summer Camp Open House FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 17, 11am-2pm WHERE: Kids Country Day Camp, 37 Crystal Brook Hollow Road, Mount Sinai AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Come take a tour, meet staff, and ask questions. WANT TO GO? 631-331-5351. kidscountrydaycamp.com.

Walk Through History with Farmer and Revolutionary War Spy Abraham Woodhull

WHEN: Saturday, June 17, meet at 1:45pm; tour 2-3:30pm WHERE: Caroline Church and Cemetery, 1 Dyke Road, Setauket- East Setauket AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Discover the woods, fields, ponds, and bays that tell the story of Long Island’s colonization preceding the Revolution and the creation of the new nation. No reservations required. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-751-3730. threevillagehistoricalsociety.org.

Path Through History at the Walt Whitman Birthplace

WHEN: June 17-18, Saturday-Sunday, 11am-5pm WHERE: Walt Whitman Birthplace, 246 Old Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station AGES: All

WHAT: The weekend will include Whitman-era music, historical games, and children’s stories and activity books. WANT TO GO? $6; $4 children. 631-427-5240. waltwhitman.org.

Bilingual Rhyme Time FREE

WHEN: June 2-23, Fridays, 10-10:30am and 1-1:30pm WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: Singing and dancing to nursery rhymes in English and Spanish. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.

Open Studio for Families

WHEN: June 10-24, Saturdays, 11am WHERE: Parrish Art Museum, 279 Montauk Highway, Water Mill AGES: All WHAT: Explore the galleries and create art in the studio. WANT TO GO? $12; free for children younger than 18. 631-283-2118. parrishart.org.

SPECIAL NEEDS

Art With a Partner for Children & Young Adults with Special Needs

ANIMAL LOVERS Reptile & Amphibian Appreciation Day

WHEN: Saturday, June 3, 10am-4pm WHERE: Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium, 1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Live exotic reptiles and amphibians presented by the Long Island Herpetological Society. The hatchery and aquarium’s own New York state native reptiles and amphibians will be on display. WANT TO GO? $6; $4 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 3. 516-692-6768. cshfha.org.

Pond Exploration

WHEN: Saturday, June 3, 1:30-3pm WHERE: Caleb Smith State Park Preserve, 581 W. Jericho Turnpike, Smithtown AGES: All WHAT: Discover animals that live above and below the surface of the pond. WANT TO GO? $4; free for children younger than 3. 631-265-1054. nysparks.com.

Dolphin Celebration

WHEN: Sunday, June 11, 1-3pm WHERE: Art League of Long Island, 107 E. Deer Park Road, Dix Hills AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Using a multitude of mediums, each young person will go home every session with a completed craft project. WANT TO GO? $35. 631-462-5400. artleagueli.net.

WHEN: Sunday, June 4, 1:30-2:30pm WHERE: Whaling Museum and Education Center, 279 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Explore these amazing mammals. Touch dolphin bones and create dolphin-themed crafts. WANT TO GO? $10 child; $6 adult. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

Open House FREE

Tiny Tots: Nature Discoveries: Nesting Birds

WHEN: Wednesday, June 14, 6-8pm WHERE: Long Island Whole Child Academy, 175 Wolf Hill Road, Melville AGES: Adult WHAT: This K-12 college preparatory school offers a rigorous academic program integrated with appropriate clinical resources. WANT TO GO? 347-668-3676. liwholechild.org.

Sky Zone Cares

WHEN: Monday, June 5, 3-6pm WHERE: Sky Zone Deer Park, 111 Rodeo Drive, Deer Park AGES: All WHAT: Sky Zone dials down the music, increases the staff ratio, and limits capacity for children and adults with special needs. WANT TO GO? $16 per hour. 631-392-2600. skyzone.com/deerpark.

Special Olympics Bowling at the All Star

WHEN: Through Dec. 1: Mondays, 5pm WHERE: The All Star, 96 Main Road, Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Bowlers with special needs are invited to bowl on the main lanes and experience the arcade with the latest games. WANT TO GO? $10 for two games. 631-998-3565. theallstar.com.

WHEN: Thursday, June 15, 10-11am WHERE: Caleb Smith State Park Preserve, 581 W. Jericho Turnpike, Smithtown AGES: 3-5, adult WHAT: Parent and child discover the wonders of their natural world together. Registration required. WANT TO GO? $4; free for children younger than 3. 631-265-1054. nysparks.com.

Family Program: Butterfly Safari

WHEN: Saturday, June 17, 1:30-3pm WHERE: Caleb Smith State Park Preserve, 581 W. Jericho Turnpike, Smithtown AGES: All WHAT: Take an exciting expedition into the fields to catch, observe, and release these beautiful creatures. WANT TO GO? $4; free for children younger than 3. 631-265-1054. nysparks.com.

Traveling Touch Tank with Cornell Cooperative’s Marine Program FREE

WHEN: Thursday, June 29, 4:30pm WHERE: Southampton Arts Center, 25 Jobs Lane, Southampton AGES: 3-17 WHAT: Participants will get to experience a hands-on encounter with live scallops, oysters, sea stars, whelks, horseshoe crabs, and more. WANT TO GO? 631-283-0967. southamptonartscenter.org.

Meet Patches the Giraffe

WHEN: Through Sept. 17: daily, 10:30am WHERE: White Post Farms, 250 Old Country Road, Melville AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Come meet the newest farm family member Patches the Giraffe. She is sweet and loves to give kisses. WANT TO GO? $18.75. 631-351-9373. whitepostfarms.com. ››

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‘High School Musical’

WHEN: Through June 17: Saturdays, 2pm and 8pm WHERE: Smithtown Center for the Performing Arts, 2 E. Main St., Smithtown AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Follow the antics of East High’s most popular student and “the new girl” as they fall in love and audition for the school musical. WANT TO GO? $15. 631-724-3700. smithtownpac.org.

‘Young Frankenstein’

WHEN: June 3-18, Saturdays, 8pm; Sundays, 2:30pm WHERE: BayWay Arts Center, 265 E. Main St., East Islip AGES: 5 and older WHAT: The electrifying adaptation of Mel Brooks’ monstrously funny film will leave you in stitches. WANT TO GO? $29. 631-581-2700. broadhollow.org.

‘Saturday Night Fever’

SHOW TIME! Temptations Revue

WHEN: Saturday, June 3, 8pm WHERE: The Suffolk Theater, 118 E. Main St., Riverhead AGES: 9 and older WHAT: The Temptations Revue is led by Nate Evans, hand-picked by original Temptations lead singers Eddie Kendricks, David Ruffin, and Dennis Edwards to continue the legacy. WANT TO GO? $49 and up. 631-727-4343. suffolktheater.com.

‘The Princess and the Pea’

WHEN: Through June 10: Saturdays, 11am WHERE: Theatre Three, 412 Main St., Port Jefferson AGES: All WHAT: Follow Priscilla Noble, a noble orphan, as she comes face-to-face with the impossible Queen Irritatta and a hilarious series of challenges in this charming musical. There is a sensory-friendly performance on Sunday, June 4 at 11am. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-928-9100. theatrethree.com.

WHEN: Through June 24: Thursday-Sunday, see website for times WHERE: Theatre Three, 412 Main St., Port Jefferson AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Humble paint store clerk by day, dance king by night, Tony lives for Saturday night at the disco. WANT TO GO? $35; $28 students; $20 children ages 5-12. 631-928-9100. theatrethree.com.

Goat on a Boat at Bay Street Presents ‘Lollipops for Breakfast’ WHEN: Saturday, June 24, 11am WHERE: Bay Street Theater, 1 Bay St., Sag Harbor AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Sylvie decides she’s going to break a rule and have a lollipop for breakfast, even if she has to make it from scratch. WANT TO GO? $15. 631-725-9500. baystreet.org.

‘Ragtime’

WHEN: June 24-July 9, Wednesday, 2pm; Friday-Saturday, 8pm; Sunday, 2:30pm WHERE: BayWay Arts Center, 265 E. Main St., East Islip AGES: 9 and older WHAT: This sweeping musical portrait of early 20th-century America tells the story of three families in pursuit of the American Dream. WANT TO GO? $29. 631-581-2700. broadhollow.org.

‘Aladdin’

WHEN: June 10-11, Saturday, 4:30pm and 7:30pm; Sunday, 3pm and 6pm WHERE: Temple Beth El of Huntington, 660 Park Ave., Huntington AGES: 5 and older WHAT: See a Disney classic performed by kids in third through 11th grades. WANT TO GO? $18; $15 for children 10 and younger. 631-561-9522. simplegiftsproductions.com.

‘Alice in Wonderland’

WHEN: Through June 17: Saturdays, 1pm WHERE: Studio Theatre LI, 141 S. Wellwood Ave., Lindenhurst AGES: All WHAT: Alice falls down a rabbit hole and takes a fantastic journey through Wonderland. WANT TO GO? $10. 631-226-8400. studiotheatreli.com.

Cinema for Kids: ‘Stand By Me’

WHEN: Saturday, June 17, 11am WHERE: Cinema Arts Centre, 423 Park Ave., Huntington AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Three close friends are on an adventure to find the body of a kid their age who had gone missing. WANT TO GO? $12; free for children younger than 13. 631-423-7611. cinemaartscentre.org. 40

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HOLIDAY FUN

Happy Father’s Day!

WHEN: Sunday, June 18, 11am-5pm WHERE: Whaling Museum and Education Center, 279 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Every whale of a dad gets in free with a paying guest. WANT TO GO? $6; $5 children ages 4-18; free for children younger than 4 and dads. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

Harbes Farm Father’s Day Festival

WHEN: June 17-18, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-6pm WHERE: Harbes Family Farm, 715 Sound Ave., Mattituck AGES: All WHAT: Activities include the new Lil’ Farmers PlayLand, farm animals, hosted kids activities, singing hayrides, and pig races. WANT TO GO? FREE admission; $14.95 to visit the barnyard; free for dads. 631-298-0800. harbesfamilyfarm.com.

Father’s Day

WHEN: Sunday, June 18, 10am-5pm WHERE: Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery & Aquarium, 1660 Route 25A, Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: Free admission for fathers when accompanied by their children. WANT TO GO? $6; $4 children ages 3-12; free for children younger than 3 and fathers. 516-692-6768. cshfha.org.

Father’s Day

WHEN: Sunday, June 18, 10am-6pm WHERE: Long Island Game Farm Wildlife Park & Children’s Zoo, 489 Chapman Blvd., Manorville AGES: All WHAT: Dads, grandpas, uncles, and other father figures enjoy halfpriced admission all day long, with the purchase of a full-priced adult or children’s ticket. WANT TO GO? $16.95; $14.95 children ages 3-13; free for children younger than 3. 631-878-6644. longislandgamefarm.com.

CRAFTY KIDS Teen Open Studio FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 3, 10am-12pm WHERE: Parrish Art Museum, 279 Montauk Highway, Water Mill AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Students develop observation, drawing, and painting skills with inspiration from works on view. Reservations required. WANT TO GO? 631-283-2118. parrishart.org.

Art in the Park Fine Art & Craft Fair FREE

WHEN: June 3-4, Saturday-Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Heckscher Park-Huntington, NY-25A and Prime Avenue, Huntington AGES: All WHAT: In addition to 70 artists and craftspeople, the event features live art demonstrations, family-friendly hands-on activities, and live music. WANT TO GO? 631-351-3089. huntingtonny.gov.

Mini Terrariums FREE

WHEN: Thursday, June 8, 4pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Get your hands dirty and design a small, succulent terrarium to take home. Registration required. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Shark Super Senses

WHEN: Saturday, June 10, 1:30-2:30pm WHERE: Whaling Museum and Education Center, 279 Main St., Sag Harbor

AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Find out about shark’s amazing abilities to see, hear, and smell. See real shark jaws and make a shark-tooth necklace. WANT TO GO? $6; $10 children. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

Family Coloring Time

WHEN: Sunday, June 11, 2pm FREE WHERE: Central Islip Public Library, 33 Hawthorne Ave., Central Islip AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Families are welcome to get creative with coloring. WANT TO GO? 631-234-9333. centralisliplibrary.org.

Emoji Decoupage Journals FREE

WHEN: Monday, June 19, 6-6:45pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Using a decoupage technique, participants design their own emoji-themed journal and then discuss fun ideas. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Family PlayDoh FREE

WHEN: Thursday, June 22, 7pm WHERE: Central Islip Public Library, 33 Hawthorne Ave., Central Islip AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Families are welcome to get creative with playdough. WANT TO GO? 631-234-9333. centralisliplibrary.org.

Family Lego Time FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 24, 11am WHERE: Central Islip Public Library, 33 Hawthorne Avenue, Central Islip AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Families are welcome to get creative with Legos. WANT TO GO? 631-234-9333. centralisliplibrary.org.

Jewelry Workshop

WHEN: Thursday, June 29, 4-5pm WHERE: Whaling Museum and Education Center, 279 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Explore different ways of recycling to help keep our oceans clean. Make some recycled paper beads and add then to a beautiful whale fluke necklace. WANT TO GO? $6; $10 children. 631-367-3418. cshwhalingmuseum.org.

Art Exhibition FREE

WHEN: June 1-29, Monday-Thursday, 9:30am-9pm; Friday-Saturday, 9:30am-5pm; Sundays, 1-5pm WHERE: Cold Spring Harbor Library and Environmental Center, 95 Harbor Road, Cold Spring Harbor AGES: All WHAT: The subject matter of the artist’s paintings has been influenced by her work as an environmental educator and canoe trips. WANT TO GO? 631-692-6820. cshlibrary.org. ›› LongIslandParent 41

Community Yard Sale FREE

WHEN: June 17-18, Saturday, 8am-3pm; Sunday, 10am-3pm WHERE: Hallockville Museum Farm, 6038 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: This community yard sale is an annual fundraiser for the museum featuring antiques, collectibles, household goodes, bric-a-brac, and more. WANT TO GO? 631-298-5292. hallockville.com.

Patron Appreciation Day FREE

WHEN: Monday, June 26, 10am-5:30pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: All WHAT: Participate in a variety of activities throughout the day in celebration of the library’s patrons. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

MOVERS & SHAKERS

FUN FAIRS & FESTIVALES Spring Jubilee FREE

WHEN: Friday, June 2, 4-6pm WHERE: Middle Country Public Library, 101 Eastwood Blvd., Centereach AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate spring with nature-based activities including vegetable instruments, nature-themed art projects, and planting. Bari Koral performs at 4:30pm and 6pm. WANT TO GO? 631-585-9393. mcplibrary.org.

Walt Whitman Birthday Celebration FREE

WHEN: June 3-4, Saturday, 12:30-3:30pm; Sunday, 12-2pm WHERE: Walt Whitman Birthplace, 246 Old Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station AGES: All WHAT: Walt Whitman Birthplace Association is having a weekend celebration for Walt Whitman’s 198th birthday and his legacy with poetry reading and student poetry contest awards. WANT TO GO? 631-427-5240. waltwhitman.org.

Strawberry Festival

WHEN: Through June 4: Saturday-Sunday, 10am-6pm WHERE: Garden of Eve Farm, 4558 Sound Ave., Riverhead AGES: All WHAT: Activities include strawberry picking, hayrides, Pedal Kart Track, Spider Web, and strawberry-themed activities. WANT TO GO? $5. 631-722-8777. gardenofevefarm.com.

Eastern Long Island Mini Maker Faire

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Ye Olde Fashioned Tag Sale FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 3, 10am-4pm WHERE: Islandia Village Hall, 1100 Old Nichols Road, Islandia AGES: All WHAT: Items such as toys, books, clothes, lamps and assorted knickknacks will be on sale. This is a rain-or-shine event. WANT TO GO? newvillageofislandia.com.

Stranger Danger FREE

WHEN: Sunday, June 4, 11am WHERE: All Island Martial Arts, 1850 NY-112, Coram AGES: 5 and older WHAT: This course shows how to prevent sensitive situations from occurring and provides simple yet affect self-defense techniques to escape. WANT TO GO? 631-599-2740. allislandmartialarts.com.

Children’s Auditions for ‘The Nutcracker’

WHEN: Sunday, June 4, 1pm WHERE: Frank Ohman School of Ballet, 60 Calvert Ave., Commack AGES: 5-17 WHAT: The Ohman School of Ballet/New York Dance Theatre will hold children’s auditions for its 36th season of The Nutcracker, which is presented at Hofstra University in December. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-462-6266. ohmanballet.org.

4th Annual Joseph P. Dwyer Veterans Peer Support Project Day of Wellness FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 10, 10am-4pm WHERE: Camp Pa-Qua Tuck, 2 Chet Swezey Road, Center Moriches AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a host of activities for veterans and their families dealing with post-service transition issues. Breakfast and lunch will be served. WANT TO GO? 631-878-1070. camppaquatuck.com.

Sport Academy FREE

WHEN: Through June 10: Saturdays, 1-4pm WHERE: YMCA East Hampton RECenter, 2 Gingerbread Lane, Westhampton Beach AGES: 5-12 WHAT: This progressive program, with multiple age-specific levels provides professional instruction to learn, lead, and succeed. WANT TO GO? 631-329-6884. ymcali.org.

38th Annual Shelter Island Run/Walk

WHEN: Saturday, June 17, 5:30pm WHERE: Shelter Island, 33 N. Ferry Road, Shelter Island AGES: All WHAT: A fundraising event for East End Charities. WANT TO GO? $40-$50; $15 for children younger than 14. 631-7749499. shelterislandrun.com.

Kindness Counts FREE

WHEN: June 1-Aug. 31, Monday-Friday, 9:30am-9pm; Saturday, 9:30am-7pm; Sunday, 12-5pm WHERE: Westhampton Free Library, 7 Library Ave., Westhampton Beach AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Teens can earn community service hours by accomplishing kindness tasks listed on Bingo boards supplied by the library. Teens can pick up a Bingo board during regular library hours. WANT TO GO? 631-288-3335. westhamptonlibrary.net.

Open Call Audition for New Talent FREE

WHEN: Through Dec. 31: Sundays, call to schedule an appointment WHERE: Tower Talent, 535 Broadhollow Road, Suite A2A, Melville AGES: 3-17 WHAT: Tower Talent Long Island is hosting open call auditions for actors, models, singers, dancers, and songwriters. Call to book an audition. WANT TO GO? 516-765-2400. towertalent.com.

Sky Wars

WHEN: Through Dec. 26: Wednesdays, 4-9pm WHERE: Sky Zone Mount Sinai, 269 Route 25A, Mount Sinai AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Take part in epic Nerf battles on trampoline courts. WANT TO GO? $22 for a two-hour session. 631-938-1420. skyzone.com/mountsinai.

A Day in the Life of a Lighthouse Keeper FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 17, 1pm WHERE: Fire Island Lighthouse, Robert Moses State Park, parking field 5, Fire Island AGES: All WHAT: Visit the Keeper’s Quarters, historic boathouse and Fresnel Lens Building from a keeper’s perspective. Meet in front of the Keeper’s Quarters. WANT TO GO? 631-661-4876. fireislandlighthouse.com.

Organic Kitchen Gardens FREE

WHEN: Saturday, June 17, 10:30-11:30am WHERE: Riverhead Free Library, 330 Court St., Riverhead AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Create a garden in a box with master gardener Tracy Belmonte. WANT TO GO? 631-727-3228. riverheadlibrary.org.

Evening Tower Tour

THE GREAT OUTDOORS Camp W Day Camp Open House FREE

WHEN: Sunday, June 4, 2-4pm WHERE: Birchwood Intermediate School, 121 Wolf Hill Road, Melville AGES: All WHAT: Meet the directors and staff while your children sample the many activities the school has to offer. WANT TO GO? 631-692-6222. campwdaycamp.com.

Light Keepers Behind the Scenes Tour

WHEN: Saturday, June 10, 9am WHERE: Fire Island Lighthouse, Robert Moses State Park, parking field 5, Fire Island AGES: 5 and older WHAT: This bottom-to-top tour takes you from the Light Keepers workshop in the basement to the beacon in the lantern room of the tower. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-661-4876. fireislandlighthouse.com.

WHEN: Wednesday, June 21, 8pm WHERE: Fire Island Lighthouse, Robert Moses State Park, parking field 5, Fire Island AGES: All WHAT: Experience the sunset on the first day of summer. View the sunset from the top of the Lighthouse. Reservations required. WANT TO GO? $20. 631-661-4876. fireislandlighthouse.com.

Summertime Stargazers

WHEN: Thursday, June 29, 8:30pm WHERE: Old Westbury Gardens, 71 Old Westbury Road, Old Westbury AGES: All WHAT: Join members of the Astronomical Society of Long Island, a group of dedicated amateur astronomers and telescope makers, for skywatching. WANT TO GO? $8; $6 seniors; $3 children ages 7-17. 516-333-0048. oldwestburygardens.org.

Horseshoe Crab Program

WHEN: Saturday, June 10, 7pm WHERE: Fire Island Lighthouse, Robert Moses State Park, parking field 5, Fire Island AGES: All WHAT: Learn about horseshoe crabs and watch them come ashore to lay their eggs while reveling in the beauty of the evening. WANT TO GO? $2. 631-661-4876. fireislandlighthouse.com.

Coming up next month: STARTING JULY 7: Madagascar Jr. at Gateway Playhouse, Bellport JULY 13-16: Great South Bay Music Festival at Shorefront Park, Patchogue JULY 29: Paddle Battle Long Island on the Peconic River, Riverhead

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WHERE-TO GUIDE

Beaches

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Research by Karen Lo

Courtesy NY State Parks & Historic Sites

It’s time to feel the sand between your toes! Pack up an umbrella, some chairs, a picnic, and a good book, and hit the beach with the kids. We’ve got all of your local sandy spots to enjoy a sunny day this summer, so why hesitate? There’s an entire ocean out there waiting for you to splash around. Want some time to relax? Have the kids compete in a sandcastle contest so you can focus on “me time” until you have to pick a winner. Note that dates and prices are projected; call ahead or check your local beach’s website to confirm all details.

Jones Beach in Wantagh is open year-round and has a performing arts theater, museum, and marina.

Suffolk County North Shore Beaches Governor Alfred E. Smith/Sunken Meadow State Park Kings Park 631-269-4333; parks.ny.gov Hours: daily, sunrise to sunset; beach: May 27-June 23, daily 10am-6pm, and June 24Sept. 4, daily, 10am-7pm Cost: Parking: $10 (weekdays, 8am-4pm, and weekends and holidays, 7am-6pm) Beach, biking, bridle path, fishing, food, golf, hiking, nature trail, picnic tables, playground, playing field, recreation programs, and showers. Leashed dogs are allowed only in undeveloped areas of the park. The Town of Brookhaven (North Shore) Beaches brookhavenny.gov Cedar Beach, Mount Sinai Shoreham Beach, Shoreham Stony Brook Beach, Stony Brook West Meadow Beach, Setauket 631-451-8696; brookhaven.org 44

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Hours: Memorial Day Weekend through July 4: Saturday-Sunday, 10:30am-6pm; July 4-Sept. 4: Monday-Friday, 11am-6pm; Saturday-Sunday, 10:30am-6pm Cost: Free for Town of Brookhaven residents with season pass ($15 for a residents season pass; $5 for senior, handicap, and veteran residents season pass. $5 daily); $20 daily parking fee for non- residents. Overlooks the Long Island Sound; Cedar Beach offers a fishing pier, nature center, walking trails, and a snack bar. West Meadow Beach offers nature crafts and a variety of family programs. The Town of Huntington Beaches huntingtonny.gov Asharoken and Crab Meadow Beach, Northport Centerport and Fleets Cove Beach, Centerport Crescent Beach and Gold Star Battalion Beach, Huntington Hobart Beach, Eaton’s Neck

West Neck Beach, Lloyd Harbor 631-261-7574; huntingtonny.gov Hours: daily, 8am-8pm. Lifeguards on duty beginning May 27, daily, 10am-6pm. Crescent Beach lifeguards on duty on weekends and holidays only May 27-June 25, 10am-6pm, and June 26–Aug. 1, daily, 10am-6pm. Cost: Town of Huntington Residents: $40 for the season or $25 daily. Non-residents: $35 daily. Overlooks The Long Island Sound. Many offer playgrounds. Crab Meadow Beach and Centerport Beach have picnic areas and Crab Meadow Beach also offers a boardwalk. Crab Meadow is best for young children; it has restaurants, an outdoor vending area, as well as a camp called Camp Soundview offered to children in first through seventh grades (call 631-351-3089 for more information). Other beaches have vending trucks. The Town of Riverhead Beaches Iron Pier Beach, Jamesport Reeves Park Beach, Riverhead South Jamesport Beach, South Jamesport Wading River Beach, Wading River 631-727-5744; townofriverheadny.gov Hours: daily, sunrise to 10pm Cost: $15 yearly permit for Town of Riverhead residents; $5 for residents older than 60 and veteran residents; $200 yearly permit for non-residents or $35 daily Attractions: All overlook The Long Island Sound, except for South Jamesport, which overlooks the Peconic Bay. Basketball and tennis courts at South Jamesport; playground at each beach except for Reeves; beach at Iron Pier; and concession stands at South Jamesport and Iron Pier. Find the full guide at ›› nymetroparents.com/beaches

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Zoom down twisty roller coasters, splash around on a water slide, and don’t forget to collect a big prize at the arcade. This summer, take your family to a local amusement park, or get out of town for a weekend of big play. Every place on our list has kid-friendly rides and attractions, and something for the grown-ups, too. Call ahead or visit the website before your day out at the amusement park, as hours, ticket prices, and attractions are subject to change.

Twirl and spin on the Turbulence Coaster at Adventureland in Farmingdale

Adventureland 2245 Route 110, Farmingdale 631-694-6868 adventureland.us Hours: Vary; see schedule on the website Price: $1.50 per ticket (rides cost 3-5 tickets). Pay-oneprice bracelet: $31.99. Free admission and parking. Open since 1962, Adventureland has roller coasters and thrill rides; family, kiddie, and water rides; and games. Season passes, gift cards, birthday party packages, and group rates available. New this year: a Helicopter Kiddie Ride, rechargeable player cards for the arcade, two new midway games, Bottle Flip and Top Spin, and a new Guest Relations Center.

Boomers! Family Fun Center 655 Long Island Ave., Medford 631-475-1771 boomerslongisland.com Hours: Vary by season; call or check the website Price: $1 for three 4-game tokens; $8 go-kart and bumper boat driver tickets ($3 for passengers); $8 mini-golf per game (free for children younger than 5); $2 for 25 pitches in the batting cages. Pay-one-price bracelet: $24.99. A cartoon-themed park, Boomers has an indoor carousel and outdoor kids’ rides, more than 70 video games, a minigolf course, bumper boats, batting cages, and go-karts. Splish Splash 2549 Splish Splash Drive, Calverton

631-727-3600; splishsplash.com Hours: May 27-Sept. 4. Hours vary; check the website; weekends only until June 18. Price: Weekdays: $42.99; $32.99 children shorter than 48 inches and seniors; free for children 2 and younger. Check website for weekend passes and season passes. Features 96 acres of rides and water slides for all ages, ranging from the Lazy River to the Cliff Diver, where you can drop eight stories in three seconds, and Dr. Von Dark’s Tunnel of Terror, a water ride with a 40-foot drop and many spins and slides against a backdrop of total darkness.

New York City Adventurer’s Park 1824 Shore Parkway, Bensonhurst 718-975-2748 adventurerspark.com Hours: May 26-Sept. 4, check the website for hours. Price: Single ticket: $3.75; 10 tickets: $31; 30 tickets: $80; GoKarts: $8 ($12 with a passenger). Calling all adventurers! With family rides, water boats, and mini golf, this amusement park opens daily for the summer May 29. Fantasy Forest at the Flushing Meadows Carousel 111th Street and 55th Avenue, Flushing Meadows-Corona Park, Queens 718-788-2676 fantasyforestnyc.com Hours: Through Oct. 11: daily, hours vary; check the website. Price: Single ticket: $3.50; 3 tickets: $10; 10 tickets: $30; 20 tickets: $55; 40 tickets: $100. Weekly unlimited ride wristband: $25 (valid until 4pm). One roller coaster, family rides and games, and a carousel are right in the heart of Queens. Don’t miss tons of great family-friendly performances throughout the summer as well, every weekend. The carousel was brought to Coney Island in 1964 for the World’s Fair and is the only ride left from the World’s Fair in Queens. Don’t miss the chance to ride this historical gem. Check website for a complete schedule.

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Introducing tweens to new to hobbies such as hiking as a healthy way to cope with stress is one way to help prevent them from turning to drugs.

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opular opinion on the legalization of recreational marijuana has changed dramatically in the last decade. Today, 57 percent of U.S. adults say the use of marijuana should be made legal, while 37 percent say it should be illegal. A decade ago, opinion on legalizing marijuana was nearly the reverse: 32 percent favored legalization, while 60 percent were opposed, according to a 2016 Pew Research Poll. While marijuana is still illegal federally, recreational and medical use is permitted in eight states, and medical use is allowed in more than half the country, including New York and New Jersey. “With legalization [for recreational use] comes increased availability and a decrease in the perception of harm among children and adolescents,” says Amy Goldstein, communications director of the National Family Partnership. But studies from the World Health Organization and The National Academy of Sciences show just the opposite: Marijuana can be addictive and harmful. Chances of becoming dependent on marijuana can be up to 50 percent for some users, according to Smart Approaches to Marijuana, an alliance dedicated to a health-first approach to marijuana policy, and regular use is dangerous to the adolescent brain—in some cases linked to permanent reductions in IQ, respiratory problems, injury, psychosis, and suicide. “When people begin using marijuana as teenagers, the drug may reduce thinking, memory, and learning functions and affect how the brain builds connections between the areas necessary for these functions. Marijuana’s effect on these abilities may last a long time or even be permanent,” Goldstein says. But with these new state laws, kids are being inundated with messages 46

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that the drug is harmless—and it’s more important today than ever that parents understand the risks of marijuana when used recreationally. “There are new television commercials coming after kids and young adults,” says Sue Rusche, president and CEO of National Families in Action. She refers to the T-Mobile Super Bowl commercial featuring Martha Stewart and Snoop Dogg having a potluck supper with thinly veiled references to pot. “There were purple cushions, marijuana vines, and other pot references,” she says. “That kind of stuff comes after kids. It’s the new tobacco industry, only worse.” Medical marijuana—which has been approved for treating symptoms of a number of diseases including cancer, HIV infection or AIDS, multiple sclerosis, and epilepsy—is a different story: Though it remains controversial and the American Academy of Pediatrics disapproves of its use in children, it is a topic that parents should discuss with their doctor if their child suffers from one of these diseases. In states where marijuana is fully legal, there are billboards advertising where to get it. Nationally, there are websites such as weedmaps. com that tell you where you can buy pot and even have it delivered. Paraphernalia is not the only way to indulge anymore. Legalization has spurred a boom in pot “edibles.” THC concentrate is mixed into almost any type of food or drink, including candies, soda, and baked goods. Today, these edibles comprise at least half of Colorado’s marijuana market, according to a report by SAM. There are even edible recipes on the Internet. “These foods are being left around,” Rusche says. “Babies and toddlers are eating them. They are rushed to the ICU.” “Marijuana is more potent today than it was in the 1960s and ’70s

even through the ’90s,” Rusche continues. “In those days the THC levels were 1, 2, 3, 4 percent. As marijuana growers begin cross breeding the average level of THC is now 12-15 percent.” But all is not lost. “Parents have the power to help our children grow up to be healthy and drug free,” Goldstein says. And it is never too early to start.

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Model a healthy relationship to drugs and alcohol. “In very young children parents want to model behaviors,” says Susan Newman, Ph.D., a social psychologist who specializes in parenting issues. “Always use drugs and alcohol moderately. You think kids aren’t watching but they are.” Take advantage of teachable moments. “There are teachable moments,” says Peggy Sapp, executive director of the National Family Partnership. “You can use gummy vitamins. You can say, ‘These taste like candy but they’re not, they’re medicine and you can only have one a day.’” Eat dinner as a family. Even at this young age getting together for meals has a positive impact on kids, Newman says. You can model listening and sharing events of your day. “There are several studies that show the more dinners you have with children, the less likely they are to try dangerous substances,” she says. “They feel supported, they get heard, and it’s a great opportunity to talk about all this.”

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Express clear disapproval for drug use. “Marijuana use was much less prevalent among youths who perceived strong parental disapproval for trying marijuana once or twice than for those who did not,” according to the 2013 National Survey on Drug Use and Health from the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration. What happens when you see commercials and billboards? “Help [kids] become media literate by asking questions about what they think the commercial or message are trying to tell them and why. It’s a good opportunity to ask questions about what they think they know about marijuana, what they’ve heard from their friends, who they perceive to be using it—and responding to those questions with facts, calmly and clearly,” Goldstein says. Tell your kids that even in states where marijuana is legal, it is only legal for adults of a certain age, and regulated by law the way alcohol is, until age 21. It is still considered illegal and harmful for teens and the developing teen brain, which is not fully matured until age 25, according to Josie Feliz, director of communications for the Partnership for Drug-Free Kids. Talk about family values. “Discuss incidents with friends in general about anti-social behavior,” Newman says. “If some child in the neighborhood throws rocks at someone’s dog, you need to discuss values and what’s important. For example you can say, ‘In this family we value respect and not following negative examples.” Address negative behaviors. According to Joseph Lee, M.D., American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry member and expert specializing in substance abuse, there can be telltale signs and many years of behavior before a child turns to substance abuse. “A child might have behavior problems in school,” he says. “He could be telling white lies and have trouble with remorse or empathy. These issues should be addressed.”

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Know your kids’ friends. Studies show younger teens, those 13 and

older, are much more influenced by their peers. “Be aware of where your kids are and who they are with,” Newman says. “Being vigilant can pay off.” “Ask them how their friends are using and why they are,” adds Susan Weiss, Ph.D., director of the Division of Extramural Research at The National Institute on Drug Abuse. “Tell them, ‘Your friends may be taking risks with things you may not want to do.’” Team up with other adults in your kids’ lives. “Know who the parents are,” Goldstein says. “Work together with the parents of your children’s friends to set common boundaries and monitor behavior. There’s strength in numbers. By getting to know your children’s friends’ parents and joining forces, you are essentially building a safety net for your children. Plus, supporting each other during times when you feel worn out can empower you to stay focused on helping your kids grow up healthy and drug free.” Model and introduce healthy coping mechanisms and hobbies. Middle school can be a time of high stress, Goldstein says. Children go through puberty while experiencing pressure to fit in and gaining more independence. It’s important for children to be exposed to healthy ways of coping with stress, whether it’s through daily exercise, getting out in nature, yoga, meditation, or playing their favorite sport.

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Be available. Parents should be honest about the risk to kids, Weiss says. “But if your child is using it find out why—some are depressed, some are anxious. They are using it to solve problems. Tell them this is not a good way and there are better ways of coping.” Discuss family history and what they see in the news. Talk about family members with addictions and family members with mental illness, Weiss says. “When a celebrity or local person in the news is in trouble for marijuana or other substances, it is an opportunity for parents to take advantage of the situation and discuss it in detail,” Newman says. “You want to say something like this happened to this person and these are the dangers of using marijuana and other drugs.” Make them aware that not everyone is doing it. According to the latest National Survey on Drug Use and Health, only 7 percent (1 out of 14) of 12- to 17-year-olds have reported using marijuana in the last month. “Sadly the misconception that everyone is doing it, which is common for teens, leads to increased use,” Goldstein says. “Many prevention organizations are aware of this and are investing in marketing campaigns, which help to reduce alcohol and drug use by educating teens about the actual use by their peers, based on surveys done in a school or community.” “You can show them a site like weedmaps.com and say, ‘Look how many sites are exploiting kids and breaking federal laws. These folks don’t care about your health, they only care about making money’,” Rusche says. Cultivate a positive family culture. It’s important that you spend quality time with your kids and have a good relationship, Goldstein says. Your kids need to know that they can trust and talk to you. “You don’t know what outside influences are going to do to your teenager,” Newman says. “The only way to combat this is by how you as a parent behave.” Dana Klosner-Wehner is a Long Islander who enjoys writing about parenting issues. Her topics are quelled from her own experiences in raising two kids.

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Art League of Long Island offers ... A Summer of Fun, Dynamic Art Enrichment Sessions for Kids & Teens

Art League SAA program held at Chestnut Hill Elementary School, Dix Hills

Early Childhood (age 5-6) & Young Artist (age 7-10)

PARTNER PROGRAM with Park Shore Country Day Camp of Dix Hills ... Kids age 5-9 can join SAA in the mornings and spend afternoons at Park Shore!

July 10 - August 11

Mature Artist (age 11-14) Two 10-day Sessions:

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1/2 day for $25.00 and full day for $50.00

2127 Lakeland Avenue, Suite 5, Ronkonkoma, NY 11779 631-676-4412 | www.giveityourallsports.com

Summer Studio Intensives held at the Art League (Teens 14-18)

July 10- July 27 (Mon-Thurs) Architecture & Spatial Design or Fashion Fundamentals July 10- August 18 (Mon-Fri) Pre-College Portfolio Development

Two 3-week sessions ... choose one or both!

107 East Deer Park Road, Dix Hills, NY

info@ARTLEAGUELI.org www.ARTLEAGUELI.org

631.462.5400

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Our Aero Camp satisfies the requirements for the Boy Scout Aviation Merit Badge. Now offering longer simulator and aircraft flight times. To learn more about this great program, contact Mid Island Flight School at 631-588-5400 or visit www.midislandair.com 58

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On Camera Scene Study TV Commercials Audition Runway With TOP NYC CASTING Fashion Print AGENTS Improv & Comedy Voice Overs & Many More! To apply for a FREE live on-camera audition Call 516-765-2400 or visit www.TowerTalent.com

St. Patrick’s Summer Camp

107 E. Deer Park Road, Dix Hills 631-462-5400 artleagueli.org info@artleague.org Learn about the Art League of Long Island’s programs for kids and teens at its Fine Art and Craft Fair at Huntington’s Heckscher Park June 3-4.

The Gateway Performing Arts Center of Suffolk County The Gateway School for the Performing Arts

215 S. Country Road, Bellport 631-286-1133 thegateway.org Join us for an open house on Sunday, June 25, 11am-4pm. Meet the professional instructors, learn about classes, tour the campus. Enter to win a free class!

Kenwal Day Camp

100 Drexel Ave., Melville 631-694-3399 kenwaldaycamp.com Visit Kenwal and meet with our directors. They will answer your questions, and take you and your campers around the beautiful 20-acre camp grounds. Through June: Sundays, 12-3pm.

Kids Country Day Camp

37 Crystal Brook Hollow Road, Mount Sinai 631-331-5351 kidscountrydaycamp.com Summer camp open house: Come take a tour, meet staff, and ask questions. Fun activities and registration discounts. June 17 from 11am-2pm.

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Long Island Voyager’s Day Camp

Kiddie Camp ages 3-5

Main Camp Teen Travel ages 6-12 ages 13-15

Saint Patrick R.C. Church 280 East Main Street, Smithtown www.stpatsyouth.com • 631-360-0185

516-238-4586 livoyagersdaycamp.com livoyagersdaycamp@gmail.com Come to LI Voyager’s Day Camp June open house. Meet with the director to learn about our exciting programs for campers ages 4-14 and receive new camper discounts.

St. Patrick Youth Community Summer Camp

St. Patrick Church, Smithtown 631-724-1261 stpatsyouth.com spyouth@optonline.net St. Patrick Youth Camp will be open on June 25. Stop by and meet the counselors from 10am-12pm. Ages 3-15 will experience trips, friendships, and more! Learn about our exciting summer programs!

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Your local guide to tutors, teachers, lawyers, financial planners, and other professionals. CHEFS & CATERING NEED A CHEF Serving all Long Island areas 631-578-0798 needachef.com; grillhampton@gmail.com Need A Chef can provide you with the right kind of chef for any kind of event! Packages include: personal menu, food, shopping, chef service, setup, and cleanup! CLEANING & HOME IMPROVEMENT SPARKLE GRILL CLEANING OF LONG ISLAND Serving all Long Island areas 631-209-5688 sparklegrill.com; peter@sparklegrill.com Sparkle’s two-man crews will arrive complete with the tools of the trade to restore your barbecue grill’s appearance or with the parts to make it fire up again! DENTISTS & DENTAL PROVIDERS ISLAND ORTHODONTICS HORIZON ORTHODONTICS: DR. SCOTT FRIEDMAN 1150 Portion Road, No. 13, Holtsville 631-698-2424 Find us on Facebook: @horizonorthodontics Our practice’s top priority is to provide you with the highest quality orthodontic care in a friendly, comfortable environment. We utilize the latest technological advances in the industry, such as invisible ceramic braces and Invisalign®, along with the latest in computer technology. PEDIATRIC DENTISTRY OF SUFFOLK COUNTY: DR. MIKE IOANNOU 2171 Jericho Turnpike, Suite 145, Commack 631-486-6364 3237 Route 112, Building 6, Suite 7B, Medford 631-320-0880 supermolar.com mikeioannou@hotmail.com Dr. Michael Ioannou, a native of Suffolk County, strives to make visiting the dentist a fun experience, all while providing exceptional dental care. He uses excellent behavioral management approaches, a child-friendly environment (TV and cartoons in all treatment rooms), and he sings to the patients! 60

SUFFOLK PEDIATRIC DENTISTRY 8 Medical Drive, Port Jefferson Station 631-928-8585 6144 Route 25 A, Suite D20, Wading River 631-929-7575 750 Roanoke Ave., Riverhead 631-727-8585 suffolkpediatricdentistry.com infoportjeff@suffolkpediatricdentistry.com For 40 years, we have provided dental care that’s friendly, gentle, and compassionate. We provide preventive and comprehensive treatment for infants, children, and adolescents including sedation and general anesthesia dentistry. We strive to help our patients develop good oral hygiene habits, and beautiful healthy smiles. DOCTORS & MEDICAL PROVIDERS LONG ISLAND CENTER FOR SPEECH AND MYOFUNCTIONAL THERAPY Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Suffolk: 631-689-6858 • Nassau: 516216-1791 • Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, along with her group of therapists, supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders. PEDIATRIC IMMEDIATE CARE 150 E. Sunrise Highway, Suite 105, North Lindenhurst 631-956-PEDS (7337) 1077 W. Jericho Turnpike, Smithtown 631-864-PEDS (7337) 698 Manhattan Ave., Brooklyn 718-389-PEDS (7337) pediatricimmediatecare.com Pediatric Immediate Care is a team of hearts where kids come first. State-of-the-art medical office equipment allows us to deliver your test results during your visit. Kid-friendly; walk-ins welcome; most insurance plans accepted.

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EDUCATIONAL CONSULTANTS STRATEGIC STAFFING WORKS Brooklyn and Long Island locations 631-649-6573 strategicstaffingworks.com strategicstaffingworks@gmail.com Offers workshops designed to help parents, family, and friends aid people with diverse abilities in their search for volunteer opportunities related to their field of college interest. LEGAL SERVICES BAKSHI LAW Offices in the Financial District, Long Island, and Westchester 917-244-6133 lawbakshi.com; lara.bakshi@gmail.com Bakshi Law specializes in special education law, representing parents and children with disabilities, attending suspension hearings, CSE, and resolution meetings. Our attorneys offer assistance on a sliding scale. LAW OFFICES OF BRAD H. ROSKEN, P.L.L.C. 1772 E. Jericho Turnpike, Suite 2, Huntington 631-379-9569; specialedcounselor.com brad@specialedcounselor.com Brad H. Rosken is an experienced trial attorney. He’s also a parent of a child with special needs. He knows how far to push a school district to obtain the maximum that your child is entitled to under law. SPECIAL NEEDS BAKSHI LAW Offices in the Financial District, Long Island, and Westchester 917-244-6133 lawbakshi.com; lara.bakshi@gmail.com Bakshi Law specializes in special education law, representing parents and children with disabilities, attending suspension hearings, CSE, and resolution meetings. Our attorneys offer assistance on a sliding scale. LAW OFFICES OF BRAD H. ROSKEN, P.L.L.C. 1772 E. Jericho Turnpike, Suite 2, Huntington 631-379-9569 specialedcounselor.com brad@specialedcounselor.com Brad H. Rosken is an experienced trial attorney. He’s also a parent of a child with special needs. He knows how far to push

a school district to obtain the maximum that your child is entitled to under law. LONG ISLAND CENTER FOR SPEECH AND MYOFUNCTIONAL THERAPY Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Suffolk: 631-689-6858 • Nassau: 516216-1791 • Queens: 718-640-6767 Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, along with her group of therapists, supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders. DR. ELLEN T RICHER, EDUCATION CLINICIAN & COUNSELOR Convenient Long Island locations 347-668-3676 etrdream@aol.com We co-develop strategies to improve executive functioning, sensory processing, and social cognition challenges, and provide enrichment opportunities to engage and motivate highly capable yet underachieving children. SPECIAL NEEDS EMPLOYMENT STRATEGIC STAFFING WORKS Brooklyn and Long Island locations 631-649-6573 strategicstaffingworks.com strategicstaffingworks@gmail.com Offers workshops designed to help parents, family, and friends aid people with diverse abilities in their search for employment and life-fulfilling volunteer opportunities. THERAPY & COUNSELORS DR. LISA M. CASSIDY, PH.D. 4250 Vets Highway Suite 215, Holbrook 631-748-4659 Dr. Cassidy is a child advocate and always puts the child first. Therapy for children, individuals, and families. Consultant services to parents regarding special education testing.

LOUIS E. MORA, PH.D., PSYCHOLOGIST P.C. 70 Glen Cove Road, Suite 201, Roslyn Heights 347-740-5690 lmoraphd.com Dr. Mora specializes in psychological testing. This includes neuropsychological testing, giftedness examinations, and evaluating for the presence of psychological disorders. DR. ELLEN T RICHER, EDUCATION CLINICIAN & COUNSELOR Convenient Long Island locations 347-668-3676 etrdream@aol.com We co-develop strategies to improve executive functioning, sensory processing, and social cognition challenges, and provide enrichment opportunities to engage and motivate highly capable yet underachieving children. TUTORS & TEST PREP ST. PATRICK YOUTH COMMUNITY: ST. PATRICK TUTORING CENTER St. Patrick Church, Smithtown 631-724-1261 stpatsyouth.com; spyouth@optonline.net St. Patrick Tutoring Center is here to assist your learner from kindergar-

ten to 12th grades with Catholic Entrance Exam Prep, SAT, Regents, or daily schoolwork. ST. PATRICK YOUTH COMMUNITY: YOUTH ENRICHMENT LEARNING CENTER St. Patrick Church, Smithtown 631-724-1261 stpatsyouth.com; spyouth@optonline.net St. Patrick Youth Enrichment and Learning Center provides programs for your child ages 1½ years to sixth grade. A faith-based program offers a loving, caring environment. VILLAGE EAST GIFTED ENRICHMENT CENTER FOR THE GIFTED LEARNER Village East Gifted of Huntington 33 Walt Whitman Road, Huntington Station 631-549-2313 Village East Gifted of Roslyn 216 Willis Ave., Roslyn Heights 631-549-2313 villageeastgifted.com info@villageeastgifted.com Village East Gifted provides after-school enrichment and private tutoring. Enriching every qualified, gifted child. We are also a John Hopkins CTY info and SAT testing center.

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Dr. Michael Ioannou, a native of Suffolk County, received his dental degree at the University of Connecticut - School of Dental Medicine, with a residency in pediatric dentistry from Albert Einstein College of Medicine/Montefiore Medical Center. A friendly, patient dentist, Dr. Ioannou strives to make visiting the dentist a fun experience, all while providing exceptional dental care. He uses excellent behavioral management approaches, a child-friendly environment (TV and cartoons in all treatment rooms), and he sings to the patients! Dr. Ioannou currently participates with most insurance companies and has convenient evening and Saturday office hours.

Allied Physicians Group, Jason B. Hitner, M.D. 925 Deer Park Ave., North Babylon 631-661-1200 drhitner.com

Dr. Jason Hitner’s practice specializes in the care of healthy newborns and treats newborns exclusively. He also offers free prenatal consultations. Dr. Hitner graduated from Cornell University and Emory University School of Medicine. He completed his internship at New York Hospital and his residency at Emory University Children’s Hospital. He is a board-certified member of the American Academy of Pediatrics. Dr. Hitner volunteered in medical missions abroad, and was an Olympic medical staff member for the 1996 games. Currently, Dr. Hitner is the medical director of Suffolk County Community College, and the medical director of Copiague School District.

Dr. Michael Gruttadauria, The Center for Integrative and Innovative Therapies (The CIIT Center) 131 Sunnyside Blvd., Suite 100, Plainview 516-243-8660 theciitcenter.com

Louis E. Mora, Ph.D., Psychologist P.C. 70 Glen Cove Road, Suite 201, Roslyn Heights 347-740-5690 lmoraphd.com

Pediatric Immediate Care 150 E. Sunrise Highway, Suite 105, North Lindenhurst 631-956-PEDS (7337) 1077 W. Jericho Turnpike, Smithtown 631-864-PEDS (7337) 698 Manhattan Ave., Brooklyn 718-389-PEDS (7337) pediatricimmediatecare.com

Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy Locations across Suffolk and Nassau: East Yaphank, Farmingville, Stony Brook, Commack, Jericho, Wantagh, and Lake Success lispeechandmyo.com Suffolk: 631-689-6858 • Nassau: 516-216-1791 • Queens: 718-640-6767

Dr. Michael Gruttadauria leads the operations at an advanced treatment center for autism spectrum disorder called The CIIT Center. The CIIT Center’s mission is to approach each child with autism as a total entity by enhancing the biomedical, neurological, nutritional, electrical, and immune system of each of our patients and combining this with occupational, physical, and speech therapies, along with applied behavioral analysis. Our comprehensive approach starts with identifying the underlying factors that may be holding the child back, not just treating their symptoms. This gives each child every opportunity to reach their potential.

Pediatric Immediate Care is a team of hearts where kids come first. State-of-the-art medical office equipment allows us to deliver your test results during your visit. Kid-friendly; walk-ins welcome; most insurance plans accepted. Complete pediatric and adolescent care, as well as baby, camp, school, and sports physicals. Certified urgent care recommended by Urgent Care Association of America. Thirty years of dedication to our patients. The offices are open seven days a week including holidays, 8am-11pm.

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Dr. Mora works with children and adults. He specializes in psychological testing, which helps improve diagnosing and treatment planning. Such testing includes neuropsychological testing, giftedness examinations, and evaluating for the presence of psychological disorders. This includes evaluating for ADHD and possible consequences of head injury. He has years of experience doing such testing with various populations. He earned his doctorate in clinical psychology and postdoctoral education in forensic psychology from St. John’s University. He is also an adjunct professor of psychology at St. Francis College.

Janine Stiene, speech-language pathologist, is owner and operator of Long Island Center for Speech and Myofunctional Therapy. Along with her group of therapists, she supports families and children across Long Island, specializing in PROMPT, feeding, myofunctional therapy, voice disorders, fluency, augmentative communication, articulation, auditory processing disorders, and expressive and receptive language disorders (adults and children). Intensive feeding therapy for individuals who suffer from texture and consistency aversions, and FEES—Fiberoptic Endoscopic Evaluation of Swallowing—are also offered. There is a total of seven affiliated offices across Long Island, all participating with most major health insurance companies and offering evening and Saturday hours.

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Gold Medal Gymnastics Center.......................................58

Art League of Long Island...............................................58

Allied Physicians Group...................................................64

Key to My Art...................................................................54

C.I.I.T. Center............................................................17, 64

TJE Dance Force...............................................................9 BIRTHDAY / PARTY SERVICES @ Play Amusement.........................................................13 BounceU - Farmingdale..................................................29 Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery...................................58

LIU Center for Gifted Youth.............................................57 Lyrical Children’s Pre-School & Learning........................48 Mid Island Air - Aero Camp..............................................58 Ohman School Of Ballet..................................................56 Picasso Kidz....................................................................56 Sportime..........................................................................56

Fairy LiceMothers............................................................29 Fidelis Care New York.......................................................5 Louis Mora, Ph.D.......................................................29, 64 Pediatric Dentistry of Suffolk County...........................3, 64 Pediatric Immediate Care..........................................14, 64

Key to My Art...................................................................54

TJE Dance Force...............................................................9

Tobacco Action Coalition of LI.........................................67

Long Island Aquarium & Exhibition Center......................57

Tower Talent - Melville.....................................................59

Tobacco Free NY.............................................................14

Picasso Kidz....................................................................56

Village East Gifted...........................................................54

CAMPS Art League of Long Island...............................................58 Baseball Heaven.............................................................52 Camps ‘R’ Us...................................................................53 Cold Spring Harbor Fish Hatchery...................................58 Cold Spring Harbor Laboratory: DNA Learnig.................57 Destination Science.........................................................56 Dorothy P Flint 4-H Camp...............................................57 Future Stars - Old Westbury............................................54

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LEGAL SERVICES Bakshi Law......................................................................29

Ohman School Of Ballet..................................................56 TJE Dance Force...............................................................9 DEVELOPMENTAL Allied Physicians Group...................................................64

PERFORMING ARTS / ACTING Gateway Playhouse.........................................................12 Tower Talent - Melville.....................................................59

C.I.I.T. Center............................................................17, 64

PLAY SPACES

Huntington Learning Center............................................19

@ Play Amusement.........................................................13

Janine Stiene Suffolk Center for Speech...................25, 64 Louis Mora, Ph.D.......................................................29, 64

BounceU - Farmingdale..................................................29

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Give It Your All Sports......................................................58

Bakshi Law......................................................................29

Diocese of RVC...............................................................68

Gold Medal Gymnastics Center.......................................58

Diocese of RVC...............................................................68

LI Lutheran Day School at St. Pauls................................19

Incarnation Camps..........................................................54

Huntington Learning Center............................................19

St. Patrick Youth Community...........................................59

Kenwal Day Camp.............................................................7 Key to My Art...................................................................54 Kids of Mount Sinai / Kids Country Day...........................53 Knox School (The) - Summer Adventures.......................58 LI Lutheran Day School at St. Pauls................................19 LI Voyagers Day Camp....................................................55 Long Island Aquarium & Exhibition Center......................57

Kids of Mount Sinai / Kids Country Day...........................53 LI Lutheran Day School at St. Pauls................................19

SPECIAL EVENTS

LIU Center for Gifted Youth.............................................57

Empire State Fair...............................................................9

Lyrical Children’s Pre-School & Learning........................48

Gateway Playhouse.........................................................12

Sacred Heart Academy ...................................................55

Great South Bay Music Fest............................................11

Village East Gifted...........................................................54 FAMILY ENTERTAINMENT / EVENTS / OUTINGS

Lyrical Children’s Pre-School & Learning........................48

@ Play Amusement.........................................................13

Mid Island Air - Aero Camp..............................................58

Adventure Parks of Outdoor Adventures ........................23

Ohman School Of Ballet..................................................56

Baseball Heaven.............................................................52

Picasso Kidz....................................................................56 Sacred Heart Academy ...................................................55 Sportime..........................................................................56 St. Patrick Youth Community...........................................59 Tower Talent - Melville.....................................................59 Village East Gifted...........................................................54 Young Peoples Day Camp - LI..........................................2

SPECIAL NEEDS Allied Physicians Group...................................................64 Bakshi Law......................................................................29 C.I.I.T. Center............................................................17, 64 Huntington Learning Center............................................19

BounceU - Farmingdale..................................................29

Janine Stiene Suffolk Center for Speech...................25, 64

Empire State Fair...............................................................9

Louis Mora, Ph.D.......................................................29, 64

Gateway Playhouse.........................................................12

Pediatric Dentistry of Suffolk County...........................3, 64

Great South Bay Music Fest............................................11

Pediatric Immediate Care..........................................14, 64

Long Island Aquarium & Exhibition Center......................57 SPORTS FAMILY TRAVEL Adventure Parks of Outdoor Adventures ........................23

Baseball Heaven.............................................................52 Future Stars - Old Westbury............................................54

FITNESS

Give It Your All Sports......................................................58

CHILD CARE / DAY CARE

Give It Your All Sports......................................................58

Sportime..........................................................................56

Kids of Mount Sinai / Kids Country Day...........................53

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Rod Howe and Mark Pedersen

VOICES Three Decades and Counting ››

How we, a gay couple with two adopted sons, raised our kids during changing times By Rod Howe and Mark Pedersen

e met in Boston in 1986 and quickly cut to the chase. One of us indicated that he planned to adopt a child, since he had known he wanted to be a parent since the age of 12. The other shared he was HIV positive and had never thought about the possibility of parenthood. Fast forward through a brief romance, moving in together, marching in front of then-governor Michael Dukakis’ home to oppose an intolerant foster care policy, and then turning to foreign adoption options. It is now 31 years later; we have raised our two adopted sons from Cambodia and now are enjoying being grandfathers to two granddaughters. The journey in many ways is very different than the one we had envisioned, but it is ours, and we are in equal measures humbled, proud, a bit bruised, and ultimately contented. As far as we are concerned, whoever coined the phrase “Practice makes perfect” clearly was not a parent. We have made our share of mistakes—as did our parents and their parents and so on throughout history—but we haven’t been terrible parents. Sometimes it was the thing we swore we would never say to our child that we did say in the heat of the moment. Sometimes it was something of our own creation that was equally hurtful or certainly not very helpful. Sometimes it seemed like we didn’t have better options. Now that our sons are adults (ages 19 and 30) the challenges they present are vastly different from when they were younger (not surprisingly), and we are sometimes at a total loss for how to react or what to say. We try to remember the maxim that if you openly disagree with something your child is doing he will tend to cling all the more tightly to that behavior. And as parents of children from another culture, we have always had to consider whether our perspective is objectively “right” or only makes sense from the standpoint of the lens with which we see the world. Biological parents sometimes say their children are so different from themselves that they swear the child must have been switched at birth. We held no expectations that our children would look like us or act like us, and they haven’t disappointed. The world certainly has changed since we were in our 20s, especially in terms of how alternative families are perceived and

The authors’ sons when they were children, circa 2001

received. Not too long ago our teenage son introduced us to one of his friends, and she shrieked, “You have two gay dads! That’s awesome!” We were surprised that she—and everyone else in the school—didn’t already know, and we wondered if our son was somehow ashamed of our family constellation. (Weren’t we all ashamed of our parents for one reason or another at some point in our lives?) On the other hand, maybe he just did not see any need to mention it. In his last year of high school, this same young man came out to us as bisexual in the midst of a play in which he was acting. He had blocked us from a number of Facebook posts in which he had been questioning who he was, but some family members and friends had reported back to us already. Prior to this we had always been forbidden from setting foot anywhere near where he might be street dancing or acting in a play, so we knew something was up when he invited us to this performance. I’m afraid that the shock value wasn’t present on our faces as he made his announcement during the talk-back after the play. Both of our sons have felt free to experiment with who they are and are very accepting of others whose way of being in the world may not be considered the norm. They are very empathetic to those who are bullied or are somehow labeled and treated as different or other. Perhaps we haven’t done such a bad job after all.

Rod Howe is the product of a large, ever-expanding, and inclusive family from upstate New York, where he and Mark Pedersen have resided for the past 27 years. He is now the executive director of a history center after retiring from Cornell University. Pedersen, originally from the Boston area, now works for a local Unitarian Universalist congregation. Their two sons and grandchildren all live within 10 miles of each other.

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