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april 2020 16 Erasing Autism Misconceptions

Organizations share what they wish the world knew about people with autism

18 Does My Child Have a Learning Disability?

Where to start if you expect the answer is “yes”

34 Is it Time for Day Camp?

Why camp is important for your child’s development

38 Tackling Toddler’s Screen Time Recommendations for young children

40 Bulldozer Parents How parents’ involvement in kids’ lives has escalated to an extreme

COLUMNS 6 Editor’s Note 9 News: What’s happening in the community 12 Baby: Baby-Proofing Basics 14 Advice: Ask DadandBuried 46 Last Word: What is your favorite parenting hack?

THINGS TO DO 23 Family Activities Calendar

RESOURCES 21 Special Needs Directory 36 Camp Chart

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You can find tons of fun things to do at home—from building rockets out of materials you already have, to learning how to enjoy pizza for every meal, to revisiting low-fi activities from your childhood—on our website. Even better? You can download our interactive e-book, 50 Ideas for At-Home Fun, at nymetroparents.com/home-fun!

And, if you find yourself in need of a sitter to keep your kids entertained while you work from home, our friends at Mommybites.com shared eight resources for where to find last-minute child care. You can find them, plus tips for ensuring your new sitter is reliable, at nymetroparents.com/emergency-sitters.

Within this issue, we’re continuing to help you make the best decisions for your children with advice from experts about what to do if you suspect your child has a learning disability (p. 18), why day camp is so important for children (p. 34), how to avoid being a bulldozer parent (p. 40), and tips for reducing your toddler’s screen time (p. 38). And in honor of Autism Awareness Month, we’re shedding some light on common misconceptions about individuals on the spectrum (p. 16).

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LEGOLAND Discovery Center Westchester is transforming into the ultimate Troll-tastic playground to celebrate the premier of ‘Trolls World Tour’.

Through May 3, LEGOLAND Discovery Center Westchester in Yonkers is launching an all-access pass, Troll-tastic adventure to celebrate the upcoming premiere of Trolls World Tour. The indoor LEGO playground will transform into a world full of Trolls, where kids can “perfect their air guitar skills, embrace their inner superstar, and become ‘Trollformed’—hair and glitter included.” The experience will also include new, colorful LEGO Trolls sets for kids to play with.

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Time for Spring Cleaning Did you know 41 percent of Americans can’t remember the last time they cleaned out their fridge? Now is the time to tackle it because spring cleaning season is here. We asked cleaning experts for other oftenforgotten spots when cleaning, plus their tricks to easily get the job done, at nymetroparents.com/ spring-clean.

Sibling Bonds

Growing up with a sibling makes for countless fun (and sometimes not-so-fun) memories. And getting kids to share without fighting? Forget about it. If your kids need to share a room, check out 10 tips for keeping the peace at nymetroparents.com/ room-sharing.

Considering adopting a pet?

April is National Pet Month, and, much like with a sibling, your child can create a special bond with Fido. But did you know having a pet can have health benefits? A pet can boost your child’s emotional health, according to Jeanne Clune, behavior and enrichment coordinator of the SPCA of Westchester. Considering adopting a pet? Let us help you pick which animal at nymetroparents.com/ pets-for-families.

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Celebrating ‘Remarkably Average Parenting’

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etting laid off from her advertising job, shortly after returning from maternity leave no less, was the best thing that ever happened to Ilana Wiles, the Manhattan mom behind MommyShorts.com. “I started the blog because I thought it would be hard to find another job at my level without it. Then the blog took off and advertising became more focused on social media, so instead of getting a job at another agency, I was able to turn my blog into my own business. It felt great to feel super-relevant and ahead of the curve, instead of like becoming a mother had somehow ended my career.”

What’s the best parenting advice you ever received?

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[It] was from my mother, who said to take advantage of her willingness to help. I don’t know why, but when my first baby was born, I felt this need to prove to her that I could do it all on my own. ...She made me realize that her volunteering to help didn’t mean I was doing anything wrong. It was more about her desire to be involved. Ever since, I accept any help I can get. …When you monopolize all of your kid’s needs, you actually do a disservice to everyone.

All moms need a break, and kids should learn to be comfortable with others. Especially Grammy!

I have to give a shout out to my book, The Mommy Shorts Guide to Remarkably Average Parenting. It’s a fun read that combines real advice with fun anecdotes and parenting memes. It was my attempt to combat the whole perfect parenting thing. There is no right way to do anything (especially parenting!) and sometimes the best thing we can do is forgive ourselves a little and acknowledge that becoming a parent means things are way less in your control.

Read more at nymetroparents.com/mommyshorts.

Why follow @mommyshorts? Wiles treats you like a good friend—ordering you to skip a playdate for lunch and a massage—but can advise on almost every major mommy issue, from pregnancy to politics.

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New Places, New Programs Customize Your Own Pottery

Summer Program Emphasizes Art This summer, Blue Rock School plans to emphasize arts in its Summer Arts and Play program. Children will explore a variety of hands-on and playful art-making activities, including ceramics, music, sewing, puppetry, and drama. Under the guidance of experienced educators, children can develop their imagination and creativity at the school’s 5-acre, wooded campus. For open house dates, email summerarts@bluerockschool.org. 110 Demarest Mill Road, West Nyack; 845-627-0234; bluerockschool.org.

Paint Our Pottery is opening a new studio in Stony Point this month. The walk-in, paintyour-own pottery studio does not charge an hourly rate or studio fee and encourages guests to bring in coffee or food to enjoy while they work.

Visitors can create household items, personalized gifts, holiday pieces, and more.

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Greenify Your Lunch Earth Day is Thursday, April 23, and (now more than ever) we should be cutting waste and thinking as green as possible. We’re doing our part by sharing tips for making your kid’s lunch ‘greener’—from lunchboxes to thermoses to reusable snack bags. One of our editors has been using a set of To-Go Ware’s reusable bamboo utensils for years and swears by the eco-friendly and convenient product. For our full list, visit nymetroparents.com/ green-lunchbox.

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Teaching our kids to love and respect the environment from a young age will help them grow up to live sustainably and positively contribute to Earth. Susan Bartell, Psy.D., Long Island-based child psychologist, suggests showing your little ones the importance of caring for nature, saving water, and recycling. Seemingly small decisions like using reusable dishware rather than paper or plastic and explaining can go a long way in developing their habits.

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Baby-Proofing Basics 16 things you need to do before bringing home your bundle of joy

By Katelin Walling

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ringing baby home from the hospital is scary for first-time parents for many reasons, so baby proofing your home in the month before your due date will give you a little extra peace of mind. And you don’t even have to go crazy baby proofing the whole house; focus on the rooms where your child will be.

Courtney Ilarraza, co-founder of Baby Bodyguards, a full-service baby and child safety company in New York City, shares how to make your home safe for baby. Make sure baby-proofing items are Juvenile Products Manufacturing Association-certified, she advises. Also, you’ll want to register all items with the manufacturers to receive recalls, so avoid using any hand-me-downs.

Secure furniture to the walls. This is the most important thing, Ilarraza says. Once drawers are pulled out, the weight is redistributed.

When a toddler or child climbs into the drawers, the piece can topple.

Put padding on sharp corners. “A lot of times parents have this misconception that [padding] should be around every edge,” Ilarraza says. “But it is really just the sharp corners that could cause a laceration if a toddler were to fall into it.”

Install sliding outlet plates. When an appliance is unplugged,

Run cables and cords through a cable management box.

“All the bundles of wires that are a mess go into this box that then closes off, so it is not an eye sore and it also takes it away from the child’s attention,” Ilarraza says.

Wrap shade blind cords around a blind cleat.

Install hardware-mounted gates at the tops and bottoms of stairs. “Never use a pressure-mounted gate on the top of the stairs,” Ilarraza advises—they aren’t as secure.

Stop using tablecloths when your toddler starts pulling herself up on things.

Rearrange bookshelves, putting heaver items on bottom shelves and lighter items on higher shelves.

Install window guards if your windows can open more than 4 inches.

Make sure bannister and balcony slats are no more than 4 inches apart. If they are, add slats in the spaces or install a guard

the outlet cover automatically slides into place. It’s aesthetically pleasing, you don’t have to remember to put an outlet cap back on, and the child can’t remove it.

on the inside, especially if the slats are horizontal, creating a ladder.

Anchor the TV, either to the wall or the media stand.

from entering unattended. “We don’t believe in toilet locks, because it normally ends up being disabled by a grown-up at two in the morning, and there are much more dangerous things in the bathroom than the toilet,” Ilarraza cautions. “Make it so that a child couldn’t gain access to a bathroom without a grown-up.”

The No. 1 thing is to anchor anything that could fall over onto your child, Ilarraza says, referring to the U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission’s Anchor It campaign.

Put coat hooks on the wall near the entryway, if you don’t have a coat closet. This keeps coats and bags out of baby’s reach, preventing him from finding choking hazards or medications.

Screw latches into drawers and cupboards containing dangerous items, such as cleaning products and sharp objects.

Though Ilarraza suggests leaving a latch off of one drawer or cubboard that contains child-friendly items such as tupperware.

Put a child-proof knob cover on the bathroom door handle and other off-limits rooms to prevent the toddler

Set the hot water heater to 120 degrees or lower, if you have access, preventing your toddler from being badly burned if he can reach the hot-water faucet.

Take an infant-child CPR and safety class with your partner. You never know when you’ll need these skills that could save your child’s life.

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The best news? They can be distracted by screens.

I know, I know, I’m a terrible parent: Screen time should be limited, especially for toddlers; you should bring coloring books instead; blah blah blah. But this is the one time we condone screens for toddlers.

Look: Airplanes are no time to screw around. You’re stuck in a metal box with 200 strangers who are irritated and stressed. They’re predisposed to hate anyone who sits next to them, regardless of age, and the minute they notice they’re in the vicinity of young children—and on a plane, everyone is in the vicinity—they stop being polite and start being real. And they hate kids.

What they fail to realize is no one is less happy about traveling with rambunctious, excitable kids than their parents. Moms and Dads lugging their children on a flight that cost them a thousand dollars— if they’re lucky!—are more frustrated than the people sitting in the seats those kids are kicking. Nobody escapes that flight unscathed!

Plane rides should be fun for kids, and they are no time to experiment with screen-free activities. You can get back to your rules when you land. But when you’re 35,000 feet up? Cut everybody, and yourself, some slack.

So, your mission, Gabriela, should you choose to accept it: Keep your toddler as occupied and as quiet as possible. In my experience, screens are the best way to do that. Two hours of staring at the seatback TV isn’t going to kill him. Six hours of playing on an iPad won’t melt her brains. Get in, get bingeing, get out of the plane; everybody wins. And by “wins” I mean “survives”!

Mission No. 2 is getting Grandma to fly back with you.

Unfortunately, I can’t help with that one.

Our advice column features the wise and humorous commentary of Mike Julianelle (aka @DadandBuried), a 40-something influencer with a popular podcast who lives in Brooklyn with his wife and two kids.

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any misconceptions still exist around autism spectrum disorder. So, in honor of Autism Awareness Month, we asked people from organizations throughout the New York metro area to describe what they wish the world knew about people with autism, both to help erase some of those misconceptions and shed some light on how autism cannot define individuals. Our sources want you to know: People with autism can do anything they put their minds to. But we’ll let them tell you!

“From my perspective as a social worker who is an educational advocate for families

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everyone to consider a person with autism as an individual exhibiting characteristics that are unique to them. A diagnosis does not relegate someone to a group, nor does it define them, but it does provide a window into who they are, their wishes, dreams, and aspirations. And, it’s precisely this uniqueness that helps to define their diagnosis.”

–Monica L. Mandell, LMSW, a bilingual social worker at MLM Advocacy, Westchester

“Many people who fall somewhere on the autism “I wish people knew that some [people with autism] who struggle with social communications are also emotionally intelligent.” –Lori Podvesker, Brooklyn

spectrum are extremely observant. This often leads to having sharp-witted senses of humor. I am constantly laughing when I am around one friend in particular.”

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Does My Child Have a

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lthough many kids may struggle with schoolwork throughout their academic careers, it’s often hard to know if your child has a learning disability. There is no one behavior or learning difficulty that equals a diagnosis and learning disabilities can affect nonacademic areas of your child’s life, too.

So, what happens when you suspect your child might have a disability? Educators and experts have shared their thoughts on how to get your child evaluated and how you can support her in school and at home.

What are the symptoms?

A learning challenge can present in many different ways, says Colin Montgomery, a family educator at INCLUDEnyc and a former special education teacher. A learning disability is simply a disorder in one or more of the processes kids use in understanding and using language, and can express itself in reading, writing, or math, according to the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act. It can also be nonverbal or look like an attention issue because your child has an auditory processing difficulty.

The many issues that might arise because of a learning disability make it difficult to figure out if your child has one. After all, it’s common for kids have trouble with certain units in science class or resist doing their homework. Sometimes, you need to puzzle it out to see if a learning disability is to blame.

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School. “Homework gives parents a chance to see if kids are able to apply the skills they’re learning at school, at home independently. And if they’re not able to, that’s a sign to reach out to the teacher.”

Another sign of a learning disability, Reilly says, can be that your child is trying so hard to get something right but is making no progress. When you hear “needs to be working more toward potential” or “not trying hard enough” from your child’s teacher, that’s a warning.

Unlike children with intellectual disabilities, kids with learning disabilities often have average or above-average IQs that aren’t reflected in their grades. When your child’s intellectual abilities do not match up with his ability to do schoolwork, that’s a red flag, says Erica Maltz, founder and CEO of WhizKidz Tutoring LLC in Westchester and a former educator. Poor executive functioning can also come into play with learning disabilities.

“If you hear from a teacher that your child is disorganized, disengaged, not completing assignments…it might be a sign of learning troubles,” Maltz says.

Maybe it’s something else?

“With some students, you might think it’s a learning disability, but they could be moving from another school or district in New York, or another state, and they just didn’t have good instruction [before],” Montgomery says. “[Learning issues] might be a function of being a multilingual learner, or the student wasn’t given appropriate instruction in the past.”

Maximizing Your Child’s Individualized Education Program

Transitioning between grades can pose challenges for some students, Reilly says, and sometimes anxiety is only anxiety. Parents and educators need to consider the big picture of the child and evaluate her educational strengths and weaknesses against each other.

Harold Levinson, M.D., director of the Levinson Medical Center for Learning Disabilities in Great Neck, points out that some symptoms of learning disabilities can be attributed to inner ear and cerebellum problems—issues that can be fixed with medication. If your child is finding learning difficult but also has memory and speech problems, uncoordinated balance, poor concentration, high activity levels and impulsivity, and was late to walk and talk, he might have an inner ear issue.

Now what?

If you’ve exhausted alternative explanations and still suspect a learning disability, you should begin the process of getting help. While many parents proceed directly to getting their child evaluated for an Individualized Education Program, there are some other options to consider first. For example, many schools offer intervention programs such as extra help in certain subjects that kids can participate in without an IEP. Completing a year of extra programming in areas where she’s struggling might be enough to get your kid up to speed.

“The [New York City] DOE is supposed to provide at-risk services [called Response to Intervention] for students who are behind academically,” Montgomery says. “There should be opportunities to get that foundational instruction, repeated instruction, without needing to automatically get an IEP.” In fact, the New York State Department of Education mandates all schools offer RTI, though districts have the freedom to design their own programs as long as they meet basic state criteria.

Your child’s IEP should be responsive and supportive, says Colin Montgomery, family educator at INCLUDEnyc. The program usually includes two sections: Present Levels of Performance discusses your child’s current academic standing, strengths and areas that need work, and social and physical development. The Measurable Annual Goals section outlines the skills your child needs to build upon to reach his goals. The IEP should also: • Note the area(s) there the student is struggling and the goal(s) or intervention to help her progress in that area • Provide the family with a clear understanding of how they can reinforce support at home • Break down instructions into clear steps, organizational tools, and checklists; prioritize foundational skills that students are lagging in [like phonics in reading] while also providing support in grade level standards • Suggest organizational tools, like graphic calculators and checklists, that can help students access the grade level curriculum • Include modeled examples and tools that help with each step of the writing process from teachers • Mention executive functioning skills (and which tools can help) if they are an issue for your child Remember: Your goal is to give your child the skills for everyday life, not just get her to grade level, says Cassie Reilly, the transition coordinator at Northport High School. The IEP is about understanding what she can do and helping her reach her potential.

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Schools also generally screen students’ math and reading levels at the beginning of the year. If you’ve previously been concerned about your child, now is a good time to check with her teacher and see if she has progressed from last year.

The City, a nonprofit news outlet, recently reported that two Brooklyn elementary schools will implement a basic screening for dyslexia that will hopefully help diagnose more kids, earlier.

Start by talking to your child’s teacher, Maltz says, and other professionals involved in your child’s life—school specialists, mental health professionals, and tutors. And if a teacher says your child is fine, but your gut tells you he is not, you should still proceed in getting help. Another tip? If you don’t have one already, get your child a tutor. Tutrors can help tremendously in terms of skills and confidence, Maltz says, and you can always switch to a tutor who specializes in a specific learning disability, if necessary, after your child is evaluated.

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The Individualized Education Program If interventions have not helped your child progress, you have every right to ask for an IEP evaluation. The biggest factor in a successful evaluation and IEP formation is communication.

“Two things parents should think about: advocacy and trust,” Maltz says. “An IEP is the most beneficial way for students to get the services they need in order to learn successfully in the classroom. And parents need to be involved in every part of the process.”

Your district’s head of the Committee on Special Education should be listed on the school district website. Make your request to have a CSE meeting in writing. Ask for a full evaluation for your child—educational, psychological, speech and language, and occupational and physical therapy, if necessary. While you can pay for a private evaluation by a psychiatrist, psychologist, or neurologist, it’s very expensive and many evaluators don’t take insurance, Maltz says. Even if you decide to evaluate privately, get a school evaluation done anyway. It’s free and having more information can only help.

When going through an evaluation, ask questions. Know who is conducting the different parts of the evaluation and where it will take place—some kids will benefit from seeing the testing room before the evaluation. And always make sure your child has gotten a good night’s sleep and had a healthy breakfast before testing, Maltz says.

Throughout your child’s evaluation and beyond, especially if she is classified, remain her supporter and cheerleader, Maltz says. Encourage him to take an active role in understanding his learning disability and advocating for himself. Many students have recently started attending their IEP and CSE meetings. If your child understands his IEP, he can notice when standards are not being met in the classroom.

“It’s important to remember, also, that it is not [you] and your child against ‘the system,’” Maltz continues. “Everyone sitting at the table [during a CSE meeting] does want what’s best for your child so [she] will become an independent learner in the future. And when you go in prepared, it’s a different ballgame.”

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The 2020 Hoboken Grace Easter Egg Hunt FREE WHEN: Saturday, April 4, 10-11:30am or 1:30-3pm WHERE: Mama Johnson Field, 400 Jackson St., Hoboken, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Join Hoboken Grace for Hudson County’s largest Easter egg hunt, pictures with the Easter Bunny, face painting, crafts, and carnival games. Register online.

WHY WE LOVE IT: There will be 40,000 hidden eggs!

WANT TO GO? 201-795-5485. hobokengrace.com.

Springfest Street Fair WHEN: Sunday, April 5, 11am-4pm WHERE: Nyack Chamber of Commerce, Main St., Nyack AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the beginning of Nyack’s street fair season with live bands, great food, kid rides, and hundreds of vendors offering unique crafts, jewelry, and more!

WHY WE LOVE IT: A chance to check out Nyack’s one-of-a-kind shops, pubs, and fabulous restaurants.

WANT TO GO? Admission is free, prices vary for goods. 845-3532221. nyackchamber.org.

NorthEast Astronomy Forum & Space Expo WHEN: April 4-5, Saturday, 8:30am-6pm; Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Rockland Community College, 145 College Road, Suffern AGES: All WHAT: Bringing you the universe in two exciting event-packed days, NEAF is renowned worldwide as the ultimate astronomy and space experience.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Expect world-class speakers, planetarium shows, solar viewing, beginner classes, huge raffles, kids activities, and more!

WANT TO GO? $50 two day admission; $28 single day admission; $10 student single day; free for children 12 and younger. 201768-2238. rocklandastronomy.com.

Garden Bros. Circus WHEN: Friday-Sunday, April 6-8, 4pm, 6pm, and 8pm WHERE: New Jersey Expo and Convention Center at Raritan Center, 97 Sunfield Ave., Edison, NJ AGES: All WHAT: See the very best performers from over 22 countries, plus a kids’ fun zone featuring a camel you can ride, a circus pony, face painting, and more.

WHY WE LOVE IT: The 3-ring circus includes a human cannonball, The Crazy Cossack Horse Riderz, daring aerial artists, Ukrainian acrobats, motorcycles in the Sphere of Fear, contortionists, and hysterical clowns!

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South Jersey Geek Fest WHEN: Saturday, April 11, 10am-5pm WHERE: Woodbury Heights Community Center, 741 Helen Ave., Woodbury Heights, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Geek Fest will feature vendors, artists, game developers, web folk, cosplayers, and tournaments and open board game play.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Entertainment includes music, wrestling, larpers, SCA, and cosplay kickball.

WANT TO GO? $10; $7 for those in cosplay and/or with a food or animal shelter donation. sjgeekfest.com.

‘The Magic School Bus: Lost in the Solar System’ WHEN: Wednesday, April 15, 4pm WHERE: Mayo Performing Arts Center, 100 South St., Morristown, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Hop on the Magic School Bus for a ride in this new musical adaptation based on the original book series.

WHY WE LOVE IT: The show is as educational as it is entertaining!

WANT TO GO? $12-$15. 973-539-8008. mayoarts.org.

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Earth Day 2020 Celebration WHEN: Saturday, April 25, 11am-3pm WHERE: Hudson Highlands Nature Museum’s Outdoor Discovery Center, Muser Drive, Cornwall AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy fun for the whole family with interactive games and activities, themed hikes, nature play in Grasshopper Grove, live animals, hay rides, food trucks, The Great Marble Race, a community art project, raffles with amazing prizes, and live music.

WANT TO GO? $10 per carload; some activities have fees. 845534-5506. hhnaturemuseum.org.

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Ridgewood Chamber Annual Easter In The Park FREE WHEN: Saturday, April 11, 11am-2pm WHERE: Memorial Park at Van Neste Square, S. Walnut St., Ridgewood, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate Easter in Ridgewood with an Easter egg hunt, meet and take photos with the Easter Bunny, enjoy live music, and more.

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Chicks & Bunnies 2020 WHEN: April 4-11, Saturdays and Friday, 9am-4:30pm WHERE: Abma’s Farm, 700 Lawlins Road, Wyckoff AGES: All WHAT: Visit and interact with baby chicks and bunnies, take pictures, and meet the Easter Bunny. Purchase tickets online.

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WHEN: Sunday, April 12, 10am WHERE: Living Christ Church, 157 Piermont Ave., Nyack AGES: Newborn to 10 WHAT: Children will hunt for hundreds of eggs. All are welcome to enjoy crafts, snacks, and a visit from the bunny!

WANT TO GO? 845-358-3125. lccnyack.org.

Flashlight Egg Hunt FREE WHEN: Friday, April 3, 7pm WHERE: Zukor Park, 31 Zukor Road, New City AGES: All WHAT: Clarkstown residents are invited to bring a flashlight and hunt for eggs. Rain date April 7.

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Easter Egg Hunt FREE WHEN: Saturday, April 4, 2pm WHERE: Demarest Nature Center, 90 Park St., Demarest, NJ AGES: 2-9 WHAT: Enjoy an Easter egg hunt with a larger-than-life Easter Bunny, plus get a picture of your dog with the Easter Bunny!

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Children’s Spring Tea and Easter Egg Hunt WHEN: Wednesday, April 8, 12-2pm WHERE: Mount Gulian Historic Site, 145 Sterling St., Beacon AGES: 3-12 WHAT: Kids will enjoy this fun and educational afternoon. Easter egg hunt if weather permits.

WANT TO GO? $22; $17 children. 845-831-8172. mountgulian.org.

The Easter Bunny Express WHEN: April 4-11, Saturdays and Sunday, 10:30am, 12pm, 1:30pm, 3pm, and 4:30pm WHERE: Catskill Mountain Railroad, 55 Plaza Road, Kingston AGES: All WHAT: Take a train to an Easter egg hunt and visit with the

Earth Day WHEN: Saturday, April 18, 10:30am-3pm WHERE: Trailside Museum and Zoo at Bear Mountain State Park, 55 Hessian Drive, Highland Falls AGES: All WHAT: A day of family-friendly fun with an Earth-friendly focus, nature-related displays, and activities!

WANT TO GO? $1 per person suggested donation. 845-786-2701 x293. trailsidezoo.org.

Totes Adorable FREE WHEN: Monday, April 20, 4:30-6pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 5-13 WHAT: Celebrate Earth Day by decorating a reusable shopping bag!

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Earth Day Stories & Craft FREE WHEN: Monday, April 20, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Palisades Free Library, 19 Closter Road, Palisades AGES: 3-10 WHAT: Celebrate Earth Day with stories and an Earth-themed craft.

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WANT TO GO? 845-359-0136. palisadeslibrary.org.

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Totes Adorable FREE WHEN: Monday, April 20, 4:30-6pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Celebrate Earth Day by decorating a reusable shopping bag! Ages 5-13.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Earth Day Eco Fair FREE WHEN: Wednesday, April 22, 7-8pm WHERE: Finkelstein Memorial Library, 24 Chestnut St., Spring Valley AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Celebrate Earth Day’s 50th anniversary with a variety of fun projects in this teen-led eco fair.

WANT TO GO? 845-352-5700. finkelsteinlibrary.org.

Earth Day FREE WHEN: Saturday, April 25, 12-4pm WHERE: Nyack Chamber of Commerce, Main Street Gazebo, Cedar Street, Nyack AGES: All WHAT: The day will include kids’ activities, environmental education, and more.

WANT TO GO? 845-353-2221. nyackchamber.org.

Celebrate Earth Day—Plant a Tree Seedling FREE WHEN: Saturday, April 25, 11:30am-2pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Pick up a tree seedling to plant in your yard and watch it grow through the years.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

Crafternoon—Project Runway—Newspaper Dresses FREE WHEN: Saturday, April 25, 3-4pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Create haute couture and celebrate Earth Day by reusing newspaper to design your masterpiece. Registration required.

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Earth Day 50th Anniversary Celebration: Climate Change FREE WHEN: Sunday, April 26, 2-4pm WHERE: Flat Rock Brook Nature Center, 443 Van Nostrand Ave., Englewood, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Join Flat Rock Brook Nature Center for recycled arts and crafts, a small hike around their pond, and information on what our changing climate can really mean.

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India Fair 2020 WHEN: Saturday-Sunday, April 11-12, 12-8pm WHERE: New Jersey Expo and Convention Center at Raritan Center, 97 Sunfield Ave., Edison, NJ AGES: All WHAT: India fair highlights will include Bollywood celebrity appearance, exciting dance performances, a fashion show, live singing, DJ, kids’ rides, and more.

WANT TO GO? $5. 609-937-2800. indiafair.org.

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Fairs, Festivals, & Markets New Jersey National College Fair FREE WHEN: Wednesday, April 1, 9am-12pm and 5:30-8:30pm WHERE: Meadowlands Exposition Center, 355 Plaza Drive, Secaucus, NJ AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Students will interact with admission representatives from a wide range of postsecondary institutions. Register online.

WANT TO GO? 703-836-2222 x14. gotomyncf.com.

Third Annual Sean McCarthy Poetry Slam FREE WHEN: Friday, April 3, 7-8:30pm WHERE: Tappan Free Library, 93 Main St., Tappan AGES: All WHAT: Share your poetry or just check out the local talent.

WANT TO GO? 845-359-3877. taplib.evanced.info.

Spring Dance Fest WHEN: Saturday, April 4, 1-3pm WHERE: Street Community Center, 31 Zukor Road, New City AGES: All WHAT: Clarkstown residents are invited to enjoy dancing, social, fun, and a performance from the Fred Astaire Dance Studio—Bardonia.

WANT TO GO? $5. 845-639-6200. clarkstown.org.

Night of 1,000 Stars FREE WHEN: Monday, April 6, 6-7:30pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Village Branch, 85 Main St., Haverstraw AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate National Library Week with an evening of stories, songs, local celebrities reading fabulous books, and more.

WANT TO GO? 845-429-3445. hkdpl.org.

Roblox Arsenal Competition FREE WHEN: Friday, April 10, 4-5pm WHERE: Nyack Library, 59 S. Broadway, Nyack 28

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Spring into Health & Wellness Community Event FREE WHEN: Saturday, April 18, 10am-3pm WHERE: Never Alone Again Resource Center, 668 American Legion Drive #5, Teaneck, NJ AGES: All WHAT: The day will include demonstrations, a blood drive, face painting and crafts for kids, and more.

WANT TO GO? 201-289-1718. facebook.com/ events/1040809929607822/.

31st Annual Somers Point Bayfest FREE WHEN: Saturday, April 25, 10am-5pm WHERE: Bayfront Historic Preservation District, 798 Bay Ave., Somers Point AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a day full of fun, food, crafts, music, and more.

WANT TO GO? Admission is free, prices vary for goods. somerspointbayfest.com.

3rd Annual Dogs Day Out at The Shops at Nanuet FREE WHEN: Saturday, April 25, 11am-3pm WHERE: The Shops at Nanuet, 5101 Fashion Drive, Nanuet AGES: All WHAT: Bring the pup and the whole family for a day of good oldfashioned fun geared toward you and your dog!

WANT TO GO? 845-367-9450. simon.com.

Spring Farm Faire WHEN: Saturday, April 25, 10am-4pm WHERE: Fellowship Community, 241 Hungry Hollow Road, Chestnut Ridge AGES: All WHAT: Activities are farm themed and environmentally oriented, the venue is outdoors, the music is soulful, and the food is delightful.

WANT TO GO? Admission is free, prices vary for goods. 845-3525020 x130. ottospechtschool.org.

Tenafly Street Fair & Craft Show FREE WHEN: Saturday-Sunday April 25-26, 11am-5pm WHERE: Downtown Tenafly, Piermont and County roads, Tenafly, NJ AGES: All WHAT: The Tenafly Street Fair and Craft Show will include kids’ rides, games, a DJ, live bands, dance and martial arts performances, great food, and much more.

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WHEN: Wednesday, April 1, 5-5:30pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 2-4 WHAT: Make a craft designed to help children develop fine motor skills.

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WHEN: Wednesday, April 1, 6-9 pm WHERE: Childcare Council of Orange County, Inc., 40 Matthew St., Suite 103, Goshen AGES: All WHAT: Explore building connections with your child WANT TO GO? 845-679-9900. affcny.org.

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WHEN: Wednesday, April 15, 4:30-5:15pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Make a fun craft! Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

WHEN: Sunday, April 5, 2-3pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: The principles of air and pressure are artfully woven into tales of mischievous spells, dragon-riding, and explosive dragon sneezes.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

April Showers Craft FREE WHEN: Thursday, April 16, 7-8pm WHERE: Finkelstein Memorial Library, 24 Chestnut St., Spring Valley AGES: 7-10 WHAT: Make a raindrop suncatcher to bring in the spring sunshine.

WANT TO GO? 845-352-5700. finkelsteinlibrary.org.

Paint It FREE WHEN: Thursday, April 16, 6-7pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Learn how to use watercolors and develop your own artistic vision.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

National Library Week Roaring ‘20s: Newt Scamander Suitcase Bag FREE WHEN: Friday, April 24, 7:30-8:30pm WHERE: Nyack Library, 59 S. Broadway, Nyack AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Learn how to make a suitcase bag just like Newt Scamander!

WANT TO GO? 845-358-3370 x214. nyacklibrary.org.

Builders Club FREE WHEN: Mondays, April 6 and 27, 5-6pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Have fun with LEGOs, marble runs, littleBits, K’nex, and more!

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Mix It Up FREE WHEN: April 23-30, see website for schedule WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn to make scones! Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Read to a Dog FREE WHEN: April 4-13, see website for schedule WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Sign up for a 15-minute session to read to a dog!

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Angry Birds Universe: The Art and Science Behind a Global Phenomenon WHEN: Through April 19: Tuesdays-Fridays, 9:30am-4pm; Saturdays and Sundays, 9am-5:30pm WHERE: Liberty Science Center, 222 Jersey City Blvd., 3rd Floor, Jersey City AGES: All WHAT: Explore different concepts in STEAM in a hands-on environment!

WANT TO GO? $30.99; $27.99 seniors 62 and older; $24.99 ages 2-12. 201-200-1000. lsc.org.

Library Chess Group FREE WHEN: Through May 27: Wednesdays, 5:30-8pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 13 and older WHAT: New players are always welcome to this non-instructional chess group.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

Weekly Drop-In at Rockland Baby Café FREE WHEN: Through Jan. 31: Thursdays, 11am-1pm WHERE: Martin Luther King Multi-Purpose Center, 110 Bethune Blvd., Spring Valley AGES: Newborn to 2, adult WHAT: A drop-in to meet and talk to new moms, learn how to make breast-feeding easier, make sure your baby is latching and gaining well, get tips on pumping and going back to work, and learn about other parenting topics.

WANT TO GO? 914-922-2240. rocklandgov.com.

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WANT TO GO? 845-429-3690. keeprocklandbeautiful.org.

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Nature Lovers Tappan Community Cleanup FREE WHEN: Saturday, April 4, 8:30am-5pm WHERE: Tappan Fire Department, 123 Washington St., Tappan AGES: All WHAT: A great way to help the community and environment!

WANT TO GO? 845-721-5320. keeprocklandbeautiful.org.

Earth Living Skills for Families: Water Collection and Processing WHEN: Saturday, April 4, 2-4:30pm WHERE: Threefold Educational Center, 285 Hungry Hollow Road, Chestnut Ridge AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Connect with each other as well as with the earth, as you cover the foundations of earth living skills in a fun, familyoriented way.

WANT TO GO? $25. 845-356-1234. thenatureplace.com.

Animal Embassy FREE WHEN: Saturday, April 4, 1:30-2:30pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 4-10 WHAT: Explore rainforests and meet animals from there.

Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

Guided Nature Walk WHEN: Sunday, April 5, 3-4pm WHERE: Tenafly Nature Center, 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Participants will enjoy different sensory experiences in the forest.

WANT TO GO? $6; free for members and children younger than 2.

201-568-6093. tenaflynaturecenter.org.

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WHEN: Tuesday, April 7, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Orangeburg Library, 20 S. Greenbush Road, Orangeburg AGES: 5-8 WHAT: The Master Gardeners will teach you about making maple syrup. Registration is open.

WANT TO GO? 845-359-2244. orangeburglibrary.org.

Camouflaged Egg Hunt WHEN: Saturday, April 11, 11:30am, 1pm, and 2:30pm WHERE: Tenafly Nature Center, 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Children will search the forest for naturally dyed eggs in camouflage colors. Please bring your own basket. Pre-registration is required.

WANT TO GO? $15 per child; $10 per member child. 201-5686093. tenaflynaturecenter.org.

Nature Story Time WHEN: Saturday, April 18, 10-10:30am WHERE: Tenafly Nature Center, 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ AGES: 3-7 WHAT: Children will enjoy a nature-themed story and a visit from one of Tenafly Nature Center’s Animal Ambassadors.

WANT TO GO? $5; free for members and children younger than 2.

201-568-6093. tenaflynaturecenter.org.

Earth Living Skills for Children: Cordage: Making Rope from Natural Fibers WHEN: Sunday, April 19, 10am-12:30pm WHERE: Threefold Educational Center, 285 Hungry Hollow Road, Chestnut Ridge AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Not your average extracurricular, this program meets participants where they are and develops self-reliance and comfort in the outdoors.

WANT TO GO? $45. 845-356-1234. thenatureplace.com.

Party for the Planet WHEN: Sunday, April 19, 10am-4pm WHERE: Bergen County Zoo, 216 Forest Ave., Paramus, NJ AGES: All WHAT: It’s a party for the planet with animal demonstrations, exhibit chats, and more.

WANT TO GO? $8; $5 children 3-14; $1 seniors 62 and older; Bergen County residents: $4; $2 children 3-14; $1 seniors 62 and older; always free for active military and children younger than 3.

201-262-3771. co.bergen.nj.us.

Maple Sugaring for Kids FREE WHEN: Tuesday, April 21, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Palisades Free Library, 19 Closter Road, Palisades

AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Songs, an action poem, and bingo are all part of this exciting STEM-oriented program. Register online.

WANT TO GO? 845-359-0136. palisadeslibrary.org.

Nature Watch Walk FREE WHEN: Tuesday, April 21, 3:30-4:15pm WHERE: Pearl River Library, 80 Franklin Ave., Pearl River AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Join Jennifer for a nature walk in the park WANT TO GO? 845-735-4084. pearlriverlibrary.org.

Community Cleanup FREE WHEN: April 18-25 WHERE: Across Rockland County, see website for details AGES: All WHAT: A great way to give back to the community and the local environment!

WANT TO GO? keeprocklandbeautiful.org.

World Tapir Day WHEN: Saturday, April 25, 11am-2pm WHERE: Bergen County Zoo, 216 Forest Ave., Paramus, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate World Tapir Day with animal demonstrations, exhibit chats, and more.

WANT TO GO? $8; $5 children 3-14; $1 seniors 62 and older; Bergen County residents: $4; $2 children 3-14; $1 seniors 62 and older; always free for active military and children younger than 3.

201-262-3771. co.bergen.nj.us.

Tiny Tyke Times WHEN: Thursdays, April 2-30, 10-11am WHERE: Flat Rock Brook Nature Center, 443 Van Nostrand Ave., Englewood, NJ AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Snuggle up for a story time, an animal meet-and-greet, and work together on a special craft! Registration required.

WANT TO GO? $10; free for members. 201-567-1265. flatrockbrook.org.

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Telestration—The Game FREE WHEN: Tuesday, April 21, 6-7pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Draw a word and pass it to the next player who must guess what the word is. Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

Coffee and Coloring FREE WHEN: Friday, April 24, 9:30-11am WHERE: Pearl River Library, 80 Franklin Ave., Pearl River AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Meet other local parents and kids for some free play and enjoy free coffee, tea, and light snacks. Registration is required.

WANT TO GO? 845-735-4084. pearlriverlibrary.org.

YCFL Color Run—Running for Australia and Our Environment WHEN: Saturday, April 25, 1 mile Koala Run/Walk: 11am-12pm; 5K run: 11:30am-3pm WHERE: Constitution Park, Fletcher Avenue and Lewis Street, Fort Lee, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Run to raise funds to donate to Australian state fire authorities and local fire brigades in Australian states WANT TO GO? $30; $25 5K in advance; $20 Koala Run in advance. runsignup.com.

Family Game Night FREE WHEN: Monday, April 27, 6:30pm WHERE: Finkelstein Memorial Library, 24 Chestnut St., Spring Valley AGES: 4 and older WHAT: Children can come and enjoy a night of fun-filled games with their families!

WANT TO GO? 845-352-5700. finkelsteinlibrary.org.

Sensory Play FREE WHEN: April 7-28, see website for schedule WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: All WHAT: Sensory fun with explorative and interactive play for all ages!

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

WHEN: Sunday, April 5, kids fun run: 9:30am; 5K run/walk: 10am WHERE: Rockland Lake State Park, 299 Rockland Lake Road, parking lot 4, Valley Cottage AGES: All WHAT: This family friendly 5K event was created to build community, embrace the Beer family and all who loved Daniel, and support The Daniel Beer Foundation. Register online.

WANT TO GO? $25 run/walk; fun run is free. runsignup.com.

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WHEN: Fridays, April 3-June 26, 4-5pm; library closed April 10 WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Village Branch, 85 Main St., Haverstraw AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Enjoy different programs every week, including Builder’s Club, games, 3-D fun with 3-D pens, PS4, Code Club, Science Squad!

WANT TO GO? 845-429-3445. hkdpl.org.

WHEN: Wednesdays, April 1-15, 6:45-7:30pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 8-10, adult WHAT: Parent and child will play together and with others.

Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

WHEN: Thursdays, April 2-May 14, 1:30-2:15pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Read stories and retell them through yoga and movement.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

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‘The Underwater Bubble Show’ WHEN: Sunday, April 26, 3pm and 7pm WHERE: Mayo Performing Arts Center, 100 South St., Morristown, NJ AGES: All WHAT: This lavish production features dancers, acrobats, original music and fantastic bubble effects.

WANT TO GO? $19-$49. 973-539-8008. mayoarts.org.

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Theater, Concerts, & Movies ‘Scooby-Doo! And the Lost City of Gold’ WHEN: April 10-11, Friday, 6pm; Saturday, 11am WHERE: Bergen Performing Arts Center, 30 N. Van Brunt St., Englewood, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Scooby-Doo and his friends will embark on a new adventure to solve a brand-new mystery.

WANT TO GO? $29-$69. 201-227-1030. bergenpac.org.

Brown Bag Lunch & Movie: ‘Dora and the City of Gold’ FREE WHEN: Thursday, April 16, 12-3pm WHERE: Pearl River Library, 80 Franklin Ave., Pearl River AGES: All WHAT: Bring a lunch to the library and enjoy a movie with your friends!

WANT TO GO? 845-735-4084. pearlriverlibrary.org.

‘Star Wars: The Force Awakens’ In Concert WHEN: Saturday, April 18, 2pm and 7:30pm WHERE: New Jersey Performing Arts Center, 1 Center St., Newark, NJ AGES: 9 and older WHAT: Experience the complete film with the New Jersey Symphony Orchestra performing John Williams’ thrilling score live.

WANT TO GO? $35-$110. 800-466-5722. njpac.org.

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WHEN: Sunday, April 19, 1:30pm and 4:30pm WHERE: Mayo Performing Arts Center, 100 South St., Morristown, NJ AGES: 2-8 WHAT: This hilarious new musical is based on the bestselling books

by Anna Dewdney.

WANT TO GO? $12-$15. 973-539-8008. mayoarts.org.

Recycled Percussion WHEN: Friday, April 24, 7pm WHERE: New Jersey Performing Arts Center, 1 Center St., Newark, NJ AGES: All WHAT: The turbo-charged drummers of Recycled Percussion create their own unique brand of high-energy “junk rock” by transforming everyday objects into percussive instruments.

WANT TO GO? $30-$35. 800-466-5722. njpac.org.

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WHEN: Through April 27: Mondays, 10:30-11:15am WHERE: Emerson Public Library, 20 Palisade Ave., Emerson, NJ AGES: 2-4 WHAT: Featuring high energy songs, dance, and instruments, followed by a trombone parade with Mr. Chris!

WANT TO GO? $5; free to Emerson patrons. 201-261-5604. emersonlibrary.org.

Family Movie FREE WHEN: April 13-27, see website for schedule WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Village Branch, 85 Main St., Haverstraw AGES: 4-12 WHAT: Join the library for a fun family movie!

WANT TO GO? 845-429-3445. hkdpl.org.

Books on the Move & Jazz in the Stacks FREE WHEN: Through May 6: see website for dates and times WHERE: Various New Jersey Public Libraries AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a performance by Wells Fargo Jazz for Teens after a reading of of Nighttime Symphony or Chato’s Kitchen WANT TO GO? 800-466-5722. njpac.org.

Special Needs Sensory Storytime FREE WHEN: Wednesday, April 29, 10:30-11:30am WHERE: Emerson Public Library, 20 Palisade Ave., Emerson AGES: 2-5 WHAT: This sensory enhanced class includes stories, songs, and play with a focus on social skills and developmental benefits. Space is limited to welcome those who have a hard time in large groups.

WANT TO GO? 201-261-5604. emersonlibrary.org.

Sensory Tuesdays WHEN: Through May 26: Tuesdays, 6-7pm WHERE: Bounce! Trampoline Sports, 612 Corporate Way, Valley Cottage AGES: All WHAT: This special program includes decreased auditory and visual stimuli in a less crowded environment and fun structured group activities with limited class size.

WANT TO GO? $12; free for parents and caregivers. 845-2684000. bounceonit.com.

Museums & Exhibits Art+Nature+You: Spring Workshop for Teens FREE WHEN: Saturday, April 4, 1-4pm WHERE: Storm King Art Center, Old Pleasant Hill Road, Mountainville (enter One Museum Road, New Windsor, New York in your GPS) AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Teens try out a variety of drawing and collage materials and create their own mini field notebook. Refreshments served! RSVP is required.

WANT TO GO? 845-534-3115. stormkingartcenter.org.

Opening Day WHEN: Saturday, April 18, 11am-4pm WHERE: Museum Village, 1010 State Route 17M, Monroe AGES: All WHAT: This is the 70th year of the museum. Stop by and help them celebrate their opening day.

WANT TO GO? $14; $12 seniors; $10 children ages 3-12. 845782-8248. museumvillage.org.

Perspectives FREE WHEN: March 8-April 19, Monday-Friday, 10am-4pm; Saturday and Sunday, 1-4pm; opening reception: Sunday, March 8, 2-5pm WHERE: Rockland Center for the Arts, 27 S. Greenbush Road, West Nyack AGES: All WHAT: Artists Jean Michel Dissake, Dalit Gurevich, Russ Ritell, Mary Ting, and Jayoung Yoon convey life stories.

WANT TO GO? 845-358-0877. rocklandartcenter.org.

Anthropocene Outpost: Stories of the Future FREE WHEN: March 8-April 19, Monday-Friday, 10am-4pm; Saturday-Sunday, 1-4pm; opening reception: Sunday, March 8, 2-5pm WHERE: RoCA Rockland Center for the Arts, 27 S. Greenbush Road, West Nyack AGES: All WHAT: Zachary Skinner exhibits a selection of paintings and sculptures that depict the dystopian point of view of a nomadic lifestyle while roaming an environmentally-ravaged Earth.

WANT TO GO? 845-358-0877. rocklandartcenter.org.

Orangetown Suffragist FREE WHEN: April 19-Nov. 30, Tuesday and Friday, 10am-2pm; Sunday, 1-4pm or by appointment WHERE: Orangetown Historical Museum, 196 Chief Bill Harris Way, Orangeburg AGES: All WHAT: Orangetown Suffragist honors the women of Orangetown that were engaged in this national movement and the legacy they have left us.

WANT TO GO? Admission is free, donations appreciated. 845398-1302. orangetownmuseum.com.

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WHEN: Saturday, April 4, 10:30am-12pm WHERE: Fort Tryon Park, 741 Ft. Washington Ave., Fort Washington, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate the park’s 75th anniversary with crafts, a community parade, and more fun spring activities!

WANT TO GO? 212-795-1600. forttryonparktrust.org.

Sakura Hanami (Cherry Blossom Viewing) WHEN: Sunday, April 5, 1-2pm WHERE: Japan Society, 333 E. 47th St., Midtown, Manhattan AGES: 4 and younger WHEN: Enjoy the cherry blossoms with playtime and sakura crafts WANT TO GO? $12; $8 members. japansociety.org.

Freedom Art Jam: Passover Family Day WHEN: Saturday, April 5, 11am-4pm WHERE: The Jewish Museum, 1109 Fifth Ave., Upper East Side, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: A Passover extravaganza featuring art, music, and dancing!

WANT TO GO? Included with museum admission: $18; $12 seniors; $8 students; free for children 18 and younger.

New York City Easter Parade FREE WHEN: Sunday, April 12, 10am-3pm WHERE: Fifth Avenue between 49th and 57th streets, Midtown, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: Make a bonnet and join in on the Easter fun, or watch the parade—one of the best vantage points is St. Patrick’s Cathedral!

WANT TO GO? nycgo.com

‘Magic Shadows’ WHEN: April 3-19, see website for showtimes WHERE: New Victory Theater, 209 W. 42nd St., Midtown, Manhattan AGES: 5 and older WHAT: CATAPULT will stretch your imaginations in Magic Shadows through shadows, cinematic scenes, and more!

WANT TO GO? $17 and up. 646-223-3010. newvictory.org.

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Tackling Toddler’s Screen Time Many parents are concerned with how much time their older kids are spending with screens, but what are the recommendations for young children?

By Misha Valencia

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ost parents have put on a video or a show to distract their toddler while they washed dishes, made a phone call, or took a break. Even before we constantly talked about tablets and cellphones, parents used the TV to entertain children when they needed to get something done. While screen time is a concern for children of all ages, the toddler and preschool years are a crucial time for developing language and social skills—and excessive screen time can impact children’s development in these areas.

So, how much screen time is too much for toddlers?

The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends children ages 2-5 have no more than 1 hour of educational screen time daily. For toddlers ages 18-24 months, the AAP recommends limited use, with adult supervision, and children younger than 18 months are recommended to have no screen time (except video chatting).

Striking a Balance Young children with greater screen time exposure have decreased expressive language and language processing speed, according to study published in JAMA Pediatrics in November 2019. Plus, a January 2020 study published in The Lancet noted that 3 (or more) hours of daily screen time can decrease young children’s physical activity level and the quality of their sleep.

Nicole Beurkens, Ph.D., a child psychologist and author of Life Will Get Better: Simple Solutions for Parents of Children with Attention, Anxiety,

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Reducing Screen Time It may be nearly impossible in our device-filled digital world to completely shield toddlers from electronics, but families can take steps to reduce usage, encourage other activities, and safeguard children from any potential damaging effects of excessive screen time.

It’s important to start an age-appropriate dialogue with young children about screen time. Telling (and showing) them that devices are something that we don’t play with all the time helps them begin to understand what the expectations around screens are. Give them a tangible example—such as cookies and ice cream are a fun treat, but we don’t eat them for snack every day—and explain that screen time is also something done in moderation.

Set specific times for the whole family (children and caregivers) when screens are not used in the home, such as during meals and the evening routine, Dr. Beurkens recommends. And to avoid temptation during device-free time, keep devices in a separate location where kids can’t access them, and be careful not to leave devices in children’s bedrooms overnight.

Another helpful tip is using visual aids. Create a chart outlining different activities your children can do that don’t involve screens (coloring, painting, playing with toys, etc.), and include when and where devices can and can’t be used.

Because toddlers learn quickly how to navigate different programs, it’s important to pay attention to not just how long a child is on a device, but how they use the device. The AAP recommends parents install parental controls and participate in screen time with their toddlers to help them understand and process what they are seeing.

Misha Valencia is a journalist whose work has appeared in numerous publications, including The New York Times, Washington Post, Marie Claire, Huff Post and Healthline.

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But this doesn’t mean that all screen time is harmful.

“Striking a balance is important,” Dr. Beurkens says. “Most caregivers have situations where they may need to use a device at times, but if this has become the norm and every time they try to go somewhere the children are upset or complaining unless they have a device, it can be a red flag that [the kids] are not able to occupy themselves in other ways.”

Emily Skeen, a pediatric nurse in NYC, adds that it’s important to monitor the accumulation of screen time throughout the day.

“A few minutes here and there while children are stuck sitting in a waiting room or doing errands with their caregiver is probably fine, but if they’re using devices intermittently throughout the day and then coming home and using it for another hour or two, the time can really add up.”

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n 2019, Lori Loughlin and Felicity Huffman were indicted for paying thousands of dollars to secure their daughters’ admission to top U.S. universities through lying, cheating, and manipulation. These days, it’s not uncommon to hear about a parent trying to coerce a teacher to raise her daughter’s grade or to see a fourth-grade science fair project that was clearly done by a 40-year-old. These types now have a name—bulldozer parents—and professionals believe their behavior is getting in the way of their children’s success.

What is a bulldozer parent?

These are the parents who go above and beyond to make their child’s life easier, according to Victoria Turner Turco, founder and president of Turner Educational Advising. While parents almost always have the best intentions when helping their kids succeed, their tactics can often cross ethical or even legal boundaries, like in the instance of Operation Varsity Blues (the college admissions scandal of 2019).

This trend likely started in the 1980s: When the country faced a heightened fear of stranger danger, parents began more closely organizing and monitoring their kids’ activities, according to Julie Lythcott-Haims, author of How to Raise an Adult and former dean of freshmen at Stanford University. Playdates became popular—instead of letting kids run around outside with neighborhood friends, and parents were more present and involved in their kids’ social lives.

“It’s like a snowball running downhill,” says Turner Turco, who wrote about preparing students for post-college life in 2019 for LINK for

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Soon parents were choosing what instruments and sports the child should play, what hobbies they should have, what extracurriculars they should participate in, and of course, how and when they should do their homework.

Lythcott-Haims told The New York Times that while she was at Stanford, she saw students rely on their parents to set up “play dates” with other college students. “The point is to prepare the kid for the road, instead of preparing the road for the kid,” she says.

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When Helping Isn’t Helpful Parent’s extreme efforts to ensure their child’s success is, it inevitably makes the child helpless, according to Turner-Turco.

While no parent wants to see their child struggle, it’s important for kids to learn how to face failure, says Julie Morison, Ph.D., licensed psychologist and owner and director of HPA/LiveWell.

“If all adversity is taken from a child, they never learn how to problem solve, how to fail, or how to lose gracefully…bottom line is they don’t develop resilience,” Dr. Morison says. “It is thought that this type of parenting is causing an increase in depression and anxiety in college kids.”

In fact, kids raised by bulldozer parents develop low self-efficacy as they get older because they don’t believe in their own ability to manage challenges or difficult situations. And when that child is on his own in college and is faced with meeting his needs for the first time, he will likely struggle and become anxious or depressed.

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Changing Bulldozer Behavior Dr. Morison encourages parents to ask kids if they want help before offering it. Useful questions are: “Do you need me to help you solve this or do you want me to just listen?” or “What do you think you can do about this situation?” or “What are your options?” Allow your child to brainstorm solutions on her own and encourage her to ask others for what she needs.

“Parents who act as bulldozers want to get all adversity out of the child’s way and this implies that we see failure or struggle as bad,” Dr. Morison says. “Really, it can be reframed as an opportunity to grow.”

Instead, focus your attention on being your child’s support system, encouraging her as she encounters challenges. The “I can do this myself” attitude doesn’t change as children grow into teens, according to Dr. Morrison. In letting your child face her challenges on her own, you are teaching her to learn life skills she will need through adulthood.

Turner Turco recalls the time her oldest daughter was cut from her middle school basketball team. That evening, she received a call from a concerned parent in the class deeming the decision unfair and offering to call the coach for her.

“Actually, it is fair. Katie isn’t as strong of a player as some of the other girls, and the coach wasn’t picking on her by not picking her,” Turner Turco recalls telling the concerned parent.

“She needs to learn that she can’t always win.”

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I take out all of our boxes of cereal and arrange them like a frozen yogurt toppings bar. I have my kids pick a ‘base’ cereal and then as many adds-in as they want. It’s the easiest dinner ever for me, involves no cleanup, and they beg for it!”

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