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CHOOSING A CAMP • 10 Questions to Ask a Camp Director • Bergen•Rockland Camp Directory • Camp Comparison Chart

Birthday Hacks

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inside

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Original photo by Sarah Merians Photography & Video Company (sarahmerians.com) Clothing courtesy Macy’s Backstage (macysbackstage.com)

16 Choosing a Camp 10 questions to ask a camp director

36 Take a Birthday Breather Tips to throw a stress-free kids’ birthday party

38 Pic Tips How to take better pictures of your kids

40 “You’re Canceled!”

What you need to know about the current craze

42 Thumb Sucking 101 How to handle this common childhood habit

COLUMNS 6 Editor’s Note 9 News: What’s happening in the community 12 Mommybites: Rest Stops 14 Advice: Ask DadandBuried 46 Last Word: What is your darkest parenting secret?

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THINGS TO DO 23 Family Activities Calendar

RESOURCES 18 Camp Directory 20 Camp Chart 35 Party Central 41 Open Houses

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44 Meet the Health Care Professional 45 Party Planner & Advertisers’ Index

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editor’s note MARCH 2020 • Vol.13 • No.6

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t’s officially spring this month, which means summer is right around the corner.

And summer, to us, means one thing: camp! Is your child returning to their beloved camp from last year, or are you on the hunt for a new summer program? If you’re in the latter group, you’re in luck! You’ll find plenty of Rockland camp options right in this issue: Turn to p. 18 for descriptions of all the area camps, and on p. 20, you’ll find a side-by-side camp comparison chart. Once you’ve narrowed down the list of potentials, speak with the directors to get a full picture of the camp—check out the 10 questions to ask on p. 16.

If you’re in the former group, you’ll still find plenty of fun and advice to help you be a better parent in this issue, whether you’re wondering how to talk to your teen about cancel culture (p. 40), how to get your toddler to stop sucking her thumb (p. 42), or how to throw a stress-free birthday party (p. 36).

For us, spring is also a season of growth, whether it’s the flowers blooming, baby animals arriving at the local zoo, or seeing your child near the end of another school year (can we pause time, so they stay small for just a little longer?). One way we’re growing is by creating new partnerships with local, popular Instagrammers and bloggers to give you even more resources for great advice and ideas, including Pamela Pekerman, whom you can meet on p. 10! We’re excited to introduce you to more of them in the coming months!

Here’s to this season growth—however happens looks for your family!

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The Jackson, NJ amusement park has plans to become an inclusive environment all year long.

Six Flags Great Adventure has plans to earn a Certified Autism Center™ designation from the International Board of Credentialing and Continuing Education Standards. This means at least 80 percent of the guestfacing staff at Six Flags must complete a training and certification program through IBCCES, complete onsite audits, and make a commitment to future training.

The Jackson, NJ location already hosts annual Autism Days, during which the park transforms into a sensoryfriendly space with lowered light and noise levels, shorter lines, and decompression areas. But the company is working toward the designation because it understands that visiting new places or going on family vacations can be challenging and overwhelming for kids with autism, and it wants to be an inclusive fun space.

“We are proud to partner with IBCCES to ensure that guests on the autism spectrum have the best possible experience when visiting our parks,” said Jason Freeman, the Six Flags vice president of safety. “The certification process will equip our team members with the tools and training needed to better serve guests with special needs. We want them to know Six Flags stands ready to welcome them with open arms.”

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It’s Story Time!

In honor of Dr. Seuss’s birthday, March 2 is National Read Across America Day! So grab your favorite books and snuggle up with the kiddos for an extra story time. If you want to go all out, only read books by tongue-twisting, rhyming master. Our favorite? Daisy-Head Mayzie!

Pamela Pekerman with her two children

Hustling Like a Mom Celebrate Spring March 19 at 11:50pm officially marks the arrival of spring, according to The Old Farmer’s Almanac—bring on the warmer weather! To celebrate, we found the top 20 things to do this season in Rockland. Check them out at nymetroparents.com/ spring.

Got a Green Thumb?

Get your hands dirty and cultivate your child’s green thumb by creating grassy gnomes (think: chia pets) to watch over your garden— or add some greenery to your life if you don’t have space for a garden. Visit nymetroparents.com/ gnomes for directions.

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ou might recognize Pamela Pekerman (@pamelapekerman) from morning shows, where she appeared for a decade talking about style trends. And then she had kids and decided she didn’t want to travel as much. “So, I began to write about the real-life moments I was experiencing as a mom of two under two!” she says. Soon she was blogging about time-saving tips for busy moms, creating videos for Parents.com, and hosting events for moms. Her focus evolved into content and networking events that appeal to hustling mompreneurs. While she still does school pickup and drop-off every day, she says, “I’ve never felt more fulfilled by my work than I am now, as I grow a community of women that are redefining what it means to be a working mom.”

What’s the best parenting advice you ever received?

What do you think is a parent’s hardest job?

Listen to the crowd but go with your gut.

Don’t silence your inner mama bear, as she truly knows what is best for her cubs. Sure, it’s nice to be a PTA mom, but that might not be on your priority list. …Parenting is hard, and you need to ensure you are coming at it from a place of inner contentment and confidence in your choices—because so many moments will challenge your sanity and your sense of self.

Being present. It’s a gift to the person you are speaking with, in this case your children, to be present, to not have your mind wander.

In 2019, I found that replacing the phrase “I have to” with “I get to” gave me a dose of gratitude for that which was before me. I get to practice piano with my kids. I get to pick up my kids from school.

Read more from Pamela Pekerman—and learn about her next Hustle Like a Mom event—at nymetroparents.com/hustle.

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New Places, New Programs Calling All Little Picassos

Sing, Dance, and Act Through the Summer Coupé Theatre Studio is slated to offer its Triple Threat Production Camp for ages 8 and older beginning June 29. The program will include daily technique classes in all styles of dance, acrobatics, singing and acting, plus workshops with Broadway professionals and NYC talent agents. Campers will also have daily rehearsals and weekly trips, including Broadway, Lincoln Center, and Westchester Dinner Theater. Campers will perform Aladdin Jr. as their final performance. The camp will run 10am-5:15pm, Monday-Friday. 430 Market St., Nanuet; 845-6232808; coupedance.com

Rockland kids ages 5-18 are invited to submit original artwork with a theme of their choice to Montefiore Nyack Hospital’s 2020 art contest. Submissions will be accepted until Aug. 1, and the art will be displayed in the pediatric emergency unit in the new emergency department.

You can find the entry form and guidelines for submissions on the hospital’s website. Winning artwork will be announced in September and winners will be contacted as to how their pieces will be shown off in the pediatric unit. 160 N. Midland Ave., Nyack; 845-348-2000; montefiorenyack.org

Springing Forward Daylight saving time begins on Sunday, March 8, which means we lose an hour of our already limited sleep. While “springing forward” makes us more tired (cue the extra cup of coffee), it can turn our children into major grumps.

To help your kids adjust (and be a little less grumpy), have them go to bed 15 minutes earlier over the next few nights to get them back on track, suggests Lisa J. Meltzer, Ph.D., a sleep expert and co-author of Pediatric Sleep Problems: A Clinician’s Guide to Behavioral Interventions.

The Importance of Sleep

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It’s a pillar of health and is essential to human functioning, health, wellbeing, and healing. And for babies, sleep is essential to development. The growth hormone is released during sleep, causing your infant to gain weight, length, and head circumference; the brain develops and fosters better cognitive development; and it helps with social and emotional development.

For more on the importance of sleep, and how it benefits the family unit as a whole, visit nymetroparents.com/sleep.

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sleep routine is important for keeping your baby wellrested and happy—not to mention yourself! Although it can be tricky at times, sticking to that hard-won routine when you can’t be home all day (and when can you?) is well worth the effort, says Kim West, aka The Sleep Lady, an infant sleep coach. “A nap-deprived baby will have more difficulty going to sleep at bedtime and staying asleep,” West warns.

“Plus, it will be easier for a well-rested baby to nap on the go than one who is already overtired.”

In the Bedroom It helps to have baby in a bedside bassinet for the first few weeks so you can keep middle-of-the-night feedings simple and in the dimmest light possible. “The biggest task in the first two months is helping with day and night confusion,” West says. “In the evening, keep the house quiet, and interactions with your infant brief and boring.”

In the Den, Kitchen…Anywhere A comfy, portable crib can be a huge help, especially in the early days, when your newborn’s internal clock can’t tell the difference between night and day. It will allow you to start dinner, put away groceries, or load the dishwasher while your baby naps nearby.

At Grandma’s House “Timing for naps is everything!” West insists. “It’s essential that you watch your baby’s wakeful windows so that he doesn’t stay awake long enough to get overtired.” Therefore, it’s wise to

always bring along a compact crib. Choose one with a canopy to block the sun and protect baby from insects so, even if you decide to go to the park, baby’s sleep schedule won’t have to miss a beat.

On a Walk Turn your stroller into a “napmobile” by reclining the seat so your child can stretch out. Some babies need constant motion to go to sleep and stay asleep. “If you stop moving, and your baby wakes up after too short of a nap, then start moving again,” West advises. Also, consider using a stroller shade to block out light and distractions. “This is especially helpful for alert babies who have a harder time shutting the world out to go to sleep.”

Hitting the Road Car seat naps can go a long way toward keeping your tot’s daily sleep requirements met. If possible, plan car rides at your baby’s regular nap times to make it easier for her to snooze, West advises.

Play relaxing, soft music, if any, and consider putting up a shade on the car window next to your child’s seat.

On Vacation Bring a familiar piece of home—your little one’s favorite lovey or teether—to comfort and soothe her to sleep. West also recommends setting the scene: “quieting the environment, dimming the lights, playing soothing music, reading.” Finally, sticking to a consistent bedtime, eliminating noise, and slowing down with a low-key activity will cue baby’s body for sleep—and it works for parents, too.

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his is a question I’ve wrestled with myself, multiple times. Is it better to host a birthday party at home or to have the party at a venue? Not an easy call—unless you’re among the 1 percent.

I mean, if you’re one of the Kardashians and you have a palatial estate that you can decorate like mad, and install bouncy houses and games, complete with employees who will handle setup and cleanup? That’s the way to go.

But if you’re just one of us regular folks? It’s convenience vs. cost.

Going the venue route is super convenient. Everything—except maybe the birthday cake—is usually handled by the venue. The staff decorates, plans the games and activities on-site, and handles all the cleanup. It can be more expensive to secure those hours—especially for a venue in the NYC area—but it’s largely stress-free. That’s huge.

Hosting at home can be cheaper, but it may cost your sanity. You’ll be stressed about decorations; you’ll need to provide food and drink and the fun. You’ll be stressed about cleaning before guests arrive; you’ll be stressed about cleaning after guests leave; there’s a lot of work involved! And while it should definitely cost less money, making sure everything is Pinterest-perfect may end up costing more than you suspect. (And if you enlist your arts and crafts-impaired spouse in the preparations, you might have to factor in the expense of the resulting divorce as well!) All the extra work—and its accompanying headaches—may counter the cost benefit.

It ultimately comes down to which you prefer: saving money or peace of mind.

One more thing: If you do host the party at home, I implore you to provide beer or wine for your fellow parents. Nobody needs to suffer through one of those things stone-cold sober! Though some venues do allow it, many don’t. In fact, that’s what ultimately tips the scales for me. Looks like we’ll be hosting the next birthday party at home!

Our advice column features the wise and humorous commentary of Mike Julianelle (aka @DadandBuried), a 40-something influencer with a popular podcast who lives in Brooklyn with his wife and two kids.

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any parents select a camp based on a friend or relative’s rave reviews. But choosing your child’s summer experience based on hearsay or personal anecdotes is often problematic, according to the American Camp Association, New York and New Jersey. Instead, it’s important to thoroughly research a camp in order to determine if it’s a good fit for your kid. The ACA suggests making an appointment with the camp’s director and asking the following 10 questions.

What is the camp’s mission or philosophy?

Who is the staff?

Each camp has its own. Make sure this particular camp’s mission matches your own family’s values.

Ask about the ages and backgrounds of staff members. Find out how they were hired and what kind of training and background checks they went through.

What is your background and experience?

Are you able to accommodate my child’s special needs?

Ask the camp director about his experience, years at the camp, and previous jobs. You want to make sure you find a commonality here. When you send your child to camp, you are forming a partnership with the director to ensure your child has a successful camp experience.

If your child has any special considerations, such as having food allergies or ADHD, or is wheelchair-bound, be completely upfront about her needs and make sure the camp is able to accommodate them.

What type of child is successful at the camp?

Does it sound like she is describing your child? If not, this isn’t the camp for your child.

After pouring over websites and marketing materials, parents often start to feel like all camps look alike. Find out what makes this camp stand out from the others.

Can you describe the program?

How are conflicts handled?

Find out if the program is structured (has a set schedule) or elective (children choose their activities). Also inquire about how the program changes for older kids. For example: Do the elective choices increase with age?

While camps work hard to build a caring community, fights among campers can occur. Ask the camp director how the camp handles these types of conflicts.

What are the camp’s safety procedures?

Ask if you can call parents of campers currently enrolled at the camp, especially ones with kids who are the same ages as your children. They will be your next valuable source of information.

It’s important to know about emergency action plans, water safety, medical staff, and camper-to-staff ratios.

What makes your camp unique?

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Jess Michaels is the director of communications for the American Camp Association, New York and New Jersey. She believes every child should have a summer camp experience.

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There are hundreds of day camps and sleepaway camps in the New York area, which can make determining the just-right spot for your child overwhelming.

Here’s advice from camp directors on how to create the perfect summer for your kid:

Explore the possibilities of Dance at Coupé Theatre Studio

“We have been training dancers for over 40 years offering classes for students of all ages from first steps to pre-professionals.”

Know What You—and Your Child—Want Consult with your child (it’s her summer after all!) but also consider what you want her to gain, whether that’s learning how to swim, making friends, or STEM skills.

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Look into the Camp’s Accreditation It’s important that prospective camps are accredited by the American Camp Association— it’s a sign of approval that isn’t easy to achieve.

Keep Your Budget in Mind Look at the total all-in cost for each camp— including transportation, clothing, gear, etc. Then take all the camps that are over-budget off your list.

Don’t Forget About Day-to-Day Logistics Think about the location of pickup and drop-off.

And, ask about whether the camp has flexibility if you want to take a family vacation.

Do Your Research Browse through websites—and involve your child, too. Same goes for when you visit camp fairs.

As you research, pay attention to interactions with the staff, and the facilities, activities, and counselor-to-camper ratio.

Call or Visit the Camps on Your Shortlist Most directors recommend visiting your two to three finalist camps. Bring your child and make sure the camp seems clean and wellmaintained. Calling the camp director is your next best option—try to dig into factors that aren’t mentioned on the website. The camp should be one your child can enjoy this summer, and for many summers to come.

For more tips from camp directors on choosing a camp, visit nymetroparents.com/choose-camp.

Summer programs available for ages 4 and up!

All levels welcome!

Join us for our first ever Triple Threat Production Camp featuring the award Winning musical

June 29th-July 31st 5-week program for 3rd grade & up

Junior Summer Program (1st & 2nd graders) Offered June 29th-July 16th 5 days per week, 10am-3pm *Pick one or multiple weeks Our enhanced 5 week camp will include: 4 Technique Classes a Day including Acro, Jazz, Musical Theater, Ballet, Hip Hop, Acting, Tap, Workshops with BroadwayProfessionals and NYC talent agents Theater trip and more. *Our weekly Dance camp program is available to those who cannot commit to all 5 weeks

Vocal coaching and Audition Preparation

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CAMPS DIRECTORY Camp Outings Jill’s Ceramics

180 Germonds Road, West Nyack 845-623-4975 jillceramics.com jillsceramics@aol.com We provide a great ceramics program to offer campers this summer. Schedule field trips to our fully equipped ceramics and plaster studio in West Nyack, or a program to be held at your location. We offer many choices from our “paint and take home” items. All age groups, affordable rates.

Palisades Climb Adventure

4590 Palisades Center Drive, level 4 of the Palisades Center, West Nyack 845-727-3500 palisadesclimb.com We offer the world’s tallest indoor ropes challenge course. Standing 85-feet tall, with five levels and 75 unique challenge elements to explore, climb, and conquer-including a zip line. Our Sky Tykes kids’ ropes course is designed for ages 2-7. Both courses are available for camp groups, parties, and special events.

Urban Air Adventure Park

69 Wesley St., South Hackensack 396 Ryders Lane, Milltown, NJ 1600 Saint Georges Ave., Avenel, NJ 201-212-6454 urbanairtrampolinepark.com info@urbanairsh.com Camp field trips defy gravity at Urban Air Adventure Park! It’s a highlight of the summer for many campers to come and experience our Warrior Course, Climbing Walls, Virtual Reality, Foam Pit Jousting, and Trampoline Dodgeball. With a full-service café and lunch combo meals, we have it all! Call to book!

Day Camps JCC Rockland Camps

450 W. Nyack Road, West Nyack 845-362-4400 jccrockland.org camps@jccrockland.org Join us for an awesome summer at JCC Rockland Camps. With seven unique program options for ages 18 months through entering 10th grade, your camper can choose the best program for their interest. Your camper will be engaged in creative camp activities and fun. Daily swim and lunch included.

The Lindgren Nursery School and Camp 211 Irving Ave., Closter 201-768-3550 lindgrenschool.com/summer-camp Set in our spacious woodland oasis,

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Lindgren is a haven unlike any camp in the local area. Pools, pavilions, and farm animals create a true outdoor camp experience. Local elementary teachers and artisans bring talents to each department. Campers meet for a Red Cross swim lesson with their troop daily.

Mosholu Day Camp

261 Arden Valley Road, Southfields 845-243-0751 mosholudaycamp.com Mosholu Camps offer a quality program at a low cost. With a strong emphasis on developing new relationships and experiences, our traditional camp day is filled with dynamic activities. Campers participate in activities such as swimming, music, arts, trips, archery, boating, dance, and sports.

At Mosholu, we make memories!

Palisades Country Day Camp

248 Herbert Ave., Closter, NJ 201-784-7600 x3 palisadescountryday.com It’s all about fun at Palisades Country Day Camp in Closter, NJ. Bergen County’s No. 1 summer day camp for toddlers-second graders ensures that every child has the opportunity to grow socially, emotionally, physically, and intellectually. Campers enjoy three heated pools, two splash parks, a triple-decker playground, and amazing daily activities.

RCC Summer Camps

145 College Road, Suffern 845-574-4131 rccsummercamps.com Our instructional sports camp for girls and boys offers a safe, fun environment and builds athletic skills in a variety of sports. Our Kids College programs offer options for science, computers, art, and performing arts. Mix and match weeks except for performing arts which is a three-week commitment.

RoCA Summer Camp/Rockland Center for the Arts

27 S. Greenbush Road, West Nyack 845-358-0877 x18 rocklandartcenter.org amy@rocklandartcenter.org RoCA features one of the region’s most comprehensive art programs. At Camp RoCA, with guidance from teaching artists, campers explore various art forms in studio-based activities where they learn cooperation, personal development, and self-esteem. Available five or three days-a-week, two, four, six, or eight weeks. June 29-Aug. 21, 2020.

Rockland YMCA

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rocklandymca.org Located in the YMCA building in Nyack, for ages 5-12. Carefully planned camp with themed camp weeks, swimming twice per day, swim lessons at no charge, art and crafts, outdoor activities, and trips. Register before June 1 for early bird pricing.

Young World Day Camp

585 Wyckoff Ave., Mahwah 201-327-3888 youngworlddayschool.org director@ywdschool.org Traditional camp for ages 2-12, half- and full-day with extended care available.

Includes swim instruction and age-appropriate sports and activities that promote physical, social, emotional, and intellectual growth and development. Montessori Camp for ages 3-5, morning only. Counselor in Training for middle school students July 6-24. Air-conditioned facility.

Sleepaway Camps Camp Huntington

56 Bruceville Road, High Falls 855-707-2267 camphuntington.com admissions@camphuntington.com Camp Huntington, a coed, residential summer camp for children and young adults with autism and related developmental and learning disabilities, ADD. Ability levels mild to moderate-severe.

Located in High Falls in the beautiful Catskill Mountain region, the camp provides therapeutically and instructionally designed recreation programs in summer.

Specialty Camps Camp Huntington

56 Bruceville Road, High Falls 855-707-2267 camphuntington.com admissions@camphuntington.com Camp Huntington, a coed, residential summer camp for children and young adults with autism and related developmental and learning disabilities, ADD. Ability levels mild to moderate-severe.

Located in High Falls in the beautiful Catskill Mountain region, the camp provides therapeutically and instructionally designed recreation programs in summer.

iD Tech

Held at 150 prestigious campus locations 1-888-709-8324 idtech.com iD Tech is the world leader in STEM education, with 450,000 alumni and more than 20 years of experience. Summer programs for ages 7-19 are held at 150 prestigious campuses including NYU, Caltech, and Imperial College London.

Students build in-demand skills for futures in coding, game development, robotics, and creative arts.

Phoenix Aquatic Club

Locations in Palisades and W. Nyack, and Hillsdale, NJ 845-708-5349 phoenixaquatic.com We offer swim lessons for ages 4 and older and monthly stroke development programs (ages 5-13). All lessons are guided by certified USA swimming coaches at warm water, indoor facilities. Instructors are trained to teach a progress of skills that will enhance your child’s swimming ability. Join us for summer lessons!

Rhino Comedy Improv Summer Workshops

845-504-7524 rhinoimprov.com Join Rhino’s Comedy exciting improv summer workshops for kids ages 11-17.

Led by educators and professional improv comedians, our weekly workshops offer age appropriate activities that help kids learn to be quick on their feet, support their partner, invent comedy, and perform!

Choose one or multiple weeks.

Rockland Farm Alliance – Junior Farmers Camp

220 South Little Tor Road, New City 845-634-3167 rocklandfarm.org sarah@rocklandfarm.org Junior Farmers’ Camp introduces children to sustainable organic agriculture, healthy living, and environmental stewardship through discovery, play, and plenty of time getting their hands dirty. Nature-based experiments, projects, and activities for a highly interactive, outdoor education. July 20-Aug. 21, Monday-Friday 9am-3pm. $400 for one week, $380 each additional week.

SPOTS Special Programs in Occupational Therapy Services

30 Ramland Road, Orangeburg 845-848-2228 spotsot.com Summer handwriting and social skills groups lead by occupational therapists. Handwriting groups provide fun multi-sensory lessons using Handwriting Without Tears curriculum. Through sensory motor activities, our social skills groups focus on topics such as joining in play and reading body language to promote participation with peers.

Yankees Baseball Summer Camps

212-381-7786 yankees.com/camps info@yankeessummercamps.com Yankees Baseball Summer Camps offer young ballplayers the unique opportunity to learn new skills through the official Yankees Camp curriculum. Join us for nonstop baseball fun with an emphasis on teamwork, attitude, and healthy competition. Camps include four days of baseball instruction and a daylong visit to Yankee Stadium.

SUMMER CAMP? WE’RE THE NATURAL CHOICE. Wander down the Lindgren drive and you know you’ve entered into a very special place. From our extensive arts and crafts program, to sports and swim lessons, the farm animals and gardens, and the adjacent Closter Nature Center, we’re a unique country atmosphere that engages and inspires campers—and lets children be children.

FIND OUT MORE! Visit lindgrenschool.com or call 201.768.3550 today.

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Our calendar is full of great ideas. First, here are the March events we consider can’t-miss—the ones we’re taking our own kids to. Consider it your cheat sheet to the best of what’s great this month!

2020 Progressive™ Insurance World Fishing & Outdoor Exposition WHEN: Sunday, March 1, 9:30am-5pm WHERE: Rockland Community College, 145 College Road, Suffern AGES: All WHAT: Families can spend the day comparing and shopping newly released and hard-to-find products for their outdoor needs, plus enjoy a variety of free educational seminars and attractions for all ages and skill levels.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Kids can learn all about boating, kayaking, fishing, and more!

WANT TO GO? $13; $3 ages 6-11. 973-337-6395. suffern.sportshows.com.

New Jersey Ballet: ‘Hansel & Gretel’ WHEN: Sunday, March 1, 3pm WHERE: Mayo Performing Arts Center, 100 South St., Morristown, NJ AGES: All WHAT: The two-act ballet is a lively re-telling of the well-known fairytale and incorporates the beautiful music of Engelbert Humperdinck, including his “Fourteen Angels” bedtime prayer.

WHY WE LOVE IT: The ballet features New Jersey Ballet’s original storyteller narration so even the littlest theatergoer can keep up with ease.

WANT TO GO? $15-$25. 973-539-8008. mayoarts.org.

Laurie Berkner Greatest Hits Solo Show WHEN: Saturday, March 7, 11am WHERE: Paramount Hudson Valley Theater, 1008 Brown St., Peekskill AGES: All WHAT: See this bestselling, award-winning children’s recording artist play all of her greatest hits live!

WHY WE LOVE IT: Expect to hear some newer songs, as well as old favorite like “We Are the Dinosaurs.”

WANT TO GO? $25-$35. 914-739-0039. paramounthudsonvalley.com.

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Sugarloaf Craft Festival WHEN: March 6-8, Friday-Saturday, 10am-6pm; Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: New Jersey Expo and Convention Center, 97 Sunfield Ave., Edison, NJ AGES: All WHAT: In addition to top national artists, the festival will also introduce new and emerging artists showcasing the latest trends in handmade fashion and accessories, statement jewelry, and fine art.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Check out live art demonstrations and handson workshops, jazz and folk musicians, popular children’s entertainment, and dozens of specialty food vendors!

WANT TO GO? $10; $8 online; free for children 12 and younger.

301-990-1400. sugarloafcrafts.com.

Rubach Family Purim Celebration WHEN: Sunday, March 8, children with special needs, 12pm; all children, 1-4pm WHERE: Kaplen JCC on the Palisades, 411 E. Clinton Ave., Tenafly, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Families can enjoy a junior bounce and moon bounce, slides, games, prizes, life-size cartoon characters, snacks, and more.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Bring your children in their Purim costumes!

WANT TO GO? $1 suggested donation per person or nonperishable food item to be donated to the Center for Food Action; $25 ticket cards includes 30 games or rides.

201-408-1465. jccotp.org.

National Dance Institute: ‘Voices of Change’ WHEN: Sunday, March 8, pre-show audience dancing, 3:30pm; performance, 4pm WHERE: New Jersey Performing Arts Center, 1 Center St., Newark, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Student dancers will perform an inspiring new show,

Voices of Change, which explores activism by shining a light on people who have changed the world for the better.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Kids are invited to participate in a free dance workshop with NDI teaching artists before the performance!

WANT TO GO? $5. 800-466-5722. njpac.org.

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39th Bergen County St. Patrick’s Day Parade FREE WHEN: Sunday, March 15, 2pm WHERE: West Englewood Avenue, Bergenfield, NJ AGES: All WHAT: The parade steps off on West Englewood Avenue, marching north on Washington Avenue, and ends at St. John’s Church.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Prior to the parade, at 1pm, meet at Rory Brown Middle School on Washington Avenue for the annual flag raising ceremony and grand marshal speech.

WANT TO GO? bergencountyirish.org.

WHEN: Sunday, March 22, 1:30pm and 4:30pm WHERE: Mayo Performing Arts Center, 100 South St., Morristown, NJ AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Explore unknown ocean depths, where prehistoric marine reptiles lived eons ago–and maybe live still today!

WHY WE LOVE IT: Actors, technology, and puppets combine to connect young audiences to the science of paleontology.

WANT TO GO? $15-$25. 973-539-8008. mayoarts.org.

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T. Rex Tea Party FREE WHEN: Thursday, March 26, 1:30-2:15pm WHERE: Pearl River Library, 80 Franklin Ave., Pearl River AGES: 3-5 WHAT: You are cordially invited to a fancy tea party with special guests...dinosaurs! Registration required.

WHY WE LOVE IT: This is the kind of party that will appeal to both boys and girls!

WANT TO GO? 845-735-4084. pearlriverlibrary.org.

Pancake Brunch & Maple Sugaring WHEN: Sunday, March 29, 10:30am-1pm WHERE: Tenafly Nature Center, 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Learn about maple trees, the syrup making process, and enjoy real maple syrup on pancakes made on a griddle!

Registration required.

WHY WE LOVE IT: Bundle up for the outdoor portion of the programming, then cozy up inside with pancakes, fresh fruit, coffee, and hot cocoa.

WANT TO GO? $15; $10 members. 201-568-6093. tenaflynaturecenter.org.

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Macy’s Flower Show FREE WHEN: Through April 5: daily, 10am-10pm WHERE: Macy’s Herald Square, 100-104 W. 35th St., Midtown, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: Dive into the vibrant colors of deep-sea florals and stunning marine life at the upcoming Flower Show “Voyage to Oceanum!”

WANT TO GO? 212-695-4400. macys.com.

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Michael & The Rockness Monsters FREE

WHEN: Saturday, March 7, 11am WHERE: David Rubenstein Atrium, Broadway, between 62nd and 63rd streets, Upper West Side, Manhattan AGES: 4 and younger WHAT: Kids will love this interactive, super galactic, funk-inspired, rock and roll family experience!

WANT TO GO? 212-875-5375. lincolncenter.org.

Drumfolk WHEN: Through March 15: see website for schedule WHERE: New Victory Theater, 209 W. 42nd St., Midtown, Manhattan AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Enjoy this lively concert full of tap, beatboxing, and the African American tradition of stepping that will take you from West Africa to Washington, DC! WANT TO GO? $17 and up. 646-223-3010. newvictory.org.

New York City St. Patrick’s Day Parade FREE WHEN: Tuesday, March 17, 11am-5pm WHERE: Fifth Avenue, from 44th to 79th streets, Midtown to the Upper East Side, Manhattan AGES: All WHAT: Have fun this St. Patrick’s Day with one of the most iconic parades that celebrates Irish culture and heritage!

WANT TO GO? 718-231-4400.

Frogtown Mountain Puppeteers: ‘Everybody Loves Pirates’ WHEN: Saturday, March 28, 11am and 2pm WHERE: Symphony Space, 2537 Broadway at 95th Street, Upper West Side, Manhattan AGES: 12 and younger WHAT: Get swept away by this zany tale set on the high seas!

WANT TO GO? $14-$17. 212-864-5400. symphonyspace.org.

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Sensory Storytime FREE WHEN: Wednesday, March 25, 10:30-11:30am WHERE: Emerson Public Library, 20 Palisade Ave., Emerson, NJ AGES: 2-5 WHAT: This sensory enhanced class includes stories, songs, and play with a focus on social skills and developmental benefits.

Space is limited to welcome those who have a hard time in large groups. Registration is required.

WANT TO GO? 201-261-5604. emersonlibrary.org.

Sensory Tuesdays WHEN: Through May 26: Tuesdays, 6-7pm WHERE: Bounce! Trampoline Sports, 612 Corporate Way, Valley Cottage AGES: All WHAT: This special program includes decreased auditory and visual stimuli in a less crowded environment and fun structured group activities with limited class size.

WANT TO GO? $12; free for parents and caregivers. 845-268-4000. bounceonit.com.

Educational Activities Team Trivia Night WHEN: Saturday, March 7, 7:30pm WHERE: Montebello Jewish Center, 34 Montebello Road, Montebello AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Bring your own team or form one that night. Prizes awarded. Dinner and dessert will be served.

WANT TO GO? $36. 845-357-2430. montebellojc.org.

Read to a Dog FREE WHEN: Saturday, March 7, 10:30am-12pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Sign up for a 15-minute session to read to a dog.

Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

‘Dungeons & Dragons’ FREE WHEN: Through March 11: Wednesdays, 6-7:45pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Join the library’s expert Dungeon Master on awesome adventures! Beginners welcome! Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

Puzzle Competition FREE WHEN: Thursday, March 12, 6:30-8pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Teams of up to four people will do their best to complete a 500-piece jigsaw puzzle within a set time period. Call to register.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047 x3. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

Snack & Read Around the World FREE WHEN: Friday, March 20, 5-6pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Learn about a new country while enjoying their local delicious snacks. Register online.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

Read to a Dog FREE WHEN: March 12 and 21, see website for schedule WHERE: Dennis P. McHugh Piermont Public Library, 25 Flywheel Park W., Piermont AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Read you favorite book to an adorable dog! Sign up for a 15-minute session.

WANT TO GO? 845-359-4595. piermontlibrary.org.

Branch, 85 Main St., Haverstraw AGES: 5-13 WHAT: There are different programs every week: builder’s club, games, 3-D fun with 3-D pens, PS4, code club, and science squad!

WANT TO GO? 845-429-3445. hkdpl.org.

Angry Birds Universe: The Art and Science Behind a Global Phenomenon WHEN: Through April 19: Tuesday-Friday, 9:30am-4pm; SaturdaySunday, 9am-5:30pm WHERE: Liberty Science Center, 222 Jersey City Blvd., 3rd Floor, Jersey City, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Explore different concepts in science, tech, engineering, arts, and math in an extreme hands-on environment!

WANT TO GO? $30.99; $27.99 seniors 62 and older; $24.99 ages 2-12. 201-200-1000. lsc.org.

Library Chess Group FREE WHEN: Through May 27: Wednesdays, 5:30-8pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 13 and older WHAT: New players are always welcome to this non-instructional chess group.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

Weekly Drop-In at Rockland Baby Café FREE WHEN: Thursdays, March 25-Jan. 31, 2023, 11am-1pm WHERE: Martin Luther King Multi-Purpose Center, 110 Bethune Blvd., Spring Valley AGES: Newborn to 2, adult WHAT: A drop-in to meet and talk to new moms, learn how to make breast-feeding easier, make sure your baby is latching and gaining well, get tips on pumping and going back to work, and learn about other parenting topics.

WANT TO GO? 914-922-2240. rocklandgov.com.

Around the World with Books & Food FREE WHEN: Saturdays, March 7-21, 1:30-2:15pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Get ready to see the world and enjoy some traditional stories and food, and take home a souvenir. Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

Playtime Storytime FREE WHEN: Fridays, March 6-27, 10:30-11:15am WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: All WHAT: Join the library for fun on Fridays! Stories, songs, sensory story time with cool activities, fun with non-fiction, and more!

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Friday Fun FREE WHEN: Fridays, March 6-27, 4-5pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Village

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AGES: All WHAT: Bring the family out for a free night of fitness! Register in advance.

WANT TO GO? 845 753-2324. ramapoparks.org.

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Public Skating Sessions WHEN: Sunday, March 1, 10am-7:30pm WHERE: Bear Mountain Ice Rink, Bear Mountain State Park, Bear Mountain AGES: All WHAT: Break out your skates, or rent a pair for the day, and enjoy the outdoor Bear Mountain ice rink.

WANT TO GO? $5; $2 non-skaters and seniors; free for children 4 and younger; $5 skate rentals. 845-786-2701. bearmountainicerink.com.

Introduction to Yoga with Eleonora Lvov FREE WHEN: Through March 10: Tuesdays, 6:30-7:30pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Learn basic poses and breathing techniques suitable for all levels. Please bring a yoga mat. Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

Jiggly Wiggly FREE WHEN: Friday, March 13, 10:30-11am WHERE: Emerson Public Library, 20 Palisade Ave., Emerson, NJ AGES: Newborn to 2 WHAT: An introduction to dance and instruments where families will sing, dance, and play while making musical memories.

Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 201-261-5604. emersonlibrary.org.

Bendy Bookworm Storytime FREE WHEN: Wednesday, March 18, 11:30am-12pm WHERE: Emerson Public Library, 20 Palisade Ave., Emerson, NJ AGES: 2-5 WHAT: A twist to traditional storytime, weaving traditional yoga poses and energy exercises together with story books and rhymes that will bring a new physical element to literacy.

Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 201-261-5604. emersonlibrary.org.

Family Fitness Night FREE WHEN: March 5-24, see website for schedule WHERE: JTS Community, Health & Sports Center at Torne Valley, 115 Torne Valley Road, Hillburn 28

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WHEN: Tuesdays, March 3 and 31, 10:30-11:15am WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Village Branch, 85 Main St., Haverstraw AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Sensory fun with explorative and interactive play for all ages!

WANT TO GO? 845-429-3445. hkdpl.org.

Theater, Concerts, & Movies ‘Finding Neverland’ WHEN: March 6-7, Friday, 7:30pm; Saturday, 2pm and 7:30pm WHERE: Mayo Performing Arts Center, 100 South St., Morristown, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Finding Neverland tells the incredible story behind one of the world’s most beloved characters: Peter Pan. WANT TO GO? $59-$99. 973-539-8008. mayoarts.org.

The Celtic Angels WHEN: Sunday, March 8, 7pm WHERE: Mayo Performing Arts Center, 100 South St., Morristown, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Featuring sweet and stirring songs of Ireland, rigorously precise dances, and traditional musicianship, The Celtic Angels will carry you away to Ireland on wings of music.

WANT TO GO? $39-$59. 973-539-8008. mayoarts.org.

Masterchef Junior Live!

WHEN: Tuesday, March 10, pre-show cupcake decorating workshop, 6-6:30pm; show, 7pm WHERE: New Jersey Performing Arts Center, 1 Center St., Newark, NJ AGES: All WHAT: This immersive, family-friendly event features head-to-head culinary demonstrations and fun (sometimes messy!) challenges.

WANT TO GO? $29.50-$59.50. 800-466-5722. njpac.org.

Tween Movie Night: ‘Maleficent: Mistress of Evil’ FREE WHEN: Friday, March 13, 5-7pm WHERE: Pearl River Library, 80 Franklin Ave., Pearl River AGES: 9-14 WHAT: Join the library for pizza, popcorn, and a movie.

Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-735-4084. pearlriverlibrary.org.

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The Peking Acrobats

WHEN: Friday, March 13, 8pm WHERE: Mayo Performing Arts Center, 100 South St., Morristown, NJ AGES: All WHAT: This performance will show you the culture of Mexico with dance, music, and costumes that reflect the spirit, soul, and traditions of Mexico.

WANT TO GO? $29-$59. 973-539-8008. mayoarts.org.

WHEN: Saturday, March 28, 3pm and 7:30pm WHERE: Mayo Performing Arts Center, 100 South St., Morristown, NJ AGES: All WHAT: The Peking Acrobats® redefine your perceptions of Chinese acrobatics as they push the limits of human ability, defying gravity with amazing displays of contortion, flexibility, and control.

WANT TO GO? $19-$39. 973-539-8008. mayoarts.org.

‘The Cat in the Hat’ WHEN: Monday, March 16, 4pm WHERE: Mayo Performing Arts Center, 100 South St., Morristown, NJ AGES: 3-8 WHAT: A boring, rainy afternoon turns into an amazing, mischievous, and hilarious adventure when The Cat in the Hat comes calling.

WANT TO GO? $12-$15. 973-539-8008. mayoarts.org.

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After School New Movie: ‘Frozen 2’ FREE WHEN: Thursday, March 19, 3:30-5pm WHERE: Emerson Public Library, 20 Palisade Ave., Emerson, NJ AGES: 3-12 WHAT: The library will be showing the newly released family movie Frozen 2. Snacks included. Please register.

WANT TO GO? 201-261-5604. emersonlibrary.org.

WHEN: Mondays, March 2-April 27, 10:30-11:15am WHERE: Emerson Public Library, 20 Palisade Ave., Emerson AGES: 2-4 WHAT: Featuring high energy songs, dance, and instruments, followed by a trombone parade with Mr. Chris! Registration required for each date.

WANT TO GO? $5; free to Emerson patrons. 201-261-5604. emersonlibrary.org.

‘The Amazing Max’

Books on the Move & Jazz in the Stacks FREE

WHEN: Sunday, March 22, 2pm WHERE: South Orange Performing Arts Center, 1 SOPAC Way, South Orange, NJ AGES: All WHAT: This high-energy, interactive, and all-around silly show will delight the young, the old, and everyone in-between!

WANT TO GO? $20. 973-313-2787. sopacnow.org.

WHEN: Through May 6: see website for dates and times WHERE: Various New Jersey public libraries AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a performance by Wells Fargo Jazz for Teens after a reading of Chato’s Kitchen or Nighttime Symphony at select local Newark Public Libraries! Join NJPAC Teaching Artist Wincey Terry for a free reading of Nighttime Symphony, written by Christopher Myers and illustrated by Kaa Illustration, or Chato’s Kitchen, written by Gary Soto and illustrated by Susan Guevara.

WANT TO GO? 800-466-5722. njpac.org.

National Ballet: ‘Swan Lake’ WHEN: Wednesday, March 25, 7:30pm WHERE: Mayo Performing Arts Center, 100 South St., Morristown, NJ AGES: All WHAT: The Russian National Ballet brings to the stage one of the most magical and well-known works from the classical ballet repertoire.

WANT TO GO? $29-$59. 973-539-8008. mayoarts.org.

WHEN: Monday, March 30, 10-10:30am or 11-11:30am WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 10 months to 1½ years WHAT: Parent and child will sing, dance, and play along to classic favorites and some new fun songs! Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

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Music Fun with Kurt Gallagher FREE WHEN: Saturday, March 28, 10:30-11:15am WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 2-7 WHAT: Join the library for a special family music program for young children. Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

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Earth Living Skills for Children: Wood Carving and Shaping WHEN: March 7-15, see website for schedule WHERE: Threefold Educational Center, 285 Hungry Hollow Road, Chestnut Ridge AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Not your average extracurricular, this program meets participants where they are and develops self-reliance and comfort in the outdoors.

WANT TO GO? $45. 845-356-1234. thenatureplace.com.

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Nature Lovers In Like a Lion, Out Like a Lamb WHEN: Sunday, March 1, 2-3pm WHERE: Flat Rock Brook Nature Center, 443 Van Nostrand Ave., Englewood, NJ AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Celebrate the arrival of March with a fun craft for all the little lambs out there! Registration required.

WANT TO GO? $5; free for members. 201-567-1265. eventbrite. com/e/in-like-a-lion-out-like-a-lamb-tickets-88401048917.

Animal Ambassador of the Month WHEN: Saturday, March 7, 11-11:30am WHERE: Tenafly Nature Center, 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate Tenafly Nature Center’s amazing animal ambassadors and the important job that they do.

WANT TO GO? $5; $2 members. 201-568-6093. tenaflynaturecenter.org.

Tracks & Scat!

WHEN: Saturday, March 7, 11am-12pm WHERE: Tenafly Nature Center, 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn all about different kinds of paws, feet, and droppings and how to identify the animals that left them behind.

Registration required.

WANT TO GO? $24 per family up to 6 people; $15 member family; $8 individuals; $5 individual members. 201-568-6093. tenaflynaturecenter.org.

Ski, Snowboard, and Tubing Season WHEN: Through March 15: Monday-Thursday, 2-8pm; Friday, 1-10pm; Saturday, 8:30am-10pm; Sunday, 8:30am-8pm WHERE: Campgaw Mountain, 200 Campgaw Road, Mahwah, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy the last snowy fun of winter with skiing, snowboarding, and tubing for all abilities with short lines and

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WHEN: Sunday, March 15, 2-3pm WHERE: Tenafly Nature Center, 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ AGES: 5 and older WHAT: Families will receive a set of clues to independently solve nature riddles along Tenafly Nature Center trails. Register online.

WANT TO GO? $20 per family up to 6 people; $5 individuals; free for members and children younger than 2. 201-568-6093. tenaflynaturecenter.org.

Maple Sugar Challenge FREE WHEN: Thursday, March 19, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Nyack Library, 59 South Broadway, Nyack AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Join the master gardeners as they go over the process of getting syrup from trees! Space is limited. Please register.

WANT TO GO? 845-358-3370. nyacklibrary.org.

Nature Story Time WHEN: Saturday, March 21, 10-10:30am WHERE: Tenafly Nature Center, 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ AGES: 3-8 WHAT: Families will enjoy a nature-themed story and a visit from one of Tenafly Nature Center’s animal ambassadors.

Register online.

WANT TO GO? $5; free for members. 201-568-6093. tenaflynaturecenter.org.

Animal Story Time WHEN: Saturday, March 21, 11am-12pm WHERE: Tenafly Nature Center, 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ AGES: 5-8 WHAT: Spend some time with some of the animal ambassadors while building confidence in reading ability.

WANT TO GO? $2 suggested donation. 201-568-6093. tenaflynaturecenter.org.

Spring Campfire WHEN: Saturday, March 21, 6-7pm and 7:30-8:30pm WHERE: Tenafly Nature Center, 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ AGES: 5 and older

WHAT: Gather ‘round the campfire to explore how lengthening days and warmer temperatures affect plants and animals.

Registration required.

WANT TO GO? $10; $5 members. 201-568-6093. tenaflynaturecenter.org.

Celebrate Spring Hike WHEN: Saturday, March 21, 10am WHERE: Hudson Highlands Nature Museum’s Outdoor Discovery Center, Muser Drive, Cornwall AGES: All WHAT: Enjoy a naturalist guided hike to uncover signs of spring as plants and animals begin to wake up from the winter.

WANT TO GO? $10; $8 children; $7 members; $5 children members.

845-534-5506. hhnaturemuseum.org.

Maple Sugaring WHEN: Sundays, March 1-22, 2pm and 3:30pm WHERE: Tenafly Nature Center, 313 Hudson Ave., Tenafly, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Discover the history of syrup making and how technology has changed the way we gather sap over the centuries. Registration required.

WANT TO GO? $30 per family up to 6 members; $15 member family; $10 individuals; $5 individual members. 201-568-6093. tenaflynaturecenter.org.

Community ExChange FREE WHEN: Monday, March 23, 6:45pm WHERE: Hungry Hollow Co-op, 841 Chestnut Ridge Road, Chestnut Ridge AGES: All WHAT: Get together, share ideas, and do projects that center around different aspects of sustainable living.

WANT TO GO? 845-356-1234. thenatureplace.com.

Tiny Tyke Times WHEN: Through March 26: Thursdays, 10-11am WHERE: Flat Rock Brook Nature Center, 443 Van Nostrand Ave., Englewood, NJ AGES: Newborn to 5 WHAT: Snuggle up for a story time, an animal meet and greet, and work together on a special craft! Registration required.

WANT TO GO? $100 for all 13 classes or $10 per class; free for members. 201-567-1265. eventbrite.com/e/tiny-tyke-timestickets-88399456153.

Owl Prowl FREE WHEN: Thursday, March 26, 7:30-9pm WHERE: Flat Rock Brook Nature Center, 443 Van Nostrand Ave., Englewood, NJ AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Search for resident owls in the forest on this evening hike.

WANT TO GO? 201-567-1265. eventbrite.com/e/owl-prowltickets-88401578501.

Junior Farmers’ Camp Open House FREE WHEN: Saturday, March 28, 10am-12pm WHERE: Cropsey Community Farm, 220 S. Little Tor Road, New City AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Learn about Cropsey Community Farm Junior Farmers’ Camp, where kids learn to work in the garden, sow seeds, weed weeds, and harvest nature’s bounty.

WANT TO GO? 845-323-3658. rocklandfarm.org.

Sowing Seeds Of Nature Play WHEN: Saturday, March 28, 10am WHERE: Hudson Highlands Nature Museum’s Outdoor Discovery Center, Muser Drive, Cornwall AGES: All WHAT: Learn about the importance of local pollinators and planting the seeds of various native plants all while having fun outdoors!

WANT TO GO? $10; $8 children; $7 members; $5 children members. 845-534-5506. hhnaturemuseum.org.

Birds of Prey Program FREE WHEN: Sunday, March 29, 2-3pm WHERE: Flat Rock Brook Nature Center, 443 Van Nostrand Ave., Englewood, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Meet raptor ambassadors and learn more about these animals.

WANT TO GO? 201-567-1265. eventbrite.com/e/birds-of-preyprogram-tickets-88401825239.

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WANT TO GO? $10; $8 seniors 62 and older; free for children 16 and younger. 845-331-7900. artrider.com.

Ramsey Farmers Market WHEN: Through March 29: Sundays, 10am-2pm WHERE: Eric Smith School, 2 Monroe St., Ramsey AGES: All WHAT: Choose from over 30 local farmers and food purveyors at the Ramsey Farmers Market.

WANT TO GO? Admission is free, prices vary for goods. ramseyfarmersmarket.org.

Fairs, Festivals, & Markets Greenberg’s Great Train And Toy Show WHEN: Sunday, March 1, 10am-4pm WHERE: New Jersey Expo and Convention Center, 97 Sunfield Ave., Edison, NJ AGES: All WHAT: The show features hundreds of tables of trains and accessories for sale, huge operating exhibits, activities for kids, and more.

WANT TO GO? $10 Saturday; $9 Sunday; free for kids ages 11 and younger. On-site ticket sales are cash only. 630-290-1962. trainshow.com.

Small Wonders: 44th Annual Holiday Exhibition WHEN: Sunday, March 1, 12-4pm WHERE: Historical Society of Rockland County, 20 Zukor Road, New City AGES: All WHAT: See custom dollhouses decorated and furnished down to the tiniest details, from period wallpaper, area rugs, and lamps to food in the kitchen. Sunday admission includes a guided tour of the 1832 Jacob Blauvelt House.

WANT TO GO? $5. 845-634-9629. rocklandhistory.org.

Palisades Farmers’ Market FREE WHEN: Through March 28: Saturdays, 9am-2pm WHERE: Palisades Community Center, 675 Oak Tree Road, Palisades AGES: 3 and older WHAT: The Palisades Indoor Winter Farmers’ Market has everything you need to make delicious seasonal meals with music and a kid’s craft table most Saturdays.

WANT TO GO? Admission is free, prices vary for goods. 845-3593988. palisadesfm.org.

Spring Craft Morristown WHEN: March 27-29, Friday, 4-8pm; Saturday, 10am-6pm; Sunday, 10am-5pm WHERE: Morristown Armory, 430 Western Ave., Morristown, NJ AGES: All WHAT: Spend the day shopping for uncommon and one-of-a-kind items for every age, taste, and budget from 175 of America’s finest craft artists.

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Little Makers 3-D Printing FREE WHEN: Thursday, March 5, 5:30-7:30pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Learn about the history of 3-D printing and then learn how to use Tinkercad, a free, easy-to-use app for 3-D design, electronics, and coding. Register online.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

DIY Mandala Fuse Beads FREE WHEN: Thursday, March 12, 3:30-4:30pm WHERE: Emerson Public Library, 20 Palisade Ave., Emerson, NJ AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Kids will create their own mandalas using fuse beads and pegboards. Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 201-261-5604. emersonlibrary.org.

Lego Sunday FREE WHEN: Sunday, March 15, 2-3pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 4-10 WHAT: Drop-in and build!

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

Mix It Up FREE WHEN: March 16-17, ages 5-8, Monday, 5-5:45pm; ages 9-12, Tuesday, 5-5:45pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Let’s make Irish soda bread! Measure and mix all your ingredients and take them home to bake and enjoy. Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

Pinterest Party @ the Library–Book Cover Clutch FREE WHEN: Thursday, March 19, 6:30-7:45pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 13 and older WHAT: Turn an old cover from a book into a stylish, unique clutch!

Register online.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047 x3. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

Paint It FREE WHEN: Thursday, March 19, 6:30-7:30pm WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library,

10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 9-12 WHAT: Visit the library and enjoy watercolor painting.

Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

No-Bake Creations FREE WHEN: Friday, March 20, 3:30-4:30pm WHERE: Emerson Public Library, 20 Palisade Ave., Emerson, NJ AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Create healthy themed snacks with dietician Barbara from ShopRite of Emerson. Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 201-261-5604. emersonlibrary.org.

Stories & Crafts FREE WHEN: Wednesdays, March 4-25, 10:30-11:15am WHERE: Haverstraw King’s Daughters Public Library, Main Library, 10 W. Ramapo Road, Garnerville AGES: 3-5 WHAT: Stories, crafts, and more! Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 845-786-3800. hkdpl.org.

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Teen Crafternoon: Puppet-Making for Earthfest FREE WHEN: Saturday, March 28, 3-4pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Make puppets from recycled materials. Use the puppets at the puppet carnival at Earthfest on April 25. Register online.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

Perspectives FREE WHEN: March 8-April 19, Monday-Friday, 10am-4pm; Saturday-Sunday, 1-4pm; opening reception: Sunday, March 8, 2-5pm WHERE: Rockland Center for the Arts, 27 S. Greenbush Road, West Nyack AGES: All WHAT: Artists Jean Michel Dissake, Dalit Gurevich, Russ Ritell, Mary Ting, and Jayoung Yoon convey life stories.

WANT TO GO? 845-358-0877. rocklandartcenter.org.

Anthropocene Outpost: Stories of the Future FREE WHEN: March 8-April 19, Monday-Friday, 10am-4pm; Saturday-Sunday, 1-4pm; opening reception: Sunday, March 8, 2-5pm WHERE: RoCA Rockland Center for the Arts, 27 S. Greenbush Road, West Nyack AGES: All WHAT: Zachary Skinner exhibits a selection of paintings and sculptures that depict the dystopian point of view of a nomadic lifestyle while roaming an environmentally-ravaged Earth.

WANT TO GO? 845-358-0877. rocklandartcenter.org.

Sit and Knit FREE WHEN: Through May 28: Thursdays, 3:30-4:45pm WHERE: Albert Wisner Public Library, 28 Railroad Ave., Warwick AGES: 13-17 WHAT: Join the library for craft and chat. Share your project, get advice, or learn a new skill.

WANT TO GO? 845-986-1047. albertwisnerlibrary.org.

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RTR Purim Spiel & Carnival WHEN: Sunday, March 8, 9am WHERE: The Reform Temple of Rockland, 330 N. Highland Ave., Nyack AGES: All WHAT: See the Scooby-Doo-themed Purim Spiel and stay for the carnival after! There will be bounce houses, a video game competition, a slew of new games, LEGO building, music, prizes, and more! Bring money for yummy treats and for donating to various charities in the Mitzvah Mall.

WANT TO GO? $20 unlimited wristband; $50 for 3 wristbands, or pay as you go. 845-358-2248. rtrny.org.

Megillah Reading and Purim Spiel FREE WHEN: Monday, March 9, 6:45pm WHERE: Nanuet Hebrew Center, 411 S. Little Tor Road, New City AGES: All WHAT: Join Nanuet Hebrew Center on Purim to hear the Megillah followed by a performance of their Purim Spiel, “Hair Spritz.”

WANT TO GO? 845-708-9181. nanuethc.org.

St. Patrick’s Day Craft & Storytime FREE

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WHEN: Wednesday, March 11, 10:30-11am WHERE: Emerson Public Library, 20 Palisade Ave., Emerson, NJ AGES: 2-5 WHAT: Celebrate St. Patrick’s Day with a themed craft and storytime with your little ones. Registration required.

WANT TO GO? 201-261-5604. emersonlibrary.org.

St. Patrick’s Day Rock Painting FREE

Celtic Henna FREE

WHEN: Thursday, March 5, 3:30-4:30pm WHERE: Emerson Public Library, 20 Palisade Ave., Emerson, NJ AGES: 5-12 WHAT: Kids and their families are invited to paint Kindness Rocks with a St. Patrick’s Day theme to take home and place throughout the community.

WANT TO GO? 201-261-5604. emersonlibrary.org.

Vashti’s Dinner Theatre WHEN: Saturday, March 7, doors open 7:45pm; show 8pm WHERE: Nanuet Hebrew Center, 411 S. Little Tor Road, New City AGES: All WHAT: Start the Purim fun early with a preview of the Purim Spiel, “Hair Spritz,” and enjoy a dinner buffet.

WANT TO GO? $36-$125. 845-708-9181. nanuethc.org.

Family Purim Event WHEN: Sunday, March 8, 1-3pm WHERE: JCC Rockland, 450 W. Nyack Road, West Nyack AGES: All WHAT: Celebrate Purim with bounce houses, an obstacle course, character meet and greets, arts and crafts, make your own Shalach Manot baskets, and more!

WANT TO GO? $10 per child; free for adults and babies younger than 1. 845-362-4400. jccrockland.org.

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WHEN: Tuesday, March 17, 5:45-6:45pm WHERE: Pearl River Library, 80 Franklin Ave., Pearl River AGES: 9-17 WHAT: Get Celtic-style Henna in honor of St. Patrick’s Day. Registration and permission form required.

WANT TO GO? 845-735-4084. pearlriverlibrary.org.

St. Patrick’s Day Face Painting FREE WHEN: Tuesday, March 17, 4:30-5:30pm WHERE: Pearl River Library, 80 Franklin Ave., Pearl River AGES: 5-9 WHAT: Get your face painted for St. Patrick’s Day! WANT TO GO? 845-735-4084. pearlriverlibrary.org.

58th Annual Rockland County St. Patrick’s Day Parade FREE WHEN: Sunday, March 22, 1:30pm WHERE: Pfizer Parking Lot, 401 N. Middletown Road, Pearl River AGES: All WHAT: The Rockland County Ancient Order of Hibernians St. Patrick’s Parade brings families and friends together in a day of wholesome recognition and celebration of the contributions of Irish Americans to the community and country.

WANT TO GO? 845-300-2930. rocklandcountyaoh.com.

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Take a Birthday Breather Don’t get caught up in the hype—it is possible to throw a stress-free kid’s party!

By Kirsten Clodfelter

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ove over, Pinterest parties. It’s time to take a break from the perfectly curated child’s birthday spectacular. While there’s nothing wrong with themes or crafting, not everyone wants to stay up until 2am making party favors and Instagram-able snack spreads.

All kids deserve to be celebrated, yes, but hear us out: Birthdays can be special, magical, and unforgettable without requiring a Cricut machine.

Sometimes it’s just fine to throw a low-key party that doesn’t break the bank. We asked experts for their favorite ways to minimize the stress.

Trash your schedule.

Dakota Jackson, a special events planner for D&S Events in Virginia, which she runs part-time with her wife, says: go rogue. “The biggest unnecessary thing parents stress about is keeping a strict schedule. Kids won’t necessarily remember what they did, but they’ll remember how they felt.

If everyone seems to be enjoying an activity, don’t force the group to start the next thing you planned. And if something isn’t a hit, don’t be afraid to move on quicker than expected.”

Go low-tech. Like, really low.

“Younger kids are happy to just be in a room with other kids! If you blow up some balloons and tell them to keep the balloon in the air, they’ll play for a long time,” says Jessica Ashley, founder and lead event designer at Jessica Ashley Events in Virginia.

Another easy crowd-pleaser: hand out glow sticks, kill the lights, and throw a glow-in-the-dark dance party. Old school classics such as musical chairs and heads-up-seven-up are also great go-to games.

Do what they love.

“Overall,”Jackson says,“way too much energy goes into trying to create unique experiences.” Instead, she suggests starting with something a child loves and building the party around that. For example, if the child is a sports lover, consider an afternoon of soccer at a sports complex, bouncing at a trampoline park, or a friendly mini-golf competition. You can also bring in some help.

Hire an entertainer who can bring in exotic animals or science experiments for a couple of hours of birthday learning and fun.

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Rather than hosting a party, have your child invite one or two friends out for a special event, like a day at an amusement park, an overnight camping trip, or to see a performance or sporting event. Not only does this give parents a pass on party planning, but “a smaller group of friends might create more intense memories together,” Jackson says.

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Kirsten Clodfelter is a Midwest-based freelance writer, the co-founder of Rise Marketing, Inc., and a mom of three.

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Most importantly, Ashley says, parents should take a breather.

“Kids want to share in the joy with their parents. If Mom or Dad is stressed out, kids can totally sense that.” Don’t let the goal of a “perfect party” get in the way of the whole point of the day— celebrating your child in a way that’s fun and happy for them.

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Pic Tips 8 expert recommendations for taking better photos of your children

By Katelin Walling

e always have a camera in our hands these days, which makes it super easy to snap social media-destined pics of our kids when they’re doing something cute, funny, or outrageous. But what about when you want to take professional-looking photos to share with Grandma and Grandpa, print for your gallery wall, or add to your photo album? Sarah Merians is CEO and founder of Sarah Merians Photography & Video Company, an NYC-based boutique photography studio that specializes in wedding, mitzvah, child, and family photography. Here, she shares eight tips to help you take better photos of your children.

Make it fun!

There’s nothing better than capturing your child’s genuine smile or catching him mid-laugh full of personality. So, Merians recommends making the experience more playful and less like a posed, portrait experience. Tickle your child, have her dance or jump to get the sillies flowing, play peekaboo, make silly noises (we guarantee fart sounds will unleash the giggles!), and tell jokes.

Avoid taking photos in the middle of the day outside.

Digital cameras and smartphones are really sensitive to light, so taking photos in low-light situations (either earlier or later in the day) is better than at high noon or in broad light.

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Keep the light on the subject’s face.

“I’m forever watching people with their iPhones in a restaurant or at a party and they’re standing against the window taking a picture, and I know the photo isn’t going to be good,” says Merians, who has been a photographer for more than 30 years. That’s why she recommends treating the light in the environment like a flash—keeping the light behind you.

Look for light, simple backgrounds.

While there is a time and place for photos in the latest Instagram pop-up, stick to clean, simple, and light backgrounds for classic photos of your child. (And make sure there’s nothing in the background that looks like it’s coming out of his head!) Choose a background that will make the child stand out, Merians suggests, and stay away from darker backgrounds, which tend to go black in pictures.

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Stand back to capture candids.

If you want to snap a shot of your child living in the moment (i.e. reading, playing, having fun with her friends), stand just outside the doorway or in another room to take the photo.

Then you can zoom in and crop the photo to focus on your child. That way, she isn’t aware you’re there.

Live in the moment a little more.

With social media, it’s (unfortunately) easy to compare yourself and what you’re doing with your kids to others’ curated feeds. Merians urges parents to occasionally put the camera down: “I think it’s important to be with your children and enjoy them and interact with them and capture moments—just not all the time.”

Give the camera to your child.

While you’re in an environment where your phone or camera is less likely to break if dropped (on carpeting) and your child is old enough, take a moment to teach him how to snap a photo of you. “It becomes a shared moment, a moment of education, and not all about what Mom and Dad want but letting the child have a voice and a vision as well,” Merians says. “They might find they enjoy having their picture taken that much more if they understand it.” And who knows, you might just have a budding photographer on your hands!

Be in more photos with your kids.

Whether you’re on vacation or you’re doing something really cool with your child near home, ask someone in your vicinity to take a picture of you together. And if you see another parent snapping pics of their kids, volunteer be their photographer.

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“You’re Canceled!”

What you need to know about the current craze

By Melissa Wickes

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ver the last few years, “canceling” has come up within the world of celebrities—from the #TaylorSwiftisOverParty to Louis C.K.’s banishment.

But what does this really mean? To cancel is to call out a behavior— an offensive remark or an unforgiveable action—and to reject the person responsible through blocking, unfollowing, and even verbally targeting on social media platforms, according to Lizzy Duffy, senior social strategist at Sparkloft Media, a social media creative agency. Unfortunately, cancel culture is no longer just for famous people. It has made its way into classrooms and teen peer groups. And now parents are concerned it’s affecting their kids.

When Kids Cancel When Logan Paul, a 24-year-old YouTuber with 20.2 million subscribers, published a video that included footage of a suicide victim, people banded together to “cancel” him, which in turn pressured not only YouTube but the advertisers and sponsors he worked with to take action against him. Paul was removed from Google’s Preferred, the company’s premier advertising platform, which prevented him from monetizing his YouTube videos.

Teens and kids are now applying this practice to their peer groups, Duffy says.

While the phrase “you’re canceled” can be a joke between friends, some teens are actually boycotting classmates, and sometimes over a personal opinion.

“All the friends I had through middle school completely cut me off,” a high schooler nicknamed “L” told The New York Times. “Ignored me, blocked me on everything, would not look at me.”

When L asked a former friend why she had been isolated, she was told she was “a mooch, annoying and petty, and an emotional leech who was thirsty for validation.”

When to cancel someone is an arbitrary and personal decision.

As Arielle Rokhsar, a junior at The Wheatley School in Old Westbury, explains: “There is no definite line between what actions allow for one to be canceled and for one to be spared, it all depends on how the audience interprets it.”

And values are constantly evolving. Ali Bhalloo, Arielle’s classmate, argues the “views that we have today may be considered wrong in the future. Opinions change with time. In my opinion, it is crucial that we cancel cancel culture.”

Psychological Impact Like bullying, canceling can lead to kids being isolated and ostracized, says Rebecca Sinclair, Ph.D., child and adolescent psychologist and director of psychological services at Brooklyn Minds, a mental health practice with locations in Brooklyn, Manhattan, and Manhasset. “Children and adolescents are much more vulnerable than adults, and isolation can affect depressive moods, anxiety, impulsive behavior, and use of substances.”

Plus, cancelation can make individuals afraid to stand up for themselves or voice an opinion, says Alexandra Hamlet, Psy.D., clinical psychologist in the Mood Disorders Center at the Child Mind Institute, a nonprofit that helps children and families with mental health and learning disorders. She says that while there are instances when avoidance can be appropriate—such as when someone is racist or harassing—it’s always better to first have a discussion with the individual and help him understand that what was said is not okay.

“A question that should be asked is, ‘does the person really deserve the removal of support in such a reactive way for saying one thing that might have been disagreed with?’” Dr. Hamlet says.

The Fine Line A community that unites against someone who has done something unforgivable can be empowering. It can also make kids think twice before posting or announcing potentially offensive views.

But there’s a negative too. “It’s balancing this fine line because we want to give our youth and teens the opportunity and power to call [them] out when there are issues in teen behavior,” Dr. Sinclair points out. “The issue is, [cancelation] doesn’t leave opportunity for improvement.”

People—especially kids—make mistakes. Kids have not had as many experiences to learn from as adults have. Learning from failures allows adolescents to build up social skills, develop a sense of self, and develop a sense of relationships, Dr. Sinclair says.

In 2019, President Barack Obama disparaged the concept of canceling someone in an interview about youth activism. “The world is messy. There are ambiguities,” he said. “People who do really good stuff have flaws. People who you are fighting may love their kids and share certain things with you.”

And kids are often not told they’ve been canceled, or the reason behind it. A confrontation would at least provide them with an opportunity to apologize, learn, and grow, Duffy says.

Dr. Sinclair also points out that the confusion caused by social isolation often causes teens to become defensive and cling onto the opinion or belief that led to the cancellation in the first place.

What is the parent’s role?

Like any other difficult conversation with your adolescent, it is important to understand where your child is coming from.

“Cancel culture might make the parent really uncomfortable and alert them in a hyper-vigilant way, but it is important to hear from the kids what their emotion and experience is, whether it’s worry, sadness, or anger,” Dr. Sinclair says. “There can be a difference between validating a child’s emotion and agreeing with their behaviors. You can validate how frustrated they are and how confused they are without agreeing that canceling someone is the right thing.”

Also, as Duffy points out, cancel culture makes it difficult for adolescents to have transparent conversations about things they disagree about, which is an important life skill.

Dr. Hamlet suggests parents focus on teaching their child what it means to understand someone else’s point of view and that settling differences doesn’t have to mean blocking someone out of your life or unfollowing them on social media.

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Thumb Sucking 101 How to handle this common childhood habit—and tips to get your child to stop

By Jaimie Seaton

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f your baby or toddler is a dedicated thumb sucker, don’t worry—it’s perfectly normal. Rooting and sucking are natural reflexes for babies, and sucking a finger, thumb, or even a toe is comforting. In fact—as you may know from your ultrasound photos—many babies begin thumb sucking in the womb, and it’s not uncommon for children to continue the habit well past their toddler years.

Pros and Cons Babies will often turn to thumb sucking if they are unhappy, hungry, or tired. That’s a good thing; we want our children to learn to self-soothe. And a 2016 study published in the journal Pediatrics found that children who sucked their thumb or bit their nails were less likely to develop allergies.

“Even when the habit lingers past infancy, thumb-sucking is rarely something to be concerned about. It doesn’t indicate that a child has emotional problems or that he will still be sucking his finger when he’s a teenager,” says Sabine Hack, M.D., assistant professor of psychiatry at New York University School of Medicine.

However, after the age of 5, thumb sucking can be detrimental to mouth and teeth development, according to Larissa Davids, D.D.S., owner of Rego Park Orthodontics. And it can lead to bite problems, including an anterior open bite (the teeth not coming together correctly) or a cross bite, and speech impediments.

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until the adult teeth start coming in, at about the age of 6. If your child is still thumb sucking at 5 years, that’s the time to address the issue.

The Mt. Sinai Hospital website cautions parents against scolding or punishing their child for thumb sucking. After all, she’s doing it because it’s soothing and comforting, and nagging may actually ingrain the habit. Instead, Dr. Davids recommends talking to your child about the issue. It may be he is embarrassed and will welcome your assistance. Take a loving, positive approach, offering praise when he doesn’t do it.

Beyond giving positive reinforcement, there are various methods you can employ to help your child.

• P ut her down for a nap earlier than usual, when you first begin to see her getting sleepy.

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• Offer a stuffed animal as a substitute.

• T alk to your child about his frustrations or fears and help identify triggers for thumb sucking.

• Use gentle reminders.

• Keep her hands busy with fun activities.

• Don’t ridicule or shame him.

What About Pacifiers?

Some parents use pacifiers to wean their children from their thumbs. There’s good and bad on this front, too. Pacifiers at naptime and bedtime can reduce the risk for Sudden Infant Death Syndrome, according to Mt. Sinai’s website, because a pacifier might allow a baby’s airway to open further. It might also prevent her from falling into a deep sleep. (If the baby is breast-feeding, it’s best to wait until he’s 1 month old before giving him a pacifier.)

Just as with the thumb, however, children may be attached to their “binky” long after they’ve left the nursery. Again, pacifiers can have a detrimental effect on oral development, so parents will want to break the habit by the time the child is 5, if not before. (Most children give up their pacifiers by 2 to 4 years old.)

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When to Seek Professional Help Thumb sucking can be a difficult habit to break. If your child is resistant to your efforts, you may want to have your pediatrician or dentist speak to her, Dr. Davids says. Sometimes a message is better received when it doesn’t come from Mom or Dad. A medical professional can also advise you on using other methods, including putting a bandage or bitter nail polish on the thumb. If you choose the latter, be sure it’s a non-toxic substance that is safe for consumption.

Above all, relax. If you’re stressed about your child’s thumb sucking, he will be too. Rest assured, she’ll eventually break the habit on her own.

Jaimie Seaton has been a journalist for more than 20 years and is the former Thailand correspondent for Newsweek. Her work on divorce, parenting, dating, and a wide range of topics has been featured in the Washington Post, the Guardian, Glamour, and numerous other publications.

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“I have lost track of how much I have been drinking in the evenings when I’m home alone with my kids, and I realized I shouldn’t drive if there is an emergency.”

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