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Marisa Finetti is a local writer, marketing professional and blogger. The Tokyo-born Finetti has called Las Vegas home since 2005.

She has written for such publications as Spirit and Las Vegas and Nevada magazines and has a healthy-living blog at bestbewell.com.

When she’s not writing, Finetti enjoys family time with her husband and two boys.

Jaq Greenspon is a noted local journalist, screenwriter and author with credits on The New Adventures of Robin Hood and Star Trek: The Next Generation.

He also is a literary and movie critic, has taught and written about fi lmmaking but is most proud of his role in the fi lm, Lotto Love. A Vegas resident for most of his life, his native language is Hebrew, but he doesn’t speak it anymore.

Marilyn LaRocque is Contributing Editor for Gastronomique en Vogue and former Senior Food and Wine Editor for LUXURY Las Vegas.

She’s traveled extensively around the world, visiting great wine regions and enjoying fantastic food.

She’s also Vice Chargée de Presse Nationale des Etats Unis for Chaîne des Rôtisseurs USA.

Christina Parmelee originally aspired to be a physical therapist, but needing to graduate from college; she changed her major to English. In 2005, after writing jobs in numerous publications and ad agencies in Metro Detroit, she moved to Las Vegas. The frigid and gray Michigan winters gave way to the warm and sunny desert climate she now adores. She has held numerous copywriting positions on the Strip and is presently a freelance writer moonlighting as an outside salesperson in the automotive industry. Her hobbies include church, walking, watching movies and travelling with friends.

Pat Teague has been a practicing journalist, manager and editor for international and regional wire services, and has worked for several metropolitan daily newspapers. He also has worked for one of the world’s largest corporations and was one of five Southern Californians in the Los Angeles chapter of the Society of Professional Journalists honored in 2000 for career achievement.

Lynn WexlerMargolies has been a feature writer and contributor for magazines and newspapers, locally and nationally, for over 20 years. She writes a monthly online column entitled Manners in the News, which comments on the behavior of politicians, celebrities and others thrust in the public arena.

She is the Founder and President of Perfectly Poised, a school of manners that teaches social, personal and business etiquette to young people.

She is a former TV Reporter and News Anchor.

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feedback To the Editor: I would like to add my comments regarding your April and May 2013 issues relating to the Holocaust Community here in Las Vegas.

I believe both issues gave your readership some misguided information: one, that there are only 60 survivors living here; and two, only four speakers who address our local schools, religious schools and many other institutions. Our current Survivor membership exceeds 120, not to mention their families. There are many more, but, unfortunately, some Survivors chose not to belong to our organization because they can’t bear the pain of reliving their experiences.

As far as our speakers are concerned, there are many more who have actively participated in bringing their story to our local schools and institutions. I might add that this last school year, which is about to end, has seen more Survivor speakers than ever. I want to thank them all, past and present, for their courageous efforts in keeping the Holocaust story alive. I know that they have a tremendous and lasting impact on their listeners.

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Las Vegas sells itself as the wedding capital of the world. With 86,000 licenses being issued in 2012, one can see why. “What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas” does not necessarily apply to matrimony, unless you’re fortunate enough to be a resident. The business of getting hitched in Sin City is thriving, providing fodder for countless Hollywood productions and a living for an army of clergy with muttonchops. Yes, Elvis will never leave this house — at least not if it’s a neonencrusted edifice providing nuptials 24 hours a day, seven days a week.

DAVID’s annual love letter to Las Vegas has to be our June wedding edition. For a month each year we toil under the flickering, horny glow of these houses of sacrament; impaled

by Cupid’s arrow, we recall our own special moments when we were young, stupid and in love, with or without children, but always with an open road ahead. This is the same optimism that wedding chapel barkers sell, intoxicating as it is ephemeral.

It is in this spirit that we invited selected civic leaders to share reflections and photographs of their weddings. Some amongst our staff felt we had bitten off more than we could handle, since celebrities are known to protect their privacy vigorously. But, as has been proven countless times over the short life of our publication, the generosity of the denizens of Las Vegas is boundless. Not only were our requests for contributions granted enthusiastically, we got more than we could accommodate. Expect a serialized form in the months and years to come.

It took a while but we finally got the mayor and the former mayor on our cover. The Goodmans’ wedding photos are so full of energy and joy. It is 1962 in those pictures, but the potential of the next 50 years is already being telegraphed to all who know their story. My wife grabbed our copy of Being Oscar, the former mayor’s recently published autobiography (Oscar, may I have her back, please?).

Thank you to Oscar and Carolyn Goodman, David and Alana Saxe, Elliot and Sharon Karp, Dina Titus and Tom Wright, Emily Zolten and Penn Jillette and, finally, Myron Martin and Dana Rogers for participating in our Pictures at a Wedding story. We had a blast.

This is our third wedding-focused edition, providing the everpresent challenge of upping the ante. I believe we went above and beyond, with stories to satisfy the most discerning reader.

We cover budget weddings, Mikveh rituals, the fantastic cakes of Duff Goldman, wedding photography, celebrities’ personal wedding albums and a short story about a crazy Jewish motherin-law. Not bad.

Since we celebrate Father’s Day this month, we also interview the visionary Larry Ruvo and are inspired by what his love and devotion for his late dad Lou have brought to the world. Happy Father’s Day, all. I know I’ll be enjoying mine.

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SETH MEYERS: 10 p.m., $45.99-$65.99. The Mirage, 3400 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas.

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JEWISH GENEOLOGY SOCIETY: Speaker: Tracing Adoption Records. 1 p.m., free. Sahara West Library, 9600 West Sahara Avenue, Las Vegas. jgssn.org CODY SIMPSON: 7 p.m., $39.50. Hard Rock Hotel, 4455 Paradise Road, Las Vegas. 702693-5000. hardrockhotel.com

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DIVE-IN MOVIES: THE PURSUIT OF HAPPYNESS & TO KILL A MOCKINGBIRD: 7 & 10:30 p.m., free. Cosmopolitan, 3708 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-698-7000. cosmopolitanlasvegas.com RAINBOW COMPANY YOUTH THEATRE SUMMER DRAMA CONSERVATORY: Through June 29, costs vary, times vary. Charleston Heights Art Center, 800 South Brush Street, Las Vegas. 702-229-6383. artslasvegas.org

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DL HUGHLEY: Through June 15, 8 p.m., $44.

Orleans Showroom, 4500 Tropicana Avenue, Las Vegas. 702-365-7111. orleanscasino.com

The Sunshine Boys Lost in Yonkers 45 Seconds from Broadway Song-Poems Wanted!

An easy drive to COOL and beautiful Cedar City for Professional Summer Theatre With Celebrity Guest Stars

OUTDOOR PICTURE SHOW MADAGASCAR 3 & CHIMPANZEE: Through June 15, 8 p.m., free. The District at Green Valley Ranch, 2240 Village Walk Drive, Henderson. 702-564-8595. shopthedistrictgvr.com JAY LENO: 10 p.m., $59.99-$79.99. The Mirage, 3400 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas.

702-792-7777. mirage.com

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EARL TURNER: Through June 16, 7:30 p.m., $15.95. Suncoast Showroom, 9090 Alta Drive, Las Vegas. 702-636-7075. suncoastcasino.com DAVE KOZ AND FRIENDS SUMMER HORNS

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RITA RUDNER: Through June 25, 8:30 p.m., $59. Venetian, 3355 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-414-1000. venetian.com JCC HOLY ROLLERS BOWLING LEAGUE: Through August 20, 7 p.m., $15/week, $60 registration fee. For more information and/or to register, call the JCC at 702-794-0090. jccsn.org CLEVELAND MUSEUM OF ART - GODS & HEROES OF GREECE & ROME: 11 a.m., free.

Lou Ruvo Center for Brain Health, 888 West Bonneville, Las Vegas. 702-483-6055. ccf.org PRISCILLA - QUEEN OF THE DESERT - THE MUSICAL: $59, Weds.-Mon. 8 p.m. The Venetian, 3355 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas.

702-414-1000. venetian.com CATCH ME IF YOU CAN: Through June 23, times vary, $24. The Smith Center, 361 Symphony Park Avenue, Las Vegas. 702-7492000. thesmithcenter.com

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BELLAGIO MASTER SOMMELIER - PACIFIC NORTHWEST: 6 p.m., $80. Bellagio, 3600 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-693-7111. bellagio.com

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FRATELLO MARIONETTES PERFORM ALADDIN: 11 a.m., free. Clark County Library, 1401 East Flamingo Road, Las Vegas.

702-507-3459. lvccld.org INFECTED MUSHROOM: 8 p.m., $20+.

Cosmopolitan, 3708 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas.

702-698-7000. cosmopolitanlasvegas.com MOVIES IN THE SQUARE - OPEN SEASON: Sundown, free. Town Square Las Vegas, 6605 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-269-5000. mytownsquarelasvegas.com

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DAVID SPADE: Through June 22, 9 p.m., $65.75-$175.75. Venetian, 3355 Las Vegas Blvd.

S., Las Vegas. 702-414-1000. venetian.com INSOMNIAC ELECTRIC DAISY CARNIVAL 2013: Through June 23, 6 p.m., $289-$500.

Las Vegas Motor Speedway, 7000 Las Vegas Blvd. N., Las Vegas. 702-644-4444. lvms.com THE FAMILY STONE: Through June 22, $39, times vary. The Smith Center, 361 Symphony Park Avenue, Las Vegas. 702-749-2000. thesmithcenter.com

SU LIMBERT & SIERRA SLENTZ ENCHANTED FOREST: Through July 16, times vary, free. Cosmopolitan, 3708 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-698-7000. cosmopolitanlasvegas.com

OUTDOOR PICTURE SHOW - THE NEVERENDING STORY & ANNIE: Through June 22, 8 p.m., free. The District at Green Valley Ranch, 2240 Village Walk Drive, Henderson. 702-564-8595. shopthedistrictgvr.com

SHE & HIM, WITH TILLY & THE WALL: 9 p.m., $37+. Cosmopolitan, 3708 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-698-7000. cosmopolitanlasvegas.com

CASA FUENTE CRAFT BEER FESTIVAL: Through June 22, 12 p.m., costs vary. Casa Fuente at Caesars Palace, 3570 Las Vegas Blvd.

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WANDA SYKES: 9 p.m., $59.95. Treasure Island, 3300 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas.

702-894-7111. treasureisland.com

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LEWIS BLACK: Through June 22, 10 p.m., $59.99-$79.99. The Mirage, 3400 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-792-7777. mirage.com

BEYONCE WORLD TOUR - THE MRS. CARTER SHOW: 8 p.m., $62.10-$277.15.

MGM Grand Garden, 3799 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 877-880-0880. mgmgrand.com

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WE'VE ONLY JUST BEGUN - THE CARPENTERS REMEMBERED: Through June 23, 7:30 p.m., $15.95. Suncoast Showroom, 9090 Alta Drive, Las Vegas. 702-636-7075. suncoastcasino.com

WORLD SERIES OF POP CULTURE - 1980S: 8 p.m., $60/team of four JCC members, $75/ team of four Guests. JCC of Southern Nevada, 9001 Hillpointe Road, Las Vegas. 702-7940090. jccsn.org

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SUMMERLAND TOUR 2013 ALTERNATIVE GUITARS: 9 p.m., free. Fremont Street Experience, 425 Fremont Street, Las Vegas.

702-678-5777. vegasexperience.com

MICHAEL NIGRO IN CONCERT - AN AFTERNOON OF CLASSICAL GUITAR: 2 p.m., free. Clark County Library, 1401 East Flamingo Road, Las Vegas. 702-507-3459. lvccld.org

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BACKYARD SUMMER EXPERIENCE: 7 p.m., $95. Bellagio, 3600 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-693-7111. bellagio.com

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TERRY BRADSHAW - A LIFE IN FOUR QUARTERS: Through June 29, 7:30 p.m., $49.99. The Mirage, 3400 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-791-7111. mirage.com ART & INK FESTIVAL: Through June 30, times vary, free. South Point Hotel, 9777

RIBBON OF LIFE: 1 p.m., $38+ The Smith Center, 361 Symphony Park Avenue, Las Vegas. 702-749-2012. thesmithcenter.com

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ANJELAH JOHNSON: Through June 29, 8 p.m., $33. Orleans Showroom, 4550 Tropicana Avenue, Las Vegas. 702-365-7111. orleanscasino.com JUSTIN BIEBER: 7 p.m., $54.10-$106.15.

MGM Grand, 3799 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-693-7120. mgmgrand.com OUTDOOR PICTURE SHOW - ESCAPE FROM PLANET EARTH & THUNDERSTRUCK: Through June 29, 8 p.m., free. The District at Green Valley Ranch, 2240 Village Walk Drive, Henderson. 702-564-8595. shopthedistrictgvr.com

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devour Father’s Day @ Comme Ca Give Dad the day off this Father’s Day and head to Comme Ca at the Cosmopolitan. Head chef David Myers has created a menu fit for a king and will be serving it up family-style above the hustle and bustle of our own Las Vegas Strip. This three course meal will feature old favorites and brand new dishes, including Steak Tartare, topped with egg yolk confit and complemented with housemade pickles. For the main course, guests can choose from two dishes, including Cote de Boeuf, a Tomahawk ribeye grilled on olive wood. Side dishes include the restaurant’s classic macaroni gratin and asparagus with hollandaise. Top off the meal with Comme Ca’s famous chocolate torte, with six types of chocolate and a hint of praline. Served on Father’s Day only, $59 per person. Comme Ca, 3708 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas.

702-698-7000. cosmopolitan.com

La Comida Honest-to-goodness Mexican food can be hard to find. But Michael and Jenna Morton have set the bar high with La Comida. Recently opened downtown, the restaurant’s pink neon monkey on the side of the building previews a funky, vintage vibe inside. Head chef Pablo Ortiz hails from Mexico, so the cooking doesn’t get more auténtico than this. With trade secrets from his abuela’s kitchen, he features fresh ingredients for his pollo al horno, including mixiote chicken, Mexican squash and achiote sauce. Housed in the former El Cortez laundry facility, the restaurant is enhanced by floor tiles and church pews reclaimed from Mexico, and ornate stained glass windows. Dia de los Muertos iconography adds to the ambiance. La Comida, 106 S. 6th St., Las Vegas. 702463-9900. Mon.-Fri.,11:30 a.m.-close; Sat., 5 p.m.-close; Sun., 10:30 a.m.-close.

Posh Burger Bistro Burger aficionados have a new home in Summerlin at PoshBurger.

Conrad and Candice Gallagher have been making burgers together since they married in 2006. They’ve brought their innovative flavors to Vegas with PoshBurger, putting a new spin on the American classic.

Burgers start with a base of Kobe beef, Angus beef, lamb, turkey, boar, or venison and go up from there, with toppings and condiments to make the perfect meal. The restaurant’s signature burger starts with Kobe beef and includes truffle aioli, seared foie gras, frizzled onion, watercress, cherry tomatoes and a fried quail egg. For the less adventurous eaters, start with old-school Angus beef, topped with tomato, arugula and onion marmalade. For something less overwhelming, there are salads, appetizers and delicious desserts to pick from. PoshBurger also offers a raw juice bar for more health-conscious folks.

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Blessing of the New Month FRIDAY, JUNE 7, SIVAN 29 Light candles at 7:38 p.m.

SATURDAY, JUNE 8, SIVAN 30 Shabbat ends at 8:42 p.m.

Rosh Chodesh Tammuz SUNDAY, JUNE 9, TAMMUZ 1 Rosh Chodesh Tammuz FRIDAY, JUNE 14, TAMMUZ 6 Light candles at 7:41 p.m.

SATURDAY, JUNE 15, TAMMUZ 7 Shabbat ends at 8:45 p.m.

FRIDAY, JUNE 21, TAMMUZ 13 Light candles at 7:43 p.m.

SATURDAY, JUNE 22, TAMMUZ 14 Shabbat ends at 8:47 p.m.

TUESDAY, JUNE 25, TAMMUZ 17 Fast of Tammuz Fast begins at 3:34 a.m.

Fast ends at 8:37 p.m.

FRIDAY, JUNE 28, TAMMUZ 20 Light candles at 7:44 p.m.

SATURDAY, JUNE 29, TAMMUZ 21 Shabbat ends at 8:48 p.m.

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Steve McQueen’s sex appeal is a timeless retro classic. Morgenthal Frederics’ unveiled “McQueen” from their 2013 Classic Actors Collection. A squared panto-shape features a key-hold bridge and metal detailing. $385. Optika at MGM Grand Hotel & Casino, 3799 Las Vegas Blvd., S., Las Vegas. 702-740-2226.

Father’s Day Top off his summer attire with this distinctive two-tone trilby hat that will give his look a dapper feel. Constructed from woven paper, it’s refreshingly cool and light in hot weather, $65. Ted Baker a tForum Shops at Caesars, 3500 Las Vegas Blvd., S., Las Vegas. 702-369-4755.

Black and white coconut palms set before cool blues in the “Moorea Tuamotu” swim trunks is just the thing he needs to ease into summer. $230. Vilebrequin at Forum Shops at Caesars, 3500 Las Vegas Blvd., S., Las Vegas. 702-894-9460.

Send dad back to a sweeter time with a basket of more than 15 types of his favorite old-fashioned candies - Charleston Chew, Sugar Daddy, Big Hunk, Abba Zabas, Astro Pops, Pop Rocks, Mallo Cup, Candy Buttons, Cow Tails, Mary Janes, Squirrel Nut Zippers, Bit-O-Honey and so much more! $29. B Sweet Candy Boutique inside The Market LV at Tivoli Village, 420 S. Rampart Blvd., Las Vegas 702-798-2979.

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Instead of contributing to his stockpile of play-it-safe staples, give dad something a little more useful, like great hair days and super smooth skin. Aveda Men Grooming Essentials Kit is perfect for everyday and travel use. $32.50 Aveda at Town Square, 6605 Las Vegas Blvd., S., Las Vegas. 702-270-2860.

Highly engineered for a powerful flight, this golf ball promotes low spin off the tee and high spin on approach for total control and aggressive stopping power on the green. Gotta have it! $49.95 Callaway Golf Center, 6730 Las Vegas Blvd., S., Las Vegas.

702-897-9500.

This sweet and funny collection of postcards is filled with touching father-and-son moments between Darth Vader and his four-yearold Luke. $9.95. Urban Outfitters at Miracle Mile Shops,3663 Las Vegas Blvd., S., Las Vegas. 702-733-0058.

Winning two records one for being the thinnest movement in the world, and the other for being the thinnest automatic watch in the world, dad can flaunt his style for luxury with this handsome timepiece, $24,000 - $32,000. Piaget at The Shops at the Palazzo, 3327 Las Vegas Blvd. S., Las Vegas. 702-418-3033.

The mash, the sparge, the boil, the fermentation and the bottling.

These are the steps to brew beer at home, thanks to the Brooklyn Brew Shop beer-making kit. No instructions necessary for drinking. $39.95.

Williams-Sonoma, 101 S. Rampart Blvd., Las Vegas. 702-938-9480.

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discover Bibles Exhibit @ Bauman Rare Books An exceptional exhibit featuring a collection of rare Bibles and related works produced from the 15th through the 19th century provides visitors and locals an opportunity usually only available at major metropolitan museums. The exhibit, open to the public, is located within Bauman’s gallery at The Shoppes at The Palazzo in Las Vegas. Entitled “In the Beginning was the Word: The Bible Through the Ages,” the collection includes extraordinarily scarce and important family, pulpit and study Bibles that are fit for a place in any major Biblical collection. According to David Bauman, proprietor and cofounder of Bauman Rare Books, Bibles are among the most popular types of books desired by collectors because they usually have immense historical and sentimental value. Bauman Rare Books, Grand Canal Shoppes at The Venetian / Palazzo, 3327 S. Las Vegas Blvd., Las Vegas. 800-99-BAUMAN. baumanrarebooks.com

Wet ’n’ Wild

Anyone who has lived here more than 20 years probably remembers Wet ’n’ Wild, the water park that used to be across from the former Las Vegas Hilton. For years there were rumors it was coming back, but nothing ever came to pass. Well, wonder no more – Wet ’n’ Wild Las Vegas is back and better than ever. It will have more than 25 slides and attractions, including the world-famous Rattler slide. The park will be perfect for kids and adults, with a good mix of heartpounding slides. Take Canyon Cliffs, for instance, which will subject riders to a 60-foot freefall at more than 30 feet a second, and calmer areas, such as the Colorado Cooler lazy river. Splash Island will be great for the kids, with geysers, mini-slides, and dumping buckets.

Wet ’n’ Wild, 7055 S. Fort Apache Road, Las Vegas. 702-979-1600. wetnwildlasvegas.com

Summer Rocking Fremont Street Rest your vocal cords and save your energy because Fremont Street is going to ROCK this summer. With a summer concert series to rival anything Vegas has seen, you’ll be hard-pressed to decide which shows to attend. Not to worry: All the shows are free. June brings Hinder and the Summerland Tour 2013 Alternative Guitars, featuring Everclear, Live, Sponge and Filter. These bands have been taking the rock scene by storm for years and are well-established names nationwide. Besides great rock shows, Fremont Street is home to dozens of other things to see and do. In between sets you can wander the street and check out the many bars and restaurants. Hinder: June 8 at 9 p.m.; Summerland Tour 2013: June 29 at 9 p.m. Free.

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Date Sunday, April 28

Event The Summit at Red Rock was a gathering of leaders and technologists to promote change in the story of our generation — sustainability.

Invited presenters articulated Bobby Feldman and Bob Dubin visions designed to protect our natural resources. Group sessions focused on solutions and modalities, highlighting innovative ideas and solutions for the sustainability of water, food and energy.

Established in 1901, Jewish National Fund have pioneered in the field of environmental sustainability, giving them much status as the event convener.

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Date Saturday, February 16

Food Celebrity Chefs: Jean-Marie Auboine, Stephane Tread, Carlos Salazar, Derek Franceschini, Doug Taylor, Johann Springsfield, Frederic Monti, Jeffray D. Gardner, Oliver Carlos, Stephen Sullivan, Michelle aka Chef Mitch, Jesus Castillo, Mark Lewis, Susan Philipp, Annette Starbuck, Nida Arias, Gianni Santin and Cristiano Creminelli.

Event A Chocolate Festival and pastry show featuring the best Chocolate and Pastry chefs in Las Vegas. Along with the #1 wines & champagnes from around the globe. Special guest Robin Leach.

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Today, more and more couples are thinking about their budgets — giving rise to DIY nuptials. Whether you want to save a few dollars, or just include creative, customized touches, do-it-yourself wedding details can make a big impact. But keep in mind that some wedding planning projects are tougher than others, so avoid DIY overload by choosing wisely. Here’s a rundown of what you may want to take on yourself and what you may want to delegate — along with insights from both a bride-to-be who did it herself and a long-time wedding/event planner.

DIY — I Do’s Ceremony Decor: Gone are the days when brides-to-be carted around overstuffed binders of magazine cutouts reflecting the betrothed’s wedding ideas. “Today, people are looking for inspiration online, with sites like Pinterest, to assist in their vision,” says Tory L. Cooper, a Las Vegas-based wedding and event planner (www.torylcooper.com). “The decor element is where many brides feel they can be cost-effective, saving time and money. It’s all about the details that make the difference in the wedding. This is the part where couples can make it all about them.”

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DIY Tip: Consider displaying photos as part of the decor. People enjoy looking at old photos (such as wedding pictures of your grandparents and parents) — a link to the past and what led up to this one special day. Your Favors: Sweet treats are a safe choice for favors most every guest will surely love. If you want to create the goodies yourself, pull out an old favorite recipe and ask friends to help you bake. Pack them in colorful boxes or cute bags for a picture-perfect presentation. For an ultimate DIY experience for you and your guests, set up a candy buffet, or sweet station. “We have a do-it-yourself option, where you order the candies from us and we loan you our beautiful jars,� says Arlene Bordinhao, owner of B Sweet Candy Boutique in Tivoli Village. What a sweet idea!

DIY Tip: The favor is the physical takeaway a guest receives, so make it special. Personalize it with cards or framed signs thanking your guest for being part of your special day.

Your Invitations, Programs and Save-the-Dates: Specialty papers and envelope sizes can trigger higher postage rates, and you still may be unable to find the perfect reflection of your wedding style and personal tastes. This is where Pinterest and other online sites can offer inspiration. Head to an arts and crafts store for a DIY kit, or choose stock paper in any color and print stylish invitations right from your computer.

Noel McDaniel and her fiancĂŠ Ted Farrell wanted to create ocean-inspired invitations, mirroring their planned nuptials site in Captiva, Fla., on June 3. She ordered sea stars to embellish the invitations, along with the envelopes. Then she and Ted printed, cut and assembled their invites in about four hours. “It’s a great way to spend time, but also it gave us a way to put our input into the details of the wedding,â€? the bride-to-be says.

Noel also established a free website for RSVPs and got great response. “Plus, since no one remembers all the details, we listed everything on the site for an easy reference,� she adds.

DIY Tip: Don’t get too fancy or use oversized envelopes — they cost more to mail.

Makeup/Hair: First, make doubly sure you’re comfortable doing your hair and makeup. If you’re good at both, then you’ll experience a great plus by creating your “look� in the privacy of your home or hotel room. Have a few basics on hand: foundation, powder, eye shadow, blush and lipstick. Put on enough to accentuate your best features. Noel tried different hairstyles and makeup applications to see what worked best with her dress and veil.

DIY Tip: Do a trial run and have a friend take a few pictures.

DIY — I Don’t’s Your Cake: Whether it’s a spoonful too much of flour, or a lopsided tier, a wedding cake disaster is beyond fixable. Decorating and transporting a wedding cake is also best left to the pros. Many wonderful local bakeries, including Cake Palace Cakes, Las Vegas Custom Cakes, Simple Elegance and Freeds Bakery, will create the wedding cake, cupcakes, brownies, cookies, cake pops and more, for your wedding day. “Meet with the professionals, taste the cake and create a cake based upon your vision,� says Tory. “There are too many variables, especially delivery during the hot months. In addition, most venues will not allow you to bring in a cake unless you are licensed and insured.�

Your Photos/Videos: Photographs are one of the few tangible things you’ll have to help stimulate wedding memories (besides your spouse). Your loved ones may promise to capture every moment, but leaving it to a professional to capture the heart of that day is a smart-

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er choice. You’ll be glad you did when you’re able to look at your album year after year.

So many couples skip the wedding video because of the price, but you can still have one on a budget.

“The day becomes so surreal and flies by so quickly,” says Tory. “And it is hard for the couple to remember all of the words that were exchanged or how special the wedding ceremony was. And there are no do-overs.”

She suggests that if you can budget to have video, or get a friend to videotape for you, then you will enjoying knowing that every anniversary — and as your children grow — you can share your special day.

Coordinating it Yourself: You’ve organized every minute detail so far, so why

shouldn’t you be in charge on the wedding day? Because there’s a lot more to do on the day of your nuptials. ”Think of us as an orchestra leader,” says Tory. “The ‘instruments’ are the vendors, and a coordinator, like myself, orchestrates all of them.” Planners ensure that place cards, and all of your special touches, are exactly how you want them, boutonnieres are pinned on the men, programs are placed where you want them, etc. Basically, planners become your eyes and ears, ensuring that everything is how you want it to be.

“I, too, had a day-of planner so I could enjoy this special time,” says Tory. “I did not want to have to worry about setting up place cards and making sure the florist and band got set up.” Planners also ensure flow,

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keeping everyone on time. “A wedding planner is your biggest peace of mind, on a day that is the most special celebration for you, your family and friends!”

Many couples think wedding coordinators are extremely costly. This is not necessarily true. Tory says most day-of-wedding planners are reasonable about rates. “I even hear, ‘You should charge more!’ (and) ‘Having peace of mind is worth every dollar!’ ” Your Centerpieces: A beautiful centerpiece sets the mood of the reception.

From sophisticated to fun, you can create style all your own — with a florist’s help, of course. Flowers can cost thousands of dollars, depending on your taste and the season. Although it’s a larger part of the budget, it’s worth every penny to have a vendor, even if it’s a grocery-store florist.

Noel, our DIY wedding bride, had two things to think about when ordering her flowers: Not only was her wedding site going to be 2,500 miles away, she was on a strict budget. Of all places, she looked to Whole Foods for her flowers and centerpieces.

“The floral department offers wedding services that provide gorgeous fresh flowers,” Noel says. Delivery service is not available, but they pack them well, and they can be picked up on the day before or the morning of the wedding.” With Noel’s boutiquesize wedding, she saved nearly 50 percent by using them over the preferred vendor.

For midsize-to-larger weddings, flowers should be left to a professional who knows

how to handle them in the heat and keep them looking fresh for the photos. “It usually takes days to put together floral centerpieces and decor elements for weddings,” says Tory. “The time, energy and the final outcome of setup and teardown needs to be left to the professional florist, so you can enjoy your celebration.”

Your Catering: Food and beverage trends have turned more and more to fun mini plates, as well as food stations. People want to enjoy the reception by meeting and mingling, rather than sitting through a multi-course meal. Catering a large-scale party is a huge undertaking, even if you love to cook. You’ll be hard-pressed to get enough food together for 100 people and keep it hot — even if you make the best dish in town. And, once you get it made, you’ll need a reliable staff to serve it.

Caterers are trained to make it happen; they have the support staff to serve you and your guests in a timely manner.

Your Music: It sure is tempting to rock out to your favorite tunes, with an iPod and speakers. But it’s not really going to be what you hoped for – unless, of course, your wedding party comprises a handful of people in a small room. “A great DJ and band can ‘read’ the crowd and create high and low moments,” says Tory. “Always get references from previous weddings and your planner.

DJ’s can be more cost-effective but bands can take your celebration to an entirely new level. If you cannot afford a band, consider strings for your wedding ceremony,” Tory suggests. Nice touch!

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t was the night before Simi Lichtman’s wedding. She was preparing to go to the mikveh (Hebrew for collection of water) for the first time – where a person immerses as part of the Jewish purification rite. For brides and grooms, the mikveh is the private passage from unmarried to married, much like the ceremony under the chuppah (marriage canopy) is the public declaration of that change in status. It also establishes Taharat Hamishpachah – the practice of the laws of Jewish Family Purity

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for the duration of marriage.

“Many women find the mikveh to be a revitalizing and soothing event. To me, that first time was scary,” said Lichtman. “I have practiced Judaism my whole life; but to have this new law suddenly thrust on me, to be repeated each month, carried with it the weight of expectations I might not live up to.”

For thousands of years, Jewish men and women have used the mikveh for ritual immersion for various purification purposes.

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“It was the original baptism,” according to Mayim Bialik, an observant Jew, author, Ph.D and actress best known as Blossom Russo on NBC’s Blossom and Amy Farrah Fowler on CBS’s The Big Bang Theory.

“Women who practice this mitzvah immerse in the mikveh after niddah (the period of sexual separation of husband and wife during the wife’s menstrual cycle) to become spiritually pure to resume sexual relations with their husband,” Bialik says.

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“To be sure,” says Rivkah Slonim, education director at the Chabad Center for Jewish Student Life at Binghamton University, Dr Fisher.indd 1 2/8/13 9:08 AM and author of Total Immersion, A Mikveh Anthology, “the mikveh as an institution is the victim of a popular misconception.

“Immersion in water is naturally associated with cleansing. To further complicate the issue, historically Jews were barred from using rivers in their cities for bathing. In response, they built bathhouses, many with mikvehs in or near them,” he says. “Together, these factors forged a link between the idea of mikveh and physical hygiene.

In fact, the Halacha (Jewish law) stipulates that one must be scrupulously clean before immersing. In fact, to facilitate this requirement, all mikvehs have preparation areas – with baths, showers, shampoos, soaps and other cleansing and beauty aids.”

“The perfect band for your Weddings, A bridal, or kallah, coach guided Lichtman through the intricate Bar/Bat Mitzvahs process of her first ritual immersion. “Before immersing you have and other special to cleanse yourself of all dirt and attachments, which is a lot harder occasions.” than it sounds,” Lichtman says. “That includes the removal of jewelry, contact lenses, nail polish, trimming long nails, and a thorough cleaning under the finger and toenails. You also check that you are completely clean from your menstrual cycle.”

A mikveh attendant, trained in mikveh laws and the use of discretion during this time of privacy and intimacy, checks each person beMusic Director fore and during immersion to ensure that all is kosher (properly done).

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Lichtman not only got through it the first time, to her surprise she was excited to return. “After my niddah time each month, I looked forward to the ritual dunk, excited that I would soon return to my husband to be with him sexually. Jeremy was taking seriously the obligation to romance me on mikveh night; and I’m quite happy to be romanced.”

A Las Vegas woman, who wishes to remain anonymous, says observing the family purity laws provided the possibility of repeated “honeymoons.”

“Sexual boredom can beleaguer a relationship and chip away at its foundation. The mandatory monthly separation fosters feelings of longing and desire,” she says.

“A modern-day mikveh looks like a miniature swimming pool,” says Slonim. “Its ordinary appearance can underestimate its primary place in Jewish life and law.”

To be kosher and offer spiritual power, a mikveh must be built to the numerous and complex specifications Jewish law outlines.

“The world’s oceans, rivers, wells and spring-fed lakes are mikvehs in their most primal form,” Slonim says. “They contain waters of divine source, and thus, tradition teaches, the power to purify. These waters, however, may be inaccessible or dangerous, not to mention the problems of inclement weather and lack of privacy. Jewish life, therefore, necessitates the construction of mikvehs.”

A mikveh must be built into the ground or as an essential part of a building. Portable receptacles such as bathtubs do not qualify.

Halachic authorities say it must contain a minimum of 200 gallons of rainwater, gathered and siphoned into the mikveh pool in accordance with a specific set of regulations.

Modern-day mikvehs are equipped with filtration and water-purification systems. The waters commonly are chest-high and kept at a comfortable temperature. Access to the pool is achieved via seven steps. Many mikvehs are now accessible to the handicapped via lifts.

In ancient times the famed well of Miriam (Moses’ sister) served as a mikveh. Until recently, mikvehs could be described as relatively nondescript. The last few decades, however, have sparked a new trend by modern Jewish women, and the rabbinate, to build lavish immersion pools and preparation areas, including elegant foyers and waiting rooms, often rivaling luxurious spas.

One can find buildings with upward of 30 preparation areas and four immersion pools in communities that have large numbers of mikveh users. Mikvehs can even be found in remote and exotic places, such as Agadir, Morocco, Asuncion in Paraguay and Zarzis in Tunisia. Immersion in a mikveh takes place after sundown. Appointments to use or tour a mikveh generally are made by phoning a local synagogue office.

Three mikvehs serve the greater Las Vegas Jewish community: through Congregation Shaarei Tefilla, Chabad of Southern Nevada and Temple Beth Sholom.

Most Jews, even those who consider themselves secular, are familiar with the Sabbath, kashrus (dietary laws), Yom Kippur (Day of Atonement) and a number of other Torah and rabbinic obligations.

“Mikveh and Family Purity are shrouded, however, in obscurity — pages torn out of the book, as it were,” Slonim says.

Yet the observance of Family Purity is a biblical injunction of the highest order, Slonim says. “The infraction of this law is equated with major transgressions, such as the intentional violation of the fast on the holy day of Yom Kippur, and not entering into the covenant through ritual circumcision (brit milah).”

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tution in Jewish life, whereas it’s mandated by Jewish law to construct a mikveh before building a house of worship. If necessary, Jews may sell a synagogue and a Torah scroll to raise funds to build a mikveh. Jewish law even states that a group of Jewish families do not attain the status of a community if they do not have a communal mikveh.”

Slonim and Lamm note that private and communal prayer can be held almost anywhere, but Jewish married life, and by extension the birth of future generations in accordance with Halacha, is possible only where a mikveh is accessible.

Human sexuality is a primary force in the lives of a married couple. “In stark contrast to Christian dogma – where marriage is seen as a concession to the weakness of the flesh, and celibacy is extolled as a virtue – the Torah exalts matrimony, and within that consecrated union, human sexuality is not only a mitzvah, but one of the holiest of all human endeavors,” Slonim says.

The late 1960s and early ’70s were marked by a significant decline in mikveh observance, however, which continued over the next five decades. Jewish feminists objected to what they viewed as the patriarchal concept of family purity. Mikveh continued, but mostly among Conservative and Orthodox Jews.

“They saw niddah and the mikveh requirement as a denigration of women – keeping them from tainting men,” says Shuly Rubin Schwartz, assistant professor of American Jewish history at the Jewish Theological Seminary in New York City. “The 2000s, however, heard women saying, ‘Wait a minute. This is a tradition that was an important part of Judaism for our foremothers. Let’s look at the deeper meaning.’”

Best-selling author Anita Diamant did just that. Mayyim Hayyim (Living Waters) Community Mikveh and Education Center opened its doors in 2004 in Boston, spearheaded by Diamant. She believed it was time for a mikveh that encouraged “the prayers of the heart in Jews of every denomination and description; respected the choices of everyone; and served as a destination for Jews across the spectrum of observance and affiliation.”

Boston is home to the first Jewish Federation and the first Jewish Teachers College. Mayyim Hayyim joins them with this innovative experiment in Jewish life.

Besides traditional purposes, the waters at Mayyim Hayyim allow visitors to celebrate milestone events such as graduations, birthdays and anniversaries. Immersion also can signify a new start in the aftermath of pain and trauma; the end of formal grieving; or the beginning of healing from events such as a miscarriage, chemotherapy, bereavement, divorce, rape or abuse.

“The goal is to provide the Jewish community with an opportunity to emerge renewed and ready for life’s next gifts,” Diamant says.

The Center occupies a renovated Victorian home. It serves as an education center, a celebration venue and an art gallery. New construction added two mikvehs, four preparation suites and a reception area.

Mayyim Hayyim is guided by seven Principles of Common Purpose developed under the auspices of The Synagogue Council of Massachusetts. Purpose three, Ahahvat Yisrael - Love of the Jewish People, honors ritual immersion according to one’s personal interpretation.

Purpose four, Klal Yisrael - Jewish Community, states that “We are one Jewish people.”

Whether a Jew wishes to embrace the new or the traditional path to mikveh, in the words of Rabbi Abraham Isaac Kook, “The old becomes new, and the new becomes holy.” Those who immerse in the holy waters emerge pure, renewed and inspired to whatever the future holds.

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he most difficult thing about making a good cake is knowing when to take it out of the oven,” remarked super pastry chef Duff Goldman—owner of Charm City Cakes in Baltimore and Los Angeles, TV personality, author—Ace of Cakes, written with his brother, Willie. “If you leave it in too long, it becomes dry,” he explained. “You need to take it out when it’s just about done because it still cooks.”

Duff was in Las Vegas recently for the Food University at Caesars Palace. Wearing camouflage cargo pants, a white chef’s coat and a knit ski cap, he started each of his students with a round cake about 8 inches in diameter and 6 inches tall, encased in flawless white frosting. Portions of blue, pink and green fondant, and tiny piping bags of frosting waited in the wings, ready for their roles as decorative accents.

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“Whether a decorated cake is good versus great depends on doing things neat and clean,” he says. “A really simple cake can be breathtaking when the craft is well done … how you cut fondant, how you roll fondant, how you cut the piping bag. Fondant doesn’t hide mistakes underneath. The cake must be iced perfectly, with everything done correctly.

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tiny piping bag for small writing. You’re writing in the future, the most difficult thing to do. You have to train your brain to think ahead of your hand.”

Duff strolled around the room, advising the students, demonstrating a technique, offering a “looking good” for praiseworthy efforts.“ W henyou’ r ew or kingw it hf onda nt ,” he says, “dust the cutting board with cornstarch so the fondant doesn’t stick. Try to roll a basic rectangle, not too thin. Use a pizza cutter to cut strips and a cookie cutter for circles. Lay the pieces gently on your forearm and use a dry brush to remove the cornstarch off the side that was on the cutting board.”

The goal this day was to “wrap” the cake as a birthday box, “tied” with fondant ribbons and topped by fondant roses. To make the fondant strips stick to the cake, Duff advised brushing them in the middle with a little bit of water, then running them carefully from the bottom of the cake up over the edge to the center of the top, then breaking off any excess length.

To form two “roses,” he cut and then overlapped three circles of fondant, rolled them into a cylinder, broke it in the middle and voila!G r eenf onda nt “leaves” (scored with an arc made by the cookie cutter) and “tendrils” of piping provided a finishing flourish.

Being a pastry chef wasn’t Duff ’s first career choice. His ambition was to be a bass guitar player in a hit band, and he played for a while in a group called soihadto. “I didn’t want to cook. I wanted to be a musician,” he confirms. “I quit a job as a personal chef and sold cakes out of my apartment so I could tour with the band and pay rent with the cakes.”

When he was 14 1/2, Duff ’s first “legal” paying job was at Burger King. He used his take-home for paint, so he could tag.

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“I’d go to the paint store, buy spray paint and paint trains,” he reveals. “My mom and I were living in Braintree on Cape Cod. My mom asked me, ‘Why do you have 700 cans of spray paint?’ So I took her to a T-stop (train transit). All of us (graffiti artists) knew where our murals were. I took her when I knew mine would come through. We got caught all the time. Depending on the yard boss or the cop, we’d get arrested or have to empty the paint on ourselves or dump the paint. You’d wake up with a terrible headache.

I went to the Corcoran (Museum) when I was in high school and took classes. I didn’t like formal art instruction. Graffiti artists don’t like rules, legality, safety. “I never thought I’d be an artist for my career. It’s something I love to do … but not as a career. Every decision I’ve made since I was 12 was whether I was allowed to be creative. That’s why I got into cooking. Cakes were the ultimate take, something like metal sculpting, graffiti, fused with cooking cakes, like 3-D metal sculpture combined with food.”

Duff polished his pastry talents at the Culinary Institute’s famed Greystone outpost in Napa Valley. “You see a lot of cake decorating on TV,” he says, “but when I first started … none looked like me.”

Nothing has ever looked like Duff’s work …T-Rex dinosaurs, a space ship hovering above the White House, a gigantic Crayola box.

An elaborate cake can take a month or more to assemble. Among his more amazing achievements was a life-size NASCAR automobile, complete with racing decals. The wheels went round. Speakers broadcast “car sounds,” and a smoke machine added to the overall sense of reality. He and his team also made a working R2-D2 — the squatty little “Star Wars” droid —for George Lucas.

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drawn from diverse backgrounds — architecture, engineering, sculpture, art (his theory is he can train people to bake cakes) has paid off many times, especially in the “development” of a mammoth cityscape, SimCity, a surprise for Maxis, which markets the open-ended city-building computer and console video game series. The cake celebrated Maxis’ latest iteration of the videogame series.

Once constructed, the challenge was to get the massive baked structures safely from Los Angeles to San Francisco. “Our driver had to arrive very early in the morning so that it would be kept secret,” Duff says. “We have a talented delivery staff who come from the world of art handling and transport. And our vehicles are specially retrofitted with cake-safe non-slip pads. The ‘cake’ arrived intact.”

But Duff says making the cake for President Obama’s inauguration was his most stressful assignment. “It was just one cake,” he sighs, “and we had to get it right. It was huge, traditional, navy blue with patriotic themes, stars and stripes, military seals, lots of gold. I’m a Chef Diplomat for the State Department, so I do a lot for the government when they need something really awesome. Not many people do what we do. We’re really good at what we do. We also make free cakes for charities and do lots of philanthropic work. We’re a real bakery. People call up, and we work it out.”

Brides call … frequently.

Is the cake still a focal point of a wedding? “Absolutely,” Duff assures. “Even with trends like dessert tables and cupcakes, most brides still really want a beautiful cake. I would equate the cake to a wedding dress. The fashions change somewhat, but (the cakes) are always there.”

Although the multi-tiered, flower-and-bride-and-groom-topped, go-for-baroque cake is still in style, Duff says some clients want more contemporary cakes — not “too fussy” with clean lines.

“Some cakes we are seeing a lot of are very Pinterest/y-inspired rustic cakes (website featuring handcrafted items). However, some are classic traditional cakes with either fresh flowers or lots of piping and decoration. As a bakery, it’s very important to stay up on trends and know how to make them all really well. Every wedding cake has several layers and several flavors, but the most popular is carrot.

“Grooms’ cakes are still very popular,” Duff added. “ M os t of t he designs have something to do very specifically with the interests of the groom. We makes cakes with themes like fishing, cars, beer, video games, college, sports, you name it. Usually, there is an element of humor in grooms’ cakes. We did one cake that was a diorama of a scene depicting the first time the groom met the bride’s parents and ended up passed out stuck in a window with his pants around his ankles … it’s a long story.”

Duff says making his brother Willie’s wedding cake was “really special. It’s like we started this whole journey of life together as little kids and, then, here I was, making his wedding cake ... very existential.”

The grooms’ cake, however, was a green goblin … no explanation given.

So, tell us Duff, what’s the perfect wedding cake?

“If that couple can look at pictures of their cake in 50 years and still love it,” he says, “I did my job right.”

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met Monica the way all good Jewish boys meet all good Jewish girls. We were set up by the cousin of a friend of a friend, introduced with a #gettoknow hashtag on Twitter, and our first date was an early March hike through the easy trails up at Red Rock Canyon. It went well. Our second date was to see an afternoon comedy magic show on The Strip with a late lunch that turned into an even later dinner; our third date was a St. Patrick’s Day party hosted by a colleague where she works (big vote of confidence for me, for sure).

A month after meeting we made it official, changing our Facebook statuses

to “in a relationship.” We were becoming a joint fixture between both sets of friends, and everything was smooth-sailing. She’d even met my folks and I’d Skyped with her dad (she’s from back East and moved to Vegas to attend UNLV; she stayed because our weather was better than Buffalo’s).

Within six months we’d moved in together. We rented a nice, one-bedroom place in Henderson, and she bought me a bicycle for my birthday. We communicated very well — this wasn’t a first rodeo for either of us (literally in her case; for more than a year she’d dated a cowboy she met at Helldorado Days). We were both in our late

20s (I had her by a year or two, but we were close enough), had each suffered broken hearts and knew what we weren’t looking for. We also knew we were lucky enough to find what we were looking for in each other.

Neither of us was into big, flashy, overthe-top gestures. We’re simple people who like spending time with friends, enjoying nature and realize that when it’s meant to be —why fight it? As I said, everything was going smoothly. Too smoothly. The first ripple appeared on a Saturday morning when my mother did one of her infrequent Facebook checks and made a discovery that was only a few minutes old. She picked up the phone.

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“You’re engaged now? When did that happen? How did that happen? Were you going to call and tell me? Your father and I would like to know when these kinds of things happen to our son.”

I should have known it was too good to last. I took a deep breath and prayed silently it wouldn’t get any worse.

Then it did.

“Put Monica on so we can make a lunch date to start planning the wedding,” I heard through the phone.

A month later and I could see things were already starting to wear on Monica. See, Monica’s mother had died when she was young. So my mom, bless her, had decided (rightly according to her) that she should step in and be there for her soon-to-be daughter-in-law. Mom has always wanted to plan a big wedding. But with no daughters of her own (my brother and I rounded out our family), she figured she’d never get the chance. Of course, now that she had the slightest opening, she was doing her level best to get her acrylic nails in there and earn her Jewish mother stripes. My own hope was that Monica and I would survive the experience. I meant that figuratively, I think.

The first “mother-daughter strategy meeting,” as Monica called it (Mom just called it “a light nosh with notebooks and three years’ back issues of Bride Magazine”) opened with the guest list as the topic.

Mom had thoughtfully typed “the list” into an Excel spreadsheet, correlated by relationship, distance from venue and gift expenditure parameters. I tagged along on that first parley, just to make sure no one got killed (again, I mean that mostly figuratively).

Mom handed over a single page for our perusal. About 50 family names were listed, with empty slots at the top for Monica’s family and friends. I was shocked, to be honest. This seemed a bit restrained, not that I was complaining. My mistake was assuming the sheet she handed Monica and the one she kept were duplicates of mine. Silly me.

In total, Mom had allowed for close to 400 families (an average of three people per unit) and this didn’t count the 100 people she had graciously consented to allow Monica and me to invite, inclusive of my bride-to-be’s family. I took all the pages and started scanning, red pen in hand, trying to avert Monica’s nascent rage.

“Why are the Goldbergs on here?”

“They’re your cousins,” Mom said defensively.

“At best, they’re fourth cousins, or third twice removed or something like that. And that was when Sheila was actually married to Bernie. They’ve been divorced for 10 years. He’s remarried to some shiksa and is living in Barbados.”

“But he was at your bar mitzvah, and a wedding is a good opportunity to reconnect,” Mom rejoined.

Truth to tell, if I’d known what was coming, I’d have given in (gladly) on the guests.

The final decree went something like this: Monica and I had full veto power on the list, and the goal was to keep it to 200 people (about 150 more than we really wanted).

Naturally, Mom got around this niggling proviso by holding back a few invitations and sending them without our knowledge

I started to argue but Mom cut me off with Guest List Counter-Argument Number 8: “It’s better than coming to a funeral!”

I checked my watch. We’d reached a death reference in record time.

“And great-great-Uncle Stanley? He’s got Alzheimer’s and is in assisted living. Most days he doesn’t know his own name or what year it is,” I protested.

“But you never know what might trigger a positive response. An invite from his favorite great-great-nephew might be just the thing to bring him back to lucidity,” Mom argued.

I sighed and rubbed my eyes. We hadn’t even ordered coffee yet. …

The guest list took a while to get sorted.

when the time came. Honestly, she didn’t expect most of the invitees to show, and figured they could (probably) be counted on for a decent gift.

Next on the agenda? The venue. One of our initial ideas was to gather at Red Rock Canyon, invite the rabbi and our friends and family for a quick round of “Do you?” and “I do” and then head back to town for dinner, drinks and dancing — some place easy and fun.

“Monica, darling,” my mother had said, “this is your wedding day. I know you think this is what you want now, but in 50 years (G-d willing you live so long), you’re going to look back on this and wonder what you were thinking wearing white in all that dust.”

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options for where to hold an affair are nigh on limitless. Same with entertainment.

And Mom was going to make sure we took full advantage of such amenities. It was important to lock down the venue as soon as possible, we were informed, because without that nothing else could move forward.

Emails started showing up in my inbox from domains I’d never heard of. Things like

listed as “The Road, America.”

She wanted a never-to-be-forgotten event, something that would turn jealous relatives green with envy and make people who had flown in from all over go home and never mention they’d actually been in Las Vegas.

By this point, I think Monica and I were forgotten.

Living in Vegas has other advantages

YourSpecialDay.com and PlanYourWedding. org, with suggestions and timeline plans.

Monica and I got an invite to join a Google Calendar started by Mom and already loaded with appointments and a note: “Let me know only if you absolutely cannot make it.”

We figured, with her, outrageous was a non-starter. No roller coaster ceremony, no nuptials at the aquarium or the Grand Canyon. At least that’s what we thought. Once Mom started down the wedding planner path, very quickly nothing became too much.

The only delimiter for her imagination was the size of the guest list. As stated, she absolutely couldn’t conceive of an affair without at least inviting cousin Margaret, whose current address was optimistically

than proximity to venues. If you’ve been in town for any length of time, it also provides access, and occasionally what the old folks used to call “juice.”

In lay terms, this meant knowing people who could grant favors, and realizing that the bigger your juice, the more likely they were to say “yes.” Way back when, that juice could get you in to see Sinatra or Dino without paying the cover (though you always tipped the maître’d, no question), a free steak dinner or a room upgrade. Today, it was something different, like house seats for a Cirque show or a backstage tour of the Colosseum (Celine optional). Mom, who had been in Vegas for 20 or so years, knew lots of people and had considerable juice.

She was hunting for bear, with the goal of as little out-of-pocket cost as possible.

Monica claimed allergies when Mom suggested we try to get the elephant from Siegfried and Roy’s Secret Garden to give rides to the kids after the wedding. Allergies aside, there were practicality issues. An elephant would limit our choice of locations to those places with ground floor access. Also, I wasn’t sure it was kosher, which would put a strain on the rabbi. This also proved problematic for the petting zoo idea, and the crayfish enclosed in the proposed centerpieces.

Finally, a site was selected, one centrally located and not on The Strip, but big enough for Mom’s purposes. The elephant (still in the room topically) was vetoed after considerable debate, a consultation with the best allergist in town for Monica and pricing of trailers and a stand-by veterinary assistant. Elton John and Celine Dion both politely turned down requests to sing “Sunrise, Sunset” (to be fair, EJ would have nailed it and Celine said she would only have time for one song and that she was contractually obligated to make it “My Heart Will Go On”). Mom ended up getting a local Strip headliner to come in before his own show, with a promise to host the out-of-towners’ post-rehearsal dinner evening at his showroom.

My suggestion to have sword swallowers, fire eaters and a complimentary tattoo booth was rejected as not “timeless enough,” although the swag bags in the guests’ hotel rooms did include temporary tattoos with Monica’s picture and the wedding’s date.

By the time all was said and done, our entertainer-to-guest ratio was better than the teacher-student one in most public school classrooms. And any kids in attendance would be able to tell their friends they’d held a live boa constrictor.

The people leading the Horah were all familiar from Dancing with the Stars or one of the topless shows in town —or both.

Dinner was salmon (spawned specifically for event catering) and free range, handfed chickens plucked by foreign exchange students in the UNLV Hotel Management program. The vegetarian option, agreed to reluctantly, consisted of produce flown in from countries better known for drug smugglers. It was all prepared by a first runner-up from Hell’s Kitchen.

Monica and me? We were just along for the ride. We didn’t tell anyone, but we’d gotten married three weeks earlier in a civil ceremony at 3 in the morning, Elvis presiding. This was Vegas, after all.

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Our local practitioners bring their own style, personality and talent to a wedding shoot. It can be a stressful calling, what

with equipment malfunctions, meddlesome guests and brides anxious for a wedding right out of Pinterest. But that perfect shot, on that perfect day, can make it all worthwhile, from a professional’s point of view. Unique and adventurous wedding destinations, the lost art of film photography and the most memorable moments of the shooters’ wedding worlds help sharpen the focus.

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Married Duos Voytek and Lynsey Swiderski of True Colors Photoworks and John Michael and Dalisa Cooper of AltF Photographers know a little bit about teamwork. In both pairs, the husband is the artist, and the wife is the “artist tamer,” as Dalisa puts it. From session bookings, quotes, contracts and day-of-event directing, the women handle the administrative details.

“Voytek is the creative, all-seeing eye behind the lens and the mastermind editor of all things,” Lynsey says. “Our passion is shooting outdoor weddings in photojournalistic style. We love catching that first look and a small, sweet exchange between newly married couples. We pride ourselves on capturing the raw emotion of the day rather than stiff, extravagant posing.”

The Coopers agree on their business philosophy: “We truly love what we do. To photograph real people experiencing an incredibly important, emotional day. Most brides and grooms aren’t photographed on a daily basis and certainly not professionally. They don’t understand the technical side of photographing well. So they listen and trust John during portraits, and ignore me documenting their sweetest moments.

It’s all part of the package that people count on us to deliver.”

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Collaboration has its moments, Dalisa says. “One time, I received a request for a ‘Zombie Apocalypse’ vow renewal. I’ll admit it, I was skeptical. How could something like this look good? But as soon as I brought it up to John Michael, he lit up and was completely on board. And, I’ll admit, it looked amazing. We also recently ‘shot’ a wedding in a gun store. Again, not my cup of tea, but JMC can tap into that alternative genre and maintain his art. Teamwork is essential; where I lack, JMC excels.”

AltF is known, locally and nationally, for its edgy, high-end, highfashion style and vision. “We are very true to our brand and style and know that we are not for everyone who walks through the door,” Dalisa says. “There are times that we do have to turn business away simply because it’s not a good match – I’d rather have a happy client and happy photographer (her husband raises his hand in agreement) at the end of the day than accept someone’s money that we cannot work with. It’s a two-way relationship.”

Both couples have different ideas for dream wedding and destination assignments.

“We’ve never shot an extravagant theme wedding, but a ‘Star Wars’ wedding would be amazing,” says Lynsey. “I’d love to shoot a wedding in Fiji or a land far away,” says Voytek, “right out of

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‘National Geographic.’ “ “I’d love to shoot James Bond getting married — to anyone,” offers John. Dalisa rolls her eyes. “I have no idea what that means, John. I would be interested in shooting musicians. I’d also love to shoot in Sydney. Not only is it beautiful but the couples there are progressive and embrace our style of photography. I plan to get there very soon,” she adds.

“Paris?” John suggests. “Or some Scottish castle.”

Adventurous ‘I Dos’ McKenzi Taylor of Taylored Photo Memories loves a challenge.

She also likes clients looking for something unusual. “A majority of my couples are looking for a simple adventure to show their love.

I’ve shot photos of a couple in the Grand Canyon, rock climbers in Red Rock Canyon, hiked to the top of Cathedral Peak in Mount Charleston with a couple. An adventure wedding is a great way to start the adventure of life together!”

Laid back McKenzi attracts a similar clientele, meaning no Bridezillas. “I love walking into the room and being one of the first to see the bride getting ready. It’s the calm before the storm. She’s usually relaxed, hanging out with her makeup and hair stylists and

bridesmaids. These are some of the best opportunities to capture candid, fun, well-lit photographs.”

It’s hard to tell who’s having the most fun when she goes to work.

“I have a thirst for adventure and new landscapes that will probably never be quenched,” McKenzi says. “I would hang off the side of a mountain in Yosemite; shoot amid the grassy prairies of South Dakota; join the hustle and bustle of an urban setting in downtown L.A.; camp out in the stark landscape of a remote desert.

I love any challenge I can get my hands on and want to do the best I can for the couple, no matter where or when they choose to exchange vows. I can also be flexible with timeframes and times of the week. Some of the best weddings are spontaneous and natural.”

Pinterest-Anon When Las Vegas photographer Tonya Harvey met clients Royi and Amy, she had no idea what would be involved in recreating the 250 images from a Pinterest wedding they had seen. “Some looked really amazing, and some were virtually impossible to pull off. But I tried every single one of them for Amy,” Tonya says with a laugh.

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Happy bride, happy photographer. No matter how the job gets pinned.

pixels which have a numbered value which represent a color for the most part. There are pros and cons to both. For weddings, I use both and draw the best from what they both have to offer.”

Digital vs. Film

ARGH!

Gaby Jeter, owner of Gaby J Photography, is old school when it comes to shutter science. “Digital cameras are great for many people, but definitely not for me,” he says. “I would try to emulate the ‘film’ look that I would get from my 35mm camera, and get so frustrated editing on Photoshop that I finally threw in the towel and got rid of my digital camera altogether. It’s truly the best decision I ever made. There’s just a beauty to film that digital lacks. There’s absolutely no comparison.” She also shoots wedding Polaroids.

John Michael of AltF knows all about the analog vs. digital argument.

“Digital quality is finally surpassing film quality,” he says, “but it’s about three to four times more work than film on the back end.”

The namesake of Brian Saculles Photography offers a more technical/ diverse explanation. “Traditional film has a buttery look that can’t truly be duplicated by digital. And what you get is what you get; it’s a test to the true talents of the photographer. Film photography emerges from millions of countless grains from emulsion, and digital comes from

Guests, moms, wedding parties, dead batteries and much more can turn a blissful wedding day into a photographer’s nightmare.

“The biggest frustration,” says McKenzi, “is when we are posing the couple and people stand over my shoulder and photograph them.

It’s a distraction, first of all; and, secondly, I am a paid professional at the event. So, please, allow me to do my job,” she pleads goodnaturedly.

Copy that, says Brian Saculles. “Guests sometimes bring their tablets to take pictures. Let’s spread the word: ‘Leave those at home, people!’ ” John Michael takes a more diplomatic tack. “Guests should remember that we are there for the bride and groom and are more than capable to capture what is needed. Other than that, they are part of the experience of the day and we respect that.”

Most photographers have learned the hard way that batteries die, just when you need them most.

“I was in the middle of a wedding photo session and I clicked the

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6 shutter several times and nothing!” Gaby recalls. “I desperately looked at my assistant for help, as if she’s a technician and can tell me what’s going on. Luckily, I brought another camera with me that saved my butt, and the couple had no idea. It was the battery, I later found out.”

Lynsey got the memo, too. “We generally both carry 12 batteries during each wedding, just for the flash. You have to be fast, nimble and ready if you need to change out a battery quickly.”

The Coopers agree: “Nothing is scary if you always have a backup, knock on wood. I’ve heard horror stories in the community, just one of many reasons we are so overly prepared.”

Final Words of Wisdom Weddings are stressful, so the photographers remind everyone to stop and smell the flowers.

John Michael Cooper of AltF puts it this way: “Don’t sweat the details on the wedding day; allow what’s going to happen to just happen. Never forget to enjoy the day.”

Gaby concurs. “Enjoy every second of it! Take it all in because

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By Christina M. Parmelee This month, DAVID was allowed a peek into the wedding albums of six influential Las Vegas residents. The memories and photos range from sweet to sad, unique to classic, and everything in between.

Producer David Saxe pays sweet homage to his late father; Performer Penn Jillette’s wife Emily goes back to wellthought-out spontaneity; Jewish Federation President, Elliot Karp describes how Rabbi observations shaped their marriage; Representative Dina Titus employs some liquid courage in a classic Vegas ceremony; Mayor Carolyn Goodman gets one last warning from dad; and The Smith Center President, Myron Martin marries his sweetheart in front of his entire family using high-tech means.

A special thank you to these six couples for letting DAVID, and our readers, into your special days.

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A Father’s Love Carolyn Goodman, current mayor of Las Vegas, and Oscar Goodman, former mayor of Las Vegas, author and entrepreneur, were wed June 6, 1962.

“The last words my father said to me before he walked me down the aisle were ‘you don’t have to go through with this.’

To keep me from marrying him they bribed me – unlimited train fare to see him in Philadelphia, free phone calls and admission to secretarial school. I actually proposed to Oscar.

He was jealous about another guy and, annoyed; I told him, ‘I’d marry if you’d just ask!’ This was January of 1961. In February, he came to ask my dad for my hand in marriage.

He couldn’t light his cigarette he was shaking so badly, so my mom lit it for him. She was a sweetheart. The men went into the den and I snuck into the adjoining bathroom to listen.

Dad asked if Oscar would keep me in the lifestyle I’d become accustomed. Oscar said that I would actually be supporting him while he went to law school. Dad said, ‘I will kick your ass from here to 76th Street if you don’t keep my daughter in the lifestyle she’s become accustomed.’ We lived on 75th Street. ‘If you’re big enough,’ Oscar said. Luckily, peace was made and it all worked out — eventually.”

— Carolyn Goodman, May 16, 2013

Only in Vegas Dina Titus, member of Congress from Nevada’s 3rd District, and professor Thomas Clayton Wright were wed Dec. 29, 1979.

“Tom and I met 36 years ago at UNLV, where he was in the history department and I was in political science; we bridged the gap, so to speak, between the disciplines. Two years later, we decided to get married before leaving for a nine-month sabbatical/honeymoon in Sevilla (Spain), where Tom was doing research in the Archivos de Los Indios. With my sister Rho and Tom’s student and best friend Steve Tice as witnesses, we went downtown to make it official. After several 50-cent shots of Courvoisier at the Horseshoe for courage, we stood in line at the Office of Civil Marriages, where a short service was conducted by Mr. Curtis Eggers.

Mr. Eggers appeared to be drinking scotch from a coffee cup during the proceedings, but managed to admonish us nonetheless that marriage was a sober occasion. Tom laughed; I cried; and my mother never forgave me. We had lunch afterwards at El Sombrero, in District 1, and the rest is history.”

— Dina Titus, May 21, 2013

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Fire & Heart Elliot Karp, president and CEO of The Jewish Federation of Las Vegas, and Sharon were married June 1, 1980.

“While we have many wonderful memories, including being together with our friends and family, a scrumptious New York-style wedding party and dancing until our feet gave out … the most important memory was what Rabbi Moshe Edelman, our very close friend, said when he officiated at our beautiful wedding ceremony. Rabbi Edelman took the first letters of our Hebrew names, Aleph for Aitan and Shin for Shoshana, which spells Aish or fire. He also took our middle names Lamed for Leah and Bet for Baruch, which spells Lev or heart. Under the chuppah he gave a short Drash (sermon) that our married lives together should be like a fire and a heart; to be passionate and compassionate for one another, for our families, for our faith, for our people and for our community.”

— Elliot Karp, May 17, 2013

Love On-Line Penn Jillette, illusionist, comedian and musician and Emily Zolten were wed November 24, 2004.

“Penn and I got married at the Viva Las Vegas Wedding Chapel by Reverend Bob (Elvis). We definitely didn’t want anything religious or traditional. We basically walked in, with no appointment, and said I do 27 minutes later. We both got on the phone and text messaged, emailed everyone we could that we were getting married on the Internet shortly. The ceremony was eight minutes long. It may sound spontaneous, but it was completely planned. I was pregnant with our daughter at the time and we’d already drawn up a pre-nup. We just knew we wanted to spend our lives together and it was time to make it legal. After the ceremony, we grabbed a bite at Boston Pizza and walked down the Strip like tourists, posing for pictures and having a blast.”

— Emily Jillette, May 22, 2013

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Numerology and Technology Myron Martin, president and CEO of The Smith Center, and Dana Rogers were wed April 4, 2000.

“Dana and I met when we were both judging the Miss Texas pageant. I’d been a Miss America judge and she was a former Miss Texas. It was July 4, 1999, and we connected right away. We both lived in Las Vegas, but had never met.

We decided to take things slow and see where we were in six months. On Jan. 4 we went for a little trip to wine country and I proposed — six months later to the day. Neither of us wanted a big wedding; we had both been married once before and our family members were scattered all over the country. I met the owner of Little Chapel of the Flowers, who told me about a new webcam technology. We thought that it would be great to have all our friends and families log on to watch rather than travel to Las Vegas. We shipped specially labeled champagne bottles and proposed a toast at the end of the ceremony. It was especially great for my mother in Houston, who was ill and bed-ridden. We were married April 4, 2000, at 4:44 p.m. with her children, William and Amelia, as guests. We never imagined that we’d have a chapel wedding in Vegas, but it just worked out perfectly, especially for my mom.”

— Myron Martin, May 17, 2013

Happy Father’s Day, Dick Saxe (Aug. 27, 1932 – Nov. 22, 2002) David Saxe, Las Vegas native and producer of 15 current shows, and Alana, owner of Saxe Orthodontics, were wed Dec. 7, 1996.

“My most memorable wedding moment was when my dad, Dick Saxe, played our first dance on his saxophone at the reception. The song was ‘Stardust’ by Hoagy Carmichael made famous by Nat King Cole. He was so happy he was crying while playing. I had never seen him cry, so I started to cry, then my new wife Alana cried. It was an emotional moment. I didn’t quite understand what all the fuss was about until years later when I had kids. Camden, 11, Simone, 8, and Tristan, 5, and just the thought of someday giving one of them away at a wedding makes me an emotional mess. I don’t know how my dad got one note out!

My dad passed away in 2002 from ALS (Lou Gehrig’s disease), and I only have a dozen or so photos left of him.

That is what makes this photo so special to me.”

— David Saxe, May 13, 2013

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RUVO: One day I was talking with a talented physician friend of mine and he said, “I bet Lou has Alzheimer’s.” He told me the leading expert was Dr. Leon Thal in San Diego. So I took my dad to San Diego, and Dr. Thal confirmed dad had Alzheimer’s.

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My dad died in 1994. But the good news for me, and the bad news for the disease, is that I struck up a relationship with Dr. Thal. He has been my guiding light and directed me to where we are today. But there have been others, such as longtime friend Wolfgang Puck, whose mother also had Alzheimer’s.

DAVID: What role has Wolfgang Puck played?

RUVO: Before Spago opened at The Forum Shops, Tom Kaplan and some of Spago’s crew would have dinner at the Venetian, a restaurant my parents owned and operated for 40 years; and they got to know my father. After Spago opened, it became one of our favorite restaurants. On the one-year anniversary of my father’s passing, some friends of mine and my father’s decided to honor him with a dinner at Spago, doing what he loved to do, enjoy great wine and wonderful food. There were about 35-40 people.

While we were telling Lou Ruvo stories, my long-time, dear friend John Paul DeJoria dropped in. He asked why we were there, and I told him it was the anniversary of my dad’s passing. He said, “Lou died from Alzheimer’s.

I’d like to donate $5,000.” Although this was a tribute to my father, not a fundraiser, by the end of the evening, others had contributed, and we had approximately $35,000. I said, “Wolf, why don’t we do it again as a real fundraiser?” So in September 1996, we hosted our first Keep Memory Alive fundraiser at Spago, with Wolf and his two partners, Tom Kaplan and David Robins.

The journey from that early dinner to the

enormous success that Keep Memory Alive has enjoyed has, in great part, been due to those three men. Wolfgang recently launched three wines that honor his mother, who died from Alzheimer’s in 2004. A portion of the proceeds benefits Keep Memory Alive.

DAVID: Why did you decide to go it alone rather than become involved in existing Alzheimer’s programs?

RUVO: Many organizations had too many layers of bureaucracy for me. In business, I’ve always been a hands-on manager, had ideas I wanted implemented and wanted to do it quickly. I believed we could develop programs faster if we had our own entity. This was the inception of Keep Memory Alive.

DAVID: Why did you choose Frank Gehry to design the center?

RUVO: I wanted to have a building that would use celebrity architecture in the same way celebrity chefs enhance restaurants. I believed a celebrity architect would bring attention to our mission. And has it ever! Frank Gehry’s genius has allowed me to partner with the Cleveland Clinic and bring to Las Vegas some of the greatest neurologists in the world.

DAVID: How did Cleveland Clinic become involved?

RUVO: Dr. Toby Cosgrove, president and CEO of the Cleveland Clinic, was in Las Vegas looking for expansion opportunities out West.

We met; and when he saw the building, and we talked about my dreams, before long we were finishing one another’s sentences. Dr. Cosgrove built the cardiology department at the Cleveland Clinic into the number one cardiology program in America, if not the world. He anticipated the coming tsunami of brain health and wanted to do for brain health what he did for cardiovascular disease.

They selected their top people and now have expanded beyond Alzheimer’s to include Parkinson’s, Huntington’s, ALS and multiple sclerosis, and established one of the most innovative caregiver programs.

DAVID: What are your goals for the Ruvo Center?

RUVO: Ultimately, of course, I want to find a cure for Alzheimer’s. However, until that time I want to make sure that my family, friends and neighbors in Nevada, even people throughout the world, never experience the ignorance about the disease that I encountered regarding my father. - ML

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