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h a v eo n l ys l i p p e da wa yi n t ot h en e x tr o o m. No t h i n gh a sh a p p e n e d . Ev e r y t h i n gr e ma i n s e x a c t l ya si twa s . Ia mI , a n dy o ua r ey o u , a n dt h eo l dl i f et h a twel i v e ds of o n d l yt o g e t h e ri su n t o u c h e d , u n c h a n g e d . Wh a t e v e r wewe r et oe a c ho t h e r , t h a twea r es t i l l . Ca l l meb yt h eo l df a mi l i a rn a me . Sp e a ko fmei n t h ee a s ywa ywh i c hy o ua l wa y su s e d .Pu t n od i f f e r e n c ei n t oy o u rt o n e . We a rn of o r c e d a i ro fs o l e mn i t yo rs o r r o w. La u g ha swe a l wa y sl a u g h e da tt h el i t t l ej o k e st h a twee n j o y e dt o g e t h e r . Pl a y , s mi l e , t h i n ko fme , p r a y f o rme . Le tmyn a meb ee v e rt h eh o u s e h o l d wo r dt h a ti ta l wa y swa s . Le ti tb es p o k e n wi t h o u ta ne f f o r t , wi t h o u tt h eg h o s to fa s h a d o wu p o ni t . Li f eme a n sa l lt h a ti te v e r me a n t . I ti st h es a mea si te v e rwa s . Th e r ei sa b s o l u t ea n du n b r o k e nc o n t i n u i t y . Wha ti st h i sd e a t hb u tan e g l i g i b l ea c c i d e n t ? Whys h o u l dIb eo u to fmi n db e c a u s eIa m o u to fs i g h t ?Ia mb u twa i t i n gf o ry o u , f o ra n i n t e r v a l , s o me wh e r ev e r yn e a r , j u s tr o u n d t h ec o r n e r . Al li swe l l . No t h i n gi sh u r t ; n o t h i n gi sl o s t . On eb r i e fmo me n ta n da l l wi l lb ea si twa sb e f o r e . Ho wwes h a l ll a u g h a tt h et r o u b l eo fp a r t i n gwh e nweme e t a g a i n ! •De d i c a t i o nf r o mHe r ma( s i s t e r )
MEMORI ESOFWI NNI FREDMCF ARLANE " Sh ewa ss os p e c i a l . In e v e rme ts o me o n ewh oc a r e sa b o u te v e r y t h i n gs h e d o e sb u tGo dk n o wsb e s t . Vi l l el o v e dh e rc h u r c h , h e rGo da n dh e rf a mi l y . Iwi l lmi s sh e rs ov e r ymu c h . " Va u g h n( h u s b a n d ) “ Su c hABEAUTI FULSPI RI T” e rFRI ENDSI NBARBADOS. REMEMBEREDBYh “ Asac h i l dIr e me mb e rh o ws h eu s et oc o mbmyh a i ra n dp r e s si tb u th a dt o h i d ei tf r o mp a p a …a n dh o ws h eu s et oc l e a na n ds h i n et h ef l o o rs omu c h t h a ty o uc o u l ds l i d eo ni t . Ia mg o i n gt omi s sh e r . ” -Da d l a n y( s i s t e r ) " Iwi l ln e v e rf o r g e th e rl a s two r d st ome , “ Th es k yi st h el i mi t , y o uc a nd oi t , g i r l , p r o u do fy o u . ”Sh ewi l la l wa y sb ei no u rh e a r t s . Sl e e pwe l li ns we e t p a r a d i s e . " -Ab b y&J a me l i a( n i e c e s ) "Ir e me mb e rwh e nwewo u l ds i g nu pf o rs we e p s t a k e si nt h eSu n d a yp a p e r s a n dt h a tt i mewef i n a l l ywo n ;wh e ns h et a u g h tmeh o wt oc o o kf o rt h ef i r s t t i me ;wh e ne v e r yCh r i s t ma si twa sa l wa y san i g h t i ef o rmyg i f t ;wh e nwe wo u l ds i ti nt h er o o msl a t ea tn i g h tt a l k i n ga b o u ta n ya n de v e r yt h i n g , a n dwh oc a nf o r g e th e rma k i n gd r o p s …Sh ei mp a c t e dmyl i f ef r o mac h i l d u n t i lwo ma n h o o di ns u c hap r o f o u n dwa y . He a v e ng a i n e da na n g e lb u tt h eme mo r i e sweh o l dwi l lf o r e v e rb ei nmy h e a r t ! Imi s sh e rl i k ec r a z y . " Di a n aa k aSu b b i e( n i e c e )
" Herli fewasablessi ng, hermemoryatreasure. Shei sloved beyond words, and mi ssed beyond measure. "
" Mo mmy . "I ' l ln e ve rs a yt ha twor da ga i na ndge tar e s pons ef r omyou. Mo mmy . Th ewoma nt ha tha sbe e nwi t hmes i nc eda yoneofmyl i f e . Mo mmy .Myb i gge s t , c r a z i e s t , l oude s tc he e r l e a de r . Mo mmy .MyMommy . Wor dswi l lne ve rbee nought oe xpl a i nhowmuc h o v ea n da p p r e c i a t eyous t a ndi ngwi t hmet hr ought hi c ka ndt hi n, s i c kne s sa n dhe a l t h. Yo uwe r e Il a l wa y sj u s tap h onec a l la wa yt ol e ndal i s t e ni nge a rt owha t e ve ri twa sIwa nt e dt os h a r e :my d r e a ms ,g o a l s ,myma nyc onc e r nsa boutl i f e . Thr o ugha l lt hepa i n,hur t s ,a nddi s a ppo i n t me n t s , y o uwe r ewi t hme . Al wa ysc ons ol i ng, a dvi s i ng, pr a yi ng. Li f ewi l l bede f i ni t e l ybed i f f i c u l t wi t h o u ty o u . Yo uwe r et h eo n ewhot a ughtmehowt opr a y .Ir e me mbe rmyf i r s te xpe r i e nc eofah u r r i c a n e , a n da sIs t o o db yt hewi ndows t a r i ngi nt ot h ebl a c kne s soft heni ght ,t hene ve re ndi ngr a i nd r o p s a n dt h ep o we r f ulwhoos hi ngoft hewi nd,Is t a r t e dc r yi ng.Iwa st e r r i f i e d.Mommyc a met ot h e r e s c u e ! Yo ut o o kmyha nda ndwekne l ta tt hebe ds i dea ndyoupr a ye dwi t hme . Ir e me mb e rc a l l i ngyoua toneoft hel owe s tpoi nt si nmyl i f ea ndpour e dmyhe a r toutt oy o ui n t e a r s . Yo ul i s t e n e d, a ndt he npr a ye dwi t hme . I ns t a nt l y , t hes t or ma r oundmec a l me d. Mo mmyt o t h er e s c u eo n c emor e ! o u l da l wa y sc ountonyout obet he r ef ormea ndIwa sa l wa ysc onf i de ntt ha tyouwo u l db e Ic t h e r ef o rmewh e ne ve rIne e de dyou. Iha ve n' te xa c t l y f i g u r e do u th o wIwi l ldol i f ewi t houtyou, buta syoua l wa yss a i d, " Ka yl a , don' twor r yy ou r s e l f , Go dwi l lma k eawa youtofnowa y . Hei st heGodwhos pe c i a l i z e si nt hei mpos s i bl e . Ic o n t i n u e t os t a n db yt h o s ewor ds . Mo mmy ,I ' mb e yondpr oudt oha veha dyoua smymot he r . Youwe r eaf i ght e ra ndI ' v ea l wa y s s a i dy o uh a v et h es pi r i tofal i one s s . I ' vea l wa ysa dmi r e dyourt e na c i t y . o n c u rwi t haq uot ef r omAbr a ha mLi nc ol n, " Al l t ha t Ia m, orwi l l e ve rhopet ob e , Io wet omy Ic a n g e lmo t h e r . " Th a n ky o ua n ds e eyous oon. •Mi c h a l l i a( d a u ght e r )
MEMORI ESOFWI NNI FREDMCF ARLANE " Asac h i l dIa bs ol ut e l yde t e s t e dwa s hi ngdi s he s .Vi l l ec omma nde dmet odot hed i s h e s , lt o l dh e rlwoul d not .Shes t oppe da r gui ngwi t hmea ndma depor r i dgef orbr e a k f a s t ( myf a v o r i t eofc our s e ) . Shewa s he dt hedi s he sdut i f u l l yt he ns e r ve dmypor r i dgei nab i g e n a me lc u p .I twa sgoodt ot hel a s tbi t ewhe nt omyhor r ort he r ewa sabi gr oa c hi nt h e b o t t o mo ft h ec up. AsIs c r e a me da ndc a r r i e dons hec a l ml ys mi l e da nds a i d"Tha twi l l t e a c hy o un o tt obef r e s h. ” -Fu nMe mo r yf r omDe l r os e( s i s t e r )
" Au n t i eVi l l e ,whe ne ve rIs e eyou,I ’ ma l wa yse xc i t e d. Youwe r eavi br a nt ,out s po k e n , c a r i n g , l o v i n g , a ndave r yf unpe r s ont obea r ound. Thi sbe a ut i f ul woma n, i ns i dea ndo u t , wa sn o to n l yawonde r f ulAunt i ebuta not he rmot he rt ome .Youga vemet hen a me ‘ Ab b y ’a n dg a vemys i s t e rJ a me l i a‘ J a mJ a m’whi c hwewi l lne ve rf or ge t . l wa y ss p e n de ve r yhol i da yi nt hec ount r ywi t hyouwhe nI ’ mt he r e . Youwoul dc o o k , Ia wa s h ,a n dt i d yt hehous e .Shea l wa ysl i ke st os e ehe re nvi r onme ntc l e a na ndt i dy .I fn o t s o ,“ Ka l i aa n dAbbyunot i dyupba c kt hepl a c e ,t e kupunodol l y‘ nmi nemit hr o u g h t h e mo u t s i d e . ” MyAu n twa sge nui nea nds uppor t i ve .Shewi l la t t e ndf une r a l s ,pa r t i e sorga t he r i n gt o g i v eh e rs u p p or t .Shewa sawonde r f ulmot he rt ohe ronl yda ught e ra ndl a i das t r o n g f o u n d a t i o nf o rhe r . He rbe a ut i f uls pi r i twi l ll i veont hr oughKa l i a , ” b y( n i e c e ) -Ab ” Th ef i r s tt i meweme twa si n4t hgr a de Wema d ei tt h r oughgr a dua t i on Wea d v a n c e d Di s t a n c ea n dt i mepl a ye dt une si noure a r swer e di s c ove r e d a n dr e u n i t e d . Gr e a tmo me n t swes ha r e d Wen e v e rq u a r r e lorf i ght Ia ml o s tf o rwor ds Do n ' tk n o wwha tt os a y Fe e l i n gn u mb ne s sf l oa t i nga r oundmymi nd Fr o mc h i l d h o odt of ul l ygr ownwoma nhoods omuc hme mor i e snof a di ngout ! Ou rl a s tme e t i nga tt hel i br a r y , he rf i r s tl i ne . . . . Fl e t c he rwa hagwa nyugud? Wec h a t t e dt h e nwes a i dgoodbye s . No wa mmi s s i nge ve r yt hi ngt ha ts pe l lWi ni f r e da kaVi l l eMa c k yMc Fa r l a ne . -Pa u l i n eFl e t c he r( f r i e nd)
Or de rOfSe r vi c e s 1.Ol ovet ha twi l tnotl e tmego, Ir e s tmywe a r ys ouli nt he e ; Igi vet he eba c kt hel i f eIowe , Tha ti nt hi neoc e a nde pt hsi t sf l ow Ma yr i c he r ,f ul l e rbe .
2.Ol i ghtt ha tf ol l owe s ta l lmywa y , Iyi e l dmyf l i c ke r i ngt or c ht ot he e ; Myhe a r tr e s t or e si t sbor r owe dr a y , Tha ti nt hys uns hi ne ’ sbl a z ei t sda y Ma ybr i ght e r ,f a i r e rbe .
3 , Oj o yt h a ts e e k e s tmet h r o u g hp a i n , Ic a n n o tc l o s emyh e a r tt ot h e e ; It r a c et h er a i n b o wt h r o u g ht h er a i n , An df e e lt h ep r o mi s ei sn o tv a i n Th a tmo r ns h a l lt e a r l e s sb e .
4 . Oc r o s st h a tl i f t e s tu pmyh e a d , Id a r en o ta s kt of l yf r o mt h e e ; Il a yi nd u s tl i f e ’ sg l o r yd e a d , An df r o mt h eg r o u n dt h e r eb l o s s o msr e d Li f et h a ts h a l le n d l e s sb e .
PRAYER STATEMENTOFPURPOSE:
REV. ATHLONEHARRI SON
TRI BUTESANDSONG Wa r s o pMe t h o d i s tCh u r c h -
Ul s t e rSp r i n gCi r c u i to fBa p t i s tCh u r c h e s Mr s . He l e n aAn d e r s o n Ma y n e , Ch a i r ma n , J a me sEd wa r d sMe t h o d i s tBa s i cSc h o o l Dr . So n i aRe i d Uk a l a( Do c t o r&Fr i e n d ) Da n i e lSma l l( Fr i e n d ) Fa mi l yMe mb e r s OFFERATORYHYMN: ANDCANI TBE
1 . An dc a ni tb et h a tIs h o u l dg a i n Ani n t ' r e s ti nt h eSa v i o r ' sb l o o d ? Di e dHef o rme , wh oc a u s e dHi sp a i n ? Forme , wh oHi mt od e a t hp u r s u e d ? Ama z i n gl o v e !h o wc a ni tb e Th a tTh o u , myGo d , s h o u l dd i ef o rme !
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2 . Ti smy s t e r ya l l !Th eI mmo r t a ld i e s ! Wh oc a ne x p l o r eHi ss t r a ng ed e s i g n ? I nv a i nt h ef i r s t b o r ns e r a p ht r i e s Tos o u n dt h ed e p t h so fl o v ed i v i n e ! ' Ti sme r c ya l l !l e te a r t ha d o r e , Le ta n g e lmi n d si n q u i r en omo r e .
Re f r a i n : Ama z i n gl o v e !h o wc a ni tb e Th a tTh o u , myGo d , s h o u l dd i ef o rme ! 3 . Hel e f tHi sFa t h e r ' st h r o n ea b o v e , Sof r e e , s oi n f i n i t eHi sg r a c e ; Emp t i e dHi ms e l fo fa l lb u tl o v e , An db l e df o rAd a m' sh e l p l e s sr a c e ; sme r c ya l l , i mme n s ea n df r e e ; 'Ti For , OmyGo d , i tf o u n do u tme .
4 . Noc o n d e mn a t i o nn o wId r e a d ; J e s u s , a n da l li nHi mi smi n e ! Al i v ei nHi m, myl i v i n gHe a d , An dc l o t h e di nr i g h t e o u s n e s sd i v i n e , Bo l dIa p p r o a c ht h ' e t e r n a lt h r o n e , An dc l a i mt h ec r o wn , t h r o u g hChr i s tmyo wn .
REMEMBERANCE:AUDI OVI SUALPRESENTATI ON 1 STLESSONPSALM 1 2 1-ARDI THMCF ARLANE-SANDS 2 NDLESSON ROMANS8-MI CHALLI A&DI ANA GOSPEL( Al ls t a n d )STJ OHN4V1 1 6-GAVI NBENNETT
SELECTI ON:CHURCHCHOI R SON WORDSOFCOMFORT:REVHARRI THEAPOSTLESCREED PRAYERFORTHEBEREAVEDF AMI LY:REVSTEWART PRAYEROFTHANKSGI VI NG COMMENDATI ON( ALLSTAND) BENEDI CTI ON RECESSI ONALHYMN:IKNOW WHOM IHAVEBELI EVED 1 . Ik n o wn o twh yGo d ’ swo n d r o u s g r a c e TomeHeh a t hma d ek n o wn , No rwh y , u n wo r t h y , Ch r i s ti nl o v e Re d e e me dmef o rHi so wn . Re f r a i n : Bu t“ Ik n o wWh o mIh a v eb e l i e v e d , An da mp e r s u a d e dt h a tHei sa b l e Tok e e pt h a twh i c hI ’ v ec o mmi t t e d Un t oHi ma g a i n s tt h a td a y . ” 2 . Ik n o wn o th o wt h i ss a v i n gf a i t h TomeHed i di mp a r t , No rh o wb e l i e v i n gi nHi sWo r d Wr o u g h tp e a c ewi t h i nmyh e a r t .
3 . Ik n o wn o th o wt h eSp i r i tmo v e s , Co n v i n c i n gme no fs i n , Re v e a l i n gJ e s u st h r o u g ht h eWo r d , Cr e a t i n gf a i t hi nHi m. 4 . Ik n o wn o twh a to fg o o do ri l l Ma yb er e s e r v e df o rme , Ofwe a r ywa y so rg o l d e nd a y s , Be f o r eHi sf a c eIs e e . 5 . Ik n o wn o twh e nmyLo r dma y c o me , Atn i g h to rn o o n d a yf a i r , No ri fIwa l kt h ev a l ewi t hHi m, Orme e tHi mi nt h ea i r .