Darling Magazine Wimbledon Sept-Oct 2016

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Delizioso!

Mimmo’s Aromatica

Boogie Nights Fitness with Shelly

Faircatch

Educating our small fry

Heaven Senti

Debbie Knight’s new venture

The Talk Of The Town Lucy’s language courses

Autumn Gardens

With Andrew Fisher Tomlin

Tracksuits & Tiger Moms

Back to school with Kate Greenhalgh

SPECIAL FEATURE

Arthur Road

Get Connected • Athena’s Julie Eltham • Our best local networks • The Really Helpful Club • Joining the Chamber

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editor’s letter Dear Darling Reader, There’s a wonderful African proverb that says “If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go with others”. I’ve been reflecting on this as autumn approaches, signalling the end of the long social summer. As the new school year starts and we get back into work mode, I realise that it’s my circle of friends and acquaintances in the Wimbledon community that motivates me and makes it all worthwhile.

Cover Girl Julie Eltham Photo: Desi Fontaine Photography

Publisher Darling Magazine UK Karine Torr Editor Karine Torr 020 8739 0059 Advertising 07930 396356 Email info@darlingmagazine.co.uk Contributors Kate Greenhalgh Paul Mendelson Photography Taylor Torr 07414 865272 Darling Cobham & Esher Philippa Hennessy 07772 633339 Darling Kingston Marja-Leena Toseland 07802 949836 Design Director Hermina Williams design@herminawilliams.com Printer Aquatint scott@aquatint.co.uk Distribution info@3colours.co.uk Whilst every care has been taken to ensure that the data in this publication is accurate, neither the publisher nor its editorial contributors can accept, and hereby disclaim, any liability to any party to loss or damage caused by errors or omissions resulting from negligence, accident or any other cause.

Darling Magazine does not officially endorse any advertising material included within this publication. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in any retrieval system, or transmitted in any form – electronic, recording or otherwise, without prior permission from the publisher.

This issue is dedicated to the power of networking – from the inspiring Julie Eltham (cover) to the excellent local networks featured on pages 5 and 17 and how vital their work is in supporting local businesses through word-ofmouth and personal recommendations.

So whether it’s beauty, home, education, health or the arts, every contributor to this Autumn Darling, is a shining example of how great connectors keeps our Wimbledon business community alive and thriving.

Until next time, go far!

Karine Torr Editor | info@darlingmagazine.co.uk For franchise enquiries in other areas please email us.

WIMBLEDON BOOKFEST

29th September – 9th October

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MERTON ARTS FESTIVAL

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Cover girl Julie Eltham, queen of networking Arthur Road, special feature Charity begins at home for David Lloyd Club Say ciao! Aromatica on Leopold Rd Creative joy – why your kids need art Lucy Martin gets an A* for languages Scent of a Woman – Debbie Knight’s opening The who’s who of local networking The Really Helpful Club’s autumn highlights It’s Showtime folks – Wimbledon Bookfest is back!

Testing your bridge with Paul Mendelson Tip top tips for kids’ teeth Best party advice from Andy at Barrel & Cask Cook’s Corner in the best English tradition Autumn gardening with Andrew Fisher Tomlin On the Scene with Darling’s paparazzi Wimbledon’s ‘What’s Hot & What’s Not’ 24 hour good looks with Zara’s semi-permanent makeup Enjoy an Indian summer at Absolute Abode Keeping it in the family with Hart Brown Solicitors Ronnie rolls out the red carpet Keep snug this winter with Haven Construction No doom & gloom here, say Andrew Scott Robertson Charity Gala Ball – Paul Strank knows how to throw one Exercising your right! A fun night out with Shelly Palmer Fishing for compliments. Faircatch is the best...

The season for rekindling relationships What’s On in the Darling Diary Hotspots for Darling collections Kate at The Gate

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Serial Entrepreneur Julie Eltham Chats to Darling Editor Karine Torr about a life of business and networking

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moved to Wimbledon when I was 2 years old. I have such wonderful memories growing up and working here and I’m so lucky to have many friends and business connections in the area.

Wimbledon was the place that sparked my career choices too - my first job from leaving school at 17 was for a company in Strathmore Road and it was Wimbledon Park where I first learnt about sales and marketing for my next job in the cosmetics Wimbledon was my industry. But I knew ‘stomping ground’ I had to have my own when I was a (very) business and took the lively child and plunge - starting up a teenager - I can gift delivery company remember going out called Present Surprise on Friday nights to where we supplied Wimbledon Public hampers, flowers, gifts, Hall and coming back did personal shopping - late! As a young adult and arranged private I saved and saved to events for many people buy my first house in – including some very Julie celebrating 10 years as an Athena Director Colliers Wood at 21 Photo Copyright Desi Fontaine Photography famous clients! I then years old, got married got an offer to buy in Morden Registry Office and held the the business, so I sold up and started my next reception at the local Italian restaurant - Dolce business - a cleaning company called Bizzy Vita.

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My daughters were both born in Wimbledon and were christened at Christ Church in Colliers Wood. Now in their twenties, my eldest Francesca is a Raw Vegan Chef with her own company Moody Mango in Hackney, and my youngest Abigail is training to be a police officer in Portsmouth. Both my girls still love coming back to Wimbledon to see old friends and what’s changed.

A few years in and still in Wimbledon, I went to an Athena Women’s Networking Meeting and was amazed by the concept of women’s business networking. I knew I wanted to do this as a business, so I quickly sold Bizzy Bees and bought the franchise for the local area.

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ladies and the group has grown from strength to strength.

The support and connections made possible by these business meetings is invaluable - there’s nothing stronger than trust and word of mouth in a group that meets monthly.

Women in Wimbledon have the opportunity to promote themselves whether you have an idea, you’re a start up, or you want to become a plc. Local ladies always welcome as visitors!

contemporary look - and teach furniture painting workshops!

So we’re doing something for the environment by keeping furniture in families for years to come. Through Athena Wimbledon I met Debbie Blott of the Décor Café and teach at the Décor Café - our next workshop is Saturday, 24th September.

We have a house in Wimbledon and we’re also very lucky that we can spend time in our East Sussex flat by the sea, where my parents took me for holidays every year. Memories! I am so thankful for Wimbledon and the opportunities and lifelong friendships that the town has given me.

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Within 12 months I grew the business to 7 groups over South West London and Surrey.

Last year I made the decision to sell 3 groups, keeping 4 groups in Wimbledon, Putney, Balham and Streatham. This enabled me to start a new business with my husband called Cribb & Hammer. As a master carpenter, Con repairs and restores furniture and crafts bespoke storage solutions. Some years ago I trained on paints and paint effects and now I repaint clients’ furniture to a more

Please contact me about joining Athena at julie.eltham@theathenanetwork.com If you need repairing, restoring and upcycling furniture services, please contact me at cribbandhammer.co.uk

Hair Natulique now available at Thom Kirby We only use certified organic ingredients in all of our colours and provide the professional hair care industry with a safe and sustainable alternative, With less chemicals and better functionality.

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ARTHUR ROAD For Wimbledon’s best kept secrets BOUNCE GYM ‘Bounce is a unique 10,000 sq. ft. performance training gym.

Born in the belief that everyone should have access to the tools only previously available to the professional athlete, we take pride in welcoming all ages and abilities into a friendly and professional atmosphere. There is no joining fee, flexible memberships, personal training and a fully equipped injury clinic. mybounce.co.uk

NABBD Not Another Boring Bridesmaid Dress Having set up home in Wimbledon Park for nearly 3 years, Nabbd has now firmly established itself as the place to go for the largest and most diverse selection of bridesmaid dresses in the UK. Our mission is simple: Beautiful, high quality dresses from a selection of renowned designers from all over the world. Go and see their collection and save yourself from yet Another Boring Bridesmaid Dress! nabbd.co.uk

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THE TENNIS GALLERY WIMBLEDON Specialises in Wimbledon tennis art, books and memorabilia, and can provide original gifts for birthdays, anniversaries and special occasions. Stock includes Wimbledon Championships original posters for each year from 1987 to 2016, Wimbledon Official Programmes dating back as far as the 1920s and over 4000 tennis books. tennisgallerywimbledon.com

JAMES BARBERS Situated next door to Wimbledon Park station is “James”, a friendly welcoming barbers, established in 2008. James was born in South West London and prides himself on his great customer service. He has built a very good reputation with local schools, Kings College Wimbledon, Bishop Gilpin, Wimbledon Park Primary, The Hall School and many more. Open 7 days a week with no appointment necessary. jamesbarbers.co.uk

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PARK VINTNERS We are a well-established specialist wine shop, trading since 2010, with a focus on sourcing wines with personality: exciting, lipsmacking and palate-tingling wines at a fair price. Often these wines come from smaller growers who are passionate and very involved with their winemaking – no supermarket wines here. We can help with food matching, tastings, wine courses – just say the word! parkvintners.co.uk

THOM KIRBY HAIR Arriving in Arthur Road two years ago Victoria and David were delighted to be able to bring their hairdressing skills to an established, vibrant area. Having had a 20 year professional relationship they both felt the time was right to create a customer friendly salon environment and Wimbledon Park was their number one choice to welcome clients old and new. thomkirbyhair.com

D&S TAILORS AND DRY CLEANERS Friendly owner, Manuel took over D&S two years ago. After being in the business for over 30 years as a tailor, he prides himself on his personal customer service. He offers a full range of dry cleaning, laundry and shirt services, as well as ladies and gentlemen’s alterations with a fitting room on the premises.

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NEIL NORTON DESIGN Neil Norton Design designs and manufactures bespoke kitchens, furniture and living spaces. Our kitchens and furniture are made in SW19 at our factory, where we combine expert craftsmanship with innovative technology, allowing us to offer a limitless choice of styles, materials, colours and finishes.

This level of creative freedom ensures each project is truly special and unique. neilnortondesign.com

INDIGO PROJECTS We are a boutique construction company specialising in design and building high-end, luxury developments as well as offering refurbishment services. A team of experienced project managers and craftsmen work closely with local architects, planning and development experts and designers to ensure that every aspect of a build runs smoothly and clients’ expectations are achieved. indigo-projects.co.uk

WAG N GO DOG BOUTIQUE & SPA We are a pet culture company providing healthy dog food & treats and truly well designed, stylish accessories and gifts that get noticed. Knowledgeable staff, exceptional dog walks, and pet care will let your pet have the most fun without you. Our grooming services keeps your pet’s best interest in mind - no cages and a simple online booking reservation system. wagngo.com

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Raynes Park Leading The Way!

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e are very pleased to say that the British Heart Foundation has been chosen as our Club Charity for the year. We have teamed up with the UK’s leading heart charity, which is tremendously fighting heart disease through world class research.

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David Lloyd Clubs running events and raising money for such a worthwhile charity.

Our commitment is to raise £200,000 over the course of two years. A total of £96,278.70 has already been raised. David Lloyd Raynes Park has made fantastic efforts in contribution to our Club charity. We have already hosted many events for The British Heart Foundation and it’s been great to see so many of our members and local community getting involved.

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Raynes Park has been hosting endless events over the past 7 months, including our Zumbathon, Sufferfest Spins, Party in the Park and much, much more! We are proud and thankful to be the leading Club having raised a total of £4,195.95 half way through the year. davidlloyd.co.uk/raynespark 020 8543 8020

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Finding Mimmo A touch of Puglia on Leopold Road

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lmost a decade ago, Mimmo Coppola started Aromatica deli caffé on Leopold Road.

It began life as a regional Italian deli offering an authentic cultural food experience to the local people of Wimbledon. Born in Puglia, Mimmo’s philosophy echoes the honest simplicity of the region, offering catering, or ‘order and pickup’ fresh food in the deli, newly baked home-made bread, fresh pasta, or the chance to simply enjoy real Italian coffee and a chat with the friendly host.

“My grandmother, Cosima, started a small trattoria in Puglia which my father Fernando took over. It’s in my blood.” says Mimmo, “I came to London in 1986 and worked as a chef in an Italian restaurant called Daphne’s in South Kensington, moving on to Enoteca Turi which is now in Chelsea. Although I’ve adapted to local ways, my roots are in authentic recipes, with my signature dish being Mediterranean roasted sea bass. ”

Mark Waegner and Mimmo Coppola

Mimmo has even cooked for Pope Benedetto XVI when in 2010 the Pope was visiting the Embassy of the Vatican on Parkside.

Mark Waegner, a local resident who lives around the corner and has eaten at Aromatica regularly with his family over the past five years, has this to say: “Mimmo’s charisma and generosity always makes us feel welcome and at home. He knows all his customers by name but we come here because the food is freshly cooked and tastes of Italy!”

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Aromatica Delicatessen & Catering 9 Leopold Road, SW19 7BB Tel. 020 8944 0309

Mimmo meeting the Pope

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The Study is a leading prep school situated in the heart of Wimbledon Village. We identify and nurture each girl’s unique academic, creative and sporting skills in a caring and supportive community.

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Why Painting Is Good For Children By local Oxford Graduate Creative Writing and Art Tutor, Katherine Smith At school I remember painting fruit and making lots (and lots) of coil pots. I was good at copying but it was tedious. Then, waiting for a barrister job to start, I did a painting course. The teacher said “follow your instinct”; “there are no mistakes” - magic!

I paint instinctively, choosing colour and form as I go, expressing what I feel in the moment. Of course, sometimes that’s ‘it’s not working’, and so I take a break, have a cup of tea, go back to it fresh. I’ve learnt to explore creatively and that you really can create your own joy.

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icasso said it took a lifetime to paint like a child. If children paint regularly in a supportive environment, they experience a creative joy they don’t forget.

It’s not easy to let go of ‘right’ and ‘wrong’ - it’s what we’re taught by exams. But, when we do - magic happens! That’s why it’s important to start early! paintwritenow.co.uk 07779 100 659

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From 6 to 60+, Lucy Martin has People Talking Darling chats to this Oxford graduate with a passion for teaching languages

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t’s all about creating images and links in the children’s imagination,” says Lucy, “Many adults will remember “Mrs Vandertramp” from long-ago French lessons at school. But how many of us can remember what it stood for? I approach that in a different way. My students know that list from a picture I draw, as “house verbs”. I draw a cartoon to explain how “the forest of yesterday begins with je me suis, je suis and j’ai” and to demonstrate the present tense I play a basic march on the piano, or even the guitar to teach the daily routine “je me lève, je me douche, je me brosse les dents…” Rhyming and images are especially useful with dyslexic children who are never going to master the art of learning verbs by rote.

I have no inhibitions when it comes to teaching, and I have been known to use dressing up, masks, drums, moving the furniture, whatever it takes to help the child in question get it. Their success is my success, every time. I treat every child as unique. Each one has his or her own specific learning style and struggles and this individuality can’t be addressed in the classroom.

After just one hour I can pinpoint where those strengths and difficulties lie and work out the right strategy for a particular child.

Most of our students achieve A/A* at GCSE and top marks at Common Entrance having come to us initially with the prospect of failure.”

“From a D to an A* in 6 months – delighted!” says local mum Jen Craven. “My daughter learnt more in an hour with Lucy than she did during the whole of last year” says another parent Lucy works mainly from home in Raynes Park and specialises in French and Spanish, but also teaches Russian and German and it’s not just children that come to LMT for language lessons.

She runs adult conversation classes and office lunchtime sessions too for anyone who wants to brush up or even start from scratch. lucymartintuition.co.uk 07515 630 530

Lucy’s new book is out now on Amazon and essential reading for anyone taking French GCSE this year! darlingmagazine.co.uk | sept-oct 2016

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A Fresh Start For Senti Debbie Knight creates Senti’s first own fragrance brand exclusively in Wimbledon

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enti’s story started 11 years ago, when a family skiing holiday was cut short due to a lack of snow and we made the impromptu decision to catch a train to Florence. There we stumbled upon a beautiful hotel overlooking the city, which was filled with a wonderful fragrance diffusing throughout all the rooms and immediately capturing my imagination.

My sister and I sat down at my kitchen table as soon as I arrived back home and we haven’t looked back since! It became the start of my passion for fragrance, my own business and the start of some very special business relationships.

I have since met and worked with some fascinating people with incredible knowledge about the fragrance industry. And I have been a distributor to shops such as Harrods, Fortnum & Mason and Liberty, as well as interior designers, hotels and independent lifestyle shops.

After learning a lot along the way, the next exciting step for Senti is the creation of our own brand of home fragrances.

I’m extremely proud to announce that in September we will be launching our own brand, which will be exclusively available in our new shop on Church Road, Wimbledon Village.

We have brought a lot of our perfume contacts together to help create our own label, which has been a very rewarding process. Working with some of the best noses in the business has been such a pleasure, including renowned perfumers Ruth Mastenbroek, who has created fragrances for Jo Malone and Kenneth Turner, and John Stephens who has worked with the Queen!

We have also given Senti a new “look”.

Brand consultant Paul Stead of The Brewery and designer Sarah McDonnell have been brilliant in helping shape the new brand, including a tweaking of our logo and colours.

We are so lucky to have such loyal local customers who are eager to support us and we want to include them in this new venture.

The new brand will be in its infancy when launched so we will be so grateful to hear what people think!

There are also some very exciting and innovative secret products in the pipeline that will be the first of their kind to the fragrance market and will all be born right here in Wimbledon!

We’re so looking forward to welcoming everyone to our new shop on Church Road in September. senti.co.uk darlingmagazine.co.uk | sept-oct 2016

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MERTON CHAMBER OF COMMERCE Caroline Cook Just say ‘yes’! If you’re new to networking, say yes to as many opportunities to meet people as possible. If the first event you attend doesn’t prove successful attend another one and don’t give up!

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THE ATHENA NETWORK Julie Eltham People love to do business with individuals or businesses that have been recommended to them. Our meetings are inspiring and in a supportive, friendly environment over lunch at Hotel Du Vin - Cannizaro House every 3rd Wednesday of the month. “Athena’s focus on training members to be the best that they can be, whilst in a supportive and nurturing environment, gave me the confidence to learn and grow. It is this, that is the heart of Athena. No hard sell amongst the members, we encourage one another to help where we can. I always come away from a meeting inspired and bubbling with ideas on how to grow my business.

It’s a fabulous way to live, learn and grow” (Nicky Fitzmaurice, member) julie.eltham@theathenanetwork.com THE REALLY HELPFUL CLUB - Sarah Austin

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The Really Helpful Club is an online website that buzzes with networking and job opportunities.

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This vibrant and unique networking community allows its members to connect both online and meet face to face at informative and inspiring events including ones that help anyone looking to return to work or to start and grow their own business. reallyhelpfulclub.com FABULOUS WOMEN - Caroline Ewans Networking can be a great way to win business but it also offers business owners opportunities for support and collaboration. Many business owners, especially women, report increased selfconfidence, greater clarity about their offer and improved communication skills from regular networking with supportive fellow business

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Are you with looking for local resident and Really Helpful a reliableClub builder or (RHC) handyman, a trusted founder, Sarah Austin, and Events Director, Caroline nanny or babysitter, aEdwards. super caterer, a “Word oftrainer, mouth is the most fitness a new trusted and reassuring way of hairdresser or just finding anything we’re looking somewhere getandyour for in our dailyto lives the RHC website is full of reliable nails done? The Really recommendations and handy Helpful Club does contacts to help you. With what it says on thein just thousands of members a couple of years, this free tin... and now it’s come online network is buzzing. to We Surrey have many exciting things

planned for the Really Helpful Club and we want you to f you are searching for an get involved. The events we want information host easier bringlife, everything to life on tap and would likethe and allow our members to meet like-minded, opportunity to meetsavvy one and smartconnect women, and the Really another, learn Helpful Club (RHC) thetwo something new,” sayisthe place for you.

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“It’s a website where encouragement to help you who return “RHC events are brilliant at looking for job opportunities.” you can share yourtogether experiences to the workplace or to start and bringing people not build your own business.” just latest as a social together, and finds get in exchange with interesting talks, butafter from new gems and ideas; AUTUMN HIGHLIGHTS 6th October: an evening of as a business woman, it’s all, word of mouth is the most Well-being and women’s fun, delicious food and master always incredibly handy for trusted and reassuring way of health workshops: class demonstrations with 2015 networking and finding other finding anything you’re looking 14th September Masterchef finalist,(nutrition) Paul Bogle. excellent businesses that are in for,” Sarah Jo explains.

Full of 22nd September (mindfulness) the area.”

Hall, Wimbledon 10th November: Rose Theatre reliable recommendations, Back to- Arthur Business and All Kingston Miller’s reputable businesses and handy Highlights this Autumn: taking the first steps: My Sons. contacts, and unique access to 29th September (in affiliation our of programme of are aJoin variety events which wellbeing and women’s health “RHC alreadyProperty the best known withisSurrey always oversubscribed, RHC workshops. source to go toand in Caroline our local Dore Potential is now available for Surrey area.

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Join Really(featuring Helpful Club 6ththe October Membership is free and 22nd September: Mindfulness.

(RHC) to be part of this Paul Bogle, the 2015 attendance at events costs a small fast-growing and vibrant 29th September: Back to Masterchef finalist) fee but are worth every penny, Business - taking the first steps. community, enjoy exclusive as Wimbledon resident Jo Hall members’ Join the Reallyoffers Helpfuland Clubbook by registering has discovered: “The events are places to these events.

“Following on from our sold-out online at reallyhelpfulclub.com.

For more fabulous for connecting event in January, we havepeople teamed information, contact Sarah Austin at sarah@reallyhelpfulclub.com and building friendships, up with Surreynew experts Property not sarah@reallyhelpfulclub.com just as a social get-together Potential and Caroline Dore with reallyhelpfulclub.com interesting talks [themes have darlingmagazine.co.uk | sept-oct 2016 19 ranged from women’s cycling, fashion and cooking to a day

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Wimbledon BookFest turns 10 with stellar line up 29th September- 9th October The tenth annual Wimbledon Bookfest is back this autumn bringing together the worlds of literature, the arts, politics, popular culture, film, sport and music to the Big Tent on Wimbledon Common.

Headliners include: former Deputy Prime Minister, Nick Clegg; multi-award winning novelist Kate Atkinson in her only UK event this year; Orange Prize winning author Rose Tremain; adventurer Sir Ranulph Fiennes; broadcasters Jeremy Paxman and Jenni Murray; entrepreneur Jo Malone; poet laureate Carol Ann Duffy; inspiring cookery writer Ella Woodward and ‘Outnumbered’ creator and debut novelist Andy Hamilton.

Events for children include Clare Balding and Michael Morpurgo, who will be talking about their love of animals.

Festival Director, Fiona Razvi said: ‘It’s amazing to think how far the festival has come in ten years. Wimbledon BookFest is a wonderful example of a community embracing the arts and working together to provide world class entertainment.

This year we are especially proud to welcome a strong line up of female literary writers and speakers together with BookFest’s trademark mix of politics, history, sports and comedy.

For tickets go to wimbledonbookfest.org

Autumn Bridge Challenge with Paul Mendelson When you hold a very weak hand and your dummy is very strong, it’s time for your brain to stand on its head.

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Dealer South N/S Game N E S W 1S NB 1NT NB 3NT South’s response of 1NT showed 6-9pts, and denied more than 2-card spade support. North sensibly raised to game, and West correctly led top-of-a-sequence Q♥. Often when a very strong dummy hits the table, the defenders’ shoulders slump, but good players will realise that you, as declarer, hold a weak hand, and will try to cut communications between the two hands. Here, the fate of the contract lies squarely with the declarer.

To secure her contract, declarer can count two spades, two hearts and a diamond trick. She therefore requires four club tricks. This can be virtually assured if South retains an outside entry to her hand. To this end, at trick one, declarer should rise with dummy’s K ♥ and lead K ♣, which West should duck. When J ♣ is then led, East produces 9 ♣, reassuring declarer that she can overtake this card with her Q ♣, and continue playing clubs until West parts with his ace. Once that happens, nothing can stop South returning to hand with her carefully preserved A♥, and making her excellent game contract. aceoftrumps.com

THE HISTORY OF BLOOD Paul’s new book is out now.

The History of Blood is thoughtful and thrilling in equal parts (The Mail on Sunday) No question The History of Blood is literary crime fiction of the highest order, Mendelson a major voice (Guardian)

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aintaining good oral health should begin from the moment your baby’s first teeth start to cut through. It is your responsibility as parents to ensure that your children’s teeth are looked after soundly.

Brushing children’s teeth 1. Children should use a different fluoridated tooth paste to adults 2. Toothpaste for 3 year olds under has a lower fluoride level so ensure you use the correct toothpaste 3. Children under the age of 8 should be supervised when brushing 4. Guide your child whilst brushing. The use of a mirror helps them see where they are brushing. Teeth should be brushed twice a day for at least 2 minutes 5. A pea sized amount of tooth paste should be used, brushing the teeth in circular movements 6. Tooth paste should be spat out and not rinsed with water

Additional Preventative Treatment 1. Fissure sealants: Can be applied to children’s back teeth when they are aged 6-7, preventing decay. A thin coating is applied to avoid build-up of food particles in the indentations of the teeth. Fissure sealants can last 5-10 years 2. Fluoride varnish can be applied to children’s and adult’s teeth, working to make tooth enamel stronger. The varnish can be reapplied every 3-6 months.

7. Swallowing toothpaste should be discouraged

Visiting the Dentist 1. Visit the dentist regularly. It is usually recommended that you visit your dentist twice a year for a check up, although your dentist can advise you of your exact recall interval, depending on your oral health 2. Regular visits to the dentist ensure children are familiar with the environment and the dentist, allowing any nervousness and anxiousness to ease 3. If a child’s tooth is damaged, see your dentist immediately to avoid infection

Book your children in at Infinitidental Clinic for their check up. They will be seen for free if parents are patients. Call on 020 8542 2171

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Barrel & Cask bar tips with an ice bar Imagine a party setting that was so extraordinarily unique, that had such a wow factor that people were talking about it for months to

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Ice bars are an innovative and unusual way to make your party an event to remember and create the impact you want and Barrel and Cask are leading the way when it comes to new and stunning event ideas and personalised bars.

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Whether it’s just to celebrate the new year or for a special occasion such as an engagement, birthday, corporate event or wedding, now is the time to start putting your plans in place if you’re thinking of hosting the perfectly unique party this Christmas and Barrel and Cask have made creating that wow factor event a bit of a breeze.

1 Choose and book your venue and bar

Your venue doesn’t have to be vast or flamboyant, if you’re considering an ice bar. The versatility of ice means you can have a bar in any size, shape or design, from long and slim to serve lots of guests, to circular, small and compact for smaller venues. The bar is created for your space, not the other way around.

Of course you don’t have to choose ice for your bar. There are lots of other options available from Shabby Chic, to LED, Colour Commander, Black & White, Vintage and more, all of which can be tailored to suit you.

2 Decide on the design

If you’re going for ice, what would make your ice bar uniquely you? Your initials carved into the ice, a company logo or a carved design that represents your special celebration? Barrel and Cask ice bars come with standard snow filled designs or with a logo, 3D carved design, backdrop or even with a Vodka luge – a channel drilled through the ice straight to a waiting glass via which Vodka or other drinks are served, ensuring a chilled drink, a moment of fun and a bar to remember.

3 Invite your guests and think about nibbles

With a Barrel and Cask bar, all your drink requirements are taken care of so all you have to do now is invite the guests.

Barrel and Cask assemble the entire bar for you and organise your drinks too with a selection of organic wines from around the globe, traditional British ales, a wine / beer menu matching service and mulled wine. They’re also fully insured and come with all safety equipment.

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It’s all about making your imagination, a reality. Specialist lighting lights up your bar to create a spellbinding effect and incredible atmosphere and you can enjoy hosting a party that delights and inspires your guests and ensures a night to remember.

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lthough the summer is over and everyone is back to school or uni, it’s a great time of year for seasonal ingredients and lovely comforting recipes. There is such a range of fruit and vegetables to enjoy in the autumn including cabbage, kale, runner beans, courgettes, artichokes, pears and plums to name a few. However as it’s the start of British apple season, there are delicious eating and cooking apples around now, especially Cox, Bramley, Pippin and Gala which are some of my favourites and at Parties to Go we make

sure we always have the freshest and tastiest ingredients.

Flavour can vary greatly from nutty and spicy flavours to more fragrant apples. Culinary (cooking) apples are bigger and generally more acidic and therefore have a more bitter taste than eating apples. However the mistake some people make is to add too much sugar in recipes with apples as the bitterness in cooking the apples does mellow when heated. partiestogo.co.uk | 07971 141733

Autumn Apple & Cinnamon Sponge 170g (6oz) Softened Butter 170g self-raising flour 170g caster sugar 3 large eggs 4 Cox apples 1 teaspoon cinnamon 1 tablespoon brown sugar 1. Cream the sugar and butter together and add the eggs and then the flour. Mix together.

2. Next peel, core and slice thin wedges of the apples. Mix with the cinnamon and sugar.

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Indian Summers and English Autumns Prep your garden with Andrew Fisher Tomlin

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e can almost rely on having at least a week of an Indian summer in the south of England but they are short lived and we’ll very quickly see the nights drawing in and want to spend less time in the garden. But before we do what can we do to make 2017 even better than this year with good autumn preparation?

The best time for planting Autumn is the best time to be preparing beds and planting new shrubs and trees. These plants will be going into their annual hibernation as soon as leaves drop and by planting now we give them a chance to get healthy root systems growing in time to burst into life in the spring.

There’s a cost advantage as well because bare rooted trees cost less to buy and perennial plants can be planted in much smaller sizes but still reach the potential of a much larger specimen planted in the spring.

The best time for planting spring colour This year the tulips in our gardens really stood out because everything else was a few weeks behind. So plan a vibrant bulb display. Tried and tested daffodils are great for early colour but look out for bee and butterfly friendly bulbs like Muscari latifolium, big Crocus and Chinodoxa luciliae, all available at your local garden centre.

Then follow up the display with Tulips and Alliums for the early summer.

The best time for borders Healthy plants need tidy borders. So get pruning shrubs and trees that need some shaping or deadwood removing. Pick up the apples left to rot under trees. Mulch your borders, especially plants such as roses that will benefit from good composted manure. And if you’ve not started

composting yet then invest in one of the new hot box composters that take all sorts of kitchen scraps as well as leaves and garden waste to produce compost in double quick time.

The best time to help wildlife This is the start of a tough season for wildlife so keep an eye out for hedgehogs that might be trying to hibernate in leaf piles. If you’ve got some shady, wooded areas in the garden make some wood piles out of the deadwood you’ve removed from trees to make great bug hotels and provide food for the birds next year. And whilst you’re at it put up some bird boxes and bee boxes to help our treasured bumble bees over winter. fishertomlin.com Fisher Tomlin & Bowyer 020 8542 0683 darlingmagazine.co.uk | sept-oct 2016

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With Editor Karine Torr TENNIS LEGEND SPOTTED IN THE VILLAGE

ZARA ELLIOTT LAUNCHES HER BLUSH ACADEMY IN STYLE

Brad Gilbert and his wife Kim stopped to chat to the Darling team. Seen here with Nicky Santichatsak (middle) L-R: Zara Elliott, Pam Custers, Helen Cowleard, Athena’s Julie Eltham

L-R: Sylvie Garvey, Marcelle Dubruel, Bronwen Gray and Lauren Baker

ANNUAL DRAGON BOAT RACE RUN BY REALLY HELPFUL CLUB IN AID OF MOMENTUM CHARITY ON WIMBLEDON PARK LAKE

L-R: Phil Chesters, Georgie Cooper, Dan Cullen, David Kremer, Chiara Mancusso, front: Mike Fishwick and Karen Kremer

NEW DESIGNER OF THE YEAR AWARD!

L-R: Eloise Martin, Jen Cravin, Dominic Pasqua as main sponsor Knight Frank & Sarah Austin

LEFT: Local Wimbledon jeweller and Darling’s Inspiring Woman, Dalia Daou (Middle) wins at the UK Jewellery Awards

RIGHT: This event is sponsored by Andrew Scott Robertson. Models Ieva Jasiunaite , Catherine Miholich, Nicky Ellis - Stephen Parsons and Adam Jones (ASR) & organisers Kate Holder & Jackie Harvey. Dean Kincaid the fashion show choreographer from Question Air (front)

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L-R: Paresh Modasia, Patrick Kong, Chitty Patel, Kish Modasia, Sarah Austin, Front: Michele Marriott, Katy Miller and Cathy Jago

KING’S POST EXAM LADIES’ LUNCH AT HOTEL DU VIN

WAG ‘N GO NEW DOG EMPORIUM OPENS WITH A BITE ON ARTHUR ROAD

Nicola & Steve Batchelor with Bailey and Annika Cox Chaplin

L-R: Fans Ozzi and John Garstang, Trina Cooper, owner of Wag ‘n Go, Kelly McAteer and Jo Hall

‘ONE MAN WENT TO MOW TEAM’ - THE WAR MEMORIAL

SEEN AT THE PAUL STRANK CHARITABLE TRUST LAUNCH

L-R: Ulrika Hogberg from All England Foundation, Tim Bowen, James Leek, Julia Bowen, Hilary Leek, Tracy and Guy Davies. Trustees of the War Memorial— also called ‘One Man Went to Mow …..

Team’ because that is how it all started.

There is now a formal Trust which has been established to maintain the memorial. The All England Foundation are assisting with the lawn maintenance, The Ivy Cafe provided a couple of bottles of champagne on the night to celebrate!

L-R: Jason Rivolta , Guy and Tracy Davies & Jackie Hyde LEFT L-R: Christopher Biggins, James O'Keefe, Pixie Lott and Irene Strank

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AWARDS PARTY FOR THE ‘WIMBLEDON VILLAGE WINDOWS’ COMPETITION

L-R: Matthew Watts (Ivy), Co-winners Shanna Melville and Thai Tho (Kimberley Kiely WV Events in the middle), & Nicky Santichatsak & Adrian Mills from Thai Tho

THE ‘WIMBLEDON WAY’ PLAQUES

L-R:Harley Jaffar, Katja Nuutinen, Eva Azagury and Arion (front) were also participants

Diana Sterck and Stephen Alambritis Showing off the plaques launched on the walkway stretching from the Polka Theatre to the All England Club.

DAVID LLOYD LADIES VET CHAMP

LEFT: CELEBRATING MARILYN MONROE’S 90TH BIRTHDAY AT THE ON GALLERY IN FULHAM L-R: Gemma Leon, Lee Clark, Karine Torr, Irene Strank, Neesha Gill WIM WOMEN IN BUSINESS ANNUAL STAND AT THE VILLAGE FAIR

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L-R: Susie Homes, Elaine Miller, Shelly Palmer and Zara Elliott RIGHT: David Lloyd Over 50’s Ladies team reach the quarter finals in the Seniors National UK Interclub championship L-R: Karine Torr, Rachel Angel, Aku Patel, Jeanette Briggs, Ivanka Riley (captain) and Rachael Nichols LEFT: L-R: WWIB Members Lucy Martin, Carol Black, Sarah Austin, Catherine Green and Diana Mason, Chair

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Girls get the royal Ivy treatment from GM Alfonso Cadena (middle) Elaine Miller and Editor, Karine Torr

SOCIAL BRIDGE LADIES TOASTING SUMMER GAMES L-R: Sandy Reid, Sarah Buxton, Margie Brown, Stella Kirby, Karine Vandermeulen and Sharon Wright

SOUTH PARK GARDENS RESIDENTS CELEBRATE SUMMER ... GINA CONWAY STYLE

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Toasting the hot weather - Wimbledon Brewery’s Mark Gordon & Ruby Costello

MERTON/KINGSTON CHAMBER SUMMER NETWORKING The former England rugby player and TV broadcaster was guest speaker at The Study Prize Giving. A record breaking results year for 11+ saw 25 scholarships offered including 6 sports scholarships.

Left: Headmistress Mrs Susan Pepper and Maggie Alphonsi

HOLLY LODGE CENTRE IN RICHMOND PARK RECEIVE £30 000 FROM THE RICHMOND MAY BALL EVENT

L-R: Anna King, Holly Lodge Centre manager, Bob Harris, Chairman Richmond May Ball Committee, Mike Smythe, Chairman Holly Lodge Centre Trustees, Gillian Thorpe, Richmond May Ball committee.

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L-R: Suzy Wood, Emma Hadley, Cheryl Carter, Kim Peacock and Emma Cox ROKEBY SCHOOL PARENTS’ CIRCLE RAISE AN INCREDIBLE £34 505 FOR HARRISON’S FUND

Alex Smith (founder of the fund and dad) and Deidre Davidson (Chair) above with a cheque for the Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy charity. www.duchennealliance.org

EVER THOUGHT OF HAVING A TATTOO? We’re talking eyeliner and eyebrows

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emi-permanent make-up is a specialist form of temporary ‘tattooing’ and is entirely different to the tattoos you might get on your body!

Misconceptions 1. It’s not painful Numbing cream is used before and during semi-permanent make-up procedures, to ensure your comfort at all times. In fact, many of my clients fall asleep during their treatment!

2. Colours are custom blended and matched to your natural skin tone As an experienced pro in this industry, I know how to colour match you perfectly and invest in the best line of pigments to do the job.

Zara Elliott

5. It is completely safe Any premises undertaking semipermanent make-up procedures must be thoroughly checked and licenced by their local authority and fully endorsed and vetted by professional bodies and insurers. If the technician follows their legal obligations, then semi-permanent makeup is a completely safe option.

Ready for your completely personalised consultation?

I love the results that can be achieved through semi-permanent makeup, and I make it my mission to tailor and customise my services to every lady I look after – helping them achieve the results that they envisage. Definitely no ‘slug brows’ here!

3. You don’t need to keep topping up your colour every 3 months Semi-permanent make-up can remain in the skin for up to three years and will only need a colour-boosting session after approximately 12 to 18 months.

4. The end result is natural and timeless Semi-permanent makeup is all about defining and enhancing your natural features. Whether it is adding hair-strokes to a sparse brow, soft eyeliner to make eyes sparkle or creating the illusion of fuller lips without the need for fillers, semi-permanent makeup will help you look your best at all times.

So whether you have a burning question about semi-permanent makeup or are ready and raring to start working with me, get in touch.

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Enjoy an Indian Summer at Absolute Abode T

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Why not unwind in our outdoor garden with a perfectly brewed cup of hand-roasted ‘Cast Iron Coffee’, or one of our beautifully aromatic ‘T2’ teas. If you take it black, try the Blue Mountain blend. Up front vanilla gives way to pretty cornflowers and floral overtones that linger for a delicate sweet finish. If you fancy a herbal, the Pumping Pomegranate is a flavour journey from the Turkish Grand Bazaar, with tangy hibiscus, apple pieces and rosehip along for the ride.

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Why should you make a will if you own property abroad?

Seila Sanchez Lucas explains

English law, it does not automatically guarantee that your overseas property will go to whoever you chose to inherit your property in your English will.

If the foreign property is located in an EU member state, such as France, the EU Succession Regulation, which came into force on 17 August 2015, will apply to the succession of your estate in France.

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The EU Succession Regulation is binding in all the EU member states excepting the UK, Ireland and Denmark. Although the Regulation does not apply in the UK, it affects the way that the ‘conflict of laws’ rules in England and Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland interact with the rules of the EU member states where it does apply. The ‘conflict of laws’ rules are that each country has to decide which country’s law will govern who inherits your estate when you die.

The Regulation says that the law applicable to your succession will be the law of the member state in which you were habitually resident at the time of your death but gives you the option of expressly choosing the law of your nationality when you make a will.

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For example, if you are a UK national and have made an English will, but you own a holiday cottage in France and your main place of residence at the time of your death is the UK, it is likely that English law will be applied to your succession in France. This will ensure that the freedom to leave your property to whoever you wish under English law is respected.

However, if you do nothing and die without a will, the English ‘conflict of laws’ rules will be applied to your succession in France. These rules say that the succession of immovable assets, such as land or residential property, is governed by the law where the assets are located. If your holiday property is located in France, French succession laws and, particularly, the French “forced heirship rules”, will dictate the way in which your holiday property is inherited when you die.

Similarly, if you are a UK national and you make an English will but your habitual place of residence when you die is France, where you own a holiday cottage, the French succession rules will govern who inherits your entire estate. This situation can be avoided by including a choice of English law in your will, in which case France will apply English law to your whole estate.

Brexit will surely have an impact on how the UK is regarded by the other EU member states when they apply the EU Succession Regulation and the current choices available to UK nationals may end once the formal exit from the European Union by the UK has taken place.

An alternative when planning for the succession of your foreign property is to make a will in the country where the property is located and, therefore, exclude the foreign property from your English will. This has the advantage after your death of saving the time and expense of validating your English will in a foreign country and expediting the succession of your foreign property.

Before taking any steps mentioned in this article, you should take professional legal advice. This article is based on current regulations which may be subject to change.

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The Riviera comes to Wimbledon

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k I must admit, that statement is slightly misleading but in my defence, it has achieved the desired effect of grabbing your attention! So before you dash off to put your deck chair back in the garden shed, I’ll come clean and announce the arrival to our showroom, of one the worlds leading flooring brands ‘RIVIERA HOME’. They stand as one of the very few manufacturers in the world who genuinely make and distribute totally bio-degradeable and eco-friendly carpets.

Using 100% natural and renewable resources, they currently offer five styles and thirty colour options of carpet that can be used for either wall to wall installations or edged to make an amazing rug.

Typically 90% or more of carpets made in the world

today by other manufacturers, are made using oil based products such as Nylon, Polypropylene or Polyester fibres. These carpets can sometimes take as long as 500 years to fully break down into the soil. Riviera Home’s Eco collection of carpet on the other hand, bio-degrade within one to five years, without adding any harmful chemicals into the earth.

So as that great philosopher ‘Jiminy Cricket’ once said, ‘let your conscience be your guide’ and come to view the Riviera Home’s Eco Collection of carpets, now on show at The Flooring Co 020 8971 9101 ronnieattheflooringco@gmail.com The Flooring Company 257 Coombe Lane SW20 0RH

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Keep the heat in and the cold out this winter

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he thought of a cold house this winter may be on your mind already.

With the cost of energy increasing continuously, what better time to start thinking about warming up this autumn and reduce those winter bills?

Look to extend or renovate and reap the rewards.

PAUL’S TOP TIPS By adding a loft conversion you can certainly increase the insulation to your home.

Building Regulation has become really stringent over the past few years with regard to insulating lofts. The U-value (measure of heat loss) that needs to be achieved is very low in order to get your building control sign off.

Your home would benefit from a loft as heat rises and, with the current regulations, should not escape. You may find that you are the only house in the road where the snow does not melt on the roof once you are properly insulated.

Double glazing is most certainly very beneficial to any home.

Keep the heat in and the cold out. Haven Construction works in partnership with Grabex Windows, who produce top quality, double glazed wooden, UPVC and aluminium windows, as well as doors, at very affordable prices. You will wish that you had done this a long time ago.

are of insulated cavity wall construction, and the roof is required to be fully insulated as well. Rear doors and windows are all double glazed as are roof windows.

So if you are thinking of extending or renovating your existing house, ask us for a quote. You’ll enjoy a warmer winter, your bills will come down and, to top it off, you have more space to enjoy the warmth in over those long, cold months. havenconstruction.org.uk 07880 546 063

Rear extensions can warm up your home as well. New floors are insulated, the walls darlingmagazine.co.uk | sept-oct 2016

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The ‘B’ Word It’s not all doom and gloom for the SW19 Property Market

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t’s been three months and we’re still coming to terms with the shock result of Britain’s decision to leave the EU and the political turmoil that has ensued. After all, with 60% of London voters and 63,000 Merton voters (compared to 37,097 Brexiters) wanting to remain, we were feeling pretty assured of the outcome of the referendum.

Some say politics has never been so interesting, with everybody having an opinion on Brexit… and an argument! One of the hot topics throughout and since the referendum has been how the result might affect the property market; with many property and financial experts predicting that house prices will fall significantly. And as a result many buyers and sellers have gone into a state of panic, not knowing what to believe in such uncertain times.

As the weeks go by and we adjust and gain confidence, we are getting a better indication of how the market is responding after the initial shock – and indeed it’s not all bad news, in fact some say far from it.

Although many economists still expect reduced or negative price growth, there are also many market insiders who believe the lack of housing and consistent demand, along with interest rates falling and lower mortgage costs, will prevent price falls.

Stephen Parsons, Director of Residential, Andrew Scott Robertson

Even if there is a reduction in prices (Economist Howard Archer, of IHS investment services, predicts prices could fall 5% during the second half of 2016 and throughout 2017, quotes the Financial Times), this could be of benefit to the market as a whole - giving a fantastic opportunity to home owners wanting to upsize, first time buyers desperate to get a foot on the ladder and foreign investors who will have more spending power.

But it’s more likely that prices will keep rising, at the lower end of the market particularly, though just at a more sustainable rate, whilst the middle and upper markets will flat-line (a situation that could be helped by a cut in stamp duty land tax). The shortage of housing in Merton won’t change due to a temporary slowing of demand, especially with 80% of young renters wanting to buy their first home.

Since Wimbledon has just been named 3rd most desirable place to live in the UK for young professionals, in the top 20 list by Lloyds Bank, with every day that passes we see more reason to keep calm and be positive.

Contact us today to discuss your property needs on 020 8971 3800 (Wimbledon Town) / 020 8971 6780 (Wimbledon Village) or email residential@as-r.co.uk darlingmagazine.co.uk | sept-oct 2016

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Creating Connections Inspiring Success

Raising The Roof This September

WIMBLEDON, PUTNEY, BALHAM AND STREATHAM Wimbledon, Putney, Balham, Kingston, Surbiton, Streatham and Hampton Court EMAIL

The Annual Black-Tie, Star-Studded Paul Strank Roofing Charity Gala, is now in its sixth year

COLLECT COPIES AT OUR “HOTSPOTS” julie.eltham@theathenanetwork.com www.theathenanetwork.com EMAIL * Nicholas & Steele 78 Durham Rd julie@theathenanetwork.com Tel: 07947 011879 HELPFUL WIMBLEDON WEBSITES Love Wimbledon * Maison St. Cassien, Wimbledon Village www.lovewimbledon.org Tel: 020 8944 1200 HELPFUL WIMBLEDON WEBSITES It’s the crowning achievement of over 30 London Borough of Merton Love Wimbledon years of fundraising

by Paul and Irene Strank. www.merton.gov.uk * Southfields Gallery 223 Wimbledon Park Rd www.lovewimbledon.org Using their business, Paul Strank Roofing, as Tel: 07947 675 059 Citizen’s Advice Bureau London Borough of Merton a springboard, Paul and Irene have tirelessly www.merton.gov.uk www.nacab.org.uk raised funds awareness for SW20 many different * Truckles Deliand on Coombe Lane Citizen’sChamber Advice Bureau Merton of Commerce causes over the years.

Their passion and drive Tel: 020 8605 2175 www.nacab.org.uk www.mertonchamber.co.uk has helped thousands of families in the UK. Merton Chamber of Commerce Wimbledon Civic Forum This year’s Gala onDeli theon 17th September is a * Aromatica Italian Leopold Rd www.mertonchamber.co.uk www.wimbledoncivicforum.org.uk little different, in that it will be raising funds Tel: 020 8944 0309 Wimbledon Town Centre Wimbledon Society for the new Paul Strank Charitable Trust, www.wimbledontowncentre.co.uk which recently launched www.wimbledonsociety.org.uk Please was call first to check stocks at the Mint Leaf Wimbledon Civic Forum in Haymarket with Pixie Lott in attendance, The Wimbledon Museum www.wimbledoncivicforum.org.uk and which will be supporting fantastic charities www.wimbledonmuseum.org.uk Wimbledon Society including Shooting Star Chase Children’s www.wimbledonmuseum.org.uk Wimbledon Community Centre Hospice. With hosts of celebrities performing Wimbledon Community Centre www.wimbledoncommunity.org.uk and attending, including Beverley Knight, Peter www.wimbledoncommunity.org.uk Volunteer Centre Merton Andre, Johnny Partridge and many more, the Volunteer Centre Merton www.volunteercentremerton.org.uk Gala has always been one of London’s hottest www.volunteercentremerton.org.uk Charity Commission events and this year is no different. Hosted by Learning & Skills Council www.charitycommission.gov.uk celebrity Ambassador Christopher Biggins and www.lsc.gov.uk featuring an all-new lineup, this year is set to be Wimbledon Choral Society Charity Commission another outstanding event raising money for www.wimbledon-choral.org.uk www.charitycommission.gov.uk some extremely worthwhile causes.

Local Police/Neighbourhood Watch Wimbledon Music Diary www.wimbledonmusicdiary.com www.met.police.uk/saferneighbourhoods paulstrankroofing.co.uk Wimbledon Choral Society The Wimbledon Guild www.wimbledon-choral.org.uk www.wimbledonguild.co.uk LocalConnect Police/Neighbourhood Watch Care www.met.police.uk/saferneighbourhoods www.merton.gov.uk/living/care/careconnect The Wimbledon Guild Centre Court www.wimbledonguild.co.uk www.centrecourtshopping.co.uk Care Connect www.merton.gov.uk/living/care/careconnect IMPORTANT NUMBERS www.centrecourtshopping.co.uk Wimbledon Police St George’s Hospital 020 8947 1212NUMBERS or (999) 020 8672 1255 IMPORTANT Merton Council Kingston Hospital Wimbledon Police St George’s Hospital 020 8947 8274 1212 4901 or (999) 020 020 020 8546 8672 7711 1255 NHS Emergency National Merton Council KingstonRail Hospital 111 08457 484950 020 8274 4901 020 8546 7711 NHS DIRECT National Rail 0845 4647 08457 484950 Sponsored by The Athena Network (Back) Johnny Robinson, Chico, Christopher Biggins, James Herbert , Neil Sinclair 44 feb-march 2012 | darlingmagazine.co.uk(Front) Lesley Joseph, Zoe Lucker, Cheryl Fergison

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Fabulicio us! us !

Lose yourself and lose pounds with Shelly Palmer

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f you want a fitness workout that’s more like a night out it’s time to try Clubbercise, new in SW19, with master trainer and fitness presenter Shelly Palmer. It’s a new dance fitness workout which has taken the UK by storm over the last two years. You dance in the dark with glow sticks, all to the beat of 90’s club classics and hits you love. The class allows women to lose themselves and have fun.

Shelly is a highly qualified instructor who has taught at fitness conventions and many top UK gyms and dance studios, including the world famous Pineapple Dance studios. Shelly believes the benefits of dancing are like no other. It can help you: • lose weight • strengthen and tone your body • increase stamina and flexibility • improve balance and posture • improve your memory • improve your body confidence

“...a fitness workout that’s more like a night out...”

Research shows that a 150-pound adult can actually burn approximately 150 calories doing 30 minutes of social dancing. The best part is you’re not even thinking about losing the weight while doing it. Who would have thought you could have fun and lose weight at the same time?!

Shelly is hosting a launch event in aid of Macmillan Cancer Support at the Tunnel 267 Club in Wimbledon, Wednesday 28th of September at 7.30pm. Booking essential.. @shellyvpalmer 07969 333185 fabuliciousfitness.co.uk darlingmagazine.co.uk | sept-oct 2016

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local interest

“Keeping you healthy” Services: • Electronic prescription service (EPS) • Prescription request, collection and delivery • Healthy lifestyle assessment (cholesterol, blood pressure & glucose tests, diet & nutrition advice, stop smoking service) • Express photos, photo restoration & artwork Wide range of: • Vitamins & homeopathy remedies • Baby care & oral hygiene • Photo accessories, frames, albums & batteries • Mobility equipment & support • Holiday needs & sun care • Perfumery & skin care 356 - 358 Coombe Lane West Wimbledon SW20 0RJ FREE PARKING Tel: 020 8946 4331 Fax: 020 8879 6909 info@hariapharmacy.com photo@hariapharmacy.com

NOTHING FISHY ABOUT GUY DORRELL’S FAIRCATCH

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aircatch is a Community Supported Fishery or local fish box scheme that brings super-fresh, sustainable fish to south-west London including Wimbledon, direct from fishermen. We pay them a fair price for their catch and support only those using low-impact, environmentally-sound fishing methods. Our fish are often only hours out of the water and our aim is to encourage our membership to eat a wider range of locally-caught species, which is good for fish stocks.

Our recent practical food education projects were partly inspired by the research from Asda which showed that 25% of a sample of kids questioned thought haddock was a footballer and, worryingly, 10% thought fish was grown in a supermarket or a garden pond! This is perhaps unsurprising given that the vast majority of fish consumed in the UK is battered or pre-packaged fillets and that over 80% is restricted to just five (often imported) species – cod, salmon, tuna, haddock and prawns – so children don’t often have a chance to see a whole fish or get much of an idea about where it comes from. faircatch.co.uk 07810 753 815

mental health

The Last Of The Summer Wine...

Pam Custers - Relationship Therapist

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imbledon has come and gone and many of us have had our much awaited summer break. It’s a funny old time, summer. It’s filled with huge expectations.

So much hinges on these few weeks where we rekindle our relationships with our loved ones. To spend time that is not hurried or pressurized. Life is fast, we can easily find ourselves with our back up against work and home stress. Taking the pressure off can be a time to recalibrate, to redefine what direction we want our lives, loves and careers to go. It is no surprise that holidays can sometimes be a bit of a mixed bag.

Exploring what it is people want from their lives and their relationships is central to my practice. It can often be a challenge to get what we want and need from life and from our partners and discover why we find our relationships floundering as opposed to flourishing. Feeling connected is one of our primary needs; without it we can feel isolated and lonely. Making a conscious decision to reconnect with our lives and our loves is hugely empowering. Taking charge of our life is about setting our course and knowing where we are heading. I hope you have had a wonderful summer and have come back recharged and renewed.

Pam Custers is an experienced therapist working with individuals, couples and families.

Accred MBACP. MA. BA (Psych) Hons and is a RELATE trained and registered counsellor.

Contact 07572 841 388 pam@pamcusters.co.uk pamcusters.co.uk

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                                                                                                                            

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School’s Out!

By Kate Greenhalgh

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Catholic friend once said to me, “Either I’m doing something you’re not, or you’re doing something I’m not.” She was referring to my 5 kids versus her sensible 1. Well, no comment, but one thing I have been doing as a result of so many nippers is SCHOOL RUNS, since ye olden days of 1993. It ended this summer. The very last time I dropped off at a school gate, after an unbroken stint of 23 years. So, as Jo Brand would say, “Down the pub or back to bed?”

If you think I expect some sort of medal for being able to turn up day after day for so long, you are damn right. You probably avoided profligate legions of small-fry monopolising the entire flower of your youth, so you know the normal path - a few years of arriving smartly dressed, humble-bragging about precocious grade 4 clarinet achievements, keenly joining the knots of committee-hungry mothers ravenous for donations to the toy tombola, (and I speak as the former Obergruppenführer of the Harvest Festival Working Party) then the slide sets in - tracky bottoms, no mascara and no message. Dave the builder won’t mind doing the pick-up in his van just this once on his way to Champion Timber, (I still haven’t been forgiven by my daughter for that one.) Skulking past the Class Rep with your hoodie up to avoid going on any rotas becomes a way of life.

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mine were ok with that, as they trudged through the snow barefoot, but they kept getting offered lifts by horrified other mothers, which defeated the object.

I did fight this decline. When you were already at no mascara stage, I was still masquerading as a box-fresh tiger mom. Such a fraud. Secretly supremely relaxed that so-and-so’s kid won a prize, or got a big part in the play, and not mine. Sneakily chucking away the form for Kumon Maths some kind mother passed on.

Begging my child to give up the clarinet. I was living a lie!

Anyway, a new term dawns, but no more that little journey of companionable silence. Do I miss the school run after all these years? Of course I do.

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