Darling Magazine September-October 2010

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Wimbledon’s magazine for local women darlingmagazine.co.uk

darling UP FOR MERTON BUSINESS AWARDS

Girls Will Be geeks The Future’s in IT

Spotlight On Durham Road Reining Champion

Avoiding Holiday Nightmares - Hart Brown advises. Holistic approach to learning disorders. SCHOOL FEES? USE THE INHERITANCE TAX. Good morning Vietnam! TVF goes cycling.

Wimbledon - Fashion Magnet. Michael Caine’s new book.

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editor’s letter

AWARDS AND REWARDS WE’RE UP FOR AUTUMN! Dear Darling Reader, Cover: Annelis Winter Photographer: Taylor Torr

Publisher Darling Magazine UK Karine Torr Editor Karine Torr 020 8739 0059 Advertising info@darlingmagazine.co.uk 07930 396356 Email info@darlingmagazine.co.uk Contributing Writers Philippa Hennessy Victoria Carew Hunt Magazine Designer Mark McGough mcgough.mark@gmail.com Photography Taylor Torr Printer Aquatint/bsc jane@aquatintbsc.co.uk Distribution Three Colours Ltd info@3colours.co.uk Whilst every care has been taken to ensure that the data in this publication is accurate, neither the publisher nor its editorial contributors can accept, and hereby disclaim, any liability to any party to loss or damage caused by errors or omissions resulting from negligence, accident or any other cause. Darling Magazine does not officially endorse any advertising material including within this publication. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in any retrieval system, or transmitted in any form electronic, recording or otherwise, without prior permission from the publisher.

Never mind the approaching chill (which has nothing to do with our choice of this issue’s glamorous cover girl, Annelis Winter!), wonderful Wimbledon is warming up in more ways than one. News hot off the press is that Darling Magazine is a finalist for two Merton Business Awards! What a surprise, and what a thrill - whatever happens on the night. But enough about us, what’s in it for you?

This autumn issue is packed to bursting with a great crop of news, views and all the heart-warming goodies you’ve come to expect from Wimbledon’s favourite glossy. Local heroine Carol Andrews gallops away with this edition’s Inspiring Woman. Summer’s sizzling Zumba weekend continues to cause a stir, Debbie Brooks has some helpful hints about shaping up for the closer-than-you-think festive season, and there’s a special article on how the new IT Girls will be tackling the future - that’s IT for Information Technology, by the way. You’ll find new editor Richard Hunter with great financial advice on those looming school fees, while our featured charity, TVF (conceived at the local David Lloyd), shows a whole new way of giving. Fashion to fall for with Nicola Murray, the inside scoop on Michael Caine’s new book, and wry memories of ‘surviving the summer’ by Philippa Hennessy.

Look out for our regular listings of what’s up and what’s on to help you make the most of the new season. The apples and pears are falling on our freshly-mowed lawn, but there’s still a chance of that longedfor Indian Summer. Let’s hold thumbs! Best wishes until next time.

Karine Torr Editor | info@darlingmagazine.co.uk

CONTENTS 05 Interview with Carol Andrews of Wimbledon Village Stables.

08 Nicola Murray warms up with Autumn Style.

11 The IT Girls and their future careers.

15 Garden Sage and autumn tips for gardens.

16 Southfields Dental guarding your kids’ teeth.

17 “On the Scene” - Wimbedon’ best.

27 Measuring up for your new shape - Debbie Brooks.

28 Durham Road - some new kids on the block.

30 Michael Caine’s new book. Review by Victoria Carew Hunt.

32 True Volunteer Foundation - A charity with a difference.

33 Maria Jevtic discusses ADHD and other learning difficulties.

34 Legal preps for holidays - Hart Brown.

36 Zumba on the French Riviera.

37 Back to School financial advice - Richard Hunter 40 “Surviving Summer” - Philippa Hennessy.

42 Wimbledon Fashion Week 43 Important local websites and numbers.

44 ‘What’s On’ - Wimbledon Diary Page.

45 Classified Ads page.

46 “Points of View” with Kate Greenhalgh.

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inspiring woman

Carol Andrews - this autumn’s Inspiring Woman of Wimbledon exclusive interview with Darling.

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veryone knows Carol – there’s a generation that grew up in and around her famous Wimbledon Village Stables and a new generation in jodhpurs who you’ll come across on the bridal paths. All have one thing in common – they share Carol’s passion for all things equestrian.

However, the skills I learnt have really helped me as it enabled me to set up a streamlined office environment, and I was automatically aware of all the elements needed to be in place for the business to run smoothly.

You’re one of the great treasures of the Village. How did it all begin?

The stables came up for sale in 1980. I remember seeing the place for the first time; it was completely dilapidated, stable doors were hanging off, there were holes in the roofs, weeds growing everywhere, but I completely fell in love with it.

It had always been a childhood dream to have a riding school and be able to live my life's passion.

It was very hard work restoring it and at the same time I was studying for my British Horse Society exams, but on the 23rd August 1980 Wimbledon Village Stables gained its British Horse Society Approval and officially opened its new stable doors for business. It seems incredible that this year we will be celebrating our 30th Anniversary. I can't believe it ...time has passed so quickly.

I was born in Hertfordshire and when I was eight I learnt to ride at the local stables. At the age of ten, my family moved to Kingston and although I was dreading moving from the country I found to my delight that Coombe Hill Stables (now sadly redeveloped) was located literally at the end of our road. I spent many happy hours helping out and also became an enthusiastic member of Wimbledon Pony Club. It was during this time I met my lifelong friend, Caroline Tait (now Stevenson) who married my brother, Peter, in 1983. Caroline works alongside me at the Stables as our Chief Instructor.

Through the generations it has been wonderful to witness both my daughters Sasha and Steffi, and my niece, Caroline's daughter Ella, have similar experiences through Wimbledon Pony Club as we did back in the 70's. All the girls are now at University studying for their degrees and riding is still a passion for all of them.

Previously I had been working in London as a PA. Although it was a great job, being stuck in an office all day wasn't for me.

Do you still compete professionally?

During the 80's I competed on the national show jumping

“Over the years we have raised over £550,000, making it the longest running and most successful charity horse ride in the country.” circuit. I had a marvellous time and was fortunate to have some good horses to ride over the years and I won some prestigious competitions. These days I tend to leave the jumping to my daughters. I get more nervous watching them compete than I did when it was me going in the ring.

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How did you get into charity work?

Caroline and I started our Annual Sponsored Ride when we were still in Pony Club. A good friend of ours died of cancer in 1975 and we wanted to raise money for Cancer Research. This year will be our 35th Ride. Over the years we have raised over £550,000, making it the longest running and most successful sponsored charity horse ride in the country. Wimbledon Village Stables also hosts various other charity events throughout the year. We have our glitzy Annual Charity Ball at the Cannizaro Hotel, pub quizzes, bbqs etc, and I am always completely overwhelmed by people's generosity, not only in donating money, but also in giving their time and energy to make these events happen. We have the most amazing friends who always give their wholehearted support to everything we do. Without them it wouldn't have been possible to have achieved what we have and we can never thank them enough.

One of my favourite events is our candlelit Carol Concert which we hold in the Stable Yard just before Christmas. Our local vicar comes and blesses everyone

including the horses and it is a very sweet and touching service.

The horses love all the attention they receive and don't seem to mind the odd note sung out of tune! Although the horses did get a bit of a shock last year when Father Christmas ripped his trousers dismounting Patrick the (red-nosed) horse!

“… the horses did get a bit of a shock last year when Father Christmas ripped his trousers dismounting Patrick the (red-nosed) horse!”

What do you love about life in Wimbledon Village?

Everything! Wimbledon Common on my doorstep, cycling with Benji my dog running alongside. All the great places to eat and drink and not forgetting the shops of course! Above all it has retained its village atmosphere and is a very friendly, welcoming and lively place to live - and it’s even more exciting when the Tennis Championships come to town. I am on the Committee of the Wimbledon Village Business Association. I enjoy getting involved in helping improve the Village for all the businesses and having friends outside the equestrian industry.

What keeps you going?

I love what I do. I feel incredibly lucky to be able to ride out every day on Wimbledon Common on my horses Pod and Minnie. It’s so beautiful and peaceful, and it's hard to believe we are so close

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to London. Most of all I enjoy teaching people to ride, helping people improve and seeing the pleasure that horses can bring.

We also get involved in TV and film work and photo shoots, and our horses have been even been used for stunt work and shop openings including most recently the opening of Hemingways Bar in the Village.

What's it like running a stable in the middle of the Village?

With 25 horses stabled in the middle of the Village there are challenges of course. The farrier visits twice a week, a saddler from Yorkshire, vets from Sussex and four tons of horse feed and bedding delivered three times a week. Luckily I have such lovely understanding neighbours who put up with us and don't seem to mind being woken up occasionally by the whinny of the horses demanding their breakfast!

And your key to success?

Giving our exceptional horses the five star treatment they deserve! Each one is an individual with very different needs, requiring meticulous care and attention – they even have regular holidays at a Farm in Surrey. Coupled with this we have a first class team of Instructors whose dedication and enthusiasm in looking after them is unwavering despite early mornings and the unpredictable English weather! In 1999 we formed a Membership Club to create closer bonds between the instructors, owners, riders and horses and I think this has played a big part in making WVS the unique and special stables that it is today.

For details visit: wvstables.com or call: 020 8946 8579

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fashion

Fashion to fall for International branding coach and stylist Nicola Murray inspires us for the season.

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s you meander back from your sun bleached holidays and cross over the threshold, back into the office, let’s chat about how you can make a positive visual impact at work.

First bear in mind the way you look says heaps about you and often tells others about your life story, but without the right ingredients, the cake will flake.

So assuming that’s all already in place, a few key pieces for fall are chunkier knits to fit, paired with long skirts to elongate.

The poncho style knit is in for work too, belted to your waist to steer you away from too square a look. Elegant androgyny – the future muse for the wider ladies’ trouser – think Katherine Hepburn. Turn to labels such as Ralph Lauren and Chloe for

Chloé

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“If you begin to resemble Jodie Foster in The King and I, know you’ve taken the trend a little too far!” your inspiration. And for those who feel their legs don’t stretch that long, and shorter is better, despair not for the 50’s inspired fuller, petal skirt is an alternative.

A word of caution here, if you begin to resemble Jodie Foster in The King and I, know you’ve taken the trend a little too far!

But visual impact isn’t just about what pieces you choose to wear but also how it is all

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pulled together. This is a critical ingredient to take you from being mundane, predictable, and just plain ordinary – to positively extraordinary.

Some powerful pointers to set you on the right track: 1. If pattern happens to be your thing, then two rules to remember: less is more and vary large with small or onlooker’s eyes, for all the wrong reasons on your outfit will fall!

Moving on from theory now to real life.

Caroline consulted me to help her look more credible and mature at work. She felt her youth was limiting her from reaching the top in her chosen profession. She, like most of us, regarded what she saw as a personal inadequacy, as her reason for not achieving what she instinctively knew she could. Needless to say, what

If you blindly follow, you’ll never lead.

This goes for what you wear as well as how you work. Just like the true great chefs when following a recipe – they always add their own secret ingredient!

2. A monotone look is a very professional choice indeed but needs livening up by mixing fabric textures (think of layering a cake). A lightweight, more fluid fabric like silk or georgette works beautifully with a more medium drape wool gabardine.

“She took some risks and ditched the traditional two piece suit opting for a more dynamic, put together look”

3. Move away from the predictable uniform of the maleinspired ladies’ work suit. Spice things up a little and learn to mix and match.

4. The law of thirds applies to the next pointer. Different hem lengths work best. A longer jacket and a shorter skirt, or tunic style knitwear piece worn with a knee length dress. Try a longer, wider trouser with a shorter, body contoured jacket.

All of which will shake up your look and discretely reveal your knowledge of proportion.

Even Da Vinci would be quietly impressed!

she saw in herself was invisible to others and not an issue at all; rather it was her own selfimposed limiting belief. She took some risks and ditched the traditional two piece suit opting for a more dynamic, put together look, still in keeping with the “city’s” professional code of dress. It was her individual take which did the trick.

Chloé

Armani

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special report

Could your daughter change the world?

Gerry Skeens reports.

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nformation Technology has the power to improve society for the better - and nothing is changing the world as fast as IT. But according to BCS, The Chartered Institute for Information Technology, the profession is heavily maledominated and seems currently to be about the uncoolest job on the planet for girls.

Yet in the early days of computers, women made up

Hedy Lamarr

50% of the industry workforce, typically dealing with all the so-called “soft stuff ”, like programming. Everything else seemed to be the preserve of skinny, spotty spectacled male nerds.

“Nowadays”, says Dr Sue Black, founder of the BCS’s Women’s Group, “despite knowing as we do that a more balanced team produces a more productive workforce, males account for as much as 80% of it.”

Such is the concern about the dearth of women in the rapidly evolving digital world that in May this year the BCS launched a celebrity film campaign to highlight IT - or Information Communication Technology (ICT) as our schoolchildren know it - as a career path for girls. The films highlighted the accomplishments of five extraordinary women who shaped the early years of computing. Among them were Ada Lovelace, Lord Byron’s

daughter, often regarded as one of the world’s first computer programmers, and Hedy Lamarr, the1940’s Hollywood superstar, who played an active role in the development of the idea behind early wireless communications, but who was side-lined and told to use her famous face to raise money for the war effort instead!

“The films make a connection between the work these inspiring people did in the past and the technology we all use on a daily basis in the information society we live in today,” says Elizabeth Sparrow, BCS President. There was also an online competition where people voted for their

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special report favourite IP. The winner, Alan Turing, was the father of artificial intelligence and Bletchley Park WW2 Enigma Code cracker.

A concerned BCS is now planning a series of talks in secondary schools, but at least two Wimbledon girls schools are already on the case and part-way to a solution.

Antoni Antoniou, head of ICT at Ursuline (Business and Enterprise) High School for Girls, explains “ICT is here to stay and empowering all of us – it has changed the way we learn, interact, relax and work.

It is no longer just the old male preserve of telecommunications and computer engineering. We have female role models both in the teaching staff and technical support staff. Initially, though, interest needs to be generated to lead students to study ICT at uni and progress into ICT related professions. Already innovative and relevant LEVEL 2 BTEC i-Media, including web design, video editing and digital photography, at a Grade B GCSE equivalent, is offered to years 10 and 11.”

At the Ursuline all students have access to laptops, and a curriculum enriched by an ethos of ‘anytime-anywhere’ learning.

In September there will be an innovative new ICT curriculum across the school and a Microsoft Office specialist curriculum rolled out in Yr 9 to gain a range of industry recognized ICT qualifications with additional Level 3 available to 6th formers.

The school is working hard to ensure students leave fully equipped with the ICT skills to realise their career aspirations.

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Ricards Lodge, agrees that times are changing.

“Now many creative jobs in media and design require solid ICT skills,” he says. ‘Employers value a wider range of skills in IT employees – technical, business and interpersonal. They know, too, ICT will help them find work in hospitality, business and manufacturing. Half of our girls choose ICT as option in years 10and11, and all complete a tech GCSE.” He adds that vocational courses – web design, desktop publishing, computer graphics and animation jobs, as well as graphic design, multimedia production, project management, and marketing and digital media jobs are all fast, dynamic and fun – and are being taking up by the girls at Ricards with a great deal of enthusiasm.

It appears even companies keen to hire women struggle to find them - or keep them. Some girls with techie degrees choose other careers or leave the sector altogether, often citing family commitments.

Those wanting to woo the ladies clearly need to do more.

Suggestions include creating a supportive environment, female

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mentors or support groups, and flexible hours or remote working.

For female ‘returners’ after a career break, there’s the added problem of being hopelessly out-of-date in such a fast-moving field.

Employers might consider offering on-line ‘updating courses’, perhaps as part of the maternity package, to be undertaken in the ‘off-period’.

With the advent of the new social networks like Facebook, Twitter, MySpace and others, IT certainly isn’t the boring, geeky stuff anymore. Things have changed, and there’s no reason why women can’t become a big part of IT. For more details visit bcs.org and sueblack.co.uk

Left to Right: Darling Editor Karine Torr, MD of Women in Technology Maggie Berry, BCS President Elizabeth Sparrow and writer Gerry Skeens

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“survival rates are improving – probably as a result of improved treatment and earlier detection”

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very day we hear of people around us affected by breast cancer and 46 000 people a year receive the devastating news that they have this disease but survival rates are improving – probably as a result of improved treatment and earlier detection.

At Eloise Lingerie we are here to help all year round and give you as much support in our field as we possibly can. We are specialists in fitting ladies with beautiful post surgery lingerie and fashionable mastectomy swimwear, as well as tops and nightwear with pockets to accommodate your breast form. Specially trained fitters with excellent knowledge of up to date prosthesis styles and shapes are on hand so we can ensure that your breast form is as close to your natural shape as possible.

With over 80% of women wearing the wrong size bra it is especially important after having breast surgery as the right bra will ensure a breast form or prosthesis sits better in the cup giving you improved shape and symmetry and more body confidence.

Styles are available for purchase on the day so you can leave our newly refurbished and fully accessible showroom feeling fantastic!

To book an appointment for a free fitting with us by calling 0845 22 55 080 or eloise.co.uk We are close to South Wimbledon tube and Morden Road tram stop and have plenty of free parking right outside our door. Also go to breastcancercare. org 020 7960 3463 to find out more about the events and activities for this special month.

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gardening

Your local horticultural heroes Liam Latham and Robert Stacewicz on hand for Autumn.

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he lack of rain since April meant that we have been through one of the driest summers for a very long time. At one stage in late July, maps showed that the rest of the UK had received heavy rain, apart from South London.

The dry has meant that most people’s lawns desiccated, many established yet drought intolerant shrubs such as Rhododendrons and Azaleas found it a real struggle.

With the autumn season fast approaching, now is a good time to replace affected shrubs, or take remedial action.

Adding a mulch of compost and pruning will encourage fresh new growth. It could be worth considering introducing drought tolerant plants that will grow happily during cool, wet summers, yet hold their own during hot, dry ones.

Many drought tolerant plants can be planted at this time of

year, maybe watering once or twice, then never again! Some favourites are Lavender, Olive, Californian Lilac and Bay. I would also suggest Oriental Poppies and Bearded Iris with their huge blooms. Shrubs such as Pittosporum tobira and the small tree Albizia julibrissin, with delicate ferny leaves and sea-urchin-shaped pink flowers through July and August.

Now is the time to plant spring bulbs. The fashionable Allium is available in a variety of forms, and does well in a dry, sunny situation. Tulips will also do well in these sorts of conditions.

If you are on clay soil, or have a shady part of the garden under trees or shrubs, Daffodils are the perfect choice. Even if you aren’t keen on the typical Daffodil, there are so many different varieties, forms, colours and sizes, there will undoubtedly be a type that you like.

time of year, if you don’t have one already. Using posts and pallets for a sturdy heap, or just a simple hoop of chicken wire pegged in place will suffice. As perennials die back, gradually cut them down. General garden detritus, such as leaves and fallen fruit will help fill your compost heap.

The hot, dry summer will mean that the autumn colours will be particularly vivid. Make sure you take time to visit some of the larger landscaped gardens this autumn. The arboretum at RHS Wisley should be stunning, and will be worth the trek across Battlestone Hill.

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dental

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“Putting your money where your mouth is can prevent serious injury” explains Dr. Nikki Gulati from Southfields Dental Centre.

A s the summer holidays draw to an end and you are once again getting the “back to school” things ready, one item is often overlooked! Though on most school lists as an essential item, few parents invest in a customised mouth guard for their child. So here are just a few FAQ’s answered by Dr Nikki Gulati from Southfields Dental Centre on the benefits of a custom made sports guard.

Why is a sports guard essential? Sports guards not only provide great, immediate protection for the teeth and gums, but they also secure dental health for years to come. Teenagers and young adults are likely to have trauma if an accident occurs, so investing in a custom made sports guard is essential.

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durable, hard wearing material and have an excellent fit. They are made by qualified lab technicians and are certainly dental a better choice than over the counter ones. It is clear from many documented reviews that substantial injuries can occur when playing contact and non contact sports and a properly fitting sports guard can help prevent serious injuries such as trauma to the teeth and supporting tissues such as the lips, cheeks and the tongue.

Is there something for even the fussiest of teenagers?

Yes, customised mouth guards are available from simple clear ones to a wide variety of vibrant colours and designs such as camouflage and union jack to name a few. They have a comfortable fit as they are made professionally for each individual.

Better still, only a very short appointment is needed to take a correct mould of the teeth and gums!

Are they expensive? They cost a little more than “over the counter” varieties, but the long term benefits clearly outweigh the costs. You must remember

that teeth are for life, and a smile says a lot about a person.

So protecting that smile now can be very beneficial for young adults, psychologically and also in minimising further dental treatment, as we all know old sports injuries often raise their ugly heads later on in life and teeth are no exception to this!

Also after a long summer entertaining the kids, why not treat yourself to some pampering with a smile makeover, whitening or wrinkle reduction Botox/ Fillers also offered at Southfields Dental Centre. We currently have a special introductory offer for wrinkle reduction injections at only £125 per area.

Wimbledon Village Business Association Summer Party at The Rose & Crown

L-R Sue Avory & Antionette Pullicino from Valentina Fashion, Zara Sukharisingh, Peacock & Co Solicitors, Ema Jones, Richard Rooney & Co Solicitors and Elayne Myers from Michael Platt Jewellers.

L-R Simon Pole, Pole Structural Engineers, Broadcaster Adrian Mills, proprietor Thai Tho Restaurant, Christine Frazer, Savills, Judith Pole, Matthew Ruttley from Focus 216.

Art & Cocktails at Cannizaro House

L-R Wendy Khajenouri, John Nouri, Robert Holmes & Co, Estelle Khajenouri and Ashleigh Fleming from Beth Cooper Public Relations.

L-R Local resident Susan Wright, Artist Jayson Lilley, Stella & Patrick Gordon.

L-R Jeff Ward, General Manager Cannizaro House Hotel, Jane Keery from The Rose & Crown, Gary Davidson-Guild, Time & Leisure and Vivien Newbould from White Label Consultants.

L-R Lynda Reynolds from Merton Chamber of Commerce, Andrew Marsh, Best of Wimbledon, Steve and Alison Morley from Capsticks Solicitors.

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Right: Private Art Exhibition in Leopold Road Below: New Wimbledon Town Centre Info Desk

This new desk has been set up on the 1st floor of the Centre Court Shopping Centre to provide important information on local hotels, theatres, shops and businesses for visitors. Volunteers are currently needed to man the desk so tel. 020 8337 8098 and speak to Tracy Francis for details.

Seasons Florists Summer Showcase Evening

Locals were treated to a show in Leopold Road of recent work by three local artists, Sandy Layton, Wendy Bliss and Trish Phillips. Left to right: Top, Sarah Fisher, Jackie Reiss, Sheelah Bewley, Maggie Doruyol and Lyndall Di Marco. Middle, Yvette Vaughn-Jones, Rosie Leclercq, Wendy Bliss, Sandy Layton, Trish Phillips and Catherine Franklin.

Bottom, John and Francesca Carter.

Mari Lawrence from Seasons teamed up with Maundy Todd, Sculpture Gallery owner for a one night only, “Garden Dressing” show. Enjoying the tranquil atmosphere of the garden displays were: Left to right, Nick Wright-Butler, Manager at Seasons, Jane Roth, Co-ordinator Seasons Florists, architect Mariko Lawrence, Anne Edwards, Make-up Artist and Ve Taylor, an administrator.

South Park Gardens Music Festival

Left to right: Organisers Julien Butler & Mandy Mallen with XFM DJ John Kennedy Organised by Julian Butler and Mandy Mallen for the second year running, South Park Gardens Festival was held over the summer in the heart of wimbledon town. Driven by their passion for young people’s music, the event was started with the assistance of Jill Hall and Helen Fuller and the friends of South Park Gardens. XFM DJ John Kennedy hosted the event. It provided a fantastic platform for some great up and coming local talent. Visit: southparkgardnsmusicfestival.com

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Mr & Miss Wimbledon 2010 at Tapanco

Mayor of Merton: Cllr Oonagh Moulton with Thomas Moulton at Mr & Miss Wimbledon 2010.

Left to right: Mr Wimbledon 2010, Tony Lloyd (talent: martial arts), Event Creator, Mark McGough, Miss Wimbledon 2010, Brayoni Cerveaux (talent: dancing), Peoples Choice, Ayme Brown (talent: acting), Chairman of China White, John Stephen, Managing Director of Elys of Wimbeldon, David James, Judge and Mr & Miss Wimbledon Ambassador to China, Yuan Yuan.

Wimbledon Business Forum at San Lorenzo

Left to right: Sam Vitty from Courtyard Solicitors, Jean Taylor, Wimbledon Offices Ltd, Brian Hodge, Economic Regeneration Team Leader for Merton Council, Jon Vincent, Advertising, Filming and Sponsorship Officer for Merton Council and Anthony Wilkinson, Director of the Wimbledon Music Festival.

Left to right: Becktoria Charmix, Miss Wimbledon: Brayoni Cerveaux, Mr Wimbledon: Tony Lloyd, Milly Elvis, Steven Dick, Jamal Lewis, Andaç Zorbaz and Ayme Brown.

Wimbledon Fashion Week 2010 at Cento

Left to right: Max Velody from ITV, Fashion Designer Mi Kyoung Kim, Actor Clifford Allison, Marketing Consultant Lauren Lorenzo and Stylist Katie McDowell.

Model Georgie Trick modelling one of Keturah J Grumble’s outfits.

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Wimbledon College of Art Summer Show Hosts Wimbledon Bookfest Launch

Third year students in set design for stage and screen who where on hand to give talks about their exciting work which was on display in the exhibition. Left to right: Thomas Lowthion, Kayleigh Livermore and Oliver Lloyd.

Crowd shot at the Wimbledon College of Art Summer show, with the famous big baby sculture.

Left to right: Mandy Mallen Bookfest Trustee with patron Penny Vincenzi.

Left to right: Local scultor Samantha Loggie and Bookfest Education Outreach Programme Organiser, Gemma Malley teen fiction writer and author of The Declaration, Fiona Razvi Festival Director of Wimbledon Bookfest and Jennifer Cox, author and judge in the school’s writing competition.

Naked Health on Coombe Lane has Open Day

One of the most exciting events on the Autumn local calender is the The Wimbledon Bookfest, 2nd - 10th October 2010, which was officially launched at the Wimbledon College of Art Summer Show for graduating artists, designers and performers. The event was opened by popular author and patro, Penny Vincenzi followed by Oliver Lloyd one of the graduating students from the College. wimbledonbookfest.org

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Left to right: Julia Gateley, Stephanie Ward, Mari Zadeh and Louise Stewart.

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Ray Stevens Judo Club Wins Award

“Ray Stevens Judo Club received a Clubmark Award in the summer from the British Judo Association. Very few clubs in the UK have achieved this accolade in such a short time.”

Eloise Lingerie Opens new Showrooms

Tony Sweeney, Honorary President of the London Judo Association presenting Olympic medalist, Ray Stevens with the club’s award.

There to celebrate new ranges and displays were L-R Local actress Lucy Petrie, proprietor Harriet de Wolff, Sylvia Clark now at Eloise (expert Harrods's bra fitter for 27 years), and Shelagh Regester, CRM consultant and part-time Raynes Park resident.

New Wimbledon Theatre Rocks with Horror

Summer Sing-a-long to the iconic Rocky Horror Picture Show at the New Wimbledon Theatre.

A raucous time was had by all with fancydress, actions and sing-a-long. Not for the faint-hearted!

Left to Right: Malory Torr (Riff Raff ) Ryan Hauxwell (Brad), Frankey Hauxwell (Janet), Miranda Wallace (Magenta) and Sidony Ramsey ((Little Nell).

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The Story of Old Central and Bishop Gilpin School

Left - Right: Barbara Zarzycki, project manager Bishop Gilpin History Group, John Harvey, author, Elizabeth Lloyd-Owen, parent and editor of the book, Betty Syrett, former pupil.

Left to Right: Betty Slinger, retired school administrator for 31 years, Bob Cargill, Former Head Teacher, Liz Broad, Chair of the Governors of Bishop Gilpin and Sheila Dunman, local history advisor who helped with the book.

Motivating Mum in Hemmingways

Top, Left to Right: Nina Hill, Personal and Business Coach, Elaine Halligan from The Parent Practice, Lucy Martin, speaker and host, Ali Price. Ali Price of Motivating Mum, support and advice for mums in business, recently hosted a networking evening at Hemmingways lounge in Wimbledon Village. Speaker Lucy Martin, local author of “Make It Your Business” gave guests her pearls of wisdom and some good contacts were established.

For More Details Call 020 8542 2710 Right, this summer saw a special open art exhibition day at The Forest Bailiff.

Among those attending and exhibiting were: Top, Left to Right: Mark Woodruff Stuart Dewey and Janine Dewey from O'keefe Fashion, Veda Hallowes, local sculptor and garden designer, Julia Linford. Bottom, Left to Right: Florence Woodruff, Lucy Woodruff owner of the fabulous Forest Bailiff, Veda Hallowes and Victoria Hughes.

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The launch party for A Firm Foundation The Story of Old Central and Bishop Gilpin School, Wimbledon 1758-2008 took place on 30 June 2010 at Bishop Gilpin School, Wimbledon and was attended by many friends of the school including the mayor, teachers and past pupils, among them Betty Syrett who was a pupil at Old Central 1926 – 1931 (and is a forth generation Wimbledonian, having been born in Walnut Tree Cottages in Church Rd).

The book brings the past to life telling the story of how one of the oldest primary schools in England came into existence in 1758 and records its fortunes to the present day. The author John Harvey has a long association with the school as past pupil of Old Central and Deputy Headmaster of Bishop Gilpin School.

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weight management

Debbie Brooks gets your measure

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don’t know about you but I’ve recently noticed that the countdown to Christmas has already started.

Unfortunately, for those of us who are carrying a few (or more) unwanted pounds, the thought of shopping for a ‘knock-em-dead’ party outfit might not hold much joy.

However, planning and losing weight sensibly, well in advance of the usual Christmas panic crash diet, can pay dividends in how you’re going to feel in a couple of months time, when you venture forth hoping to fit into that divine dress you’ve seen the window of L K Bennett in Wimbledon, or another of the wonderful boutiques up in the Village or down the Broadway.

Yet dieting on your own can sometimes be a miserable affair, counting calories and listening to comments from well meaning family and friends who tell you that you ‘‘don’t need to lose weight’’ and are ‘‘fine as you are’’. They just don’t seem to understand how important it is to you to lose weight and improve not only your dresssize but your health as well.

They may inadvertently make it harder for you as they tempt you with “just one won’t hurt,

you’ve been so good you deserve it!”. Support and understanding from others can be crucial to success.

When I review my clients’ experiences of the LighterLife Weight Loss and Weight Management Programme, it’s this aspect that they value most. LighterLife clients are provided with a high level of face-to-face support in small (up to 12 members), single-sex, weekly groups, facilitated by a qualified Weight-Management Counsellor (that’s me!). One of my clients recently told her group that she hadn’t initially realised how important such support could be – making such an incredible difference to her ability to stick with a weight loss programme.

This summer has been especially exciting for me as Gail, one of my Management clients, featured as cover girl in the summer 2010 LighterLife Magazine. Going from a size 22 to a size 8, Gail comments that what really motivated her was her group - “My group was fantastic. All of us bonded” - and the Counsellor support “Whenever I had a wobble or felt like I couldn’t keep going Debbie would be there for me”.

Gail has been successfully managing her weight-loss for nearly 2 years with the support of the LighterLife Management Programme, enjoys wearing bright colours and will no doubt have great fun choosing her party outfit this Christmas.

The question is, will you?

If you would like to receive a copy of Debbie’s regular e-Newsletter, containing articles on successful weightmanagement, send me an email on debbie.brooks@ lighterlifecounsellor.com Debbie Brooks LighterLife Counsellor t: 020 8540 3023 lighterlife.com

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'Inside Wimbledon' is the new feature length documentary just released on DVD. This new 95 minute film explores everything Wimbledon, and details the village's varied history dating from the Iron Age hill fort to the present day.

Check out www.wimblefilm.com for more details on this exciting new DVD.

Local Wimbledon photographer Victoria Carew Hunt shoots Michael Caine for his new book.

Sir Michael Caine is recording part two of his self-penned autobiography for an audio book.

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when I met Sir Michael in Soho to take this shot.

It was the morning after an Evening Standard editorial had dubbed him ‘a national treasure’, which he was unaware of because the London tabloid is not on sale in Leatherhead, his home town.

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Once a year the world comes to Wimbledon. For the rest of the year, thanks to the True Volunteer Foundation, Wimbledon goes out to the world.

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Darling has discovered an extraordinary outreach organisation that started in Wimbledon and is beginning to make a difference in far flung places and at home.

Back in 2004, when TVF was founded in Wimbledon, initial fundraising meetings took place at David Lloyd Leisure to help fund its first major projects.

Loretta Bird recollects: “My husband and I met up with Michael Padmanathan, one of the founders, at the Fox and Grapes on the Common. After the Tsunami had just caused so much destruction we decided to host a gala ball within 12 weeks.”

Dao Tran-Boyd

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After 8 weeks gone only 30 tickets were sold. John Mager, a member of the organising committee, recollects: “This was the first major event so we could not fail. However, the people of Wimbledon came good and a sellout crowd of 330 raised over £25,000. A number of sponsors came onboard including David Lloyd Leisure.”

TVF built 3 schools and a children’s home. The Birds had put in so much time and effort that TVF named one of the schools Bluebird after them and their dog, Blue. TVF now has 15 schools in Asia and Africa and this is what interested Dao TranBoyd, a local business woman.

“My dream has always been to build something for children in my native country Vietnam. I was lucky enough to move to the UK and escape the war but as a result, I felt that I needed to find a way to give something back.

I am ecstatic to have discovered TVF! As a True Volunteer, this dream can now come true!”

In July Dao went to Vietnam and saw the land where the school will be built and started organising Cycle Vietnam, a 500km

Kids at the Bluebird School

bicycle ride which will take place in November 2011 to raise funds to for this project.

TVF is a unique charity. No one gets paid and no one gets expenses reimbursed. There are over 100 True Volunteers who donate between 5 and 35 hours of their time per week to various duties within an organisation.

Many True Volunteers work from home.

TVF has projects in 28 countries and a number of initiatives are planned in Merton relating to improving school dinners, free sport for middle aged women and addressing mental disorders amongst the young.

To get involved in local projects or Cycle Vietman please email info@truevolunteer.org or call 020 3468 7671 truevolunteer.org

homeopathy

Dyslexia, Learning Disorders and ADHD Homeopath Maria Jevtic explains her approach with children

approach to treating learning disorders is truly holistic.

In the first instance I will establish all factors involved in your child’s particular case.

Then I will design a programme that involves homeopathic remedies and nutritional changes.

Treatment may take 1-2 years, but subtle improvements may be noticed from the first month onwards.

At the beginning of another academic year and after a long and relaxing holiday this is the time to look for solutions to your child’s learning disorder.

Whether the issue is reading, spelling, handwriting or simply concentrating on a task, your child may be helped with Homeopathy and Nutrition.

Some forms of learning disabilities and ADHD may be improved if not completely reversed by making dietary changes and using homeopathic remedies to repair any chemical imbalances of the nervous system. Learning disorders may be caused by a combination of factors such as hereditary, vaccinations, nutritional imbalances, and exposure to heavy metals and pharmaceutical drugs. Sometimes food allergies can be involved too, and so my

A typical programme may include the detoxification of vaccines (which does not inactivate vaccines, but addresses side-effects they may have had on the nervous system). This will be done with homeopathic remedies given in liquid or tablet form. In addition you may be required to avoid food additives and stimulants and add a large dose of omega 3 supplements to your child’s diet. Daily exercise and regular sleep routine is also important, especially for ADHD sufferers.

In my practice I use a special approach that ensures regular communication between parents and myself. Weekly telephone check-ups included in a monthly fee are encouraged and this helps parents to stay motivated and positive. Being a mother of a

very energetic and opinionated child myself (although not clinically hyperactive), I can relate to many educational as well as parenting issues first hand.

I accept only a small number of clients so that I can dedicate more time to each and everyone.

ADHD and learning disorders are not life-threatening, but they do cast a shadow over the life of whole families. There may be a way to lift this burden with Homeopathy and Nutrition.

If you are interested in my approach and would like to know more, please contact me today without obligation.

Maria is a fully qualified Homeopath and Nutritionist practicing in Wimbledon Village

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legal

In this Autumn issue Marek Bednarczyk talks travel insurance.

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ummer holidays beckon with the lure of blue skies, warm seas and exotic drinks. The last thought that anyone will have is that your holiday could be spoilt by a bad accident.

Unfortunately accidents do happen including while you are on holiday abroad and

most people would benefit from knowing some of the key issues that can arise when your holiday threatens to turn into a nightmare.

GETTING READY Preparing for the worst is no bad idea and the tips below

should be considered before you go on a foreign holiday.

1. Check your travel insurance – Does it cover everything that you might need? Will it provide payments if you have suffered a personal injury? Does it cover the cost of medical expenses and the cost of you having to be flown back to the UK for medical treatment and recovery? If you have a package deal check whether the insurance is adequate and covers all these areas.

It would also be sensible to check whether you have legal expenses cover to help you pursue a claim. Remember cheap insurance is not always the best insurance.

2. Do you have with you all the necessary contact details for your insurers in case you need to obtain prior authorisation from them to cover the cost of private medical treatment whilst you are abroad?

3. Do you have a copy of the certificate of insurance and a copy of the detailed policy

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terms and conditions? – You may need to refer to these documents when you are abroad.

4. If your insurer has a set procedure for dealing with claims have you read it? Do you know what time limits are imposed for reporting claims to your insurers? Are you aware of any other time limits

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that can apply if you have an accident abroad?

5. If you are on a package tour do you have a copy of the brochure detailing what you can expect on your holiday and what the terms and conditions are that apply to your package? Remember correspondence can also include additional terms and

conditions so keep all the package tour details together.

For further information about what to do if you have an accident on holiday, contact Marek Bednarczyk: t: 0208 9478171 personalinjury@hartbrown.co.uk www.hartbrown.co.uk 58 High Street, Wimbledon Village, London SW19 5EE

Images courtesy of the Spanish Tourist Office

abroad

Wimbledon’s Zumba Girls on the French Riviera

By Christine Phizackerley

interested and before you could shake a stick, 19 girls had signed up and paid for a dream weekend at the first Zumba and Bootcamp By the Sea.

The idea of a weekend of Bootcamp and Zumba was first mooted one grey, rainy February morning. Running around the frozen Oberon field, some bright spark quipped that they'd rather be on the French Riviera. Sun and sea anyone?? Someone else puffed that they had a house in the Lavandou and that was it ...a plan had been hatched!

An email was sent round to the clients of Ray Stevens Fitness Club to see if anyone was

On arrival at Nice airport we bundled ourselves into 3 minicabs and took off down the freeway.

The host’s house was out of this world and the last word in luxury. We were greeted by silver buckets of pink champagne on ice and nibbles.

Ray Stevens Fitness had spared no expense and each guest received 2 monogrammed fluffy towels and glittering powder puffs to make the toned muscles gleam.

After a quick shower, Angela Oliviera, the fabulous Zumba teacher from Mozambique, gave the first lesson on how to sashay elegantly, whilst clutching a glass of bubbly in one hand. This was to be no ordinary fitness weekend.

Sunday came around all too quickly and it was back to reality in Wimbledon. Activities had included tennis, swimming, sea and pool, mountain walking,

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meditation, Zumba and fitness workouts - not forgetting sunbathing and fine dining....a lunch in St Tropez. For those who wanted a quieter time, beds were reserved on the private beach, sun loungers at the house under the fruiting apricot trees, little corners of paradise were to be found around the stunning property. A very special thanks goes to Elizabeth for her "tin can" and to Christine for her "hut"(both in-house jokes!!)

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finance

Richard Hunter Director of Equity Invest advises.

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or lots of Wimbledon residents, the sinking feeling of school fees leaving your bank account has either just happened or is about to happen over the coming weeks.

For many young families this huge burden can be completely avoided with some sensible planning.

If you are in the fortunate position of having your children’s grandparents around – you may have some very helpful options available to you. If they have built up a substantial nest-egg to benefit you and your family after they die, why not discuss the possibility of making a gift now. Not only can this help with essential costs such as school fees, but more importantly the family can avoid substantial losses through inheritance tax.

For example if a grandparent has £100 000 available in cash or investments, but it simply sits there, year after year, it is highly probable that when you eventually inherit this money it will only be worth £60,000 due to a tax charge of £40,000.

However, if that £100,000 were to be put into trust now, and invested wisely, this tax could easily be avoided.

Most importantly, grandparents have the privilege of watching their hard earned savings helping their families now, and experience the pleasure these gifts can bring in their lifetime.

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Mi Kyoung Kim

Keturah J Grumble

Ilayda Altuntas

Arnab Sengupta

Melis Binay

Holly Bee

Keturah J Grumble

Mark McGough holds Wimbledon Fashion Week at Cento. Photography by Helena Tepli.

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imbledon Fashion Week 2010 was recently held at Cento, a trendy new restaurant and cocktail bar recently featured in OK! magazine. The event showcases up & coming designers and provides the designers with models, hair & make-up, sound facilities, the venue and global marketing.

Arnab Sengupta bowing to the audience

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“If you have just graduated Wimbledon Fashion Week is a great place to start.” says Mark McGough, event creator. “If you are willing to take advantage of it, you’d be surprised how much power the name can really give you, especially if you are from

abroad.” The featured designers were Mi Kyoung Kim from South Korea, Ilayda Altuntas from Turkey, Keturah J Grumble from the UK, Arnab Sengupta from India, Melis Binay from Turkey and Holly Bee from the UK. Hair and make-up was provided by Ayesha Mubarak, additional management was provided by Mehreen Beg and our photography sponsor was Memory Gate. Helena Tepli also took photo’s for the event and our media partner was Darling Magazine. London Fashion Week watch out!

For More Details Visit wimbledonfashionweek.co.uk

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                                                    44 darling/sept - oct 2010

                       

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    

  

                

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By Kate Greenhalgh

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s three of my daughters have been victims of unprovoked girl-gang attacks, the subject of female aggression is now one of morbid interest to me. Parents of boys are sadly familiar with how often their sons get randomly thumped, but the phenomenon of girls physically attacking girls is perhaps more unusual. Or so I thought.

Two of the attacks were serious enough for police intervention.

My 13 year-old was unhurt, but her friend was punched in the face. The attackers were of a similar age, and from a ‘rival’ school. My 20 year-old was dragged to the ground by her hair and had her face repeatedly kicked by a group of 14 and 15 year-old girls, on the pretext that she did not give them cigarettes.

(She doesn’t smoke!) Both attacks were in daylight, on ordinary, ‘nice’ streets. This attack was serious enough to go to juvenile court where I’m pleased to say that a conviction was secured.

You can imagine how I felt about a child who had nearly broken the jaw of my own daughter, and pulled out a chunk of her hair so big that the scalp was bleeding.

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ran like hell and got away! Very wise!)

Reams have been written about the “butching up” of women and the ladette culture. Women are going around like bottledup psychopaths, they are so testosterone-fuelled these days!

Female aggression is traditionally supposed to take more insidious, ladylike forms - being rude to shop assistants, competing furiously through one’s children’s achievements, being inventively undermining about other women, and so on, but how close to the surface is the impulse to be physically violent, as a woman?

(Is it ok that I used to fantasise about pushing my French teacher out of a window when I was at school? She was really nasty to me about the Preceding Direct Object!) How many of us would love to shed our feminine conditioning and bash someone up now and then? When our sons’ school bus disgorges at the end of the day, we’re used to picking bits of human flesh out of their teeth and packing a steak on their black eyes - it’s all good, clean fun, (or rugby). Men are lucky, somehow, that it’s accepted as just their way. But will it do in a woman?

I remember how I actually felt seeing the bully who beat up my daughter. She was a hulking girl, with a hulking mother next to her, shouting swear words. The girl looked confused and stupid.

You could see the female example she had grown up with and it was depressingly obvious why we were in court in the first place.

What an awful life already. I didn’t want to thump her, I didn’t want to tear her hair out, I didn’t want revenge. I felt sorry for her.

Patronising, saintly sentiments, I know, but the trouble with venom is that it’s a cup you end up drinking on your own. But bottled-up niceness? I suppose it sometimes has a funny way of bursting out, too, if you let it, and is probably more cathartic.

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