Danville Living CA June 2022

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Table of Contents 5 Common Causes of Shoulder Pain

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Letter to Residents

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Expert Contributors List

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Meet the Carradine-Visola Family

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ARF Adoption Stars

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Real Estate Statistics

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Calendar of Events

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What You Need To Know About Funding Your New Small Business

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A Favorite Spot

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Rattlesnake Safety in the Regional Parks

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Rivalry week: MVHS vs. SRVHS

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Congratulations Mustang Soccer Seniors!

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Expert Contributor

Resident Feature

Pet Corner

Expert Contributor

Adventure Time

Local Sports Local Sports

Tri-Valley Animal Rescue Pet Corner

Community Feedback Sought for Danville’s Local Roadway Safety Plan

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Town of Danville

A Message from County Librarian Alison McKee

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What Causes Hair Loss in Women?

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Year of Random Holidays

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Reasons to Consider Visiting Cypress Lawn This Summer

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Montair’s Auction was a Roaring Success!

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Arts and Culture

Expert Contributor

Kid Corner

Expert Contributor

Montair Elementary School

Hear Chelsea Ames LIVE! Arts & Culture

A History of SRVHS Grad Night San Ramon Valley High School

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Graduations, Celebrations, Now What? (The Journey Beyond Empty Nesting)

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What to Do After an Alzheimer’s or Dementia Diagnosis

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A Berry Happy June

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Expert Contributor Expert Contributor

Cooking Corner

This or That: Summer Edition Fun and Games

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Expert Contributor

5 Common Causes of Shoulder Pain

By Dr. Jesse Call, Sycamore Valley Chiropractic

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id you know that the shoulder is one of the biggest and most complex joints in the human body?

While a traumatic event or injury can be the culprit of sudden shoulder pain, there are many other causes that can lead to tension and mobility issues.

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Here are a few of the most common issues we see in the practice.

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Rotator cuff injuries. This type of problem doesn’t always come from sudden trauma. In fact, years of wear and tear can lead to eventual rotator cuff tears or irritation. They typically occur in the dominant arm and are more common as you age, due to over or increased use.

Bursitis. All over your body, you have thin, sac-like structures called bursae, which helps to keep soft tissues from rubbing against your bones. Sometimes, bursa can experience too much friction, which leads to inflammation and ultimately, pain.

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Arthritis. This can occur in any joint in the body. When a person experiences shoulder pain without a known injury, it may be caused by osteoarthritis or rheumatoid arthritis. This is best diagnosed with an X-ray of the shoulder.

Frozen shoulder. Also known as adhesive capsulitis, this type of pain happens when the tissue surrounding the shoulder becomes tightened, which severely restricts movement and makes function difficult.

Spine problems. That pain you feel in your shoulder may not actually be caused by a problem in your shoulder. Herniated discs and misaligned spinal bones can cause pain to occur in the arms, hands, and even shoulder.

At our practice, we often work with patients struggling with shoulder pain through natural gentle adjustments, physiotherapy modalities like electric stim or therapeutic ultrasound, sports massage and rehab exercises. If you’re interested in finding out more about how chiropractic care may help, contact us today.

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Hey Neighbors!

“School’s out.. for summer!” - does anyone else just have to sing that every year? Bring on the long nights, BBQs and pool days! Hello summer camp and new friends! I love our school and teachers, but summer just feels like the best family time!

This month we are featuring the Carradine-Visola Family. If you’ve ventured out near the Growler, no doubt you’ve seen their amazing front yard change themes with each season. We also have great expert articles and some fun resident pieces.

Remember, if you have a story to share or know a neighbor that you would love to see on our cover, please send me an email at asullivan@bestversionmedia. com. We welcome all families, couples, or individuals - the only requirement is that our feature family live on the west side of Danville. So send your friends and neighbors my way. I can’t wait to meet them!

See you around town!

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We are dedicated to sharing your stories and interests. If there is anything you would like to share with our community, or see in our magazine, please don’t hesitate to email me at asullivan@bestversionmedia.com

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Excellent work. I highly recommend Mary to anyone looking for the best.

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Expert Contributors

To learn more about becoming an expert contributor, contact Jo Peek at jpeek@bestversionmedia.com.

Banking Community Bank of the Bay Team Danville 925-838-2902 info@bankcbb.com www.bankcbb.com

Established in 1996, Community Bank of the Bay (CBB) is an independent, community-focused bank. Our mission is to foster and promote economic development in the communities we serve. We take the time to listen, understand, and develop customized financial solutions to support the needs of businesses. CBB is a FDIC member, SBA Preferred Lender, and a CDARS depository institution. We are California’s first FDIC-insured certified Community Development Financial Institution (CDFI).

Chiropractic Sycamore Valley Chiropractic (925) 837-5595 info@sycamorevalleychiropractic.com www.sycamorevalleychiropractic.com

Serving the Danville community since 1984, Sycamore Valley Chiropractic is here to provide you with the highest quality in natural health care. In our comfortable, welcoming environment, you’ll feel right at home. Whether you’re looking to restore your body after an injury has left you sidelined, or want to feel as good as possible, Sycamore Valley Chiropractic is the perfect place to begin your journey to wellness.

Cosmetic Surgery Stephen J. Ronan MD FACS Blackhawk Plastic Surgery and Migraine Center 925-736-5757 www.blackhawkplasticsurgery.com

Blackhawk Plastic Surgery has been offering their patients the highest quality care in the Blackhawk area for more than 20 years. Including a fully accredited on-site surgery center, clinical Med Spa and top ranked Hair Restoration Center, Dr. Ronan’s team of skilled professionals are dedicated to delivering transformative results with every treatment.

Education St. Isidore School (925) 837-2977 info@stisidore.org www.stisidore.org

St. Isidore School is the East Bay’s largest Catholic School serving TK-8th Grade. We believe each student is a unique and beautiful gift. We foster individuality in a familial environment, inspiring students to explore and grow. Our teachers create a love of learning by nurturing an inquisitive spirit, building connections, and developing critical thinking. We understand that today’s learners are tomorrow’s leaders.

End of Life Cypress Lawn Funeral Home & Memorial Park Bob Gordon (650) 550-8808 info@cypresslawn.com https://www.cypresslawn.com

Robert Gordon Jr. began his career at his grandfather’s cemetery and funeral home as a teenager — he worked in every position, eventually rising to the level of Vice President. He went on to hold director positions at both the El Camino Group and Service Corporation International. Bob is now the President and CEO of the Cypress Lawn Cemetery Association. He is a licensed funeral director and cemetery broker.

Life Coach EYC Life Coach Christina Dalton 925-872-4726 Christina@EYHLifeCoach.com www.eyhlifecoach.com

Christina Dalton is the principal Life Coach for Expanding YOUR Horizons. She is credentialed through ICF as a PCC, Professional Certified Coach. She has worked with people in all stages of life; including students, families, new businesses, etc. Christina embodies the passion and enthusiasm for you to reach your FULL professional and personal potential.

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Memory Care Carefield Pleasanton Memory Care Parveen Singh 925-750-8744 www.carefieldpleasanton.com

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Expert Contributors

To learn more about becoming an expert contributor, contact Jo Peek at jpeek@bestversionmedia.com.

Mortgage CrossCountry Mortgage LLC W. Todd Galde 925-854-5238 todd.galde@myccmortgage.com www.toddgalde.com

After more than 20 years, Todd Galde has mastered the process of helping borrowers with different income sources, matching the correct loan to their unique circumstances. We teach and advise, then we customize. A Direct Lender, Team Galde offers solutions with competitive rates and financing programs that give you more qualifying options, including the unique NINE Loan for owner-occupied purchase or refinance. Learn more at www.The9Loan.com.

Real Estate Janice Jordan Broker/Associate at Compass 925-580-7482 janice.jordan@compass.com

Janice Jordan comes from three generations of real estate experts. Her passion and perseverance, combined with 30 years of experience and being a Danville resident for over 20 years, is her key to creating an extraordinary client experience, always exceeding expectations, and the reason clients call on her every time they are buying or selling a home.

She is an upstanding member of the community and spends her time volunteering and supporting local events. In her spare time, Janice enjoys mountain biking, hiking, and spending time with her daughter Jenna, her horse, Wilder, and Australian Shepherd, Buster.

Remodeling America’s Dream Homeworks Vlad Chernioglo (916) 739-0996 vladc@dreamhomeworks.com

Our company offers one-stop shopping for your complete kitchen and bathroom remodeling projects. We handle the design, materials and installation in house, so you only deal with one, full-service company. Find all the styles, fixtures and products for your renovation project in our 20,000 sq. ft. kitchen and bathroom showroom.

Roofing HRC Roofing and Solar Inc Cris Hernandez 855-827-8957 cris@hrcroofingandsolar.com www.hrcroofingandsolar.com

Cris Hernandez started his career in his late teens. After gaining enough experience and aspiring to grow professionally, he started his own company. HRC Roofing and Solar Inc. has over 20 years of experience in residential and commercial installations and repairs of all roofing types, gutters and solar. Quality workmanship is HRC’s guaranteed for all your roofing and solar needs. CSLB Lic: 918651

Wealth Management Jim Carbonell Matt Forrey The Carbonell Forrey Wealth Management Group 925-279-1701 carbonellforreywmg@rbc.com www.rbcwmfa.com/carbonellforreywmg/

Local Danville residents, Jim and Matt have worked with families in the Bay Area for the past two decades. The Carbonell Forrey team offers customized investment planning and management services based on each individual’s unique set of needs and objectives. With a family-first approach, the team prides itself on delivering an exceptional experience so that clients are able to focus on the other important aspects of their lives.

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Meet the Carradine-Visola Family Danville’s Hidden Fairyland

By Alexandra Sullivan, Resident since 2017

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ust off of Danville Boulevard, in a quiet corner of downtown Danville lives Jordan and David Carradine, and their twins, Lex and Logan Visola. Thanks to a pandemic project and some friendly posts on NextDoor, their home has become a go-to location for neighbors (and more) while out on walks. Last year we featured their outdoor garden (https://www.danvillelivingca.com/the-most-magical-place-in-danville/) and its many transformations throughout the year - from an initial refreshed garden space and fairyland to a pumpkin patch and later a full Christmas display.

This time we are taking a closer look at the two special people behind the project!

David was born and raised in San Francisco. He’s got a deep love for the 49ers and has worked as a Union Elevator Mechanic for the last 21 years. At home he is the go-to chef.

Fan favorites include pulled pork sandwiches, tri-tip, and his famous fried chicken! Jordan says, “Everyone is always trying to find out what his recipe is. His mom taught him her secret recipe from Texas 30 years ago and he won’t share it! It’s absolutely delicious.” He loves fishing, kayaking and volunteering with Save Mount Diablo and other community organizations.

In a far more agricultural setting, Jordan grew up in Modesto. There she was surrounded by farms, fruit trees and gardens - a passion that she brought with her to their home in Danville. “I followed in my father’s footsteps to become a Graphic Designer. He worked at Gallo Winery for 40 years retiring as the Vice President of the Creative Services Department. As a little girl he would take me to work with him on the weekends. He would give me big pieces of paper, markers and clay. I would try to be like him and draw my own label and bottle designs. A creative fire was ignited and it laid the path for 8

What brought this city boy and country girl together? An encounter at Jordan’s cousin’s wedding, where Jordan spotted a handsome stranger across the room. Her cousin then played cupid to set them up on a date! In July of 2016 they met at Revel, continued the night over to Meenar’s (so David, who had never been to Danville before could get the whole downtown experience), and then ended their night with a four hour conversation at David’s truck, “We both knew immediately that there was something undeniably special between us.” They’ve been together ever since! On August 1, 2020 they tied the knot in their own front yard!

18-year-old twins Lex and Logan have loved living in Danville. Logan is in school majoring in Engineering while Lex is double majoring in Political Science and Spanish.

They are both working at Lucky, in Danville, while attending school. Together the family loves to vacation all over the west coast, from Seattle down to Mexico.

Jordan and David’s front space has not only brought the neighborhood together, but it also served as an opportunity for them to bond further and discover shared passions.

“I shared my gardening passion with David and now we’re both addicted to exploring nurseries and finding creative ways to maximize our space we have here (hence the fairy garden being created in the parking lot flower bed).“ In addition to revamping the parking lot garden bed, they’ve redone their large balcony and created an outdoor living space complete with a hydroponic garden, built by David. “We’ve just had our first harvest of romaine, kale, and broccoli - as well as parsley, mint and cilantro.” The garden outside is bustling with pollinators and lots of little creatures. “We have been able to watch the fascinating life cycle of the praying mantis that have made their way into our garden. From mating, laying an egg sac, to the mama waning and disappearing to watching the babies emerge from the egg sac on Mother’s Day this year!”

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Sweet rescue kitties, Flynn and Smoky, make everyone so happy at home!

DPD from concerned citizens! “I had resumed watering when the police arrived and he approached me to see if I was ok. When I told him the story he couldn’t stop laughing. David was upstairs taking a nap and missed the entire thing. Embarrassingly though our Ring camera did not!”

Praying Mantises are both friend and foe at the Carradine household: one little friend was actually responsible for the Danville Police Department showing up! Jordan was watering her Japanese Maple when a little guy jumped on her arm, and when she went to gently brush him off, he got up in her hair right on her ear. Her screams were loud enough to get the twins downstairs and trying to help, and apparently loud enough to cause three separate phone calls to

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If it hasn’t been said already, Jordan and David are living their dream here in Danville. “We always have people thanking us for bringing a lovely peaceful outdoor space for the community to enjoy year-round, but honestly it’s us that are thankful to be here and meet so many genuinely nice people. Everyone seems truly happy to live here. It is exactly the kind of place we had hoped to find and are grateful every day to be here!”

Do you know a neighbor who has a story to share?

Nominate your neighbor to be featured in one of our upcoming issues! Contact us at asullivan@bestversionmedia.com.

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Pet Corner

ARF Adoption Stars

Uli

Christa Noriega, ARF Adoption Manager

Clover

Looking for a furry friend during this trying time? If you see an animal you’re interested in on our website, just fill out an online inquiry form.

Once your inquiry has been received, you will be added to our virtual adoption queue.

Ten-year-old Uli is a spunky, playful old gal who is eagerly waiting to find a home. She is a sweet girl with a shy side. She just wants to enjoy her retirement where she can rest and play at her leisure, and of course be loved and doted on as well. She currently weighs 74 pounds and her adoption fee has been prepaid by a generous donor.

Meet your forever friend at Tony La Russa’s Animal Rescue Foundation, 2890 Mitchell Drive, Walnut Creek, during adoption hours: Noon to 6 pm Wednesday & Thursday, Noon to 7 pm Friday, and Noon to 6 pm Saturday & Sunday.

Would you like to be part of the heroic team that saves the lives of rescued dogs and cats? Can you share your talents to connect people and animals? ARF volunteers are making a difference! For more information see our website, www.arflife.org, or call (925) 256-1ARF.

ARF adoption fees: $250 for an adult dog, $350 for a puppy (<6months), $125 for a special- needs dog, $175 for a special-needs puppy (<6months), and $125 for a senior dog (7+ years).

Three-year-old Clover is a shy but beautiful girl who is looking for a quiet and patient home. She has shown that she can be uncomfortable with loud or busy places but has built positive relationships with those that give her a comfortable and cozy place to relax.

ARF Adoption fees: $100 for an adult cat, $150 for a kitten (<6months), $150 for two adult cats, $250 for two kittens, $50 for a special-needs cat, $75 for a special-needs kitten (<6months), and $50 for a senior cat (7+ years).

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Real Estate Listings in West Danville

Real Estate is proudly sponsored by Gatti Real Estate Addresses in Bold are Seller’s/Buyer’s represented by Ron and Joe Gatti | 5/10/22

Active Listings Street List Price Sq. Ft. Beds Baths

Active Listings Street List Price Sq. Ft. Beds Baths

Ilo Ln Rubicon Cir River Rock Ln

$599,000 $824,000 $1,278,000

Pending Listings Street List Price Sq. Ft. Beds Baths

Railroad Ave La Tierra Buena Gerald Dr

$1,500,000 $1,925,000 $2,688,000

Pending Listings Street List Price Sq. Ft. Beds Baths

Midland Way El Dorado Ave El Dorado Ave El Dorado Ave El Dorado El Dorado

$699,950 $1,475,000 $1,475,000 $1,475,000 $1,650,000 $1,675,000

Briar Pl Love Ln Westridge Ave Alexander Lane Del Amigo Rd Highland Dr

$2,100,000 $2,498,000 $2,599,900 $2,750,000 $2,799,000 $3,250,000

1012 1391 1492

1114 1695 1688 1706 1805 1805

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Sold Listings Street List Price Sold Price Sq. Ft. Beds Baths Hartley Drive Jewel Terrace W Prospect Ave 480 Veda Dr Mariposa Ct

$824,900 $879,888 $1,398,000 $2,275,000 $2,198,000

$875,000 $907,000 $1,398,000 $2,275,000 $2,580,000

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2924 2849 2312 3554 2862 3366

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Sold Listings Street List Price Sold Price Sq. Ft. Beds Baths

Harmony Court Del Amigo Rd

$2,995,000 $2,998,000 Town & Country Dr $3,750,000 Cambridge Ct $4,200,000

$3,325,000 $3,600,000 $3,750,000 $4,700,000

3549 2738 4023 3980

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June

CALENDAR OF EVENTS Wed., Jun 15 Kidchella!

@Danville Town Green

Thurs., Jun 9 Click! Opening Reception

@Village Theatre Art Gallery Opening Reception for the 12th Annual Juried Exhibit featuring photographers from the Western States. For more information, call the Village Theatre Art Gallery at 925-314-3467 or email artgallery@danville.ca.gov Time: 5:30-7:30pm

Thurs., Jun 9- Aug 12 Click! On Display

@Village Theatre Art Gallery For more information, call the Village Theatre Art Gallery at 925-314-3467 or email artgallery@danville.ca.gov

Sun., Jun 12 “Schools Out For Summer” Youth and Teen Showcase

@Danville Town Green Join us for our “School’s Out for Summer” Youth and Teen Showcase featuring talent from the community, School of Rock San Ramon and I can Do That! Performing Arts Center.

Pre-registration required. Register at www. danville.ca.gov/recguide or call the Danville Community Center at (925) 314-3400.

Time: 4-7pm Cost: Free

Fri., Jun 17 Moonlight Movies: Guardians of the Galaxy: Vol. 2

@Danville Town Green Bring your picnics, chairs and blankets!

Grab a spot on the Town Green in front of the Danville Library to enjoy a movie, fun for the whole family.

Movie will start at sundown.

Time: 7:50-10pm Cost:Free

Sat., Jun 18

Sat., Jun 25 Friends of the Danville Library Pop-Up Book Sale @Danville Public Library, Mt. Diablo Room Don’t miss the Friends of the Danville Library Book Sale! There will be various genres for sale including non-fiction, general fiction, mysteries, cookbooks, art books, children’s books, gift items, book bags and more!

Find some great deals at these special popup sales for one day only each month! All proceeds benefit the Danville Library.

The Friends also host a small bookshelf in the library (by the library’s print station) where you can browse and purchase book titles and DVDs for all ages. The shelves are regularly refreshed with new materials!

Time: 10am-2pm

Meals on Wheels: Dining to Deliver Gala

@Roundhill Country Club Join Meals on Wheels in their annual fundraising event, Dining to Deliver.

This 1920’s themed event will offer a chance to have fun while you help your elderly neighbors. There will be a live and silent auction, dinner, and dancing to a big band. Paul Heggen, award-winning Chief Meteorologist at KPIX-TV will serve as the Master of Ceremonies!

Time: 6pm Go to mowdiabloregion.org/upcomingevents for more information

Sat., Jun 25 Danville Summer Fest

@Historic Downtown Danville Join us for our Annual Summerfest in Downtown Danville.

Brought to you by the Danville Area Chamber of Commerce, the 2022 Danville Summerfest draws families from all over the San Ramon Valley and beyond.

Danville is a family-friendly, dogfriendly community, complete with beautiful open space, first class retail and restaurants and an historic downtown.

Come check it out!

Time: 10am-5pm Cost: Free

Every Monday Free Monday Movies

@Senior Center Enjoy a free movie every Monday at 1:00 PM at the Danville Senior Center Community Hall. Email seniors@danville.ca.gov for the full list of movies. No registration required.

Time: 1-3pm Cost: Free

Every Monday Tips for Change Community Fundraising Events @Gianni’s Italian Bistro Gianni’s Italian Bistro opens up their restaurant to support our local non-profit community. Tips for change is a fun and unique way for local local charity organizations to raise much needed funds. Volunteers and supporters of local nonprofits suit up and become your servers for the evening with all tips and 10% of sales going to support their organization. This event occurs most Monday evenings between 5 and 8pm and is open to the public. Reservations required.

Every Saturday Farmers’ Market

@Railroad Ave. Municipal Parking Lot-Downtown Get the freshest seasonal fare at Danville Certified Farmers’ Market. You’ll find fruits and vegetables direct from local farmers, along with fresh-cut flowers, bedding plants and fresh breads.

This event is located at Railroad & Prospect Avenues and offers free parking in the adjacent lot.

Time: 9am-1pm More information at www.pcfma.com

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Expert Contributor

What You Need To Know About

Funding Your New Small Business

By David Meyer, Community Bank of the Bay

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i, I’m David Meyer from Community Bank of the Bay’s Danville office.

Entrepreneurship is a goal for millions of people each year. Strike up a conversation with just about anyone, and one of their first questions about starting a business is: how to find the funding to start a small business? And it’s an extremely valid question. Roughly 30% of small businesses fail because they run out of money. If you are thinking about starting a new business, planning ahead for startup capital is crucial.

It won’t come as a surprise that starting a business requires some amount of upfront capital to cover initial setup costs. However, many business owners will not consider their own labor and materials when starting, so make sure you are factoring those items in when looking at numbers and projecting what funding you might be seeking.

Create a list of financial costs you know about. This list can include items such as: •

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Registration fees for business licenses with state and local offices. Depending on where you live, your business license could be $100 per year.

Supplies and materials. Do you need a new computer, phone, etc., or other materials to start?

Courses, education, certifications and licensing. Many industries require a certification or license to perform the work. If this applies to you, make sure you follow all laws and regulations and obtain these.

Software and back-end office management. Research the software and online services (e.g., accounting, contracts, customer relationship

manager (CRM), email marketing, social media, graphic design, etc.) you may need on a monthly or annual basis to streamline your business.

Once you’ve decided on the amount of start up funds you will need, start thinking about the different sources of financing available.

There are various avenues for obtaining funding for new businesses including: self-funding, small loans from family and friends, private backing from investors, and traditional business loans. Each has different requirements for applying and paying down. There are benefits and risks to each, and small business owners should do their own research before deciding which is best for them.

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Support from family and friends By using your savings, selling investments, or drawing from retirement accounts

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Low-interest small business bank loans such as from Community Bank of the Bay

Grants

While the Paycheck Protection Program (PPP) officially ended in 2021, there are government grants available. Funding can come from: •

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State and regional government agencies offer grants for underrepresented communities who systematically have a more challenging time accessing funding (contact your local Small Business Development Center) Federal agencies offer grants through various small business programs (research grants on Grants.gov or USA. gov)

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Adventure Time

A Favorite Spot

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By JP Sullivan, Third Grade

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e love to hike up Las Trampas. It started when my sister was three and could finally hike up the big mountain with us. Now we go all the time and she leads the way! This fallen tree is our go-to picture spot each time. When she was three, she couldn’t even walk out there on her own. My mom loves to take pictures, so it’s really cool that we have all these memories that we can look at every year.

On our hikes we like to go to the Eugene O’Neill Tao House. One time my dad and I found a rattlesnake, of course we stayed as far away as we could! The cows are always friendly... and big!

Our favorite is in the Spring when the babies are out there too.

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Rattlesnake Safety in the Regional Parks

By Jen Vanya, East Bay Regional Park District

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ith this year’s early spring, Park District staff and visitors have observed the re-emergence of snakes – most notably rattlesnakes – seen periodically along the park’s trails that make up their natural habitat. When the weather gets warm, snakes come out to explore their environment, which can lead to more encounters with humans and dogs. The East Bay Regional Park District is advising that the public take snake safety precautions when visiting Regional Parks.

Safety Tips for Visiting Regional Parks 1. Avoid hiking alone so you have help in case of emergency. (Per local health orders, hike only with members of your immediate household during COVID-19) 2. Scan the ground ahead of you as you walk, jog, or ride. Stay on trails and avoid walking in tall grass.

3. Look carefully around and under logs and rocks before sitting down.

4. Avoid placing your hands or feet where you cannot see clearly.

5. Keep leashed pets on designated trails and away from snakes if they see one. (All dogs should be on-leash at all times, in all parks during COVID-19) 6. Bring plenty of water for yourself and your pets as drinking fountains are temporarily closed. Many parks do not have a direct water supply.

What to Do If You See a Rattlesnake Leave it alone - do not try to capture or harm it. All park wildlife is protected by law. If you see a snake on a trail, wait for it to cross and do not approach.

Then move carefully and slowly away.

What to Do If Bitten by a Snake 1. If bitten by a rattlesnake, stay calm and send someone to call 911. Remain calm by lying down with the affected limb lower than the heart. Getting medical attention quickly is critical - do not spend time on tourniquets, “sucking,” or snake bite kits. If you are by yourself, walk calmly to the nearest source of help to dial 911. Do not run.

2. If bitten by any other kind of snake, wash the wound with soap and water or an antiseptic and seek medical attention.

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If you are not sure what kind of snake bit you, check the bite for two puncture marks (in rare cases one puncture mark) associated with intense, burning pain. This is typical of a rattlesnake bite.

Other snakebites may leave multiple teeth marks without associated burning pain.

Snakes are an important resource in the natural environment. They are prime controlling agents of rodents, insects, and other reptile populations.

Enjoy them from afar and leave them where they are found. It is illegal to collect, kill, or remove any plants or animals from the East Bay Regional Park District. Please help us to protect wildlife and their environment for present and future generations.

Additional information is available at ebparks.org/ SnakeSafety or download a PDF version of our Common Snakes brochure.

The East Bay Regional Park District is the largest regional park system in the nation, comprising 73 parks, 55 miles of shoreline, and over 1,300 miles of trails for hiking, biking, horseback riding, and environmental education. The Park District receives more than 25 million visits annually throughout Alameda and Contra Costa counties in the San Francisco Bay Area.

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Local Sports

Rivalry week:

MVHS vs. SRVHS

By Ricky Helton, Resident since 2004

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or some it’s only the beginning... for others moving beyond high school, it’s their last.

Though one thing is certain - they’re all enjoying the moment!! In all of the sports, you can feel that a lot of these players have been on teams together for years. Whether they were on the same team or have always battled each other - the energy is electric!

The showdown: Stangs vs Wolves SRVHS Varsity Softball won against MVHS

3-2. It was a total pitching duel with two of the best pitchers in our area battling it out to take home the win. For MVHS, it was pitcher R.Prichard who put up a fight. She went head to head against SRVHS standout Paige McLeod.

It was a hard fought game, including an amazing diving catch by Sophia Jin who probably prevented any extra bases - heck of a heads up play and almost even got the out at first.

Next week playoffs start! Wishing you all the best!

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Congratulations Mustang Soccer Seniors!

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Pet Corner

Tri-Valley Animal Rescue

By Janine Collins, Blackhawk Resident since 1999

Sophie - T var Foster Dog Program

Meet Sophie, a friendly, affectionate, mellow 20 pound terrier mix. She has beautiful baby blue eyes and a lovely white coat and with her adorable set of ears - one stand up and one flopped over - it is hard not to smile when you see her. Sophie enjoys her walks, savoring the sights and smells of the neighborhood and beyond.

Sophie is hearing impaired - but that doesn’t get in her way one little bit. She’s very polite in the house and loves to be petted. She really is a great little dog and will make a wonderful addition to your home. Sophie is spayed, microchipped and fully vaccinated.

TVAR gives deserving animals like Sophie another chance by taking them into foster care. All TVAR dogs live in foster homes till adopted. Foster families get to know each dog’s personality and needs in a home setting- allowing TVAR to find the right match so dogs and adopters thrive!

Denuvo - T var Kitten Foster Program

When we met this loving cat at the shelter, we immediately took her into one of our dedicated foster homes; she was about to give birth to a litter of kittens. We called her Denuvo - and she had 5 little babies soon after we took her in. She is such a loving cat - she’ll walk right up to you and ask to have her face scratched. She is mild-mannered and unfazed by anything that happens around her. She loves being picked up - and even allows us to trim her claws - without any complaint. While quietly curious, she does like to be wherever her people are

- and is very interested in knowing what you are doing.

Denuvo is spayed, microchipped, vaccinated and tested negative for FIV/FeLV and looking for her forever home.

TVAR’s kitten and bottle baby programs rescue kittens - some only days old - who are unable to be adopted from the shelter and place them in foster homes where they receive medical care, love and a home setting until they are healthy, able to be spayed or neutered and ready for their forever homes.

Tri-Valley Animal R escue (T VAR ) - Giving them Another Chance

TVAR is a locally based and volunteer run 501(c)3 animal rescue organization. We assist in saving over 1,000 animals yearly in the Tri-Valley and surrounding areas. We are celebrating 30 years of saving lives with over 250 local volunteers. At TVAR, we rely solely on Public Support to fund our life saving programs.

All TVAR’s foster animals go directly from the local Animal Shelter into foster homes where they receive much needed love and socialization and where they are kept until adopted.

We also have an invaluable Shelter Program where our volunteers spend countless hours every day at the local shelter working with the Dogs, Puppies, Cats and Kittens and the Public.

Town of Danville

Community Feedback Sought for Danville’s Local Roadway Safety Plan

By Nicola Shihab, Public Information Officer

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he Town of Danville is seeking community feedback to help in developing a Local Roadway Safety Plan (LRSP) geared towards improving traffic safety for drivers, bicyclists, and pedestrians.

As part of this project, the Town has recently launched a new website at DanvilleSafeStreets. com for community members to share their feedback on ways the Town can continue to improve traffic safety in Danville. The website

includes an interactive map and feedback forms.

The Town will be accepting comments through the end of June 2022. A final draft is expected at the end of July.

Community members can find information about the Local Road Safety Plan, follow the process, and register for project updates at DanvilleSafeStreets. com. For further information or questions, contact Transportation Program Specialist Katelyn Costa at (925) 314-3374 or kcosta@danville.ca.gov.

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Arts and Culture

A Message from County Librarian Alison McKee

By Alison McKee, County Librarian

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am thrilled to share that at long last, in-person storytimes will return to library branches beginning in June. All in-person programs were paused at the beginning of the pandemic, and we could not be happier to be bringing them back. COVID-19 brought many challenges to the Library, including having to rethink the way we delivered storytimes and other programs.

I am proud of how quickly library staff transitioned to online programming and the amazing creativity they have shown in both streaming and recorded storytimes over the last two years. For many staff members, planning and hosting programs is one of their favorite parts of the job. Implementing interesting and culturally diverse programs and interacting with the people who attend is such a rich way to connect with our communities and for our communities to connect with the Library and each other. Staff have Where residents find and recommend the best local, trusted businesses

been eager for the return of in-person events and we are starting with storytimes since they are such an important part of early childhood education.

Storytime is an important way to introduce and reinforce the early literacy skills of talking, singing, reading, writing and playing, and is a lot of fun too! Early literacy is what children know about reading and writing before they actually start school. It is the foundation of preparing children to get ready to learn to read and is especially important for children who do not attend preschool.

We can’t wait to start seeing you and your family singing, laughing, and learning at storytimes this summer. Days and times for in-person storytime vary at each library branch, so please check our website or call your local library for the most accurate information.

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Expert Contributor

What Causes Hair Loss in Women?

By Dr.Stephen J. Ronan MD FACS, Blackhawk Plastic Surgery and MedSpa

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emale pattern hair loss (FPHL) is also widely known as Androgenetic Alopecia and is the most common form of hair loss in women around the world. The onset of symptoms can vary, but two key times in a woman’s life, puberty and menopause, often act as triggers for an increase in FPHL being reported to clinics and doctors.

There are three types of hair loss (alopecia) commonly reported in women, which can be the cause of a variety of factors from genetics to hair care practices or anything that triggers the immune system to attack hair follicles. While men tend to notice balding as a receding hairline and specific bald spots, FPHL in women tend to appear more as generalized hair loss with thinning all over the scalp. The three most common types of hair loss include: Alopecia Areata is patchy hair loss that happens suddenly on the head or body. It typically begins with one or more round bald patches that may or may not overlap.

Cicatricial Alopecia is a group of conditions that causes irreversible hair loss through scarring. Hair falls out and the follicle is replaced with scar tissue.

Traumatic Alopecia causes hair to fall out as a result of hair styling practices. The hair shaft may break after using hot combs, blow dryers, straighteners, or certain chemicals to dye or straighten hair.

Some medical conditions lead directly to hair loss, whether through disruption to hormones, like with thyroid issues; scarring from skin conditions, like ringworm; or autoimmune disorders, like celiac disease, where the body attacks itself.

Hair loss caused by stress or hormonal changes, like pregnancy or menopause, may not require any treatment. Instead, the loss will stop on its own after the body adjusts. Nutrient deficiencies also do not often require medical treatment beyond supplements unless, the deficiency is caused by an underlying health condition.

Any medical conditions that lead to hair loss should be treated directly to address the full condition, not just its symptoms.

There are a number of surgical and non-surgical hair restoration treatment options to combat and correct hair loss caused by female-pattern baldness.

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Kid Corner

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Year of Random Holidays

oming into 2022 we wanted to bring a little less screen time into our lives. So we thought about the easiest way to keep that up all year long, because let’s be honest: if it isn’t easy, we won’t last. Enter what we’re calling the “Year of Random Holidays!”

By Alexandra Sullivan, Resident since 2017

June 8: Best Friends Day June 11: Corn on the Cob Day June 14: Flag Day June 15: Worldwide Day of Giving June 16: Fresh Veggies Day June 17: Apple Strudel Day June 18: International Sushi Day June 21: International Day of Yoga, World Music Day June 22: Onion Ring Day June 23: National Pink Day June 25: Color TV Day June 26: Tropical Cocktail Day June 27: Sunglasses Day, Pineapple Day June 29: National Camera Day July 5: Bikini Day July 7: Macaroni Day

Interpret and Celebrate however you’d like! Hope some of these brighten up your days!

If you partake in any of these awesome holidays, please send us some pictures! We’d love to see how everyone celebrates! Email your photos to asullivan@bestversionmedia.com or tag us on Facebook and Instagram at @danvillelivingca

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Reasons to Consider Visiting Cypress Lawn This Summer

By Robert A. Gordon Jr., President & CEO of Cypress Lawn Funeral Home & Memorial Park, Resident since 2017 building is home to some of the most stunning stained glass in North America, including 36,000 square feet of glass ceilings. Architect Bernard Cahill, a specialist in mausoleum design and mortuary architecture, believed that light and color were the answer to grief.

Our Historic Noble Chapel Created in 1892, Noble Chapel is the heart of Cypress Lawn. It is named after our founder, Hamden Holmes Noble.

Architect Thomas Paterson Ross patterned the chapel after St. Giles Church in Stoke Poges, England. Once inside the chapel, you’ll also find beautiful gardens.

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f you’ve never experienced the beauty of Cypress Lawn Memorial Park, summer is the perfect time to do so.

We invite you to wander our grounds, spend time enjoying the lake and feeding the ducks, and take advantage of endless opportunities to learn about Bay Area history, art, architecture, and so much more. As you plan your visit, be sure to keep these treasured sights in mind.

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Trees From All Over the World Back in 1892, our founder, Hamden Holmes Noble, brought in plant materials from around the world to create what has become an internationally accredited Level I Arboretum. We welcome our guests to join us for a Tree Tour and learn more about the many species of trees that call Cypress Lawn home.

Elaborate Stained Glass Collection Our mausoleum behind the administration

Statuesque Works of Art Whether you’re interested in history, art, or architecture, you’re sure to admire the angels, characters from Greek mythology, iconic columns, and statement pieces scattered throughout our 200-plus acres.

These visual expressions of love were expertly crafted to bring peace and tranquility to our visitors.

To best meet the needs of each person in our community, we offer docent-led public trolley tours of Cypress Lawn, featuring information about our history, famous people who rest here, and the many treasures that live at Cypress Lawn.

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Montair Elementary School

Montair's Auction was a Roaring Success!

Submitted by Montair Parents

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few weeks ago, Montair parents and family members went out to Blackhawk Country Club to celebrate their students and raise money for the upcoming year’s needs. It was a HUGE success all around. Thank you to all of the local businesses who sponsored, donated, and helped out in making sure that Montair’s Roaring Twenties Auction went off without a hitch! The school hit its goal and Montair students are looking forward to heading into the 2022-2023 school year with a brand new shade structure and teachers to round out their whole-child education!

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Hear Chelsea Ames LIVE!

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San Ramon Valley High School

A History of SRVHS Grad Night

By Lynne Harrosh, Resident since 2008

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rad Night, a night like no other. There are not many days in one’s life quite like that of Graduation Day of High School!

Emotions of all sorts run through the graduate’s mind. There is sadness at the end of an era, excitement for the beginnings of a new journey, and all out joy of the freedom they feel. The culmination of these emotions combined with warm weather, celebrations of friendships new and old, and pride of their accomplishment, can cause even the most experienced to make decisions they know are not good or responsible. These split-second decisions made under the celebratory graduation chaos can have lifelong impacts on themselves, their friends, and their families.

That is why Grad Night was created. Way ahead of its’ time, in 1978, SRV PTSA, has proudly hosted Grad Night, a “Safe and Sober” graduation celebration for the entire Senior Class. Their objective is to provide 500+ graduates with a fun-filled environment to celebrate a major milestone with their friends. Prior to the “Safe and Sober” Grad Night program, the Highway Patrol reported that there were many unsupervised parties where alcohol was consumed. Many of these parties resulted in alcohol-related crashes, injuries and death.

John Muir, as the only trauma center in Contra Costa County, saw first-hand the results of some of the decisions graduates made.

Seeing those trauma victims resulted in the The Highway Patrol developing a “Safe and Sober Grad Night” program in 1985, 7 years AFTER SRVHS. Their statistics show that the number of young drivers involved in alcohol-related collisions during the month of June has declined dramatically.

What does that mean for us? It means we have a place to send our graduates so they can celebrate with their friends in a safe location with supervision and over-the-top activities, music, decorations, and creativity! What a Magical Night it is! The concept for the seniors’ Grad Night is conjured up by parents when their teens are only freshman. This core group of creative leaders keep secrets while they plan and urge other parents to join in on the big Grad Night secret theme. As the core creative team grows, so does the plotting, planning, designing and building. Teens think they can keep secrets, but none can keep a secret like this volunteer group of dedicated parentals!! They are magical. These parents are givers of time, energy, love and dedication. They are out-of-the-box thinkers, painters, musicians, bakers, contractors, and engineers that have no limits to what they can design and whom they can get to support their cause. Truly, they are our angels, keeping our graduates safe, while demonstrating that the best of nights can be had “Safe and Sober”.

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The SRV PTSA has had many themes over the years, such as, Born in the USA, Turn it Up World Tour, Gradfest and Western Rodeo. June 2020, the year of the COVID Pandemic, was the only year, in the SRV Grad Night history, to have their magical night cancelled.

Grad Night at SRV takes place on campus. The campus is transformed by 100’s of parents and community volunteers. They plan, construct and paint throughout the senior year and move all items to a donated top-secret location. Hours and hours of planning and thought go into every detail. When the transformation is taking place, the theme remains unknown to anyone outside of these Parental Angels! There is a community preview and walk-through held on the day of Grad Night, in the afternoon, for friends, family and spectators.

The first time you go to a Grad Night preview, YOU WILL BE IN AWE. The number of people, local businesses, and community support that goes into the SRV PSTA Grad Night is unbelievable. The parents and community alike volunteer their time, support with donations, support with heavy discounts, and support with good old fashion cash! It takes a village!

Do you want to know the 2022 Grad Night theme? Come check it out for yourself on Friday, June 3rd, in the afternoon on the San Ramon Valley High School Campus!!

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Expert Contributor

Graduations, Celebrations, Now What?

(The Journey Beyond Empty Nesting)

By Christina Dalton, MS, PPS, PCC, EYH Life Coach

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ou did everything right. You supported your children through their successes and challenges. You cheered for them and you comforted them. Your life has been a roller coaster as you survived the trials and celebrations of parenting. The invitations are now out and you are ready for the graduation traditions. Then why do you feel that void, that feeling of incompleteness? If you can relate to any of this, you may be experiencing empty nest syndrome. Though there is no clinical diagnosis, empty nest syndrome is a phenomenon where parents feel sadness, a sense of loss, a void, as their last child heads to college or moves on to their next stage of life.

For some people, this is a reminder that time waits for no one. As your child moves into their next journey, how do you acknowledge what you are feeling to transition into your own next chapter of your life? You want to support them as they transition to independence.

Yet, you are also acknowledging you need more for yourself, too.

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To begin, it is important to recognize what you are experiencing.

There are three major characteristics of empty nesters: 1. Grief; 2. A sense of emptiness; 3. The combination of fear and worry. Once you identify what you are experiencing and recognize the symptoms, you can manage your own wellness to be present for your family and especially for yourself.

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activities that bring out your passions and provide you meaning.

Experts also advise to keep a journal to work out your grief and sense of loss as you move forward to this next phase of living.

Finally, may I invite you to consider rekindling your marriage and other relationships. With children, we often sacrifice adult relationships for our children. This includes time with your spouse now that you are not revolving around the children.

This next stage - the empty nest stage - can be the most empowering time of your life. It is up to you to allow that to happen by truly searching into your inner core of who you want to be. If you are stuck, it may be time to reach out to a professional. EYHLifeCoach is your partner in creating excitement and meaning about everything your future holds for you. Contact us today!

In the age of technology, it is easy to text, FaceTime and Zoom with your children. However, you want to respect your adult child’s space and allow them to reach out to you. They need to strengthen their wings of independence.

That means it is time for you to explore your hobbies, interests and career/volunteer goals. What excited you before being a parent that you can revive? What interests would you like to explore? Brainstorming with a significant other, a friend, or even a professional coach can spark the inner fire you let smolder while you nurtured others. It is time to replace the meaningful experience of parenting with other

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Christina Dalton is the Principal of EYH Life Coach.

She applies her own personal and career transitions along with several degrees and credentials to provide insight and knowledge into the coaching experience.

Christina handpicks her staff, all of whom are ICF credentialed and have unique experiences to create invaluable coaching sessions.

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What to Do After an

Alzheimer’s or Dementia Diagnosis

By Parveen Singh, Senior Executive Director, Carefield Pleasanton Memory Care

Listen to all of your loved one’s concerns.

Provide space for truly listening. Take the time to connect with the fears, feelings, and concerns raised by your loved one. When we take the time to listen, the more supportive and less threatening your responses will be perceived when suggesting the idea of a memory care community.

Bring key loved ones into the conversation.

If you are a spouse or child of someone with dementia or Alzheimer’s, consider whether another family member might be a convincing advocate and may be key to the decision-making process. Video conferencing with Zoom or Facetime can help bring key family members who live further away into the fold.

It’s important to make this a family effort in order to ease this big transition.

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fter your loved one receives a diagnosis of dementia or Alzheimer’s, what comes next?

As a caregiver for a loved one, it can be hard to discuss the need for additional help and the possibility of moving your loved one into a memory care community.

Some tips: Have the first conversation shortly after diagnosis.

By the time your loved one is diagnosed with Alzheimer’s or dementia they are already experiencing a big shift in their daily lives.

With these diseases being progressive, the present time is also their most cognizant, which is why it is crucial to have a conversation sooner rather than later. Having a conversation with your loved one will give them a greater sense of say in their own future, creating a sense of autonomy and empowerment.

To get an idea of what memory care communities are closest to you and the services that they provide, we suggest touring communities with other family members while you are in the process of getting your loved one acquainted with the idea of transitioning to a memory care community. Touring early on in the process will ensure that in the case of a critical event (like a fall or wandering situation) that you and your family have an idea of what options are available to you.

Develop a plan and transition timeline.

After getting input from your family and loved one, working with everyone to ensure a smooth transition into a memory care community is next step. Most memory care communities have a team that can help you create a transition plan for your loved one.

The memory care experts at Carefield Pleasanton are available to help you with the next step - give us a call at (925) 750-8744 or visit CarefieldPleasanton.com

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Cooking Corner

A Berry Happy June

By Stephanie Seaberg, Resident since 2010

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he strawberries are out and that means it’s time to make some pies! This pie is one of my mom’s creations, who is known for her perfect pie crusts. There’s really nothing better than a gorgeous strawberry pie that you can bring to your next party.

Show up with this and people will say it’s too pretty to eat.

Summer Time Strawberry Pie

You will Need

For the Crust: • 1 cup graham crackers, ground • 1/2 cup ground walnuts • 3 TBS sugar • 6 TBS butter, melted

Pie filling: • • • • • •

1 1/2 pints of fresh strawberries, sliced 1 cup water 1 cup white sugar 3 TBS cornstarch 3 TBS strawberry Jell-O, dry Whipped topping

Putting it together:

To prepare the pie crust, blend the butter, graham cracker crumbs, walnuts and sugar using a spatula. Your crust should

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have the consistency of damp sand.

Press the crumb mixture into a 9 inch pipe plate and be sure to cover the bottom. Bake the pie crust in a preheated 350° oven for 10 minutes, then set aside to cool.

For the pie filling: Layer 1 pint of the strawberries evenly onto the cooked pie shell. Place the rest of the strawberries and the water in a blender and purée until smooth. Pour the strawberry water into a small sauce pan and add the sugar and cornstarch. Mix it well and cook over medium/low heat until it thickens, about five minutes.

Add the strawberry Jell-O powder and mix well again. Carefully pour the hot strawberry mixture over the strawberries in the pie crust. Allow it to cool and chill for at least three hours. Cover with a hearty scoop of whipped topping before slicing and serving.

Stephanie Seaberg has lived in the East Bay for the last 30 years, and is a SRVHS Alumni. Steph is a play-writer and director for Theater Performance Workshop, KAOS Camp, and Golden Oak Montessori. Steph lives for cooking, theater, photography, travel, and singing.

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