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Pride Goeth Before Destruction

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Self-centered generation cautioned by Ezra Taft Benson to be wary of prideful ways

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emember the 1980s? It was the “Me� generation. Phraseology like “shop ’til you drop� and “totally awesome� were coined. Moms stood in endless lines for the last Cabbage Patch doll and teens were watching movies by John Hughes and dancing to Michael Jackson’s “Thriller.�

The world was changing drastically. The Berlin Wall fell, students were massacred in China’s Tiananmen Square.

The space shuttle Challenger exploded above the Earth and Chernobyl’s nuclear power plant exploded on the Earth. It was the days of Glasnost and Perestroika. Ronald Reagan was in the White House and in Utah The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints mourned the loss of its beloved President Spencer W. Kimball, and sustained Ezra Taft Benson as the 13th president, prophet, seer and revelator of the church.

Born on a farm in Whitney, Idaho, President Benson was prepared for his calling through years of church service and service to his country as he walked and counseled with both presidents and paupers. He served as Secretary of Agriculture for eight years on President Dwight D. Eisenhower’s cabinet, and became an expert on the Constitution.

His life experiences, his faith and his prophetic calling moved him to speak with exactness and clarity on what was important. Even today many remember his talks on the Constitution, reading the Book of Ezra Taft Benson

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President Benson’s early life was spent primarily on the family farm. It was hard work but a great place for a boy to grow up with his father by his side.

That is until the day his father got an unexpected letter from Salt Lake City.

“I was about 13 years of age when my father received a call to go on a mission,” Benson said. “It was during an epidemic in our little community of Whitney, Idaho.

Parents were encouraged to go to sacrament meeting, but the children were to remain home to avoid contracting the disease.”

After church, the general store would open for folks

to get their mail, nothing was sold. There was no rural postal delivery either.

“As Father drove the horse homeward, Mother opened the mail, and, to their surprise, there was a letter from Box B in Salt Lake City — a call to

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go on a mission. No one asked if one were ready, willing or able. The bishop was supposed

both crying — something we had never seen in our family.

We gathered around the buggy — there were seven of us then — and asked what was the matter.

“They said, ‘Everything’s fine,’” Benson said. “We gathered around the old sofa in the living room, and Father told us about his mission call.

Then Mother said: ‘We’re proud to know that Father is considered worthy to go on a mission. We’re crying because it means two years of separation. You know your father and I have never been separated for more than two nights at a time since our marriage — and that’s when Father was gone into the canyon to get logs, posts and firewood.’”

President Benson was to know, and the bishop called upon to do many things was Grandfather George T. for his family while his father Benson, my father’s father. served the Lord. He was the “As Father and Mother drove into the yard, they were oldest and part of his duties was to run the family dairy. time for the “Me” generation It was through his father’s of Mormons (and people example that President throughout the world) to Benson learned the power of repent. sacrifice. He served in many “Some prideful people positions in the Church, are not so concerned as to twice as a stake president. whether their wages meet Following his service as their needs as they are that stake president, he was their wages are more than called into the Quorum of the someone else’s,” Benson Twelve Apostles. It was here said. “Their reward is being he had to emulate his father’s a cut above the rest. This is example and leave his family the enmity of pride.” behind while administering While this is one of to the needs of the Saints in Pres. Benson’s most war-torn Europe following remembered addresses, World War II. he did not actually deliver President Benson’s it. Just before that April devotion and service to the conference was to begin, saints suffering in severe for some reason he was post-war conditions built unable to speak and asked testimonies and brought his counselor, President enemies together as saints Gordon B. Hinckley, to from country to country read his talk. The words helped each other recover still rang clearly and you from the desolation of war. could hear Benson’s voice His “Beware of Pride” in every word. address from the April 1989 “When pride has a hold General Conference called on our hearts, we lose our out members of the church independence of the world as he compared our day to and deliver our freedoms the pride cycle parallels in to the bondage of men’s the Book of Mormon. It was Continued on Page 6

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Continued from Page 4 judgment. The world shouts louder than the whisperings of the Holy Ghost. The reasoning of men overrides the revelations of God, and the proud let go of the iron rod,” he said.

He talked of the underbelly of pride, where many members are drawn in and lost.

“Most of us consider pride to be a sin of those on the top, such as the rich and the learned, looking down at the rest of us,” he said. “There is, however, a far more common ailment among us — and that is pride from the bottom looking up. It is manifest in so many ways, such as faultfinding, gossiping, backbiting, murmuring, living beyond our means, envying, coveting, withholding gratitude and praise that might lift another, and being unforgiving and jealous.”

He continued, “Disobedience is essentially a prideful power

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struggle against someone in authority over us. It can be a parent, a priesthood leader, a teacher, or ultimately God. A proud person hates the fact that someone is above him. He thinks this lowers his position.

“Selfishness is one of the more common faces of pride.

‘How everything affects me’ is the center of all that matters — self-conceit, selfpity, worldly self-fulfillment, self-gratification and selfseeking,” Benson said.

He asked members of the church to choose to be humble and gave them ways to overcome pride.

• We can choose to humble ourselves by conquering enmity toward our brothers and sisters, esteeming them as ourselves, and lifting them as high or higher than we are.

• We can choose to humble ourselves by receiving counsel and chastisement.

• We can choose to humble ourselves by forgiving those who have offended us.

• We can choose to humble ourselves by rendering selfless service.

• We can choose to humble ourselves by going on missions and preaching the word that can humble others.

• We can choose to humble ourselves by getting to the temple more frequently.

• We can choose to humble ourselves by confessing and forsaking our sins and being born of God. • We can choose to humble ourselves by loving God, submitting our will to His, and putting Him first in our lives.

“Let us choose to be humble,” Benson said. “We can do it. I know we can.”

His message was important in the 1980s. His words were prophetic for our day as the pride cycle continues. Members might ask in 2014, “Is he speaking to me?”

Do You Remember the '80s?

When the church switched over to the three-hour block system?

No longer would we have to go to church three separate times on Sunday.

As a kid adding transparent stickers to your scriptures to help illustrate the stories.

Earning your Primary Gospel in Action award and proudly wearing your necklace or tie tack.

Singing along to the many, many songs written by Janeen Brady, including “I’m a Mormon,” “I Want to Be a Mother,” “I’m a VIP” or “Sharing.”

Learning the sign language version of different Primary songs like “Teach Me to Walk.”

Lovely Deseret” we now featured in the main hymnal.

The unveiling of the new valuebased goal-setting Personal Progress program in 1989 for Young Women.

Going on DaddyDaughter Dates when you were in Merrie Miss class in Primary.

Going to Temple Square, heading to the Visitor’s Center and watching the latest church-produced movies like “Together Forever” or “Mr. Krueger’s Christmas.”

Singing from the new church hymnal and new children’s songbook, noting that Primary songs like “I Am a Child of God” and “In Our

Learning and reciting the Young Women’s theme at the beginning of each Sunday meeting beginning in 1985.

Wearing out both the audio and VHS tapes of “Saturday’s Warrior.”

Making grapevine wreaths or tole painting a Family Home Evening chart in Homemaking Meeting.

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1980s Timeline 1985

November 10 Ezra Taft Benson ordained as 13th President of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

1986

April 30 Church membership reaches 6 million.

July 6 New missionary discussions published with a theme of “Teaching from the Heart.�

October 4 Seventies Quorums on the stake level are discontinued.

1987

February 15 The Mormon Tabernacle Choir becomes the longest-running network program in the free world.

August 15 The Genealogical Department changed to the Family History Department.

1988

May 28 Church makes official statement on AIDS, stressing chastity before marriage and sympathy for those who have contracted the disease.

August Church reaches 100 million baptisms for the dead.

October 28 Church granted right to send missionaries to East Germany, and for members in East Germany to serve missions in other countries.

1989

January 28 Elders Russell M. Nelson and Dallin H. Oaks finish eight-day trip to China.

Chinese government says church is allowed to practice religious beliefs in the country.

May 18 The BYU Jerusalem Center is dedicated.

June 27 Carthage Jail renovation completed in time for 150th anniversary of the Nauvoo settlement in Illinois.

November 9 The Berlin Wall comes down.

November 25 Financing changes announced. Church members will no longer be assessed a stake or ward budget.

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1990s

Get Your House in Order Gordon B. Hinckley exhorts members

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n stark contrast to the Great Depression of the 1930s, the economy of the United States in the 1990s was experiencing an unprecedented boom. The stock market was soaring, jobs were being created, inflation was low and the country’s gross domestic product or net value (GDP) was experiencing the longest recorded expansion in the country’s history.

With such economic prosperity, it’s no wonder many people were taking advantage of the climate, investing and borrowing, going into debt, confident the market was stable.

It was in this climate of apparent financial stability that the president of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints at the time, Gordon B. Hinckley, gave what could be considered truly prophetic counsel.

After an address in the General Conference of the church on the importance of keeping covenants, overcoming temptation and serving a faithful mission, President Hinckley shifted his focus to very seriously address financial matters. The talk, titled “To the Boys and to the Men,â€? was given in October 1998. “Now, brethren, I want to make it very clear that I am not prophesying, that I am not predicting years of famine in the future,â€? he said. “But I am suggesting that the time has come to get our houses in order. So many of our people are living on the very edge of their incomes. In fact, some are living on borrowings. We have witnessed in recent weeks wide and fearsome swings in the markets of the world. The economy is a fragile thing. ‌ There is a portent of stormy weather ahead to which we had better give heed.â€? “In 1998, it was really a period in Gordon B. Hinckley

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which the stock prices were increasing significantly,” said Norm Nemrow, a former accounting professor at Brigham Young University in regard to the financial climate of the day. “People were feeling so good about everything, feeling their financial futures were kind of assured … then in the early 2000s, it just collapsed. That really shook the economy and people’s trust. I think [that talk] was kind of a forewarning that there were potentially rough times ahead that most people weren’t really anticipating.”

Nemrow received bachelor’s and master’s degrees in accountancy at Brigham Young University before instructing there for more than 16 years and said he could recall that time in the economy. As he mentioned, just a few years after Hinckley’s address on finance, the country’s financial state changed dramatically, causing turmoil for many deeply vested in the economy, and a reason to be grateful for those who heeded the prophetic counsel.

This kind of pattern — prosperity to turbulence and back again — is actually quite common, according to Brian Boyer, associate professor of finance at BYU’s Marriott School of Management, making Hinckley’s counsel even more on target.

“The point is that financial and economic crises have ever been present in our history, yet we seem to forget so quickly,” said Boyer, who interned at the Federal Reserve in Washington D.C., just months prior to Hinkley’s conference talk. “Crises have a way of kindling a sense of humility. Yet, often as

soon as the unemployment rate starts to go down and GDP growth begins to recover we forget and begin to live beyond our means once again. The advice of President Hinckley to get out of debt and release ourselves from bondage is timely no matter what stage of the business cycle we’re in.”

Hinckley’s address went far beyond just a timely forewarning to members, however, detailing exactly how dangerous debt could be.

“I am troubled by the huge consumer installment debt which hangs over the people of the nation, including our own people,” President Hinckley said.

“Everyone knows that every dollar borrowed carries with it the penalty of paying interest. When money cannot be repaid, then bankruptcy follows.”

According to data from the Federal Reserve, Hinckley’s counsel was not only applicable then, but can still apply to perilous financial times today, especially as national and consumer debt continues to rise, and many fall into the trap caused by high interest rates and instant gratification.

“President Hinckley’s remarks convey a seasoned perspective immune to the winds and tides of current economic conditions and the comparative material wealth of others,” Boyer said. “In that sense, they are way ahead of the times ... times in which the economic decisions of so many appear to be completely driven by myopic attempts to keep up with the Joneses. … It is

so tempting to attach our selfworth to how much we own relative to others. Consumer debt is so easily obtained in efforts

to compete materially, but often carries some of the highest interest rates. We need to learn patience and understand that we can live meaningful, happy lives without having to engage in such meaningless competitions.”

In conclusion, Hinckley counseled members to set their

houses in order, pay off debts then work toward having a reserve.

“I urge you ... to look to the condition of your finances,” he said. “I urge you to be modest in your expenditures; discipline yourselves in your purchases to avoid debt to the extent possible. Pay off debt as quickly as you can, and free yourselves from bondage. This is a part of the temporal gospel in which we believe. … If you have paid your debts, if you have a reserve, even though it be small, then should storms howl about your head, you will have shelter for your wives and children and peace in your hearts.”

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Continued from Page 11 people prior to the economic slowing, according to Nemrow, it is advice that has remained important today.

“I think that it’s timely because we live in uncertain times, and we don’t know what the future holds,” he said. “I think it’s wise for us to be prepared for whatever may come and to be able to

face the challenges without fear. Another great advantage of being out of debt is that it just gives you so much more flexibility in terms of making decisions about your future. It frees you, not only from worry, but it allows you to take advantage of opportunities that come around in life.”

Do You Remember the ’90s?

Remember hearing the rumor that actor and comedian Steve Martin had joined the church, and for a moment, actually believing it was true?

Getting your first quad set of scriptures that now came in various sizes and vibrant colors. Did you get the compact set with a snap closure?

Hearing about missions opening up in parts of Russia.

Singing along to inspirational songs found on the “Best of Especially for Youth” CDs. Watching the first premiere performances of Michael McLean’s “Forgotten Carols” and then promptly wearing out that CD during the holidays.

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Spending hours building hygiene kits or making quilts in Relief Society Homemaking meetings for the church’s humanitarian efforts.

Watching “Living Scriptures”

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Reading the latest book release from authors like Jack Weyland, Gerald Lund or Dean Hughes.

Visiting the newly remodeled Hotel Utah, now the Joseph Smith Memorial Building, to watch the new LDS feature film “Legacy” and eat at either The Roof or The Garden restaurants.

Watching Mike Wallace interview President Gordon B. Hinckley on “60 Minutes.”

Framing and hanging the First Presidency’s statement The Family: A Proclamation to the World in your home.

Entering family genealogical names into the new Internet-based FamilySearch website.

Buying the Book of Mormon action figures.

Watching Larry King interview President Gordon B. Hinckley on “Larry King Live.”

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1990s Timeline

1990

April 2 A new genealogical research software package called FamilySearch is introduced to church members.

May 21 U.S. Supreme Court rules that money given to missionaries directly is not deductible. Members should contribute through their wards.

November The First Presidency announces new policy that equalizes contributions to maintain full-time missionaries.

1991 1992

June 24 The Russian Republic, largest country in the Soviet Union, grants formal recognition to the church, following the Tabernacle Choir’s concert in Moscow’s Bolshoi Theater.

September 1 The church reaches eight million members.

September 26 The church sends one million pounds of food from the humanitarian relief funds to Somalia and other African nations suffering from the greatest drought in a century.

December 15 A gospel literacy program sponsored by the Relief Society is started to help increase literacy throughout the church.

1993

June 27 The former Hotel Utah, now renovated, is dedicated and renamed the Joseph Smith Memorial Building.

June 29 Mexico formally recognizes the church and all the rights of a religion which also allows the church to start purchasing property.

May 30 President Ezra Taft Benson dies at age 94.

1994

June 5 Howard W. Hunter ordained 14th president of the LDS Church.

August 6 The Missionary Department notes that one third of the population of the U.S., has been visited by church representatives and 36 percent have friends or family who are members.

1995

January 21 Church reaches nine million members

March 3 President Howard W. Hunter dies at his home after serving less then nine months. The shortest tenure for a prophet.

March 12 Gordon B. Hinckley ordained 15th president of the LDS Church.

April 1 President Hinckley announced the position of regional representatives is being discontinued. A new administrative position, Area Authority, is announced.

September 23 During the annual General Relief Society meeting the First Presidency announces The Family: A Proclamation to the World.

December 19 CBS News report Mike Wallace interviews President Hinckley.

1996

February 28 It is announced that more members of the church live outside of the U.S. then inside.

April 6 President Hinckley announces the church will build a new conference center.

November 10 The church establishes LDS Charities, a charitable non-profit organization to deliver humanitarian aid throughout the world.

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1997

June 1 The church announces that both Priesthood and Relief Society curriculum will be the same and lessons correlated.

October 4 President Hinckley announces small temples will be built in remote areas of the world.

November The church reaches 10 million members.

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April 4 President Hinckley announces the church will construct 30 more temples bringing the total of operating temples to 100 by the year 2000.

February 20 President Hinckley announces a temple will be built in Palmyra, N.Y.

June 1 The Mormon Youth Chorus and Symphony was disbanded, and the chorus is renamed the Temple Square Chorale.

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Halt the Hangouts

Dallin H. Oaks instructs single adults on fundamentals of dating

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by Jennifer Durrant | Daily Herald here are two primary ways to “graduate� from a singles ward within The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Getting married is certainly the

preferred method. The other, less-desirable graduation occurs on your 31st birthday when you no longer fit within the 18 to 31 age requirements.

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It was just after my 30th birthday when I opted for an early graduation from my singles ward in St. George.

Having attended the ward for the previous six years, my fellow congregation members had become my second family. Together we enjoyed countless barbecues, dozens of pool parties, fun-filled road trips, spur-of-the-moment camping adventures, movie marathons, karaoke nights and even Thanksgiving and Christmas dinners. It was a great family to be a part of.

As I was approaching my unceremonious graduation, however, I began to realize just how large my second family had become. There were nearly 400 members in that singles ward, with a solid 200 or so members attending meetings and activities regularly.

The chapel overflow was constantly overflowing as new members throughout all of Washington County were introduced to the ward each week.

Watching the expansion of the ward and struggling to find my own comfortable niche within the masses, I knew it was time for me to advance on to my home ward. I would still be able to attend activities and drop in on occasional Sunday meetings, but when it came to my primary spiritual guidance, I was happily surprised to find solace in a family ward.

Why was that singles ward so enormous? Why were there still so many

unmarried men and women in their late-20s and early30s attending?

While there were several possible theories why so many successful, attractive, eligible men and women were still seeking eternal companions, it was a simple two-word term, spoken by Elder Dallin H. Oaks during a 2005 young adult fireside, that struck a chord with many single saints: Hanging out.

“Dating has nearly disappeared from college campuses and among young adults generally,” Elder Oaks said in the Church Educational System fireside telecast from Oakland, Calif. “It has been replaced by something called ‘hanging out.’ ” As Elder Oaks succinctly described, hanging out consists of men and women joining together in group activities, often avoiding dating. “It is very different from dating. ... Dating is not a team sport. Dating is pairing off to experience the kind of one-on-one association and temporary commitment that can lead to marriage in some rare and treasured cases.”

The days of teenage group dates are long gone once you reach adulthood, he said.

Hanging out was extremely common among my large circle of friends in St. George. Sure there were quite a few couples who managed to break the mold, separating themselves from the group mentality to enjoy a healthy dating lifestyle.

Invariably those wise souls

who took the time to commit to dating did, in fact, graduate from the ward with a blessed wedding.

Why is hanging out so popular?

Hanging out is easy.

friends lamenting over the costs of dating: “I can’t afford it,” one guy would say.

“I spent a ton on a fancy dinner for this girl and then I

Compared to dating, hanging out is more relaxed, it’s comfortable, often doesn’t require a huge expense, invites group interaction, and requires “no commitment, at least not for the men if the women provide the food and shelter,” Oaks said.

Dating can often be uncomfortable as you open yourself to possible rejection.

Dating requires planning — no last-minute phone calls inviting that cute gal to the movies.

Dating may also require at least a little bit of expense, too.

It wasn’t uncommon to overhear a group of my guy

never heard from her again,” agreed his friend.

As Elder Oaks reminded single adults in his fireside address, dates don’t need to be elaborate or costly, suggesting something as simple and nonthreatening as an evening walk downtown. “Simple and more frequent dates allow both men and women to ‘shop around’ in a way that allows extensive evaluation of the prospects.

“My single brothers and sisters, follow the simple dating pattern and you don’t need to do your looking through Internet chat rooms Continued on Page 19

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or dating services — two alternatives that can be very dangerous or at least unnecessary or ineffective,” he said.

While some of his talk seemed to be targeted to men, Oaks did direct a portion of the evening to young women as well, suggesting that they make the idea of hanging out far too easy.

“Young women, resist too much hanging out, and encourage dates that are simple, inexpensive and frequent. Don’t make it easy for young men to hang out in a setting where you women provide the food,” he said.

“Don’t subsidize freeloaders. ... I think you should lock the pantry and bolt the front door.

“If you do this, you should also hang up a sign, ‘Will open for individual dates.’ ” After first reading Elder Oaks’ talk back in 2005, I realized I was one of those young women who made it far too easy for guys to avoid dating. My pantry was always open with a warm batch of banana bread or pan of homemade lasagna and my home was always the perfect place for game night

or the latest DVD release. It was clear I had fallen into the dreaded hang out trap.

It wasn’t until I actually moved to northern Utah, exploring a new career and social circles, that I was able to better break free from that trap and truly experience the crazy emotional ups and downs of dating, ultimately finding my perfect match in 2010.

Even though Elder Oaks’ “Dating Versus Hanging Out” talk was given nearly 10 years ago, the hang out trap is still prevalent, as evidenced by more and more single and mid-single adult wards being organized throughout Utah, two of which are now in Utah Valley — the Oak Hills 8th Ward in Provo, the mid-singlefriendly Orem YSA 31st Ward, and now one in Lehi.

As Elder Oaks so perfectly reminded all the single LDS saints, we have been counseled to “channel your associations with the opposite sex into dating patterns that have the potential to mature into marriage, not hangingout patterns that only have the prospect to mature into team sports like touch football.

Marriage is not a group activity.”

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2000s Timeline 2001

The First Presidency and the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles issue their official testimony of the Savior. The document was titled “The Living Christ.”

2000

January 1

The first general conference in the new Conference Center was held. There were 400,000 ticket requests, with only 21,000 seats.

April 2

The church reaches 11 million members and for the first time had more non-English speakers than English speakers.

September

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The new Conference Center is officially dedicated.

The worldwide Perpetual Education Fund is established.

March 31

August 10 Ricks College in Rexburg, Idaho, is renamed BYU-Idaho and becomes a four-year university

2002

Salt Lake City hosts the 2002 Winter Olympics. The Mormon Tabernacle Choir performs in the opening ceremony and several church members and leaders carry the Olympic Torch. U.S. President George W. Bush and wife Laura visits with the First Presidency.

May 23

February 8-24

Missionary Training center in Africa is opened.

President Hinckley becomes first church president to visit Russia and Ukraine.

September 9

2003

First ever global leadership conference held by satellite.

January 11

July 9 The Apia Samoa Temple is destroyed by fire. On July 16 the First Presidency announced the temple would be rebuilt.

2004

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2007

After two years of extensive renovation, the 140 year-old Tabernacle at Temple Square is opened and rededicated.

March 31

The church reaches 13 million members, President Hinckley announced that since 1830 1 million missionaries have served.

June 24

2008

President Gordon B. Hinckley, age 97, dies in Salt Lake City.

January 27

President Thomas S. Monson is ordained as the 16th president of the LDS Church.

February 3

Church announces that more than 140 million copies of the Book of Mormon have been published.

August 20

2009

President Monson and Elder Dallin H. Oaks meet with U.S. President Barack Obama and give him five leather-bound books of his family genealogy going back several generations, covering hundreds of years.

July 20

April Presiding Bishop H. David Burton unveiled the first solar-powered meetinghouse in North America at a new stake center in Farmington. The building is a prototype.

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Looking to the Future Upcoming LDS Guides to spotlight women, temples With this conclusion to our Throwback LDS Guide we wanted to get you excited for what’s coming down the pipeline.

In the Fall 2014 General Conference special section we will be looking at the history of women within The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints: milestones, doctrine, the Relief Society, missionaries and more. We will look heavily to

conference talks from women, about women, and for women over the history of the church.

The Spring 2015 special section will take a look at the history of LDS temples. Our section will coincide with the expected completion date of the Provo City Center Temple (see HeraldExtra.com/TabernacletoTemple for continually updated stories, photos and more). There will be timelines, photo galleries, fun facts and amazing stories to accompany this in-depth look into the importance, history and majesty of the many LDS temples throughout the world.

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