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Does your child need a structured

summer program?

Lakeside Behavioral Health System can help.

The Brunswick Day Program is an Intensive Outpatient Program that treats children and adolescents with high functioning autism in a supportive environment. Our goal is to maintain continuity in students’ developmental and behavioral skills throughout the summer.

Our pattern-based curriculum includes:

The program was designed by parents, caregivers and clinical professionals and is led by licensed and trained therapists, certified special education teachers and certified activity therapists.

• Activity/recreational therapy

The six-week program is designed for elementary, middle and high school students and runs Monday through Friday from 9 am to 2 pm. Students may attend one week or any number of consecutive weeks. Lunch will be provided.

June 13 - 17 June 27 - July 1 July 11 - 15

• Social skills development • Sensory motor integration skills training • Educational/learning skills • Study skills/adaptive classroom behavior

Summer 2022 Dates: June 20 - 24 July 5 - 8 July 18 -22

*No program on July 4th

We can be the answer you are looking for. For more information, or to register, please contact Marceia Ashe Marceia.Ashe@uhsinc.com or call 901-373-0931.

2911 Brunswick Road | Memphis, Tennessee 38133 901-377-4733 | lakesidebhs.com

Physicians are on the medical staff of Lakeside Behavioral Health System, but, with limited exceptions, are independent practitioners who are not employees or agents of Lakeside Behavioral Health System. The facility shall not be liable for actions or treatments provided by physicians. For language assistance, disability accommodations and the nondiscrimination notice, visit our website.

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SUMMER CAMP GUIDE 5 REASONS FOR SLEEPAWAY CAMP Learning and growing is part of the experience.

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By Tanni Haas

OPEN 365 DAYS A YEAR

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AGES ZERO TO 21

MESSY Life — and parenting — is beautiful, but messy.

By Adam Jeffrey

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HELP DREAMS TAKE FLIGHT It takes community support for individuals to flourish.

CAMP GUIDE A list of local offerings to kick-start your search.

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Compiled by Memphis Parent staff

By Jennifer Balink

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CHOOSING THE RIGHT CAMP Kids will thrive at camp this season!

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WEATHER OR NOT Riding out the storm with grandkids.

By Jon W. Sparks

By Tanni Haas

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8 DEAR TEACHER Homework help and lacking sleep.

12 OUTSTANDING TEACHER Celebrating unsung heroes.

28 CALENDAR AND EVENTS Your guide to family-friendly fun!

24 DAD LIBS A lesson in grief.

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OFF TO CAMP!

Spring is on the way, and summer’s just around the bend. After a few months of cold, dreary days — and a February ice storm! — we know you’re as excited as we are for warmer weather, blooming flowers, and summertime shenanigans. And the kids are going to be happier than ever for camp! As we’ve rounded year two of the ongoing Covid pandemic, vaccines and declining cases have allowed us to get out more — and that means trips, activities, and camp outings!

Have you started planning for camp yet? Memphis Parent is hosting our annual Camp Expo on March 5th, from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m., at the FedEx Event Center at Shelby Farms, and you will not want to

miss this opportunity to meet face-toface with camp representatives! From music and theater to arts and athletics and everything in between, see what local and regional camps are offering this season, ask questions, and get all the info you need to make the best decision for your children. Up-to-date information on participating camps and more can be found at memphisparentcampexpo.com. The event is free to attend. We’ll see you there!

Within this issue, we’ve also offered some helpful tips and info on choosing the best camp fit for your child. Are they ready for camp? Day camp or sleepaway camp? What are the benefits? There’s also a helpful resource (beginning on page 20)

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that outlines a few details on some of our area camps to kick-start your search.

While you’re in planning mode, take a look at our Calendar & Events list (page 28), which provides a roundup of so much fun to come this spring.

There’s a lot to look forward to, and we hope you’ll make the most of it — the cherished memories will be the icing on the cake.

Take care,

Shara Clark

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DAY CAMP

Field Trips Service Projects

SPORTS CAMPS LEAP CAMPS JUNE 1–JULY 30

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Explore: New Explore: New Planetarium Planetarium Show Premiere Show Premiere

The premiere of this new full-dome The premiere of this new full-dome planetarium show gives insight into the planetarium show gives insight into the technology that launched us into space, technology that launched us into space, taking the viewer on a journey from ancient taking the viewer on a journey from ancient astronomy through the ambitious idea of astronomy through the ambitious idea of colonizing Mars. Learn about the creation of colonizing Mars. Learn about the creation of calendars, the stars and planets, and modern calendars, the stars and planets, and modern transportation and space travel. Showings transportation and space travel. Showings will run through May 27. will run through May 27.

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6th Annual 6th Annual Truck Festival Soulful Soulful Food Food Truck Festival

Complete with delicious food and live Complete with delicious food and live entertainment by Stefanie Bolton, Carmen entertainment by Stefanie Bolton, Carmen Hicks, and Courtney Little, this festival will Hicks, and Courtney Little, this festival will soothe the soul and any rumbling tummies. soothe the soul and any rumbling tummies.

Kids 5 and under get in free.

Kids 5 and under get in free.

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Food fest, monster trucks, Baby Shark, and more!

Food fest, monster trucks, Baby Shark, and more!

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Hot Hot Wheels™ Wheels™ Monster Monster Trucks Trucks

The iconic Hot Wheels monster truck toys The iconic Hot Wheels monster truck toys come to life in this full-size, immersive Hot come to life in this full-size, immersive Hot Wheels show with over-the-top competitions Wheels show with over-the-top competitions and battles. The car-eating, fire-breathing and battles. The car-eating, fire-breathing transforming robot MEGASAURUS and transforming robot MEGASAURUS and the high-flying Freestyle Motocross will the high-flying Freestyle Motocross will make special appearances. Performances make special appearances. Performances will be on March 19 at 12:30 p.m. and will be on March 19 at 12:30 p.m. and 7:30 p.m., with one show on March 20 at 7:30 p.m., with one show on March 20 at 1:30 p.m. Tickets, starting at $25, can be 1:30 p.m. Tickets, starting at $25, can be purchased at fedexforum.com. purchased at fedexforum.com.

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The Fast & The FastWalk & The The Furriest Furriest 5K and 5K and Walk

The whole family (including four-legged The whole family (including four-legged members) can support the Humane members) can support the Humane Society of Memphis & Shelby County in Society of Memphis & Shelby County in this 5K run/walk. Out of an abundance of this 5K run/walk. Out of an abundance of caution, the Humane Society is offering caution, the Humane Society is offering

both a virtual and in-person option to both a virtual and in-person option to participate. Chipped timing costs $30; participate. Chipped timing costs $30; for kids 9 and under, chipped timing costs for kids 9 and under, chipped timing costs $15. Online registration closes March 25 at $15. Online registration closes March 25 at 9 a.m. Learn more and secure your spot at 9 a.m. Learn more and secure your spot at memphishumane.org. memphishumane.org.

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Baby Baby Shark Shark Live!

Live!

Baby Shark and his pal Pinkfong are taking Baby Shark and his pal Pinkfong are taking over the Orpheum’s stage in this one-ofover the Orpheum’s stage in this one-ofa-kind concert experience, where young a-kind concert experience, where young fans can sing and dance along to classic fans can sing and dance along to classic hits like “Five Little Monkeys,” “Wheels hits like “Five Little Monkeys,” “Wheels on the Bus,” and, of course, “Baby Shark.” on the Bus,” and, of course, “Baby Shark.”

Dancing in your seats and in the aisles will be Dancing in your seats and in the aisles will be encouraged, and photo experience add-ons encouraged, and photo experience add-ons will be available for your family to take a pic will be available for your family to take a pic with Baby Shark and Pinkfong. Tickets can be with Baby Shark and Pinkfong. Tickets can be purchased online at orpheum-memphis.com purchased online at orpheum-memphis.com for $28-$68. for $28-$68.

Orpheum Theatre, 203 S. Main Orpheum Theatre, 203 S. Main See our full Calendar & Events listings on page 28.

See our full Calendar & Events listings on page 28.

I never stopped experimenting.

Briarcrest students are taught to embrace any challenges life may bring and use them to grow academically and spiritually.

Learning never stops.

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June 27 - July 1 or July 25 - 29 / 10 - 11:30 am

Peter and the Wolf Camp Ages 3-5 / $100

July 11 - 15 / 10 am - 1 pm

Musical Theater Camp

Ages 3-11

Ages 6-11 / $200

July 11 - 15 / 1:30 - 4:30 pm

Anansi and the Sky God Camp Ages 6-11 / $200

July 18 - 27 / 10 am - 1 pm or July 25 - 29 / 1:30 - 4:30 pm

Peace, Love & Hip Hop Camp Ages 6-11 / $200

July 18 - 27 / 1:30 - 4:30 pm

Versatile Dance Camp

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All camps conclude with a performance for family & friends!

For more information call 901.726.9225 or visit newballet.org.

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HANDLING FRUSTRATION WITH HOMEWORK At times, my seventh grader totally loses her cool when frustrated with a difficult homework assignment.

Telling her to calm down just doesn’t work. What should I do?

— Frustrated Too Trying to calm a child when she is in the middle of a meltdown does not work. She is just too worked up to listen. She should walk away from working on the assignment to calm herself.

When the child begins to calm down, you can be empathetic, expressing that you know how frustrated she must feel, and also offer to help. Or hopefully, once the child is over the meltdown, she may just tackle what has frustrated her on her own.

To avoid future homework assignment meltdowns, you need to sit down with your child and show her how she can learn how to do a difficult assignment. The first thing to have her do is to consult her textbook (this works best for math and English) to look at similar work to what she is being asked to do. Also, studying class notes is

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L ACKING SLEEP You may be surprised to learn that your children could be sleep-deprived. Elementary school children should have from nine to 10 hours of sleep per night. Furthermore, the effects of not getting enough sleep night after night accumulate and can even cause children to have problems in school. Teachers see this as a problem when children doze off in class. Plus, the Association of Elementary School Principals reports that sleep-deprived children can’t

concentrate on their schoolwork, have trouble remembering things, may become irritable and fidgety, and may be vulnerable to colds and flu.

Today, a major reason for children staying up too late is increased demands on their time.

Your children may be involved in too many activities. Also, you should determine if they are being assigned too much homework. Children in elementary school should usually have about 10 minutes of homework for every year in school.

another way to find examples of the work that she is attempting to do. At times, she can find online help by searching for similar work. There are tutorials on a wide range of subjects, so she should be fairly specific in her search.

If the above approaches do not work, you could do some teaching so she understands the assignment. You should never do the work for her. If you are unable to help her, have her move onto work she can do. The next day when the homework is discussed, she should get the answers she needs. Or she can request special help from the teacher.

Should meltdowns continue to occur on a regular basis, it is time to consult her teacher to see what special help your daughter may need to handle her homework.

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There is also the possibility of spending too much time on electronic media.

Parents need to realize that part of the reason your children are staying up later may be physiological. As children move through elementary school, they will naturally fall asleep later, even if they have the same bedtimes. This is especially true when they enter puberty.

Parents should send questions and comments to dearteacher@dearteacher.com.

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By Jennifer Balink

HELP DREAMS TAKE FLIGHT

It takes a community support system to allow individuals the security to flourish.

When I started working at what is now Kindred Place, one of the first items on my to-do list was planning and executing the annual fundraising event, known at the time as the Hands of Hope auction.

Since we were writing the next chapter of a 35-year-old organization, refining the strategy and messaging, we spent some time looking in the archives, carefully sorting through what had and hadn’t worked well in the past as we prepared for the future.

One of the ideas we unearthed in the dig was the “Box of Hopes and Dreams” component of past auctions.

Many years prior, artists had hand-painted wooden boxes, and in the boxes were notes from our clients — both children and adults — about their hopes and dreams.

One member of our board, who’d been around long enough to have seen many of our annual events, showed us the Box of Hopes and Dreams on his credenza and talked about how he felt every time he saw it. In that one, simple item he had a tangible reminder of how his support for our work helped make hopes and dreams come true for people he would probably never meet. It inspired him to keep working, keep helping, keep dreaming of a better future for all people.

The ability to imagine a future and better version of oneself is, according to several research studies, an asset that can contribute to moving from poverty to economic self-sufficiency. Dreams, paired with more practical things like food, housing, and safety, are fuel. Dreams feed momentum.

We brought back the idea, albeit in a slightly different format. Volunteers handpainted wooden birdhouses, and the theme of that section of the auction was “Help Dreams Take Flight.” In the little round opening of each birdhouse we planned to insert a rolled-up note from a client (child or adult) about their dreams.

As the auction date drew near, we had far more birdhouses than notes. I knew it

wasn’t likely or even appropriate to get a note from every client, but I was surprised by how few there were. I asked about it during our weekly staff meeting, wanting to know more about how people were approaching the conversation and asking for the notes. How had we done it in the past? What was different now?

“The people I’m working with don’t have dreams,” one therapist finally offered.

“They don’t know how to dream, can’t imagine beyond the basic, practical needs of right now. That’s always been true for some people, but now it’s true for so many more.”

That’s the effect of trauma, stress, and unmet basic needs, including — and possibly most importantly — lack of loving support and human connection.

But before you go thinking that this situation describes only “other people,” people you drive by at freeway intersections or see behind dumpsters at the coffee shop, consider another story.

Earlier this year, I was working with a group of highly educated, well-resourced professionals on a change management process. They were stuck, and I wasn’t making much progress. With a colleague’s help I decided to try a loosely structured Appreciative Inquiry exercise, starting

Jennifer Balink is the executive director of Kindred Place, a counseling, coaching, and education center for confident parenting and healthy behaviors.

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Registration opens March 11. Visit sgis.org/summer! by asking each member of the group to identify one cherished memory from the past that they dreamed of repeating in the future.

At first, I was met with silence. Then someone said: “Honestly, thinking about the things I enjoyed in the past just makes me overwhelmingly sad. I don’t have any dreams for the future. I’m just trying to get by one day at a time, and that’s hard enough.”

We’re dealing with trauma, stress, and unmet needs, particularly the lack of loving support and human connection. And “dreams” as a word is a long-inequitable and complicated term — dreams deferred, and dreams denied.

It is easy, perhaps, to think of dreams, and dreaming, as an individual activity, something each one of us does, or doesn’t, do, all in the privacy of our own individual minds.

But dreams aren’t solo work. They’re too risky, require too much vulnerability for anyone to dare have one without the companion belief that something — or someone — will be there to soften the fall if the dream doesn’t come true. Loving, supportive human relationships are the safety nets that allow the risk of dreaming.

Each of us has the power to be that safety net for the people in our lives, our intimate partners, our children, our family members, our colleagues, and our friends.

Harnessing that power sometimes requires self-compassion and healing first. We have to be present for ourselves before we can be present for others.

Love begins at home, metaphorically and literally. If we are truly to “reimagine” Memphis, then we must ensure every child, every parent, every person has what they need to make dreaming possible in the first place.

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by Risha Manga

RUTH J. TERRELL

Ruth Terrell has been a special education teacher at Berclair Elementary since 2016. When Terrell’s daughter was in the third grade in legacy MCS (Memphis City Schools) in 2001, she knew that she needed to further her education to help her daughter with her studies.

Terrell enrolled in Shelby State to begin her teaching career. “Ironically, I wanted to teach general education,” she says, “but I believed I was chosen to teach special education.”

As per the U.S. Dept. of Education, each public school child who receives special education and related services must have an Individualized Education Program (IEP). The IEP is designed to be a truly individualized instruction plan for each kid, and involves parents as well as school personnel as needed.

Terrell believes in hands-on learning techniques for her students and is driven to ensure that each kid reaches their full potential. She sets high standards for herself and her students. “I use accommodations and modifications according to their IEP, but I also group them in ways they can learn from their peers,” she says. “I incorporate many hands-on learning games. They interactively use the smartboard. Some students participate with their general education peers in school activities.

We went into the community on trips for life skills and restaurant etiquette, and we created simple recipes in class before the pandemic.”

Teaching is a superpower, and Terrell has embraced and honed her superpower. “I pray for

strength daily to help my students be successful,” she says. “Teaching is a calling, and I know that my purpose is helping others, no matter their disability, to see that they can do all things if they believe it and work hard to achieve it.

“To many people, I teach disabled students, but I am here to set the record straight,” Terrell continues. “I teach students with disabilities.

They are children first and foremost. I instill in my students that they can accomplish anything they set their mind to do. We all are unique and different in our own way.”

Terrell’s classroom motto is “I Can …

Achieve My Goals, Be Successful, Behave, and Learn.” “At the beginning of each school year, I tell my students that we both have a job in this classroom,” she says. “My job is to teach them, and their job is to learn. If we both stay positive and give our very best, then we will get positive results. My students are always on different academic levels due to the type of classroom that I teach in at school.”

Terrell finds her overall experience as a special education teacher to be rewarding, fun and exciting, scary at times, and most importantly, fulfilling. “I have seen children grow academically, socially, and improve in behavior

in my classroom,” she says. “My students have helped me as I have helped them to gain more knowledge and appreciate each day of learning.

I would say the best part of teaching is knowing that I have made a positive difference in the lives of the students I have taught in the past, and am making a positive difference currently for the students that I now teach.” 

We want to shine a light on your child’s teacher, or even a teacher who made a difference in your life.

Submit your nomination today by emailing teacher@memphisparent.com.

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Therapeutic Summer Day Program

for Youth Ages 10 to 17 We can help youth with emotional and behavioral health issues gain new ground in preparation for the upcoming school year.

Our program provides individual and family therapy and educational enrichment in our full-day program.

Issues we address include: • • • • •

Depression Stress/School Anxiety Behavioral Issues Substance Use Academic Challenges

Summer is a great time for personal growth and new successes.

If you know a child who needs help, call 888-266-7279.

Full-day and half-day programs are available Monday through Friday, from June 1 to August 3.

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CHOOSING THE RIGHT SUMMER CAMP

Kids will thrive at camp this season.

It’s no exaggeration to say that the one event kids really look forward to all year is summer camp. But how do you choose the right one for them? Based on my experiences as the parent of a teenager, as well as conversations with other parents, I’ve figured out the top six things to consider.

Cost

It goes without saying that cost is an important factor, especially if you have more than one kid. Summer camps can range widely in price, depending on whether they’re bare-bones camps with a limited number of activities or camps that offer a lot of expensive activities like overnight trips. But don’t just consider the price of 14

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the camp. Also consider how much money you’ll have left for other summer activities like family trips. Kids’ summer vacations are long and can feel even longer if the whole family has to stay home for many weeks because you didn’t have any money left to do other things. I learned this the hard way the first time our son went to a summer camp. The camp was so expensive that we ended up not having money for our planned family vacation.

Geographical Distance

Another aspect to consider is the distance of the camp from your home. If the camp is far away, you may end up spending a lot of time and money driving to and from camp.

This issue is made even more challenging if you’ve got kids who go to different camps, at different times, and for different lengths of time. A good friend of ours spends a lot of the summer crisscrossing the U.S. on the way to and from the different camps that his kids go to.

Day Camp or Sleepaway Camp

One of the biggest choices every parent faces is whether to send their kids to a day camp or a sleepaway camp. In my experience, it’s best to start with a day camp until your kids express interest in going to a sleepaway camp. Believe me: They’re fully aware, even at a young age, that sleepaway camps exist and that some of their friends already have attended them. If your kids haven’t said they’d like to go to a sleepaway camp, it’s probably because they’re not ready yet. It can also be a good idea to send your kids to both day and sleepaway camps. While sleepaway camps give them a chance to experience real independence and to make new friends, day camps let them come home in the late afternoon and spend some time with their regular friends.

Indoor or Outdoor Activities

Consider the types of activities in which your kids would be engaged when choosing a camp. Some kids enjoy sitting quietly inside, focusing on arts and crafts; other kids prefer being outdoors doing sports.

By Tanni Haas You could choose to simply follow your kids’ preferences and let them decide, or you could use the summer camp as a chance to challenge your kids to step outside their comfort zone and try something different.

My spouse certainly prefers the second option. Since our son first began going to summer camp, my spouse has insisted that he try activities that we can’t offer him in our regular city-slicker lives, like canoeing, water skiing, and zip-lining.

Answering these questions will help you determine when your child is ready for camp.

Single Activity or Multiple Activities

Find out if the camps you are interested in are specialized and focus on one activity or if they offer multiple activities. Many camps are geared toward one specific activity, like chess, coding, writing, or more sportsoriented activities like basketball or soccer.

Other camps offer kids a range of activities from sports to crafts to performing arts.

Camps that focus on a single activity typically aim to strengthen kids’ abilities in that particular area. Camps that offer many different activities try to introduce kids to different things. So ask yourself — and your kids — whether the goal is simply to have fun and try new things or if the goal is to enhance some particular skill of theirs.

Single or Multiple Camps

Finally, ask yourself whether you want to send your kids to one camp for all or part of the summer or if you want your kids to go to multiple camps. There are good reasons for either choice. On the one hand, sending your kids to a single camp can save you time and money shuttling between camps. It would also let your kids cultivate friendships for a longer period of time. On the other hand, sending your kids to several camps would let them explore different interests and make more new friends.

IS YOUR CHILD READY FOR CAMP? What is your child’s age?

Children under the age of 7 may not adjust easily to being away from home. Consider the day camp experience to prepare them for future overnight camp.

5 REASONS TO SEND YOUR KIDS TO SLEEPAWAY CAMP

Camp is about more than fun — learning and growing is part of the experience.

There are so many great reasons to consider sending your kids to sleepaway camp this summer. I’ve learned that the experience is not only a whole lot of fun, but can also be character-building for them! Here are five different ways your kids will develop and mature.

Independence For most kids, sleepaway camp is the first time they get to experience real independence. They’re away from their parents and other adult family members for an extended period of time, and they’ve got to quickly learn how to take care of themselves, from getting themselves ready

Has your child had positive overnight experiences away from home?

Visiting relatives or friends? Were these separations easy or difficult?

How did your child become interested in camp?

Does your child talk about camp and camp activities on a sustained basis?

How much persuasion is necessary from you?

What does your child expect to do at camp?

Learning about the camp experience ahead of time allows you to create positive expectations.

Are you able to share consistent and positive messages about camp?

Your confidence in a positive experience will be contagious.

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in the morning to choosing their daily activities. Of course, there are counselors who are responsible for the overall welfare of the kids, but unlike teachers who tell kids what to do, camp counselors act much more like older brothers and sisters who are on a joint adventure with the kids. I’ll never forget the first time my spouse and I picked up our son from sleepaway camp. He acted like a completely different person than the one we’d left behind only a few short weeks earlier: independent, mature, and with a confident, knowing demeanor.

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Sleepaway teaches kids how to become better organized. From the moment they wake up in the morning to the moment they go to sleep at night, they have to make many choices that require them to learn how to organize themselves and their time. For example, in the morning they’re supposed to wake up, get dressed, brush their teeth, make their beds, and walk to the dining hall at the same time and together with all the other kids they’re bunking with. But unlike in school where teachers tell kids exactly what to do and when, camp counselors expect that kids figure it out themselves.

And that includes not forgetting to put their dirty clothes in the hamper on laundry day.

By Tanni Haas

Camaraderie Kids also learn some very valuable lessons about camaraderie. Camps often let parents request that their kids bunk with friends from home. Yet, they’ll also bunk with many other kids, often from different states and countries. This’ll teach them how to get along with and enjoy the company of kids with very different backgrounds than their own. Most camps are aware of this and organize activities aimed at creating a strong sense of camaraderie and community, including evening campfires, sing-a-longs, and the ever-popular Camp Olympics.

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Compassion Not every kid easily adjusts to being away from their parents for a long period of time, and not every kid easily makes new friends. If there’s one area where camp counselors do actively step in to help kids adapt, it’s when someone is homesick or just not happy. Camp counselors show kids how to treat others with compassion, care, and respect. Many camps also have a buddy system where kids are teamed up to support one another and do fun things together.

Conflict-Resolution Sometimes, despite camp counselors’ best efforts, conflicts do occur over who bunks together, who sits next to whom at meal times, and who plays with whom. After all, kids often live in cramped quarters at camp, with unfamiliar roommates. But that’s not such a bad thing: One of the most important skills kids learn at sleepaway camp is how to solve interpersonal conflicts.

Camp counselors certainly step in to solve serious conflicts, but they’ll typically let the kids solve the small ones on their own. And learning how to solve conflict is a great skill they will bring home with them and use long after the camp is over.

Tanni Haas, Ph.D., is a professor in the Department of Communication Arts, Sciences and Disorders at the City University of New York – Brooklyn College.

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By Adam Jeffrey

MESSY

Life — and parenting — is beautiful, even though it’s messy.

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If there is anything that every honest parent could agree about, it is that the entire process of parenting is messy.

From the womb to the world, the mess is inevitable. It cannot be avoided. All that the midwife, doctor, nurse, and/or parent can do is to prepare for the fact that this will be a very messy process. Yet, despite the mess, the pain, and the difficulty, being present for the birth of a brand-new baby is one of the most beautiful experiences that life has to offer.

However, every experienced parent will also tell you that this will not be the end of the messiness. On the contrary, this is actually just the introduction course.

Perhaps we could call it something like: “The rest of your life will be messy 101.”

Indeed, at least the next 20 years of life will now be filled with messes.

We begin with dirty diapers, drool, leaky bottles and sippy cups, bibs smeared with baby food, cribs and car seats filled with crumbs, floors covered with smashed bananas and blueberries, bandages for booboos, and so many more lovely varieties of mess. And these are just the baby and toddler years!

All of these messes are just getting us prepared for the bigger messes yet to come. Broken hearts are much messier, and they are so much more difficult to handle.

Embarrassing moments and situations, not getting picked for the team or the beauty pageant, getting picked on by the “cool” kids, not making great grades, and ultimately betrayal from so-called friends and “love” interests.

And then, there is the messiest mess of them all: Letting go. Here, after all of these years of changing diapers, kissing boo-boos, and mending broken hearts, we find that nothing we have experienced so far could prepare us for this final and most difficult mess. Yet, if we pay careful attention, we will see that letting go is not simply a mess … it is the natural ebb and flow of life.

Every fall, the trees teach us that just as each individual leaf is beginning to mature into its own unique color and expression of beauty, this is the very moment of letting go. And just as the tree has provided all that was necessary for the leaf to become what it was meant to be, so must we recognize that we have

done our job. Like the leaves, our children are becoming the mature expression of all that they are meant to be, and so, we must let go.

Of course, this is not simple. It is, perhaps, the hardest thing a parent must do. Still, we must let go. Love lets go with selfless trust. A trust rooted in the process of cleaning up all the messes that have led us here. Now, we must trust that we have done our job, and we must trust our children (who are now adults) to do theirs. We must acknowledge that they will make messes … just like we did. And they will learn from their messes … just like we did. Perhaps they will have children of their own someday. And all that they have learned from their own messes will help them to deal with the messes that their children will make.

May we hold this trust with open hands and the utmost hope … the hope that they will have learned the same lesson that we have learned and are learning: That life is beautiful despite (or, perhaps, because of) the fact that it is … messy.

Adam Jeffrey is a family man: father of Savannah, Sierra, Madalynn, Aspen, and Aidan Jeffrey; husband of Kristie Jeffrey. When he is not changing diapers, helping with homework, mopping floors, washing dishes, and juggling many other family responsibilities, Adam is also an award-winning multi-instrumental musician, singer-songwriter, producer, and live-loop artist who has performed all over the world with various artists, bands, and symphony orchestras. In his current hometown of Memphis, he has had the honor of performing on several occasions with the Memphis Symphony Orchestra. The Jeffreys also co-created Imagine Vegan Cafe in the heart of Cooper-Young in Midtown in 2011 (imaginevegancafe.com).

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C A M P

Bodine School

Get students excited about reading and writing!

Maintain literacy skills previously taught, introduce new literacy skills, and minimize loss of literacy skills. Bodine School’s Summer Reading program will be held June 6-June 30, Monday through Thursday.

Morning session: Drop-off any time between 8 and 8:30 a.m.; instruction from 8:30 to 11:30 a.m.; dismissal at 11:30 a.m.

Afternoon session: Drop-off any time from 12:30 to 1 p.m.; instruction from 1 to 4 p.m.; dismissal at 4 p.m..This year’s program is open to all rising K-6th grade students.

Visit bodineschool.org/summer for details and registration. For more information, contact the Director of Admissions, Lauren Malone, at lmalone@bodineschool.org.

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Camp of the Rising Son

Camp of the Rising Son is excited to be planning for a safe and healthy summer 2022. CRS is committed to keep an eye on the remaining risk of COVID-19 and make best-practice decisions to keep the health and safety of its campers, families, and staff the number-one priority. Visit campoftherisingson.com for more information.

Christ The King Preschool

CTK Preschool runs multiple camps throughout the summer for ages 3 to 5 and select camps for children in kindergarten through 2nd grade.

For summer 2022, CTK Preschool is excited to offer 8 weeks of camp for ages 3 to rising 2nd grade.

Registration opens February 12. Learn more at ctkpreschoolcary.org/summer-camp.

Briarcrest Christian School Christian Brothers Briarcamp serves BCS students in Little Saints High School through 6th grade by providing a safe, healthy, and fun recreational experience for children in a Christian environment. Briarcamp allows working parents to feel confident that their children are engaging in supervised activities while in a relaxed social setting.

Briarcamp is available beginning May 31 and runs until July 22. Briarcamp hours are 9 a.m. to 3 p.m., with early- and after-care provided at an additional charge. Camps are filled on a first come, first served basis.

Briarcamp will adhere to physical distancing and DOE guidelines for the summer of 2022.

Briarcamp will only be open to BCS students with a signed contract for the fall of 2022-2023.

Should the status of COVID improve, they may consider opening Briarcamp to non-BCS families.

Brooks Summer Art Camp

Brooks is offering art camps for children ages 5 through 11, inspiring young minds to explore art and creativity. Camp includes active learning in the galleries, looking at original works of art, creating studio projects, active play outdoors, and more. Email ali.bush@brooksmuseum.org for additional information.

Camp dates: June 29-July 1, 2022: (Ages 5-8) — The Magic of Storytelling July 6-July 8, 2022: (Ages 5-8) — Animation Studio July 13-July 15, 2022: (Ages 8-11) — Figuring It Out – STEAM Visit brooksmuseum.org/camps for more information. *Members: $150 per week/nonmembers: $180 per week. All art materials are included in the camp fee. All fees must be paid at the time of registration. Campers bring their own snacks and lunches for all days of camp.

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With all-new offerings this summer, CBHS is a one-stop destination for happy campers of all ages. Full-day and half-day morning and afternoon sessions will keep kids engaged, energized, and entertained all summer long. Learn more and register today at camps.cbhs.org, or contact Dr. James Callicott at jcallicott@cbhs.org.

all-day camp, athletic camps, and specialty camps. Registration opens on March 1. To register, visit ecseagles.com/camps or contact Camp Director Cate Foy at 754-7217 or cfoy@ecseagles.com.

Graceland’s Performing Arts Camp

June 28-July 3 Elvis Presley’s Graceland’s Performing Arts Camp will return for its fourth year in 2022, June 28 to July 3. The Graceland Performing Arts Camp is an immersive theater arts and music experience for kids aged 6 to 17, where they are invited to explore their creativity in acting, singing, and dancing during workshops led by local and Broadway professionals. Over five days of activities, the campers develop a performance showcase that they present on stage at The Guest House Theater for family and friends on Saturday night.

The experience includes five nights at the AAArated Four Diamond resort hotel The Guest House at Graceland, all meals for campers and their families, and camp activities for an allinclusive price. To get more details and register for camp, visit graceland.com/camp.

Hutchison School

CCK welcomes children and their families battling various illnesses with a year-round program including weekend Family Retreats throughout the school year and nine Summer Camp Sessions. Family Retreats for children ages 5-17 and their families. Summer Camp sessions for children ages 7-16.

For complete information, camp schedule, illnesses they serve, or to apply to send your child to camp, visit courageouskids.org. Contact: 270.618.2900 or info@courageouskids.org.

Build a dollhouse, experiment with elephant toothpaste, dance your heart out, create your first comic book, and more! Hutchison Center for Excellence and SPARK Day Camp, June 1-August 14. For girls and boys entering grades JK-12. SPARK Day Camp runs daily from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m., with early care starting at 7:30 a.m. and late care available until 6 p.m. The Center for Excellence (CFE) offers unique full- or half-day camps and workshops for boys and girls of all ages. Make a day of it with a CFE/SPARK crossover. Discounts are available for multi-week campers, siblings, and crossover campers. For more information, visit hutchisonschool.org/summer.

Collage Dance Collective

Lakeshore Camp

Courageous Kids

Collage Dance Collective will be hosting a variety of sessions this summer! Register at collagedance.org.

Evangelical Christian School

ECS is proud to offer a variety of summer camps. As parents, you can rest assured that your children will be in the capable hands of teachers and coaches who love Jesus, love your kids, and enthusiastically teach valuable skills that your children will enjoy.

Summer at ECS, June 6-July 29, 9 a.m.-3 p.m., with before- and after-care available. Camps:

Whether you get excited about worship and music arts, arts and crafts, fishing, wilderness, aquatics, hammocking, or you just want to hang out at Main Camp, Lakeshore has the summer experience for you. Experience life, love, and God of Grace at one of the 40+ camp options for all ages and interests. Lakeshore is looking forward to another year of phenomenal staff, exquisite leadership, and amazing campers. This is a summer you won’t want to miss! To register, visit lakeshorecamp.org/summer-camp.

Little Medical School Midsouth

From birthday parties, CPR/first aid, and Scout badge classes to after-school programs, in-school field trips, homeschool programs, mini camps, or summer camps. Little Medical School is a STEM-based enrichment program for children and youth aged 4-15 that teaches greater health awareness through educational

Compiled by Memphis Parent staff roleplay and introduces them to careers in healthcare in an exciting way.

Camp Info: June 6-10, July 25-30 9 a.m. to noon, Future Doctor Camp. $175/ Early Bird $150 if registered by May 1 or bring a friend who registers and attend the same camp.

1-4 p.m., Future Veterinarian Camp. $175/Early Bird $150 if registered by May 1 or bring a friend who registers and attend the same camp.

Students can attend both camps, lunch provided by parents. Visit littlemedicalschool. com/midsouth to register.

Memphis Jewish Community Center

MJCC Camp is open to all children ages 3 through 10th grade. Facilities include an outdoor water park, indoor pool, expansive field space, and much more. Register at jccmemphis.org/camp.

Memphis Botanic Garden

Summer fun is blooming at the garden. Nature camps are dedicated to connecting kids with nature. These day camps for kids aged 4-12 offer a week full of nature crafts, games, and explorations led by one of MBG’s expert Garden Guides. Learn more at membg.org/childrenfamily-programs.

Missouri Military Academy

288 acres of woods, fields, rocks, creeks, and ponds are there to be explored and enjoyed.

Summer Academy, academic residential camp for boys, day camp for boys or girls, grades 7-12; Leadership camp for boys, ages 12-17; Confidence camp, for boys, ages 8-11; Equestrian day camp for boys and girls, ages 8-18. Visit missourimilitaryacademy.org/ summer for more information.

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From kindergarten to college, for a weeklong day camp or month-long program, whether you’re interested in STEM, STEAM, video games, exploring careers, or anything in between, Pre-College Programs has an experience that fits you this summer.

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Music Box

Music Lessons for all ages. Need music lessons, want to learn a life skill, succeed in an audition, join a band, learn to experience, appreciate, read, write, play, or produce music? For more information, visit musicboxinc.com/calendar.

Orpheum

Whether your student loves the spotlight or thrives in the camaraderie and creativity that theater provides, the Orpheum has a way for them to shine this summer! Explore summer camps and intensives for students in grades 3-12 plus recent high school graduates. All summer camps will take place in person at the Halloran Centre. For details and pricing, visit orpheummemphis.com/learn-engage/camps.

May 31-July 29, 2022 Ages 3 to 8th Grade

On Campus Field Trips, Water Slides, Kids in the Kitchen, All Things Sports, Science Explorers, Recycling, Around the World, Kids in Motion, Game Show Network, Art, and much more!

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Molly of Denali

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Pinecrest Camp

Registration at camppinecrest.org.

Tier pricing: Realizing that families have different abilities to pay, Pinecrest offers a voluntary three-tier fee program. Simply choose the tier that is most suitable or comfortable for your family. All campers receive the same Pinecrest experience, no matter which amount you choose to pay. As you consider your family’s financial situation, please also consider the true cost of camp.

For more information about the three tiers, visit camppinecrest.org.

40 minutes east of Memphis in La Grange, TN. Call at 901-878-1247 or email lucy@ camppinecrest.org for info.

Arthur

Playhouse on the Square

WKNO’S Teacher, Teacher

Nature Cat The Cat in the Hat Knows a Lot About That!

Playhouse on the Square’s Summer Youth Theater Conservatory is open to any student interested in theater, regardless of experience.

Participants attend daily classes and workshops in theater skills and dynamics, voice, dance/ movement, and more. Session sizes are limited to allow for maximum individual attention and development. For more information, visit playhouseonthesquare.org/summer-youthconservatory.

Presbyterian Day School Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood

Alma’s Way

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For 60+ years, Christ the King School has provided quality Christian education in the heart of East Memphis.

CTK embraces diversity and provides specialized attention (low student-to-teacher ratio). CTK fosters a safe environment where ALL students thrive, many times testing TWO levels above grade level. And did we mention CTK is the most reasonably priced private school in Memphis?

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Summer @ PDS aims to provide an option for a variety of families. Boys and girls ages 2 through 6th grade can enjoy spending their summer at PDS. With before-camp care starting at 7:30 a.m. and after-camp care until 5:30 p.m., it’s a great option for working parents. A day camp option each week offers different enrichment camps so that campers have exciting and engaging options that are ageappropriate. Older boys love sports camp, and this year, they’ll offer a sports camp for younger boys, as well! Register now at pdsmemphis.org/ programs/summer-camps.

School of Rock

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Tennessee Shakespeare Company

Tennessee Shakespeare Company announces Tennessee four new 2022 summer camps for participants ranging in ages from rising kindergarteners to Shakespeare Company rising 12th graders and recent camp graduates.

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At Music Box Camp, kids get to experience being part of a real-life Band / Theatre Cast & Crew / Drum Group, and put on a Live Show for their family & friends at the end of the week.

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L I B S

By Jeff Hulett

A LESSON IN GRIEF

We all process loss in our own ways.

In late December, my father-in-law Gerald passed away after a long battle with Alzheimer’s disease.

I’m grateful we were able to see him on Christmas Eve, and say goodbye to him in a special and meaningful way. We spent the afternoon outside just laughing and holding his hand. Remember how warm it was? My girls gave him a blanket, a neck pillow, and some things he could squeeze.

Gerald could barely keep his eyes open, but he knew we were there loving on him.

He even managed a smile as we told him he was loved.

It was time. He knew it, and we knew it. My wife Annie had been helping her mother Cheryl day in and day out for months, not knowing what the future would hold or how long this could possibly go on. Alzheimer’s is a cruel and mysterious diagnosis. While we are sad, it’s a blessing that he was released from the scary grip of dementia and confusion. Life goes on I suppose, and in time Cheryl can get back to the things that bring her joy — activities like sewing, swimming, dining out with friends, traveling, and more. I have no doubt that it will be hard considering she

was married for more than 58 years.

I think it’s important to remember that when someone is grieving, they should be allowed to mourn in their own way and in their own time. Many times, family and friends subconsciously or otherwise make it about themselves instead of the person who is navigating their own grief.

When we had the funeral, a graveside burial in Jackson, Tennessee, I performed three songs — “Amazing Grace,” “You Raise Me Up,” and “Be Not Afraid.” I practiced each song every day for two weeks, and even though I was confident in my playing, I still choked up and had to dig deep to get through it. I loved how every family member had a part to play at the funeral.

My wife read a poem, and her brother Rob handled the eulogy. The grandchildren all placed flowers on the casket. What I will remember most is my daughter Ella writing a book of poems about loss and grief for her Grandma Cheryl. Over Christmas she was given a book-binding set, and she used it to create a beautiful set of prose.

One of the poems is simply called “Grief.”

“Grief is a feeling of sadness most people say, but actually it does not have to be that way.

Grief is mostly used when someone you love passes away, but sometimes you won’t feel sad, you will smile at a memory of the person you love. Sometimes you will feel sad and empty and alone. You may feel confused, unsure like a dream that you can’t escape from, and grief might never fully melt away, but you will feel a different feeling of grief every day.”

Wise words from a 10-year-old girl, if you ask me. Ella’s beautiful words moved her grandmother and her family in a big way, and I’m grateful she took pen to paper to mark down how the death of her Granddaddy Gerald made her feel — a lesson in grief I will always cherish.

Funerals are weird. Grief is weird. Life is weird. But we all have to go through it in our own ways and should give the loved ones around us the space they need to process the change in their own ways and their own time.

Rest in peace Gerald Wooley.

Jeff Hulett is a freelance writer, musician, and PR consultant in Memphis. He lives in the Vollintine Evergreen neighborhood with his wife Annie, two girls Ella and Beatrice, and dog Chalupa.

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By Jon W. Sparks

WEATHER OR NOT

Riding out the storm with grandkids.

Photo (left): Jon W. Sparks Photo (above): © Mrtwister | Dreamstime.com

There’s nothing like an ice storm to test the relationship between grandkids and grandparents.

The infamous weather smackdown we went through in February was a fine example, with folks having to deal with falling trees, icy roads, closed schools and daycares, and power outages lasting days for many of us.

Most parents still had to report to work, so the kid shuffle was in full force throughout. Families were sorting out who could drive, who didn’t have electricity, who was sick, who wasn’t quarantining, and who didn’t have massive tree limbs puncturing roofs.

And it must be said that the children were of absolutely no help at all. Maybe you could get older ones to pick up some twigs, but they were useless when it came to wielding a chainsaw. (And who could blame them? Have you ever read the instruction manual that comes with a chainsaw? On every page you’ll see multiple warnings in bold red type with an alarming number of exclamation points. Years ago I bought one, read the manual, put it all back in the box, and hired someone to handle the job.)

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and break their precious little heads, and some on the trees that could break limbs that would fall and break their precious little heads.

We figured it would be good to get a fire in the fireplace, which the grands absolutely love. Because it’s fire! You get to teach them principles of safety that have to cover handling of flammable material, dealing with logs (real or storebought), reaching inside the (dark and cold) fireplace to find the flue damper, and trying not to scream when you grab a handful of cobwebs. You must set an example of calmness.

If your house is power-deficient, then you have to bundle your bundles of joy while also keeping them from opening the refrigerator to stare for minutes on end at the melting ice cream bars. Nor can you plop them down in front of the TV to get a few minutes of peace. Nor can you set them in front of the computer, unless you have a laptop with finite battery power that will use your phone’s hot-spot, which drains not only your iPhone but piles up the cellular usage charges. If you’re lucky, however, there might be a cool-looking

fireball on a transformer across the street that will bring forth the fire department.

That might qualify as the day’s best entertainment as you look out the window, point, and shiver.

It’s possible that along with the children, you’ve also taken in some pets, and again, the grandkids are pretty much useless. Maybe the older ones can fill the water bowl and scoop some food, but you’ll be the one following the excitable dog around the house hoping to keep it from knocking over the china, and looking after the old hound keeping it comfortable. And will those adorable grandbabies mop up the doggie pee in the kitchen? I think not.

But if you don’t have any power from MLGW, you still have the power of being grandparents. And the old-style diversions are still the best, like everyone getting in the bed with plenty of blankets and singing songs, telling stories, reading books, and looking at family pictures. Baby it’s cold outside, but your babies will be all warm and snug enveloped in love. Still, spring can’t get here soon enough. 

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BABY SHARK LIVE! THURSDAY, MARCH 31

Orpheum Theatre, 203 S. Main, 6 P.M.

Baby Shark and his pal Pinkfong are taking over the Orpheum’s stage in this one-of-a-kind concert experience, where young fans can sing and dance along to classic hits like “Five Little Monkeys,” “Wheels on the Bus,” and, of course, “Baby Shark.” Dancing in your seats and in the aisles will be encouraged, and photo experience add-ons will be available for your family to take a pic with Baby Shark and Pinkfong.

Tickets can be purchased online at orpheum-memphis.com for $28-$68.

Through May 13

Lion Guard: The Exhibit

The Children’s Museum presents this one-ofa-kind exhibit that brings “The Lion Guard” to life, transporting families to the Pride Lands through hands-on activities and interactive and imaginative play. Spotlighting important learning areas such as social and self-development, problem-solving, creative thinking, and arts and culture, this exhibit will be on display through May 13. Disney character live appearances are not part of the exhibit.

The Children’s Museum of Memphis, 2525 Central March 1-March 31, 2:30-3 p.m.

Storytime at CMOM

March is National Reading Month, and to celebrate The Children’s Museum is hosting storytime every day the museum is open this month. Kids can listen to a reading of Dragons Love Tacos, I Am a Rainbow, Mae Among the Stars, and so much more. On Saturdays, the museum will also be passing out free books while supplies last.

The Children’s Museum of Memphis, 2525 Central March 7, 8-9 a.m.

Zoo Stroll

Bring your stroller buddy and take a guided stroll through the zoo. This fun and interactive recurring program includes a visit to a different area of the zoo and a greeting from one of the animal ambassadors. The stroll on March 7 is themed “P is for Pandas.” Following strolls include “C is for Cheetah” on March 21, “S is for Sheep” on April 4, and “G is for Gorilla” on April 18. Included in the program fee ($24 for nonmembers, $20 for members) is a seasonal beverage and a breakfast treat at the end of each tour.

Memphis Zoo, 2000 Prentiss Place March 11, 10 a.m.-noon

Homeschool Days: Rabbits and Caterpillars

The Memphis Botanic Garden brings back homeschool days this spring, where kids 6 and

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up can enjoy hands-on learning to supplement their homeschool curriculum. On March 11, kids can learn about caterpillars, butterflies, and the furry creatures who inhabit the garden. They will also plant carrot seeds and make caterpillar bracelets. Registration is required. The cost of attendance per child is $12 for nonmembers and $10 for members. Adults who choose to accompany their child will need to pay garden admission upon entry.

Dixon Gallery & Gardens, 4339 Park

on a journey throughout time, from ancient astronomy through the ambitious idea of colonizing Mars. Learn about the creation of calendars, the stars and planets, and modern transportation and space travel. Showings will run through May 27.

Museum of Science & History, 3050 Central

March 12

Zoo Crew: Nature Club

At Zoo Crew, kids ages 6 to 12 will investigate nature in a hands-on, outdoor setting at the zoo and will develop observation, creativity, and advanced motor skills during each club meeting in this weeks-long program. Club meetings begin on March 12 and continue every other Saturday through May 21. This year’s theme is Discovering Tennessee, so participants will learn all about what our state has to offer. Register online at memphiszoo.com. Upon registration, you will be able to select the morning series (9-11 a.m.) or the afternoon series (1-3 p.m.).

Zoo Crew participants will remain with the same clubmates throughout the entire season.

Attendance fee is $399 for nonmembers and $249 for members.

Memphis Zoo, 2000 Prentiss Place March 12, 3 p.m.

49th Annual Silky O’Sullivan St. Patrick’s Day Parade

Marching bands, steppers, twirlers, floats, and more will parade down Memphis’ most iconic street to celebrate St. Patrick’s Day. Be sure to dress in green!

Beale March 12

Explore: New Planetarium Show Premiere

The premiere of this new full-dome planetarium show at MoSH gives insight into the technology that launched us into space, taking the viewer

March 12-13

Camp SAY: Across the USA

Young people who stutter are invited to this free, two-day camp that helps build confidence and community. Working in partnership with SAY: The Stuttering Association for the Young, camp staff and the Orpheum’s teaching artists and programming staff will guide campers as they work in small groups to create original artistic pieces, from short plays and poems to dances and visual art. On the final day, campers will have the opportunity to share their creations with the larger group, if they so wish. The camp also includes an optional parent education workshop and support group, where parents can learn more about stuttering, share their experiences, and meet other parents of children who stutter.

Register at orpheum-memphis.com.

Halloran Centre, 225 S. Main March 13, noon-6 p.m.

6th Annual Soulful Food Truck Festival

Complete with delicious food and live entertainment by Stefanie Bolton, Carmen Hicks, and Courtney Little, this festival will soothe the soul and any rumbling tummies. Kids 5 and under get in free.

Tiger Lane, 450 Maxwell

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Spring to Art Camp

Kids in first through fifth grade can spend their spring break at the Dixon, enjoying a week of art-making, outdoor exploration, and, of course, fun and a little bit of mess. Supplies and snacks will be included. Online registration at dixon.org is required. The cost of attendance is $175 for nonmembers and $150 for members.

Dixon Gallery & Gardens, 4339 Park March 14-March 18, 9 a.m.-6 p.m.

Explore Nature: Zoo Camp

Kids with an adventurous spirit and a love of animals can venture into the Outback at the Memphis Zoo’s spring break camp. Along the journey, campers will learn about different animals in their habitats and even meet a few.

There will be zoo tours and tons of fun. Kids in junior kindergarten through fifth grade are welcome to attend. The cost of attendance is $265 for nonmembers and $235 for members.

For more information and to register, visit memphiszoo.org.

Memphis Zoo, 2000 Prentiss Place March 16, 7:30 p.m.

Alton Brown Live: Behind the Eats

Alton Brown of Good Eats fame is bringing a new culinary variety show to Memphis. Audiences can expect comedy, cooking, music, and mayhem, as Brown says, but not necessarily in that order. Tickets can be purchased at orpheum-memphis.com for $35-$125.

Orpheum Theatre, 203 S. Main

March 19, 7:30 p.m.

Vitaly: An Evening of Wonders

World-class illusionist Vitaly has mystified audiences worldwide. He has even stumped some of the most renowned illusionists, from bringing photographs and paintings to life to making audience members disappear from their own driver’s licenses. Tickets cost $37.50 and can be purchased at orpheum-memphis. com. This show is recommended for guests 8 and older. Children under 4 years of age are not permitted.

Orpheum Theatre, 203 S. Main March 19-March 20

Hot Wheels™ Monster Trucks

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transforming robot MEGASAURUS and the high-flying Freestyle Motocross will make special appearances. Performances will be on March 19 at 12:30 p.m. and 7:30 p.m., with one show on March 20 at 1:30 p.m. Tickets, starting at $25, can be purchased at fedexforum.com.

Passes to the Crash Zone Pre-Show Party, where fans can access the competition floor and see the monster trucks up close, will also be available for purchase.

FedExForum, 191 Beale March 22-27

CATS

The Orpheum invites your family to this Jellicle Ball. The Tony-Awards-winning CATS is bringing to the stage the story of an extraordinary tribe of cats gathering for its annual ball to rejoice and decide which cat will be reborn. With a score of treasured songs, including “Memory,” all the cool cats and kittens will be dancing in their seats. Tickets can be purchased online for $29$125. This show is recommended for guests 5 and older. Children under 4 years of age are not permitted.

Orpheum Theatre, 203 S. Main March 24, 4 p.m. and 7 p.m.

Fairytales on Ice

For two performances this March, the Buckman will convert into an ice rink, fit for

royalty. Watch as your favorite classic stories come to life in a magical world where mermaids, fairies, princesses, and pirates coexist on stage.

The performances by ice skaters, Broadway singers, and cirque performers will leave you with chills. Tickets can be purchased online at buckmanartscenter.com for $35.

Buckman Arts Center at St. Mary’s School, 60 Perkins Extended March 25, 10:30 a.m.

Story Time with Iris Orchestra: “Trains & Tunes”

In this 30-minute concert at the Morton Museum of Collierville History, the Iris Orchestra will take young visitors on a journey through tunes and stories about trains. Following the concert, Iris will offer an instrument “petting zoo,” where guests can try out the violin, cello, and viola themselves and learn a little bit about the instruments, too.

Morton Museum of Collierville History, 196 N. Main, Collierville March 26, 8 a.m.-10 a.m.

The Fast & The Furriest 5K and Walk

The whole family (including four-legged members) can support the Humane Society of Memphis & Shelby County in this 5K run/walk.

Out of an abundance of caution, the Humane

Society is offering both a virtual and in-person option to participate in the race. Chipped timing costs $30; for kids 9 and under, chipped timing costs $15. Online registration closes March 25 at 9 a.m. Learn more and secure your spot at memphishumane.org.

March 26, 11:30 a.m.-12:30 a.m.

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Bilingual Theater with Cazateatro

For every fourth Saturday of the month, the Cazateatro Bilingual Theatre Group and the Dixon have partnered up for a morning of fun bilingual theater activities for the whole family.

A great chance to practice your Spanish — or should we say Español — this drop-in program is free. Supplies are included.

Dixon Gallery & Gardens, 4339 Park March 27, 5:30-8 p.m.

Nature by Firelight at Lichterman Nature Center

Take a night hike around the lake and scarecrow trails, and then warm up by the multiple fires around the Davidson Pavilion and on the lawn while roasting s’mores and sipping on hot chocolate and tea. Staff from the Sharpe Planetarium will be around for night sky watching and will provide sky charts. Guests can also check out the nocturnal artifacts table, make a craft, and experience live nocturnal

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Lichterman Nature Center, 5992 Quince March 31, 6 p.m.

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At Frost Bake Shop’s cookie decorating class, kids ages 8 to 14 can learn different frosting techniques, as well as how to properly fill, hold, and use frosting bags and bottles. Undecorated desserts and needed materials will be provided; just bring your enthusiasm and creativity for this underwater-themed night. Classes cost $50, and an adult is welcome to stay and watch/assist.

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Frost Bake Shop Facility, 7876 Stage Hills, Suite 106, Bartlett April 1, 7:30 p.m.

Disney Princess: The Concert

Have your family don their best royal attire for a night of story, animation, and song. This concert of your favorite Disney Princess songs, sung by a quartet of Broadway, Disney Channel, and animated-film icons, will feature behind-thescenes stories from the stars’ time portraying princesses on stage and screen. VIP packages, including meet-and-greets and merchandise,

will be available. Tickets can be purchased online at orpheum-memphis.com for $39.50-$230.

Orpheum Theatre, 203 S. Main April 8, 10 a.m.-noon

Homeschool Days: Tea Party

At this Homeschool Day for kids 6 and up, kids will enjoy a Mad Hatter’s tea party creating party hats and decorating tea cups. They’ll also be able to take home some handmade tea from the herb garden. Registration is required.

The cost of attendance per child is $12 for nonmembers and $10 for members. Adults who choose to accompany their child will need to pay garden admission upon entry.

Dixon Gallery & Gardens, 4339 Park April 9, 10:30-11:30 a.m.

Peanut Butter & Jam at GPAC: Waters Quartet

This interactive performance will introduce children ages 8 and under to a 21st-century reimagining of classical music by the Waters Quartet. This Memphis-based ensemble is dedicated to breaking down barriers and stereotypes in classical music by performing compositions by women and people of color.

Tickets are pay-what-you-can. Peanut Butter & Jam sessions are recurring throughout the year, so keep an eye out at gpacweb.com.

Germantown Performing Arts Center, 1801 Exeter, Germantown

April 9, 11 a.m.-4 pm.

Fossil Fest

For folks who dig dinosaurs, this is your chance to be a paleontologist for a day while you walk like a dinosaur, dig for fossils, study plants, go on scavenger hunts, learn about the KT extinction, and more. It’s going to be dino-mite.

Museum of Science & History, 3050 Central

April 9, 11 a.m.-5 p.m.

Vegan Block Party

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Mud Island Park, 101 N. Island

April 16, 10 a.m. and noon

Bunny Brunch

The Memphis Zoo is ready to hop to it when it comes to your Easter weekend plans. At the zoo’s Bunny Brunch, guests can feast on a brunch buffet, take photos with the Easter Bunny, and learn from zoo staff about different animals. Tickets cost $25 for nonmembers and $20 for members. Guests can choose one of two seating options, 10 a.m. and noon.

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