Memphis Parent - August 2022

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TACKLING TOUGH TOPICS Ways to handle hard conversations with children.

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HOMEWORK HABITS How to motivate kids to start — and finish — the task.

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NAVIGATING DIFFERENT PARENTING APPROACHES What happens when adults have radically different parenting styles?

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WHAT’S YOUR CHILD’S LEARNING STYLE? Asking these questions can help your student succeed.

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Hopefully by the time you read this, we’ll have inched away from the summer heat wave — man, what a scorcher! — and can prepare to dive headfirst into fall. Alongside the changing of seasons is the return to school. After all the play, lazy days, family trips, and summer camps, it’s time to get back to business.

In this issue, we’ve got some tips on how to make sure your child is set for success in the new school year. As Sarah Lyons writes in “Homework Habits,” homework can seem like a constant battle, but setting good habits early on in the year is usually the best way to manage the work. Read more (beginning on page 16) to learn ways in which you can help ensure your student has the tools they need to handle homework assignments with less stress.

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Do you know the ways in which your child learns best? Do they prefer hands-on learning? Group projects or solitary work?

Do they prefer reading or listening to music? These questions and more are posed in “What’s Your Child’s Learning Style?” (page 18) and will help you determine the study methods, environments, and activities that will help them learn best.

As the semester kicks into full gear, you may find yourself having hard conversations with your children about life in and out of the classroom. Tough topics inevitably come up, and it’s important to understand how to communicate with your kids when they do. Kim Finch, director of counseling and guidance at St. George’s Independent School’s Upper School, shares insight and age-specific recommendations (page 10) on

how to handle these trying moments while also using them as teaching opportunities.

Even while school’s in session, there’s still fun to be had. Browse our calendar listings, beginning on page 27, to plan a few outings to keep the kids in high spirits while hitting the books — fairs, festivals, and family fun abound in the coming months!

There’s so much more to look forward to in this issue, and in the rest of 2022. We wish you all happiness and health — and the patience required to get those kids out of summer mode and back into the swing of school!

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6 • Saturday Block Party To end the summer, Memphis Public Libraries is hosting its annual block party with food, games, music, crafts, and a school supply giveaway.

This free event will be held at South Library (1929 S. Third St.) on Saturday, August 6th, from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. For more information, visit memphislibrary.org.

9 • Tuesday Elvis Week 2022 This August marks the 45th anniversary of Elvis’ death and the 44th anniversary of the first Elvis Week. What began as a small group of fans gathering at Graceland’s gates has turned into the multi-day phenomenon we know today. Highlights of the week include personal tours of Graceland led by Priscilla Presley and Jerry Schilling, the Candlelight Vigil, the Ultimate Elvis Tribute Artist Contest, concerts, panels, and nightly parties. Elvis Week runs August 9th through 17th.

For information on the various events, visit graceland.com/elvis-week.

20 • Saturday Game On! Family Night On your marks, get set, and go with the whole family to the Dixon for a night of playful competition, featuring games of all kinds — board games, field games, video games, you name it, and the Dixon has a game for it. But are you game for it? The free-to-attend Game On! Family Night is from 5 to 8 p.m. on Saturday, August 20th. Visit dixon.org for details.

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2 • Friday Delta Fair & Music Festival From September 2nd through 11th, Agricenter International hosts the Delta Fair, with carnival rides, live music, attractions, magic shows, craft demos, livestock shows, and more. Admission is free for kids under 4; $10 for kids 5-12; and $15 for adults. For event schedule and more, visit deltafest.com.

10 • Saturday Germantown Festival This festival of arts at the Germantown Civic Club Complex has children’s activities, rides and games, a car exhibit, community displays, live music, a kids zone, vendors, the Running of the Weenies dachshund race, and more. The festival runs September 10th and 11th and is free to attend.

Head to germantownfest.com for more.

17 • Saturday Cooper-Young Festival There’s no need to stay cooped up in your house when you can join in on the fun at the CooperYoung Festival, where art, music, and crafts come together to celebrate Memphis’ culture and heritage. This annual event will be held Saturday, September 17th, from 9 a.m. to 7 p.m. and is free to attend. Visit coooperyoungfestival.org for further details.

Collierville Balloon Festival Each morning will begin with a breathtaking release of the balloons into the sky, which the family can witness for free before the festival’s activities

commence in the afternoon. The event will include a kids zone, food trucks, vendors, carnival rides and games, and of course hot air ballooning. Later, the balloons will light up the night with an evening balloon glow. The fest will be held at Maynard Way in Collierville Saturday-Sunday, September 17th-18th, from 3 to 10 p.m. Admission is $15/adult, $8/child. For more information, visit colliervilleballoonfestival.com.

22 • Thursday Mid-South Fair From September 22nd through October 2nd, Landers Center in Southaven, Mississippi, hosts the longest-running fair in the Mid-South. Fairgoers can enjoy more than 50 rides, a wide array of ground acts, and of course favorite fair fare — funnel cakes, turkey legs, candied apples, you name it, they’ve perfected it. For schedule and pricing, visit landerscenter.com/mid-south-fair.

24 • Saturday Latin Fest On September 24th (from noon to 6 p.m.), celebrate Hispanic Heritage Month at Cazateatro Bilingual Theatre Group’s Latin Fest, where friends and families can listen to and dance to live Latin music, taste Latin food and drinks, enjoy activities for kids, and shop from vendors. The event is free to attend.

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HOW TO HELP A POOR SPELLER My second grader just doesn’t do well on spelling tests. He has never been a good speller, and he is only a fair reader.

What are some things that can be done to improve his spelling?

— Poor Speller Some people think that the spelling of English words is crazy and unpredictable and use that as an excuse for children being poor spellers.

They are wrong. The spelling of about 50 percent of all English words is based on soundletter correspondence, and another close to 40 percent is almost predictable except for one sound. Admittedly, this leaves the spelling of about 10 percent of all words to be memorized (sight words).

When children first begin to spell words, they do not yet have down pat the sounds of individual letters. So they use just a few letters to spell a word. This early spelling, common with 5- and 6-year-old children, is called inventive spelling.

However, encouraging students to use this way of spelling beyond the beginning of first grade is not considered a good approach to learning to spell.

Children learn to spell first by understanding that words are made up of separate speech sounds and that these sounds are represented by letters. Then they move onto noticing patterns in words they spell (cat, bat, mat). The next step is learning about syllables, prefixes, suffixes, word endings, and basic spelling rules. Poor spellers are often poor readers as they have not mastered the connection between letters and sounds.

You should be able to help your child become a better speller and at the same time a better reader because the two require much of the same skills. A chat with his teacher is needed to pinpoint exactly what is holding him back from being a better speller. The teacher can give your child a diagnostic spelling test that will let you both see what consonant and vowel sounds and word spellings he needs to know. If the teacher suspects that the problem is dyslexia, more specialized help will be needed.

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Once you know where your child needs help, begin to teach him a few consonant letters that he cannot sound out. The teacher can provide you with worksheets, or you can find worksheets and workbooks online and in stores with these sounds to use with him. Once he has mastered these sounds, work with him on predictably spelled words that use these sounds and ones he knows. Hopefully, you will be able to use some words on the weekly spelling list.

Move slowly, only teaching new consonants when earlier ones have been mastered. Once all the consonants have been mastered, go on to working with syllables and then a few basic spelling rules. At this point, he should be a much-improved speller. While teaching the consonant sounds, introduce a few sight words.

He can trace them and then write them to learn these often difficult-to-spell words.

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PREVENTING HEARING LOSS I hear that one in five teens now suffers from hearing loss, most of which is noise-induced. What can be done to help prevent hearing loss due to noise? I know that it is hard to get through to teens, who often feel physically invincible and are more concerned with peer pressure than parental guidance.

— Worried Shari Eberts, an advocate for hearing loss and preventing hearing loss, has the facts that you must share with your teenage children as well as all your school children. She points out that our hearing is fragile. Noise-induced hearing loss occurs when the sensory cells inside the cochlea of your inner ear are damaged. These cells are very sensitive, which allows us to hear a full range of tones, but also very delicate.

When exposed to loud noise on a frequent basis, these cells weaken and eventually die, and once they do, they are gone for good. Scientists have not yet found a way to regenerate cochlear hair cells, although organizations like Hearing Health Foundation and the Stanford Initiative to Cure Hearing Loss are working on it.

Your teens, especially, need to understand that prolonged exposure to any noise at or above 85 decibels can cause gradual hearing loss. This is the level of heavy city traffic or a school cafeteria. At 105 decibels, the maximum volume of an iPod, some hearing loss can occur within 15 minutes. At 110 decibels, the level of a rock concert or loud sporting event, damage can occur after one minute.

Teens think hearing loss is just for old folks, however, 20 percent of teens now surprisingly have some form of hearing loss. Unfortunately, hearing loss is real, and growing, and there is currently no cure. Teens, as well as younger children, definitely need to be educated about noise-induced hearing loss.

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The good news is that noise-induced hearing loss is entirely preventable. Teens have the power to protect their ears if they follow these simple rules so they will be able to enjoy better hearing through their entire lives. These rules, in fact, should be followed by all school children.

Turn it down. Enjoy your music, but listen at a safe level. Fifteen minutes at maximum volume on your iPod is all it takes to damage your hearing. Listening time is cumulative, so you can listen longer at lower volumes and stay safe. Try noise-canceling headphones, which block out background noise, allowing you to enjoy your music at lower volumes.

Block the noise. Wear earplugs or earmuffs at concerts or sporting events. They come in many sizes and styles. Some are even made specifically for listening to music.

Move away. The farther you are from the noise, the safer it is. Always pick a seat far away from loudspeakers, and if you see a noisy construction site, cross the street.

If you want more information to convince your children of the importance of avoiding loud noises, visit “It’s a Noisy Planet” at (noisyplanet.nidcd.nih.gov), a website run by the National Institutes of Health. Also, there are online hearing tests that may let them get an idea of whether or not they have already experienced some hearing loss.

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TACKLING TOUGH TOPICS Ways to handle hard conversations, no matter your child’s age.

Childhood innocence is precious, and we do what we can to protect it.

We turn off the news when they walk into the room, adjust conversions at the dinner table to meet their maturity level, and create distractions to pull their attention from complicated situations. Despite our best efforts to shield them, every child will eventually encounter something that makes them sad, angry, or scared. And while our natural inclination is to shield them in those moments, I encourage parents to do the opposite. Part of growing up is learning how to handle a wide range of emotions. If we don’t engage with our children in those trying moments, we miss a valuable teaching opportunity.

This is often easier said than done because it requires that we wade into tumultuous waters from time to time. Preparation is key, and having a strategy in place to help your child navigate challenging topics in an ageappropriate manner can help alleviate stress and anxiety. I walk alongside caregivers regularly, providing recommendations as they work through what is bound to happen when curious kids start asking questions. As parents incorporate these strategies with their children, many find that having hard conversations not only gets easier, but also strengthens their relationships with their children.

Here’s how I recommend approaching tough conversations, with age-specific recommendations to help you start this process with your child.

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All ages: Assess how much they know

Children will surprise you with topics they bring to the dinner table or shout from the back seat. Children are curious, and they absorb a lot more information than you may realize. So, when they ask a surprising question, start by asking them additional questions to see how much they know. This is helpful for several reasons.

First, as they answer your questions, you can gather how deeply you need to get into a discussion. Young children might ask you about things they merely hear in passing.

And you may be able to simply answer their question with the most basic information, which satisfies their curiosity enough for them to move on. But if they hear something that causes them to worry, you may need to spend more time dissecting the topic to quell their fears. For older children, this strategy is particularly effective.

Your teenager may have read something disreputable online, and you need to fully understand their perspective before engaging in a meaningful conversation.

Understanding what they think, why they’re bringing this conversation up to you, and who might be influencing their opinions can help you craft an appropriate response.

Practically, asking questions gives you time to think through your response.

Children are great at stunning us into silence. A question that comes up out of thin air can be hard to address in the moment. Starting the conversation with questions creates an opportunity for you to think and eventually provide a meaningful response.

All ages: Approach topics with honesty and simplicity

No matter your child’s age, honesty is the best policy. Skirting the truth can break trust and keep them from bringing you their future questions. This does not mean you have to go into detail with your children about topics that are not appropriate for their age. Your goal should be to answer their questions honestly, satisfactorily, and then to move on.

Using clear language is a better option than trying to use a turn of phrase to soften the situation. Euphemisms can create confusion, as your children may not understand the nuances of metaphor and language. As an example, saying your family dog was “put to sleep” can scare young children, as you put them to sleep every night and they are perfectly safe.

All ages: Acknowledge their feelings and emphasize safety

Sometimes, children ask questions because they’re trying to cope with their own feelings. Things they experience for the first time can make them fearful, angry, or sad, and those emotions are valid. Your goal as a parent isn’t to make those feelings go away or try to fix them, but to acknowledge them while assuring them they are safe. For young children, this can come in the form of physical comfort. They may need to hear that their home, health, family, and body are safe. For older children, talking through opportunities to address a situation or acting as a neutral, nonjudgmental sounding board can do the trick. They may not be concerned about their physical safety, but might need to hear that you are a safe confidant for their challenging situations.

Allowing our children to feel comfortable in their emotions can create healthy outlets for expression and can encourage them to come to us when they have big feelings in the future.

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By Kim Finch

Young children: Focus on what they can control

Little children can become easily overwhelmed by things they cannot control.

Trying to work through conversations around sickness, death, and conflict can be especially challenging for them, as they have no way to help make the situation better.

One way to support children is to offer ways in which they can become part of a solution. As an example, if a family member is in the hospital, your child might have questions about where you’ve been going or why they’re not at family functions. You can use this as an opportunity to talk about the ways that you help people who are sick feel better. Involve them in picking out a card or putting together a care package. You don’t have to get into the details of their illness or prognosis, but can instead teach them how to help people we love when they aren’t feeling well.

Teenagers: Acknowledge their ability to process information and define your perspective

As your child approaches adulthood, you can engage in more frank conversations.

These last few years under your roof are a prime opportunity to model how your family approaches life, conflict, and morality. Use this time to listen and explain how you view the world. They may not see things the same way you do, and you didn’t see things the same way your parents did. Listening and acknowledging their viewpoints can keep lines of communication open. Your goal here is to leave a lasting impression — noting where you stand on the hard topics while supporting their growing independence.

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Middle ages: Let them in slowly

As your children grow and become more independent, they’ll form their own opinions. The middle ages are all about developing and testing boundaries, and it’s important that they can do this within parameters. As they bring tough conversations to you, engage with them meaningfully to demonstrate you respect their growing intellect and ability to form and hold opinions. This is a time to share how people have conversations when they don’t agree about things. Model active listening and respectful discourse during discussions of opinion. Your preteen may disagree with you for the sake of disagreeing, but the example you set in your discussion will leave a lasting impression.

Asking questions of children in late adolescence and early teenage years is especially important. By asking questions, you can simultaneously gauge their level of understanding while also making them feel heard and acknowledged. Sometimes, they’re simply looking for someone to treat them less like a child and more like an adult.

By engaging with them meaningfully, you’re building your relationship and investing in the adult they’ll one day become.

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Above all, engage with your children

Relationships are strengthened and children grow in emotional maturity when parents engage with them in meaningful ways around the hard things in life. By taking a graduated, honest, and respectful approach in broaching tough conversations with your children, you can foster independence and prepare them to enter adulthood — and face the inevitable challenges they’ll encounter — confidently and courageously.

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SZION JEFFERSON Even though he’s only in the ninth grade at Kipp Collegiate High School, Szion Jefferson has already collected medals for his hard work in football games and boxing matches.

For boxing, Szion holds first- and second-place awards, along with a Sportsmanship Award. In football, where he plays as a wide receiver and quarterback, he’s been awarded Most Improved.

Szion challenges himself in each sport he plays, and his determination pays off both on and off the field.

With a family of twin sisters and 11-yearold and 17-year-old sisters, Szion and his older brother were the only boys in the house.

Solomon, Szion’s 17-year-old brother, was a role model for Szion and taught him to love sports.

But last year, Solomon was shot and killed near the family’s house. Along with mourning his brother’s death, Szion found himself taking on new responsibilities. Now, as the only brother in the household, Szion has taken on his older brother’s role of helping his siblings. Despite the tragedy, he carries his brother’s lessons with him.

“He taught me to never give up and always try my best,” Szion says.

Solomon’s words echo in all aspects of Szion’s life, including the sports that he plays. When Szion joined the boxing team last year, he “ just wanted to try something new.” Being new to the team and the sport didn’t deter him from success.

He jumped at the chance to learn a new sport and worked to improve as much as he could. He persisted, and his hard work paid off when he won first-place in one match and second-place in another.

By Allison Binning While challenging himself in boxing and math, Szion says he plays football mostly because it’s a fun sport. For him, winning isn’t the sole focus of the sports that he plays. He wants to have fun and be part of a team. And, unlike boxing, football taught Szion how to work in a team and the value of supporting his teammates. At home, he spends more time watching football games than any other sport, which encouraged him to take his love of watching the game into playing it.

Szion has a genuine passion for the sports that he plays, which is another trait he is carrying from his older brother, who also had a love for sports.

Szion is passing his love of sports to his siblings just like his brother did for him. He plays on his school’s basketball team because he’s always played basketball growing up. Szion plays basketball with his friends and family, especially his younger sister. He knows his siblings look up to him, and he hopes to set an example for them by demonstrating dedication and passion through sports.

In his family, school, and athletics, Szion uses the lessons he’s learned from his brother and passes on his brother’s determination and hard work to everyone in his life. But his brother isn’t the only one who taught him life lessons. Szion looks up to his mother, who he says taught him the value of taking care of his siblings. His mom says she also learns from him, saying that she admires how he is able to smile in the face of adversity and continue to work so hard in spite of any pain that he’s in. Through heartbreak and defeat, Szion persists, and he hopes everyone knows that “hard work pays off.”

Not only does Szion challenge himself in boxing, but he challenges himself in school.

According to Szion’s mother, her son loves a challenge. In school, Szion gravitated toward math and science, which he said came more naturally to him. Still, when he struggles, he doesn’t accept defeat. Instead, he accepts that he needs to work harder to succeed by spending extra time on a subject and asking a teacher for additional help.

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“Orchestra is home,” says this month’s outstanding teacher, Kristi Harrington, orchestra teacher at White Station Middle School. Harrington taught orchestra in western Massachusetts outside of Springfield before moving to Tennessee. Even though Harrington enjoyed Massachusetts, she decided to relocate to the warmer climate in Memphis.

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Teaching strings requires a passion for music, a “I began teaching here at what was then Memphis City Schools,” Harrington says. passion to teach, and subject matter knowledge — “I taught in the MCS district for several years, and Harrington definitely fits the profile. “I love the specialization required to teach strings and teaching at Overton High School and beginning the complexity it requires to teach it and make it strings at numerous elementary schools.” achievable for young learners,” she says. “I am at It was here in Memphis where she met her my best in the classroom when we are in the thick husband, and then relocated to Nashville. While in of learning our repertoire and technique.”

Nashville, Harrington taught private lessons and Harrington’s love for teaching is inspired by her maintained a private studio of teaching violin and former middle school orchestra teacher and her viola. The family decided to move back to Memphis college viola professor. “I was truly blessed from in 2011. “It just seemed natural at the time to their teaching, love of music, and wisdom,” she says. return and pick up where we left off,” she says.

“Upon our return, I taught private lessons for “Much of their teaching pedagogy has become a large part of how I teach today. I love music, and I a while,” says Harrington, “but then was hired love performing in the orchestral setting.” back to work for what is now Memphis-Shelby Finding your tribe is absolutely essential County Schools. I have been working for the district ever since our return in various positions.” in a learning environment, and Harrington is proud of her tribe of music students who inspire Harrington has been the orchestra director at her every day to keep going and get better.

White Station Middle School for the last six years. She also currently teaches beginning “I learn from them as much as they are learning from me,” she says. “Performances are also my strings at Cordova Elementary, Chimneyrock favorite days. I love for the parents to hear and Elementary, and Rozelle Elementary.

see the incredible progress their children are making. It gives parents such pride to see their child on the stage performing and being part of such a special group.

“I love teaching students the beginning stages of learning a new instrument and the excitement when they accomplish a new skill,” Harrington continues. “I also love preparing students to perform, and the preparation involved to get to the finish line of the concert or audition.”

Harrington models her classroom to be a safe place, like a home, for students to make mistakes and learn by being supportive. “Developing a safe, comfortable environment for students to grow is crucial to having a fun place for the students to be in every class,” she says.

“Orchestra is usually my student’s favorite class, and some of them come to school just because of orchestra every day. I love to see the joy when they light up and see what they can accomplish individually and as a team — because orchestra is a team effort!” 

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HOMEWORK HABITS

How to motivate kids to tackle the task.

When it comes to homework, it can seem impossible to get kids motivated to start or stay on task. It can be especially frustrating when you know your child is smart and capable but they aren’t willing to put in the time and effort it takes to get the grades you know they can. As parents, we want our kids to put their best effort into their schoolwork without having to pester them and have the situation affect our relationship in a negative way. Here are some tips to help motivate your kids to stay on task.

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Establish clear expectations

One way to avoid a constant battle is to communicate in advance what your expectations are. When will homework be completed? Will it be started immediately after school or after dinner? Let your child know where it is appropriate to work. Some kids are able to stay on task if they are alone in their bedroom while others may find toys or electronics distracting. Other kids may prefer to work at the kitchen table while others may find this to be too distracting because of other family activities around them. Other kids need to be reminded that sitting in front of the TV while working on homework is not a good idea.

Once you have established when and where they will work, make sure they have easy access to the supplies they need. It is also a good idea to let your child know what your expectations are for homework.

Instead of focusing on the grade itself, let them know you expect their best work, that

homework will be turned in on time, and that you are available to help if needed.

Another way you can motivate your child is by letting them know that they can do something they enjoy after their homework is completed. For example: “When you finish your reading, you can go outside and play.” Or “When you are done with your math homework, you can watch a TV show.” This communicates the importance of homework over leisure time and gives them a motivation to complete it.

Set an example and be supportive

One of the biggest motivators for kids is to have their parents’ support in the challenges they face on a daily basis. This does not mean that you do your child’s homework for them or that you bribe or reward them every time they do their homework. A high five or a “I knew you could do it!” are usually enough to put a smile on your child’s face.

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Parents can also show their support by setting an example. If your child is sitting down at the table to work on homework, it may be a perfect time to sit down and work on writing a grocery list, sorting mail, or adding things to your calendar. You will set an example and create a quiet environment for your child to work while getting a few things off your own to-do list.

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Teach them responsibility

Parents can help their kids with their school projects and homework but when it comes down to it, the kids themselves are responsible for their own homework and grades. It can be tough for parents to do but allowing kids to face the natural consequences of their work (or lack thereof) will help them learn responsibility.

If your child puts in minimal effort, rushing through the work, or forgets to turn it in, their grades will be affected. If they put in their best work, take their time, and complete assignments in a timely manner, their grades will probably see a boost. You can also give your kids extra responsibility by letting them choose when they will work on homework, how they will break up larger projects, and what organizational tools work best for them.

Homework can seem like a constant battle, but setting good habits early on in the school year is usually the best way to manage school work. Parents should keep in touch with teachers and their child to make sure all three parties are a team and are working towards helping your child succeed. 

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WHAT’S YOUR CHILD’S LEARNING STYLE?

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Does your child love reading and writing?

Do they have a knack for music? When they tell a story do they tend to use their whole body to describe what happened? Are they drawn to groups or do they prefer to work alone? These traits can give a clue about your child’s learning style. A learning style is the method a person uses to learn and should be used to maximize learning. It’s important for parents to understand their child’s learning style so that they can help them find study methods, environments, and activities that help them learn best. (classroom.com)

Visual

Visual learners prefer seeing pictures and images to learn new things. They usually have good spatial awareness skills. Kids with this learning style understand maps and have a good sense of direction. They usually love doodling and drawing. Study habits best for these learners are to write information down, underline or highlight as they read, and use colorful diagrams, charts, and pictures to enable them to visualize what they want to remember.

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Auditory

People who are auditory learners are typically drawn to music. They may sing, play a musical instrument, or have the ability to pick individual musical instruments out of a piece of music. They may hum, sing, or tap their feet while they work. Using music and rhythm to remember information can be helpful for kids who have this learning style. It might also be helpful to record and play back things you want to remember, or read and recite information aloud.

Understanding your child’s learning style is important in helping them get the most out of their education.

Verbal

Kids with a verbal learning style can easily express themselves in both speaking and written communication. Verbal learners have a strong understanding of the meaning of words and will consistently seek out new words to master which they will later use to communicate with others.

Try using acronyms or reading information aloud while learning new things. Role playing can also be helpful for the verbal learning style.

Physical

Kids who prefer using their bodies, hands, and sense of touch prefer the physical learning style. Many of these learners enjoy drama, dancing, woodworking, or exercise. They would rather go for a run or walk when something is bothering them than sit at home and think it through. These kids use hand gestures and body language to communicate and are very aware of the world around them. Sitting and listening to a lecture can be a challenge for kids who prefer a physical learning style, so they will often fidget and look forward to when they can move around. Try actually incorporating the physical objects they

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By Sarah Lyons are learning about or allowing movement whenever possible. Writing, drawing, and using flashcards can also be helpful for kids who have this learning style. Frequent breaks can help the physical learner feel more prepared for study time. You can also try standing while reading, using a computer for studying, or making review into a gross-motor-style game.

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Social

People who are drawn to the social learning style love working in groups or participating in classes. They enjoy sharing their ideas with others and listening to what others think. Kids with this learning style are good at both verbal and nonverbal communication and understand others as well. People typically like being around the social learner and seek their advice or input when faced with problems. They prefer to work through challenges in a group and will often be found staying after class to chat with friends. Kids with this learning style will enjoy role playing, studying in groups, or sharing what they have learned with others.

People with a solitary learning style often prefer working alone and enjoy thinking and reflecting on things. They tend to be independent, introspective, and private.

They are good at focusing on a task and have strong concentration skills. They may also enjoy keeping a journal to reflect on personal thoughts and feelings. Kids with this learning style prefer to study alone in quiet spaces.

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Kids with a logical learning style generally excel in math and critical thinking. They can recognize patterns and commonalities in seemingly unrelated content. They often understand and work complex calculations in their head. Problems are usually tackled in a systematic way and they enjoy creating lists, agendas, charts, and procedures. Kids with this learning style will retain information if they understand the logic behind it. They need not simply memorize information but rather truly understand the concepts and reasons for the information to retain them long-term.

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Careers by Learning Style

Career suggestions based on your child’s learning style.

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Understanding your child’s learning style is important in helping them get the most out of their education while identifying any ways to handle challenges that may occur because of their preferred learning style.

Also, parents can use this to their advantage to appeal to their child’s interests when learning new things. Don’t be surprised if your child seems to have a combination of learning styles, as this is very common.

When caring adults understand a child’s strengths and weaknesses when it comes to learning, it can only improve their experience at school and their study habits at home. 

Sarah Lyons is a mom of six kids, including 7-year-old triplets.

She enjoys reading, writing, and spending time outdoors with her family.

Artist, architecture, photography, filmmaking, interior design, strategic planning, graphic design, and navigation

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Performing, conducting, and/ or composing music, sound engineering, and interpreters

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EARWORM INFESTATION? Those kid songs get stuck in your head.

more likely to smash their building blocks than groove to your aging angst.

But there is, naturally, a music market for the little ones. YouTube, for example, has Cocomelon, with visuals that keep wee eyes glued to the screen and music that keeps them fascinated even as the tunes turn into earworms that lodge firmly in your head.

Yes, they’ll be entertained, but you’ll be afflicted by what is also known as a brainworm, sticky music, stuck song syndrome, or, more scientifically, Involuntary Musical Imagery.

That all changes when grandchildren enter the picture. Sure, you can try to educate them by playing your own ancient influences, but is that impressionable child really going to respond to “Ride of the Valkyries”? Or “Achy Breaky Heart”? Or Patti Smith? They’re

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You know what I’m talking about. And “Wheels on the Bus” is probably this very minute settling into your auditory cortex.

That’s in the temporal lobe if you need to

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Grandparents may well have sophisticated playlists they cultivate on Spotify, from oldie hits of the ’60s/’70s/’80s to jazz standards to classical favorites to Post Malone (kidding).

know, but knowing it won’t help you get that bus out of your head.

The makers of these kid vids have gone to a lot of trouble. There are variants of the song, including one that the Cocomelon kids perform as a mini-musical for the parents. I suppose one can’t get enough of the baby on the bus going “wah wah wah.”

Some of the multi-version songs are familiar. Like the one about Old McDonald and his noisy farm. Cluck, cluck, oink, oink, baa, baa, neigh, neigh. Plus the inevitable E-I-E-I-O refrain. Did you know that stands for Enforce In-Order Execution of I/O? It’s true — farmer McDonald was a computer programmer when he wasn’t chasing kids away from the ducks. Or maybe not — the ditty descended from folk tunes and has been linked to a failed eighteenth century opera.

By Jon W. Sparks A hundred years ago, our neighbors in the Ozarks had a version that went “he-hi-hehi-ho.” My extensive research shows it’s just “abstract vocalization.”

But it’s still stuck in your head.

The truth is, some of these songs are kinda cute and are well-performed. And I must say that when I sing along, my 18-month-old granddaughter doesn’t critique my extremely limited vocal abilities. I take encouragement from that.

A while back, when I could sit her down in a baby seat and she couldn’t clamber her way out, I found a lovely series of videos from Hey Bear Sensory with an appealing combination of moving shapes, music, and rich colors.

The music was varied and high-quality, from classical to reggae. You can feel righteous about letting your little one zone out on these, and the music is more likely to please your ear rather than infect your brain.

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But eventually, you’ll have to deal with “Baby Shark.” It’s been around as a campfire song for ages, but got its viral boost from South Korea’s Pinkfong, whose version has been viewed, oh, something like billions of times. Then there are all the other versions on YouTube that will come up in your searches. If that tune doesn’t stick in your head for a good while, then the Force is strong in you.

Meanwhile, it is suggested that if you do come down with an aggravating case of an earworm, you try doing anagrams, Sudoku puzzles, or read a novel. Seriously, that’s what Dr. Wikipedia says. And now you’re ready to deal with more rounds of “Five Little Ducks” and “The Ants Go Marching One By One.” And Baby shark, doo, doo, doo, doo, doo, doo.

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SAFETY FIRST With mass shootings becoming commonplace, now is the time to make a family safety plan.

Just like having a fire safety plan or severe weather plan, it’s time to start thinking about creating an active shooter safety plan as well.

I know it’s hard to fathom the need for such a plan, but as I write this, there have been more than 250 mass shootings across our country, and we are only a little more than halfway through 2022.

Trust me, I’d rather be writing about backto-school tips and summer vacation recaps, but as we prepare to go to Disney World, my wife and I are talking about plans of action if something goes down at the Happiest Place on Earth. I’ve seen this conversation really start to evolve on social media and am learning just like you are.

Questions like “Where’s our homebase if something happens?” are now as common as what roller coaster should we ride first. While the likelihood of something happening is still relatively low, preparation is paramount.

“Dealing with active shooters and having a plan is an absolute necessity,” said Director of Child Life Education at Church Health Kimberly Baker. “I know from a variety of areas of my life, whether it be sporting events, music events, theater, or work settings, there’s always a plan.”

But what’s included in an active shooter safety plan? According to the FBI, an active shooter is an individual actively engaged in killing or attempting to kill people in a

populated area, and recent active shooter incidents have underscored the need for a coordinated response by law enforcement and others to save lives.

In their educational video “Run. Hide.

Fight.,” they feature a dramatization of an active shooting situation at a restaurant where they outline what to do.

RUN:

• Wherever you go, be aware of alternate • • • • • •

exits. Quickly and cautiously evacuate in a direction away from the attacker.

Don’t hesitate. Seconds matter.

Remember windows and emergency exits.

Leave belongings behind.

Keep your empty hands raised and clearly visible when exiting a building.

Follow all instructions from the police.

Don’t stop until you’re sure you’ve reached a safe location.

HIDE:

• If there is no safe escape route, find a good hiding place.

• Lock and barricade the door.

• Silence cell phones.

• Prepare a defense plan.

FIGHT:

• Fight only as a last resort.

• Use available objects as improvised weapons.

• Use teamwork and surprise. A coordinated ambush can incapacitate an attacker.

• You’re fighting for your life. Don’t fight fair!

For local lawyer and musician David Bell, who recently took his family to a music festival, having these important conversations can put children at ease.

“The main discussions we were having were to find a meeting place — one inside the venue and one right outside,” he said. “That way, we could feel secure about where we would find each other. We walked to where the medical tent was so they would know that was a safe space, as well as identified where the security hub was so they knew where to get help.

The girls seemed to feel much more at ease knowing where to get help and where to meet.”

David also said, “If you see a gun, something is wrong and to run and get help.”

None of this is easy, and it’s quite disconcerting. But just like having a fire plan or severe weather plan, having an active shooter safety plan could also save your life.

Jeff Hulett is a freelance writer, musician, and PR consultant in Memphis.

He lives in the Vollintine Evergreen neighborhood with his wife Annie, two girls Ella and Beatrice, and dog Chalupa.

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NAVIGATING DIFFERENT PARENTING APPROACHES

What happens when two adult partners have radically different parenting styles?

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Whether you’re new to the wonderful world of parenting, about to embark on that journey, or well down the road, it is likely that you’ll be doing the work of parenting in partnership with another adult. In the case of blended or multi-generational families living together, there may be multiple adults involved in raising children. Even couples who come from very similar family backgrounds of their own can find that they have different approaches to common, everyday interactions that are part and parcel of being parents.

Whatever the family or living situation, it’s quite common for parents to see things differently when it comes to raising their children. Different cultural backgrounds or ideas, religious and family expectations, and even our own childhoods can shape what we feel our parenting styles should be. These can manifest themselves in simple and more profound ways.

Here are a few common topics and situations in which we see conflict in parenting styles:

• “Coddling” Coddling” young children: Is it nurturing Coddling or “spoiling” to respond to every need?

• Children’s

presence during adult social gatherings: Should children be “seen and not heard” or always welcome to express themselves?

• Food

and meals: Should children be encouraged or required to try new foods?

Is there a “clean plate” rule? Should parents prepare different meals for children, or should children eat what’s served (or go hungry, if they don’t)?

• Discipline and boundaries: What behavior

is expected, and what are the consequences of misbehaving? When do those rules and expectations change, and why? Can one parent, or partner, “overrule” the other?

• Outside help and advice: How do we know

if and when we need outside help? Are our own parents good examples, or do we want to steer clear of repeating their parenting styles and practices?

If you are grappling with any or all of those topics, then read on, because we’ve got some suggestions. Before addressing any of those specifically, though, there are four behaviors that make a firm foundation for any relationship. Mastering these things can help strengthen your relationship as partners or co-parents, enabling you to take a positive approach when resolving conflict.

Communicate openly, honestly, and respectfully.

Whether it seems minor and infrequent or big and common, the conflict won’t get resolved if you don’t acknowledge and talk about it.

Knowing that it’s important to be respectful of one another and to communicate honestly,

though, doesn’t necessarily mean also knowing how to communicate respectfully and honestly.

One way to get started, since approaching conflict can feel intimidating, is to use “I feel” statements. If, for example, your partner is giving a child different rules from the ones you set, then you might say something like: “When you change the rules I set for our child, I feel ______ (fill in the blank with the feeling you’re actually feeling — disrespected, angry, confused, etc.).” Starting a conversation this way, framing it from your own perspective instead of with an accusation or criticism, lays the groundwork for two-way communication so you can work through the conflict together.

Identify your shared core values.

Another place to start, when working through parental conflict, is by focusing on the areas in which you already are aligned.

Chances are that you and your partner have some similar underlying core values that connect you as a couple. Bringing those shared values to the forefront by making them the main topic of a conversation gives you something in common that you can use to work through an area of disagreement.

A conversation that follows, then, might look something like this: “You and I both value learning. How can we use our love for learning to help us find a place of agreement about [bedtime, boundaries, etc.]?”

(Side note: Kindred Place has a great, free workbook on identifying personal values!)

Champion teamwork and respect.

Parents might see it as, “If it’s not my way, it’s wrong” — and by extension, “My way is the right way.” In reality, there can be two right ways; they’re simply different. If you are willing to listen, you can learn from one another, pull MEM PH I SPA R ENT.COM 2 5

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Children are keen observers in general, and particularly when it comes to how the adults around them behave. Using problem-solving techniques and demonstrating respectful behavior will model both things for the children who are watching.

Maintaining your own relationship — and seeking help when you need it.

If you find yourself in a negative loop that repeats and repeats, or if you feel stuck in conflict or isolation, the issue might be bigger than you can tackle alone. Consider reaching out for advice from a trained professional when you need help navigating sticky situations or issues that you can’t resolve on your own.

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One final note: You may be wondering, “Is physical discipline ever appropriate?”

The research and data on this topic are clear.

Spanking is ineffective as a way of teaching a child right from wrong. Instead, spanking reinforces the idea that someone with power over another person is allowed to use physical force to make a point or get their way.

At Kindred Place, we often use the phrase, “Up until now, from now on.” It’s never too late to change, even if the habits of behavior or communication style are deeply ingrained.

When you ask yourself, “What might ‘from now on’ look like for our family?” then you’re already likely on a path to something better.

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Guests are encouraged to bring picnic blankets and chairs. Free popcorn will be provided.

Overton Square, Thursday, August 3, 8:30 p.m., free 5 • Friday GPAC Summer Movie Series In August, movie nights at GPAC are all about dance, with live music to open the night followed by a screening of a bopping movie. Mr. Holland’s Opus, about a frustrated composer who finds fulfillment as a high school music teacher, will be shown on August 5, with Rodgers & Hammerstein’s Cinderella on August 12 and Dirty Dancing on August 19. Food trucks will be on-site and picnics are welcome.

Germantown Performing Arts Center, Friday, August 5, 12, 19, 6 p.m.-8 p.m., $10

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For the first Saturday of each month, the Dixon invites participants of all ages to pop in to explore a new part of the Dixon with an inspiring project.

Dixon Gallery & Gardens, Saturday, August 6, September 3, 10 a.m.-noon, free, dixon.org Block Party To end the summer, Memphis Public Libraries is hosting its annual block party with food, games, music, crafts, and a school supply giveaway.

South Library, Saturday, August 6, 11 a.m.-1 p.m., free, memphislibrary.org 11 • Thursday Zoo Stroll Bring your best stroller buddy and take a guided stroll through the zoo. This fun and interactive recurring program includes a visit to a different area of the zoo and a greeting from one of the animal ambassadors.

Memphis Zoo, Thursday, August 11 and 25, September 8 and 22, 8-9 a.m., $20-$24, memphiszoo.org 13 • Saturday Dino & Dragon Stroll Walk with massive, lifelike dinosaurs, some just babies and others standing over 28 feet tall and spanning over 60 feet long. Along the way, you might find some legendary dragons. Kids can also enjoy hands-on crafts stations, inflatables, themed rides, and more. A sensory-friendly session will be available, with sound and light adjustments designed to be less stimulating.

Agricenter International, Saturday-Sunday, August 13-14, $26.99, dinostroll.com Eco Arts & Workshops: Animal Builders It would be impossible to count the number of artists in the natural world. And I’m not talking about your Van Goghs or Picassos; I’m talking about the ants who build magnificent piles, the spiders who spin detailed webs, and the birds who

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ELVIS WEEK 2022

This August marks the 45th anniversary of Elvis’ death and the 44th anniversary of the first Elvis Week. What began as a small group of fans gathering at Graceland’s gates has turned into the multi-day phenomenon we know today. Highlights of the week include personal tours of Graceland led by Priscilla Presley and Jerry Schilling, the Candlelight Vigil, the Ultimate Elvis Tribute Artist Contest, concerts, panels, and nightly parties.

Graceland, Tuesday, August 9-17, graceland.com/elvis-week

weave intricate nests out of twigs. And on this rare occasion, you can learn how to be more like those natural artists in this workshop that lets creators use some natural materials to create a piece of art for your home garden and for the zoo’s new pollinator gardens. Plus, meet an animal and gain entry to the new Butterfly Exhibit — all with enough time to enjoy the rest of the zoo following the workshop.

Memphis Zoo, Saturday, August 13, 10 a.m.-noon, $50, memphiszoo.org

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Dixon Gallery & Gardens, Saturday, August 13, September 10, 10:30 a.m.-noon, free, dixon.org ¡Viva el Teatro! Bilingual Theater with Cazateatro ¿Cómo se dice, “Theater is more than entertainment”? Cazateatro Bilingual Theater Group taps into that question and more at this monthly workshop of fun bilingual theater activities for the whole family.

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What’s a River Quest passport? you ask. Well, it’s a set of nine self-guided, family-friendly challenges designed to get you out and about in the Mississippi River ecosystem. Though the quests can all be done on your own, events like this one and another on September 17 can also get you your stamps.

Once completed, you can earn a prize. The last day to complete your passport is September 30. Learn more at memphisriverparks.org.

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Twilight Tours Ever wondered what happens at the zoo when the sun goes down? Well, now is your chance. Lace up your sneakers and prepare for an adventure in the Outback with a knowledgeable tour guide as your fearless leader through the zoo as you uncover what animals are moving around after dark.

Memphis Zoo, Wednesday, August 13 and 27, Saturday, September 10, 6:30-8:30 p.m., $30-$35, memphiszoo.org

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Molly of Denali

Peg + Cat

Dinosaur Train

Wild Kratts

Arthur

WKNO’S Teacher, Teacher

Nature Cat The Cat in the Hat Knows a Lot About That!

20 • Saturday Game On! Family Night On your marks, get set, and go with the whole family to the Dixon for a night of playful competition, featuring games of all kinds — board games, field games, video games, you name it, and the Dixon has a game for it. But are you game for it?

Dixon Gallery & Gardens, Saturday, August 20, 5-8 p.m., free, dixon.org

Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood

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2 • Friday Delta Fair & Music Festival Carnival rides, live music, attractions, magic shows, craft demos, livestock shows, oh boy, there’s so much going on every day at the Delta Fair, you won’t want to miss out.

Agricenter International, Friday, September 2-11, free/kids 4 and under, $10/kids 5-12, $15/adult admission, deltafest.com 5 • Sunday Fireworks on the Farm, Benefiting the Palmer Home for Children Celebrate Labor Day and bring the family to the Cedar Hill Harm, where kids can play on the playground, pet animals in a petting zoo, watch the chicken show, ride the train, and ride a pony.

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C A L E N D A R Listen to live music as you eat some good barbecue before the firework show.

Cedar Hill Farm, Hernando, MS, Sunday, September 5, 5-8:45 p.m., $25 10 • Saturday International Goat Days Festival Unlike the three Billy goats who had to negotiate their way to cross a troll-guarded bridge, there’s nothing stopping you from hanging out with these goats in Millington. After all, the day is all in their honor, and it would be rude not to. Plus, you can enjoy a pancake breakfast, live entertainment, food trucks, vendors, a car show, hot air balloon rides, a corn hole tournament, an all-day kid zone, and more.

Millington Sports Complex, Saturday, September 10, 7 a.m.-6 p.m., facebook.com/MillingtonFlagCity Germantown Festival This festival of arts has children’s activities, rides and games, entertainment, a car exhibit,

community displays, live music, a kids zone, vendors, the Running of the Weenies dachshund race, and more.

Germantown Civic Club Complex, SaturdaySunday, September 10-11, free, germantownfest.com

of the iconic Wheel for a slew of fantastic prizes, and some audience members will be randomly selected to win cash and prizes.

Orpheum Theatre, Tuesday, September 13, 8 p.m., $38-$88, orpheum-memphis.com

Youth Workshop: T-Shirt Printing Walk, walk, fashion babies. Kids can become fashion designers in this two-hour workshop where they can create their own T-shirt design using printmaking techniques and transforming a design on paper into reality.

Dixon Gallery & Gardens, Saturday, September 10, 1:30-3:30 p.m., free, dixon.org 13 • Tuesday Wheel of Fortune Live This famous Wheel is spinning, spinning, spinning its way into Memphis, and players will be winning, winning, winning. That’s right! It’s the Wheel! Of! Fortune! Audience members will get a chance to audition to go on stage and play the replica Photo © Charlotte Lake | Dreamstime.com

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By Abigail Morici 17 • Saturday Cooper-Young Festival There’s no need to stay cooped up in your house when you can join in on the fun at the CooperYoung Festival, where art, music, and crafts come together to celebrate Memphis’ culture and heritage.

Cooper-Young, Saturday, September 17, 9 a.m.7 p.m., free, cooperyoungfestival.com Collierville Balloon Festival Enjoy the Wizard of Oz’s preferred mode of transportation at this festival all about the whimsical hot air balloon. Each morning will begin with a breathtaking release of the balloons into the sky, which the family can witness for free before the festival’s activities commence in the afternoon. The day will include a Kids’ Zone, food trucks, vendors, carnival rides and games, and of course some hot air ballooning. Later, the balloons will light up the night with an evening balloon glow.

Maynard Way, Collierville, Saturday-Sunday, September 17-18, 3 p.m.-10 p.m., $15/adult admission, $8/child admission, colliervilleballoonfestival.com 22 • Thursday Mid-South Fair This festival has been a must-do event since 1856.

Fair-goers can enjoy more than 50 rides, a wide array of ground acts, and of course favorite fair fare — funnel cakes, turkey legs, candied apples, you name it, they’ve perfected it.

Landers Center, Thursday, September 22-October 2, landerscenter.com/mid-south-fair 23 • Friday 50th Annual Pink Palace Crafts Fair The Pink Palace Fair is back to celebrate its Big 5-O with 150 artists from around the country, ready for you to explore their variety of eclectic pottery, jewelry, paintings, woodwork, leatherwork, sculpture, woven goods, and so much more. ›Meanwhile, the kiddos can enjoy a petting zoo and ride on the beloved choo-choo train.

Audubon Park, Friday-Sunday, September 23-25, $5/kids, $10/adults 24 • Saturday Memphis Comic Expo The Mid-South’s Largest Comic Creator Con has answered the Bat-Signal and is back in Memphis to celebrate your favorite creators, with over 100 artists and writers, a cosplay contest, more than 50 vendors, panels, and more. It’s going to be a marvel.

Agricenter International, Saturday-Sunday, September 24-25, 10 a.m.-6 p.m., $30-40/adults, free/kids 12 and under, memphiscomicexpo.com Latin Fest Celebrate Hispanic Heritage Month at Cazateatro Bilingual Theatre Group’s Latin Fest, where friends and families can listen to and dance to live Latin music, taste Latin food and drinks, enjoy activities for kids, and shop from vendors.

Overton Square, Saturday, September 24, 12 p.m.-6 p.m., free

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H2Oh! Splash Park Make a splash in the final days of summer vacation at this garden-themed exhibition. With more than 40 sprayers, including jet streams, mists, geysers, and water tunnels, this splash park promises a fun escape from the heat for the whole family.

The Children’s Museum of Memphis, through Labor Day, cmom.com Mudpie Mondays If you ever wonder, “Why is my kid so sticky?” or “How did you get spaghetti sauce there?” or “What is that smell?” — I got a sneaking suspicion that your kid has a knack for getting down and dirty.

And you know what would just make their day?

Getting to play in mud. (But for your benefit, in a controlled environment). For Mondays through August 29th, the Memphis Botanic Garden is hosting a mud-tastic activity station, where kids can dig in and create their own mud-pies. Yum! Memphis Botanic Garden, Mondays through August 29, 10 a.m.-noon, included in admission, membg.org Sprouts Explore the senses with your toddler (12-24 months) in this interactive drop-in program.

Dixon Gallery & Gardens, Thursdays, 10:30 a.m.11:30 a.m., $8, dixon.org

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PRYSM: An LGBTQ Hangout for 13- to 17-year-olds This group for LGBTQ+ and allied youth (13-17) meets in a safe, closed environment for connection, discussion, and fun activities. For more information, contact prysm@outmemphis.org.

OUTMemphis, every other Saturday, 4-5 p.m., free, outmemphis.org Happy Hour Story Time If you give a mouse a cookie, they just might end up taking over the world, but if you give a dog a bone, they’ll probably roll over for a belly rub and listen to anything you have to say. Just ask trained therapy dog Lovie who comes to the library every week to listen to a fun evening story time with her favorite kid friends. Her person Juana reads from award-winning children’s books from the Overdrive Kids collection, and she leads games and sings songs. But why stop there?

The Memphis Public Libraries always has free programming going on, so check out its calendar at memphislibrary.org.

Benjamin L. Hooks Central Library, Thursdays, 7-7:30 p.m., free Alice in the Garden How do you get to Wonderland? Over the hill or Underland or just behind the tree … or from May to October, you can simply visit the Memphis

Botanic Garden, where larger-than-life Alice in Wonderland-themed topiary-like sculptures will take over. Plus, on August 6 and September 3, from 10 a.m.-2 p.m., families can join Alice in her Adventures at the Garden with drop-in craft and activity stations, and on August 27 and September 24, enjoy a story time followed by a motion activity or show. Be sure to check out membg.org/ alice for more information on other Alice-related programming from the Mad Hatter’s Family Tea Party on September 11.

Memphis Botanic Garden, on display through October 31, included in admission, membg.org

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