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Awash in Guns

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DEPARTMENTS 6 Around Town Festivals, fishing, and philanthropy 9 Dear Teacher Preschoolers and ADHD, finding a new school 10 One Cool Mom Renisha Mayes

12 Health Matters Lactose intolerance

28 Family Table Luscious strawberries

24 Parent to Parent Banish the birthday blues

30 Calendar and Events

26 Feature Start a garden this month

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EDITOR’S NOTE

PLAYING IT SAFE

JANE SCHNEIDER

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This month, I decided to run a piece on gun violence. I know it probably seems a bit heavy-handed, but as mothers, I think we should all be outraged. I did this because I am tired of hearing on the daily news of the death toll being extracted by shootings.

Aren’t you? This escalating problem has claimed far too many innocent lives across our nation. In fact, over the past few years, as many people have died due to gunfire as have been killed in car accidents.

TOLL FROM GUN AND CARS

According to an ar ticle in the Washington Post, “In 2014, the age-adjusted death rate for both firearms (including homicides, suicides, and accidental deaths) and motor vehicle events (car crashes, collisions between cars, and pedestrians) stood at 10.3 deaths per 100,000 people.”

In fac t , by 2014, gun deaths outnumbered vehicle deaths in 21 states plus D.C. Tennessee was one of those states. Because of the availability of guns, gun suicide rates have also been on the rise.

What’s troubling to me are the number of children who die as the result of guns , particularly ones being left unsecured in people’s homes. We too often hear of the toddler who discovered the gun his mother had stashed in her purse or the boys who were playing in a bedroom and stumbled across a handgun hidden in a shoebox. The examples are endless.

Even as I was wrapping up this story in April, an 11-year-old girl’s life lay in the balance in Le Bonheur Children’s Hospital after she had been accidentally shot by another child who was playing with a gun.

LET’S TALK ABOUT SAFETY

As a mother, I can think of nothing more devastating or senseless than losing a child in this manner. We shouldn’t have to wonder if an invitation to a playdate might not be safe because of unsecured guns in the home. But I can remember having those concerns when my son’s circle of friends began to broaden. I was aware that I needed to have those uncomfortable conversations so as to have some sense of assurance that as parents, we were all on the same page when it came to the safety of our children.

What we need to begin to recognize is many of these incidents are not accidents.

When a child comes across an unsecured gun, it’s their natural inclination to be curious and want to examine something foreign, yet familiar. It’s incumbent upon us, as adults, to take our responsibility as gun owners seriously by making absolutely certain all firearms are locked up and out of plain view.

I intend to examine gun violence and its impact on families further this year because we as a community should be talking about this issue every day. We should not resign ourselves to thinking that this is the new norm. It cannot be.

It’s not the world we want, is it?

SPECIAL THANKS TO MOMS

Now I want to tighten the focus just a bit and say thank you to all of the moms out there who are working hard every day to provide for their families.

If you read our One Word feature this month, you’ll hear from a variety of mothers and grandmothers who examine the many feelings that being a mother brings. One of those also graces our cover, Candice Baxter.

Candice is pictured with her three children, 17-year-old daughter, Ali, 3-yearold daughter, Natalie, and 2-year-old son, Bennett. (Not pictured is her husband Baxter, a pilot with FedEx.) I’ve known Candice for many years now, she began contributing to the magazine when Ali was in elementary school and she was still a single mom. I’ve always respected Candice because she exemplifies what it means to raise your children with love, strength, and determination.

Though she had her first daughter as a teenager, she never let her circumstances stop her from striving to reach her dreams.

Last month, they received the most wonderful news: Ali had earned a full scholarship to Christian Brother’s University, where she’ll start college as a freshman this fall. What a gift.

I expect you know a mom like Candice in your own circle. Give her a hug and let her know that she’s doing an awesome job.

And just remember, love wins.

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WHAT CAN YOU DO TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE? Contribute to the Moms Move Memphis Challenge

In honor of Mother’s Day, we’d like to suggest you pass it on. That’s right, pass along the benefits you’ve received in life so that other mothers like you can prosper and grow.

One philanthropic organization in Memphis is dedicated to living that mission. For the past 20 years, the Women’s Foundation for a Greater Memphis (WFGM) has provided funding to enable social change for women and families. Working with more than 100 nonprofits, the organization has contributed $7.8 million to 450 programs that lead women and children on a path to economic self-sufficiency and success.

And the money has come from people like you.

What does success look like?

Read about Renisha Mayes, the One Cool Mom profiled this month. She is a direct benefactor of the programs funded by the Women’s Foundation, programs that have helped her reach her potential.

This month, you can take part in that success story. In celebration of the organization’s 20th anniversary, WFGM is hosting the Moms Move Memphis Challenge. The goal is to reduce poverty by one percent per year by 2020 in the 38126 area code, the poorest neighborhood in Memphis.

Help WFGM meet the Moms Move Memphis Challenge of $15,000 by May 31.

How will my gift help?

With a donation of $25 or greater will, you will: • Assist moms in learning marketable skills to gain living-wage employment • Prepare young children living in 38126 for kindergarten • Provide women with financial education How can I reach out?

Join together, share this story on social media or in person, and give: $25, $50, $100, or more. Help more Memphis moms reach their potential.

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MAY 14 • Collierville Youth Fishing Rodeo. W.C. Johnson Park, Collierville.

Registration, 8-9 a.m. Fishing, 9-11 a.m. Bring your own tackle and bait. The 2016 Latino Memphis Festival: Festa do Brasil takes place Saturday, Prizes awarded by age. Free. colliervilleparks.org May 7, at Overton Park. 9 a.m.-4 p.m. Come enjoy a rumba or Brazilianinfused Zumba, martial arts, a colorful parade, and the Cinco K Mayo 5K and MAY 21 • Junior Fishing Rodeo. Catch’em Lake, Agricenter. 7 a.m.-noon. 1-mile Family Fun Run. Lots more. Free. latinomemphis.org Ages 10 and under, 7:30-9:30 a.m. Ages 11-15, 9:30-noon. Bring your own tackle. Bait available for a fee. Prizes awarded. $10. Bring registration form Memphis in May salutes Canada with a host of interesting exhibits that run from website. agricenter.org May 1-30, from Native American work at the Metal Museum to modern dance by Traces at the Orpheum May 5, at 7:30 p.m. memphisinmay.org JUNE 4 • City of Bartlett Children’s Fishing Rodeo. Appling Lake, Bartlett.

6-9 a.m. Bring your tackle. Prizes awarded for most fish and heaviest catch. Finally, don’t miss the Party for the Century. Memphis Brooks Museum of Preregistration begins May 24. Free. cityofbartlett.org Art throws open its doors to celebrate its 100th anniversary as well as the opening of the new Inside Art family gallery. Festivities run Saturday, May Want to fish at Shelby Farms? Find out more about their lakes on the blog: 7, noon-7 p.m. with live music, art-making, and a few surprises. Free. shelbyfarmspark.org/blog/posts/fishing 6 6

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CAN PRESCHOOLERS BE TESTED FOR ADHD? According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, children as young as 4 can be tested for ADHD. However, few children are diagnosed with this disorder before elementary school, as it is difficult to get a diagnosis before a child turns 5. Nevertheless, an early diagnosis can aid preschoolers who receive behavioral therapy and/or low doses of medication. It also helps if parents enroll in a parent support group.

Keep in mind that many symptoms similar to those of ADHD appear in young children. It is normal for preschoolers to have a high level of activity, an inability to focus for long periods of time, and impulsivity. However, young children with ADHD are far more hyper and impulsive. It can also affect daily moods, productivity, and behavior. The hyperactive child may be on the go almost all the time and not able to still for meals or napping.

If you are concerned your child may have ADHD, have him tested. It’s possible your child’s behavior is due to vision, hearing, or fine-motor difficulties, making it difficult for your child to behave. For an accurate diagnosis, the specialist will need a detailed description of your child’s behavior from you as well as a teacher.

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FINDING A NEW SCHOOL WE WILL BE MOVING ACROSS COUNTRY THIS SUMMER. WITH THREE CHILDREN UNDER 10, FINDING A HOME IN A GOOD SCHOOL DISTRICT WILL BE IMPORTANT. HOW CAN WE LEARN MORE ABOUT SCHOOLS IN DISTRICTS THE REALTORS SUGGEST?

With the growth of the internet, it’s become much easier to find out how schools perform academically. Most state departments of education have this information on their websites. In addition, some states and school districts also rate their schools. If you contact the individual school or district office, you can find information such as test scores, tuition, and student-teacher ratios.

Furthermore, many major cities have websites that compare schools by test scores, school environment, student-teacher ratio, and much more.

One caution: Some sites are based more on opinion rather than facts. Look on Facebook to find school pages that will reflect parent organizations. Talk to parents in school districts where you are considering living.

If you’re looking for school information about public and private schools in Shelby County, check out Memphis School Guide, a new site that gives detailed information and lets you compare public, private, and charter schools.

Finally, visit a school before making a final decision on where to live and do the following: • Observe the outside area around the school to see if it is in good order.

• Take a quick look at halls and bathrooms.

• Note how students behave between classes: Are they orderly? Is there signage around the building that encourages positive behavior?

• How are individual classrooms decorated?

• Notice how students interact with each other, as well as teachers and administrators.

Parents should send questions and comments to dearteacher@dearteacher.com or ask them on the columnists’ website at dearteacher.com.

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ONE COOL MOM

YES, I CAN

With help from the Women’s Foundation, Renisha Mayes has found success

By JENNIFER WILLIAMS-FIELDS Don’t say the words “I can’t” around Renisha Mayes.

As the program services coordinator for The Consortium MMT - Memphis Music Town, Renisha Mayes works with up-and-coming musical artists, alongside legends such as songwriter and producer David Porter. Their aim is to develop commercially successful music professionals and enterprenuers.

The 35-year-old college graduate has a good job, a nice home, and a teenage daughter any mom would be proud of. But that wasn’t always her life.

FEAR RULED MY LIFE Eleven years ago, this articulate young woman was sick, depressed, and unemployed. The loss of her home meant moving her family in with her mother. “The old me couldn’t handle rejection,” says Mayes. “It sent me into a deep, dark place.”

Mayes’ life began to change the day a friend suggested she contact Families First for childcare assistance for her daughter, Jordaan. Families First is part of the state of Tennessee’s Temporary Assistance for Needy Families (TANF) program. TANF is a workforce and development program that requires participants to take part in a work-training program while receiving help.

TANF directed Mayes to Choice Inc., an organization that provides professional workshops and tools for women to gain employment. Mayes was taught how to write a resume, and how to interview for a job. Before meeting a potential employer, the Memphis chapter of Dress For Success provided Mayes with the appropriate business attire.

“When I got the job, I immediately called them and they told me, ‘You get a week’s worth of clothes,” Mayes says. “When I came back, it was a celebration.”

Mayes was so impressed by the kindness and help she received from Dress For Success that she began volunteering for the group. In six months, she was offered a full-time position, eventually becoming vice president of The Professional Women’s Group, a professional development program that works with the organization.

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I WANTED TO ACCOMPLISH MORE “When I was growing up, I enjoyed singing in my high school choir and in the community,” says Mayes. “Yet, I’ve always been intrigued by what happens behind the scenes in the world of music. For instance, how are songs published? How are artists promoted?”

Mayes’ creative side led her to apply to Visible Music College in downtown Memphis. In her 30s, she worked third shift at FedEx while attending school full time and raising her daughter. In May 2015, Mayes earned a BA in music business and theology and became the college’s first African-American female graduate.

Mayes credits the assistance she received from local nonprofits, many of which receive funding from the Women’s Foundation for a Greater Memphis (WFGM), for helping her achieve her goals.

“Because I was older, I didn’t feel like I had the knowledge to attend college. I came from poverty. I grew up in South Memphis. I honestly thought I wasn’t smart enough, and now I’m the first in my family to graduate college. These organizations taught me to sit down, be patient, read,” she says. “Knowledge is power.”

Mayes’ 13-year-old daughter Jordaan has adopted that thinking as well. An honor student at Maxine Smith STEAM Academy, she plays soccer, has a 4.23 GPA, and plans to study marine biology.

Like her mom, she’s learned not to let obstacles stand in her way. Mayes says Jordaan was struggling to find the right headgear for her thick hair. No storebought hair barrette worked. “So last Christmas she asked for a sewing machine,” she says. “And now she makes her own beautiful headbands!”

LENDING A HAND TO HELP OTHERS Mayes is honest about her journey and often speaks in front of the same nonprofits that once helped her.

“I let them know that at one point I lost everything and was on public assistance. I am happy to mention WFGM, Dress for Success Memphis, Choice Inc., Bridges, Seedco, Families First, and AmeriCorps. All provided me with tools that have helped me along the way. I use my life as a testimonial to the work of these organizations.”

When she meets other women who are struggling, she reminds them that success is possible for them, too.

“I tell them, ‘You have me. I’m the one person who is telling you that you can do it. This is your beginning.’”

Today, she is working hard to meet The Consortium MMT’s goal: to foster the city’s music industry by grooming the next generation of artists.

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IS MY BABY LACTOSE INTOLERANT?

By KRISTI COOK Your baby is fussy, full of gas. Symptoms seem to appear shortly after feeding, so you wonder if baby’s formula may be to blame. What to do? The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) and Le Bonheur dietitian Katelyn Wolfe offer helpful advice regarding how to identify lactose intolerance.

What is lactose intolerance? Dairy products such as milk, yogurt, and ice cream contain a milk sugar called lactose. In order to be digested properly, our intestinal tract releases an enzyme called lactase. Some people’s bodies do not create enough lactase to properly break down lactose, which causes the lactose to remain in the intestinal tract. Bacteria living in the digestive tract ferments the lactose, leading to gassiness, bloating, abdominal pain, and diarrhea. The body’s inability to digest lactose is what is referred to as lactose intolerance.

Can infants be lactose intolerant? While babies may exhibit gassiness, Wolfe says lactose intolerance in infants is very rare since babies are born with the ability to produce the lactase. “Congenital lactose intolerance is the exception to the rule, in which the body cannot synthesize lactase at all,” says Wolfe.

In fact, the typical onset of lactose intolerance tends to be closer to age 4 or 5, and some children

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don’t develop symptoms until the teen years or even into adulthood.

Temporary lactose intolerance. The AAP states some babies may develop a temporary inability to digest lactose following antibiotic use or bouts of severe diarrhea due to short-term damage of the digestive enzymes in the intestinal lining.

“When Riley was 9-months-old, he had double ear infections and was on antibiotics for several weeks,” recalls mom Sara Mimsey. “He ended up with severe diarrhea, so we switched to a soy-based formula that helped.” Within a few weeks, Riley was able to drink his cow-milk based formula with no return of symptoms.

Most temporary bouts of intolerance do not require a change in diet. However, do monitor a baby with persistent diarrhea for dehydration. If your infant has diarrhea and decreased wet diapers or diapers with darker colored urine, call your pediatrician’s office to discuss your concerns.

Vitamin D and calcium. Should your baby require a lactose-free diet, even temporarily, getting enough vitamin D and calcium isn’t difficult. Alternative formulas are fortified with vitamin D, calcium, and even iron. For babies transitioning to solids, use baby foods and non-dairy soft solids. “Though not good

sources of calcium or vitamin D, they are important for appropriate development,” says Wolfe. Speak with your pediatrician, who may also recommend supplemental sources.

Keep a journal. It’s a good idea to pay close attention to baby’s symptoms if you suspect something’s not right. Wolfe suggests keeping a journal to record your infant’s abnormal behavior or fussiness. Include types of fluids and solids given, symptoms, time of symptom onset, and duration of symptoms.

Also speak with your pediatrician before making any dietary changes, as other conditions such as milk allergies exhibit some of the same symptoms and require different treatment options.

While fussy, gassy babies may be troubling, Wolfe reminds parents that these symptoms are often just a part of babyhood and no cause for concern. However, she also advises parents to bring any persistent or unusual behaviors to the attention of the child’s pediatrician to rule out causes such as lactose intolerance, milk allergies, or other problems. Should dietary changes be required, a dietitian can help ensure your child receives the necessary nutrition for optimal growth.

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FEATURE

GUN VIOLENCE IS HURTING OUR CHILDREN

By JANE SCHNEIDER � Illustration by DERRICK DENT

It’s 7 p.m. on a Wednesday night, on the heels of the dinner hour. But instead of cleaning up the kitchen, a group of 15 women, mostly mothers and grandmothers, have gathered at Republic Coffee to talk about gun violence. They share dismay and frustration about the growing prevalence of gun violence in America. They want a safer world for their children, for all children. So they’ve joined Moms Demand Action for Gun Sense in America or more simply Mothers Demand Action (MDA), a grassroots organization campaigning for new and stronger solutions to lax gun laws.

Chapter leader Kristi Glassman leads the volunteers as they discuss calling and tweeting legislators, traveling to Nashville to meet lawmakers, and sharing the message of gun safety with parents. MDAGSA is part of Every Town for Gun Safety, the largest gun violence prevention organization in the country.

Their urgency is understandable.

MSNBC reporter Michele Richinick began the series in 2013. By the end of that year, nearly 200 more children would die from gun violence. “A lot of these families tell me they’re pro-gun and they own multiple guns. So it’s not about whether you’re pro- or anti-gun with this series, it’s about gun safety,” she says. “If you are going to have a gun in the home, you need to know about safety.”

Currently, more than 2 million children live in homes where guns are not securely stored.

Memphis part of national trend “We need to put the responsibility in the hands of Events locally reflect this growing trend: On Christmas morning in 2012, 10-year-old Alfreddie Gipson was adults per gun safety at home,” says Kristi Glassman, fatally shot in the stomach after he and his brother Moms Demand Action’s chapter leader. “It’s an adult’s found an unsecured handgun in the bedroom. Four- responsibility to keep guns out of harm’s way, not the year old Joshua Johnson died in 2013 after the gun he child’s responsibility to touch or not touch it.” was playing with went off. Thus far in 2016, at least three What is the impact of gun violence? children have been wounded by accidental gunfire.

Gipson’s life was among those chronicled in The problem isn’t just children playing with guns or MSNBC’s ongoing series “Too Young to Die,” stories getting caught in crossfire, the prevalence of gun of children who have died as a result of gun violence. violence in our neighborhoods casts a dark shadow of The series started after the Sandy Hook Elementary uncertainty, fear, and anxiety for families. Social School mass shooting in December 2012 that claimed worker Angie Thomason, who counsels parents at the Universal Parenting Place at Knowledge Quest in 26 lives. Twenty were 6- and 7-year-olds.

Consider this: From January 2015 to the present, there have been 338 shootings by children under the age of 17. Of those, 115 people have died and 223 have been injured, says the Centers for Disease Control.

Thus far in 2016, there have been 69 shootings by children. Last year, a toddler in America — a toddler — shot someone approximately once a week due to improperly secured firearms.

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South Memphis, says just last week a beloved retiree and mentor to school children in a nearby neighborhood was killed in gun crossfire. A single mother with several school-aged children came to talk to her about the incident.

“This mother was angry, especially because it happened to someone so important to the children,” says Thomason. The mother was also worried, wondering how the loss would impact not just her children but others, too, since the man was someone neighborhood kids looked up to and trusted.

The chronic stress of worrying about safety can negatively impact children. “Moms won’t let kids ride their bikes, they can’t go outside without supervision,” says Thomason. “And that alters a child’s ability to make friends, to have the freedom to be themselves.”

For Glassman, who grew up in the San Francisco Bay area before relocating to Memphis, worrying about guns has been something new. “It wasn’t until I had small children that I realized how prevalent guns are here. Now I ask if guns are in the home and whether they are safely stored.”

At the Wednesday night meeting with MDA, than the two blocks of their neighborhood.”

The state is working on several fronts to address volunteers discuss how to raise the question of gun safety without offending others. All agree, it’s a adverse childhood experiences and how stressors such as gun violence and trauma negatively impact conversation that must take place. children’s health and well-being. “We don’t look at what’s behind the story of the crime on the 10 o’clock Trauma as a public health issue I later attend a meeting coordinated by the Memphis news,” notes Shelby County Mayor Mark Luttrell. and Shelby County Health Department that focuses “Seldom do we focus on the pain that’s happened in on helping social workers and nonprofits who care for their youth.” By not recognizing trauma, it becomes children understand how trauma and stress can affect normalized, he says.

The aim is making trauma a public health issue and a child’s behavior.

Timothy Moore, a reading specialist and creative providing professional training to shift how children writing teacher at GRAD Academy Memphis says the are treated, by moving away from addressing bad discussion of traumatic stress resonates. After behavior to learning what has happened in the child’s watching Wounded Places, a film that examines the life and treating them more holistically.

“Most parents don’t correlate behavior with prevalence of post-traumatic stress disorder among crime victims, he says in his group, two teens out of six events,” says Thomason. “We want to make them more aware of how events or chronic stress can impact a have lost parents to gun violence.

“The area we live in is one of the poorest in child’s physical and emotional health.”

Memphis,” he notes. His students face the typical issues of adolescence in addition to the stressors of WHAT CAN YOU DO? living in poverty. To help them cope, Moore’s students Get Help in the Community use journals to explore their feelings. He tells me a Universal Parenting Place (UPP) offers free counseling popular student at Wooddale High School had died to parents with children experiencing behavioral just weeks before in a shooting. Since it was on the issues. They also offer meditation and support groups. minds of his students, they discussed the teen’s death Find out more on Facebook.

• UPP at Baptist Women’s Hospital, 227-9558 in class and talked about choices.

6225 Humphreys Boulevard, 5th floor, 38120 “These kids often feel like they don’t have a lot of choices,” Moore says. “But your surroundings don’t • UPP at Knowledge Quest, 207-3694 990 College Dr., Suite 104, 38126 have to dictate who you become. If we can teach them how to make better choices, they can create a different narrative for themselves, one that’s wider

Get Help Online • Be Smart campaign (Besmartforkids.org) - Launched

by Every Town to help parents talk about responsible gun storage • Network for Overcoming Violence & Abuse (NOVA) Shelbycountynova.net has quick links to a host of Memphis agencies that assist families and kids • National Child Traumatic Stress Network – Nctsn.org, information to help understand what trauma looks like and how best to help someone manage Provide Help at Home When a child has experienced gun violence or other forms of trauma: • Remain calm and reinforce a stable and safe environment • Keep a regular routine for meals, quiet time, playtime, and bedtime • Help your child prepare for changes and new experiences • Spend more time together as a family • Be patient and let your child identify and express his or her feelings • Provide extra attention, comfort, and encouragement Source: Defending Childhood, Department of Justice Take Action • Moms Demand Action – Meets first Wednesday at 7 p.m. For location, join MomsDemandAction.org • Everytown.org – Learn how you can take action

HAVE A GUN AT HOME?

WHY DID I GET A CONCEALED CARRY PERMIT?

By KRISTI COOK

By CANDICE BAXTER

Use common sense. Lieutenant Brandon Schiel with the Germantown Police Department (GPD) advises, “If you make the decision to keep a gun in the home or go armed, first and foremost, use good common sense and keep the weapon secured where your child cannot access it.”

I am not a protesting NRA member, afraid Obama will take my guns. I’m not even a good shot; I made the lowest passing score of all the women in my concealed carry class at Range USA. My bullets consistently hit the target low and left.

My instructor says I anticipate.

Every time, just before the gun fires, I lower the barrel ever so slightly in anticipation of the charge. Sergeant Karen Pomeroy of the Madison County SWAT Team says I fear the BANG! Even shooting downrange at a paper target with a trained expert by my side, I fear the gun. I was raised to know that means I will always respect it. My great-granddaddy’s shotgun hung above our living room mantle, after all.

I am a military wife who grew up in a small, rural town in Tennessee. In high school, kids often came to class straight from the deer stand, still wearing full camo. At age 10, my oldest daughter received a small-gauge shotgun for Christmas and took a hunter safety course so she could hunt with her father.

But owning a concealed pistol? That’s for protection. As a teacher and mother of three living in Arlington, where do I go that I need a loaded gun? The grocery store, the hair salon?

I don’t feel threatened, but I do want to know the law.

So I sign up for the Tennessee Handgun Carry class, a class required by the state before you can obtain a handgun carry permit. I find myself wishing I’d rented a gun before purchasing my own. The featherweight Ruger Lc9 I received last Christmas sat in the safe for a year without being fired. At the range, it jams so often Pomeroy loans me her Smith and Wesson MC Shield. Right away, the fullness in my hand gives me gun envy.

Ways to keep your family safe

TO SECURE GUNS AT HOME, KEEP UNLOADED AND USE: Gun safes or boxes. Sizes vary but all should require a lock and key, combination, or fingerprint scan to open.

Gun safety locks. From trigger guards to cable-style locks, these are inexpensive and come in various forms. Safety locks are required by law to be included with every new firearm purchase but may be purchased separately.

Secure a carried weapon. Chip Holland, lead instructor for Range USA, reminds parents who are considering a concealed carry permit that, unlike an unloaded gun tucked inside a locked safe, a concealed weapon means you can never forget the gun is with you. “If your kids are with you or not, you still have to be conscious that you have it.”

TO SECURE A CONCEALED WEAPON: Keep it holstered - Holland and Schiel agree that the safest place for carrying a concealed weapon around children is on your body. Schiel recommends a holster attached securely to a belt or ankle, not in a pocket or tucked in a waistband. Holland adds holsters should also cover trigger guards, thus preventing little fingers from pulling the trigger.

If carrying in a purse, Holland still stresses the importance of a secure holster that protects the trigger, preferably strapped down in the purse.

In addition, moms should never lay the purse down unattended, be it in a shopping cart, while pumping gas, or at a restaurant.

Learn gun safety. Classes for adults are available through local gun ranges, law enforcement agencies, and individual instructors. However, GPD school resource officer Andy Griffith says parents shouldn’t stop there. “Even if a parent doesn’t want to carry a gun, if they have a spouse or loved one who does, they should take a class on gun safety, too.” It’s important to educate the non-carrying spouse on what’s required to make a weapon safe in the absence of the gun owner.

TO EDUCATE CHILDREN ON GUN SAFETY RULES: Eddie Eagle GunSafe© (preK-grade 4) • Eddieeagle.nra.org TWRA Hunter Education • Huntercourse.com/tennessee Youth courses offered at local gun ranges, ask for details

In a word: anticipation

LEARNING SAFE PRACTICES During the eight-hour class, I learn the parts of a gun, how to load and unload, how to put on the safety, and pull the slide without struggling. I learn to always point in a safe direction (usually the ground) and never at a person. I learn the importance of wearing eye and ear protection and a high neckline (no hot casings in the cleavage). I learn to choke up on my grip and poke my butt out for steadiness. I shoot 50 rounds, and still, I anticipate. I get a 100 on the written test, at least.

Pomeroy says gun owners are financially responsible for everything that happens once a bullet leaves its chamber. A warning shot in the air carries a felony endangerment charge in Tennessee because what goes up must come down. I learn jeopardy is more than an afternoon game show. Real jeopardy means the adrenaline-jumping, extreme fear that makes you pee a little — as in, “I fear for my life unless I neutralize this threat!” I learn it’s better to be a witness than to make myself a target by drawing my weapon to defend someone else. I am not the police.

Pomeroy shows us a variety of pistol locks. We discuss how to talk to kids about guns in the house, what safes are best, and where to put them. She demonstrates several holster styles, pointing out one for my petite frame.

I hope to never carry. She admonishes me, saying I should save my $115 and the trip to the Department of Motor Vehicles if I’m not serious. I figure I’ve come this far, so I get my permit. I want to be legal. I want to make informed decisions.

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What Does Motherhood Mean to You?

By JANE SCHNEIDER If you could capture your experience as a mother in a single word, what would it be?

Delightful, everchanging? While our journeys vary, we share much in common, as we recognize the challenges and rewards that come with raising a child.

The wonder years introduce us to a kind of love we might never have thought possible and we grow in many ways. While it may be tough to distill your experience into a single word, consider your journey and take a moment to celebrate this month. We’re right there with you. ~ Happy Mother’s Day

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Fifteen years ago, when my husband and I began dreaming of having children, what jollities of life did I imagine we’d offer?

Regular family vacations, enrichment opportunities, a lavish living space — none of these have we managed to provide, yet my children are among the happiest people I know. The colorful burst of a new flower, a cozy snuggle on Friday night, a raucous laugh over a funny joke — these are the things my two girls and little boy remind me every day are the lasting delights of life.

Becky Forrester homeschooler and mother of three

Being a single mother to a daughter, we are exceptionally close. Bridie is a sweet, kind, bright, curious, adventurous, loving girl. Losing my parents early in life, suffering with chronic depression, becoming divorced, all resulted in building emotional walls to avoid getting hurt. My 8-year-old has taught me to open my heart again. I didn’t know I was capable of loving anyone with such intensity. There is a Gaelic saying, ‘Tá mo chroí istigh ionat,’ meaning ‘My heart is within you.’ I can’t think of a better way to describe my experience as a mother.

Aisling Maki writer/public relations specialist and mother of one

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Motherhood is a constant reminder of how fragile life is. An illness, an accident, a circumstance, a choice: A moment can change everything. I was blessed with seven children in 15 years, but losing my eighth baby to miscarriage made me realize I had taken motherhood for granted. I tiptoed through carrying three more babies to term, with four miscarriages in between. This summer, my fifth child will graduate high school after my third gets married. And while I relish watching each mature, being a mom has taught me this: Love is fragile. Life is fragile. I am fragile.

Margie Sims writer and mother of 10

I find it challenging to stay in the moment, but it’s important to put work away and play cars with my two boys, to delay dinner and dance.

Our circumstances can be challenging, like managing food allergies, but the struggles provide knowledge and confidence. The most challenging times are when I need to release tiny hands as my children become more independent and need me less. But I welcome these challenges; they remind me life is meant to be experienced and enjoyed, and there’s nothing more I’d rather be than their mom.

Kelley Barnett founder, Food Allergy Alliance of the Mid-South and mother of two

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Gratifying Being the mother of young mothers is very gratifying. I’ve watched my two daughters as they’ve transformed into strong, clearthinking, fun, benevolent women.

It’s gratifying to observe them as they raise my granddaughters to also be strong, benevolent, intelligent young ladies. Now, my girls get a glimpse of how gratifying the feeling of raising children can be. History does repeat itself.

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12 FUN PLACES TO PARTY

By JANE SCHNEIDER

Whether you’ve got a child who’s a live wire or more of a quiet explorer, we’ve rounded up 12 cool birthday destinations sure to please every birthday type.

THE ACTIVE CHILD If you’ve got a kid with energy to burn, why not check out birthday parties at Get Air? Jumping on trampolines is a great way to get the wiggles out. In addition, this new facility in Collierville offers Kiddy Court, where children under 46 inches tall can jump separately and play in a foam pit.

Parties are easy at River City Gymnastics, where an instructor works with kids to do tumbling, trampoline, and floor exercise fun. They’ll even coordinate party room activities.

Roller skating at area roller rinks is surprisingly retro-cool, and a great way for kids to exercise.

Skating rinks have party rooms, and party cost includes admission and skate rental.

Get the Goods Getairmemphis.com • $250/10 guests for two-hour party, includes jump socks and table with paper products. $300/includes pizza and soda. Children under 46 inches tall pay less. 203-0392 Rivercitygymnastics.com • $250/15 guests includes one hour of gym play with an instructor, 30 minutes in party room, paper products, and T-shirt. 388-3737 Memphisskating.com • $119+tax/10 guests includes admission, pizza, and skate rental. 755-0221 THE CURIOUS CHILD What little boy hasn’t dreamed of becoming a firefighter? At the newly refurbished Fire Museum of Memphis, kids can climb on fire trucks, experience the fire room, and try interesting, hands-on exhibits that teach fire safety. For extra pizzazz, have Memphis Firedogs Astro or Izzy pay a visit.

The Lichterman Nature Center gives children a glimpse into the natural world. In a park-like setting, your naturalist guides children on a nature walk,

introduces an animal, and finishes with a craft activity. Perfect for 6 and under.

Another beautiful place children can experience animals is Maple Grove Farm. Here, you can feed a goat, pet a bunny, even ride a horse. For more active fun, a climbing wall and bounce house is available.

Party activities are led by farm staff.

Mad Science of the Mid-South brings the party to your place with cool, hands-on science experiments kids can do. Each instructor has his own specialty, be it tricks with electricity or hydrophobic sand. What’s best, the party closes with everyone making slime. Great for ages 7 to 10.

Get the Goods Firemuseum.com • Parties start at $175/20 guests for two hours. Includes museum admission, party room, and helium balloons. $50/one-hour dog visit. $5/party favor bags. 636-5650 Lichterman Nature Center - memphismuseums.org • $220/15 guests; $5/per child for extras up to 25. This one-hour party includes a naturalist, crafts, and indoor or outdoor party room. 636-2221 Maplegrovefarm.net • $295/20 guests. $10/per additional child. Two-hour party led by staff, includes petting farm. 861-7422

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Get the Goods Artprojectmemphis.com • $245/12 guests in the Scribble Space, includes materials and staff instruction. – 425-3434 Pitterpotterstudio.com • $16/8 guests. Two-hour party includes instruction and materials for coil pots or ceramic painting. - 443-7718 THE ADVENTUROUS CHILD At the Kroc Center, parties get wet and wild when you throw a Splash Bash. Kids can swim or float in the lazy river and dance on the outdoor splash pad. For older kids, conspire with the Challenge Coach and try Rescue Training. Parties can include competitions like dodgeball, obstacle courses, or matching wits on the three-level maze.

For driving fun, rev up your engine at the Autobahn Indoor Speedway. Parties here will get hearts thumping as kids take laps around this new, indoor go-kart track. Safety harnesses and helmets help the good times roll.

Get the Goods: Krocmemphis.org • Splash Bash Pool Party: $360/15 Madscience.org • $200/15 guests for one-hour show. guests for indoor pool and lazy river. Outdoor splash pad open Memorial Day to Labor Day. Party includes Extras include rocket launch, dry ice, or cotton 1.5 hours of swimming, one hour in party room, and candy making. $35 per activity. 213-3555 or email goody bags. Corefire Commando: $329/15 guests for Stacey@madsciencemidsouth.com 1.5 hours of activity and one hour in party room.

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CELEBRATE WITH A FIELD DAY. Put together challenges kids can tackle, like an obstacle course, a treasure hunt, jarts, an egg roll, and sack race.

HOST A MOVIE NIGHT. Hoist a sheet for a screen in the backyard and stream your favorite Disney movie from your computer. Be sure to have popcorn ready when guests arrive.

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BANISH THE BIRTHDAY BLUES How to avoid the big letdown

By MARGIE SIMS For busy parents, it seems someone’s birthday is when we just can’t top that expensive jacket or tickets always just around the corner. But even after you shop to see Justin Bieber in Nashville.” Save the sanity by and scheme, the big day comes — and the birthday setting limits: Just as you wouldn’t let your kids choose blues tag along. If melancholy moods are the regular whatever car or college they want, birthdays also rhythm at your house, try a new approach to help require some boundaries.

Riley admits to caving at times and buying banish the blues for good. something out of guilt after the big letdown. “They see videos on Instagram of friends crying after opening an KEEP IT SANE “Keep the expectations low from the beginning,” says amazing present, yet they really don’t even know what parenting expert and author Michele Borba, PhD, to ask for to achieve that reaction,” she says.

Where should parents draw the line? “Don’t wait whose newest book Unselfie comes out in June. “We parents are often the ones that hype it by saying, ‘It’s until the actual day to communicate if you think the your birthday! What do you want? Who will come?’” expectation is too high,” says Borba, who encourages Too many questions often create a vision that doesn’t parents to remember that when birthday blues take match reality. “Remember, you want to set the over, self-absorption is usually the culprit. “Selfexpectation and let them move higher, not lower, from absorption is a bottomless pit reinforced by social media,” she says, emphasizing kids don’t always need there,” Borba says.

One sure way to keep the big day sane is by being the best, most expensive gift. “Celebrate the child, but cautious of the comparison game. “My kids often in the end it is critical for kids to learn that sometimes psych themselves up for disappointment after seeing you have less and sometimes you have more. Teaching the gifts their friends get,” says Collierville mom Kelly kids to be content with what they have is a good thing.”

Along with high expectations, parents should Riley, mother of six. “As they get older, it’s challenging because I feel like I have to prep them for the letdown watch out for other robbers that exasperate the

What keeps the happy in birthday?

My crew weighs in:

MAKE IT SPECIAL Traditions go a long way toward keeping the blues at bay. One activity we keep alive at our house is the “What I Like About You” tradition, where family gathers around as each member, gives a gift, and then tells their favorite thing about the birthday kid. As a mom of 10, I have learned even my very youngest anticipate receiving this affirmation. Last year I blew it off, thinking my 4-year-old daughter was too young to get it. When she proceeded to tell us what she liked about grandma after opening her gift, I realized she was already embracing our family tradition.

“Even the simplest traditions create lifelong memories for making kids feel special on their big day,” concurs Borba. Activities like marking the calendar, hanging a banner, and getting a cake all affirm the child independently of presents or parties and send the same message: I celebrate YOU. While parties are often the go-to plan, these can become more meaningful when there isn’t a party every year. One mom I know reserves parties for milestone years: 5, 10, 13, 16, and 18. Another mom is a champ at theme parties and has riffed on everything from Lord of the Rings and Harry Potter to the TV show, “The Amazing Race.”

But celebrations can take all forms. After the birth of my sixth child, I dumped a bag of powdered doughnuts onto a plate and stuck a candle in the top for my 2-year-old’s birthday. I remember feeling guilty for not having the energy to do more, but much to my surprise, my daughter talked about her “doughnut cake” for weeks. She felt celebrated and special and that’s all that matters.

The birthday blues can be a downer for everyone, but with some boundaries, a few traditions, and plenty of love, kids will start singing a different tune.

I'm a big fan of a small gift or outing that shows Doing something memorable with the family. someone knows me. — Robert, 28 — Mary, 18 Mom making my favorite meal. — Emma, 17 Gathering around the dinner table, having my favorite yummy dinner, and the “What I Like A big game of family football. — Cory, 15 About You” tradition. — Bethany, 26 Everybody being positive. — Dorothy, 12 Swimming in a river or eating chocolate ice cream.

It’s hard to be unhappy when you have chocolate Getting what I want. — Silas, 9 ice cream. — Matthew, 23 Eating sandwiches, then everyone goes to sleep Sharing it with people I love, food I enjoy, and gifts and blows you a kiss. — Hope, 4 that are well thought out. — Ben, 20

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START A GARDEN THIS MONTH

By KRISTI COOK A fun and inexpensive way to encourage outdoor exploration is with a simple garden you and your children grow together. An added bonus — you don’t even need to know how to garden. Here are few tips to get you started.

Talk up the idea. To begin your child’s adventure, build her interest in flowers through storybooks, a trip to grandma’s garden, a walk through your own bed of flowers, or a visit to My Big Backyard at Memphis Botanic Garden. Notice how plants come in all shapes and sizes, from tiny, pea-sized buds to giant, elephant ear-sized leaves.

Give him his own tools. All kids love to feel grown up, playing with bubble-blowing lawn mowers and kid-sized weed whackers, so be sure to equip your budding gardener with his own set of tools. Grab old forks, spoons, and spatulas — anything that makes a good (and safe) digging tool — and let him know those items are his own special tools for digging in the dirt. You may want to include an old, thin pair of winter gloves to add to their stash.

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which plants you can grow, take a walk with your child and consider where your yard has more sun or shade (and when). Talk about the different needs of plants — sunlight, water, and dirt — while telling your child he’ll get to play in the sunshine and dig in the dirt as he cares for his garden.

If you have a fairly level part of the yard that gets full sun and doesn’t hold water after a rain, it might be perfect for fast-growing, dinner platesized sunflowers and giant elephant ears. However, if your space is more on the shady side, consider impatiens and coleus. Both make lovely, kidfriendly choices that thrive in shade. Impatiens come in pink, white, red, coral. Coleus, while not grown for flowers, provide vibrant foliage, with striking leaves and variegated color patterns. The best ones for catching young gardeners’ attention are the pink or green polka dot varieties, readily available at most garden centers.

If you lack a backyard, you can still grow a child’s garden on a balcony or stoop. Just cut drainage holes in the bottoms of a sturdy container (like an ice cream bucket) and fill with good quality potting soil. It will work for impatiens, coleus, marigolds, and caladiums. Since containers dry out fast, water every few days.

with nursery starts. Since seedlings take time before flowers appear, that slow growth can result in disappointed kids who lose interest.

However, you can start sunflowers from seeds.

My kids prefer the giant ‘Mammoth’ variety.

These reach dinner plate-size in no time and grow nearly six feet tall. To keep interest alive as sunflowers develop flower heads, plant marigolds around the border. These provide bright colors closer to a small child’s eye level and last long after the sunflower heads have begun to fade.

Get planting. Once you’ve made your purchase, clear sod away with a shovel or tiller and work the soil until light and fluffy. Adding an inch or two of compost or topsoil is a good idea to help aerate soil and feed plants. Tuck seeds or transplants into soil and water well. Keep soil moist, but not soggy, throughout the growing season.

Watch your garden grow. Take photos as your child discovers his very first garden. Shoot a video of your crew digging in the dirt. Press flowers.

Take a selfie of their first bouquet. Get down on your belly with your child and observe the myriad creatures living in the garden. You will be amazed Seeds or transplants? Once you’ve determined how much your children learn by growing a flower. the perfect spot, it’s time to purchase plants.

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STRAWBERRY FEVER

By LIZ PHILLIPS May is arguably the best month in Memphis. It’s not too hot, there’s a lot going on, and the strawberries are coming to market. In the past, I’ve made plenty of crisps and pies, but this year I find myself wanting something that takes less time and trouble in the kitchen. So I've made a greatest-hits list of strawberry “recipes.” (They’re so easy they hardly even qualify as recipes.) A few of these ideas lend themselves to picnicking and parties; all can be assembled by a confident child. And only one of them, the roasted strawberries, asks for any willingness to sample new flavors.

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STRAWBERRIES WITH SOUR CREAM AND BROWN SUGAR

One of my favorite desserts at my grandmother’s house was berries from her garden, served with nothing but sour cream and brown sugar. I’ve remixed this so my kids can indulge their desire to dip.

1 cup sour cream Brown sugar to taste (start with about a tablespoon) A pint or more of strawberries, washed and halved or quartered Whisk together cream and sugar in a small bowl. Set out cut-up fruit and watch what happens.

STRAWBERRY AND NUTELLA SANDWICH

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This is the naughtiest of naughty treats.

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1 pint strawberries A bunch of fresh mint or basil Optional: sliced lemons, oranges, or cucumbers

A pint of strawberries, washed, trimmed, sliced pretty thin Nutella Good-quality soft white bread, like Arnold or Pepperidge Farm

Wash, trim, and slice the strawberries.

Wash the herbs and remove stems.

Take a pretty glass pitcher or an urn with a spout and place the berries and herbs inside. Fill with ice and water.

Serve with ice in glasses.

ROASTED BALSAMIC STRAWBERRIES

I used this technique most recently with grapes. The kids I was cooking with were extremely skeptical, but they adored the results.

A quart of strawberries, washed and quartered (other fruits you can do this with include grapes, quartered figs, and sliced plums) 2 tablespoons balsamic vinegar 2 tablespoons honey OR substitute vinegar and honey for balsamic glaze (made by Roland and available at Kroger) Optional: twigs of rosemary or thyme; or ½ teaspoon vanilla and a few grindings of black pepper In a sturdy baking dish, toss the strawberries, balsamic vinegar and honey (or sub ¼ cup balsamic glaze), and whichever combination of flavors you choose. Roast at 375 degrees for 10-15 minutes, leaving in longer if you want the juices thicker. These are great on a salad or served over Greek yogurt with chopped, toasted hazelnuts.

Spread a thin layer of Nutella on each slice of bread. Arrange strawberry slices on half of them, and put the sandwiches together. Cut in halves so your kids and friends don’t just thrust entire sandwiches down their throats all at once, because they’ll want to.

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True trifle involves pudding, usually flecked with chunks of pound cake (in a sense, the South’s banana pudding is in essence a trifle). This version is lighter, quicker, and I’d argue, better.

It’s great for a party.

Enough for 16 1 quart heavy cream, chilled 2 quarts strawberries ½ cup sugar ½ teaspoon vanilla, if desired About 30-40 lemon cooler-type cookies, the slightly cakey kind coated in powdered sugar Place a large metal bowl and a whisk or beaters in the freezer. Wash, trim, and slice the strawberries, then toss them with ¼ cup of sugar. Break the cookies into small pieces and reserve in a bowl.

Whip the cream with the other ¼ cup sugar and optional vanilla until thickened and fluffy but not stiff.

Assemble the trifle either in one glass bowl or in individual glasses for single servings. Put a layer of whipped cream in the bottom, followed by a layer of berries, then crumbled cookies. Repeat, topping with a final sprinkling of berries and cookie crumbs. If you’re doing individual servings, proceed one layer at a time to ensure an even distribution.

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The 2016 Latino Memphis Festival: Festa do Brasil Saturday, May 7, 9am-4pm

Overton Park Celebrate multi-cultural Brasil! Watch Brazilianinfused Zumba, Brazilian martial arts Capoeira, parade by UT Martin Percussion Ensemble, Samba performance by Brazilian Passistas, Cinco K Mayo 5K, 1-mile Family Fun Run, soccer clinic and contests, a salsa-making championship, kids’ Carnaval Corner and a carnaval leather mask decorating workshop.

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1 ∙ SUNDAY

Star Trek Movies (2D repertory film). CTI 3D Giant Theater at the Pink Palace Museum. Weekends and Memorial Day at 4 p.m. Watch your favorite Star Trek movies on the giant screen at the Pink Palace. $9/adult. $7/child. 636-2362.

Fiddler on the Roof. Kroc Center. Through May 8.

Thursday, Friday & Saturday at 7 p.m. Sunday at 2:30 p.m. This heartwarming story centers around Tevye, a poor dairyman, and his five daughters. Admission: Pay what you can. Tickets sold at the door 30 minutes before each performance. 729-8029.

6 ∙ FRIDAY

58th Annual Greek Festival. Annunciation Greek Orthodox Church. Also on Saturday, 11 a.m.-8 p.m.

Festivities include live music by Kosta Kostanis and his band, dance by Athenian Dance Troupe, food and pasteries, marketplace, and sanctuary tours.

Donations help Mid-South Food Bank. For each canned good, receive $1 off ticket price or bring three for free admission. $3/adult. $1/child ages 6-11.

Free, ages 5 and under. memphisgreekfestival.com

The Wizard of Oz. The Sally Hook Performing Arts Center, St. Agnes-St. Dominic Schools. 5:30-6:30 p.m.

Memphis Youth Musical Theater presents this condensed version of the classic tale for families. $10/person. 921-0388.

7 ∙ SATURDAY

The 2016 Latino Memphis Festival: Festa do Brasil.

Overton Park. 9 a.m.-4 p.m. Highlights include Brazilian-infused Zumba, the Brazilian martial arts Capoeira, parade by UT Martin Percussion Ensemble, Samba performance by Brazilian Passistas, 30 30

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Cinco K Mayo 5K, 1-mile Family Fun Run, soccer clinic and contests, a salsa-making championship, kids’ Carnaval Corner, and a carnaval leather mask decorating workshop. Free. latinomemphis.org Dog-A-Roo. The Outback Off-Leash Dog Park at Shelby Farms Park. 10 a.m.-2 p.m. This pup-friendly festival features a talent and costume contest, rescue parade, the four-legged 4K Fun Run, gourmet pet treats, and pet specialists information sessions.

Dogs must be on-leash for this event. Free. $5/park per car. Benefits Shelby Farms Park Conservancy. shelbyfarmspark.org/dog-a-roo

Fair on the Square to pick up seeds and seedlings for starting your own butterfly garden. Free.

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3rd Annual Baby Day. Memphis Zoo. 10 a.m.-3:30 p.m. Learn more about the baby animals welcomed to the zoo this spring through special chats with zookeepers throughout the day. Free with admission.

333-6500.

Family Tunes & Tales at Area Libraries. Libraries include Central, Bartlett, Cordova, Collierville, and Germantown. 11 a.m.-noon. Join the musical families of the Memphis Symphony Orchestra as they present a story set to music followed by an art Kids Catch Fishing Experience. Mud Island.

Registration at 10 a.m. Event runs from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. activity. Free. 537-2500.

Kids learn the sport of fishing from TWRA instructors.

Party for the Century. Memphis Brooks Museum of The Gulf of Mexico pool will be stocked with Art. Noon until 7 p.m. Celebrate the 100th catfish. Prizes awarded. Free loaner rod and reels anniversary of Brooks Museum and the grand available. Free. 576-7205. opening of Inside Art, the family art gallery. Live music, art-making, cake, and surprises.

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Chucalissa. Saturdays at 10 a.m. & 1:30 p.m. Family programs and craft activities change weekly.

May 7 - Mystery Box/Pottery 8 ∙ SUNDAY May 14 - Stone Tools & Weapons/Beading Mother’s Day 5K. Shelby Farms. 7:10 a.m.-10:30 a.m.

May 21 - Sports & Hunting/Talking Sticks The Kids Dash for children ages 8 and under is 100 May 28 - Prehistory to Trail of Tears/Pottery meters long, and all finishers receive a ribbon. Prizes Family Day activities include museum tour, throwing awarded to top three participants, male and female, darts with an atlatl, scavenger hunt, the hands-on lab in each age group and overall. Registration fee: $50. tour, and more. Free with admission. Group discounts Benefits Women’s Foundation for a Greater available. 785-3160.

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58th Annual Greek Festival.

Annunciation Greek Orthodox Church. Friday, May 6 & Saturday, May 7, 11 a.m.-8 p.m. children’s crafts, and outdoor family fun. $55/adult $10/ages 2-12. Carriage rides available at additional cost. Reservations: 636-4131.

Symphony in the Gardens: Big Band Music. Dixon Gallery and Gardens. 6-8 p.m.

The Memphis Symphony Orchestra brings alive an evening of big band music. $20/adult. $5/ages 7 and up. Free ages 6 and under. Advance discounts available.

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9 ∙ MONDAY

Solar Watch: Transit of Mercury. Greenline Gardens at Shelby Farms Park.

10 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Join Shelby Farms Park Conservancy and the Memphis Astronomical Society (MAS) to observe this rare solar event as Mercury passes in front of the sun. MAS sets up telescopes for viewing. Free. shelbyfarmspark.org/family-programs

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Food Truck Garden Party: Super Heroes/Super Villains. Memphis Botanic Garden. 5-8 p.m. Party features live music, local food trucks, Memphis Parent PlayZone for kids with lawn games and more. $10/person. 636-4100.

Family Night. Overton Park Greensward. 6-7:30 p.m. Children from New Ballet School and student ensembles perform. Rain date: May 12. Free. newballet.org/events/family-night/

14 ∙ SATURDAY Wine & Food Series The Grand Artisan’s Dinner May 20, 6:30–9:30 pm at the James Lee House Grand Auction May 21, 5–9 pm at the Brooks Museum Memphis Brooks Museum of Art in Overton Park 1934 Poplar Ave Memphis, TN 38104 brooksmuseum.org 901 544 6200 32 M E M P H I S PA R E NT M AY 2016 32 M E M P H I S PA R E NT M AY 2016

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All About Birds Discovery Day. Lichterman Nature Center. 9 a.m.-noon. Meet live birds, hear “calls from the wild,” visit a migration station, and take a close-up investigation of bird adaptations. $6.50/scouts or child. $3.50/chaperone.

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Sensory Friendly Film. Malco Theatres Cordova. Doors open at 9 a.m. Movie starts at 9:30 a.m. Watch a sensory-friendly showing of the film Rachet and Clank (appropriate for all ages). $5.50/person. All disabilities welcome. 509-3027.

Touch-a-Truck. Germantown Community Library. 10 a.m.-noon. Children are invited to touch, climb, and take pictures alongside cool vehicles and equipment. Free. Concessions available for purchase. 757-7323.

Dance Scholars Inc. 29th Annual Open House Performance. Southwest Tennessee Community College Theatre. 7 p.m. Dancers perform classical ballet, modern and jazz pieces, featuring local musicians and guest choreographers. $12/adult. $10/child. Advance and group discounts available.

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15 ∙ SUNDAY

Opera Memphis Family Day. Clark Opera Memphis Center. 1:30-3:30 p.m.

Family Day events include pony rides, children’s activities, and a special performance of 2016 children’s opera Jack and the Beanstalk.

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Bugs and Frogs Family Day. Dixon Gallery and Gardens. Join the Dixon for a garden celebration learning about bugs and critters, enjoying art, live music, and snacks. Free. 761-5250.

Enchantments: An Evening of Two Fairytales. Buckman Arts Center at St. Mary’s School. Two performances at 2 & 5 p.m. Roudnev Youth Ballet brings to life two fairytales, Snow White and Fairy Heart Magic. $15/person. 537-1483.

26 ∙ THURSDAY

South Lawn Cinema: Toy Story. Dixon Gallery and Gardens. 8 p.m. Bring blankets or chairs and enjoy movies on the South Lawn. $5/adult. $2/ages 4-10 years.

Free/ages 3 and under. 761-5250.

28 ∙ SATURDAY

Migratory Bird Celebration. Memphis Zoo. 10 a.m.-2 p.m. Join for bird-themed activities in celebration of the centennial anniversary of the Migratory Bird Treaty, an agreement signed in 1916 that protects migratory birds. Free with admission. 333-6500.

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Weekly Fields Trips • Arts • Crafts Swimming • Team Building • Sports • Sky Trail Ropes Course • Lasertron • Putt-Putt • Golf Go-Karts • Bumper Boats • Arcade • Games and more.

Summer Symphony at the Live Garden. Memphis Botanic Garden. Doors open at 5:30 p.m. Show begins at 7:30 p.m. Spend an evening over Memorial Day weekend listening to Memphis Symphony Orchestra perform live at the garden. Rain date: Sunday, May 29. TruGreen Lawn tickets: $25/adult. $10/ages 3-12. Advance discounts available. Call 576-4107.

30 ∙ MONDAY

Animals in Action. Memphis Zoo. 9 a.m.-5 p.m. Event focuses on animal encounters, shows for the public, and animal training demos. Free with admission.

333-6500.

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Dixon Gallery and Gardens. The Impressionist Revolution: Forty Years of French Art at the Dixon. Through July 17. Showcases the collection of French masterpieces and reveals how their experiments created a new visual language that has influenced the art world. Made in Dixon. Through May 15. 761-5250.

Memphis Brooks Museum of Art. Hassan Hajjaj: My Rock Stars. May 26 through September 4. Exhibit explores world culture through photography and videography as presented by Moroccan-born, UK-based artist Hassan Hajjaj.

544-6200.

Morton Museum of Collierville History. A Portrait of Collierville: 1940-1945.

Through June 1. The exhibit, developed by juniors of St. George’s Independent School, explores life in Collierville during World War II and the town’s contributions to the war effort. 457-2650.

Pink Palace Museum. Nature Unleashed: Inside Natural Disasters. Through May 1.

636-2362.

CTI 3D Giant Theater. National Park Adventures 3D. Through June 24. Journey to Space 3D. Through June 24. Living in the Age of Airplanes in 2D. Through May 27.

636-2362.

AutoZone Dome at the Sharpe Planetarium is Now Open. Firefall. Through June 3. Astronaut. Through June 3. Seasonal Stargazing. Through June 3. One World, One Sky: Big Bird’s Adventure. Through June 3. 636-2362

OTHER PROGRAMS

Mallory-Neely House Tour. Mallory-Neely House, 652 Adams. Fridays & Saturdays, 10 a.m.-4 p.m. $7/adult. $5/ages 3-12. 523-1484.

Living History at the Farm Park. Bobby Lanier Farm Park. Saturday, May 14, 3:30-4:30 p.m. Join members of the Volunteer Guard and learn about the life of the common Confederate soldier during camp, on campaign, and in combat.

Free. 757-7378.

CLASSES & WORKSHOPS

Stroller Strides. Woodland Discovery Playground at Shelby Farms. Meets Tuesdays & Thursdays in May, 9:30-10:30 a.m. FIT4MOM Memphis presents Stroller Strides, a total fitness program moms can do with their babies. First week free, $45/month. RSVP required. shelbyfarmspark.org/fitness-programs Kaleidoscope Club. Dixon Gallery and Gardens. Wednesdays, 4-5 p.m. Ages 6-9.

This after-school program explores a project involving horticulture, art, or literature. $8. Snack provided. Call 761-5250 to register.

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Enchantments: An Evening of Two Fairy Tales.

Buckman Arts Center at St. Mary’s School.

Saturday, May 21, 2 & 5 p.m.

Diversity in the Classroom. East Shelby Branch Library. Saturday, May 7, 10 a.m. until noon. Presenters: Phyllis Taylor and Inger Upchurch with Memphis Public Library. Free. 751-7360.

Childcare Provider Workshop: Professionalism in a Work Environment. North Branch Library. Saturday, May 14, 10 a.m. until noon. Free. 276-6631.

Childcare Provider Workshop: Stewards of Children. Raleigh Branch Library.

Saturday, May 14, 10 a.m. until noon. Free. 386-5333.

Urban Fusion Dance. Church Health Center Wellness. Thursday, May 19, at 6:30 p.m. and Saturday, May 21, at noon. Ages 10+. Learn hip-hop dance from award-winning dance instructor Jaukeem Balcom. Wear shirts with sleeves and modest, loose-fitting attire. Pay what you can. Call 701-2241 to register.

Childcare Provider Workshop: 3-D Art Critical Thinking and Problem Solving.

Cornelia Crenshaw Branch Library. Saturday, May 21, 10 a.m. until noon. Free.

525-1643.

DramaDays: Masks. Sunfish Children’s Theatre. Saturday, May 21, noon-2 p.m.

Saturday theatre workshop for kids in PK-4th grade with different themes each month. Workshops include age-appropriate theatre activities,a related craft, and snack. $30. Call 826-6649 or email sunfishct@gmail.com to register.

ACT Prep Workshop. Cordova Branch Library. Saturday, May 21, noon-3 p.m.

Teens can register for an ACT Prep Workshop offered in partnership with Zeta Phi Beta Sorority. Call 415-2764 x3 to register.

HOMESCHOOL CLASSES

Homeschool Days: Tie-Dye Naturally. Memphis Botanic Garden. Wednesday, May 4, 2-3:30 p.m. Ages 5+. Hands-on learning experience for homeschoolers. $5/child. Garden admission not included. Call 636-4130 to register and pre-pay.

HEALTH & SAFETY

Child Car Seat Check. Germantown Community Library. Saturday, May 14, 9:30 a.m. until noon. Safety experts help determine if child car seats are correctly installed and demonstrate proper installation. Bring your vehicle, car seat, and the child who uses it. Free. 751-7650.

FUND-RAISERS

Get Down and Derby. The Tower Courtyard, Overton Square. Saturday, May 7, 4-9 p.m. Features a silent auction, fashion show, a live viewing of the races, food, and drink. Women should wear their most fashionable hats, and men their best suit. $75/person. Table purchases also available. Benefits Down Syndrome Association of Memphis and the Mid-South. 547-7588.

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5th Annual Golf Tournament. Quail Ridge Golf Course. Friday, May 13.

Registration begins at 11 a.m. Lunch at 11:30 a.m. Tee-off at 1 p.m. $125/person. $400/team of four. Benefits Autism Resources of the Mid-South. 509-3027.

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St. Paul Missionary Baptist Church’s Youth Education Scholarship (YES) Gala and Golf Tournament: Oh, The Places They’ll Go. The YES Gala kicks off Friday, May 13, at 7 p.m. at the Memphis Botanic Garden with an evening of dinner, dance, and prizes. The YES Golf Classic takes place Saturday, May 14, with a tee-off at 2 p.m. at the Olive Branch Country Club. Scholarships awarded to children up to age 5 who are considered at risk due to financial and/or living conditions. For tickets, go to yesweekend.org

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Zoom Through the Zoo. Memphis Zoo. Thursday, May 26, 6:30 p.m. Join for the annual 4-mile race and 1-mile Fun Run and zoom through the zoo and Overton Park. $30 for 4-miler and $25 for 1-mile fun run. Early bird discounts available.

Register online at zoomthroughthezoo.racesonline.com or call 333-6500.

Weekly field trips, hot meals, transportation provided, certified and trained instructors

THEATRE PERFORMANCES

One time registration fee of $40 for the whole summer. Cost of field trips not included in registration fee.

Educational and Social enrichment classes are offered along with Drama, Hip Hop Dance, RBI Baseball.

Hour Of Power Summer Food Program: “Food Is In, While School Is Out”.

Nutritional meals served daily.

June 13-July 29; 12 noon to 1:15 p.m.

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Call 785-1612 or 785-2575 for more info.

Spring 2016 The River Series Concert. Harbor Town Amphitheater. 7 p.m.

Greg Cartwright’s Reigning Sound, Robby Grant, and DJ Hot Tub Eric perform Saturday, May 14; Memphis Roots/American Trio Motel Mirrors and Marcella & Her Lovers perform Saturday, May 28. $5/person donation at the door. Benefits The Maria Montessori School. bit.ly/RiverSeries Memphis Symphony Orchestra – Mahler’s First. Performances on Saturday, May 14, at 7:30 p.m. at the Cannon Center and Sunday, May 15, at 2:30 p.m. at GPAC. Mei-Ann Chen conducts her final performances with the Memphis Symphony Orchestra. Memphis Symphony Chorus also joins in this farewell presentation.

For tickets, call 537-2525.

Bullets over Broadway. The Orpheum. May 16-22. Monday through Thursday at 7:30 p.m. Friday at 8 p.m. Saturday at 2 & 8 p.m. Sunday at 1 p.m. Don’t miss this hilarious musical comedy about the making of a Broadway show based on the screenplay of the film by Woody Allen and Douglas McGrath. $25-$125.

For tickets, call 525-3000.

“Night and Day!” with Chris and Friends – Music from the Great American Songbook. Lindenwood Christian Church. Sunday, May 22, 4 p.m. This benefit concert for Church Health Center features favorites by Cole Porter, Irving Berlin, Rogers & Hammerstein, orchestral selections, music for solo piano, and vocal/choral pieces. General Admission: $15. Golden Circle: $50.

For tickets, call 458-1652.

High School Musical Theatre Awards. The Orpheum. Thursday, May 26, 7 p.m.

Modeled after the Tony Awards, this seventh annual event recognizes achievements in all areas of high school musical theatre. $15-$35.

For tickets, call 525-3000.

Story Time at Area Bookstores and Museums Barnes & Noble Booksellers The Avenue Carriage Crossing Mall, 853-3264 Mondays, 11 a.m. Ages 1-6.

Barnes & Noble Booksellers 2774 N. Germantown Pkwy. 386-2468 Tuesdays and Saturdays, 11 a.m. Ages preK-6.

Mother’s Day Story Time: Mom School & How to Babysit a Grandma. Saturday, May 7, 11 a.m. Celebrate Mother’s Day listening to stories, then make a card for mom or caregiver. Free.

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National Story Time: Our Great Big Backyard. Saturday, May 28, 11 a.m.

Commemorate the 100th anniversary of the National Park Service with a special story-time reading of Our Great Big Backyard, written by former First Lady Laura Bush and her daughter, Jenna Bush Hager. Coloring and activities to follow story time. Free.

The Booksellers at Laurelwood 387 Perkins Rd. Ext. 683-9801 Story time with Miss Marjorie every Tuesday and Thursday at 11 a.m.

An Afternoon with Kate DiCamillo. Benjamin L. Hooks Central Library. Sunday, May 8, 1:30-3:30 p.m. Kate DiCamillo, best-selling author of Because of WinnDixie and many other modern classics will discuss her new book, Raymie Nightingale. Event is free and open to the public. Line tickets required to meet the author after her presentation.

Story Time at Morton Museum of Collierville History Fridays, 10:30-11 a.m. Features stories, songs, and activities related to Collierville with a new theme each week. Free. 457-2650.

Goodnight Moon with Runaway Bunny.

Bullets over Broadway.

TheMay Orpheum.

The Orpheum.

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MEMPHIS LIBRARY EVENTS

For a complete listing of library events, stop by your local branch and pick up “Infodates,” the library’s monthly calendar, or go to memphislibrary.org

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CENTRAL 3030 Poplar Ave., 415-2700 CLOUD901 Classes & Events: CLOUD901 is the library’s state-of-the-art Teen Learning Lab that includes a music studio, a video production lab, an art studio, Makerspace, gaming zone, and a performance stage. Open to teens ages 13-18 with a Memphis library card. For a class list, go to memphislibrary.org/cloud901/ • Gadget Lab for Kids. Tuesdays, 4-6 p.m. Ms. Luna teaches kids about apps and games available on Kindle Fires and iPads.

• Explore Memphis: In the Driver’s Seat. Sunday, May 8, 2-3 p.m. Teens learn key tips on how to get a Tennessee driver’s license.

• Crafternoon. On select Thursdays (May 12 & 26), 4:30-6 p.m. Kids ages 6-11 enjoy 90 minutes of stories and crafts.

• Read with Me, Sign with Me Family Story Time. Saturday, May 14, 11 a.m. until noon. Family story time and activity for deaf, hard of hearing, and hearing families in collaboration with Deaf Family Literacy Mid-South.

• International Story Time. Saturday, May 21, 11 a.m.-1 p.m. Families get to travel abroad with Ms. Phyllis. This month celebrates the culture of Turkey by listening to stories and music, and doing a craft.

• Explore Memphis: Grow Your Own. Sunday, May 22, 2-3 p.m. Teens learn tips for easy home gardening.

For schedule and transportation info, visit overtonpark.org.

BARTLETT 5884 Stage Rd. 386-8968 • Head Collage: It’s All in My Head. Tuesday, May 3, 4-5:30 p.m. Teens draw pictures of their heads and write their thoughts for a cool head collage. Call 386-8968 to register.

• Duct Tape Journals. Tuesday, May 10, 4-5:30 p.m. Teens create their own duct tape journals to record poems, songs, and ideas. Call 386-8968 to register.

• Old School Game Day. Tuesday, May 17, 4-5:30 p.m. Teens show off skills in checkers, chess, and Uno in a fun and competitive environment. Call 3868968 to register.

• R.E.A.D. to Tootsie. Saturday, May 28, 10:15 a.m. -12:15 p.m. Children ages 5-12 strengthen literacy skills while reading to trained therapy dog, Tootsie. Call 386-8968 to register.

CORDOVA 8457 Trinity Rd. 754-8443 • Do You Know Trees? Saturday, May 14, 11 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Explore the library’s new arboretum with the Cordova Garden Club and enjoy stories, crafts, and snacks.

FRAYSER 3712 Argonne 357-4115 • Decorate Your Own Plates. Tuesday, May 17, noon until 2 p.m. Celebrate spring by decorating a plate.

RANDOLPH 3752 Given 452-1068 • Teen Cooking. Tuesday, May 17, 4-5 p.m. Teens learn to make something tasty in the kitchen.

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I asked my 4-year-old daughter, Addy, if she would miss me. “No,” came her reply. “Because I can still feel your love in my heart.” ~ Thanks to Sarah

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