All In The Family Magazine August/September 2018

AUG-SEP 2018 ~ VOL 12: ISSUE 2

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A Faith-Based Magazine featuring First Union Missionary Baptist Church Tampa, Florida

First Union Missionary Baptist Church

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Rev. B.E. Garmon, Sr., M. Div-Pastor First Lady Carla R. Garmon

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Content

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EDITORIALS • Forgiveness by Connie Williams • Passing of the Baton by Jessica Williams UPCOMING EVENTS First Union Events for August & September 2018

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FEATURED ARTICLE 'Dare to Dream Big'

By Rev. B.E. Garmon, Sr.

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LOCAL NON-PROFIT Metropolitan Ministries

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CEOLA'S CORNER Community Resources

By Ceola Johnson

Shaniya Hicks

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INTERVIEW Our Leaders: Up Close & Personal Rev. B.E. Garmon, Sr., M.Div-Senior Pastor

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YOUTH CORNER Stem Tec Awards Ceremony 2018-2019 Calendar

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MEMBERSHIP NEWS Baby Dedication, New Members, Birthday Greetings, Academic News, Recognitions, Milestones

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is a member of First Union Missionary Baptist Church's Youth Department and currently serves as the Youth Vice-President.

FAMILY & FRIENDS pgs 41-44 Wayne Bryant, Reginald James Alexander, First Baptist Church of College Hill, Anton McDuffie, Taja O'Neil, Nettie Jones, New Macedonia Missionary Baptist Church MEDICAL MOMENT

Forgetfulness and Aging: What's Normal?

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From the Editor...

Forgive anyone who has caused you pain or harm.

Keep in mind that forgiving is not for others. It is for you. Forgiving is not forgetting. It is remembering without anger. It frees up your power, heals your body, mind and spirit. Forgiveness opens up a pathway to a new place of peace where you can persist despite what has happened to you. ~Les Brown GOD'S GOT ALL POWER!

Connie Williams

Editor-In-Chief

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PA S S I N G O F T H E B ATO N

Jessica Williams, Assistant Editor

There comes a time in every person’s life when e they must hand something over, give something up, pass it down to someone else, because their season has come and gone. You can compare it to a relay race, where you ‘pass the baton’ to the next member of your team, with the expectation of them keeping your team in the race for the chance of an ultimate win. This type of scenario can be seen anywhere, even in the Church. Yes, in the church. I, for one, have ‘passed the baton’ to someone else before.

When I was sixteen, the challenge of being the Youth President of my church’s Youth Department was bestowed upon me. Although being anxious and not too sure of what would be expected of me, I stepped up to the plate and took my responsibility seriously. The challenge of being the Youth Vice-President was bestowed upon Miss Alexis Wheatley. Although five years younger than myself, she worked just as hard as I did. Wherever I was, she would be there as well, learning what needed to be done to keep the ministry going.

Alexis has always been a hardworking and active member in the ministry.

When the time came for me to start my journey as a young adult, the Youth Supervisors did the annual ‘changing of youth officers’, and although she was still vice president for that year, Alexis remained the hard worker she always was. A year passed, the new changing of youth officers happened, and Alexis followed in my footsteps as Youth President. Seeing a lot of the same traits in her that I had holding that position (work ethic wise), made me proud to see her receive the position because I always felt she was deserving of it and I knew that she would excel at it. She has truly carried on the high standard for any youth that would love to hold that position.

Alexis is now a graduate of Tampa Bay Technical High School, my alma mater (GO TITANS!), and will be starting off her college journey as a Knight at the University of Central Florida!

So, I would personally like to say: Alexis, I am extremely proud of all your accomplishments thus far, whether it be Church-based, academic, or even extracurricular. You are truly a star! I can’t wait to see what God has in store for you! Remember, you are a child of the Most High and He will always be there, even when life gets tough. The world is at your fingertips! Keep God first in ALL you do! I love you very much and I am excited to see you take the world by storm and be the change you are DESTINED to be!!

But I have a quick question for you, Alexis …. who will YOU be ‘passing the baton’ to?

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Upcoming Events THE ‘U’ GOES TO NORTHSIDE Sunday; August 12, 2018; 3:30PM Northside Missionary Baptist Church MALE CHORUS PRE-ANNIVERSARY Saturday; August 18, 2018; 7:00PM First Union Missionary Baptist Church Male Chorus Contact: Deacon Bernard Reese

PASTOR'S 10TH PRE-ANNIVERSARY First Union Missionary Baptist Church • Wednesday; October 10, 2018; 7:00PM Guest: New Saint Matthew • Wednesday; October 11, 2018; 7:00PM Guest: Friendship • Wednesday; October 12, 2018; 7:00PM Family Night!

MALE CHORUS ANNIVERSARY Sunday; August 19, 2018; 10:00AM Male Chorus Contact: Deacon Bernard Reese

PASTOR'S 10TH ANNIVERSARY Sunday; October 14, 2018; 10:00AM First Union Missionary Baptist Church

CHURCH PICNIC Saturday; August 25, 2018; 10:00AM

PINK SUNDAY Sunday; October 21, 2018; 10:00AM First Union Missionary Baptist Church

FAMILY & FRIENDS DAY Sunday, August 26, 2018; 10:00AM First Union Missionary Baptist Church

BREAST CANCER WORKSHIP Saturday; October 27, 2018; 1:00PM First Union Missionary Baptist Church FIRST UNION GOES TO SHILOH Sunday; October 28, 2018; 1:00PM Shiloh Missionary Baptist Church

FOOTBALL JERSEY DAY! Sunday; September 9, 2018; 10:00AM First Union Missionary Baptist Church

FUN NITE! Sunday; October 31, 2018; 6:00PM First Union Missionary Baptist Church

FIRST UNION GOES TO MT. CARMEL Thursday, September 20, 2018; 7:00PM Mt. Carmel

SPECIAL CHORUS ANNIVERSARY Sunday, September 23, 2018; 10:00AM Special Chorus Contact: Deacon Mark Sherman DEACONESS CLOTHES CLOSET Saturday; September 29, 2018; 9:00AM First Union Missionary Baptist Church

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UPCOMING HOLIDAYS (Sun) 8/26 Women’s Equality Day (Mon) 9/3

Labor Day

(Sun) 9/9

Grandparents Day

(Tues) 9/11 Patriots Day (Sat) 9/22 Autumn Begins

Congratulations to the winners of our first giveaway, Ceola Johnson and Patrice Hopkins.

Both ladies won a complete set of AVON’s Bug Guard.

All input for our October/ November 2018 issue of All In The Family is due by Friday, August 31, 2018.

Should you have any questions, please don't hesitate to contact us by email at: info@all-inthe-family.com

ARTICLE SUBMISSIONS To submit an article to be considered for an upcoming issue, please email your article to info@all-inthe-family.com.

While an article can be written on any topic, keep in mind that it should be appropriate for a faith-based publication. The editor of the magazine will make the final decision on whether or not your article will be used in an upcoming issue.

Each submission should include a brief bio, a photo and your contact information.

We look forward to hearing from you.

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1 Chronicles 4:10

by Pastor B.E. Garmon, Sr.

The word “infinity” means ‘without bounds’, and that is one of the best words to use when attempting to describe the size of God. God is ‘Omnipotent’, which means that He has all power.

God is ‘Omniscient’, which means that He knows everything! God is ’Omnipresent’, which means that He is everywhere at all times.

With such a massive God on our side, there is ‘nothing’ that we can’t do! But did you know that there is something that God “cannot” do? That is correct, there is something that the all-powerful, all knowing, and all present God cannot do! It says so right in the Bible! In Titus And Jabez called on the God of Israel, saying, Oh that thou 1:2 it clearly says that God “cannot lie”!!! (i.e. fail) And since wouldest bless me indeed, and God ‘cannot’ lie, we can take confidence and rest assured that enlarge my coast, and that everything that God has told us in His Word, He will do!

He has told us in His Word that whatever we ask in His name and within His will; He will do it! (John 14:13-14; 1 John 5:14). But Jesus also said that we must ‘believe’ in what we are asking for, or we are just wasting our time (Mark 11:24; Hebrews 11:6). We have been reassured from The sovereign God Who has EVERYTHING within His control, and Who cannot lie, that if we ask in faith, He will answer our prayers!

What better reassurance could there be?!

thine hand might be with me, and that thou wouldest keep me from evil, that it may not grieve me! And God granted him that which he requested.  1 Chronicles 4:10 

The best motivator to pray is answered prayer! When you have experienced God answering a prayer in your life, your faith is increased, and you are the more encouraged for subsequent prayers. The more encouraged you are, the more your faith increases, the bigger your prayers become! But how much is ‘too much’ for God? Is there such a thing as asking God for too much? Is there such a thing as having too much faith in God? Is there such a thing as trusting God too much?

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1 Chronicles 4:10 we read about a man by the name of “Jabez”. We don’t know much about Jabez but are do know from his genealogy that he is from the tribe of Judah. Although we don’t know why, we are told that Jabez was more honorable than his brethren, and he is certainly a praying man! Not only did he have a strong prayer life, but he also demonstrated firm faith in God! Let’s examine some important aspects of Jabez’s prayer: (1) That God would bless him indeed — Although we often focus on the tangible, Spiritual blessings are the best blessings!

God's blessings, whether spiritual or tangible, are definitive and certain. They are reflective of the loving nature of God, and He takes pleasure in blessing His people!

(2) That God would enlarge his coast — God has a way of using what people already have and multiplying that into much more (e.g. five loaves and two fishes).

Instead of asking for something new, Jabez only asked God to increase what he already had.

(3) That God's hand might be with him — Often people are asking for worldly ‘things’ but overlook the One Who holds everything in His hands. If we have the hand of God upon us, then we have all that God has in His hands, which is everything!

blessings! He was obviously familiar with the promises that God made to the Israelites, as well as the many times that God had blessed others. Jabez, therefore, felt that his life was in such condition that He would take God at His Word; and he called upon God according to His Word. As a result of Jabez’s faithful actions, God not only heard Jabez’s prayer, but God also answered Jabez’s prayer — in other words — God gave Jabez exactly what he asked for!

One of the many wonderful things about God is the fact that He does not change (Malachi 3:6). Therefore, we can read of the nature of God anywhere in the Bible and know with confidence that He will be consistent in His responses and actions the same today as He did in biblical times.

We have numerous promises in God’s Word that He will give us that which we ask for (John 14:13-14; John 14:14; John 15:16; John 16:23-26), if we ask properly, and in faith. These Scriptures, and many more, are reassuring us today that God will do for us just like He did for Jabez thousands of years ago!

All we have to do is take God at His Word, TRUST and BELIEVE that God will do all that He said, and then we must be willing to Dare To Dream Big! I Remain In “His” Service…

(4) That God would keep him from evil — It’s difficult to ask for blessings when you are living a life of sin. When requesting blessings from God, we must first be sure that we are doing our part.

(5) God granted that which he requested.

Jabez definitely had some familiarity with God and with prayer, he wasn’t afraid to pray, and he ‘dared’ to ask God for blessings. Not just any ole’ blessings, but he asked for “Big” August/September 2018

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"If there is a reliable model to end poverty and homelessness in America, Metropolitan Ministries has built it."

Bob Durst, Homeless Advocate and Volunteer About Metropolitan Ministries Hope. It’s so hard to define, but it’s a gift you help us give every day. At Metropolitan Ministries, we serve poor and homeless families in Hillsborough, Pinellas, Pasco and Polk counties with compassion, practical help and a willingness to make a huge difference.

We’re a grassroots, donor and volunteer-fueled community nonprofit. Without our supporters, our Mission wouldn’t be accomplished. Flat out. If you’re one of them, thanks! If not, it’s time you got on board.

Your Impact In Tampa Bay You can see hope in someone’s eyes. It glows. You’ve probably seen it if you’ve had the chance to volunteer with us.

This is the hope our supporters have given so many people.

Hope is our goal, but it can’t be measured. That’s why we look at results. The results show that our donor-funded programs transform families forever. Just take a look:

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1,169,826 meals served 92% of families in our short-term emergency shelter exited successfully. A successful exit includes housing as well as placement into the Uplift U® Self-Sufficiency program 91% of Uplift U® families are still in stable housing 12 months after graduating 88% of families have maintained or increased their employment/income at the one year follow-up after exiting the program

87% of the families in our long-term Uplift U® self-sufficiency program exited successfully. A successful exit includes all forms of stable housing, including family reunification as appropriate.

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Our Motivation Everything we do is driven by our mission, values and philosophy. We believe the best results come when they’re driven by a strong internal philosophy. Here’s ours.

Our Mission We care for the homeless and those at risk of becoming homeless in our community through services that alleviate suffering, promote dignity and instill self-sufficiency... as an expression of the ongoing ministry of Jesus Christ.

Our Vision Metropolitan Ministries will be America’s most effective caregiver to poor and homeless people.

Our programs will be known for their compassion and innovation in helping struggling families and individuals achieve their highest potential for self-sufficiency.

Our approach to involving citizens in understanding and caring for their disadvantaged neighbors will serve as a replicable model.

Our caregiving will be supported by an exemplary staff, high-quality facilities, dedicated volunteers, donors and collaborative partners.

Above all, our witness will be to the power of love in healing broken lives and building strong, caring communities .

If you are in need of immediate help or need services, please click on http://www.metromin.org/i-need-help.html.

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Outreach Center 2301 North Tampa Street Tampa, FL 33602 813-209-1200

Outreach Center 3214 US Highway 19 North Holiday, FL 34691 727-937-3268

Monday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday 9 a.m.-5 p.m.

Tuesday 9 a.m.-7:30 p.m.

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If you prefer to contact us via phone, our main telephone number is 813-209-1000.

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Ceola’s Corner A One-Stop Resource Service

by Ceola Johnson

“This is my commandment: that ye love one another, as I have loved you. Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.

Ye are My friends if ye do whatsoever I command you.”

(John 15:12-14) Ceoloa Johnson

Hi Everyone…

Have you ever been at a point in your life where you just needed a little help, but didn't know where to go for assistance? You would be surprised to know how many resources are available to help you get through those hardships that life may bring your way.

Below, I have listed your neighborhood/local Community Resource Centers that can possibly assist you during these times: Lee Davis Community Resource Center

Plant City Community Resource Center SouthShore Community Resource Center University Community Resource Center West Tampa Community Resource Center

3402 N. 22nd St., Tampa, FL 33605 (813) 272-5220 307 N. Michigan Ave., Plant City, FL 33566; (813) 757-3871 201 14th Ave. SE, Ruskin, FL 33570 (813) 671-7647 13605 N 22nd St., Tampa, FL 33613 (813) 975-2153 2103 N. Rome Ave., Tampa, FL 33607 (813) 272-5074

Select option 2 to schedule an appointment.

Social Services provides Financial Assistance, Health Care Plans and Transportation.

They also provide assistance for the Homeless, Seniors & Veterans and Special Needs individuals.

Other paid services offered by Ceola * G.E.D. Resources * Resume Editing * Tax preparation

PTIN obtained through IRS.gov/search http://www.ptindirectory.com/find-tax-preparer.cfm

Editors Note: If you have any questions/issues you would like answered in 'Ceola's Corner', please send your request to info@all-inthe-family.com.

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Our Leaders: Up Close & Personal This is the first of a series we will be presenting on our Church & Ministry Leaders at First Union Missionary Baptist Church. Since this is the first interview, of course we would start at the top, with our Church Leader...

Rev. Bruce E. Garmon, Sr., M.Div-Senior Pastor

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Editor: Pastor:

How long have you been a member of First Union?

10 Years & 9 Months (at time of interview...Editor)

Editor: Pastor:

What leadership role are you currently serving in at The 'U', and how long have you been in this role?

Senior Pastor - 9 Years & 8 Months (at time of interview...Editor)

Editor: Pastor::

Who do you have to support you directly in your position as the Senior Pastor:  Zemetrious Griffin - Assistant to the Pastor - contact info: zgriffin@firstunionmbc.org  Minister William Clemons - Associate Minister & Musician contact info: ministerclemons@firstunionmbc.com  Elder Melvin Davis - Church Organist - contact info: elderdavis@firstunionmbc.com Elder Earl Mosely - Associate Minister & Musician contact info: eldermosley@firstunionmbc.com  Rev. Wendell Pope, Sr. - Minister of New Member Orientation, Education & After Care contact info: revpope@firstunionmbc.com  Minister James Thompkins - Minister of Youth contact info: ministerthompkins@firstunionmbc.com  Minister Jamaruz Thompkins - Associate Minister & Musician contact info: ministerjthompkins@firstunionmbc.com

Editor: Pastor:

What other ministries at First Union do you lead?

Women's Ministry and Bible Study.

Editor: Pastor:

What impact has your leadership had on this ministry?

Gauging success or lack thereof in "ministry" is rather abstract due to the Spiritual nature of ministry. In ministry, success cannot be measured by numbers of people, money, or any other worldly tangibles. But rather it is things like; how many lives have been changed? How many relationships have been connected? How many relationships have been renewed? How many souls have been led out of darkness and into His marvelous light? All of which no person can ever determined, for God has reserved such knowledge for Himself. My job (as Pastor) is simply to give the Word of God to the people, and in the day of Harvest He will separate the wheat from the tares, and He, alone, will determine whether He will say, Well done; or Depart from Me!

Editor: Pastor:

What do you like most about First Union?

There is so much potential for so many great things to come!

Editor: Pastor

What would you change about First Union if you could?

Broader vision and open minds for those in leadership positions.

Editor: Pastor:

Do you have a Spouse? If, so what is her name?

Mrs. Carla R. Garmon.

Editor: Pastor:

Do you have any children and/or grandchildren? If so, how many?

Three (3) children and seven (7) grandchildren.

Editor: Pastor:

Does your family attend First Union with you?

Yes.

Editor: Pastor:

What do you like to do in your spare time?

I'm not sure I understand the words "spare time"; but I can say that I most enjoy studying the Word of God. I spend as much time as I can in God's Word, and I thoroughly enjoy it. Outside of that, motorcycle riding and roller skating are my next two favorite leisure activities.

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Youth Corner

STEM TEC A WA R D S C E R E M O N Y Presented by:

Sister Cynthia Hudgins & Marquez Harris

Cousins Isaiah Callymore & Shaniya Hicks

Zariah McDaniel & Sister Hudgins

Congratulations to our First Union youth on their recent accomplishments with STEM TEC 2018.

The Awards Ceremony was held on Friday, June 29, 2018, at the HCC Dale Mabry Campus, with Marquez Harris acting as the MC for the event. "All of our FUMBC kids did an awesome job", said Sister Cynthia Hudgins. "Zariah spoke well with her group on their project, and Shaniya did the PowerPoint for her group (which actually won). My nephew, Isaiah*, spoke well for his group. I felt so proud of our kids. God is truly working in their lives."

*Isaiah is the grandson of Deacon Michael & Dorothy Hudgins.

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Please note: * All students district-wide will have off for both the Florida State Fair and the Strawberry Festival, which is a change from prior years. ** Hurricane Day(s) if needed - November 12, 19, 20, & 21 Student Early Release Dates Each Monday - One Hour Early Release Last Day of School - 2.5 Hours Early

Student Calendar Students’ First Day of School

Aug 10, 2018

Labor Day Holiday/Non-Student Day

Sep 3, 2018

End of 1st Grading Period

Oct 12, 2018

Veteran’s Day Observance/Non-Student Day

Nov 12, 2018

Fall Break/Non-Student Days

Nov 19, 2018 - Nov 23, 2018

Students Return to School

Nov 26, 2018

End of 2nd Grading Period (End of 1st Semester)

Dec 21, 2018

Winter Break/ Non-Student Days

Dec 24, 2018 - Jan 4, 2019

Non-Student Day

Jan 7, 2019

Students Return to School

Jan 8, 2019

Martin Luther King, Jr. Holiday/Non-Student Day

Jan 21, 2019

*Florida State Fair Day/Non-Student Day (All)

Feb 8, 2019

Presidents' Day/Non-Student Day

Feb 18, 2019

*Strawberry Festival/Non-Student Day (All)

Mar 4, 2019

End of 3rd Grading Period

Mar 15, 2019

Spring Break/Non-Student Days

Mar 18, 2019 - Mar 22, 2019

Non-Student Day

Mar 25, 2019

Students Return to School

Mar 26, 2019

Non-Student Day

Apr 8, 2019

Non-Student Day

Apr 19, 2019

Memorial Day/Non-Student Day

May 27, 2019

Last Day of School/End of 4th Grading Period (End of 2nd Semester)

May 31, 2019

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Rev. B.E. Garmon, Sr., along with the members of

First Union MB Church, invite you to attend our annual

Woodall Family

SUNDAY  AUGUST 26, 2018  10:00 AM 3707 E. Chelsea Street  Tampa, FL  813.238.1205  info@firstunionmbc.com

and

Baldwin Family

Garmon Family

DAY

Hudgins Family

Membership News • NEW MEMBER

Brother Alonzo Smith First Union would like to welcome the newest member of the 'First Family', ALONZO SMITH, who became a member of the 'First Family', on Sunday, ,June 3, 2018. Brother Smith came to First Union under Christian Experience.

• RIGHT HAND OF FELLOWSHIP  Brother Alonzo Smith  Brother Muhammad Mosley  Brother Dwight Baker, Sr.

The following members received the Right Hand of Fellowship on Sunday, June 3, 2018:  Alonzo Smith, who joined First Union on June 3, 2018;  Muhammad Mosley, who joined First Union on May 20, 2018; and  Dwight Baker, Sr., who joined First Union on May 13, 2018.

• BABY DEDICATION

Miss Kenzie Marie Williams

On Sunday, June 3, 2018, as witnessed by the congregation of First Union Missionary Baptist Church, while in the presence of her parents, Khadijiah Boone & Torry Williams, and god-parents, Minister James & Cookie Thompkins,

Kenzie Marie Williams was dedicated to the Lord by First Union's shepherd, Rev. B.E. Garmon, Sr.-Pastor.

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"Be sure to see me for presale tickets only $20. I play the Appleseller in the NYC scene and the singer with the Boylan sisters.

August/September 2018Hope to see you there."

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Membership News

To My Darling Wife

Mrs. Carla R. Garmon You Really Make Those Double-Nickels Look Good!

With All My Love…

Wishing a very

Happy Birthday to the sweetest 'Cookie' in the jar!

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Congratulations are extended to Jessie Stephens, who made the High Honor Roll for the last grading period of the 2017-2018 school year and has been promoted to the 8th Grade! Jessie is the son of Chandra Lynch.

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Congratulations are extended to Marquez Harris, who made the High Honor Roll for the last grading period of the 2017-2018 school year and will be a JUNIOR in the upcoming school year. Marquez is the son of Shalanda Johnson and grandson of Annie Johnson.

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"My baby got promoted to 3rd grade.

Keep up the good work, Joshua.

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Calvin Marshall graduated from Eckerd College during commencement ceremonies ion May 20th at Tropicana Field. Calvin received his Bachelors of the Arts Degree with a concentration in Business Management.

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"Banquet and 5th grade graduation.

Middle School here he comes!"

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Proud Papa! Congratulations,Will!

Chris Mathis on his son, William Garrett

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Graduate Alexis Wheatley with mother, Miranda Wheatley, and grandmother, Margaret Butler.

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Graduate Aaron Clemons with his mother, Latoya Clemons (main picture), and with his father, Minister William Clemons holding his granddaughter (inset picture) August/September 2018

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Congratulations to our very own, Doris V. Scott, who was honored at this annual event.

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Congratulations to First Union's 'Entertainer', Pavonne' Scott. Pavonne' is now the new Voice Teacher/Vocal Coach at the Burgess School of the Arts.

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Congratulations to Dr. April Jones, Founder/CEO of Shadez of Hue, Inc., on another successful annual Shadez of Hue Tea.

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S U N DAY 9/9/18 10:00AM

First Union Missionary Baptist Church

3707 E. Chelsea Street, Tampa FL 33610 | 813-238-1205 (tel) info@firstunionmbc.com (email) | www.firstunionmbc.com (website)

Family & Friends

Graduate Wayne Bryant is congratulated by First Union members, brother & sister Marquez and Shaniah Harris. Wayne is also the grandson of our late Deacon Wayne Brookins and his wife, former First Union member, Kathy Brookins.

The Hudgins & Williams Families are mourning the loss of their family member, Mr. Reginald James Alexander, Sr. Mr. Alexander's service was held on Saturday, June 2, 2018 at the First Baptist Church of West Tampa.

We love our graduates! Today (June 10, 2018) was Baccalaureate Sunday and we celebrated all of our graduates from high school and college. Dr. Vashaun Williams encouraged our graduates as they take on the next phase of their journey. Photo was taken at Jackson's Bistro during the Baccalaureate luncheon.

First Baptist Church of College Hill Dr. S. Evan Burrows, Senior Pastor

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Congratulations are extended to Anton McDuffie, who was promoted to the rank of Major in the US Army. Major McDuffie, a graduate of West Point Academy, is the son of Minister James and Cookie Thompkins.

Thomas & Shana O'Neal pose with their graduate, daughter Taja. Taja was an A-B Honor Roll all year, Perfect & Math, as well as 4's on all 3 of her EOG tests, and will be heading into the 6th grade!!!

Congratulations, Taja, on a job well done, and to Thomas and Shana Your future looks bright.

Keep reaching for the stars!

"Thank you to all of our family and friends for all of your love & support. It takes a village & our village is off to a great start! " Shana O'Neal

The O'Neals are family members of the Editor and Assistant Editor.

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Sympathies are extended to the family of the late Mrs. Nettie Jones. Mrs. Jones, the mother of First Union former member, Captain Sam Jones (TPD retired), went home to be with the Lord on Saturday ,June 23, 2018. Her viewing was held on Friday, June 29, 2018, at Ray Williams Funeral Home and her Homegoing Service was held at First Baptist Church of Progress Village on Saturday, June 30, 2018. Mrs. Jones is the grandmother of April Jones and her sister, former First Union member Summer Jones-Williams, and great-grandmother to Arnold, Asante & Earnest.

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AM I MY BROTHER'S KEEPER? On the morning of June 16, 2018, fire spread through the New Macedonia M.B. Church, where Rev. Paul Buster is the Pastor. Although no lives were lost, the building is in utter disrepair.

But has that deterred Pastor Buster and his faithful congregation? Not at all! They held Church outside until a brother in the ministry offered them a temporary shelter to hold their services. Yes, he believed God when He told him that he is his brothers keeper!

Just as the helping hand that reached out to Pastor Buster knew that God expects us to look out for each other, especially those in need, we should be looking for ways to be our brothers keeper, also.

A 'GO FUND ME' page has been setup for donations to restore New Macedonia. No donation is too small!!! If for whatever reason you choose not use the GO FUND ME app, please contact Rev. Buster directly. There is a link on this page for those who would like to donate using the GO FUND ME app.

Please remember, but for the Grace of God, that could have been our House of Worship. And I truly believe that God expects us to reach out to our brothers and sisters in need, and ask with a sincere heart, 'is there anything that I can do to help?'

So...

Are you your brother's keeper?

YES... YOU ARE!

https://www.gofundme.com/5ovrvh4

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Featuring the First Union MBC Family

Forgetfulness and Aging: What's Normal?

Keep Calm and ... How’s That Go Again?

Odds are, you won’t be as flexible at age 60 as you were at 20. Or as fast. Or strong. Time affects your body, and your brain comes right along for the ride. Connections between brain cells that make and pull up memories change as we age. And the proteins and hormones that do upkeep in our brains don’t work as well. As we get older, it’s good to know the difference between typical forgetfulness and something you probably should mention to your doctor.

It’s Not All in the Details.

Typical: You forget to meet up with a friend but remember later on. You recall that wedding last year, but you’re a little hazy on who was there. You had that great phone call with Henry last week, but what does he do for work again?

Warning: You miss appointments left and right. You ask friends and family for details over and over again. You forget about events you went to recently or conversations you just had.

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Beware the Numbers Typical: You make a mistake balancing your checkbook once in a while. You forget to pay a bill here and there. Or you just added 3 tablespoons of sugar instead of teaspoons.

Warning: It’s harder to focus, make a plan, and solve problems.

Numbers feel like a foreign language, making it tough to follow a recipe or make sense of your household budget.

When It’s Not Just Fun and Games Typical: You need help setting the clock on the microwave or recording your favorite show. You blank for a minute on whether a straight beats a flush in poker or if it’s the other way around.

Warning: You can’t work your stove. You forget the rules of bridge or basketball or tennis, games you’ve played or watched for decades.

Where Did I Put That?

Typical: You check your pockets, the kitchen table, your car. You go back over all your steps before, “Ah! My keys.”

Warning: You put things in odd places, like your phone ends up in the freezer. You can’t remember what steps to retrace, or you blame someone for stealing things.

What’s Today Again?

Typical: Once in a while you have to stop and think about what day it is, but it comes to you, even if takes a bit.

Warning: The whole idea of time is confusing. You get what’s happening now, but trying to think about something that happened last week or is coming up tomorrow leaves you feeling lost.

How Did I Get Here?

Typical: You stroll into the kitchen and can’t for the life of you remember why. You forget the occasional street name when giving directions. It might take a beat or two, but you remember how to get to familiar places.

Warning: You can’t find your way home or get lost or feel confused in places you know well.

Hand Me the Whatchamacallit Typical: You forget the name of something. It’s on the tip of your tongue, but you can’t quite reel it in.

Warning: You call things by the wrong name, sometimes really odd ones. ”Spoon” might come out “bed.” You stop in the middle of a sentence and have no idea what you were saying.

You have a hard time following conversations.

I Just Want a Little ‘Me’ Time Typical: The mix of work, family, and social demands leaves you wiped out and craving down time, even from things you like.

Warning: You can’t keep up with sports teams you normally follow. You try to get out of spending time with people to hide the problems you’re having.

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Good Ol’ What’s His Name Typical : You swear you almost have it, it’s right there, but … gahh! You just spaced on your friend’s name. Or you just called your grandson by your son’s name instead.

Warning: You actually can’t remember your son’s name.

Lapses in Self-Care Typical: You rush out of the house without brushing your teeth. Or, worse, zipping your fly.

Warning: It’s not just that you don’t remember to do things, you don’t recall how. You’re halfway through getting dressed and find yourself confused.

If It’s Not Typical, Then What?

Lots of things can cause memory problems. People often worry about Alzheimer’s or other types of dementia.

That’s one possibility, but other things can be behind it, and some of those can be reversed. For example, It could be a lack of B12, a vitamin that’s key for your brain. Or depression, a thyroid problem, or even not drinking enough fluids.

Seriously, It’s Not an Issue Typical: You’re concerned about your memory, but your family’s not. You remember when you forget things and what that moment feels like.

Warning: Your family’s worried about you, but you don’t know what they’re talking about. You’re not aware that it’s happening.

When to See Your Doctor If any of those warning signs sounded familiar or it’s affecting your daily life -- your work, hobbies, and relationships -- go to your doctor. It’s also a good idea to see him if someone close to you wants you to get checked out.

Normal memory problems can make you pause a moment, but they don’t keep you from going about your life.

How to Prevent Memory Loss Do all the usual things that are good for you: Be social, get exercise, eat well, sleep enough, and don’t smoke.

Think of your brain like a muscle -- use it or lose it. Play games like crosswords and Sudoku. Read books or magazines that challenge you. Learn a foreign language or a new instrument. Do projects that take planning, like quilting or a garden.

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Rev. Bruce E. Garmon, Sr.

Sunday, October 14, 2018 @ 10:00am Pre-Anniversary Services Wednesday, October 10 @ 7:00PM

Thursday, October 11 @ 7:00PM

Friday, October 12 @ 7:00PM

New St. Matthew Missionary Baptist Church

Friendship Missionary Baptist Church

Family Night!

Rev. F. Alec Hall, Pastor

Rev. Frank Watson, Pastor

All Ministries of First Union MB Church

First Union Missionary Baptist Church 3707 E. Chelsea Street, Tampa FL 33610 | 813-238-1205 (tel) info@firstunionmbc.com (email) | www.firstunionmbc.com (website)

OFFICERS Rev. B.E. Garmon, Sr., Pastor b.e.garmon@firstunionmbc.com

Minister James Thompkins ministerthompkins@firstunionmbc.com DEACON BOARD

Anthony Brown, Chairman deaconbrown@firstunionmbc.com

Deacon Robert L. Barnum, Jr. deaconbarnum@firstunionmbc.com

Bernard Reese, Vice-Chairman deaconreese@firstunionmbc.com

Deacon Anthony Brown deaconbrown@firstunionmbc.com

Donnell Haynes, Trustee Chair Donnell.haynes@firstunionmbc.com

Deacon Joseph Echols deaconechols@firstunionmbc.com

Debra Smalls, Church Clerk debra.smalls@firstunionmbc.com

Deacon Michael A. Hudgins, Sr. deaconhudgins@firstunionmbc.com

CHURCH

Deacon Tom Marshall

Zemetrious Griffin, Pastor's Asst. zemetrious.griffin@firstunionmbc.com

Deacon Bernard Reese deaconreese@firstunionmbc.com

Deandra Riley, Asst. Clerk deandra.riley@firstunionmbc.com

Deacon Wendell Pope, Jr. deaconpope@firstunionmbc.com

Debra Smalls, Church Clerk debra.smalls@firstunionmbc.com

Deacon Robert Scott, Jr. deaconscottjr@firstunionmbc.com

Connie Williams, Webmaster connie.williams@firstunionmbc.com

Deacon Mark Sherman, Sr. deaconsherman@firstunionmbc.com

MINISTERS

Deacon Theodis Whitehead deaconwhitehead@firstunionmbc.com

Minister William Clemons ministerclemons@firstunionmbc.com Elder Melvin Davis elderdavis@firstunionmbc.com Elder Earl Mosley eldermosley@firstunionmbc.com Rev. Wendell Pope, Sr. revpope@firstunionmbc.com Minister Jamaruz Thompkins ministerjthompkins@firstunionmbc.com

MINISTRIES & CONTACTS ARTS • Drama Contact: Yvonne Clarke • Faith In Motion Contact: April Jones CHRISTIAN EDUCATION • New Members Contact: Rev. Wendell Pope, Sr. • Sunday School Contact: Deacon Mark Sherman FIRST TOUCH • Greeters Contact: Margaret Butler • Ushers Contact: Michael Riley MUSIC • Male Chorus Contact: Deacon Bernard Reese • No. 1 Choir Contact: Deacon Tom Marshall • Special Chorus Contact: Deacon Mark Sherman SERVICE • Culinary Contact: Dorothy Hudgins • Medical Contact: Janae Thompkins • Sound Contact: Richard Hudgins OUTREACH • Mission Contact: Cookie Thompkins • Women's Contact: Rev. B.E. Garmon, Sr. YOUTH DEPARTMENT Contact: Kim Williams

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