Volume 6 Issue 6 Feb 2024

VOLUME 6 ISSUE 6

Life was never meant to be journeyed alone. We need others to come along side of us through the ups and downs of life. We are here to support you through your journey.

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2024 WORDS OF THE YEAR: COLLABORATION

CONNECTION

DESIGN

ACTION CLICK HERE TO LEARN WHY THESE ARE THE WORDS OF THE YEAR!

SHIFT

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Dear Community, An IDEA starts with ONE person, BUT “It Takes a Community,” to make that IDEA come to life, grow, and make an impact!

In this issue we highlight people, events, and organizations that have launched into creating community impact. Along with featuring events, resources and we discuss some of the challenges that the whole community is facing as we navigate 2024, along with celebrating some remarkable companies and organizations.

Collaboration and community are essential to everyones success.

This year, more then ever we need to work together instead of against eachother.

The question I would like all of us to think about as we navigate this year is: How can we make an IMPACT in the community, so EVRYONE is seen, heard, and valued, while being able to access ALL the resources & support they NEED to be successful?

Krista Malden Let’s build a strong, diverse, accessible community together! #ItTakesaCommunity

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HOW:

TOGETHER WE CAN & WILL

DESIGN the

SHIFT

By bringing together individuals, organizations, businesses, and not-forprofit or non-profit agencies, we will connect those who have the skills, tools and resources with those who have a need for their support but are unsure where to turn for help.

The Design the Shift initiative will provide a comprehensive list of resources that can be easily navigated; further it’s a space for organizations, businesses and not-for-profit or non-profit agencies to meet and learn together. It Takes a Community!

HOPE:

WHY: Design the Shift was born from the recognition that there is a need in our community to create a collaborative hub to support our constituents/stakeholders as they search for resources to support their specific needs and community.

Design the Shift will spark hope and will encourage connection, bringing community together in service to others. Collaboration is an essential part of building a stronger more diverse community.

ENGAGE. TOGETHER.

INSPIRE.

EDUCATE.

Design the Shift was created in recognition of the following: Individuals in our community are struggling with a myriad of problems: People don’t know where to look for help.

People don’t know what kind of help they might need.

People struggle to navigate what can be a complex system.

People may be reluctant or unable to seek support because cost is a barrier.

Design the Shift was also created to provide a solution to these problems through collaboration and connection: Assist individuals, organizations, businesses, and agencies to connect with individuals in search of their services. Many organizations are small and do not have the staff or the resources needed to market their services. Accordingly, individuals may therefore be unable to find the resources they need – even though they exist.

Members of the Design the Shift collaborative hub, will benefit through: Being a part of the community that seeks to be of service to those in need.

Marketing and advertising support through Community Now! Magazine and more!

Community based events and storytelling opportunities.

Networking opportunities, bringing like-minded individuals together to connect, collaborate and learn from each other.

It would allow organizations to: -

Get their name out there – showcasing and sharing their offerings with the broader community.

An avenue to connect individuals to resources.

An opportunity for corporate to engage their staff to give back to others in a manner that differs from traditional undertakings.

It will also allow Organizations to: -

Meet people in all industries.

Learn through various workshops.

Collaborate on events, fundraising, and other opportunities.

Build a hub to create more opportunities for each other and the community at large.

Our objective is to launch a Pilot Project with the creation of a collaborative hub to address the problems our community has identified! To Get Involved email kmalden@communitynowmagazine.com

“ALONE WE CAN DO SO LITTLE; TOGETHER WE CAN DO SO MUCH.” - Helen Keller

The Women of Influence Nanaimo – WIN Network is about embracing a collective community mindset. We all know the importance of a network and joining together, but often we feel very alone and left to survive in our silent struggle. This doesn’t have to be our normal. The WIN Network is committed to changing the loneliness narrative and creating a safe harbour for people to connect and thrive. This Network will drive various initiatives to help progress our mental, emotional, physical, and professional lives.

Women of Influence Nanaimo is about creating safe spaces to share our stories, amplify of voices, inspire action, influence our sphere, and celebrate one another.

emotional intelligence and help overcome the challenges they face.

This Network is an inclusive platform geared to support and celebrate the power of being influential. Women, non-binary, 2-spirit, and gender-diverse people all over Nanaimo are influencing the world in positive and revolutionary ways. They are mothers, parents, leaders, entrepreneurs, business owners, creators, STEM pioneers, activists, artists, tradespeople, philanthropists, and so much more. Our goal is to normalize the perception of women in these roles by championing what they do, who they are, and their character rather than the gender they identify with. Inclusion lies in the contrast between a sense of belonging and the pressure for people to “fit in” to groups, communities, or cultures. The WIN Network supports people from all walks of life to thrive through healthy relationships that build

Community over Competition

them

We are about applauding being perfectly imperfect. Rather than presenting a fake mask of a final point of success, we share the journey, the flops, the wins, and the lessons learned along the way. We ardently work to highlight the stories of a broad spectrum of people, and we recognize that we can’t progress individually unless we move forward collectively. We are a platform of allies and not about lip service. We all are fashioned to assemble in the beautiful mosaic puzzle of life.

CONGRATULATIONS TO ALL THE NOMINEES OF 2024 BREATH FIRE AWARD NOMINEES: SPONSORED BY HUB INTERNATIONAL Lauren Semple Desirée Pahl Tia Sutton Cory Cochrane Erin Sowerby Greene Celeste Walmsley Sharon Lynn Hagen Andrea McCaw Angela Waldick Betska K-Burr Jen Wynia STEM AWARD NOMINEES: SPONSORED BY SEAMOR MARINE Louise Wilkinson Dr. Marie Hopwood Dr. Christine Layton Dr. Deborah Saucier TRADES AWARD NOMINEES: SPONSORED BY VIU K'reen Kerr Elizabeth Maybury Shauna Root Lansey Wiik Meryl Heinz Jessica Pitre Kate Walch FAN THE FLAME AWARD NOMINEES: SPONSORED BY CASINO NANAIMO

April Hilland Jemana Elsharkawi Cheryl Lien

TRADES AWARD NOMINEES: SPONSORED BY VIU K'reen Kerr Elizabeth Maybury Shauna Root Lansey Wiik Meryl Heinz Jessica Pitre Kate Walch MATRIARCH AWARD NOMINESS SPONSORED BY VI DRIVES Judy Stephan Wendy Urquhart Tanya Hiltz Merrilee Tognela Teresa Ostman Sandy Parise Nancy Tsangaris Cindy Shantz Susan Jarvis ARTS & CULTURE AWARD NOMINEES: SPONSORED BY PATTISON MEDIA Sukhi Sangha Kathleen Darby Bailey Macabre Amy Pye Lidice Megla Ophélie Kacoutié Serra Stewart Kim Plumley Robyn Foster Dianne Bohn

CONGRATULATIONS TO ALL THE NOMINEES OF 2024 COMMUNITY AND SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY AWARD NOMINEES: SPONSORED BY COMMUNITY NOW! MAGAZINE Marie Ranalli Leana Pellegrin Ashley Macfarlane Kerri Isham Jovonne Johnson Samantha Gurvin Jennifer Kemp Cathy Holmes Kathi Baart Karolien Soylu Eva Manly Kix Citton Crystal Dennison Kathy Berg Aman Hair Amie Armet Andrea Thomas Heather Baitz Kaitlyn Brown HEALTH & WELLNESS AWARD NOMINEES: SPONSORED BY 3 CEDARS WELLNESS Karleena Wiebe Katie Littlejohn Alexzandra Hale Kristen Ahumada-Azcarraga Stephanie Kennedy Michelle Hohn Esther Charlie Caroline Turnbull Sarah Bingham Rachel Robertson

BUSINESS IMPACT AWARD NOMINEES: SPONSORED BY

The Nanaimo Chamber Amanda Scott Nicole Jensen Adena Broadhead Melissa Burke Sonia Malek Komen Tanacia Campbell Nadiya Albishchenko Jessica Marley Linnia Etmannski Shawna McPhillips Angeline Bristol Marysia Nowak Trish Turnbull CREATIVE INVENTOR AWARD NOMINEES: SPONSORED BY INLAND TRUCK AND EQUIPMENT Kerilie McDowall Sarah Bramley Marisa Turner Keely Freeman Lucy Stainsby YOUTH RESILIENSCY AWARD NOMINEES: SPONSORED BY HAYLEY POIRIER: RE/MAX NANAIMO Emily Hoppe Talela Manson Michelle Palmer Emma Salisbury Kaitlin Goodman Miranda Lam

"Gratitude fills my heart as I reflect on the remarkable success of the first annual Women of Influence Nanaimo Awards. To the incredible community of the mid-island, thank you for your unwavering support. With 620 passionate individuals joining forces, we ignited a fire of celebration, championing the profound impact of our community's women. In that room, the energy was electric, and I am in awe of the extraordinary individuals and their tireless work.

As we bask in the glow of this achievement, let us not forget that our influence extends far beyond accolades. Every nominee and winner embodies the spirit of empowerment and change. Together, we amplify our voices and magnify our impact. Let us carry this momentum forward, continuing to uplift and inspire one another in the days, weeks, and months ahead.

Congratulations to all nominees and winners. Remember, true influence transcends awards; it lies in our collective power to effect change. When we unite, when we empower, when we support, we all WIN." Blaise Hunter WIN Awards Chair Women of Influence Nanaimo (WIN) Network www.woinanaimo.ca/winawards woinanaimo@gmail.com

Photo credit Barbara Anne Photography

A night to remember! On Feb 7, 2024, the community of Nanaimo came together to celebrate the accomplishments of remarkable women, non-binary, 2-spirit, and gender-diverse people all over Nanaimo. The room was filled with 620 people!

Community Now! Magazine was there to present the award for Community & Social Responsibility. “I can honestly say after being in a room full of people, who were there to celebrate each other and raise awareness and money for a remarkable cause (Footprints)… the city of Nanaimo has a strong, supportive, diverse community, and I was grateful to be apart of such an inspiring event.”

- Krista Malden, founder of Community Now! Magazine.

Blaise founded the non-profit organization, Footprints in 2018 after experiencing three miscarriages of her own. She felt the lack of empathy in the system and the barbaric practices that take place. Determined to heal her heart and ensure no other parent goes what she went through, Blaise became the change. She also wanted to create a safe haven for dads too. Men grieve too!

Unfortunately, even in the 21st century, there aren't many resources for grieving dads. Blaise created regular support group meetings which transitioned to online during the pandemic and continues today with her Facebook Group.

Blaise partnered with her local community and the medical staff to create hand-made support bags to be given out on the frontlines and mailed all over the world free of charge. These bags include mental health resource tools, a certificate of life, a Footprints bracelet, a copy of Blaise's book Heroine, and helpful information for men and women to assist them in this process.

Bags are available in Nanaimo and at the Bonnyville Medical Clinic and the Cold Lake Primary Care Network. If you live outside these areas, Blaise will mail a support bag to you free of charge.

If you or someone you know is going through infertility or experiencing a loss of a pregnancy or a baby, please contact the Footprints team at blaisethetrail@gmail.com and a support bag will be mailed out to you. If you are needing further support, someone from Footprints will assist you in your journey.

Blaise also offers a 4-week video series to help with the emotional aspect of healing. When you feel lost in your grief, you can always go to the MAPP to find your way back to peace.

Photo credit Barbara Anne Photography. Kix Citton Award winner & Krista Malden Award sponsor and presenter

CONGRATULATIONS TO THE WINNERS OF THE 2024 WIN AWARDS COMMUNITY & SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY AWARD NOMINEES: SPONSORED BY COMMUNITY NOW! MAGAZINE

Kix Citton. With a rich and varied career spanning over 25 years in the Impact (non-profit) sector, Kix Citton is celebrated for her dedication to innovation, collaboration, and inclusive leadership. With a background in public health, Kix applies her expertise in management, evaluation, and community development in her current capacity as the Executive Director of Nanaimo Brain Injury Society.

As a co-founder of a non-profit service co-operative and volunteer serving on the Board of Directors of the BC Brain Injury Association, Kix plays a pivotal role in promoting healthier and safer communities for all.

Kix Citton. Photo credit Barbara Anne Photography

TRADES AWARD WINNER: SPONSORED BY VIU

K’reen Kerr has been living in Nanaimo with her children since 2011 and appreciates our fabulous natural surroundings. She owns and operates a garden design, install, and maintenance business called Savannah Landscapes.

K’reen loves sharing her horticultural and hardscaping knowledge with her Lovely Clients and followers on her social media pages. She loves the work she does and is passionate about helping people to enjoy their outdoor spaces, whether they be townhouse postage-stamp-size plots or vast acreages.

K’reen Kerr Photo credit Barbara Anne Photography

BREATH FIRE AWARD WINNER: PRESENTED BY HUB INTERNATIONAL

Lauren Semple Desirée Pahl, the Artistic Director of Acclaim Celtic Dancers, is a fervent advocate for multiculturalism through dance in Nanaimo. She believes in the simultaneous preservation and reinvention of culture, emphasizing the importance of conserving history while developing new expressions for current times. Recently diagnosed with Rheumatoid Arthritis, a progressive disease, Desirée has successfully reinvented herself, inspiring others with physical disabilities. Her approach, rooted in collaboration, reflects the belief that anything is possible.

Desirée Pahl Photo credit Barbara Anne Photography

HEALTH & WELLNESS AWARD WINNER: SPONSORED BY 3 CEDARS WELLNESS

Esther Charlie- ChwEEnak traditional name is a strong indigenous woman that comes from the Nlaka’pamux Nation in Lytton BC. Esther is a 60’s scoop survivor and her personal healing journey has influenced her passion; commitment and her intention to support the wellness of others. She has been blessed to work with and support several Coast Salish Elders and families. Many have generously shared their teachings and cultural ways, which has guided her personal and professional practices.

Esther Charlie Photo credit Barbara Anne Photography

CREATIVE INVENTOR AWARD WINNER: SPONSORED BY INLAND TRUCK AND EQUIPMENT

Kerilie McDowall has been an active Shaw Spotlight television volunteer, learning from 2015 to 2022 with Todd Jones, Jocelyn Matwe, Stas Bobkov, John Mackenzie, Kelly Adam, and Annette Lucas. Thanks to her work with the innovative Shaw Spotlight team and volunteer cameraman, Doug Tombe, Kerilie became a 12x award-winning jazz short documentary TV Director of In the Zone: Rick Kilburn. Kerilie reached 13 million+ hits on the movie site IMDB Pro in November 2023.

Kerilie McDowall Photo credit Barbara Anne Photography

ARTS & CULTURE AWARD WINNERS: SPONSORED BY PATTISON MEDIA Bailey Macabre is a queer, disabled, neurodivergent, and agender Cree/metis/ukrainian interdisciplinary artist, as well as the Indigenous Engagement Coordinator at Nanaimo Art Gallery. They are passionate about Indigenous solidarity, accessibility, and finding new ways to connect both the urban Indigenous population and members of the host nations across the mid-Island region. bailey’s practice includes beadwork, textiles, cyanotype, embroidery, painting, poetry, writing, and illustration, and their artwork speaks to Indigenous futurisms, queerness, community, and healing.

Bailey Macabre

FAN THE FLAME AWARD WINNER: SPONSORED BY CASINO NANAIMO

April Hilland: A Teacher-Librarian,

April Hilland Photo credit Barbara Anne Photography

Best-Selling Children's Author, and Senior Editor for the Van Isle Poetry Collective. With over 15 years of experience in school libraries, April's passion for diverse stories shines through her tireless advocacy in children's literature. Beyond her school library, she captivates young minds with thoughtful and entertaining picture books while championing inclusivity. As a senior editor, she amplifies poets voices, shaping the literary landscape on Vancouver Island. When not immersed in education or literature, April finds joy in jazz and lyrical dance.

BUSINESS IMPACT AWARD WINNERS: SPONSORED BY THE NANAIMO CHAMBER

Nadiya Albishchenko is a distinguished Global leader in international trade, a Model, an Author, and an entrepreneur with a passion for Sustainability. Holding dual master’s degree in business management and Genetics, Nadiya seamlessly blends her scientific expertise with business acumen.

Nadiya Albishchenko

In 2015, she founded INAS EXIM LLC, a pioneering venture offering tailored food solutions. In June 2023, she co-authored the book "Synergy: A Synopsis of an Elite Business Partnership" with her business partner, Vinay Gandhi. Nadiya's vision transcends boundaries, advocating for sustainability, empowering women, and fostering a harmonious relationship between humanity and nature. Her positive and enduring impact resonates globally.

MATRIARCH AWARD WINNER: SPONSORED BY VI DRIVES

Judy Stephan was born in South Africa and lived there until immigrating to Canada in 2009. She has a Bachelor of Arts, majoring in English and Psychology and holds a higher diploma in Education. In South Africa, Judy was a High School English teacher for 23 years, the head of the English Department of 2 exclusive private colleges and a recognized expert in the teaching of film and assisting second language students.

Judy also produced the school newspapers and yearbooks. Since Judy’s arrival in Nanaimo and purchase of Nanaimo & Voyager Magazine, she has joined many community and networking organizations. Judy is involved in many different aspects of the community and continues to make a difference everywhere she goes.

Judy Stephan Photo credit Barbara Anne Photography

STEM AWARD WINNER: SPONSORED BY SEAMOR MARINE Dr. Deborah Saucier was appointed President and Vice-Chancellor of Vancouver Island University in July 2019. Dr. Saucier holds a PhD in psychology from the University of Western Ontario and a BSc and MSc in psychology from the University of Victoria. She received her International Baccalaureate diploma from the Lester B. Pearson College of the Pacific in Metchosin, near Victoria.

Prior to joining VIU, Dr. Saucier was President of MacEwan University in Edmonton and Provost and Academic Vice-President of the University of Ontario Institute of Technology. Dr. Saucier is a distinguished researcher in both psychology and neuroscience. She was the Canadian Research Chair in Behavioural Neuroscience at the University of Lethbridge and Dean of Science at the University of Ontario Institute of Technology and has garnered numerous grants to support her research, including awards from Natural Science and Engineering Research Council (NSERC) and the Canadian Foundation for Innovation.

Dr. Deborah Saucier

YOUTH RESILIENSCY AWARD WINNER: SPONSORED BY HAYLEY POIRIER: RE/MAX NANAIMO

Talela Manson

Talela Manson, a proud Snuneymuxw member and passionate soccer enthusiast, leaves an indelible mark as a peer mentor for Indigenous youth.

Her impact resonates through genuine care and empathy, extending beyond academic guidance to preserve cultural identity and nurture a profound sense of belonging.

Her transformative journey from a camp participant to a camp counselor at VIU’s Thuy’she’num Tu Smun’eem exemplifies her commitment to mentorship and inclusivity.

Photo credit Barbara Anne Photography

Special thanks to the Nanaimo Clippers hockey team for escorting 620 guests to their seats and for donating to the Footprints cause. THANK YOU to the community and all of our sponsors, nominees, contributors and supporters. When we influence as a collective, we WIN. Thank you to our title sponsor Coastal Community.

Photo credit Barbara Anne Photography

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Innovate Cochrane was launched in May of 2022, and aims to support entrepreneurs and innovators in the community through meaningful educational programming, fostering connections and sharing the stories of those on their entrepreneurial journeys.

Innovate Cochrane has been busy, creating opportunities to bring innovation to the forefront and enhance companies’ voices, education and connecting like mind people. They do this through: 1.)

Hosting a monthly Community Innovators series over the past year where they interview various community business leaders from the private and non-profit sectors who share their entrepreneurial journey and thoughts around innovation.

A few companies that have been featured so far are: Helping Hands. Hunterwood, Two Pharmacy, Route 22, Osprey Integrity, Trailblazers.

2.)

IC has launched a Community Innovation pilot with 10 local organizations and Unbounded to help local organizations be intentional about systematizing innovation. This is a very exciting initiative.

3.)

IC hosts, Monthly Startup Cochrane meetups, Launched Founders Coffee, nodto Jade for the inspiration and are Collaborating with other support organizations in the community including the Chamber of Commerce, Community Futures, Tourism Cochrane, Cochrane Business Network.

To get involved or learn more about the various opportunities Innovate Cochrane has click here INNOVATE COCHRANE

“Asking for help is Not a sign of weakness.”

Jade Alberts

Telling It Like It Is, is brought to you by Jade Alberts, founder of Peer Guidance, Telling it like it is and Founders Coffee.

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Taste What you Give.

When you serve a bowl of Soup Sisters, we will deliver the same 'Hug in a Bowl' to someone in need.

The Soup Sisters cause brand includes a new and exciting opportunity for corporations, conferences, and events to support their own communities with a 'Hug in a Bowl'.

Share the warmth. Serve Soup Sisters soup at your next event and we will deliver in equal measure to an agency in your community or a low-income school in your city.

Give where you live. If you are operating in a city where we do not currently support a social service agency we will ensure ‘Hugs in a Bowl’ delivery to an agency near you.

SOUP-MAKING EVENTS We have partnered with some of our favourite cooking schools and culinary partners to bring back the camaraderie of getting together the Soup Sisters way! Deliver 'Hugs in a Bowl' to your local agencies in need.

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GEDI-Hub Events The GEDI-Hub is excited to participate in several events that raise awareness of equity, diversity, and inclusion across Alberta. These events include Disability Employment Awareness Month (DEAM) in October, Indigenous Awareness Month in June, Small Business Week, Canada Career Month in November, Mental Health Week, National Accessibility Week and Pride Week. Check out our event calendar and join us at our next event!

We are the GEDI-Hub, Alberta’s first and only workplace resource centre for workplace equity, diversity, and inclusion (EDI).

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compassion, acceptance, collaboration integrity, humility, and innovation, we will lead the way in addiction treatment and lifelong recovery. Our mission and core values are guiding principles which you will experience at all times while engaged with our program, whether as a client, family member, staff, donor, community stakeholder, or visitor.

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HOW MANY PEOPLE HAVE TO DIE BEFORE THE SYSTEMS CHANGE? Opinion Column by Jett Jackson

When we think about the legal system, we imagine a system that was put in place to help protect people and ensure that we can resolve family, civil and criminal matters.

When will our family legal systems start working in the best interest of the children?

When will they start getting abusers help and protecting the abused.

If you have never been through the legal system…be thankful and stay away from it.

Today we will look at the family legal system.

FACT: people often say “why didn’t she just leave” when talking about domestic violence situations. A woman often stays in an abusive relationship to protect the children.

But if a woman with children leaves the abuser, the court system still makes the children go and see the abusers, the mother can not be there to protect the children. (((read that again: the mother can not protect the children if she isn’t there))) Even if there is proof of abuse, the court systems do NOT protect the children or the person being abused, but the abuser gets to continue to just be, instead of having the court system send them to jail for abuse and or to therapy for help.

Recently in Calgary Alberta a mother had her life taken outside of her kids’ school by her expartner. What a tragic loss. Our hearts go out to the children and her family and friends. This case had been heard in our family legal system more then once, in fact the person who took her life, (and his own life) was her ex husband who had already been charged with domestic violence and had a do not contact order in place… - he was not in jail, and all she had to protect her and the kids was a piece of paper saying he was not to contact her or be with in so many feet of her.

“In the best interest of the child” is what family law is supposed to be based around. In this case (along with multiple other family law cases) the legal system FAILED, not only a mother, but two children and a father.

Recently I heard an alarming quote. “For every 1 NHL player that has a concussion, there is 7000 women who have undiagnosed concussions due to partner & domestic violence” (Kix Citton) READ THAT AGAIN!!!

How many people must die due to domestic violence before the system will change? How many families need to go bankrupt due to paying lawyers and court fees before the system will change? When will the government put family law, civil and criminal law on the table to redo, discuss and improve?

It's time, that we start discussing ALL the cases our SYSTEMS have failed. It’s TIME to CHANGE how our legal system & other supporting system work.

Healing Together Creates Great Universal Change Bridgett Rae-Evans

Mental Health can be strenuous these days. There are so many things that no longer work for us as times have changed and trauma has changed along side it.

But there is good news and one thing that you can do for yourself, that can change your everyday mental health.

Our environments dictate how to place our boundaries incorrectly, as it has been based on learned methods and is not technically ours.

The good news is there is an easy way to fix this and be able to move forward standing strong in your strengths and beliefs.

This method will help you identify where you allow others to perhaps use you as a dumping ground... For example, if they come to you with all their strife and frustration, they may ask you for help and clarity about a relationship, a work situation, or a family situation, and of course you help them, and they say that they always feel better after talking to you, and you are always willing to help...

Yet you feel exhausted and don't know why.

Now tell me what are you going to do with their STUFF you have just taken on? As it doesn’t necessarily go away. How do you recognize this and what should you do next,

Over may years of environmental change, we have forgotten how important we are as individuals and the understanding of true boundaries.

These days we set boundaries which belong to the people you link them to; they are not YOURS. They are all people, just like you and me.

Everyone should treat everyone the same, with decency, respect and honour.

So why do you allow them to treat you differently, or others better than you?

If you treat people badly, why should they treat you any better. Even when people have a title or are a company owner or a doctor, they are still people like you and I. If you treat people with decency, respect and honour, they will usually do the same to you. It is when you allow them to do otherwise that there is an imbalance in your life.

As you start to think about these things you will realize how much your boundaries change from one person to another and one situation to another.

Is this their issue or is this a mirror of your own issues? Mental Health is not all about modern medicine.

A lot of issues can be cleared with more of a holistic approach, such as meditation, Counselling, breathe work, etc.

Over a period of time, I have worked with many clients that have found that approaches such as Past life traiting, self belief and modern counselling are found to be more empowering and beneficial, mentally, emotionally and physically. Soul Pathing* has also made a huge difference.

We allow our parents to treat us one way and our siblings to treat us another way and coworkers or our boss to treat us in a totally different way.

Now if you were to look at this on a scale system you would see that this goes up and down all day long depending on who you are with or what the situation may be.

You are sending your emotions and physical body into complete turmoil, going up and down all day long.

That is not good for anyone, and you should by seeing these, realize that these are not your boundaries but the ones of the people you are dealing with at the time.

Your boundaries should look like a straight line.

Your boundaries are yours, the same for everyone, no matter what.

You would not let a stranger treat you like dirt so why would you let a family member do it.

You would not allow your boss to be abusive so why would you let your partner be that way? We are taught to be respectful of our elders, but shouldn’t we expect the same from them?

We give our kids a little leeway as we would say, “oh they are only kids”, but we are teaching them that they can get away with things as well as being disrespectful. Then as they get older, they expect the same and wonder why they don’t get it.

So with this in mind, I want you to write one thing at a time on each right hand side page again. The ways you would either expect to be treated or not treated.

Things you would be willing to accept in your life or not.

What would you allow and want your life to look like?

Every choice that you make in this book reflects on how you see yourself and treat yourself.

So if you do not love yourself, you do not command love or expect someone to treat you in a loving way.

If you do not respect yourself, you would not expect respect and allow others to treat you badly. If you put yourself down for any reason, others follow.

Nobody deserves to be treated badly in any shape or form at any point in his or her life.

So, from what you have now learnt about yourself, it is time to figure out your boundaries.

Be proud.

You are claiming your life back.

As you move forward in your life remember what it was like to be lost and holding on to so many thins that were no longer serving you, as well as all the toxic emotions you once carried.

It is the greatest reminder to not go down the same road you have travelled before.

No you can make choices with clarity and easy and be very clear on what you want in your life.

You may sit and enjoy in times of need, or for fun, the wonderful words that have been written for you on your rock collection. It will uplift your spirit on a bad day and show you how you shape this world for others and for yourself.

Your life now belongs to you. Be your best and true self. * SoulPathing.com

Dear Fellow Canadians, On January 31, the Premier of Alberta announced sweeping changes that directly impact the rights and protections historically afforded to 2SLGBTQ+ youth in our province. Before delving into the ramifications of this announcement, there’s a critical point we must make clear.

Every 2SLGBTQ+ charity that raises its voice in dissent, expressing disapproval in whatever form necessary, faces a significant risk. This risk is not just theoretical; it’s a stark reality. These organizations, which tirelessly advocate for and support 2SLGBTQ+ individuals, have witnessed a steady decline in provincial funding since 2019. This decline threatens their very ability to operate and serve those in need.

If you find yourself outraged by these recent developments and stand in solidarity with the 2SLGBTQ+ community, understand that support requires more than words. It takes more than liking social media posts, sharing them to your story, or discussing these injustices over coffee. These organizations desperately need funding—financial support from corporations, unions, and individuals who stand with the 2SLGBTQ+ community.

Yes, Stonewall Recovery urgently needs your support to fully launch and continue our mission. However, we are not alone in this fight. Organizations like Skipping Stone, End of the Rainbow, and SafeLink have been on the front lines for years, witnessing firsthand the devastating effects of hate and injustice. We urge you to choose a queer charity in Alberta and support them with whatever you can financially, please remember any amount helps.

Moreover, we specifically call on you to support Egale Canada and Skipping Stone as they prepare to launch a crucial lawsuit to protect queer youth in this province—a lawsuit that is not only necessary but critical in these trying times.

In the coming days, Stonewall Recovery will be carefully analyzing the Premier's video and will issue a more detailed response that will address it from our reading of The Convention of Rights of Children and Youth We stand at a pivotal moment in history, one that requires action, compassion, and solidarity. Let's come together to ensure that the rights and dignities of 2SLGBTQ+ individuals are not only preserved but championed.

With resolve and hope, Stonewall Recovery To reach out for donation support please email Stonewall Recovery Info@stonewallrecovery.ca For Skipping Stone info@skippingstone.ca for Eagle Canada https://egale.ca/about/ for Safelink info@safelinkalberta.ca and for End of the Rainbow https://endoftherainbow.ca/contact/ E

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In response to the announcement about the recent Transgender and Gender Diverse policy measures: Community Now! Stands with our #trans colleagues, readers, partners, and community members, today & always.

A child’s voice should never be silenced. When a child doesn’t feel safe talking to a parent, there is a reason…why don’t we ask children that question? And listen!

When a child/children can not discuss things with a parent they NEED a safe adult that they trust to turn too. (key word is trust) Teachers spend a lot of time with our children, and taking their ability to be a safe and trustworthy adult away from them will ensure that their jobs get harder, and both children and teachers will be unsuccessful in their roles in education.

“In the best interest of the child.” A statement we use in our family court systems. (but don’t follow) We should ensure that any policy made impacting children is INFACT in the best interest of the child, which means we need to start listening instead of enforcing.

- Krista Malden #ittakesacommunity #togetherwearestronger

Feb 3 2-24 was a testament to how beautiful and strong the 2SLGBTQIA+ community is. Over, 1000 people came out to support, protect and fight for the rights of hashtag#transyouth and hashtag#nonbinaryyouth. It is such an honour to be part of a community that shows up for one another. We stand in full support with the hashtag#trans and hashtag#queer community and will not accept inhumane treatment🏳️‍⚧️ Thank you to everyone who showed up and shared their experiences. Special shout out to Court Ellingson for being a leader and advocate in hashtag#albertagovernment and hashtag#yycqueerinnovation hashtag#yycqueer hashtag#transyouthmatter hashtag#transrightsarehumanrights hashtag#yyctrans hashtag#albertatrans hashtag#qieercommunity hashtag#strongertogether YYC Queer Innovation Meetups – Queering Innovation

There is a LOT of misinformation out these days! Many of the things shared by the premier, the government and others, just aren’t accurate, so we’re starting a ‘FACTS not FICTIONS’ series to set the record straight, starting with one of the most important: Family

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Trans serving organizations and provides unanimously believe in keeping families together and building the strongest possible supports other than exceptional circumstances where the child is actively being harmed.

We believe in meeting parents where they are at & providing them with the support and learning they need to help their child thrive.

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Events in the Community

Black History Month Thursday, February 15 · 5:00 PM Zawadi Za Sanaa Part of the Branch for Arts Culture collection

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Zawadi Za Sanaa Tickets, Thu, Feb 15, 2024 at 5:00 PM | Eventbrite

Friday, February 16 · 7:00 PM A Black history tribute in the musical style of Mahalia Jackson

By Tammy Dixon A Black history tribute in the musical style of Mahalia Jackson Tickets, Fri, 16 Feb 2024 at 7:00 PM | Eventbrite

Friday, February 16 · 6:00 PM MELANIGHT: Black Royalty African Caribbean Student Association (University of Calgary) MELANIGHT: Black Royalty Tickets, Fri, 16 Feb 2024 at 6:00 PM | Eventbrite

Saturday, February 24 · 4:30 PM A Black History Month 'Celebration of Excellence' WTAL Canada A Black History Month 'Celebration of Excellence' Tickets, Sat, 24 Feb 2024 at 4:30 PM | Eventbrite

Join for our 18th Annual Friendship Round Dance! Saturday, February 17, 2024, | 5:00-10:00PMGenesis Centre: 7555 Falconridge Blvd NE #10, Calgary, AB Miskanawah | Annual Round Dance Indigenous Health & Wellness Conference 2024 Tuesday, February 20 · 8:00 AM Indigenous Health & Wellness Conference 2024 Tickets, Tue, Feb 20, 2024 at 8:00 AM | Eventbrite HUMAN TRAFFICKING101 Thursday, February 22 · 12:00 PM HUMAN TRAFFICKING101 Tickets, Thu, 22 Feb 2024 at 12:00 PM | Eventbrite

AARC’s 25th Annual Miracle Gala Wednesday, May 8th as we celebrate over 660 graduate families! Information on attending, supporting, and volunteering can be found at www.aarc.ab.ca/events/gala-2024 Branch Out Neurological Foundation's 12th Annual Bike Tour, June 7-9, 2024 in Panorama, BC https://branchoutfoundation.com/biketour/ Join us for an inspiring weekend in Panorama, where we cycle together and raise money for neurological research. You won't want to miss it! You don't have to be an avid cyclist to participate. Use promo code nowmag to get 15% off your registration fee.

Networking Events

Workplace Wellness

Get Social! In-Person Connection Events Come and join us at BORN Brewing for a facilitated networking event like no other! Just bring yourself and your authenticity and leave with real human connections with your fellow networkers. Dates: Tues, Feb 13 / Thurs, Mar 14 / Wed, Apr 17 https://www.tlbcoaching.com/events

The Gedi Hub offers multiple workshops.Workshops GEDI-Hub (gatewaytodiversity.ca)

No-Pitch Networking Virtual Connection Events Looking to build your international connections? Come and join amazing peeps from around the world in a digital - and transformational - networking event! AM Dates (9am MT): Feb 6 / Mar 12 / Apr 9 PM Dates (6pm MT): Feb 29 / Mar 21 / Apr 25 Link: https://www.linkedin.com/groups/14275 591/ Women in Business & LeadershipThe last Monday of EVERY month 9am-10am at the Dennys in Deerfoot Meadows. No registration needed.

For more information email kmalden@communitynowmagazine.com Founders Coffee Every Tuesday morning at Red’s Dinner in Kensington 7:30-8:30am

Thriving Minds: Empowering Innovators Session 5: Tank on ‘E’— Leading When You’re Low February 15, 2023 at 12:00pm (MST) Thriving Minds: Tank on 'E'—Leading When You’re Low Tickets, Thu, 15 Feb 2024 at 11:45 AM | Eventbrite

Innovation Events YYC DataCon 2024, Calgary's premier event for data science enthusiasts, will take place at Platform Calgary on March 8-9, offering two days of insightful talks, networking opportunities, and prizes including scholarships for post secondary students. For event details and registration, visit https://www.yycdata.ca/datacon

Inventures 2024 - The Breakthrough Innovation Event (inventurescanada.com)

Join us on Wednesday, May 8th as we celebrate over 660 graduate families!

AARC’s 25th Annual Miracle Gala will be held at the Calgary TELUS Convention Centre’s Macleod Hall. The event will feature a gourmet dinner, live and silent auction, and the incredible stories of recovery from AARC graduates. All proceeds raised go towards treatment fee subsidization, ensuring that no family is ever turned away due to financial difficulty.

Single Ticket: $250 Table of Ten: $2500 *Receives a partial tax receipt following the event.

Information on attending, supporting, and volunteering can be found at www.aarc.ab.ca/events/gala-2024

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MENTAL HEALTH & COMMUNITY RESOURCES

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To access the MAXcommunity or OktSober Fests resources for counselling, please contact The Calgary Counselling Institute of Counselling

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