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Seizing the Road to Victory:

Little Silver Couple cycling cross country

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Summer is officially winding down and school has popped up on the radar for many of you. That’s why this month we have our Back to School section (page 35), where we offer advice for a successful school year, survival tips only a parent could understand, an inside look at college admissions, and a bonus article from Michael A. Palladino, Ph.D., Vice Provost for Graduate Studies at Monmouth University speaking about graduate degrees. But don’t fret, there is still a ton of summer fun awaiting you and your family—make sure you check out Donna Beriont’s Eventful on page 20 – she covers everything from the Monmouth Film Festival to Fair Haven’s Fireman’s Fair to Glen Burtnik’s Summer of Love concert.

This month we featured a local band who is about to launch their new album. We are so fortunate to live in a county that promotes and supports the arts in such a big way. We celebrate music of every kind and many famous musicians began here, live here or play here.

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Beach Ball VNA Returns

Beach Ball Co-chairs Sandy Mulheren, Maryam and Jesse Spector, Jill and Jamie Diamond.

Lynn Spector, Chairman, VNA Health Group Foundation Board of Trustees, 2017 Beach Ball Honorees Tom and Liz Thees, Dr. Steven Landers, President and CEO VNA Health Group

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ON SEPTEMBER 16, 2017, leave your dress shoes at home with your formal clothes and come feel the sand between your toes at the 2017 Beach Ball. Chapel Beach Club in Sea Bright will once again welcome friends and supporters of the VNA for a fun and casual evening by the sea. Longtime VNA Board Trustees Liz and Tom Thees will be honored for their commitment and contributions to the organization.

The evening’s proceeds will benefit patients in need who rely on VNA Health Group’s broad array of communitybased health programs, providing vital preventive and primary health care as well as supportive services.

Health Group. The committee is looking forward to building on this great beginning and including even more fun surprises this year.”

Jeep Wrangler Unlimited Sahara 4x4. A limited number of raffle tickets will be available for purchase throughout the summer months.

Beach Ball attendees will enjoy an array of gastronomic offerings from some of the area’s most popular food trucks. Revelers can memorialize the night with pictures from the The Selfie Social photo station while sipping libations from the “Bellini and ‘Tini Bar” and the Cocktail Caravan. As the stars begin to sparkle in the night sky, partygoers can cozy up to the fire pit for s’mores and dance the night away to the music of Rhythm Shop.

Honorees Liz and Tom Thees have been dedicated and generous members of the VNA Health Group community for more than a decade and were the recipients of the 2012 Judith Stanley Coleman Award in recognition of their exceptional service in community health. Loyal supporters of the VNA Hospice and Advanced Care Services especially Bereavement Services, the Thees sponsored and hosted the annual Children and Family Day - Hearts of Remembrance annual grief support day at their Rumson home from 2008 – 2013.

The 2016 inaugural Beach Ball met with rave reviews. Under a moonlit sky with brightly colored beach balls swaying in the breeze, a sellout gathering of 550 VNA Health Group supporters enjoyed the late summer evening in the sand while raising over $350,000 to benefit the organization’s programs and services.

“We were thrilled with the enthusiastic response to this new event,” said Jill Drummond who, along with her husband Jamie, joins Vanessa and Sandy Mulheren and Maryam and Jesse Spector as co-chairs of the Beach Ball. “It truly was a magical evening under the stars, celebrating long time relationships and introducing new friends to the crucial mission of VNA

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The seaside will come alive with fun, food and music to support Visiting Nurse Association Health Group’s mission of caring for those in need.

“To add to the excitement and fun of the Beach Ball we are expanding our utilization of technology,” commented Sandy Mulheren. “We now have a dedicated event website www. vnahgbeachball.org detailing all of the Beach Ball’s opportunities and information.”

“Auction items will also be posted online previous to the evening of the event,” added Maryam Spector. “The committee has secured a wide variety of silent and live auction items including unique experience packages, chic jewelry and sophisticated artwork.

Anyone can join in on the excitement and support the VNA, whether or not they attend the Beach Ball.”

For the grand finale, one lucky raffle ticket holder will win a 2016 Rocky Ridge

The Beach Ball will take place Saturday, September 16, 2017 at 6:30 p.m. at Chapel Beach Club in Sea Bright. Tickets for general/open seating are $275 per person. Sponsorships, underwriting, ticket packages and specially priced reserve seating tickets are also available. For more information, visit www.vnahgbeachball. org or contact the Foundation Office at 732.224.6970.

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Darlene Love, who recorded the hit single, “All Alone on Christmas” for the movie Home Alone 2, will be honored at the event. “All Alone on Christmas” is the signature theme song for Holiday Express and performed at every Holiday Express event. “The song truly embodies the reason that I started Holiday Express”, explains founder Tim McLoone.

“We truly believe that the lyric, ‘Nobody ought to be all alone on Christmas,’ is why we will be doing 100 events this holiday season.”

There will be a live and silent auction with items donated by many generous individuals and companies, including tickets to area sporting events, designer clothing and jewelry, and dinner packages at the shore’s finest restaurants.

Dress is casual and the Holiday Express Band will provide entertainment.

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DEARBORN MARKET HOSTS 3RD ANNUAL FARM TO TABLE DINNER After a successful and delicious dinner last year, Dearborn Market will once again host a Farm to Table family-style dinner on Saturday, September 9, 2017 at 6:30 p.m.

For many years Dearborn Market has been harvesting fruits and vegetables on the large farm property behind the store.

To end summer, Dearborn would like to invite customers and

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Living Well: A Nod to Nike Nike says it. Many of us try to live it. Just do it!

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adventure from Joe Dodge Lodge at Pinkham Notch Visitor Center. The 120 year hut system was devised to edified by the “croo” (hut crews) with entertainment, education and hot meals at Lakes of the Clouds Hut, reportedly the most popular in the system. The overnight did not disappoint despite no shower, hot water, or electricity in our bunk room of 12 strangers turned friends. We wilderness women harnessed our physical strength, mental stamina and adventurous spirit to summit the northeast’s highest precipice in the east at 6300 ft. For those that don’t own hiking boots or a backpack, a Mt. Washington climb is significant for a number of reasons: 1. It’s hilly hard. Think one big tripping trap. Lots of rocks, little rest.

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Delve into the world of independent cinema at New Jersey’s top-rated, critically acclaimed, international film festival at the Two River Theater in Red Bank from August 11 through August 13, 2017!

Experience cinema from across the globe - and from right here in New Jersey - with short and feature films starring performers including Michael Cera, Sandra Oh, Ellen Page, Nia Long, and more!

With over 14 hours of film, Monmouth Film Festival will feature narrative, documentary, and student - short and feature length - films from across the state, country, and the world. Does the name Kevin Smith sound familiar? Catch the NJ Premiere screening of ​Shooting Clerks* - a biographical drama detailing how Kevin Smith bankrolled his $27,000 first film with maxed-out credit cards and garnered career-making critical attention at the Sundance Film Festival when Clerks debuted there in 1994.

The film will also include a talk-back with special guests who you just may recognize!

Other spotlight films include the newest Michael Cera comedy, L​ emon directed by FX’s breakout TV series Atlanta’s Janicza Bravo - catch it before it hits theaters! And the beautifully drawn animated feature, Window Horses - The Poetic Persian Epiphany of Rosie Ming, featuring famous voices including Sandra Oh and Ellen Page! Don’t miss out

on the exclusive New Jersey Premiere of T​ he Blood Is At The Doorstep, the 2017 feature documentary - the emotionally raw story of the 2014 killing of Dontre Hamilton in Milwaukee as shocking and tragic as any. Our late night feature, T​ he Strange Ones,​ is an intense and contemplative thriller starring Alex Pettyfer (​Magic Mike) and James Freedson-Jackson (​Cop Car, Jessica Jones).

For tickets and the complete film schedule, visit www.MonmouthFilmFestival.org/schedule.

Do you aspire to make the next award winning film? Are you working on a film now but struggling to get it on the big screen? Experience the industry and ignite your creative inspiration by attending our 2017 Industry Film Panel on August 12, 2017 at 5:30 p.m. – a 90-minute event driven by esteemed industry guests and professionals who are ready to answer your questions! Special guests include, Bryan DeNovellis (News 12), David Schoner (NJ Film Commission), Taimak (The Last Dragon), John R. Green (ABC), Thomas Crowell (Ent. Lawyer/Author), Jenna Ricker (Producer/Director), Jeremy Profe (Filmmaker - T​ he Lennon Report), and Jen Fineran (Film Editor/Documentary).

Special events include our “Industry Networking Event” on August 11, 2017 at 7:00 p.m. Walk the red carpet and join featured filmmakers, artists,

actors, agents and press, at this two-hour long catered event. This is a great, energetic atmosphere enabling you to connect with artists to make your creations come to life. Featured companies in attendance will include the world’s most trusted casting resource, Backstage, the New Jersey Film Commission, and the renowned New York Film Academy. Discover the great opportunities and services available to get your next production on the go. Tickets start at $5 and are on sale now and at the door.

General admission tickets ($10-$15) are sold per feature film or per short film block. Experience the entire event with unlimited access and purchase a VIP Pass. Receive exclusive access to the VIP lounge, as well as free admission to the Networking Event and Film Panel. Saturday and Sunday all-day film passes are also available. For more information, visit www.MonmouthFilmFestival.org/tickets

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“The first week of August hangs at the very top of summer, the top of the live-long year like the highest seat of a Ferris wheel when it pauses and it’s turning. The weeks that come before are only a climb from balmy spring and those that follow a drop to the chill of autumn but the first week of August is motionless, and hot. It is curiously silent too with the blank white dawns and glaring moons, and sunsets smeared with too much color.”

- Natalie Babbit from Tuck Everlasting

TOTAL SOLAR ECLIPSE

Get your binoculars ready for our free sky watching event, one that hasn’t been seen for 40 years! Don’t miss the big celestial disappearing act on August 21st. Dubbed the “Great American Total Solar Eclipse” – it will shut out the sun for a moment on a path leading from Oregon to South Carolina. It will be a dramatic event from coast to coast.

FREE SANDY HOOK BEACH CONCERTS Every Wednesday Night

End hump day with your beach chair and friends at Beach E - 6:00 p.m. for a free summer concert. The remaining schedule is as follows: Rip Tide with special guests The Sam Sims Band (8/9) – special 5:30 p.m. start and a rain date is scheduled for 8/16. Visit sandyhookfoundation.com.

FAMILY FUN DAYS AT MONMOUTH PARK Every Sunday through Labor Day All Activities are FREE and include pony rides, face painters, clowns, and bounce house. Grandstand admission is $5, children 12 and under are always admitted FREE. Visit monmouthpark.com.

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BELL WORKS TOUR August 9 | 9:00 a.m.

Are you interested in seeing what’s inside, or perhaps the history of Bell Works? Well you’re in luck, Holmdel Township Committeeman Eric Hinds will be conducting a tour. The tour is approximately 90 minutes and leaves you thoroughly impressed (that’s a promise!). Due to security purposes, please email 114htwp@gmail.com to reserve your spot today.

MONMOUTH FILM FESTIVAL August 11 - 13

Delve into the world of independent cinema at New Jersey’s top-rated, critically acclaimed, international film festival at the Two River Theater in Red Bank! Experience cinema from across the globe - and from right here in New Jersey - with short and feature films starring performers including Michael Cera, Sandra Oh, Ellen Page, Nia Long, and more! Visit monmouthfilmfestival.org.

GLEN BURTNIK’S SUMMER OF LOVE CONCERT 2017

August 19 - 6:30 to 10:00 p.m.

Paramount Theater in Asbury Park

The Summer of Love Concert celebrates the 50th anniversary of the “Official” Summer of Love – 1967. Audiences can relive the memories of the Woodstock generation – for more information go to apboardwalk.com.

PAULA POUNDSTONE AT COUNT BASIE

August 18 at 8:00 p.m.

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her hilarious new book, “The Totally Unscientific Study of the Search for Human Happiness” (Algonquin Books), comedian Paula Poundstone is entertaining audiences across the

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country, leaving them complaining that their cheeks hurt from laughter and wondering if the random people she talks to are plants. Of course, they never are. Tickets at countbasie.org

JOSEPH AND THE AMAZING TECHNICOLOR DREAMCOAT August 11 - 13

Henderson Theater on CBA Campus.

Students and Children are $22, Adults are $28 and Seniors are $25. For more information, call 732.774.7827 or visit premiertheatre.com.

RED BANK’S FOOD & WINE WALK

August 20 and September 17 - 2:00 to 5:00 p.m.

Join in for a wide assortment of culinary offerings while exploring picturesque Red Bank. Enjoy food and/or beverage samples at over 20 participating restaurants, bars & eateries. Tickets are $35 per person. Visit redbank.org for more information.

FAIR HAVEN’S FIREMAN’S FAIR August 25 - 31 645 River Avenue, Fair Haven

Join the Fair Haven tradition and go on rides, play games, eat funnel cake, take home some homemade Manhattan clam chowder and enter to win a raffle!

Kids can get on line and ride the finest fire truck and make a lasting memory!

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NEW JERSEY THOROUGHBRED FESTIVAL August 27

Celebrate the best of the best in the Garden State. Watch and wager as the top New Jerseybred horses battle each other for bragging rights. And in addition, all in attendance will receive a FREE giveaway item to be announced, with paid admission while supply lasts. Enjoy live music from The Mike Dalton Band. Visit monmouthpark.com.

BBQ & CRAFT BEER FESTIVAL September 2-4

Come celebrate the juiciest, most tender pulled pork, brisket and ribs the Jersey Shore has to offer - plus so much more. And wash everything down with a great selection of brews in the Craft Beer Garden featuring over 40 beers to choose from. Visit monmouthpark.com.

COLTS NECK ROCKFEST

September 22 and September 23

Back for its 10th year – this two-day event is packed with talented local musicians, varied musical acts, vendors selling crafted good and services, food vendors, etc. Entry cost is $20 per car. Visit coltsneckrockfest.com for more info.

RED BANK GUINNESS OYSTER FESTIVAL September 24 – Noon to 7:00 p.m.

Tons of Oysters...Pints of Guinness, plus Lighter Beers and Wine...Live Music...Great Food.

Fashioned after the 61-yearold Galway Oyster Festival celebrating the opening of the oyster season, this is a huge food & music festival which will showcase Red Bank’s excellent restaurants as well as entertain thousands with great live music and family fun. Visit redbank.org.

RUN FOR HOPE 5K & FUN RUN September 24

Mark your calendars for the ultimate Sunday Funday, all while showing your support for Childhood Cancer Awareness Month. Brielle Ale House is hosting its inaugural Run for Hope 5K & Fun Run to benefit The Ashley Lauren Foundation. Sign-up to run and get one-hour open bar with barbecue, face painting, kids bounce houses, pushup/plank challenge, gift baskets, 50/50 and so much more! Visit ashleylaurenfoundation. org for more info.

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Alexander Dunlop A Life Coach Who is a True Magician, reaches Amazon Best Seller List with his book, Play Your Cards Right: A Sacred Guide To Life On Earth

Alexander Dunlop reaches #1 in Amazon’s Hot New Releases Category with his book, Play Your Cards Right: A Sacred Guide To Life On Earth.

Alexander is a Harvard graduate and former Wall Street consultant who went on a personal quest to find the meaning of his life.

After attending Jesuit seminary, becoming a Swami in India, and apprenticing to Indigenous Shamans, he found the purpose of his life, much to his surprise, in an ordinary deck of 52 playing cards.

“The deck of playing cards is actually a timeless book of knowledge that was hidden in plain sight,” says Alexander Dunlop. “It reveals the mathematical structure of the quantum field in which we live. And, it’s at least 7,000 years old.”

“According to this timeless knowledge, based on our date of birth, each person has 13 cards to play for life. These cards form our Sacred Blueprint.

And once we know this,” Alexander continues, “then we have the awareness to make clear, confident decisions in life. It offers us a direct pathway to more fulfilling work, happier relationships, and authentic self-expression.”

Here’s what Peter Roth, Director of the Heart River Center, has to say, “In his soul-affirming book, Alexander beautifully describes our unique journeys…

He has brought these cards to life, revealing their extraordinary truth.”

And this is what some of Alexander’s clients had to say about the book.

Kelly A. Connor, founder of LumiNation Magazine, writes, “In Play Your Cards Right, Alexander shares game-changing wisdom for mastering Cupid’s game.” “This book is a must-read for business leaders…” says Marty Katz, managing partner of the Stratist Group.

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THE SALT FACIAL - FIRST OF ITS KIND IN NY AND NJ Better than microdermabrasion, chemical peels and hydrafacials. The brand new, macrodermabrasion, organic Salt Facial™ is setting a new standard in skin rejuvenation technology. So, what’s the beauty buzz all about?

Salt has been used for thousands of years to heal, purify and nourish the skin. The Salt Facial takes advantage of these benefits by exfoliating facial skin with pure, natural sea salt. But, that’s not all. This multi-step facial then replenishes nutrients and hydration using an Ultrasound massage and finishes with healing LED light therapy.

The Salt Facial is not the same old spa treatment yielding a temporary effect. It’s an aesthetic medical procedure intended to provide noninvasive, unmatched, skin rejuvenation with lasting results. The Salt Facial addresses uneven skin tone, fine lines and wrinkles, sun damage, age spots, rosacea, acne, stretch marks, enlarged pores, skin lightening, collagen reformation and more!

STEP 1 Salt exfoliation is a clean, gogreen, natural antiseptic and detox that provides h e a l i n g

qualities for the skin and body. Organic sea salt therapy effectively removes the top layer of the skin and purifies with no downtime. The non-toxic, water-soluble sea salt prepares the skin by opening up channels between skin cells to allow topical products, introduced in step 2, to reach deeper into the skin for better and more effective results.

STEP 2 Once the outer, dead layer of skin has been removed and with skin being highly receptive post salt exfoliation, the Ultrasound massage stimulates blood circulation and drives antioxidants, peptides and hyaluronic acid, lost to aging, deep into the skin. Skin prep coupled with ultrasound technology allows up to 30% more of these vital nutrients to penetrate up to 2x deeper and helps stimulate your skin’s natural collagen production which has also slowed due to aging.

STEP 3 The multiwavelength phototherapy Light Emitting Diode or LED further promotes c o l l a g e n production, removes redness, reduces inflammation, improves appearance of spider veins and port wine stains and treats acne.

The 45 minute, in-spa treatment is effective on women and men of all skin types and ages. Initial results are impressive. Receive optimal results with regularly scheduled treatments to keep the top layer of facial skin fresh and new.

For more information, contact Jeunesse Medical Spa at 732.739.3033 or visit jeunessemedicalspa.com.

NOT ALL DIAMONDS ARE EXCEPTIONAL THE EXCEPTIONAL DIAMOND COLLECTION by Forevermark represents some of the earth’s most magnificent creations, in carat weights that demonstrate just how magical and stunning nature’s beauty can be. Few diamonds will ever reach this echelon. Did you know there are only 23 jewelers in the country licensed with Forevermark to carry its Exceptional Diamonds? One of those jewelers is right here in Monmouth County, nestled in a Colts Neck shop – J. Vincent Jewelers.

Owner Joseph Brando said, “I feel privileged to be selected by DeBeers to be a partner in this unique and extremely limited program. Exceptional Diamonds are like no other gems in the world. They are certainly not for everyone. The individuals who own Exceptionals, share in a diamond experience which defines luxury.”

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These diamonds are so exceptional, only one in a million diamonds make it to the program, and DeBeers selected only two of their finest sightholders & master cutters to craft these natural wonders.

The owner of an Exceptional Diamond receives a silicone replica of the diamond as discovered in its rough crystal stage, along with a book tracing the diamond's history. The owner names the diamond and registers it with Forevermark, and receives a private tour of the Crown Jewels!

Stop by J. Vincent Jewelers, located at 420 Route 34, Suite 301 in Colts Neck, to view this exclusive selection of some of the most exquisite and rare diamonds in the world. Come in and see what it feels like to be Exceptional.

Introducing Salt FacialTM to NJ & NY! Call 732-739-3033 for an appointment to be the first to try this non-invasive, medical grade facial that’s setting a new standard in skin rejuvenation.

Salt has been used for thousands of years to heal, purify and nourish skin.

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IS EXERCISE THE KEY TO BODY AND BRAIN HEALTH? Before I started writing this article, I went for a walk in the woods. I walked not only because I know my body needs the cardiovascular workout but also because I’ve found that exercise, whether it’s taking a fitness class, biking or walking, clears my mind and allows me to think more effectively. Studies support this experience. Stanford University researchers found that walking can increase creativity up to 60 percent.

Dr. John Ratey, author of "Spark The Revolutionary New Science of Exercise and the Brain" says that exercise raises your focus.

But focus and creativity are not the only brain benefits of exercise. A growing body of evidence is proving we can reduce our risks of Alzheimer’s and other forms of dementia through exercise.

In fact, the Journal of the American Medical Association published an article in August of 2009 that indicated that exercises can reduce the risk of Alzheimer’s by 50%.

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Let’s look at the science and what we can do today to keep our brains vibrant and our memory sharp as we get older.

ALZHEIMER’S DISEASE AND DEMENTIA CAUSES Alzheimer’s disease, like other types of dementia, is characterized by brain cell death. Brain tissue shrinks and connections between brain cells are lost.

Sometimes changes also occur to vascular tissues all of which lead to memory loss, disorientation, personality changes and other alterations in brain function. Although most experts believe Alzheimer's disease occurs as a result of complex interactions, why brain cells fail remains unclear and continues to be the subject of extensive research efforts.

COGNITIVE DECLINE IS NOT INEVITABLE Despite the question of what causes dementia, mounting research is establishing that regular physical

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exercise can greatly reduce your risk of the condition, even for those who are genetically predisposed to it.

An active lifestyle appears to have a protective mechanism of the brain and actually stimulates neural growth and survival, and the development of new neural pathways. Researchers are still figuring out the factors that make exercise so cognitively beneficial.

Some believe it is due to increased blood flow to the brain resulting in more oxygen and energy in brain cells. Others believe it is due to the activating mechanism exercise has on the hippocampus, a part of the brain critical for learning and memory. Scientists have also found that exercise stimulates new neural pathways (connections between cells), repairs damaged brain cells and produces new brain cells all of which may be responsible for the diminished risk for cognitive decline.

BEST BRAIN BOOSTING EXERCISES Aerobic exercise, like running and swimming, appears to be best for

brain health. According to the Journal of Alzheimer’s Disease, regular walking, cycling, swimming, and dancing, all activities that elevate heart rate, may substantially reduce the risk of Alzheimer’s.

Current guidelines suggest 150 minutes of moderate aerobic activity a week or 75 minutes of high intensity aerobic exercise. However, there are cognitive benefits to people who lift weights, practice Tai Chi or yoga, and perform exercises to improve balance, coordination and agility.

According to a study done by the Department of Exercise Science at the University of Georgia, even briefly exercising for 20 minutes facilitates information processing and memory functions.

MY RECOMMENDATION In another article I’ll discuss Denise Medved’s Ageless Grace™ program, which I believe to be the most cutting-edge and fun brain fitness program currently available. In the meantime, if it’s safe for you, engage in cardiovascular exercise (such as running, walking, biking, swimming, hiking, tennis, or dancing) to elevate your heart rate. For variety in your work out, look for an activity that incorporates coordination along with cardiovascular exercise.

And whatever you do, make sure that your exercise routine has an element of play, which is one of the best ways to restore, maintain and develop new neural pathways.

EXERCISE TODAY Alzheimer’s disease and other types of dementia are not an inevitable part of the aging process.

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RBR Student Takes Top Prize in Second Annual Big Dreams and Silver Screens Film Festival Young film maker and Red Bank Regional (RBR) rising junior John Tuohy of Little Silver recently took the top prize in the Big Dreams and Silver Screens Festival held in Rahway, NJ on June 3, 2017.

John is 16 years old. John’s submission, a short film entitled “Parallax Dreams” won the top prize of Best Picture and also won the category of Best Short Narrative. Two other awards went to Leanna Culver of Clayton, NJ who won “Best Short Animation” for her short film, “String.” And Alexia Ross of Fanwood, NJ who won “Best Short Documentary” for her short film, “You Are What You Wear.” The three students were chosen from among 200 entries submitted to the festival from students all over New Jersey.

As the grand prize winner for Best Picture, John

Tuohy will appear on Edison TV’s “Classic Movies with Ron MacCloskey.” He begins filming that interview in July for an August airing on Edison TV. Additionally, his film, “Parallax Dreams” will receive a special screening at this year’s Rahway International Film Festival which takes place September 2224, 2017 at the James Ward Mansion in Westfield, NJ. And his movie was also selected to be shown in the Monmouth Film Festival in the New Jersey Student Short Film Category, which will premiere August 11 through August 13 at Two River Theater.

John is an Interactive Media major in the RBR Academy of

Visual & Performing Arts. John has used his film knowledge

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and equipment to help him create the award winning short.

He also used his classmates and school building with the last scene taking place in an empty RBR auditorium. Classmates Jay Izzo, a VPA creative writing major, appeared with John as actors in the film. Ashley Houck, who works with the school’s backstage crew, did theatrical lighting and friend Noah Kralyevich and VPA major Jack Borkoski, both student musicians, created the original music for the film.

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While the idea for “Parallax Dreams” began as a school

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DIVORCE TALK: COLLEGE COSTS

Peter C. Paras

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The ever increasing cost of post high school

their children to have every advantage, but

education, whether college, vocational school

also prefer the other parent to shoulder

or something else, is a serious concern for

the greater financial burden?

many parents today. It is an extraordinary

circumstances

cost that many divorcing parents of teenagers

obligation to contribute to their child’s

must give serious consideration.

educational expenses.

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both parents (whether custodial or non-

expenses – tuition, room and board, books

custodial) have the right to consultation

and required fees.

about and a say in the choice of school and

Nowadays, however,

the list of often included expenses also encompasses SAT/ACT review courses and

the costs they can afford.

Typically the custodial parent is most

registration fees, transportation to and from

directly

college several times per year, trips to visit

selection

colleges the student is considering applying

generally is more daily contact with the child

to and application fees. Sometimes college

and often a greater exposure to the child’s

coaches, computers and study abroad are

thoughts and plans about college. It is this

added to the list.

parent’s duty to provide the non-custodial

Most parents want the best for their children, but who pays when both want

involved process

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parent with all the information she/he has access to.

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Of course, the child has obligations, too. The prospective college student must be diligent and serious about his/her studies. He/she must apply for financial aid. Often a child is expected to work during the summer to help defray costs and to take loans which will be repaid in the future.

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When a child is estranged from a parent from whom a contribution to college costs is sought, the reasons for the estrangement take on significance.

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Is the child difficult and unappreciative? Did the custodial parent alienate the child from the other parent? Did the non-custodial parent cause the alienation from the child? In several family court cases, conspiracy-like behavior between the child and the custodial parent to distance the other parent from the child’s life resulted in no cost contribution from the alienated parent. However, when the parent’s own bad behavior causes the

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rift, the alienated parent will likely be required to contribute.

Another important factor is the age of the child at the time the parents are getting divorced.

When the children are younger than fifteen or sixteen the issue is usually too speculative to resolve in a concrete way and must be postponed.

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The Mayor’s Cup Comes Home to Fair Haven in 2017 *Photo Credit: Tom Zapcic Photography

Skipper George Harrington and First Mate Christopher Rodriguez sailed through the field of boats on the Navesink River launched from the docks of the Shrewsbury River Yacht Club on the morning of July 8, 2017.

The Fair Haven tandem sailing “Bolt” swept the One Design Fleet, the Mayor’s Cup and the NJYRA Mallory Cup​awards. Dozens of crews made up of sailors from surrounding towns including Fair Haven, Rumson, Atlantic Highlands, Middletown, Little Silver, Red Bank, Shrewsbury, and beyond came to compete in the Mayor’s Cup Regatta 2017.

The Mayor’s Cup Regatta is held annually and brings together many communities and residents to enjoy the rich maritime tradition of the Navesink. This was the sixth annual race for the Mayor’s Cup, which was started concurrent with the centennial celebration on Fair Haven in 2012.

The “bridge” race was open to all sailboats and used the Portsmouth Handicap system (a universally accepted way to normalize times/scores of widely differing types of sailing vessels). The bridge race was comprised of various fleets including Cruising, One Design, Optimist and 420 classes.

The race was held between the Oceanic Bridge and Lewis Point under ideal racing conditions.

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NJ Symphony Orchestra Play the Banks of the Navesink

By Donna Beriont

Red Bank played host to one of the most amazing evenings of the summer! Tagged “Sunday in The Park,” the NJ Symphony Orchestra treated all who were gathered in Marine Park on July 2, 2017 to a Road Trip Across the USA-NJSO style.

The talented musicians played recognizable tunes from Dvorak and John Williams’ moving score to Lincoln, to the Wild West and Copland’s iconic Hoe Down from Rodeo, all the way to the Magic Kingdom with favorite music from Beauty and the Beast. One of my favorite segments was when they played songs from the classic soundtracks from The Music Man, Meet Me In St. Louis and Chicago. The symphony even gave us a hearty Armed Forces Salute and as I sat there on that magical night watching the sailboats go by in the setting sun I was able to recognize those special people surrounding me that were in the army, navy, marines and air force. At the very end I was delighted and surprised to hear the NJSO salute the BOSS with a medley of Bruce Springsteen hits beginning with Thunder Road and 10th Avenue Freeze Out and Rosalita, which was the perfect Fourth of July tune and eight minutes later finished with Born In The USA and Born To Run. I got the chills when the crowd began to sing along and I thought it was the perfect end to a great performance.

Sitting on the banks of the Navesink River with my husband and our friends as I listened to the NJSO was truly a highlight for me. It was a beautiful night and gorgeous sunset. I brought my picnic dinner and lawn chair and drifted into a peaceful place while my ears and eyes were treated to a magical evening.

It was a great night for all ages and I look forward to their return.

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Left to Right: Ryan Lascelles, Luke McKenna & Dan Apy PHOTO CREDIT BART LENTINI PHOTOGRAPHY

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T H E M E R C U RY B R OT H E R S TO L AU N C H N E W A L B U M ,

“In R e t r o g r a d e ” INTERVIEW BY: LILIANN PARAS

We are so fortunate to live in a county that promotes and supports the arts in such a big way. We celebrate music of every kind and many famous musicians began here, live here or play here. The Mercury Brothers band fits all three categories. Watch for great things from this band hailing from Little Silver and Lincroft. Dan Apy of Little Silver plays guitar and sings the lead vocals. Ryan Lascelles is also from Little Silver and is responsible for the Bass/Effects. Percussionist Luke McKenna grew up in Lincroft. The band will be launching a new album, “In Retrograde”, on August 25th at The Saint in Asbury Park. We asked Dan about the band’s background and where it’s headed.

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Dan Apy

PHOTO CREDIT BART LENTINI PHOTOGRAPHY

CM: What events led to forming The Mercury Brothers?

I grew up in Little Silver and I met our bassist (Ryan) in elementary school because he also lived in Little Silver. We became friends through a mutual love for music, as well as getting into trouble…so naturally he and I started our first rock band in the sixth grade called Mr.C4 & the Plastic Explosives which lasted through middle school and allowed us to get a great head start on our ability to play and write with one another. During high school and college we continued to work together, while also pursuing our individual interests. In the Summer of 2014, Ryan and I were fired up and ready to play in a band again, but unfortunately the music scene was facing a shortage of available drummers.

I would play frequently on the streets of Red Bank. During this time I first met Luke McKenna.

He lived in Lincroft, but I would see him walking down the street because he worked at the Starbucks that I liked to play near. He was always complimentary and would say, “We should jam sometime!” Later that fall, Ryan and Luke started working together (serendipitously) at Dean’s Food Market. That’s when we were finally able to get together and play, which went phenomenally right off the bat. We started by playing covers and had a lot of mutual influences like Jimi Hendrix, Led Zeppelin, Pink Floyd, The Ramones, Modest Mouse, Arcade Fire, The Black Keys, and so many more. We felt an immediate connection as both friends and musicians, and began to dial in our sound as a trio throughout the fall and winter of 2015.

How did the band decide on the name The Mercury Brothers?

By Spring 2015, we felt like a real band. We realized quickly that we needed a band name if we wanted to get any exposure as a group.

After weeks of brainstorming, we were going

by The Rooftops but something about it felt forced (and we later discovered that name was already taken by at 1960’s Motown band). So, we threw a party to try and inspire creativity, which ended in the three of us telling stories about when we were kids. This was when we had the divine realization that the three of us

had an uncanny fascination with liquid mercury growing up. In that moment, we came up with the name The Mercury Brothers, and all felt that it was a perfect fit.

Are there any exciting or special moments that stand out from your shows?

At one of our shows in Asbury Park, Bruce Springsteen walked in and caught our entire set. It was a real thrill and compliment that he stuck around, and even took some pictures. It is definitely not an experience we’ll easily forget.

But there’s something funny and exciting and special that happens at every show we’ve ever played. It’s an incredible honor to be part of the music community in our area. There’s a deep respect for local bands and that’s a palpable feeling at shows. It’s a very cool thing to get to hang out with nationally touring acts or get to talk music with people you never expected to meet. It’s also a beautiful thing when a crowd of strangers simply comes together in one moment to support your art. There are times when people have told us how deeply touched they were, and that could be the main reason why we do this. It’s important.

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The band has many original songs.

What is the songwriting process?

For the most part, we all write the songs together. I’ll usually bring a guitar progression, paired with some lyrics or a specific idea and then we’ll play around and run with it until it starts coming together organically. We all contribute different tones and unique musical phrasing to our writing. It allows us to create music that we all feel very personally connected to, while also incorporating an eclectic mix of styles. One of our first songs was “Bandoliers.”

We were all going through different transitions in our lives and felt inspired to write a song that touched on overcoming our demons, and banding together to stay true to ourselves. We all related so much to that struggle.

Where have The Mercury Brothers appeared?

Once we had a band name and a couple of songs, we went straight into the studio with close friend and producer Bruce Tunkel. We laid down a four-song demo of our best original

songs at the time, and began using it to book as many shows as possible. In 2015-2016 we played 44 shows in venues all over the state, including several shows where we played live sets on local radio and TV. We’ve already started working on new songs though, so it’s only a matter of time until we’re back in the studio to start our next project. We hope to be heading out on a short tour later this year.

Where will you launch “In Retrograde”?

We will be launching our new album on August 25th at The Saint in Asbury Park. We’ve been working toward this a long time and are wildly excited. We wanted this album to convey our hopes and past experiences through honest and passionate rock music, and we’re really psyched to see what people think. This show will feature some incredible local bands. The show begins at 7:00 p.m. and the lineup is: The Burns, Sex Office, The Mercury Brothers and Cranston Dean Band.

Where will you be appearing next and how can readers hear your music?

You can catch us live at several show we having coming up: 8/11- The Chubby Pickle (Highlands) 9PM; 8/23 – The Asbury Hotel (Asbury Park) 8PM; 8/25 – The Saint *Album Release* 7PM; 9/09 – The Saint 7PM; 9/30 – The Asbury Hotel 8PM; and 10/8 – The Saint 7PM You can “Like” and follow The Mercury Brothers on Facebook, and our new album will be available this August on www. themercurybrothers.bandcamp.com/releases and on iTunes, Spotify, and Youtube. For booking please contact: DanApy13@Gmail.com.

At the end of the interview, Dan expressed how very grateful he, Ryan and Luke are for all of the support they’ve received from so many different venues and bands. “We’re honored to be considered part of such a gracious and incredible community of artists. Our hearts are filled with gratitude for the inspiration that our friends, family, and fellow musicians give us on a daily basis. Thank you all so much.”

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1. ORGANIZE THE FRIDGE Of course this is probably the last thing you want to be doing while the sun is shining, but if you take inventory of what is in the fridge and keep lists of what you need to stock up on for school breakfasts, lunches and dinners you can prepare your meals efficiently and quickly.

2. DON’T FORGET THE GLUE! Emoji rulers, notebooks, blinging backpacks - shop for school supplies early. According to a MediaMath survey, back-to-school shopping begins after July 4th and peaks in the beginning of August. Plus keep your finger on the latest wardrobe styles. Chat with friends and scour social media for all the latest fashion trends.

Hint: laid back looks, sporty denim and plaid are big this year.

3. RUN WAKEUP DRILLS Alert…Alert…Cranky parents make cranky children.

Get in the routine of setting your alarm clock 10 minutes early. Seriously! It may be liberating to be lazy during the summer, but once the strict morning schedule starts there is no excuse for slackers or whiners.

4. CALL THE DOCTOR "Your dog ate your child’s medical records" is no longer a usable excuse. Book their physicals and immunizations well in advance. No one wants to be stuck waiting in a doctor’s office when they can be outside in the fresh air enjoying their last days of summer.

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6. GET ON THE SAME PAGE Did anyone crack open a book yet? Start holding a literary conversation with your little scholar. Whether he is starting kindergarten or she is approaching her senior year connect with your kid through authors and writings of their choice.

7. ELIMINATE ANY LIFE CHANGING DECISIONS Probably not the best time to move homes, potty train, undergo extreme beauty enhancements - cutting your daughter’s hair too short is probably a bad idea too.

Not that I have any experience with the last one. LOL. 8. UNPLUG Child and parent should take a break from their gadgets. Making room for personal contact, playing board games or physical activity can spark up new interests and better communication when the focus quickly transfers from summer freedom to school work.

9. GET PUMPED FOR SCHOOL Nerves may be running high in your house. Your child may be anxious, excited, happy or sad about returning to school. Whatever emotion they are experiencing let them know you are there for them to express themselves to and confide in – no judgments attached.

10. BURN AND BREATHE Release back-to-school steam by sticking with your workout routine. Making sure your baby is ready for the big day is as important as you being mentally and physically prepared. Manage to get in your 30 minutes of running or meditating to aim for a successful day.

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By LiliAnn Paras This was supposed to be a simple story about a donation of hair to charity. And then I met Holly Koerwer, and the story became so much more.

Holly, her mother Beth, and I met at the Hudson & Canal Salon in Red Bank shortly before Holly was about to have almost two feet of her hair cut. As she sat in the salon chair, our conversation began with talk about her high school career at Trinity Hall in Tinton Falls, a school for girls which has a serious concentration on a STEM curriculum (Science, Technology, Engineering and Math). It became increasingly clear that Holly is uniquely talented. Holly was all set to attend a traditional high school when Beth convinced her to attend an information session about the new Trinity Hall. It impressed Holly as “an exciting place to learn” and she bravely changed course and delved into the new curriculum. Holly and her family are grateful that Holly took a chance on entering the inaugural class of Trinity Hall and have no doubt that Trinity Hall sparked her passion for engineering. Holly excelled and was the valedictorian of this year’s class, the first to graduate from Trinity Hall. In her sophomore year, Holly was selected into the She++#INCLUDE Fellowship Program founded

by Stanford University to encourage women to choose computer science as a career. Holly traveled to California and met with former Stanford students. As part of her trip, she also toured Google and Facebook headquarters, and one of the highlights of her trip was meeting Sheryl Sandberg, author, activist, and Chief Operating Officer of Facebook.

That same year, a teacher introduced Holly to 3D printing and Holly transformed her new interest into action. “Because I was fascinated, I was able to convince my parents for my 17th birthday to buy the parts to build a 3D printer. I

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spent Christmas break putting it together.” This was impressive in itself and even more so after Holly added, “Only after it was assembled, I noticed there were instructions.” Then she told me what she printed. After taking classes in engineering, Holly had become interested in prosthetics. She used her new printer to construct the parts required to assemble ten prosthetic hands, 320 parts in all. Holly seeks to blend technology with community service and in order to expose younger girls to STEM, Holly organized a Hand-A-Thon in her senior year.

She invited 7th and 8th grade girls to participate in assembling the hands. Seventy girls attended the event, and there was even a waiting list.

Holly worked out how to assemble the hands and she set the proper tension for the elastic bands controlling the moving parts. The mechanisms are wrist-driven and the fingers are manipulated through the palm. The hands

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Holly Koerwer (sitting) with her mom, Beth (left) and Hudson & Canal owner Charli Bohm

were donated through e-Nable to benefit children who have missing fingers. In addition to the function of the prosthetic hands, Holly paid close attention to the aesthetics. She designed them to be colorful and has found that the children like the superhero-like look of their prosthetics.

There was so much to talk about, but we did eventually get around to discussing Holly’s donation of her hair to benefit cancer survivors who have lost their hair during chemotherapy.

Holly’s desire to help cancer survivors is especially meaningful because her mother battled breast cancer five years ago and had lost all of her hair.

Back then, Beth and Holly had attended a Breast Cancer Awareness Day at a local restaurant. A woman with a full head of hair approached the then-bald Beth, assuring her that her hair would grow back, just as hers had.

They had a warm conversation, then parted

ways, and in their wildest imagination, neither could have anticipated the timing of recent events. Three years later, the Koerwers built a house in Beach Haven. Beth was visiting the beach for the first time, when her new neighbor greeted her. There was a familiarity and each realized they had met at the breast cancer event. They became friends and Beth knew that her friend had begun cancer treatments again over the years. But, it was not until Beth recently saw her at the beach just weeks before Holly was scheduled to have her haircut, that she learned her friend had once again lost her hair - which just happens to be a perfect color match to Holly’s!

And so, the same woman who had so graciously comforted Beth is now the beneficiary of Holly’s donation.

Although Holly and her sister had donated hair before, this was truly a special donation. Beth delivered the hair to her friend and described, “She and her husband were holding the hair like it was gold. They were so appreciative and in the end, it is a gift to Holly to know the impact it made on a special person’s life.”

The charitable donation was not the only reason Holly needed a summer haircut. Holly was preparing for the six week “Plebe Summer” that would begin her college career at the United States Naval Academy (USNA). All incoming Plebes must have their hair cut military style. The incoming women inductees must

initially wear their hair above the collar. (Later, longer hair may be worn in a bun.) Holly had a whole lot of hair to donate - her prom updo required 111 bobby pins. Yes, she and her friends counted). Charli Bohm, the owner of Hudson & Canal, cut off almost two feet of Holly’s blond hair, yielding two braids, each 22 inches long. Holly was completely composed and unfazed throughout, and in fact opted for a stylish cut shorter than the bob most inductees choose.

At first, the USNA did not appear on Holly’s list of colleges to explore.

But she decided to visit when the USNA kept appearing as a perfect match on the high school’s Naviance search site, and when she set foot on campus, she instantly knew it was the right fit. This summer, Holly and the other inductees will pursue a rigorous training program that will include physical fitness and introduction to all phases of Navy life. She will also devote much of her time to the USNA varsity sailing team. When asked about her goals, Holly said, “My focus will be to major in systems engineering, but I will always be interested in prosthetics in some capacity even if my career takes me on a different path.”

We join Holly’s parents, Joe and Beth and her siblings, Christian, Trevor and Kelly, in wishing all good things for Holly and we look forward to learning about her adventures at the Naval Academy.

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COLLEGE ADMISSIONS –

AN INSIDE LOOK

BY CATHY PADILLA

As a former Admissions Board member of a college I spent many an afternoon pouring over application forms and essays from throngs of hopeful students hoping to receive the much anticipated acceptance package in the mail. Piles of ‘students’ would be placed in front of us in a conference room and we would begin the process of deciding fates. But the decision making process was different from what you might expect.

The piles were separated into applicants who had the necessary qualifications, those who almost had the qualifications or had some, and those who did not have any of the qualifications. The qualifications were numeric in nature, coming down to SAT scores and GPA, and from that the decision process would seem simple.

But we were also given lists of students needed at the college. For instance, I remember one semester when we were tasked with finding a cello player. Another time we needed more tennis players. Many times the list included certain majors or athletes and an applicant in the pile for those who didn’t have the grades would get moved to the acceptance pile.

The most important distinction, however, was whether or not the applicant was well-rounded. The student with a perfect SAT score and 4.0 GPA was not an automatic acceptance if she had no other interests or achievements. And the student from the ‘almost’ pile who started his own clubs, raised funds for charity, ran marathons, and wrote a very clever essay was often given the benefit of the doubt for his grades and offered a spot in the freshman class.

The same was true for class rank. A student who ranked in the top five of his class but came from a very small school wasn’t given the same advantage as an applicant who was in the top ten percent of a huge graduating class. We on the Admissions Board were also familiar with many of the high schools and took into consideration that a B from an academically challenging high school was the same as an A from a less competitive school.

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So what does all this mean for students preparing to apply to college?

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The application process begins your first day in high school. Students who ‘got involved’ their junior year because it would look good on their application were often moved to the ‘maybe’ or ‘no’ piles. From day one a student needs to get involved in something, be it academic, social, athletic, or of the arts. The more the student is involved, the better the chance he or she will become one of the students on the ‘needed’ list.

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Grades and scores matter, but they’re not the only consideration. Just because you don’t meet every admissions qualification doesn’t mean you can’t be accepted at that school. A great essay can go far to tip the scales in your favor. So can your extracurricular activities. The Admissions Board wants to get to know you academically and personally. They’re trying to learn all about the things that make you who you are and what’s important to you. Be sure to tell them in your essay and show them through your activities.

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If you have a special skill, association, talent, or interest – pursue it. Becoming an interesting person is as important as a good GPA. Colleges want students who will make their student body successful and diversified.

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When applying for a ‘reach’ school – one where you don’t meet all the necessary qualifications – be sure to point out areas where you stand out or areas where you can explain. For instance, mention your stellar class rank at a school where 98% of students go on to college. Or explain in your essay why your grades slumped during sophomore year. Just remember to always maintain a positive and pro-active voice in all correspondence.

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Jayne Geiger has been named Interim Head of School by The Rumson Country Day School Board of Trustees. She fills the position held by Whitney Slade, who is leaving RCDS to pursue other opportunities for himself and his family. Geiger, who served as Head of School at the Far Hills Country Day School from 1992 to 2014, has family in the Two Rivers area. She joined the RCDS board shortly after retiring from Far Hills Country Day. She began her term as Head of School at RCDS on July 1.

“Filling a vacancy at the top of an independent school administration is perhaps the most challenging task a board can undertake,” says John Devlin, President of the RCDS Board of Trustees. “Having Jayne willing and able to step in makes that transition easier. She understands the nature and culture of the school, and her presence underscores the school’s inherent strength and stability.”

Geiger, who holds a bachelor’s degree from Douglass College, a master’s in Administration and Supervision from Rutgers University, and a master’s in Early Childhood Education from Bank Street College of Education, spent a total of 34 years at Far Hills Country Day. She will be taking a leave of absence from her position at Educators’ Collaborative, an educational search and consulting firm, to lead the RCDS administrative team.

She is the first woman to serve as Head of School at RCDS, which first opened its doors in 1926.

“I am drawn to Rumson Country Day because it is a Nurserythrough-Grade-8 school that truly understands the importance of childhood and a strong academic foundation,” Geiger says. “Every aspect of the RCDS program provides excellent and appropriate learning opportunities that offer both challenge and joy for each age group. I look forward to working with our professional and dedicated team of educators to ensure a smooth transition of leadership.”

As a trustee at RCDS, Geiger often collaborated with Slade, who followed Chad Small as Head of School. Small served RCDS for 25 years in that position.

“Every Head of School leaves an imprint and legacy,” she says. “Just as Whitney Slade built upon the legacy of Chad Small, the faculty, staff and I will continue their work to do what is best for the students of RCDS. I am fortunate to have known and worked with both of these previous Heads through the New Jersey Association of Independent Schools.”

“In education, as in life, sometimes plans change, and everyone here wishes Whitney and his family the best as they move forward,” adds Devlin. “I have no doubt that, wherever he chooses to go, he’ll be a difference-maker. We were fortunate to have him for the three years that we did.”

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Back to School Isn’t Just for Kids!

Considering a Graduate Degree?

STORY Michael A. Palladino, Ph.D., Vice Provost for Graduate Studies at Monmouth University

and increased earning potential, but it’s a buffer to unemployment. And across every discipline we are seeing that leadership training is one of the greatest values and most in-demand requirements.

When evaluating graduate programs there are several things to consider beyond the subject matter of the particular program. Will you get credit for your work experience?

For example, requirements for GMAT or GRE test waivers vary for different schools and programs, but the key factors to apply are generally work experience, undergraduate GPA, or having earned a prior graduate degree.

Since many graduate students are often juggling working and going back to school, programs that offer hybrid and online class formats, evening and weekend formats that accommodate professionals’ busy schedules are often key factors in the decision. Also, since graduate programs are often used to fine-tune expertise for one’s desired career trajectory, it’s good to consider degree programs that offer specialized tracks or concentrations.

MBA degrees are still the gold standard for those focused on business leadership and are now required in many industries to be considered for management positions. At Monmouth University’s Leon Hess Business School, for example, students choose from traditional and accelerated formats and can select an optional concentration in Accounting, Finance, Management, Marketing or Real Estate.

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or many professionals a graduate degree represents an opportunity to pivot in their careers. You may be returning to school after raising a family, ready to dive into a new area of employment that interests you, or eager to pursue a leadership position after a career spent working in the field. Whatever your reason, the right graduate program can help you reach your goals. Not only is a graduate degree a gateway to future employment

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Some students pursue a master’s in a field different from their undergraduate degree to create unique skill sets to pursue a new avenue in their career.

We have had students in our Criminal Justice program that are police officers with many years of active duty in the field. They have chosen to return to pursue their master’s degree to learn budgeting and forecasting skills, and how to leverage their field experience to take on a leadership role. Students with a bachelor’s degree in biology, for example, have returned to earn their master’s in Computer Science, Business or Communication.

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Graduate studies do not always involve pursuing a full degree; there are a number of specialized certification programs that provide a less expensive option, with a shorter commitment.

Certification programs allow students to take courses at their own pace, and with so many options, there may be one perfectly aligned with a student’s career aspirations. The Graduate Certificate in Human Resources Management and Communication is just one example of a defined “gainful employment” program.

There are similar options for Accounting, Forensic Nursing, Teaching of Children with Autism, Professional Counseling, and Play and Expressive Therapy to name just a few.

While many employers have cut back on tuition reimbursement programs, we have seen an increase in cohort working partnerships and strategic relationships. Monmouth University has partnered with the Hackensack Meridian Health System for MBA and DNP programs. Medical personnel are often incentivized to pursue advanced degrees, which benefits both the employee and employer.

Regardless of the industry, market demand drives graduate programs, and Monmouth’s new Doctor of Education in Educational Leadership program (EdD) is a prime example. We worked closely with the Monmouth County Superintendents’ Roundtable to develop the concept and curriculum for the program and several of the principals and superintendents will serve as teaching faculty for the inaugural class this fall.

Whether starting a new career, preparing for a leadership role, or retooling to shift gears to a specific area of interest, the universal goal for professionals who opt to pursue a graduate degree is career advancement.

With the number of growing specialty areas in today’s economy for employees with advanced degrees, and the positions in various industries that now require them, there has never been a better time to go “back to school”.

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Back to School Tips for a Successful Year

The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) shares many health and safety tips for making the transition from summer break back to the classroom an easy one for students.

For a complete list you can visit AAP. org. Here are some helpful highlights.

Making the First Day of School Easier • If your child seems nervous, remind him or her that there are probably a lot of students who are uneasy about going back to school. This may be at any age. Teachers know that students are nervous and will make an extra effort to make sure everyone feels as comfortable as possible.

• Point out the positive aspects of starting school to create positive anticipation about the first day. Your child will see old friends and meet new ones. Refresh his or her positive memories about previous years, when he or she may have returned home after the first day with high spirits because of a good time.

• Find another child in the neighborhood with whom your student can walk to school or ride on the bus.

• If it is a new school for your child, attend any available orientations and take an opportunity to tour the school before the first day.

• If you feel it is needed, drive your child (or walk with him or her) to school and pick him or her up on the first day.

Eating at School • Studies show that children who eat a nutritious breakfast function better.

They do better in school, and have better concentration and more energy.

• Most schools regularly send schedules of cafeteria menus home and/or have them posted on the school’s website.

With this advance information, you can plan on packing lunch on the days when the main course is one your child prefers not to eat.

• Many school districts have plans which allow you to pay for meals through an online account. Your child will get a card to “swipe” at the register.

This is a convenient way to handle school meal accounts.

• Look into what is offered inside and outside of the cafeteria, including vending machines, a la carte, school stores, snack carts, and fundraisers held during the school day.

• Each 12-ounce soft drink contains approximately 10 teaspoons of sugar and 150 calories. Drinking just one can of soda a day increases a child’s risk of obesity by 60%. Choose healthier options (such as water and appropriately sized juice and low-fat dairy products) to send in your child’s lunch.

Developing Good Homework & Study Habits • Create an environment that is conducive to doing homework starting at a young age. Children need a consistent work space in their bedroom or another part of the home that is quiet, without distractions, and promotes study.

• Schedule ample time for homework; build this time into choices about participation in after school activities.

• Establish a household rule that the TV and other electronic distractions stay off during homework time.

• Supervise computer and Internet use.

• By high school, it’s not uncommon for teachers to ask students to submit

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homework electronically and perform other tasks on a computer. If your child doesn’t have access to a computer or the Internet at home, work with teachers and school administration to develop appropriate accommodations.

• Be available to answer questions and offer assistance, but never do your child’s homework for him or her.

• Take steps to help alleviate eye fatigue, neck fatigue, and brain fatigue while studying. It may be helpful to close the books for a few minutes, stretch, and take a break periodically when it will not be too disruptive.

• If your child is struggling with a particular subject, speak with your child’s teacher for recommendations on how you or another person can help your child at home or at school. If you have concerns about the assignments your child is receiving, talk with his or her teacher.

• If your child is having difficulty focusing on or completing homework, discuss this with your child’s teacher, school counselor, or health care provider.

• For general homework problems that cannot be worked out with the teacher, a tutor may be considered.

• Some children need help organizing their homework. Checklists, timers, and parental supervision can help overcome homework problems.

• Some children may need help remembering their assignments. Work with your child and his or her teacher to develop an appropriate way to keep track of his or her assignments--such as an assignment notebook.

• Establish a good sleep routine.

Insufficient sleep is associated with lower academic achievement in middle school, high school and college, as well as higher rates of absenteeism and tardiness. The optimal amount of sleep for most adolescents (13 to 18 years of age) is in the range of 8 to 10 hours per night.

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There’s a New Mural in Town Community Mural Created at Kitch Organic | *Photo Credit: Matthew Brys Yee Photography

From July 7th through July 9th, the Indie Street Film Festival and MDot, a renowned street artist, came together for a local mural project. They joined with community partners to create an amazing work of art on the outside wall of Kitch Organic in Red Bank. Local students from Two River Theater’s Education programs, Red Bank students, JBJ Soul Kitchen, and others teamed up to create art and community. There is a big emphasis on promoting the arts in Monmouth County and particularly in Red Bank.

The Red Bank Community Mural Project was sponsored by Red Bank RiverCenter. James Scavone, RiverCenter’s Executive Director, noted that the Indie Street Film Festival and Two River Theater’s Crossing Borders Festival (a festival of new Latino plays) are two such events that reach out to and include the community in the arts. This latest endeavor by Two River Theater was another example of its commitment to the community.

Since it began, Two River Theater has reached out to Latino artists, the Westside of Red Bank, and others. Many enjoy the free events, including the theater’s summer block party with free music and food.

This second and most recent mural made in connection with the Indie Film Festival, was worked on for an entire weekend and was completed after 20 plus hours of painting. The location had other advantages, too.

Joe Durso, owner of Kitch Organic, hosted a delicious dinner for the painters. Joe lives in Red Bank and noted that this mural will only add to the already great character of the neighborhood. He also mentioned he was proud to have the art of MDot on his building for years to come.

MDot (Misha Tyutyunik) was born in Ukraine and is a graduate of Pratt Institute. He works from Brooklyn and has an extensive resume as a muralist, painter, and illustrator. He has also performed live paintings at a number of venues. MDot’s works appear in the US and around the world and are sold to such diverse patrons as private collectors and major brands. It was certainly memorable and meaningful to all who had the opportunity to be a part of this recent creation. Be sure to take advantage of all the great art and culture we have right in the center of our surrounding communities.

A Night To Sing Your Heart Out In July, DIVE Coastal Bar & Food Joint hosted A Night To Sing Your Heart Out benefitting The Brodie Fund in Sea Bright. This event raised money to offer financial assistance to families who have pets fighting cancer. The event was attended by local karaoke singers and animal lovers alike, all to help raise money and awareness for The Brodie Fund.

Emcee Matty Giuliano kept the crowd entertained while Kevin Birdsall of Kamakaze Karaoke lined up the singers and songs. Guest Judges DJ Scotty B of WRAT, local musician Thom White and Actor/Comedian Brian O’Halloran had a tough decision to make with all the talent, but in the end chose Lucky Dog Surf Shop owner Melissa D’Anna the overall winner for the night!

A very special thanks to DIVE owners Steven and Christina Graniero for hosting the night and supporting The Brodie Fund! The Brodie Fund is currently offering grants in New Jersey, New York, Connecticut and Pennsylvania area, but has plans to expand throughout the United States.

For more information about The Brodie Fund and how you can help, visit tthebrodiefund.org.

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From right to left: DJ Scotty B, WRAT and event judge; Matty Giuliano, Emcee and Brodie Fund Committee Chair; Thom White, musician and event judge; Contest Winner and Lucky Dog Surf Co. owner, Melissa D’Anna; Sally Williams, Founder and Director of The Brodie Fund; Brian O’Halloran, Actor/Comedian and event judge Christina Dilorio Graniero, Owner DIVE Coastal Bar & Food Joint (left) and Sally Williams, Founder and Director of The Brodie Fund

8th Annual Rumson Boat Race Slated for September 23rd

The Rumson Boat Race, the 8th Annual Collegiate Rowing Regatta sponsored by Morgan Stanley, returns to the Navesink River on Saturday, September 23, 2017. Drexel, Villanova, Army-West Point and Rutgers varsity crews will compete for the Governor’s and Mayor’s Cups. The two-day event kicks off with the Rumson Boat Race Benefit Reception on Friday, September 22 at 7:30 p.m. in Rumson to welcome the coaches while the collegiate athletes enjoy dinner at Rumson’s Bingham Hall. Tickets are available to the public at www.rfhrowing.com/rumsonboatrace.

The Rumson Boat Race is slated to begin at 8:00 a.m., with the collegiate crews launching from Victory Park at 7:30 a.m. Spectators will enjoy new family activities at Rumson’s Victory Park, including the first annual Duck Race, breakfast from local shops, kid-friendly table activities, and “Art in the Park”, featuring Rumson-Fair Haven student art pieces.

Weather permitting, the race will be live streamed to watch the crews compete as they race along the Navesink River.

Ducks are available for purchase at www.rfhrowing.com/ rumsonboatrace. The top three duck race winners will be awarded cash prizes.

The proceeds from the weekend events will be utilized to purchase new boats and equipment for the RFH Rowing Team which just completed is most successful season since the inception of the program in 2007, including the 2017 Women’s 4+ Varsity New Jersey State Championship and the 2017 SRAA National Regatta Women’s Varsity 4+ Petite Final Champions. The 2017 spring regatta season, featuring sculling and sweeping crews at regional, state and national regattas, produced 11 gold medals, two silver and six bronze medals. Since 2012, the RFH Rowing Team has had 35 athletes recruited to Division 1 & II rowing programs. Alumni from 2016 and 2017 recruiting classes have included UPenn, Notre Dame, Bucknell, Rutgers, Miami, and Loyola.

Sponsorship and underwriting opportunities are available.

Please reach out to Dawn-Marie Ciardiello at RFHRowing. fundraising@gmail.com for further information. The Rumson Boat Race, a not-for-profit 501(c)3 organization, supports the RFH rowing team and promotes the culture of rowing in the Rumson-Fair Haven communities.

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MCHA Board Members at the 42nd Annual Garden Party. Mark Gilbertson, Chuck Jones, Mark Aikins, Sean Moran, Claire Knopf, Felicia Campanella, Elizabeth Urbanski, Vera Hough, and Lisa Wilson.

Trustees Felicia Campanella and Andrea Aikins

Monmouth County Historical Association (MCHA) held their 42nd annual Garden Party in June at a private residence. The fundraising event, which is held at a different waterfront residence each year, benefits MCHA. It is open to the public and invitations are also sent out. There were about 400 attendees ranging from board members and supporters of MCHA to friends and family members of the attendees. “We raised close to $125,000, nearly 15 percent of our operating budget at this event,” said MCHA Director of Development and Communications Lisa Maher.

Two honorees from long-time Monmouth County families, the Rikers and the Hurtts, were recognized during the event.

Maher shared, “MCHA was pleased to honor Trustees Alison Riker Friedel and Jennifer Hurtt Mullins. They are being honored for their unwavering commitment to history and

Honorees Alison Riker Friedel (center, left) and Jennifer Hurtt Mullins (center, right) surrounded by Garden Party guests

historic preservation. Both honorees are long-time residents of Rumson with strong ties to the community. Ally has chaired the Garden Party, been an active member on the Red Luncheon committee, and also served on our Board for over nine years. Jennifer has served on our Board for eight years and has been a chair for Tea with Me and a co-chair for Garden Party in addition to being active on the Committee for our Red luncheon.”

The Garden Party took place under a sailcloth tent where cocktails and hors d’oeuvres were served. A silent auction is part of the event and this year included a paddle auction led by renowned auctioneer Nick Dawes. “This helped to raise funds for the digitization of our extensive collection,” said Maher.

ANOTHER SUMMER ANOTHER DONATION Kimball Heine of Locust, a rising senior at Middletown High School South, spent several months collecting donated backpacks, beach towels, hats, sunscreen, sunglasses and more for the homeless youth at Covenant House New Jersey.

Sue Monteiro, Development Manager of Covenant House New Jersey, based in Asbury Park, requested these “Summer Survival Bags” to distribute to local youth that the Outreach team works with in Monmouth County.

“Every summer Covenant House organizes beach trips for local youth and having these items available to the youth makes the experience a memorable one. It helps our youth feel they are prepared for their outing,” says Sue Monteiro.

This is the third year Kimball has taken on this challenge.

He stated, “It’s never easy asking for donations from so many businesses and individuals, but the local merchants and families have been very generous. We would like to thank

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Thompson Healthcare & Sports Medicine, Rumson Pharmacy, Costco, Worldpac, PNC Bank and the many generous families from the Holy Cross School in Rumson.”

For more than four decades, Covenant House has helped transform and save the lives of more than a million homeless, runaway and trafficked young people. They offer housing and support services to young people in need – helping over 46,000 boys and girls every year. To learn how you can help Covenant House, visit www.nj.covenanthouse.org.

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Colts Neck Grandmother

Paddles the Susquehanna Solo n May 14, 2017 aka Mother’s Day, Cathy Mumford, a 57-year-old Colts Neck grandmother, got into her boat at the Susquehanna River’s source in Cooperstown, NY with the intent to paddle the entire 444 miles of the River. Twenty-six days later she completed her latest River Odyssey* when she paddled her 9.5’ plastic kayak into the Chesapeake Bay. Cathy paddled solo in and out of New York through Pennsylvania and into Maryland.

“An important aspect of the journey for me is being alone. It helps me stay in the moment and avoid distraction,” said Mumford. For this same reason tech gadgets and contact with the outside world were kept to a minimum. She carried a smartphone and a satellite tracking transponder with a 911 call button in case of emergency. Mumford also packed basic camping supplies, a water filter and

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enough food to last three or four days. The Susquehanna flows alternately through populated and remote areas, so there was always a small country market or a large retail supermarket within a day or two.

Most nights were spent at campgrounds or campsites with the occasional hotel stay. There were adventures along the way. A highlight was spending the night in a treehouse overlooking the River on a beautiful island, and of course the highs come with the lows. Her kayak and most of the gear were stolen from the banks of a small town. The boat was returned 24 hours later with the help of multiple townspeople, local police and a Facebook post. Ms. Mumford hopes her journey will inspire people of all ages, especially women, to get out on the water and into the calming, strengthening benefits of quiet time outdoors.

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Matthew Valko, USMC Honored by Fair Haven School Community A photo unveiling ceremony was held at Knollwood School in Fair Haven on June 20, 2017 to honor Matthew (“Matt”) Valko, a 2010 graduate. Matt, a member of the Rumson-Fair Haven Regional High School Class of 2014, has completed his U.S. Marine Corps boot camp training and is headed to the Combat Division at Camp Lejeune, North Carolina.

Matt’s photo has now been added to the Knollwood School “Wall of Honor” featuring graduates who are proudly serving their country in the armed forces. Located prominently in the main hallway of the school, the Wall of Honor was commissioned in 2011 by Co-Chairs Betsy Koch, an eighth grade science teacher at the school, and Joe Perrotto, who served in the U.S. Marine Corps.

Matt was joined at the unveiling ceremony by family members as well as supporters from the community. These included Wall of Honor Co-Chairs Perrotto and Koch as well as Fair Haven Mayor Ben Lucarelli, Fair Haven Superintendent of Schools Sean McNeil, Knollwood School Principal Amy Romano, and former Board of Education Member Katy Frissora – who was instrumental in setting up the ceremony.

Also in attendance to lend his support and solidarity was longtime resident and former Fair Haven Police Officer Fred Dispensiere, who joined the U.S. Marine Corps in 1968 – not long after his 1967 graduation from RFH. A product of the Fair Haven school system, Dispensiere volunteered in 1969 for a tour of duty in the Republic of South Vietnam. He spent 13 months with the 7th Marine Regiment of the 1st Marine Division – primarily in the Que Son Valley southwest of DaNang, and based at Landing Zone Baldy (also known as “Hill 63”). After completing his tour he was ordered to Camp Pendleton, California where he finished his active duty training marine recruits and received his Honorable Discharge in 1974. He also served as a Color and Honor Guard for the Commandant of the Marine Corps and President Richard Nixon during his tour of duty, an honor given to only a select few servicemen.

The Wall of Honor was made possible with funding from the Knollwood School Student Council and was designed and built by Rick Robbins, Supervisor of Buildings and Grounds. Matt’s photo will remain on display for the duration of his service on active duty.

Matt, an Eagle Scout from Troop 125, resides in Fair Haven with his father Dr. Peter Valko, his mother Madelyne, his brother P.J., and his sister Carly.

If you know of someone who may be eligible for recognition on the Knollwood School Wall of Honor, please contact Joe Perrotto at joeotto@aol.com.

Left to right: Fair Haven resident and former Marine Fred Dispensiere with Joe Perrotto and Matthew (Matt) Valko

From left to right, P.J., Madelyne, Matthew (Matt), and Dr. Peter Valko at the ceremonial unveiling of Matt’s photo (shown behind P.J. and Madelyne) on the Knollwood School Wall of Honor.

RFH Tower Players Recognized for Outstanding Productions, Performances The Tower Players of Rumson-Fair Haven Regional High School have been recognized for a stellar season by the Bucks County Playhouse, the Papermill Playhouse, and the Count Basie Theatre. The RFH Tower Players garnered an impressive 18 nominations and took home six wins for their 2016/17 school year productions of Sir Gawain and the Green Knight and Tarzan.

The RFH Tower Players present two productions each school year, and participate actively in competitions and awards programs. The fall 2017 production slated for November 17th, 18th, and 19th is the comedy Sherlock Holmes. The spring 2018 musical is The Secret Garden. All performances will take place in the RFH auditorium.

More information on the RFH Tower Players can be found at www. rumsonfairhaven.org.

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RBR IB DIPLOMA GRADUATES & PROSPECTIVE GRADUATES LEARN VALUE OF DIPLOMA FROM ALUMNI Several weeks preceding Red Bank Regional High School’s (RBR) actual graduation, a smaller one was held for a special group of students, those receiving the coveted International Baccalaureate (IB) Diploma. RBR is one of only four schools in the county and 14 in the state to offer the internationally renowned IB program.

The IB coordinator Ryan Hilligus addressed the seventh RBR IB graduating class stating, “You finished two intense years. Reflect on these past two years. Think of how you have changed and grown and everything you have accomplished: over 1,000 hours of IB classes and approximately 20 hours of exams; as a group, you have written thousands of words of extended essays and completed over 4,000 hours of creativity, activity, and service efforts. That is pretty impressive. Based on these past two years, I know you will go far and be very successful.”

Ryan Hilligus described the challenge of the IB program.

The day before, he welcomed ten RBR IB diploma graduates from all different years. And as the popular belief stated, “The price of success is hard work,” the alumni visited to attest to the 2017 graduates the immediate benefits of their hard work as well as to inspire new recruits to the program. The alumni circulated among the high school students in a round robin table fashion reinforcing the same themes to the high school students.

Initially, the alumni expressed how just having the diploma facilitated the entire college acceptance process, enhanced scholarship opportunities and earned them cost-saving college credit. Kevin Burke, who received 14 credits upon his acceptance to Clemson University, stated, “It was like a whole semester; it definitely had an impact.” Over and over, the alumni stressed the real benefit of the program, in that it better prepared them for college. Katie Moran, a Wake Forrest graduate added, “The IB program tremendously helped me in time management skills. I also gained a better idea on how to analyze things.” Sara Murphy stated, “I was not overwhelmed by work in college as you get used to multi-tasking which makes you a better college student.” All pointed to the value of the dreaded extended essay, a 20-page paper, that each IB candidate must write to attain the IB diploma. Caroline Garth felt that was great preparation, as she wrote a 90-page thesis to graduate college.

Hannah Haugenes of U of C Berkeley advised the students to approach the essay by choosing a subject they really enjoy, something really interesting. Her sister Skylar chose philosophy and discovered that she loved the discipline.

Hannah Christensen actually sent her extended essay to colleges as a writing sample explaining, “It was the best thing I could send.” The students also stressed that the program’s global perspective aspect was a real advantage in college and life. Skylar explained how you learn a lot more about history from a global perspective, not just an American one. Hannah Christiansen added, “It is really important if you want to do anything internationally. I am studying in Australia next year, and having the IB really helped me in the application process.”

Emma Guinnessey graduated from Bryant University and works at Standard and Poor’s as a credit analyst. She obtained a degree in Spanish, finance and a minor in IT. She told the students, “My school was an international school and the IB background really helped me in conversing with (my classmates) with knowledge.” Carolyn Garth added that the international focus of the IB program really helped her in deciding on an international focus in college and in law school.

Also visiting the alumni that day were lower classman who are considering taking the two-year program which begins in the junior year. The alumni explained to them that, in addition to the many benefits of getting into college, preparation for college and the economic advantage to receiving college credit, there was one other very important benefit realized during their high school years. The close camaraderie they would build with this small cohort of students.

At the IB graduation ceremony, co-presidents Alex Sosa and Kristen Wimmer spoke, foreshadowing the advice they would give future IB graduates when they return to RBR. Alex stated, “I am very grateful for what this program has given me.” She was joined by Kristen who addressed the audience of parents, teachers and fellow classmates stating, “We formed some really close friendships, as going through this hard stuff creates the bonds. Having teachers for two years also helped form the bonds. And parents, we love you guys; you helped us so much. We definitely have better skills for analyzing and going on to college. Thank you for making this such a good experience.”

Pictured are current, past, and future RBR IB graduates. Back row: RBR IB Coordinator Ryan Hilligus, Kevin Burke, Sara Murphy, Katie Moran, Caroline Garth, Middle row: Isabella Ramos, Madison Ciccone, Hannah Haugenes, Skylar Haugenes, Alex Sosa, Cece McCarthy, Amy Lonergan, Summer Smith, Sophie Pouso, Emma Guinnessey, Elise Katz, Front row: Grace Noglows, Sophia Mazzini.

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MONMOUTH COUNTY HISTORICAL ASSOCIATION FOURTH OF JULY EVENT STORY SUSAN MURPHY

The Monmouth County Historical Association (MCHA) hosted their third annual Independence Day celebration on July 4 at the historic Allen House in Shrewsbury. A crowd of approximately 400 attended the event. Members of the public were invited to read sections of the Declaration of Independence, and Director of the Monmouth County Board of Chosen Freeholders Lillian Burry and Shrewsbury Mayor Donald Burden recited the first and last paragraph of this important document. As audience members read, the bells of Christ Church rang 13 times in honor of the 13 original colonies.

MCHA President Linda Bricker served as Master of Ceremonies.

She noted that the event and the readings given by audience members has quickly become a popular Independence Day tradition. Although the Declaration of Independence set off America’s journey toward independence and led the way to democracy, it is rarely read. MCHA felt this type of event would help to remind everyone of the important events that occurred a little over 200 years ago. And the audience had the opportunity to view one of the oldest surviving reprints of the Declaration of Independence dating from 1880 and reproduced from an 1818 engraved plate which was on loan from the permanent archives of the Monmouth County Library.

Rumson Boy Scouts and their Troop Leader served as color guard during the Pledge of Allegiance. Several of the dedicated and valued volunteers of MCHA were dressed in period costumes and welcomed the guests. They also conducted tours of the historic Allen House.

Interim Director of MCHA Chuck Jones explained that during

Revolutionary times the Allen House was a popular tavern that also served as a community center. President Bricker shared that this moving event offered the audience a chance to reflect back to their Monmouth County ancestors, whose courage and spirit paved the way for the future.

Director of the Monmouth County Board of Chosen Freeholders Lillian Burry and Linda Bricker, President of the MCHA Board of Trustees display a new Monmouth County flag donated by Burry for the event.

MCHA volunteer costumed interpreters holding one of the original copies of the Declaration of Independence dating from 1880.

Nine RBR Students Art Work Chosen for Monmouth Day Care Art Journal Including High School Grand Prize Winner

Nine students from RBR’s Barbara Beckett’s art class had their art selected as ads for the Monmouth Day Care Art Journal. Vera Juarez of Red Bank was the high school grand prize winner. The other student winners were: Devin Cooper, Little Silver; Jose Carreon, Red Bank; Teddy Purdon, Little Silver, Grace Goodwyn, Shrewsbury; Matthew Vanderveer, Shrewsbury; Faith Kruesi, Little Silver; Liam Sheehan, Red Bank; Evelyn Sullivan, Little Silver; Edith Hernandez, Red Bank.

The artwork was selected to represent each journal business sponsor. Dozens of entries were submitted from among eight Monmouth County schools. The student winners and their teachers were recognized at an ice cream social held at the Monmouth Day Care Center on Friday, June 6. The art journal is a major fundraiser for the Center.

The Monmouth Day Care Center was founded in 1969 under the sponsorship of the Revitalization Corps, National Council of Jewish Women, Greater Red Bank Section, Junior League of Monmouth County, Council of Churches, and Negro Business and Professional Women’s Club of Central New Jersey. It is devoted to serving families in Monmouth County seeking quality childcare, without regard to race, religion, ethnicity or economic status. For more information visit their website at monmouthdaycarecenter1969.org.

Pictured at the Monmouth Day Care celebration for the artists that contributed to their journal are (left to right): Edith Hernadez, Red Bank, Grace Goodwyn, Shrewsbury, High School grand prize winner Vera Juarez, Red Bank, RBR art teacher Barbara Beckett, Teddy Purdon, Little Silver and RBR interim teacher Kristen Brinkman.

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SEIZING SEIZING THE THE ROAD ROAD TO TO VICTORY VICTORY

By Cathy Padilla

Mike Grant and Carmen Phaneuf after training.

Mike Grant and Carmen Phaneuf of Little Silver are about to embark on the ride of their lives. The married couple is participating in a cross country cycling event starting on September 2, 2017 that will begin in Manhattan Beach, CA and cover the 3,400 miles to Fairfield, CT. They are dedicating the 50 days of their lives, and the months of training that preceded them, to raise awareness and money for the Multiple Myeloma Research Foundation (MMRF) and in hopes of finding a cure for Carmen’s cancer.

Diagnosed with multiple myeloma (MM) fifteen years ago, Carmen lives with this type of blood cancer where malignant plasma cells accumulate in the bone marrow, crowding out the normal plasma cells that help fight infections. These malignant plasma cells then produce abnormal proteins which may cause tumors, damage the kidneys, and impair immune system function.

But instead of succumbing to the fears and challenges the disease offers, Carmen has adopted a Carpe Diem strategy.

“Since being diagnosed with multiple myeloma I have personally gone through a grieving process,” Carmen shares. “That process gets revisited often, but Carpe Diem brings

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me back to the here and now. Being present now, knowing this is all we have, the present.

The past is gone, the future is so uncertain and scary for me, but it’s also hopeful with all the new treatments and clinical trials for MM. So, I try and Carpe Diem everyday...it’s not easy, it can be exhausting, it doesn’t always happen…but I try.”

The Road to Victories ride is not for the faint of heart and Carmen’s Carpe Diem mantra may be tested. She will cycle the first 546 miles from Manhattan Beach to Flagstaff, AZ, while Mike is one of nine riders who will cycle the entire country. Carmen’s ride will be through dessert, high plains and over mountain ranges in blistering heat. The day rides will range between 49 miles (over mountains) and 116 miles per day. She will ride for seven days in a row, have the eighth day off, and on the ninth day fly home.

“The physical endurance and training has been hard,” Carmen admits. “I have had three stem cell transplants with the third being very risky. There was an 8-10% chance of death within the first 100 days. We went for the cure because I have a high risk disease and chemo would just stop working after a few months and my quality of life would be compromised. Quality of life is a priority

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for me! My cancer is not in remission after one year. I continue to need mini infusions from my donor and recently started a new Immunotherapy.”

A Nurse Practitioner at the Parker Family Health Center in Red Bank, and mother to an eighth grader, Carmen finds time to keep herself in shape by having two personal trainers. One works on maintaining her physical strength while the other focuses on her endurance cycling. Treatments that include eight weeks of infusions taken with high dose steroids have had a great impact on her life, but she accepts her treatments are necessary until a cure is found.

“I can live with the treatments and have been training and living out loud throughout this process,” Carmen says. “It has been very special to have my husband involved.

He is my ultimate cheerleader and without his encouragement and love throughout the years and with this training, I don’t know where I would be right now. My daughter, Rachael, and I will be riding the last 25 miles on October 21, 2017 to ‘bring Daddy home’ along with the other riders.”

There will be an additional 65-mile fundraising ride from Bristol, CT to the finish line in Fairfield, CT to celebrate the cross country riders. Friends and family of the nine-person team are taking part, including DonnaLyn Geigerich Zapcic and Tom Zapcic of Red Bank*.

An avid skier, sailor, and lover of adventure travel, the cross country ride is a bucket list item for Mike who owns and operates Collex Collision Experts in Shrewsbury. Cycling recreationally for almost thirty years, he has always wanted to do a cross country adventure.

“When Janssen Oncology stepped up to sponsor the ride and we had the full backing of the MMRF to help raise funds, it was too perfect,” Mike says. “Both Carmen and I have been involved in smaller events for the MMRF, but this is a biggie and it being a biggie makes me confident people will be generous in a big way too. With this ride I personally have a great opportunity to raise significant awareness and significant money, and to hand it over to an organization that is truly committed to helping Carmen and thousands of other cancer patients.”

Mike describes the past year as an emotional one with Carmen’s most recent stem cell transplant.

“Through it all, Carmen has, and we have been, strong,” Mike says. “With 15 years of practice we’ve at least learned to roll with the punches. Even still, it takes its toll…which brings me to this ride. No one likes to sit back and spectate when they have an opportunity to do something. The MMRF translates funds into real research and treatments. However serious the disease, people join together with tremendous focus and belief and it’s simply an incredible juggernaut to witness and be a part of.

With that, I can only suggest any amount helps. However small, anyone should feel confident that their monies will be leveraged amazingly well by the MMRF. They are really, really, really good at what they do.”

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For Carmen the ride is a huge physical accomplishment and something exciting for her husband to be a part of, as well as a way to involve her daughter.

“Our cancer journey has been a long 15 year ride for Mike, and he has been there for me 100%,” Carmen shares. “This ride is a culmination of my perseverance to live my life the way I want, and not to let cancer dictate it. This ride has encouraged me, more than ever, to share my story and to be an ardent supporter of the MMRF, who are saving and extending the lives of myeloma patients. The MMRF research paradigm is crossing over into other cancer research areas. We are eager to share how to bring treatments to patients faster and to share methods that will someday cure many other cancers. For these reasons and many more, I will do anything to support the MMRF… anything!

Carpe Diem!”

For more information on MMRF, or to support Mike and Carmen’s ride, visit https://endurance.themmrf. org/RoadToVictories/ MikeandCarmforCure

Carmen Phaneuf holding her stem cells prior to one of her mini booster infusions this spring.

In 2008, six months after his wife Donnalyn Giegerich finished treatments for her cancer, Tom Zapcic was diagnosed with a rare cancer called Multiple Myeloma (MM). Over the past nine years, Zapcic has had two stem cell transplants and numerous chemo treatments to keep the beast at bay. MM has no cure, you can only hope for stability.

The Multiple Myeloma Research Foundation (MMRF) was created to help fund research for this incurable disease. In the past ten years, ten new drugs have come to market, including several that have helped Zapcic in his battle.

The MMRF created TEAM ENDURANCE to raise money and awareness for this condition. In 2014, Zapcic joined the TEAM and ran up the Empire State Building in it’s annual “Run Up.” He also spent 19 hours last summer with Donnalyn photographing the triathletes representing the MMRF at the Lake Placid Ironman. “If they can be out there all day, so can I!” noted Tom. Now he and Donnalyn are joining many other patients and supporters this coming October, to bike across Connecticut to meet the riders who are biking across the country for the MMRF. For more information on MMRF, or to support Tom and DonnaLyn’s ride, visit https://endurance.themmrf.org/ RoadToVictories/TeamZapcic

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Uncovering Hidden Epicurean Delights “ D’JEET?” ASKED GRANDPA If you didn’t know d’jeet? was tucked in the southeast corner of The Grove on Route 35 in Shrewsbury, you’re speeding through life too quickly. You’ve probably driven past it hundreds of times not knowing what a gem you’re missing. (I suppose most precious places are like that). So, it’s time for the FoodSpy to shine the light on this favorite.

A little background here worth telling.

Owner Casey Pesce shares a FoodSpy mantra that food is like love and art fused and a platform to bring people to the table. This 30-something chef grew up in his family’s butcher shop in Staten Island, where like any good Italian, his grandfather would first and always ask “Did ya’ eat?” So when Casey opened his first place in Middletown, out of respect and connection to his roots he named his epicurean dream, d’jeet? The roots sprouted quickly and he parlayed his experience and passion for food from his mother’s catering business and positions at The Grenville (Bay Head), Fromagerie (Rumson), and Mumford's (Tinton Falls) and architected this local find. Casey studied his craft in Italy where he learned the art of pasta and cooking with ingredients that are produced fresh and nearby. He keeps a local garden with heirloom tomatoes, varieties of lettuce, chickpeas, carrots and four kinds of kale. He sources produce from local farms, and high-end meats from throughout the tristate area. His daily, ever-changing menu represents family, friends and memories. And Pesce truly recreates this passion and relishes in the delight of providing people with food they can feel good about, traditions passed down from ancestors and brings you natural, flavorful foods using

seasonal and local ingredients.

The FoodSpy has been coming here for years and it’s always an adventure as the seasonal menu changes constantly with the freshest of ingredients and almost invites you to try new things. The servers are a special mix of confident and knowledgeable and are never shy about giving a helpful opinion on what’s hot that night and how each dish is prepared.

The specials are always exciting and we’ve experienced amazement with dishes from gourmet meatloaf to jaw dropping short ribs – so our advice is to banter with your server and try something new. On our recent visit we tried three appetizer specials, a Grilled Jersey Peach & Buratta Salad with Baby Arugula, Spiced Pecans, Aged Balsamic and Grilled Red Onion, a Watermelon Jicama Salad with Baby Greens, Feta, Sunflower Seeds, Navel Oranges, Garden Herb Vinaigrette (both salads more than large enough to share), along with some of the most amazingly tender Grilled Octopus (which is a FoodSpy litmus test) I have ever tasted. For entrées we almost always hone in on the fresh fish creations. The Seared Day Boat Sea Scallops with Organic Beets, Broccolini, Organic French Beans and Corn Nage’ was a special along with the Sushi grade, wonderfully deep-red seared Ahi Tuna over broccolini and some amazing thinly sliced seasoned potato crostini. We also went straight to the menu with a Grilled Wester Ross Salmon with garden cucumber & beet salad, heirloom tomato, wilted garden greens and a toasted caraway dressing. I would also recommend a sharable dish of homemade pasta – try the Whole Wheat Tagliatelle with almond-basil pesto, tomato confit and shaved pecorino or

the Portobello Mushroom Ravioli with Port Salut cheese, caramelized root vegetables in truffle sauce. At the wink/recommendation of our server, we tried another “off the beaten path” special – The Gourmet Cheesesteak, top end beef (cooked to order) with browned Vidalia onion and roasted red peppers topped in an exotic imported cheese concoction on fresh baked bread... wow. Like I said, d’jeet? always puts new ideas in front of you if you’re willing to step up and explore. They of course have a wonderful selection of desserts and gourmet coffees and teas (which you can also take to go).

If you are looking for a fun night out with a group, they offer a chef’s table for parties of eight or more. Chef will create a customized tasting menu and will walk you through each course. The dining room seats 58, some tucked into intimate spaces, others spaced out across the room, and up to a dozen at the “community table”. It is a BYO and is open for breakfast, lunch and dinner and sports lovely outdoor patio seating. Weekend diners should book a table or come in smaller groups and be seated communally; d’jeet? is located in The Grove at 637 Broad Street, Route 35 in Shrewsbury. Call 732.224.8887 for reservations and tell Casey the FoodSpy sent you. He’ll be sure to make sure your experience special – come hungry, leave satisfied and he will not have to ask … “Did ya’ eat”?

Until next month – live well & eat well.

The FoodSpy

THE FOOD SPY seeks and finds hidden, and perhaps not so hidden epicurean gems in and around Monmouth County promoting the notion that good wine, good food in good company is one of life’s simplest and civilized pleasures. Sharing these gems is the mission of the Food Spy. The Food Spy is an active contributor for both Zagat and TripAdvisor and accepts input, ideas and gem suggestions from Community Magazine readers and can be secretly contacted at foodspynj@gmail.com.

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