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Frances Foundation Raises $170,000 for Children with Cancer

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14 MCSPCA Raises Nearly $360,000 at Fur Ball Gala

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Halloween and Thanksgiving have passed, we’ve had our first snow, and it’s time for dreidels and mistletoe. In so many ways it has been a challenging year, but there’s nothing as curative as hope, inspiration, and celebration.

So light the fire, heat up a little cocoa, and set in with us for a great issue.

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We at CM wanted to focus on what we call the “It’s a Wonderful Life” moments of Christmas, and when we reached out to our readers we found Hallmark Christmas movies have become a big part of many families’ celebrations. Hallmark Channel and Hallmark Movies & Mysteries, owned by Crown Media Family Networks, seem to have learned the magic of all the feel-good moments of the season. Our cover story on page 31 shares what these movies mean to several of our neighbors as well as our exclusive interview with Jen Lilley, one of Hallmark’s biggest stars.

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Speaking of neighbors, on page 61 we caught up with award-winning singer/songwriter Jo Wymer for a Meet Your Neighbor feature. She’s a Navy Veteran, a multi-instrumentalist, a vocologist, and a self-proclaimed church chick. I think you’ll enjoy learning more about her.

Our Beyond the Brand feature this month pays homage to a favorite holiday tradition, all the wonderful sweets!

On page 38 you’ll meet Jeff Sytsma, the pastry chef behind Honeybell Bakery. Jeff is co-owner of Bell Market, the new food hall at Bell Works in Holmdel, and brings Manhattan worthy offerings to our fair county. After reading about his Honeybell Morning Buns, I dare you not to run out and try some!

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The next letter I write you will be part of a new year. We turn the page once again, bringing 2018 to a close. For some it was a year that will be remembered as a favorite, for others it held heartbreak and challenges. My wish is that 2019 brings only good memories for all of us.

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14th Annual Frances Foundation Gala

Raises $170,000 for Children with Cancer

By Susan Murphy

Left to right: Joe and Rich Parker, Marianne Tucker, Aedan Parker, Volunteer of the Year Trustee Pattie Tucker, Maggie Tucker, Jay Oliver, Nancy Parker, and Jordan Bowman.

THE FRANCES FOUNDATION for Kids Fighting Cancer hosted its 14th Annual Gala, “The Garden of Inspiration,” at the Ocean Place Resort in Long Branch on October 20, 2018. About 1,000 dinner guests, supporters, and volunteers attended. The Frances Foundation honored its pediatric cancer families including sixty warrior and angel families who attended the gala.

The event included a lavish cocktail hour featuring Phil Bruschi Sings Sinatra, and songs sung by warrior Jordan Williams and pediatric cancer mom Suzanne McMahon. A delicious dinner and delectable desserts followed. Guests eagerly bid on 150 spectacular gift baskets and 50 fabulous silent auction items – two of which were tickets to see the National Champs Villanova Wildcats play on

Left to right: Trustees Dave Wand, Vanessa Heugle, Jr., Trustee Emma Wand, and President Bob Heugle take a moment from the Gala.

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Nova’s newly renovated campus pavilion; and a round of golf for a foursome at Hollywood Country Club. During the event, The Frances Foundation honored trustees Suzie Healy of Ocean Township, and Pattie Tucker of Jackson, as Volunteers of the Year, and volunteer Claire D’Alessio of Ocean City, as the Ambassador of the Year. Special Recognition Awards were presented to trustees Jess Kenny, Steve Bernhardt, and Lauren Pericone, all from Howell, for their outstanding work in coordinating numerous events throughout the year benefitting the Frances Foundation’s pediatric cancer warriors.

President Bob Heugle shared, “In an emotional tribute that included an inspiring song from warrior McKenzy Hupke, the Frances Foundation’s angel moms and siblings were

Trustees Chris and Melissa Heugle are joined by Jr. Trustees Tyler and Nicholas Heugle.

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presented with gifts of love.” Highlighting the evening was the special presentation to the Gala’s Guests of Honor— 40 pediatric cancer warriors. Each warrior’s favorite song played as they were proudly introduced to the guests, and each child responded with an inspiring word of encouragement and hope.

Following the dinner program, the talented singers from D’Amico Entertainment kept the dancing going until after midnight.

This event, which raised more than $170,000, directs 100% of these funds to The Frances Foundation’s pediatric cancer families. “It was a privilege for us to honor our warriors, angels, and their families,” said President Heugle.

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THE MONMOUTH COUNTY SPCA held its 2018 Fur Ball Gala on November 10, 2018, at the Shadowbrook in Shrewsbury. This year’s event encompassed the tag line “The Art of Community Compassion,” and featured different works from famous artists rendered through décor. The event was extremely successful, raising nearly $360,000 for the Monmouth County SPCA’s homeless animals and community programs.

The event’s Chairs, Sheldon and Anne Vogel along with coChair Frances Turner, formally announced the establishment of the Vogel Veterinary Care Center, an extension of the MCSPCA shelter. The VVCC program was designed to encourage responsible pet ownership and prevent neglect by providing high quality, low cost veterinary care to the residents of Monmouth County and its surrounding areas. The Monmouth County SPCA was pleased to honor its shelter Medical Director, Dr. Nicole Feddersen, who has provided many years of valuable veterinary care to the abused and neglected animals of the shelter while overseeing the critical work of the Vogel Veterinary Care Center.

The ballroom at the Shadowbrook was transformed with jewel-toned table clothes topped with animal-shaped topiaries, colorful flower arrangements, votive candles and handmade origami. The Alternate Groove Party Band kept the night light and upbeat while guests enjoyed caricaturists and an “Art of the Selfie” station. This year’s silent auction featured nearly 100 highly coveted, hand selected items with highlights such as Harry Potter on Broadway, a VIP evening with the Rockettes and a private, inhome, wine and cheese tasting. The live auction portion of the evening included an all-inclusive trip to the island of Barbados as well as a private tour for six to the Oscar Davis Car Museum, which was never before open for public viewing. Professional auctioneer, Peter Constanzo, brought great energy to the room during the live auction ask and motivated attendees to donate to the life-saving programs of the Monmouth County SPCA.

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Left to right: Dr. Nicole Feddersen, Chief Ross Licitra, Sheldon Vogel, and Anne Vogel.

The highlight of the evening was the event’s “Welcome Waggin’,” which featured canine alumni Rico and adoptable puppy Hunter, both who have benefited from the tireless work of the Monmouth County SPCA. Guests were delighted to mingle amidst some furry friends during the evening and learn about their journeys to a happy ending. The event would not have been possible without the support of the event’s “Canine Curator” sponsor, The Hesse Companies, along with new friends and supporters like Conair and Monmouth Medical Center. For a full list of sponsors, visit monmouthcountyspca.org.

“We are thrilled with the outcome of this year’s Fur Ball Gala,” said Monmouth County SPCA Chief of Humane Law Enforcement and Executive Director Ross Licitra. “The goal of the Monmouth County SPCA and its respective programs has always been to support our community’s animals,” he added, “and with the establishment of the Vogel Veterinary Care Center, overseen by Dr. Nicole Feddersen, we’re able to expand our mission to protect and advocate for animals throughout Monmouth County and New Jersey.”

With the success of the Fur Ball under their collar, the Monmouth County SPCA will begin to plan its annual Valentine’s Day Brunch on February 10th at Navesink Country Club along with ita 25th Anniversary Dog Walk + Pet Fair being held on Saturday, April 27th at Brookdale Community College. For more information on upcoming events please email events@monmouthcountyspca. org or call 732-440-1548.

Junior League of Monmouth County Hosts Sold-Out Crowd for

2018 Women Making a Difference Luncheon Photo Credit: Tom Zapcic Photography

JLMC President Heather Viola Levering, Award Winner Kelli O’Brien from Care To Give, JLMC President-Elect Lori Hohenleitner, and Dorothea Bongiovi.

THE 2018 WOMEN MAKING A DIFFERENCE LUNCHEON, hosted by Junior League of Monmouth County (JLMC), took place in November at The Navesink Country Club with a sold-out crowd of more than 230 to celebrate the endeavors of the outstanding women volunteers representing 17 organizations. The 5th annual Junior League of Monmouth County Women Making A Difference Community Volunteer Award winner was Kelli O’Brien from Care To Give, Riverview Medical Center Women’s Auxiliary. The award was presented to Kelli by Dorothea Bongiovi, and a grant of $1000 was awarded to Care To Give from the Junior League of Monmouth County (JLMC) in honor of her contributions to the community. The nominees included: Janet Smuga - English Speaking Union of Monmouth County, Vanessa Van Noy - Headstands for Hunger, Eleanor Taylor - Lunch Break, Sage Basri - American Red Cross, Ellen Davis – HABcore, Suzanne Dice - Monmouth Day Care Center, Rachel Ruding - The TEARS Foundation, Ellen Lichtig & Betsey Wattley Greater Red Bank Women’s Initiative, Donnalyn Geigerich - Kick Cancer Overboard, Lynn Spector - Visiting Nurse Association Health Group, and Lisa Tremayne - The Bloom Foundation.

The JLMC is an organization of women committed to promoting voluntarism, developing the potential of women, and improving the community through the effective action and leadership of trained volunteers. The JLMC focuses on facilitating the empowerment of girls to become confident women. For more information, visit jlmc.org.

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troupe of musicians bringing music, friendship, help, and hope to those too often left out in the cold at the most special time of the year. The band normally plays far from the limelight, in sometimes desperate circumstances, and all for absolutely no pay. Made up of more than 100 of the best musicians on the Jersey Shore, the musicians along with several dozen support staff, will deliver not only music, but, clothing, food, and fun to adults and children in need, including veterans, the mentally and physically challenged, individuals in addiction and recovery programs, the isolated, and the homeless. More information at holidayexpress.org.

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Counseling Corner

Counseling Corner will provide a monthly article on mental health topics of interest

The Most Wonderful Time of the Year?

Carianne D’Oriano, LPC

The holidays are supposed to be the “most wonderful time of the year”, but they can also be the most stressful time. Between cooking, cleaning, organizing, buying gifts, spending money, decorating, entertaining, and all of the other tasks that go along with having the perfect holiday season, who has time to take care of their mental health?

For most people, the holidays are a time for gathering around loved ones and sharing delicious food and generous gifts. For others, it is a time to spend with family they may be dreading to see or the thought of planning a four course dinner may start to increase their anxiety astronomically. Whether or not the holiday season is a happy time for you, it may also bring an increase in stress, anxiety, and/or depression.

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It is okay to say no. Expectations and invitations seem to increase tenfold during the holiday season.

If you feel like you cannot make an occasion or complete an obligation, your friends and family members will understand if you say no.

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It is okay to be sad, angry, or experience grief. Just because it is the holiday season, it does not mean you need to be happy all the time.

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If you are feeling lonely - reach out to community or religious resources or volunteer at your local food bank or shelter.

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Be open to change! Traditions do not have to stay the same year after year. Try to come up with new ones to replace those that may be unrealistic. Be flexible in planning with your loved ones.

Continue to incorporate healthy habits in your life including exercise, eating healthy, and getting enough sleep. Self-care is extremely important this time of year.

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Use mindfulness and meditation when you start to feel stressed or overwhelmed. It’s amazing what ten deep breaths can do for our anxiety.

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Stick to positive topics when talking to family members you may disagree with or not get along with.

The holiday season is not the time to start arguments with relatives.

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Remember that money doesn’t buy happiness. Create a budget for gifts and other expenses and stick to it!

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Plan ahead! Use a planner or write lists to help organize yourself.

10. Seek professional help if needed.

The following are signs you may need to reach out to a professional: headaches, over- eating, difficulty sleeping, excessive drinking, crying spells, mood swings, fatigue, irritability, decreased activity level, hopelessness, overwhelming sadness, lack of motivation, lack of energy, and difficulty concentrating among others.

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The Window is Closing… FAST !

ON JANUARY 1, 2019 alimony payments will no longer be deductible on federal income tax returns unless the payments are made pursuant to an order or judgment of the court entered before that date. That is why many divorcing couples are now driven by a sense of urgency to settle their cases.

They’d like to take advantage of a tax law provision that has been in effect for more than seventy years and generally benefits both former spouses.

How does it benefit both? The spouse paying alimony generally earns more and is, therefore, in a higher tax bracket. That spouse will save more because the higher tax rate results in a higher tax liability. Deducting alimony in a higher bracket, therefore, saves more taxes. The spouse receiving al-

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imony is usually the one with the lower income and, therefore, the one in the lower tax bracket. As such, the tax on the alimony will be assessed at a lower rate than if the tax were paid by the paying spouse at the higher tax rate.

On January 1, 2019 all that is reversed. The paying spouse will pay the tax (at the higher rate) and the receiving spouse will receive the alimony tax fee. Ah, but that is only the beginning. Alimony amounts will generally plummet because the paying spouse isn’t going to want to pay alimony and the tax on the alimony.

And, thus, although the recipient will get alimony tax free, rest assured it will very likely be less in pocket than if higher alimony was paid under the old rules.

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Why the change? Who benefits from this? The federal government, that’s who. This small change in tax law is estimated to create nearly $7 billion in additional tax revenue over the next ten years. Uncle Sam is picking the pockets of divorcing couples to help pay for the tax cuts Congress and the President so generously gave to corporate America. The problem is the $7 billion is a pittance when it comes to funding budget deficits, but, to each family affected, these are meaningful dollars that could pay for health insurance, college tuition, or other important family expenses.

So hurry. Settle your case while you still have time to take advantage of Uncle Sam and before he takes advantage of you.

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Liva Helt, RBR’s female football kicker is shown in the special locker space created for her by the school in their equipment room.

Liva Helt kicks an extra point at a RBR football game.

Succeeding at the Unconventional RBR Female Football Player an Inspiration to All

By any measure, Red Bank Regional (RBR) female football player and junior Liva Helt, 16 from Little Silver, has lived an unconventional life. A Danish citizen born in the Czech Republic, she lived in Vienna and California before settling in New Jersey in the seventh grade. Liva has made headlines in pursuing her ambitions while honing her amazing talents. Every summer she travels to her home country to play on the Danish National Youth Soccer team.

During her school year in America, she constantly travels to Somerset, to practice with the PDA –Players Development Academy. PDA is an elite soccer club that promotes youth soccer excellence and national and international competitions.

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While the rules of the PDA soccer program prevent her from playing soccer on her local high school team, it does not affect her participation on other sports teams. Last year, a spark germinated as she sat with her fellow classmates on the BUC Deck—the bleachers where students congregate to cheer on the football team.

She watched the place kicker kick an extra point through the uprights and thought, “If I can kick a soccer ball, I bet I can kick a football.”

This was a big challenge for Liva, since she had no real knowledge of football before she made the decision to play. Nevertheless, this past summer she emailed RBR football Coach Nick Giglio

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and asked if she could join the team. He responded quickly and she was on the practice field in July.

Coach Giglio states, “I am also very proud of Liva for putting herself out there in a different environment --going from the soccer field, where she is ultracomfortable, to a football field where she had to learn the game from scratch.” He adds of her abilities, “She is very coachable, and is a high level athlete no matter what sport she plays. Her concentration, focus, and intensity show when performing her responsibilities on the field.”

For a coach to recognize raw talent is one thing, but gaining acceptance from 40 male teammates, however, could have been a challenge for this 5’ 6” young woman.

Instead she found the opposite was true.

The school set up a special accommodation in a solitary changing room and locker in the equipment room while her teammates embraced her as one of the guys.

Liva explains, “It has been a great experience. My teammates have been very supportive and encouraging. They told me, ‘you can kick a soccer ball, you can do this.’”

She has kicked for both the varsity and junior varsity teams. She recounts an October game when she actually got to kick a field goal for the varsity team.

She states, “It was just before my birthday and I came out and did it!

Afterwards they all sang Happy Birthday to me.”

In all, Liva has scored about 18 points.

She has her accuracy down and is busy

working on distance. Asked the obvious question if she was afraid of being tackled she replied, “I have two older brothers, and am kind of a tomboy. But I feel great protection from my team, and trust them to protect me.”

Next year, she plans to continue kicking for RBR with hopefully clocking more varsity time. In addition to the competition of sport, Liva explains that there was another reason motivating her to play football with the boys.

She states, “With everything that is going on with women and how they are being treated, I wanted to do something where I could break a glass ceiling. As my dad always says, ‘Be the change you want to see.’ It was very important for me to do this.”

Her persistence has paid off as anyone can witness as RBR’s newest football celebrity travels through RBR halls to constant greetings and congratulations from everyone she passes that both recognize and respect her. Coach Giglio comments, “I believe this experience has broadened her level of play, and has shown her and many other girls and boys that if you want to do something in life, then ‘go get it’, take the initiative and combine it with hard work and you can accomplish anything you want in life!”

Liva is very much a child of the world and is working toward Liva Helt celebrates a BUC victory with her teammates.

an International Baccalaureate Diploma. (RBR is one of a handful of schools that offer this program in New Jersey.) While her college choice is already set on an elite Ivy League school, post college she would like to continue to travel the world and perhaps pursue a career in politics or medicine.

Regarding all the hype and celebrity she has garnered from being interviewed by New Jersey media as well as NBC national news, Liva insists that the story isn’t about a young girl doing something unconventional. She explains, “The story is that a group of 40 boys adapted willingly to this change and have so well supported me in it.”

Coach Giglio agrees stating, “Liva Helt has meant so much to our football program. Our coaching staff and players have all become better players, coaches, teammates, and people by having the pleasure to have Liva be a part of our lives. I am extremely proud of her 40 teammates for accepting, welcoming, and supporting Liva both on and off the football field.”

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You’ll need 24 hours before you’ll want to apply makeup but it’s worth the day hanging home to Netflix and chill. Jennifer Aniston revealed her love for microneedling in a 2014 interview with People Magazine.

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Local Business Leaders Kick Up Their Heels for Girl Scouts of the Jersey Shore at 4th Annual Dance Competition Five local business leaders danced the night away to raise support for Girl Scouts of the Jersey Shore at the fourth annual “Dancing with Our Monmouth and Ocean County Stars” event on November 15 at Eagle Oaks Country Club in Farmingdale.

Susu Garcia, signature program specialist at Girl Scouts of the Jersey Shore, was the judges’ selection for the Grand Champion Award.

Garcia, unexpectedly performed with her husband, Pedro Fuentes, who stepped in when her dancing partner was delayed by inclement weather. Long-time Girl Scout supporter and alumna Gale Grob, an employee at Ocean Medical Center, was top vote-getter from the public and earned the People’s Choice Award.

Also dancing for the Girl Scouts were: Robert Allison, partner at Hollman, Frenia, Allison, P.C., a local CPA firm; Thomas A. Arnone, Monmouth County Freeholder director; and, Tom Devoy, co-host of the Thunder 106 morning show, “Pork Roll and Eggs.”

The “stars” were paired with professional dancers from Fred Astaire Dance Studios, Manasquan; the Middletown Arts Center; Shore DanceSport, Brick; and Shoreline Dance Academy, Ocean Grove. Arthur Murray Dance Centers in Red Bank also choreographed and prepared a group of Girl Scouts who surprised the crowd with a “Flash Mob” dance to get the evening started.

Judges for the event were: Tom Grosse, Toms River Police Department, and Grand Champion of last year’s event; Jeremy Grunin, Jay and Linda Grunin Foundation; Tom Hayes, New Jersey Natural Gas; and Denise Gaffney, Monmouth Medical Center South Campus Foundation.

Proceeds from event will support Girl Scout programs that build women of courage, confidence, and character.

Left to right: Gail Grob and dancing partner Sean Nepvue take home the “People’s Choice Award” and Richard Givney, Susu Garcia, and her husband, Pedro Fuentes, capture the “Grand Champion Award” at Girl Scouts of the Jersey Shore’s 2018 Dancing with Our Monmouth and Ocean County Stars event Nov. 15, at Eagle Oaks Golf & Country Club.

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Or that balance can be improved more quickly through exercises that target your inner ears than through strength or agility drills?

I recently began studying neuroscience and bringing in neurologically based exercises I learned from a program called Z-Health, a fitness system that focuses on the connection between the brain and body. I noticed that clients who previously had taken six months to improve balance using traditional methods would improve in a single session using neurological drills.

It turns out that if you need to make changes in pain, range of motion, strength, coordination, speed, agility, or any other physical elements, the fastest path to getting there is to adjust your nervous system.

I’m now seeing clients with years of back pain feel relief within days; seniors improve their balance in a single session;

a 59 year old client gain strength and speed on the ice doing simple ankle and hip mobility drills and ultimately shoot the winning goal in his ice hockey tournament.

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I’m going to borrow an analogy from Dr. Eric Cobb, one of the world's leading experts in the neurology of movement, for a practical understanding of why neurological drills work.

Some of you may use a GPS (Global Positioning Satellite) in your car. That GPS needs to link up with at least three satellites before it can give you driving directions. Now, if only one of these three links gets knocked out -- your GPS stops working. The three "satellites" that guide you on how to move your body are your visual system, inner ear balance system (vestibular) and body movement awareness system (proprioception). The quality of the information coming in from eyes, inner ear and movement systems and the integration of this information in your brain determines how well you move and feel. If any one of these "satellites" links becomes weak, or gets out-of-alignment, your body can react

with pain, balance issues, inflexibility, and loss of strength.

By targeting the nervous system in ways that challenge your visual, vestibular and proprioceptive systems, you will see changes to your body that far exceed anything experienced with traditional training. These training sessions may seem odd at first as they will include things like shaking your head while keeping your eyes on an object, playing catch on one foot, tilting your ankle to improve hamstring strength. But each drill is steeped in neuroscience and will help anyone ranging from those with balance issues, or those with joint injuries or arthritis, to world-class athletes.

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Dr. Frankel taught attendees how to get the most out of their life, whether they were navigating the corporate world, volunteering, or transitioning to your next big thing. Dr. Frankel’s program included tips on building relationships that work for you, setting boundaries, having difficult conversations and handling resistance.

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When asking someone if he or she watches Hallmark for the holidays, the responses are amazingly similar. There’s either a shrug and a no, or a passionate yes followed by “all the time” or “every day”. Hallmark viewers aren’t only enthusiastic, they’re fiercely loyal.

As the network has grown, going from one cable channel to now three plus a streaming service, the quality of the actors and the writers have been enhanced as well. Classic stars such as Lindsay Wagner, Henry Winkler, Carol Burnett, and Shirley MacLaine are making movies based on stories by best-selling authors Debbie Macomber and Karen Kingsbury. And local enthusiasts are noticing.

One or both leads find Christmas spirit and “I love Hallmark movies,” shared Lisa Russo, can’t help but fall in love, sometimes with a realtor who lives in Eatontown. “I DVR the help of an angel. And every single story them and watch them every night as I’m go“The movies have gotten better and better,” is positive, uplifting, family-friendly, and ing to sleep. They make me feel happy.” said JoEllen Chiarelli of Colts Neck. “My makes the viewer smile. Families gather There are closet Hallmark fans as well. husband and I enjoy the different stories around these movies, couples reserve their Several men I spoke with watch the movies and I’ve come to have favorite actors. I weekend evenings to watch them, and girlwith their wives. One Holmdel man, un- look forward each year to seeing what new friends host viewing parties complete with der the promise of anonymity, confessed things they’ll come up with and who will be popcorn and hot chocolate to celebrate the he DVRs the movies and then watches in each of the new movies. Hallmark is how holidays together. If you’re one of the milthem on his laptop while he’s away on busi- we bring in our Christmas season. Most of lions who have made these movies part of ness. “They’re good stories with some very my family and friends watch and we talk your yearly celebration, chances are you’ve good actors,” he said. “My favorite is Jen about which are our favorites and what we been watching since before Halloween. The Lilley. She’s talented and funny; her physi- thought about the new movies each week.

Hallmark Countdown to Christmas began cal comedy reminds me of a young Debbie My mom has so many on her DVR and on October 26 with more than 30 new movies Reynolds. And when I’m away and lonely refuses to erase them because she enjoys premiering on two channels before the New for my family, the movies make me feel watching them throughout the year. By the Year. And the cable network is enjoying regood.” way, we also watch Hallmark’s Christmas cord-breaking viewing week after week. in July.”

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What about those who say the stories are all too similar, that the happy ending tends to make the plot predictable, or that the holiday season starts too early in October?

Sue Beronio, from Eatontown, had her answer ready. “I watch Hallmark because they are feel-good movies where everything works out, the guy gets the girl, the monarch thaws to her son’s love, and I get to see Henry Winkler. Last Friday was cold and rainy. I told someone at work I couldn’t wait to get home, put my jammies on, curl up on the couch and watch Hallmark with my hubby. She laughed and said, ‘it’s not even Thanksgiving yet’. I told her it didn’t matter, the movies should be watched all year. Turns out, she went home and put Hallmark on too. We chatted about it on Facebook. Another happy convert.”

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The holidays are filled with love and good will, but also sadness and longing for missing those no longer with us, plus stress from the added demands. Hallmark movies seem to make the season a little brighter as the go-to cure for holiday blues.

“Some of the movies make me cry, others make me nostalgic, and then some just make me smile,” said Grace Magee, a Shrewsbury resident. “I love getting into the Christmas spirit with these films. After a long day at work, or a stressful day of Christmas shopping fighting the crowds, I look forward to relaxing with something I know will have a happy ending.”

Mingle All the Way Photo: Jen Lilley, Lindsay Wagner Credit: ©2018 Crown Media United States LLC/Photographer: Ricardo Hubbs

Christmas at Grand Valley Photo: Brennan Elliott, Danica McKellar Credit: ©2018 Crown Media United States LLC/Photographer: Ben Mark Holzberg

Not only a pick-me-up, the movies are filling a void left by the demise of the romantic comedy in Hollywood. In the 1990s romcoms comprised nearly 10% of all films made, today they account for less than 1%.

The days of Hanks and Ryan being over have left a considerable portion of the population avoiding movie theaters on Saturday night. With romance being the top-selling genre in books and a billion-dollar industry, Hallmark has discovered romance is not only still alive, but as popular as ever. Good will or good business sense, Hallmark movies are here to stay and have become a favorite part of many local families’ holidays. _

Note to our readers - visit our CM Facebook page each week in December for an exclusive interview with a different Hallmark Channel or Hallmark Movies & Mystery movie star and a chance to win a signed album cover from Jen Lilley!

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Jen Lilley

You may recognize her from her roles in movies on Hallmark Channel, her supporting role in the 2011 French film The Artist that won the Academy Award for best picture, or her characters Theresa Donovan on Days of Our Lives or Maxie Jones on General Hospital.

a Bright Star in Hallmark’s Constellation STORY

CATHY PADILLA

Perhaps you have her Christmas CD, Tinsel Time, or her new single, King of Hearts, playing in the background as you read this article. Or you may have spotted her at a mission doing charity work, or advocating for children’s rights with the numerous organizations she supports. However you know her, if you were to speak with Jen Lilley, three things become obvious - she is incredibly kind, unusually intelligent, and she’s a whole lot of fun.

Jen has guest starred on a number of TV shows and starred in several TV movies on Lifetime, including The Spirit of Christmas; Mommy, I Didn’t Do It; and Twin Betrayal.

But she is best known as one of America’s Hallmark Channel sweethearts, starring in several movies that highlight her knack for physical comedy, including A Dash of Love; Eat, Play, Love; Harvest Love; Yes, I Do; and this month’s Countdown to Christmas movie Mingle All the Way that premiered December 1 co-starring Lindsay Wagner.

Her star on the rise, Jen’s name came up more than a few times as a favorite when speaking to Monmouth County residents about their love for Hallmark movies.

Here is our exclusive interview with the multi-talented Jen Lilley.

CM: When I asked our readers about you, several commented that they feel like they know you. Like you’re a friend.

Jen: I love that. That’s the kind of celebrity I want to be. So many PR houses try to make you unattainable, and that’s just not who I am. I want people to feel good about who they are. I’m normal. I’m from Virginia. I want to say to them, ‘you can chase your dreams too’. I love when fans feel like they know me, I’m like ‘good, I want to know you too’.

CM: You’ve become a much-loved Hallmark star. Of the movies you’ve made so far, which character did you best identify with?

Jen: Thank you! I most related to Nikki Turner in A Dash of Love, because I love to cook and bake, plus I’m clumsy and often use my humor to deflate tense situations.

I love the stories Hallmark Channel tells, and the strong and kind characters they create. And let’s be honest, we could all use a little more kindness and positivity in today’s world.

CM: What does it mean for you to be part of Countdown to Christmas on Hallmark Channel?

Jen: It is, wow, it’s so amazing for me. Like you, I grew up watching Hallmark. And every single Christmas my mom took us down to the Hallmark store and we would get an ornament for the tree, all four of us.

I’m one of four siblings. And we loved that and looked forward to that. So it’s amazing to be part of something, Hallmark, that is so iconic, so uplifting, something that means Christmas to my family. The reason it’s such a popular network is because it’s an ode to entertainment, and entertainment was created for positive escape. I love being part of a network that anyone can sit down with kids, and if they need to leave the room, they can in full confidence that everything the kids are watching will be fine.

It’s fulfilling to be part of something that is such a positive experience for people. I absolutely love working for Hallmark.

CM: On Days of Our Lives you played the bad-girl Theresa, which would seem a departure from who you are. Did you enjoy the role?

Jen: I relate to every character I play, because at the core, that’s my job. I particularly loved playing Theresa because I loved playing someone who was so lost and so broken, yet never beyond redemption. By

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you’re the next Amy Winehouse. Your album, Lilley, is coming out in February…

Jen: I’m most excited for the cause behind it. 100% of my net proceeds from the single, the album, and the merchandise on my website ( JenLilleyMusic.com) go to helping orphans and children in foster care. Through the single, we were able to raise enough money to provide a little boy in Uganda with life-saving heart surgery and support Project Orphans monthly operating costs through March. This is only the beginning! I’m so excited for all the good we can do, and I really love the music.

CM: You’re a foster mom. What has the experience been like?

Jen: Foster care is the most broken system in the United States. I know this because 90% of all human trafficking victims in this country, 80% of all inmates, and 50% of our homeless population had a touch with foster care. These statistics are sobering. Clearly, we have deeply failed these abused, neglected, and at-risk children. I got involved to change those statistics on a small, and hopefully later large, scale. The experience has been incredible. Yes, my heart breaks in little ways almost every day, but it’s been such a wonderful experience and I wouldn’t change a moment of it. We often say in our culture that our heart is broken, but I have discovered, when your heart aches because you loved someone, it’s not actually broken at all, it’s malleable.

It’s open and willing and more empathetic than ever, and that’s a wonderful posture.

(Note: Jen became a foster parent with her husband Jason in 2016, and she is now in the process of adopting her foster son and his baby brother.)

Jen: I guess, like anyone, my parents. I’m so incredibly grateful for the foundation they gave me.

CM: Now our readers’ most loved answers, the ‘favorites’ Jen: Oh gosh! I’ll play, but I’m bad at favorites.

Favorite food? Potatoes Favorite drink? Coffee Favorite TV show? Dexter Favorite book? Bible Favorite time of day? Morning time with my little one Do you prefer cats or dogs? Dogs, I’m allergic to cats How would you describe yourself in 3 words? Happy, Ambitious, Surrendered CM: Is there anything else you’d like to share with your fans?

Jen: If you’re still reading this, you are wonderful and loved and created on purpose for a purpose. Keep in touch with me on social media!

I love when fans feel like they know me, I’m like ‘good, I want to know you too’. the time I left the show, she blossomed into this wonderful and deeply selfless individual. It was such a beautiful character arch.

And in a nutshell, it’s a picture of humanity and God’s great love for each and every one of us.

CM: Is there a role you would love to play?

Jen: Clara Bow. (Note: Clara Gordon Bow was an American actress who rose to stardom in silent film during the 1920s and successfully made the transition to “talkies” after 1927.)

CM: Your new single, King of Hearts, has people in the music industry saying

CM: Who has most inspired you in your life?

Jen’s new album Lilley will be available February 2019, with 100% of the net proceeds going to charity.

In the meantime, find her at: imdb.com/name/nm2373595 jenlilley.com jenlilleymusic.com Facebook.com/JenLilleyOfficial @jen_lilley Photo Credit: Brandon Moningka

Gift Giving Ideas from the Fine Jewelry Experts

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❄ THIS HOLIDAY As we rapidly approach the final pages of the last chapter of 2018, all of us at J. Vincent Jewelers hope that this year was filled with joy, happiness and good health for you, your family and friends. Before we say cheers to another New Year, let’s finish this one with a gift from the heart to those special people who bring out the best in who we are.

Our top picks begin with two essentials, diamond stud earrings or a diamond pendant. When friends ask me for gift ideas, I always suggest diamond stud earrings or a diamond pendant as staples in a woman’s ensemble. Timeless, classic and beautiful, gifting either of the above will benchmark a memory that will be cherished and loved by her forever! Another spectacular gift would be a fine piece of jewelry from our Forevermark Tribute Diamond collection, to personify her beautiful and rare qualities.

Please make time to visit our wonderful boutique nested comfortably off Route 34 in the heart of Colts Neck. As the proud and passionate owner, I assure you that your experience will be magical and brilliant . . . like no other in the area!

Have a Wonderful Holiday Season, Merry Christmas & Happy Chanukah!

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8th Annual Halloween Candy Buy Back in Lincroft to Benefit Soldiers It’s rare that children would let their dentist see them with their arms full of candy. But youngsters lined up November 5th at Newman Springs Dental Care carrying sugary treats in boxes and bags.

To help prevent cavities and other unpleasantries associated with excess sugar consumption, the dental office offered its 8th annual Halloween Candy Buy Back, a few days after “trick or treat” day. Children brought their excess spoils in exchange for $1 per pound turned in, flashing toothbrushes and snacks.

“All collected candy was individually boxed up and sent to troops overseas,” said Dr. Aparna Menon. The children also wrote letters to the soldiers to include with the packages. “Most youngsters were willing to part with their candy, with some even turning down the money.”

The event yielded over 100 pounds of candy. Lucille Springer and Ronnie Miccuilla of American Recreational Military Services (ARMS.org) will make sure that the candy gets to our troops in individualized packages. The employees of this Lincroft practice donated toothbrushes and floss so the candy could be enjoyed without guilt. The event was cosponsored by Comcast Spotlight.

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Beyond the Brand:

My next business goal: Our focus at Bell Market is twofold 1) to serve the folks who work in the building and 2) to be a gathering place for the residents of the surrounding neighborhoods and communities. You don’t need to work at Bell Works to enjoy and experience what we are offering.

To that end, we will be extending the hours for Corbo & Sons (our woodfired pizza spot), Jozu (sushi, ramen and robata eatery), and Honeybell Bakery (our bakery and coffee shop) into the evening for dinner service and take-away.

By Cathy Padilla

My favorite food to make: Though we don’t make it at Bell Market (yet!), my favorite thing to make is ice cream and sorbet. I really like the creativity you can have with flavors and the challenge that comes along with understanding the science. It is probably also my favorite sweet thing to eat. It is followed closely by making bread of all types.

Jeff Sytsma of Honeybell Bakery Inside the newly imagined metroburb that is Bell Works in Holmdel, is a food hall like none-other you’ve ever visited. The sound of “food hall” evokes memories of childhood cafeterias, plastic trays, and college pizza and tacos. But if you’ve treated yourself to a stroll through the giant glass building and stopped for lunch at Bell Market, you know the pizza is woodfired with an addicting crust, the ramen is incredibly flavorful, and the Honeybell Morning Bun filled with a delicate orange cream and a touch of marmalade is as good as any pastry you’ve had, well, anywhere. I’ll admit to loving a great pastry, and I’ll also admit to finding them hard to procure in our area. When I tasted the chocolate croissant, I had to meet the man behind the magic. A true lover of food and of helping others enjoy the pleasure of eating, Jeff is friendly and quick to explain how he uses fresh Honeybell oranges to make his masterful morning treats. A talented addition to Monmouth County, meet your new neighbor Jeff Sytsma.

What I do: I’m a chef with RBC Hospitality Group. I went to Johnson & Wales University, graduating in 2004 with a bachelors in Pastry Arts.

When I started my business: My three business partners, Rich Corbo, Chantelle Corbo, Chad Spencer, and I started working on Bell Market in September of 2017. After a couple months, we opened a pop-up to test out recipes and meet our neighbors while the final space was being built.

Before Bell Market, I worked at many hotels and upscale restaurants in New York City, like L’Atelier de Joel Robuchon and Oceana. Most recently, I was a head baker at Bien Cuit in Brooklyn.

What we do: We are a chef-driven food hall inside of the Bell Works building that features five different concepts: wood-fired pizza, ramen/ sushi/robata, bakery and coffee shop, New York inspired deli, and a greens and grains salad bar. Each concept focuses on freshly prepared food, using locally sourced products when available. Our goal is to provide a deeply delicious and nourishing outlet for the Bell Works building as well as the surrounding area and beyond.

What sets me apart from others doing what I do: Between all four partners, we have a combined 45 years of experience working in many Michelin starred restaurants and hotels. Using our training in fine dining, we are able to offer high quality, elevated food, but with speed and consistency. We want to show that great food can be found everywhere.

Why I decided to start my own food business: After working in big cities for many years, we all wanted to bring our knowledge in food and restaurant operations to a broader audience. So when the opportunity to open something inside of Bells Works presented itself, we grabbed ahold.

Each partner has his and her own specialty, and we wanted to showcase that training. By having a food hall, we can present many different thoughtful options to our customers.

What I love most about being in business: I love the reactions people have when they eat and enjoy the food I create. It makes all the daily hard work worth it.

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My best-selling items: All of the croissants have started gaining a following, but our best sellers for now are our selection of cookies, with chocolate chip and sea salt at the top.

Best business tip to share: I think it is really important to spend time with your staff and to train them properly. You can’t succeed in your business without happy, positive, and motivated team members.

Hobbies or activities outside work: Spending time with my wife and dog. Running when I can.

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RCDS Fights Hunger and Serves Community

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Nate Whittemore wiped tiny beads of moisture off his brow as he bent over to hoist the bulk of rice and beans in front of him. He hauled the hefty cargo into a loaded truck and turned back around to repeat the task. Nate, an eighth grader at The Rumson Country Day School was one of thirty RCDS students who volunteered to transport 3,720 pounds of rice and beans to the 38th Annual Red Bank Crop Walk on October 21.

Historically, one of the largest rice and beans donors, the RCDS community was proud to contribute to the record-breaking total of more than 15,300 pounds of food collected this year. Volunteers found numerous opportunities to show their support for The Crop Walk. RCDS student artists were awarded a first-place trophy for designing the best banner at the event. Others walked several miles in an effort to raise social awareness to end hunger worldwide.

“My philosophy in life is to make life better for the next person,” said Nate whose sore muscles the next day were a pleasant reminder of his good deed. “It makes me feel good. Participating in The Crop Walk may seem like a small thing, but it can make a difference.”

Nate is not alone. The entire RCDS community regularly participates in activities that support local charities. Just last week, students collected leftover Halloween candy to benefit families served

by Holiday Express. In May, students and their parents attended a ceramics workshop to design bowls that were sold at the JBJ Soul Kitchen Empty Bowls event which was held this fall. This effort continued at The Crop Walk where bowls were sold in return for donations to feed the community.

RCDS’s Service Learning Program, an elective class available in the upper school, is an additional opportunity for students to tap into their individual talents, recognize the needs of others, and share a positive moment with someone in need.

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‘Tis the Season to be Jolly in Red Bank!

2. Holiday Horse & Wagon Rides This December, Red Bank’s business district will be dressed to the nines for the holidays and what better way to enjoy the colorful decorations and festive atmosphere than to see them aboard a holiday horse and wagon?

This activity lets you marvel and delight in the sights and sounds of the business district specially prepared for Christmas during a free classic horse and wagon ride. The best part about these rides… they are free for people of all ages!

The Holiday Horse and Wagon Rides are available from 1:00 to 5:00 p.m. every Saturday, now through December 22. Ride seekers can board the wagon from 11 Bridge Avenue (near Danny’s Steakhouse) or from 26 Broad St. (near the Robinson Ale House).

It’s the time to share food, fun, laughter, and most importantly, love with everyone. Enliven your holiday season with Red Bank’s family-friendly festivities during the most wonderful time of the year.

If you’re spending the holidays with a friend or a loved one, or you simply want to bask in the holiday spirit of this quaint New Jersey town on your own, you’ll find yourself in for a treat when you visit Red Bank this December. Here are the four ways you can celebrate the holidays in Red Bank: 1. Pictures with Santa Christmas won’t be complete without the annual photo shoot with Santa!

If you want to snap a photo with the jolliest man in town either to send to your friends and family or just a simple keepsake, be sure to head over to The Galleria at 2 Bridge Avenue. Santa Claus will be there every Saturday and Sunday from 12:00 noon to 4:00 p.m., running now through December 22. This gives you the perfect opportunity to have your loved one’s picture taken with Santa Claus.

3. Winter on Broad Street On December 9, get ready to ice skate on Broad Street in Red Bank! In addition to the pop-up ice skating rink there will be a life-size Snow Globe, Scavenger Hunt, and Holiday Bazaar for shoppers, skaters, and sightseers to enjoy. The hours are 11:00 a.m. to 7:00 p.m.

4. Holiday Harmonies Many would agree that one of the best things about the holidays is the music. This probably explains why Christmas carols never go out of style, as compared to Top 40 songs whose popularity wanes over time.

To celebrate this festive occasion, Red Bank has organized Holiday Harmonies. Now through December 22, you can immerse yourself in festive holiday melodies and harmonies performed by the best traditional carolers, choirs, brass bands, handbells, and rock, folk, and jazz musicians from the Red Bank area.

The performers will be stationed at various locations throughout the business district. A number of performers will also wander around town, serenading shoppers and holiday goers. Performances start from noon until three in the afternoon.

The Turning Point Hosts Fundraiser to Benefit LADACIN Network The Turning Point Restaurants, known for upscale breakfast, brunch and lunch eateries, creative offerings and friendly staff, hosted a weekend fundraiser in early November to benefit LADACIN Network at its locations in Long Branch, Little Silver, Holmdel, Manalapan, Brick, and Sea Girt. “Eat, Drink and Be Caring…Serving the Mission of LADACIN Network” was the 13th annual event hosted by the Turning Point, $17,516 was raised over the weekend to support the Network’s educational, therapeutic, social, residential and support services. An overall total of $181,501 has been raised since the event began in 2007.

Owners Kirk and Pam Ruoff and their staff members are the reason behind the success of this fundraiser. With a history of philanthropy and fundraising for various causes, they raise awareness and rally support for LADACIN by promoting the fundraiser to restaurant patrons. In return for a donation of $25 or more to LADACIN, the Turning Point offered guests gift cards for free entrees on a future visit.

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Kirk and Pam Ruoff, owners of the Turning Point Restaurants, present a check from their recent fundraiser, “Eat, Drink and Be Caring”, to LADACIN Network staff and students. Left to Right: Pam Ruoff, Turning Point owner; Patricia Carlesimo, LADACIN Executive Director; Amy Cerulo, Schroth School Principal; and Kirk Ruoff, Turning Point owner.

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Left to right: DFK participants led by JayJay Figueroa from USA Ballroom of Shrewsbury; Jonathon Mathews and Elyssa Lipovetskiy

Left to right: Red Bank Ladder 91, Nick Ferraro, Terese Rolke, Jon Rivera & Jeff Rivera

Left to right: Terese Rolke, Group Leader for Red Bank Dance for Kindness; Trevor (TJ) Kohler; Ted Friedli, CoFounder of Kick Cancer Overboard; Shannon Kohler; and Donnalyn Giegerich, Co-Founder of Kick Cancer Overboard

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World Wide Flash Mob Dance in Red Bank Promotes KINDNESS Dancers and spectators took to the streets of Red Bank on November 11th to promote KINDNESS during World Kindness Week, uniting with more than 120 cities, 50 countries and 20,000 participants worldwide. Life Vest Inside, a non-profit organization on a mission to empower and unite the world with kindness, sponsored this World Wide “Dance for Kindness” event. This flash mob dance is a part of the global celebrations that inspires, empowers, and educates people of all backgrounds to lead a life of kindness, showing that regardless of the differences in race, religion, ethnicity, culture, and background - the common thread that unites us all is kindness.

This year, the global impact was even greater as Dance for Kindness supported nonprofit organizations all around the world. The nonprofit chosen for Red Bank’s Dance for Kindness was Kick Cancer Overboard, cofounded by DonnaLyn Giegerich and Ted Friedli, an organization that gives

Coat Drive for Lunch Break The Church of The Nativity in Fair Haven is currently holding a coat drive for Lunch Break. Please donate gently used or new children’s coats, men’s coats, and plus size women’s coats; you may also donate hats, gloves, and scarves. The coat drive is running through February. Boxes will be clearly marked and located at the entrances of the Church and Religious Ed, located at 180 Ridge Road. For more information, visit nativitychurchnj.org.

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away free cruises to people whose lives have been affected by cancer.

In addition to the flash mob dance led by JayJay Figueroa from USA Ballroom of Shrewsbury, kindness chalk drawings and messages were written in the streets by participants, along with a drum circle led by Christopher Rolke of Subtle Healing. Kindness “Polka Dot” posters were created from students from the Red Bank Charter School and displayed throughout the businesses on Broad Street between White Street & Mechanic Street.

Terese Rölke, Red Bank’s DFK Group Leader for the past six years said, “People participating in this event absolutely love the experience and come back each year! It unites the local community together spreading the message of kindness. This year, kindness was spread even further by supporting a local nonprofit, Kick Cancer Overboard!”

Pop-Up Holiday Shops The Oceanic Free Library will be hosting Pop-Up Shops that are all local artist and small businesses, 20% of all sales will benefit the library.

December 3 through December 8 – Wicked Good Spice Mixes December 10 through December 15 – Steadman’s Breads (to order), Honey, and Pottery December 17 through December 22 – Mary Leather’s Soaps and Pottery For more information, call 732.842.2692 or visit oceaniclib.org.

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Skip the Holiday Headache!

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Ice-Ice Baby. Make sure the freezer is cranking out cubes for cocktails and non-alcoholic beverages ahead of time. Otherwise you will become the cranky one.

Shopping Solutions Simplify your purchases by scanning wish lists. Buy gifts for recipients who have already registered or made a specific request. Once you complete these tasks then you can move on to the awkward, “What to gift your boss!”

Monitor steals and deals. Keep your coupons and promo codes together and readily accessible when you see an offer you can’t refuse. And don’t forget the gift receipt.

Do your research. Find out which store or site is selling the product you seek for the best cost.

We all want a bargain.

Buy Batteries. The easiest way to make a kid cry is handing them a battery-operated present WITHOUT the batteries. It will just save you from that uncomfortable parent cringe.

Whoever tells you preparing for the holiday is easy, is drinking some spiked eggnog. Most of us know the hectic month of December is a test of patience, attention, and survival. Scheduling your shopping, coordinating the cooking, setting up workspace for wrapping, ‘Tis the season to be busy, Fa-lala-la-la, la-la-la-la CAN cause a major FREAK OUT. Thankfully, CM has come to town. We made a list, checked it twice, and we’re here to keep you organized with helpful sanity-saving advice.

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Hostess Time-Saving Tricks Clean, check, and chuck! Before you even think about throwing on an apron and whipping up all your favorite dishes, make room in the fridge.

This includes ditching rarely used condiments, expired foods and skunked drinks.

Get an estimated head count. Keeping track of invited guests, helps lessen surprises, especially with buying an approximate amount of food, borrowing chairs, and arranging place settings.

Buy in bulk. Think of all the paper goods that have had an impact on your personal business.

Head to big box stores and stock up on your paper towels, wipes, toilet paper, tissues, napkins, and alcohol…no one’s judging.

Test the appliances. Don’t wait until the morning of your holiday party to start up the stove after it's been on a six-month hiatus. Make sure the appliance is working to your standards a few days before the big bash – otherwise you’ll be making room at the table for the serviceman.

Get an allergy update. Ask your party attendees to report if they or their kids can’t eat a particular food group. The worst is having screaming toddlers (or adults) throw themselves down because they can’t eat the desserts made with nuts, gluten, or both!

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Arrange a wrapping assembly line. Make a list and align accordingly. Tissue paper, gift bags, bows, labels, cards, pens…you’ll put the elves to shame.

Holiday Travel Tips Fill up! For the sake of your marriage and family make sure the tank has a full tank of gas. This is one holiday miracle that won’t magically appear.

Don’t forget a portable charger. We’ve all been there. Make note it’s not going to happen this time around.

Don’t be a pack-rastinator! Start the packing early. This way you can sort through your belongings and decide what you need to wash, add, or buy before the big travel day.

Have a separate pouch for important documents like passports, licenses, and birth certificates… and for parents with younger kids, LOVEY falls into this category.

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Holiday Horse & Wagon Rides - Now through 12/22

SATURDAYS FROM 1:00- 5:00 PM Enjoy the sights and sounds of the holiday season throughout Red Bank’s Business District with a FREE classic horse and wagon ride from 1 to 5pm. More info, visit redbank.org.

Magic of Lights – Now through 12/30

PNC ARTS CENTER, HOLMDEL – STARTS AT DUSK A Magical Drive featuring over a mile of festive and vibrant light displays celebrating the joy of the holiday. Experience it from the comfort of your own car! General admission weekday: $25, General admission weekend: $30. More info, visit magicoflights.com/newjersey

Holiday Model Train Display

NOW THROUGH 12/30 This is the Monmouth Museum’s 31st year presenting one of the most unique train exhibitions in the world. The trains have 6 lines on 3 levels, with over 1200 scale feet of track.

The model train layout includes an airport and Jersey Shore seaside boardwalk amusement park. Much of the community is represented by the various real estate named for local businesses and families. More info, visit monmouthmuseum. org.

Bell Works Winter Markets

12/5, 12/12, 12/19 Shop small this holiday season from Noon to 5pm at Bell Works (located at 101 Crawfords Corner Road, Holmdel) open to 30+ local artisans and vendors.

Asbury Fresh Winter Pop Up Markets

12/2, 12/9, 12/16. 12/22 Shop small this holiday season from Noon to 5pm at Porta Restaurant (located at 911 Kingsley Street, Asbury Park), open to 30+ local artisans and vendors

Christmas Lantern Tours

12/7, 12/8, 12/15, 12/21 Take a holiday stroll through the Historic Village at Allaire in Farmingdale. Not only will you be celebrating the holidays, but learning too. As you walk the tour, you can enjoy music and theater educating you about Christmas in 1800s. Tickets are $20 per person. Be sure to buy in advance as there’s limited space. More info, visit allairevillage.org.

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12/7 FROM 9AM TO 1PM What’s next? What will you pursue in your second act? Explore the possibilities and spark new ideas. Inspiring speakers will share life-changing stories of overcoming adversity, new pursuits, new discoveries, and giving back. Keynote speaker DonnaLyn Giegerich is a wellness advocate and midlife model for rare cancer awareness. $69 fee includes morning coffee & brunch. Call 732.224.2315 to register.

Victorian Holiday Festival & House Tour

12/8 & 12/9 Stop by Ocean Grove this holiday season to embark on a wonderful self-guided tour of the historic homes and inns in the beloved beach town, featuring a free jitney service, holiday bell ringers and even a gift boutique for your holiday shopping needs.

Christmas Bazaar

12/8 Annual shopping and food festival at Shrewsbury Presbyterian Church (located at 353 Sycamore Ave, Shrewsbury) from 9:30am to 2:30pm) including photos with Santa, Christmas decorations & gifts, jewelry, floral arrangements, poinsettias, baked goods, sweets, fancy pecans, home-made soups, fashion accessories, throws &lap blankets, handicrafts, toys, books, videos, cds, country cooked lunch, and Christmas wreaths.

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The Asbury Park Santa Run

12/8 Thousands of Santas will gather at The Stone Pony for a 5K race in support of local charity, Lunch Break, a 501(c)3 nonprofit dedicated to providing food, clothing, and fellowship to local community members in need. All runners will be given their very own Santa suit at registration and will run a closed course on the streets of Asbury Park.

Two River Theater Shows tworivertheater.org August Wilson’s King Hedley II Now through December 16

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Peter Pan at Axelrod

12/8, 12/9, 12/15. 12/16 A family musical that’s perfect for the holiday season is flying onto the Axelrod stage. Axelrod’s award-winning Rising Stars Youth Performing Arts program presents one of Broadway’s timeless classics in a fully staged production directed by Lisa Goldfarb with musical direction by Randy Hurst and choreography by Wendy Roman. More info, visit axelrodartscenter.com.

Holiday Open House at The Parker Homestead

12/9 The Parker Homestead (located at 235 Rumson Road, Little Silver) is hosting a Holiday Open House from 1 to 4 pm. Visitors are invited to tour the home and experience the spirit of the holidays in the old-fashioned way with carolers, cookies and cider. The fireplace mantels will be decorated by the Little Silver Garden Club. More info, visit parkerhomestead-1665.org.

Kick Cancer Overboard & RockIt! Live Fundraiser

12/30 AT 7PM KCO presents RockIt! – a concert, four course dinner at Buona Sera Palazzo in Ocean Township. Tickets, visit kickcanceroverboard.org. For more information, call Ted Friedli at 732.571.1960.

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Count Basie Shows thebasie.org Monmouth Civic Chorus: Joy To The World December 16 at 4:00 pm

Holiday Express Benefit Concert

December 17 & December 18 at 7:30 pm

A Magical Cirque Christmas December 19 at 8 pm

Darleen Love’s ‘Souled’ Out December 20 at 7:30 pm

Santa for Lunch Break Starring Brian Kirk & the Jirks December 22 at 8 pm

HOPE 10 – The Final Hope Concert December 23 at 7:30 pm

Southside Johnny & The Asbury Jukes December 31 at 9 pm

Star Wars: The Empire Strikes Back in Concert January 3 at 7:30 pm

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Back row, left to right: Airman 1st Class Jared Clower and Den Leader & FH Councilman Christopher Rodriguez. Front row, left to right: Bear Cubs Eamon Whalen, Joseph Gerry, Sienna Qualter, Evelyn Chubrik, Jack Rodriguez, Joseph Romano, Piper Duffy, Mason Zambarano, Kayla Ramirez

Air Force Color Guard from Air Force Joint Base McGuire-Dix-Lakehurst

Fair Haven Cubs Learn from America’s Finest

ervice women and men from our distinguished Naval and Air Force services recently worked with Fair Haven Cub Pack 127 ahead of Veterans Day activities in Fair Haven. The color guards from Naval Station Earle and Air Force Joint Base McGuire-Dix-Lakehurst taught basic formations, explained commands, and drilled marching techniques with the girls and boys. The service members also

discussed the importance of service to the community and our country.

The service members took questions and gave answers ranging from service requirements, to uniform rank placement, and U.S. flag etiquette. At the end of the event, each service member was presented a Scout Challenge Coin in recognition for the time taken to educate the scouts and for their service to our country. A challenge coin is a custom medallion bearing

the organization’s insignia or emblem and carried by the organization’s members and commonly used in the military.

Cub Scout Pack 127 offers enriching experiences to all children that join from kindergarten through 5th grade. New scouts can enter the program on a rolling basis throughout the year and are placed in a den with their peers. If you are interested in enrolling your child, please contact the pack at fairhaven127.mypack.us/contact.

RBR Paints the Town Pumpkin

On October 19, just when the weather finally began to feel like fall, a brigade of Red Bank Regional (RBR) studio art majors gathered at the Little Silver shops near the Little Silver train station to decoratively paint the display windows for the autumn season. The students are part of the schools Visual and Performing Arts Academy which offers their students experiential exercises in their field of study, in this case commercial painting of storefronts.

Their teacher, Claudia O’Connor, commented on the outing, that included some scary creatures for the Halloween season, “Every year we take on this task in decorating our town’s display windows. It is a great learning experience for our students to work for a client and also beautify their own school’s town at the same time. It is one of our favorite assignments of the school year.”

Photo: Standing in front of the Hoffman Ice Cream storefront, where they painted an array of Halloween treats, is the RBR cadre of VPA artists and their teacher. They are: back row, left to right: Julia Sullivan, Shrewsbury; Paige Witter, Shrewsbury; Lucy Woodrow, Spring Lake Boro; Dori Valentine, Shrewsbury; Maggie Jelley, Belmar; Kelly Mannion, Brielle. Front row, left to right: Mrs. Claudia O’Connor (Studio Art Teacher), Brenna Walsh, Shrewsbury; Catherine Metzger, Little Silver; Kendall Walsh, Red Bank; and Emily Dee, Little Silver.

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RFH Student-Athletes Make College Commitments Nine Rumson-Fair Haven Regional High School student-athletes recently made their college choices official. The students represent five different sports and will each attend different schools. The list of athletes: Julia Tambaro, Bucknell University (cross country), Carolyn Trent – Denison University (cross country), Ana Claire Piancentini – Brown University (field hockey), Cassie James – Monmouth University (lacrosse), Grace Jamin – University of Richmond (lacrosse), Avery O’Connell – Fairfield University (lacrosse), Kerry Tuorto – Lafayette College (lacrosse), Grace Karagjozi – Villanova University (soccer), Nicolas Addison – Stanford University (wrestling).

Top row, left to right: Carolyn Trent, Grace Jamin, Julia Tambaro, and Ana Claire Piancentini. Seated, left to right: Avery O’Connell, Cassie James, Top Row, L-R: Carolyn Trent (Denison Cross Country), Grace Jamin (Richmond, Nicholas Addison, Kerry Tuorto, and Grace Karagjozi Lacrosse), Julia Tambaro (Bucknell, Cross Country), Ana Claire Piancentini (Brown, Field Hockey) Seated, L-R: Avery O’Connell (Fairfield, Lacrosse), Cassie James (Monmouth, Lacrosse), Nicholas Addison (Stanford, Wrestling), Kerry Tuorto (Lafayette, Lacrosse), Grace Karagjozi (Villanova, Soccer).

Holy Cross School Excels at CBA Model UN Conference

On November 2, the Holy Cross School Model United Nations team was named Best Small Delegation at the middleHaven school Model UN Blue About Rumson-Fair Haven Regional: ​ Rumson-Fair was invitational recognized as a 2011 National Ribbon School by the US Department Education. The school, accredited

by Middle Conference at Christian Brothers ofAcademy.

Sixhigh of the eight members of States the Association of Secondary Schools and Colleges and the NJ Department of Education, is a comprehensive Holy Cross team received individual honors as well: Paige Jaenicke, Grade 8: high school of approximately 1000 students in grades 9-12. Consistently over the years, more than 95 % Best Delegate, International Organization of our graduates have attendedMaritime post secondary institutions. Committee; Jack Jaenicke, Grade 7: Outstanding Delegate, UN Human Rights Committee; Sophia Ramos, Grade 7: Outstanding Delegate, UN Human Rights Committee; Hannah Nitka, Grade 6: Outstanding Delegate, 1787 Constitutional Convention; Christopher Stypa, Grade 8: Honorable Mention Representing UN Security Council; and Sarkis Marrin, Grade 6: Honorable Mention, U.S. National Security

At this event delegates are assigned a country and a committee and asked to write a position paper and propose a resolution on which their fellow committee members will debate and vote. Holy Cross Model UN Advisor Mrs. Rosemary Bell was thrilled with her team’s performance, as well as the way they embraced the entire experience. She said, “The Holy Cross Model UN Club went to CBA with open minds and open hearts. They learned about the power of knowledge and the power of compromise. They not only came away with the award of Best Small Delegation, but also with the gift of friendship of other students from around Monmouth County.

I am proud of their hard work and dedication.”

CBA Student-Athletes Commit to Division 1 Colleges Thirteen Christian Brothers Academy student-athletes officially made their commitments to Division I colleges across the country in November.

The following seniors will play their sport at the collegiate level next year: Ryan Burke - Bryant University, Swimming; Josh Cohen – St. Francis University (PA), Basketball; Tanner Crochet – University of Richmond, Cross Country; Tom DiTullio – Bryant University, Baseball; Thomas Gray – Monmouth University, Lacrosse; Brendan Hansen – Rutgers University, Golf; Connor Macrae – Monmouth University, Lacrosse; Connor Nelson – College of the Holy Cross, Tennis; Anthony Pillari – Rider University, Baseball; Luke Reid – University of Oklahoma, Cross Country; Paul Retterer – University of Southern California, Swimming; Sam Rennard – Penn State University, Swimming; and Jack Wall – University of South Carolina, Golf.

Standing from left: Brendan Hansen of Spring Lake, Jack Wall of Brielle, Thomas Gray of Lincroft, Josh Cohen of Lincroft, Connor Nelson of Mantoloking, Anthony Pillari of Tinton Falls, and Connor Macrae of Middletown. Sitting from left: Paul Retterer of Atlantic Highlands, Sam Rennard of Red Bank, Ryan Burke of Long Branch, Luke Reid of Fair Haven, Tanner Crochet of Monmouth Beach, and Tom DiTullio of Point Pleasant.

Photo credit: Larry Levanti/CBA Athletics

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Celebrating Different Learners Abilities Day at Point Road School On November 2, Point Road School hosted its 12th annual Celebrating Different Learners Abilities Day for third grade students. The event was created to educate students about disabilities as well as to help raise awareness and acceptance of individual differences.

The third grade classes rotated through five rooms where they learned about different disabilities. In each room, the students participated in hands-on activities designed to give them a glimpse of

what it would be like to live with a particular disability. The disabilities featured included physical, learning, developmental, hearing and vision.

The day was organized by School Counselor, Julie Ford, and Parent Coordinator, Dianne DiYanni. Special thanks to all of the parent volunteers, the Little Silver PTO, Friends of Different Learners, and the third grade teachers who continue to make Celebrating Different Learning Abilities Day such a success.

Safety Comes First at Deane-Porter!

The Deane-Porter School had a visit from our local Fire Department Company 42-2. Fire Chief Luiten, 2nd Lieutenant Berry, and Fireman Bradley shared their expertise with students and staff. The firefighters arrived on their fire truck and dressed in their full gear, which they wear when fighting a fire. Students were engaged in the firemen’s presentation and were curious about how they wear the heavy uniform. The firemen demonstrated how they step right into their boots, which were attached to their uniforms. The students were shown how the masks were placed over the firemen’s faces to protect them from smoke or other irritants that may be present at the scene of a fire. It is important for children to be informed of fire safety

procedures and equipment, and to be familiar with our local Fire Department members. They need to know that firefighters are community helpers whose job is to protect and provide aide whenever a fire emergency occurs.

Another important, local department came to talk to the students on being safe, two members of the Rumson Police Department Senior Patrolman Dougherty and Officer Berger.

They discussed being safe at home, riding their bicycles, and when a stranger approaches. The tips were age appropriate and important messages for kids. Officer Berger reminded students that policemen are there to help them, and if they were separated from parents when away from home they could always approach an officer for help. The Rumson Police work to be accessible and familiar to students by eating lunch occasionally in the school cafeterias, are present during school arrival and dismissal, and being in the schools frequently.

Nathaniel Nyok, “Lost Boy of Sudan,” Visits Forrestdale The Rumson School District received the 2018 Axelrod Family Award earlier this year in recognition of the high-quality Holocaust and tolerance studies curriculum that Forrestdale 7th and 8th grade ELA and social studies teachers created in conjunction with programming from the Center for Holocaust, Human Rights and Genocide Education (Chhange) Center at Brookdale Community College. During the 2018-19 school year, proceeds from the award will partially fund the District’s continued partnership with Chhange, and the program is expanding to include educational opportunities for Forrestdale students in grades 6, 7 & 8.

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study of several excerpts from Days of Refugee, by Nathaniel Nyok, paired with discussions about the geography and history of the Sudan in the context of the experiences of the book’s author. As a culminating activity, Nathaniel Nyok shared first-hand experiences during a visit with Forrestdale grade 6 students and staff on October 9th. Students were introduced to this courageous, resilient young man who is now working to develop secondary education in the South Sudan. Mr. Nyok discussed many of his life events, including his experiences as an orphan in a refugee camp for 14 years, the path that brought him to the United States, and his current efforts on Capitol Hill in Washington, DC, working on policies in support of tolerance.

The District’s continued partnership with Chhange will allow its teachers and students to experience year-long professional development and enrichment opportunities such as Mr. Nyok’s visit and support continued efforts to embed tolerance in our school culture and our students.

Basie Awards Season Begins!

The annual celebration of Monmouth County high school theater kicks off with fall drama productions + new program sponsor, Bank of America with each passing year the evaluating committee is more impressed by the tremendous growth and level of professionalism seen on the Monmouth County high school stages,” said Yvonne Lamb-Scudiery, Vice President/ Education, Count Basie Center for the Arts.

“Twenty-three dramatic productions in the fall, followed by show stopping musicals in the spring… let the excitement begin!”

Fall high school theater productions have Monmouth County schools vying for recogstarted throughout Monmouth County, nition in Basie Awards drama categories inand that can mean just one thing - the 14th clude: Christian Brothers Academy, Lincroft Annual Basie Awards can’t be too far behind. - “The Musical Comedy Murders of 1940”; This year’s Basie Awards program and cere- Collier High School, Marlboro - “Sense And mony, presented by Bank of America, is slat- Sensibility”; Communications High School, ed for May 22, 2019 at the Basie Center’s his- Wall - “The Diary of Anne Frank”; Colts toric theater. Tickets for the perennially sold- Neck High School, Colts Neck - “Almost, out celebration will go on sale in the spring.

Maine”; Freehold Borough High School, The Basie Awards began in 2005 as a way to Freehold - “Clue: On Stage”; Freehold honor and recognize high school-level actors, Township High School, Freehold - “Rumors”; actresses and productions in the Monmouth Howell High School, Howell - “Summer County area. Basie Center evaluators began Brave”; Long Branch High School, Long visiting high school productions already, tak- Branch - “William’s Dark Lady”; Manalapan ing in and tabulating performances to see High School, Manalapan - “Arsenic and Old which performers and programs will be rec- Lace”; Marlboro High School, Marlboro - “Peter and the Star Catcher”; Matawan ognized at the Basie Awards.

Regional High School, Matawan - “45 “It’s hard to believe we are about to embark Seconds from Broadway”; Mater Dei Prep, on our 14th season of The Basie Awards, and

Middletown - “Clue: On Stage”; Middletown South High School, Middletown - “The Turning of Gertrude”; Monmouth Regional High School, Tinton Falls- “Boeing Boeing”; Neptune High School, Neptune – “Delirium’s Daughters”; Ocean Township High School, Oakhurst - “Awesome 80s Prom”; Ranney School, Tinton Falls - “Clue: On Stage”; Raritan Valley High School, Hazlet - “A Christmas Carol”; Red Bank Catholic High School, Red Bank - “Lend Me A Tenor”; Rumson-Fair Haven High School - “The Emperor’s Nightingale”; St. John Vianney, Holmdel - “Little Shop of Horrors” producing two musicals this school year; St. Rose High School, Belmar - “The Lion, The Witch and The Wardrobe”; and Trinity Hall, Tinton Falls - “Peter and the Star-Catcher”. (Eligible school productions for spring will be announced in January.)

At least four Basie Awards evaluators visit qualifying productions during their runs, scoring individual and ensemble acting performances and technical design. For spring musicals, vocal abilities, orchestras and choreography are also assessed.

Nominees for all Basie Awards categories will be announced in early May.

TOWER HILL CHOIR PRESENTS

Lessons and Carols for Christmas “The Marvel of this Night,” a tradition- Werner, includes perennial favorites al program of Lessons and Carols, will such as Michael Praetorius’ “Lo, How a be presented by the Tower Hill Choir on Rose E’er Blooming” and Mack Wilberg’s December 9 at 7:00 p.m., at Tower Hill arrangement of the sprightly “Ding, First Presbyterian Church at Red Bank, Dong, Merrily on High.” Contemporary located at 255 Harding Road. Music from offerings include the Robert DeCormier across the ages will illuminate passages arrangement of the West Indian spiritual, of scripture that tell the Christmas story. “The Virgin Mary Had a Baby Boy,” and The congregation will be invited to join the popular Harry Simeone arrangement the choir in singing favorite Christmas of “Do You Hear What I Hear?” Featured carols. soloists are soprano Claire Tsiporukha, tenor Sheldon Edmond and cellist Patty The program, directed by Leslie Zomro Gonsky. The concert is part of the Tower and accompanied by organist Judith Hill Concert Series.

There is no charge for admission to the concert. An offering will be taken to offset concert series expenses. The church is handicapped-accessible.

The Tower Hill Concert Series has presented performances of sacred and secular music for Red Bank area audiences for more than 40 years. Next on the schedule is “Spirit Wind,” a May 5 performance by the New Jersey Chamber Singers with the Eastern Wind Symphony. For additional information, call 732.747.1348 or see towerhillchurch.org.

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SAVE THE DATE!

2nd Annual Red Bank Classic 5K to Benefit Red Bank Recreation & YMCA The Red Bank Business Alliance and Red Bank RiverCenter are pleased to announce the Red Bank Classic 5K will be returning to downtown Red Bank on Saturday, June 15, 2019. Race organizers encourage all in the community to register for a day of fun and healthy activities. General registration will begin January 1, 2019.

The 3.1 mile run, through the heart of downtown Red Bank and surrounding borough neighborhoods, will once again support both the borough’s Department of Parks and Recreation and the Red Bank Family YMCA. The Red Bank Classic 5K course, which is a USATF sanctioned race and certified course, as well as a USATF 2019 Grand Prix Event, will begin and end on Broad Street at the corner of Monmouth Street. The inaugural race, held in June 2018, raised $20,000 for the Y and Parks & Recreation programs that support the healthy development of area children. Over 1,000 runners participated in the event, including Governor Phil Murphy and First Lady Tammy Murphy.

Area businesses and organizations are invited to support the community event with sponsorships as follows: Title Sponsorship $15,000, Presenting Sponsorship - $5,000, Gold Level Sponsorship $2,500, Silver Level Sponsorship - $1,000, Sound Sponsorship - $750, Mile Marker Sponsorship - $500, Downtown Pole Banners - $250, and Vendor Table - $100.

Event registration will be available online at RedBankClassic.com.

Race entry fees are $30 for the 5K and $15 for the Kids Broad Street Dash.

Registration includes a t-shirt and a swag bag to the first 500 participants.

For more information on the race, sponsorships or volunteering, visit the race website or e-mail info@redbankclassic.com.

Runners made history by participating in Red Bank’s inaugural Red Bank Classic 5K on June 16, 2018. Registration for the June 15, 2019 race begins January 1.

Little Silver Garden Club Contributes to Holiday Spirit The Little Silver Garden Club is gearing up for the holiday season and spreading cheer throughout the Borough of Little Silver.

On November 29, members gathered to fashion desktop decorations using fresh greens which are displayed throughout Borough offices, the Library, and the Train Station. On the same day, members spent time at the train station decorating the boxes with holiday greens and festive bows. As you rush for your train, be sure to take a moment to enjoy the decorations. Several members also will decorate the mantles and fireplaces at the Parker Homestead for their Holiday Open House, the The Little Silver Garden Club decorated the Little Silver Train Station’s boxes for the holiday season.

afternoon of December 9. Please stop in and admire all the restoration at this historic property.

At its November 8 meeting, members heard from Dr. Lesley Parness, retired Superintendent of Horticulture Education for the Morris County Park Commission. Dr. Parness spoke about “Gardening in the Age of Elizabeth I” and showed slides illustrating gardens of that era as well as uses of plants for medicine, dyes, and beautification.

As always, the Club participated in gardening with youth at the local school, bringing the Evergreens a new project and encouraging a love of nature and the environment. Other members continued the club’s monthly visits to Meridian Rehabilitation Center where they assist residents in creating table arrangements for their rooms.

The Club welcomes visitors and new members. The next meeting will be held on January 10, beginning at 9:30 a.m. at the Women’s Club of Little Silver, Rumson Road and Church Street. For further information, contact club president Diane Primavera at 732.643.8546.

Experience an Authentic German Christmas Service Students from the non-profit German Language School in Holmdel, Princeton, and Rumson will perform the Nativity Play and sing German Christmas hymns and carols at the annual Luther Memorial Evangelical Church’s German Christmas Service on December 14 at 7:30 p.m. The German Service features a sermon by Reverend Ingo Dutzmann, First

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OceanFirst Foundation Establishes Joe Burke Endowed Scholarship at CBA

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Left to right: Freeholder Gerry P. Scharfenberger, Ph.D., Virginia Krzyzanowski, Freeholder Deputy Director Lillian G. Burry, Tammy Kelly, Freeholder Director Thomas A. Arnone, Lee McCowat, Freeholder Patrick Impreveduto and Freeholder John P. Curley.

Standing from left: Br. Frank Byrne (President, CBA), Christopher Maher (CEO, OceanFirst Bank), Katherine Durante (Executive Director, OceanFirst Foundation); sitting: Jeanne Burke. Photo Credit: CBA

In memory of 1965 graduate Joe Burke, OceanFirst Foundation has established the Joe Burke Memorial Endowed Scholarship at Christian Brothers Academy. With a donation of $50,000, OceanFirst begins a four-year endowed scholarship for future CBA students in memory of Burke, who was a longtime, well-respected member of the OceanFirst Board of Directors. This endowed scholarship will span the life of the school, serving a countless number of Academy men.

With Burke’s wife, Jeanne, and his three children present, CBA held a small signing ceremony on November 2nd to officially begin the scholarship. OceanFirst Bank’s Chairman and CEO Christopher Maher and the Foundation’s Executive Director Katherine Durante represented OceanFirst at the signing ceremony.

“At OceanFirst, we were fortunate to have Joe Burke, Christian Brothers Academy Class of 1965, as a valued member of our Board of Directors,” said Maher. “Joe left a lasting impact on our organization and often spoke of the principles and values he received during his education at the Academy. We consider it a privilege that Jeanne Burke and her children have allowed us to honor Joe’s memory with the Joe Burke Memorial Endowed Scholarship for the benefit of Academy men.”

As part of the Scholarship Initiative started in 2013, Christian Brothers Academy now has nearly 75 different scholarships in place.

Several of these scholarships allow for multiple awardees at a time.

Since its founding in 1902, OceanFirst Bank has built a solid reputation and legacy as a good neighbor and responsible corporate citizen. The Bank’s strong commitment to helping families, organizations, schools, and communities throughout central and southern New Jersey meet their financial needs has spanned several generations reaching new heights in 1996 with the creation of OceanFirst Foundation. Made possible by a one-time endowment of $13.4 million approved by OceanFirst Bank depositors, OceanFirst Foundation provides grants to organizations that meet community needs within the OceanFirst Bank footprint. Through the Foundation, hundreds of local charities and schools have received more than $35 million in grants to enrich lives in areas such as Housing, Youth Development and Education, Improving the Quality of Life, Health and Wellness, and the Arts.

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The Monmouth County Board of Chosen Freeholders proclaimed October as Breast Cancer Awareness Month and recognized Monmouth County employees, Virginia Krzyzanowski, Tammy Kelly, and Lee McCowat, who are all breast cancer fighters and survivors, at their regular public meeting in Freehold on October 25, 2018.

Monmouth Civic Chorus Brings Joy to the World to Red Bank The sounds of the season will fill the halls of the Count Basie Center for the Arts when the award-winning Monmouth Civic Chorus takes the stage to perform Joy to the World on Sunday, December 16, 2018, at 4 p.m. Following the wide-spread acclaim of last year’s holiday concert, the chorus will present an expanded edition of Artistic Director Dr. Ryan James Brandau’s Christmas Suite.

Concert-goers will enjoy holiday favorites including O Holy Night, Silent Night, Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas and Deck the Hall. Dr. Brandau’s hauntingly beautiful arrangement of Auld Lang Syne will be featured as well, and this year’s rendition of the Suite will include a plethora of choruses from Handel’s beloved Messiah, and Bach’s brilliant Magnificat. “The holiday concert is always our favorite performance of the year,” said Dr. Brandau. “It’s joy to perform these classic melodies in a re-imagined way and, of course, it is always a thrill to return to the pages of Messiah and the Magnificat.”

The performance will take place at the historic Count Basie Center for the Arts, 99 Monmouth Street, Red Bank, NJ. Tickets for premium seating are $45 adult, $40 senior, $35 group (10 or more), $15 student. Tickets for regular seating are $30 adult, $27 senior, $25 group, $10 student. Tickets and information are available at monmouthcivicchours.org or 732.933.9333.

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HoneyBaked Ham & Cafe in Middletown All The Amazing Tastes and Smells of Tradition and Home …

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s we are deep in the throes of the holiday season, our lives fill with the sights, smells, and sounds of the traditions that grace our lives. Food is always at the center of many festive celebrations, and The FoodSpy feels it’s an obligation for our generation to carry on these customs. For it is within them that we maintain our culture, our ethnicities and memories that we each carry in us implanted by our parents and grandparents.

This food “responsibility” hit me when I entered the quaint HoneyBaked Ham in Middletown (located in the Kohl’s Shopping Center on Route 35) with a pleasant surprise, and a very welcomed one as the sights and aromas of TRADITION washed over me. Walking into what felt like a living room; with a cozy fireplace, seating for about 35 people, and the smells of a country kitchen, my mouth was watering with holiday memories. The waft of a brown sugar glaze came through the air as I walked toward the front counter, and became tantalized with homemade desserts strategically placed at eye level in a beautiful display. I was greeted by smiling gentlemen, ready and willing to take my order. The friendly atmosphere with the owner, Keith Visone, on site, makes you feel like you are part of the family.

The FoodSpy happened to stroll in around lunchtime and ordered a Tavern Club, which was recommended by one of the employees. Learning that it is one of their best-selling sandwiches, I knew I couldn’t be steered wrong with meaty ham, fresh roasted turkey, crispy applewood

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bacon, topped with lettuce, tomato, and a special sauce. A side dish, dessert, and drink, all in one box for a low price?! I was “educated” that all side dishes, salads, and soups are homemade by a long-time employee for over 15 years. Might as well have been my grandmother in the kitchen cranking out recipes! My senses were overwhelmed as I bit into the sandwich, savoring all the flavors, while smelling a fresh-baked pie come out of the oven in the back of the store, convinced that this place will be bustling with the holidays quickly approaching.

I was given a quick tour and menu to take home outlining all the tempting offerings. Spiral-sliced brown sugar glazed hams, whole turkeys, ribs, pulled pork, all the side dishes you could think of, and a full catering menu with sandwich platters, and more. There is no doubt that I will be placing a holiday order here. The down home feel, the warmth of comfort foods, and the longstanding community locale; what’s not to love? It’s all the comforts of home without the dishes -now if only I could put my feet up on the table and sit back and enjoy all that HoneyBaked Ham has to offer.

The owner and staff take pride and responsibility in knowing that their product is the centerpiece for your most treasured occasions. Wrapped in gold foil like a gift, they then present each ham individually to their customers along with a selection of homemade side dishes, classic meats, and save-room-for worthy desserts. Started in 1957 in Detroit, this award winning product is regarded today as one of the best tasting

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hams in the country. Using the highest quality bone-in meats, they’ve created a special curing and cooking procedure, bringing out a one-of-a-kind taste that can only be described as perfect. With its sweet, crunchy glaze enhancing the flavor, their patented spiral-slicing process makes an easy-to-serve centerpiece, becoming an instant staple at holiday dinners, religious celebrations and meaningful meals shared and savored by family and friends. So if you’re stressed for time in the chaos of the holidays, or need to “bring a dish”, consider outsourcing some of the heavy lifting without compromising – your guests and recipients will thank you!

HoneyBaked Ham is located 770 Route 35S in Middletown in the Kohl’s Shopping Plaza and can be reached at 732.842.1115.

They are open Monday - Saturday, 9:00 a.m.

- 7:00 p.m. and Sunday, 10:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Call for turkey catering and holiday menus or stop into their café for lunch or dinner …. And tell them the FoodSpy sent you!

Until next time – live well, eat well, THE FOOD SPY

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dences at leading Ear, Nose, and Throat Centers in and around the New York, New Jersey and Pennsylvania areas. I also work for Holy Trinity Lutheran Church in Red Bank part time as their Parish Administrator because it keeps me sane and centered spiritually in the crazy music business world.

What sets me apart from others doing what I do: I was recognized by the National Association of Professional Women as one of the leading vocologists in the area and awarded Woman of the Year two years in a row. I have been recognized by the New York Singing Teacher’s Association as a leading vocologist outside of the New York City area.

These accolades are given to those who have demonstrated excellence in their profession as singing teachers and have also pursued advanced training in voice science.

Meet Your Neighbor:

Jo Wymer What I do: I’m a wife, mother, Navy Veteran, award-winning songwrit-

er and multi-instrumentalist, a vocologist, and a church chick.

Where I live: I live in Freehold and work in New York City and Red

Bank.

Name of my business: Jo Wymer Music and Jo Wymer Music Studios.

When I started in business: When both my parents died on the same

day, but two years apart, I went to bereavement therapy at my church.

The priest asked what I always wanted to do, and I said sing and play my own music. I’ve been in the music business most of my adult life.

As a child I grew up in a home where my mother was a closet classical pianist and my dad was a theatrical costumer/dry cleaner/restaurant owner. My family always owned their own business, so I guess a combination of being a musician/vocologist and owning my own business works well for me.

What my business is about: The label of vocologist designates my special education, training, and qualifications which allow me to work with a variety of vocalists on an immeasurable number of vocal problems directly related to the singing voice. I help with simple overuse issues, such that teachers would get, to those singers who are declared recovered from surgery or other medical procedures by their physicians and looking to transition from a post-therapy phase toward an optimal level of vocal activity. My qualifications include advanced training in Vocology at the National Center for Voice and Speech, and short resi-

Where I learned my trade: I am a Juilliard drop-out (my dad was so mad I did that). I joined the Navy, as I realized I was not ready for the crazy world of the music business. When I moved to New Jersey, I studied guitar, bass, piano, and harmonica with some of the top musicians in the area: Jerry Topinka, Pat Karwan, Matt O’Ree, Gary Wright, Sonny Kenn, PK Lavengood, Rob Paparozzi, Gerry McAvoy, and Chris Plunkett. These men helped shape me as a musician and taught me so much. There are a lot of great female musicians and songwriters in the area, you just don’t hear about them too much. Mainly the “big boys” get all the press.

How I give back to the community: I do a lot of benefit shows for

causes that have direct meaning to me. I have played the Light of Day benefit show for the last 12 years because we have family and friends that have Parkinson’s Disease or passed away with Parkinson’s. It is hard to see people you love wilt away from life with this disease. They have made great strides through the Light of Day Foundation. Working for the Church is another way. I know I don’t seem like your average Church Chick, but you can hear my spiritual connection in all of my music.

My favorite part of what I do: Hearing awesome stories about mira-

cles and real life struggles. It fuels my songwriting. Watching my music and vocal students develop into fabulous artists is probably the most rewarding part of the teaching piece of my music. Hearing my songs play on 90.5 the Night is still a highlight of my days, as well as hearing my music on a TV show or sports cast.

My favorite songs I wrote: I have two favorites...Memories, from my

first solo CD Living with Scars, and The Shoebox on my last EP S.L.G. My best selling songs: Dirty Secrets, Come on Baby, and the first 16 seconds of Rearview Mirror have been the money makers so far, but I have a great song coming out soon called Main Street Bar that I think will top all of these.

My best business tip to share: Stay true to your craft, be honest, and

never give up or give in…especially in the music business!! Also, professional development is a must as a songwriter and musician.

Last thought: My website is jowymer.com, feel free to show up at a show or come hang with my boss Reverend Dean Brown at Holy Trinity Lutheran Church in Red Bank...great group of music loving folks there.

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