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Monmouth County Historical Association (MCHA) will hold its eighth annual Tavernfest at the Allen House in Shrewsbury on October 12 from 7:00 p.m. to 10:00 p.m. MCHA will be kicking off its 120th Anniversary celebration at the event.

A group of residents dedicated to preserving the unique history of Monmouth County founded MCHA on October 12, 1898.

Exactly 120 years later, on October 12, 2018, MCHA will launch a year-long salute to their vision and the continued dedication to preserve and share local history.

Costumed interpreters and live period music will greet guests upon entering the 18th Century Allen House. Attendees may take as long as they wish to explore the exhibit and ask questions as they pass through the restored tavern to the tented party area. The Sam Sims Band will be in the main tent while Tom and Maryanne Tucker will perform Colonial era music in the restored tavern. A full buffet dinner will also be offered featuring many of Local Smoke BBQ’s most popular items, including barbecued chicken, pulled pork, macaroni and cheese, cornbread, and other delicious options. Historic distillery Lairds will provide its signature libation while Monmouth County’s own Carton Brewing keeps the ale flowing and Rumson Wine & Spirits pours a selection of wines.

Tavernfest will feature both a silent and live auction spotlighting a variety of fun and unique items including experience packages with tickets to performances and sporting events, elegant fashion accessories, a variety of restaurant outings, and much more. Popular items every year are the opportunities to host catered private parties or dinners in MCHA houses. Favorite MCHA house experiences include Covenhoven Party featuring a colonial meal for six cooked right over the hearth and Taylor-Butler Holiday House Party with seasonal decorations in the heart of Historic Middletown.

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The inaugural Sea.Hear.Now Music Festival, produced by Danny Clinch and C3 Presents, and sponsored by CM, is coming to Asbury Park September 2930, bringing a celebration of live music, art, and surf culture at the Jersey Shore. With an impressive list of more than 25 bands set to perform on three stages over the weekend, headliners such as Incubus and Jack Johnson lead the all-star music roster. While the music plays, professional surfers including Sam Hammer, Balaram Stack, Rob Kelly, Quincy Davis, Mike Gleason, and many others will participate in surfing Expression Sessions.

Bringing it all together is a featured visual arts component that incorporates the work of Clinch and many members of the performing bands sharing the message of sustainability

“Sea Hear Now is a longtime dream. To have our musician, surfer, and artist friends come to Asbury Park this September to play some music, ride some waves, and make some art,” shared Clinch. “We come from the Jersey Shore and we believe in Asbury Park. It is one of the coolest beach cities in America, if not the world!” continued >>

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he festival is being produced by Clinch’s Between The Sets and C3 Presents, the team behind Lollapalooza, Austin City Limits Music Festival, Shaky Festivals, and more.

Clinch is known for his photographs of music legends, from Bruce Springsteen to Tupac Shakur, and curates the Transparent Gallery inside the Asbury Hotel. During the festival, the Gallery will showcase famed images of various artists in the lineup as well as personal works of the musicians.

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“I am really excited for this gallery,” says Clinch. “Over the years of spending time with musicians, I noticed that quite a few of them were also painters or illustrators.

It occurred to me how special it would be to create a gallery at the festival that could showcase this part of their creative process and be able to give fans a chance to hear their favorite musicians talk about their art.”

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SEA – Honoring Surf at the Jersey Shore More than a music festival, Sea.Hear.Now is about land and sea. To celebrate the surf culture of the Jersey Shore, both the history of the sport as well as its creativity and fun will be honored. Locally known surfers, as well as surfers from around the country, will offer Surf Expression Sessions. During the daily Surf Expression Sessions, held in between the Surf Stage and Sand Stage, each surfer will be grouped into a heat and have 30 minutes to show off his or her best 14

moves. From big airs, to power carves, to grace on the water, style and expression will be on display for all to watch and enjoy.

The art and beauty of the surfboard will bring renowned artists to the festival to share their skills. Surfboard making is an art form, and Sea.Hear.Now has gathered some of the best shapers on the East Coast as part of Shaper’s Alley. The workshop will have hand-picked craftsmen making wave riding tools spanning the generations, from boards made of wood that go back centuries to today’s cutting-edge technology.

Master surfboard maker Ricky Carroll, known as one of the best shapers on the planet and a three-time winner at Icons of Foam, will be joined by John Oppito of Rozbern Surfboards. Rozbern Surfboards

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are hand-shaped and glassed by Oppito at The Heavens in Asbury Park. A vital component to the rising respect for the New Jersey surfing scene, Oppito has been shaping for 12 years. Josh Peterson, who studied under master craftsman Jeff Bushman, will bring his unique style along with Greg Malega of Seafaring Woodcrafts Company in Beach Haven. Greg is a Long Beach Island native who had strong influences from vintage longboards and surf history. He shapes wooden surf crafts as well as foam mid-lengths and logs, all with environmentally sustainable practices. He teaches shaping and wood burning classes and can be found giving tours at the New Jersey Surfing Museum in Tuckerton.

A man who thinks and cares, Clinch chose sustainability as the focus of Sea.Hear.Now. The festival is committed to raising awareness about the issues facing our ocean environment, including the global plastic waste crisis and climate change.

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“We love that Sea.Hear.Now has made sustainability its core directive,” said Brandon Boyd, lead vocalist of Incubus. “Beyond just having an amazing music and art experience, it’s so important to surround these big events with the same ethos that so many of the artists participating carry. Hats off to them, and we are so excited to be a part of it!”

Sea.Hear.Now is also seeking pledges from attendees to do their parts to minimize plastic pollution, lower carbon footprints, and to support sustainable business at the festival by signing up for the Sea.Hear.Now Green Wave. The Green Wave includes bringing a refillable bottle or buying a reusable commemorative festival cup to cut down on the nearly one million plastic bottles purchased every minute. By using provided trash and recycling bins, attendees get rewarded for going above and beyond through the festival’s Rock & Recycle Program and earn a commemorative festival T-shirt. Those who arrive early and join the pre-festival beach clean-up earn a reusable Sea.Hear.Now bag that will help at festival security. Lastly, the festival is promoting mass transit and seeking out plant based, organic, locally sourced meal options at the festival from a list of vendors, and alternatives to plastic when consuming beverages.

A weekend of music, surfing, art, and caring for the environment set at the beautiful Jersey Shore just as summer gives way to fall. We’ll see you at the festival!

You can win tickets on our CM Facebook page @CommunityMagazineNJ or purchase tickets at seahearnowfestival.com/tickets.

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DANNY CLINCH

Known for capturing moments that explode on film, Danny Clinch is famous for giving fans rare glimpses into the lives and talent of our music heroes. Having unparalleled access during concerts and behind-the-scenes due to his unobtrusive style, he has become a silent presence in a world of sound. His photographs of BB King with his guitar, a shirtless Tupac during a wardrobe change, and Bruce Springsteen on the Boardwalk in Asbury Park have become iconic magazine covers and photographs loved the world over.

Allowing his camera to express the essence of its subjects, his work serves as a documentary of music in our lifetime and in our area.

A New Jersey native and believer in always giving back, Clinch is co-founder of the Sea.Hear.

Now Festival and the Director and Photographer for the Asbury Park Music & Film Festival. A big fan of Asbury Park in general, he has helped to advance the town’s standing as New Jersey’s capital of entertainment.

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If you are a ‘Culinary Foodie’, the 18th Annual Two Rivers Food & Wine Tasting was the place to be on August 20 at Navesink Country Club. Held directly after the Rotary Club of Red Bank’s Golf Tournament, the event showcased over 30 of the area’s best eateries and liquor/wine vendors. These two events raised funds for the Red Bank Rotary Foundation which provides grants and donations to local 501(c)(3) organizations, scholarships to individuals to further their education, and Rotary International programs and projects. To learn more about the Rotary Club of Red Bank, visit RedBankRotary.org.

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Keeping it Private YOU ARE CALLED TO COURT for a conference on your divorce case. You miss a day of work or call in a favor asking a friend to watch the kids. You pay your lawyer. Then you spend the day waiting in the hallway for the judge or a settlement panel to spend less than a half hour on your case. Little or nothing is accomplished. The day has cost you and your spouse collectively $ 6,000 to $ 8,000 in attorneys’ fees, not to mention your lost time and income. It’s no one’s fault. Judges are overworked and barraged with emergencies. As if the cost is not aggravating enough, you and your spouse are both anxious. One says something provocative to the other, voices are raised and you say something that you regret. As you turn to walk away you spot one of your employees, customers or a parent from your child’s school bear witness to your marital meltdown. The day has been an expensive public disaster. There is a better way: Private Dispute Resolution.

Private Dispute Resolution is typically called Alternate Dispute Resolution, Mediation or Arbitration. These labels mask the most valuable benefits: You maintain your privacy. You don’t wait. You choose the mediator or arbitrator.

In Mediation, with the assistance of a neutral third-party mediator, usually an attorney, you and your spouse negotiate a resolution of your disputes. Sessions take place in the privacy of an office and are scheduled to minimize lost time from work.

The scheduled time is reserved for your case.

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You don’t pay your attorney to wait. You can agree to think about options that have been proposed and reconvene after you have had time to evaluate them. You can agree on creative solutions which a judge does not have the authority to order in a trial, for example, a lump sum buyout of alimony. You can try a co-parenting schedule for your children and review it after a few months to see if it is working. You go to court once – to get your divorce. Most important, it is completely confidential. Even if you do not settle your case the attorneys and the mediator are prohibited from disclosing any mediation communication.

When cases are not resolved it usually takes at least a year to get to trial. As much as your judge may plan to reserve the full day for your case, there still will be interruptions – emergency applications, calls on other cases, meetings. It is rare to get more than a few hours of actual trial time or consecutive trial days. You may not get back into court for several months. Your lawyer needs to prepare again and make sure the judge properly recalls the earlier testimony. Your life is on hold. You never know who you will run into. After the testimony is complete it often takes months to get a decision.

The private, faster alternative to a trial is Arbitration. Like Mediation, this occurs in the privacy of an attorney’s office. You ask: “Why pay an arbitrator if we can get the judge for free.” Here are the ten best reasons: 1. You and your spouse choose the arbitrator ensuring that someone who

has devoted decades to understanding and practicing family law will make the decisions governing co-parenting of your children and your financial life. In court the judge assigned to your case may be newly appointed and have no experience in Family Law. The American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers certifies Matrimonial Arbitrators, recognized as specialists in Family Law and trained in Arbitration. 2. The arbitrator sets aside scheduled time for your case alone.

3. Testimony can be streamlined. 4. Minor disputes can be resolved in a conference call, saving the time and money of a formal court application. 5. Expert testimony can be specifically scheduled, rather than having your expert wait, give part of the testimony and return another day, at additional cost.

6. From beginning to end, an arbitration is shorter than a court trial. 7. The proceedings are less formal 8. You can agree that the arbitrator will render a decision within a specific time. Judges can take close to a year.

9. Often there is one issue that is preventing a resolution of all other issues. Courts do not have the luxury of conducting a trial on one issue. You arbitrate specific issues or all issues. 10. In court your financial information is publicly available.

Private dispute resolution maintains confidentiality.

Divorce is stressful and wrought with uncertainty. Private dispute resolution allows you to control the process, maintain confidentiality and avoid anxiety that is part of the court process.

Ms. Reiss is a New Jersey Supreme Court approved mediator and is certified by the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers as a Matrimonial Arbitrator.

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CPC Behavioral Healthcare Presents Third Annual Driftwood Cabana Club Beach Volleyball Tournament

The Driftwood Cabana Club invites the public to attend the 2018 Driftwood Cabana Club Beach Volleyball Tournament on Saturday, October 6th at 11:00 a.m. at at 1485 Ocean Avenue in Sea Bright. The tournament is now entering its third year; sponsored by Warshauer Electric, Torcon, Driftwood Cabana Club and Tiki Bar. The event raises funds to support CPC Behavioral Healthcare’s Addiction Recovery Program. Proceeds are allocated to providing life-saving kits of overdose-reversing Narcan along with medication-assisted treatment for teens and young adults seeking to recover from heroin or opioid addiction.

The opioid epidemic has strongly affected New Jersey and Monmouth County in particular. Overdoses are at an all-time high; creating significant need for treatment in the region. Medication-assisted treatment, along with counseling and support, is the evidence-based course of treatment proven effective in helping individuals successfully recover.

Unfortunately, individuals often experience barriers like insurance restrictions and lack of financial resources.

Stacey and Mike Warshauer launched the first volleyball tournament with Brian and Chris Torcivia in 2016 to raise funds to support opioid addiction recovery. The Warshauers and Torcivias were especially motivated by the fact that more young people die from drug-related causes than car accidents and homicides combined .

There are many ways to support this event and help to save lives. Join the growing list of sponsors, recruit a team to play in the tournament, or attend the event and purchase food and beverages at the Tiki Bar, where Driftwood is donating 20% of the proceeds to CPC. Spectators can attend for free.

Donating an item to the gift auction or a contribution to the event is also welcomed. Your support is appreciated and will be helping to make recovery a reality for individuals in our community.

For more information, visit cpcbehavioral.org/volleyball.

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September 29th & 30th Join us as we celebrate the Arrival of Fall with endless bins of Fresh Picked Apple Varieties, hot and cold Apple Cider, Apple Pastries, Face Painting, a Petting Zoo and Fun Music to get you in the Fall Spirit!

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Samra Plastic Surgery is hosting its 2nd annual Passport to Pretty event on Tuesday, September 25 from 11:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m. at its Old Bridge office located at 300 Perrine Road, Suite 333. Doctors Said, Asaad, and Salem Samra will be on-site along with Dr. Munjal Patel for the event.

Attendees can receive $750 off cosmetic surgery and up to 50% off other aesthetic procedures.

“Passport To Pretty, is a journey through today’s proven cosmetic procedures,” said Laura Brown, Director of Marketing at The Samra Group. “Every year, new procedures become available, and Samra Plastic Surgery and Jeunesse Medical Spa are always the first to incorporate these cutting-edge technologies. More importantly, they’re less invasive and offer quicker backto-family and work timelines.”

Patients are seeking such solutions. The American Society for Aesthetic Plastic Surgery (ASAPS) reported that cosmetic surgery was up 11% and non-surgical cosmetic procedures were up 4.2% in 2017. With so many options available, making a decision can feel overwhelming. Saline or silicone? Invasive, minimally invasive or non-invasive? Recovery time or no downtime?

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Attendees will enter this open house via a red carpet;

welcomed by a personal tour guide for the journey.

Encounter an exciting procedure at each stop and get your passport stamped. You’ll meet the doctors who will be discussing and fielding questions about cosmetic surgery as well as demonstrating the popular, noninvasive cosmetic procedures alternatives for those who do not want to ‘go under the knife’. Attendees’ stamped passports are their entry into a grand prize giveaway contest. No purchase necessary to enter.

The surgeons will be accompanied by brand reps from Allergan, Merz, Med-Aesthetic Solutions and Bellus Medical. Attendees will have the opportunity to lunch-andlearn about breast augmentation, tummy tuck, SmartLipo, facelift and more, along with less invasive services like facial injectables, CoolSculpting® fat freezing, Ultherapy® non-surgical lift, The Salt Facial™ and the highly popular SkinPen® microneedling.

Exciting demonstrations will be performed. You can watch Botox® injections, CoolSculpting treatments, Salt Facials and microneedling sessions. Facial fillers will be used to plump lips, lift cheeks and fill parenthesis lines right in front of your eyes. Interested in seeing how quick, easy, and painless these are? Call 732.739.2100 for the demonstration schedule.

Reservations are highly recommended. For more information or to RSVP for the event, call Samra Plastic Surgery at 732.739.2100, or visit samraplasticsurgery.com.

HOLIDAY EXPRESS TO HOST SUNSET BENEFIT CLAMBAKE Enjoy a festive afternoon and bring the summer season to a close by kicking off your shoes and partying on the beach with friends on Sunday, September 16! That evening, Holiday Express will be hosting its 11th annual Holiday Express Sunset Benefit Clambake from 4:00 to 8:00 p.m.

Look for the tremendous tent outside McLoone’s Pier House at 1 Ocean Avenue on the Long Branch boardwalk. Hundreds of guests are expected to join in this celebration widely regarded as one of the best annual fundraising events in the region. Individual tickets are $275 each.

This wildly popular clambake is one of a handful of public events held each year to help raise funds for

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Holiday Express. All proceeds are allocated toward its mission to serve tens of thousands of the neediest and most forgotten among us.

Established by Tim McLoone in 1993, Holiday Express is a non-profit organization comprised of 2,500 volunteers, including 150 professional rock, jazz, folk, gospel and pop musicians. Holiday Express delivers music, food, gifts, financial support and friendship to those with the greatest need for the gift of human kindness during the holiday season and throughout the year. Mark your calendars for the Count Basie Benefit Concert on December 17th and December 18th.

For more information, visit holidayexpress.org or call 732.544.8010.

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Finding The Light in 9/11

BY SHANNA POLIGNONE

Lisa Luckett’s life shattered on September 11, 2001. As the first plane struck the World Trade Center, Lisa witnessed America’s greatest tragedy on television as well as her own.

Lisa whispered the words, “Goodbye Teddy, I love you,” surrounded by her close friends as the buildings fell that morning. Her husband Teddy headed to his office at Cantor Fitzgerald earlier that day. As he left the house, the happily married couple said their morning goodbye, calling one another

“soulmates.” Lisa watched him leave, not knowing this would be the last time she would see Teddy.

Though she could have easily fallen into despair, Lisa instead chose to pursue light and positivity in the face of tragedy. In her new book The Light in 9/11 - Shocked By Kindness, Healed By Love, she shares a deeply personal journey of preparation, friends, community, and taking the right steps toward recovery and beginning a new normal.

Lisa met Teddy in the 1980s; both building successful sales careers in New York City. They soon fell in love and began building a life together, which led to the Lucketts moving to New Jersey in 1997.

The couple chose to start a new life in Fair Haven. Lisa and Teddy soon made friends through local events and became actively involved in the community. Though Lisa grew up in Rumson, she admits that she was always attracted to the idea of living in Fair Haven. “Fair Haven is a very special, old-world community,” she said. “You have everything you need, and you only have to leave town to go to the (Rumson) pharmacy.”

Lisa Luckett (right) with friend Amy Milnes of Middletown at River Road Books in Fair Haven at her recent book signing.

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After Teddy’s tragic passing, Lisa decided to find a way to find light in her life rather than sink into despair.

She credits her friends, family, and the community in Fair Haven for sustaining her through this difficult time.

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“It’s a tight-knit community,” Lisa shared. “The unbelievable love, energy, and support was bolstering to me. Fair Haven is a village, and it doesn’t let its people fall. This community saved me.”

Within minutes of the first plane striking, neighbors and friends quickly filled the Luckett home and stood by Lisa’s side. Through this experience, she decided to embrace life as a gift and to not allow Teddy or other 9/11 victims die in vain.

“The loving support that you get is the lifeline that keeps you from falling into the abyss of despair and hopelessness,” Lisa said. “We can’t be stuck there, this life is too great a gift.”

Seventeen years have passed, and she is ready to share her story, as well as her journey to recovery, with the world.

Lisa and Teddy Luckett in the summer of 1999.

CM: Why write this book?

Lisa Luckett (LL): Two questions prompted me to write this book: First, why were we all so emotionally unprepared to handle 9/11? Second, where could we find wisdom to help us through our grief? Over the past 17 years, I immersed myself in learning what had happened. This book is my starting point to share with others what worked for me in my own grief and recovery.

CM: What inspired you to tell such a personal story?

LL: When you have a story you need to tell, you must tell it.

Otherwise, it feels like carrying around something inside of you that should really be out in the world. I want people to know that good can still prevail despite trauma. It can change your perspective to view life as “Why is this happening for me?” instead of “to me.”

CM: What is the book about?

LL: It is not as much about 9/11 as it is about how 9/11 was the catalyst for me to experience remarkable personal growth. It is about finding the light in any trauma; not just 9/11. The tragedy happened 17 years ago-- there is a whole new generation of kids that have been born since then. Though the physical, mental, and emotional wounds are still fresh for many, 2001 is very different than 2018. This book is about the healing power of kindness that I experienced in the wake of tragedy. I want to give that back and put it in action.

CM: What are some ways you put that kindness in action?

Lisa points to a bowl of clay hearts, twisted together in various colors.

LL: Pocket hearts. I decided to make these hearts in memory of a gift given to me in the first few days after 9/11. That gift meant so much to me, because it’s a memory of Teddy’s lighthearted love. He was so playful. I’ve given out approximately 40,000 hearts to date - one at a time, hand-to-hand. When I hand them out, I say “they are a little magic, so don’t be surprised. They are going to bring you luck and love.” It’s such a joy to make them, give them, and see peoples’ reaction. Random acts of kindness can really make a difference.

CM: What was that gift that spurred the idea for the hearts?

LL: I really wanted to go to Ground Zero to find Teddy in the first days after 9/11. However, a house full of people and three children made that nearly impossible. A few days later a friend arrived in my kitchen and said, “Lisa, I was at Ground Zero yesterday searching for Teddy and I had this with me. I want you to have it.” He opened his hand and there was a little silver coin with an angel embossed on It. “It’s a pocket angel,” my friend said. I got full-body chills when I touched it and when I took it from his hand I immediately felt calm. It was like I had been there, it connected me, and I didn’t feel that same overwhelming urge to go to the towers anymore.

that remain in the wake of myself in studying this tragedy. This book lets people into my experience. My home was a revolving door in the first months following September 11. Instead of shutting people out, I let them in and allowed myself to receive.

It allowed them to grieve with me by helping me. It also allowed us to begin to heal together.

CM: What are some mantras you have or sayings that kept you going?

LL: One of the mantras that I have is “choose courage.” Just ten seconds of courage can change anything. Lean into it, because your situation is never as bad as you think it is. There’s also this amazing thing that I call the “godness” - the goodness with one “O.” It is the best of the human spirit that shows up in times of tragedy. People show up. I believe in that as well.

CM: What are you passionate about?

LL: I’m passionate about doing my part to help make the world a better place, understanding the gift that is this life, and staying in balance and enjoying it. I also have a passion for helping other people do that too. I want to be current so that I can be the best parent that I can be. When they are seeking wise counsel, I want to be that for them. My kids are my people and the most important part of my life. My oldest, Jennifer, is 24 and lives in Boston. She’s doing great there, working through her 20s, and doing it perfectly. Billy is 21 and attending Ohio Wesleyan. Timmy is a junior in high school at Salisbury School in Connecticut. Though we’ve all wound up in different places, Fair Haven is still home, for sure. Together, we are still “Team Luckett.”

CM: What’s next for you?

LL: I am looking forward to building a speaking career and taking the show on the road. I want to share the experiences that inspired this book with as many people as I can. This is the first book of three to introduce themes and theories that can show us a beautiful future.

CM: Where can our readers find you?

LL: I’ll be at the Barnes and Noble at Monmouth Mall in Eatontown on September 20 from 6:00-8:00 p.m. doing a book reading and discussion. It will be a fun time, so I hope to see everyone there! My book is also available through Barnes and Noble, Amazon, and River Road Books.

CM: How are you using your experiences to help others?

LL: I believe I am helping others by sharing truths I’ve learned and living the way that I wish everyone could live. I want to encourage others to love themselves and to set boundaries, so they are not submerged under all the relationships in their lives.

I want to help people see the positive aspects of their lives

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“Every Bowl Feeds a Soul”

TEENS, ARTISTS, COOKS HELP FEED COMMUNITIES JBJ Soul Kitchen invites members of the public to participate in its upcoming Empty Bowls Event, on Saturday, September 22 from noon to 7:00 p.m. at 207 Monmouth Street in Red Bank. Participants will assist in offering hundreds of handmade bowls in return for donations to help feed people.

During the rain or shine event, participants will have the opportunity to choose any or as many bowls as they like in exchange for a $20 donation per item. The restaurant will be serving dinner as usual from 5:00 to 7:00 p.m. Light refreshments and snacks will be served from noon to 3:00 p.m. The donations provide a meal for someone in the community through JBJ Soul Kitchen. A portion of proceeds will also be allocated to supporting the Art Alliance of Monmouth County.

Initiated by Colts Neck resident and Art Alliance board member Mil Wexler-Kobrinski, the event has proven popular and successful over the past few years. The yearround effort to make bowls requires many hands. Students at Teen Arts workshops each spring are among the most prolific contributors. This year, amateur and professional artists,

many volunteers, and young people from schools and arts programs in both Monmouth and Ocean Counties are joining in.

Gina Navon, a volunteer coordinator for the Art Alliance, says, “We are all humbled by our good fortune, and present this reminder to the world that there are still many among us

who struggle for this simple basic human need: food.”

Wexler-Kobrinski, is a ceramic artist and painter. Her MFA thesis project focused on Empty Bowls, a project of Imagine/RENDER, a 501(c)(3) organization that fosters an international grassroots effort to raise both money and awareness in the fight to end hunger. The mission is to create positive and lasting

change through the arts, education, and projects that build community.

Soul Kitchen was founded by Dorothea and Jon Bon Jovi. The JBJ Soul Kitchen, a program of the JBJ Soul Foundation, is a community restaurant featuring fresh, healthy ingredients. Soul Kitchen serves meals to in-need customers through volunteer work and to paying customers through donation.

The Art Alliance of Monmouth County is a non-profit, memberowned and operated gallery and studio in Red Bank, whose mission is to promote the advancement of the visual arts and provide exhibition, studio and classroom space. Monmouth Arts is the official county arts agency of Monmouth County whose mission is to enrich the community by inspiring and fostering the arts. The annual Monmouth Teen Arts Festival invites all teens ages 13-19 in the county to experience professional critiques in their artistic disciplines, fun and interactive workshops (including the most popular workshop, Empty Bowls with Mil), peer performances, and exhibitions.

THE BOONDOCKS FISHERY TO HOST DOG SHOW BENEFITING LOCAL CHARITY The Boondocks Fishery will be hosting the Strut Your Mutt dog show on Sunday, September 9 at 1 Wharf Avenue in Red Bank from 12:00 to 4:00 p.m. Proceeds benefit The Brodie Fund, which raises money to offer financial assistance to families who have pets fighting cancer. The event will include a dog

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HALL OF FAME CLASS OF 2018 INDUCTEES Mater Dei Prep, Middletown, and the Mater Dei Prep Alumni Association announced this year’s inductees to the Mater Dei Prep Hall of Fame. The Mater Dei Prep Hall of Fame honors members of the Seraph community for their extraordinary co-curricular accomplishments, distinguished achievement in their respective fields, extraordinary service and support of their alma mater, and team state championships. All nominations are reviewed by the Hall of Fame Nominating Committee and final honoree selections are made by the Mater Dei Prep Hall of Fame Committee. The Hall of Fame Class of 2018 will be honored on Friday, September 21, 2018 at the Trump National Golf Club in Colts Neck.

• Cindy Dwyer, Director of Performing Arts Institute • Ryan Lino ’07 • Donald E. Froude ’74 – Lifetime Achievement • Dr. Joseph Buzzanco ’78 P’13,’16 – Extraordinary Service • Maria Buzzanco P’13,’16 – Extraordinary Service • Cathy Daniels ’79 – Extraordinary Service • Kathryn McLaughlin ’72 – Extraordinary Service • Ellen Poole ’72 – Extraordinary Service • Bill Dickinson P’77,’78,’81,’83,’84,’86 • 2008 Mater Dei Prep State Championship

Varsity Softball Team For more information on the Mater Dei Prep Hall of Fame Ceremony, please visit materdeiprep.org/page/alumni/hall-of-fame-ceremony

MONMOUTH REGIONAL CHAMBER OF COMMERCE HONORS COMMUNITY LEADERS The Monmouth Regional Chamber of Commerce hosted its 2018 Beacon of Excellence Awards this July; honoring outstanding community leaders at Bella Vista Country Club in Marlboro. The awards honor individuals and organizations demonstrating outstanding community enrichment initiatives through service, leadership and achievement.

association with these outstanding individuals. We’re invested in the communities we serve, and when we see leaders in our communities making such a positive impact, we want to recognize and celebrate that.”

For more information on the MRCC and its upcoming events, visit monmouthregionalchamber.com.

“This list of recipients embodies the spirit of the Beacon of Excellence,” said MRCC Executive Director David M. Salkin. “Their commitment and efforts enrich us all.”

The Beacon of Hope Award was given to POAC – Parents of Autistic Children; Beacon of Light Award to S/Sgt Eduardo Santiago; Non-Profit Organization of the Year to Kick Cancer Overboard; Business Ambassador of the Year to Glen J. Dalakian, Sr. of Colt’s Neck Business Association; Corporate Good Neighbor Award to New Jersey Natural Gas; President’s Award to Sherilyn Przelomski; Public Servants of the Year to Monmouth County Sheriff Shaun Golden and New Jersey State Senator Vin Gopal; Community Service Award to Bayshore Senior Health Education and Recreation Center; and Young Professional of the Year Award to Alexandra Imtanios.

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(Top row, left to right) – Beacon of Hope – Gary Weitzen from Parents of Autistic Children; Public Servant Award – Vin Gopal; Business Ambassador – Glen J. Dalakian Sr.; Non-Profit Organization – Kick Cancer Overboard, Founders DonnaLyn Giegerich & Ted Friedli (Bottom row, left to right) – Community Service Award – Bayshore Senior Health, Education and Recreation Center, Pat McCarthy; Corporate Good Neighbor – New Jersey Natural Gas, Amy Cradick-VP of Government Affairs & Policy; Young Profession Award – Alexandra Imtanios; President’s Award – Sherilyn Przelomski (Not pictured) – Beacon of Light – Staff Sergeant Eduard Santiago, United States Army & Public Servant Award – Sheriff Shaun Golden (Photo Credit: Mark Lamhut)

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CM: There is a great deal of interest in how you made and handled the transition from the professional baseball world to music.

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introduction when it comes to his amazing 16-year career as the switchhitting center fielder for the NY Yankees. But what are the chances that such an accomplished athlete would emerge a gifted Latin Jazz musician?

The Grunin Center is host to Bernie Williams and his All-Star Band with a post-concert meet and greet this month. CM spoke with Bernie to learn about his journey from star athlete to jazz guitarist/composer and even about his very brief acting career on Seinfeld. And with all of this, Bernie still makes time for philanthropy. Here are excerpts from our interview with the warm and personable Bernie Williams.

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Bernie Williams (BW): There are a lot of similarities. The things I had to do to be successful in sports are the things I have to do to be successful in music - the work ethic, not really dwelling on your mistakes and learning from them.

CM: Bruce Springsteen alluded to the transition when you joined him on stage: “Bernie may be old for baseball but he’s a spring chicken for rock and roll.” Are you feeling that, and is touring exhausting?

BW: (Laughs) I am not doing a lot of touring when it comes to music. In summer and fall I tend to be a little bit more active as far as performing.

But I have this great opportunity to do things with music that are beyond the stage or recording studio. I do a lot of advocating for music education. I do corporate and charity events and I’m working to raise awareness about IPF (Idiopathic Pulmonary Fibrosis). That brings me to stadiums to play the anthem and Take Me Out to the Ballgame.

I am utilizing music and my popularity as a former baseball player to reach out so the music is a vehicle to do all these other things.

CM: Your rendition of Take Me Out to the Ballgame on your CD with the voice of Bob Sheppard (Yankees announcer) is special. My son had brought a sign to a Yankees game as kids do, but his said “Bob Sheppard Rules”. What was it like to work with the beloved Mr. Sheppard?

BW: He did?! (Big laugh) That particular voiceover Bob Sheppard did for the track was, I believe, the last thing he did before he passed away. To have his voice associated with any of my work is certainly an honor.

CM: Is the camaraderie you had with the Yankees similar to that with your band?

BW: We don’t really tour that much as “one” band. I perform with different “collectives”. A lot of the musicians are working on their own things so I have a list of people I can call upon.

They are all familiar with the music and can play it with their eyes closed.

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actions that happen during the music and between solos that I enjoy a lot.

To be quite frank, playing baseball is pretty individualistic. The celebrations and the interactions don’t have a lot to do with the game. Those happen in “dead time”: waiting for the game to start, in between batting practice, interacting in the clubhouse, in dressing rooms. I have more of a team interaction when I’m playing with the band than I had as a baseball player.

CM: Are there any musicians you would love to “team up” with?

BW: Oh my God yeah, it’s interesting you say that because I am training myself with this mentality in which I think, “All music is good.” All interactions with all kinds of musicians are welcome. Within the backdrop of music, I meet and serve time with a lot of great musicians with seemingly different styles- but once you are in this space in your mind that you just know the language, you can adapt to play with different people and have a great time. That’s a lot of love, for lack of a better word. (Laughs) I think that is the best way I can describe it.

CM: But is there one particular artist?

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BW: I don’t know, I am really quite open to experience different things, different people. For instance, a few years ago I was part of the tribute band that was playing in Connecticut to honor Dave Brubeck. Unfortunately he passed that week. They decided to still go ahead with the concert in his memory. I had an opportunity to play with his son, Darius Brubeck. We played Take Five and we played with a whole bunch of really heavy jazz cats.

And I had a really really incredible experience the next day, when I went to Long Island, and I played We’re Not Gonna Take It with Twisted Sister.

You talk about a contrast in styles!

(Laughs)That’s where I get most of my enjoyment in this music experience - playing with different people and different genres, different places, and still be myself and have my own individual voice. So that’s pretty exciting.

CM: Now you are famous in two realms.

Is it different as a baseball player than as a musician?

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BW: That’s a really interesting question. Handling fame is about not letting it get to your head. Fame is fleeting and should not be part of who you are and you should not crave it. Fame

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is a byproduct of what you do. I think if you’re trying to be famous by doing something, then you’re doing it for the wrong reasons. With that said, handling fame is quite interesting because I experienced a popularity with one of the best baseball teams in the history of the big leagues, playing with the New York Yankees for all those years. We have an interesting fan base that is very passionate and is very, very strong willed and they are so immersed in the team that they treat you like family whether they know you or not. (Laughs) I have to make sure they have the best experience they can have. Within reason! I mean if you have a thousand people swarming you then I think it may be time to run away.

CM: And fame in the music world?

BW: Music is a little bit different, I think. You connect in a different way.

When you speak in this language of music, you’re dealing with a lot of emotions and the subconscious. “Why do people like music?, and “Why do people like songs?” I think the connection, as strong as it is in sports is even stronger in music. Some of these artists write music that might be the songbook of your life growing up. That has to touch hearts and souls. When you meet fans you can definitely ruin their lives by not being accommodating. My dad and my mom really stressed that. Even when I was a young player in the minor leagues my dad always said, “You have to be nice to the fans. They make you or break you and they’re human too and you have to treat them nice.” And I was always thinking about that- “You have to be nice to fans.”

CM: Now I’m going to turn it around.

People want to meet you ~from your side, is there anyone you would like to meet?

BW: The list is probably longer on my side! Most of the people I would try to meet are already dead! (Laughs) Like Louis Armstrong, Coltrane, Charlie Parker, composers of classical music, Mozart, Beethoven, Bach. What was in their heads that they were able to make such great music and be inspired, what was in their minds? It would be fascinating to meet Babe Ruth, people like that who were bigger than the game and transcendent.

CM: I asked Steven Van Zandt the same question and he laughed at himself because he met everyone he want-

ed to and couldn’t think of anyone he’d want to meet.

BW: Oh my God (big laugh). He probably has a much bigger pool than I do, and resources, because he is an actor, a famous musician, a rock star, so I’m pretty sure that he is pretty accurate in what he’s saying.

CM: Back to music. Do you play any other instruments?

BW: No I have not been trained in other instruments. About two and a half years ago I graduated from the Manhattan School of Music with a degree in Jazz Performance. We had to take a little bit of piano as a compositional tool so I know the rudiments of how to make noise on the piano, but I wouldn’t go out there playing. I’m a pretty decent bass player. My background and my heritage of being Puerto Rican has made me grow up with the syncopated sounds of Latin music so I’ve always been fascinated with percussion and percussion instruments. It has been a steady influence. I kind of play with a percussive sense, meaning that I draw upon those Latin rhythms to play my rhythmic guitar, my solos- it influences everything I do musically.

CM: Speaking of percussion, my husband wants to know if Paul O’Neill is as good on drums as he says he is.

BW: Well if he says he is good, he’s probably not as good! (Laughs) I’m just kidding. I’ll tell you a story about Paul O’Neill. He came to the team in ‘93, in

a trade that sent Roberto Kelly to the Cincinnati Reds and when he came, we didn’t know too much about him. He discovered that in one of those little storage rooms there was a drum set left by Ron Guidry who pitched for the Yankees. Ron never picked it up and the drums became the mainstay of the bowels of the stadium. So, the equipment managers, the grounds crew, they all played them. Paul started playing after batting practice, before the games, during rain delays. I was walking in a hallway toward the cage to get my hitting done and I heard a noise.

I opened the door and it was him playing! So from that moment on I hooked up with him and I brought a small amp in to the storage room. It was just the two of us playing, in rain delays, after batting practice, every time we had free time, we would kind of look at each other, “Should we go jam? Yeah we should go jam!” Richie Sambora showed up one time and it was a really cool thing. Paul is actually a pretty decent drummer He can certainly keep a beat, a steady beat.

He’s not very flashy, he won’t give you all these amazing rolls or anything like that, but he would definitely stay in the pocket and give you good beats to play, definitely.

CM: You wrote many of your songs. Do you enjoy writing as much as performing?

BW: Oh yeah, absolutely. Writing is almost like improvising, you just have all the time in the world to do it. And you have a chance to revise what you do. To me harmony is so fascinating because

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Signed in 1987 after high school Major League Debut - May 1991 Four-time World Series Champion Five-time All Star Four Gold Gloves Awards Most Post-Season RBIs Six American League Pennants 1998 American League Batting Title 1996 ALCS MVP Award Number 51 retired and Plaque in Monument Park- May 24, 2015

Moving Forward CD 2009 #2 on Billboard’s Contemporary Jazz Album Singles, Go For It & Ritmo de Otono, consecutive #1 Billboard Singles Latin Grammy Award Nomination: Best Instrumental Album, 2009 Manhattan School of Music, BA Jazz Performance

it’s a combination of notes put together to evoke a certain emotion. You can manipulate pitches and sounds to make someone feel happy, or sad, or angry, or pumped up, or melancholic, or somber.

Music has the power to do all of that.

And that’s why I want to get into all those great composers’ heads! You know? (laughs) Most people may never be able to understand the process but they recognize it maybe on a subliminal level.

CM: I’m wondering if you prefer studio recording?

BW: Studio recording is nerve-wracking because there is dead silence and everything has to be perfect. If you make a little mistake in the recording, you will hear it over and over and over again and it will drive you crazy. I feel like, “Why didn’t I fix this!” (Laughs) CM: Baseball, music and you even appeared on Seinfeld!

BW: Well that was a blast! (Big laughs throughout). That was great, that was awesome! I had my 15 seconds of fame there. It was me and Derek Jeter. George Costanza was trying to teach us how to play, how to hit. It’s my favorite scene, my favorite scene. It was really cool! I mean the experience of being on that show, at that time. It was at the peak of its popularity. It was certainly a great honor to be part of it. It was right after the World Series in “96 and we were at the top of the world. That was definitely the icing on the cake!

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Ahh back to school time is upon us once again. Parents are excited to have their kids return to school and kids are sad to see summer end. Many children will handle the transition from summer to school well, but a few will have difficulty. School anxiety and school refusal are quite common this time of the year. I am a new therapist at Meredith O’Brien & Affiliates, LLC. I specialize in working with children (as young as three years old), adolescents and families in the areas of: anxiety, depression, anger management, emotional/behavioral dysregulation, self-esteem, grief, school problems, ADHD and parenting skills. I am a licensed professional counselor and a national board certified multicultural competent therapist.

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3rd Annual Garmany Boom!

September is one of my favorite months. The beach and water temps are at their best, the kiddos go back to school and the weather is awesome.

Try and make some of the local events showcased below and enjoy the last of our outstanding area summer treats!

- Donna Beriont 43rd Annual Clearwater Festival September 8 from 11:00 a.m. to 7:00 p.m.

September 9 from 11:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m.

Brookdale Community College, Lincroft Free, family-friendly event rolls into Lincroft for a weekend celebration of the environment with music, song and summer fun. New Jersey’s oldest and largest music and environmental festival will feature more than 40 local and national musical performers in a variety of styles, from rock and blues to jazz and country, on three stages. Visit njclearwater.org/festival.html

Strut Your Mutt Dog Show September 9 from 12:00 to 4:00 p.m.

The Boondocks Fishery, Red Bank The event will include a dog show with prizes in all categories: Best Tail Wag, Most Disobedient, Best Smile, and more. The event will also feature hot dogs, hamburgers, veggie burgers, salads, popcorn and refreshments; live music throughout the day; vendors, gift baskets and more. Guests can also attend the Pet Cancer Warriors Parade walking along the riverside promenade. $20 per pet/$10 per spectator. Visit brodiefund.org

Serenity at the Shore, Stories of Survival September 12 at 6:00 p.m.

Drifthouse by David Burke, Sea Bright While the common thread in this talk is about cancer, it is the experience of the story that we all can relate to… and we have all been touched by this disease in some way. What we bring to the table is a platform for all to speak their minds, open their souls and learn from one another. Please take a look at the link to see the incredible women we have speaking and sharing. Tickets $47.99 pp, with wine and cheese and entry into the gift basket raffle, portion of the proceeds will be donated to Mary’s Place.

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September 14 from 6:30 to 11:00 p.m.

Cocktail party celebrating life, fashion, and raising awareness for cystic fibrosis through the Boomer Esiason Foundation. Garmany proudly presents the third spectacular year with Boomer Esiason, Phil Simms, Bonnie Bernstein, and more special guests, along with Master of Ceremonies Joe Piscopo. Tickets are $300 pp, visit esiason.org

Red Bank Food and Wine Walk September 16 from 2:00 to 5:00 p.m.

Three hours of top tastings from many of Red Bank’s popular dining spots…Must be 21+ to purchase wristband.

Hosted by Red Bank River Center, visit redbank.org.

Historic Battery Lewis Tours September 20-23 & 27-30 - 10 :00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m.

Tour the newly restored Historic Battery Lewis in the Rocky Point section of Hartshorne Woods Park, Highlands, and learn about the history of this important former coastal defense site. Tours start on the hour. Last tour begins at 3:00 p.m.

Middletown Day September 22 from 11:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m.

Croydon Hall, Leonardo Attendees will enjoy fun activities for all ages including a business and community showcase, craft fair, live local music, children’s activities, emergency response demonstrations, a petting zoo, hayrides, flea market, and food court. Visit middletownnj.org/middletownday

Rockfest September 22 from 10:00 a.m. to 10:00 p.m.

Featuring 20 different bands playing on two stages in front of the grandstand at Monmouth Park. Some of the top-billed performers include: Brian Kirk and the Jirks, Moroccan Sheepherders, Random Test, and The Matt O’Ree band. Tickets are online for pre-sale at MonmouthPark.com or Sheepherders.com/rockfest for $20 online or $25 at the gate, to benefit HABcore.

Monmouth Day Care Center Touch a Truck!

September 22 10:00 a.m. to 2:00 p.m.

Red Bank Middle School There will be trucks of all different sizes that perform all different jobs. There will be motorcycles for the children to sit on. Firetrucks from different towns. And so much more!!

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in Port Monmouth. Registration begins at 10:00 am and motorcycles go out at 12:00 pm. The ride fee is $20.00 for the rider and $15.00 for a passenger. The 50-mile escorted ride will go through Monmouth and Ocean Counties ending with live music, a barbeque, vendors, 50/50 drawings and more. The ride will benefit Special Olympics of New Jersey.

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3rd Annual Antique/Vintage Car Show

Holmdel Harvest Fest

September 23 at 10:00 a.m.

Parker Homestead-1665, Little Silver The Homestead will have its now-running 1941 tractor and the newly acquired 1908 roundabout buggy on display and hope that the pick-up truck will be back from the mechanic in running order as well. There will be a food truck, DJ, certificates for exhibitors, 50/50 drawing and tours of the house. Admission is FREE.

Red Bank Guinness Oyster Festival September 30 from 12:00 to 7:00 p.m.

White Street Municipal Parking Lot, Red Bank Tons of Oysters...Pints of Guinness, plus Lighter Beers and Wine...Live Music...Great Food. The Red Bank Guinness Oyster Festival is a great time for one and all and is fashioned after the 62-year-old Galway Oyster Festival celebrating the opening of the oyster season. Visit redbank.org

Harvest Home Festival September 30 from 11:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m.

Historic Longstreet Farm, Holmdel This old-fashioned fair is reminiscent of the 1890s. Visitors can enjoy wagon rides, games and live entertainment.

There are also ongoing crafts demonstrations and a Home & Garden competition. Admission and parking are free.

Apple Festival at Dearborn Market September 29 & September 30 Join in as Dearborn celebrates the arrival of fall with endless bins of apples, hot and cold apple cider, apple pastries, face painting, a petting zoo and fun music! Visit dearbornmarket.com

9th Annual Special Olympics Run September 30 at 10:00 a.m.

VFW Post Port Monmouth Sponsored by NJ Knights of Columbus Motorcycle Ministry The ride starts at the VFW Post #2179, 1 Veterans Lane

October 6 from 12:00 to 9:00 p.m.

Bayonet Farm, Holmdel The day includes food vendors, crafters, beer/wine, live music, wagon rides, pony rides, inflatables, Ferris Wheel, and touch-a-truck.

4th Annual Infinity Event “The Hunt on the Beach” October 6 from 6:30 to 12 midnight Edgewater Beach & Cabana Club, Sea Bright To benefit Tigger House Foundation, which is dedicated to achieving a positive impact by reducing the death rate of heroin and opiate addiction. Visit tiggerhouse.org

AsanaOverboard By the Sea October 7 from 1:00 to 3:00 p.m.

The Atlantic Club, Manasquan Join in for two hours of “thrivership” yoga with a community of wellness seekers. All levels welcome.

Benefits Kick Cancer Overboard & Mary's Place by the Sea

Two River Theater’s Halloween Ball III October 20 at 7:00 p.m.

Join in for Two River Theater’s annual benefit bash and explore the secret lair of unsound scientists, diabolical doctors and evil geniuses. Costume attire highly recommended. Tickets $200 pp, visit tworivertheater.org

Beauty and the Beach Run for Women November 3 – Expo Open at 7:30 a.m.

Convention Center at Ocean Place Resort, Long Branch This race offers a 5 mile run or a 2.5 mile walk option and was designed by women for women, to raise funds for at-risk disadvantaged children, served by Aslan Youth Ministries.

Runners, walkers and guests are invited to attend the EXPO held inside the Convention Center at the Ocean Place Resort & Spa. Visit beautyandthebeachrun.org

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DIAMOND BUYING EVENT hosted by J. Vincent Jewelers & The International Institute of Diamond Valuation

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The International Institute of Diamond Valuation (IIDV) specializes in the valuation and purchase of pre-owned diamond jewelry. We’re part of the De Beers Group, the world’s leading diamond company, which has been operating for over 125 years.

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The service is free and offers are made on all diamond jewelry pieces that contain at least one natural diamond - no matter the shape, size, color or clarity of the diamonds. IIDV’s offers are based on wholesale prices for pre-owned goods, which will differ from retail prices.

For more information about the diamond jewelry buying event and to book an appointment, call 732.256.4410 or visit J. Vincent Jewelers at 420 Route 34 in Colts Neck. www.jvincent.com

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Rockfest Moves Festival to Monmouth Park

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Besides owning a tech company and playing guitar in a classic rock band, Colts Neck resident Steve Warendorf is also the man responsible for starting Rockfest in 2008.

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“I wanted to have my family and friends for a picnic and play some music with the band and others,” Warendorf noted.

“To say the concert has grown since would be a gross understatement.”

Warendorf, who owns See Hear Tech and plays guitar for local band Moroccan Sheepherders, recalls that the first Rockfest only hosted 50 attendees. Now, the event has surpassed expectations and has taken on a life of its own with over 1,000 folks attending last year’s event in Colts Neck.

Because of this growth, Steve decided to move the event to Monmouth Park Racetrack this year.

“We really needed a larger space so we decided to change up the location,” he explained. “Since there is no horse racing in September, the track was looking to have music so it was the perfect fit.”

Rockfest 2018 will feature 20 different bands playing on two stages in front of the grandstand at Monmouth Park.

Some of the top-billed performers include: Brian Kirk and the Jirks, Moroccan Sheepherders, Random Test, and The Matt O’Ree Band.

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The event provides a great way for Monmouth County residents to spend time with family and friends as well as support a diverse roster of local entertainers. In addition to music, there will be plenty of food and craft vendors. Warendorf encourages attendees to visit his favorite vendor, Brookie’s Baby Berry Hats, owned by his mother.

Rockfest is scheduled for Saturday, September 22. Doors open at 9:00 a.m., and the event runs from 10:00 a.m. to 10:00 p.m. There will be free parking at the event and kids 4 to 12 are $10 at gate, kids under 4 are free. Tickets are online for pre-sale at MonmouthPark.com or Sheepherders. com/rockfest for $20 online or $25 at the gate.

Free Dental Care at Lincroft Practice

BUSY PARENTS CHOOSE US For their family’s dental needs!

Dentistry From The Heart, Newman Springs Dental Care’s gift of a free day of dentistry, will be held on Thursday, October 4. The dental volunteers will provide examinations, digital x-rays, blood pressure and Velscope (advanced oral cancer) screenings. A choice of an extraction, filling or cleaning will be provided to those 18 years and older who arrive at the Lincroft practice. Registration begins at 7:00 a.m. and is first come, first served. The first 120 adults are guaranteed to be seen. This year’s event will be the twelfth annual Dentistry From The Heart event for Newman Springs Dental Care at 539 Newman Springs Road in Lincroft. Last year over $60,114 of free dental care was provided to 99 patients in a single day.

Since 2007, that’s over $600,000 in care for more than 1400 grateful recipients in the greater Lincroft area.

“One day may seem insignificant, however we know it makes a difference in the lives of the people who come to us for help” said Dr. Mitchel Friedman. “Since bringing Dentistry From The Heart to New Jersey in 2007, we have helped other offices start their own events as well as volunteered to provide dental care with them. There is a large need and other generous dental teams have answered by serving their communities.”

Drs. Aparna Menon & Amarpreet Suri along with Dr. Friedman and their team of volunteers will do whatever they can on Dentistry From The Heart day to relieve dental pain and fix dental problems. Local dentists Drs. Allan Ruda, Beth DeAngelis, Jared Gelband, Brian Paterson and Jeffrey Zatzkin will also be donating their skills and time to help. Patients who need ongoing care or who have immediate dental problems are referred to community clinics, where they can receive ongoing treatment at low or no cost.

The corporate sponsor is Henry Schein Dental made possible by the generosity and hands on volunteering of Noah Schayowitz.

Newman Springs Dental Care is located at 539 Newman Springs Road in Lincroft. For more information about Dentistry From The Heart call 732.945.4660 or visit NewmanSpringsDentalCare.com.

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Parent & Me Programs A place for parents and babies to grow, learn and soar as a foundation of a lifelong love of learning is created through storytelling, puppetry, sensory activities, art, music, circle time and more! This program is for parents who want their child to have a gentle introduction to a school setting.

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9/11 Memorial Ceremony Tuesday, September 11 at 8:00 a.m.

Mount Mitchill Scenic Overlook, Atlantic Highlands

Monmouth County's 9/11 Memorial is a tribute to 147 men and women who lost their lives in the terrorist attacks of September 11, 2001-- men and women born, raised, or residing at the time in Monmouth County.

Join us for this remembrance ceremony.

All are welcome to attend.

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OceanFirst Foundation Awarded Monmouth Museum a $2,500 Grant

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Left to right: Avis Anderson, Executive Director of Monmouth Museum; Stephanie Toal, Marketing & Communications Coordinator OceanFirst Foundation; Catherine Clark, Art & Development Manager of Monmouth Museum.

The Monmouth Museum has received its $2,500 Arts & Cultural Grant from OceanFirst Foundation of Toms River.

The grant will sponsor the Museum’s Green Arts Studio Arts Education Program located in the Museum’s Becker Children’s Wing. This Museum Studio brings out the artist in children of all ages as they work with recycled materials to create amazing works of art to take home or leave their creation to be displayed in the studio’s gallery space. MMKIDS theme craft choices are offered daily at the studio’s “Creation Station” and weekly “ArtHour” workshop every Wednesday from 2:00 to 5:00 p.m. with a teaching artist in the studio. This popular Maker Space fosters creativity as children discover new crafting experiences include printmaking, origami, STEM centered art projects, jewelry making, painting with watercolors and sculpture and more.

Every November the Green Arts Studio is home to the Holiday Cards for Heroes Campaign that is held in collaboration with the Jersey Shore Chapter of the Red Cross, Monmouth and Ocean County elementary schools and our visitors. This community effort annually delivers over 500 unique and heartfelt cards created by children and families for active service military in all branches of the United States Armed Forces, many of whom are overseas or recovering in military hospitals.

In the past decade, the Monmouth Museum has received over $30,000 from Ocean First Foundation. “We applaud OceanFirst’s support of the local arts and cultural organizations in our community. The Foundation’s donation will enable us to enrich the programs that the Museum provides to over 50,000 visitors annually,” said Avis Anderson, Executive Director of the Monmouth Museum.

For more information about the Monmouth Museum exhibitions and programs, visit monmouthmuseum.org or call 732.747.2266. You can also find them on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram.

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Monmouth Park Race Track, Kathy Goullet and Ron Gillaspie named 2018 Leading Lights Gala Honorees

FCS proudly announces that it will honor two outstanding volunteers at the Leading Lights Gala on Saturday, October 27 at the Navesink Country Club (NCC). Former FCS board member Kathy Goullet and former FCS Golf Classic co-chair Ron Gillaspie will be honored alongside long-time community partner, Monmouth Park Race Track.

Haven, Ron holds a BS degree in Business Administration from Montclair State University and an insurance producer license in New Jersey and Florida with a CIC (Certified Insurance Counselor) designation. He lives in Monmouth Beach with his wife Kathy and son, Ryan, who is following in his father’s footsteps to become a volunteer with the FCS Golf Classic.

The agency will also honor Monmouth Park Race Track for its contributions to FCS; most significantly for its involvement with Operation Sleighbells. In 2015 FCS was without a place to hold its annual holiday gift giving drive. The agency’s Long Branch office is too small to accommodate the large volume of toys, books, clothes and infant necessities collected during the month of December, and without additional space, the number of children served by Operation Sleighbells would have to be During her tenure, Kathy served on the board’s programs greatly reduced. and Strategic Planning Committee, the Agency Advancement Committee, and as Chair of the Board Development Monmouth Park Race Track came to the rescue - generously Committee. She also volunteered with Operation Sleighbells, donating over 5,000 square feet of heated, lighted space served on gala committees, and initiated a “Ladies Night for FCS to use so that volunteers could sort and distribute Out” fundraiser hosted at her own women’s boutique, at thousands of gifts. The park also donated tables, chairs, Lotus Way in Fair Haven. Kathy was also an active volunteer clothing racks, and hangers. When it snowed on distribution with the Junior League of Monmouth County, the Alliance day, the park shoveled the walks and plowed the parking lots of Neighbors, 180 and the Fair Haven Business Association. to make it safe for everyone. This incredible donation over the A Rumson native and a graduate of Red Bank Catholic High past three years has enabled the agency to provide holiday joy School and New York University, Kathy says she is most proud to nearly 4,000 area children and their families. of her four children and two beautiful grandchildren.

The Leading Lights Gala is FCS’s largest annual fundraiser Honoree Kathy Goullet recently stepped down from the FCS board of directors after eleven years of dedicated service.

She recalls her first introduction to FCS through her children who participated in Operation Sleighbells while students at Rumson Country Day School. Later she served on the FCS gala committee, and in 2007, was named to the agency’s board of directors.

Honoree Ron Gillaspie has also been a long-time supporter of FCS, participating in the annual FCS Golf Classic for more than fifteen years and co-chairing the event for ten years.

The Golf Classic raises an average of $40,000 each year to support FCS programs and services. Ron is particularly proud of the money raised to fund the agency’s Medicaid Application Assistance Program (MAAP) which helps people complete the complicated MLTSS application.

with proceeds supporting essential community programs and services. These include protection for vulnerable adults, home care for seniors in need, and school-based volunteer programs that promote child wellbeing.

The Gala will include a cocktail hour, 50-50 raffle, live and silent auctions, and dining and dancing to the music of New Life Crisis.

For more information about the Leading Lights Gala, contact Ron has lived in Monmouth County for nearly thirty years and FCS Director of Development Diane Gribbin at dgribbin@ was drawn to FCS because it addresses the needs of the local fcsmonmouth.org. You can also follow the Leading Lights Gala community, and that money raised for the agency has a great on Facebook at facebook.com/fcsgala. impact. An insurance executive with Alliant/Boynton in Fair

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You’ve likely seen Greg outdoors, on the line – regardless of the heat, the cold or the harsh weather conditions. That’s because he’s dedicated to ensuring reliable energy for JCP&L customers. Of course, Greg is used to the outdoors. In fact, he prefers it. Greg grew up in New Jersey surfing on Monmouth County beaches, boating locally and playing ice hockey on area rinks – three activities that he, along with his family, still enjoys today.

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Fundraiser Held to Benefit Catholic Charities Programs in Monmouth County

Monmouth County Board of Catholic Charities Chair, Anthony Tamburri, pictured left is joined by Change Your Latitude Event Co-Chairs, Valarie DeFelice, center, and Barbara Willis, right.

The Monmouth County Board of Catholic Charities, Diocese of Trenton, hosted its Margaritaville-themed Change Your Latitude fundraiser on July 21, 2018 at the Belmar Fishing Club. The event raised nearly $50,000 for programs that will benefit hundreds of individuals and families throughout Monmouth County.

Change Your Latitude Co-Chair, Valarie DeFelice said, “We are so grateful for the many local businesses in Belmar, Manasquan, Red Bank and Spring Lake, as well as our event underwriters and sponsors, for their support and generosity.” She added, “The funds raised will benefit individuals and families in our local communities, regardless of religious affiliation, by helping them achieve self-sufficiency and restoring hope to their lives.”

Cathedral of St. Robert Bellarmine, The Churchin Group LLC, Mr. and Mrs. Robert Donnelly, Mr. and Mrs. Lawrence Durso, Mr. and Mrs. Scott Garley, Alice Jones, Gateway Licensing, The Parish of St. Mary, Mr. and Mrs. Robert Powderly, Saker ShopRites, St. Catharine’s-St. Margaret’s Parish, Two River Community Bank, Wakefern Food Corp./ShopRites, John Marshall, Esq. and Chryssa Yaccarino, Esq. and the Hon. Ronald L. Reisner, J.S.C. Monmouth County Catholic Charities will host its next fundraiser, a Christmas Market, on Sunday, November 11, 2018 at Manasquan River Golf Club. The festive market will feature specialty vendors selling unique gifts, clothing and accessories. A portion of the sales will be donated to Catholic Charities programs in Monmouth County.

Catholic Charities programs in Monmouth County include: Beacon For more information or to become involved with the Monmouth County House - a transitional group home for homeless youth ages 17-21; Board of Catholic Charities, contact Board Chair, Anthony Tamburri at Family Growth - providing treatment for children who have been victims aptamburri@gmail.com. of abuse; Linkages - providing transitional housing and other services for families who might otherwise be homeless; and Monmouth Counseling providing counseling services for children and families.

The event featured a silent auction, including donated items from local businesses. Red Bank’s A.H. Fisher Diamonds donated the featured item of the night, a Belle Étoile bracelet. Better Housekeeping, also located in Red Bank, donated a wine refrigerator. The Fisher (A.H. Fisher Diamonds) and Balforte (Better Housekeeping) families have been supporters of Monmouth County Catholic Charities for more than 20 years. Other businesses that made generous donations include: Improved Health Solutions, Manasquan, Bungalow Road, Avon and Coral Cove, Charleston Shoes, Dandy Canine, Driftwood Coffee Shop, Whimsicality, and Egans Liquors - all located in Spring Lake.

Event underwriters were The Allied Group, Circle BMW and Mr. and Mrs. Peter J. Griffin. Top level sponsors included Mr. and Mrs. Hugh Guyler, the Ray Catena Family of Dealerships and the Sylvia family.

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The silent auction was a big hit thanks to the many area businesses that donated items in support of Catholic Charities programs in Monmouth County.

LITTLE SILVER 5K TO CELEBRATE 25TH ANNIVERSARY On Sunday, September 30, 2018, the Little Silver 5K will be celebrating its 25th Anniversary at Red Bank Regional High School. It is a USATF certified course and known for being fast, so the cooler fall weather will help those of you looking to run a personal best! The schedule includes a Kids’ One Mile Fun Run (start and finish on RBR track) at 8:45 a.m.; the 5K is planned for a 9:30 a.m. start; and Kiddie Dashes are planned following the conclusion of 5K for PreK through 4th graders. Awards will include the top three overall male and female USATF finishers (receive cash prizes for $200, $150, and $100); awards to top three male and female in all 5-year age groups up to 80+; awards to 1st place male and female Little Silver residents; and medals for all children participating in kiddie dashes.

There will be a post-race party at the Little Silver Firehouse located on Prospect Avenue starting at 11:00 a.m. There will be refreshments, live music, food and many fun activities for the children, such as pumpkin decorating, face painting and more! Entry into the party is free for registered runners (please show your race number), $20 for non-runners, and kids are free.

Sponsorships for families and businesses are available, deadline is September 10. To register for the race or more information, visit LittleSilver5K.com.

INAUGURAL “MOURNING WALK”

PLANNED BY STEPHY’S PLACE Join Stephy’s Place and other walkers as they move forward in grief and begin the journey of living with loss in their lives.

Stephy’s Place is a support center for grief, providing free peer support groups for those suffering from the loss of a loved one. Currently, the non-profit has 28 support groups, as well meditations sessions ongoing. The “Mourning Walk” is set for September 9 from 6:00 to 9:00 a.m., and the walk route is from Seven Presidents Park to Pier Village in Long Branch. Consider making a donation to this group if you can’t make it. The programs are free! Visit Stephy’s Place at stephysplace.org or call 732.614.1142 to learn how you can help others.

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Inspiration, Opportunity & Experience Expanded at the 3rd Annual Monmouth Film Festival

ONCE AGAIN THE MONMOUTH FILM FESTIVAL joined together independent artists and moved audiences on emotional journeys through the finest feature and short films produced from all regions of the globe! This year at Two River Theater in Red Bank, the Monmouth Film Festival attendance multiplied in historical numbers, skyrocketing from its beginning years; offering this year more opportunities for networking, education, and experiencing incredible cinema.

The Festival received specially written endorsements from many distinguished State and local dignitaries including our Governor, Phil Murphy.

The festival kicked off on August 10th with an industry networking event and the sold-out New Jersey Premiere of the homegrown documentary A Shot In The Dark. The opening night film premiere began with appearances from special guests Senator Vin Gopal, and Monmouth County Freeholders Thomas Arnone and Patrick Impreveduto. The County Freeholders and State Senator were proud to present to the festival and its founder, Nicholas Marchese, County and State Proclamations, commending and recognizing Marchese and the organization for the impact and importance of the Monmouth Film Festival's mission to promote, connect, and educate artists of all backgrounds and generations. The New Jersey Premiere of A Shot In The Dark had attendees lined up out the doors of

the Two River Theater, waiting on the Red Carpet over two hours before the screening began - including waitlist hopefuls who eagerly wanted to find a seat. The screening featured a special Q&A with the Director Chris Suchorsky, Anthony Ferraro and Pat Smith, among others from the film. The Hollywoodstyle Red Carpet Networking Event was filled with Industry guests including Theo of Red Bank (The MFF Red Carpet Sponsor), The New York Film Academy, NJ TV & Film Commission, John Marino Rentals, Backstage, FujiFilm, and many more members of the press, artists, and talent agencies. Special guests included “Love it, or List it” star Eric Eremita, 94.3FM Radio Hosts Gino D and Stephanie Coskey, and the host of “The Wiseguyz Show”, Billy Gagootz.

On August 11th aspiring filmmakers, students, movie afficionidos, and guests took their seats for the 90-minute Industry Film Panel (sponsored by the Jay & Linda Grunin Foundation), on the Two River Theater main-stage. The special panel was comprised of moderator Bryan DeNovellis (nine-time Emmy nominated Anchorman), David Schoner (NJ Film Commission), Allison Vanore (Emmy nominated Producer), Ellen Su (Animation Director), Roger Del Pozo (Casting Director), Marissa Crespo (Entertainment Lawyer), and David Sperling (Emmy nominated Director of Photography). The discussion was geared toward audience engagement, allowing back and forth

conversation between attendees and the panel, breaking down the fourth wall of the secrets of the industry. The questions ranged from how to break into the industry, entertainment laws, editing, producing, and distributing an independent film or TV series.

Among the outstanding films, guests, and VIP festivities, the New York Film Academy also set up shop for worldrenown workshops offered free of cost for Monmouth Film Festival attendees.

These packed house workshops gave interested artists and curious minds first row and hands-on access to topics including Producing, Casting & Acting, Special Directing Techniques, and The Business of the Film Industry. All who attended left with an abundance of new tips and techniques, boasting incredible reviews and feedback about this priceless experience imported from Los Angeles and New York City, right in our own backyards.

As the weekend of top-films progressed, VIPs, distinguished guests, and featured filmmakers were able to relax and connect in the Investors Bank VIP Lounge, which was catered with fine cuisine. These guests also took exclusive visits to the Salon Concrete touch-up room, receiving a quick makeover or fixup in between a busy day of movies and with the largest Red Carpet Step & Repeat in New Jersey, you’ll want to look good for the cameras (and there were a lot of them)!

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ABOVE: The Q&A for “A Shot In The Dark” with director Chris Suchorsky and film subjects Pat Smith and Anthony Ferraro. (Photo Credit Daniel Buckley)

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The 2018 Industry Panel. Featuring (left-right), Allison Vanore, David Sperling, Ellen Su, Bryan DeNovellis, Roger Del Pozo, Marissa Crespo, and David Schoner. Photo Credit Daniel Buckley

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On the Red Carpet - Host of “The Wiseguyz Show” Billy Gagootz (Right), and friend Carmine.

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On the Red Carpet - Star of HGTV’s “Love it, or List it”, Eric Eremita and family. Photo Credit Tom Zapcic

Red Bank Mayor Pasquale Menna addressing the crowd prior to presenting the Emerging Filmmaker Award at the 2018 Monmouth FIlm Festival Awards Ceremony. Photo Credit Daniel Buckley

“We did something very spectacular this year. Not only did we create more opportunities for current and aspiring filmmakers in our community and across the world, we built upon the current ones and expanded those to reach even more corners of the industry and artists who are looking for their next steps,” said festival founder Nicholas Marchese.

“This festival does something extremely unique compared to others and second to none. We create a platform where all artists, from all backgrounds, receive the fair and equal opportunity to be recognized and rewarded, and that we will always continue to deliver on”. An important component to the foundation of the Monmouth Film Festival is to

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present filmmakers and their work the respect and high-quality screening atmosphere they rightly deserve.

Filmmakers traveled from all across the country and globe including California, Texas, Florida, Canada, Germany, Taiwan, Japan (to name a few), and were highly impressed as the festival delivered a first-class event - a stand out amongst most festivals and equal to the major events, local and abroad.

The Festival concluded with the 2018 Awards Ceremony, honoring the best films in multiple categories. Special awards included $1,000 of rentals at JMR (John Marino Rentals), and a $5,000 scholarship for any one-week filmmaking course at any New York Film

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“Bob’s Burgers” voice Actor & Comedian, John Roberts, addressing the crowd along with some jokes prior to presenting the Best New Jersey Film Award at the 2018 Monmouth FIlm Festival Awards Ceremony.

Academy campus. Special speakers and award presenters included the voice of Linda from the hit animated TV Show Bob’s Burgers, actor and comedian John Roberts, the honorable Red Bank Mayor Pasquale Menna, and State Assemblywoman Serena DiMaso, all who shared their evening with the Monmouth Film Festival and continually recognized and commended the high level of organization and quality the Festival team put into this year’s program and production.

Visit MonmouthFilmFestival.org for the 2018 Award Winners and 2019 Festival submission information.

BIG THINGS FROM A SMALL CHURCH

St. John’s Episcopal Church in Little Silver was built by hand in 1876 by early settlers of Little Silver and the Church’s first parishioners.

The historic church has a rich history of fellowship and outreach.

Although the church is small, it continues to have a big impact on helping people locally, nationally and around the globe!

Recently, a Sunday school student and his new service dog inspired an incredible pay it forward mission for the church. Jay has special needs, and in December he and his family ventured to Xenia, Ohio for two weeks to receive and train with Jay’s service dog, a Golden Retriever named Chuck. Chuck was raised and trained at 4 Paws for Ability, a non-profit that enriches the lives of

children with disabilities by training and placing quality, task trained service dogs. These dogs provide increased independence for the children and assistance to their families. Service dog Chuck came home with the family on December 23, 2017.

Once they got into their new family routine, Chuck started attending Sunday school with Jay. The dynamic duo immediately brought a new opportunity for learning. According to Kate Galbavy, the director of Sunday school, “Jay and Chuck brought our Sunday school to the next level! They gave us an incredible, empowering, teachable moment about caring for all of God’s creatures, being grateful for your blessings, and helping others.”

Immediately, the Sunday school class wanted to know everything about Chuck, and how they could help another child get a service dog. It can cost between $40,000 and $60,000 to raise and train a service dog and 4 Paws for Ability asks families to fundraise $15,000 to $17,000 of that cost, which can take some families years. Jay’s mom, Cate, reached out to 4 Paws for Ability to inquire if any families needed help reaching their fundraising goal. There was! Our Sunday school kids got to work collecting coins from their families, neighbors and the congregation. We also partnered with Anne Connell, the Director of St. John’s Nursery School, to collect change from her nursery school children. Within six weeks, they raised the $1,400 needed to secure the boy’s fundraising balance and gift a service dog to a boy in need!

“Our Sunday School children are living the Gospel message that we are all to be carrying throughout the world,” affirmed the Reverend Valerie Redpath, Rector of St. John’s. “Our focus is on both expressing and actively going out with Jesus’ love into a hurting world, and our compassionate children are setting an example for all of us.”

A GROWING SPORT IN MONMOUTH COUNTY RHYTHMIC GYMNASTICS 2

1 1. The Boston Cup Invitational, Massachusetts.

March 2018. Pictured from left to right: Annika Sharp of Holmdel, Rebekah Falls of Belford, Susanna Falls of Belford, Katarina Falls of Belford, and Nicolette Durso of Staten Island.

Jersey Shore Rhythmic Illusions in Middletown is a 501(c)(3) and 509a2 nonprofit and charitable organization dedicated to providing Monmouth County girls and young women with the opportunity to participate in rhythmic gymnastics at a low cost. Rhythmic gymnastics, an Olympic discipline, features gymnastics and dance in a routine set to music with five hand apparatus: ribbon, rope, ball, hoop, and clubs. Formed in 2004, Jersey Shore Rhythmic Illusions has grown from three girls to 120 registered athletes.

The organization provides numerous scholarships and offers various types of classes. Many of their gymnasts have competed around the country in places like Maui, California, Florida, North Carolina, South Carolina, Massachusetts, Virginia, and Maryland.

Their hope for 2019 is to compete in Spain, and in Australia in 2020.

For more information call 732.492.6267 or visit rhythmicillusions.org.

2. The Hawaiian Sunset Invitational, Maui, Hawaii. March 2018. Pictured from left to right: (top row) Victoria Scala of Morganville, Michaela Cruz-Beck of Keyport, Jessica Kuleshov of Holmdel, Grace Devane of Maui, Devyn Gruber of Maui, Sofia Mallari of Maui, Molly Abbud of Belford, Mary Abbud of Belford, Breanna Briggs of Tinton Falls, Faith Abbud of Belford, and Sarah Fedak of Leonardo. Pictured from left to right (bottom row): Valencia Torres of Middletown, and Marley Hooper, Emi Burman, and Cecelia Delgado of Maui.

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A LOCAL’S VIEW A Peaceful September

By Hope Daniels

On Labor Day, there are two different types of people resting at the beach. There are the somber tourists who look at their glass half empty. They recognize this is their last summer shindig at the shore before they head home by bridge or tunnel. And then there are the giddy locals who look at their glass half full and keep pouring their margaritas knowing their fun in the sun has just begun. Now that visitors have left the scene and the locals have the Jersey Shore all to themselves, here’s what they plan on saying good morning and goodbye to all month long.

Hello: Taking a quaint family bike ride up and down Ocean Avenue.

Hello: Smell of fresh air.

Goodbye: Having to constantly brake due to congested traffic, cat-calling, or fist-pumping club music.

Goodbye: Sudden whiffs of strong scents like cologne, sweat, cigarette smoke, car gas and fake tanning lotion.

Hello: Finding peace and escaping the crowded sidewalk talk.

Hello: Walking barefoot on the sand.

Goodbye: Constantly being reminded how bad our “Joisey” accent sounds to tourists outside the Garden State.

Goodbye: Having to pay to get on to the public beach.

Hello: Time to exhale.

Hello: Trip to the ice cream store.

Goodbye: Waiting to order your favorite sundae and keeping your finGoodbye: Sucking in your stomach. You no longer have to fake a six gers crossed that your kid won’t drop the cone sending you back in the packed line out the door. pack since the change in weather will have you covering up.

Hello: Your take-out order arrives on time.

Hello: Absolute anonymity on the beach.

Goodbye: To calling an hour ahead for food delivery and still getting it Goodbye: Sunbathing right next to an old obnoxious college friend you broke up with years ago who you were told moved to an island but late and ice cold. didn’t realize it was Staten Island.

Hello: To free and open parking spaces.

Hello: Reuniting with your neighbors.

Goodbye: Driving around in circles and waiting for a spot to open up Goodbye: Picking up their mail for two months because they decided before the bars close for the night. to get out of town and vacation somewhere more quiet.

The Middletown Little League Major Division All Stars won the NJ State Championship by a score of 4-1 against Elmora Little League from Elizabeth NJ on Monday, July 30, 2018. The 2018 NJ State Little League Tournament, also known as the Joe Graziano State Tournament, was hosted this year by the Secaucus Little League at its Little League complex in Buchmuller Park, Secaucus, NJ. Photo: Team Coaches and players left to right: Back Row left to right: Coach Al Delia, Manager Tim Naughton, Coach Doug Quardt. Players left to right (all rows): #5 Brody Tacca, #2 Leland Ossner, #16 Jason Quardt, #4 Matthew Sheehan, #11 Timmy Naughton, #12 Alfred Delia, #9 Kevin Toth, #10 James Finer, #8 Joseph Wall, #7 Dylan Passo, #3 Reid Tully, #6 Dylan Briggs, #13 Gaetano Alfano.

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On Saturday, September 22, 2018, it’s ‘Lights! Camera!

Action!!’ as many local family and friends will arrive to the magnificent private Colts Neck estate - Abbey Farms, for an exquisitely entertaining, elaborate and very unique 'dress your best' event. As guests arrive and step onto the red carpet, they will literally walk right into a movie. That’s right, the evening will mark the launch of a motion picture titled ‘Joey Benefit’ starring ‘Joe Piscopo and Friends.’ Guests will begin arriving at 6:00 p.m. sharp and from that moment on will join an evening of Hollywood-style filming and entertainment.

Steinberg. Steinberg, has an array of accolades under his belt with hits such as Blazing Saddles, My Favorite Year, Wise Guys and Johnny Dangerously, to name a few.

The basis of Steinberg’s Joey Benefit is about a man, a comedian, who ‘never had his big shot.’ With a heart of gold, Joey never turns down a benefit (“You got a charity? I got a tuxedo.”) …and the comedy and storyline follow all of the ups and downs that come along with a life spent trying to make people laugh. It’s the Wedding Singer meets Broadway Danny Rose. It's a real-life love story and Colts Neck is a great place to film it.

Showtime will start at 7:30 p.m., with Joe Piscopo and his Big Band on stage, yes Joe plays multiple instruments! The event will continue with great food, cocktails, cigar rolling, movie investment opportunities, and the best of company. Piscopo says, “We could have produced this movie anywhere but I’m keeping it home, keeping it in Jersey. A ‘financial film raise’ of this magnitude has never been done before. So, this night will be historic in that sense. And investors, friends and family are going to have a 'Jersey-swingin’ fun time.” The entire evening’s event will be filmed for future use.

For investment & sponsorship opportunities and additional information, call 732.852.4357 or email stacy@joepiscopo.us

You never know who you may see at this exciting event. Special thanks to the following: Abbey Feiler Kober, Tom Kober, Stacy Lynn McCormack, Bobby Ciasulli, Suzanne Macnow, Cliff & Anh Sieglizt, Nick DeMauro, Barry Habib, Patricia Ronca, Margarite Fitzgerald, Joel Lizotte, Nancy Pellegrini, and Joe & Shari Saker.

Reservations are limited and are $150 per person, you reserve your ticket at https:// www.eventbrite.com/e/joey-benefit-letsmake-a-movie-starring-joe-piscopo-tickets-48973425835 or email stacy@joepiscopo. Abbey Farms is located at 86 Montrose Road in Colts Neck, NJ.

*All attendees agree & acknowledge that photography and video taping will take place during this event and the footage may Joey Benefit was written by one of Holly- or may not be utilized in the production and wood’s most iconic comedy writers, Norman marketing of the movie described above.

The Brookdale Community College Foundation’s 39th Annual Education Open Golf Outing will be held on September 27 at Eagle Oaks Golf & Country Club in Farmingdale. The all-day event will feature driving range access at Eagle Oaks prior to a “mega” buffet brunch beginning at 10:30 a.m. The shotgun start for the full scramble tournament is set for 11:30 a.m. Golf carts and special gifts are included.

Following an afternoon on the fairways and greens, golfers are free to enjoy a cocktail reception with hors d’oeuvres followed by a gourmet awards dinner beginning at 6:00 p.m. Former NFL great Phil Villapiano (Asbury Park High School, Ocean Township High School, veteran of 13 NFL seasons) will be honored at the dinner. Phil played for the Oakland Raiders and was key to their Super Bowl XI victory.

For more information on the Education Open, contact Timothy Zeiss at 732.224.2887 or visit brookdalecc.edu/brookdale-foundation/2018-education-open-golfouting.

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Kathleen Rubin (far left) on stage with Angel City Chorale members, other semi-finalist acts, and the judges of America's Got Talent (Simon Cowell, Mel B, Heidi Klum, and Howie Mandel). Photo credit: Justin Lubin/NBC | 2018 NBCUniversal Media, LLC

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By Cathy Padilla

If you’re like many other Americans this summer, you’ve been watching NBC’s America’s Got Talent and are rooting for your favorite act to win at the live finale on September 18. As the most watched show on television for the past two months, the variety show brings performers from around the world together to compete for a one-million-dollar prize and the opportunity to perform on stage in Las Vegas. One of the acts that has made it through auditions, judge cuts, and the first live performance is the Angel City Chorale.

Chosen by guest judge Olivia Munn as her Golden Buzzer, which means the act will skip the rest of the audition process and go to the live shows in the program, the 160-member singing group has been leaving audiences cheering and the celebrity judges on their feet applauding.

One member of the Chorale, Kathleen Rubin, is a former Monmouth County resident who graduated from Red Bank Catholic High School and still has strong ties through family and friends in the area.

We caught up with Kathleen between rehearsals for a behind-the-scenes look at one of the country’s favorite programs.

CM: What did it feel like to perform on the first live show of the season?

Kathleen: It was a bit surreal! There are so many of us, so you don’t have the same kind of nerves you would have if performing solo. Plus there was so much waiting around all day and in fact, for months, that when you finally get on stage, it’s over in a flash! It’s about a two-minute version of the song and then you’re done.

So I didn’t really think about the fact that we were performing live for millions of people!!! That being said, the energy in the room is electric and hearing the reactions from the judges was incredible! That they were so moved by our collective voice and the spirit of the group is very powerful.

CM: How did you get involved with Angel City Chorale?

Kathleen: I saw the performance of Africa on on Super Bowl Sunday After returning from a

YouTube Facebook this year. rehearsal

for something else I was involved in, I was killing time before meeting friends to watch the game. It showed up on my feed, or whatever it’s called, and I was absolutely blown away! Then I saw a woman I knew in the group. She and I had worked out together years ago, so I knew the group had to be based close by. I immediately went to the ACC website to find out more about the group and what was involved for auditions, only to find out that THAT DAY was the last day of auditions for the spring season and it was by appointment only! I frantically shot them an email, apologizing for being so late to the game and even going so far as sending a clip of myself singing. Five minutes later I received an email asking if I could be there in about an hour. I was thrilled, grabbed my computer with a track to sing along with, warmed up a little, and went to the audition. When I got home after the football game there was an email welcoming me to ACC! It was crazy…and it was meant to be.

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CM: What do you most enjoy about being part of Angel City Chorale?

Kathleen: I love the sense of community and making beautiful music together. I’ve met some wonderful people and have already made some good friends.

The other aspect I love for myself at the moment, I’m sure it will change, is that I just get to show up and sing purely for the love of it. I’m not responsible for anyone or anything else right now and I cherish that.

CM: What has your interaction been with the judges of AGT, Simon Cowell, Mel B, Heidi Klum, and Howie Mandel, or host Tyra Banks?

Kathleen: While waiting backstage at one point, Mel B came back and high-fived a group of us before we were about to go on stage for the show. I was first in line, so I had a moment with her. Then when we made the Semi-Finals, at the end of the first live show, the judges came on stage and Simon came up to a group of us and was very relieved we got passed through!

CM: Give us a glimpse behind the scenes at AGT… Kathleen: First of all, everyone involved with the show is incredibly nice and professional. It is a MASSIVE undertaking and they have it down to a science even with the huge number of people in ACC. But it’s very impressive to observe. One thing, you cannot wander around the theater alone. Even moving from floor to floor on the elevators requires an escort and the security is visible everywhere.

CM: What has been the most exciting part of being on AGT? Kathleen: Performing on the Dolby Theatre stage was a thrill, knowing that the Academy Awards are broadcast from the same stage! But most important for me is having the opportunity to spread Angel City Chorale’s message to such an enormous audience. Our message of inclusiveness and supporting diversity through making beautiful music together, building community one song at a time, is so important right now.

CM: What is your connection to Monmouth County?

Kathleen: My family moved to Deal when I was in the 4th grade from Somerset. I graduated from Deal school in 1973. We lived there until I was a senior in high school at RBC, when we moved to Rumson. I moved back to Sea Bright a couple of years after I graduated from Santa Clara University in 1982. I still consider Monmouth County my home and I have many, many dear friends from elementary school, high school, and from living in Sea Bright in the 80s who I try I see whenever I’m in town. My 86-year-old father, Gerard Rubin, still has a place in West End Long Branch and I come back and hang out with him on the Jersey Shore whenever I can!

Actress and Guest Judge Olivia Munn (center) awards Artistic Director Sue Fink and the Angel City Chorale the Golden Buzzer.

Photo credit: Greg Gayne/NBC | 2018 NBCUniversal Media, LLC

Angel City Chorale is an inclusive musical ensemble that reflects the generational, racial, ethnic, cultural, and musical diversity of Los Angeles, California.

Artistic Director Sue Fink founded ACC in 1993 in the world-famous McCabe's Guitar Shop with just 18 singers. They are now over 160 voices strong, with new members joining every year by audition. The supportive environment Sue has created accommodates singers with a wide range of musical training and experience to create a world-class choral sound.

Angel City Chorale introduces Los Angeles audiences to world music and culture, through albums, DVDs and YouTube videos, and the choir shares its music with the world. ACC’s YouTube video of the song Africa has more than 45 million views and counting. The Chorale appears on Christopher Tin’s Grammy-nominated album, The Drop that Contained the Sea and performed the world premiere of that song cycle at Carnegie Hall in 2014. In 2016 the choir recorded Christopher Tin’s new composition Sogno di Volare, the title theme for Civilization VI at Abby Road Studios in London.

Angel City Chorale is committed to bringing music to those whose circumstances have cut them off from the mainstream of society. Every December, the Tour of Hope takes the choir’s holiday concert on the road, offering free performances at homeless shelters, retirement communities, and other social service agencies. In addition to bringing the joy of music, Angel City Chorale donates needed supplies and equipment to these agencies.

For more information on the choir, visit its website angelcitychorale.org and watch the live finale of America’s Got Talent on NBC on September 18, 2018.

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