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Welcome to March! Later this month we turn the page

on another Jersey winter and look forward to the rebirth and energy of spring! It’s an exciting month with all the St. Patrick’s Day celebrations and our sponsorship of the Asbury Park Music & Film Festival (APMFF), but it’s also a special time for our magazine as we celebrate our 7th Anniversary. Seven years is a life cycle, and similar to the way cold gives way to warmth each spring, growth and renewal are everywhere we look. You’ll notice some changes in the pages of CM as we take the opportunity of this milestone to enhance our vision as the Premiere Lifestyle Magazine of Monmouth County. We’re hoping to become an even more valuable and enjoyable part of your life. So stay tuned, the fun is just beginning!

To celebrate our anniversary, we present to you our first annual Entertainment Issue. As a proud sponsor of the APMFF, we have the incredible honor of bringing to you the stories of photographer Danny Clinch and actor, director, producer Danny DeVito, who are both local guys and a big part of the festival taking place next month in Asbury Park. Clinch’s famous picture of Bruce Springsteen graces our cover and sets the mood for the enticing music, photography, film, art and theater stories you’ll read this month. Beyond learning how Asbury has become a burgeoning entertainment spot, you’ll find the history of The Stone Pony on page 37, as the iconic music venue begins its 45th year. As Spring Break reminds parents that summer is just around the bend, we have a Kids’ Summer Program Section on page 42 to help with ideas and planning.

March is chock full of parades, events, and religious celebrations with the Feast of St. Joseph on the 19th, Passover beginning on the 30th, and Lent ending with Easter on April 1. Be sure to visit our website often for all that is happening and LIKE our Facebook page to get daily posts of events in our communities. We’re introducing fun weekly giveaways of tickets, t-shirts, books, and various other items, so get your Facebook share finger ready!

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This Is Us Star Chrissy Metz (“Kate”) Appearing at the Jay & Linda Grunin Center for the Arts

We are so fortunate to be surrounded by local theaters that attract innovative stars and performances. This month, the Grunin Center will host Chrissy Metz as she launches her new memoir, Loving the Person You Are Today, This is Me, where she will discuss the writing of her book and the experiences woven throughout.

When the NBC hit, This Is Us debuted in fall 2016, a divided America embraced a show that celebrates human connection.

The critically acclaimed series became America’s most watched— and most talked about—network show. As Kate Pearson, Chrissy Metz, a Golden Globe and Emmy-nominated star, presents a character that has never been seen on television, yet viewers see themselves in her, no matter what they look like or where they come from. Considered a role model just for being her authentic self, Chrissy found herself on magazine covers and talk shows, walking red carpets, and as the subject of endless conversations on social media. “I don’t know what you’ve been through to play her,” she is often told by fans, “but it was something.”

This is Me is written with a raw honesty that will leave readers both surprised but also inspired. Chrissy Metz grew up in a large family, one that always seemed to be moving, and growing. She moved to Japan as an infant and lived there for nine years, speaking Japanese before she even spoke English.

Her father disappeared one day, leaving her mother to work a series of menial jobs and his children to learn to live with the threat of hunger and the electricity being cut off. When her mother remarried, Chrissy hoped for “normal” but instead experienced a form of mental pain that seemed crafted just for her. The boys who showed her attention did so with strings attached as well, and Chrissy accepted it, because for her, love always came with conditions.

Infused with the same authenticity she brings to her starring role, Chrissy’s memoir is so much more than your standard Hollywood memoir or collection of personal essays. Chapters alternate from autobiographical to instructional. She embraces the spirit of Shonda Rhimes’ Year of Yes, and shares how she has applied the lessons she learned from both setbacks and successes.

Blending love and experience, she aims to inspire everyone to “love the person you are today.”

This is Me will be available at the end of this month.

Frances Foundation Wine and Cheese Benefit Hosted by Dearborn Market Story: Susan Murphy

The ninth annual Frances Foundation Wine and Cheese Benefit was hosted by Dearborn Market in Holmdel on February 10, 2018. Approximately 100 guests attended and sampled a variety of wines, gourmet cheeses, fruit, and delicious light hors d’oeuvres donated by Dearborn Market.

Guests enjoyed the talents of an acoustic guitar player as well as being able to tour the expansive orchid displays on hand in the greenhouse. The event coincided with Frances Foundation Trustees gathered for a photo at the ninth annual the 21st Annual Deep Cut Orchid Society’s Wine and Cheese Benefit held at Dearborn Market.

Orchid Show held each year at Dearborn Market. The Deep Cut Orchid Society also donated many gorgeous orchids as raffle prizes to help bring smiles to children fighting cancer and financial assistance to their families. A generous portion of the event’s ticket sales as well as all proceeds from the orchid raffles held throughout the evening went directly to the Frances Foundation.

At the event, a special tribute was paid to the Frances Foundation pediatric cancer angels Sami Bienkowski, Jake "the Tank" Honig, Nanie Rivera, Angie Magana, and Om Parik, who lost their battles since the annual gala in October 2017. “This event is a wonderful reception at which our Frances Foundation supporters thoroughly enjoyed the generous hospitality provided by our host and good friends at Dearborn Market. In the midst of countless beautiful flowers, and the soft, soothing acoustic guitar music, there is no doubt that the Frances Foundation supporters at this event embrace the opportunities to support the Frances Foundation’s mission of bringing moments of joy and happiness to children in the toughest battles against a cruel monster, as well as emotional and financial relief to parents devastated by nightmare of cancer attacking their child,” shared Frances Foundation Founder Robert Heugle.

The Frances Foundation is a local nonprofit organization that helps bring smiles to kids fighting cancer. More information can be found at francesfoundation.net, by calling 732.219.7711 or Facebook/Frances Foundation.

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Annual Wine & Martini Tasting to Benefit Covenant House New Jersey

In addition to the event, and to further public awareness about the charity’s mission, Salt Creek Grille raises a flag with the charity’s logo at the waterfront restaurant’s site year round. A presentation of the flag was made to board members of Covenant House and volunteers in January. Left to right: Steve Bidgood, co-owner Salt Creek Grille; Liz DeBeer; Sue Monteiro, Nancy Incremona, Allyson Forte, Marie Noglows, Kevin Ryan, Covenant House President; Sal Maita; Rob Habel; and Mark Shopene.

The Salt Creek Grille is hosting its Annual Wine & Martini Tasting Fundraiser on Thursday, April 12, 2018 from 7:00 to 10:00 p.m. at its restaurant in Rumson, which will benefit Covenant House New Jersey. All proceeds from the event - 100 percent – will go to support Covenant House’s Asbury Park New “Rights of Passage Program.” Covenant House is a not-for-profit organization providing critical services to homeless, runaway and trafficked youth between the ages of 18-21.

Salt Creek Grille’s co-owner and philanthropist Steve Bidgood established the annual fundraiser during its fifth year anniversary. Over the next 14 years, the event has raised $1 million to support local charities serving children’s needs. Covenant House is Salt Creek Grille’s fifteenth charity.

Covenant House strives to break the cycle of chronic youth homelessness and bridge the gap of support in the lives of at-risk youth. Covenant House has developed three core services known as the Continuum of Care: Street Outreach, Crisis Care, and Rights of Passage. In 1989, Covenant House began its work in New Jersey by providing basic services to homeless youth on the streets of Newark and Atlantic City. By 1992, the Community Service Centers opened in both Newark and Atlantic City. The first Asbury Park site was opened in March 2012. Today there are

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32 Covenant House locations across the United States, Canada and Latin America, and the organization reaches nearly 80,000 young people each year.

“Our Covenant House family in New Jersey is so grateful to Steve and our friends at the Salt Creek Grille for celebrating the 20th Anniversary in this special way,” said Covenant House President and CEO Kevin Ryan, who is also a Fair Haven resident. “By supporting our outreach efforts in Asbury Park, they will stand side by side in spirit with our staff as we reach out to young people trying to survive on the streets. The funds raised will bring help and hope to kids just when they need it the most in their lives.”

“My philanthropy is a tribute to my mother who showed us the many rewards gained from volunteering,” explained Bidgood. “When it came time to celebrate Salt Creek Grille’s anniversary we decided to do our part by using our facility, our expertise and our business relationships to support our local charities. There is no better way to celebrate 20 years,” said Bidgood.

The event is supported by donations from Salt Creek Grille, its vendors, and local businesses that provide food, wine and other services. As in past years, several wine vendors will pour over one hundred

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premium wines to taste and a spirits representative will concoct specialty martinis for guests to sample. Guests are always impressed with the lavish amounts of delicious offerings including hors d’oeuvres, pasta, carving stations, desserts and more

by Salt Creek Grille. In addition, local food businesses are represented including an artisanal cheese table donated by Sickles Market, Little Silver, and a raw bar provided

by Lusty Lobster, Highlands. The Bobby Boyd Trio entertains the event’s attendees with live jazz music. A lively live auction is held featuring a local DJ entertainer and NJ 101.5’s Big Joe Henry as auctioneer.

Past charities that benefitted from the event include: 180 Turning Lives Around; Michael’s Feat; Kortney Rose Foundation; Hope For Children Foundation; Big Brothers Big Sisters; Count Basie Performing Arts Academy; Community YMCA; K. Hovnanian Children’s Hospital (Meridian); Parker Family Health Center; Kidz Kare (Monmouth Medical Center); SPUR; COSAC; Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation; and Tuberous Sclerosis.

To purchase tickets, contact Marie Noglows by calling 732.778.4597 or emailing marie.noglows@comcast.net For sponsorships, contact Sue Monteiro at 973.286.3543 or smonteiro@covenanthouse. org. Tickets are $150.

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Left to right: Red Chair and Trustee Amy Almasy, MCHA Interim Director Chuck Jones, MCHA President Linda W. Bricker, and Circle BMW Sponsor Pamela Marshall.

Left to right: Red Committee members Marnie Doherty, Sarah Bricker, Tamara Woolley, Trustee and committee member Jennifer Mullins, Kathy McErlean, Treasurer and committee member Lisa Wilson, Katie Gay, Deborah Petrone, Trustee and committee member Sandy Jones gather for a photo.

Left to right: Trustee Pam Lacey stands with Norah King, Vanessa Mulheren, Darryn Murphy, and Shea Jones.

Deputy Director of Monmouth County Board of Chosen Freeholders Lillian Burry (left) and MCHA President Linda Bricker with pieces from MCHA’s embroidery collection.

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Monmouth County Historical Association hosted “Red,” a Ladies Valentine Luncheon on February 1, 2018 at the Rumson Country Club in Rumson. Over 150 women attended MCHA’s eleventh “Red” luncheon. The sponsor for this year’s event was Circle BMW. Guests visited the boutique vendors who offered a wide variety of unique items suitable for women, children, and even men, such as jewelry, clothing, accessories, and gifts for Valentine’s Day, winter getaways and much more. Each of the vendors donated a special item for the chance auction. Silent and chance auctions allowed guests to bid on various items ranging from handbags to jewelry to fur items. A very popular activity introduced this year was the Roses are Red Chance Auction. Guests paid $25 to choose a red envelope containing a gift card with a value of anywhere from $25 to $250. Golden Goose of Rumson generously donated a stunning diamond necklace for the grand prize.

An interesting introduction incorporating the factual background of Colonial Monmouth County women was presented when MCHA President Linda W. Bricker welcomed guests. As she spoke, she was interrupted by a Colonial time-traveler dressed to go courting.

It seems he appeared confused over his whereabouts and was uncertain of how to begin his quest to find a proper wife amongst the ladies in the “sea of red.” He was relieved to encounter a group of female Colonial time-travelers from a local school for young women.

The Headmistress reassured him that her students came from families that had the means to educate their daughters, that their samplers showed that they knew the alphabet and their numbers, that they were patient and obedient, and had a steady hand for needlework.

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MCHA Visiting Curator Bernadette Rogoff explained the importance of the sampler in the lives of young ladies in earlier days and how needlework gave women a voice and outlet for creativity and required math skills and a sense of design. She spoke of the Association’s significant collection of samplers, needlework and costumes. Interim Director Chuck Jones spoke about the unique and stellar collection that MCHA has amassed over the last 119 years and why this organization is vital to the community. Event Chair and Board Secretary Amy Almasy spoke about the importance of this event in raising funds for MCHA and its efforts to digitize its collection. MCHA has over 400 pieces currently online. Guests were asked to contribute at lunch and enough funds were raised to fund adding 35 more pieces specifically from the Association’s needlework and sampler collection, to the eMuseum platform!

MCHA President Bricker commented, “In addition to providing an occasion for visiting with friends, shopping and enjoying games of chance, this luncheon is an opportunity for interesting and civicminded group of ladies to learn about the work of MCHA. This year, I invited some 'time travelers' to help us to tell the stories behind the beautiful samplers created by the women of Monmouth County who came before us.”

She noted that MCHA is committed to preserving and sharing its stories and the stories behind all of the collections and properties MCHA cares for.

“With the proper support, we will be able to continue collecting stories and objects well into the future and to share them far and wide through eMuseum.”

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On February 1, 2018, The Beauty Foundation for Cancer Care held a Beauty Ball Kick-off Party at Garmany in Red Bank. Guests enjoyed light fare and sips, Cos Bar and Arch Brow Bar pop-ups, and a performance from Steinway & Sons Artist Norman Seldin in partnership with Jacobs Music. The Beauty Ball will be held on March 17, 2017 at The Asbury Hotel in Asbury Park, where the Foundation will honor Sal Martelli with the 2018 Diamond Award of Philanthropy, Melissa Clifton-Bahrs with the 2nd annual “Unsung Hero” award, and Danny Murphy with the Peter Criss “Man of Courage” Award. For more information, visit BeautyFoundationNJ.com.

The Beauty Foundation for Cancer Care’s mission is to alleviate the overwhelming financial and emotional strains that cancer treatments place on families. It helps remove the burdens that families face when one of its members is fighting cancer. Monies are raised to offset the expenses they incur, which aren’t covered under insurance such as child care, household bills, transportation costs associated with treatment, and other needs from lifestyle changes caused by cancer.

Calling All Monmouth County Nonprofits

Impact 100 Jersey Coast is holding two Applicant Information Sessions for Monmouth County nonprofits interested in applying for 2018 Impact grant funds. The sessions will cover eligibility requirements, answer general process questions, and provide detailed instructions on the application and review process to apply for available grants of at least $100,000. (Final grant amounts and number of grants will be announced on April 1, 2018.)

Attendance is strongly encouraged but not required to submit a request. The following are upcoming information sessions: Tuesday, March 13, 2018 8:00-9:30 a.m. at iCIMS in Holmdel Thursday, March 15, 2018 6:00 to 7:30 p.m. at Merrill Lynch in Red Bank

To learn more about the eligibility requirements and the grant process, visit impact100jerseycoast.org. Questions should be directed to Betsy McKnight, Non-Profit Coordinator, Impact 100 Jersey Coast, at grants@impact100jerseycoast.org.

Impact 100 Jersey Coast’s mission is to unite women to make a lasting impact by collectively funding transformative grants in Monmouth County (and beyond that to other Jersey Coast counties in subsequent years). Combining not only the charitable dollars, but the experience and energy of a diverse group of local women, Impact 100 Jersey Coast is a unique coalition and a powerful force for change in our community. The goal is to create a forum to raise awareness of our community’s most pressing needs and to fund transformational grants to high-impact projects addressing those needs.

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FIVE SISTERS, ONE IRISH SUMMER, AND THE BOY WHO REMEMBERS IT ALL.

Parenting Tips From The Pearsons Raising kids is super hard, but the Pearson’s make it look so incredibly easy. At this point, you may be asking yourself one of three questions, “Who are the Pearsons?” “Do they do house calls?” Or “Is she talking about Rebecca and Jack Pearson from the hit show, This is Us?”

Ding, ding, ding! Thankfully, creator Dan Fogelman (a Jersey man himself), has managed to create two perfectly imperfect fictional characters that have all the ideal techniques to raising children in today’s homes. Yes, I know it’s just make believe, but somehow their troubles and triumphs as a family are eerily relatable to modern parenting with the exception of Mandy Moore’s beauty pageant looks and Milo Ventimiglia’s irresistible yet rarely attainable Dad bod. From dealing with serious topics like race, gender issues, and weight struggles to everyday family drama such as sibling rivalry, school grades and teen love, these are the top Pearson parenting tips we can all apply in our real family life.

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Honor Your Child’s Feelings How many times have you had a terrible morning, a busy work schedule or in desperate need of a lazy day at exactly the same time your daughter is suffering from her own life crisis.

Most likely, you dismiss it as growing pains and go about dealing with your adult problems. When Jack and Rebecca’s slightly overweight eight-year-old daughter, Kate, becomes body conscious of her figure at the neighborhood swim club, her father knows exactly how to drop everything and tend to her hurt feelings. He introduces the “magic t-shirt.” He tells

her, “When you wear it your enemies will see you as you want to be seen.” Kate believed her father and chose for her enemies to see her as a princess, but that wasn’t even the best part or biggest lesson for me. After she covered herself he reassured her, “Daddy already sees you that way without the shirt.”

You want the best for your child.

Treat Your Spouse Like A Legend Spoiler Alert - ALL Married Couples Fight!

A lot of us even criticize our better half in front of friends and family without even realizing it. But praising your significant other in private or public situations creates a stronger bond within the entire family. For example, little deeds such as exchanging love notes, presents, or powerful affirmations let the family know you are a team that can’t be ripped apart. Rebecca Pearson’s words to her son Randall speak straight from a protective mother and wife’s heart, “Our marriage wasn’t perfect, it’s true. But none are. Your father wasn’t perfect either, but he was pretty damn close. As close as they come.”

Equip them with the tools to build their future.

Following Tradition Isn’t Always The Answer For those who don’t know the back story of This Is Us, here is your quick recap. Two parents are expecting a family of triplets on the dad-to-be’s birthday. Unfortunately, one baby is lost during childbirth and the parents adopt a baby boy on the same day of delivery, dubbing their blended family as the “Big Three.” Since day one, the “Big Three” weren’t raised traditionally, but individually. Each child looked very different, enjoyed different hobbies and had different personalities. Instead of creating cookie cutter kids, the parents pay attention to each child’s cues and deal with each situation in a unique fashion. “There’s no lemon…so sour… that you can’t make something resembling lemonade.” If only the doctor who delivered my kids passed on these words of wisdom to me.

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Honesty Isn’t A Character Flaw We all have baggage. Mom, dad, grandma, grandpa, your neighbor’s dog, but admitting your issues is better than covering them up. Obviously, parents don’t need to tell their children EVERYTHING, but sometimes revealing your weaknesses makes you the biggest hero of all.

Thank you Pearsons for the family therapy!

Hope Daniels is a Rumson, NJ resident and founder of A New Mom In Town blog – you can read all about her mommy adventures at anewmomintown.com. *Photo source: This Is Us Facebook Page, NBC.

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I recently had lunch with one of my favorite travel pals. Elaine had just returned from a cross country RV tour and had lots of interesting experiences to share with a fellow travel junkie. I love Elaine for a lot of reasons, but I was especially grateful for her illuminating conversation this month at Seed to Sprout because this dreary winter was starting to sabotage my sunny psyche. Elaine was the perfect elixir on that dim day. Here are three things that brightened my day: 1. Creative minds energize one another. The day may have been dark, but she was bright with ideas for 2018.

Hibernating this winter? Consider connecting with an interesting friend that you haven’t seen in a while. I guarantee you’ll learn something new as you share your travel adventures.

2. Elaine conquered the Bisbee1000 Stair Climb in Arizona this past October during her cross-country RV adventure. This 4.5-mile course includes nine staircases connected by winding roads and an interesting history in Tombstone Canyon, Arizona. Reserve your spot in 2018 on October 2nd if you dare at Bisbee1000.org.

3. To balance our busy work lives, Elaine and I always compare notes on our yoga and wellness modalities. I shared some highlights from my recent yoga teaching assignment in Cabo San Lucas and invited her to my next yoga gig in Dominican Republic this month. She brought me up to speed on her long-term success with rolfing, which I admitted knowing too little about.

Rolfing is a bit like having someone do yoga for you.

In short, rolfing is all about structural alignment.

Created by Dr. Ida Rolf, an American biochemist, this system seeks to deeply manipulate and reorganize the connective tissue (known as the fascia) that permeates the entire body. Rolfing can be thought of as a cross between physical therapy and massage where the practitioner applies slow, deep stretching around the joints to lengthen tissue and free up the fascia so your body motors the way it was meant to move. It’s a great complement to a yoga or Pilates practice to support structural integration and a super movement therapy for pain relief.

Elaine and I agreed to keep moving and grooving this winter and to always support one another’s lifelong learning goals, tempered with trending travel tips far and wide. Learn more about Elaine’s adventures at NotJustADaydream.com.

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Experts Address ADHD Strategies for Children Tuesday, March 13, 2018 at 7:15 PM

Has your child received a diagnosis of ADHD? Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder is the most commonly diagnosed mental disorder in children. Children with ADHD are typically impulsive, hyperactive, or unable to focus. What should parents know about the disorder and what are the treatment options available?

On Tuesday, March 13, 2018 at 7:15 p.m., Dr. Andrew Burstiner, physician and researcher, who is a Fellow of the American Academy of Pediatrics, will discuss the ADHD diagnosis and present avenues available to parents and caregivers to help their children achieve successful outcomes at Congregation B’nai Israel (CBI) in Rumson.

He devotes his medical practice to the assessment and treatment of ADHD challenges and neurodevelopmental disorders.

Joining Dr. Burstiner will be Jacqueline Caruso-Smith, who is a certified ADHD Coach. She specializes in providing support for students and adults who need to improve their functional abilities. Ms Caruso-Smith has a Master’s Degree in Education and Counseling and will discuss her approach to handling ADHD through behavioral methods.

Congregation B’nai Israel is offering this program to the community as a public service. It is free and open to all.

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Let MARCH MADNESS begin! If you are a basketball fan you will find these games at every bar and restaurant in the area! Spring will happen this month so start looking for those crocuses and begin thinking about getting those beach badges. Remember St. Patrick’s Day is March 17th, a day we can all be a little Irish and celebrate with friends!

Saint Patty’s Day Parades Rumson St. Patrick’s Day Parade March 11th from 12:00 to 3:00 p.m.

Keyport’s St. Patrick’s Day Parade March 24th at 1:00 p.m.

Highlands St. Patrick’s Day Parade March 24th at 2:00 p.m.

Highlands 5th Annual Guinness Run/Fundraiser March 10th starting at 2:00 p.m.

Registration is $30.00 and includes a commemorative t-shirt, a Guinness Pint glass and access to the Post-Race Party at Bahrs Landing Restaurant, with complimentary appetizers and Guinness Beer. There will be a Post-Guinness Run Pub Crawl from 3:00 to 5:00 p.m., included with RUN registration or $10 without RUN registration and $3 Imported Beer specials at participating restaurants.

Wedding Walk at the Molly Pitcher Inn

March 11th from 10:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m.

The Red Bank Wedding Walk is a free, one-day event that introduces brides, grooms, partners, wedding attendants and their families & friends to Red Bank as the one-stop shopping destination for weddings. Taking place throughout town, guests visit a wide selection of wedding vendors. Limousines, trolleys and shuttles are available to get you throughout town.

The day concludes with a champagne reception and a grand prize drawing at the stunning Molly Pitcher Inn. Make Red Bank your one-stop wedding destination!

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Count Basie Theatre Happenings

You can go almost any day to the Count Basie theatre and find a great show! For tickets, visit thebasie.org.

Here are a few highlights.

RockIt! - March 11th at 3:00 p.m.

Indigo Girls - March 14th at 8:00 p.m.

Dublin Irish Dance: Stepping Out March 16th at 8:00 p.m.

K.D. Lang – March 19th at 7:30 p.m.

The Chieftans – March 20th at 8:00 p.m.

Jay Leno – March 23rd at 7:30 p.m.

Kristin Chenowith – March 25th at 7:00 p.m.

The Pretenders – March 30th at 8:00 p.m.

Business Networking Luncheon March 21st at 11:30 a.m.

Colts Neck Business Association’s 10th Annual Luncheon will be held at the Trump National Golf Club. Tickets are $45 pp or $450 for a table of 10. After March 14th, the cost goes up to $60 pp. Contact Alison Antenucci at 732.946.2111 or register online at coltsneckbusiness.org.

RISE! 9th Annual Women’s Success Summit

March 21 from 11:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m.

Featuring #1 Bestselling Author, CNN American Hero, Movie Producer and the Founder & CEO of eWomenNetwork, Sandra Yancey at Addison Park in Aberdeen, will be ushering in a new awakening for women entrepreneurs and a new call to action. For more info, visit eWomenNetwork.com.

Garden State Film Festival March 22nd through March 25th

Individual screening tickets are $15 in advance and $17 at the door. Weekend passes are $50 in advance and $55 at the door. Day Passes are also available - the Saturday Day Pass is $30 and Sunday Day Pass is $25. Tickets are available at gsff.org and at festival box offices.

Erin Brockovich To Speak at Grunin Center April 12th at 7:00 p.m.

Brockovich is one of the most requested speakers on the international lecture circuit and travels the world for personal appearances. She is a true American hero whose icon status and “stick-to-it-iveness” only fuels her determination to expose injustice and lend her voice to those who do not have one. For tickets, call the Grunin Center Box Office at 732.255.0500.

Dancing at Lughnasa at Two River Theater April 14th through May 13th

Brian Friel’s “ravishing memory play” (The New York Times) about five unmarried sisters on the west coast of Ireland in 1936 won the 1992 Tony Award for Best New Play—and the hearts of audiences. Visit tworivertheater.org

Red Bank Street Fair

April 15th from 11:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m.

The popular Red Bank Street Fair is filled with crafters, food vendors, rides, and shopping. Plenty of fun for everyone.

Come enjoy Red Bank on a beautiful fall day. A portion of the proceeds benefits the Red Bank Police Benevolent Association.

Visit redbank.org.

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Counseling Corner will provide a monthly article on mental health topics of interest.

Jessica Lupon, LPC Barbara Tatum, LPC Meredith O’Brien, LCSW Lonjeté T. Nias, LCSW

We offer a DBT-informed format.

Currently we offer skills groups for adolescents (tween), teenagers, young adults and adults. Please note that these groups are not process groups. They are skills-based groups and often are referred to as classes.

Adolescent (Tween) Group: Mondays at 4:45pm My first counseling internship was at New York Presbyterian Hospital in White Plains, New York. I was placed in the Partial Hospitalization Program for clients suffering from Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). My objective was to help these clients to manage their emotions more effectively using Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT).

As I completed my first day, little did I know that DBT would become such a big part of my life and part of my private practice, Meredith O’Brien & Affiliates, LLC. I am now intensively trained in DBT and practice it with a large percentage of my clients.

So what is DBT? DBT is a cognitive behavioral, evidence-based treatment

that teaches skills in the following five modules: Mindfulness, Distress Tolerance, Emotion Regulation, Interpersonal Effectiveness and Walking the Middle Path. While it was originally designed to treat those with BPD, now it is widely used with other populations such as those dealing with depression, anxiety, eating disorders, substance abuse, interpersonal conflict, self-harm, chronic suicidal ideation, behavioral issues and emotion dysregulation.

I often hear from new clients who are specifically looking to learn coping skills. These clients may have had experience with talk therapy which proved helpful, but also sought concrete tools to manage what they are going through.

Adult Group: Mondays at 7pm Young Adult Group: Tuesdays at 6pm Teenager Group: Thursdays at 6pm

We also offer comprehensive DBTinformed treatment which includes individual DBT sessions, skills group and phone coaching. The goal of phone coaching is to learn to ask for help effectively and appropriately, to replace destructive behaviors with healthy ones and to generalize the DBT skills to your everyday lives.

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Event emcee Donnalyn Giegerich with Monmouth County SPCA supporters.

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he Monmouth County SPCA held its annual Valentine’s Day Brunch on February 11, 2018 at the renowned Navesink Country Club in Middletown.

Boasting an impressive $63,000 in funds raised, this year’s event is one of the most successful to date. The biggest draw of the event was the auction display, which featured inclusive vacations, upscale dining experiences, spa packages, high-end accessories and an array of gourmet wine and food items. Patrons also participated in the 50/50 raffle which garnered more than $18,000.

DonnaLyn Giegerich was welcomed back for her third year as the event emcee and kept the atmosphere fun and upbeat throughout the afternoon. The Monmouth County SPCA also gave special recognition to Jane Seibert as the “Under the Radar Partner” for her continued support of the MCSPCA; Dr. Lindsay Campbell from Feline Medical Center for being “A Friend of All Cats” for her hard work and dedication to creating healthier lifestyle for our shelter cats,

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and finally to longtime volunteers Irene and Dick Garwood for their implementation of and commitment to the MCSPCA’s “Buddy Program,” an initiative which focuses on working with specific shelter animals on their behavior with positive reinforcement techniques.

During the program, Chief of Police and Executive Director Ross Licitra shared the MCSPCA’s latest achievements which included 3,643 animals adopted in 2017 and a recent accolade that will establish the MCSPCA as a model for Humane Law Enforcement Programs throughout the state.

The organization closed the program by thanking their major event sponsors, which included The Turner Group and Kearny Bank.

The Monmouth County SPCA is now gearing up for its 2018 Dog Walk + Pet Fair to be held on Saturday, April 28, 2018 at Brookdale Community College. For information on upcoming events, visit monmouthcountyspca.org.

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Known for capturing moments that explode on film, Danny Clinch is famous for giving fans rare glimpses into the lives and talent of our music heroes.

Having unparalleled access during concerts and behind-thescenes due to his unobtrusive style, he has become a silent presence in a world of sound.

His photographs of BB King with his guitar, a shirtless Tupac during a wardrobe change, and Bruce Springsteen on the Boardwalk in Asbury Park have become iconic magazine covers and photographs loved the world over. Allowing his camera to express the essence of its subjects, his work serves as a documentary of music in our lifetime and in our area. and A New Jersey native and believer in always giving back, Clinch is the Director and Photographer for the Asbury Park Music & Film Festival. A big fan of Asbury Park in general, he has helped to advance the town’s standing as New Jersey’s capital of entertainment.

Clinch’s photographs have appeared in publications throughout the world, including Vanity Fair, Rolling Stone, The New Yorker, and The New York Times. In 2003, he founded the New York City-based film company Three on the Tree Productions. A three-time Grammy nominated director, Clinch has directed concert documentaries for artists such as Pearl Jam, Springsteen, and Leon Bridges.

Having presented his work in numerous galleries, Clinch has published four books: Discovery Inn, When the Iron Bird Flies, Still Moving, and Motor Drive. In February 2016, Clinch was featured on 60 Minutes and he currently has an ongoing exhibit of his photographs at The Asbury, the destination hotel of Asbury Park.

There are other accolades we could share, but there’s more to the man than his accomplishments. Danny Clinch loves music and the people who create it. He listens to it, plays it, photographs it, and films it. And it’s his passion for sharing that love we see on film.

A conversation with Clinch reveals a gentle spirit and giving nature and his own words do him justice more than we ever could. Here is our interview with the Photographer Legend, Danny Clinch.

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CM: You began your career as an intern for famous portrait photographer Annie Leibovitz right out of Ocean County College, what do you most remember about that experience?

CLINCH: Annie confirmed for me that with passion and obsession you can achieve good things. She was always passionate about every aspect of her shoots.

CM: When did you realize you wanted to be a photographer?

CLINCH: I started to sneak my camera into concerts when I was a teenager and always loved music. When the time came to decide what I wanted to do with my life, it was an easy decision.

CM: Did you intend to be a famous photographer and a living history of music in our time? How did that come about?

CLINCH: I really did not have a plan. I just put one foot in front of the other and followed the opportunities that came my way and made the most of them. As a photographer of musicians, I am excited about the diversity of musicians I have photographed.

Getting my start in Hip Hop was really exciting and led to indie rock bands etc. who have become legends. I was able to create relationships along the way that opened doors for the already legendary. So photographing Tupac and Johnny Cash, Metallica, Bruce Springsteen, Patti Smith, and Tony Bennett, is pretty cool. In the end, its about good work and strong relationships.

CM: Is there a photograph you’ve taken you most love?

CLINCH: Hard to say. There are so many reasons for me to like a photograph, from the light and composition, to the experience of taking the photograph. I will say that there is a pretty good story about each experience I’ve had taking the photographs.

CM: Has there been someone you’ve photographed that you were star struck to meet? What was that meeting like?

CLINCH: Sure, Bob Dylan, I would say. But once we said hello and got down to photographing, he was a

great collaborator. I thought I would feel awkward, but it was an incredible experience.

CM: Is there anyone you haven’t photographed that you’d like to?

CLINCH: It used to be Prince. And I always think of the classic artists.

I would love to photograph Aretha Franklin.

CM: What inspires you?

CLINCH: I get inspired by other photographers, films, and music. It comes from the most abstract reasons.

CM: You were raised in Toms River.

You have a studio in Asbury Park and currently have your art on display in an exhibit at The Asbury Hotel. What is your connection to Asbury Park?

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CLINCH: I started coming to The Stone Pony as a teenager, to see and hear music, hoping to get a glimpse of Bruce Springsteen. And that was the main reason I came to Asbury Park for quite some time. Also, the Warped Tour. Then I used Asbury Park as a location to photograph bands that wanted some grit but didn’t want to shoot in New York City. It was a perfect playground. We would have the entire place to ourselves back then.

CM: How do you feel about being part of the Asbury Park Music & Film Festival?

CLINCH: I love being a part of the APMFF. My position is to help curate anything from music to films and to represent what is positive about Asbury Park. It’s so cool to have a hand in helping the community. I have always been inspired by people like Bruce Springsteen and Pearl Jam, who are constantly giving back, to not only their communities, but others as well.

I have a gallery of my photographs at The Asbury Hotel on 5th and Kingsley.

We have live music and do a lot of community gatherings there in hopes of inspiring people, young and old, to follow their passions and to look after one another. And I am grateful for that opportunity.

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For more information about Danny Clinch, visit his website at dannyclinch.com.

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Danny D eVito Comes Home to the Shore Story: Cathy Padilla

You may know him as Louie from Taxi, or the Penguin from Batman Returns, or the twin brother of Arnold Schwarzenegger in Twins. Born in Neptune, New Jersey on November 17, 1944 to Italian-American parents, Daniel Michael DeVito Jr. has amassed a versatile body of work as an actor, director, and producer that includes the stage, television, and film. Next month, as part of the Asbury Park Music and Film Festival, you’ll have a chance to learn about his life firsthand and ask him questions on stage at An Evening with Danny DeVito, an intimate career retrospective and Q&A on April 28, 2018 at The Paramount Theatre in Asbury Park.

While growing up in Asbury Park, DeVito’s parents sent him to Our Lady of Mount Carmel grammar school and Oratory Prep School. His mother, Julia (Moccello), was a homemaker. His father, Daniel, Sr., was a small business owner whose ventures included a dry-cleaning shop, a dairy outlet, a diner, and a pool hall. Following graduation in 1962, DeVito took a job as a cosmetician at his sister’s beauty salon. A year later he enrolled at New York’s American Academy of Dramatic Arts, so he could learn more about cosmetology, but he soon found instead a love

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for acting. While at the National Playwrights Conference in Waterford, Connecticut, he met another aspiring actor named Michael Douglas. The two became fast friends and would later go on to collaborate on numerous projects, including the hit movie Romancing the Stone. Soon after, he also met an actress named Rhea Perlman and the two fell in love and moved in together. They were married in 1982 and have three children.

DeVito’s acting career started in 1968 when he landed his first part in an obscure movie called Dreams of Glass. When the film had little success, DeVito became discouraged and spent the next several years focused on Off-Broadway stage productions.

But his friend Douglas approached him in 1975 with a part in a film that would be directed by Milos Forman and star Jack Nicholson. The movie was One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest which became a huge hit, both critically and financially, and still ranks today as one the greatest movies of all time.

Unfortunately, the movie did very little to help DeVito’s career except bring him back to the screen versus the stage. In the years following, he was relegated to small movie roles and guest appearances on television shows. His big break came in 1978 when he

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auditioned for a role on an ABC sitcom pilot called Taxi. The show was a huge success, running from 1978 to 1983 with DeVito playing the ever-nasty Louie DePalma.

While DeVito was universally hated by TV viewers as Louie, he was well-praised by critics, winning an Emmy award and being nominated three other times. Throughout the 1980s and 1990s, DeVito maintained his status as a great character actor with memorable roles in movies like Romancing the Stone, Ruthless People, Throw Momma from the Train, Matilda, Twins, L.A. Confidential, and Batman Returns. He also had success behind the camera, directing such movies as The War of the Roses and Hoffa.

DeVito and his wife Pearlman cofounded Jersey Films in the early 90s. He would stay busy for the next decade directing and producing many popular films and TV shows, including Pulp Fiction, Get Shorty, Man on the Moon, and Erin Brockovich. In 2006, he returned to series television in the FX comedy series It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia. He also provided the title voice role in Dr. Seuss’ The Lorax.

CM: What is your favorite memory of Asbury Park, or Monmouth County in general?

D eVito : Every single day of my childhood during the summer – racing my bike down 2nd Avenue toward the beach, hitting the hot sand, and jumping from corner to corner of everybody’s blankets, then leaping into the ocean.

CM: What do you remember best about growing up in Jersey?

D eVito : I lived at 2nd Avenue and New Street and the streets were always filled with relatives or friends and we’d ride our bikes and we’d go fishing, go to the rivers, swim in the ocean. The whole idea of living there was so magical when I was a kid. The summer nights we just waited for the ice cream man to come – the little bell would ring and we would wait for the Good Humor man to come. My favorite was either the Creamsicle or Toasted Almond. One of the cool things we used to do in Asbury (because we had all the seasons), we would go in the winter when Deal Lake would freeze over. You would go down to the edge of the lake on the bank and you would shovel snow to make a ramp that went from the edge of the embankment onto the lake. Then you would go back to the top of the hill and slide down the hill as fast as you could and scoot almost all the way across Deal Lake. It was amazing.

CM: Your father owned several businesses in the area, including a diner. What story do you have of those days that tells us about you and your family?

D eVito : Most of the memories I have of the places he had, let’s see… he had a little drycleaning place once. The Lunch Net was the favorite because I was young, like when I was 7 or 8, I used to go in there and play pinball.

It was cool hanging out down there, that was on Springwood Avenue.

CM: You’ve talked in interviews about your Jersey Posse, what were your teenage years like growing up at the Shore?

D eVito : When I was a teenager I would go to the movies with my friends. We had the St. James and The Mayfair, which are not there anymore unfortunately, but we had like five or six movie theaters in town. I think five; The Mayfair, The St. James, The Lyric, The Baronet and The Paramount. And the Savoy Theatre was the burlesque place, so we didn’t go there much. I loved going to the drive-in.

Oh man – the Eatontown drive-in which was

right on the outside of Asbury, and I’m trying to think of the name of the other one. Drivein movies were my favorite in Jersey. A lot of eating pizza, a lot of going to Freddy’s on Asbury Ave. We used to go down to Max’s – if we were brave we ventured out as teenagers down to Max’s to have a hot dog. That was a little bit toward Long Branch—you had to get a ride there, or if you were driving, you would drive there. But most of the time you’d get rides with older kids or parents or relatives or somebody you’d rope into taking you to White Castle and get a million hamburgers.

Years ago, there was a roller skating rink at the Asbury Circle and we’d hang out there— basically finding places to hang out. You’d go to Bradley Beach and hang out on the corner there. There were a lot of quiet places, too, that were good to go to like the lakes. We had 4th of July fireworks. They were always on 8th Avenue—that was the best.

CM: Do you have a favorite Jersey spot today?

A favorite food or restaurant you visit?

D eVito : I don’t have a favorite restaurant.

Let’s see…still my favorite thing, I think, is just going down the Boardwalk and hanging out. I used to fish off the jetties too, that was nice. Get a pail and go down there to do some surf fishing or go all the way out to the end of the jetty to fish.

CM: For years it was rumored you lived in Holmdel, do you still have family in the area?

D eVito : No, I didn’t, that wasn’t true. The only residence I really had myself was 2nd Ave. and New St. CM: You are one of the most famous and successful celebrities to ever come from Monmouth County. Did you dream of such success as a child or young man? What does it feel like to come back to Jersey for the Asbury Park Music & Film Festival knowing you are such a beloved son of the area?

D eVito : Well first of all, it’s a great honor to come back and hang out with all my Jersey folks. It’s always nice to hang, to be on stage and listen to people and what they have to say. It’s just a great honor to be back. I didn’t think about that (success), basically the whole thing was hanging out with your friends. I never really knew what I wanted to do when I was young. It was just all so normal. I loved cuttin’ grass in the summer, that was my job, and I loved workin’ down on the Boardwalk.

At that time, I didn’t have the aspirations or thoughts I would be well known.

CM: You’ve done just about everything in Hollywood and on the stage. What did you enjoy about acting, directing, and producing?

Which do you most enjoy?

D eVito : The acting bug, once you get bit by the acting bug, that’s your favorite. I like to explore all areas of the business.

The most challenging, I think, is directing because you’re asked millions and millions of questions and you have to have a real strong point of view about what you want. And you don’t want to let anybody down, no matter who it is, whether it’s the actors, the artists responsible for the look of the movie, the writers.

You’re responsible to take that and digest it and make it your own. The most supportive part of it is being a producer, making sure the path is clear for everyone to do their best work.

So there are a lot of aspects to it. It’s hard to find anything about the business, the art of making movies, whether I’m in front of the camera or behind it; it’s hard to find something that I don’t like. I don’t like to wait. That’s something that, a lot of the time, in the movie business, that you have to do. You have to wait. And I’m impatient; but I’ve been dealing with it.

"it’s a great honor to come back & hang out with all my Jersey folks."

CM: You’ve produced and directed some amazing films, what projects do you have coming up that you’re excited about?

D eVito : I go back to my 13th season of Sunny (It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia), I’m very excited about that. I’m working on a couple of projects, one for Amazon, one for FX, and I have a couple movie scripts that I’m eager to get going.

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CM: You’ve played iconic roles, which is your favorite character and why?

D eVito : It’s very difficult to pick your favorite one, but I think of all the projects I’ve done, Matilda was one of my favorites. Harry Wormwood was just a character I really had fun with.

CM: Was it enjoyable to play Louie DePalma?

I remember watching the show and my father and mother laughing hysterically at Louie.

They loved his total lack of a filter. Was there great freedom in the role?

D eVito : Of course. A lot of freedom in the role, and how could you not be totally satisfied as a character, making all those

guys jump through hoops?

CM: You recently went back to where you first began, the stage, and played on Broadway for the first time. How did acting on Broadway compare to the movies?

D eVito : Totally different idea of your commitment. Big time commitment. And I’m a night person so I kind of liked the idea that, after rehearsals had ended, I wouldn’t have to go to work until 6:30 p.m. at night to do a 7:30 p.m. show. So, I liked the idea of that, and staying out a little bit, and sleeping in in the morning. I think that’s the best thing about theatre. You still have to do your work.

I’ve been fortunate that I’ve got parts in two

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classical plays, The Sunshine Boys and The Price - Neil Simon and Arthur Miller. Really great to dig into the characters they created.

CM: What would you most like our readers, Monmouth County residents, to know about you?

D eVito : Well there’s not much that you don’t know about me already. I get a great feeling about coming home, I think you asked me that before, but I do always treasure the moments of coming back to the shore. The whole vibe of the place has always made me feel good. The Atlantic Ocean, the Eastern Seaboard, the beach at Asbury—always make me feel terrific.

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t’s about music, film, coming together, and giving back. From April 27th to April 29th, the Asbury Park Music & Film Festival (APMFF) will bring Bradley Park to life with live music, movie screenings, a beer garden, food, and a place to explore local shops and services all while benefitting the youth of Asbury Park. Events are scheduled at iconic locations like The Stone Pony, The Paramount Theatre, The Wonder Bar, the House of Independents, and Convention Hall with performances by Danny DeVito, Sublime with Rome, Gov’t Mule, Low Cut Connie and many more.

The first APMFF was launched in 2015 with the mission to create a three-day event filled with music and movies that would lend support to the Asbury Park Music Foundation, a non-profit dedicated to benefiting youth music programs. To date the APMFF has raised $160,000 for the children of Asbury Park and has tripled in size with more than 20,000 attendees projected for 2018.

The APMFF taps into Asbury’s legendary music scene and couples it with the organization’s belief in making a difference. The youth of Asbury Park are among the most challenged communities in the nation, and the APMFF supports four beneficiaries by providing music education, instruments, and social connection opportunities: The Asbury Park Summer Recreation Music Camp, The Hope Academy Charter School, The Hip Hop Institute, and the Mobile Recording Studio. The Mobile Recording Studio is a new edition to the roster and provides a recording studio on wheels. It brings music programs to schools and other youth centers in Asbury, with plans for the bus to travel throughout the state. The program provides a safe place for hands-on learning about the music craft, from creating digital tracks and recording songs to the art of audio engineering.

Three men steer the giant endeavor and bring their talents and passion to work with a large Board of Members. In other words, it takes a lot of people to make a Festival this exciting happen. At the helm are Tom Bernard, co-president & co-founder of Sony Pictures Classics; Danny Clinch, legendary photographer & director; and Tom Donovan, president & publisher of Gannett NJ. Together the three men marry film, music, and marketing.

Asbury is enjoying an artistic and economic renaissance, and music remains at the center of what drives the city. Emerging stronger and more vital than ever, the Festival serves as a celebration of Asbury; its history, its music, it contributions to entertainment, and most importantly, its youth.

For a complete schedule of events, tickets, or more information, visit apmff.org.

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Bruce, Southside Johnny, and Steven Van Zandt Walk into a Bar… The Stone Pony Starts its 45th Year

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n the corner of Second Avenue and Ocean Avenue in Asbury Park sits The Stone Pony, one of the world’s best-known music venues and an ever-popular Monmouth County destination. The Pony first opened its doors on February 8, 1974 in a building which was once a popular restaurant called Mrs. Jay’s that had relocated six years before. Credited with giving Bruce Springsteen his rise to stardom, The Pony has hosted many famous artists and bands including Jon Bon Jovi, Elvis Costello, Blondie, Meatloaf, The Ramones, The Replacements, KISS, The Allman Brothers, and Patti Smith. It has also helped shape creative minds like Photographer Danny Clinch.

As the legendary venue begins its

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forty-fifth year, we take a look back at the history of the much-loved local landmark at the Jersey Shore and catch up with General Manager Caroline O’Toole.

John P. ‘Jack’ Roig wanted to bring music to the beach in Asbury so he bought a run-down and abandoned disco called The Magic Touch. He enlisted the managerial skills and construction talents of a friend and former co-worker by the name of Robert ‘Butch’ Pielka who soon became the general manager and minority partner of the new music club. Opening night was a disaster.

There were seven inches of snow, the heater stopped blowing, and the night’s receipts totaled one dollar.

The entire first year was rough

for the fledgling business, and by Christmas the club’s creditors were threatening foreclosure. Luckily, the first of The Pony’s many house bands was starting to keep patrons coming.

The Blackberry Booze Band, featuring Ocean Grove resident ‘Southside’ Johnny Lyon and Middletown’s Steve Van Zandt, began playing three nights a week at the club. They would later become Southside Johnny and the Asbury Jukes whose founding member, Van Zandt, would become a member of the E Street Band for Springsteen.

Springsteen first performed on The Pony stage with The Blackberry Booze Band in September of 1974, a year after the release of his second album, The Wild, the Innocent &

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Bruce Springsteen and Southside Johnny

Southside Johnny performing at The Stone Pony

the E Street Shuffle. But it would be his performance nearly two years later that would change the Asbury Park music scene forever.

May 30, 1976, Memorial Day weekend, Southside Johnny and the Asbury Jukes were marking the recent release of their debut album I Don’t Want to Go Home with unprecedented promotional label support.

The concert was hosted by Philadelphia radio station WMMR-FM and broadcast on syndicated stations throughout the northeastern United States, including WJLK in Asbury Park. The night had been a fun one with a packed crowd, but something magical happened when Springsteen performed on one song, the closing Havin’ a Party. That was the night that put The Stone

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Pony on the national music map forever.

Sam Cooke’s Havin’ a Party became the unofficial theme song of The Pony and of Asbury Park. And Bruce Springsteen, already somewhat successful, became a star.

Neither Butch nor Jack could have foreseen what their venture would become and for nearly two decades The Pony stage rocked with every type of beat from Hard Rock to Reggae. Original material always was The Pony trademark and its patrons were open to experimentation and different sounds. In the early eighties, nearly every Sunday, Springsteen played at The Pony with the house band Cats on a Smooth Surface. On June 8, 1984 Springsteen and most of the E Street Band gave a surprise, 12-song performance as a warm-up for their upcoming Born in the U.S.A. tour. But the popularity of the album brought with it too many fans for Springsteen to visit for the next few years, and The Pony missed its favorite son. In the late 80s, many clubs offering live music closed due to the rising costs of insurance and by 1992 there was a forced sale of The Pony in bankruptcy court,

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ending the ‘Jack and Butch’ years. Rumors still circulate the bankruptcy followed a series of drunk-driving liability lawsuits.

The next eight years would bring ownership turnovers and The Pony’s Last Ride event as the building was converted to a dance club called Vinyl. But by 2000, talk of revitalization would bring The Pony back to life. The club was renovated preserving the character associated with its early years while adding a permanent exhibition of art and artifacts from the history of the city and the venue itself. State-of-the-art lighting and sound equipment were installed, and outside, facing the ocean, The Stone Pony Landing area was redone with a beach motif, tenting, and a food facility. Fans and artists continued to support The Pony, and the Asbury Park Music Awards returned to The Pony and the vibrant live music scene reemerged and the crowds returned.

“A visit to The Stone Pony has been considered a pilgrimage to rock ‘n’ roll fans around the world,” said then New Jersey Governor Christine Todd Whitman as she officially reopened the club on Memorial Day weekend 2000. “It is a place that is important, not just to us, but to the world.”

With its reopening, the club also made a commitment to become involved in the Asbury Park community. The Pony has hosted a number of events involving community groups and charities.

Remembering Harry Chapin, benefitting a

CM’s chat with Caroline O’Toole, general manager of The Stone Pony:

CM: Are there big shows planned for this summer?

O’Toole: Our Summer Stage will be full on with all types of music. We will have reggae, rock, pop, and we are especially excited about Billy Currington and LOCASH for all those country fans out there.

CM: The Pony and Asbury are forever intertwined, how would you explain it?

charity that fights world hunger, is one of many and The Pony has been designated as an official drop-off point for Fulfill, the county food bank.

As the redevelopment of Asbury Park moves forward, so does the evolution of the legendary Stone Pony. In 2008 The Pony partnered with the world’s largest concert promoter, Live Nation, creating new opportunities for local musicians to become part of a growing and ever-changing scene. With sound, lighting, and air conditioning systems upgraded, and a new roof installed, the next step was to make the music even bigger. The Pony’s backyard grew to the width of a city block in the summer of 2009 and played host to big-name artists in an expansive seaside setting on The Summer Stage. The Black Crowes, The Pretenders, Southside Johnny and the Asbury Jukes, Peter Frampton, and Snoop Dogg were among the performers who graced the expanded stage during the premiere season.

The one performer who has never booked an advertised gig at The Pony is ironically, Springsteen. He has played the venue more than 100 times, more than any other venue, yet he has never been billed to appear except for private benefit events. Perhaps Pony history will be made with a Springsteen scheduled concert.

O’Toole: One history does not exist without the other. I was at a luncheon recently, and the guest speaker said that many people all over the world know Asbury Park, they know The Stone Pony. So many times both are in the same sentence. It really melds us as one community, and that is a source of pride because that is what we are.

CM: What’s your favorite memory at The Pony?

O’Toole: One night after Lisa Marie Presley played, she stayed and had her after tour party. Her mother Priscilla was here, and it was really cool because the name Presley is as close to American royalty as you get.

It was great to see how much they enjoyed being here. Another night we were cleaning up, the bell rang, and when I opened the door Toby Keith was standing outside. He asked if he and his crew could come in and have a look around. Not everything cool happens after closing, but sometimes it does more than what happens on stage.

CM: Does one night stand out among the thousands?

O’Toole: There was one day that will forever stand out to me, and no one was performing on stage at the time. It was the day after Clarence Clemons died, and thousands of people made their way to The Stone Pony. It felt like the right place to be, when so many probably did not know what to do. We had a cd playing, I think it was Bruce live from New York (Bruce Springsteen and the E Street Band: Live in New York), and Tenth Avenue Freeze Out came on. The room was packed, no one was talking. And when Bruce famously introduces Clarence on the song, the crowd here went absolutely crazy.

Caroline O’Toole, general manager of the The Stone Pony, was the 2017 Grand Marshall for Asbury Park’s St. Patrick’s Day Parade.

It was an experience unlike any other, and one I will always remember. I am glad The Stone Pony was here for so many on such a sad day.

CM: Who are some of your favorite performers over the years?

O’Toole: There are so many. Back to Lisa Marie, a young band named Maroon 5 opened up one of her shows here. 30 Seconds to Mars way back before Jared Leto became an Oscar winner. He was just such a nice person and was in absolute awe of performing at The Pony. He insisted all of the staff members be in their band photo.

The members of the E Street Band have mostly been here, and just a couple years ago, Kenny Chesney. He was doing a special show for his radio listeners and picked The Stone Pony to do it! He was so great, he actually kept thanking me for letting him play here. Imagine that, Kenny Chesney thanking me?

CM: What has The Stone Pony meant to Asbury and to music in general?

O’Toole: Asbury Park was famous for music long before The Stone Pony came along.

Thanks to Bruce, Southside Johnny, and so many other amazing performers, they made The Pony famous too. We became a place where both established and new musicians wanted to play. The days we have kids on the stage, it means even that much more. It is so great to see artists on the stage who are so happy to be in a legendary place in a legendary city. The magic of music happens here.

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The Ridge Road Run

Local Students Unite for Mental Health Awareness The fundraiser’s student organizers. From left to right: Thomas Llyod (Shrewsbury), Michael Eulner (Shrewsbury), Claudia Kelly (Little Silver), Lily Salcedo (Little Silver), Courtney Carroll (Middletown), Ellie Gibney (Fair Haven), and Teddy Sourlis (Rumson).

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ut of tragedy, we rise.

The Rumson-Fair Haven High School community experienced a heartbreaking loss last fall, and Red Bank Regional student and Shrewsbury resident Michael Eulner wanted to bring everyone closer.

Aided by Red Bank Catholic High School and Rumson-Fair Haven High School students Thomas Lloyd (Shrewsbury), Claudia Kelly (Little Silver), Lily Salcedo (Little Silver), Courtney Carroll (Middletown), Ellie Gibney (Fair Haven), and Teddy Sourlis (Rumson) and on the advice of RBR Principal Risa Clay, Michael organized the Ridge Road Run as a fundraiser to benefit the American Foundation of Suicide Prevention and the Mental Health Association of Monmouth County. Michael said, “Suicide and mental health have unfortunately become more common and we wanted to do whatever we could to change that.”

The run will feature the 5k, the mile, and kiddie dashes for the younger

runners. Though set to take place at the RFH track on April 15, 2018, Michael hopes the run will become a tradition to be carried on at both RBR and RBC in the coming years. “It will bring the communities closer and help [us to] realize that there are no rivalries in mental health and to educate the community about mental health and suicide awareness.” While the relationship between RFH and RBR has been defined by the notorious “Battle of Ridge Road,” the Ridge Road Run marks an important and necessary change to this image - showing just what our community can achieve when we come together.

The group had little trouble finding sponsors - local businesses and families have shown outstanding support for the cause. Platinum sponsors include Merrill Lynch; Two River Times; Kelly Builders & Developers; Heritage House and Sotheby’s International Realty, Pauline Poyner; Ansell, Grim & Aaron, Counselors at Law; Baker Dog Training; and Daisy Chocolates. Gold sponsors

include “For the Memory and Love of Pierce Jarck”; River Road; and The Fort Athletic Club. Silver sponsors include Smallwood Wealth Management; Ryser's Landscape Supply; AV Aerial Video; Mario Venancio - Gloria Nilson & Co; Dr. Jean Hager, LCSW, LCADC; Cuozzo Dentist; House of Cline Design; McCloone’s Restaurants; and Sourlis International Realty. Product, mile markers, and water stop sponsors include Continental Construction and Development Inc.; Resources Real Estate - Colleen Antoon; Squirtini Bikini; Livingston Physical Therapy; Community Appliance; Cups & Cakes; The Lloyd Family; Crest Physical Therapy; Bagel Masters; DeForte Dentist; Fly Yogis; The Gravity Vault Middletown; “In Honor of Jack Moore”; and The Eulner Family. Family sponsors include The Costa Family and The Wimmer Family.

To register, volunteer, or become a sponsor, visit ridgeroadrun.org.

Red Bank Parks and Rec Presents Couch Potato to 5K Want to change your whole life? Here is the class that will surely do it. Red Bank Parks and Rec will present Couch Potato to 5K, this program is for adults who want to run a 5K race. It is designed for those of us who have not been exercising very much in recent history and need a little motivation. The environment is fun, positive and non-intidmidating. The program will begin on Mondays and Wednesdays starting March 26, 2018 at 7:00 p.m at East Side Park in Red Bank.

Cost is $30 per person, advanced registration is required online or at the Recreation office. Call 732.530.2782 for questions.

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K I D S ’ E N T E R TA I N M E N T S TA R T S H E R E

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Research shows that out-of-school physical and learning activities keep kids from falling behind academically and help them maintain health.

CODE SECRETS: SCIENCE AND COMPUTING CAMP FOR GIRLS High Technology High School on the Brookdale Community College Campus, Lincroft

This program is a week-long (July 9-13), hands-on adventure into the world of computing and science, including the use of a 3D printer. The child is exposed to coding and the use of sensors to gather information from the world around her. She will need to be curious and interested in exploring, but knowledge of computer programming is not necessary. Science is at the heart of this course. The students will be introduced to a few types of sensors and learn basic principles common to programming languages. The girls will experiment using Arduino microcontrollers that they can program. Lastly, the students will network with successful students and professionals who use coding every day. Apply on-line at starschallenge.org before June 26.

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program features incredible master teachers and guest choreographers from around the world, teaching jazz funk, ballet, contemporary, and technique – even open hip hop classes. L.A. Dance also accepts children in their programs all year long, with no mandatory recital. Call 732.219.7778, visit ladancenj.com, or email ladance@gmail.com.

and humanities, “enhancing our curriculum with these institutes can only improve the quality of their education and our academic rigor,” said Donald Galante, president of Mater Dei Prep. For additional information or to register, visit materdeiprep.org.

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In addition to summer athletic camps, Mater Dei will offer four new academic programs for the 201819 school year designed to teach students the skills needed to excel in today’s diverse, technology-based fields: the Global Leaders Institute, Information Technology Institute, Performing Arts Institute, and the Emergency Medical Services and Nursing Institute.

All incoming freshmen will have the opportunity to experience each of the institutes by taking one course in every program. During sophomore year, students can choose to continue the course of study for a particular institute based on their educational and career goals.

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MIDDLETOWN ARTS CENTER SUMMER CAMPS The Middletown Arts Center has been offering high quality creative arts camps for children ages three to teen for more than a decade. A past recipient of the prestigious Spinnaker Award from the Eastern Monmouth Area Chamber of Commerce, they have been recognized for excellent programing. The center has a variety of creative classes to suit a child’s interests and needs. Classes include arts and crafts, painting, cartooning, drawing, dance, music, summer band enrichment, ceramics, photography, musical theater, video game design, sewing, felting, beading, robotics, and much more.

The center has a theater and dance floor, plus rotating art shows, all in an air-conditioned building.

Programs run from one week to eleven weeks. Call 732.706.4100 or visit middletownarts.org/camp.

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Marine Science Program for Middle School Students Hosted by MAST. Summer Camp at Sandy Hook is a hands-on marine sciences program with both lab and field work that explores the marine life and habitats of Sandy Hook’s beaches and estuaries. It is hosted by the Marine Academy of Science and Technology (MAST). If you have questions, please contact Mr. Valente on 908.433.8096.

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DIVORCE TALK: AT THE MOVIES-PART II

BY PET E R C . PA R A S , E S Q.

Peter C. Paras

is a shareholder in the Family Law Firm of Paras, Apy & Reiss, P.C. Selected as "Super Lawyer"

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The information in this article is not intended as legal advice. For legal advice you should consult your attorney.

“Paying alimony is like feeding hay to a dead horse.” Groucho Marx, movie actor.

Divorce as comedy was the prevailing movie genre from the silent era (A Bill of Divorcement1922) through the 1960s (Divorzio All Italiana-1961 and Divorce American Style-1967).

In the 1970s divorce became a decidedly serious topic.

Among the first was Kramer v. Kramer (1979) which starred Meryl Streep and Dustin Hoffman as a couple locked in an emotional battle over custody of their young son. Five Oscars, including Best Picture and Oscars for Streep and Hoffman solidified Kramer as one of the best films of all time. Eight year old Justin Henry as young Billy will tug at your heartstrings.

A difficult, but important, film to watch is What Maisie Knew (2012), a modern adaption of the 1897 Henry James novel. This film, largely from six year old Maisie’s perspective, chronicles the narcissism of her parents through the death of their marriage and their troubled second marriages. Their selfish disregard for Maisie’s emotional needs is a stark reminder of the damage parents can do to their children.

Boyhood was filmed from 2002 through 2013. Using the same actors (starring Patricia Arquette, Ethan Hawke, and Ellar Coltrane, as

the boy), the movie follows a young boy from six to eighteen as he grows up with divorced parents who get along reasonably well, but have very different parenting styles. The film received six Academy Award nominations (including Arquette’s win for Best Supporting Actress).

The 2010 film, Blue Valentine, stars Michele Williams and Ryan Gosling as a couple whose six year marriage is ending. She is looking for more and he doesn’t understand why what they have isn’t enough. Williams was nominated for an Academy Award.

A Separation, an Iranian film, won the 2012 Oscar for Best Foreign Film. It centers on an unhappy Iranian couple grappling with the same kinds of issues that frequently infect American marriages. This movie quite clearly shows that languages, cultures, and governments may be different, but in the end, people are people.

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Animal Advocacy: Nosey’s Law

By Kathleen Schatzmann, Senior VP/COO, St. Hubert's Animal Welfare Center

In 2016, at the beginning of our state’s previous two-year legislature, I wrote about a new measure named “Nosey’s Law” which would prohibit the use of elephants and other wild or exotic animals in traveling animal acts.

It is named after an elephant who for years has been used to give rides at circuses and fairs despite suffering painful arthritis and degenerative joint disease and has generated protests and petitions across the country. Nosey the Elephant, has been abused for decades by an owner who was found in violation of USDA rules over 200 times.

Our legislators know that elephants – and other wild animals – do not belong in circuses. They lead lives of quiet desperation, languishing in confinement and denied the stimulation and social relationships they’d experience in the wild. Training typically involves heavy doses of punishment, with animals shackled or kept in cages, and forced to endure months of grueling travel, all so they can perform silly tricks in city after city, night after night. Elephants live in fear of the bullhooks wielded by animal trainers – part of the back story that makes the use of elephants in circuses so objectionable.

Although Nosey’s Law passed the 2016-2017 legislature by a vote of 66-2-2 in the General Assembly and by 31-0 in the State Senate, with overwhelming bipartisan support, it was pocket vetoed by former Governor Chris Christie when he opted not to take action on it prior to the session ended in January.

We are pleased to announce that Nosey’s plight prompted Assemblyman Raj Mukherji (D-33), Assemblyman Andrew Zwicker (D-16), and Senator Nilsa Cruz-Perez (D-5) to reintroduce this important animal welfare bill.

With five states and more than 135 other localities in 37 states enacting restrictions regarding the use of wild animals in circuses, this is a measure that is long overdue.

There is another long-awaited decision that was recently made. In November 2017, a Lawrence County, Alabama, animal control officer confiscated Nosey and charged her owner with cruel neglect after finding Nosey exhibiting signs of stress and without adequate food and water. In January of this year, Nosey was granted permanent sanctuary by Alabama Judge Angela Terry and will remain at The Elephant Sanctuary in Tennessee.

This is wonderful news for Nosey and for New Jersey as we swiftly move a comprehensive circus ban bill onto Governor Phil Murphy’s desk. #noseyslaw

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Benefits of Microneedling, the Hottest Skincare Trend Microneedling or Collagen Induction Therapy is a skin rejuvenation procedure. It’s designed to improve the appearance of wrinkles, discoloration and scars on the face and body.

Microneedling can be used on all types of skin and skin colors. It’s not just for face, neck and décolletage, either. It can be performed all over the body to address stretch marks or acne scars on the legs, back, belly and behind.

Microneedling uses a pen to create thousands of tiny holes in the skin. It might not sound appealing at first but celebrities are flocking to it because these micro injuries stimulate the body’s natural wound healing processes, resulting in cell turnover and increased collagen and elastin production. In essence, the procedure forces your skin to anti-age without surgery and little to no downtime.

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In each stunning kitchen, attendees will enjoy sampling a variety of delicious tastings prepared by talented local chefs while gathering ideas and inspiration from professional designers and florists, who will lend their creative hand to highlight each home’s unique style with inviting tablescapes and gorgeous floral arrangements. Hosting this important fundraiser would not be possible without the generous support of these participants and the tour’s major event sponsors, with very special recognition going to Tour Sponsor PMI International Stone Importers and Promotional Sponsor Design NJ Magazine.

The Rumson Kitchen Tour returns Thursday, May 17, 2018! Gather your friends for a lovely day touring eight beautiful homes from 9:30 a.m. to 2:30 p.m. This biennial event is hosted by The Rumson Education

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Rumson’s St. Patrick’s Day Parade Has All of Us Thinking Green!

If March brings anything to mind, it’s green. Spring beckons, coloring the trees, the ground, and of course, West River Road. And that’s all thanks to Rumson’s St. Patrick’s Day Parade. Entering its sixth year, the parade has tripled in size and fun. The popular family affair will take place on March 11, 2018 at 1:00 p.m., headed by 2018 Grand Marshal Shari Feeney, principal of Deane-Porter Elementary School. This year, kids and families will march with Boomer, the lovable Ausiedoodle puppy who has become an integral part of the Rumson School District thanks to Feeny.

Festivities will also include the Irish Poster Competition and the Irish Essay Competition for local students.

A non-profit organization, the Rumson St. Patrick’s Day Parade’s

goal is two-fold: to celebrate the Irish heritage and support local charities. This year, the parade is set to benefit the LADACIN Network, a non-profit agency dedicated to providing care for adults and children with developmental delays and The Parker Family Health Center, a volunteer-based health center for those unable to afford medical care.

The Rumson St. Patrick’s Day Parade is made possible by the extraordinary commitment of the Board, notably President James McManus and community sponsorship. Sponsors include Ocean First Bank, Celtic Concepts, Inc, Ryser’s Landscape Supply, and Asbury Park Press.

Visit rumsonstpatricksdayparade.org for more information.

The Rumson St. Patrick’s Day Parade Board. From left to right: Matt Jones, James McManus, Deirdre Courtney, Chris Smith, B Carr Mahon, Karen Taylor-Burke, Chris Neary, Pat Mullevey (not pictured: Dennis Devine, Peter Hogan, Mike Maguire) Source: rumsonstpatricksdayparade.org

FCS Announces 2018 Fundraising Events Volunteers and staff with Family & Children’s Service (FCS), Monmouth County’s oldest, private nonprofit social service agency, anticipate a productive year of varied and entertaining fundraisers in 2018. Plans are already underway for most of the agency’s annual events, including the Spring Luncheon and Fashion Show hosted by the FCS Navarumsunk Auxiliary, the FCS Golf Classic and the agency’s largest fundraiser of the year, FCS Leading Lights Gala.

The list of 2018 FCS fundraising events include:

FCS serves over 9,000 people annually addressing issues of homelessness; neglect, abuse or exploitation; health and respite care; financial instability due to physical or mental disabilities; childhood literacy and obesity; long-term care planning and Medicare counseling. While the agency partners with many organizations and government agencies to provide services, its fundraisers are vital to sustaining the organization’s work in the community.

The FCS Golf Classic Monday, July 23, 2018 at 11:00 a.m.

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“In many cases, we are the sole county-designated provider of unduplicated services and often the last hope for individuals and families in crisis,” FCS Director of Development Diane Gribbin explains. “Our fundraising events are a true partnership between volunteers and staff that ultimately benefits every person FCS serves.”

See fcsmonmouth.org for more information about FCS events and find out how to become involved.

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The Navarumsunk Auxiliary Luncheon & Fashion Show Wednesday, May 9, 2018 at 11:00 a.m.

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Plein Air Art Show Saturday, August 25, 2018 Monmouth Beach, Bath & Tennis Club The Navarumsunk Auxiliary Bridge Benefit Wednesday, September 12, 2018 at 11:00 a.m.

Rumson Country Club The FCS Leading Lights Gala Saturday, October 27, 2018 at 6:30 p.m.

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The Ashley Lauren Foundation’s 7th Annual Butterfly Ball

Enjoy “The Fabulous Forties” at Spring Lake Golf Club

uests will be transported back in time to enjoy all the fun and sounds of “The Fabulous Forties” at the 7th annual Butterfly Ball on Saturday, April 21, 2018 at the Spring Lake Golf Club in Spring Lake, beginning at 7:00 p.m.

Visions of Frank Sinatra and Dean Martin will adorn this funfilled event, which will provide an opportunity for attendees to enjoy an evening of fine food, drink and entertainment all while raising funds for and increasing awareness of The Ashley Lauren Foundation’s (ALF) mission of providing Hope & Help for Children with Cancer in New Jersey.

The Ed Conte Orchestra will provide the music and guests will be able to bid on fun and unique auction items, as well as try their luck with the Mega 50/50 (tickets are available now).

Monica Vermeulen, ALF Founder/ CEO stated, “This is an evening not to be missed. We have many exciting things planned for the Ball. The Butterfly Ball serves as our largest fundraiser of the year to raise money for the many, many children we assist throughout the State of New Jersey.

We are very happy to announce our 2018 Honorees. Our honorees have been extremely instrumental in helping us with our mission.”

The Hope Award will be presented to

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Jeremy Grunin, who has more than 20 years of leadership experience in the private sector where he managed teams of 1000+ employees responsible for over half a billion dollars in revenue. Since 2013, Jeremy has been actively engaged throughout the community as President of the Jay and Linda Grunin Foundation, a proactive grant maker focused on economic growth at the Central Jersey Shore. Jeremy is a Partner of Grunin Holdings, LLC., a New Jersey Partnership specializing in the development and management of commercial real estate, as well as investing in third party commercial ventures. In addition, Jeremy is the cohost of Topic A talk radio show every Sunday morning on 92.7 WOBM from 7:00 to 11:00 a.m. Jeremy resides in Toms River with his wife, Laura, and three children, Joshua, Rebecca and Emma.

The Humanitarian Award will be presented to Joe Leone, who is the owner/operator of Joe Leone’s Italian Specialties, Catering, Gastronomia and Bakery in Point Pleasant Beach and Sea Girt. The love of food overflows into the community. Joe has become a well-known local humanitarian who doesn’t care for the spotlight on himself and tends to shift the spotlight to more deserving organizations and places that need emergency action. To name a few organizations that Joe is continuously sharing information and teaching others about are: L’Aquila Earthquake

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Relief Fund; One Strong Family mission; spreading the message of F.A.M.I.L.Y.® (Forget About Me I Love You); Common Ground Grief Center; Covenant House of New Jersey; Fulfill; (formally Foodbank of Monmouth & Ocean County); and several local fundraising efforts. Proudly, Joe, the love of his life and their five children live in Brielle, and all play large supporting roles at both locations for Joe Leone’s Italian Specialties and Catering.

The Volunteer of the Year Award will be presented to Lori Kirsch, who has been a dedicated volunteer for The Ashley Lauren Foundation for the past four years. She had previously volunteered for the Cancer Concern Center in Point Pleasant Beach. Lori was involved in the fundraising efforts of The American Cancer Society and later chaired the Hope Lounge Event. She was on the committee for the Jersey Shore University Medical Center’s Sweetheart Ball for many years and has volunteered at JSUMC K. Hovnanian Children’s Hospital for the past seven years. Lori and her husband Eric, who reside in Morganville, have received numerous awards for their support of Jersey Shore University Medical Center.

For more details about the 7th annual Butterfly Ball, sponsorship and ad book opportunities, go to ashleylaurenfoundation.org or call The Ashley Lauren Foundation office at 732.414.1625.

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AVOID “BOOMERITIS” For the past thirty plus years, the fitness industry has focused on youth, bodybuilding, vanity, and weight loss – ignoring the elements of fitness with respect to successful aging. Most fitness studios cater to the 20 and 30 year old clientele. However, following old routines designed for younger bodies can actually cause more harm than good.

Even a simple weight lifting motion appropriate for a 35 year old could cause a severe shoulder injury in someone a few years older. Often, traditional programs leave you feeling old, unconditioned, uncoordinated and miserable.

That’s because they are designed for people half your age and do not account for the changes that occur in our bodies as we get older.

Dr. Nicholas A. DiNubile, an orthopedic surgeon, coined the term “boomeritis” to explain the explosion in joint and muscle problems in people in their 40’s and 50’s, including tendonitis,bursitis, arthritis,etc. Unless you do something to slow the deterioration in muscle, bone strength, and agility that naturally accompanies aging, you will become a prime candidate for “boomeritis.” However, when aging joints meet traditional exercise programs, the result is often injury and/or pain. Almost all my clients have experienced this phenomenon, coming to me after they’ve suffered from injuries from other programs. Your exercise program should not be injuring you, or making you hurt more. Just the opposite- it should make you more injuryresistant, help your joints and muscles feel better, and reduce problems down the road.

There is so much misinformation on exercising, especially for mature adults, and so it is critical to work with a Certified Functional Aging Specialist (FAS). FAS programs

are grounded in the most cutting edge research on aging and functionality, and I have a great degree of training, experience, and expertise on the process of exercise and aging.

Did you know that power training is more effective than strength training for improving functional ability? Functional Aging Specialists automatically incorporate speed and power movements safely into the exercise routines.

You can be fit and vibrant at any age but you need to train properly in order to keep doing what you WANT to do, what you NEED to do, and what you enjoy or DREAM of doing with greater ease, less pain, and higher levels of proficiency. I will help you accomplish your goal to continue to live an active lifestyle.

In my studio, clients can train one-on-one or in small groups. One-on-one is encouraged where there are specific injuries, mobility and/or balance issues. These sessions zero in on the client’s specific movement needs, injuries and goals.

Small groups focus on full body strength and functional training using a variety of equipment and exercises. I offer Beginner, Intermediate and Advanced 30 minute sessions and cap them at 6 participants, maximum. While these sessions challenge every client, they are small enough for me to accommodate your particular strengths and abilities, check your technique, and still give you individual attention.

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Little Silver Day Gains Momentum in getting involved with this community event. All sponsors will receive significant recognition for their involvement.

Momentum is building for Little Silver Day! This community event will be filled with live music, food, fun games and fireworks, all of which will be hosted by the Little Silver Charitable Foundation. The event will be held on June 23, 2018 from 3:00 p.m. to 10:00 p.m. with a rain date of June 24th.

Sponsorships are being scooped up and the talented music lineup is growing. Recently, local food establishments have stepped forward and committed to providing delicious food and refreshing beverages for all the attendees.

“It has been tremendous to see how much great support we have received in such a short period of time and we need to keep building on it,” said Rick Brandt, President of the Little Silver Charitable Foundation. “It will take a community effort to pull off the best event this community has ever seen. In 2016 we did it, and I’m confident we will do it again this June,” he added.

The event will be held at the borough’s fields behind Borough Hall near Markham Place School. The event will be free to Little Silver residents with nominal fees charged for food and beverages to help support the staging of the event.

Many sponsorship levels from $250 - $15,000 are still available for businesses, families, and individuals interested

Great food is always a big part of any successful event and Little Silver Day is no exception. Little Silver has many awardwinning food establishments which will be catering Little Silver Day. These include Sickles Market, the Turning Point Restaurant of Little Silver, The Little Silver Seafood Company/ Restaurant Diomede, Gianni’s Pizzeria and Olivia’s Trattoria.

The Lighthouse will again have ice cream and Italian ices for dessert and there will be a special ‘Blueberry Pie Eating Contest’ for the kids! The Chimney Cake Factory food truck which drew a huge crowd at the “Taste of Little Silver” food festival in May, 2017 will be offering their delicious dessert fare at Little Silver Day too. The American Water Company will serve water from its puddle truck and the ACME of Little Silver will supply soft drinks. A “Beer Gardens of Little Silver” will be created to serve adult beverages to those 21-years-andolder.

There will be a wide range of kids activities and games for the youngsters as well as attractions for all of the adults. A full lineup of the activities and the list of musicians performing at Little Silver Day will be announced soon.

The Little Silver Charitable Foundation is a not-for-profit 501(c)3 organization and all contributions are tax deductible.

The not-for-profit status will allow fundraising to be carried out to help fund this event and support education, recreation and other good causes directly related to Little Silver.

For more information about sponsorship opportunities or about the event visit the Little Silver Charitable Foundation at LSCFInc.com or email contact@LSCFInc.com. You can also call Rick Brandt at 908.675.7646.

The Garden Club of Fair Haven Upcoming Spring Season With spring just around the corner at last, the Garden Club of Fair Haven is busily preparing for its biggest event of the club year— the annual Plant Sale! The sale will feature a large selection of member grown perennials, specialty plants, and shrubs, along with a boutique featuring unique gifts for Mother’s Day. In addition, a selection of spectacular hanging baskets will tempt each and every visitor to the sale.

This year the sale will take place on May 11, 2018, from 4:00 to 7:00 p.m. and May 12, 2018, from 9:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m.

The sale is held on the grounds of the Fair Haven Firehouse, located on the corner of River Road and Battin Road.

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Reasonable prices and outstanding quality plants have made this gardening event a success and one that area residents look forward to every year.

In other news, the club had a presentation by Amanda Wheeler from Clean Ocean Action at their February meeting.

She spoke about environmental threats to local rivers and what restoration efforts are being employed. She also discussed the possible off-shore drilling threat to New Jersey’s coast that has recently made news.

The Fair Haven Garden Club meets the first Wednesday of each month at the Youth Center, 45 Fisk Street. Non-members are invited to attend by reserving a seat, simply email bethde@ aol.com. The meetings begin at 12 noon. Fair Haven residency is not required to join or attend meetings. Visit gcfhnj.org for more information.

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SPRING EDITION MUSICAL AT RFH The RFH Tower Players will present the Tony Award-winning musical The Secret Garden: Spring Edition on March 16 and March 17 at 7:30 p.m. and March 18 at 1:00 p.m. Performances will take place in the Rumson-Fair Haven Regional High School auditorium, transformed into a place both haunting and magical.

Tickets will be sold at the door before each show, and are also available at rumsonfairhaven.org.

Admission is $10 for the general public, and $6 for students and seniors. RFH students with SGA cards will receive free admission.

RBR FRESHMEN VOLUNTEER AS BUDDIES FOR SPECIAL NEEDS KIDS Three Little Silver friends - John Venino, Ryan Karr and Michael Wood - entered Red Bank Regional (RBR) High School together with the passion to play basketball. They play together on the freshman basketball team during the winter months and practice almost every Sunday. But on Saturdays, in the Thompson Middle School gym in Middletown, they share their love for the sport with other kids who love it too, but need a buddy to help them play. Through RBR, the three young men found Rally Cap Sports, a program serving the special needs population for over 28 years, as a volunteering opportunity in the community.

The RBR boys are not novices to volunteering. Ryan has volunteered to serve at Lunch Break in Red Bank, Michael performs volunteer services for his church and John is active in the Little Silver Shovels Program, assigned to shovel out the homes of senior citizens living in the borough when a heavy snow falls.

But they particularly like this program. John states, “It is a really fun way to help out these kids in doing something we like to do, playing basketball.”

Michael adds, “It is so much fun to see their smiles when they make a shot. They get so happy. It makes your day.”

The program's impact was best reflected in one young man, with whom Ryan and Michael bonded with one morning. With a giant smile of joy on his face, twelve-year old Ryan Calabrese bent his knees deep and wide as he put all his strength into propelling the basketball toward its target.

His mom Jackie comments, “I think this is just a great program. He loves it. In my town we do have programs he can participate in, but not basketball. And he loves basketball.”

Rally Caps Sports began as a dream of volunteer Paul Hooker when he coached in the Lincroft Little League. He recalls looking at a little girl in a wheelchair frustrated from the sidelines because she could not participate

Pictured from left to right are RBR freshman Ryan Karr (Little Silver), seventh grader Reilly Venino (Little Silver), Ryan Calabrese (Oakhurst), and RBR freshman Michael Wood (Little Silver).

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in the fun. That ignited a passion of Paul and his wife Margo to create a grassroots program where all kids of any ability could play sports. The simple premise was to match up each player with a buddy who could assist on a one-to-one ratio. The sports’ offerings increased from baseball to include basketball to soccer, flag football, golf, volleyball, cheerleading, yoga and dancercise. It currently serves about 200 players in the greater area including Monmouth, Ocean and Middlesex counties. The program is made possible by over 350 volunteers, like the RBR students, who come from all over Monmouth County. The Middletown program also depends on adult volunteers like Mark Cartier to supervise it. Mr. Cartier became involved with the program when his daughter participated and remained involved ever since.

While Middletown was the sole location for the program for over 20 years, the concept was recently brought national primarily at college campuses locations, furthering the Hookers’ dream. Executive Director Luke Sims, based out of Bowling Green University, explains that the program is located on college campuses because of the abundance of volunteers and accessible sporting venues. The Rally Cap program currently has 13 locations throughout Ohio, Michigan and the Hookers’ home state of New Jersey, including Middletown (Central New Jersey location), Seton Hall University and Ramapo College. While for years, the program ran primarily on the philanthropy of its founders, it now accepts donations through its website and requests a $20 fee for each player to help fund the program.

According to Luke Sims, that fee mostly covers the Rally Cap shirt and season–end ceremonial trophy presented to each player. On that day, the smiles of every player rival that of Ryan Calabrese when he sinks a basket.

For more information on the national program visit rallycapsports.org.

The Central New Jersey program can be viewed at rcscnj.org.

Pictured from left to right are RBR Freshmen Michael Wood, Ryan Karr, and John Venino of Little Silver who spend their Saturday mornings assisting children with special needs.

RBC STUDENT-ATHLETES SIGN NATIONAL LETTERS OF INTENT Nine Casey student-athletes signed National Letters of Intent to continue their sports careers on the collegiate level, making their commitments official in RBC Tradition Hall with the support of their families and coaches on February 7, 2018. Signing to play football were Zachary Bair for Dartmouth College, Richard Christie for Southern Connecticut State University, Emmett McNamara for Princeton University, Conor Smith for Yale University, Christian Pritzlaff for Marist College, Brandon Lombana for Stonehill College, and Matthew Ansell for Wagner College. Jyllissa Harris signed to play soccer at the University of South Carolina and her teammate Brianna Urbanski will play soccer for Florida Gulf Coast University.

Left to right, front row: Jyllissa Harris (Hazlet), Brianna Urbanski (Aberdeen). Left to right, back row: Emmett McNamara (Little Silver), Zachary Bair (Holmdel), Matthew Ansell (Shrewsbury), Michael Griggs (Wall), Tahjmir Berardesco (Asbury Park), Christian Pritzlaff (Red Bank), Brandon Lombana (Jackson), Conor Smith (Little Silver), Richard Christie (Howell).

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Red Bank Regional High School students voluntarily come to the school to listen to each student’s presentation and then grade them using rubric scoring.

Point Road Elementary School students unleashed the scientist and inventor from within. In February, over 200 students walked into school carrying their trifold boards, boxes of supplies and materials to present to their fellow students, judges and family members.

The SciVention Convention is open to all students, grades K-4 and has been an annual event at the school for the past eight years. Projects are completed on their own and outside of the school day. Students look forward to showing what they learn by presenting either an experiment they conducted, an invention that they have developed or an investigation they have conducted. They use the Scientific Method or Engineering Design process to help guide their work and presentations. This year, there were a total of 117 projects displayed.

On the morning of the SciVention, students set up their displays and throughout the school day, classes visit to see what their peers have discovered. After school, “judging” occurs. While students man their displays, Red Bank Regional High School students voluntarily come to the school to listen to each student’s presentation and then grade them using rubric scoring. This year, over 25 high school students traveled to Point

Road Elementary after their school day to participate. The elementary students were very excited to share what they had learned with the older students. The RBR students were impressed with what the students knew about their topics and enjoyed learning from them! In the evening, students and their families return to the SciVention.

Mrs. Whittle, the Point Road Elementary STEM teacher that organizes the SciVention Convention each year, commented, “I am always amazed with what the students discover and learn using the Scientific Process.”

Dr. Albert-Devine, the principal at the school, stated “The SciVention Convention is helping our students to think like scientists and engineers. It fosters a love of science, technology, engineering and mathematics (STEM) in our students that will allow them to be successful in the future. I always look forward to listening to the students enthusiastically talk about their project and what they learned.”

At the end of the evening, students gathered up their displays, materials and certificates and headed home full of ideas, discussing what they would do next year.

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Fifteen RBR Students Selected for All Shore Chorus Red Bank Regional’s (RBR) Visual & Performing Choral program saw 15 of its vocal majors selected for the prestigious All Shore Chorus which represents the best high school voices in the Monmouth and Ocean Counties. The students performed in the All Shore Concert on February 3, 2018 at Monmouth Regional High School.

PHOTO: (left to right, front row) Jacquelyn Conforti, Millstone; Lea Fanizzi, Shrewsbury, Penelope Hill, Little Silver; Mara Compolattaro, Rumson; Erin Ostorwski, Little Silver; Jael Cross, Red Bank, (left to right, back row): Juliana Conforti, Millstone; Sara Zerilli, Millstone; Maddie Stoudt, Neptune City; Jack Faccone-Stockwell, Red Bank; Ben Hahn, Millstone; Catherine Creed, Highlands. (Not pictured): Talia Tardogno, Manalapan; Gianna Pallante, Millstone; and Julia Mancuso, Rumson.

RCDS Student Literary Magazine Recognized by National Council of Teachers of English

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After their first year of participation, Upper School students at The Rumson Country Day School were awarded a PRESLM (Program to Recognize Excellence in Student Literary Magazines) Certificate of Excellence from the National Council of Teachers of English (NCTE). Last school year, a band of energetic 6th grade volunteers became the first student editorial board in charge of producing a collection of short stories, analytical essays and poems cleverly titled New Document: Poetic License. New Document was one of 372 literary magazine entries that were reviewed by an NCTE judging panel. The PRESLM Award winners were publicly announced in January on the NCTE website and were recently awarded certificates of acknowledgment.

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“It’s a great accomplishment to publish your work, let alone be recognized nationally for it,” said RCDS English Teacher Aurea Hernandez-Webster.

“I’m so proud of my students. They garnered the courage to take risks, share their pieces and be vulnerable.

They respected each other’s work.

They learned to read with care, to see from other writers’ points of view, to collaborate and produce a cohesive, polished presentation of their writing samples. The PRESLM award is welldeserved.”

“We look at text from many perspectives,” explained Mrs. Hernandez-Webster. “I encourage my students to play with words, explore language and experiment with expression to ensure that they use every ounce of creativity. My goal is to help them find the value in each step of the writing process so they are equipped to take it all the way to publishing.”

The publishing process may seem like a daunting task to an average 6th grader, but the students on the New Document editorial board attribute teamwork to making anything possible.

Under the guidance of Mrs. Hernandez-Webster and RCDS’s Digital “We all had different roles,” explained Communication Manager, Casey student co-editor Nate Whittemore.

McChesney, the students far exceeded “Whether one of us was working on expectations when they produced transitions, brainstorming a title, New Document. or conceptualizing layouts with Ms. “Mrs. Hernandez-Webster has helped McChesney, we were able to contribute make writing one of my greatest something of our own and work together strengths,” said student co-editor Adele to create a collaborative piece.”

Bender. “I enjoy experimenting with Each year RCDS 6th graders also different genres, pushing boundaries participate in a component of National and challenging myself to try new Novel Writing Month (NaNoWriMo), things. When it comes to writing, the a fun approach to creative writing possibilities are limitless.” that challenges participants to draft a Through New Document, Adele and her classmates exhibited exceptional writing skills and a sophisticated understanding of literary devices such as metaphors, alliteration, symbolism, and more.

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novel during the month of November.

RCDS’s current 6th graders collectively wrote an impressive 174,381 words in draft form that they hope to revise and eventually publish in this year’s literary journal.

RFH Student-Athletes Sign National Letters of Intent Eleven student-athletes from Rumson-Fair Haven Regional High School signed their National Letters of Intent on February 7, 2018 in the RFH Lower Library. Robby Smith committed to Dickinson College for baseball and Teddy Sourlis committed to Babson College for basketball. The football players intending to continue their careers include: Justin Johnson (Wesleyan University), Jack Kelleher (Gettysburg College), Peter Lucas (Lehigh University), John McHeffey (Gettysburg College), Gavin Pomphrey (Gettysburg College), Alex Sloan (College of Holy Cross). In addition, Margot Ridgeway will continue playing soccer at the University of California, Davis, Kylie McCabe will play softball at Clark University, and Olivia DeBonte will continue her volleyball career at Ursinus College.

“We are very proud of our student athletes, and wish them every success at the next level,” said Chris Lanzalotto, RFH Director of Athletics and Activities.

(Front row, left to right) Teddy Sourlis, Margot Ridgeway, Kylie McCabe, Olivia DeBonte, and Peter Lucas; (back row, left to right) Gavin Pomphrey, John McHeffey, Jack Kelleher, Justin Johnson, Alex Sloan, and Robby Smith.

Sickles School Hosts Family Math Week “Let the games begin!” In a nod to the Winter Olympics, Family Math Week 2018 at Viola L. Sickles School in Fair Haven presented thrills galore from February 5 to February 9, 2018.

The week ended with the school’s very own Math Olympics, an event for which Sickles student “mathletes” - in Kindergarten through third grade trained like true Olympians.

Family Math Week 2018 highlights included students and parents joining Sickles teachers and Principal Cheryl Cuddihy for fun-filled evenings of mathematical games and excitement.

Over the course of four evenings (one for each grade level), students and their families participated in challenging math-based learning activities. Each participating student received a mathbased paperback book as a takeaway prize.

Overviews of the enVision2.0 and Investigations math programs – and their unique benefits for students at all skill levels – were presented to parents of Sickles students by Principal Cheryl Cuddihy.

Finally, to cap off an amazing week, the Sickles Math Olympics took place. Immediately after the opening ceremony, students competed across grade levels throughout the morning.

“Principal Cuddihy and the Sickles teachers are doing a great job of introducing the new math curriculum to the school, and it’s great to see so many parents here,” said Holly Ouellette, who attended Family Math Night for second grade with her son, Bryce. “I think the Tech Tutorials for parents are a great idea, and I plan on attending those as well.”

“I am thrilled with the family, student, Also, with the adoption of the and staff turnout for Family Math Investigations and enVision2.0 math Week!” said Principal Cheryl Cuddihy. programs at Sickles School, many “All the events were well-received, and new and exciting tech tools have been this certainly mirrors our stakeholders’ introduced into the classrooms. These enthusiasm for new initiatives! My tools provide a wealth of fun games and staff did a fantastic job engaging both opportunities to strengthen the home- students and families with the Family school connection. Sickles School Math Nights and Tech Tutorials. Our parents were invited into classrooms culminating event of Math Olympics from February 6, 2018 to February 8, on Friday was a hit! We are especially 2018 to explore these tools, with the thankful for visits by USA Olympic assistance of their children’s teachers.

Swimmer Tom Wilkens, and USA Lacrosse Team Member Megan Douty.”

Sickles School second-grader William Kuskin, second grade teacher Kate Gagliano, second-grader Piper Duffy, and Piper’s mother Megan Duffy explore new math learning tools at Family Math Night.

Sickles student Elle Ahrens with USA Lacrosse Team member Megan Douty at the Math Olympics.

USA Olympic swimmer Tom Wilkens and Sickles student Jessie Martinelle at the Math Olympics.

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It has been a little over 11 years since Joe Brando opened the doors of J. Vincent Jewelers in the heart of Colts Neck. He has been in the jewelry industry for 35 years, 24 of them are devoted solely to wholesale manufacturing. Brando explained the reason he moved from Queens, NY to Monmouth County. “I had so many clients in the area, including the Littman Jewelers chain when it was owned by the family.”

Brando manufactures his designs in three factories in New York City.

He deals directly with seven DeBeers approved and qualified site holders that he considers the finest diamond cutters in the world.

“We have carved a nice little niche for ourselves here in Monmouth County, and if you have a moment to come in for a visit, I assure you that there is no other experience like us! During my 11

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years as a jewelry retailer, I have learned so many things about running a small brick and mortar store in America. One of the challenges I face is what to do with beautiful, one-of-a-kind pieces and lines that have become older and are just gathering in inventory or overstock.

How do I sell it off to regain cash flow and make room for new designs? A few years ago, I tried through an organization that promised to run a ‘liquidation sale’ and it appeared to people in the area that we were going out of business… and that isn’t going to happen!’”

Months back Brando was contacted by two wholesale firms that offered to buy his overstocked, aging inventory.

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such a deal since there is no reason to be desperate.”

It dawned on him and the women at his shop that they should gather up all the pieces in need of a new home and display them to their clients at cost (yes, COST!). In fact, there will be a two-day private viewing only, with 10% below our cost, and those arriving within the first 60 minutes of opening will receive 20% off the original cost.

Brando notes, “During this special event, which I personally hope never to have again, our loss is without a doubt your gain. Come and take a look, no pressure!”

This major event will take place at the end of March. Please feel free to contact J. Vincent Jewelers at 732.256.4410 if you would like to be put on the private viewing list.

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