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A Note From the Editor The Joy of Giving Back As we gather with our families and friends this month to celebrate Thanksgiving, we are reminded to be grateful, to be kind, and to be generous. Our country has been through many hardships these last few months, challenged by both natural disasters and man-made chaos. In difficult challenges we have witnessed great acts of bravery, moments of selfless giving, and the best the human spirit has to offer. We want to celebrate that spirit of kindness and give thanks for all our blessings, so this month we are focused on local stories of giving back.

Reaching out to Oprah Winfrey to have her included in our story about Fulfill, formerly the Foodbank of Monmouth and Ocean County, seemed like a pipe dream. Why would a global icon bother with a local, Monmouth County magazine? Much to our surprise and delight, Oprah not only talks the talk of kindness, she walks the walk. A pleasure to deal with, she and her staff were more than happy to help tell the story of how buying a new line of nutritious comfort food will benefit our local food bank in their goal to end hunger in our communities. Read all about Oprah and her local connection on page 39.

This issue also features the very generous support of art and education from the Grunin family of Toms River.

The Grunins are doing their part to treat Monmouth and Ocean Counties as the “footprint of the shore.” Through the Jay and Linda Grunin Foundation, they have reached across county lines to form a partnership with the Count Basie Theatre. Soon a building will be part of the upcoming expansion project, dedicated to enhancing the curriculum in local schools through the integration of the arts, and housing performance space, conferences, studios, and more. Meet the Grunins on page 56.

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Due to the overwhelming support by many local businesses and organizations, Kick Cancer Overboard has been able to sponsor 249 people to date, noted Friedli. During this annual cruise, the family’s main concern is NOT how to pay for their next medical KICK CANCER OVERBOARD (KCO) bill, but whether to play bingo, get a is a local Monmouth County non-profit massage or sing karaoke all night long. organization with just one goal in mind. “The response is always overwhelming.

It gives away FREE cruises to people I wish we could bottle the emotions, whose lives have been affected by happiness and gratitude that the cruise cancer. Founder of KCO, Ted Friedli has recipients express while they are on the been the owner of Excel Travel in Long ship. One mother told me that this was Branch, New Jersey for 24 years, and has the best time and the most her family over 30 years’ experience in individual had laughed in a long time - then she and group travel. He is involved in many corrected herself, and said, ‘EVER’!” local organizations and is a Paul Harris said Friedli.

Fellow with the Rotary Club of Greater KCO has at least one cruise every year.

Long Branch Rotary Club. Friedli explained how KCO got started. “In The next cruise will be May 26, 2018 with May 2010, after my friends DonnaLyn Royal Caribbean’s Anthem of the Seas. and Tom both got hit by cancer, and as The beautiful cruise ship sails from the owner of a travel agency and having Cape Liberty, New Jersey to Bermuda. seen and experienced the benefits of a Not everybody will qualify for a free well-deserved ‘break’, I felt it was time cruise, but they are welcome to cruise to step up and try to make a difference.” along at a discounted group rate. Friedli After discussing the idea with DonnaLyn explained that there are three ways and Tom, they co-created KCO and have to get onto the cruise. First, by being sent over 250 people 'to sea for free' with a recipient of a free cruise sponsored

by Kick Cancer Overboard; second, their team.

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by being a recipient of a free cruise sponsored by another organization or individual; and third, anyone can join as paying cruisers (sometimes, families/ friends/sponsors sail along) or just someone who wants a really great cruise at a discounted price and at the same time, to support a great cause. The more people who cruise with KCO, the more people they will be able to sponsor to sail to “sea for free”. It's a win-win-win situation: a great vacation, a great price, a great cause, and as an extra bonus: great new friends – celebrating life!

Those affected by cancer may submit their request for a free cruise.

A committee reviews the entries on a regular basis and will choose the most deserving family affected by cancer.

Simply go to kickcanceroverboard.org for more information. KCO also assists other organizations and individuals with their fundraisers, and has worked very closely with the Frances Foundation, The Mya Lin Terry Foundation, 242 Forever, Zynergy Cares, Cabaret for Life, Rockit! Live Foundation, and many more.

The next Kick Cancer Overboard Fundraiser will be a concert/dinner with the Rockit! Live Foundation on December 17, 2017 from 3:00 to 7:00 p.m. at Buona Sera Palazzo at the St. George Greek Orthodox Church Cultural Center in Ocean Township. The band is made up of over 40 very talented 8-18-year-old musicians who will perform songs from Led Zeppelin to Billy Joel. Friedli stated, “We are honored to have these kids at our fifth fundraiser helping to raise money so that together we can send less fortunate families on a free cruise. We will be surprising a few families who have no idea that before the night is over they will receive a free cruise.”

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Raises More Than $175,000 at Annual Benefit for Bayshore Oktoberfest Celebration

Left to right: Event chairs, Dr. Asaad Samra and wife, Dima; honorary chair and Foundation trustee, Carol Stillwell; senior executive director of Bayshore Medical Center Foundation and Riverview Medical Center Foundation, Jennifer Smith; president of Meridian Health Foundation, Joseph Stampe; Monmouth County Freeholder and chair of Bayshore Medical Center Foundation, Serena DiMaso, Esq.; and Dr. Gerald DiMaso

HACKENSACK MERIDIAN HEALTH Bayshore Medical Center Foundation hosted the second annual Benefit for Bayshore Oktoberfest Community Celebration on October 13 and raised more than $175,000 in support of the hospital. The outdoor, tented cocktail reception took place on the hospital’s campus in Holmdel and will support Bayshore Medical Center’s plans to expand emergency services.

“This year’s Benefit for Bayshore Oktoberfest Celebration was a record-breaking fundraising event for the medical center,” said Timothy J. Hogan, FACHE, president of Bayshore Medical Center and Hackensack Meridian Health Riverview Medical Center. “As our plans to enhance the Emergency Department further evolve, philanthropy will play a vital role. The community built our hospital more than 40 years ago, and this year’s Oktoberfest event served as a tremendous platform to engage with the community about the future of Bayshore Medical Center, and

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Chief operating officer of Bayshore Medical Center, Regina Foley, pictured with Capstone Sponsors, Mr. and Mrs. Christopher Striano, and Carol Stillwell

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to making more and significant improvements to the hospital.”

The signature event was cochaired by Dr. Asaad and Dima Samra, along with honorary chair, Carol Stillwell, and featured an Oktoberfest inspired menu, décor and entertainment. Carol Stillwell and Dr. Asaad Samra, a board certified plastic surgeon, are Bayshore Medical Center Foundation trustees. In addition to StillwellHansen, Inc. who returned as a Capstone Sponsor again this year, Bayshore celebrated the generosity of new Capstone Sponsor, Mr. and Mrs. Christopher Striano.

“Bayshore Medical Center is a gem in Monmouth County,” noted Serena DiMaso, Esq., Monmouth County Freeholder and chair of Bayshore Medical Center Foundation. “Since becoming a part of the Hackensack Meridian Health family in 2010, the hospital’s upgrades continue to impress all those who turn to Bayshore for care. I can truly say that this is only the beginning.”

“Dima and I couldn’t be more excited to chair this event,” explains Dr. Samra. “In my role on the Medical Staff and through our involvement in the community as residents of Holmdel, we are witnessing the incredible growth at Bayshore Medical Center firsthand. We know that the local region shares in our enthusiasm, and we look forward

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“I have been involved with Bayshore for many years, but during my recent experiences there, the entire staff has become a second family to me,” explains Carol Stillwell. “The future is brighter than you could imagine and thanks to the generous donations to this event and others in the community, the dreams are becoming real.”

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“KNOW…. LIKE …. TRUST” ALL ELSE BEING EQUAL, people will spend time with and do business with people they KNOW, LIKE and TRUST. This obvious yet powerful phrase can transform the way you spend your valuable time and with whom you spend it with. You see, there are really only three parts to relationship building. (1) People need to KNOW that you exist and you are for real. (2) They need to LIKE you enough to talk with you and let you into their life. And (3), they need to TRUST you enough to “get personal” and share and spend more time with you. KNOW… LIKE… TRUST. If you miss any one of these three, you won’t have many friends (or much business). If nobody knows you, you won’t get close to anybody (some people do this as a protection mechanism and isolate themselves). You can’t demonstrate your significance if nobody likes you enough to listen to you. And even if you’re the most likeable person in town, you won’t get very far without trust (the holy grail of relationships).

To get people to “KNOW” you, you need to put yourself “out there”. Be a part of your community, join a club, go out and grab a cup of coffee… be seen! This gets harder as you get older and become less “tolerant” of others – but that’s exactly when you need it most. If you’re a business, market, promote – be seen.

Next you have to tackle the “LIKE” part. It’s been my experience that some “liking” is out of your control.

Some people will communicate in a fashion that isn’t compatible with yours. That’s okay. You might remind someone of their ex-spouse; so no matter how hard they try, every time they look at you, they cringe.

That’s okay too. Not everyone will like you. That’s life.

The sooner you realize that the better. How you get people to like you is very personal and situational. But all I will say is that, you can get ANYTHING you want from someone (or your clients) if you make them feel important. It’s the spine of the Dale Carnegie classic “How To Win Friends and Influence People”. Trust me on this one, it’s the key – how you execute this is completely about you being genuine. Remember to focus on the things you can control. NOT people, people generally do not appreciate being controlled (there are exceptions of course). One of the best ways to get people to connect to you is to spend time with

to get people to connect to you is to spend time with them – and yes, time is your most precious commodity.

Imagine (unless you’re in prison or in Antarctica) communicating strictly via email. Email (and texts) means you lose the quintessential verbal and nonverbal cues that connect people– smile, LISTEN and be supportive – everyone likes to be listened to.

Once someone likes you, TRUST is the last link.

Sometimes “trust” can be established in ten minutes.

Sometimes it takes months, even years. Don’t rush it (know the pushy salesperson type?). Do you want connectivity? You need trust. I cringe writing these articles for what seems like common sense, but here it is, almost biblical: treat the people you want deeper relationships with, the way you’d like to be treated.

“Wow, I read this article for that?” Yep. If you follow this line, the longer you’re alive, the more you’re going to see relationships grow in both quality and quantity from people who trust you to do the right thing – with their family, friends, and colleagues - TRUST (like a good client) has to be earned over time and can take only seconds to lose!

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ON SEPTEMBER 16, 2017 - the VNA Health Group welcomed 700 guests to Chapel Beach Club in Sea Bright for the 2017 Beach Ball. Friends and supporters of the VNA reveled in the chance to cap off the season at the casual celebration in the sand, with the evening’s $400,000 net proceeds benefitting patients in need who rely on VNA Health Group’s broad array of community-based health programs.

Longtime VNA Board of Trustees Liz and Tom Thees were honored for their commitment and contributions to the organization. Generous members of the VNA Health Group community for more than a decade and dedicated supporters of the VNA Hospice and Advanced Care Services and Bereavement Services, the Thees were also past recipients of the 2012 Judith Stanley Coleman Award for exceptional service in community health. “We were flattered and touched to be recognized by the VNA Health Group and to be a part of this fantastic event”, said Liz Thees. “It was wonderful 18

to see so many friends and supporters of the VNA come together to enjoy an evening of fun and camaraderie and we are grateful for their generous support for this vital organization.”

“Throughout its storied history, the VNA Health Group has provided essential services to all members of the community, regardless of the ability to pay,” continued Tom. “Liz and I are thankful that we are able to help continue this legacy of compassionate care in whatever ways we can.”

“We were thrilled with the incredible response to the second VNA Beach Ball,” commented Bridget Murphy, Chief Philanthropy Officer at VNA Health Group. “It was wonderful to see so many new faces as well as loyal friends enjoying a unique ocean front party, while also helping to support members of their community who require care and assistance.”

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Highlighting the night’s activities was a spirited live auction where bidders vied for exclusive offerings including tickets to Bruce Sprinsteen’s Broadway debut, a sweatshirt signed by The Boss, a luxurious vacation and a gourmet wine cellar dinner.

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Freeholders, Officials Break Ground on Critical Infrastructure Project in Colts Neck

PHOTO LEFT Left to right: Freeholders Serena DiMaso and Tom Arnone, Freeholder Director Lillian Burry, Freeholders John Curley and Gary Rich, Sr.

THE MONMOUTH COUNTY Board of Chosen Freeholders were joined

by State Senator Jennifer Beck, Congressman Chris Smith, as well as local municipal and business representatives for the ground breaking of the long-awaited State Route 34 and County Road 537 Intersection Improvements Project in Colts Neck.

The work will significantly improve the worst, peak-hour performing intersection in all of Monmouth County. The New Jersey Department of Transportation has partnered with the County on the effort, due to the impacts to State Route 34.

“For nearly two decades from when I was a member of the Colts Neck Township Committee, and then Mayor and now as Freeholder, I have labored to bring this much needed project to fruition,” said Freeholder Director Lillian G. Burry. “For years, business owners, residents, and travelers alike have suffered with the long wait times and hazardous driving conditions and this work will dramatically change how people travel in and around the heart of Colts Neck. As a resident of the township myself, I am personally gratified to see us reaching this significant milestone and I applaud our County Public Works and Engineering department and our partners on the state level for their tireless efforts to make this project a reality.”

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project finally come to fruition,” said State Senator Jennifer Beck, who represents Colts Neck. “I applaud Freeholder Director Burry and all of our Freeholders and local officials for moving the ball forward more than a decade ago; I’m proud to have been part of that effort. These improvements will greatly enhance pedestrian safety and traffic calming for Colts Neck.”

The $17.5 million construction project is nearly entirely funded by federal dollars. The County’s share is approximately $172,000 for items such as police officers to help manage traffic for the duration of the approximately 27-month time frame; however state Transportation Trust Fund (TTF) monies are expected to cover those costs.

The initiative was advanced due to the deteriorating efficiency at the intersection. Specifically, the work will improve existing safety and operations at the location and reduce delays during peak hours by creating additional capacity at the traffic signal along both Route 34 and CR 537. The goal is to mitigate the numbers of drivers attempting to avoid the intersection by using alternate local roads.

Route 34 is a major access point for Route 18, which lies south of the intersection, for the residents of Colts Neck and nearby communities.

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“Freeholder Burry and Senator Beck have a great deal to be proud of today,” said Freeholder Thomas A. Arnone, liaison to the County’s Public Works and Engineering Department. “These dedicated public servants have been fiercely committed to making sure this project gets done, and I for one am proud to stand with them today in support of this work. We have an exceptional team at the County Public Works and Engineering Department and expert contractors and designers on board and I look forward to being back here in the near future for the ribbon cutting on a brand-new, and greatly-improved intersection.”

In addition to the upgraded signals and added capacity at the intersection, two bridge structures adjacent to the location, which carry traffic over Mine Brook, will be reconstructed.

Bio-retention basins in the northeast and northwest quadrants will also be incorporated in the scope of work.

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2nd Zumba Party in Pink

Fundraiser Held for Breast Cancer Research STORY Susan Murphy

On October 14, 2017 - Holmdel resident Sandy Molon hosted her second Zumba Fitness Party in Pink fundraising event. “This year I participated in the re-launch of last year’s Susan G. Komen campaign. All of the funds raised through Party in Pink charity events go directly to our Zumba Global Research Grant for Breast Cancer Prevention. This grant studies the effects of flaxseed consumption on pre-menopausal women through studies and extensive clinical trials. This is exceptionally promising, as flaxseed is an affordable, highly accessible solution to preventing breast cancer worldwide,” explained Molon.

The event was held at the Senior Recreation Center, which Holmdel Township generously donated. Molon noted that 64 people ranging in age from five to 75, as well as 10 instructors attended. Licensed Zumba instructors who volunteered their time and talents for this event included Molon; Rosaly Franolich, Naomi Bentacourt, and Charles Austin, Pennsylvania; Melissa Mace and Holly Rose, Albany; Cindy Durso, Rumson; Jackie Shaheed, Howell; Paula Chiarello, Holmdel; Kevin Garcia, East Orange; and Eduardo Fajardo, Roselle.

The special guest instructor was iHeartMedia Radio Personality, Recording Artist, “The Queen of Freestyle”, who is also a Zumba Fitness instructor, Judy Torres. They also had a special DJ this year - DJ Victor “Casper” Santiago of Bronx, New York. Donation items for a raffle were received from Hazlet Pharmacy, IAM Fitness in Middletown, Nail Spa & Beyond in Holmdel, The Turning Point in Holmdel and Villa Ristorante in Middletown, as well as donations from several attendees.

Molon continues to share her own story of breast cancer in the hope that women will take a serious active approach to their care.

“I was blessed to find both cancerous lumps myself. The first was 2009 and then in 2016. I only had a 3% chance of recurrence after my double mastectomy and chemo medications in 2009 and yet last year it was back. My doctor told me had I not found it I probably wouldn’t be here today because it was so small - she couldn’t believe I found it. Once I had my surgery, they found more that were deep within and all undetected in spite of my regular checkups, scans and medication. I continued to self-check even though I was told if

Left to right: Special guest Zumba instructor, an iHeartMedia Radio Personality and Recording Artist, Judy Torres stands beside breast cancer survivor Sandy Molon, who hosted her second Party in Pink fundraiser for breast cancer research on October 14, 2017.

it came back it would be elsewhere in my body.” Molon explained why she is adamant about getting the word out. “Here I stand a year later, after six rounds of chemo and 35 radiation sessions, stronger and even more grateful. The support and love that surrounded me is immeasurable. I need to pay that forward. God has a purpose for my battles and if I inspired one person to self-check his or her bodies, if I inspired one person to fight or truly appreciate their life, then my job is done. All this was not in vain. So please do your part in helping others fighting and who will fight - whether it be a donation to support the cause or a smile or kind word. All of it matters, and it will bring us closer to finding a cure and each other.”

Molon noted that this year’s campaign theme was “Friends don’t let friends fight alone.” The theme and the event made a definite impact, said Molon. “I believe this event brought us closer as a community, as many survivors attended and we got to see firsthand just how many people are affected by this disease. I have met others in my Zumba Fitness classes at IAM Fitness in Middletown and LA Fitness in Holmdel who were inspired to have their checkups and now find themselves battling this disease; but they know they are not alone and have the support of our Pink community. They supported me throughout my recent battle and now it’s my turn to support them. I will do my part to help find a cure so that NO ONE ever has to hear the words ‘you have Cancerʼ again!”

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DIVORCE TALK: COMMON SENSE Our divorce laws are quite complicated and generally require the guidance of an experienced attorney to navigate successfully.

However, no matter how good your lawyer is, he or she will have great difficulty overcoming your or your spouse’s lack of common sense.

Common sense should be the guiding light for divorcing couples. Without it the process is likely to be more cumbersome, more stressful, more time consuming, and more expensive.

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For example, if a couple has reported combined gross income of $100,000 per year on joint income tax returns, it makes no sense to ask for $10,000 per month in alimony. Although that sounds pretty silly, you’d be surprised by how many people make such demands and stick with them no matter what their attorneys say.

Your spouse has a perspective. You will undoubtedly disagree with some…most… or even all of it, but your spouse does have a perspective. It defies common sense to ignore it. Whether you negotiate a settlement or

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Agreements are preferable to trials in almost all cases. When you go to trial, both sides present their cases and then relinquish control over the outcome to a stranger in a black robe.

By negotiating a settlement both parties retain a greater measure of control over the outcome.

Of course, this requires compromise, so you probably won’t get everything you want. You have to give to get. After a lengthy trial (and I’ve tried many over the years) it is the rare case in which one spouse gets everything he/she wants. Why not make an attempt to bring about a satisfactory result through negotiation? Isn’t that just common sense?

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Many years ago, when I was a young lawyer, I represented a woman who was very angry with her husband. We spent the entire day at her husband’s lawyer’s office and by 5:30 we had settled all but one issue. They had two crockpots and she wanted them both! For nearly an hour the husband tried, without success, to convince her of the fairness in each of them getting one. Finally, with much prodding from his lawyer and after incurring more legal fees than a case of crockpots would cost, he used common sense and agreed that she would get both $20.00 items.

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Visiting Nurse Association of Central Jersey to Host 11th Annual Holiday Dinner Dance Visiting Nurse Association of Central Jersey (VNACJ) will kick off the holiday season on Saturday, December 2, 2017 with its 11th Annual Holiday Dinner Dance, to be held at Spring Lake Golf Club. The event, which has become a holiday tradition for many, will honor longtime VNACJ supporters Richard T. Diver of Spring Lake and Jeannie Wheat of Manasquan.

The Holiday Dinner Dance begins at 6:30 p.m. and will feature cocktails, dinner, live music and a silent auction. All proceeds from the event benefit the Visiting Nurse Association of Central Jersey Hospice Program which provides compassionate care for patients who are at the end of life and offers supportive services for their loved ones.

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Monmouth County Historical Association Celebrates Annual Tavernfest STORY Susan Murphy

Left to right: Immediate Past President Claire Knopf, 2nd Vice President Ross Millhiser, Secretary Amy Almasy, Treasurer Mark Aikins, Trustees Lisa Klem Wilson and Jennifer Mullins

Left to right: Alistair Thompson and Tavernfest Committee Members Heather Gourley-Thompson and Tamara Wooley

Left to right: Treasurer Mark Aikins, Interim Director Chuck Jones, Darryn Murphy, Courtney Trent, Trustee Mark Gilbertson and Trustee and Immediate Past President Claire Knopf

MCHA President and Tavernfest Co-Chair Linda Bricker and MCHA Secretary and Tavernfest Auction Co-Chair Amy Almasy

Monmouth County Historical Association (MCHA) celebrated its eighth annual Tavernfest on October 13, 2017 at Allen House (circa 1710) in Shrewsbury. The 300 guests in attendance were greeted by costumed docents as they entered the Tavern Museum. MCHA President Linda Bricker noted that the Tavern Museum at the Allen House is located at the Historic Four Corners in Shrewsbury and the recognizable red building is on the northwest corner of that important intersection, which served as a stagecoach stop on the five-day trip between New York City and Philadelphia in Colonial times. Throughout the event, guests enjoyed the entertainment provided by Tom and Marianne Tucker, who were dressed in authentic costumes and provided period music.

Once guests proceeded to the event tent, they were entertained by RipTide, a band who performed great country, blue grass and rock and roll music. One of the highlights of Tavernfest is the specialty-crafted beer by served by Carton Brewing. “Our guests come for the cause but stay for the Carton brew. They have donated all of the beer for all eight years of the event. Other donations included wine by Rumson Wine & Spirits; the Applejack and Cider by Laird & Company and Delicious Orchards; the barbecue buffet by Local Smoke; and the desserts by Vintage Cakes, Delicious Orchards and Nothing Bundt Cakes.”

Event Co-chairs Linda Bricker and Sandy Mulheren created Tavernfest eight years ago. “We still remain a good team though we absolutely could not do this without the hard-working committee that we have recruited. Everybody pitches in to solicit auction items and desserts, promote the event, and then work the day of the event setting up, bar tending, helping with the auctions, and, most of all, having fun! There is much camaraderie after all of these years. And we always welcome newcomers to the team,” said Ms. Bricker. She added, “The tavern was one of the community’s most vital social institutions, serving at times as a courtroom, post office, dance hall as well as gathering place. It seems appropriate to gather the community together at Tavernfest to help to support the preservation of the Tavern Museum at the Allen House, representing such an important institution in our shared history.”

Visit monmouthhistory.org for more detailed information or to make a donation that will help MCHA to continue preserving the rich history of Monmouth County.

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Holmdel Historical Society Continues to Restore St. Catharine’s Church STORY CATHY PADILLA The project to restore St. Catharine’s Church that began last February is moving forward and making progress, but there is more to be done.

According to Holmdel Historical Society President, Peter Maneri, it’s a slow process that requires more funding.

“We’ve done a lot of work so far, recently restoring the wood on the outside to its original beauty by sandblasting off the old paint,” Maneri says. “But it’s an expensive project and we need more volunteers and donations.”

Founded in 1879 by Father Michael L. Glennon, St. Catharine’s Church was built on a one-quarter acre plot of land off Stillwell Road that was donated by Thomas Meehan. It was the first Catholic Church in Holmdel.

The Roman Catholic Archdiocese of Trenton sold the church to the Historical Society in 1974, when they built the new St. Catharine’s Church.

Since then, there have been no improvements done to the Church and it was basically used for storage.

“This Church was built through donations and for 100 years it was maintained by donations,” Maneri says. “Now we need donations to restore this landmark and put it to good use.”

The Historical Society has a clear plan of how they want to use the Church once it is restored. The structure will be turned into a first-ofits-kind museum in the town, open to the public to display a growing collection of historic Holmdel items. To defray ongoing maintenance costs, the Society will rent the space for fundraisers, arts and crafts shows, and small weddings.

The Society is looking for local contractors who will donate their time.

Carpenters, masons, painters, and landscapers are all needed. Someone with knowledge of securing grant monies and willing to volunteer their time would also be of great help. Restoration of the stained glass windows

will cost about $10,000 per window and there are 13 windows that can be memorialized. The antique wood altar, altar rail, and several pews are available to refinish. Replacing the slate roof will cost more than $100,000.

There is no septic, no plumbing, no heating, no electric, no bathroom, no kitchen, no handicapped access, and no insulation.

The Holmdel Historical Society is a non-profit organization that serves the citizens of Holmdel Township and surrounding areas and is dedicated to recording history, educating the community, and preserving the Holmdel heritage. Established in 1973 by founder Elaine M. Frey, volunteers are always welcome. For more information, or to donate your time or treasure, visit holmdelhistoricalsociety.org or you can call Peter Maneri at 732.768.7583.

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Authentic Upscale European Fare without the Jetlag The Food Spy was curious to see the result, after all the days riding by Route 34 in Matawan, and seeing the tradesmen transforming a location into a new food spot. Located on one of the strangest angular intersections in NJ, Black Fig Greek Kitchen & Bar has a crisp newness to it. It should, since the exterior was all reconstructed recently.

Everything is neat and clean. There was ample parking for an early reservation, but the lot gets tight as the restaurant fills (restaurateurs LOVE full lots). The exterior and landscape lighting invites you in as it casts shadows of the wrought iron railings and canopies onto the facade.

The hostess was cheerful and prompt leading us into the spacious dining room – there was no need to use the bar to wait. It looks cozy though, and there are a couple of wide screen TVs to keep the sports-inclined up to date on the “in process” Clemson-Syracuse football game. We had plenty of time to peruse the menu as our waiter was a bit “casual” in making her appearance. The staff’s appearance is quite impressive, dressed in crisp white shirts, thin suspenders and bow ties. It’s in accord with the surroundings of detailed wood moldings and fluted columns. Our server was quite pleasant and helpful.

After settling in with a plate of braided bread and seasoned olive oil, we enjoyed a cocktail and ordered the assortment of spreads.

What else should you start with at a Greek place!? And, oh the joy of it all! The Food Spy

is partial to cheeses, so the Tirokafteri (Thai pepper, feta) was the favorite. My partner was partial to the Melitzanosalata (smoked eggplant, yogurt dill). Not to be outdone, the Tzatziki (cucumber, yogurt, mint, garlic) and Hummus (garlic, chickpea, tahini, lemon) were good counterpoints to the other tastes.

In the meantime, our server described an ample list of specials with aplomb. The stuffed pork chop sounded particularly inviting, and a few variations on fresh fish with the last of the fresh (extended) summer tomatoes made quick business of the chef’s expertise. Asking for suggestions in lieu of the specials, The Food Spy guest selected the Lamb Youvetsi. Nicely seared and thinly sliced lamb with tomato, orzo, lamb jus and orange dill gremolata hit the spot for an infusion of finely cooked protein. The Food Spy opted for the Metaxa Osso Bucco for a good chunk of meat after a hard day’s work. The pork was succulent and fell off the bone, but the surprise was the farro risotto at the base of this mountain of meat. The snap to the farro mixed with fig and interspersed with pork belly made it a memorable dish. Almost jealously, we watched as beautiful plates of the hake special, lamb, chicken and seafood dishes passed us by. The presentations on all the plates were impeccable and made us promise to come back for more.

They have a Santorini with mussels, clams and shrimp that gives you a glimpse of what heaven is all about. And if you’re not too hungry the description of the salads makes your mouth water. It is certainly an eclectic variety of the Greek palate. The Food Spy needs to risk

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OMG! You can’t forget dessert. I saw it on the table next to us and knew we had to have the apple walnut cake with homemade vanilla ice cream. Ah, but a fleeting taste. My partner surreptitiously slid it across the table for a taste and a disappearing act. Not to worry, the Mille Feuille came to the rescue. A double layer of the lightest puff pastry and chocolate mousse topped with berry coulis and chocolate shavings kept us busy in between sips of tasty cappuccino. If we had another three hours we could have had the signature and namesake “Black Fig”: homemade Ouzo ice cream with figs and poached pear mavrodaphne… next time.

Alas, time flies and some more investigation is needed at this place. So, The Food Spy will return soon to enjoy the food, service and surroundings of Black Fig Greek Kitchen & Bar. As we exited, smiles and goodbyes were plentiful as they bid us an “Antio gia tora” (Goodbye for now). The Black Fig Greek Kitchen & Bar is located at 787 Route 34 in Matawan and is open Tuesday through Saturday 11:30 a.m. to 11:00 p.m. and Sunday 12:00 to 9:00 p.m.

Until next month – live well & eat well.

The Food Spy

THE FOOD SPY seeks and finds hidden, and perhaps not so hidden epicurean gems in and around Monmouth County promoting the notion that good wine, good food in good company is one of life’s simplest and civilized pleasures. Sharing these gems is the mission of the Food Spy. The Food Spy is an active contributor for both Zagat and TripAdvisor and accepts input, ideas and gem suggestions from Community Magazine readers and can be secretly contacted at foodspynj@gmail.com.

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Fulfill in Monmouth County to Benefit hen you visit the frozen section of your local supermarket this month you may notice a new line of frozen sides and soups with a familiar oversized ‘O’ on the packaging. Beyond providing something tasty and nutritious, if you choose to purchase an O, That’s Good! product you will be helping a local family have groceries, or a struggling mother do her taxes, or providing job training for an unemployed neighbor through Fulfill, formerly The FoodBank of Monmouth & Ocean Counties.

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O, That’s Good! is the first introduction from Mealtime Stories, LLC, a joint venture between media icon Oprah Winfrey and the Kraft Heinz Company. Together, Oprah and Kraft Heinz worked with a team of creative chefs to develop a new refrigerated brand using real ingredients and no artificial flavors or dyes. It’s comfort food with an unexpected nutritious twist and an eye toward giving back to those who need it most.

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I believe in anything you do, you have to think about how you can give back,” said Winfrey.

“And to be able to have a portion of O, That’s Good! go back to people who don’t get food at all in the world, just feels like the right thing to do.”

Ten percent of Mealtime Stories’ profits will be equally split between Feeding America and Rise Against Hunger. The Kraft Heinz Company Foundation plans to make annual donations to the two charities

on behalf of Mealtime Stories until the joint venture becomes profitable. Feeding America is the parent organization for more than 200 food banks throughout the country, including Fulfill, formerly The FoodBank of Monmouth & Ocean Counties, located in Neptune.

“When someone like Oprah Winfrey creates awareness of hunger in this country, an awareness that reaches down to your local food bank, that’s an amazing gift,” said Carlos Rodriguez, Executive Director of Fulfill. “There’s more than a very good chance that money from the sale of her products will find its way back to Monmouth and Ocean Counties through our programs.”

food in an emergency today, but our resources for families help them feed themselves tomorrow.”

Every dollar donated to the charity provides three meals. Due to bulk purchases and operational efficiency, 95¢ of every dollar donated to Fulfill goes directly to food and services. But the services provided may surprise you. It’s not just about food, it’s also about job training, healthcare, and tax preparation.

In May of 2017 the FoodBank officially changed its name to Fulfill to better reflect the organization’s growing mission.

“We asked ourselves, who are our neighbors in need?” said Rodriguez. “We found most families in need have one member working. They have children. More than half had unpaid medical bills and no insurance. They were just one economic shock from needing help. And more than anything, we found most families were not connecting with the help that is available.”

“Our new name reflects that our focus is on more than food distribution. Our name didn’t reflect the full story of everything we do,” said Rodriguez. “Fulfill shows our commitment to fulfill more of the needs of our neighbors and win the battle against hunger. We have an approach that goes beyond providing food and helps those in need get to a place where they can get back on their feet for good. We provide

In order to reduce discomfort in asking for assistance, Fulfill’s Resource Connections Team goes out into the communities to help clients connect to resources that will get them through difficult times. They treat each situation as unique and seek a winning outcome. The Culinary Skills Training Program is a good example of their outside-the-box helping.

The program assists adults in need of

How Fulfill Helps Monmouth/Ocean Annually 132,000 people helped 12 million meals served 2.9 million pounds of fresh produce distributed 142,000 meals for Kids through backpack, after-school, and summer programs

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How to Help  Annual “Families Feeding Families” Turkey and Holiday Meal Drive!

Help a local family enjoy a holiday meal by donating frozen turkeys, chickens or holiday trimmings. Donations large and small (including cash donations) accepted at locations in Neptune (3300 Route 66, Neptune) or Toms River at THE B.E.A.T. Center (1769 Hooper Avenue).  Join the Silo of Hope Society. With a gift of $1,000 or more annually to Fulfill, you join a special group of dedicated families and individuals. Members make up 84% of individual donations to Fulfill.  Organize a local food drive. Bringing awareness reminds our community the problem of hunger is found in every corner of Monmouth County.

permanent employment, so they can get the skills necessary for better paying jobs.

It helps men and women become selfsufficient through 13 weeks of on-site food preparation and classroom training provided by a certified executive chef.

Participants are given the opportunity to receive CPR Certification and ServSafe Food Protection Manager Certification.

Graduates also receive help obtaining and keeping jobs in the Shore area hospitality industry.

twist. You’ll feel good about serving it for your family.”

Another new initiative at Fulfill has been to include more nutritious food and healthier options. This aligns perfectly with Oprah’s mission for Mealtime Stories.

“This holiday season we hope you will give thanks by helping others,” said Rodriguez.

“I urge our community members to learn more about our programs. Visit our website, take a tour of our facilities. Get a sense of the magnitude of the problem. The problem of hunger is a problem we have the ability to solve. We don’t lack the food, we lack the ability to connect the families in need with the food that is available. With your help, we know Hunger Won’t Win Here.”

“I love healthy foods and eating from my garden,” said Winfrey. “When Kraft Heinz approached me for a food line, what got my attention is making nutritious comfort foods more accessible to everyone. This product line is real, delicious food with a

As families gather this month to give thanks, Fulfill will be providing holiday meals to neighbors in need and raising funds to ensure that their programs can continue to provide help and hope. November and December are the two most important months for the charity to receive food and funds that will carry them through all the other months of the year.

For more information, visit fulfillnj.com

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Getting my first paycheck was like a dream... I couldn’t believe I was being paid for something I love doing and am passionate about.”

Maxine Nieves | Langosta Lounge - Prep Chef Graduate of Fulfill Culinary Arts Training Program I grew up in a family that loved to cook and I remember as a child I enjoyed being with my grandfather who had a food truck and sold hot dogs and hamburgers. One of the many things I love about food is the memories that it conjures up of moments long forgotten. I can take a bite of my favorite foods and they transport me back to happy times in my life.

But life wasn’t always so easy.

As an adult, I was a licensed cosmetologist and I lost my job during the recession. When my lease ran out and I still couldn’t find work, I had to make the difficult decision to pack up my things and live out of my car. I was hungry and scared and not sure what to do next. Every day was a struggle. I felt I had hit rock bottom and I knew I had to figure something out, so I finally had to push pride aside and utilize the help that was available to me. I had to have enough sustenance to keep going.

I heard about Fulfill’s Culinary Training Program from the JBJ Soul Kitchen, and I knew I had nothing more to fall back on so I applied. It was a lifechanging decision. I became the valedictorian and won a scholarship award at graduation. Once you have a sense of pride, you can move forward and your life changes.

That’s what I loved about Fulfill (The Foodbank of Monmouth & Ocean Counties). I want to thank Fulfill for the compassion and for all those who support the program so people like me can stop feeling alone and without hope and move forward and get ahead.

Getting my first paycheck was like a dream. I had to pinch myself because I couldn’t believe I was being paid for something I love doing and am passionate about. Now I have a great job at Langosta Lounge in Asbury Park. I would say to others, don’t ever give up hope and don’t be embarrassed to ask for help.

Circumstances can be awful, but you can find a way to keep moving forward. The smallest things can make a difference in someone’s life.

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HOLMDEL STUDENT CONTINUES TO GIVE BACK WITH FOOD DRIVE

Newcomers & Neighbors Club Plan Holiday Events On October 12, 2017 the Newcomers and Neighbors Club of Colts Neck, Holmdel and surrounding areas held an autumn brunch at the Molly Pitcher Inn in Red Bank. El McCarthy and Lisa Butler from the doTERRA company gave an interesting presentation on the use of essential oils to promote health and well-being.

The next general meeting of the club will be a “holiday hosting” demonstration and continental breakfast at Dearborn Market on November 9th. On December 7th, the Club will hold its annual Holiday Luncheon at Eagle Oaks Country Club. The event will include a delicious buffet lunch, holiday gifts and great entertainment! Reservations must be made by sending a $55 check to Newcomers and Neighbors, 6 Pegasus Drive, Colts Neck, NJ 07722.

The Newcomers and Neighbors Club provides a social network for new and longtime residents of Monmouth County and surrounding areas. Members enjoy a myriad of social opportunities throughout each month.

The Club supports local charities such as the Monmouth and Ocean County Food Bank, now known as Fulfill. A $1,100 donation from the club was sent to this worthy organization in October! New members are welcomed at any time. For information, call 732.577.0875 or 732.530.9543.

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Holmdel resident Brendan Crowley is a sixteen-year-old junior at Holmdel High School who has already learned the importance of giving back to your community.

In June, 2017 at the end of his sophomore year, Brendan completed his fourth food drive.

“I gave my neighbors about two weeks to collect canned items and other non-perishables. The food was collected on June 10th and delivered on June 16th.” What began as a Social Studies class project in seventh grade has now grown to include the participation of his Following his fourth food drive, entire neighborhood. “The process Holmdel High School Sophomore of the food drive took about a Brendan Crowley holds up some month to complete,” said Brendan. of the food he collected from his neighborhood and donated to Donations from his seventh grade FulFill, formerly Monmouth County project and an additional food drive Foodbank. in eighth grade for his Confirmation project were given to The St. Vincent De Paul Society at the Church of St. Catherine’s. In March, 2016 during his freshman year in high school, Brendan donated the food he collected from the third food drive to Fulfill (formerly Monmouth County Foodbank). “Over the last two food drives I collected over 550 pounds of food, providing over 466 meals,” said Brendan.

Brendan’s determination from his first food drive to this year is commendable.

He said it is hard to describe the feeling he has had over the years. “To know that my neighborhood and I are able to give to people that are less privileged than ourselves is an amazing feeling. I look back on the success the food drive has had over the years and it is amazing to see the progress that has been made.”

Brendan said he plans on asking some of his friends this year to help so that he can expand the food drive and bring in more food for Fulfill.

Newcomers and Neighbors Club President Dee Mollema (center), paused for a photo with El McCarty (left) and Lisa Butler from the doTERRA essential oils company.

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Planning the food drives, keeping up with schoolwork and participating in sports has been challenging but rewarding for Brendan. “My parents have been especially involved in planning my school work which helped me plan for this food drive. Both of them have allowed me to become more efficient as a student.

As a baseball and former football player, there wasn’t always time for everything but I felt this was something that was important. My parents have also expressed to me how important it is to give to charity.” As a young teen, Brendan has gained insight on the impact his food drives have had on families in need. His wish for the readers of Community Magazine is this. “Your readers should know that any donations to any sort of charitable organization, not just food drives, are helpful for those who are less fortunate than we are.”

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I meet new people every day – and often, I get to help them. That’s a great feeling.

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If you haven’t seen Brittany reading meters at your home or your neighbor’s house, maybe you’ll recognize her on the local softball diamonds. A former MVP at Ocean County College, Brittany still plays softball with the Monmouth County Co-Ed and Women’s Softball leagues.

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Introducing our new merit scholarship program

Ranney School Launches Academic Merit Scholarship Program

RANNEY SCHOOL is pleased to announce the launch of the first annual RANNEY SCHOLARS program during its 2017-18 admission season. Academically talented students entering 6th and 9th grades during the 2018-2019 school-year are encouraged to apply for a merit-based academic scholarship by completing the admissions process and submitting a scholarship proposal before January 15, 2018.

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The RANNEY SCHOLARS program aims to recognize the academic accomplishments of students who are both new to Ranney School and who are currently enrolled. Scholarships, to range from $2,500 to $10,000, will be awarded upon review of students’ scholarship application, academic achievements, and standardized test scores. The RANNEY SCHOLARS program complements Ranney School’s existing needbased financial aid program. Students awarded a merit scholarship may also apply for need-based financial aid.

“Our goal is to make the extraordinary education and resources available at Ranney accessible to families in the area whose children have untapped potential,” says Head of School Dr. John W. Griffith.

“With expert teachers, small class sizes, awardwinning arts programs, unique athletic offerings such as fencing, crew, and sailing, Ranney students have the opportunity to pursue individualized, rigorous academics while also exploring all of their extracurricular passions. It is our hope that this scholarship program may provide the extra opportunity students need to discover and reach their full potential.”

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Please Don’t Feed the Deer

We are all too aware of the “deer problem”. In the suburbs drivers are the only large predators of the animal and in 2016 Monmouth County once again recorded the largest number of vehicle accidents due to deer of any county in the state. Hitting a deer can cause serious injuries, and repairs are expensive.

Moreover, they litter our lawns with droppings, eat gardens, and destroy the habitat for song birds, beneficial insects, and native trees and shrubs. What many people don’t realize is that one simple, effective step helps control the deer population - eliminate backyard feeding.

Feeding the deer seriously compounds the challenge. Why? Because does that have access to supplemental food have more babies, lots more babies.

The reason lies in basic biology. The capacity of a doe to get pregnant is related to her weight. This ensures that fawns will be more likely to survive and reproduce themselves because their mothers are fit. According to the NJ Department of Fish and Wildlife, deer living on natural

food sources typically breed when they are a year and a half old, and give birth to a single fawn each year. Deer born in the spring who have supplemental food reach the weight that allows them to get pregnant the following autumn and give birth the next spring. If they continue to eat food supplied by humans, they are more likely to deliver twins in the second pregnancy and triplets as they grow older.

The impact of starting younger and having multiple births each year is substantial. A single doe eating only wild food typically produces three offspring over five years.

That same doe given supplemental food could produce as many as nine offspring in the same period of time.

Feeding deer in the spring and summer may increase fertility, but feeding them in the winter can actually make them sick. Over millions of years of evolution deer have developed seasonal changes in their digestive systems. In spring and summer, plants convert sunlight and carbon dioxide into sugars and carbohydrates. When leaves are abundant, deer are equipped to convert sugar and carbohydrate to energy, storing the excess as fat. When leaves turn colors signaling that no more sugar and carbohydrates are being made, summer digestion turns off and digestion needed for woody stems high in cellulose is turned on. Consuming corn or other carbohydrates can cause acid build-

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up that kills. They may look thin, but deer rely on fat stored during the warm weather for calories. It is normal and healthy for them to lose up to 20% of their body weight. Some of the sick or weaker animals may die, but that is part of the natural balancing act.

For more information, visit state. nj.us/dep/fgw/deerfeed.htm • Don’t Let Deer Feast on Birdseed • Keep birdfeeders and suet at least 7 feet off the ground. You can use pulleys to raise and lower feeders for filling them or mount them at an upstairs window.

• Use seed that deer don’t like.

These include Nijer (thistle) or safflower seeds and seed treated with hot pepper • Fence in an area for your feeders.

Make sure it is just big enough that the deer can’t lean in to the feeder.

If it is too big, they will just hop in.

• Clean up the seed under the feeders frequently. This deters deer as well as the small rodents that carry Lyme bacteria.

• Store extra seed in containers where deer and rodents cannot get into it. If you store it in your house, put it in the freezer overnight to eliminate pantry moths.

County Clerk announces Archives Day 2017 M. Claire French Award Winner The Honorable Gerry Scharfenberger, Ph.D., Middletown Mayor, wins award Monmouth County Clerk Christine Giordano Hanlon is pleased to announce that The Honorable Gerry Scharfenberger, Ph.D. of Middletown is the winner of the M. Claire French Award for 2017. The award was presented at Monmouth County Archives and History Day on October 14th at the Monmouth County Library Headquarters.

“Gerry Scharfenberger, an Adjunct Professor of Anthropology at Monmouth University, exemplifies the important aspects of the M. Claire French Award through his dedication to the maintenance and preservation of various historic sites in Monmouth County,” said Hanlon. “It is my honor to present the award to such a deserving community leader and educator.”

Scharfenberger has been an active member of the Middletown Landmarks Commission since 1996. He has been responsible for the review of alterations and additions to properties within historic districts, as well as assisting with and designating historic districts within Middletown Township. Dr. Scharfenberger has volunteered on many archaeological projects in Monmouth County to retrieve historical data before destruction of sites that had no funding for archaeology. He is also the founder and head of the Friends of the Macleod-Rice House, an organization founded to raise funds to save and restore the historic, circa 1893 Macleod-Rice House in Middletown.

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Community Band to Play Fall Concerts

THE COLTS NECK COMMUNITY BAND is a group of skilled musicians whose primary goal is to come together in preparing and performing high quality music for the community. The band will present two performances for its fall 2017 concert series on Sunday, November 5th at 2:00 p.m. at the Monmouth County Public Library headquarters in Manalapan, and Thursday, November 16th at 8:00 p.m. at Colts Neck High School.

This fall’s Colts Neck Community Band concerts will feature a variety of music that is sure to appeal to a broad audience. Classical selections will include sections of Stravinsky’s "Firebird" arranged by Robert Longfield, “Nimrod” from Elgar’s Enigma Variations, and “March and Procession of Bacchus” from Delibes’ ballet Sylvia. The band will play two American marches: “Esprit de Corps,” by Robert Jager, and “Commando March,” by Samuel Barber.

Two lively Cuban songs of great popularity, Moisés Simons’ “Peanut Vendor,” and Ernesto Lecuona’s “Malaguena” will delight the audience. If you enjoy modern music, please come out to hear “James Bond Suite,” “Scootin’ on Hard Rock,” by David Holsinger, Larry Daehn’s “As Summer Was Just Beginning,” and “Abbey Road: A Symphonic Portrait.”

The Colts Neck Community Band is a volunteer organization committed to bringing music alive for its audience in central New Jersey. This ensemble consists of musicians spanning in age from teenagers to senior citizens whose common thread is dedication to the experience of making and sharing music. The band was founded by the late Richard Frankle, a music educator in Colts Neck. In its sixteenth season, the Colts Neck Community Band continues in its mission to uphold the high standards set by Mr. Frankle. The band’s music director is Kelly Tyma, and conductors include Mel Chayette, Eric Robertshaw, and Don Swinchoski.

All performances are free to the public; donations are always appreciated. Named after founder Richard Frankle, Franklesdream, Inc. is a registered 501(c) (3) non-profit organization that accepts donations and helps provide financial support to the band.

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Colts Neck Library Happenings ESTATE PLANNING WORKSHOP November 16th at 2:00 p.m.

When it comes to sorting facts from fiction in estate planning, Paul R. Daniele, Esq. will cover the frequently asked questions and common misconceptions regarding this topic. Paul will speak about wills, living wills, power of attorney, trust, asset protection along with Medicaid qualification as well as estate taxes. Registration is not needed for this event.

COLLEGE PLANNING WORKSHOP November 28th at 7:00 p.m.

This Workshop will focus on current high school students and their families. DID YOU KNOW - The average family borrows 39% of the total cost of college? Only 37% of college students graduate in 4 years? Two thirds of college graduates leave school with financial debt? Attend this workshop and you will learn: how to maximize your potential for financial aid, how to lower your ‘Out-of-Pocket’ costs, why the FAFSA and your EFC are so critical to the college financial aid process, and how the SAT/ACT scores translate into financial aid dollars. Students are also welcome and encouraged to attend! For reservations, call 732.224.1496 or email CollegeFundingAssociates.com.

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Celebrate the Holidays with Hope For Children Foundation NJ On Saturday, December 2, 2017, Hope for Children Foundation (HFCF) is hosting a Mix, Mingle & Jingle Wine Tasting at Bell Works from 7:30 to 11:30 p.m. Join the members of HFCF to kick off the holiday season in style, while helping to raise money for children and families in need within Monmouth County. This is the second Wine Tasting that the organization will have at Bell Works, the first a sold-out, hugely successful event.

This year’s event honors Michael and Tiffanie Salerno, who have been key supporters of HFCF since its inception.

Michael is President and CEO of Northeast Professional Planning Group, Inc. and is Second Vice President on the Board of Trustees for Big Brothers Big Tiffanie and Michael Salerno Sisters of Monmouth County. Tiffanie is managing member of Eagan & Associates, founding member of HFCF and on the board of trustees for the ARC of Monmouth County. Together, they reside in Oceanport and are raising two beautiful boys.

HFCF will also be presenting a Humanitarian/Service award to Carmine and Phyllis Visone. This very deserving couple own Home Away from Home Academy (HAFHA) in Aberdeen, have authored “The Visone Method” and are truly philanthropic members of our very own community.

For the past four years, HFCF has partnered with HAFHA for its annual toy drive, which has helped over 200 families in need during the holiday season.

The night promises to be an evening to remember.

Featured events include silent and live gift auctions, 12 Nights of Giving Cash Raffle (12 identified cases will benefit from this, stay tuned to find out the selected, well deserving families), catered hors d’oeuvres and food stations from the award-winning David Ellis Events, premium tasting experience with dozens of wine, liquor and beer donated by The Wine Academy, a handcrafted cigar station, Professional DJ and dance floor and various live entertainers.

Don’t miss this perfect holiday kickoff! Tickets are only $200 per person, and there are also exciting sponsorship opportunities available. Register today at hfcf.org before it’s sold out!

Hope For Children is a registered 501(c)(3) non-profit organization which is an all-volunteer based charity with 100% of monies raised going back to the local community.

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Miss CEO Club Comes to Monmouth County

Girls Aged 13 to 18 Encouraged to Join Logan Forster, a sophomore at Rumson-Fair Haven Regional High School, has been named a Miss CEO Ambassador, bringing the California-based organization to Monmouth County with an open call for girls ages thirteen to eighteen to join. Miss CEO offers world-class leadership education, mentorship, and career exploration opportunities to empower young women and inspire them to become great leaders. Since its founding in 2011, Miss CEO has conducted workshops and trained thousands of children, young women, and professionals all over the world.

“To be a Miss CEO ambassador is to be a leader, mentor, and role model for all girls,” Forster says. “Miss CEO is all about empowering girls and providing them with the right tools to succeed in life, no matter what career path they choose. As an ambassador, I try to help girls discover new career opportunities. In my club I hope to provide the girls with an outlet to explore their different interests and feel excited for their futures.”

Forster has lived in Rumson for almost eleven years and participates in the RFH Habitat for Humanity Club, RFH Paws n Claws Club, RFH Euro Challenge Club, RFH Cheer Team, and the Dance Mixx Competition Team. A lover of dance, she has won first place in several competitions, including solos, and is going on her tenth year of dance training.

The Club will not require meetings, but rather offer participation events, and most communication will be done via email. Forster plans to take members to visit a female lawyer from the Giordanno and Ciesla Law Firm, a female doctor/nurse from Riverview Medical Center, a female from Fortinet (an internet security business), and more as girls join and express what careers they would like to explore. There is no cost to join the club, but some excursions may require money for travel and food.

“With the rise of many new career paths, there are more options to the question, ‘what do you want to be when you grow up?’ Some girls feel intimidated by these jobs, or feel like they will be judged if they choose to be an astrophysicist instead of something conventional,” Forster says. “I think it is very important to give everyone a chance to be who they truly want to be, and by starting this club I can help girls explore their interests and passions. Interests they might have never known they even had.”

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The Grunins (clockwise) Jeremy, Jay, Linda and Laura Photo: Mark R. Sullivan/ markrsullivan.com

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ay and Linda Grunin and their son, Jeremy, are the epitome of this adage and are bringing exciting change to Monmouth County through The Jay and Linda Grunin Foundation (the “Foundation”).

Although based in Toms River, the Grunins realized during the last four years that Monmouth and Ocean Counties together are “the footprint of the Central Jersey Shore area” and have recently expanded their philanthropic endeavors into Monmouth County. Jeremy, the Foundation’s President, is the first chairman of the newly combined United Way of Monmouth and Ocean Counties. He is also the first person from Ocean County to sit on the Board of the Count Basie Theatre. As part of its expansion into Monmouth County, the Foundation recently made a $2 million transformative gift to the Basie to fund The Jay and Linda Grunin Arts and Education Building which will provide studios, classrooms, performance space and a base for the theater’s educational outreach and public programming.

Their goal is to make the arts and arts education accessible to all ages and incomes. One of the most compelling initiatives is mindAligned, already underway as a pilot program for creative teaching in three school districts in each of the two counties.

These schools are testing teaching methods that integrate fine and performing arts into daily lessons.

Creative teaching has been shown to enhance attendance and learning for the students and also to inspire and retain teachers. Once perfected, the program will serve as a model for the entire state.

Jay and Linda Grunin have supported various causes anonymously since the 1990s, believing anonymous giving was the highest form of philanthropy. Jay is often asked if there is a self-interest component associated with their philanthropy. As Jay explains it, “There are gratifying feelings of pride and satisfaction in knowing that we have done some good with the blessings that God has bestowed on us.” The Grunins did not consider “going public” until consultants explained the benefits of having name recognition. “We reevaluated and came to believe the best way to have an impact is to let people know that you are supportive of a project.” It may inspire others to lend their support, financial or otherwise. We laughed about the Curb Your Enthusiasm episode, “Anonymous,” which was based on the premise that anonymous gifts are great, as long as everyone knows who “anonymous” is.

It was not until 2013 when the Foundation was formed and Jeremy came on board that a strategy for giving was developed. It all started with a $3.5 million gift to Community Medical Center in Toms River. Not surprisingly, the Grunins quickly became very popular, receiving interest from area nonprofits. Jeremy recalls a nonprofit consultant, Tara Cunningham, corralling him after a meeting and cautioning him to build a giving strategy. She said that in the next six months everyone was going to be asking for money and that the Foundation wouldn’t know how to say no. “Whether you say yes or no, you will run into challenges.” At the time, Jeremy did not see it that way. But six months later, he called her and said, “We have a problem!”

The first task was to narrow the giving focus. Jay, Linda, Jeremy, Laura (Jeremy’s wife) and their three children, Josh, Rebecca, and Emma, met for a week to determine where they could make the largest impact on the community. The consensus was to focus on three areas - Arts, Education and Healthcare, with a special emphasis on making arts and education accessible to all ages and incomes. Jay described the impetus for this focus. “We believe a vibrant arts culture is what distinguishes towns and cities from the sameness that permeates so much of our national landscape.” The Foundation recognizes that art brings about change, in minds and in attitudes, eventually transforming areas into destinations, benefiting not only the arts but the local economy too. The Foundation accomplished this through The Jay and Linda Grunin Center for the Arts at Ocean County College, a theater attracting top performers from around the world. Jeremy explained, “We see the arts as ‘creative placemaking.’

If we create areas of interest, people will want to visit for more than just the beach.

We also are trying to make art accessible to everyone, it is not just an elitist endeavor, it is not just visits to museums. It is creative expression, even in the form of YouTube and Snapchat.”

Another task was to devise a plan to measure the effects of their giving. Jeremy explained, “One of the biggest issues facing the arts community [in raising funds] is the ability to quantify the effect of arts on society. We need to talk about data and deliverables. We are trying to get arts organizations to assess the impact of their initiatives. The Foundation looks for projects that are sustainable, replicable and scalable, and that are doing things in a different way.

The hope is that with enough data, others will say ‘this is a pretty cool idea, let’s do it.’”

There was a lot of laughter at our interview. This is a foundation that has resisted becoming “corporate” and is run by the amiable Grunins and a small, tight- knit staff in a fairly casual, but always professional way. They do not have a formal grant process and do not believe in extensive paperwork.

Instead they are a proactive grantmaker, identifying organizations and partnerships to implement projects designed to help them attain their goals. Jay noted, “Because we are small, we are spry and very nimble.

Some of the decisions for a seven figure gift were made in under 30 days.” Jeremy gave examples of many smaller donations that started as seed money and were so successful

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The Foundation recently made a $2 million transformative gift to the Basie to fund The Jay and Linda Grunin Arts and Education Building.

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that the organizations themselves decided to fund the projects moving forward. It quickly becomes evident that the Foundation has struck a good balance between involvement and facilitation. Jay explained, “We don’t just drop money into a project and walk away. We look for permanent sustaining results and that has always been very important to us.

We do get involved, but in a collaborative way, not with conditions attached but rather ‘how can we help you’?”

Many Monmouth County based nonprofits have already been the beneficiaries of the Grunins’ generosity over the years. One fun way of deciding where to donate was through Jeremy’s recent talk radio show on WOBM-AM. He invited local nonprofits and small businesses to discuss their businesses and missions on the show and Jeremy donated his quarterly radio salary to the one nonprofit selected by

the fans. The Ashley Lauren Foundation, a Monmouth County-based non-profit, was one of the many recipients.

The collaboration with these organizations has brought the Grunins full circle back to Monmouth County. Linda grew up in Long Branch and met Jay at the NYU School of Law, where she was one of only 10 women in the class of 300. After leaving a position on Wall Street, Jay lived in Red Bank for a year while serving an appellate clerkship with a judge who had chambers in the borough. Eventually, he and Linda started their own law firm in Toms River. In the 1970s, Ocean County was one of the fastest growing counties in the United States.

Their largesse is felt at their alma mater through the Grunin Center for Law and Social Entrepreneurship, the first of its kind at a law school. It is a future goal of the Grunins to bring some of the Center’s programs to the Central Jersey Shore area to teach “impact investing”, that is, making it easier for businesses to make a profit while

still being socially conscious.

It is easy to see that the Grunins enjoy the work of the Foundation. Jeremy put it into a great perspective. “It is so rewarding.

There is an incredible amount of satisfaction.

But the reality is that everything we do starts with an issue. There are huge problems, like poverty, and I can’t tell you how many friends I know who have lost loved ones to opiates. The issues are always at the core of everything. It’s great to be able to make a difference and know we are making an impact.”

Be sure to visit jayandlindagruninfoundation.org.

New Mission: The Foundation announced a One Million Dollar Challenge Matching Grant for the United Way of Monmouth and Ocean Counties.

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MONMOUTH COUNTY SPCA RAISES OVER $220,000 AT 2017 FUR BALL 44th Annual Holiday House Tour to be Hosted by Visiting Nurse Association of Central Jersey

Visiting Nurse Association of Central Jersey (VNACJ) will host its 44th Annual Holiday House Tour on Friday, December 1, 2017 from 9:30 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. Proceeds will support the Visiting Nurse Association of Central Jersey Hospice Program.

The tour will feature magnificent homes in the Two River Area of New Jersey. Tickets are $50.00 per person ($40.00 for seniors 65 and up).

The Tour also features a luncheon to be held at Salt Creek Grille located in Rumson from 11:00 a.m. to 2:00 p.m. Lunch is not included in the Tour admission price. However, a portion of the luncheon proceeds will benefit VNACJ. Lunch reservations are required and can be made by calling 732.933.9272 or at saltcreekgrille.com.

Tour attendees are also invited to stop by Salt Creek Grille for the Holiday Gift Boutique which will feature a variety of vendors selling gifts, accessories, greens and more.

Children are not permitted on the House Tour. House Tour tickets are available for purchase through the VNA Foundation Office online at vnahg.org or by calling 732.224.6780. Tickets may also be purchased on the day of the tour at any of the homes or at Salt Creek Grille.

For questions, contact the VNA Foundation office at 732.224.6780 or email foundation@vnahg.org.

The Monmouth County SPCA held its 2017 Fur Ball on Saturday, October 14, 2017 at the Sheraton Hotel in 2017 Fur Ball Committee, left to right: Jennifer Thompson, Eatontown. This year’s ball Karen Kurtiak, Abbey Feiler-Kober, Kathleen Buff, Adrianna was a masquerade theme and Sands, Fran Turner, Heather Licitra, Debra DeCaroRobinson, Carol Brockriede, and Peggy Blazewicz guests were encouraged to dress in costume along with their pets. The event was extremely successful, raising over $225,000.00 in funds for animals in need at the shelter.

The honoree of this year’s Fur Ball was Kelly DeMarco, a longtime supporter of the Monmouth County SPCA. Kelly has helped to raise awareness for its mission, create new fundraising opportunities with her creative, out-of-the-box thinking, as well as cultivate relationships within the community. Also in attendance was Sheriff Shaun Golden, Freeholder Thomas Arnone, and Freeholder Serena DiMaso. DiMaso presented the honoree with a certificate of recognition and officially declared October 14th as Kelly DeMarco Day.

A rundown of the night included a cocktail hour, a costume contest that the furrier guests competed in, as well as dinner and performances all hosted by the event emcee, Richard Robinson. Throughout the night guests were able to enjoy music by the bands “Misfit Johnny” and “Des and the Swagmatics”, and unique performances by entertainers such as a stilt walker, contortionist and living statues. Guests were also able to participate in a silent auction. Prizes included exotic trips, spa services, nights out, pet gift baskets, the chance to shadow a MCSPCA Law Enforcement Officer for the day, and even the opportunity to have your child’s next birthday party at the MCSPCA.

The night would not have been possible without all of the support from the MCSPCA community, specifically the 2017 Fur Ball Presenting Sponsor, Mack-Cali Realty Corporation. Diamond sponsors included Cushman & Wakefield, KV National Land, and Seyfarth Shaw LLP. For a full listing of supporters, see the MCSPCA website.

“We were thrilled that this year’s Fur Ball raised over $225,000.00,” said Barbara LovellNapoli, MCSPCA Director of Development, “Our honoree’s goal has always been to support our programs in the biggest way possible, and Kelly DeMarco is very pleased with our results.

Left to right: Freeholders Tom Arnone The 14th also happened to be Kelly’s birthday, and Serena DiMaso, Honoree Kelly DeMarco and MCSPCA Executive and the generous support shown to achieve her Director Ross Licitra goal of a banner event for the shelter helped to make her celebration even more meaningful.

We are grateful to everyone who participated!”

The Fur Ball is one of the MCSPCA’s largest fundraising events of the year. Proceeds help to care for the over 5,000 homeless, abused and abandoned animals it takes in each year. The Monmouth County SPCA is now gearing up for its Valentine’s Day Brunch being held on February 11, 2018 at the Navesink Country Club. For information on any upcoming events, visit monmouthcountyspca.org.

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“Toast to Dennis – A Night of Remembrance” Raises $250,000 to Support Wounded Warriors

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A quarter of a million dollars was raised at the ninth annual Lt. Dennis W. Zilinski Memorial Fund gala titled, “A Toast to Dennis - A Night of Remembrance” held in September at the Eagle Oaks Golf and Country Club.

The event celebrated the life and memory of Zilinski, as well as honored those from Monmouth County who lost their lives in the 9/11 attacks. The evening featured dinner, dancing with music by The Infernos and a reverse auction to assist the Fund in sponsoring service dogs for warriors suffering from PTSD and/or traumatic brain injuries.

Two-hundred and ninety guests attended the affair. Tom and Marie Dolan of Avon-bythe-Sea and Ron and Kim Jaeger of Rumson were this year’s distinguished honorees for their belief in and support of the cause.

In addition, wounded warriors from as far as California and Maine attended with their service dogs and families. The Zilinski Memorial Fund also received a check for $45,000 from Senior Vice Commander George Karatzia of AHEPA (American Hellenic Educational Progressive Association) Chapter 517 in Holmdel for the sponsorship of three service dogs and already have selected two names - Penelope and George. The third one will be named shortly.

Added to their donation, were three additional dogs that were sponsored by other supporters prior to this evening’s festivities. A check for $90,000 for these six dogs was presented to K9s for Warriors.

Also, during the event, the Toast accepted donations from other supporters for another ten dogs! These dogs will also be named and then trained to support our wounded warriors.

With the additional donations, the total number of service dogs supported by this fund is up to 64.

“We cannot thank everyone enough who attended and supports this cause,” said Marion Zilinski, mother of Dennis and co-founder of The Zilinski Memorial Fund. “More and more of our veterans are returning from combat and suffer from mental and physical health. The Zilinski Fund wants to provide for these men and women in uniform so that they can live as close to a normal life as possible.”

Lt. Dennis W. Zilinski Memorial Fund will be holding its 12th Annual Run/Walk on November 12, 2017 at PNC Bank Arts Center. For more information visit runwithdennis.org.

Zilinski Memorial Fund board members. Left to right: Rick Marshall; Annie Stattel; co-founders Dennis and Marion Zilinski; Larry Kantor; Karen Kantor; Larry Durso; Edie Legg; Lori Sadwith; Bill Rustico; Quentin Walsh; and Steve Hoptay.

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Satz Middle School in Need of Donations for Fall Clothing Drive STORY SUSAN MURPHY

Mark your calendars and start sorting and collecting much-needed items for the Parent Support Group’s (PSG) Fall Clothing Drive at W. R. Satz Middle School in Holmdel. Drop-off dates begin Monday, November 13 and continue until Saturday, November 18, 2017. It is preferred that donations be made during school hours.

The drop-off location is behind the W. R. Satz School in front of Door#26.

PSG Vice President of Fundraising Lori Umberto emphasized these details on the fundraising event. “The company collecting the items pays per pound. They take the donations, sort the items, and repurpose everything. The donations will go to those in need. Nothing is shredded.”

Donations should be clean and gently used.

Acceptable items include all clothing, shoes, jackets, outerwear, linens, towels, sheets, towels, pillows, and stuffed animals. Only soft items are collected and NO toys.

Lori noted that donations should be placed in plastic bags, such as large trash bags, and tied tightly.

“The clothing drive has been ongoing for a few years. We have one in the fall and one in the spring,” she added.

This fundraiser benefits both those receiving the clothing or other items as well as the PSG who uses the funds to support the students and staff.

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At the “Drink Local, A Toast to Summer’s End Fundraiser” on September 30, 2017 at the Shrewsbury Sailing and Yacht Club in Oceanport, $25,000 was raised by the New Jersey chapter of the Bloom Again Foundation. Local favorites such as Asbury Park Distillery, Wet Ticket, and Laird and Co. were on tap for the night. Guests enjoyed dishes made with local produce and listened to classic summer songs performed by the area band, A.D.D. The money raised will provide economically vulnerable working women with financial assistance during times of financial need caused by medical emergencies, illness, or other health-related challenges.

Through collaboration with community partners, the not-for-profit organization provides their clients, patients, and parishioners with financial assistance for living essentials when they need it most. Hackensack Meridian Heath Riverview Medical Center and Allure Plastic Surgery Center sponsored the event and helped to make the evening a success. More than 90% of donations go directly to women in financial need. The foundation is a grassroots, all-volunteer charity. You can visit bloomagain.org to find out more about the organization or contact the group at BloomAgainNJ@gmail.com.

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“Stirring Up Smiles” in October Friends of JJ, a foundation started by The Messana Family of Lincroft, was “Stirring Up Smiles” for children and families spending their Halloween at local hospitals. Friends of JJ organized a fundraiser and costume drive during the month of October with businesses, organizations and schools, as well as hosting Halloween parties at Monmouth Medical Center and St. Peter’s University Hospital benefitting hundreds of children. In addition, boxes of toys and costumes were sent to St. Joseph’s Medical Center, Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center, Children’s Specialized Hospital and Jersey Shore Medical Center.

Executive Director Brenna Messana stated, “I want to thank our community for their continued support of Friends of JJ. Every year our Halloween season gets a bigger and bigger response. This year we are blown away and are so happy to be able to see the smiles of the pediatric patients faces when we present them with costumes, toys and treats.”

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Friends of JJ will start its 4th Annual Toys of Joy Toy Drive this month. Keep an eye out for a Toys of Joy collection box in local businesses. Friends of JJ invites you to join their toy drive at your office, school, business or organization. To find out more information, email Brenna at brenna@friendsofjj.org or visit friendsofjj.org.

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The Parenthood Blog: Prepare to be Positive this Flu Season

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Not in the mood to get a flu shot? Is anyone ever? Although the thought of a vaccination is anything but a relaxing vacation a recent study says cheerfully rolling up your sleeve could positively impact the effect of the immunization.

Two weeks prior to receiving a flu shot, British researchers measured several behavioral factors of 138 elderly adults. They collected data based on each individual’s nutrition, physical activity, sleep, stress levels, and mood; positive or negative.

Four weeks following the shot, researchers tracked their subjects’ anti-body response to the vaccination. According to Sciencedirect.com, researchers did find a correlation between psychological behavior and the strength of a particular strain.

“We found that greater positive mood, whether measured repeatedly over a six-week period around vaccination, or on the day of vaccination, significantly predicted greater antibody responses to influenza vaccination in the least immunogenic viral strain (H1N1).”

Although these results seem promising for an extra boost of flu-busting protection for the elderly (only ages 65-85 were tested), I couldn’t help but ponder as a parent — how realistic is it to cut through the chaos of life and find your happy place in time for your flu-shot—especially when scheduling back to back appointments with your child. The scene is all too familiar.

You walk into the clinic smiling, your child spots the needle, your heart rate soars and any attempts to remain calm diminish.

Luckily, what we lack in relaxation is overcome by our little patient’s resilience. As adults we have to work hard on staying in a joyful mood through exercise, healthy eating habits and destressing techniques, but give your kids a lollipop after visiting the doctor and they are automatically back to a great mood.

Here’s to staying healthy and happy this flu season.

Hope Daniels is a Rumson, NJ resident and founder of A New Mom In Town blog – you can read all about her mommy adventures at www.anewmomintown.com. She is a contributing editor for Community Magazine (CM), with her monthly feature “The Parenthood Blog”.

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ANIMAL ADVOCACY: Puerto Rico’s Animals After Maria PROVIDED BY Kathleen Schatzmann NJ State Council Director | The Humane Society of the United States There has been tremendous tragedy and suffering wrought

by Maria in Puerto Rico – a toll exacted on animals as well as people.

Since the hurricane, HSUS and HSI veterinarians, staff, and volunteers have been bringing food and medical aid to animals and people. By last month’s count, we delivered approximately 70,000 pounds of humanitarian and animal aid supplies, including water, diapers, baby food, dog, cat, and equine food, and more, to the island’s residents. We are also operating public animal care clinics in various locations on the island, where our team of responders and veterinarians is providing free medical care for dogs, cats, horses, goats, and other animals so they can stay with their families.

The public clinics in Vieques have helped more than 400 animals and supported hundreds of families in their effort to provide basic care and food to their pets. On mainland Puerto Rico, we are reaching countless others. We have distributed food, water, and other essentials to at least 1,000 households that have pets, mainly in low-income neighborhoods in Naguabo, Fajardo, Ceiba, Rio Grande, Loiza, Las Marias, and Isabela.

The HSUS has been on the ground in Puerto Rico for the last three years as part of our Humane Puerto Rico program, designed to ease the difficult circumstances for animals and the people who care about them.

Some of the hardest hit shelters are groups we are working with, under our Sister Shelter Project, and in the days following the storm we made sure these shelters received the support and supplies they needed. We intend to work with as many shelters and rescues on the island as possible, and to transport their shelter animals from the island to some of our 300 Emergency Placement Partners.

It is with great pride that we can say New Jersey has played a large role in the coordination of such transports. St. Hubert’s Animal Welfare Shelter in Madison is one of our top Emergency Placement Partners, who has acted as a weigh station for the hundreds of cats, dogs, and yes, even the three little pigs who were f lown into our state. We are extraordinarily grateful to their leadership and staff who have worked around the clock to ensure the wellbeing of the incoming animals.

We are equally proud to say that the Monmouth County SPCA is one of our 11 stateside Sister Shelter Partners. These are shelters who are paired with a sister shelter on the island to provide the guidance and support to bring them up to mainland standards.

For all those affected by these disasters, we are giving them our all, and we don’t plan on relenting. The suffering continues, and that requires our continued resolve and focus and investment. Please consider helping this effort by adopting or fostering an animal at your local shelter and be sure to have your own disaster preparedness plan in place. You can find more information at humanesociety.org.

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CBA Presented with Record Ninth ShopRite Cup for Best Athletics Program

CBA Director of Athletics Vito Chiaravalloti (left) and CBA Principal Ross Fales (right) with members of each varsity team at CBA. Photo credit: Larry Levanti/CBA Athletics

Much like clockwork, the New Jersey Interscholastic Athletic Association (NJSIAA) presented Christian Brothers Academy with the ShopRite Cup for best non-public athletics program in New Jersey on Tuesday afternoon.

It is the third consecutive year that CBA has topped the standings and ninth time in the 14-year history of the award.

“This is a celebration of our incredible tradition,” Director of Athletics Vito Chiaravalloti said. “And although winning the NJSIAA/ShopRite Cup is always a special occasion, the award doesn’t define us. It merely reaffirms the relentless effort of our student-athletes and coaches, day-in and day-out, to compete to be our very best.”

The ShopRite Cup is determined through a points system designed by the NJSIAA, which rewards schools for high finishes in NJSIAA-sanctioned state events. Fifteen of the 18 varsity sports at CBA are governed by the NJSIAA, with the exception of crew, rugby and sailing which have independent governing bodies.

In 2016-2017, CBA’s cross country, soccer, indoor track relay, indoor track overall, golf and outdoor track teams won their respective NJSIAA state championships. Both swimming

and tennis finished as runners-up, while CBA Hockey took third place in their state tournament. These nine programs won points towards the ShopRite Cup standings.

In addition, CBA earned points in both the winter and spring seasons for having zero ejections across all sports during those seasons.

Soccer, fencing, outdoor track, golf and tennis won their NJSIAA sectional championship. The Colts claimed Shore Conference titles in cross country, soccer, indoor track, swimming, golf and outdoor track. CBA added 10 division titles in 14 eligible sports as well.

Meanwhile, the crew, cross country, indoor track and sailing programs all qualified for their sport’s National Championship in 2016-2017.

The CBA Class of 2017 student-athletes produced 44 collegiate athletes, with 23 of them signing Division I letters of intent. CBA named 18 of those seniors as “scholar athletes,” which is awarded based on an exceptionally high grade point average while playing a varsity sport.

“CBA athletes don’t compete for awards or recognition,” Chiaravalloti continued. “We compete because of a burning passion to strive for excellence in all that we do. A passion to uphold the tradition built by those who came before us. This year’s ShopRite Cup is a celebration not only for our current athletes and coaches, but for all those who have ever worn the navy and white or cheered as a member of the Colt Crazies.”

Christian Brothers previously won the ShopRite Cup in 2004 (inaugural year), 2005, 2006, 2011, 2012, 2013, 2015 and 2016.

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Oak Hill Academy Announces New Merit Scholarship Program

Oak Hill Academy has instituted a Merit Scholarship Program for new students entering the school in grades 5-8 in September 2018. The school is looking for children who have a passion to learn in a supportive and challenging atmosphere. Awards will be determined by a committee and will be based on an entrance test, current transcript, letters of recommendation, and student essay. Candidates are chosen only on merit and is therefore a need-blind process. There will be up to four scholarships awarded of $5,000 each for the 2018-2019 school year. Merit scholarship recipients are also eligible for tuition assistance based on need through Oak Hill’s separate Tuition Assistance Program. Each scholarship will be for the duration of the student’s attendance and will continue pending the student’s high academic performance as evidenced by achieving “First Honors” each semester and a high level of citizenship. Awards will be made on a rolling basis.

Headmaster Joseph A. Pacelli states, “The purpose of the program is to help ensure a steady stream of highly qualified students who would not only benefit from an Oak Hill education, but would also contribute positive qualities to our OHA Community.”

Applicants are encouraged to contact Director of Admissions, Mrs. Christina Larkins, at Oak Hill Academy for more information at clarkins@oakhillacademy.com. Application forms can be found on the admissions section of the school website at oakhillacademy.com.

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Congratulations to Holmdel Football Club’s Recent Accomplishments Holmdel NJX Reign ‘05 Wins EDP Fall Cup 2017!

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Ethnocentrism is believing and acting on the notion that our culture is superior to another’s, which creates narrow opportunities to explore and grow in appreciation of another’s worldview. So, how are you keeping your cultural baggage in check? You may be surprised to learn that beyond traveling the globe or working in a highly diverse environment, there is a multitude of learning opportunities here in Monmouth County.

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The cultural center is used for dances, concerts, and community gatherings to celebrate life. Jani, the pagan holiday that celebrates the summer solstice is the most important Latvian holiday on their secular calendar. The evening celebration starts prior to June 23rd which is St Johns Day. This holiday celebrates the saint’s birthday, six months prior to Christmas. When our Latvian student shared his love for opera and singing in the shower, we knew he was a product of a rich artistic culture. For those of you asking Siri, “Where the heck is Latvia?”, know that the independent Baltic country is lodged between Estonia

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Our Beijing student darted out the door to Manhattan with his red “Hongbao” or traditional red money envelope, hoping that his gift was worthy of the bride and groom’s celebration. We knew after consulting with our student that his envelope had no folded, soiled bills, no coins and if it was a check, did not include the unlucky number four. In Chinese cultural traditions, the number four symbolizes death and is clearly bad luck on a celebratory wedding day.

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