CM: Colts Neck • Holmdel • Lincroft - May 2019

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Custom built and designed in 2008 with the finest quality, workmanship and unique architectural detail. Exquisitely appointed features adorn every room in this home. As you enter the home thru the exterior doors from Spain, you are faced with a double-sided fireplace in a two-story foyer, immediately capturing the warmth within. Custom built ins, architectural millwork, white oak flooring throughout, his and her master baths, to name a few of its amenities. This home is sunlit in every room with a wall of windows at the entire rear of the home that look out onto the pool and beautifully landscaped grounds. Perfect home for indoor or outdoor entertaining, its open floor plan allows for easy conversation and cooking. A perfect transition to the outdoors is an IPE deck with grill area. The Gunite pool includes a waterfall, spa and is surrounded by a blue stone patio.

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May is chock full of interesting “days”. For instance, May 4 is Star Wars Day (May the 4th be with you), May 11 is National Eat What You Want Day, and May 19 is National Devil’s Food Cake Day. Chocolate chips are celebrated on the 15th, Mimosas on the 16th, and May 25 pays homage to the fruit of the vine with National Wine Day. But in between all that fun, there are two very special days we all can say have had an impact on our lives – Mother’s Day on May 12 and Memorial Day, formally known as Decoration Day, on May 27.

Our cover story is about a mom who went through a terrible ordeal and has come out the other side trying to make a difference for others facing similar pains. On page 46 you’ll meet Donna Ongsiako who survived an attack in her home. She now spends her time helping other crime victims. We wanted to bring you, our readers, this important and sobering story in observance of May being Mental Health Awareness Month.

In our pages this month we are focused on area nonprofits, various events, and lots of pictures of local faces. We bring you updates from the New Jersey Hall of Fame as well as some exciting expansions and changes to local landmarks and schools. We know local matters, and with all that’s been going on in our beautiful Monmouth County, we at CM are dedicated to keeping you in the know.

As we greet the unofficial start of summer, and remember to honor those who gave their lives for our freedom through their service in our military, I wish you all a happy May.

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On April 18, Holmdel Recreation hosted its inaugural Flashlight Egg Hunt at Cross Farm Park. Hundreds of children and their families came out for a fun night of music and dancing from DJ Menson of Kidz Klub Parties, face painting by Holmdel High School Alum Anita Nicosia, a giant bouncy castle, and visits with the Easter Bunny, Andy the Armadillo from Holmdel’s Texas Roadhouse, and Officer Friendly and McGruff, the Crime Dog from the Holmdel Township Police Department.

SPRING AT HOLMDEL LIBRARY If you haven’t seen Bell Works in the spring, that alone is worth the ride to the library! The view from the Holmdel Library windows is breathtaking and serene with the trees in bloom. Perhaps that is part of the reason that the Holmdel branch has been voted the best place in Monmouth County to study.

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For adults, the Holmdel Library has two wonderful programs planned. On May 8, from 7:00 to 8:30 pm, there is a Belly Dance class! If you’ve been wanting to try belly dance, now is your chance. Join instructor Evandne Sarai and learn the basics of this ancient dance. No experience required and all shapes and sizes are welcome. The Library is excited to welcome Holmdel local and author Phyllis Ameduri, as she discusses her new novel, Never Ruled by Man. She

tells the real-life story of Mary Ann Bascombe, a unique and eccentric who lived in 19th century Stapleton, NY. Born to the working class, orphaned at 12 and forced to work as a housemaid, she went on to great success as a lay lawyer, businesswoman, activist and politician.

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The Price of Stress I manage people’s investments for a living and my goal is to get them to stress less (as money can be a definite source of stress). We’re all susceptible to stress, even those who appear to be living “the good life”. There’s a difference between the occasional stressful “situation” and a stressed-out lifestyle. If you feel like you spend most of your day in the stress zone, it may be time to reassess what you’re doing, where you’re doing it and with whom. Here are some patterns I’ve noticed: 1. “You didn’t have time to breathe today” If you never have time to grab a coffee, eat lunch or visit the restroom during the day, chances are you’re “in the stress zone”. If every day is so packed you don’t feel like it’s possible to take care of your basic human needs, you can’t be thinking clearly. It’s a fact that we’re better friends, and humans in general when we’re taking care of ourselves. Drinking water, eating right, exercising and taking breaks are all crucial for us to be “balanced” and perform at our best. When we’re overwhelmed and swimming in tasks, it’s impossible to focus, and hinders your ability to make progress and GOOD DECISIONS. We all think we’re great multitaskers. We’re not. Let’s admit it and move on. The next time you’re in “I don’t have time to eat” mode, take a long hard look - something's gotta give. Tonight, ask yourself, “What did I REALLY accomplish today?”

2. “Your To-Do List just went onto Page 2” When you’re out to dinner with friends, at the gym or walking the beach, and your “to do” list is being built; or if you’re whole family can name everyone you work or volunteer with and their annoying quirks, that’s a sign that you’re not “balancing”. There’s nothing wrong with “caring” or wanting to do well, but if you spend all your friends & family time talking about others, don’t be shocked if you find yourself with less friend and family time. No one wants to constantly hear about your drama (we all have it) — even those who love you! Want to know

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a trick? Work on your listening skills. You have two ears and one mouth – use them proportionally.

3. “You’re always cranky” Or sick, or both. Our bodies have a way of telling us we’re too stressed if we’re moving too fast to notice it ourselves. If you find you’re irritable, unusually tired, or feeling lousy, this is something to pay attention to.

It’s not a shock that so many of us end up sick after a big event or project. We used up all our energy getting through it, and our bodies have had enough. Pay attention to how you’re feeling physically as well as emotionally. And get yourself to the gym, a doctor or to a happy hour and on the right track with self-care (don’t neglect yourself!)

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Annual Wine & Martini Tasting Benefit Raises more than $50,000 for Impact 100 Jersey Coast LEFT TO RIGHT: Heather Burke, Impact 100 Jersey Coast Vice President and Co-Founder; Deirdre Spiropoulos, Impact 100 Jersey Coast President and Co-Founder; Lynn Ann and Steve Bidgood

SALT CREEK GRILLE’S 16TH ANNUAL WINE & MARTINI TASTING FUNDRAISER raised over $50,000 for Impact 100 Jersey Coast at the event on April 11. One hundred percent of the proceeds raised by sponsorships, ticket sales and live auction items went directly to Impact 100 Jersey Coast. In the last 16 years, The Wine & Martini event has raised more than $1 million in total funds for local charities. The lively, cocktail-style event was sold out. More than 150 attendees enjoyed live jazz music by the local favorite, Bobby Boyd Trio, great food, premiere wines and spirits, and a live auction with auctioneer NJ 101.5 Big Joe Henry.

Impact 100 Jersey Coast is a collaborative of women of all ages and backgrounds who combine their charitable dollars, experience and energy to raise awareness of our community’s most pressing needs and to fund transformational grants for high-impact projects addressing those needs. Earlier this year, Salt Creek Grille announced its chosen charity for

2019 with a flag presentation bearing Impact 100’s logo. The flag will fly from the waterfront restaurant through the entire year, with the intent to create more public awareness.

“We are tremendously grateful to Salt Creek Grille for supporting Impact’s continued growth and for helping us reach new women and nonprofits in every corner of our community,” said Heather Burke, Vice President and Cofounder. “Their support will truly have a ripple effect in our community as we help identify and fund high-impact projects across a range of issue areas.”

The event was sponsored by the following organizations and individuals: Brown Brother Harriman, Stillwell-Hansen, ICC Industrial Cooling Corp, Mazza Recycling, Two Rivers Community Bank, Liotta Family and Missig Family, Steve Bidgood, Jennifer Clark, Cheryl and Hayden Jones, Lori and David Missig, Relish Your Chef by Marcy Ragan, Deirdre and George

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A raw bar was donated by Lusty Lobster and artisan cheeses by Sickles Market. Wines were donated and tastings poured by representatives from Allied Beverage Group, LLC; Ferrari-Carano Vineyards & Winery; J. Lohr Vineyard & Wines; The Winebow Group; distilled spirits were poured by Zyr Vodka. Local craft beers were provided by Cape May Brewery and Shore Point Distributing Company, Inc.. Food was donated

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“We couldn’t raise this kind of money without the support of my fantastic staff and generous vendors and local businesses,” said Steve Bidgood, Salt Creek Grille’s co-owner. “I only ask my vendors once a year to come forward and help out, and boy do they! Many of them have donated products for 16 straight years.”

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“Our Annual Ladies Night Out Gala is our biggest and best fundraiser of the year. We rely on our Chairs, Gala Committee, sponsors, ad-

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Event Chairs Courtney McCormick and Crystal Kaplan shared, “Our Mardi Gras Gala was a hit! It was high energy the entire night and you could tell everyone truly enjoyed themselves.

Our Annual Gala is something we look forward to every year, not only because it gives us the opportunity to come together as a community, but it’s also quite the accomplishment when we see how much money we raised in the end to support our children and their education.”

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Local Author Commemorates the 50th Anniversary of 1969 with a Unique Novel

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olmdel resident Sea Gudinski recently published her first novel, titled 1969: A Brief and Beautiful Trip Back, in commemoration of the year’s 50th anniversary. The novel took six years to research.

Gudinski is a graduate of Saint Benedict Catholic and Holmdel High School. Although she was an excellent student and graduated with honors, she chose not to go to college and instead manages her family’s business.

Gudinski explained what led to her decision to write this novel. “As a lover of history and a seeker of knowledge both new and forgotten, I have been composing works of historical fiction for the last eleven years. 1969 is my first published novel, and as is typical of my work, it combines factual events with a fictional narrative. The novel is a tribute to the era. Both of my parents lived through the 1960s. My father was a soldier in Vietnam as well as a musician. He was involved in the counterculture and attended Woodstock in 1969—an event that he felt dramatically influenced the course of his life. I grew up hearing his stories and listening to the music of the era and felt a personal connection to the time. I was inspired by the time and by the people and what they were trying to do. There is something magical about the ideals of peace and love and freedom expressed in that way. There’s something about an entire generation of people

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so taken by the same vision, each of them striving toward it as they saw fit. There’s something about a couple million people trying to live a ‘utopian’ lifestyle in a very dystopian world. There’s something very poetic and something very raw about that.

It speaks to our humanity and the human condition; our follies and our redemption, our shortcomings and our triumphs.”

She continued, “My intent behind 1969 was to recapture the spirit of that time half a century ago and preserve for history a record of the message, meaning, and legacy of the era. To provide an entertaining, accurate, and objective perspective of the decade that could be enjoyed by those who lived through it as well as those who learned about it in school.”

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deal of Rhiannon’s (the book’s narrator) experiences and spiritual realizations are based on my own. Six years is a long time to spend dedicated to one literary work, and many of the things I learned and experienced throughout the process of researching and writing became absorbed into the novel. There was a great deal of growth and self-seeking that went on in my own life over the course of those six years, and you can see that plainly reflected in my writing as the story progresses.”

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The Country Day School of Colts Neck Celebrates Success and New Expansion

BY JEANNE WALL Publisher and Editor, TAPinto Holmdel, Colts Neck & Middletown Sign-up for free daily online news at TAPinto.net/enews.

In March, there was a warm welcome on a rainy day for the open house and ribbon cutting to celebrate the new expansion of The Country Day School of Colts Neck (CDSCN).

Nurturing and educating children from infancy through pre-k since 2007, CDSCN celebrated the opening of its new Science, Technology, Engineering, Arts and Math (STEAM) Lab, an additional classroom, and an expanded Nursery. Colts Neck Committeemen; Mike Viola and JP Bartolomeo were present, as well as Glen Dalakian and Sue Fitzpatrick of the Colts Neck Business Association.

The ribbon cutting was held in the new STEAM Lab. The Lab is affectionately named “Miss Mimi’s STEAM Room” after a beloved teacher Dr. Mariana “Mimi” Pedro-Medlin who passed in October of 2018. Her husband, Jay Medlin, was at the ribbon cutting and commented, “My wife Mimi was a school psychologist for many years, and she loved more than anything to work with young children. She changed her career and decided to work here and found so much joy in doing so. She really loved to work here.”

The classrooms were open for touring; teachers greeted guests and answered any questions.

“It has been such an incredible year!” said owner Lori Ellis.

“My husband John and I are so excited about all of the new things we are doing. We are so grateful to our 70+ families for all their support. Our Executive Director, Ashley Mole has played a huge role in our success during this past year. Ashley has been with the school for many years and has always had a tremendous following amongst the students and parents. I couldn’t ask for a better director and I’m so grateful to her for partnering with me on this journey. We’re so fortunate to have such incredible teachers, many of whom have been with us for many years and some who

have joined us this past year and have already had a tremendous impact on our students’ lives. This is the best job in the world!

We’re so blessed to have a school that feels like home to so many families.”

Class sizes are kept small and if you are going back to work after baby is born, there is an infant care program with a 1 to 2 caregiver to child ratio, providing unparalleled care. The CDSCN mantra is “Our nurturing staff ensures that every child feels welcome, special and loved.”

CDSCN’s classrooms are meant to be colorful and welcoming, the staff warm and friendly. The walls are full of children’s artwork and inspirational messages. The new STEAM Lab has learning stations with exciting activities like butterfly metamorphising, plant growing, an engineering corner, and so much more with the intention of engaging and exciting young minds.

At CDSCN, they strive to make learning fun. The children are immersed in an interactive playful learning environment where social interaction is made enjoyable for everyone.

The Country Day School offers flexible full time and part time schedules and drop in care to meet every need for registered students and their families. Your child does not already have to be potty trained to begin at CDSCN. All of the CDSCN teachers are experienced and certified to teach pre-k and early education. All of the teachers and administrators are trained in CPR and first aid.

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CASA Hosts Spring Garden Gala, Honors Tony Shay

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Back row, left to right: Joe Sparaccio, Thomas Vates, Brian torpey, Tom Sannelli, Randall Paulikens, Tony Shay, John Frattellone, Steven Seneca, Leo Reich, Mitch Abrams. Front row, left to right: Jennivere Kenlon, Alana Barofsky, Murielle Steven-Walsh, Joan Osborne, Cindi Van Brunt, Jessica Mazur

Court Appointed Special Advocates (CASA) for Children of Monmouth County honored Tony Shay with CASA’s prestigious President’s Award on April 6 at the organization’s Spring Garden Gala at Hollywood Golf Club in Deal.

“We were thrilled to be able to recognize Tony’s long-time accomplishments as a true champion for children,” said Cynthia Van Brunt, executive director for CASA for Children of Monmouth County. “We greatly admire his many years of service on the Child Placement Review Board and his ten instrumental years as CASA board

president. Tony’s dedication to the needs of underserved children is both humbling and inspiring.”

CASA also honored Monmouth County resident Alana Barofsky with CASA’s Collegiate Award for Humanitarianism. “Alana epitomizes the can-do spirit of volunteerism, and we’re delighted to recognize her selfless efforts in giving back to the community,” said Van Brunt.

CASA’s Spring Garden Gala featured live and silent auctions, cocktails and appetizers, dinner and dessert stations and entertainment.

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CASA for Children of Monmouth County is part of a statewide network of community-based, non-profit programs that recruit, screen, train, and supervise volunteers to “Speak Up for a Child” removed from home due to abuse and/or neglect. The Colts Neck-based organization’s 100 advocates served 205 children this past year.

CASA is the only program in New Jersey that uses trained volunteers to work oneon-one with children, ensuring that each one gets the services needed and achieves permanency in a safe, nurturing home.

New Jersey Hall of Fame Induction Ceremony Announced The 11th annual induction ceremony for the New Jersey Hall of Fame will be held Sunday, October 27, at the Paramount Theatre in Asbury Park.

Proceeds from the event, which will cap off the HOF’s capital campaign, are to benefit the NJHOF’s permanent museum at the American Dream complex in East Rutherford. Tickets will go on sale in June for the induction, which will run from 7 to 9:30 p.m.

“The ceremony honoring our 2019 class is both a celebration of the inductees’ achievements and a celebration of New Jersey,” said Jon F. Hanson, chairman of the NJHOF. “We also are pleased that proceeds from the induction will benefit our permanent museum at American Dream.”

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Paramount, which is part of the Asbury Park Convention Hall complex. Announcement of musical performers for the star-studded induction is to be made in June.

“Our 11th annual induction ceremony will be a celebration of another stellar class of Jersey legends, and the culmination of our $10 million capital campaign,” said Steve Edwards, president of the NJHOF. The museum is scheduled to open in December 2020 at the American Dream complex. In the meantime, a hologram time capsule is sited at Terminal A in Newark Liberty International Airport, and includes holographic interviews with inductees Connie Chung, Mary Higgins Clark, Tommy James, Wyclef Jean, Mark Kelly, and Steven Van Zandt.

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Fulfill’s Annual Gala Raised More Than 1 Million Meals Humanitarian Honorees Ray & Elsie Catena

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he 2019 Road Trip to End Hunger Humanitarian Gala raised 1.2 million meals in one night, exceeding the projected goal.

The night was dedicated to honoring humanitarians Ray & Elsie Catena & the Ray Catena Family of Dealerships and Chris Sullens, CEO, CentralReach. This gala is the largest annual fundraiser for Fulfill, formerly the FoodBank of Monmouth and Ocean Counties.

Setting a philanthropic mood for the night, Ray and Elsie Catena and the Family of Dealerships announced during the acceptance speech their donation of a Mer-

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cedes Benz Sprinter van, surprising those involved with the organization. The event was held at the newly renovated Sheraton of Eatontown and featured musical entertainment from Jeff Kazee & the House Cats featuring Mark Rivera. Guests of the soldout event had the chance to bid on auction experiences, including a beautiful 9-bedroom vacation home on the banks of the North Carolina coast and a private captain navigated fishing trip and even cooking lessons with Joe Leone.

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(left to right) Jim Buchanan, Sandy Catena-Buchanan and their son RJ Buchanan

lion meals for our neighbors. Chris Sullens’ generosity and the surprise donation of the Sprinter van from the Catena family took the evening beyond our expectations. The local Jersey Shore roadtrip theme carried throughout the night really focusing on our mission to end local hunger,” said Diana Flippo, Strategic Gifts Manager.

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Colts Neck Business Association (CNBA) held its 11th Annual Luncheon at Trump National Golf Course on March 26, 2019. This soldout event began with business networking, where attendees had the opportunity to converse with numerous vendors from Monmouth and Ocean Counties, receive autographs from NFL superstar Fred Baxter and enter into the silent auctions.

In attendance were the CNBA 2019 Officers, which included President Glen J. Dalakian, Vice President Dino Nicoletta, Treasurer Oliver Guminski, Recording Secretary Leanne Lucarelli, Corresponding Secretary Vito Viola, and Past President Sue Fitzpatrick. In addition to the CNBA Executive Board, there were over 240 members and prospective members in attendance.

During the sit-down lunch, President Glen J. Dalakian highlighted the 2018 accomplishments of the CNBA and honored Mario Geneve, one of the Founding Fathers of the CNBA, and all he has contributed to the community of Colts Neck. The CNBA Officers also took the time to honor the supporting member of the year, Mary Burke of Heritage House Sotheby’s International Realty.

Inaugural Golf Outing is a Special Thank You As a way to show gratitude to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, George and Mary Schneider, long-time Colts Neck residents, are hosting a golf outing on July 8 at the Trump National Golf Course. On February 2, 2018, Bridget, their 6-year-old granddaughter, was diagnosed with osteosarcoma in her right leg. Her parents applied to St. Jude in Memphis, TN for her treatments and Bridget received 20 weeks of chemo, followed by a leg amputation, and then 32 more weeks of chemo. She will remain a St. Jude outpatient until the age of 21.

George and Mary decided to create the St. Jude New Jersey Golf Classic in honor of the strength and courage of their granddaughter. Guests will enjoy a full round of golf, lunch, cocktails, live music, a silent auction, and dinner to benefit the St. Jude mission: Finding cures. Saving children.® Sponsorship opportunities are available, as well as individual tickets for the cocktail reception and dinner.

“If you have a healthy child or grandchild say thank you and donate!” said Mary.

Bridget’s cancer was discovered when she went to the doctor for an injury she had gotten during soccer practice. She had appeared to be a perfectly healthy child, and the family expresses gratitude for having found the cancer when they did. Mary left her job and temporarily moved to Memphis to be with her daughter, Jaime Korn, as they navigated Bridget’s illness. Jaime (Mary’s daughter) moved to Arizona with her husband after graduating from St. John Vianney High School and living in Colts Neck with her parents.

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St. Jude a happy place despite the difficulty of the situation. They even host a senior prom. They make it as normal as they can for the kids.”

The Golf Outing is meant to help St. Jude and its mission to end childhood cancers.

“When Danny Thomas started St. Jude in the 1950s, 1 out of 5 of the children survived. Now, it’s 4 out of 5 at the hospital,” shared Mary. “St. Jude is working to make that number worldwide. They just donated $100 million to the United Nations as the odds worldwide for children are still 1 in 5. They even share their research, which is not the norm. They’re just amazing, I can’t say enough about them.”

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As I tried to shut the door, he charged at it and stuck the knife through the opening before I could shut it all the way. The knife cut the tip of my finger and I pulled my hand off the door. He got in. He was in my house standing in front of me with a knife, staring straight at me. He could have just held me at knife point, taken my car keys and left, again, another opportunity for him to leave, but he didn’t. He started slashing me... (an excerpt from Donna Ongsiako’s Victim Impact Statement) Sometimes a movie or a book can have a lasting impact. You may leave the movie theater and you can’t stop thinking about the movie. Sometimes the experience changes how you feel about certain aspects of your life. Perhaps it changes your behavior in some way.

Maybe it moves you, stays with you. Maybe it changes you forever.

That is what Donna Ongsiako’s real life, nonfiction, story seems to do to everyone who hears her tell it, or anyone who reads her victim impact statement.

It is haunting. It is unbelievable.

In 2013, Donna was living happily with her daughter Kiersten, in an old farmhouse on a flower farm in bucolic Colts Neck. It was a peaceful place to live, it was home. "I was happy and carefree,” shared Donna. “I can honestly say that life was great.”

She had just shared a fun few days enjoying the 4th of July holiday with family and friends.

The evening was winding down

on July 6th and Donna was preparing to go to sleep.

It was shortly after midnight, the temperature was hot, very hot. A heat-wave had hit the east coast. Her home was dark, the lights were out, it was bedtime.

Donna thought she heard her cat scratching at the door and went to let him in for the night.

She swung open her front door and stood face-to-face with a stranger. He had a knife. He immediately charged at the door as she tried to shut it, and without a word he began slashing her...

Donna chose to be anonymous at the time of the trial - not anymore.

This article is about Donna and her mission to help victims of violent crimes. This is about the amazing strength that she found within herself despite the heinous violent crime against her and all the suffering she bears everyday with her physical and mental scars; Donna has emerged and she's speaking out. She's helping others every day, on a mission to help victims of random violent crimes. Donna has founded

BY J E A N N E WA LL Publisher and Editor TAPinto Holmdel, Colts Neck & Middletown

Survivors of Violent Crimes, a 501(c)3 non-profit organization, which is a peer support group providing resources for survivors of violent crimes. The organization's mission is also to raise awareness of PTSD. I had the privilege to meet and get to know Donna in an exclusive series of in-person interviews, including accompanying her on the road at the Monmouth County Sheriff’s Office in Freehold, where she shared her story to help ninety cadet officers better understand crime from a victim’s perspective.

Donna, at the hands of a stranger, suffered a brutal stabbing attack. He stabbed her multiple times across the face, her neck, plunging the knife into her chest and then into the back of her neck... He left her to die. Walked over her saying, "You’re dead (explicit language)".

Then he took her car keys, stole her car and took off into the night.

After seven long hours of surgery where according to reports given to Donna there was doubt from many that she was going to make it; Donna survived—she was on life support.

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onna comments, "I remember waking up in the hospital in absolute disbelief. I was fortunate that some of the best trauma doctors in the country were at the hospital when the ambulance arrived. They eliminated some of the scarring that would have been front and center on my neck. They had to repair my internal injuries from all the wounds to my chest area. I have a continuous scar running from my neck and down my chest to the bottom of my sternum. I suffered nerve damage to one side of my body, causing my left side to have permanent nerve damage. I had surgery to repair the drooping of my eyelid; there is no surgery to repair the nerve damage. I woke up scarred forever. Looking at my face for the first time was something I will never forget. I was horrified. I had stitches and staples in my face, front of my neck, back of my neck, chest, abdomen, hand, my left arm was flail and my left eye was drooping... I was physically and mentally broken."

For Donna it was the beginning of a very long road. "I was now living with post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), anxiety, depression, living in fear every moment. In addition, the person that did this to me was still out there somewhere. I knew he could come back and finish me off. My car was found and taken into evidence; my home was a crime scene that I would never return to live in."

Eventually Donna's attacker was caught. He was only 16 at the time of the crime. This article is not about him. (There are many articles from that time that can be searched online for details on the attacker). This is Donna's story. Donna also won a civil trial against her attacker, and his father for hiding the whereabouts of his son.

Donna comments on the civil suit, "It's not about the money, it's about accountability. It felt so good when the judge validated my feelings that I had been violated. You can't put a price on physical and mental scarring. My prescription for time off after the attack was for three months for the physical wounds to heal. What

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I would like to have is to be rewarded the opportunity to step back and take a mental break with the award that my civil suit could afford me. Since the attack the psychological healing has to happen when I can fit it in. Collecting on the civil award would afford the opportunity to take the time and explore different treatment modalities. It would create the opportunity to focus on healing both my daughter and me, to rebuild my life, my comfort and my safety. That financial burden falls on me, for the rest of my life. " As part of her work with her nonprofit, Survivors of Violent Crimes, Donna's contact information is given to victims of random violent crimes to call on her to help them on their journey of healing. Part of Donna's mission is also to raise awareness of PTSD. "Living with PTSD every day is extremely difficult,” noted Donna. “Every morning I wake up in fear, full of anxiety. I don't sleep well. My anxiety skyrockets at night. I sleep with a light on, always. Waking in the morning starts a process of calming my nerves, I physically tremble, I need to regulate my breathing, I have to talk myself into the day and focus on getting from my home to my office. It's a constant struggle to confirm that I am safe. It's exhausting. It affects every part of my life. Fortunately for me, my employer has been over and above supportive, making allowances along the way. Having

had the time to try to give my mind the time to heal."

Donna added, "The Parkland survivor who tragically died by suicide recently was also dealing with post-traumatic stress syndrome.

We have to look for the symptoms for someone that has gone through trauma and realize that the face of PTSD can look like me, gets up every day, makes themselves look presentable, gets to work... there needs to be help, more awareness of what to look for. I am relieved that people are talking about PTSD with the Parkland suicide, and I feel that people look at me and think, ‘Oh she’s fine, look at her, she’s doing great.’

She smiled, “I'm not great. There is not a day, or even a minute that goes by that is not a struggle in dealing with my PTSD. It sucks you into the darkest deepest black hole that you can be in and I believe the girl in Parkland was in that dark place and I have been there."

Chief Medical Officer of the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, Dr. Christine Moutier, MD, said, “The internal experience of mental health conditions like PTSD is actually so profound it's hard to put into words to help people understand. Just like physical pain can be intense but only the person experiencing it knows what it's like, the same goes for symptoms that stem from changes in the brain. And just like physical pain changes over time and affects the person in different ways,

Don’t be afraid of the stigma of PTSD. It’s okay to fear PTSD but not the person that has it. my job to go back to and move forward in was so important. It kept me moving, motivated, and gave me a sense of purpose amid horror and chaos. I am eternally grateful to them. For my speaking engagements it takes every ounce of my strength to get there and to make it happen, but I know it's something I have to do to help others."

Donna continues, "I am very fearful of people that I do not know, doors, and the dark. I am extremely fearful of anyone coming to my front door and I have to have notice from anyone that they are going to visit. I am absolutely terrified of certain situations, dark rooms, everyone to me is a possible threat. I see my physical scars every time I look in the mirror, but I live every moment of every day with my mental wounds, the invisible pain of PTSD is overwhelming and it is nearly six years later and I feel I have not

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the same goes for mental health symptoms.

When we experience something traumatic, our physiology in our brain and body is affected.

For some people that develops into a full-blown syndrome (PTSD) which takes on a life of its own, floods the body with stress hormones like cortisol on an ongoing chronic basis, causes the person to be on hyperalert for any potential threat, even when they are in a safe place. Sleep, mood, thinking, perception and processing can all be intensely affected. One reason it can be hard to see all of this going on in a loved one or colleague is that our culture hasn't taught us a way to express these experiences. So, we grow up being socialized to 'chin up' and 'what doesn't kill you makes you stronger'. There are times when that's terrific to work through challenges on your own; but there are other times when it becomes literally life threatening.”

DONNA IN JUNE 2013 – WEEKS BEFORE SHE WAS ATTACKED.

"Don’t be afraid of the stigma of PTSD,” commented Donna. “It’s okay to fear PTSD but not the person that has it. That’s part of the problem because when you have PTSD you feel like no one can understand you because you are different from everyone else. Everyone expects you to move on and be your old self again and that’s impossible without the therapy and the time you need to take to go through the healing process."

Donna, when speaking during normal conversation, often seems sad. However, when she talks about the first responders on the scene of the attack, Officer Tom Ward for instance, her face lights up. When she speaks about her victim advocate assigned to her since the attack; Nancy Frankie, her face lights up. Donna credits a large part of her ability to function to Nancy Frankie, Director, Victim Witness Unit Monmouth County Prosecutor’s Office.

"Nancy Frankie has helped me so much since she was assigned to my case,” said Donna. “I would have never made it this far without Nancy. She is someone who I feel has helped me more than anyone in my journey to heal and to help others."

Donna, as part of her mission to help others, now assists Nancy in presentations to cadet classes, speaking about the victim's perspective and how important first responders are. "I believe Tom Ward (Colts Neck Police) and the other officers and first aid responders saved my life, along with the surgeons of course," said Donna. "The way Tom cradled my head and the first aid that was administered by everyone kept me alive until the doctors could take over.

Speaking to the cadets and telling my story in detail gives them insight from the victims perspective, lets them know the vital role they will play in saving lives."

In addition to the cadet classes, Donna visits state prisons speaking to groups of inmates showing them and explaining to them from the victim's perspective the destruction caused by senseless violent crimes.

"I've watched grown men, hardened crim-

inals brought to tears after hearing my victim impact statement and seeing the pictures of my wounds,” said Donna. “I know my talks are changing their pattern of thinking." Donna also speaks to criminal justice classes at colleges, explaining the victim's perspective and the vital role criminal justice serves.

Nancy Frankie, Director, Victim Witness Unit Monmouth County Prosecutor's Office, said, "I have been working with Donna from the beginning of this terrible crime, and over the years I’ve had the opportunity to watch her work through her process and evolve from this experience. Donna has been sharing her story with police recruits for years; with each presentation, she is able to initiate a tremendous impact. She expands their compassion, which in turn changes their life, and influences how they will treat future victims in their career.

You mentioned that Donna has a light within her, which you say is special.”

"After I was attacked, I soon realized that there were great support groups with many resources available for victims of domestic violence and many other categories, but there was no organization in place to help victims of random acts of violence,” said Donna. “I left the hospital displaced from my home, paying car payments on a car that was impounded as evidence, and I lived in constant, intense fear. I was fortunate enough to have an employer who kept me employed, and when I could physically go back to work my job was waiting for me, but not everyone has that situation. I was physically and mentally devastated."

When criminals are sentenced, they are hit with a fine and that money goes into a Victims of Crime Compensation Organization (VCCO) which covers any crime related injuries, repair, relocation, doctor's co-pays, prescriptions, but the victim is capped at $25,000. Donna's surgeries were covered mainly under her employer's insurance, but the repair of her eye was a battle to have covered because it was considered plastic surgery. Eventually, with the doctor lowering the price and finally the VCCO

NANCY FRANKIE, DIRECTOR, VICTIM WITNESS UNIT MONMOUTH COUNTY PROSECUTOR’S OFFICE, WITH DONNA AT THE MONMOUTH COUNTY SHERIFF’S OFFICE WITH THE CADET CLASS WHERE DONNA SHARED HER STORY.

agreeing it was necessary surgery, the VCCO paid. Currently Donna is near her cap with the VCCO. “Innocent victims should not have to struggle to pay for treatments,” said Donna. "I need ongoing therapies for my PTSD and soon my VCCO contribution will be maxed out. There are no benefits to cover my treatments and that is not the way it should be."

Raising awareness of PTSD is something that Donna is very passionate about. It's a big part of her mission for Survivors of Violent Crimes. "I decided to form Survivors of Violent Crimes to be a resource offered to anyone who finds themselves in a situation like mine,” shared Donna. “See me, I look like everything is fine right? This is what PTSD looks like. This is the invisible condition that needs intense therapies.

We need to talk about it, start the conversation.

I want every victim of a violent crime to understand and feel the following: YOU MATTER, you have a voice, you are not alone, and your story can help others."

In Monmouth County, when someone is a victim of a violent crime, the victim advocate assigned can provide the victim with Donna's Survivors of Violent Crimes information and her phone number to contact. When Donna gets a call from a victim, she goes as quickly as she can to be there for that person. Donna Ongsiako has emerged from darkness, providing a light to so many.

For more information about Survivors of Violent Crimes, visit survivorsofviolentcrimes.org.

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The Friends of Holmdel Open Space (FOHOS) is a nonprofit organization that has been active with Holmdel in preserving, developing and maintaining open space. The group has helped with the acquisitions of the Chase Tract (now the Ramanessin Section of Holmdel Park), the Neil Waackaack Preserve (adjacent to Allocco Park), and the Callan Farm. FOHOS has supported the maintenance of the Harding House, the barns, and the trails at Bayonet Farm, and have been instrumental in developing and maintaining walking/hiking trails throughout Holmdel.

FOHOS is hosting trails walks throughout this spring, all walks are “show and go”; that is, there is no need to register. Just show up at the meeting time and place. The pace will be moderate, and most will be for just a few hours. Everyone is welcome, even your dogs!

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National Trails Day -- Ramanessin Brook Greenway Hike Saturday, June 1, 10:00 am to 2:00 pm Celebrate National Trails Day with FOHOS and hike a portion of the Ramanessin Brook Greenway. Meet at 10:00 am in the Holmdel High School Parking Lot near the Duncan Smith Theatre. Walk along sections of the Ramanessin Brook Greenway to Village School. Bring day-pack with lunch and rain gear. The overall distance will be about 4-5 miles and the hike will go at a moderate pace. Shuttles will be used so that this can be a one-way hike. *Please note: You can help us plan the shuttles by registering for this hike (not mandatory) by calling Ralph Blumenthal at 732.264.8482.

Fossil Hunt Saturday, June 22 from 10:00 am to 12:00 noon Meet at the Village School front parking lot and hunt for fossils in the Ramanessin Brook, which was part of an inland sea during the last ice age. Ancient shark’s teeth are frequently found in the brook. See if you can find one! This short walk is especially suited for children who must always be accompanied by a parent/ guardian, as we’ll be wandering in the brook, wear water shoes and clothes that can get wet. The walk is approximately 0.25 miles.

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New Firehouse Slated for Holmdel Township

“Fire safety is critical. It is really, really critical” stated Mayor Hinds.

The Holmdel Township Committee agreed to amend the 2019 municipal budget to finance up to five million for a new firehouse. The resolution, introduced by Mayor Eric Hinds, would result in additional funds in the budget to build a new firehouse and add supplemental paid personnel to assist in rapid response to fire calls. It was passed unanimously.

New Jersey municipalities finance capital items such as firehouses, streets and road construction, and other high-ticket items through bonds. The budget typically includes a 5% down payment of the approximate amount required for the capital. In the example of a five-million-dollar firehouse, the Township would add an additional $250,000 to the budget.

Mayor Hinds stated that the budget will still be a ‘zero budget’ so the funds would

be redirected from another source or estimates could be modified accordingly. After the budget is formally adopted in May, the Township can consider introducing a bond ordinance. A bond ordinance requires two readings. On first reading it is passed by a simple majority. On second reading, at least four members of the Township Committee must approve it.

Personnel funding was requested by Committeeman Rocco Pascucci.

“I applaud the five million for the firehouse. We need it now,” said Committeeman Pascucci. “But I also believe we need, and I would like it added to the budget, at least $400,000 for paid people in the day...

Monday through Friday (during the day) we are weak.”

The request to add $400,000 would put the Township above the budget cap so it was reduced to $275,000 to address Committeeman Pascucci’s concerns. Com-

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miteeman Critelli agreed with Pascucci and the others followed suit.

Holmdel has lost several homes to fire in recent years and there is a keen interest on fire safety by the community. A formal study was also conducted on behalf of the Township Committee. The action follows several areas of professional guidance from the report. Namely, a properly equipped firehouse and the manpower to effectively run it 24/7. Also included are 55 emergency response radios. The supplemental paid personnel would be under the Department of Community Development, according to the Township Administrator. The location of the firehouse is still a matter to be decided but two locations mentioned most are the existing site at Crawfords Corner Road, or the farm at F and F Nurseries.

F and F Nurseries was purchased years ago to preserve farmland and open space.

Any discussion on building on this farming site instead of renovating an existing site may be more complicated for the Township Committee.

Mayor Hinds referenced that the engineer and other professionals would be key in site selection discussions and much work is still to be done.

The public hearing for the budget will be held this month.

Citizens for Informed Land Use (CILU) will host a Candidate Forum at its general meeting on Monday, May 13 at 7:30 pm in the Holmdel Community Center. The Forum will highlight Holmdel Township Committee Republican Candidates in preparation for the Republican primary on Tuesday, June 4 in which both Republicans and Independents can vote.

CILU will accept questions for the Township Committee candidates submitted electronically to rcriscione@verizon.net by May 13 at 4:00 pm or in writing by 7:15 pm. Late submissions will not be accepted. Questions are then screened to prevent duplications and allow for a wide range of pertinent topics. Biased or provocative questions will be denied. This Forum will be videotaped and posted on YouTube (Search CILU Holmdel). Voting registration and absentee ballot applications will also be available.

CILU is a nonpartisan, Holmdel-based community group that has been working since 1998 to protect our open space and natural resources. It also believes in government transparency which requires an informed citizenry. You can learn about CILU at holmdel-cilu. org.

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Inheritances and gifts from third parties to one spouse are not subject to the other spouse’s claims. Assets acquired before the marriage are generally not subject to equitable distribution either.

But what happens if, over time, a premarital or an inherited asset goes from one account to another to another? Or goes from one form into another? What if, for example, cash was inherited during the marriage and used to buy stock, also during the marriage? Does the spouse have a claim to that stock?

The first thing to understand is that the spouse who is seeking to exclude an asset acquired during the marriage from the other spouse’s claims must prove that it is an exempt asset. That is called the burden of proof. The other spouse only has to show that it was acquired

during the marriage. If that is proven, the burden shifts to the other spouse to prove that it is exempt.

He or she must prove that, although it was acquired during the marriage, it is exempt because it can be traced to an inheritance or a premarital asset. Even if the stock was purchased during the marriage it might be exempt if a paper trail exists to show that the stock was purchased with exempt funds. That is called tracing. It’s like putting a jigsaw puzzle together or connecting the dots.

You have to find the pieces (the documents) that trace the asset from its original exempt form to its present form. If you can do that, you have a good chance of excluding it from your spouse’s claims.

In the case of an inheritance, for example, it would be helpful to have a copy of the decedent’s will showing the be-

quest. Documentation from the estate, like a cancelled check or a letter from the executor or the estate’s lawyer, would help to show the transmittal. A deposit slip or a bank statement showing that the money went into your account shortly after the payment was made would be the next piece to the puzzle.

If the money sat in the account for a while, or moved from account to account, bank documents showing the history of the funds (tracing) is the next piece. And, finally, documents showing the path of the funds to the purchase of the stock are the last puzzle pieces to complete the picture.

Tracing can involve large or small amounts or long or short periods of time. The larger the amount and the longer the time period for which an asset must be traced, the harder the task. But when large amounts are involved, the potential reward may make the effort very worthwhile.

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Freeholder Burry Nominated for National Leadership Award Freeholder Lillian G. Burry has been nominated for the Association of Defense Communities (ADC) 2019 John Lynch Base Redevelopment Award for her role in the redevelopment of Fort Monmouth.

The nomination was made by the Fort Monmouth Economic Revitalization Authority (FMERA), which Freeholder Burry serves as a Board member and the Chairwoman of the Veterans Staff Advisory Committee.

“Freeholder Burry has been the backbone through this whole redevelopment process,” said Bruce Steadman, Executive Director of FMERA. “She has been outstanding in terms of her leadership and her support of every initiative. It was the natural pick for her to be our nominee.”

In the written nomination, Steadman noted that, among her many contributions to the Fort’s redevelopment, Freeholder Burry has been a tireless veterans advocate, keen on ensuring that the sacrifices made by the Fort’s soldiers be remembered and honored and was the driving force behind the County’s commitment to locate its Veterans Connection office in historic Russel Hall, on the Fort’s Main Post.

Freeholder Burry was also instrumental in proposing and obtaining Freeholder Board approval for Monmouth County to

issue bonds backed by a County guaranty, and loan the funds to FMERA for its 2016 purchase of the Main Post. This agreement allowed for Monmouth County and FMERA to assume control of the redevelopment of the Fort.

“Over the course of my career in public service, I have had the opportunity to serve as an advocate for several worthwhile causes, but the redevelopment of Fort Monmouth is something that I hold very dear,” said Freeholder Burry. “Working toward bringing life back to the Fort, while preserving open space and historic sites, has been incredibly fulfilling and something I am so proud to be a part of. To be nominated for such an esteemed award for these years of hard work and achievements made with FMERA, is an absolute honor.”

Freeholder Burry, who is currently serving a fourth term as freeholder, began her public service as a councilwoman in Matawan Borough. After moving to Colts Neck, she served as committeewoman, deputy mayor and mayor, making her mark in historic preservation and open space conservation. First elected to the Monmouth County Board of Chosen Freeholders in November 2005, she served as the first woman director in 2008 and again in 2010, 2014, and 2017.

Martha Mary Guild to Host ‘Soul’ Meeting on May 8th

On May 8, the Martha Mary Guild will have a two-part, but integrated program presentation that will conclude its 2018-2019 season. Lauren Brajure will speak about The JBJ Soul Foundation’s Soul Kitchen, a community restaurant located in Red Bank and Toms River, where individuals or families can go to eat a hot, nutritious meal in a warm, welcoming setting and meet their

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During her career, Freeholder Burry has received many awards, including the Marine Corps League Distinguished Citizen, the Sheriff’s Officers Fraternal Order of Police Person of the Year, the Historical Association’s Person of the Year, the Latino American Association’s Outstanding Community Member, the Eastern Monmouth Chamber of Commerce Spinnaker Award for Public Service, the Girl Scouts of the Jersey Shore’s Women of Distinction, and the first Vanguard Award for lifetime devotion to the arts given by the Count Basie Theatre. Working in a collaborative effort with the Soldier On organization, Burry found a home for homeless veterans of Monmouth County.

neighbors. The aim of Soul Kitchen is to empower individuals by providing volunteer opportunities to earn dining certificates to feed themselves and their family, and by providing job training in the food industry. Paying customers help effect change by donating enough to cover the cost of the volunteer customers. The customers are treated with dignity and respect, while uniting communities and forming healthy and lasting relationships through food.

The second part of the program will feature Mil Wexler Kobrinski, a local artist, who will speak to the group on behalf of Empty Bowls, which is a group of teachers, artists, and students who have banded together in using art to promote hunger awareness. An empty bowl is a powerful symbol of food insecurity.

As a community they create pottery bowls, glaze and sell them for Soul Kitchen. The money from the sales goes to ‘Pay It Forward’ for a person in need to have a free meal at the community restaurant.

All are invited to attend this wonderful program. Come at 11:30 am and join in the Spiritual Center Chapel for the rosary. Bring your lunch into Madonna hall, where Guild members will have delicious desserts ready for you. The presentation will start around noon. In addition, the Guild will be collecting bathing suits (ages 5-13) and beach towels for the Collier Camp Program.

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underscores how local women are inspired to take action, become involved and make a difference. I’m incredibly proud to be part of this collective group of passionate and committed women who care deeply about our community.”

Founded in 2015 by Deirdre Spiropoulos of Fair Haven and Heather Burke of Middletown, Impact 100 Jersey Coast is part of a growing international movement that empowers women to fund transformational change in local communities.

Each member of Impact 100 Jersey Coast donates $1,100, with $1,000 going directly to an annual grant fund that is pooled to make six-figure grants to nonprofits in Monmouth County.

IMPACT 100 JERSEY COAST, a local women’s philanthropic movement, reached an amazing milestone this month as it closed its record-breaking 2019 membership season. This fall, the group will award four grants of $110,000 each “Every year since its founding, our – bringing its total funding to non- membership growth has exceeded profits in Monmouth County to more expectations,” according to Alison than $1.1 million.

Mayo, Membership Chair. “This year we welcomed a record 440 members “This is an amazing accomplishment which will enable us to award four for the ladies of Impact 100 Jersey grants of $110,000 each to deserving Coast. The thought of awarding nonprofits in Monmouth County.” one million dollars when we started with 11 women was a dream,” Since 2016, the organization has said Deirdre Spiropoulos, President awarded grants of over $100,000 to and Co-founder of Impact 100 180 Turning Lives Around, Covenant Jersey Coast. “Our rapid growth

than art or sculpture affixed to a building or displayed in a common area, the Artnership places art and the artist in the building’s interior space and its atmospheric culture.

The experience of art in public spaces is elevated.

BELL WORKS AND HOWARD SCHOOR ART, LLC, announced their collaboration—the “Artnership,” a fresh take on art in public spaces, is coming to Bell Works’ Holmdel, Metroburb from May 15 through July 31. Whereas traditional art in public spaces often amounts to little more

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House New Jersey, the Mental Health Association of Monmouth County, CFC Loud N Clear Foundation, Caregiver Volunteers of Central Jersey, and Family Resource Associates, Inc. “We are so thrilled to be able to support the important work of local nonprofits,” said Grants Chair Rowena Crawford-Phillips.

“Every year we are impressed and inspired by the positive impact they are making in Monmouth County and we are thrilled to be able to collectively award four grants in our fourth year to help support their long-term sustainability and directly impact the lives of those they serve.”

Applying for a grant is a two-step process - interested 501(c)(3) nonprofit organizations in Monmouth County should visit impact100jerseycoast.org and view the ‘How to Apply’ section to review the requirements and to complete the eligibility quiz which is the first step. Once eligibility is confirmed, applicants will be sent a link to complete the 2019 application. The online eligibility application deadline is May 17th and the final application is due on or before May 31st.

be on site creating art and engaging with his temporary neighbors on a daily basis.

Bell Works is the reimagining of the historic former Bell Labs building in Holmdel, once the largest vacant commercial building in the country at two million square feet. The vision of Somerset Development President Ralph Zucker, the term Metroburb was coined to describe a self-contained metropolis in a livable and accessible suburban location.

Gallery visits are welcome at the Bell Works Metroburb. Studio visits are welcomed by appointment in Howard Schoor Art’s gallery/studio, located at 603 Mattison Avenue in Asbury Park. For more information about Howard Schoor Art, visit howardschoorart.com.

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White Street Parking Lot, Red Bank Family-friendly event with a variety of International food served by 20 of Red Bank’s finest restaurants, International beer and wine, great music on two stages, unique vendors. $5 donation goes to Red Bank RiverCenter & other deserving Red Bank nonprofits. Visit redbank.org for more info.

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WEDNESDAYS, 1:00 - 6:00 PM

Bell Works, Holmdel Shop weekly from more than 30 local farmers, food purveyors, local artisans and more. There will be family activities, food & craft demos, live music, libations and more! This event is FREE and open to the public. More info, visit bellworksfresh.com.

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Lay your mat in the field. Try to pay attention to yoga while baby goats climb on you, push you over and generally cause a ruckus. $30 (plus small registration fee) per person, per session benefits OASIS tlc. Reservations required. Buy your ticket/s at https://bit. ly/2FoY6n8. Upcoming dates include: 5/4, 5/14, 5/25, 6/4, 6/8, 6/26.

Opening Day at Monmouth Park MAY 4TH AT 11:00 AM

Monmouth Park Racetrack, Oceanport Riders Up! It’s been 237 days since you’ve enjoyed the excitement and thrill of Monmouth Park! Celebrate with mint juleps, Derby hats, live racing, family fun, live music and more! Host your Derby party at the track. For more information, visit monmouthpark.com.

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A Taste for Homes To benefit Habitat For Humanity of Monmouth County MAY 6TH FROM 6:00 TO 9:00 P.M.

Habitat for Humanity in Monmouth County (HFHMC) is excited to host its 4th Annual A Taste for Homes Wine & Food Tasting Event at the Oyster Point Hotel on the Navesink River in Red Bank.

The evening will showcase some of Monmouth County’s best restaurants, wineries, breweries, coffee baristas, and dessert specialists. A silent auction and raffles will round out the night. Visit atfh2019.givesmart.com to purchase your tickets.

Asbury Park Spring Bazaar MAY 11TH & MAY 12TH FROM 12:00 TO 5:00 PM

Located in the historic Grand Arcade of Convention Hall, the bazaar will feature craft & vintage vendors galore, build your own bouquet, mom’s day photo strips, live music, Mother’s Day Sunday Brunch, DIY workshops, and kids crafts. For more info, visit asburyparkbazaar.com.

Run the Hook 5K/10K MAY 12TH

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A portion of the proceeds to benefit Clean Ocean Acton, this race challenges runners and walkers of all abilities. To register, visit runthehooknj.com.

Nine and Dine Golf Outing MAY 13TH AT PEBBLE CREEK GOLF CLUB

Golf outing to benefit The Ashley Lauren Foundation. Registration and putting contest begins at 1:30 pm.

There will be a 2:30 pm shotgun start and a 5:00 pm dinner and awards presentation at Huddy’s Inn. The allinclusive golf package is $150 and the dinner only package is $65. Visit ashleylaurenfoundation.org for more info.

Fair Haven’s First Floors Tour MAY 16TH FROM 9:30 AM TO 2:00 PM

Featuring eight exquisite homes throughout Fair Haven, walk through picturesque properties and sample a variety of delicious bites prepared by the finest local restaurants, chefs & special event caterers. Meet expert interior designers, architects, florists, and home organizers. Tickets are $60 before 4/15, $65 after. For tickets, visit fairhavenpta.com.

Comedy for a Cause to Benefit Stephy’s Place

MAY 16TH – DOORS OPEN AT 7:00 PM, SHOW STARTS AT 8:00 PM

Brookdale Community College, Lincroft Featuring Erica Spera, Anthony DeVito, Jon Fisch and Charles McBee – all having appeared on Gotham Comedy Live, NY Comedy Club, Caroline’s, CBS The Late Show with Stephen Colbert and Comedy Central. Tickets are $65 per person. For tickets, visit stephysplace. org.

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FC Monmouth Local Semi-Pro Soccer Games MAY 18H AT 6:00 PM – HOME OPENER

Join hundreds of local fans at Count Basie Park in Red Bank to cheer on your local soccer team – FC Monmouth! Home games are May 18, June 1, June 15, June 22, and June 26. Get your hands-on FC Monmouth merchandise, grab something to eat and drink, and support your local soccer team with the family. Visit fcmonmouth.com for more info!

Walk-a-thon for Mary’s Place By The Sea MAY 18TH AT 11:00 A.M. | 12:00 NOON START

Walk to help women with cancer to heal mind, body, and soul at Ocean Avenue and Ocean Pathway in Ocean Grove. Since 2009, Mary’s Place has served thousands of women at no cost to their guests because of the love and support of the community. More info at marysplacebythesea.org.

Delicious Orchards Tractor Pull MAY 18TH FROM 11:00 AM TO 2:00 PM

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Jersey Shore Food Truck Festival MAY 25TH THROUGH MAY 27TH

Monmouth Park is ready to kick off its festival season! Gather your friends and bring your appetite as this year’s Jersey Shore Food Truck Festival will feature 45 mouth-watering trucks serving everything from fresh-made empanadas, to oceanfresh lobster rolls, to warm and gooey Belgian Waffle sundaes – with live music every day! Visit monmouthpark.com

Greek Festival JUNE 6TH THROUGH JUNE 9TH

Kimisis Tis Theotokou, Holmdel You too can be Greek for a day at the Holmdel Greek Food Festival! Being Greek means relishing the world around you and enjoying life to its fullest. The Greek Fest will be nothing like you’ve seen before. Come and check out homemade menus, Greek pastries, vendors, entertainment, and of course very talented dancers! You’re not going to want to miss out on our four-day event!

More info at greekfestivalholmdel.com.

OO-Blah-Dee JUNE 8TH THROUGH JUNE 30TH

Two River Theater Oo-Bla-Dee follows Evelyn Waters and the Diviners, an all-black, all-female jazz band, as they travel from St. Louis to Chicago in order to set up a record deal following the end of World War II. On this trip toward freedom the latest member of the group, sax player Gin Del Sol, must wrestle with the complex timing

of the music as well as the complicated times in which she lives. For tickets, visit tworivertheater.org

49th Annual Irish Festival JUNE 9TH

Monmouth Park, Oceanport Make it a lucky day and come celebrate your inner Irish at Monmouth Park. Grab your favorite green outfit and enjoy a fun-filled day of live Thoroughbred racing, Irish step dancing, crafters, food, a pipe and drum competition, two human horse races and so much more! Authentic Irish music and step dancing will be performed throughout the day. Plus, enjoy FREE Family Fun Day with face painting, pony rides, a bounce house and more. Visit monmouthpark.com for more info.

Summer Celebration Kickoff to Summer JUNE 10TH FROM 5:30 TO 9:00 PM

Fort Hancock, Sandy Hook Networking, exquisite food, live music, spectacular sunset over the bay hosted

by The Jersey Shore Partnership. Event to honor Montecalvo Family of Companies, Senator Joseph and Susan Kyrillos, PNC Bank and Weeks Marine, Inc. Tickets are $120, includes food, wine & beer. For tickets, visit jerseyshorepartnership.com.

Spring Lake Irish Festival JUNE 15TH FROM 12:00 TO 5:00 P.M.

Downtown Spring Lake This year the Irish Festival will feature many family-friendly events perfect for a spring-time stroll through downtown Spring Lake. Expect live music, dancing, food, kids activities and shopping. Spring Lake is known as the Jersey Shore’s Irish Riviera!

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Colts Neck Library Happenings CALLING ALL COLTS NECK 4TH GRADERS!

Friday, May 10th at 6:30 pm The Colts Neck Friends of the Library will host the 16th annual town-wide spelling bee in the Library large meeting room.

All fourth-grade students residing in Colts Neck are invited to register. Pick up a registration form at the Colts Neck Library.

Please register as soon as possible, but no later than May 7th.

Registration is free and space is limited. If you need further information, contact LiliAnn Paras at 732.547.2511 or paras1@ optonline.net.

THE DAY THE MUSIC DIED: MUSICAL PERFORMANCE BY PHIL BRUSCHI

Saturday, May 11 at 2:00 pm On February 3, 1959, American rock and roll musicians Buddy Holly, Richie Valens, and J.P. “The Big Bopper” Richardson were killed in a plane crash near Clear Lake, Iowa, together with pilot Roger Peterson. The event later became known as “The Day the Music Died”, after singer-songwriter Don McLean referred to it as such in his 1971 song, American Pie. One theme of the song seems to be the loss of innocence of the early rock and roll generation as symbolized by the plane crash claiming the lives of these young singing heroes.

This program will take it a step further by paying tribute to not only those killed in that ‘59 plane crash, but a number of other rock stars who died long before their time. Phil will discuss the careers of such artists as Jim Croche, Harry Chapin, John Lennon, Ricky Nelson, and more, while singing their hit songs.

Registration is not needed for this event, but seating is on a first-come, first-served basis.

HOW TO PROTECT YOUR STUFF

Tuesday, May 21 at 2:00 pm In order to maintain the path toward financial security you need to have a plan for those things that could go wrong.

There’s no need to dwell on the details of personal finance nightmares—or even the small events that could push you off course—but you do need to be aware that things won’t always go exactly as planned. Join us as Paul R. Daniele, Esq. discusses this topic of protecting your stuff. He will address the need for you to prepare a plan so that your assets are protected for you and your loved ones while making sure that your wishes are honored. Registration is not needed for this program but seating is on a first-come, first-serve basis.

The Library will be closed Monday, May 27 for Memorial Day. Colts Neck Library is located at 1 Winthrop Drive in Colts Neck and can be reached at 732.431.5656. All programs are free and open to the public. Be sure to “like” Colts Neck Friends of The Library on Facebook to stay up-to-date with the latest.

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Colts Neck Seniors Visit NJPAC Forty members of the Colts Neck Senior Citizens went to NJPAC in Newark to see a memorable performance of “Celtic Woman – Ancient Land Tour”. This all female troupe showcased a world-class performance of very high energy musicians, singers, and dancers. The Irish performers told traditional stories through their beautiful singing and dancing. Before the show, the Seniors hit up Nico Kitchen & Bar. All Colts Neck residents, age 55 and older, are cordially invited to join this active group. For more information, call President Jack Coppola at 732.933.0720.

Colts Neck Business Association Hosts General Meeting with Young Inspirational Guest Speaker

Colts Neck Business Association (CNBA) held its General Meeting on April 10, which featured guest speaker Daniela Olt, the Founder of Daniela’s Wish. Daniela’s Wish is a non-profit with a mission to help children suffering from illness or tragedy to find comfort and safety through the delivery of sentimental items or extra support however they may need it.

The CNBA’s next monthly general meeting will be held on May 8 at the Colts Neck Library, starting at 8:00 am, all are welcome.

The mission of the Colts Neck Business Association (CNBA) is to be a dynamic regional organization striving to promote growth, prosperity, and quality of life for our members and community and to be the voice for entrepreneurs, representing, advocating, and working to enhance the business environment in Colts Neck Township. If you are interested in becoming a member of the CNBA, the cost to join is $50 per year, which includes free admission to the Business Card Exchange events, listing in the quarterly mailers, and company listing on the CNBA website. For more information, visit coltsneckbusiness.org.

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‘Friends’ Book Sale Supports Colts Neck Library

Thanks to more than 500 volunteer hours, the Colts Neck Friends of the Library (FOL) held its annual book sale in March and raised more than $2,800 for library programs. FOL was formed 21 years ago this month and at a reception to thank the many volunteers, FOL President Michele Battista told how it all began. “The organization was formed with the goal to build a new library at no cost to the Township. It was deemed ‘The Little Township that Could’ on May 27, 2000 at the formal dedication by Dee Burtnick, (Colts Neck resident and local publisher.)” Former mayor and longtime Township committeeman, Thomas McClintock and his wife, Judy, were the drivers of the effort, donating $50,000 and challenging the community to join them to build a new million-dollar state-of-the-art library without

taxpayer dollars. Grants from the State and County were procured by then Colts Neck Mayor Lillian Burry, and many other large cash donations followed. These are recognized on the library plaque and in the many engraved bricks. Battista also gave an overview of the history of the book sale event, noting, “The book sale was started by Joan Yates in 2001, who [put a price] in each book, which to this day boggles my mind.” The early book sales were an effort by the entire Yates family and several volunteers. Over the years, Battista took the reins and it was transformed in to a larger community effort. This year the sale received many compliments from the visitors, largely due to the extra organizational efforts of Ien Yoe and Bonnie Ng.The FOL voted to end the large annual book sale, and plan to have mini book sales hosted

monthly or at library events.

The initial FOL included Thomas McClintock, Art Goodwin, Sal & Mary Barbagallo (Sal was Construction Chair), Lillian & Don Burry, Al Donado, Jill Valentino, Mary Ellen Griffin, Brenda Johnson,John Vig, Ellen Woods, Joan Yates, Arnold Kleeberg, Joe Clark, Donna Galinski, Nathalie Ganley, John Jacoby and many more.

Battista concluded, “As much as the FOL changes, it remains on the original path of the founders: to make this library the focal point of the township complex.”

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National Champion Crowned at Oak Hill Academy Oak Hill Academy (OHA) is incredibly proud to announce that 8th grader, Robert Schweikert of Atlantic Highlands, has been named the National Champion in the American Scholastic Achievement League’s Scholastic Challenge 2019.

Robert’s score of 95 landed him in first place in the nation. More than 12,000 students took this 100 question online test in February.

The test is divided into six sections: Language and Literature, Geography, History, Science, Mathematics, General Knowledge (i.e. food, arts, sports, music, current events, entertainment, mythology, etc.). These topics are not from a specific curriculum, but rather they represent general knowledge. Results are tallied as a school and as individuals. The national average was 55. Individual state winners are announced and only one student is crowned as national champion! Robert is the National Champion and the New Jersey Champion, too!

Oak Hill Academy has been participating in this academic contest for eleven years. During that time, we are fortunate to have had three New Jersey state Champions: 2012- Anshul Agarwal; 2016Jake Fradkin; 2018-Alex Mitchell.

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Left to right: Miss Patrice Murray, Director of Administration/ Personnel; Mrs. Schweikert; Robert Schweikert; Mr. Schweikert; and Joseph A. Pacelli, OHA Headmaster

Lincroft Student to Organize First TEDx Youth Event for Lincroft Elementary School Lincroft Elementary School 5th grader, Maximilian Miele Oster, has been selected by TED, a non-profit organization, to host Middletown Township’s first TEDx Youth event called TEDxYouth@LES. Max was challenged to engage in a long-term Genius Hour project.

Max’s first goal was to submit an application to TED that outlined his vision for a TEDx Youth event at his school. His proposed theme was, “Changing the way we think about school.” Max’s application was approved by TED in February and he has been planning the event with support of his teachers, Mrs. Alpaugh and Mrs. Dewolfe, and his principal, Mr. Daniel Imbimbo.

Max’s planning has included creating a website and Twitter account for the event, recruiting speakers, setting up an Eventbrite account for ticketing, and promoting the event in the community. Max has also reached out to Middletown High School South’s TED-Ed Club Advisor, Mr. Seigel whose students will be helping to facilitate the event.

Max’s TEDxYouth@LES event will take place on May 30, 2019 from 4:00-6:00 pm at Lincroft Elementary School.

More information and tickets can be found at https:// www.ted.com/tedx/events/33463.

TED is a nonprofit organization devoted to Ideas Worth Spreading, often in the form of short talks delivered by leading thinkers and doers. Many of these talks are given at TED conferences, including our annual gathering in Vancouver, as well as TEDWomen, intimate TED Salons, and thousands of independently organized TEDx events around the world.

Videos of these talks are made available, free, on TED.com and other platforms. Audio versions of the talks from TED2019 will also be published to TED’s podcast, TED Talks Daily, available on Apple Podcasts and all other podcast platforms. TED’s open and free initiatives for spreading ideas include TED.com, where new TED Talk videos are posted daily; TEDx, which licenses thousands of individuals and groups to host local, self-organized TED-style events around the world; the TED Fellows program, which selects innovators from around the globe to amplify the impact of their remarkable projects and activities; the Audacious Project, which surfaces and funds critical ideas that have the potential to impact millions of lives; TEDSummit, which gathers the most engaged members of the global TED community for brainstorms, discussions, performances, workshops and an eclectic program of mainstage talks; and the educational initiative TED-Ed.TED also has a library of original podcasts, including The TED Interview with Chris Anderson, Sincerely, X, and one of Apple Podcasts’ most downloaded new shows of 2018, WorkLife with Adam Grant.

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Monmouth County Recycling Essay Contest Winners Announced

“Recycling Rocky” gets his name

Left to right: Clean Communities Coordinator William Johnson, Freeholder Lillian G. Burry, Second Place Winner Sophia Marie Kurdes, Freeholder Director Thomas A. Arnone, First Place Winner Kiernan Turbitt, Third Place Winner Kelsey Kalemba, Freeholder Susan M. Kiley and Freeholder Deputy Director Patrick Impreveduto

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The Monmouth County Board of Chosen Freeholders announced the first, second, and third place winners of the Monmouth County Recycling Essay Contest to write a story about and name the first-ever Monmouth County Recycling Mascot.

“The creativity of all of the students who entered this essay contest was absolutely incredible,” said Freeholder Director Thomas A. Arnone, liaison to the Monmouth County Recycling Division. “It was really hard to narrow all of the essays down to pick out the top three and every single student who entered should be very proud of the great work that they did.”

The three fourth-grade students were presented with their awards at the regular freeholder meeting held in April.

First place was awarded to Kiernan Turbitt of St. Leo the Great School in Lincroft. Kiernan wrote a story about Recycling Rocky and the “Environmental Buddies” and how they helped recycle a sad soda bottle and turned him into a happy blue thermos. Second place was awarded to Sophia Marie Kurdes of Shrewsbury Boro School.

Third place was awarded to Kelsey Kalemba of Brielle Elementary School.

“We have big plans for Recycling Rocky! So, make sure to stay tuned and follow Monmouth County Government on Facebook and Twitter to follow Rocky’s journey,” added Freeholder Director Arnone.

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Women of Distinction & Community Partners Gala Raises $100,000 to Benefit Girl Scouts of the Jersey Shore Girl Scouts of the Jersey Shore hosted its annual Women of Distinction & Community Partners Gala on March 22, to support opportunities for girls in Monmouth and Ocean Counties to engage in Girl Scout programs and experiences that develop lifelong leadership skills.

PHOTO Girl Scouts of the Jersey Shore celebrates community leaders at its annual Women of Distinction & Community Partners Gala. Front row: Eva J. Smithers and Carol Stillwell. Back row: Event co-chairs Teri O’Connor and Tom Hayes; DiAnne Gove; Girl Scout CEO Eileen Higgins; Timothy Hearne, Jr.; Bonnie Torcivia; and Patricia Carlesimo. Photo Credit: John Vitollo.

Nearly 200 people attended the event at Eagle Oaks Golf and Country Club in Farmingdale, which raised over $100,000 that will advance the Girl Scouts’ core mission to empower girls to become women of courage, confidence and character who will make the world a better place.

“We are truly grateful for the community’s support and what it will mean for our girls, eager to build skills to take action for themselves and their communities,” said Eileen Higgins, chief executive officer of Girl Scouts of the Jersey Shore, which serves more than 10,000 girls.

Assemblywoman, 9th Legislative “We are honored to acknowledge all of District; and Eva J. Smithers, Lakewood, our honorees for their dedication to retired business professional and entre- making our community a better place preneur. Timothy Hearne, Jr., Holmdel, and for believing in the potential of our president and CEO of the United Way girls,” Higgins said. of Monmouth and Ocean Counties was The event was co-chaired by Teri presented the Man Enough to be a Girl Scout award, and Stillwell-Hansen, O’Connor, Monmouth County adminInc., based in Edison and its CEO istrator and first vice president of Girls Scouts of the Jersey Shore’s Board of Carol Stillwell, Holmdel, received the Directors, and Tom Hayes, director of Community Partner Award.

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The centerpiece of the evening was celebrating the achievements of six community leaders, who Higgins described as “outstanding role models who inspire our girls to become the leaders of tomorrow.”

Each of the honorees was introduced

by Girl Scouts who have distinguished themselves by earning one or more of the highest honors in Girl Scouts – the bronze, silver and gold awards.

Honored with the Women of Distinction award were: Patricia Carlesimo, Rumson, executive director of the LADACIN Network; Bonnie Torcivia, Fair Haven, a founding member of Impact 100 Jersey Coast; DiAnne Gove, New Jersey

Distinguished Girl Scouts prepare to present awards to honorees at the Annual Women of Distinction & Community Partners Gala, hosted by Girl Scouts of the Jersey Shore on March 22: (L to R) Mary Serviss, Mary Brigid Clanton-Calnan, Elizabeth Ellis, Carmela Apostle, Jillian Peslak and Hannah Khaleel. Photo Credit: John Vitollo

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‘To not only achieve academic success but to be good citizens of the environment is a natural progression as we incorporate STEAM curricuLeft to right: Allison Mulch, New Jersey Audubon Society, Project lum in our school.

Director for School Sustainably; Cornelius Begley, Principal; Richard Romero, Director of Operations, Saint Leo the Great School; Bernie Piai, Investigating the Director of Facilities, New Jersey Department of Education; and John science behind enHenry, Department of Environmental Protection. vironmental issues prepares students Saint Leo the Great School (SLG) to be the next genhas been selected as a 2019 New Jersey eration of global citizens,” said Cornelius Green Ribbon School the Environmental Begley, Principal. “One of our goals at Awareness and Sustainability Saint Leo’s is to engage our students in Recognition Program administered by real world learning that inspires them to the U.S. Department of Education and be stewards of our environment.” nominated for designation as a National U.S. Department of Education 2019 According to Richard Romero, Director Green Ribbon School. of Operations, “The benchmarks of the Green Ribbon School designation The Green Ribbon program recognizes are extremely ambitious and very few schools that are taking a comprehen- schools can achieve all of them. Saint sive approach to “greening” their school. Leo the Great School faculty, staff, stuSaint Leo’s has been recognized for ex- dents, and families have all contributed emplary achievement and considerable in some way to earning this prestigious progress in their commitment to saving designation.” energy, reducing costs, featuring environmentally sustainable learning spac- The New Jersey Green Ribbon selection es, protecting health, fostering wellness committee states, “the data gathered in and offering environmental education

the application process when analyzed will serve as the school’s environmental benchmarks. Earning the Green Ribbon, as difficult and challenging as it is, is only the beginning for our schools and award winners.” It is believed that Green Ribbon schools will serve as the launching pad for tomorrow’s environmentalists, environments and sustainably educators, scientists, and advocates to balance environmental justice.

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Since the inception of the program in 2012, only 386 schools nationwide both public and private have been able to achieve Green Ribbon School designation by the U.S. Department of Education, only 20 in New Jersey. Saint Leo’s is also the first Catholic school to be named a Green Ribbon School. Official confirmation by the U.S. Department of Education for National 2019 Green Ribbon School status will be announced later this year.

Lincroft Students Advance to Finals in Major National Math Competition A combination of math smarts and creative thinking has added up to a top spot in a major national math competition for five High Technology High School students.

The students – Eric Chai, Gustav Hansen, Emily Jiang, Kyle Lui, Jason Yan of High Technology High School – have advanced to the finals in the popular MathWorks Math Modeling (M3) Challenge, the only competition of its kind which this year drew over 4,000 11th and 12th grade participants from across the nation. The Lincroft team headed to New York City on April 29 to compete against five other finalist teams at the offices of Jane Street, a quantitative trading firm. (CM went to press before this date)

Left to right: Coach Raymond Eng, Jason Yan, Eric Chai, Emily Jiang, Gustav Hansen, and Kyle Lui

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In addition to High Technology High School, the five other finalist teams hail from high schools in Nashua, New Hampshire; Lincolnshire, Illinois; Glendale, Wisconsin; Rockville, Maryland; and Plymouth, Minnesota.

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CBA Student-Athletes Commit to Play College Athletics

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In April, twenty Christian Brothers Academy student-athletes celebrated their commitments to colleges across the country.

The following seniors will play their sport across three levels of collegiate athletics next year: Alex Schueller, Loyola University Maryland, Track; Arty Baker, Georgetown University, Crew; Connor

Baksh, Delaware Bucknell University, Cross Country; State University, Tim McInerney, Georgetown University, Baseball; Dominic Cross Country; Will Dempsey, Bellamo, The Northeastern University, Crew; Will College of New Huntley, Lafayette College, Track; and Jersey, Soccer; Zach Kramer, University of Delaware, Donny Mills, Crew Loyola University Maryland, Track; “There are eight million high school Eric Wnorowski, athletes and fewer than 480,000 have Vassar College, the opportunity to play at the next Soccer; Ethan Arce, level,” said Director of Athletics Vito Mount St. Mary’s Chiaravalloti. “This is a tremendous acUniversity, Track; complishment for these young men and Gerry Johnson, is a testament to the hard work, talent, N o r t h e a s t e r n and discipline they’ve demonstrated in University, Crew; the classroom and on the field over the Jack Bogdan, past four years.”

Princeton University, Crew; Jackson Aguilar, Loyola University Maryland, This group of 20 students has won mulTrack; Joe Escandon, Salve Regina tiple state, conference and division titles University, Baseball; Joey Lozowski, during their time as Colts.

Fairfield University, Soccer; Liam They also join the 13 CBA students who Mulvey, Assumption College, Soccer; made their commitments official during Nick Hanlon, John Hopkins University, November’s signing day, bringing the Track; Nick Morse, University of CBA total to 33 students overall and 28 Rhode Island, Track; Patrick Kilcooley, headed to Division I schools.

Colts Neck Community Band Announces Spring Concerts

If you appreciate high quality musical performances by area musicians, then you will want to mark your calendars for the spring concert series of the Colts Neck Community Concert Band’s 17th season!

The concerts will be presented on Thursday, May 16th at 7:30 pm at Colts Neck High School, located at Five Points Road in Colts Neck and on Thursday,

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June 6th in an open-air concert in Monmouth County’s beautiful Thompson Park, located on Newman Springs Road in Lincroft at 7:30 pm in the Activity Barn. In addition to its concert series, the Band will perform at the Colts Neck fireworks on Wednesday, July 3 at Bucks Mill Park in Colts Neck.

The Colts Neck Community Concert Band has been hailed as one of the finest concert bands in the state of New Jersey.

Founded by the late Richard Frankle, the band’s members possess a wide range of musical backgrounds, from accomplished amateurs to seasoned professionals, who range in age from high

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school students to senior citizens. This talented group of musicians is under the guidance of its music director Kelly Tyma, who, along with conductors Mel Chayette, David Crosby, Eric Robertshaw and Don Swinchoski, lead the group in a diverse musical repertoire of marches, classical music, show tunes, and pop music to please all who enjoy listening to concert bands.

Franklesdream, Inc. is a registered 501(c) (3) non-profit organization that accepts donations and helps provide financial support to the band. To learn more about the Colts Neck Community Band, visit coltsneckband.org and like the band on Facebook. Admission to all concerts is free; donations are welcomed and are always appreciated.

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