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The Passion of Persistence Ocean Mayor John Napolitani takes the long road to the top

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BY GENA ANSELL-LANDE

ohn Napolitani knows a thing or two about persistence. After enduring a painful series of losing bids for various county and state positions, the lifelong Monmouth County native finally took the reins as Ocean Township Mayor in 2023. With a knack for collaboration and an avid passion for public service, he is proof that finding the strength to get back up when life knocks you down and remaining true to yourself can pay off in the end.

We had a chance to chat with the Napolitani about his career, family and why he loves life in Monmouth County so much. Here is what he had to say: Community Magazine: What attracted you to the public service sector?

John Napolitani: I got started in public service working on Mary Pat Napolitano’s Board of Education race. From there, I worked on then Assemblymen John

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four-time loser to becoming the mayor, I proved that when you put your mind to it, work hard, and do the right thing, anything can happen.

CM: What is the most challenging aspect of public service?

JN: I think the most challenging aspect of this job is the need to be prepared for whatever comes your way. Things can change so rapidly that it’s important to make sure you are adaptable and ready for any challenge.

It also requires you to be at many activities in and out of town. Making time for when constituents want to see you is also paramount. I believe that it’s vital to make sure I am accessible to whoever asks me for help.

CM: What issues are you the most passionate about?

JN: I am passionate about getting things right the first time. I try to avoid situations where we have to go back and modify something because a detail was overlooked. I also care about getting our municipality on the right track. This means looking at what needs to happen to ensure we are properly poised for the future. Some of these [issues] include looking into Highway 35 blight, flooding mitigation, catching up on our road program, and fixing up an outdated town hall.

Villapiano and Dan Jacobson’s Assembly run two times. I was appointed to the Deal Lake Commission in 1995, where I served for eight years. Seeing the need for open and honest government, I ran for a seat on the Interlaken Borough Council in 1999 and was elected to serve.

I knew that if I wanted to make positive changes, I needed to be in a position where I could make a difference. I ran for re-election in 2002, lost that bid, and followed that up with a failed bid for Interlaken Mayor in 2003. I was later chosen to run for the New Jersey State

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Assembly in 2007, and once again, I lost. I then decided to run for the Board of Education in Ocean Township in 2011 and lost by a slim margin. I knew if I worked harder, I would be successful, if I chose to run again. I was appointed to a seat on the Ocean Township Council in 2017, ran for the unexpired term, and finally broke the losing streak. I followed that up with a re-election bid in 2019, won, and was chosen to serve as Deputy Mayor. In 2023, I ran for my second full term and was chosen to serve as Mayor of Ocean Township. Going from being a

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CM: You are also an educator in the Asbury Park school system. Tell us about that role and what you enjoy most about the job.

JN: Being an educator has many challenges. The career I started over 25 years ago has changed tremendously.

I took a much different route than my colleagues and chose to be more involved on the staffing side, which means being a local union leader. This led me to the role of president, and I believe I am one of just two people in the State of New Jersey who currently

serve as President of a Teachers and Support Staff Union, as well as Mayor of a neighboring municipality. I enjoy this because my dual roles help me understand different aspects of how the township operates. It also affords me the ability to be more aggressive in looking into shared service agreements within the school system, as I know this space extremely well. Collaboration in this position is paramount to success.

CM: Tell us about your family.

JN: My family is originally from Asbury Park. Most, if not all of my predecessors have Asbury Park roots.

This means most of us either had parents that graduated from Asbury Park High School or in some cases, the person actually graduated from Asbury Park before building our school. My wife, the former Michele Levin and I both graduated from Ocean Township High School. We have five children, Maxwell DeGeorge, Abbey DeGeorge, John Napolitani Jr., Nicholas Napolitani, and Julia DeGeorge. We currently live in Wayside.

CM: How do you manage your time effectively?

JN: It takes a lot to juggle a career, politics, and a business. Couple that with a family and it can get overwhelming at times. It can be a total challenge, but one that I have honed over the years. At times it gets difficult, but in the end, it’s worth it. I know many people count on me, so it’s important to remain focused on the task at hand. I do have times that are busier than others. It requires me to prioritize my tasks so that I can make sure I finish what’s most important.

CM: What are some current projects you are working on?

JN: We have a golf simulator building at the William F. Larkin Golf Course that opened in April. We are also selling our property on 1515 Logan Road, which will make way for six

new homes. I am taking a hard look at Route 35 and at the vacant and blighted properties. This has been a huge bone of contention with the residents, and we want to clean it up. We are in the stages of revamping our planning department for efficiency and are in the preliminary stages of a long overdue town hall, just to name a few.

CM: What are some important things you have learned from being in public service?

JN: I have learned many things since becoming a public servant. Most recently, I learned that there are people with many different personalities. The difficult aspect of public service is it has turned into a game where people don’t always do the right things. A lot of people get into politics for personal gain and fulfilling their agenda, at any cost. Trust is something that has been lost with many elected officials. It’s sad because this is different than the way I was taught by my mentors over 30 years ago.

I also have been blessed with some fantastic employees in Ocean Township that truly make my job enjoyable.

to be the catalyst that motivates the younger generation to be more active and engaged.

CM: What do you enjoy most about living in Monmouth County?

JN: Monmouth County is one of the best places to live in New Jersey.

We are literally in the center of the action. We are lucky to be a little over an hour from Atlantic City, New York City, and Philadelphia and have some of the best parks and open spaces in the state. We live close to the beach, which is a destination that people drive hours to visit. We also have some of the best historical aspects in this county.

I’m also very lucky to be serving with colleagues in other municipalities who I can lean on for support and in some cases, advice. I believe there is no better place to live and raise a family than the Township of Ocean.

CM: What is the best way to engage young people in volunteer work?

JN: Unfortunately, volunteerism is declining and not at all like it used to be. Our first aid volunteer base is gone and the fire department volunteers are waning. Getting people to do more in town has been a struggle. However, we are lucky that we have some great events and staff that motivate people to get more involved. It’s our job as elected officials

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Gone to the Dogs

Camp Bow Wow in Eatontown provides pups a place to hang

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ack in 2010, brothers Chris and Marc Sorbo had differing, yet thriving, careers. Chris was a lead portfolio manager dealing with distressed receivables, while Marc, a champion sailor, managed a sailing shop at the beach.

Both liked their respective roles “enough,” however, they were dissatisfied, and longed for something else– something more fulfilling.

“We weren’t really ‘living the dream’,” Chris Sorbo said.

To temporarily help fill whatever void they believed they were missing, they began volunteering at their local animal shelters—Chris at Associated Humane Societies of Tinton Falls, Jersey Shore Animal Center in Brick Township for Marc.

Fast-forward a few years and the brothers quit their jobs to open Camp Bow Wow, a full-service daycare, grooming and boarding center for dogs, in Eatontown.

A SLOW START Never having dogs of their own—not even a family pet growing up—Chris and Marc immediately felt a joy and satisfaction from working with shelter dogs that neither of their jobs at the time had provided them. So they put their heads together to devise a way to make, well, dogs their fulltime career.

The Sorbo brothers learned about Camp Bow Wow through a family friend in 2011, when the camp was still a relatively new franchise. In fact, “doggie daycare” itself was still unique and, up till then, primarily deemed a luxury that only celebrity pet owners would employ.

The Sorbo brothers were adamant about starting a dogthemed business together and thought Camp Bow Wow would be a great option for them. But things didn’t exactly happen overnight for the guys. Their collective dream had them traveling hundreds of miles across North Jersey performing numerous site searches followed by drafting multiple letters of intent.

They were about to give up when a property in Eatontown revealed itself, finally making the Sorbos Camp Bow Wow franchise co-owners in 2018.

ONE SIZE DOESN’T HAVE TO FIT ALL With 9,000 square feet of space, both indoors and out, Camp Bow Wow-Eatontown is nowhere near a one-sizefits-all place for pups. Some pet parents use the facility for daycare only, others for an occasional grooming, some just for boarding during a family vacation, and sometimes for all of the above. Whatever the needs are, Camp Bow Wow is happy to help.

“Sometimes our pet parents are throwing a party at

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“We have a pretty well-rounded staff,” said Chris, who stresses that, though they do prefer folks who have some experience, they don’t necessarily need to be a trainer or possess a certification. “Job hunters should understand that this is work, it’s not just coming in and playing with dogs or petting puppies. There’s so much more to it.”

Though customer service is something that the entire Camp Bow Wow company, which today has more than 200 franchises throughout the U.S. and Canada, prides itself in, in Eatontown, they go even further—and it does not go unnoticed.

“Something cool is that, in 2023, our Eatontown Camp Bow Wow was No. 1 for customer service in the entire franchise system,” Chris said. “This recognition goes back to our team and having the right people on board. We like to say that though we don’t require our team members to be a certified vet or trainer, they do have to be certified dog lovers.” home, so they drop the dog off for just the day,” said Chris, who for the past 14 years has been the proud doggie dad to Priscilla, his beloved pit bull. “We have some pet parents with high-energy dogs who bring them here to get in some good play-and-exercise time with friends. We even have people from Philly or New York heading to a show or a ballgame who need a place they can trust to leave their dogs while they’re out. It’s a little bit of everything.”

AN ALL-INCLUSIVE (BOARDING) GETAWAY As a whole, Camp Bow Wow is all-inclusive, meaning, when a dog is boarded, daycare and playtime are automatically included in the overall cost. So is extra food. So is administering any medication a dog requires. And loads of TLC and yummy treats are part of the deal as well.

Additionally, boarding dogs get to sleep in the comfort of their own individual “cabins,” though siblings can always sleep together if mom and dad prefer.

For anxious pet parents, Camp Bow Wow-Eatontown has everything in place to mitigate parents’ fears, according to Chris, such as temperature monitors, carbon monoxide sensors, burglar alarms, and, should a medical emergency occur, veterinary clinics and hospitals located within minutes of the facility. They even provide a 24-hour webcam so parents can watch their dogs at any time from the Camp Bow WowEatontown website or app.

“Pet parents love that. It provides great peace of mind for them,” Chris said.

FAMILY PRIDE Chris Sorbo wants people to know that Camp Bow WowEatontown, though a franchise, is very much family-owned and operated. And not just by the two brothers – their mom and dad pitch in as well, and, of course, there’s the staff, which the Sorbos also consider family.

Anywhere from 20 or more work at Camp Bow Wow, from managers and back-of-house to the front desk and their groomer Dawn, who has been with the brothers since the beginning.

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CAMP BOW WOW-EATONTOWN 284 Old Deal Road Eatontown, NJ 732-728-WOOF (9663) eatontown@campbowwow.com www.CampBowWow.com/Eatontown FB: campbowwoweatontown Insta: CBWeatontown Hours: 6:30 a.m. to 7 p.m. Mondays to Fridays; 8 a.m. to 7 p.m. Saturdays; 8-11 a.m. and 4-7 p.m. Sundays and holidays (no afternoon play sessions) WHAT TO KNOW BEFORE YOU GO: Before bringing your pooch to Camp Bow Wow, you will need to make a reservation, as all dogs are carefully vetted for socialization before even stepping one paw in the yard or near another dog. And, of course, all dogs must be spayed or neutered, and current on vaccinations.

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SATURDAY AND SUNDAY, MAY 4 AND 5 HANDS ON HISTORY AT HISTORIC LONGSTREET FARM Spend the day exploring historic items at the farm from noon to 4:30 p.m. 44 Longstreet Road, Holmdel. For more information, visit www.co.monmouth. nj.us.

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SUNDAY, MAY 5 THE SPRING “LITTLE SIT” AT SANDY HOOK Stop by anytime from 7 a.m. – 2 p.m. and search for as many species of birds as you can during spring migration. Spermaceti Cove, 128 South Hartshorne Drive, Highlands.

For more information, visit www.monmouthaudubon.org.

FRIDAY, MAY 10 SCAN/SENIOR CITIZENS ACTIVITIES NETWORK’S 6TH ANNUAL SENIOR EXPO & FASHION SHOW On Friday, May 10, at the Monmouth Mall in front of Macy’s from 11 a.m.3 p.m. over 45 vendors showcasing products, services and healthy lifestyles for the senior community and their caregivers. The Fashion Show begins at 1:30 p.m. with models age 55+ walking the runway in fashions by Macy’s personal stylist and hosted by 94.3 The Point Morning Show Hosts, Lou Russo & Michele Pilenza. SCANNJ.org

SATURDAY, MAY 4 MONMOUTH MOMS SPRING FESTIVAL AT BELL WORKS Enjoy a full day of fun where you will find something for everyone! Over 80 vendors and a Touch –a-Truck outdoor zone for the kids. The event runs from 11 a.m. – 3 p.m. 101 Crawfords Corner Road, Holmdel. For more information, visit www.themonmouthmoms.com.

SATURDAY, MAY 11 THE CREATIVE ARTS FESTIVAL Enjoy the work of artists and fine crafters from all different mediums from 10 a.m.4 p.m. Admission and parking are free.

Thompson Park 805 Newman Springs Road, Lincroft For more information, visit www.co.monmouth.nj.us.

SATURDAY, MAY 4 OCEAN GROVE SPRING FLING Enjoy this classic arts & crafts show from 10 a.m. – 4 p.m. Admission is free. 45 Pilgrim Pathway, Ocean Grove For more information visit www.oceangrovenj.com.

SATURDAY AND SUNDAY, MAY 11 AND 12 ASBURY PARK SPRING BAZAAR 2024 Enjoy a weekend of shopping and music in the Grand Arcade of Convention Hall. Noon – 5:00 p.m. 1300 Ocean Ave.,

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SUNDAY, MAY 12 PLANT A SUNFLOWER AT HISTORIC LONGSTREET FARM Celebrate Spring by helping the staff plant this year’s sunflower field, then return in the fall for the harvest and bring one home. 44 Longstreet Road, Holmdel. Noon – 2:30 p.m. For more information, visit www.co.monmouth. nj.us.

WEDNESDAY, MAY 15 CLIMB TIME AT SHARK RIVER PARK Come on over to Shark River Park and climb the 25’ portable climbing wall. 3- 6 p.m. Open to ages 8 and up, free. For more information, visit www.co.monmouth.nj.us.

SATURDAY, MAY 18 VINTAGE CAR SHOW IN OCEAN GROVE Enjoy live music as you peruse a lineup of classic cars from the good old days.

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SATURDAY AND SUNDAY, MAY 25 AND 26 CANOE RENTALS AT THOMPSON PARK Enjoy a day on Marlu Lake in a canoe, all equipment is provided. The cost is $15 per boat for 1-3 people and 2 hours of canoeing.

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The below piece was written by local historian and former educator William Gardell, MA. Gardell is a lifelong Middletown resident as well as a former educator and a 20-year veteran of the Middletown Volunteer Fire Department.

The Allen House Massacre and Other Engagements in Eastern Monmouth County

BY WILLIAM GARDELL

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he history of Monmouth while he was being taken back County during the to Sandy Hook in a canoe.

American Revolution is A party of 16 militia fired a complex one. The 13 British upon the boats and the canoe Colonies, including New Jersey, capsized, allowing his swim were in a state of rebellion to freedom. He had suffered a against the Crown. But within bullet wound to his thigh but New Jersey, Monmouth would live to fight another day.

County was arguably within However, in 1782 he would be a state of insurrection against hanged by Loyalists in what the Patriot-controlled state is now Highlands. The war in government throughout much Monmouth County was just of the war. The revolution was as much a civil war as it was a a long, drawn-out event that war of independence from the changed over time. Some were British. more or less opportunists who The Patriots won a minor The Allen House in Shrewsbury used either or both “causes” in victory over British Regulars order to rob their neighbors, taking goods and livestock away earlier on May 26th, 1777 in Middletown. Patriots Gen. from political enemies and using the war as an excuse.

Benjamin Lincoln gave the enemy “a pretty little threshing”.

Some used the war to settle old scores with neighbors that In the fighting the British lost 7 men and 3 lighthorse killed. had nothing to do with the American War for Independence.

The Americans suffered 3 wounded, 1 mortally.

The killing of Middletown Patriot Militiaman Joseph Murray In September of 1779 a skirmish occurred in Shrewsbury in 1780 is a prime example of this. Murray had previously that has come to be known as the Allen House Massacre. confiscated horses from powerful Loyalist neighbors during Twelve Continental soldiers from Virginia were stationed the war for the Patriot cause. He was later murdered while at Allen House, which was then operating as a tavern working on his farm for his deeds. His friends in turn tracked known as the Blue Ball Tavern since 1754. The Continentals down and killed at least one man suspected of slaying Murray were essentially an occupying force in the eyes of many in retaliation. local Loyalists. They were there to stop the locals from Many locals chose to fight for the British, including continuing to trade with British occupied New York. These former slave Titus Tye. He led a unit of Loyalists known as soldiers being from Virginia would not have familial ties to the Black Brigade which operated out of Sandy Hook. Tye had the locals and would have had no reason to overlook such previously fought at the Battle of Monmouth and was famous illegal activities. The Loyalists hid behind the gravestones for capturing local Patriot and Privateer Joshua Huddy. in the Church graveyard until they were ready and charged Huddy, who had fought both as an artilleryman and a privateer the tavern with bayonets fixed. They burst through the (essentially a pirate with a license) had been at his home in door and took the Continentals completely by surprise. One Colts Neck on September 1, 1780 when he was attacked by Tye raider managed to grab the muskets of the Virginians which and his men. Huddy and a servant girl fought against many, were stored together leaving the Continentals unarmed. exchanging musket shots from the second story windows of A brief melee battle ensued but ultimately the Lieutenant his home. Tye and his men set fire to the building and Huddy in charge of the Continentals surrendered due to his men surrendered in order to save his servant from burning. Tye not having weapons to fight with. Not before 3 of his men himself was wounded in the wrist during the fight and would were bayonetted and ultimately died of their wounds. The soon die from his wound. Huddy would escape from custody remaining soldiers were taken prisoner.

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5 Great Spots to Take Mom

for Mother’s Day

BY RYAN LOUGHLIN

It’s May, which means the big day honoring the official MVP of the family is coming up, but that also means it’s your job to come up with a fabulous spot to take her to celebrate. That can be a stressful task, but fret not, as we’re here to save the day with a lineup of five places that are sure to leave all your favorite moms, grandmoms and matriarchs smiling from ear to ear.

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MEEMOM’S IN MIDDLETOWN On Mother’s Day, it’s hard to go wrong with a spot that is not only named after the owner’s grandmother, but even has the word “mom” right in the name. And it’s even harder to go wrong when you have a menu as fun as the one at Meemom’s in Middletown. Known for offering more than 20 different versions of their signature French Toast, it’s worth skipping the predictable breakfast in bed this year and instead getting Mom a plate of their incredible French Cakes, which consist of two thick pieces of French toast dipped in pancake batter, fried and topped with cinnamon and powdered sugar. Meemoms.com

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MAIN AVENUE IN OCEAN GROVE Though it often gets overshadowed by Asbury Park, its hip neighbor to the north, we can’t think of a lovelier place to spend a day with Mom than Main Avenue in Ocean Grove. Like a real-life version of Disneyland’s Main Street U.S.A., Main Avenue boasts a picturesque block filled with quaint shops, restaurants, art galleries and bakeries, each dripping with old-fashioned charm and the classic Victorian architecture that has been a staple of the town since it was founded. Start out by grabbing a fabulous coffee or latte at Odessey Coffee, before heading across the street for a heavenly vanilla cream-filled donut at Ocean Grove Bake Shoppe. Wan-

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der the shops and let Mom pick out a few knick-knacks or a piece of framed artwork from a local artist before heading up the street for a pleasant stroll down the boardwalk. OdesseyCoffee.net 618 RESTAURANT IN FREEHOLD 618 in Freehold is a fantastic spot to head for brunch this Mother’s Day. While their menu of new American dishes is a winner no matter what day you choose to dine there, on Mother’s Day they will offer a special prix fixe Mother’s Day Brunch Buffet that’s sure to please everyone at the table, including the guest of honor. For $69.95 ($24.95 for kids 4-12), guests can indulge in a luxurious spread of breakfast items, such as Cinnamon Vanilla Brioche French Toast, made-toorder omelets, and various bagels, muffins and breakfast sweets; while those in the mood for lunch can enjoy savory dishes like Herb-seared Salmon in a white wine chive butter sauce or Chicken breast with portobellos, marsala, rosemary and shallots; in addition to a carving station, pasta dishes and much more. Seatings are at 11 a.m. And 1:30 p.m. Reservations required. 618NJ.com SWEET TEASE TEA ROOM IN BELMAR Those looking to take Mom for a lovely girls day out, can head to Sweet Tease Tea Room in Belmar. While they are not open on Mother’s Day itself, on Saturday, May 11, they will be hosting three separate seatings (11 a.m., 1 p.m., and 3 p.m.) for their five-course Mother’s Day Tea Party. Reservations are $50 per person or $25 for guests under 10 years old. Guests will enjoy pots of tea along with finger sandwiches, various sweets and scones and more. SweetTeaseTeaRoom.com MONMOUTH PARK IN OCEANPORT The annual Mother’s Day @ the Track event returns this year at Monmouth Park. All ladies will enjoy complimentary admission as well as free family fun day activities, including face painting, pony rides, clowns and a bounce house from noon to 4 p.m. in the picnic area. The first 1,000 moms to enter will receive a free carnation courtesy of In the Garden Flowers. Guests can pack a picnic, or enjoy a special Mother’s Day brunch in the Dining Club and Turf Club before watching the races. For reservations call 732-571-5459. MonmouthPark.com

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Honoring Heritage: Celebrating 25 Years of Women of Irish Heritage Jersey Shore, Inc.

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vibrant community of women came together in 1998 to celebrate their shared Irish heritage and give back to their local communities. Founded by the visionary Peggy Carroll, the Women of Irish Heritage Jersey Shore, Inc. (WOIHJS) emerged as a beacon of camaraderie, philanthropy, and cultural pride.

Carroll, an active member of the Women of Irish Heritage in North Jersey, recognized the need for a sister club when she relocated to the shore. With the support of fellow Irish heritage enthusiasts, she spearheaded the formation of WOIHJS, officially incorporating the organization in 2002.

What began as a humble gathering blossomed into a dynamic force, drawing in close to 400 members united by their love for Irish culture and their commitment to community service.

As WOIHJS marked its 25th anniversary in April 2023, the occasion was met with jubilation and reflection.

Members and supporters gathered at the prestigious Jumping Brook Country Club in Neptune for a day of festivities honoring the organization’s rich history and achievements. Entertainment was provided by the beloved Willie Lynch Show Band, adding a lively soundtrack to the celebration. Among the honorees were Peggy Carroll herself, the pioneering founder, and esteemed supporters such as Kevin Orender of Orender Funeral Home and the Friendly Sons of the Shillelagh of the Jersey Shore, whose steadfast dedication had fueled WOIHJS’s success over the years.

From its inception, WOIHJS set out on a mission to promote and advance Irish cultural, social, and philanthropic activities. This purpose manifested in various charitable endeavors, with the organization donating generously to local charities in Monmouth and Ocean

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Counties. Through fundraising efforts, WOIHJS supported health initiatives, educational programs, and public welfare outreach, leaving a tangible impact on the lives of those in need.

Notably, the organization established a scholarship fund, providing opportunities for students to pursue higher education beyond high school— an embodiment of their belief in the transformative power of learning.

Membership in WOIHJS is open to any woman over the age of eighteen with at least one-eighth Irish ancestry, fostering an inclusive environment where diverse backgrounds converge in celebration of a shared heritage. This inclusivity lies at the core of WOIHJS’s ethos, reflecting the organization’s belief in the universality of Irish identity and the strength found in unity.

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Beyond milestone celebrations, WOIHJS maintains a vibrant calendar of activities, including monthly meetings at The Shore Club in Spring Lake, NJ. These gatherings serve as forums for discussions, guest speakers, and social events, fostering connections and enriching the membership experience.

As WOIHJS looks ahead to the future, its commitment to promoting Irish heritage, fostering community bonds, and serving those in need remains steadfast. For those eager to join this inspiring journey or learn more about WOIHJS’s initiatives, visit their website at www.woihjs.net or reach out via email at woihjerseyshore@ gmail.com. Together, let us continue to honor our heritage and make a positive difference in the world.

Bringing Freshness to Communities: The Rise of Asbury Fresh

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n the vibrant landscape of local markets and community events, Asbury Fresh stands out as a beacon of freshness and entrepreneurship. Founded by Bret Morgan in 2011, Asbury Fresh has grown from a simple idea born over dinner to a thriving community-centric enterprise, enriching neighborhoods across Monmouth and Ocean Counties. I had the privilege of sitting down with Bret Morgan, CEO and Founder of Asbury Fresh, to delve into the roots of this inspiring venture and its impactful mission.

“It all started with a conversation among friends,” Bret recalls. “Back in 2011, during one of our Thursday night gatherings in downtown Asbury Park, the need for fresh produce and a farmers market became a topic of discussion. A few drinks in, someone suggested I start a farmers market, given my involvement in the local scene. The next week, I reached out to city officials, and soon after, Asbury Fresh was born.”

What began as a modest endeavor gradually gained momentum, drawing both tourists and locals alike to its market stalls filled with fresh produce and artisanal goods. Bret reminisces about the early years: “It took some time to build, but eventually, the market became a cornerstone of the community. By 2016, it had grown significantly, prompting

us to establish it as its own entity and expand to new locations.”

Asbury Fresh’s mission, as Bret explains, is to “enliven and enrich local communities through pop-up shopping experiences.” This ethos guides every aspect of their operation, from the selection of locations to the curation of vendors. “We aim to connect makers, food purveyors, farms, and startups with engaged customers, fostering a sense of community and supporting local entrepreneurship,” Bret emphasizes.

When deciding on new locations, Asbury Fresh prioritizes high-traffic areas that can benefit from their energy and vitality. “Whether it’s a downtown main street or a bustling event, we seek spaces where we can make a positive impact and collaborate with local businesses,” Bret explains. This strategic approach has led to successful partnerships with venues like Bell Works in Holmdel and events such as the Holland Ridge Farms Tulip Festival.

But Asbury Fresh’s impact goes beyond commerce. Bret highlights their commitment to building vibrant and sustainable communities, empowering small businesses, and addressing food insecurity. “Our markets serve as incubators for local entrepreneurs, helping them grow and thrive,” he says.

“And as the only SNAP-certified farmers

LINEUP OF MARKETS: Asbury FRESH (May-Oct) Bradley Beach Main St Market (June-Sept) Broadwalk FRESH - Red Bank (June-Sept) Bell Works FRESH - Holmdel (Feb-Dec) Red Bank Oktoberfest (Sept) Holland Ridge U-Pick Tulip Festival & Sunflower Festival (April, September, October)

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market in Monmouth County, we’re proud to provide access to fresh, healthy food for all residents.”

Looking ahead to the summer, Bret is excited about returning to downtown Asbury Park. “We recently received approval to set up shop in Press Plaza every Sunday,” he shares. “It’s not just about our vendors; it’s about revitalizing the downtown area and supporting local businesses.

As for the future, Bret envisions continued organic growth for Asbury Fresh.

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“We’re expanding our lineup of markets and events, reaching more communities and forging new partnerships,” he reveals.

“Whether it’s Red Bank, Bradley Beach, or beyond, our goal remains the same: to bring freshness and vitality wherever we go.”

As our conversation draws to a close, Bret leaves me with a glimpse of Asbury Fresh’s current lineup of markets, showcasing their diverse offerings and widespread presence. From the tulip fields of Holland Ridge to the boardwalks

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of Red Bank, Asbury Fresh is weaving a tapestry of freshness and community across the Jersey Shore.

In a world where the local is valued more than ever, Asbury Fresh stands as a testament to the power of community, entrepreneurship, and fresh produce.

With Bret Morgan at the helm, this grassroots initiative continues to sow the seeds of vitality and connection, one market at a time.

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MARINA GRILL, BELMAR This gorgeous restaurant sits right on the Shark River in Belmar and its sprawling outdoor space is second to none. The views are incredible whether you choose to enjoy them from a table or belly up to the bar for a livelier experience.

Even those sitting inside can get a touch of the warm breezes as the restaurant boasts a series of garage door-style walls that can be opened when Mother Nature allows. Outside, a few blood orange margaritas for you and your friends are sure to go down smooth as will a pitcher or two of their awesome white sangria. Pair either with a few plates of locally caught clams from the raw bar or a pile of fresh ahi tuna nachos and you’ve got an afternoon worthy of anyone’s envy.

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Is there anything better on a sunny Saturday day in the spring than heading to a fabulous bar or restaurant and enjoying a few drinks on the patio and maybe an app or two?

The lovely temps in May allow us to do just that, and luckily Monmouth County is packed with great spots to bask in the al fresco experience. Here are five of our favorites.

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BAHR’S LANDING, HIGHLANDS With more than 100 years in business, Bahr’s Landing has more than earned its stripes. Not only does it serve possibly THE best seafood anywhere on the Jersey Shore, but it’s serene waterfront views and old school nautical vibe make it an absolute joy to visit anytime. But when the weather warms up, the outdoor deck is the place to be, and frankly, we can’t come up with a better spot to enjoy a cold IPA and a cup of some of the world’s tastiest clam chowder than right here. Bonus for boat owners, you can arrive by sea and dock and dine! BahrsLanding.com CONTINUED ▶

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BOND STREET BAR, ASBURY PARK A wonderfully grungy dive bar, Asbury Park’s Bond Street Bar is a true gem. It’s well weathered interior is a great place to belly up for a beer and a shot any time of year, but when spring hits, we love to head out to the handful of tables right on the sidewalk for some of the finest people watching anywhere in the state. Don’t sleep on the menu here either, as the kitchen puts out a killer selection of sandwiches, burgers and bar munchies. An order of their fabulous beer-battered onion rings is never a mistake, nor is choosing any of the 6 superb grilled cheese sandwiches that take up their own subsection of the menu (we are partial to the frizzled onion, bacon and cheddar variety.) BondStreetAP.com

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RED ROCK TAP + GRILL, RED BANK Hanging out at the patio at Red Rock Tap + Grill always manages to feel like you scored an invite to a fabulous party where something exciting is about to happen at any minute. The crowd is friendly and lively, the beers are always flowing and you can even bring your dog should he or she not want to miss out on all the fun. Red Bank has a lot of great spaces, but few are as enjoyable on a beautiful night as this. Grab a seat at one of the many picnic tables that scatter the space and watch one of the live bands perform on the outdoor stage or you can catch the game on one of many TVs that flank the bars.

RedRockRB.com METROPOLITAN CAFE, FREEHOLD Upscale, yet casual, hip yet approachable, Metropolitan Café in Freehold checks a lot of boxes all at once. Situated in the hubbub of Main Street, the outdoor space in front of the brick exterior is covered, shielding you from the occasional sprinkle should it pop up, and serves as a relaxing and excellent location to kick back with a martini after a particularly obnoxious week at work. Its menu focuses on New American classics with a pacific rim flare, with standouts including the filet mignon spring rolls, duck quesadillas and their signature calamari and shrimp with sesame seeds. Sushi lovers can high-five over a long list of apps and specialty rolls like the awesome “Rock and Roll,” made with shrimp tempura and cream cheese topped with spicy tuna. MetroCafeNJ.com

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James Yarosh Associates Fine Art Gallery presents HER STORY This new exhibition (which opened April 6 and runs through Sept. 2) activates a dialogue between two great female humanistic expressionists of the last century. Located at 45 East Main Street (Rt.520) in Historic Holmdel Village.

Loaded Spoon announces new Executive Chef and Culinary Director The Loaded Spoon in Freehold is thrilled to announce the appointment of Neil West as its new Executive Chef and Culinary Director. With decades of culinary expertise, West brings a wealth of knowledge and passion to his new role. Chef West’s focus is to elevate the overall dining experience at The Loaded Spoon, to entice both new and returning patrons with his cuisine. Chef West’s vision is clear: “to create a menu that sparks conversation and leaves guests eagerly anticipating their next visit.”

Eastern Monmouth Area Chamber of Commerce announces appointment of two new board members The Eastern Monmouth Area Chamber of Commerce recently announced the appointment of two new members of the Board of Directors. The newly appointed members are Andrew Harris from Liberty Insurance Associates and Kelly Power from Absolute Home Mortgage Corporation, each of whom bring extensive knowledge

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of business development and program management to EMACC. CSAV Systems expands On Tuesday, April 9, CSAV Systems president Glen J. Dalakian hosted an official ribbon cutting in recognition of the expansion of their office by adopting a new building. The event was held on the outdoor patio in front of 295 NJ-34 in Colts Neck. Founded in 2005, CSAV Systems has grown to be a leader in the professional sound, video, and teleconferencing industry.

Earth Treasures Jewelers celebrates golden anniversary Earth Treasures Jewelers in Eatontown is proud and humbled to announce that 2024 marks their 50th year in business. In honor of this occasion, they will be holding a storewide sale from now through May 11. For five decades, the business has consistently established a reputation for expertise, knowledge and a customercentric approach. This commitment has empowered them to play a meaningful role in helping the local community create lasting memories as they celebrate life’s biggest moments.

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Don’t Trust, But Definitely Verify: Exposing Asset Concealment in a New Jersey Divorce

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BY ALFRED M. CASO, PARTNER – ANSELL.LAW

ishonesty and deception are often hallmarks of a deteriorating marriage.

The loss of trust that follows uncovered lies can be the last straw that leads to divorce. But filing a petition for dissolution of marriage doesn’t mean the lies will stop. In many circumstances, individuals have ample motivation to be less than candid about the true state of their finances during a New Jersey divorce proceeding in an attempt to reduce their child support or spousal maintenance obligations or tilt property division decisions in their favor.

Your Spouse Can Try to Hide, But Your Divorce Lawyer Can Seek Even though New Jersey law requires each spouse in a divorce to make full, complete, and sworn disclosures to the other about their respective assets and liabilities, there are many deceptive and underhanded ways to manipulate those disclosures through creative accounting and hiding assets. When successful, these efforts to deceive the other spouse – and the court – can lead to financial arrangements and asset allocations that are inherently unfair, as they are based on a false picture of the parties’ finances and marital lifestyle.

Generally, the more complex your finances are, the easier it can be for your spouse to fudge the numbers and hide assets.

However, working with accountants, investigators, and other professionals, a savvy and tenacious divorce attorney can uncover these efforts, hold your soon-to-be-ex to account, and ensure your rights are protected.

Disclosures Are Just the Start of the Inquiry As alluded to above, New Jersey’s Court Rules require couples going through a divorce to complete a document called a Case Information Statement (CIS). This is a mandatory disclosure of each spouse’s income, assets, and liabilities, regardless of whether they are marital or separate under New Jersey principles of equitable distribution. Additionally, each party may make requests on the other for documents, pose interrogatories, depose relevant parties, subpoena records, or conduct other asset-related discovery. Once your lawyer receives the statement and any requested material and information from your spouse, the inquiry can begin – not end.

You shouldn’t take these disclosures at face value. Rather, your lawyer should continue digging until they determine through their independent investigation that the disclosures are complete and accurate. If your lawyer discovers hidden assets, they will bring your spouse’s deception to the court’s attention, and the concealed assets will be included in the support, maintenance, and property allocations made in your divorce. Additionally, your spouse’s exposed efforts to game the system will subject them to a range of tangible and intangible consequences imposed by the judge, including: • Imposition of fines.

• Jail time for perjury or fraud.

• Allocation of more assets to you than initially planned.

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• Awarding hidden assets to you.

• Payment of any attorney’s fees and costs you incurred in discovering the concealed assets.

• Irreparable damage to your spouse’s credibility that can color the judge’s decision-making in all aspects of your divorce proceedings.

• Resignation of your attorney from your case.

• How a Spouse Can Attempt to Hide Assets • There are many ways a determined and creative spouse can try to conceal assets. Some of the more common forms of financial deceit include: • Transferring money from a joint to an individual account.

• Depositing assets into an offshore corporation, family trust, or shell corporation.

• Buying art, collectibles, or other items that retain their value but are hard to liquidate.

• Purchasing insurance policies.

• Colluding with an employer to delay or hide bonuses, raises, or stock options until a time when the asset or income would be considered separate property.

• Skimming or diverting funds from a business.

• Failing to report income on tax returns.

• Gifting money to someone with the intention of receiving it back after the divorce concludes.

• Keeping money in offshore accounts.

• Hiding items in a secret safe deposit box.

• Selling assets for significantly less than they are worth.

Some of the most common assets that a party may attempt to hide include: • Bank, investment, and retirement accounts: • Rental/Investment property income • International property • Stocks • Cryptocurrency • Timeshares • Cash (such as tips or income from closely held businesses) • Physical assets • Undervaluing cars, artwork, and jewelry • Gifts from parents • Tools • Weapons/firearms If your marriage is ending, the trust you once shared with your spouse has likely been broken. Putting faith in your spouse now, during the heat of a divorce proceeding that will impact you and your children for years and decades to come, is not a prudent strategy in many circumstances. Trying to hide assets in a divorce rarely pays; in fact, it can cost you dearly. Your divorce attorney can ensure that all your spouse’s cards are on the table and that you get a fair and equitable resolution in your divorce.

About the author: A partner at Ansell.Law, Alfred M. Caso devotes his practice to the areas of family law, domestic violence, and municipal court.

Honorable Discharge Anna Diaz-White Steps Down After 40 Years of Helping Survivors of Domestic Violence

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hose who believe in fate might wonder if the foresight Anna Diaz-White’s parents had in escaping an oppressive regime, nearing the last opportune time to do so, somehow played into her dedication toward saving others from domestic violence and sexual abuse.

Diaz-White was only two when her parents fled Cuba for the United States in 1960. She would go on to earn a Master of Business Administration from New York University and embark on a career in finance with Citibank, now Citigroup, in Queens. After taking a break from business and a tough commute to raise her family, she re-entered the working world by accepting a part-time position closer to home as a finance grant writer for the non-profit 180 Turning Lives Around, located in Hazlet which serves as Monmouth County’s center for providing survivors of domestic and sexual violence and their families with free and confidential programs and resources.

Eight years after taking the part-time post, and with more flexibility in her schedule, she applied for and was granted the title of Executive Director of 180 Turning Lives Around, which was founded in 1976 as The Women’s Resource and Survival Center.

During her 32-year tenure as director, 180 achieved several major milestones, among them reaching in 2016 the mark of one-million 24/7 hotline calls responded to by the organization. Others include creating the first federally funded battered women’s shelter in the nation in 1986, starting 180’s Sexual Assault and Domestic Violence Response Teams (in 1996 and ’98), and overseeing the organization’s name change from The Women’s Center to 180 Turning Lives Around in 2002, which was done to “convey the comprehensive and integrated programs and services available for families.”

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You and your family fled Cuba in 1960. Was that just to escape the Castro regime and its oppression?

Anna Diaz-White: Yes. My parents were not in agreement with communism.

In 1960, they fled the country under a vacation visa. That was just before Castro closed it down and did not allow anybody to leave the country (a travel ban that lasted more than 50 years, until 2013, when Cubans were allowed to obtain a passport and travel).

I remember my mom telling me, years later, how she and everyone around her were in a constant state of panic during the Cuban Missile Crisis (in 1962), believing that a nuclear war was imminent.

It got close. Things got really hairy between (then Premier of the Soviet Union Nikita) Khrushchev and (then U.S. President John F.) Kennedy. I don’t think a lot of people realize how close we actually were to disaster.

I was amazed to learn that the number of calls received by 180 surpassed the one-million mark.

That’s a staggering number of people who needed help due to abuse.

ADW: It’s a lot of people, and many of them are children. In 2008 we launched the statewide 2nd floor Youth Helpline, which is now Youth Text/Helpline (see 2ndFloor.org), and that helped hundreds of thousands of kids throughout the state, along with the services we provide here in Monmouth County such as the shelter hotline, court-assisted counseling, and other services (all outlined at 180NJ.org

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under the Get Help or Get Info links).

What was your feeling when you were inducted into the New Jersey Hall of Fame last year? (She was introduced

by Tammy Murphy, the governor’s wife, and past NJHOF recipient/ famed singer Gloria Gaynor.)

ADW: I have to tell you, that was quite an experience (she was one of 14 inductees spanning six categories). I had no idea of what a big deal it was. I got to see Bruce (Springsteen, husband of Patti Scialfa, who was also a NJHOF inductee last year), Danny DiVito and all these people that I’d heard of but didn’t realize they were from New Jersey. It was a really cool night.

Can you talk a little about how 180 operates in terms relying on volunteers to help carry out your mission?

ADW: Sure, so it’s a combination of paid staff and volunteers, and the volunteers do all kinds of different things. Some are in direct services – they meet survivors in any of the 51 police departments or any of the five area hospital emergency rooms throughout the county. And they’ll also accompany a survivor to court if they request it.

If they’re called back to meet with a detective, or called into the prosecutor’s office, a volunteer could accompany them for support, including sometimes in the emergency room.

I understand 180 has one of the largest emergency domestic violence

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shelters in the state.

ADW: Yes, and it’s also the only shelter that accepts survivors of any gender or gender identity, and families with their pets. We are currently the only one that accepts families with pets and we are really encouraging other shelters to do so. A lot of folks won’t leave the situation without their dog or cat or whatever. If you had to flee tomorrow, how could you leave a pet behind that you’ve had all its life? That would be particularly traumatic to kids on top of how their lives have already been disrupted.

How much does 180 rely on fundraising events, on top of state and federal support, to help achieve its mission?

ADW: We rely on government funding for support, but that doesn’t cover everything, so we have to raise close to $1 million every year to keep the lights on, keep the services going, and keep the hotlines operating. The Seas The Day fundraiser (at the Rumson Country Club on May 2) is our annual gala where we recognize outstanding supporters.

And it’s up to those manning the phones at the 24/7 hotline to determine if the situation falls under the category of an emergency situation, or domestic or sexual abuse?

ADW: Well, I’d have to say that by the time they call us, abuse has usually been going on for a while. It’s the same as if someone were to call the police – rarely is it ever after just one incident. Typically,

it is after a bunch of incidents that started to escalate, and then something is triggered to the point that they realize they have to call the cops. Similar with us, it’s rare for someone to call us because they had a bad argument with a boyfriend or girlfriend or loved one.

Sometimes we’ll get calls where they’re not entirely sure themselves. They tell themselves “Hey, I’m college educated, I’m a nurse or a doctor or an accomplished person” and they do not identify themselves as victims or survivors. People sometimes have this mistaken notion I think of what a “victim” is.

If he or she had been hit, they’d know what that is and immediately identify that as not OK, but it’s often the insidious and constant verbal or emotional, or threats of abuse, that can have people walking around on egg shells because they’re worried about someone flying into a rage where, while they might not hit you, they might punch a hole in the wall, or throw furniture around, or kick the dog – those kinds of things where there’s often this constant atmosphere of violence and rage without anyone actually getting hit.

That’s the part that tends to confuse people, and makes them ask “how is that abuse?” We’ve had survivors who tell us that healing from physical abuse is far easier – I broke my arm, it healed, I’m OK now – but the emotional effects of abuse and threatened violence are really what linger, often for years, especially on children. We’ve had people say that the kids don’t know because they were sleeping.

The kids were not sleeping. Kids are aware of what’s going on. They might not be able to verbalize it, but they’re going to be acting out in different ways.

I’d guess that working in that environment, it would be hard not to allow dealing with such trauma in others to affect you personally.

ADW: I generally do not direct services personally, but certainly many of our staff and volunteers do, and for them especially hearing really tragic, horrible stories – to the point where you think you’ve heard it all, and then you hear something that is even more horrible than anything you’ve heard before – can and does have an effect on people and their mental health. We encourage our staff to take a break, take a mental-health day when you feel it becoming overwhelming or just becoming too much. Internally, we have peersupport groups for staff to be able to unload what’s going on or express how they’re feeling about what’s going on. It is stressful.

What made you decide to retire, and do you know who your successor will be at 180 Turning Lives Around?

ADW: This all started for me in 1984 and, 40 years later, I’m looking to retire and hand off the reigns to a new generation.

It became official (recently) that our new director will be Elizabeth Graham. She’s a great gal who’s been with us 15 years.

She was a former client and now she’ll be the director of the organization, so things have come full circle. She started out as my assistant, then was promoted to Chief Operating Officer, and now CEO. She’s fabulous. It makes me feel so good to know that 180 is going to be in great hands.

To me the organization will always have a place in my heart, but I am ready to have Liz run with the ball. She has some great ideas, a lot of energy, a lot of enthusiasm, and she’s so excited about this new role for her. And I’m excited for her. I’m looking forward to helping Liz in the next six months or so, and then I think I need to just take some time to breathe and decide what the next step is.

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A roundup of must-do events happening at local restaurants this month Thursday, May 9 Restaurant: The Rum Runner Location: Sea Bright Champaign Social from 6-8 p.m. Call 732-842-2894 for more information.

Dinner Show — AND A —

Friday, May 10 Restaurant: Triumph Restaurant and Brewery Location: Red Bank Cat Boy Sound performs live from 8:30-11:30 p.m.

Sunday, May 12 Restaurant: 618 Location: Freehold Township Mother’s Day Brunch Buffet – 11 a.m. seating and 1:30 p.m. seating. Visit 618nj.com for more information.

Thursday, May 16 Restaurant: Tim McLoone’s Supper Club Location: Asbury Park A Fundraiser to Benefit Holiday Express with The Jersey Shore Medium Linda Shields – 7 p.m.

Visit TimMcLoonesSupperClub. com for more information.

Thursdays, May 16, 23, 30 Restaurant: The Columns Location: Avon-By-The-Sea Lobsterpalooza – 5 p.m. start.

Live music and several chances to win free lobster dinners.

For more information, go to TheColumnsNJ.com.

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Community Commentary

We ask a question, you tell us the answer. Simple as that.

Q: With the weather warming up, there is so much to do in Monmouth County as summer nears. We know what things we are excited for, but we want to hear from YOU. What are you most looking forward to doing this summer in Monmouth County? Could it be a concert? An annual sporting event you look forward to each year? A festival? An al fresco dinner at a seasonal spot? Tell us what you can’t wait to do!

A: What am I most looking forward to doing this summer in Monmouth County?

That’s a cinch to answer – the Fair Haven Fireman’s Fair, of course! There is no better way to close out the summer than at this amazing Fair Haven tradition. The Fireman’s Fair is a wonderful opportunity to connect with friends and neighbors, test your skills at the game booths, indulge in the great food offerings, and enjoy the rides – even the Zipper – if you are brave enough! And best of all, the event is an amazing opportunity to support the Fair Haven Fire Department and First Aid Squad! As I did last year, I am looking forward to supporting the Fireman’s Fair as a volunteer worker. This time, I’ll make sure to wear my boots while working the Frog Bog! — Neil Blecher of Fair Haven OUR QUESTION FOR NEXT MONTH Did you watch the solar eclipse? Were you excited to see it? If you had the chance to check it out, where were you, with whom did you watch it with and did it live up to your expectations?

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ver 400 people came out on a windy, chilly Sunday morning to support the Tigger Stavola Foundation’s fifth annual Polar Plunge on March 10. Held at Edgewater Beach & Cabana Club, this year’s event was in memory of Brian Duddy, Jr. who lost his life to substance use disorder nearly a year ago.

Prior to plunging, attendees enjoyed breakfast and prepared inspirational stones used to form a heart in the sand as a memorial to the many beautiful souls lost to the disease of addiction. The event was supported by local political leaders including Monmouth County Commissioners Director, Thomas A. Arnone, who was a “Bear Friend” sponsor and Assemblywoman Luann Peterpaul, who was in attendance.

Athletic teams like Red Bank Regional High School Boys Lacrosse and service groups like the Boys & Girls Club Leaders of Asbury helped bolster attendance this year. Middle and high school students traveled from as far as New Egypt, Jackson

and Manchester Township to volunteer and plunge.

“Attendance at this event has more than doubled in the past two years,” said Founding Director, Lisa Stavola, who lost her son Tigger at 25 years of age to an accidental overdose.

“This incredible turnout is indicative of the impact that addiction and overdose is having on our community, so we’re thrilled to see so many of our youth showing up and engaging in important conversations about preventing addiction.”

Matt Bellace, a motivational speaker who is part of the foundation’s Partner School Program, delivered a preplunge pep talk about the benefits of achieving natural highs. Attendees also had the opportunity to sign up for the LED (Leadership, Education and Drug Prevention) by Tigger mobile engagement tool, designed to help 7th through 12th graders make smarter decisions when confronted with vaping, marijuana, alcohol, tobacco and drugs. ­— PHOTOS BY TOM ZAPCIC

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