When the State Winks, by Michal Kravel-Tovi (introduction)

WHEN T H E STATE WI NKS THE PERFORMANCE OF JEWISH CONVERSION IN ISRAEL

M I C H A L K R AV E L -T O V I

Introduction Taking Winking Seriously

We Both Came in Jeans ,7 722. 0( a moment to recognize Moran and a little longer to understand why.1 $W ϮUVW JODQFH VKH ORRNHG H[DFWO\ WKH VDPH +HU KDLU ZDV ORQJ and thin, as before, and her face was pretty and makeup-free, like I remembered from the conversion class (ulpan). But there was something else about her now. It perhaps sounds a bit cliché, but there was something freer about her. And it certainly seems funny in retrospect that I failed to UHFRJQL]H KHU EHFDXVH VKH ZRUH EOXH MHDQV +RZ PXFK GLϸHUHQFH FDQ EOXH MHDQV PDNH" %XW VKH GLG ORRN PRUH FRPIRUWDEOH HYHQ IURP DIDU DQG WKH EOXH MHDQV GLG PDNH D GLϸHUHQFH HPEDUUDVVLQJO\ EXW DOVR LQVWUXFWLYHO\ , only recognized her when she approached me. ,W KDG EHHQ VL[ PRQWKV VLQFH ,·G ODVW VHHQ 0RUDQ , ϮUVW PHW KHU ZKLOH VKH ZDV VWXG\LQJ LQ WKH FRQYHUVLRQ XOSDQ WKH ϮUVW DQG ORQJHVW VWDJH RI WKH VWDWH conversion process. Moran had since completed her conversion requirePHQWV $IWHU HϸHFWLYHO\ ϮQLVKLQJ WKH WHQ PRQWK XOSDQ VKH ZDV LQYLWHG WR D hearing of the rabbinic conversion court regarding her conversion application. Her hearing was a success, and she soon underwent immersion in the ULWXDO EDWK³WKH ϮQDO DQG GHFLVLYH DFW RI FRQYHUVLRQ $ IHZ PRQWKV ODWHU VKH UHFHLYHG WKH FHUWLϮFDWH RI FRQYHUVLRQ DQG ZDV UHJLVWHUHG DV D -HZ LQ WKH SRSulation registry.

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Moran received Israeli citizenship upon her arrival. She grew up in the PRVWO\ -HZLVK *XVK 'DQ PHWURSROLWDQ DUHD RI JUHDWHU 7HO $YLY ZDV HGXcated in the public Jewish-Israeli school system, and served in the army. If \RX VDZ KHU \RX ZRXOG QHYHU UHDOL]H WKDW VKH LV QRW D -HZLVK ,VUDHOL <RX would not even necessarily pick up on her Ukrainian background. She adopted a common Hebrew name, she speaks beautiful Israeli Hebrew with only the faintest trace of an accent, and she is knowledgeable about Israeli politics.2 /LNH PRVW -HZLVK ,VUDHOLV VKH FHOHEUDWHV ERWK UHOLJLRXV DQG FLYLO Jewish holidays (Shoham 2014), and like many FSU immigrants, she is proud WR EH ,VUDHOL DQG FDQQRW LPDJLQH D IXWXUH HOVHZKHUH /HVKHP %XW LQ spite of all these meaningful testaments to her national, cultural, and social Jewish Israeli belonging, the state only recognized Moran as a Jew when she FRPSOHWHG WKH 2UWKRGR[ FRQYHUVLRQ SURFHVV 7KURXJKRXW PRVW RI WKH FRQYHUVLRQ XOSDQ 0RUDQ FRQVLVWHQWO\ ZRUH D VNLUW RU D GUHVV KHU DUPV DOZD\V FRYHUHG E\ ORQJ VKLUW VOHHYHV H[WHQGLQJ below her elbows. As an anthropologist, I also took care to dress according to WKH PRGHVW\ FRGH WKDW WKH WKUHH PDOH 2UWKRGR[ WHDFKHUV KDG LQWURGXFHG WR WKH FODVV RI PRVWO\ \RXQJ ZRPHQ %XW QRZ VL[ PRQWKV ODWHU RQO\ D VKRUW walking distance from the ulpan, we both allowed ourselves to show up in jeans. ´:H ERWK FDPH LQ MHDQV µ , ZURWH LQ P\ ϮHOG QRWHV D IHZ KRXUV ODWHU DIWHU UHWXUQLQJ IURP WKH FDIp ZKHUH , LQWHUYLHZHG 0RUDQ 7KLV VHQWHQFH ZRXOG reappear more than once in my notebook, following the interviews I conducted with Moran’s conversion course classmates. It described what was FOHDUO\ YLVLEOH³WKDW LQGHHG ZH RIWHQ ZRUH MHDQV %XW LW DOVR VLJQLϮHG P\ own feeling, a feeling of free and open conversation, “talking in jeans,” between us who could formerly meet only in skirts. I had not always been sure that I wanted or would even be able to interview Moran. While I had successfully established a rapport with many women in the conversion

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7KH VWRU\ RI P\ HQFRXQWHU ZLWK 0RUDQ FDSWXUHV WKH SROLWLFV RI SHUIRUmance and sincerity that are at the heart of my ethnographic account of Israel’s Jewish conversion policy. Insofar as this account is rooted in the parDGR[HV WKDW VWUXFWXUH ,VUDHOL FRQYHUVLRQ SROLF\ DW WKH PDFUROHYHO DV , EULHϰ\ described in the prologue), the vignette with Moran provides a personal JOLPSVH LQWR KRZ WKHVH SDUDGR[HV VKDSH WKH OLYHG H[SHULHQFH DQG LQWHUSHUsonal dynamics of the conversion process at the microlevel. One of the central arguments of this book is that in order to understand how both conversion candidates and state agents handle, individually and jointly, the contradictory forces of the conversion policy, we need to better understand the mundane preoccupations, among those on both sides of these relationships, with issues of sincerity, role-playing, and suspicion. My meeting with Moran after she had been freed from such preoccupations epitomizes this core argument.

Nevertheless, there is certainly a risk involved in opening this ethnography about the conversion of non-Jewish FSU immigrants with the story of Moran’s conversion. Hers is precisely the kind of story that is likely to feed the simplistic public and bureaucratic discourses that portray conversion DV DQ HODERUDWH UXVH³GLVFRXUVHV WKDW WKLV ERRN H[SORUHV EXW DOVR FRPSOLFDWHV 7KHVH SRSXODU UHSUHVHQWDWLRQV GHSLFW FRQYHUVLRQ FDQGLGDWHV DV RQO\ masquerading—not really intending to commit to the halakhic lifestyle they promise to maintain; their observance of Sabbath laws, kosher dietary restrictions, the modesty code, and family purity laws, these popular

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ᇹቨዧወኂᅡዼᅐዧᇹኂቨ that Israel’s rabbinic establishment has sought to trick them into conversion (Seeman 2010).

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During a 2008 conference on conversion at the Israeli Democracy Institute, which I attended, Rabbi David Stav, a well-respected liberal Zionist UDEEL NQRZQ IRU KLV FULWLFDO VWDQFH RQ WKH H[WDQW VWDWH FRQYHUVLRQ SROLF\ VKDUSO\ DUWLFXODWHG D VLPLODU FRQFHUQ ZKLFK , UHFRGHG LQ P\ ϮHOG QRWHV ´7KHUH LV D GLVDJUHHPHQW PD\EH HYHQ RI FRQYHUWV GR QRW REVHUYH WKH FRPPDQGPHQWV 6R ZKR DUH \RX FKHDWLQJ" -XGJLQJ E\ WKH RXWFRPHV ZKR LV FKHDWLQJ ZKRP" $UH WKH\ FKHDWLQJ \RX" 2U DUH \RX FKHDWLQJ WKHP"µ 7KLV SXEOLF SRO\SKRQLF FULWLTXH RI WKH FRQYHUVLRQ SURFHVV LV RIWHQ H[SUHVVHG WKURXJK WKH PHWDSKRU RI ZLQNLQJ ,Q DQ DUWLFOH HQWLWOHG ´7KH Renewed Polemics of Conversion,” published in a journal of Jewish thought GHYRWHG WR WKH LVVXH RI FRQYHUVLRQ 5DEEL 'U <HKXGD %UDQGHV ZKR OLNH 5DEEL 6WDY LV LGHQWLϮHG ZLWK WKH OLEHUDO 2UWKRGR[ FDPS FRLQHG WKH WHUP wink-wink conversion %UDQGHV ZULWHV WKDW =LRQLVW 2UWKRGR[ UDEELV LQ WKH UDEELQLF FRQYHUVLRQ FRXUW DUH ERXQG E\ GXDO OR\DOWLHV WR -HZLVK ODZ DQG WR WKHLU national responsibility. Because of this article’s public resonance (see Abraham 2009; Edrei 2010; Rosen 2010), it is worth citing at length Rabbi Brandes’s GHVFULSWLRQ RI WKH RXWFRPHV RI WKLV GXDOLW\ >$V D UHVXOW@ D PLGGOH ZD\ KDV HPHUJHG RQH ZKLFK RϲFLDOO\ UHTXLUHV DFFHSWDQFH of the yoke of commandments but tolerates the fact that many of the converts GR QRW VLQFHUHO\ LQWHQG WR IXOO\ DFFHSW WKHP 7KLV LQWHUPHGLDWH DSSURDFK LV ZHOO known to teachers in the conversion ulpans and to the conversion candidates WKHPVHOYHV 7KH ODWWHU NQRZ WKDW ZKHQ WKH\ VWDQG LQ IURQW RI WKH FRXUW WKH\ ZLOO have to answer its questions in a manner that makes them appear as though WKH\ VHULRXVO\ LQWHQG WR REVHUYH WKH FRPPDQGPHQWV 7KH UDEELQLF FRXUW LJQRUHV the high likelihood that the vast majority of these converts do not intend to join religious society and adopt a fully-observant lifestyle, and both parties are thus VDWLVϮHG¬ ¬ ¬ WKLV DSSURDFK LV H[WUHPHO\ KDUPIXO QRW RQO\ WR KDODNKD EXW DOVR WR WKH FRQYHUVLRQ SURFHVV 7KH FRQYHUWV XQGHUVWDQG WKDW LQ RUGHU WR MRLQ WKH -HZish faith they must collaborate in a process of lying and self-deception which is

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ᇹቨዧወኂᅡዼᅐዧᇹኂቨ encouraged by the rabbis—an entire gang that has banded together for a kind of trickery and sophistry that lacks both integrity and decency. %UDQGHV

Subsequently, Rabbi Brandes describes state conversion as a system in ZKLFK WKH DJHQWV DQG VXEMHFWV RI WKH UDEELQLF FRQYHUVLRQ FRXUW H[FKDQJH winks. He denounces the moral stance of this system and suggests some halakhic alternatives. Winking constitutes a system in his mind because of its JURXQGLQJ LQ D PXWXDOO\ DJUHHG XSRQ DQG LQVWLWXWLRQDOL]HG DUUDQJHPHQW the rabbinic judges wink at the converts and invite them to wink back.

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I develop the idea of winking relations in order to understand how the 2UWKRGR[ UHSUHVHQWDWLYHV RI WKH ,VUDHOL QDWLRQ VWDWH DQG )68 FRQYHUVLRQ FDQGLGDWHV SHUIRUP WKH LPSRVVLEOH +RZ GHVSLWH WKH H[WDQW WHQVLRQV WKDW characterize state conversion policy—tensions between population policy and individual identity work, between national goals and religious techQRORJLHV EHWZHHQ LQFOXVLYH DQG H[FOXVLYH SROLWLFV RI EHORQJLQJ DQG ϮQDOO\ EHWZHHQ WKH 2UWKRGR[ UDEELQLF HVWDEOLVKPHQW DQG ,VUDHOL FLWL]HQV IURP VHFXODU EDFNJURXQGV³KRZ LQ WKH FRQWH[W RI DOO RI WKHVH FRQWUDGLFWRU\

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ᇹቨዧወኂᅡዼᅐዧᇹኂቨ FRQGLWLRQV WKH FRQYHUVLRQ SROLF\ LV UHDOL]HG DQG H[SHULHQFHG LQ HYHU\GD\ life. At the heart of this book, then, lies an ethnographic riddle. Several of the following chapters unpack the various dimensions of this riddle by pointing to the winking relations that permit both sides to achieve their shared JRDO WR IDFLOLWDWH DQG XQGHUJR FRQYHUVLRQ As an anthropologist, I take winking quite seriously. For those familiar with Geertz’s (1973) canonical writing, winking represents the paradigmatic H[DPSOH RI ZKDW LQWHUSUHWLYH HWKQRJUDSK\ DQG DQWKURSRORJ\ PRUH JHQHUDOO\ LV DOO DERXW )RU P\ SXUSRVHV ZLQNLQJ LQGH[HV D FHQWUDO SUREOHP WKDW the protagonists of this book confront—a problem of contested interpretaWLRQ 7KH QRWLRQ RI ZLQNLQJ DOORZV PH WR WUDFH KRZ VWDWH DJHQWV DQG FRQversion candidates manage this problem in and through their mundane socio-institutional interactions. In the most basic sense, winking (which IDPRXVO\ GLϸHUV IURP EOLQNLQJ RU SDURG\LQJ D ZLQN LELG ² LV WKH WUDQVmission of a nuanced message. As such, it is an interactive gesture that takes place within a social situation and invests it with another layer of meaning. $ ZLQN LV H[SUHVVHG LQ ERGLO\ DQG YHUEDO VLJQDOV SRWHQWLDOO\ FUHDWLQJ D UHϰH[LYH PRPHQW LQ ZKLFK WKH SDUWLFLSDQW VHHPV WR EUHDN IURP WKH VRFLDO situation in order to comment upon it or deliver information about it to someone else. Winking contains an “as if” quality and signals an equivocal understanding about what is actually going on here. It indicates that what is EHLQJ VDLG PLJKW KDYH DQ DGGLWLRQDO PHDQLQJ WKDW LW UHϰHFWV RQO\ D SDUWLDO truth, and that much has gone unsaid. By winking, individuals can create a shared understanding and invite each other to collaborate in the producWLRQ RI UHϮQHG PHDQLQJ In my own analytical use of this concept, I place primary emphasis on the everyday transmission of messages between conversion agents and candiGDWHV ZLWKLQ WKHLU PXQGDQH HQFRXQWHUV 7KH FRQFHSW RI ZLQNLQJ XQGHUOLQHV the fact that what transpires between the agents and subjects of state conversion policy is a sophisticated, creative system of double messages regardLQJ WKH H[SHFWDWLRQV SODFHG RQ FRQYHUVLRQ FDQGLGDWHV DV ZHOO DV WKH VWDNHV of conversion policy for state agents—and the state itself. Equally important, in my account I emphasize the mutual, collaborative nature of winking relations. At a higher theoretical level this concept allows us to think analytically about these nuanced yet central features of sociability that are HPEHGGHG LQ YDULHG FRQWH[WV RI LQVWLWXWLRQDOL]HG UHODWLRQV EHWZHHQ WKH state and its subjects, in Israel and beyond.

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As I will show throughout this book, these two dimensions develop symbiotically as a way to practically handle the contradictory features of state conversion policy.

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Going against the popular notion of wink-wink conversions, in which converts blatantly learn how to lie and feign piety, I will show that converts learn from teachers, rabbis, and other bureaucrats how to present a SHUVRQD VXϲFLHQWO\ ZRUWK\ RI FRQYHUVLRQ GHVSLWH EXW DOVR SUHFLVHO\ EHFDXVH RI WKH SXEOLF DQG UDEELQLF VXVSLFLRQ WRZDUG WKHP 7KH\ GR VR E\ LQYHVWing themselves in the management of what I call conversion performances— performances that will diminish bureaucratic suspicion and thus help evade the public designation of “wink-wink conversions.”

If it is true, as Rabbi Brandes writes, that conversion candidates “know that when they stand in front of the court they will have to answer its questions in a manner that makes them appear as though they seriously intend to REVHUYH WKH FRPPDQGPHQWVµ %UDQGHV WKHQ KRZ GR WKH\ NQRZ WKLV" :KR WHDFKHV WKHP WKHLU UROH DV FRQYHUWV" +RZ DUH WKH\ DVVLVWHG LQ WKH VWDJLQJ GLUHFWLRQ DQG SUHVHQWDWLRQ RI WKHLU SHUVRQDV" $QG ZKDW GRHV LW WDNH IRU WKHP WR SHUIRUP WKHVH SHUVRQDV FRUUHFWO\" %HFDXVH WKHVH ZLQNLQJ UHODtionships are dialogical, I ask not only how the candidates learn to present believable personas to conversion agents but also how, throughout these dramaturgical processes, conversion agents present their own professional personas to candidates, and whether candidates believe them.

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PRAISE FOR

WH EN THE STATE WI N KS “In this probe of state-religion relations in Israel, Michal Kravel-Tovi brings the critical but sympathetic curiosity of a skilled ethnographer to explore the use of religious conversion for the purpose of creating national belonging. Addressing the substantial divergence between rabbinical practice and theological ideals and portraying converts whose reasons for choosing Judaism are often practical rather than spiritual, she shows how officials of state as well as rabbinical judges wink collusively at the short shrift given to doctrinal requirements in favor of well-trained performances of sincerity.”

—MICHAEL HERZFELD, HARVARD UNIVERSITY “The question of who is allowed to convert to Judaism in Israel, and how and when, is deeply charged with both spiritual and political commitments. Kravel-Tovi’s insightful, thoughtful book helps us to understand the nature of these contradictions and their consequences and the way that converts themselves come to experience their conversion.”

—TANYA LUHRMANN, STANFORD UNIVERSITY “When the State Winks is an excellent, original work that uniquely situates its analysis not just within an anthropological framework but also within a broad, humanistic one. Kravel-Tovi tells a compelling story about the political and personal complexities of conversion in Israel, and it will be of great interest to anthropologists, sociologists, and historians as well as scholars of Judaism and religion more generally.”

—LEORA BATNITZKY, PRINCETON UNIVERSITY “The best recent ethnography of state bureaucratic practice in Israel and the best ethnography of state-assisted conversion more broadly. With clarity of prose, pathbreaking ethnography, and a humanizing argument, Kravel-Tovi’s work moves beyond accounts that treat ‘the state’ as a monolithic and inimical entity. Real people—rabbis, converts, and state workers—emerge from these pages, not stick figures of the sociological imagination.”

—DON SEEMAN, EMORY UNIVERSITY “A beautifully written and engaged ethnography of the overlooked topic of state-sponsored conversion to Judaism. Kravel-Tovi illustrates how the complicated playing field of conversion is constrained with tensions between state secularism and religion; Zionism and Judaism; and bureaucracy and sincerity.”

—ESRA OZYUREK, LONDON SCHOOL OF ECONOMICS R E L I G I O N , C U LT U R E , A N D P U B L I C L I F E

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