Are you stuck in a cycle of stress and anxiety?

Iwas talking recently to a business owner at an entrepreneur networking event. He shared that he had been struggling with severe anxiety. I asked him why he hadn’t picked up the phone to call—at least to chat casually over what might be the source of his anxiety. He smiled. “It was pride,” he said. “I was too proud to reach out.”

Our conversation signaled something important. Does seeking mental health help carry a stigma? Do you experience the shame of thinking, if you need help with your mental health you feel weak or be seen as incapable and undependable, something that can damage your reputation, and potentially as an entrepreneur, your business?

I did a little digging — here are some of my ndings: e stigma surrounding mental health and treatment is diminishing.

Societal stigma and the move to hide your desire to seek help is one of the biggest barriers to actually taking action to relieve and shift chronic anxiety and stress.

If you have anxiety or compounding stressors, you may feel like the stigma will a ect your ability to get a job, your access to healthcare and insurance coverage for treatment or your acceptance in society as a whole. Here’s some good news — the New York Times recently published these statistics:

In 2021, 42 million people sought mental health care, up 27 million from 2002. Americans now see mental health care as reliable and a signi cant part of cultivating a better life for themselves and their families. More and more it is considered a part of a wholesome life, like having a gym membership or going shing.

Progress is being made in the field of mental health.

Stress and anxiety operate on a spectrum. When you’re challenged by either or both, it’s often due to a number of contributing factors and conditions not just one source. Your stressors are not going to be exactly the same as your friends’ or family members’. Friendly advice is wellintentioned, but most of the time does not help you work through and

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On top of this, stress and anxiety can be treated in di erent ways at di erent stages in your life. When you commit to your mental wellbeing you have a real opportunity to unlearn the belief systems you have about how much the mental, emotional and physical parts of yourself depend upon each other for your wellbeing and capacity to thrive.

There are more opportunities for treatment and support.

According to the National Alliance on Mental Illness, there are more opportunities for treatment and support than ever before. ere are also new treatments available, as well as support groups and other programs designed to help you with challenging anxiety and stress manage your symptoms and recover from trauma in your life — so you are living a more productive and ful lling life. ere is no one-size- ts-all solution for managing these issues, so it’s important to seek out appropriate interventions that work best for you.

UnLearn the pattern

Nothing changes until something changes, and avoiding your pain is like putting a band-aid on a severed limb. Give yourself the gift of owning that you are struggling and take a look at what services are available to you. Make appointments with a few mental health professionals whose approaches t your needs.

Christine Kahane, NBC-HWC, MCHWC – is a Nationally BoardCerti ed Health & Wellness Coach, and owner of KAHANE COACHING (www.kahanecoaching.com), located at 30752 Southview Drive/Suite 110 in Evergreen, CO. For more information about coaching, or to write-in a question for UNlearn it! send your inquiries to christine@kahanecoaching.com.

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Jeanne Greer

March 5, 1932 - May 12, 2023

Jeanne N. Greer, age 91, passed away in Cheyenne, WY. ough born in Texas, Jeanne called Idaho Springs, CO her home for 47 years where she lived in her beautiful 150-yearold Victorian house. Living in the mountains brought her so much joy. She loved gardening, took great pride in her yard, and could always be found sitting on one of the swings on her wrap around porch with a cup of co ee and her cat in her lap, welcoming anyone who stopped by to say hello. A huge animal lover, with cats being especially dear to her, she enjoyed volunteering at Charlie’s Animal Shelter in Dumont (and feeding any strays that wandered onto her porch). After a decline in health, she moved to Wyoming in order to be closer to her daughter. She was an unforgettable neighbor in her community who will be dearly missed by all.