Community Synergy Magazine - Nov 2014

1

Coming in 2015

2 Pictured above: Rev. Dwight Shawrod Riddick II, Pastor & Kelli Sweat, Director Of Marketing

Vision that brings FREEDOM TO FAMILIES A FAMILY LIFE Empowerment Center FREEDOM to be and do more The “EXPERIENCE CENTER” 3

The Experience center Will Transform Our Community

Proposed Use: 

Tutoring



AA/NA Gatherings



Recreation Space



Formal Dance Studio



Reception Hall



Exercise Room



Meeting Rooms



And Much More.

4

Marriage Fun Family Issued Sponsored By:

06

Contents 7 Financial Tips 4 Ways to Manage Your Bills

Moms & Daughters? 8

Should You Discipline Your Children Discover How to Correctly Correct a Child..

- Intensive In-Home - Mental Health Support - Skill building - Therapeutic Day Treatment - Groups - Bullying - Coping Skills - Anger Management - Substance Abuse “Changing The World One Family at a Time…“

9 Meet The Gary Family

08

The CS Magazine Family of The Year 2014

Graduate Highlight

17

gygmentalhealth.com

Get the 411 on the FBC Giving Campaign.

14 Giving that Make Sense Choose How You Want to Participate in Giving

15 & 26 Personal Testimonies Stories of Why Others Will Support the Vision.

Get Some Rest

nd

Office: 115 W. 2 Ave, Franklin, VA Phone: 757-562-210 Fax: 757-562-2109

13 What is the FREEDOM Campaign?

18 Congratulations on Graduation Our future leaders have graduated

26

16 Frequently Asked Questions About FC Get all the Answerrs You Need to Start Today.

Cover Photo of Gary Family. Community Synergy Family of the Year

Page 9

23 Walk In It Inc 2015 Calendar Get A Jump start On Next Year’s Planning

24 Preparing For the Next Generation Pastor DS Riddick in Pursuit of Doctorate Degree.

The Community Synergy Magazine Is A Publication of The First Baptist Church 318 Hall St Franklin, VA 23851 ~ Pastor DS Riddick 757-562-7158 www.firstbcfranklin.org or www.fbcexperience.com To ViewPast Issues of CS Magazine Please visit www.issuu.com/firstbcfranklin 5

Choosing to enjoy Married Life sonalities, television-programming A fun, loving marriage is not shallow I love those commercials for online and pizza-topping preferences. or immature. It requires plenty of dating services with the happy couhard work, taking couples beyond Getting on the same page is no longples twirling around the screen. The just enough effort to stay together. er the goal for Amy and me.

Trying tone of the commercials screams Amy and I made the decision 17 to change one another is of no interfun, fresh and exciting. But have you years ago that divorce would never est to us.

And we don't strive for ever thought about the disillusioned be an option. I believe the decision husband or wife watching that com- complete agreement on every issue. to enjoy life together flows from the mercial and thinking, Why isn't my Instead, we simply agree to enjoy life exact same place. It's our character marriage like that? I'll never have and each other for the rest of our that makes the decision and then time on earth. You, sticks with it. that kind of fun too, can decide to or passion in ...marriage is more enjoy life and marthis relationabout the daily deci- riage — no matter ship. how many chalsions we make and not lenges you may I work hard to make Amy laugh.

Walking out of the bedroom on some as much about what face. mornings, I give her a brief, fashionContrary to our we have in common. In Psalm 90:10, model, runway walk displaying my culture's meschoice of wardrobe. Having characsage that Moses reminds us ter and being a responsible adult chemistry and compatibility are es- that life is a grind: "The years of our doesn't mean you must always be sential to an enjoyable marriage, I'm life are seventy, or even by reason of serious. On the other hand, you don't need to be a comedian to enjoy life convinced that character and com- strength eighty; yet their span is but and each other. To create a fun culmitment are really the essential qual- toil and trouble; ture in your marriage and home, ities. My wife, Amy, and I have found they are soon A fun, loving start with that a fun, loving marriage is more gone, and we fly minutes, not marriage is not about the daily decisions we make away." hours. My wife and not as much about what we shallow or immature. and I commit to cutting loose and have in common.

It doesn't matter how much money having fun together for at least 15 to My wife and I are different in every we make; we can't buy our way out 20 minutes a day.

by Ted Cunningham

“

Make the decision to enjoy each other

”

“

way. I define savings as money in the bank; she defines savings as the difference between the actual price and the sale price. I like to sleep with the temperature in the house set at 75 degrees; she prefers 69.5. We are complete opposites in our per-

of the grind. However, in the midst of the grind, Solomon encourages us: "Enjoy life with the wife whom you love, all the days of your vain life that he has given you under the sun, because that is your portion in life" (Ecclesiastes 9:9).

6 6

”

Make the decision to enjoy each other

for two. Plan a "staycation" (a stay-at -home vacation) without the kids.

Shop for and prepare a multicourse, fine-dining meal at home. Whatever you choose, make it a new experience that gives you time to dream, play and laugh together.

I work hard to make Amy laugh.

Walking out of the bedroom on some mornings, I give her a brief, fashionmodel, runway walk displaying my choice of wardrobe. Having character and being a responsible adult doesn't mean you must always be serious. On the other hand, you don't need to be a comedian to My wife and I commit I call this "mining for enjoy life and Miners drill each other. To to cutting loose and gold." test holes, excavate create a fun the ground and prohaving fun together culture in your cess soil — all in the marriage and hope of finding gold. for at least 15 to 20 home, start Although there are with minutes, minutes a day. no guarantees, they not hours. My work hard for a paywife and I commit to cutting loose and having off that could be huge. fun together for at least 15 to 20 Amy and I want to be great miners in our marriage. We started major minminutes a day. ing last year — looking for things we value about each other. We write our nuggets in a list we call "The Fun Loving You List."

“

Make the decision to value your spouse

”

My list for her includes:

1. I love her "all or nothing" passion.

2. I love her disdain for driving directions.

3. I love her spontaneity.

Amy's list for me includes:

Make the decision to avoid ruts Identify areas where you're stuck in routines. When you get stuck in marriage and life, you might blame your spouse for being the source of the problem, question your compatibility, close your heart and ultimately doubt your future as a couple. The grind of life can create a vacuum of intimacy, laughter and fun in marriage. But you don't have to allow duty and responsibility to trump passion and creativity. Break routine by establishing a fresh date night. Avoid the standard dinner and movie — try rollerskating, kayaking, hiking, jumping on a trampoline or renting a bicycle built

1. I love his concern for my comfort.

2. I love his fiscal responsibility.

3. I love his exaggerated humor.

Every time a frustration or difference of opinion surfaces, we mine for more nuggets and add them to our lists. We regularly return to them to remind ourselves that our spouse is highly valuable. We cannot control the circumstances thrown at us by the grind of life, but in whatever situation we find ourselves, we can decide to pursue a fun, loving marriage.

This article appeared in the Summer 2014 issue of Thriving Family Magazine.

Copyright © 2014 by Ted Cunningham.

7 7

4 Ways To Manage Your Bills Make a list of all of your bills. Next to each one write the day that it is due. If there is not a due date just leave it blank.

1

Decide on 2 days per month that you will pay your bills. I recommend the 2 days you when you get paid (if you receive a regular bimonthly check).

2

Organize them by due dates. Assuming the days you get paid are the 1st and 15th – you would then take all of your bills due the 22nd through the 6th and pay these on the 15th. And on the 1st of the month you would pay the bills due from the 7th -21st. This will give each bill at least a week to get to through the mail.

3

Figure out what your monthly dollar amount needed for bills is and divide it by 2. If your monthly bills total $2000, then you will want to pay as close to $1000 worth of bills on the 15th and $1000 worth on the 1st. Use the bills that don’t have a due date (i.e. savings accounts) to balance this out as best as possible.

4

My Daughter is Growing Up Dealing With My Own Painful Past

By: Stacey Taylor

the neighborhood always congregate in my yard. It was It was a warm summer even- then that I noticed one boy in ing with hints of Fall tempera- particular playfully nudging tures in the air as I sat on my her and then running sofa reading, I glanced outaway. She gave chase. Once side and saw my beautiful she caught up with him, she little girl playing with her pushed him back and they friends in the front yard. They both fell into the grass laughwere laughing and frolicking ing… (record scratch) I beabout and enjoying gan to think about themselves as kids I feel all of the ugli- the fact that my should. As I baby girl was growness of my past watched, I couldn’t ing up right before raising its ugly help but marvel at my eyes. She is a head again. their innocence. tween now. She wears a bra and has They are young and free, with- her period. out a care in the world. I continued to watch her in the Suddenly my mind went to setting sun. Her long natural the nether regions of hell and hair bouncing with her as she I thought about how ran to chase a ball. She was “mannish” boys were in the speaking to her comrades and neighborhood where I grew they were laughing, about up. How I was practically what I don't know. forced to have sex at a very

“

”

Boys and girls from all over

young age.

With no father around and a mother that worked 2 jobs I had to fend for myself when it came to boys. I fought and fought through my entire teen life to keep boys away and off of me. What did Sophia say in The Color Purple? “A girl child aint safe in a family of mens?” Well, a girl child also ain’t safe in a neighborhood full of unsupervised boys. I could feel my heart start to race and before I knew it, started to get upset. It was then that I felt my husband’s gentle hand on my shoulder. His touch snapped me out of my daymare. I must have had some kind of look on my face because he asked me, “What’s wrong?” I replied, “Nothing.” But there was something wrong.

Without even knowing it, I was allowing my past experiences with men to tarnish this

beautiful experience of watching my daughter play with her friends. My husband and I have grown sons from previous relationships but a daughter was a first for us both. I remember how sad I was when our doctor told us that we were going to have a daughter. I got so scared. I pretended to be happy.

I was terrified that all of the horrible things that happened to me as a girl child would just automatically happen to her. Being sexually molested at the age of 4, with no father in the home, I spent my early teen years fighting my male counterparts and my late teens early 20’s being promiscuous. I purposely tried to create for her everything that I never had, which was a father in the home, safety, security and stability. I’ve written in the past that I am very over protective when it comes to her and its true. Now that she is growing up I feel all of the ugliness of my past raising its ugly head again. My husband has loved most of my pain away, but some of it still lingers within.

Continued Page 26

Correct Child Correction by: Adrian Rogers Now this subject can definitely be an inflammatory argument in today’s world!

a child and is driven out with “the rod of correction,” something such as a switch that stings but does no damage.

Third, correction helps keep our sons and daughters out of hell. Proverbs 23:14 says, “You shall beat him with the rod, and deliver his soul from hell.”In addition to giving chastisement when necessary, we need to set limits for our children.

Without them, children feel unloved and rejected.

Too many people have the idea that their little darlings don’t need to be corrected. But the Bible disagrees and gives three reasons why children need discipline.

First, it is proof of our love. “He who spares his rod hates his son: but he that loves him disciplines him promptly.” Proverbs 13:24

Finally, we need to assign responsibilities to our children and then hold them accountable for their assignments.

“Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” Proverbs 22:6

Second, it is the only way to set our children free from foolishness. Proverbs 2:15 says foolishness is found in the heart of

88

he Gary family (GF) has proven to be a model family in the Franklin-Southampton County area for years.

With an unmatched balance for spiritual life, academics, and strong family values they have been a beacon of light to many. Often without them knowing, they have strengthened families around them. Pastor DS Riddick, First Baptist Church, says, “The Gary family has a love for true family values that most of the world has lost. The children, are extremely polite and well behaved, while Mr. Oscar is stern yet caring, with Mrs. Devonda being the glue that keeps them all together. I have personally sought and received family advice from them while always learning tips from them while watching from afar.”

CS: What do you prioritize in your family?

GF: We prioritize our family in the following manner: God is first and the head of all of our lives. Prayer because it changes things. Loving each other because it is essential to a strong family foundation. Education because it is important. The Bible says “my people perish because of lack of knowledge”.

Here’s the Community Synergy (CS) Interview with our 2014 Family of The Year:

CS: So when troubles and conflict come, how do you usually handle them?

GF: When troubles and conflict come we pray, we talk and we discuss the matter. We pray because prayer has the power to changes things and many times it has, but on the few occasions that prayer did not change CS: How do you think your faith has and does affect your things- it did give us the fortitude to keep going and family values and decision making? change the way we saw the situation. We talk and disGF: Our faith is the basis of all of our decisions. Being cuss troubles and conflict because we know that God obedient and trying to do things right allows God to does not just speak to one person. He can give a word bless completely. We constantly pray for wisdom, to either of us and it can be affirmation, confirmation or knowledge and understanding. just be still and know that I am God. CS: What does family mean to you?

GF: In a nut shell family means togetherness, loving and accepting each other for who we are, and being able to laugh and have fun together.

99

your family a priority. Keep your family close, do as many things as you can to bring your family together as much as possible. Try to make your home a retreat for family (immediate and extended) and friends. Remember when all else fails that God’s word will not return to him void, so pray.

CS: What is one of your most memorable family moments?

CS: What do you think about the FBC Freedom Campaign or the Community Center?

GF: Believe or not, we cannot think of GF: Our family supports “The Experience Center” because we believe just one memorable family moment, there are many moments that bring a smile to our faces and causes our hearts to leap. The one strand that goes through all of our most memorable family moments is that we are all together as a family and not just our immediate, but our extended as well.

CS: What advice would you give a father about life?

GF: The advice that I would give to a father about life is to love God and love your family for they are both gifts. If he has children, I would tell him to love them and cherish that time. Tell them that you love them and that they are beautiful. Spend as much time as possible with them because that’s what they want most- your time. It is important to be there and not just physically.

CS: What wisdom would you share with a wife about family?

GF: The wisdom that I would share with a wife about family is prayer works. If you want to be a priority in your family you have to make

Experience Center” can and will be that place. The center will offer something for all ages, as well as, a place where life problems and issues can be addressed. The center has the potential to greatly enhance Franklin, the surrounding communities and the lives of all those who will be touched by “The Experience”. This cause reflects the ideals that we as a family think are necessary and beneficial to the growth and success of our lives and all of those around us. Thank you, First Baptist Church for your vision.

CS: What do you do as a family for fun?

GF: For fun our family plays trivia games, we support the kids in each of their activities, go for walks and bike rides together, family vacations, family dinners with discussions, eating out and watching Jeopardy.

Question for children- what do you think about your parents?

Amon-I think of my parents as role models. I think that they are nice, that Franklin needs a place such as kind, generous and happy people. this. The center offers many things I pray to God that my children get that are needed in Franklin at the to meet these loving people and present time. Franklin needs a have fun experiences with them. place where families can gather My parents have taught me a for positive experiences. We belot...my mom teaches me to always lieve that education is very impray and my dad teaches me to portant. Allowing the center to be always believe. a place where students can get extra help with school, through the tutoring program will pay dividends for all of those involved because education is priceless.

Franklin needs a place where children can feel safe and live life without limits. We feel that “The 10 10

result of the strong value ethics of my parents.

We were always taught to trust God. When we were younger, whenever we were afraid, my Dad would always ask, "Who is your Shepherd?" We were to respond, "The Lord Is." And he would assure us that if we trusted in God, everything would be okay. Even as an Amani-I think my parents are very lov- adult, in times of turmoil, when I turn to my parents, they assure me that ing and kind people. They always God is in control. It is a comfort times tell me to try my best no matter two. how hard or simple the task. My mom and dad always tell me, “You We were also always taught the importance of appreciating the little can’t change other people so just things in life. The beauty of God's pray because prayer changes creations, time with family members, a good read... all of which I still enthings”. They stressed to me the importance of always loving your joy to the fullest. family and try to get along with CS: How did family and family valeach other no matter what. They ues help you in your decision making? quote on a regular basis, “In as The things my family has experimuch as it depends on you get enced -- good and bad, have along with all men”. shaped my decision making. I try to recapture the good things in my perDaughter Taleace Bryant (Seen in pic- sonal life and hopefully avoid the ture above on the right). bad. My Dad used to always say, “try to learn from others mistakes so CS: How Important is Family to You? you don't make the same ones”.

On a scale of one to ten, family is a definite ten. I love my family, couldn't I see my parents as being wise, and I imagine life without them. Most of what value the opinions of my siblings, so I I look forward to in life is centered consult with them alot when making around family. very important decisions.

CS: What are some of your most memorable family moments?

Some of my most memorable family moments have been hanging around the house on normal days when something funny would happen. We used to take bike rides all the time when I was younger, and Dad used to do a lot of outdoor work, while we played around outside or attempted to help. We do so many things together.. The annual Christmas party, summer get togethers, and Sunday afternoon dinner. There are many moments that come to mind.

CS: What family values stood out the most to you?

Because my parents are so pro-family, many of my values come as a direct

One family value we were always taught was the importance and value of a good name. I have always tried to make decisions in a way that upholds a good name.

CS: What family values were you taught that helped shape and enhance your life?

We were taught the value of education and being intelligent, being well rounded. As a result, I have always done extremely well in school, and enjoyed activities that inspire learning and thought. l love traveling to new places, reading, and we have a lot of dinner conversation about politics, religion, interesting world events 1111

Welcome To The FREEDOM CAMPAIGN

We Have Begun Renovating

12

God’s provisions for us at a new level.

This is the time to walk by faith.

From The Pastor’s Desk Pastor DS Riddick, II

transformation to a new and state of the art facility will aid in making it possible for the vision to be fulfilled.

Our current building has provided us large but limited space to do great things, the added facilities will give us freedom to do even greater!

There is excitement in the air as Campaign Freedom is making its impact upon the First Baptist Church (FBC) Family. I am encouraged by the support and the positive feedback that we have received during the beginning stage of our Capital Stewardship Campaign.

The new facilities will allow this congregation to continue the great work to which God has called us. Our capacity to do ministry will increase as the For several days the FBC congregational family has been praying together new facilities will increase our space and provide new and additional setthat God would touch each of hearts tings where people can gather. Areas and speak clearly affirming His will such as the Recreation Place (out door/ for His church and for each of our lives. The time has arrived for each of indoor gymnasium) will allow us to us to invest in the project by making a reach young people who may not come at first to the sanctuary but will be atdeeper commitment. tracted to a gaming center and recreational atmosphere. Spacious classThe vision is clear; God has called us rooms, and dance studios on a campus setting with adequate parking and child to partner with Him in transforming playground areas will attract others. the lives and situations of those who cross our path. Over the past years, this ministry has touched hundreds of lives Campaign Freedom is in full gear; in a powerful and positive way. We have received testimony after testimo- the time to invest awaits us. On November 16th, during each regular worny of how people have been changed and helped as a result of God working ship service, each member of FBC, community partners, and friends of our through our church ministries. The vision is not to transform a building; ministry are encouraged to submit his the vision is to transform lives. The or her pledge. This is the time to trust 13

Rev. Jennell and I will lead the way.

We will be the first to make a pledge, followed by the leaders of the church.

The rest of the FBC family will then join in during this festive time of investing into our future. Everyone may not be able to pledge the same amount, but everyone can participate, simply by doing his or her best with a generous spirit. We have been here before and your partnership with God during the 2013 Four by Four Campaign we saw God supersede our expectations.

Let’s trust God again. First Baptist Church Family, the time to build on the foundation of those who have come before us and invest into our future is here. Let’s move forward, expand our territory, provide new facilities, and claim our FREEDOM!

Will You Partner in This FREEDOM CAMPAIGN? Choose one of the giving levels to the right. If you would like, we will be happy to make it convenient for you by drafting your bank account either once a week, twice a month, or a monthly basis on the date you choose. Remember, you never miss money that does not hit your hand. Your bank draft can be CANCELLED at anytime with a seven day notice. You can also accomplish the same thing by selecting bill pay at your bank. *Chart payments have been rounded up in some cases for convenience.

Amount Each Day for Two Years

Once A Week

Every 2 Weeks

Once A MONTH

2.5K Club—$25.00 A Day

$175.00

$350.00

$750.00

1K Club—$10.00 A Day

$70.00

$150.00

$300.00

900 Club—$9.00 A Day

$65.00

$135.00

$270.00

800 Club—$8.00 A Day

$60.00

$120.00

$240.00

700 Club—$7.00 A Day

$50.00

$105.00

$210.00

600 Club—$6.00 A Day

$45.00

$90.00

$180.00

500 Club—$5.00 A Day

$35.00

$70.00

$140.00

400 Club—$4.00 A Day

$30.00

$60.00

$120.00

300 Club—$3.00 A Day

$25.00

$50.00

$100.00

200 Club—$2.00 A Day

$15.00

$30.00

$60.00

100 Club— $1.00 A Day

$10.00

$15.00

$30.00

You do not have to stop at any of the levels above, ask God for what He will have you to do.

Make Your Giving Make GOOD $ENSE Challenge a family member or friend to 2 cycles of this simple, yet rewarding 30 week Challenge!

14

God is doing great things at First Baptist Church! I am excited about the opportunity to be a part of the “Freedom Campaign.” I believe that this project will allow more outreach ministry in Franklin, Virginia. The “Experience Center” is another excellent example of how God is opening doors to expand his Kingdom. I commend Pastor Riddick and Reverend Jennell for their vision, commitment to spreading the Gospel of Jesus Christ, and passion to make a difference in the community. I am ready to support this endeavor! To God be the Glory. - Rev. Sheila Baxter, Brigadier We are the Rawlings family. We are members of FBC. Our family has experienced God in so many powerful ways. That’s why we’re excited and on board with the Freedom Campaign to help pay off our brand new Experience Center at 618 South Street that will transform so many lives, men, women, and youth because we understand that not all people will come into the four walls of FBC. Jesus says in Luke 19:10, He came to seek and save those who are lost.

Together We Will Succeed I have been a member of First Baptist Church since the early 1980’s.

Through the years I have witnessed the church grow from a two story complex with a main sanctuary and a lower level multi-purpose room into a larger facility with a chapel, several rooms to house various ministries, and a pastor’s study. Recently the church has experienced a growth in membership that necessitates more space. The Lord has given Pastor Riddick a vision to help accommodate this growth. He has laid before us a building that will be converted into an Experience Center. This center will be used to absorb the overflow we are experiencing. It will relieve our present structure of some of the functions and activities it presently houses. The building will also be used to accommodate the needs of the community, thus giving the community a sense of belonging. I am very happy and excited about this project because I can visualize how it will extend the church ministries into the community.

Isn’t bringing souls to Christ what Christians are suppose to do? I think this project affords the vehicle to do just that, and I am proud to be a part of it.

- Clyde Johnson

We Believe In The Vision Hear Our Testimonies, Know Our Stories, & Follow Our Lead.

We support The Freedom Campaign because First Baptist Church congregation has been the source of transformation in our family. Being newlyweds as of 9/25/10 we have continued to find growth through ministry and devotional experience by inspired word for both our faith and life. We believe scripture has the final word when it comes to matters of faith and practice.

First Baptist Church leadership, ministry, and mission has changed our lives and many others by teaching spiritual growth and guidance. We respect and trust the vision of our leaders to do what's best for our congregation and community. The Freedom Campaign, with great anticipation, will be a force to show Gods love for his children by enabling what has been referred to as the Experience Center to expand fellowship of members and our community.

C O M M U N I T Y

The center would unite people from diverse backgrounds to work together with a common goal; promote personal growth and self-esteem, offering improvement in tutoring and literacy, support youth by offering after school programs, helping to get our children off the street and welcome to experience the love of Christ; as well as beautify our community to maybe discover hidden talents that may change our view. It will inspire a united force of community members that there are many positive role models in our community who care about them. We see the vision to enhance the quality of community life by providing opportunities and enrichment activities in a safe, healthy, and nurturing environment. We are anxious to see the greatness God has in store through The Experience Center. - The House Family

15

Frequently Asked Questions What are we planning to build?

The new facility will provide 17,320 sq. ft of freedom and space for community and family life development.

We are not constructing a brand new facility, instead we are renovating a currently standing structure. The newly renovated space at 618 South St Franklin, VA will provide the FREEDOM in both indoor and outdoor areas for sports activities, banquets, after school tutoring, dance studio for formal dance training, senior citizens enrichment, administration, fellowships, and more. The transformation of this space to a state of the art facility will enable our ministry to fulfill its vision and mission.

Why build now?

We’ve reached capacity in our current facility and God continues to bless us with more and more people seeking to be a part of the FBC family and partner with us in community transformation. We have even been blessed to provide community services to those who may not always be as comfortable in a church building. In order to respond to these blessings and be capable of welcoming those who come in the future, we must provide this additional multi-use space.

When does construction begin?

Currently, we have begun the initial steps to begin renovation by November 2014 What is the total budget?

We are believing God for an initial $600k collected over the next 2 years to successfully see change in the building, and begin the transformation of lives in our community.

What’s the name of the building?

We have been referring to the building as “The Experience Center”. A place on the corner of our community where we can experience freedom to maximize your God given potential.

How will funds be raised?

Recently the church announced a new capital stewardship campaign, “The Freedom Campaign”. Much like the 2012 4x4 Campaign to Transform the Lives of Youth, we are asking FBC families and community partners to make financial commitments to support the renovation project.

How will commitments be made?

The initial commitments and first payment on the 2 year pledges will be on November 16, 2014. Commitments will then be made either by giving weekly, monthly, annually, or as funds are available over a 2 year period.

Some may also be led to give non-cash gifts such as real estate and jewelry. Commitments can be given by envelope, or systematically through automatic bank draft or on your own via our website or mobile app.

Will monetary commitments be made public?

No. Absolutely not. Neither your 2 year pledge amount nor amount given will be public information.

Can commitments be changed if necessary?

Yes. You may either increase or decrease your commitment at any time as the Lord leads.

What happens to our current building?

Our current building will continue to be a place of radical worship and sacred spiritual encounters. The new space will simply provide us FREEDOM to provide more ministry and services. It does not replace 318 Hall St. More Information at www.fbcexperience.com 16

Why Should I Invest In This?

How Deep Is Your Faith?

17

These Graduates Are Why

Ashanta Austin

We Are Renovating

Graduated: May 5, 2013 From: Norfolk State University With a degree in Nursing We are so proud of you!!

The Experience Center

Love, Mom and all of the Family!

Jazmyn Walloe

Breana Whitfield

Jazmyn is a 2013 graduate of Franklin High School.

Jazmyn attends Lincoln University of the Commonwealth of Pennsylvania, majoring in Psychology and Minor in Mass Communication.

Breana is a 2014 Southampton High School Honors Graduate. She will further her education by attending North Carolina A&T State University.

18

Yale Cullings

Xavier Daniel Freeman

is a 2011 Graduate of

Courtney Monique Hart

Xavier was born Nov. 14, 1995 to Marilyn Graduated: June 15,2013 From: SouthampSouthampton High School.

Freeman and Guy Freeman Jr. He is a member ton High School Courtney is an honors gradof First Baptist Church and accepted Christ in uate and received an advance diploma.

Yale has already recorded her debut to his life in 2006. Xavier has many talents Courtney was involved in various clubs and and thanks God for each of them. Xavier is a volunteered at Courtland Health and Rehaalbum “The Journey(Step1)�and is cur 2013 Honor graduate of Franklin High School. bilitation Center. She attends Old Dominion rently a Music Major at Howard Universi- He currently attends Virginia Tech to pursue a University and is majoring in Biology.

Bachelors Degree in Architecture. ty.

Join The Nathan Jones Graduate of Franklin High School

Campaign @ www.fbcexperience.com 19 19

Brianna Hodge

Octavia T. Hathaway

Graduated from Virginia Union University with a BA in Psychology . She maintained on the Deans List all four years of her college career. She is a member of Psi Chi National Honor society, Beta Kappa National Scientific Honor Society, Alpha Kappa Mu Honor Society, and Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. She is currently attending Bowie State University to pursue a Master of Education in School Counseling.

Octavia is a graduate of Gates County High School. While attending, she participated in FBLA, Project Unity and The Boys and Girls work club. She is attending Tidewater Community College , where she will pursue a degree in Nursing.

JaQuan Heath

Sha’Quira Holemon

JaQuan is a graduate of Franklin High School. He will be attending Advanced Technology Institute where he plans to pursue a degree in maritime welding.

Graduate of Southampton AcademyCurrently attending Virginia Commonwealth University.

20 2020

Kayla Lynn Holland Brian Holland Jr. Brian is an intelligent and respectful young man. After graduating, he plans to work for Northrop Grumman and attend the Apprentice School.

A 2013 graduate of North Carolina Central University, Durham, NC Received a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Psychology.

Jeanetta Sessoms

Armirah K. Stephens

Jeanetta is an Honor graduate of Franklin High School. She currently attends Paul D. Camp Community College.

Congratulations!! I am so very proud of you.

Your Journey has just begun.

Love Mom. Armirah is a 2014 graduate of Franklin High School. She is currently attending Spellman College in Atlanta, GA

21 21 21

.

Sidney Rawls, III

Amber Royster

Sidney is a 2008 graduate of Southampton High School. He graduated from Delaware State University on May 19, 2013 with a Bachelor of Science Degree in Information Technology.

To God be the Glory. We love you!

Amber graduated in 2012 and currently attends Old Dominion University.

- Mom, Dad , Andre & Carlos

Melanie Camille Watson

aren Jewette Graduated from Regent University with a Doctorate in Character Education.

Melanie graduated Cum Laude with a Bachelor of Science degree in Biology from NC Agriculture and Technical State University on May 10, 2014. She was inducted into The National Biological Honors Society. Beta Beta Beta in 2012. Melanie will pursue a Masters degree in clinical epidemiology. Melanie was a 2010 Honor graduate of Franklin High School. She is the daughter of Melissa Mabry and the granddaughter of Algie and Mildred Mabry.

22 2022

Gregory and Krysta Jewette Kayla Jewette Kayla graduated from Christopher Newport with a Bachelor in Psychology and a minor in Dance.

Gregory and Krysta are graduates of Nansemond River High School. Gregory attends George Manson University and Krysta attends Longwood University.

Ray Ruffin Ray graduated May 11, 2012 from Paul D. Camp Community College. He was awarded the Associate of Applied Science Degree with a major in Management and a specialization in General Business. He is a member of Phi Theta Kappa Honor Society. He graduated Summa Cum Laude with a GPA of 3.826

Marcus Williams Jr. Class of 2013 Honor graduate from Hertford County High School, Ahoskie, North Carolina. Marcus maintained a 4.0 GPA. He received the Academic Booster Award for consistently maintaining an average of 90 or above for his entire high school journey. He was blessed to also receive an award for having the highest average in computer engineering I and II. He actively participated in BETA, FBLA, Science Club, Debate Club, Bible Club, HCHS Band, and Tennis team. Marcus attends NC A&T State University where he is majoring in Computer Engineering

23 21 23

24

Preparing for the Next Generation Pastor Begins Doctoral Program As the First Baptist Church (FBC) Family looks forward to a bright future that will provide expansion of ministry, and increase in opportunity with The Experience Center (a family life center that is being renovated on 618 Hall St Franklin, VA), their Pastor is not too far behind. This past July Pastor Dwight Shawrod Riddick, II began extensive studies at the Chicago Theological Seminary in Illinois where he is pursing a Doctorate of Divinity Degree.

Pastor DS Riddick has already earned a Bachelor of Science Degree from James Madison University (Harrisonburg, VA) as a lettered Basketball Athlete, and a Masters Of Divinity Degree from the Samuel DeWitt Proctor School of Theology of Virginia Union University (Richmond, VA). To accompany these academic achievements he was blessed to spend time mentoring with leadership guru John Maxwell, earning him an official John Maxwell Leadership, Speaking, and Business Coaching Certification.

step towards accomplishing that goal. My wife and I have young children and with her support we felt this would be a great time to begin this program.

CS: What do you expect to gain from this pursuit?

DSR: I think the best part of this program is that it is specifically catered towards preaching. Different from other programs, it is designed to enhance the public proclamation of the gospel. So, I hope to finish this program as a better and more informed preacher than I am now. My goal is not just to stand up each week, but to really connect with each person who will hear the gospel preached.

CS: What happens after you complete this program?

DSR: Well, I just started, and it’s a three year tract. So, if you know my academic history, I was in and out of JMU from 1997 until graduating in 2005, you must know I am really concentrating on just completing this proWe took time to interview him to find out what this new lev- gram. However, I would like to pursue a PhD in Organizael of education meant to him and what it would mean for us. tional Leadership to enhance my ability to help others navigate through life and maximize CS: What made you decide to their potential. I believe now it’s pursue another degree? time for the NEXT GENERATION to excel. I believe this degree DSR: To be honest, I’ve always pursuit will equip me to prepare wanted to earn a PhD and have the Next Generation to share the experience of researching new the gospel. I am on a mission to philosophies to enhance the lives of help maximize the potential of others. The doctorate degree is a others so we can all see Jesus.

25

My Daughters Is Growing Up Continued From Page 9…

She’ll be a teenager soon and I am terrified. Somehow her hitting puberty has triggered my painful past. I realize that there has to be a way that I can move beyond the terror and pain that I experienced as a young girl. I want to just enjoy her and the fact that she will not go through what I went through because we have already broken the chains of violence and abuse. Here are the seven steps that I will take to move myself forward while dealing with this: I will trust God Trusting God in this situation is a must. I can’t do any of it without Him. But I dont expect Him to do it all. I must do my own work.

Need a good night’s rest? Try these holistic tips.

By: Coach P



Leave work at the office. The bedroom is for sleeping and romance only (by the way, a steamy encounter is the ultimate sleeping aid).

I will forgive Forgiveness is for me, not for the people who have hurt me. It does not come easy, but I realize that this has to happen.



Make sure temperature settings are comfy in the bedroom.



Avoid watching TV or discussing intense issues while in bed. Instead, pray, read, or write in your journal before

I will live in the present Not allowing what happened in the past to affect my present is a hard one. I know that living in the past prevents me from enjoying my presence.

bedtime.



Avoid sugary caffeinated drinks before turning in. A cup of hot chamomile tea with honey is a safe bet.



I will deal with my own lingering pain I’ve never really dealt with my own pain. I have always been one to just keep things moving. In a way I am glad that this all happened. It needs to be dealt with.

Avoid naps during the day. If you do nap, don’t sleep for more than 25 minutes.



Try yoga or other forms of meditation and relaxation modalities, such as getting massages regularly.

 I will not burden her because of my issues My past has something to do with the way I raise her, but I realize that being too over protective, fearful and paranoid could very well have an adverse affect.

Massage a few drops of lavender or valerian essential oil on your temples before going to bed.



Sprinkle a few drops of lavender oil inside your pillowcase.

 I will remember my own strengths Going through what I went through and still being able to get good grades, a college education, marry a wonderful man and be active in my community is my strength.

throughout your bedroom.



Celery is also useful in the treatment of insomnia. Celery juice mixed with a tablespoon of honey makes a delightful drink.



I will rejoice in what I have been blessed with I have been blessed with a loving husband and wonderful children. Focusing on this is what will allow me to move on.

Use an aromatherapy diffuser to waft the scent

Pumpkin, sesame, and sunflower seeds all contain Ltryptophan, a substance the body uses to convert to the calming neurotransmitter serotonin. Try nibbling on a handful of seeds nightly 30 minutes before bedtime.



In my effort to deal with my own issues I hope that this post will help some of you out there who may be struggling with yours. Its funny what triggers the past. For me it was my daughter coming of age, and for you it might be something different. No matter what it is, we have to move forward and remember that everything happens for a reason and that there is strength in surviving.

Melatonin is useful in the treatment of insomnia. You can get it naturally from adding plant-based foods to your diet — bananas, pears, cherries, leafy greens, and nuts. You can also purchase melatonin in supplement form. Always consult your physician before taking new supplements.

If you have severe insomnia consult a physician or therapist because it can be a symptom of a more serious issue.

26

I have chosen to participate in the Freedom Campaign because I personally believe that this is one of the many great avenues that God is able to bring restoration and freedom not only to FBC’s members but to the Franklin community. This campaign has a legacy driven vision that I long to see unfold and become full reality. To be financially free, as well as, to experience limitless ministry opportunities would be a wonderful benefit to the children of FBC and the Franklin community.

The Experience Center will be a place that many NEW experiences will occur in the lives of the children of Franklin. Hope will be restored, dreams will be made reality, and promising futures will be created with the fulfillment of the Experience Center.— Sherita Parker

First I thank God for keeping me here to see the great things we are doing here at First Baptist Church. I will support the best that I can for this great Experience.

Trust & Believe God

I thank God for the growth of our membership and our children at FBC. I’m thankful for our pastor, his wife, and their children.

They are the first to start a family here, creating good history for First Baptist Church. I am blessed to see that happen. God is blessing FBC Always - Hattie Holland

We Believe In The Vision

Hear Our Testimonies, Know Our Stories, & Follow Our Lead.

Since we first stepped foot into First Baptist Church as non-members it has been nothing but a true joy and has exposed us to a totally different level in our spiritual journey. The strong family environment, genuineness of its members and just an all-around love of God is what drew us here to this wonderful church and confirmed our decision that First Baptist should be our new church home. Being a part of “The Freedom Campaign” will give us fulfillment in knowing that we are doing all we can to help and support our church home. The contribution to the campaign, in conjunction with many others, will allow us to create a staple in the community for our children, their children and multiple generations for years to come.

We support the Freedom Campaign because as we see the growing population of the Church, our concern is that our present location is outgrowing the various, growing ministries. So when the building at 618 South Street became available for purchase, by the grace of God, FBC acquired the building and now the Experience Center will be the place where effective ministry will continue to take place on a much larger scale. The Freedom Campaign will also open up doors of opportunity for housing and jobs. We consider this a blessing for the community in which we live and a privilege for us to support and be a part of such a wonderful project. We gladly support this Campaign in our own community so that lives can be transformed, the Church will be visible in the community and we, as members of First Baptist Church, will serve others in such a way that Jesus Christ will be invited into someone's life.

Min. William & Dea. Nelda Bellamy

Hi we are George and Sallie Wood. We would like to share with you what FBC means to us.

We have been to many other churches but felt like something spiritual was missing. Since we have been at FBC we are a lot better off as a couple, financially, and spiritually. We never had a whole lot of money to put into church, we have been blessed with a new house which we are focusing on trying to purchase and also we have money every paycheck to pay our tithes and give offerings. I am also employed now at a job I thoroughly enjoy which is working to help those in our community.

That is what FBC is all about. They help in the community anyway they can. Bringing God and hope to everyone.

We really thank Pastor Riddick and Reverend Jennell who have so many goals to make our community a better place for everyone. We also love all of our FBC family and are grateful to have so many people that love us.

-Donald and Queenie Cross

27

28