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WHICH WHICH SCHOOL?!

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20 you may not have considered BUT SHOULD!

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and brave when things are vile, is a job description from hell. No jokes.

I think – maybe predictably – that bloodyminded optimism, patience and kindness are necessary parental ingredients in a cold climate. Plus, song titles!

Here, from me, is some advice for coping on a bad day. It might not help, but I hope it does, just a little.

On a bad day… remember to be kind to yourself first, and then be kind to your kids.

Be patient. This turmoil too might pass, but you’ve got to stay in the game to benefit if it does. Some days that’s the best thing you can hope for. Keep plodding through the awful days and just get through the night. Your landscape might look different, you might just see a slither of light on the horizon, tomorrow. One that isn't visible today.

ADVICE FOR A BAD DAY… with song titles Oh, my goodness. It’s all a big, messy shambles right now, isn’t it? It feels as if the world has just… I don't know… gone bananas?* Some places, of course, feel more bananas, than others.

SA, naturally, is right up there, with the “tough”. While we might not win the hardship Olympics (Ukraine!), we’re on the podium for sure.

So. Strength to us, Warriors. This is no time and place for the wobbly or weak-livered.

We all know that now, laid on top of the normal entry-level South African challenges, (inequality, uncertainty, criminality… ugh, all of it) we’ve also got the mad tiger’s tail of the pandemic, with its financial scorched earth and mental health wounds, to cope with too. And parents have a big job to do.

Scorched earth or not. We not only have to keep everything together for ourselves, but for our families too.

So. What do we do? How do we parent with optimism and positivity, when we are rocking and rolling on our own foundations?

Ask for help: professional, if you can afford it, and from friends and communities, if you can’t. (The Village is here for you.) Extend a hand of friendship, kindness and patience to someone else who needs help too.

Helping others is literally the best medicine.

Life. It's a long and winding road (you can’t cut to the good part). Darkness only lasts 'til dawn, and oh baby, baby, it’s a wild world. If you’re down in the hole, hold on to your high hopes. We’ll get through, one way or the other and… okay. That’s enough song titles!

On the grimmest days… there’s music! And the hope that life will be better tomorrow.

Sending love and strength

Vanessa * (No! It's always been this way, we only know more about everything now.)

Because, make no mistake, a decent parent has to be the North Star, the family rock, the cheerleader and believer in a better future. That, in a nutshell, is just our job.

The good news, most aspects of being a good parent are not expensive. The bad news? Parenting is hard. To be positive

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1. The Cavern is amazing and perfect for all generations... Great food too 2. Wyndford Holiday Farm – 3 meals a day, old fashioned games after dinner, guided walks twice a day... the list goes on!

3. Pumula Beach Hotel – Umzumbe 4. Blanco in the Eastern Cape is awesome 5. Drakensberg Gardens is amazing.

6. Crawfords in Cintsa. Delicious food, lots to do in the area, right on the beach and lovely friendly relaxed feel.

8. Umngazi River Bungalows 9. Champagne Sports Resort

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The new life-changer family-size double drawer air fryer, capable of cooking two different meals at the same time, with seethrough windows and double drawers has landed in SA. That means your teen can make a toasted cheese sandwich while you roast a chicken for supper!

Instant Vortex patented EvenCrisp™ technology guarentees a perfect golden finish and crispy, tender results, every time – for everything from samoosas to nuggets, baked potatoes and pizza. The one-touch smart programme is easy to navigate and the speedy pre-heating function means you can feed the starving hordes before they’ve even had a chance to say ‘mom, I’m hungry’ one more time. THIS is what busy, happy, hungry households need – it’s like an extra pair of hands that delivers food to order.

Visit www.instantpot.co.za for stockists or see page 33.

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ALICE’S PARENTING TIP OF THE WEEK (An excerpt)

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ear Village. I come to you today with a tale of victory!

I’ve tried chore charts, rosters, paid chores, loss of privileges, shouting, nagging, begging...

Nothing gets them to do what needs to be done and I am constantly “salty” and not very “chill”…

Well… after reading many Village posts of a similar theme, I decided to follow some advice that was given and I’m thrilled to say it hit them where it hurt!

For 3 days and 3 nights I have done what they do. I’ve not listened, I’ve forgotten to do what’s expected of me and I’ve shirked all my responsibilities. I forgot to re-stock the fridge, I forgot to cook dinner, I forgot to take them anywhere fun on Sunday. I even went out and bought myself an ice cream – double scoop nogal – and neglected to buy them one. I was on such a roll I even toyed with forgetting to buy electricity!*

been affective. I seem to have made my point because last night when the ever-hungry 15-year-old was making them toast for the third night in a row (while I kicked back with Netflix and a mega pint of red), I think he had a moment of clarity because he put the peanut butter back in the cupboard! AND closed the cupboard door!!!! Then the 10-yearold put his plate in the dishwasher Mum 1 - Boys 0 Small victories but I’m feeling like a winner today.

You’re welcome. Follow me for more parenting tips."

Was this an easy thing to do? No, it was not.

Well, not initially anyway, but then I really started leaning into it . Was it a kind thing to do? Definitely not. BUT, it seems to have

Discipline for peace

Local child and teen behaviour specialist Karin Quail has a knack for understanding parental expectations and where teens are at – and getting them to meet in the middle.

Follow her on YouTube – this video link takes you to a practical session on why lecturing children never works and how to change your approach. Read more here.

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Only in The Village Over 27 000 pairs of eyes saw this post and SO many of you shared your amazing side hustles, startups and clever products for sale – let’s keep on supporting The Villagebased businesses!

Skunk was found!

We know how many Villagers were rooting for Skunk, the epileptic Boston Terrier who was separated from his family on Table Mountain! After 19 days (and some seriously worrying weather), Skunk the Brave made it to Rosebank – oh the adventures and fears he must have faced.

The funny thing about kids is they are the reason we lose it, and the reason we hold it together.

5 reasons why teens rock

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They’re brave and try new things

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They’re tech whizzes They challenge our preconceived ideas

They teach us about new music, books and movies.

""II WANT WANT MY MY CHILDREN CHILDREN TO TO BE BE "I INDEPENDENT, HEADSTRONG HEADSTRONG INDEPENDENT, PEOPLE –– JUST JUST NOT NOT WHILE WHILE I’M I’M PEOPLE RAISING THEM." THE M." RAISING 04

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GREAT FUTURE? Join the Curro family!

We create opportunities for each individual to reach their full potential.

Curro Create | Curro Sport | Curro Choice (wider subject offering) 9 different schooling models | 21st-century STEAMD curriculum 178 schools nationally from which to choose Boarding facilities at certain schools

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"Education is the most powerful weapon which vou can use to change the world."

– Nelson Mandela

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Finding the right school for your child with dyslexia Villagers recommended these Cape Town schools for offering an inclusive environment for children with learning issues.

• Oakley House High School, Cape Town “Oakley High School in Diep River is fantastic. The sooner you make the move the better. My son is there who has dyslexia and ADD – he and we are very happy with the school.” – Samantha Bernhardi • United Herzlia Schools, Cape Town “Herzlia has a brilliant academic support programme. They’re a rare school who are geared up to enable every kid to achieve their potential.” – Vanessa Raphaely • St George’s Grammar School, Cape Town “St George's is a small, excellent inclusive school.” – Alex Sutherland • Jan Kriel High School, Cape Town “Jan Kriel High School is the best!!”

– Annerine Rall

• Vista Nova School, Cape Town “It is a government school for kids with disabilities and learning challenges.”

– Penny Blewett

• Westerford High School, Cape Town “My daughter is dyslexic and has auditory processing issues and Westerford has been amazingly supportive (she does have extra time and scribes).” – Leanne Kinghorn • Wynberg Girls’ High School, Cape Town • Tafelberg Remedial School, Cape Town • EduBoost, Cape Town

Helpful advice “My daughter writes her exams (not tests) in a separate venue with a reader. This has helped immensely as it lessens her anxiety being in another space.” – Pam Marsh “We had a teacher who recommended a wonderful program (needless to say when she did, we rolled our eyes, as we have literally tried it all). We got my son to try this online reading program, FastForward. It’s an interactive, fun, colourful program that focuses on sounds and words. We immediately saw a huge difference in his reading and in his confidence.” – Zita Gouveia “CPen Reader – it is a portable scanning pen which reads printed text out loud using an embedded camera.” – Sandi Wells

GRATITUDE DIARIES

Nurturing teachers

“I have just been to my son’s final parent/teacher evening.

Heading into Matric exams. I just want to say a hearty thank you to all teachers. I know that you must so often feel unappreciated, but I for one appreciate you so very much.

We’ve had our ups and downs, anxiety and panic attacks, but for 12 years our school (which is the teachers) have held my boy in their hands. Thank you, thank you. I was nervous about SACS High for my sensitive, academic child (sporty all boys school) but you have exceeded my expectations. You have kept him safe, helped him grow, protected and nurtured him. For all of this I say, Thank you. Besides that, please teachers know how important you are. You really are.”

– Nicki Minchin

Making a stand

Wynberg Boys High produced an excellent video of students pledging to stand against gender-based violence that was played during assembly and loaded on social media. You can watch the video here.

“This is an initiative that should be replicated in every high school in the country. Imagine the power of all these terrific young male voices on the younger boys who so look up to them? Can we challenge every high school to do this? I’ll post EVERY video made!” – Vanessa Raphaely 08

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The Village wish list We asked what your top criteria are when choosing a school for your child – here’s what you said: • Diversity and inclusivity • High standard of academics • Stimulating extra murals • Holistic approach (academics, sport, cultural) • Affordability • Co-ed • Close to home • Community work • Matric subject choices • School aesthetics (buildings, trees, views) • Uniforms • Emotional support counsellors • Good life skills curriculum • Value set that matches your family’s • Diversity amongst teachers • Heritage and tradition • Non-traditional • Child-centric not markcentric • Open and willing to work with neurodiverse kids • Learner support • Smaller classes and school • A school that values the individual and doesn’t try to cookiecut anyone • Regular communication from school • Approachable and contactable staff

A L L A B OA R D !

Michaelhouse offers a unique full boarding experience for boys.

Now in its 126th year, Michaelhouse has established a unique ethos dedicated to holism.

In an era where schools are marked by their focus on just a single area of endeavor – academic, sporting, or cultural – Michaelhouse remains committed to its founder’s vision: “to make not accountants, not clerks, not clergymen, but men; men of understanding, thoughts and culture.”

It is our belief that a boy’s time at senior school is as much about discovering his niche in life as having the freedom, opportunity and encouragement to explore it and become the best that he can be.

The school’s campus offers an environment rich in time and facilities allowing the unique potential of each boy to emerge and thrive. Parents of any teenage boy know that the challenge doesn’t lie in creating energy, the trick lies in channeling it; and the availability of a fully resident staff compliment dedicated to encouraging boys to make the best use of the time and world-class facilities constantly available to them, is just one aspect which sets Michaelhouse apart.

At the heart of the boarding experience is an incredible sense of belonging; a sense of inclusion which encourages fully rounded and confident individuals to emerge from the safety of a shared identity. It is the development of close, life-long friendships that is one of the most extraordinary aspects of life at Michaelhouse.

This sense of belonging extends well beyond a boy’s five-year career at Michaelhouse with a globally engaged network of 8000 Old Boys constantly engaged with each other and their alma mater, providing gap year, mentorship and training, and employment opportunities for young Old Boys as they leave Balgowan and make their way into the world. The Club for Life vision is a powerful and proactive force for good.

This unique educational environment offers a safe, first-class all-round education based on sound values and self-discipline. Teachers and coaches who are freely available and who have high expectations of the boys and are familiar with their ambitions, fears, personal challenges and daily contexts, are better equipped to guide and encourage them in igniting their enthusiasm and developing useful, lifelong habits.

Boarding schools can offer a wider range of extracurricular opportunities than mixed or day-schools are able to, and use of time at Michaelhouse is different to the constraints experienced by other schools. With staff and boys all fully resident, and with time, opportunity, and facilities all readily accessible, every minute of the day is productive.

Daily routines are designed to encourage and allow boys to expand their involvement and interest beyond individual focus; ensuring a more open and balanced world view, which is informed and shared daily with boys from 18 countries around the world.

Applications for a place in Grade 8 in 2024 close at the end of January 2023, and can be made quickly and easily on the school’s website: https://www. michaelhouse.org/admissions/registration/.

For more information contact Cathy on catcas@michaelhouse.org.

At Michaelhouse boarding school in the Natal Midlands, Grade 8 to 12 boys, from all around the globe, are able to lean into the enormous opportunities and all-round education based on sound values, ensuring a more open and balanced world view.

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WHY CHOOSE AMBLESIDE? CHRISTIAN ETHOS

PERSONAL ATTENTION

PRESCHOOL TO GRADE 12 (IEB)

We provide a grace-filled culture with a peaceful and joyful atmosphere.

We give personal attention to a maximum of 18 students per class.

Our established and unique curriculum inspires inquisitive minds from Preschool to Grade 12 (IEB).

GLOBAL NETWORK

NURTURING ENVIRONMENT

CHARACTER DEVELOPMENT

We are part of a global network of schools who provide accountability and support.

Our nurturing environment led by well qualified educators, cultivates a love of learning to last a lifetime.

We focus on healthy relationships and character development.

At the end of the day, it’s not merely about what you know but WHO you are! www.amblesideschool.co.za school.office@amblesideschool.co.za +27 21 790 4449 Est. 1987

These are my number ones. The blazer and tie I wear each day at Michaelhouse.

To you they might seem like simple clothing and adornment. But they are much more than that. Though they are light, they carry weight. The weight of integrity.

The weight of humility, compassion, courage and understanding. They are my identity and armour. They give me the courage to learn to discover and to embrace the opportunities that life will present to me. And when I leave my school, I will continue to wear them inside of me. My number ones might appear as a simple blazer and tie - but they are the makings of a man.

Senior boarding school for boys Balgowan • KwaZulu-Natal • 3275 • South Africa Telephone +27 33 234 1000 info@michaelhouse.org www.michaelhouse.org

WHY CHOOSE CURRO? A schooling option for every individual!

At Curro, we believe that every child deserves an excellent education that stretches beyond the classroom and examinations. As a leading independent school provider, our enhanced curriculum empowers learners with 21st-century skills necessary for them to become intellectual and socially responsible adults who can take on the future with confidence.

Learners are taught in small class sizes, often use tablets in class and can acquire an academic matric by writing the NSC exams, IEB exams or Cambridge exams (certain Curro Select schools) at the end of Grade 12. As an alternative to an academic matric, Curro offers the National Certificate Vocational after Grade 9. We have an academic pathway for every unique learner.

WHAT IS THE IEB? Contrary to general belief, the Independent Examinations Board (IEB) is not a curriculum, but rather a highly advanced set of examinations that require learners to apply the knowledge they learned in an intense creative and intellectual manner. Our curriculum provides them with the intellectual skills to succeed at the more challenging questions posed in the examinations.

OUR SCHOOLS HAVE SMALL CLASS SIZES With independent education comes the expectation of excellent education and personal attention in class. At Curro, our small class sizes, which vary from a maximum of 25 to 35 learners per class (depending on the school model), ensure that learners can receive personal attention from their teachers during lessons.

In addition, learners build close relationships with their teachers over the years, which further helps to ensure that they receive assistance in a manner that meets their individual needs.

WE HAVE SPECIALISED SUBJECTS As we are committed to providing an excellent education, many of our schools offer highly specialised subjects such as Engineering Graphics and Design (EGD), Further Studies in Mathematics, foreign languages such as Portuguese, and Robotics. We have been offering Robotics as a subject for several years, and many of our schools have fully equipped laboratories that help learners to develop 21st-century skills and knowledge such as coding and automation. In addition, while the subject is generally included in our school fees, some schools offer Robotics as a cultural club or extramural activity. At some schools, Technology laboratories are equipped with 3D printers, laser cutters, and other specialised equipment.

OUR SCHOOLS HAVE EXCELLENT FACILITIES As a leading independent school group, our schools are fitted with facilities that range from well-maintained sports fields and courts to highly sophisticated laboratories and aquatic centres.

Some of our schools have classrooms equipped with integrated VR (virtual reality) systems, while others use tablets in class. Our goal with these classrooms and sports facilities is to provide learners with 21stcentury skills that can carry them into the constantly changing workplace of the future.

Contact us and find the perfect schooling option to suit your individual needs.

Curro’s enhanced IEB curriculum has specialised options (like robotics), state-of-the-art facilities and a focus on empowering learners with 21st-century skills for becoming intellectual and socially responsible adults who can take on the future with confidence.

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SUPERB SOMERSET Innovation stands central to our educational approach.

Somerset College is a leading independent, coeducational day and boarding school offering schooling from Grade 000 to Matric - IEB and Cambridge AS and A-levels.

Situated in the beautiful Cape Winelands, Somerset College is a welcoming, stimulating centre of learning where young people are guided by teachers of calibre to develop self-awareness and positive relationships. We endeavour to provide each child with the opportunity to acquire the knowledge and skills to equip them to adapt and flourish in an ever-changing world.

Innovation stands central to the educational approach at Somerset College. In view of this, the ESTEAM Centre bears testimony to the College’s commitment to the pursuit of knowledge and the mastery of critical 21st century skills, powerfully partnered with cutting-edge technology and international connectivity. ESTEAM stands for Entrepreneurship, Science, Technology, Engineering, Arts and Mathematics and is at the centre of Somerset College’s inspirational innovative approach to education.

The Somerset College Cambridge Programme has achieved outstanding results. Our results have gained both national and international recognition, with our proud students having already achieved some of the highest Cambridge accolades.

Somerset College Preparatory also follows the Cambridge International Primary Programme where English, Mathematics and Science form the core curriculum areas.

As a school celebrating 25 years of educational excellence, Somerset College is grounded by its Christian foundation, the staff and students work in an environment based on strong values, spiritual development and a commitment to community service. All which play a fundamental role in the

development of responsible, caring individuals. At Somerset College, there is a keen focus on educating the whole child. Academics, Sport, Cultural Activities, Leadership and Spiritual Development, Environmental and Outdoor Programmes ensure that every student can flourish.

The flagship of the Somerset College Outdoor Education Programme is the Trek, a 27-day journey of self-discovery undertaken by all Grade 9 students in November each year, during which time they cover 360km on foot, in canoes and on bicycles.

Trek is the only school adventure of this magnitude in South Africa. Every student is tested physically, mentally and emotionally, but reaches their destination safely, with new friendships, a strength of spirit and memories of a life experience that will stay with them forever.

We envisage a College which: • offers a world-class standard of education, within the context of South Africa • strives for excellence in all activities according to each individual’s unique ability • nurtures sound, caring relationships • has a Christian foundation and fosters respect and understanding of other religions • creates a stimulating and challenging working environment for the entire College community.

Somerset College prides itself on nurturing critical, creative and collaborative thinkers, from Grade R through to matric and A-levels. Underpinned by Christian values, the co-ed winelands school has a strong focus on educating the whole child with an additional EASTEAM project-based programme.

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No Wingulian Left Behind!

Top rated international online school – British International Qualifications K-12 Distance Learning Leaders | Key Stages 1 – 5 | Ages 6 – 19 Wingu Academy is a leader in online education, unleashing student potential by focusing on developing skills through our Kukua Programme, which is crucial for life after the 4th industrial revolution.

Critical thinking, computational thinking, problem solving, design thinking enriched with technical skills such as coding, robotics, software development are intertwined with collaborative skills, leadership, emotional intelligence and entrepreneurial skills to instill a growth mind-set in each student that is part of the Wingu community.

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Want to learn more about the 4th industrial revolution skills that we find crucial?

Read more here.

Wingu Academy is officially recognised to deliver Pearson qualifications

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AUGUST VIRTUAL OPEN DAY Are you a Wingulian?

Find out what life as a Wingulian is like! From our world-class online education to how we assist with student well-being. RSVP at admissions@wingu-academy.com to secure your spot today!

Advanced Blended Learning Platform

Internationally Recognised Curriculum

Online Interaction With Live Teachers

Textbooks And Educational Devices

Online classes, lessons, worksheets, quizzes, simulations and more!

International British curriculum aligned to the highest standard.

Interact with fellow classmates and learning coaches.

Latest versions of worldclass textbooks can be ordered and delivered to you!

ENROLMENTS NOW OPEN FOR JANUARY 2023 Scan the QR code to download our Prospectus

Book a FREE consultation or send and email to admissions@wingu-academy.com +27 (0)72 582 6711

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WE

ST G E O R G E ' S

We belong to a truly diverse community where everyone is valued and able to flourish.

Our Mission is to create a happy, safe and dynamic learning environment. We encourage young people to become curious learners, rigorous thinkers and courageous voices who move forward with compassion, resilience and hope.

Diverse St George’s is dedicated to drawing on the rich diversity of South African society. We offer a rigorous academic and extra-mural programme that includes space for spiritual growth, ecological awareness and an appreciation of the arts, together with a commitment of service to the greater community.

Dynamic We believe in creating a safe, nurturing environment in which each pupil (from Grade Pre R – 12) is valued, encouraged and enabled to develop to their full potential. Our pupils are educated not only to succeed academically but also to approach the world as confident, compassionate, wellrounded and integrated human beings.

Courageous Our motto – Virtute et Valore – The Courage to do what is Right – speaks for itself. By continuing in the footsteps of our founding father, Bishop Robert Gray, who believed that all children deserved to be educated, the school accommodates children of all academic abilities in an inclusively diverse environment where each child is treated as an individual and those needing additional support are given the opportunity to excel to the best of their ability.

Flourish As an independent school, we are free to experiment and innovate. We are able to challenge the gifted, to develop the interest of the average,

and to make curious the under-achiever. Above all, our methods and techniques infuse our pupils with a quiet confidence in themselves and in their abilities.

Belonging With class sizes averaging 25, each pupil receives individual attention and a close relationship develops between pupil and teacher. This enables us to more fully meet each child’s needs. Pupils are encouraged to communicate and develop respectful relationships with one another and with staff, preparing them for their roles in life.

Hope St George’s is a family that strives to develop each family member to their fullest potential and instill in each a lifelong love of curious learning that will carry them throughout their future careers.

To visit the school, please contact our Marketing & Admissions office on 021 689 9354 or email admissions@sggs.co.za

St George’s Grammar School is known for its vibrant approach to education and its rich diversity. It is co-ed and as the oldest independent school in South Africa has a strong sense of identity; it is affiliated to the Cape Town Anglican Diocese and the school’s moral code is underpinned by their Christian mores.

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Koa Academy highlights the advantages of an IEB education in a globalised world The pandemic years shut down a lot, but also created unexpected openings and many digital escalations. For instance, school choice has been irrevocably changed across the world. Online school may not be the solution for every child, or every family, but many got a taste for the greater flexibility and wider scope in education that can be offered in the digital realm. When it comes to decisions about school, geography has ruled supreme, but this is no longer the case. Going the digital school route, parents can place more emphasis on other considerations such as the different curriculum and assessment systems that can help set your child up for success.

Koa Academy, a high engagement online school is IEB-accredited. The Independent Examinations Boards (IEB) governs the curriculum and assessment standards of private educational institutions in South Africa. Koa Academy’s Principal, Mark Anderson says, “The IEB offers internationally recognised qualifications which are becoming increasingly important to today’s South African parents who are raising kids likely to become global workers, or who may want international study options available to their children once they have finished school. Many see the advantages in their children achieving an IEB National Senior Certificate that is well-recognised as equivalent to the UK’s AS Level.”

Proudly South African, the IEB has an impressive track record with many of their NSC and Advanced Programmes in Mathematics and English graduates going on to study at elite international universities.

While that might not be an aspiration of all parents, the benefits of an IEB qualification have come into

focus in this era of globalization. Parents do want their children to have an education that opens doors for them when it comes to further studies and employability. Anderson says, “Opportunities for remote working are increasing vastly and we want our children to be able to join the pool of global workers so that use their talents wherever and however they can in a world of work that is rapidly changing and radically evolving. There’s no doubt that solid international recognition for your school qualification can be a significant enabler of modern careers, which is one of the reasons that Koa has opted for the IEB system. However, it is important to note that the IEB also has a particular style and system of teaching and assessing that is also a significant advantage. It’s less about memorisation and more about the application of learning which sets kids up better for success at university which has a similar approach.”

Discover Koa Academy here.

An independent IEB online learning environment with committed and engaged teacher support. Class pods of 8 for learners from Grades 4–12 offer specialised and integrated self-paced learning and high-level access to creative problem solving.

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St Andrew’S College

St Andrew’s College in Makhanda (Grahamstown), offers pupils from South Africa and beyond the opportunity to study their Cambridge International AS & A Levels.

WE INSPIRE OUR PUPILS TO: Love learning, discover new abilities, find opportunities in a wider word.

For more information about St Andrew's College please contact: Cherié Wille | c.wille@sacschool.com | +27 84 549 7710

www.sacschool.com

GRADE 8 - GRADE 12 // AS & AL // Applications are now open for 2024 // Boarding available

Let's talk about

BULLYING It’s time to talk about bullying in schools. You can’t fix what you don’t know is broken.

“Our school doesn’t have any bullying” - that’s an instant red flag.

When you are considering a new school or are moving into high school, ask the school about their policy about bullying and ask to see a written copy of it. Find out what the protocols are regarding on-site and off-site bullying as well as online bullying – some schools (alarmingly) have policies in place that relieves them of influence if the bullying happens outside school hours.

What to do if your child has been bullied?

First, assure your child that silence is how bullying is perpetuated. If they say they can handle it (encourage them to seek out support from their peers or a trusted teacher) and give them a timeframe, say ‘if it happens again this week/month, we are taking it further as a family’.

And if they are the bully?

Well done for acknowledging that your child is victimising another. Your challenge? To uncover the ‘why’ in a non-judgemental and compassionate way and how to move forward. Perhaps seek the support of a professional who can help you to navigate this situation and you may want to check in with a professional to help examine your family’s unique framework and what may need to be addressed. #STOPBULLYING Bullying SA has a series of useful fact sheets for parents, learners and teachers.

Click here to access and download

Wingu Academy is an international accredited Pearson online school (or education pathway) with an acute focus on future proofing scholars with critical skills such as cognitive flexibility.

Students learn in innovative online environments and have access to internationally recognised British International curricula.

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P R E PA R E TO S U CC E E D Learning to live – Living to learn.

Each child is guided and empowered to author a full and free life.

Why Choose Ambleside?

Ambleside is an established private school firmly and unashamedly rooted in Christian values and practices. Stepping out of the conventional style of education, we instruct our students with methods that communicate great ideas in a way that truly engages their minds and sparks an inner life.

Our low homework policy in Primary School enables our students time to embrace all of life and our smaller classes ensure that the education they receive is delivered to the high standards we promise.

Placing equal importance on academics and personal development, our students graduate with an excellent education as well as the strength of character to succeed in life, whatever path they choose. Adhering to the tenets of Charlotte Mason’s philosophy of education, Ambleside School of Hout Bay is a proud member of Ambleside Schools International.

A living education empowers students to author lives that are full and free – rich in relationship to God, self, others, ideas, work, and created world. It provides the tools needed to live well in all aspects of life – personal and professional, present and future.

Children who receive a living education grow in relationship with the knowledge of God, humankind, and the universe. They become people who give back to society, care for their kin, love their neighbours, and cultivate rich intellectual and spiritual lives.

Connect with us to find out more about our wonderful community.

Our principal welcomes prospective parents on a personalized tour around the school to see the facilities and view our children at work.

It’s an opportunity to ask all and any questions you may have and get a feel for who we are as a school family.

We look forward to meeting you and your precious children.

“Life should be all living, and not merely a tedious passing of time; not all doing or all feeling or all thinking – the strain would be too great – but, all living; that is to say, we should be in touch wherever we go, whatever we hear, whatever we see, with some manner of vital interest. The question is not – how much does the youth know when he has finished his education – but how much does he care?”

– CHARLOTTE M. MASON

This Hout Bay school focuses equally on personal and academic development and the values and practices based on a Living Education that promotes an affirming and respectful relationship with God, self, others, ideas, work, and created world.

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S I N G L E S E X v s CO E D ?

Ready to make the leap? What’s the ‘right’ decision?

Everyone has a story or a memory of their own experiences at their school and end of year results show that both co-educational and same sex schools are all incubators for many bright young minds.

disadvantageous for children and teenagers, with evidence to show segregation caused people to develop strong stereotypes and in-group bias, said Halpern.

There is only one answer: your child holds the key.

Few environments, apart from schools, were single-sex, she said.

If your child is easily distracted then a new, vastly different environment may prove disruptive.

Does your child struggle in situations with many competitive views? A co-ed environment may not be a first choice. Ultimately – facilities and access to opportunities should be considered across both. That and of course – the ethos of the school when it comes to your child as a whole being and not as a gender-specific student.

“We don’t have sex-segregated workplaces so why would we have sex-segregated schools?”

AGAINST There are no advantages to single-sex schools, which may foster gender stereotyping and sexism “in a world that’s far more diverse than ever before”, a US psychology professor has said. Diane Halpern,a past president of the American Psychological Association, said the basis for single-sex education needed to be re-examined when there was no research to show that boys and girls learn differently.

FOR The evidence is unequivocal: for example, researchers at Cambridge University who examined the effects of single-sex classrooms in schools in different neighbourhoods, including rural, suburban and inner-city schools, found that “using singlesex groups was a significant factor in establishing a school culture that would raise educational achievement.” Also, pupils at the single-sex schools developed better organizational skills, and were more involved in classroom activities than their coed counterparts. In boys’ schools boys feel free to be themselves and develop, to follow their interests and talents in what might be regarded as nonmacho pursuits: boys in single sex schools are far more likely to participate in choirs and orchestras and learn Latin. music, arts and drama.

Attending single-sex schools could be in fact be

Excerpt from https://apbsa.co.za/

Expert opinions….

Flexible one-on-one learning is the focus at hybrid school Thrive, where personalised teaching plans are developed for students.

Teaching happens in small mixed-age groups online and there is a strong focus on self-led mastery. There are also opportunities to engage in person at various physical hubs in the Cape.

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Parklands College embraces innovative learning A technology-infused learning environment prepares learners for a bright future Parklands College seeks to foster the innate potential of its learners, allowing each individual to imagine, explore and discover a personal journey through our “Growing Minds” concept. This encompasses the five global competencies that we believe are essential for our learners to adapt to the changing world and future workplace. Learners are encouraged to be creative and critical thinkers, to communicate and collaborate effectively, and to be responsible citizens.

We have been recognised by Apple as an Apple Distinguished School (ADS), since 2016, for our continued innovation, leadership and excellence in education – only one of two ADS schools in Africa. Our school has been recognised specifically for providing an authentic, technology-infused learning environment, where through a multitude of opportunities, we inspire our learners to explore their imaginations and creativity, find their purpose, and build their own futures.

As an Apple Distinguished and Google Reference school, we use both platforms to provide a unique teaching and learning experience. Learners are introduced to iPads in Grade R, progressing to the Apple 1:1 environment beginning in Grade 1 through to Grade 12. Each child’s device becomes a personalised learning platform where its integration into learning and life becomes second nature.

Coding and Robotics has been integrated into our curriculum from Grade R to 9. These programmes foster an interest in Science, Technology, Engineering, Arts and Mathematics, and our teams have represented South Africa in the World Robot Olympiad every year since 2015.

Invention and rapid prototyping are encouraged through the use of TinkerCAD, AutoCAD and 3D printers in Art, Design, Drawing Technology and Engineering Graphics and Design.

In our Secondary Faculty, our Film, Animation, Sound Engineering and App Development extension courses are on offer in our media studios and coding incubator. We are proud of our young entrepreneurs who have released four digital albums on iTunes, as well as 11 learner developed applications on the Apple App Store, which have had approximately 100 000 downloads to date.

Our “Holodeck” houses our immersive learning facility where learners can experience representations of the real world using Virtual Reality simulations.

Parklands’ internationally recognised offerings include CompTIA certifications, AUTOCAD, Adobe Photoshop Visual Communication certification (ACA) and the ICDL. These give our learners career focussed, industry and workplace recognised skills and certifications.

Parklands College continues to explore new and emerging technologies in order to keep abreast of world trends in education and give our learners every opportunity to build their own bright futures.

Discover Parklands College here.

Parklands College is a technology-infused private school (from Grade R to 12) that prizes learner collaboration and creative solutions. The school focuses on relevant, project-based learning and prides itself on its Art, Design, Science and Engineering departments within its innovative learning environment.

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Our mission is to create a

happy, safe and dynamic learning environment.

If this is the environment in which you would like your child to flourish, then we still have a limited number of places available in our Grade Pre R to Grade 3 classes for 2023. Email admissions@sggs.co.za or visit our website to get an application form.

St George’s also offers: co-education / one campus form Pre Grade R to Matric / small classes / aftercare.

“We encourage young people to become curious learners, rigorous thinkers and courageous voices who move forward with compassion, resilience and hope.”

Richmond Road, Mowbray

(021) 689-9354

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DOES MY CHILD NEED A TUTOR? There’s no doubt about it, private tuition is on the rise. Should we be alarmed? Is it just how it is now? Here are some reasons that might help you make a ‘to tutor (or not)’ decision.

GRADE 7 Preparing a child for a (relatively)

seamless introduction to high school is not only about academics but if they need support in certain areas or a brush up on foundation skills, consider some assistance.

GRADE 9 Your child will be choosing their

subjects for matric this year – if they know what they would like to study after school (lucky them!) and some of their subjects have gaps, now is the time to lean in.

GRADE 10 They’re now in the senior phase

of their high school subjects and it often requires an adjustment – perhaps a course of extra lessons may provide a solid foundation in these critical years?

GRADE 11 Your child is intent on studying

a specific course, possibly at a specific institution, wants to apply for funding or overseas placement? If there are any areas that could do with some focus, now is the time to lean in with support.

WHAT YOU CAN DO IF YOU NOTICE A SLIP IN FOCUS OR GRADES…

Sometimes it’s a matter of going back to basics. Reining in social commitments, focusing on routine at home (teens need sleep!), limiting screentime and good nourishment are key. Family connection and time in nature are also solid foundations for grounding our teens.

When else would a tutor b e b eneficial?

• If your child has a learning difficulty, chances are they can feel frequently overwhelmed. A tutor is a valuable support on their learning journey.

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Long a bastion of sports and cultural depth as well as academic prowess, St Andrews College boarding school in Grahamstown has a legacy of helping generations of young men develop character and grit. State-of-the-art facilities and an impressive commitment to community are also standout features.

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Neurodivergence and high school Neurodiversity includes scholars who may identify as autistic or as having Asperger’s, as being ADHD, having dyslexia or dyspraxia. Many schools offer a neurotypical environment which can prove challenging to both neurodivergent students as well as their peers and teachers. We have a long way to go in understanding and embracing neurodiversity in our mainstream schools.

Here's how to advocate for your neurodivergent teen: • DON’T LIMIT EXPECTATIONS Although

asking for teachers’ flexibility is a must for children who process information differently, this does not mean your student should be challenged any less.

• ASK FOR ACADEMIC ACCESSIBILITY

Available lesson material, additional resources (visual or otherwise) and alternative methods of addressing an academic challenge are incredibly useful for teens thirsty for information delivered in a way that works for them.

• NON-VERBAL CUES Neuro-divergent teens

have acute abilities on picking up on nonverbal cues – including negative attitudes from both peers and teachers and it’s vital that compassion and a commitment to understanding your child is a priority for the school.

neurodivergence – if nothing is in place, consider introducing them to trusted resources yourself. A school that has a policy of regular communication with you about your child’s psychosocial welfare is a school that has their interests at heart.

11. Autism Support Group South Africa An excellent resource for parents with questions and needing support.

22. A great read for all children and especially those who find making connections a challenge.

R439, Takealot 31. Ask me, I’m Autistic A peer-moderated group known for its incredible resources and support networks.

• CAMPAIGN FOR COMMUNICATION & AWARENESS Ask your school for

their policy on educating scholars on

Youth is a time of rapid change.

Between the ages of twelve and seventeen, a parent can age thirty years.

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Thanks for these wise words, Jillmaree…

“I was a border in my school years. Here is my take on it. First, I was not a difficult girl. It was a great school, and I have many good stories to tell… BUT I was very, very homesick all the time.

I only went home in the school holidays. I think if I could have gone home more often, I would have been much happier. So, think carefully on the distance from home. Also, the girls there who were ‘shipped’ off to boarding school for discipline reasons, were the naughty girls who were always in trouble and doing bad things…

I would say be careful of making the problems worse. She needs to want to go, and make a new start too.”

Try before you commit…

“My advice would be for your daughter to go to the sleepovers that most schools have. Each child is different. My daughter went to a few and then chose. It gave her a sense of responsibility and power.” – Megan Jones

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Q: Should they stay, or should they go?

A. When a Village mom asked if it would be best to send her child who had discipline issues off boarding school, or keep him at home, opinion was divided…

For…

send him away it will prove his point of you abandoning him and not being in control.

I stuck it out. Nearly 17 now and definitely improving.” – Katrien Dahaeck

“The best thing we ever did was send our kids to boarding school! The attitude adjustment was for the best and communication increased as well as appreciation for us and his home!”

“I think sending him to a posh boarding school may amplify the entitlement.”

– Michelle Franz

“In this time (of withdrawal into self) the parents are rejected in favour of the peer group. Friends are very important now and morals come from the peers. So: boarding school, far from the abusive brutality of popular myth, actually is a safe, structured environment where teenagers are: 1. Surrounded by their peers 2. form deep and lasting bonds 3. Have trained, experienced adult parent substitutes who have dealt with more adolescents than we will in several lifetimes and who are not fazed by them, and who provide a secure and boundaried structure that contains them and keeps them safe. 'Do your homework/hang up your jacket/put your sportswear away' which is a huge attack and personal insult from Mom?!!!!

A complete non-issue coming from a master.” – Sarah de la Pasture “Boarding school was one of the best experiences of my life.” – Charli Jensen

Against…

“My son was exactly that. Someone gave me this advice. Was not easy. She said if you

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– Caroline Calburn

“Please don’t try make your son conform, different is good. Maybe just a forwardthinking school?” – Tiffany Fay Leck “No. Boarding school cannot fix what is missing.” – Katherine Cass “Sending him away might very well be perceived by him as you wanting to get rid of him. A case of out of sight, out of mind, passing the ‘problem’ onto others.

Historically speaking boarding schools were there to enable parents who lived in outlying areas like farms, to afford their children the opportunity to attend decent schools. Don't use boarding school as a form of parental control, it could backfire.”

– Amanda-Leigh Robinson

“Send him to a school that will accept him for his good points and only if he wants to go. Not to change him. My son would never fit in a traditional boarding school. Not in a million years. And I wouldn't expect him to. Boarding school is not the solution, but another school might be.” – Paula Marais

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In the middle…

“I would first send him to a therapist to find out what is at the core of his resistant behaviour. First find out what the resistance on his side is masking: Feeling misunderstood at school? Being angry at his dad? Feeling depressed? Does he need full-time counselling and/or medication?

After that, one can decide a course of action. He needs an environment that will get him the support he needs and mom the tools she needs to help him, as well as take care of herself. Meanwhile, mom needs to disengage from his resistance.

Give him choices and consequences in a loving way and let him choose his reactions, until you have more information from an experienced and skilled therapist.”

“I have a similar issue with my 15-year-old son, apparently these are the narcissist years. Someone suggested organising very strong male role models for him, which he currently has, and they call him out on his shit. If you don't have the option of these role models, then boarding school might not be a bad option. Trust me I have considered it many times.”

– Clare Taylor Cottrell

“You may be experiencing Oppositional Defiance, in which case you need to be guided by a psychologist on what options etc are available to you both.”

– Carolyn Carrow

– Chantal Malan

11 BOARDING SCHOOLS FOR BOYS

• Durban High School, Durban • Grey College, Bloemfontein • St Andrews, Makhanda • Wynberg Boys’ High School, Cpt • Christian Brothers College, Boksburg • Hilton College, South Africa • Pretoria Boys’ High School, Pretoria • Queens College, Queenstown • Selborne College, East London • Epworth School, Pietermaritzburg • Michaelhouse, Balgowan

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DEAL OF A LIFETIME!

The peeps at Pafuri have made a deal available and I’m letting you Villagers in on the secret: From 1 November to 15 December, it’s R2950 per person sharing – ALL INCLUSIVE – game drives, meals and accommodation included.

Here is the link to the special offer they have running from 1 Nov – 15 Dec.

A PEEK INTO VANESSA’S LATEST SOUTH AFRICAN ADVENTURE

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f you take a ruler and draw a diagonal line from Cape Town to the northernmost tip of South Africa, where the Pafuri and Luvuvho rivers meet at the gloriously named Crooks’ Corner, you will find perfection. Simple as that. It is quite far. Should you make the journey?

Er… Yes. Yes. YES. First things first: There are no prides of lion, packs of wild dogs or cheetah on demand at Pafuri. You do not make the six-hour drive from Hoedspruit for a colour-by-numbers zoo experience. It’s testament to just how special this area of the far northern Kruger Park is that it now rates amongst my very favourite bush destinations, even without the safari rock stars making a regular appearance.

To be honest, most game reserves now have an eye on the bucket lists of their international guests and ensure they deliver the Big 5.

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But as my spoiled rotten husband says, “Lion Schmion. Seen one? You’ve seen them all.”

As the very metropolitan Plus One of a person who writes about game reserves, he is often irritated that I love to spend hours watching the same animals we’ve watched many times before, doing, let’s face it, what they do every day. In the lion’s case, he says “lioning around”. And maybe he has a small point. There comes a time when if those of us who love the bush are asked what we’d really like to see on a game drive, the answer is, “Something different”. And that’s where Pafuri knocks it out the (Kruger) Park.

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The unique delight of this particular spot is the extraordinary backdrop through which its abundant wildlife wanders – from the luxurious and beautiful lodge’s exquisite position on the banks of the Pafuri River (it’s not dissimilar in feel to Singita’s eyeFOMO #14

There comes a time when if those of us who love the bush are asked what we’d really like to see on a game drive, the answer is, “Something different”. wateringly expensive Boulders and Ebony Lodges, but at a fraction of the price) to its magnificent Fever Tree Forest, abundance of precious, ancient Baobab trees, and the breath-taking Lanner Gorge.

We were visited in our room one afternoon, for a delightful half an hour, by a casual elephant (we could have reached out and touched him, he was that close), then watched long winding lines of elephant families splash across the river in front of our room. And as if that wasn’t enough, on one evening bush drive we were gifted the most incredible sighting of the elusive aardvark.

Pafuri is home to more general game than any foreign tourist could ask for, including my personal favourites, warthogs. They have survived a terrible drought and are now flourishing. Hooray!

Putting our elephant guest to one side, our Pafuri highlights reel included seeing more hippos than we could count at sunset at Crooks Corner, with a pink and purple Zimbabwe and Mozambique in the background, and observing a Nat-Geo style incident with 5 vulture species. The area is a bird watchers paradise with more than 350 bird species in the neighbourhood, which is just a joy to behold.

Keen photographers will love the fact that Pafuri is not your average bush canvas – everything we photographed looked beyond exquisite!

Foodies won’t be disappointed either, the food is superb… and there’s the bonus of getting to say goodnight to the adorable kitchen bush babies each night as you stagger off to bed after another first-class dinner.

If you can go, guys, just go. Life is short, and if you can end just one day drinking gin and tonic as the sun sets over the baobabs of the Pafuri?

In my opinion, that’s a day well worth living.

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Redemption song…

Kruger was occupied by several indigenous tribes before it was proclaimed as a game reserve. Most of those people were forcibly removed from the area by the apartheid government, without compensation. Very few land claims have been resolved in the Kruger, but in a historic deal forged with the South African government, one exception was the Makuleke, who had occupied this area for generations. in 1998, a creative resolution was reached. Instead of insisting on the right to reoccupy the land, which would have compromised Kruger’s wildlife heritage, the Makuleke clan agreed to enter into a private-sector partnership to develop new tourism facilities in the North.

Pafuri is now leased, and the lodge provides work and funds to support the local community. Ask for the brilliant Andile to guide you, if you visit. Listening to the stories of the grandparents and greatgrandparents who have lived in the area is a humbling experience… as it should be.

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