Post Matric Options: The Gap Year Guide

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T H E GA P Y E A R G U I D E LETTER FROM THE EDITORS

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’m just going to say this now, so you all know where I stand. I want to take a gap year. I feel like I’ve put in my time, like I’ve done the hard yards, and now I need a little time out from life. A year to find out who I am, what I enjoy, how far I can go, how much I can take, or how little I know.

Or maybe, I just want to swim with a sea turtle. Or stare into space in the company of a sloth.

Yes, and yes. These are gap year options. Who knew?

Quite obviously, not my parents. Or if they did, they certainly didn’t share the news with me.

Actually, that has been my main learning curve while putting this guide together - that the options for gap years are virtually endless, and that so few parents - and their young adults - are aware of them.

From au pairing in America to volunteering at the children’s home down the road. From rafting on the Orange river to skiing down the slopes of the Alps; working on a kibbutz to teaching English to children in Thailand. And yes, even tagging turtles in the Seychelles.

And sometimes, it isn’t a choice. Sometimes, our kids don’t get into their study area of choice, or aren’t able to pursue tertiary education due to financial (or other) constraints. No one is saying it is easy, but spending a year volunteering, or working to earn an income, is an incredible growth experience, oftentimes leading our young adults down unexpected roads and into previously-unimagined areas of work and life.

The options provided and explored in the following pages are by no means exhaustive. The world is an enormous place, and the opportunities to explore it are boundless.

If your young adult is looking for an alternative option, please share these pages with them. There is so much out there for them to experience, without having to dive back into the world of study right away. Let them dive with a turtle first.

- Kim, Vanessa and The Village Team

The costs vary just about as much as the experience, but there is one thing that remains the same across the board - zero regrets. I have yet to come across a young adult - or parent of a young adult - who regrets a gap year experience. Without fail the words that come up again and again and again are “growth”, and “maturity”, and “independence”.

In a country such as South Africa, where to a very large extent, we are forced to wrap our kids in yards of cotton wool and acres of bubble wrap, allowing them a year to grow, to mature and to find their independence can be so important.

Kim Penstone

CONTENTS Guidance For A Good Gap Year Rands And Cents What Makes A Good Gap Year Teaching English In Madagascar In Praise Of The Gap Year Gapping It To The Us - With Kids Yachting - Oceans Of Experience The Hottest Opportunity In Hospitality Gapping It At Summer Camp When Good Gap Years Turn Bad Local Is Lekker Taking The Global Gap A Gap Year For Good

1 Guidance

For a Good

GAP YEAR Compiled with the grateful help of: Carla Teubes from Warriors Academy; Amanda Muller from OVC; Melanie Williams, author of The Good Gap Year Guide; Sasha Snyman from YDP Work and Travel; and Claire Mallaby from CCUSA.

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veryone has an opinion on a gap year, but not everyone is an expert in the game. We spoke to a variety of people working in the field, from those who advise teens and their parents on the best way to structure a gap year, to those actually running successful gap year programmes, to get some guidance.

WHAT IS A GAP YEAR? SASHA: In short, a gap year is a meaningful experience that prepares you for life. What a gap year is not, is a year at home playing video games or partying with extended vacations, sleeping in or trying to be an “influencer”.

A Purposeful gap year is an opportunity to: • Explore your interests and new passions, • Gain a competitive edge (stand out from the pile of CV’s - with life experiences under your belt) • Reset your intentions, • Build a toolbelt for life, • Build a sense of purpose as to “why” to define your life’s path.

CARLA: Many parents think a gap year is just an excuse to party and have fun. Although there is lots of fun to be had, a structured gap year program offers so much more.

A gap year is a time-out a student takes after school or studies. It can be many things for different people, but ultimately it is an investment in a person’s future, and for many, it is a truly transformational experience. This is because a well-structured gap year program provides an opportunity for a person to learn more about themselves, gain confidence, step out of their comfort zone and ultimately help them find their path, both personally and professionally. From our experience at the Warriors Academy, the real benefit of a structured gap year is developing a student’s emotional maturity and ability to adapt and deal with challenges. Our primary focus is helping students develop mental and emotional strength to cope with their studies, future careers, and life. We aim to help students take responsibility for their thoughts and actions in the hope of helping them to achieve their dreams.

HOW DO YOU KNOW IF A GAP YEAR IS THE RIGHT STEP FOR YOUR CHILD? MELANIE: Gap years are definitely not for everyone.

If your child is 100% CLEAR on what they want to do (i.t.o. studying or working), then let them go ahead and do what they are clear about. It’s a good idea for them to have done the necessary research and consulted with the necessary professionals (career counsellors, job shadowing contacts, universities and colleges). If your child is unsure about what they want to do after school, then a gap year is a good opportunity for them to grow in self awareness and become more aware of careers and courses available to them.

SASHA: I feel that most companies offering gap year programmes will say, “A gap year is great for everyone!” in response to this question. But as parents, we know not every child is built the same. As a mother of two young beautiful boys, when it is their turn to decide, I will ask them ; “Does it add value to your life?” and “Does it give context or purpose to your life?” These questions are relevant both to thinking about choosing to go on a gap year, as well as for individual gap year programmes.

If your child seems “mature enough” to know they’re not ready to leave home yet, or, conversely, if they want to “take on the world” before studying further or working, a gap year might be the answer.

CLAIRE: If you child is unsure what to do after school, a gap year is a great option. It will teach your child independence and being away from home often helps them figure out what they want to do with their lives.

The camp counselors program is great because it is only 3 months so your child is not away from home for a full year, but they are using the year in a productive manner.

It is also a SAFE option as your child is going with a job, accommodation and will be looked after the entire time they are at camp. Because they are going to do this with lots of other counsellors they don’t experience the loneliness au pair’s might experience.

AMANDA: From experience I have seen some applicants who I was unsure of only for them to flourish and have the most outstanding journey and then there are others who I thought would be a great fit, yet have struggled. I would have to say your child (and you as a parent) needs to have an open mind, willingness and have “understanding”. Have an understanding that going overseas is single handedly one of the most difficult yet most rewarding experiences ever. Have an understanding that going abroad is going to take a lot of open communication and voicing what your child is thinking and their feelings, the ability to ask questions for themselves. Understanding that it is not going to be one big happy moment throughout the entire time and understanding that success takes grit and determination. Anyone can do it but they have to be ready, want to grow and have understanding that with growth comes friction but with friction comes the SHINE!

ARE THERE ANY TELLTALE TRAITS WHICH MAKE A CHILD NOT SUITED TO A GAP YEAR? AMANDA: Yes most definitely – a telltale sign is when the parent/s does EVERYTHING for their child – the parent makes the enquiry, the parent does the application and paperwork, the parent answers all questions and as a consultant you are dealing with the parent more so than the applicant. So parents remember that whilst you are there to support and guide your kids, you need to do this on the side and allow your child to take responsibility of their own applications / journeys and have them to do their own application / paperwork, after all it is your child that will be taking this gap year, not you.

HOW DO YOU DECIDE WHAT KIND OF A GAP YEAR WOULD WORK BEST FOR YOUR CHILD? AMANDA: Definitely ask your child what are they looking to gain from a gap year, what do they want to achieve, get them to do their own research so that they can realistically find and understand what they would qualify for and what it will cost. Try to get your child to take part in webinars and online sessions (OVC regularly offers these) so that they can hear and learn more about the program/s and hear other people’s questions and therefore gain a better understanding of the program/s and see if it would be the right fit for them.

CARLA: There are many ways to plan a gap year. You can look at different gap year providers with gap year programs and experiences already in place, or you can design your own. We have had many students who have planned their own gap year experience across many different programs globally. For example, one student went to volunteer in Zambia, came to join one of our 7-week quests and then was off to India. It depends on the student preference and objectives they want for their gap year. Many of our students love that our program is based on adventure and experiential learning, and they enjoy that we combine adventure with personal growth workshops and travel, so they choose to do the whole year with us.

SASHA: Clever gap year programme design isn’t about just ticking off “instagrammable moments”, it isn’t about making money to bring back to South Africa. It’s taking time to understand the place and the people that live there, to completely submerge yourself in their culture. An important part of the gap year experience is about taking those moments and having the time and space to reflect on them.

There are many Career Day expos, company websites and educators who focus on gap-year advising and can help students figure out what they want to do and help identify specific programmes that would be a good match for, as this is specific to each child. At YDP Work&Travel, we have a one on one consultation with a young adult to find out what the best fit is for them, whether its enrolling as an au pair, volunteering on a kibbutz, interning to gain experience in different fields of work, or taking a shorter term offer as a camp counsellor.

WHAT DOES THE APPLICATION INVOLVE? DOES A CHILD HAVE TO HAVE SPECIFIC GRADES, OR COURSES,

THE THOUGHT OF A GAP YEAR SOUNDS PRETTY SCARY - TO PARENTS AND KIDS. SOMETIMES BECAUSE OF THE COST,

OR PASS AN APTITUDE TEST? OR DOES IT DEPEND ON THEIR CHOICE OF ADVENTURE?

SOMETIMES BECAUSE PEERS ARE ALL STUDYING, SOMETIMES BECAUSE IT MEANS ’BEING LEFT BEHIND’? HOW WOULD YOU ADDRESS THESE FEARS, FOR BOTH PARENTS AND CHILDREN?

AMANDA: Each program has a different application process and we at OVC are here to help and guide your child through this process, this is what we do and what we are good at. Depending on the program that they would be applying for they may need specific qualifications but no specific grades. For example to become an au pair an applicant would need the following: Single with no children of their own; a min. of a Matric or equivalent, childcare experience, a love for children, a valid drivers licence and be in good health, with a clear police record and hold a valid passport.

To teach English abroad one would generally require a Bachelors Degree and to do Hospitality or Business Internship requires to have studied or be studying in the relevant fields within a 24 month period. Our website has an eligibility calculator that after asking your basic information will tell you which of our programs you would be able to do, or we can do this with your child over the phone or in person.

MELANIE: A gap year does not have to be an expensive programme that involves travelling abroad. A structured gap year at home, that involves a combination of part time work, job shadowing, part time studying, volunteering, meeting with a mentor and (possibly) travelling at the end of the year (even locally) is cost effective. If the student wants to travel, I recommend that they do this towards the end of the year, so that they have something to work towards. Travelling can be as local as catching a Greyhound bus to visit a relative in another province.

Students taking a gap year might well feel left behind.

However, the extra year of maturity is a huge benefit when the student embarks on their studies. Lecturers share that students who are even slightly older than their classmates, and who have taken time to clarify their choice of studies, usually outperform their peers academically. A greater challenge for students taking a gap year is to maintain or develop a new social circle.

Working part-time and volunteering often help to develop their social circles.

WHAT ARE THE BENEFITS OF A GAP YEAR?

CARLA: Personal and Professional Growth: A gap year

career direction and study options, growing in self confidence and self awareness, being exposed to a variety of environments (working, volunteering, job shadowing, travelling), and broadening their knowledge base by studying online or doing short courses.

allows one to step away from the traditional academic or work environment and explore new interests, passions, and perspectives. It will enable students to better understand themselves, their goals, and their values.

By taking a gap year, students can develop valuable skills, independence, adaptability, and new perspectives that will benefit them personally and professionally.

CLAIRE: Independence, travel, financial gain, a chance to

Expanded Horizons: During a gap year, students

MELANIE: Developing a plethora of life skills, clarifying

make new friends, and a year long summer :)

AMANDA: In my opinion the biggest benefit would be exposure, travel is an amazing gift, if you have an opportunity to travel then grab it with both hands and go with it. Travel is the most wonderful teacher, you can study at the most prestigious universities in the world and earn the best qualifications but nothing teaches you like travel. Travel is the university of life, the memories, the life skills, the people you meet, the cultures you get to experience, to the food you get to taste. By taking a gap year, it helps you experience this on a much deeper level, essentially making you a richer and happier human.

SASHA: Faced with the fast pace of growing up today, to finish school and then try to seek out work, not to mention the lack of employment opportunities in SA, I look around and I see that some kids are clearly distressed, engaging in binge drinking and other selfdestructive behaviors.

It is common to encounter even the most successful students, who have won all the “prizes,” stepping back and wondering if it was all worth it. Adults in their thirties and forties often contact my company asking for programmes for themselves, they say that they ended up in their profession because of someone else’s expectations and I’m often told that they missed their youth entirely, never living in the present, always pursuing some ill-defined future goal.

How can a gap year help? Most fundamentally, it is a time to step back and reflect, to gain perspective on personal values and goals, or to gain needed life experience in a setting separate from and independent of one’s accustomed pressures and expectations. It gives you the time to examine yourself through the lens of new environments, people and ideas outside of the education system so that you can step back into it with renewed confidence and drive.

can broaden their horizons by immersing themselves in different cultures, communities, or environments.

Travelling to new places exposes you to diverse traditions, languages, and lifestyles. This fosters a sense of global awareness and empathy. These transformational experiences can help students become true global citizens.

Skills Development: A gap year allows students to acquire practical skills that may not be taught in a traditional academic setting. Whether developing leadership abilities or learning technical and soft skills through workshops, these experiences can enhance a student’s resume and make them more marketable to future employers or educational institutions.

Personal Reflection and Resilience: Taking time off from studies can provide an opportunity for personal reflection, self-care, and mental well-being. It allows students to recharge, reduce stress, and develop resilience before embarking on the next phase of their life. This can improve mental health, increase selfconfidence, and better balance and fulfilment.

Networking and Connections: During a gap year, students may have the chance to meet people from diverse backgrounds, establish connections, and build a network of contacts. These relationships can be valuable for future collaborations, mentorships, or even job opportunities. Engaging with different communities and organisations can expand social and professional circles.

WHAT ARE THE POTENTIAL DOWNFALLS OF A GAP YEAR? CARLA: A gap year can go wrong if not planned correctly or you do not use an accredited gap year provider. When planning a gap year, you need to do your research and make sure that the providers are credible and that what they offer will be genuinely beneficial. A gap year should not be a holiday. It should challenge you to grow and get out of your comfort zone and should focus on personal growth and development. When a young person embarks on a gap year, they open themselves up to a number of different and new experiences, but when these experiences are not managed by a provider that is able to provide a safe environment, they open themselves up to a number of different temptations such as binge drinking, experimenting with drugs, partying and could find themselves in difficult situations because of this.

during your gap year, then you gave it your best effort.

Things to consider when ending the gap year programme early: 1. Programmes that pay for your return flights will have to be reimbursed, this is stipulated in your contracts.

2. If you did not complete your gap year programme, you will struggle to obtain another visa for a similar programme.

CLAIRE: As a sponsor we work closely with the camps to ensure that the counselors are happy and having a good experience. We have a 24 hour number which they can call at any time. If they are very unhappy and are sure that they want to leave, they are able to do so. I must say this has never actually happened. We do prepare our participants before they leave and let them know how to handle home sickness. With so much technology these days the pax seldom feel very homesick.

MELANIE: One of the biggest potential downfalls is for your child to remain passive and stay in his/her comfort zone, making lots of excuses. A possible way to overcome this is for parents and their child to draw up a contract regarding the gap year (goals, expectations, plans). It also helps to have a gap year mentor. Parents need to remember that they have the power (car keys, wi-fi pass

WHAT SHOULD ONE LOOK FOR IN A GAP YEAR PROVIDER?

words and finances for the cellphone contracts) and need to wield their power if necessary. Parents do not “owe” their children a comfortable lifestyle. A gap year, like a college course, is a serious decision to make.

and personal coaching. It is vital to look for a program that is accredited. For example, The Warriors Academy program is accredited by the International Gap Year Association. This means that we have passed rigorous health and safety standards and tests, giving you the peace of mind that you are dealing with a credible and professional organisation.

WHAT IF SOMETHING GOES WRONG, AND YOUR CHILD WANTS TO QUIT THE GAP YEAR EXPERIENCE? SASHA: Simple answer - then they come home!

But: Just because you’re feeling depressed during a gap year doesn’t mean you need to throw in the towel. Gap years are not eternal honeymoons: there can be plenty of pesky distractions and negative feelings attached to the experience, especially when the reasons for the gap year are not entirely known. It’s easy to know that something is wrong, but it’s not always so simple to pinpoint the reason, take a moment to step back and analyze your emotions.

Are you lonely that you don’t have a community to hang out with, or are you restless that “real life projects” are slipping by while you are trying to teach English ABC’s to children that couldn’t care less? Are you tired of the American accent, or nervous about the task at hand, or you’re just constantly craving a bag of woolworths chuckles or a gatsby and nothing else can fill the gap?

When long phone calls to family and friends can’t seem to help you feel less depressed or something bigger is at play

CARLA: When choosing a gap year program, it is essential to do your research. You need to look for a structured program with a balance of activities, travel

2 RANDS and

CENTS SASHA SNYMAN FROM YDP WORK AND TRAVEL TALKS ABOUT THE COST OF A GAP YEAR.

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ravel is expensive! Especially for us South Africans with the rand being such a weak currency. Most agencies assist young South Africans’ to achieve their dream of travelling abroad by allowing them to work and therefore earning foreign currency to be able to afford to travel. And then programmes like our Au Pair / Bro Pair Programme assists with the many costs of travel. Instead of paying for accommodation and food, you live with a family abroad that provides for you and offers you employment so that you can earn dollars/euros to afford to travel after working. Our American programme also offers to pay for your round trip flight to America if you sign a 12 month contract with the American family.

BUT PLEASE BE AWARE OF SCAMS!!

THE MAIN FACTORS TO CONSIDER IN ANY GAP YEAR PROGRAMME:

2. Don’t contact Host Families met outside an accredited agency – for example on social media.

Social media channels, like Facebook, are not the right place to find a Host Family. Online matching agencies check the background and reliability of their users, while social media doesn’t have to. From our experience, 80% of the scammers come from Facebook.

• The Location of the Programme: The cost of a Netherlands programme, for example, is considerably cheaper than the cost of an American programme.

• The Amount of Support You Receive: is the programme providing you full support with paperwork, job assistance, visas and housing or are they just getting you through the front door?

• Is the Programme All-Inclusive?: Does the cost of the programme include all food, housing, insurance and activities? If so, the cost will be higher up front, but you will spend less money throughout the year.

It is important to note that when you are pricing programmes to make sure you are factoring in your current yearly cost of living and take into account the money you would be spending anyway if you stayed home (food, rent, etc.), you will find that gap year programmes, like ours, are affordable.

Keep in mind as well that a gap year is an investment.

Unlike a fancy watch or a pair of shoes, a gap year provides important personal and professional growth opportunities. Gap years are not material or frivolous, they are an investment in your development as a person.

Please beware of scammers trying to extort information or money from you. Always verify the company and the email addresses and any other contact information provided to you by people claiming to be Au Pair agencies or host families abroad.

How to avoid scammers?

1. Don’t send any money abroad, in advance. You should neither rent any flat abroad nor pay for anything in advance. Contact an accredited agency to learn more about how Au Pair travel expenses and insurance work.

3. Always arrange a video-call. Scammers almost never agree to meet through a live video-call, because it will reveal their identity. If the user refuses to meet you through the video-interview, he/she is not a reliable person for further cooperation.

Be careful and use your common sense – that’s the best approach.

3 What Makes A

GOOD Gap Year?

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ords by Melanie Williams, author of The Good Gap Year Guide and a sought-after careers and subject choice presenter at high schools across Cape Town. As a registered psychometrist, Melanie has offered career counselling to hundreds of high school students and young adults and wrote The Good Gap Year Guide in order to help young adults and their parents navigate a successful gap year.

“A good gap year, like most good things in life, doesn’t just happen. A gap year is like good road trip: it requires planning, research and preparation.

“The reason for taking the gap year must be sound. A gap year develops self-awareness, confidence and skills.

It is a year of self-directed learning. It’s not a time to do nothing and vegetate (NOPE). The summer holidays provide ample time for this.

“A map is needed on a road trip. A flexible plan or timetable is needed for the gap year. This will include the elements of the gap year and the timing. The elements might include the following: working part time, studying part time, job shadowing, volunteering, travelling and meeting with a mentor. Timing is about when these elements will occur. A rough, realistic plan for the full year needs to be compiled.

“Daily routine is key. Varsity students have timetables, deadlines and exams; employees have working hours, targets and job descriptions. Gap year students need a “workday” routine. Initially, this could mean looking for part-time work from 9 to 1 and doing online studies from 2 to 5. Maintaining a routine is one of the trickiest aspects of a gap year. Using a traditional working week as a guide is helpful.

“Communication is vital. When on a road trip, we discuss the responsibilities, finances, playlist, food, driving duties, when to take breaks, what sites to visit and where to stay over.

“Communication between parents and their gap year child is IMPERATIVE; a lot of communication needs to happen BEFORE a gap year is agreed upon.

PARENTS WIELD THE POWER OF FINANCE AND WI-FI CONNECTIVITY (BOOM!) “It is not the parents’ job to make the gap year student’s life as comfortable as possible. Parents need to engage with their gap year child as an adult who has the rights and responsibilities of voting, driving, and working. The gap year student also needs to take on the challenges of a gap year as an adult. Both parties need to communicate as adults (respectfully and honestly).

“A gap year contract with clear expectations needs to be agreed upon. This includes the year plan, finances, household duties, accountability, responsibilities, daily routine and consequences. If the student were to attend university or to start working full time, various criteria are in place for passing courses and earning a salary.

Criteria to “earn” Wi-Fi, shelter and finances need to be carefully spelled out. Many conversations need to take place before a contract is set up; this contract needs to be flexible (as circumstances change).

“A gap year student needs a mentor such as a professional life coach or someone in the community whom the student respects (sports coach, youth worker, teacher or family friend). Regular meetings with their mentor, to chat about how their gap year is going, is a great form of accountability and it keeps the student motivated.

“On road trips, cars get punctures and sometimes roads are closed, and a longer detour is needed. Gap years are tough; it takes a lot of courage to choose a gap year. Gap year students need encouragement to keep going and especially to be reminded to not compare themselves to their peers who are studying. One year of maturity gained from a gap year is HUGELY valuable and often produces better academic performance and focus when the student starts their formal studies or career path, a year later.”

4 Gap Year Exper ience

Te a c h i n g E n gl i s h in

Madagascar

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here is a wide range of companies that offer gap year opportunities in volunteering, providing young adults with the space and time to find themselves and discover their passion while at the same time helping communities across the world. Options range from teaching English in Thailand to tagging turtles in Greece. And pretty much everything in between.

Brooke Barton participated in an English teaching career internship in Madagascar, through GVI, a company that offers an extensive range of nature conservation and social development programmes through which people from all walks of life can volunteer, intern or study.

On this particular programme, there is no need for any experience, as GVI provides all necessary training as part of the progamme.

WHAT INSPIRED YOU TO TAKE A GAP YEAR? AND WHY VOLUNTEERING? I have always loved experiencing new cultures so when I was looking for what to do next, this was high up on the list. I wasn’t sure if I wanted to take my studies further but I had a keen interest in community development and teaching English so an English teaching internship with GVI seemed like the perfect opportunity.

COULD YOU DESCRIBE A TYPICAL DAY? Every day is different but we start at 7:30 to make sure we have everything prepared for the classes ahead. We then teach 3 English classes in the morning ranging from kids to young adults from beginners to advanced. After lunch, we focus on planning lessons and developing resources for each class to make sure we’re always prepared. In the afternoon we teach adult classes from beginner to advanced and to finish the day we all come together to write feedback on how the day was and how the classes went. In the evenings, we have time to hang out and catch up with each other, whilst the weekends are filled with exploring local islands, diving, visiting the local beaches and national parks, or relaxing on base.

WHERE DO YOU STAY? Most GVI programmes operate from private bases that are either owned or managed by GVI. This way the company is able to provide a safe, controlled environment for participants in close proximity to the projects we work on. This also creates a lovely sense of community between participants and allows us to form lifelong friendships as well as make valuable connections for career experience.

WHAT WAS THE BEST THING ABOUT THE EXPERIENCE? It is hard to narrow it down to just one. I have always loved experiencing new cultures, meeting new people, and discovering new places and this experience has provided all of that and more.

THE HARDEST THING? One of the hardest things has been being away from home and missing family and friends, but I can catch up with people online and I have made a lot of friends during this experience.

WHAT DID YOU LEARN? I have learned a lot since starting my internship. My goal in coming to Madagascar was to develop my skills in community development and teaching English, which with the support of staff I have achieved and so much more. This experience has also taught me that life doesn’t always have to have one set direction. Over my time in Madagascar, I have met many people on many different journeys and in different stages of life and no experience is alike.

WHAT ARE THE COSTS?

WOULD YOU RECOMMEND THIS EXPERIENCE TO OTHERS? I would highly recommend this experience to others.

I have learned and achieved so much whilst being in Madagascar and believe that given the opportunity everyone should experience this also.

The cost of programmes such as this differ greatly depending on the programme duration as well as which programme has been selected. For example, the cost of doing a diving program would be much greater than a teaching one due to the costs of scuba equipment provided, boat trips, extensive training etc. The cost of a program covers all onthe-ground transport (airport transfers etc.), all food, all accommodation, all training and supervision from experts in their fields, and access to around-the-clock safety and support in case of emergencies. Flights and visas are not included.

5 In Praise of the

GAP YEAR

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aking a gap year is not a popular choice these days. Our kids, who have been moulded in the fires of over-achievement, and pushed both academically and sportingly, are overwhelmingly led to believe that they cannot stop studying, lest their peers get ahead and leave them behind. Or they enjoy themselves too much, and never go back to studying.

But the reality is that a gap year can be a year of incredible growth. And instead of being ‘left behind’, those students who take the gap, tend to grow up a lot quicker than those who don’t. And most often, they are more sure of their future area of study and work, post a gap year experience, as well as raring to get back into the world of study.

When we ask about gap years on The Village, the feedback is always overwhelmingly positive. If you - or your child - is sitting on the fence about what to do after matric, these next few pages have you convinced that gap years are the way to go!

If you take a gap year, universities look at end of Grade 12 results. Gap year can be so enriching - you can do a diving course, charity work, programming course, photography course, earn money on a ski resort season, au pair, tutor, house sitting and pet sitting. You can earn, learn and grow!

- Katherine Rissik Much to my dissatisfaction, I let my son take a gap year, on the condition he finds something to do (hobbies, exercise and part-time work). Surprisingly, once the pressure was off he started exercising ( joined a boxing gym), btw, he was never the fitness type. He then asked to join master maths and is redoing his maths and science to get into his now chosen degree. I think the pressure for young people is crazy and there is this invisible race everyone is on, when no one really knows the course.

Give your kids some time to figure themselves out?

- Natasha Sunshine

My son rewrote English this year (AS Cambridge) and opted to continue with A-levels in Math, Phys and Chem (exam Oct). He’s working on his photography skills by getting accreditation and practice time at various car events. He was coached by a drama teacher in oral presentation skills and will also take on further driver’s licence training for heavier vehicles. If we can fit it in later, maybe a couple of weeks volunteering. He also still has to job shadow while re-applying.

It feels devastating, but there can be enormous value in a gap year.

- Christelle Pretorius Botha I didn’t let my elder son take a gap year, thinking that he won’t want to study later. He dropped out in his 2nd year.

My younger took a gap year and is now excelling in his 2nd year. So I’m all for a “gap year” if they want to do it.

My son worked as a social media marketing manager and gained tons of experience

- Aneta Ruszkowska I took a gap year in 2005 and spent the whole year waitressing and having a jol after work with my waitressing friends. Was so good for me because while I worked throughout high school, work full time in a restaurant taught me so much. I learnt how to save, the value of money, hard graft, work ethic, working in a team and got exposure to friendships and colleagues that took me out of my bubble. I did some winter school courses at

uct to keep my mind occupied and finally got accepted into UCT for 2006. Because of my year of hard work I really appreciated university, I also then had a part time job i could lean on.

- Leila Emdon

I am encouraging my daughter to take a gap year. I believe that there is no sequence to life. One doesn’t have to go to university after matric. And then get a job buy a home blah blah blah. Travelling is an education in itself.

- Chantal Kröhnert Volunteers come from all over the world to South Africa during their Gap Year. We should encourage our children to give back to their community or other communities especially if they can explore their intended field of study.

A Gap Year does not need to be traveling abroad.

- Bonita Hendricks My son didn’t manage to study what he wanted to and flew to London after not finding work in SA. He is working as a chef in a restaurant and supporting himself.

He is loving the freedom and opportunity and now has time to sort out studies too for next year.

- Candice Langley

Both my girls took gap years, both found casual work, one in retail, one waitressing. They both found that earning money, being part of the work force, being responsible for getting themselves to work on time every day; a huge learning experience. Also helped them to focus on what they really did and did not enjoy and helped.refine their study choices. I would highly recommend it but they must work.

- Tracy Calvert My daughter took a gap year, studied her A level English, tutored 2 kids in math made some money and before she knew it her year was up.....nows she doing her BA in communication design.

- Monique Williams I sent all three my children overseas for their gap year the eldest two went to Israel to work on a kibbutz and the youngest went to work in a wine cellar in the Mosel valley. They learnt the meaning of work and came back eager to study.

- Jacoba Louw Both my girls took 2 years to decide what they wanted to do. I didn’t allow them to sit around- they both had cars that needed petrol etc - so they tutored, babysat/ child minded, house sat to make money. In the end my older daughter decided she wanted to make a difference

so is studying foundation phase teaching. My younger daughter went for younger children and is studying ECD. Don’t push your kids to make a decision. Please let them find his feet first.

- Marion Forster My daughter did a gap year working at a school in the UK. She supported herself fully for the year and managed to travel to many countries during holidays. Best decision.

In that year she became totally independent - maybe too much so - as she went straight back overseas to study.

My son took 6 months, got 2 jobs, saved a lot of money and played golf.

- Alison Jones

My son rewrote one matric subject (went up by 20%), took a different subject to improve his average; so doing that prelim and final, and he’s coaching to earn money. In retrospect it was the best thing for him. He also does all the grocery shopping and general running around while we work, so that’s handy too!

- Carmen Weir Mine has:

Can’t recall exact details. But I do know that my youngest son’s gap year ensured he got offered a position in res, which wasn’t offered the previous year because his results were final and good enough, whereas in the previous year they were provisional until the end. The combination of a gap year and then a year in res made him so much more worldly, mature and open-minded than his 2 older sibs who didn’t choose this option.

- Nichola Roy

- spent about 4 months recovering from burnout - learnt how to and built me a website - helped edit a book and do some graphic design work (business cards etc) - did some coding short courses Is now bored and very excited to go back to uni next year!

- Gillian Viljoen

My son took a gap year in 2020, the year after he matriculated, knowing very clearly what he wanted to study when he returned. He did a structured gap year organized by a company who specializes in them and he had an incredibly rich and rewarding year. When we were making the decision I watched a Ted Talk called Gap Year: The path to purposeful education that clearly articulated the advantages of choosing this path and dispelled myths about it too.

- Rachel Whiston du Toit When my Son finished school he had no idea what he wanted to do ... I then enrolled him into a business course at Stellenbosch university which was 3 days a week and they provide life coaches. It was the best thing I ever did he then realised he wanted to study law and that was one of the careers the test showed. If he decided he still was not sure at least he got introduced how to open his own business and be a entrepreneur.

- Karen Pienaar

My daughter worked her butt off in grades 10, 11 and 12. she’s always known she wants to go to university.

We encouraged a gap year and she’s currently an au pair in The Netherlands. If the time comes to study and she chooses not to.... Well it’s her life. She’s learnt more on this gap year than she ever would have going straight to study. She was completely exhausted after high school.

Her decision to take a gap year was hers and we 100% support her. I believe if we’d said no gap year and insisted she starts varsity she probably would have dropped out.

She has renewed enthusiasm to study now and for the next chapter.

- Sharon Gotte My son completed matric in 2020 and is currently working at a private prep school in the UK as a teaching assistant/sports coach. He has seen more countries in 7 months than I have seen in my life and has grown up a huge amount in my mind. I have no doubt that when he gets back he will be ready to knuckle down and study. He has been offered a place at both UCT and Stellies for next year.

- Melissa Largier

My son was a high academic achiever etc etc etc at school and he did a gap year to Australia - some months working on the Barrier Reef in an ocean safari bussiness and then 6 months tutoring / stooging at a boarding school outside of Melbourne .

He is now finishing up his second year of the hectic Mechatronics engineering degree at UCT and he still says to me time and time again “thank heavens I had that year away”; he made amazing friends there that he is still regularly in contact with but mostly he said it was the freedom to be himself outside of any pressure and to be who he wanted to be.

I don’t believe he would be doing as well as he is in this degree now if he hadn’t had that break! Only advice I will add is I highly recommend a proper structure to go to .

- Jo Springthorpe I have 3 adult children: No 1 and 2 are both well-qualified kids with good prospects, professional degrees and good jobs; No 3, a 20 yr old under-grad, is the only 1 who took a gap year straight after school. He is the child who watched his older siblings take on tough qualifications, and stick with their choices, despite reservations. He decided he needed to see more of the world before he decided on his university studies, having seen/heard his siblings doubt their choices at times and work so hard for so long to get to their end-goal.

So he took a gap year (stooged in the UK most of the year and travelled with his savings for 2-3 months.) As a mum, I am equally proud of all my kids, but I worry least about the 3rd, gap-year child. He has worked stuff out that the older 2 haven’t and the 2 elder ones even recognise this; he will prob be less qualified than his sibs, but is undoubtedly more conscious of his choices and more street-smart. Working a bit, travelling and earning first, before studying, seems to me to bring a maturity and understanding to the next steps/choices. I am a huge believer in a gap year, if this is what your child wants. The advantages outweigh disadvantages enormously!

- Nichola Roy

My daughter is currently on her gap year. Covid-Matric - with lovely results and entrance to Engineering - just exhausted her.

She’s found herself again - a sparkle and new-found skills unlike any you’d learn in a lecture-hall. She can now see just how damn tired she was, looking back. Another 4 years of slog would have been soul-destroying.

Coming back to study in January - refreshed. And she’s job-shadowed in her field as she went, visited local unis, and is planning hybrid-modules to tag on later.

- Sarah Oosthuizen

TAKE A TRANSFORMATIONAL GAP YEAR

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he Warriors Academy is an internationallyaccredited gap year provider that has been operating in South Africa for the last two decades. The program combines travel, adventure, community service and personal development workshops, with the overall aim of fostering independence and emotional maturity in participants, while providing them with lifelong skills that will enable them to adapt and thrive in this fast-paced and challenging world.

Over the course of a year, the Warriors hike, mountain bike, white water raft, bungee jump, rock climb, snorkel, scuba dive and sky dive their way across South Africa and its neighbouring countries, not only learning to push themselves past their own discomfort, but also how to work together, with a wide variety of personalities, to the benefit of the community as a whole.

Throughout the program, Warriors are mentored and guided by world- renowned human behaviour specialist Rudi Viljoen, who is assisted by a qualified and certified team of adventure specialists, assuring the safety of every participant, and ensuring that each participant gets the very best out of his or her year.

WHAT DOES IT OFFER? The program is structured to include four 7-week seasonal Quests, which allows students to participate in any number of Quests depending on their schedules or studies.

Each Quest has its own set of adventure activities, community service activities, soft skill workshops and personal mentoring sessions. These focus on equipping young adults with emotional intelligence, time, stress and conflict management, leadership, teamwork, problem-solving skills, and so much more.

During each Quest, students travel through different parts of South Africa, and participate in a number of adventure sports. They are also taught a wide range of personal skill sets, including TRE, Quantum Logic, Public Speaking, Rebounding and are exposed to career guidance and personal development workshops.

Each Quest also aims to give back to the community through various activities, including beach clean-ups, camp facilitation for underprivileged students, and volunteering.

The Warriors Academy prides itself on being an international organisation, with students from South Africa to the USA, Canada, Netherlands, UK, Scotland, New Zealand, Belgium, Spain, Thailand, and so many more. With so many different people from around the globe, there is a diverse mixing pot of cultures which enriches the whole experience.

WHY WARRIORS? The Warriors Academy provides a safe, supportive and caring environment for the growth and development of young adults. We give them the freedom to explore, have adventures, and learn about themselves, but in a way that fosters responsibility and accountability. Our focus on self-mastery is unique, and this guiding principle provides our students with the tools needed to overcome any challenges, both during the program and in life. At Warriors, students are allowed to become themselves, meet people from around the globe, and have a truly transformational experience that will get them excited about life and their future.

PROGRAM COSTS: 7-Week Quest: R62,000 (local pricing) Gap Year Program: R248,000 (local pricing) This includes: accommodation, food, activities and courses, professional coaching services, travelling, training materials, registrations and equipment as per activities.

Excludes: Laundry services, personal pocket money, personal gear such as bicycle, camping gear, hiking gear and tents (this can be rented from us), medical emergencies, and transport to and from the Warriors Academy at the start and finish of each quest, emergency transportation to doctors or other related services.

SASKIA ADRIANS, 18 Deutsche Internationale Schule Pretoria Warrior , talks about her experience with Warriors gap year programme: WHY DID YOU DECIDE TO TAKE A GAP YEAR?

I knew I was going to move to Germany in June to start my studies but until then, I had a few months to fill – and what better to fill this time than a gap year adventure experience?

WHAT DID YOU GAIN FROM THE EXPERIENCE?

The most impactful takeaways of this experience was the people. On the one side, I had the privilege to meet lifetime friends, who will always be up for an adventure when seeking one. On the other side, there are the school kids from our community service projects. It is such a heartwarming feeling to see that I was able to inspire these kids through my actions.

And, I was also inspired by our leaders – the MAIs (Multi Activity Instructors), the facilitators and the heads of this organisation. They left so many impressions on me, which will accompany me throughout my life.

WHAT WAS YOUR EXPERIENCE LIKE AT WARRIORS?

Warriors was a rollercoaster of emotions, mental and physical strength. And that is exactly what Warriors stands for. You go through difficult times so that you can fully grow and develop your full potential. For me personally, it was and still is an opportunity for me to grow on a whole different level. It was a super fun, exhilarating, joyous and meaningful experience.

WHAT DID YOU ENJOY MOST ABOUT YOUR GAP YEAR/QUEST?

As a dancer I’m a little biased and have to say that I enjoyed the dance workshop with Tumi the most. It was also amazing to see how the other warriors tackled this task, especially since many were completely pushed out of their comfort zone. We looked after each other, helped when someone struggled and encouraged those who felt self-conscious.

DO YOU THINK YOU CHANGED AFTER TAKING

WHAT WAS YOUR EXPERIENCE LIKE AT WARRIORS?

A GAP YEAR/QUEST, AND IF SO, WHY?

During the first couple of days, it was quite challenging from a physical standpoint, but within a week, it felt like I had fully adjusted. This is mostly because of the sense of community amongst warriors that encourage the “Warriors Help

It is in any way difficult to say that something changed you – if anything, it enhanced different character traits or dreams, and it makes you realise what you like or don’t like about yourself.

But most importantly, it inspired me always to be the best version of myself.

WOULD YOU ENCOURAGE OTHERS TO TAKE

Warriors” mindset. Being an only child, I’ve always preferred to work independently, and although teamwork seemed a bit alien to me, the Quest taught me how to lead (and be led) in team environments.

A GAP YEAR AND IF SO WHY?

Yes, definitely. A gap year is an excellent opportunity to intensively spend time with yourself to figure out your dreams, your core character, as well as your flaws. It is a time when you allow yourself to grow. You don’t only choose which paths you want to take but also who you want to surround yourself with and how far you want to push yourself. If you do this before you start steering your career in a certain direction, you might find the right path a little earlier than if you are trying to figure out your way as you go.

MATUMA MOJAPELO, 19 Hilton College Warrior, adds his thoughts: WHY DID YOU DECIDE TAKE A GAP YEAR?

After writing the May supplementary exams, I wanted to challenge myself in a way that took me out of my comfort zone and pushed me beyond my physical capabilities. I also believed it would be the best time to do so before getting caught up with academics during university.

WHAT DID YOU GET OUT OF THE EXPERIENCE?

I developed a much greater sense of perseverance, as well as an ability to stay positive in uncomfortable situations. This mostly stemmed from the WAC and Mini-Traverse, when team morale became a big factor in completing the challenge.

WHAT DID YOU ENJOY MOST ABOUT YOUR QUEST?

I enjoyed the sailing course the most, as it was towards the beginning of the quest and gave us all a chance to get to know one another early on.

DO YOU THINK YOU’VE CHANGED AFTER TAKING A QUEST?

I believe I’ve changed from a psychological perspective, as I now have a form of mental toughness. I think I’ve generally become more tolerant and less pessimistic in group environments, especially when faced with social conflict.

WOULD YOU ENCOURAGE OTHERS TO TAKE A GAP YEAR?

I would heavily encourage it for young adults, as it can help them find a sense of direction at a time when much is uncertain. I would especially encourage it for anyone who loves the outdoors/ wants to challenge themselves.

6 Gap Year Exper ience

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imberley Hunter embarked on an au pair gap year in the States when she was 18. Her sister, Tayla, followed suit five years later. Both girls are now living in the USA, Kimberley is married to an American, and Tayla has just started a new job as an account analyst – but jokes that she still spends so much time with her host family that she may as well still be working there!

We spoke to the girls, and their mom, Jenni, to get an insider’s view on au pairing overseas.

WHAT QUALIFICATIONS OR EXPERIENCE DID YOU HAVE BEFORE APPLYING AS AN AU PAIR? KIMBERLEY AND TAYLA: After deciding on an agency and signing up with them, we started working towards all the boxes we need to have checked before being able to officially apply. Some of these included passing matric, having a valid driver’s license as well as getting 200+ hours of childcare experience (specifically with non-related kids, so unfortunately all our experience with (younger brother) Callum didn’t count, lol). If you’d like to be infant qualified specifically, that’s a whole different ballgame since you need many more hours of experience with infants specifically, as well as requiring a CPR certification.

JENNI: It involves a fair amount of paperwork and

organisation, and shouldn’t be left until the last minute.

I’d advise anyone to start the process at least a year before finishing matric.

HOW IMPORTANT IS GOING THROUGH AN AGENCY? IS THIS SOMETHING YOU COULD DO ON YOUR OWN?

WHAT WAS THE BEST THING ABOUT YOUR EXPERIENCE? AND THE WORST?

KIMBERLEY AND TAYLA: The only way to Au Pair

Making friends with other Au Pairs from different countries is definitely top of the list. The Au Pair agency organizes a bunch of fun meetups to make meeting other Au Pairs really easy. It makes a big difference having other people to talk to who are also far away from home and living with a host family as they understand everything that you are going through (the good and the bad). If you’re lucky enough to get a family who travels with their Au Pair that’s a major plus too. I (Kim) was fortunate enough to go to multiple states as well as Switzerland with my first host family. Being an au pair also gives you a unique opportunity to play a big part in your host kids’ lives and teach them about your country. All of our host kids (and host parents!) can say at least a few South African phrases and always have a pantry stocked up with Rooibos tea. Being an Au Pair really gives you the opportunity to grow and be independent. You are forced to learn to take responsibility for your own actions, be punctual and speak up for yourself amongst many other things.

abroad is to go through an agency, at least if you’d like to Au Pair in the USA (not 100% sure about other countries). They organize all the visa requirements etc, since the J-1 visa is a specific study-abroad visa for au pairs. We can only speak from a USA aupair perspective though. Europe and Canada (also popular Au pair destinations) may differ.

JENNI: Scams are still very real, and a reputable agent does offer a degree of protection since the families are vetted first, and there are basic rules to protect both host families and au-pairs. As a parent, I’d hesitate to do it any other way. The initial contract is for one year, but you can extend for a second year if you wish.

KIMBERLEY AND TAYLA: So much to unpack here!

On the flip side, being so far away from home and everything and everyone you know is probably the hardest part. Knowing that home is a whole ocean away is daunting, especially because you arrive in the USA not knowing anybody at all. Also, the way Americans do certain things is downright weird, but you’re in their country so you have no choice but to accept it and go with the flow. It’s extremely daunting at first being surrounded by all these foreign people who seem to do things very differently than what you’re used to. Learning to stand up for yourself and set boundaries with your host family doesn’t come easy at first but eventually you’re forced to if you want to survive.

JENNI: As a parent, it’s definitely hard when your child is going through tough times and you can’t interfere on their behalf (well, I suppose you could if you really had to, but it’s really better to let them work it out themselves and grow into themselves). They do grow up really quickly and it’s a great life experience for them. I am very proud of how quickly they learned to earn (and handle) their own money and lives. They have been self sufficient since the day they stepped onto that plane. They also appreciate home and family much more than a lot of kids their age - au pair kids don’t take home comforts and family support for granted anymore. Your teenager will transform into a responsible, young adult.

WHAT DO YOU WISH YOU HAD KNOWN BEFORE YOU EMBARKED ON THIS JOURNEY? KIMBERLEY AND TAYLA: So much. For starters, some Americans are downright weird. For example, my (Kim) first host family had an exorcist on speed dial who would fly over from Austria whenever my host family felt “something weird” in the air. The agency also isn’t as involved as they sell themselves to be. You’re pretty much on your own when you arrive when it comes to resolving any conflicts with your host family.

JENNI: For the agencies, it really is a business, and you only really realise that once you’re in it.

WHAT ARE SOME OF THE THINGS (GOOD AND BAD) THAT NO ONE (NOT

WHAT ARE SOME OF THE THINGS (GOOD AND BAD) THAT NO ONE (NOT EVEN THE AGENCY, OR ESPECIALLY THE AGENCY) TELLS YOU ABOUT AU PAIRING? KIMBERLEY AND TAYLA: The way the agency sells the

program to Au Pairs is very different compared to how they sell the program to the host families. The prospective Au Pairs are told they will be embarking on this great study abroad opportunity (Jenni: there is very little study involved – that part of it is just there to meet the minimum requirements for the visa. It is basically a string of short courses in anything from A basic Introduction to American history, to pottery classes and everything else in between. Nothing to write home about, or add to your CV), where they will get to experience living with a foreign family and get to travel etc.

On the flip side, the families think they’re getting flexible and affordable childcare in exchange for room and board.

The agency also makes it seem like they will be with you every step of the way but again once you’re here, you’re pretty much alone. More often than not, they tend to side with the family whenever there are any conflicts as this is where their money is coming from. You really have to learn very quickly that you’re going to get taken advantage of if you don’t set boundaries from the start.

There are many grey areas that have to be navigated such as whose responsibility it is to clean and to what extent etc. Majority of the situations are never black and white.

WHAT IF YOU FIND YOURSELF IN AN UNHAPPY SITUATION IN TERMS OF

DO YOU BELIEVE THAT TAKING THIS ‘GAP’ YEAR WAS A GOOD IDEA IN

THE FAMILY WITH WHOM YOU ARE WORKING, WHAT ARE YOUR OPTIONS?

TERMS OF WHERE YOU ARE NOW, DID IT HELP YOU FIND YOURSELF OR HELP YOU DISCOVER WHAT YOU WANTED TO DO/ STUDY/BE?

KIMBERLEY: If it doesn’t work out with your first host

family for whatever reason, you have the option to go into rematch where you are given two weeks to find another host family pretty much on your own (who must be either signed up, or prepared to sign up, with your agency). The agency really isn’t much help if you find yourself going into rematch. If you’re unable to find another family within those two weeks, you have to go back to your country. In my case, I loved the kids but just had a very hard time with my host dad at the time.

Trying to work through it and find some common ground was unsuccessful as they felt like they were giving me the whole world, and with this came a major sense of entitlement on their part.

I felt like I wasn’t respected as a member of the household but rather treated as someone who should be there day and night to tend to their kids. In the beginning I was working over 60 hours a week (the J-1 visa only permits working 45 hours maximum a week).

Some mutually agreed upon overtime is allowed, but you are supposed to be remunerated for it – it’s up to you to make that happen though. In general, it just wasn’t a great situation, and it took 18 months for me to stand up for myself. I found my second host family with no help from the agency at all and luckily landed myself in a much better situation where there was mutual respect.

KIMBERLEY AND TAYLA: We 100% do not regret it and

would do it all again in a heartbeat. Being away from home and the comfort of everyone you know never really gets easier but you learn to adapt and handle the tough times better. Learning to stand up for yourself is definitely one of the biggest pros as well as learning that your future is in your own hands. The initial reason for deciding to au pair in the first place was also because we weren’t 100% set on what we wanted to study after graduating high school. Taking the time to learn more about ourselves and what we want to contribute to the world definitely helped us gain more clarity, while at the same time learning to navigate difficult situations and gain some independence.

7 This is N OT a Gap Year

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“WORKING ON THE YACHTS”... ...has become a very popular gap year option over the past two years. But the word from those who are in the industry, as well as many parents who have walked the docks with their kids (figuratively, if not literally), is that this is definitely NOT a gap year experience.

If your young adults are looking for fun and adventure and a “Below Deck” life, they won’t find it working on a yacht. What they will find is very, very hard work. And if they make it through that, maybe a career.

The Village joined Facebook Group SA Yachtie Parents to get some firsthand advice from parents of kids who have been there and done that.

Kim Sowden, who worked in the industry for 15 years, and was responsible for hiring crew, shared this honest insight for those young adults who are dreaming of sailing off into the horizon: “Yachting is a profession. Somewhere along the line, it has become a gap year choice by school leavers. When there are plenty of crew to choose from, Captains will look at crew who are pursuing a career and only take the inexperienced as a last choice. Taking an 18 year-old with no life experience, is the last person they want to employ.

It costs the yacht a lot to pay an agents commission when the crew member skips off after a few months after deciding that cleaning windows and scrubbing toilets is rather boring.

“Having a South African passport is a big disadvantage!

South Africans cost the yacht a lot in extra visas and general hassle so they are put to the bottom of the pile.

“Yachts are the play things of the super rich and they want to be surrounded by beautiful things including the crew. The young adults need to be clean cut, no facial hair, no visible body piercings, no visible tattoos. The better looking, the better the chance of getting a job.

Sorry, it’s the reality.

“If they are determined to head to the yachts, they need to be working towards it now so there is something that stands out on their Cv’s. Playing on the rugby team or being in the choir don’t count really. Sailing, waitering, general hospitality, diving, general watersports, massage, gym instructor, painting, varnishing, mechanical repairs – all of these things will make them stand out as a potential asset as a crew member.

“Honestly, 18 is, for the most part, too young to head to yachts. The social all happens in the bars and it takes a strong willed 18 year-old to keep their head with a pocket full of dollars and euros. Drugs abound, alcohol is abundant and there is an endless party always going on somewhere. The work is hard and there is very little time to consider the emotional wellness of individual crew.

Living and working together is extremely challenging and requires an emotionally tough personality. Crew politics can be crazy and “Below Deck” hasn’t helped the industry at all.

“The parents invest a lot in the compulsory courses, flights, visas, accommodation, etc so you really need to know what they are getting into.

“Saying all that, I loved my yachting years and still dip back in every now and again with my old yachts. I met my husband – he was on the yacht next door. My 16 year-old thinks he will be heading off to the yachts at 18 but nope, I wouldn’t inflict him on a yacht at that age!”

YOLANDA VAN TRICHT, AN ADMIN ON SA YACHTIE PARENTS ADDED THE FOLLOWING:

SOME OTHER WORDS OF WISDOM FROM YACHTIE PARENTS WHO HAVE BEEN THERE AND DONE THAT:

* Definitely not a gap year option due to the costs involved, there are still other options like aupair, ski resort work etc for gap year. Unless the parents can afford it, but it is still not the ideal. Most yachts spend money on crew and that is why longevity is important for them

As a yachtie parent, I think I can safely say [the one thing I wish I knew about beforehand is], the massive costs involved so advice to parents of kids that want to do this as a “gap year” make sure you have LOTS of money saved up! Because it costs a small fortune.. I’d say worth it if they choosing it as a career, but as a gap year mmmm not so much! I would NEVER have supported this financially as a gap year.. all the best!

* Saffas are getting a hard rap due to some gap year kids going for a jol and not taking it as seriously as others that want to make a career of it. I’m not saying all gap year kids do this, but it is not uncommon. * The industry is not for the faint hearted.. you need to be VERY resilient, able to cope with a thousand NO’s, no return emails from recruiters, etc etc, and that is before you get onto a yacht and have to deal with all that comes with that! I suppose that is also where maturity comes into play. * Potential yachties need to do their homework properly.

What is required, besides the basic required courses, to enter the market and stand a chance of being employed.

Let them join all the FB yachtie pages, see what is advertised and required by the yachts. Which positions are more in demand etc. With thousands wanting to get into the industry due to the big bucks that can be made, it is rushed into without doing proper homework. Talk to different parents, ask questions as to which training facilities were used, get lots of opinions.

Most yachts requires “experience”, which is rather hard to get when you can’t get employed, so as mentioned by others in this discussion, try get them some experience before going off to a foreign country. Join local sailing clubs, do a carpentry course, do a beauty/masseuse course. Work as an intern and get some experience. Do a basic cooking course. There are many options to explore that can make you stand out.

But for the love of all yachties, DON’T do it if you can not commit long term, or if you have not won the lotto yet!

Second thing I wish I knew, the sleepless nights and stress that comes with it when they can’t find a job on a yacht, dealing with scammers and red flags, and trying to help your kids in a foreign country.. I URGE parents to do thorough homework before deciding to send their kids off, however that been said there is also a wonderful side to yachting for kids who catch a break and have wonderful crew and not to mention making good €€€

- Tracey Gardner Don’t do it!! No I’m just kidding. Unfortunately the market is completely saturated as in supply is greater than demand. The whole process is extremely costly and stressful on both kids and parents. (Visa restrictions play a big part in the stress) Sadly some kids have not had any luck finding jobs and have had to come home. It’s not only greenies that are battling it’s those with experience as well.

Thick skin is required that’s for sure and the ability to push through and keep trying. Kids send hundreds of cv’s and dock walk for months - some get lucky and some don’t. I have noticed it’s right place right time or who you know (the latter more so).

I’ve also noticed that age plays a role when it comes to being considered for a position (I think due to maturity).

I would say 18/19/20 are less likely to be considered over someone a bit older.

If you do get lucky once onboard you work hard and have long hours and you have to live in confined spaces with lots of different personalities.

I don’t mean to make it sound terrible but the whole process is difficult, stressful, emotional and costly and kids and parents need to be prepared for that.

And. Beware of the scammers! People that advertise jobs that do not exist AND weirdos that turn in into a sexual thing when you excitedly apply and give all your information. We came across at least 50.

- Tam Geary

Not for the faint hearted ‘right out of school’ young adult. It’s a career for many others - so long term - and they don’t always take kindly to the ‘gappie greenies’ coming across… might be a better option to see what yachting options they can seek off South Africa’s coastline first - to maybe see if it is a potential career path for them. Gain valuable experience without spending RRRs to get that experience. Just my 2c worth…

- Janine Esterhuizen

My son has just started in the yachting industry.

Matriculated last year. He has been very lucky and has found work on a lovely yacht, with lovely crew, captain and owner. He wants to do this long term and not just as a gap year. He did all the courses before leaving, however I do think that he would have benefitted more if he had done some day work here in Cape Town before departing.

Even if you can get 6 months experience in before going overseas, it will help and you will not be seen as a complete “greenie”. I do think it has to be a dream / passion as it is very hard work, you have to be prepared to network and dock walk daily. He was very lucky to land a job like this and is very grateful for it. It did also help a lot that he has an EU passport.

- Sandy Vicente My son is a yachtie, and I would strongly advise that before entering the career, use and support Sea Sheppard’s, first, that way they can be exposed to all aspects of yachts, the work and team work needed and evaluate the various departments of where their interest would like while learning and experiencing being out at sea and supporting a cause. They will not be exposed to guests etc.. but would give them a good idea of what sea life is all about [Sea Sheppards is a marine research and protection organisation.. but they have large fleets of boats throughout the world, you can apply to volunteer on them .. you don’t get paid but all board and lodging is covered as well as all the paperwork to get your visa.]

- Lueann De Beer

As a mom of a daughter who went to Antibes and very quickly came back home when she realised she had virtually no chance of finding work this season, we have been on a steep learning curve.

The things I wish we had known beforehand: It’s going to cost a minimum of R150,000! If you add together course fees, the medical, visa costs, flights, insurance & accommodation, that’s around R50,000.

Then you need between R80,000-R100,000 in a bank account in order to qualify for a Schengen visa - this is proof that you can support yourself whilst overseas for 3 months.

Age is a consideration - the younger you are, the harder it will be to find work. Not only don’t you have life experience, but you also won’t have much work experience either. There has also been a huge influx of youngsters trying to enter the market all of a sudden.

This makes it that much harder to find work, even for experienced people.

If you want to improve your chances of finding work, you will need more than just the basic courses. Try to get experience locally, do extra courses or work which means you can bring additional and wanted skills to the job.

My daughter decided not to spend any more money on accommodation and rather come home, upskill herself and grow up a bit more, before heading back to try again in a year or two. Good luck to all those still hustling every day - you never know when your lucky day will come!

- Fleur Twiss With thanks to SA Yachtie Parents. If you’d like to join the Facebook group, please click here.

8 This is also N OT a Gap Year

DUBAI:

The Hottest

opportunity in

HOSPITALITY

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ot every young adult is cut out for a gap year. And not all of them are going to take a traditional route to the working world.

Nikki Lombard, who has been recruiting young adults for the hospitality industry in the United Arab Emirates for six years, explains to The Village why taking up this option is absolutely NOT a gap year, but a massive opportunity to open doors in a very competitive environment.

WHAT KIND OF WORK OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE IN THE UAE? I only recruit hospitality staff. Waiter/ess, Bartenders, Hostesses, front desk staff, housekeeping and even lifeguards sometimes. We just successfully placed three of our local Cape Town lifeguards in Abu Dhabi.

WHAT KIND OF EXPERIENCE DOES ONE NEED? At least a year’s experience is needed, even if part time.

To go over with no experience is not a good idea. The standards are very high for zero experience.

WHY WOULD YOU ENCOURAGE A YOUNG SOUTH AFRICAN TO APPLY FOR ONE OF THESE POSITIONS? WHY THE UAE? IS IT SAFE FOR OUR KIDS, ESPECIALLY OUR GIRLS? The UAE is the safest country our youngsters could choose to do their international debut. They will be safer for two years in Dubai than one night in a nightclub in South Africa. There is virtually zero crime. Breaking the law is not in the equation. The city is clean and runs like a Swiss watch. There is also an incredible South African presence in Dubai. So much to do and learn in their off time.

WHY ARE SOUTH AFRICANS SO POPULAR IN THE UAE? First and foremost, we work really hard, we are very capable and we aren’t sissies! They adore our English and our accent, compared to most nationalities, we speak beautiful English and apparently our accent is quite posh.

And of course, we South Africans are gorgeous, they love beautiful people to serve their guests!

Working in a five star hotel prepares them for life in so many ways. They learn to work at a level of hospitality they have never seen in a 3rd world country. The standards are sky high. The youngsters come back to SA having learned so much on a higher level. This benefits our tourism as their bring their elevated skill set back and play it forward to others less experienced. They learn to adapt to a multi-cultural environment as they are exposed to every nationality in the world, building lifelong friendships and connections across the globe.

WHAT ARE THE BENEFITS OF BEING PLACED IN ONE OF THESE POSITIONS? Of course the on the job experience is upper most on the list of benefits. The UAE opens your mind to a first world country and how it runs. Although a very liberal country, it is still a Muslim country, you learn to respect other religions and learn about their cultures, values and beliefs. UAE really do embrace other religions and cultures. Most hotels go out of their way honouring special religious holidays from all over the world.

WHY IS THIS NOT A ‘GAP YEAR’ OPTION? If you are going to Dubai just to jol for a year or kill time till you decide what to do with your life, you have made the wrong choice. Working in a 5 Star hotel in Dubai is an honour and a commitment. It needs to be taken seriously and your work ethic needs to be of the highest standard of professionalism. You will work very hard and yes, you do get to play hard, but lots of hard work and long hours is required before the play part kicks in. It’s a 90/10 split.

More hard work than hard play

WHAT KIND OF PERSON IS BEST SUITED TO THIS KIND OF WORK? Most important is you need to be mature, have street smarts and be capable of living independently from home and not having your usual creature comforts. You need to fit in with the image and vibe of Dubai. It’s all about glitz and glam, bigger, better, obscene money, beautiful people, fast cars and fast pace, it’s slick and everything is over the top. You don’t go to idols if you can’t sing.

You don’t go to Dubai if you don’t fit in. You need a “can do”, super positive attitude, you need charisma, energy, style, good looks, massive personality, and a seriously committed work ethic.

WHAT IF THE APPLICANT IS HORRIBLY UNHAPPY, IS THERE AN EXTRACTION PLAN? Every company has their own rules. No one is forced to stay in Dubai. On arrival you will have to give in your passport to your employer to get your UAE residence card. Once you get that, you will get your passport back.

With most companies if you break your contract early, you will have to pay your own flight home and a sliding scale of repaying some of the relocations costs they paid for to get you to Dubai. Eg, flight and visa. It’s very fair.

9 Gap Year Exper ience

Gapping It at

SUMMER CAMP

M

ost South Africans aren’t exposed to Summer Camp except through the movies.

Unless you decide to take the gap and work as a camp counsellor. Matthew DunnetEngel worked on a USA Summer Camp from May to August 2023 as an activity specialist, a gap programme organised through OVC Work Study Travel.

WHAT PROMPTED YOU TO TAKE THIS SPECIFIC GAP YEAR/OPTION? I wanted to do the Summer Camps, since I was 15 years old, watching all of the summer camp videos made it look like so much fun and made me want to be a part of that. I was fortunate this year to be hired as a Lifeguard & High Ropes Instructor at the Camp in Lake Okoboji UM Camp in IOWA. This was a Christian Camp, but don’t be put off by this, as Christian camps have all the same fun activities as other Camps and the religion part was only a small part of the camp (also there are all sorts of different camp types).

HOW LONG WAS THE CAMP, AND HOW DID IT WORK? My camp was from 21 May through to 11 August, during this period all accommodation and meals were provided

by Camp and I did not have to worry about anything except any personal items. We got most weekends off throughout the time on camp however during this time we did things in the local area and came back to the camp at night to sleep. After camp you are given 30 days to travel , I went to New York and stayed at a back packers and toured New York, during this time I had to provide for myself, which was also a new experience.

CAN YOU DESCRIBE AN AVERAGE DAY IN THE CAMP? Very busy! And hot! Everything on camp is scheduled and planned . The hours are long and you work hard however still every day managed to be slightly different as there are different activities planned for the different days. We entertained the children and each counsellor had about a group of 8 – 10 children to look after for the week, as I was hired as an activity specialist (lifeguard & high ropes instructor) so generally my main function was to help run these areas and to assist the children when it came to water sports and the high rope area / activities.

There were weeks when I had to look after groups of campers, I would be in the cabin with them but on other weeks I would be support to those who had campers.

The day started at 8am and we would have 45minutes Bible study per day however this could also be sometimes in the morning, lunchtime or dinner, the days would end at around about 10pm each evening. The campers would leave on a Saturday afternoon, so they would be there from Monday morning to Saturday afternoon. I would be off from Saturday afternoon and then start again on the Monday morning, during this time I would go to my cabin which I shared with another counsellor. We were 11 counsellors at my camp.

WHAT WAS THE BEST THING ABOUT CAMP AMERICA? AND THE WORST? (OR HARDEST) The best thing were the other counsellors, the staff and the support at camp, everyone was really friendly and helpful. The hardest part was when I got homesick, but just that once, and then the Camp director and coordinators were really supportive and helped me work through the time.

WOULD YOU RECOMMEND THIS TO OTHER KIDS YOUR AGE? Most definitely 200%, I have applied to go back for a second season!

WHAT IS THE ONE THING YOU WISH YOU KNEW ABOUT THIS EXPERIENCE BEFORE GOING? Well, everything was explained, from checking in to changing planes etc. It was not really about the actual camp experience as you really do need to experience that first hand but navigating my way around the NYC subway, that was different as we do not have anything like that here, I got lost so a bit of exposure to this would have come in handy!

WHAT DO YOU THINK YOU LEARNED ABOUT YOURSELF AS A RESULT OF THIS EXPERIENCE? My lesson I learnt was that I can do anything when I put my mind to it.

Discover more gap year options at the OVC Travel Fair on 02 December 2023!

10 WHEN GOOD GAP YEARS

TURN

BA D

H

elp! My child has taken a gap year. He is sitting on my couch, using my wifi, eating from my fridge, but not actually doing anything constructive. How do I get him moving / motivated again?

WHAT IF THE CHILD MOVES INTO A STATE OF DEPRESSION AS A RESULT OF BEING ‘STUCK’?

TILLIE: This is when it is time to get a psychiatrist or psychologist involved.

There is always a chance that a gap year can turn bad.

Lifecoach Tillie Smit provides some helpful suggestions for parents in a similar situation.

TILLIE: Working with the right type of life coach would be helpful. Someone that he or she likes and clicks with, who can help him/her get ‘unstuck’ and also who can help with them knowing themselves, what drives them, what would be a good fit. The reality is that these youngsters are often ‘stuck’ originally, which is why they possibly ended up taking a gap year, or needing a gap year.

You might need to ask … did anything change in the interim or is this just a comfort zone? And also, mum and dad know NOTHING!!! It’s unlikely that these kids will listen to their parents, as anything coming out of parental mouths tends to sound judgemental and critical..... so its best to leave them to the coach.

That said, there does need to be support. When the child needs to investigate options, parents need to be on board and able to have constructive conversations with them about their options.

WHAT CAN I DO IN ADVANCE TO PREVENT THIS SITUATION FROM TAKING PLACE? TILLIE: Let your child start working with a coach from January onwards, seeing the coach maybe twice a month in order to keep the child working towards the future after the gap year. Remember, Universities close their placement in the middle of the year, to start looking for answers only mid year is losing another year. In my opinion, this guided type of gap year is the best possible scenario, it also takes the accountability from the parents (who know NOTHING, remember??) and allows them to still have a good conversation with their child.

The coach becomes the accountability partner, allowing the parent to be a support structure.

MANY OF OUR VILLAGERS ARE NO STRANGER TO THIS SITUATION, AND HAVE ADDITIONAL WORDS OF WISDOM TO OFFER: Sure thing, he can “do life”, you can start helping him with his life by issuing him with bills, shopping lists, ironing. If you want to “do life” son, you can do it like the rest of us, tired and broke.

- Morgan Leigh Mocke My son was an A student in Matric, went to Uni and after 4 months realised it was not his passion (the course). He de-registered and started his own business tutoring kids in IT. He matured so much. This year he rejoined Uni and is studying his passion and doing well. He was only 18 when he left school literally turned 18 the day he wrote his last exam. Perhaps we put too much pressure on these kids to know immediately what they want to do.

Everyone blooms in their own time - help him to find his niche as once he starts working there is no break from life...

- Jenean Gain A Gap year can do wonders HOWEVER there needs to be some structure. Working part time, travelling etc etc.

How can we expect these kids to know what to do when the world does not know what 4th IR jobs will be?

- Natasha Reeler I told my kids that they either do something educational, or travel/work, find a job for the year and if they can’t present me with a plan by end of December before the start of the “gap” year, then they will have to do a social year, as in volunteer at least 4 days a week somewhere such as SPCA or an orphanage. No sitting at home.I got burnt once with one of my kids, all the hot air ideas and promises of an upcoming job. Was amazing how fast a job was found when I said that volunteer work was the next step!

- Jacqueline Hinz-Peter We have a rule for moochers in our house : you’re either learning or you’re earning. Simple ... both options are ‘doing life’.

- Sue-Ann Wilson As much as it makes you anxious it’s not a bad idea for him. I went through the same thing and tried to suggest everything under the sun (and snow) Eventually I gave up and just exercised extreme patience and tolerance while I watched my “drop out” son evolve. After a while he got

so bored and envious of his friends studying or working that he had the desire to try different courses which I was sure to tell him how expensive they were. Eventually he found his passion and that gap year made him realise how bored and unproductive he felt and he never wants to ever feel like that again.

- Pauline Bitton I had a Gap Year but my mom enforced that I go to America to work for a year. I came back and had to pay my own medical aid, car payments, petrol and social. She paid living and food and that’s it. I bought all my toiletries etc and paid for my phone. I studied at 25 for the first time and now 10 years later own my own business.

Sometimes Gap years are needed but put down rules.

Make him work and have a plan. Explain that on this Gap year you will not be paying for anything. See what he says. He needs a plan.

- Natalie Hart Mine wanted to do a course that was full so had to take a year off to get in the following year.On the day that school went back I went into her room with a cup of tea at 9am, opened the curtains and suggested that she got up and started looking for a job as I had no intention of letting her be ‘on holiday’ for a year.She got a job and did a lot of growing up- it was actually good for her to have some time out. She got a job in a bookstore which was very good for her self confidence as she had previously been quite shy.It can be a good thing but you have to push to motivate things to happen.

- Lisa Cohen-Veit Neither of mine had a cooking clue what they wanted to do when they finished school, and eldest genuinely needed time out..... I had faith that her innate common sense and good brain would kick in, which they did after about 3 months of behaving like a cat (Sleep, eat 20 hours. Go out and party 4 hours). She then sat me down, told me what she’d decided she wanted to study, where and how much it would cost...oh, and when we would be meeting the necessary officials. Once signed up she did some part-time work and I sent her off to Australia and UK to stay with friends and family which greatly expanded her horizons and ambitions. She totally aced her studies and has been 100% self-sufficient from 24, travelling the world and holding down a very responsible job in London. 2nd one much the same trajectory so far.

My opinion - far rather trust you’ve done it right so far, set a firm time-limit on decision/direction and let them have a little breathing space. Mine were both told that the Mommy ATM terminates at 24 and that they have total freedom to choose to be a bathroom cleaner or a rocket scientist.

- Liz Dewing

WANT TO LEARN MORE ABOUT A GAP YEAR ABROAD? LETZ LIVE WILL BE HOLDING A NUMBER OF WEBINARS FOR SOUTH AFRICAN RESIDENTS

A Gap Year abroad is an unforgettable, life-changing experience. Join the Letz Live team as we present all about our Gap Year programmes and destinations.

Webinars will be held in January, February and March 2024.

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11 Local is

LEKKER

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f you hear the phrase ‘Gap Year’ and automatically start clutching for your wallet, (and pining for your young adult even though he or she hasn’t yet left the building) you’re not alone. But gap years don’t have to include anyone leaving on a jet plane. There is a huge variety of local gap year options. These are just a couple suggested by our Villagers over the years:

I wouldn’t hesitate to recommend Warriors, Career specialist in personal and outdoor pursuit development.

I’ve never come across a programme like theirs which not only offers an incredible adventure experience but grows exceptional human beings.

- Kathryn Straughan

Coral Divers in Sodwana run a year intern course for trainee scuba divers. A first class idea as it gives experience with tourists and a world class qualifications thrown in.

- Yvette Rowland

Eco Training and Bushwise both offer field guide courses which could be great gap year programmes for kids interested in the outdoors and our beautiful country.

At the end of year 1 students have a valid qualification which can also kickstart them on a journey to becoming a full fledged trails guide.

- Jill Schulman

My daughter did Quest in the Eastern Cape in 2021. Was the most amazing experience, so many life skills learnt, most amazing friendships made, so worth it! (not for the faint hearted though)

- Bridget Wilmot

Treverton College in KZN. An amazing post matric year.

My eldest daughter and youngest son did their post matric there. It is not academically focused. Rather life skills, adventure focused. Lots of physical challenges and learning amazing life skills. Check it out online.

- Catherine Atkinson Momberg

Stellenbosch University has an excellent program gap year. We went to their open day talk and we were very impressed.

- Danielle van Rooyen The Quest Africa programme in Zimbabwe is absolutely fantastic. I wish they had an adult version. Each week is better than the previous one.

- Karin Kopenhager Mervis

Academy for Environmental Leadership SA. My daughter just completed her gap year. Absolutely loved the course and all the field trips.

- Mary Travers-Hailwood

My son went to the International Academy for Leadership through Adventure. GREAT Gap one year course in Stilbay.

- Michelle Dryden Kotze

I sent my son to the ATKV’s post matric course. (He is English but language was not a problem as everyone was very helpful and spoke English to him.). They did courses in first aid, project management, public speaking, Zulu, handyman skills, etiquette, cv drafting, cooking, etc and they did mountain biking, river rafting, canoeing, diving, running, hiking, camping etc. They received good career guidance and he then realized that he wanted to study graphic design. The course was excellent - he learnt valuable skills and had lots of fun.

- Annerie Botha

Beyond Adventure,

💯

%.

I sent my daughter to a program called The Gap Year Experience, they do all sorts of activities like career experiences, adventure activities, budgeting, CV writing, taxes and learning to change plugs and tires etc.

- Adrienne Bogatie

My daughter did Methamorpho, a “growth” type course, teaching them about money, team work, self growth, careers etc. She loved it.

- Rinda Peyper Theron

There is a really awesome NQF5 level gap year on the Orange River in Environmental Leadership. It secures a higher qualification while allowing kids to find themselves and be away from parents in a safe environment.

The Premier’s Advancement for Youth (PAY) Project, Western Cape Government. The First Work Experience PAY Programme aims to create the opportunity for matriculants to gain workplace experience in the Western Cape Government (WCG). The internship allows for a year of mentoring, decision-making about a future career, on-the-job training and exposure to skills training and development to make the intern more employable.

- Claire Elaine Newdigate

- Nazneen Lalla

- Galada Sivu

Sugarbay.

- Sue Schaum

12 Ta k i n g the

Global GAP

T

he world has become a global village, and technology has made it ever easier for our teenagers to discover opportunities abroad, and to take them without the fear of completely losing touch with their friends and family at home. But there is always the fear that these programmes are not all that they promise to be.

Fortunately for us, there is no better endorsement than By Word of Mouth recommendations from fellow villagers. These are just some of the suggestions for Gap Years outside of South Africa that Villagers have recommended over the years:

Definitely Letz Live. My son went to Aus, working at a school and coaching sport. Can absolutely recommend them.

- Wilise Laurent

Have a look at Workaway International, only for USA Golf Clubs (many positions available for girls too). It’s a fantastic experience, starting with a 6 month contract in Florida, which can be extended thereafter. Job papers and on-site accommodation is all sorted out for you (sharing apartments) and their rent gets deducted from their salary, yes, they get paid too, and some positions include a free meal a day. They are very well looked after, and it’s all paid for you, including flights!

- Leanne Clarke Ross

If he/she is into sport, he/she should look at Summer Camp, so much fun! I did it for three months of the year, for 4 years. The only downside is that it’s only for 2 months of work, and a month travel. But it was the best job I ever had, made incredible friends who I still see to this day! CCUSA are the folks to chat to. The process is easy and lots of different jobs. Sports, arts, crafts, lifesaving, sailing, water skiing. It’s not an easy job, and it isn’t paid very well, BUT it’s the best thing I ever did after school.

- Jeanne Michel

My son has gone over this year to the UK and joined PGL Adventures and loving the variety of sport, young people, learning new activities etc. Well worth looking into.

Summer Camp in the USA. BEST thing ever.

- Marie Kieser Chin

- Pam Lawson-Smith Live-in UK pub jobs: The UK Pub Co. My son was accepted with an SA passport for the RENTA programme at Christ Church Grammar in Perth, Aus, but couldn’t go due to lockdowns.

The RENTA program is designed to allow young people from overseas (mainly British) to live and work in the community at Christ Church Grammar School and gain experiences of Australian life. Work, food and accommodation are provided. It is a great opportunity to become fully involved in, and accustomed to, life in Australia.

- Jill Schulman

Check out Workaway and Aupair World. Do your research, talk to hosts. And then after a while, your young adult will do it all herself.

Mine coming back to study in January - refreshed. And she’s job-shadowed in her field as she went, visited local unis, and is planning hybrid-modules to tag on later. This girl isn’t going to sit still - been bitten by the travel bug.

- Sarah Oosthuizen

- Ann Ellis Brown Kibbutz experience was amazing for our daughter through OVC.

- Jenny Coetzee

Alliance Abroad.

- Ronel van der Westhuizen Vorster

Best thing my daughter did was a TEFL qualification followed by working abroad with Work Away.

- Karen Fish

My daughter had a gap year -at Dragon School in Oxford as a matron / assistant teacher - was an incredible year and she came back and studied 4 Years of teaching and now honors - there is a lot to be said about going to university slightly older - no first year wobbles / no wasted years - although of course never guaranteed.

- Samantha Kalis

A close friend of mine has just signed her matric son up with Snowminds, to become a ski instructor in Austria for a season. I’ll definitely report back!

- Kim Penstone, admin

Take a look at Club Med jobs. This is a real thing. You can work at a Club Med ski resort in France, or one in the Maldives. True story. If I could live my life again…

- Sue Churcher Talbot

If he loves the ocean and conservation, Bubbles Dive Resort on Malaysian Island Perhentian Besar, has an amazing turtle conservation programme. A slice of paradise. We met an SA intern there in our first visit in 2018, apart from missing rooibos tea she was loving it!

- Michelle Bungey

I spent a year in Guatemala with AFS. It was an incredible experience & would highly recommend it. Students have a councillor in the home and host country.

AFS Intercultural Programs is an international, voluntary, non-governmental, non-profit organization that provides intercultural learning opportunities to help people develop the knowledge, skills and understanding needed to create a more just and peaceful world.

- Karis de Villiers-Lacour

13 A Gap Year for

GOOD

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ap years are often equated with students taking a time-out from the world, lying around on the couch and not contributing to their households - or society at large.

But this younger generation is acutely aware of both environmental and societal needs, and as a result there has been a recent surge in volunteering.

Although costs vary across organisations, many of these options offer board and lodging in exchange for labour. Win-win. Because this is Africa, many of these organisations are focused on wildlife conservation, but also, because this is Africa, there is no shortage of social organisations looking for extra hands. Once you start looking, you will be amazed at how many people in your own circles are involved in charitable organisations of some kind, and how happily they will accept the helping hand of a willing volunteer.

This is just a small selection of those suggested by Villagers, primarily in and around South Africa and Africa:

My daughter is coming to the end of her gap year, she busied herself with a mix of rest, working shifts once or twice a week, an online course or two and the best thing ever, volunteering at the Amakhala Game Reserve close to Makhanda/Grahamstown!

- Kerry Saadien-raad

Volunteer at Elephant Humans Relations Aid in Namibia.

- Zonja Gregg

Mauritius Wildlife Foundation. Lots to learn on the island, like how to make the most out of the least and be successful with hard work and education.

- Veeraj Goyaram

Go to the bush. Transfrontier Africa at Balule Game Reserve.

Hope Valley Farm!

- Mandy Swatton Jooste

- Juliet Leppan Sand Dams Worldwide learning expedition - engineering, geography, geology, sustainable agriculture, 8 of the UN SDGs, visiting East Africa and seriously hard physical work all in one week.

I spent a year in Guatemala with AFS. It was an incredible experience & would highly recommend it. Students have a councillor in the home and host country.

- Karis de Villiers-Lacour

- Sarah Field

I was just in Uganda and met loads of international varsity students out there volunteering with Playaction building playgrounds.

Very fulfilling.

- Kim Sowden

Get in contact with Khulisa. They have tons of fabulous programmes changing and uplifting peoples lives all over the country in all categories.

- Marisa Torrani

Wild Life Act. They have a brilliant volunteer programme!

- Sharlene Versfeld Zanzibar has an animal rescue volunteer program.

- Judi Francisco

Softpower Education in Jinja (Uganda) did good work when we lived there.

Pretoria area look at Ditshego. They are do a variety of things, house of safety, preschool, social services in community, work with GBV. Youth upliftment, feeding schemes etc.

- Greta Mouton

- Terri Furness

My daughter volunteered at Kira Farm in Uganda - life changing experience for her.

African Sunrise Volunteering and Internships.

- CJ Roper Armstrong

- Marysia Appleton Pebbles Project.

- Melanie Moorhouse