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A Father’s Journey Dealing with Grief, Losing weight, Living Life

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INSIDE “KEMET” Youth Activity Sheet

Wake Up And Stay Woke I have always been amazed by the immediate, long-lasting impact of the media on cultural/current events. This is the case with the 1993 movie “Groundhog Day.” Since its release, people have discussed the problem of being trapped in a metaphorical loop of activities from which they cannot escape.

Even those who didn’t see the film are familiar with this theme.

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Democrats Meet With Vice President Harris A delegation of Democratic lawmakers met with Vice President Kamala Harris Wednesday. Texas Democratic Chair Gilberto Hinojosa issued the following statement after the historic meeting, “It is an honor to see our state Democratic leaders meet with Vice President Kamala Harris today to discuss preserving, protecting, and expanding voting rights in Texas.

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MY TRUTH by Cheryl Smith Publisher

The least of Us

Have you ever been hungry, wondering where your next meal would come from? What about shelter?

When you’re in your warm, comfy bed, do you think about the thousands, right in your city, that not only don’t have a pillow to place their heads on at the end of the day, but also are lacking many of the amenities that make a house a home.

According to a survey conducted by welfareinfo.org, the poverty rate in Dallas is 21.8%, which equates to one out of every 4.6 residents of Dallas lives in poverty.

So everyone is not doing well and while there are some who speak out, there are so many others who suffer in silence.

Whatever a person’s lot in life, having someone in your corner who doesn’t mind adversity or being challenged, is nothing to sneeze at.

Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr, was such a person, who championed causes for our country’s poor, during the 1960s.

Today we have the likes of Rev. William Barber and Rev. Liz Theoharis; who work tirelessly calling attention to the plight of the poor. They are the Co-Chairs of the Poor People’s Campaign: A National Call for Moral Revival.

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they didn’t have to suffer. Is that too much to ask of the country that is the home of the free and land of the brave?

The Texas Poor People’s Campaign is demanding that U.S. Representatives from Texas “demonstrate their political and moral commitment to ending poverty” by signing on to a Congressional Resolution, “Third Reconstruction: Fully Addressing Poverty and Low-Wages from the bottom up.”

Addressing everything from COVID-19 and homelessness, to voter suppression and the voting rights act; the resolution skillfully addresses many of the societal ills that continue to plague society.

Which brings me to my truth.

It is unconscionable to live on

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this earth, without any desire to make it a better place. You have to ask yourself, “What am I here for?”

At the time of the virtual call, organizers said that currently three U.S. Congressional Members from Texas support the resolution: Congresswoman Sheila Jackson Lee, Congressman Al Green, and Congresswoman Sylvia Garcia.

Rev. Barber, as well as people across the country, and locally like Dr. Jennifer Wimbish, and Carol Mayo, have galvanized a multi-ethnic group of citizens who don’t have a problem with being uncomfortable for the benefit of others.

You have people who gather weekly, and even daily, from across the country; speaking out about injustices and the need to

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take care of the least of us.

We’re going to begin focusing on many of the issues in the resolution. I encourage you to join in on the calls, usually held on Moral Mondays. Maybe you can’t be there in person, but you can see when folks are leaving and give them some support.

You can also make cash contributions. No amount is too small. Log on to www.poorpeoplescampaign.org and find out how you can be that leader that many of us have been looking for. Then too, you don’t have to lead the charge, but you can help finance the effort that will ultimately benefit us all.

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Closing the Sickle Cell Gap

The American Red Cross has embarked on an initiative to increase the number of African American blood donors. The goal is to nearly triple the number of African American blood donors which will help eliminate the gap in the ability to meet hospital demand and provide the most compatible units for patients with sickle cell disease.

Baylor Scott & White Health and Wellness Center Juanita J Craft Recreation Center - Gym Blood Drive

Friday, June 18th 10:00 AM – 4:00 PM 4500 Spring Avenue Dallas, TX 75210 All presenting donors will receive a $10 Amazon Gift Card via email Visit www.redcrossblood.org and enter the sponsor code “bswhealth” call 1-800-RedCross You can also call 1-800-RedCross or scan QR code above

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Paul Quinn College partners with Vistra, Texas Trees Foundation

Paul Quinn College partnered with Vistra, and Texas Trees Foundation to plant 70 trees on the Paul Quinn Campus. The 70th tree planted.

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By Marva J. Sneed There are many changes coming to the oldest liberal arts HBCU west of the Mississippi, Paul Quinn College, and unveiling of new trees planted on the campus, last week.

Vistra partnered with the Texas Trees Foundation to plant 70 trees and install an irrigation infrastructure at the WE Over Me Farm, which aims to provide fresh, healthy food options to under-resourced communities in southern Dallas.

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Janette Monear, Vistra President and CFO Jim Burke, and Vistra Senior Director of Community Affairs Brad Watson participated in the Gold Shovel groundbreaking.

“The Paul Quinn College community is tremendously grateful for the investment that Vistra and the Texas Trees Foundation have made in our campus,” said Dr. Sorrell.

“Their generosity will change not just the landscape, but the quality of life for our students, staff, and the families of the Highland Hills community,” Mr. Burke said. “Our company is proud to play a role in enhancing this special campus and supporting an institution that works to inspire and challenge the next generation of Texas leaders.”

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President of Paul Quinn College Dr. Michael J. Sorrell, Vistra Senior Director of Community Affairs, Brad Watson, and Vistra President & CFO, Jim Burke.

Gold Shovel groundbreaking for the 70 trees planted by Vistra and Texas Trees Foundation on the Paul Quinn Campus.

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The ‘Groundhog Day’ Effect WAKE UP AND STAY WOKE DR. E. FAYE WILLIAMS, ESQ.

I have always been amazed by the immediate, long-lasting impact of the media on cultural/current events. This is the case with the 1993 movie “Groundhog Day.” Since its release, people have discussed the problem of being trapped in a metaphorical loop of activities from which they cannot escape. Even those who didn’t see the film are familiar with this theme.

Viewing the news, I was introduced to the case of Ronald Greene, which occurred in my home state of Louisiana in 2019. Greene was a 49-year-old Black male who was brought into the Glenwood Regional Medical Center emergency room by members of the Louisiana State Highway Patrol.

He was reported as the DOA victim of a single-car collision between his automobile and a tree. Injuries from his “accident” were fatal. The attending ER found this suspicious since, in addition to his bruised and broken body, there were found the two prongs of a police taser.

For two years, Louisiana State Police authorities withheld the body-camera videos of the event from public view. The Associated Press was able to obtain these videos, which disclosed another vicious, extra-legal attack on a Black man. The minimal damage to Greene’s vehicle belied the excuse of fatal injuries suffered in a crash.

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Greene (after being tasered in his vehicle): “I’m your brother! I’m scared! I’m scared!”

Trooper: “Look, you’re going to get it again if you don’t put your f—— hands behind your back!”

Trooper (referring to Greene): “Stupid motherf—er.”

The trooper can be heard saying that he “beat the ever-living f— out of him. … Choked him and everything else trying to get him under control. He was spitting blood everywhere, and all of a sudden he just went limp.”

The arrest of Greene is now the subject of a federal civil rights investigation. The refusal of the LSP to release body-camera footage for two years and inconsistencies in police reporting of events suggest cover-up.

According to AP, body-camera footage from in-custody deaths is typically released immediately. Troopers on the scene of the arrest first claimed that Greene died on impact after

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crashing his vehicle into a tree during a chase. State police later released a statement saying Greene struggled with troopers and died on the way to the hospital. Footage shows Greene raising his hands and surrendering to officers after crashing his SUV and apologizing for leading them on the chase.

After a two-year cover-up, there has been no justice for Mr. Greene’s family. According to the AP, the trooper in question died in a single-vehicle crash hours after learning he would be fired over the Greene case. Two other troopers remain, one awaiting administrative action.

In an overview, we should be reminded that the LSP motto is: “Courtesy, Loyalty, Service!” with a commitment to ensure the safety and security of the people in the state through enforcement, education and providing of other essential public safety services.

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preceded George Floyd’s, like Bill Murray in the film, we continue to wake up to a series of events that result in the deaths of Black men and women. The response of the administrators who are otherwise expected to render impartial judgments regarding the propriety of conduct or the fitness of officers to objectively enforce the laws seems, in many cases, to be turning a blind eye. As their psychopathic subordinates in the case of Andrew Brown Jr., when dealing with persons of color, they likewise consider complexion as a weapon, and no measure is too extreme in physically controlling these animals of color.

After all, who but a psychopath would treat another HUMAN BEING with the brutality we have recently witnessed?

Dr. E. Faye Williams is National President of the National Congress of Black Women and Host of “Wake Up and Stay Woke” on WPFW-FM 89.3.

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Does the arc bend toward justice: From Tulsa to George Floyd THE LAST WORD BY DR. JULIANNE MALVEAUX

Just one year ago, George Floyd was brutally murdered on the streets of Minneapolis at the hands of a rabid “law enforcement” officer who kept his knee to the defenseless man’s neck for nearly ten minutes. Now, President Biden will meet with the Floyd family, rallies and gatherings headlined by Rev. Al Sharpton and others have been held in Minneapolis, and all over the country, people are calling Mr. Floyd’s name. Yet the horror of his massacre, only captured because a 17year old child had courage, has not motivated federal lawmakers to pass the George Floyd Police Accountability Act. The challenge seems to be the concept of qualified immunity, the concept that prohibits so-called officers of the law from being held accountable for their actions.

Qualified immunity says that when police are doing “their duties,” they are not financially or otherwise responsible for anything they do. A knee to the neck. A brutal beating. A dog mauling. Whatever. These officers cross the line with no fear of reprisals because the law allows their brutality and, in some instances, encourages it. When repeat offenders are not fired, it signals other “bad apples” that brutal behavior myimessenger.com

is okay. And when politicians make excuses for inhuman behavior, it is a signal that too many are willing to look the other way.

White “criminal justice” has been looking the other way while Black people have been violated for far too long. Enslavement was terrible enough, but it is the post-enslavement period that is extremely concerning. Any Black person who succeeded economically was at risk because of economic envy. Any

community, put a knee on a neck and more.

Between Tulsa and Floyd, there are many atrocities and shameful history of legislative indifference. Anti-lynching legislation repeatedly failed until the 21st century, despite the documentation of at least 5000 lynchings. There were probably more.

Lynching was not considered a hate crime, just the way life was in these United States when Black lives were devalued since 1865. White people who

community that organized and thrived was at risk. Witness Wilmington, North Carolina, in 1896, or Tulsa, Oklahoma, in 1921. It has been a century since Black Wall Street burned, and survivors have not been made whole, nor has the community been made whole. While the arc of freedom leans toward justice, the century between Tulsa and George Floyd’s murder suggests that the lean is long and challenging and that our nation is stuck in its dehumanizing antiblackness, an attitude that would torch a

damaged other white people’s property could be tried and convicted for harming Black people until we were no longer property, just free.

Then we could be killed with impunity.

The arc that leans toward justice should lean toward reforming policing. It’s not just about finding the “bad apple” in the barrel, but about the bad barrel that may have one or two decent apples. The blue wall has silence so-called honorable police officers, but what kind of decency allows human beings to witness a

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murder and then lie about it?

The very structure of policing is flawed. It was flawed in Tulsa in 1921. Flawed in Minneapolis today.

White “sheriffs” deputized hundreds of rabid white men to destroy a community. They did it because they hated Black people. According to my dear departed friend, Dr. Olivia Hooker, a Tulsa survivor who died in 2019, white folks had been stockpiling weapons as soon as Black people had been amassing economic acumen. Economic envy is a corrosive thing.

It empowers inferior whites who have basked in the myth of supremacy to attack those who refute the myth. And it allows inferior whites to make excuses for white domestic terrorism, terrorism that reigned in our nation in the post-Reconstruction period.

We call the roll. George Floyd. Breona Taylor. Trevon Martin. Philando Castille. It would take a lifetime to call the roll. Tommy Moss, Ida B. Wells’ friend, Recy Taylor, so many more. It would take volumes to call the roll and recall the evil. One year ago, Derek Chauvin and his rancid posse massacred George Floyd. A century ago, sick white people incinerated a community. When will enough be enough? When will we toss the bad apples and move to justice? When will the George Floyd Justice in Policing Act pass?

Dr. Julianne Malveaux is an author, economist, and social commentator.

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If She was Still Alive...

QUIT PLAYIN’ VINCENT L. HALL …Your Great Grandmother would whip your ass! And if she didn’t, somebody else’s grandma might do it in her absence.

Comedian and Oscar award winner Monique, has a niche for grabbing the spotlight. She speaks boldly, and in some cases, out of order, but her citations are anything but ambivalent. This latest caveat set Black Twitter afire.

Monique was forthright with her admonishment of Black women who sport bonnets, headscarves, pajamas, and slippers in airports and other public places.

“When did we stop having pride in ourselves,” she asked.

“When did we stop asking if we were presentable?”

The controversial celebrity admitted that being fully “made up” in heels was not an expectation. Black Twitter had very little sympathy. Most of those were vociferous in their opposition.

However, all of the comments were generational.

When police shootings began to go viral on social media, America learned about “The Talk.”

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man or woman is paramount, it is just one of the “talks” most of us got.

Another part of “The Talk” prior to the Millennials and Gen Z, was that we have to be twice as good as White folks at everything just to get even, much less ahead.

Monique’s critique is a throwback to that era, and it has some merit.

Whenever we mentor young Black men, the subject of “presentation” comes up. Everyone has the freedom to choose. You just gotta be ready for the consequences.

The truth is that what White folks call wardrobes are more akin to costumes to Black people. We still can’t escape 400 years of racist misnomers and misrepresentations.

A Black man in a suit is a preacher. That same Black man in a tracksuit and tennis shoes is either a “star athlete” or a “jive-ass thug.” It depends on the quality of the outfit.

Monique was not alone in decrying some of the latest trends.

The Wall Street Journal released a report two years ago that is parallel.

“While attending Mass at the University of Notre Dame last fall, Maryann White saw something that horrified her: leggings.

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short tops, were sitting directly in front of her and her family.

“I thought of all the other men around and behind us who couldn’t help but see their behinds,” the self-described Catholic mother of four sons wrote in a letter to the editor that was published by the Observer, Notre Dame’s student newspaper, on Monday.

“My sons know better than to ogle a woman’s body — certainly when I’m around (and hopefully, also when I’m not).

They didn’t stare, and they didn’t comment afterward. But you couldn’t help but see those blackly naked rear ends. I didn’t want to see them — but they were unavoidable. How much more difficult for young guys to ignore them.”

Maryann White and Monique are as far apart as they are close. Their call for a “standard” sounds archaic to Millennials, but it’s a Godsend to Baby Boomers. The “standard” in dress and demeanor is now in the cold war stage, but it could be warming up.

A local restaurant has some warnings on its website for potential patrons.

“ON OUR DRESS CODE: We consider hats, tank tops, flip flops, and team athletic attire too casual for our restaurant. If you’d like to wear a hat in our bar, we ask that it be worn traditionally.”

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Their website adds a few more guidelines, and this was one item that caught my eye.

“To minimize distractions to other guests, please take cell phone conversations out of seated areas, set devices to silent, and limit the use of laptops or tablets.”

Their warnings are wildly successful. It keeps out the people they want out and draws in the types of people they want.

And frankly, Scarlet, I’m tired of hearing your bullshit phone conversations while I try to drown the day’s pain with a Margarita!

My daughters discussed this issue with me, and we agreed to disagree. It was a respectful dialogue. My argument is that Black America is 12% of the total population and dwindling.

Given our history of oppression and a permanent minority status, we may need to talk.

Quit Playin’, if Grandmother saw you in that airport, she would “pick a switch” just right for your derriere!

Vincent L. Hall is an author, activist, and award-winning columnist.

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A No-Win Situation FAITHFUL UTTERANCES

BY DR. FROSWA BOOKER-DREW

Many of us have someone that we know impacted by incarceration.

According to the NAACP Criminal Justice Toolkit, “There are 3 million people in jail and prison today, far outpacing population growth and crime.” The number of individuals incarcerated in the US increased from 1980 to 2015 approximately from 500,000 to 2.2 million.

As we celebrate Father’s Day, it is important to note the disproportionate number of Black men that are no longer in our communities.

Data paints a picture of the significant impact of incarceration in our community: • African Americans are incarcerated at more than 5 times the rate of whites.

• Black Americans remain far more likely than their Hispanic and white counterparts to be in prison. The Black imprisonment rate at the end of 2018 was nearly twice the rate among Hispanics and more than five times the rate among whites.

• Black men are especially likely to be imprisoned.

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men. The rate was even higher among black men in certain age groups: Among those ages 35 to 39, for example, about one-in-20 Black men were in state or federal prison in 2018.

This issue is very personal for me. One of my dear childhood friends is currently serving time in a trustee camp in Texas. Prior to sentencing, he was a dad involved in his daughter’s life.

Between splitting responsibilities with her mother, he was the dad that surprised her and friends at lunch; combed her hair seeking friends’ advice on what to do; and took trips to sporting events and book signings to expose her to new experiences.

Omar has always tried to be there for his daughter. As much as we are impacted by this loss of someone who is funny, smart, and caring; the real loss is for his pre-teen daughter. He’s very aware of the decision he made.

He knows and owns his missteps, and choices. Like many other Black men who are incarcerated and lose their freedom, their children experience a major loss as well.

The impact of incarceration can be devastating for children. “One in nine Black children has had a parent in prison.” “Having a parent in prison can have an impact on a child’s mental health, social behavior, and educational prospects.

Children of incarcerated parents may

also be more likely to have faced other adverse childhood experiences.”

The loved ones are also hit hard by exorbitant costs. The cost of commissary items along with correspondence through fee-paying platforms like JPay to send correspondence or make phone calls.

According to the New York Times, The Prison Policy Initiative “estimates that families spend $2.9 billion a year on commissary accounts and phone calls.

Families are also often responsible for paying court fees, restitution and fines.

According to a 2015 report by the Ella Baker Center for Human Rights, the average family paid roughly $13,000 in fines and fees.”

Economic hardship isn’t the only cost partners experience.

Depression and health issues are also common for loved ones. In addition, our community misses out on realized potential—we lose workers which equates to individuals that can contribute to paying taxes. We lose men who could be a part of the community and we suffer.

“More than one out of every six Black men who today should be between 25 and 54 years old have disappeared from daily life. Incarceration and early deaths are the main drivers behind their absence.”

It has been amazing to witness that despite his situation, Omar has continued to forge a

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relationship with his daughter. He calls her daily, goes over her homework and even teaches her about the Bible. Yet, how many can to continue relationships with calls that can be almost $2 per 30-minute call? Although this doesn’t seem expensive, over the course of time, it adds up.

Fathers are important.

My father, grandfather, uncle, and others have been instrumental in my growth and development. I can’t imagine my life without them.

Research affirms this: “A father’s increased involvement with the child is associated with a range of positive outcomes for the child: fewer behavioral issues, fewer psychological issues and enhanced cognitive development.”

Even with no visits allowed in the last 15 months, there are dads trying to stay connected as much as possiblewhile behind bars.

This Father’s Day, let’s not forget those dads who may not be physically present with their children but are doing what they can to be in their lives.

Dr. Froswa’ Booker-Drew is the Founder and CEO of Soulstice Consultancy, specializing as a Partnership Broker and Leadership Expert for companies and organizations to thrive with measurable and meaningful impact. She also is the VP of Community Affairs and Strategic Alliances for the State Fair of Texas.

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HAPPY JUNETEENTH Thanks Miss Opal!

On Thursday, June 18, 2021, President Biden signed legislation making Juneteenth, which commemorates the end of slavery in the United States, a federal holiday. The measure was passed in the House and Senate with bipartisan support.

Happy Father’s Day!

To very special men Like Joseph Smith

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Scrub Ball Weekend to educate, recognize, honor unspoken heroes in healthcare - Karen Cherry, CEO, Cherry Foundation - Donnie Payne, CAO, SIPS Consults • Scrub Ball Awards Gala Hosted by Rudy Rush - Featuring Guest Speaker: Sylvia Trent Adams, Senior Vice President and Chief Strategy Officer, University of North Texas Health Science Center at Fort Worth - Award categories include:

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A comedy show, industry speakers, workshops and awards program highlight the three-day Scrub Ball event designed to educate, recognize, and honor unspoken employees in the healthcare industry June 17-19, 2021, at the Sheraton Dallas Hotel in downtown Dallas.

Dallas Mayor Eric Johnson has proclaimed the three-day event as Scrub Ball Weekend in honor of the healthcare workers.

Scrub Ball is being presented by the Cherry Foundation in collaboration with SIPS Consults and CS Assist.

The purpose is to recognize members of the healthcare community that are seldom recognized, with an emphasis on their importance to the industry.

“We are very thankful for the Mayor to recognize our efforts. We just saw a need to expand the appreciation and education for those that are often overlooked, and this is our way of thanking them.” said Karen Cherry, founder of the nonprofit foundation bearing her name.

The event is offering Continuing Education Units (CEU) to workers, seminars, workshops, scholarships, and an awards gala. Awards will

be given out in five categories that acknowledge healthcare workers and employees of hospitals, nursing homes, and clinics.

A snapshot of the weekend:

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Thursday • Registration • Opening Reception Friday • Greetings - Deronda Lewis, Scrub Ball Chair - Karen Cherry, Cherry Foundation -City, County & State Elected Officials • Sessions - Sharyn Combs – An interactive presentation on communication and professionalism - Anthony Bondon – The Professional Development of Frontline SPD Staff - Damien Berg – Attitude is Everything - Jamelle Ross – Not Just Pots and Pans; It’s a Process - Sharon Greene-Golden – Leading Outside the Boundaries: A Look at Sterilization Processes in “Bangladesh and Tanzania” • Comedy for Healthcare Heroes Hosted

by Rudy Rush Saturday • Plenary Session – Future Standards of Healthcare in a Changing Society - Round table discussion moderated by Lawayne Perkins and Sharyn Combs featuring: - Toya White, Chief Operating and Nursing Officer, Texas Health Presbyterian Hospital, Kaufman - Akiah Griffin, Manager, Talent Acquisition Sourcing, Community, Collegiate & Diversity Talent Initiatives, Parkland Hospital

VIVIEN THOMAS AWARD: Dr. Vivien Theodore Thomas was born in Lake Providence, Louisiana in 1910. In an era when institutional racism was the norm, Thomas was classified, and paid, as a janitor, even though by the mid-1930s he was doing the work of a postdoctoral researcher.

This award will honor an entry level employee that through hard work and determination worked their way through the ranks and is today considered a leader in the health care field.

PEER AWARD: An employee who works to create broader understanding of the workplace, reduce workplace tensions and frustrations, and helps develop effective peer support roles.

Selected by their peers for teamwork, attitude, attendance, and willingness to be a key Team Player.

UNSUNG CHAMPION AWARD: Someone or something that provides a great benefit, has done incredibly good work has performed some outstanding deed or functions, but has not received the credit or recognition they deserve.

Highlights the person that always saves the day, steps up when needed, comes to work when others do not.

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SCRUB B. AWARD: An employee that brings a smile to everyone on the team, always works to boosts team morale. Their consistent positive attitude makes a huge difference for the team. They are the first to volunteer and just having them on the team makes all the difference.

THE CHERRY HEALTHCARE HEART AWARD: An outstanding leader who is often recognized as the problem solver. They understand the need for policies and regulations and work hard to comply.

Employee displays strong work ethics, are trustworthy, reliable, and admirable. They offer critical thinking and interpersonal communication skills that often eliminates issues before they occur.

Registration is limited and may be purchased online through www.scrubball.org.

“We are bringing all of the different elements of what is important in the healthcare industry to one special time and place on an annual basis,” said Scrub Ball Chair Deronda Lewis, who added that the 2022 event will be held at the Kay Bailey Hutchinson Convention Center in partnership with the City of Dallas.

Contributing partners of the Scrub Ball include: WFAA TV, Texas Metro News, Estrella Media, Urban One, SIPS Consults, CS Assist, BeliMed Infection Control, City of Dallas, Rightfit Network Solutions, Parkland Hospital, Visit Dallas and MedWell Solutions.

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Jihad Hassan Muhammad (c) shown here with sons.

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After the passing of his wife Jihad Hassan overcomes pain, then perseveres raising his children and building business

By DAMON L. HILL Texas Metro News

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Jihad Hassan Muhammad was enjoying a joyous life, as a husband, father, contributing editor for The Final Call newspaper and media nationally, in addition to locally, the managing editor for one of DallasFort Worth’s major Black news outlets; when tragedy struck him.

It would take years for him to recover from the devastating blow to his family.

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I truly lost my soulmate,” he recalled. “We had so much faith that she would survive.

My faith in God was never shattered, I just asked Him ‘Why, what do you want the children, me, the family, anyone to learn from such pain?’”

His wife Haziqah passed seven years ago of a sudden condition called a venous thrombosis, essentially a blood clot residing in her brain. She was also pregnant at the time.

“On March 10, 2014 my family and I were struck with a staggering blow, a

blow that some never recover from, the blow of death. My friend and beloved wife had passed. Her physical form just existed as a shell now, and she was no longer alive in that form. I would never hold her again. I would never pray with her again, as we loved to start our day doing. The children would never see their mother again. They would never feel her comfort, her soft kiss, her gentle hugs and encouragement, her cooking their favorite meals, and sewing them their myimessenger.com

garments, all that was over now.”

Though therapeutic, Jihad Muhammad had much to struggle through, and he is not ashamed to say things got really trying for him after Haziqah.

“I was left with four children. They are mine through Haziqah, yet their father of blood relation, so to speak, was Haziqah’s first husband, and my children from previous marriage. I really wondered sometime how would I cope,” recalled Muhammad.

As he reflects, joy came over him.

“It was like a Black sitcom at his house. I was so thankful and full of gratitude of how all my children got along.

You would think two of my youngest sons were twins, they love each other so, and don’t have the same mother or father. The girls were great with each other as well,” said Muhammad.

Regardless, Muhammad’s life still began to spiral, eating his way through the pain.

He gained more and more weight. “Food had become my drug of choice. I have never been high or drunk, since I was introduced to Islam from The Hon. Min. Louis Farrakhan at the age of 16, the I became a Muslim and never turned back, he declared. “So I was not going to cop some weed, crack, or get drunk to

Cover of Muhammad’s book chronicling the loss of his wife Credit: courtesy © 2014 MASQ Media Group

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Muhammad and daughter, Nailah

deal with my pain, but food is natural. It snuck up on me, pretty soon I was getting high on food.”

He continued to struggle for years with his food addiction, until COVID-19 awakened in him how through pre-existing conditions; deaths have become widespread in the Black community.

“I had to do something.

Haziqah is always with me in spirit, she would not have wanted this for me. My son, who reflects his mother’s spirit so much, began to get on me, saying dad you gotta do something about your weight. I heard him.”

Muhammad has since lost 100 lbs, starting his weight loss journey in July of 2020.

He has also started a successful business selling the supplement he created which helped him lose his weight, That his children are accomplishing well, despite the tragic loss of their mother.

“A salutatorian, to one teaching at an elementary

Ad for That Gud Elixir, Muhammad’s health supplement displaying his weight loss journey

school, several in college, great high school students and more, their mother would be so proud of them,” said Muhammad.

Jihad says he is in one of the more gleeful stages of his

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life. He is still broadcasting #LiveFromSingleBlackFatherhood, he’s keeping the weight off, and he’s continuing to be a strong father figure for his children and their friends.

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Texas Democrats meet with Vice President Harris

Vice President Kamala Harris talks with Texas delegation

A delegation of Democratic lawmakers met with Vice President Kamala Harris Wednesday.

Texas Democratic Chair Gilberto Hinojosa issued the following statement after the historic meeting, “It is an honor to see our state Democratic leaders meet with Vice President Kamala Harris today to discuss preserving, protecting, and expanding voting rights in Texas. Just a few weeks ago, our Democratic state representatives showed the country what courage and leadership look like as they broke quorum to June 18, 2021

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stop the worst assault on voting rights in the state since Jim Crow.

“What Republicans have attempted in Texas is the prime example of why we need federal legislation protecting voting rights and our democracy, and we are thrilled that our legislators were able to meet with the Vice President and national leaders this week in D.C. to discuss how urgent the need is for federal legislation like the For the People Act. The meeting, coming on the heels of what some democratic

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legislators referred to as a “tumultuous and very stressful” legislative session, centered on the Texas Democrats who stood up against a bill that would strip away Texans’ right to vote.

Rep. Ron Reynolds called the session, “the worst one I have experienced in my six terms.”

“It is so crucial that we stick together,” he said.

Former State Sen. Rodney Ellis, concurred, also referring to the session as “vitriolic and mean-spirited” as he expressed his support of the legislators who

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walked out of the session. “Keep on walking and we are going to support you!”

“Our fight is not over. Governor Abbott and Texas Republicans continue to push the passage of legislation that restricts our access and ability to vote in free and fair elections across the state,” said Mr. Hinojosa. “Texas cannot afford to wait much longer for federal action: the Governor has threatened to call legislators back to Austin to push his extreme, anti-democracy agenda.” myimessenger.com

IN MEMORIAM

Remembering

Emmanuel (Manny) J. Curet (July 28, 1988 - June 8, 2021)

Emmanuel (Manny) J. Curet died on June 8, 2021 in Memorial Hospital West on Flamingo Road and Pembroke Pines, Fl. He is preceded in death by his Maternal Grandparents, Brother and Sister Woods; and his Paternal Grandparents Siria Zenaide Geigel Andino Curet and Juan Curet Alvarez.

Emmanuel is survived by: his only Daughter, Emani Z. Curet; his Brothers E’Douard V.S. (Britney) Curet and Stewart J. Curet; his loving Parents, Nadrina C. H. and Stewart Curet; two half sisters Shonta (Rashad) Crawford and Kyiera R. Preston; three loving Aunts: Sharvetta (George) Rahming, Rosette (Darryl) Dunnom and Ivette Z. Curet Geigel of Puerto Rico; three Uncles, Minister Bernard (Clasena) Woods Sr., Dashan Woods, and Juan (a) Curet Jr. of Puerto Rico; and a host of sorrowing relatives; great aunts and uncles; cousins; many generations deep; friends and co-workers of the UPS Family.

Viewing: Friday, June 18, 2021 Hadley Davis Funeral Home 16505 NW 27th Avenue Miami Gardens, FL 33054 2-5p.m.

Services: Saturday, June 19, 2021 Love Fellowship Ministries COGOP 2245 West Bunche Park Drive Opa Locka, FL 33054 10a.m. Sharp!

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Erica Campbell

ERICA CAMPBELL THAT CELEBRITY INTERVIEW

BY VALDER BEEBE

Returning to the Valder Beebe Show studio is GrammyWinner Erica Campbell. Erica’s previous appearance was with her sister Tina as the group Mary Mary. Now, Erica Campbell has released two solo albums as well as seven albums with her sister. Her debut solo album “Help” won a 2015 Grammy Award for Best Gospel Album as well as eight Stellar Awards.

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One. She has a new album and song due out soon and the duo, Mary Mary is often credited for broadening the fan base of contemporary gospel in the 2000s by introducing elements of soul music and hip hop.

Their first album, Thankful (Mary Mary Album) in May 2000, which would go on to win the Grammy Award for Best Contemporary Soul Gospel Album, and a second single, “I Sings.” Peaking at #1 on the Gospel album chart and at #59 of the overall Top 200 chart, Thankful was certified Platinum for sales of 1 million copies in the USA. Both singles were also hits in the UK and Europe, and to this day remain popular with Christian youths in the US, Latin America, and Europe. Erica

Campbell publicists provided text in conjunction with the Valder Beebe Show VBS: You co-hosted Urban One Honors in a special night of TV commemorating Black excellence - from Voting Rights and Investigative Journalism, to Health Equality and Businesswomen breaking the glass ceiling.

EC: Yes, I am so honored that I had the opportunity to co-host with Roland Martin for Urban One. Urban One Honors celebrates woman leading the change in its annual commemoration of Black excellence. This year’s tribute show shines a light on the exemplary accomplishments of African American women in

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business, media, health, and politics - leading to impactful change within the Black community.

VBS: Will we be getting a new Mary Mary album any time soon or will you and Tina continue to focus on solo projects?

EC: There are actually two new Mary Mary songs coming this year. Tina and I will continue to ………………

Erica Campbell complete interview……

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BIG MAMA SAID,

“What About Me? Who are the betrayers of Juneteenth today?

THE BLACK CARD BY TERRY ALLEN

Many of us have had to ask leadership, “What about me” and some of our leadership charade around as ‘good trouble but come clearly operate’ as Judas’. Big Mama said, Ask and receive, and know who are the ones we can and must trust. She told me to determine with conviction whose tools must be used to measure the words and the actions of everyone, including those in leadership. Big Mama told all her children at all times when we celebrate a holiday celebrate trust first\m then celebrate the role that fits you.

George Floyd’s murder sparked global solidarity protests in more than 50 countries and carried us all to a social justice uprising we can now call a “new day dawning” on many “WOKE” issues. Now what was considered a ‘limited but necessary” state holiday, Juneteenth is now becoming a national cry for the commemoration of delayed freedom.

But is it a celebration or a commemoration or both?

Lucille “Big Mama” Allen said, “Look to Jesus and hope He shows up in the middle of our betrayers.” It is well known that Jesus was in full control of everyone involved in His crucifixion, down to June 18, 2021

the timing of their involvement. He knew even Judas would betray him. And another would deny their relationship when under pressure.

Betrayers are now embracing Juneteenth.

I am grateful for Lucille “Big Mama” Allen. She left me with many wisdom jewels. So we need to look in the mirror when we speak of betrayal and get our own house in order. So on Father’s Day and Juneteenth, we need another

Day we must ensure that Iron sharpen Irons– as we come to celebrate Fathers’ Day and Juneteenth, we must remove the betrayers and make measurable steps to create authenticity. Our ancestors expect us to do the right thing.

Big Mama, I hope I get this right!

Here’s my 5 step “What About Me” plan to celebrate the historical Juneteenth AND prevent a future Juneteenth;

NEW DAY DAWNING. We have to lean on Leadership and you, our Community, to do the right thing. City Men Cook has lent the power of the social pen to drive attention, traffic and revenue to Black owned restaurants and online retailers during this dual holiday weekend.

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1. Celebrate the history of Juneteenth. It is the oldest nationally celebrated commemoration of the ending of slavery in the United States.

2. Tell the truth about the date and why it took so long. I.e., On June 19, 1865, a Union General rode into Galveston, Texas to an-

nounce that the Civil War had ended, and slaves had been freed. Southern betrayers had kept the news to themselves until Union armies’ officially announced the news.

3. Make Juneteenth be an inclusive holiday to mark the delayed injustice and structured opposition to freedom, the denial of 40 acres and a mule as you also infusive a conversation on reparations.

4. Do not romanticize disinformation that the Civil war was not about ending/ preserving slavery. Do not let betrayers execute an event that show sympathetic support of the enslavers.

5. Lastly, do not let your Juneteenth event be solely about dancing, red sodas and watermelon. Let it be about our amazing cuisine, rich culture and delayed emancipation.

My event, City Men Cook will focus on Black Owned Businesses for this dual holiday. Join us at the paper and “do the right thing” and make sure we keep ‘_what about me’ _top of mind for Juneteenth and Father’s Day. Email me at terryallennr@ gmail.com if you want to talk about the holiday.

Terry Allen is an award-winning multi-media journalist and owner of 1016 Media.

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Virtual and liVe Community Calendar

BLACK MUSIC MONTH MEN’S HEALTH MONTH HAPPY PRIDE MONTH June 17-20

Scrub Ball Honoring Unspoken Heroes. Speakers: Karen Cherry, Sharon Green Golden, Lawayne Perkins. Sheraton Hotel Dallas, 400 Olive St. Info@scrubball.org.

June 17 Ultimate Dads Give-A-Way for Father’s Day. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Center 2922 MLK Blvd. Winners pick up at the Juneteenth festivities. Reg: ultimate-dads.eventbrite.com.

Celebration of Legends Benefit Concert Live on: Facebook. com/AARP Black Community. 6:30-9 pm. CDT. Richard Wright Juneteenth Reading Circle. Chicago Public Library 6-7:30 pm. CDT. Facebook.com/@chipublib.

Celebration of Legends Benefit Concert. Host AARP Black Community and National Museum of African American Music Facebook Live: @AARPBlackCommunity. 6:30 -9 pm. CDT. NAACP Community Walkathon. Host NAACP Collin County Branch #6165 at Riders Field 7300 Roughriders Trail, Frisco.

6:30 pm. Info: https://www.collincountynaacp.org/

June 18-20 Juneteenth at the Meyerson -Celebration of Freedom and Diversity. Meyerson Symphony Center 2301 Flora St. 6-18 7:30 pm./ 6-19 7:30 pm./ 6-20 2:30 pm. Tickets: bit.ly/35om5jT.

JUNE 18 From Marva with Love with Marva Sneed.

11 am -1 pm. CDT, Facebook Live/@TexasMetroNews, and BlogTalkRadio.com. Join the conversation at 646-200-0459.

KKMS Presents the 8th Annual Juneteenth Experience, 1414 Dragon St. 10 pm– 2:30 am CDT. Frisco’s Music on the Square Summer Concert Series on Frisco Square, 6102 Frisco Square Blvd. Feat: 6:30-8 pm.

Marvin Sapp Livestream Concert from Colorado Springs. milkrecordswinterresidencyonlineevent.

Juneteenth Celebration, Dalworth Recreation Center 2012 Spikes St. Grand Prairie. For more info, call Monte Whetstone at 972-237-4760.

June 19 Dallas Juneteenth Freedom Fest 2021. Host Konscious Konnect, The Streets and Ki Walk. Pan African Connection, 4466 S. Marsalis Ave. 1-7 pm. info@freethestreets.org. iVIBE, Nation Hair Beauty & Wellness Expo. Fair Park 3809 Grand Ave. Fair Park Grand Place Building. 12-8 pm. ivibenationexpo.com.

Inaugural Juneteenth Celebration and Festival by The Elite News and Blair Foundation. The Parade starts at William Blair Jr. Park and ends at Fair Park. 7 am.

2021 Juneteenth FTW Community Festival, 395 Purcey St. Ft. Worth. 3-9 pm. Tickets: bit.ly/3eOviaO. Understanding Juneteenth by Walk On The River and Melaneyes Media. 7 pm. CDT. Tickets: https://bit.ly/3wn9Gbo. SPLATTER PAINTING for Families! 3880 Irving Mall 12- 4pm.

Tickets: https://bit.ly/3wRssI9.

Juneteenth Celebration at the African American Museum 3536 Grand Ave. With W. Marvin Dulaney and feat: Don and Jocelyn Pinkard 12-5 pm. Tickets: Eventbrite.com.

Ladies Love R&B: Joe, Ginuwine, Case, Adina Howard. 7 pm.

CDT RSVP & Tickets: https://www.bandsintowntv.xyz/ Music in the Park at the Valley Ridge Park 2850 Parkridge Dr. .

8-9:30 pm. cedarhilltx.com/music.

Calvin Richardson Arlington Juneteenth Festival by Tedrick Thurmond, 1010 Collins Event Center 8pm-1 am. Tickets: https://bit.ly/2RPh7tg.

4th Annual Creations of Fashion for A Cause. Founder of Keeping Families Connected, Letitia Scott Jackson. Emcee Mendeecees Harris, Frontiers of Flight Museum 6911 Lemmon Ave. Dallas. 6 pm. Tickets: https://bit.ly/3xie6Rk.

Juneteenth at UTA 701 S Nedderman Dr, Arlington, at 11:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. in Brazos Park on the UTA campus. Food and entertainment. Free. https://bit.ly/3pVzZDD. Cities of Arlington, Fort Worth and Tarrant County Juneteenth observances. Fort Worth’s legendary Opal Lee for her annual 2.5-mile walk for freedom. https://www.juneteenthftw.com/opals-walk 10 am.

Juneteenth FTW Community Festival 395 Purcey St. Fort Worth 3-9 pm. Info: https://bit.ly/3iFmTZD. Annual Juneteenth Ft. Worth Celebration, hosted by: Unity Unlimited, Inc. Lenora Rolla Heritage Center Museum, 1020 East Humbolt, 10 am-2pm. https://bit.ly/3iFmTZD. Louapalooza Pre-Party, Main Street Visitor Center- Downtown 508 Main Street, Fort Worth 4-6 pm Free. https://bit. ly/3iFmTZD. Mansfield’s Juneteenth Celebration is back for 2021! At Mansfield ISD Center for the Performing Arts 1110 W Debbie Ln, Mansfield. 10 am-4:30 pm. https://bit.ly/3xo9ngZ. Juneteenth Parade City Hall 300 West Main St. Grand Prairie, Parade line up begins at City Hall and ends at Tyre Park, 2327 Tyre St. 972-237-4760. https://bit.ly/35pxMqE. 10 am.

Juneteenth Story Time with Grand Prairie Library. 11am.

Via Zoom. CALL Grand Prairie Library for more info and to register. 972-237-5700.

JUNE 20 Happy Father’s Day

The Connection For Positive Priorities And Common Sense with Debra Brown-Sturns.

On Facebook.com/@TexasMetroNews & BlogTalkRadio.com. 12-2 pm. Join in 646200-0459.

Happy Birthday to Publisher/Editor Cheryl Smith

Dallas Black Dance Theatre. Virtual at: https://www.facebook.com/Artspgparks/live from 8 -9 pm. CDT.

Happy Birthday to Jamille Bradford

Best Southwest Juneteenth Celebration at Grimes Park, 501 E. Wintergreen Rd. DeSoto. 6-10 pm. Tickets: bit.ly/3v2aFwt.

The World According to Drew, with Andrew Whigham, III on BlogTalkRadio.com 8-10 am. Join in at 646200-0459.

Hip-Hop Orchestra Juneteenth Online Performance! Host: Thee Phantom & The Illharmonic Orchestra, Andrea Coln and Jeffrey M McNeill. Tickets: https://bit.ly/2TYjTwZ. 5-7 pm. CDT. Celebrate Hall of Fame Inductee Drew Pearson at UPTOWN! 2800 W Mockingbird Ln, Dallas, 11am-1 pm.

BLKFreedom: A JUNETEENTH Virtual Commemoration. By National Civil Rights Museum, civilrightsmuseum.org. 11 am.

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Together We Vaccinate by Project Unity. Get Vaccinated at Cliff Temple Baptist Church 125 Sunset Ave. Dallas. 9 am-2 pm.

Reg: www.ProjectUnity.net/Together-We-Vaccinate.

American Red Cross Blood Donors and Diversity blood drives, in partnership with Carol’s Promise Sickle Cell Foundation 711 Highlander Blvd, Arlington, 10 am-4 pm. https:// www.carolspromise.org/ - Denton in partnership with Butterflies Second Chances Foundation, MLK Rec Center 1200 Wilson St., Denton. 10 am–4 pm. Info: https://www.redcross.org/ - Fort Worth, Northpark YMCA 9100 N. Beach St., Keller. 10 am–4 pm. Info: https://www.redcross.org/ Nessa’s Southern Delite Grand Opening. “Southern” Restaurant on Ft. Worth’s Eastside, 1201 Oakland Blvd. at 2 pm.

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A Taste of The South Inc. Presents City Men Cook. By Terry Allen. The Celebration of Men, Women and Community. Go To www.citymencook.com and join the conversation.

June 21 Moral Monday: National Poor People’s Assembly: A National Moral Revival. RSVP: 3rdreconstruction.org. 4:30 pm. CDT.

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THE DOC SHEP SPEAKS SHOW! 11 am. CST on Facebook Live/@TexasMetroNews, @fnsconsulting & You Tube @docshepspeaks.

June 23 I Was Just Thinking with Norma Adams-Wade. 11 am -1 pm. CST On Facebook Live/@TexasMetroNews and BlogTalkRadio. com. Join the conversation at 646-200-0459.

Ask Dr. Amerson with Dr. Linda Amerson.12 pm. CST @DFWiRadio.com, and Live on Facebook @DrLindaAmerson.

Meet Our Recruiters- Military Community Hiring Event/ Info Session. Host PAE. Online at: app.brazenconnect.com. 12 pm CDT. Questions? Contact Jobs@PAE.COM. Summertime Conversation on “Feeling Good” Sonic Curation of Happiness via Black Music. Facebook.com/@AuburnAvenueResearchLibrary. 4 pm.

Together We Dine, Virtually - Contact Together We Can to Reg: www.togetherwecan.one/ 5:30-7 pm CDT. Via Zoom.

June 24-27 Downtown Ennis Carnival, 101 NW Main St, Ennis, 5-10 pm.

Enjoy rides, games, food and fun! https://ennistx.com/downtown/the-vision.

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Happy Birthday to Marva J. Sneed Artist Love Thursdays At One Love Lounge, 2315 S. Cooper St. Arlington 8-11 pm. Tickets: Eventbrite.com.

June 25 From Marva with Love, with Marva Sneed. 11 am -1 pm.

CST, Fridays on Facebook Live/@TexasMetroNews, and BlogTalkRadio.com. Join the conversation at 646-200-0459.

Verna’s H.E.L.P. Foundation 6th Annual Living Legends Ecumenical & Cultural Prayer Hour, Thanks-Giving Square.

Host Willie Mae McIver. 12-2 pm. vernashelpfoundation.org.

Plant Based Cooking with Chef Kim! Host AARP Alabama.

11-11:30 am CDT at facebook.com/alabama.aarp.

BLACK LIVES MATTER

2nd Annual Aspiring Young Lawyers Summer Camp hosted

by The L. Clifford Davis Legal Association. Deadline to reg. 6-3021 at https://bit.ly/3xrmxK3.

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Are you a real Friend?

ASK ALMA

BY ALMA GILL

Dear Alma, A couple of months ago a real friendly woman moved into the condo across the hall. She and I hit it off right away. We went shopping and to lunch together. We even went to a music concert and had a real fun time, or so I thought. All of a sudden, she just stopped calling, texting, visiting and really just being my friend. I don’t know what happen. We still speak. She’ll give me a big wave across the parking lot or when I see her in the hall, she seems generally glad to see me, but we just

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don’t hang out anymore. I’m not sure what happened. I really like her and I want to be her friend. What do you think I should do to get her to talk to me and hang out again?

Signed, Lost My Running Buddy Dear Lost My Running Buddy, Well, hmmm Sugar Plum, did you do something to piss her off or hurt her feelings?

Could you possibly have said something that was a bit harsh? Maybe you gave your opinion on a particular subject that didn’t sit well with her. Or, could it be, she just don’t like you?

Have you ever started a new friendship and partway down the loop you think, “you know what, I don’t really like

this person all that much?”

Usually it takes a run around the romper room to learn the true personality of a person.

Most folks start out sane and with good intentions, spoon feeding you what’s whole and wholesome about them. They seem to be on the up and up, until, Lord have mercy, six months later, here she comes outta nowhere, drowning in red wine, Missy Super Rachet.

You’re totally blindsided like when you innocently pick up a hitchhiker who has an ax, or a hatchet, LOL, I couldn’t resist. This woman could be Lucy Looneybird relocating from Louisiana, you don’t know.

Anyhow, let it go. Evidently, ya’ll ain’t got the same flow!

You can’t make somebody like you nor should you try.

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If she decided you were not someone she’d like to add to her friends list, so be it, trust her judgment. She knows herself better than you and she’s had time to peep your hold card. Trust me when I say you’re all the better for it.

It’s best to find out up front who’s not friend material, than to waste time cooking in a frying pan of foolishness.

Great friendships that are worthwhile grow like a beautiful wisteria vine, you couldn’t stop it if you tried, nor would you want to.

Alma Alma Gill’s newsroom experience spans more than 25 years, including various roles at USA Today, Newsday and the Washington Post. Email questions to: alwaysaskalma@gmail.com. Follow her on Facebook at “Ask Alma” and twitter @almaaskalma.

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IN THE HEIGHTS IS A MUST SEE AT THE MOVIES BY HOLLYWOOD HERNANDEZ

IN THE HEIGHTS is currently in theaters and also showing on HBO/Max. It’s a very contemporary musical with amazing music and very sharply choreographed dance scenes. The movie is set in a Dominican neighborhood in Washington Heights, a Manhattan community in New York City.

Directed by John M. Chu, who was also at the helm of the movie CRAZY, RICH ASIANS; IN THE HEIGHTS was interesting and just as he did in that movie IN THE HEIGHTS does a fantastic job of portraying the community and the culture of the Dominican community.

It’s a rare, positive portrayal of Latino people who come to America, work hard and pur-

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sue their dreams.

The movie stars Anthony Ramos as Usnavi, a bodega store owner who runs the store with his younger cousin (Gregory Diaz IV).

The movie hits the ground running with a song and dance number from Usnavi who explains in song his situation in the neighborhood.

The movie is filled with great songs performed by the very talented cast.

IN THE HEIGHTS is reminiscent of the musical WEST SIDE STORY but instead of Anglos in dark skin makeup the cast is filled with some fantastic Latino actors who are all passionate about their roles in the movie and it really shows. IN THE HEIGHTS is a very uplifting story.

My favorite line in the movie, which also represents the film is, “we are not powerless, we are powerful.”

Usnavi, while connected to his community in Washing-

ton Heights, dreams of the island paradise where he grew up, The Dominican Republic.

He saves his money and plans to return there one day.

IN THE HEIGHTS is a fantastic movie that will have you dancing in your seat and the songs will stick in your head for a long while after the movie has ended.

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roles they present. (There wasn’t a single criminal in this movie!)

The movie is rated PG-13 with a run time of 2 hours and 33 minutes (which goes by really quickly). I cannot say enough good things about this movie. I loved it!

On my “Hollywood Popcorn Scale” I give IN THE HEIGHTS my highest possible rating, a JUMBO WITH EXTRA BUTTER!

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ARRESTED

HE IS A SERIAL RAPIST

He targeted members of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. but this is more than about a sorority.

We’re talking about a community.

Come on PEOPLE! Don’t you CARE? Will it matter when it is your sister, mother, aunt or grandmother or maybe YOU?

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