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EDITORʼS LETTER Welcome to the autumn 2019 edition of the Little London Schools Guide, and more importantly, after a rather lovely long and hot summer, it’s time to say hello to a new academic year – new pencil cases at the ready!

This guide is designed to help you through the journey of your child’s education.

We start at the beginning of it all with navigating nursery (p.23), helping you choose the best place for your little one, and see you all the way through to that crucial decision making when selecting a senior school (p.59).

Of course, school is an all-encompassing part of growing up, but a large part of a child’s educational experience is the support they get outside of classroom hours, too. Marina Fogle is encouraging families to spend more time outdoors, whatever the weather, as your little explorers are sure to reap the rewards – get all the inspiration on page 29. But, of course, it’s not always easy to animate young ones, and a feature that really struck a chord with me is Beena Nadeem’s piece on quitting an instrument; I fell out of love learning to play the piano as quick as I fell in love with the idea, and she asks whether children be pushed to stick at it. Read her article on page 47.

This issue we also caught up with Radio 1 DJ Greg James and newsreader Chris Smith, who have written a series of children’s books, to tell us how school has shaped their careers. Read all about it on page 62.

And last but by no means least, make sure your child is ready to return to school in style… we cherry-pick some of our favourite pieces on page 15. Happy reading!

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Lunch bag £18, cathkidston.com

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NEWS What’s going on in classrooms and beyond WE LOVE This Einstein-inspired backpack buddy is the perfect school companion CLASS ACT The latest school supplies and wardrobe essentials THE ULTIMATE EDUCATION TIMELINE Your framework of what to do, and when FIRST STEPS Expert advice on making the best choice in the early years READING THE MOOD How do we instil emotional intelligence in our children?

CHILD’S PLAY Marina Fogle encourages parents to help their kids embrace the great outdoors STEP UP TO PREP What to consider when choosing a prep school

37 ASK THE EXPERTS Five headteachers answer your burning questions 41 OPEN DAYS EXPLAINED Advice on how to make the most of your school visits 44 LITTLE LINGUISTS Why pupils should study languages at a young age 47 STRIKE THE RIGHT CHORD Is it ever okay for children to quit music lessons?

51 PREPARING TO BOARD How to get your child ready for boarding-school life 55 GROWING-UP PAINS When to talk to your children about the confusing issue of puberty 59 CHOOSING A SENIOR SCHOOL A few expert tips on what you need to consider 62 MY SCHOOL LIFE Radio 1 DJ Greg James and newsreader Chris Smith share their school memories

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NEWS

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TH E L ATE ST LE AR NING TOOL S AN D U PDATE S

A WORK OF ART

Pupils from Chinthurst School created a winning canvas of flora and fauna

Big congratulations to pupils at Chinthurst School in Surrey, who have been crowned the winners of the David Shepherd Wildlife Foundation Global Canvas competition. Collecting their award at the Natural History Museum, more than 90 children contributed to creating a stunning display of flora and fauna, which aimed to raise awareness for an important conservation area on Leith Hill. “We built so many wonderful birds and animals, each with velvet feathers or shiny sparkly wire,” says art teacher Esther Lyth. “The energy and imagination of the children as they worked collaboratively was truly heartwarming.” chinthurstschool.co.uk

THE LONDON ASSEMBLY HAS REVEALED THAT OVER A QUARTER OF CHILDREN OVER THE AGE OF FIVE IN LONDON SUFFER FROM TOOTH DECAY. TO HELP IMPROVE CHILD DENTAL HEALTHY, IT IS URGING ALL SCHOOLS IN LONDON TO BE SUGAR FREE BY 2022. LONDON.GOV.UK

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NEWS

COUNT ME IN! As part of UK Parliament Week 2019, KidZania is hosting a series of events to inspire political activism and teach children about democracy.

From 5-7 November, pupils can take part in a mock House of Commons and debate topical themes, such as cyber bullying and the environment, learn to budget for the KidZania Government and have their say in a real voting booth. kidzania.co.uk

INNOCENT’S BIG GROW INITIATIVE SAW OVER A MILLION CHILDREN GROWING 40,000 PEAS, 40,000 TOMATOES AND CRESS THE SAME HEIGHT AS 17,500 DOUBLE DECKER BUSES, IN A MISSION TO MAKE SURE ALL CHILDREN GET THEIR FIVE-A-DAY. INNOCENTDRINKS.CO.UK

A TOKEN GIFT

Fed up of the daily screen-time argument? Time Tokens allows children to manage their own screen time with easy-to-follow boundaries and rewards for good behaviour. Children simply agree on the amount of time allowed each week, sign a ‘contract’, and hand over the tokens each time they want some time in front of their computer or tablet. Once their tokens have run out, they have to wait until the following week until their ‘wallet’ is refilled. £15.95 per pack, timetokens.com

OUT OF THIS WORLD Budding astronauts will be dazzled by the fascinating facts and gorgeous illustrations inside There Was a Black Hole That Swallowed the Universe.

Written by physicist and mathematician Chris Ferrie, the book is filled with catchy rhymes and huge scientific ideas about how the universe works, with the hope of sparking curiosity and encouraging them to engage in the wonderful world of outer-space. £13.99, Sourcebooks Explore

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Maria Montessori School For children aged 2-12 years

Let your child reach their true potential Our personalised and joyful education helps your child to become a self-confident individual who knows right from wrong, has strong academic skills and can find their path in life and contribute to the world.

Our school in London offers an authentic Montessori education and all our teachers hold the Association Montessori Internationale Diploma – a globally-recognised qualification renowned for its excellence and rigour.

Our Children’s House (2-6-year-olds) locations: Abbey Road • Bayswater • Notting Hill Hornsey Rise • Hampstead

Our Elementary (6-12-year-olds) locations: Bayswater • Hampstead

What parents say “The children gain strong academics, selfdiscipline, independence and initiative” “This education fosters a lifelong love of learning” “The children learn critical thinking, innovation and creativity – it’s not about rote memorisation or teaching to a test”

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NEWS

ADVENTURE AWAITS The first day of school is always the start of a big adventure! And this season, Frugi’s new lifestyle collection is paying homage to ‘brave and brilliant’ inventors and Arctic explorers, such as Roald Amundsen and motor car creator Karl Benz. The boldly-printed range includes lunchboxes made from recycled plastic bottles, steel water bottles and an eco-friendly bamboo dinner set. From £8, welovefrugi.com

SNACK SAVIOURS

In search of school lunchbox fillers? Get your children snacking the right way with Boka’s brand-new cereal bars. Honest and healthy, these miracle bars are low in sugar, fat and under 100 calories – the perfect on-the-go snack for a busy day at school or at play. With four delicious flavours, including Apple Cinnamon and Choco Mallow, Boka bars are full of guilt-free goodness without compromising on taste. 75p, bokafood.co.uk

READY, SET, READ! Created for kids aged five to 11, Parrot Street Book Club is a subscription-based service that sees children receive a thrilling new book every month. Each letterboxfriendly set includes fun book club-style questions, an activity pack with games, plus puzzles, craft activities and more – all inspired by that month’s book choice. Set up by old school friends Emily and Sarah, little ones are sure to love trying out the unique challenges included, all designed to aid their educational development.

From £39.95 for a three-month subscription, parrotstreet.com

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CLASS ACT

Get your little one kitted out for the new school year with our autumn-term edit of the best classroom and playground pieces

Wool coat £247, jellymallow.com

Plush toy £12, jellycat.com

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Leather backpack £165, zatchels.com

Cotton shirt £55, wnken.co.uk

Check wool cloak £118, milkandbiscuits.com

Pili Carrera dress £157, childrensalon.com

Velvet boots £103, pomdapi.fr

Leather trainers £57.50, lacoste.com

Desk lamp £124.94, joetleon.com

Wool sweater £36, cyrillus.fr

Sons + Daughters glasses £54, monkeymccoy.com

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Leather shoes £74, youngsoles.london

Moulin Roty chalkboard £89, bonhommedebois.com

Parka jacket £65, muddypuddles.com

Pencil case £9, miffyshop.co.uk

Wool coat £235, ilgufo.com

Plan Toys doctors set £29.94, babipur.com

Ralph Lauren cotton chinos £65, childrensalon.com

Sandqvist cotton rucksack £80, smallable.com

Teddy backpack £21, djeco.com

Golden Goose Delux Brand trainers £143, smallable.com

Il Gufo blazer £196, childrensalon.com

Liewood pencil case £15, monkeymccoy.com

Raglan sweater £100, oeufnyc.com

Wooden ruler £3, djeco.com

Britannical scarf £45, kidpix.uk

Wool coat £125, pepaandcompany.com

Raincoat £74.99, toastiekids.com

Cotton shirt £79, mariechantal.co.uk

Engel recycled satchel £54, smallable.com

DJECO mini pencils £3.98, daisydaisydirect.co.uk

Denim backpack £28, easypeasy.fr

Wool coat £99, rachelriley.co.uk

Tell the time magnets £12, jojomamanbebe.com

Leather sneakers £76, w10-is.com

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Maggie & Rose, the ultimate family destination, is landing in your neighbourhood this september!

Expect a hip hangout at our Family Members’ Club and Nursery, right on your doorstep, with epic spaces for little ones and grown-ups to eat, play and learn together!

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Opening September 2020 NORTH BRIDGE HOUSE NURSERY & PRE-PREP WEST HAMPSTEAD 2 - 7 YEARS Extending on the expert provision and academic excellence of the North Bridge House Schools Group – from Early Years through to Sixth Form

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SHOPPING

Corduroy jumpsuit £80, emile-et-ida.fr

Pencil hair clip £8.50, milledeux.com

Knitted bonnet £49.99, bonnetapompon.com

Satin bomber jacket £129, stellamccartney.com

Cotton pencil case £22, numero74.com

From a selection tocotovintage.com

Oeuf desk £529, suedeimport.com

Wool jumper £39, cosstores.com

Alphabet stickers £6.75, merimeri.co.uk

Chloé tweed coat £358, childrensalon.com

Harry Potter rugby shirt From £30, boden.com

Cotton backpack £62, emile-et-ida.fr

Clarks brogues £42, alexandalexa.com

Design Letters snack box £6, mamaandmax.com

Lunch bag £12, jojomamanbebe.com

Cotton dress £79.37, aswegrow.is

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The ultimate ed

IF YOU ’R E U N SU R E WHAT TO DO FOR YOU R CHILD’S S GUIDE TO PL AN NING TH EIR EDUCATION AN D AVO

azing down at your toddler, school can seem a distant concept you need not concern yourself with right now, but awareness of registration dates is essential when it comes to starting their educational journey. Navigating the British education system can feel overwhelming – the independent and state sectors operate on entirely different timetables when it comes to applications and starting age, and even schools within each sector have their own policies. Working out a plan for your child’s education is not something to fester at the bottom of your to-do list. Time is of paramount importance as places for some of London’s best prep schools are first-come, first-served.

Here is a timeline to guide you through the whole process, but it’s worth noting the below framework as a guide: • Pre-preparatory (pre-prep) schools cater for children aged four to seven, although there are fewer standalone pre-preps than there used to be; most are part of a prep school.

• Preparatory (prep) schools admit children at the age of eight, and prepare them for senior school. Many start from age four (see above) and go until 11 or 13.

• Senior schools admit children at age 11 or 13 and generally continue through to age 18.

• 7+, 11+, 13+ are the milestone entrance exams used by schools denoted by the age they will be when they start. 13+ is also called the Common Entrance exam.

• Grammar schools are academically orientated secondary schools within the state system with a selective intake by means of an entrance exam.

Note that every school and borough is different, so check with the institutions you are interested in to avoid disappointment.

At birth/ shortly after

Some pre-prep and prep schools are first-come, first-served, so they will require you to register your child the day they are born or very shortly after. You will also need to think about registering your child if they are attending a private nursery as London places are extremely competitive.

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3 1 6 2x2=? 0 AGE 4½-7 OR 8 If at a private school, your child will attend pre-prep. Should you be considering the 7+ (to start an independent prep school in Year 3) entrance exams usually take place early in the spring term for entry the following September. You will need to have registered at least 12 months before their start date.

AGE 2½

Independent pre-school or kindergarten starts now.

Age 3

Children can usually start in a state-run nursery from the beginning of the school term after their third birthday. State primary school applications need to be submitted in the January of the year your child is due to start school in the September, so those who turn four during the coming academic year (1 September to 31 August). Private schools that assess children will do so when the child is three. Places should be offered one year in advance of entry.

AGE 1-2½

It’s time to think about which catchment area you are in for state schools. If you’re thinking of a private school, most pre-prep and prep school applications will need to be in by now.

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SCHOOLING , AN D WH EN , H ER E’S OU R MY TH-BUSTING OID MISSING THOSE ALL-IM PORTANT DE ADLIN E S

AGE 11-18

State secondary school starts. Apply by 31 October of Year 6 in primary school.

Some independent schools start at 11, too.

Age 4-11

AGE 13-18

State primary education begins once your child is four.

Independent secondary school starts, day or boarding.

Age 11 or 13

Most independent schools have a Year 7 or Year 9 entry. Some have Year 6 entry for which an exam will be taken in Year 5.

The 11+ exam is taken in the January of Year 6. The Common Entrance 13+ exam is taken in June of Year 8 – this is preceded by a pre-test and interview in Year 6 or 7 when a firm offer has been made; the child then sits the exam for that school.

Some grammar school applications need to be in before mid-July of Year 5, with exams taken in the autumn of Year 6.

Many London day schools have their own exams for 13+/Year 9 entry taken in the January of Year 8. These applications must be made at least 12 months beforehand.

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AGE 16-18

AGE 9-10 Register your child for their independent secondary school. Go to open days and meet heads of schools and the admissions team where possible.

When GCSE results are known, that can determine entry into sixth form or a sixth form college. Check with individual colleges for dates. For a 16+ move to a private secondary school, interviews and exams are undertaken in the autumn of Year 11.

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NURSERY

First steps Roosha Sue, H E AD OF E ATON H OUSE TH E MAN OR N U R SERY, GIVE S H ER TIPS ON CHOOSING TH E RIGHT N U R SERY FOR YOU R CHILD

Little ones love to play and have fun, so a time-out session is part of their day at nursery

urseries come in all shapes and sizes, and while it may seem daunting at first, finding a place that suits your child’s needs can actually be quite an enjoyable process.

To start, consider both the nursery itself and whether it’s a feeder to a larger group of pre-prep and prep schools. If it is, this will make your life a lot easier, as your child will be based somewhere familiar for at least eight years.

You may think it too soon, but it’s also worth looking at the senior schools that these pre-prep and prep schools are sending children to, and see if those schools align with your own expectations.

Ultimately, though, you should never choose a dark, cramped and limited nursery solely based on the link it has to a prestigious pre-prep or prep school.

Remember that two years can feel like a very long time in the life of the average toddler!

At Eaton House Schools, we don’t select children at age three or four, as we believe that certain forms of higher intelligence won’t start developing until the age of five. What we are able to provide is detailed transition from nursery to school, and by the time they

reach us, we can genuinely say that we know our families and children very well.

You should also be aware of nurseries that promise that all children will be able to read by the time they leave – some will, some won’t. It’s important for educational development that young children blossom at their own pace and are ‘school ready’, rather than reading

perfectly. Here, our pre-prep and prep results prove that nurture, not pushing, is the right approach for long-term success.

There’s no one-size-fits-all solution, even at the very best nurseries.

Locale can be a big factor, too. Nursery can be a great place for parents and young children to bond, and playdates and kitchen table conversations are all

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NURSERY

Eaton House The Manor School has easy access to Clapham Common North Side

Little ones should be offered activities that enhance imaginative play

a part of the process. At Eaton House School, we have two nurseries in Belgravia and Clapham, both of which are local ‘hubs’ for our families.

Look at the size of the school, and think about what will be best for your child. Some prefer smaller, more intimate spaces with fewer children, while others like larger nurseries, perhaps split across age groups, so that children can achieve the maximum amount of socialisation and experience before moving up to pre-prep.

Playgrounds are good for active play – the best playgrounds will have bigger features like water and sand play, Wendy houses, or a child-size pirate ship, with plenty of room for children to let off steam. They should be clean, well-kept and have lots of bright primary colours, toys, and activities to enhance imaginative play. Flower boxes and coloured benches are always a good sign, as they show that the nursery recognises the need for little ones to have time out.

High-ceilinged, larger nurseries in mansion houses, on the other hand, can also be very lovely, with plenty of space to learn and play, and sometimes with access to garden squares or parks for games.

Ask about the teacher-to-pupil ratio, and whether the play is structured by subject and themed by season.

Structured play can allow boys and girls to develop more quickly, and it enhances debate and engagement when topics like ‘work roles’ or ‘under the sea’ are introduced.

Interactive whiteboards are a must to develop literary and numeracy skills, and it’s worth asking how much

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THE IDEAL NURSERY AIMS TO GIVE EACH CHILD A FUN LEARNING EXPERIENCE emphasis is placed on these core subjects, as well as on language skills, like learning basic Spanish.

However, you should make sure that curriculum-based learning is also enhanced by plenty of fun and imaginative play. Do children dress up with costumes, or have hands-on experiences? What about arts and crafts, circle time, computing, outside play, gym and yoga, and holiday celebrations like Halloween, Harvest Festivals and Christmas?

Try to look for schools in which there are three intakes a year in September, January and April, which means you have

a good spread of birthdays across the year, and summer babies aren’t at a disadvantage. Investigate its sibling policies, too; we have one here at Eaton House The Manor Nurseries, as a high proportion of children have brothers or sisters, and this helps to create a more welcoming and comforting family environment.

All in all, the ideal nursery aims to make a difference each day, putting the wellbeing of your little ones at the centre of everything they do, and giving each child a fun, exciting and worthwhile learning experience. Happiness should always be the top priority. L

Countryside Education for London Children Belmont Farm Nursery School offers a unique learning experience for children aged three months to five years old.

We are distinctive in offering a farm and forest school education for all the children who attend.

Belmont Farm Nursery offers an excellent standard of education in a nurturing, safe environment; benefiting from our fantastic outdoor grounds.

Our ethos is to provide a happy balance between academic teaching and holistically learning, in a playful, fun and caring environment.

Our School has been designed from the ground up to ensure that the entire 5,500 square feet is catered to meet the ever changing needs of all the children who attend. We are proud to offer a series of superior and carefully crafted facilities: • Beautifully designed age specific classrooms, each with integrated interactive touch screens.

• A separate dining room to ensure all classrooms are kept clean learning environments • A premium dance studio • Internal courtyard play areas, specifically dedicated to and designed for our babies and toddlers

Belmont Farm Nursery School is a private children’s day nursery for children aged between three months and five years with its own onsite farm for the children. Open 49 weeks a year, Monday to Friday from 8am to 6pm.

For additional information, call our School Office on 020 3146 9655 or visit www.belmontfarmnurseryschool.co.uk.

ADVICE

Reading the mood

EMOTIONAL INTELLIGEN CE IS TH E SECR E T TO A HAPPIER CHILD, BUT HOW DO WE IN STIL THIS IN OU R CHILDR EN? Louise Pyne TALKS TO AN E XPERT t’s no secret that the emotions young children experience can be pretty extreme. One minute she’s roaring with laughter as you pull funny faces while reading her a story, the next, she’s in floods of tears because you’ve decided to add yucky peas to her favourite pasta sauce.

“Sadness, anger, fear and joy are natural emotions we’re able to feel and express from infancy, and these primary four emotions are all natural, instinctive and play an important role in our emotional wellbeing,” says psychotherapeutic counsellor Chanelle Sowden (chanellesowden.co.uk).

The ability to identify and express emotions is known as emotional intelligence, and helping to equip your child with the skills she needs to recognise her feelings can have a big impact on her emotional wellbeing.

There’s plenty of ways to help nurture her emotional intelligence – and communication, play and physical gestures should all be on your checklist.

Here’s how to get started…

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ENCOURAGE ROLE PLAY Role play promotes self-assurance and creativity but also opens up barriers of communication to help your child identify different emotions. “A child is unlikely to feel relief from saying ‘I’m

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angry that I have to go to school when my little brother gets to stay at home with mummy’, but they’ll make contact with the emotion and feel understood if an adult can engage in making up a story with them to act out about storms and wild fires and roaring dinosaurs that want to stomp everywhere,” explains Chanelle. Allowing her to act out real-life scenarios gives her the chance to learn about different social situations as well as different environments.

USE THE POWER OF LANGUAGE Your little one will never tire of chatting away to you, and talking and listening is really essential for fostering a healthy and positive relationship. Make sure to give her your undivided attention, use eye contact and be aware of your body language to positively impact the power of your words. Kneel down so that you’re at eye level with her and she’ll instantly feel more important and safe. “Using phrases that acknowledge and contain the emotion are more helpful, such as ‘I can see you’re very sad, let me sit with you’ or ‘I can hear how angry you are, while we can’t break toys, we can certainly find another way you can get your anger out.’ Another really helpful practice is to name and express your own emotions modelling to your child that difficult feelings are a normal part

of being a human and don’t need to be hidden or dismissed,” believes Chanelle.

FINE-TUNE EVENING ROUTINES As an adult, we might crave fatty or carbladen foods when we’re exhausted, but in children, being overtired manifests as fussiness, crankiness and anger. Getting your bub into a good nightly routine can help to offset any meltdowns and keep her mood level in the run-up to bedtime.

“Behaviour is hugely affected by tiredness,” says Chanelle. “Children are doing a lot of learning while they’re at nursery or preschool, both socially and emotionally, and a regular sleep routine is an important foundation to work from, just as it is in adulthood. Lack of sleep can impair our ability to focus, our patience and our ability to manage our big emotions when they come.”

Stick to roughly the same evening pattern each day, and add little tweaks to help improve sleep, like a warm lavenderscented baby bubble bath, followed by cuddles and a story in bed before lights

ADVICE

Sharing a story with your child allows you to enter into their colourful, emotive imagination

out. Don’t forget to make sure her room is dark, quiet and a screen-free zone.

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BE A BOOKWORM Reading to your child helps her to learn how to understand the world around her. It helps her to interact with others and engages her imagination. “Children benefit greatly from any ‘quality attention’ time where they have your undivided attention, away from siblings, your work or smartphone scrolling.

The experience of sharing a story with you brings about the opportunity for you to meet them in their colourful, emotive imagination which is much more sensory-stimulating for your child than being in your adult world with grown-up

DIFFICULT FEELINGS ARE PART OF BEING A HUMAN AND DON'T NEED TO BE HIDDEN language and communication,” maintains Chanelle. Try to spend at least 10 minutes a day reading to her.

BOOST SOCIAL SKILLS Ensuring your child has the opportunity to interact with other children will help her grow, problem solve and understand her emotions better, so arrange playdates outside of nursery or preschool to boost the bonding process. “One-to-one

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So when I became a mother myself, this is what I thought my children would enjoy. The reality, though, is that children today are spending more time indoors than any previous generation.

This is partly due to screens, and the addictive and stimulating games that have crept into our children’s lives like a cancerous growth, but also partly due to the fact that the outdoors seems a less safe environment than what it once

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SIMPLE INDEPENDENT PLAY, DOCTORS AGREE, IS BY FAR THE BEST EXERCISE FOR CHILDREN. was. Urban sprawl is robbing us of green space, inner-city traffic makes crossing roads more dangerous, and then there are all the horror stories screamed at us from the pages of the tabloids of unthinkable things happening to children.

The trouble is that keeping our children inside is not good for them; being outside, in nature, is a crucial part of growing up. Plenty of fresh air will make them healthier; it’ll make them sleep better and sunshine promotes the production of vitamin D, encouraging good bone development, and boosts their immune systems. Simple independent play, doctors agree, is by far the best exercise for children. We know that building strength in a child will have

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a hugely positive impact on their physical wellbeing throughout the rest of their lives, but encouraging them to play their own games will give them better social skills than anything structured can. They learn to work together, problem solve; skills that I think we can all agree are as important– if not more so – than learning the eight-times table. Studies have continually shown that children who play outside more do better at school, are happier, more attentive and less anxious, stressed and tired. L For more parenting advice, check out Marina and her sister Dr Chiara Hunt’s podcast The Parent Hood; it’s free to download on iTunes and Acast

• Tell them that you have confidence that they’ll make the right decisions, that you trust them to cross a road, to build a fire, to use a knife.

Encourage them to play with children of different ages. If your children are younger, you can ask an older child to look out for yours – the older children will be flattered that you’ve put them in a position of trust.

• Parenting in the 21st century makes keeping in touch with our kids easier. I have a proper set of walkietalkies that I give my children. The children’s ones tend to be useless, but if you spend a bit more money and buy a decent set, they’re a great way of being able to keep in contact with your children as they play further afield. Alternatively, you can buy mobile phones that are simply just phones, rather than smartphones, on to which you can pre-programme numbers.

• And while we all hate the dramas, the knocks, the falls, the odd broken bone, these are all part of the rich tapestry of childhood. Failure and making mistakes are important learning tools that, as inconvenient, painful and annoying as they can be, will teach lessons that, ultimately, your children will be grateful for.

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Step up to prep Naomi Bar tholomew, H E ADMISTR E SS AT ST CATH ERIN E’S PR EP SCHOOL, OUTLIN E S WHAT PAR ENTS SH OU LD CON SIDER WH EN CH OOSING A PR EP SCH OOL

Young girls from the senior school act as excellent role models for the younger pupils

rep schools come in all shapes and sizes; some in town houses in residential streets, others with rolling acres and fabulous facilities.

The one thing that unites them all is a breadth and depth of curriculum that ensures that pupils have the very best grounding ahead of their senior schools.

Most prep schools will have a good number of subject specialists who are well equipped to teach their subjects and ensure that subjects, such as French, sport and music, are an important part of a varied curriculum. This, paired with primary experts who are trained and

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With such a breadth of choice, how can you be sure which prep school is right for your child? Here, we outline what you should consider.

STANDALONE OR THROUGH SCHOOL? A through school, like St Catherine’s, is able to provide the best of both worlds, with a warm, family feel and strong pastoral care. This, coupled with access to the facilities of a much larger

school – including a swimming pool, playing fields, auditorium and sports hall – are what attract the very best staff; teams that are dynamic, forward-thinking and ambitious for the children in their care. We’re also lucky in that we can tap into a group of talented young women from the senior school, who act as excellent role models to younger pupils.

Standalone prep schools, on the other hand, often have strong links with particular senior schools, and it’s worth looking at lists of leavers published by the school to see their typical paths. If you already have somewhere specific

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PREP Naomi Bartholomew encourages her students to get involved with activities outside the classroom

OUT OF HOURS As pupils and teachers begin to develop powerful relationships in the classroom, this will be reflected in any extra-curricular programmes they partake in, too. This usually consists of a mix of activities such as sport, music, drama, chess, debating, and at least one or two quirky options, such as logic club or go-kart making. It’s through these extra-curricular activities that friendships and confidence can be built, and children learn to understand their own strengths and interests, while finding other like-minded pupils.

SINGLE SEX OR CO-ED? Here at St Catherine’s, we believe that girls (and boys) are best taught in single-sex environments, which can

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THROUGH EXTRA-CURRICULAR PROGRAMMES, CHILDREN CAN BUILD THEIR CONFIDENCE cater fully for the needs of the pupils.

However, parents must make that choice based on their child’s individual needs, and do plenty of research before and during their tour of a school. Ask, ‘How will this school cater for my child, and ensure that they reach their potential?’

WHERE DO YOU START? Have you visited the school, or spoken to parents with a child already there?

Both of these are important steps. I recommend that parents start to look at prep schools for 4+ entry once their child is established at nursery, and they have some sense of what their interests and abilities are. I would then expect parents

to be considering options for 7+, when their child is in Year 1 for entry into Year 3. It’s important to visit a school more than once, and to allow yourself time to consider your options carefully.

Equally important are family logistics – for example, it’s essential to consider what’s manageable in terms of the school run. Prep-aged children are still young and will need downtime around activities and homework during the day.

A commute of more than 20 minutes is something you need to consider carefully, so check that the school’s hours work with your family. Is there after-school care or a breakfast club?

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ASK THE EXPERTS Educating our children conjures up a plethora of questions.

Learning about the environment will help little ones appreciate it more

HOW CAN I PREPARE MY SON FOR THE 11 PLUS? As part of their 11 Plus entry process, many London senior schools require candidates to sit exams in English and maths, as well as complete verbal and non-verbal reasoning tests. Schools will also interview your child either on the same day as the exams or afterwards.

At prep school, your child should be preparing for their 11 Plus exams from their very first day, but this becomes much more focused from the start of Year 4. You should also be meeting with your child’s head to discuss senior school options. Be realistic, and if you’re aiming for the most academically selective schools, always have a less competitive option as insurance.

Encourage your child to take an interest in the news and world around them, as this will help them in interviews; if their school doesn’t run mock interviews, ask a friend to do a practice one with them.

You may feel under pressure to engage a tutor ahead of the 11 Plus exams, and if your child is at a state school, you may well need support to prepare them for the unfamiliar elements of the process. At the interview, senior schools will want to see what your child has to offer outside of the classroom, and, indeed, their musical, sporting or other pursuits can offer welcome distraction during what can be an anxious period in the build-up to the exams.

David Price, headmaster at The Mall School

HOW CAN WE MAKE PUPILS MORE ECO-AWARE? As teachers, we’re in the privileged position of educating future generations – and with privilege comes obligation.

At Walhampton School, we’re passionate about developing our pupils’ awareness of climate change. We’re working to educate them about the environment and to get them to make responsible consumer choices.

While it’s important not to scare them regarding the state of our planet, we do need to encourage good habits. Our pupils enjoy spending their days growing

up in an enviable environment. We all need to appreciate its value all day, every day, so the children instinctively want to make responsible choices – rather than asking, “Why should I?” or “What’s in it for me?” How we share this message is to work through the Eco Schools criteria and explain to them the importance of our actions. Another is to lead with our own actions and praise good behaviour – as we do in all other areas of school life.

Titus Mills, headmaster at Walhampton School

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ADVICE

Girls and boys interacting in the classroom better prepares them for life in a mix-gender world

WHAT ARE THE BENEFITS OF CO-EDUCATIONAL LEARNING? There are many reasons for sending some children to a single-sex school, but in a world where questions are being asked about gender, and where there have been examples of men and women failing to understand and respect each other, surely the answer is to bring them together while they’re developing, rather than impose a degree of separation.

Fundamentally, schools can prepare children to thrive as successful members of their future adult world with a co-ed environment. The world post-education naturally has a mix of genders, so it makes sense for any preparation to take place in similar surroundings. Can we say that children, who throughout significant periods of their education have only been exposed to half their peers, are properly equipped with the skills for the world they’ll inhabit?

There are also differences in the rate and nature of development of the male and female brain. Yet, individual differences exist in all children, and we expect good teachers to accommodate to the needs of each pupil in a class.

In the same way, a good teacher should also be able to adapt to meet the needs of each sex, too.

Neil Brooks, headmaster at Cranleigh Prep School

HOW MUCH IMPORTANCE SHOULD WE PLACE ON ACADEMIC ACHIEVEMENT IN THE PREP STAGE?

HOW DO YOU DEVELOP A LOVE OF LEARNING IN THE EARLY YEARS?

Academic achievement in a child’s school life is hugely important, but it should go hand-in-hand with sport and the arts. At the prep stage, children are beginning to learn how to construct their world, make choices and persist when faced with problems. To ensure they thrive as adults in the 21st century, we must encourage them to engage with the learning process, foster enquiring minds and develop initiative. Children need to be creative, resilient and adaptable; this only comes when a healthy balance is struck between academic achievement and personal fulfilment. Ultimately, we want our kids to be content within themselves, and to make a meaningful contribution to society. The key is balance.

Jenny Mackay, headmistress at Hawkesdown House

I’m a firm believer in the fact you can have high academic standards without compromising on joy and delight. You don’t need to be sat at a desk with a pen in your hand to excel – you can learn in the woods, on the beach or in a pond, or through drama, sport, music, and singing.

There’s no greater pleasure than seeing a child bursting with ideas that will take learning to exciting new frontiers.

Building on innate curiosity and intrigue means this year, we’ve reared ducklings, grown vegetables, and observed barn owl chicks hatch in boxes we’ve built and erected ourselves. We’ve escaped from volcanic eruptions, climbed mountains and paddled in the sea. The children have spent their time smiling and laughing, and loving learning in all its forms.

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A creative child tends to be more successful than one who is solely focused on grades

hoosing a school is a bit like choosing a house; you usually know whether you like it within a few seconds of walking through the door. No doubt you have many schools to see, and your time is very precious, so make sure you make the most of your time there.

My advice is to go with your instinct, backed up by thorough research. Start by looking on the school website and read the inspection reports, making a checklist of things that matter to you in order of importance. Is it grades and destination schools that you are

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looking for, or do you want a more holistic education, where music and the arts feature highly too? Remember that happy and creative children tend to be more successful in the long term, than those who have attended typical ‘hothouses’ where grades are everything.

Try to make up your own mind and not be too influenced by what others, or even an old inspection report, say.

Schools are dynamic places, and they morph and change over time, especially

with new owners or leadership teams.

Now you are ready to go! If it’s a morning event, be sure to arrive in plenty of time, and watch how the children are coming into the school.

Do they look happy? Are they excited about the school day? Check out the parents: are they talking to each other?

Is the headteacher there on the door,

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THE BEST WAY TO FIND OUT WHAT A SCHOOL IS LIKE IS TO ASK THE CHILDREN how the staff relate to the children. Are the pupils engaged with the lessons and enjoying their learning? Are staff good role models; do they seem to get on with one another? A happy atmosphere should permeate the school, and if it does, your child is sure to thrive.

Find out whether there’s a house system, too, or opportunities for various age groups to interact and meet each other. All children benefit from being in a school where they can spend time with other year groups. If you haven’t had all your questions answered by the end of the morning, email the school

afterwards; the school will be keen to put your mind at rest.

When you get home, sit down and reflect on your experience. It may become clear to you then that the school is exactly what you are looking for, so send off your paperwork quickly.

Remember, there’s a lot of competition for places in the best London schools.

Your child is unique, and you need to find a school where they’ll feel secure and happy. The chances are, if you feel relaxed while you’re there on the open day, your child will feel happy there, too. Good luck with your search! L

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greeting the children by name and shaking their hand?

Once inside the building, you should be able to pick up on the atmosphere quite quickly. Some schools will put on a special ‘show’, even changing timetables and teaching staff to impress prospective parents. However, this can make everything slightly more stressed and unnatural – you may not be getting a true impression of the school.

The best way to find out what a school is really like is to ask the children.

If pupils are not involved in the tours, try to ask some questions on your way around the classrooms. Ask them what the best thing is about the school and which lessons they enjoy most.

At The Lyceum, we find that our Year 6 pupils are our best ambassadors, so they lead our tours around with staff, on hand to answer any questions that teachers can’t. Visitors are always impressed by their honesty and selfconfidence, and the way in which they know the other children in the school.

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Studying languages encourages classroom engagement

here are three main reasons why children should learn a language while they’re younger. First, and most obviously, languages can help develop their ability to communicate in a meaningful way with people from other countries.

This in turn enhances their understanding of our own language, and its origins, grammar and usage.

Second, speaking another language offers children a passport to understanding a different culture, not just by communicating with people, but through reading literature as their skills improve, such as Gustave Flaubert’s Madame Bovary or Gabriel García Márquez’s Cien Años de Soledad.

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Third, learning a language enables us to understand how other people think, which informs not only a view of ourselves, but how we relate to others.

The British Council recently identified five priority languages for the UK’s future prosperity and the world, these being Spanish, Mandarin, French, Arabic and German – with Italian, Dutch, Portuguese, Japanese and Russian following behind.

And yet, the number of students taking French and German A-level has fallen by a third in just a decade, and applications to read Modern Languages at university have declined at a corresponding rate. As a lack of language skills can often prevent young people from taking up international

opportunities, UK business leaders are reporting an increasing concern for their lack of international cultural awareness.

So, why is this? And what can we do to reverse the trend?

In the UK, we tend to teach very basic vocabulary in junior schools – colours, pets, days of the week and so on. In France and Germany, however, pupils may already be putting together paragraphs of writing and able to communicate effectively.

We all know children learn best when they’re stimulated and challenged, and when they’re allowed the time and space to learn, rather than being forced to concentrate on the basics. So, why not take visits to the country itself?

It’s so important to encourage children to spend time immersed in the language they’re learning by staying in the country as part of a study visit or exchange.

At St Benedict’s School, our Year 5 pupils spend a week in France every summer, there’s regular trips to Spain, and we have a thriving German exchange programme. Experiences like these can often spark a lasting interest in a particular language and culture, because it brings that language to life.

Finally, one of the greatest advantages enjoyed by day schools in London is the linguistic and diversity of the pupils.

What better way to learn Spanish, French, German or Mandarin than to be able to communicate with a native speaker who happens to be a pupil at the same school?

Studying a language is about meaningful engagement with others, and appreciating cultural differences and identities. And here in the UK, it’s time to address the shortfall of Modern Languages if we are to remain fully engaged with the rest of the world. L

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Some parents see learning an instrument as a way into the capital’s selective schools

Strike the right chord Beena Nadeem ASKS: IS QUIT TING MUSIC LE SSON S IS EVER OK AY ? fter dabbling on and off for years, my nine year old finally sat her first piano exam.

Despite doing well, she vowed on that day to never do another grade again.

Sadly, true to her word, she’s not glanced at the piano since. It’s left me ruminating whether to nudge, cajole or even force her into continuing in the hope that she doesn’t become one of the UK’s 6.7m children who start learning an instrument (between the ages of eight to 10), only to become one of the 85 per cent who have given up by their 17th birthday.

Of course, you’ll always get the ones you never need to push. The ones who imbibe music through every pore and enter the world playing Chopin

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nocturnes, but they tend to be the ones who end up as professional musicians as the drive becomes an obsession. Take Andrew Garrido, who, at the age of 11, asked his newly unemployed mother for piano lessons. Unable to afford them, Andrew instead drew 88 keys on a piece of paper and taped them to his desk.

Without a piano to practise on at home, he used YouTube videos to get himself through grades 1-8; all at distinction, within five years. By the age of 14, he was giving recitals to pay for lessons, and now at 20, he is attending one of the country’s leading conservatoires studying to be a concert pianist.

In reality, most of us don’t have those children. Most of us go between

shouting ultimatums and being on the receiving end of sulks from disillusioned children who don’t want to practise.

So what’s the best approach? Child psychologist Dr Sharie Coombes advises against an overbearing parental approach.

“Lessons will begin to symbolise the usual push/pull tension and fall by the wayside as soon as the child can make that happen.”

Instead, she recommends that parents help children push through their reluctance by ‘listening and negotiating’.

“If they’re still fighting, let them move on knowing they can always come back to it in the future.”

No doubt, that can be a bitter pill to swallow. What about the expense?

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An important question to ask yourself is why are you forcing your child to practise?

GRADES ARE NOT THE SINGLE POINT OF MUSIC: THERE NEEDS TO BE SPACE FOR CREATIVITY what you like, even if you’re not musical yourself,” he says, adding: “Get your children to mix with musicians through school orchestras, friends who play, or take them to a local concert.”

Nathan also advises reigniting interest in musically impassive kids by releasing children from the prescribed approach of dogmatic practise. “Let your child experiment: playing jams, rifts, chords and improvising. Allow them to make mistakes instead of disciplined practise all of the time. Kids need the space to experiment; it’s just as important as prescribed practise. Experiencing music that means something to you is important. Music doesn’t have to be played by a man in a tux. There’s a whole world of repertoire out there.”

His other suggestions list letting your child skip grades for a while. “Grades

are not the single point of music: there needs to be space for creativity in lessons, too. Enjoying music should be an objective in itself. If you push for grade after grade, it’s a sure way of killing something for someone.”

As a parent, it’s left me thinking why we never ask our kids what they actually want. The response might surprise you.

So I ask my daughter if she feels parents should push their children. “For the first few grades, your parents should push you. If they stop liking it, say by grade three, then parents should let them say they’ve done enough.”

Would you like me to push you, I ask?

“I’d like you to push me,” she says. “Just not past my abilities,” she says, “that’s important.” What wise words. However, the piano remains untouched and next week she’s trying out the oboe. L

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Shouldn’t children be encouraged to show the resilience and tenacity that comes with sticking with something?

Couple that with the most common thing music teachers say they hear when encountering new adult learners: “I wish I didn’t stop music lessons as a child”– surely we’d be doing them a favour by forcefully nudging them past the musical pain barrier?

As someone who hears the “I wish I didn’t quit music lessons” line so often that he’s just released a book with that as its title (available now on Amazon), professional saxophonist Nathan Holder says parents should consider why they’re forcing their child to continue in the first place. “Unless your child desperately wants to be in the top five per cent of people who actually want to become a professional musician, why are you forcing them? It comes down to honestly questioning who you’re doing it for.”

Pianist and teacher Ian Flint says that some parents use music as a lever to get into London’s increasingly competitive selective schools. And with schools typically demanding gradefive distinction and often a second instrument, it’s easy to see how pushing children to do grade after grade becomes commonplace. “While some achieve the desired outcome, this is not a healthy or sustainable way for a youngster to relate to music,” he says.

For writer Isobel de Lion, who was forced to play the piano as a child, despite pleading with her mother to give up, says that, even now, in her thirties, the experience has compromised her self confidence. “I got my grade five by the age of 14 but it never felt like joy.”

What about the patience sticking with something teaches us? “Being told that you have to work at what you want is invalid when it’s not something you care about. I really wish my mum had just had those lessons herself. ” So when interest wanes, should we let our kids quit? First, we shouldn’t expect our children to appreciate music if we ourselves live in a musical vacuum, says Nathan. “If we don’t get exposed to music, then how are our children supposed to take an interest? Talk about

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PREPARING TO BOARD Lucy and Ruper t Blencowe, H E ADS OF BOAR DING AT DR AGON SCHOOL, OXFOR D, SHAR E TH EIR TH OUGHTS ON TH E LIFE OF A CHILD AT BOAR DING SCH OOL

Living at school helps your child learn valuable social skills

t the heart of any boarding school is a thriving community, and the benefits of sending your child to board continue to be well recognised. Children gain a sense of independence and personal responsibility, they learn organisational and social skills, and partake in many extra-curricular activities, and through this experience, they also develop strong friendships for life.

Boarding, in any one of its forms, provides a stepping stone in a child’s educational journey, but what can you do to prepare them for this milestone?

Here, we outline the experiences you will likely encounter during this period.

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THE FIRST STEPS It should never be underestimated what a huge change boarding can be

for a child and their parents. It’s vital, therefore, that the right decision is reached, and that everyone concerned feels positive about the opportunities to be gained from boarding. Trial nights can be extremely valuable, and here at Dragon School, we make a point of inviting all our young pupils to stay at their future boarding house before they start school.

They will be assigned a buddy during their visit, who will show them where to go for lessons and where to have their meals. Once they’ve started school, boarders will very quickly become familiar with their new routine, and between lessons, they should have free time to return to their house,

where they can make friends and enjoy some downtime.

A HELPING HAND Before they begin their life at boarding school, pupils will likely have the opportunity to get to know their houseparents, and integrate into their new boarding family. Houseparents are also academic tutors to the children within their house, and are in regular contact with all their subject takers.

They also support the children with any difficulties they might have during the school day, and are there to ensure they understand what needs to be done to prepare for lessons. Most importantly, houseparents are also in regular contact

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BOARDING

BOARDING IS A WONDERFUL OPPORTUNITY TO ENHANCE A CHILD’S EDUCATION with parents to keep them informed of their child’s progress, both academic and pastoral.

At Dragon School, children are also assigned a separate academic tutor during their final two years, who will help them prepare for the transition into senior school. They’ll also support them through interview preparation, revision and exams, working closely alongside the houseparent, who will provide all the necessary pastoral support for the child.

your child knows they have someone to turn to at school.

They may want to confide in their houseparent, other members of house staff, or a school counsellor about any issues causing them concern. A number of our older Dragon boarders volunteer to help in the junior boarding houses in the evenings, and they can also provide a supportive listening ear to the younger children. When children are unwell, we have a health centre, too, which is staffed by nurses day and night.

TOO FAR FROM HOME? It’s perfectly natural for a child to feel a bit homesick at boarding school, but it’s important to remember that there will always be someone there to help them. Knowing they can speak to their parents on the phone or via Skype offers reassurance, but it’s equally vital that

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OUT OF HOURS Boarding schools tend to have excellent facilities, and every child should be encouraged to engage in after-school activities. These could vary from dance, drama or musical ensembles, to tennis, rugby or football. However, some of the

highlights for boarders often include the experiences that take place in their boarding houses – roasting marshmallows around a campfire in the garden, sushi making, fresh pasta making, treasure hunts, MasterChef competitions, Saturday night movies, and pool and table tennis tournaments.

Time with the children out of school hours allows boarding staff to engage the children in an array of activities, from face painting, fashion shows and dog walks, to cake decorating, Easter egg hunts and blackberry picking.

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“Newton combines knowledge of families with great space and facilities in which children are encouraged to be themselves. All the teachers understand my children, the management is open to fresh ideas and the school is big enough to accommodate variety.”

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School Philosophy: The School is a safe place where people are kind, considerate and capable, where a child can start their school life happily and make early friends with confidence. The School is a place of purpose and success providing an excellent education, inspiring and challenging the mind and the imagination. In a world that is changing at an accelerated rate, we concentrate on knowing each child and understanding what is important to every family.

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ADVICE

Growing-up Pains Becky Dickinson E XPLOR E S TH E CON FUSING ISSU E OF PU BERT Y AN D HOW AN D WH EN TO TALK TO CHILDR EN ABOUT TH E CHANGE S IN STOR E

The earlier you start talking about puberty, the easier the conversation will be in the future

nfamiliar lumps and bumps, an unmistakable whiff on a warm day and mood swings that should come with a severe weather warning. If this sounds like your once uncomplicated, happy-go-lucky son or daughter, chances are they are entering puberty. As most of us will recall, it can be a time of intense confusion and embarrassment. And while breast development, body odour and blackheads were once associated with secondary school and the teenage years, these days puberty often starts younger than that.

According to the most recent Chief Medical Officer’s report into young people’s health, puberty for most British youngsters starts at 10 to 13 years of age, and is largely over by 14 to 16 years.

However, it’s not unusual for changes to begin even earlier, especially for girls, with sanitary bins now found in primary school toilets. If your child appears to be starting puberty before the age of eight, it may be worth a quick chat with your GP to rule out a hormonal imbalance.

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Laura Hannah, who is responsible for education at Brook, the leading young people’s sexual health and wellbeing charity, says it’s vital to talk to children about bodily changes from a young age. “The earlier we start talking to children about puberty, the easier the conversations will be in the future.

Most children start by asking questions like, ‘Where do babies come from?’

It’s important to provide them with relevant information for their level of understanding, and then build on this as they get older. We should avoid shutting a child down if they ask a question

that might then make them feel too embarrassed to ask anything in future.”

Many theories have been put forward to explain the increasingly early onset of puberty; it’s thought that rising levels of estrogen in drinking water, due to high levels of the contraceptive pill and HRT, may play a role. Pesticides and other chemicals, including phthalates (used in plastics), Bisphenol A (used in tin cans and plastic bottles) and parabens (preservatives used in shampoos and cosmetics), have also been blamed.

Whatever is responsible for making children look like mini-adults, as parents

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ADVICE As a parent, you need to equip your child with knowledge and make them feel secure

TIPS ON TALKING TO YOUR CHILD ABOUT PUBERTY • Start talking to your child about puberty from a young age – and well before they start developing.

• Avoid having a formal, daunting conversation, but create an environment where issues can be talked about freely, naturally and spontaneously.

• If you don’t know where to start, try a quick chat about what happens to your body as you get older.

Or introduce a ‘growing-up box’.

• Let your child know they can always come to you with any questions or worries.

• Make them aware of the organisations that have information about puberty and other topics – for example, brook.org.uk

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THERE WILL BE COLLISIONS ALONG THE WAY; STAYING CALM IS IMPORTANT, TOO can contact if they want to talk about something that is worrying them.”

Although puberty is generally recognised as a time of significant emotional and physical turmoil, it’s worth remembering the positives.

Along with all of the sweat, spots and tears, it’s also the time when the body reaches its maximum potential in terms of fitness, physical strength and reproductive capacity.

Uniquely among humans, it’s also a period of major brain development.

In recent years, neuroscientists have discovered that there is a surge of brain development that begins around the age of 10 or 12 and lasts into the twenties. During this phase, waves of ‘synaptic pruning’ travel across the brain, getting rid of unused connections between brain cells to increase cognitive capacity and speed. This enables us to grow, not just physically, but in areas

like social relationships, emotions and risk-taking, too. Ultimately, we need to go through puberty in order to become fully functioning adults.

As parents who have already ‘been there, done that’, our role is to equip our children with knowledge, while helping them to feel secure. Inevitably, there will be a few collisions along the way; staying calm is important, too.

While it can be disconcerting to witness physical changes taking place in a child of 10, or younger, we must be careful not to treat them like adults, or even like teenagers, but give them the freedom to enjoy their childhood in a way that corresponds to age, rather than physical appearance. Beneath the changing body and emotions, a 10 year old is still just a child who needs to learn, make friends, play, feel loved and have fun, whatever they look like on the outside. L

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it’s important to provide support and information, and to reassure our children that such changes are normal and natural.

If you still recall that toe-curling talk from your own adolescence, Laura’s advice is to spare your own son or daughter the same embarrassment and keep it natural.

“Rather than having ‘the talk’, we should provide enough age-appropriate information over time to normalise conversations about puberty,” she says. “Talking about your own personal experience of puberty can be useful, as this helps to create an open and honest environment and encourages sharing.”

The difficulty can be knowing how to begin; a good starting point is to talk about some of the physical and emotional changes, such as growth spurts and spots, or about taking responsibility for personal hygiene.

“Using correct names for body parts is something we strongly recommend,” adds Laura. She also suggests creating a ‘growing-up box’ filled with things you can talk about together. “You could include supplies like sanitary products, deodorant and face wash, and names of people or support services they

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The Little London Music School

Parkside School

Introducing your child to the joy of music Classically based music classes for babies, toddlers and children under 5, tailored to each stage of your child’s development, designed to prepare them for learning an instrument. Taught by professional singers, accompanied by live orchestral instruments.

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Gender / Ages: Co-ed Nursery 2-4 years, Boys 4-13 years Total pupils: 283, boys 268, girls 15. Type: Day. Fees: Nursery – Daily from 1 morning £440 – 5 full days £3,410.

Pre Prep: Termly Year 2: £4,055. Prep: Termly Year 3 - Year 8 £5,564.

Entrance procedure: The first point of contact for prospective parents is our School Registrar, Lindre Scott, who can be contacted on 01932 862749. The Registrar can advise you of our forthcoming Open Mornings, arrange a personal tour of the school and discuss the needs of your child/children. Once your child is registered with Parkside School, your son will receive an invitation to join us for a taster day, which includes an assessment in Maths and English as well as a range of activities with their peer group. There is no assessment for Nursery children.

School Philosophy: Parkside’s high educational standards and

pastoral care, its sporting excellence and forward-thinking approach are all key ingredients to bringing out the best in every child under our guidance, so that they can achieve their full potential and become the best version of themselves. Through the care, guidance and support of our staff members we develop and nurture close links between school, pupil and home ensuring communication is key. Parkside encourages pupils to explore, discover and develop their particular skills and talents to the full whether in the academic field, sporting area, art or music and to find the fulfilment and selfesteem necessary to enhance their lives. The school aims to develop the values of respect, tolerance and compassion whilst encouraging self-reliance and independence. Parkside prepares pupils for their future schools and life in the wider world by developing them as well-rounded individuals, comfortable with their peers, elders and themselves, able to appreciate their talents, eager to realise their potential and confident in meeting new challenges.

Academic Record: The Common Entrance results in 2018 were excellent with all boys gaining places to their first choice school, with an abundance of A and B grades. Boys at Parkside go on to a variety of destination schools such as RGS, Hampton, St John’s Leatherhead, Epsom College, Wellington College, Bradfield College, Reed’s School, Tonbridge, Cranleigh and Charterhouse just to name a few.

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Notable Achievements and Alumni: Parkside School was judged ‘Excellent’ in all ISI inspection categories in March 2016. Parkside’s whole ethos is based around valuing and developing the individual child to be the best they can be academically, socially and emotionally. As our inspection report shows, we are true to our ethos and our pupils are gaining the attributes that will put them in a strong position in the future, to take their place in a rapidly evolving society and a challenging global job market.

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SENIOR

THE NEXT STEP

AS YOU R CHILD PR EPAR E S TO LE AVE PR EP, ASSISTANT H E ADTE ACH ER Edward Rober ts FROM UC S HAM PSTE AD E XPLOR E S WHAT TO LOOK FOR IN A SENIOR SCHOOL

You need to do your research when choosing the right place for your child

ondon is a city like no other, and the choice of independent schools here is equally broad.

So, when it comes to choosing the right place for your child, your research needs to be methodical.

Start with a school’s website – they all proudly display their values and the headteacher’s vision, but you might find some of these appear rather similar, and inspection reports on these websites can sometimes be four or five years old.

Most schools, however, are active on social media, and their streams are more likely to give you an immediate insight into what is actually happening on a day-to-day basis.

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Having undertaken some online research, it’s time to pay each school a visit. Is attending an open day worthwhile? Of course it is! You probably won’t get a true representation of the school (everyone will be on their best behaviour), but the headteacher should be available to talk to you, so arrive armed with questions. These are a few of the things you may wish to consider…

VISIONS AND AIMS Find out what makes the school distinctive. Does it tally with what is said on the website? How will the school change over the next five years?

While it’s pleasing to hear that the

school is planning to construct a new languages centre, for example, it’s always good to ensure curriculum development and pastoral care are also being considered, too.

WHAT ABOUT BULLYING? As a parent, we also want to be reassured that bullying does not exisit in a school.

However, children do get things wrong and, unfortunately, bullying may happen from time-to-time. What you need to know is how bullying is detected by the school and dealt with. Bullying online is something that every school now has to handle, so ask what measures are taken to educate the pupils about

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SENIOR Find out what your child’s educational interests are and pick a school accordingly

PASTORAL CARE Of course, growing up is a difficult road to tread, and the happiness of a child is every parent’s number-one priority. So, you should also investigate how pupils are taught to handle the stresses and the strains of 21st-century life. Who can they turn to when they are worried?

How well will they know the teachers who are responsible for their well-being?

Supporting pupils’ mental health should be top of every school’s agenda so find out exactly what the school does to facilitate this.

MOBILE PHONES As for mobile phones, schools are very aware of the perils they can cause, but policies on their use can vary wildly. Some institutions impose a blanket ban on them throughout the school day, while others adopt a more liberal approach and allow the pupils to use them at appropriate times. If you’re concerned – ask!

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COMPETITION CAN BE FIERCE, SO A SHORTLIST OF THREE SCHOOLS IS RECOMMENDED CO-CURRICULAR ACTIVITIES

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Every school will trumpet its seemingly infinite programme of co- and extracurricular activities. Drama, music and sport will, allegedly, be the best in the land, but what about trends, policies and future plans? Find out what happens if demand for places outstrips the places available in these teams, and whether the C and D teams get an opportunity to play.

At University College School in Hampstead, an inspiring drama department has seen a significant rise in the popularity of performing arts, so to cope with this demand, the Middle School play last year was performed by two casts. One performed before the interval and the other performed after – a move that proved extremely popular with the pupils.

Just how involved is the school in its local community? Children learn a great deal from volunteering with charitable organisations, but are these opportunities available to pupils of all ages? What is the school’s approach to fundraising for charities? How are the charities chosen?

Ultimately, you are trying to find the school that will best provide the education most suited to your child.

Discuss your impressions, findings and feelings with each other, but ensure your child doesn’t pin their hopes on one school. Competition for places can be fierce, so a shortlist of three schools is recommended. That said, keep the process as fun as possible; they shouldn’t see this as stressful, but simply another step on the journey to adulthood. L

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INTERVIEW

MY SCHOOL LIFE Greg James & Chris Smith R ADIO 1 DJ GR EG JAM E S AN D N EWSR E ADER CH RIS SMITH TELL US H OW SCHOOL HAS SHAPED TH EIR CAR EER S What was school life like for you?

Greg: I really liked school, apart from exams, and I enjoyed making people laugh and doing impressions of the teachers. I also loved putting on plays, and my life at school was mainly focused on extra-curricular activities.

Cricket featured heavily, too; I loved being captain of the school teams.

Chris: I was never one of the ‘cool kids’, but I got through by being funny. I was (and still am) into a lot of uncool stuff like Tolkien and listening to Queen – all of which are now back in fashion, so I had the last laugh!

What are your earliest school memories?

Greg: Accidentally kicking a light off stage during Dracula Spectacular into an old lady in the front row.

Chris: Winning that short story

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competition! My mum was so excited, we drove to my headteacher’s house to tell him. He read my story out to the whole school the next day – it was about a dinosaur who loved brandy snaps.

What advice would you have given to yourself when you were school age?

Greg: Don’t worry about having a

This is the third book in Chris and Greg’s Kid Normal series

Tell us about the next instalment of your Kid Normal book series.

Greg: It’s our wildest and most ambitious adventure in the series, and a book I’m so proud of. I absolutely loved working with Chris, and we spend our writing sessions just trying to make each other laugh.

Chris: In our latest book, the most feared supervillain in the world, Magpie, is now at large, and he’s got evil plans for the boy who thwarted his plans last time – Kid Normal!

Anything else in the pipeline?

Greg: We’re busily writing the fourth adventure of Kid Normal right now, so there’s lots to do. We’re also about to start developing the series into a TV show, so watch this space.

Chris: There are a couple of other secret plans in the pipeline, too, but if we told you them, they wouldn’t be secrets any more! L Kid Normal and the Shadow Machine is out now, £6.99, Bloomsbury Children’s Books

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Which subjects did you enjoy the most?

Greg: English, French, history and geography. I loved reading, but hated studying books endlessly. It took all the joy out of it. Though I’ve since gone back and read some of the texts we studied, like To Kill a Mockingbird and Macbeth, and loved them!

Chris: English was my favourite subject; I was lucky enough to have some great teachers who encouraged me to enter a short story competition when I was eight.

girlfriend until you’re at least 25. I was pretty focused on my studies and finding a radio station where I could do work experience. So, not much I’d change, really!

Chris: Never take advice from time travellers! Everything happens for a reason, even if it takes you a few years to work out why.

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• In April 2017 we announced that we were going to phase out Years 7 and 8 and become a prep school for boys aged 4 to 11 years old.

• In 2019 our first cohort of 11+ leavers secured offers to 22 independent senior and state schools including: Hampton Ibstock Place Kew House KCS, Wimbledon Kingston Grammar Latymer Upper Reed's St Paul's Junior School Tiffin Westminster Under School Wilson's Grammar School • Non-selective for entry into Reception; assessment for entry into all other year groups including 7+ and 8+ • Minibuses from Chiswick, Hampton, Kew, Kingston, Osterley, Richmond, Sunbury and St Margaret’s

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