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34 EARTH MOTHER Actress and mum Jessica Alba talks business, babies and maintaining a happy, healthy home 41 TOT GEAR We put the Uppababy Cruz pushchair through its paces and round up the latest strolling products 44 “WHAT I WISH I’D KNOWN” Film director Richard Curtis shares his fatherhood advice 48 LABOUR OF LOVE Louisa van den Bergh shares her advice on the unpredictability of giving birth 60 TASTES TO DELIGHT Organic springtime weaning recipes for your little one 72 EDUCATION EXPERTS We put your Early Years questions to those in the know

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SHOP THE ELEMENTS Adorable nursery and wardrobe essentials inspired by earth, air, water and fire

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BABY NEWS Keeping you in the know with all things great and small DATES FOR YOUR DIARY Goings-on around Surrey over the next two months STORYTIME WITH DADDY Book releases perfect for a spot of dad and baby bedtime reading PARTY TIME: IN THE GARDEN Carole Middleton shares her planning and style tips for an outdoor do DIARY OF A MUM Martha Alexander is ready to get fit again… she thinks 51 THE BREASTFEEDING CAFÉ Your common questions answered by Sioned Hilton 52 MEET THE EXPERTS Advice from our healthcare professionals

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55 TIME TO TALK Marina Fogle and Chiara Hunt of The Bump Class discuss the ninth month of pregnancy 56 THE REVIEW The best travel cots to pack for your little ones 59 FOOD NEWS The latest offerings for mini diners and busy families 65 TRAVEL NEWS Prepare to pack your bags and travel in style with baby in tow 67 DIARY OF A NIGHT NANNY Georgie Bateman is on hand to restore confidence in new mum Laura 69 EDUCATION NEWS All you need to know from the classroom and beyond 70 MEET THE HEAD Behind the scenes at Downsend Pre-Prep 75 MINI AGENDA What’s on in and around the county throughout May and June 82 INSPIRE Talking business, and why being organic is so important, with Mori founders Akin Onal and Cameron Millar

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Our colourful shopping pages (p.19) are inspired by the elements this issue – earth, air, water and fire – and Carole Middleton lets us in on how to throw the perfect garden party, immersing your little ones in nature (p.39).

Alice Fotheringham cooks up an organic feast for baby with seasonal ingredients in mind (p.60), and we capture the cutest twosomes in our heartwarming twins shoot (p.28).

Martha Alexander, our brilliant Diary of a Mum, writes an extremely amusing account of trying to get back into exercise post-baby (p.47). And finally, in celebration of Father’s Day on Sunday 18 June, the inimitable writer and director Richard Curtis – himself a father of four – gives his invaluable advice on what he wishes he had known before becoming a dad for the first time (p.44) and Emma O’Donovan cherry picks the best reads for papa and baby to enjoy together (p.26).

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Hello! And welcome to our eco issue.

When your days are spent soothing a teething baby or negotiating with a recalcitrant toddler (I’m currently living this one with my two year old!) it’s hard to find a moment to spare a thought for the bigger issues, let alone global warming or sustainability.

But these are universal concerns that affect each one of us, and we like to think that, with small lifestyle changes here and there, together we can make a difference for our children’s future.

In our house, we’ve started using environmentally-friendly nappies and wipes (until I can face the potty training), encouraging the children to scoot rather than all piling into the car, and this summer we’ll be spending weekends by the Suffolk seaside instead of hopping on a plane, in some small effort to reduce our family’s carbon footprint.

Demonstrating her eco credentials on a much larger scale, we spoke to Hollywood star Jessica Alba, whose organic lifestyle brand Honest was motivated by the arrival of her own two daughters (p.34), and we join the founders of Mori (p.82) to find out why being organic is so important to them.

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Where did you grow up?

Bromley, South East London.

What do you love about this time of year?

The days are warmer and longer, and everything is in bloom, so I spend as much time as possible outdoors, soaking it all up.

Best holiday you’ve ever had?

A few years ago, I spent Christmas in Goa with my family. We spent Christmas Day eating curry on the beach, which was pretty special!

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The best thing about being a mum?

My new superhuman ability to incapacitate small people though the power of tickling.

Emma rounds up the best books for dads and their little ones on p.26.

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BabyBjörn’s spring collection has been inspired by the modern-day dad. Six ordinary fathers front the campaign, along with their children, modelling the limited-edition designs of the Baby Carrier One. Styles include mesh and cotton options in denim and a blue tropicalleaf print. Suitable for use from birth up to three years. From £134.99, babybjorn.co.uk

PRIVATE HOSPITAL SPIRE ST ANTHONY’S HAS LAUNCHED A CHILDREN’S SERVICE FOLLOWING A £30 MILLION INVESTMENT. THE NEWLY ESTABLISHED PAEDIATRIC TEAM AT THE CHEAM-BASED FACILITY ARE ON HAND TO TREAT PATIENTS UP TO THE AGE OF 16, GIVING PARENTS FAST ACCESS TO VARIOUS DOCTORS AND TREATMENT OPTIONS. SPIREHEALTHCARE.COM

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Lobella Loves is a new online shopping destination that brings together a whole host of beautiful brands for baby. The curated edit of clothing, toys, gifts and nursery essentials also includes a selection of goodies for mum. And with every sale, a donation is made to Cocoon Family Support, a charity helping those suffering with postnatal depression. lobellaloves.com

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WIN A SUPPORI SLING WITH METANIUM

To make your days out with baby even easier, Metanium is giving away four award-winning Suppori slings (RRP £45), suitable from six months of age, plus a Metanium Everyday Easy Spray Barrier Lotion with each one. The double-action spray protects and moisturises skin to help prevent nappy rash. Two sprays should be enough to form a thin protective layer; pat around the area to maximise coverage – no need to rub in. The handy spray is ideal to keep in your changing bag, too.

Enter online at babysurrey.co.uk/competitions

SLEEP SOUNDLY Baby won’t sleep at night? There’s an app for that…

Johnson’s Bedtime Baby Sleep app allows you to track your child’s snooze habits, access personalised advice, and create a playlist of lullabies and ambient sounds.

You can also learn how to incorporate Johnson’s threestep bedtime routine, with interactive how-to videos, proven to improve the quality of baby’s slumber.

Free on iTunes

Give a gift that lasts forever with The Present Tree. Choose from a selection of potted saplings, each of which symbolises something different, and it’ll be wrapped in organza and delivered to your nominated address.

Hawthorn is a good choice if you’re buying for a new baby; it’s said to represent love and protection. From £35, thepresenttree.com

STYLISH SCENARIOS French illustrator Jean Jullien’s new book makes a sweet addition to baby’s bookshelf. Before & After features bold graphics to make learning playful and imaginative, showing little readers a series of humorous outcomes as they flip back and forth. Suitable for ages two years and up. £8.95, Phaidon

MAMAS & PAPAS’ LOVED FOR LIFE INITIATIVE IS ENCOURAGING PARENTS TO REFRESH AND RECYCLE THEIR PUSHCHAIRS. TRADEIN YOUR MODEL FOR A GIFT CARD WORTH UP TO £140; SHOP ITS RANGE OF RECONDITIONED BUGGIES AND SAVE UP TO 50%, AND EVEN REPAIR OR CUSTOMISE YOUR PRAM WITH SPARE PARTS AND ADD-ONS. MAMASANDPAPAS.COM/LOVED-FOR-LIFE

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Jonathan Adler brings his signature colours and prints to Fisher Price’s latest range

MOTHER NURTURE Mother Sense is the new local group for parents and babies in the Farnham area.

Offering a range of sessions, from free community clinics to a five-week course and private consultations, qualified therapists will help to develop your child’s motor, sensory and communication skills with practical tips and interactive workshops. Keep an eye on its Facebook page for the latest dates and class locations. Launches in May, facebook.com/mothersensesurrey

THE STYLE SET

Designer Jonathan Adler is bringing panache to playtime with a new range of toys for Fisher Price. His iconic prints and contemporary colour combinations adorn the line of sensory toys which are perfect for tummy time, plus a range of style pegs which can be attached to baby’s pushchair. From £4.99, argos.co.uk

ELMER THE ICON It may be 28 years since he first sprung onto the scene, but Elmer the Elephant is still as popular as ever. In the run-up to Elmer Day on 27 May, a whole new range of books, toys and clothing dedicated to the patchwork elephant has been released. Shop in store from Tu at Sainsbury’s. andersenpress.co.uk/elmer

PRINTS CHARMING

KEEP THEM COSY Aussie favourite ErgoPouch, known for its range of sleepsuits and swaddles, has launched in John Lewis. Made from natural fibres that are gentle on delicate skin, the sleeping bags keep baby warm without the need for blankets, and feature two-way zippers for easy nappy changing. Available in a number of colourways. From £34.99, johnlewis.com

Update your pram for the new season with Stokke’s summer kit. The new pattern, available in three pastel shades, features woodland animals and flowers, and fits various models from Stokke’s range of pushchairs.

The kit includes additional ventilation zippers and is made using UPF 50+ fabrics to keep baby both cool and protected. £119, stokke.com

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ecorating your baby’s nursery is one of life’s most exciting journeys, from picking the shade of paint to choosing the finer details to make it a unique space.

To celebrate this special time, Baby Surrey has teamed up with Silver Cross to give one lucky reader a Soho Cot Bed and Nursery Wardrobe Combo set – worth an impressive £950 – to form the basis for baby’s new bedroom.

With plenty of innovative features to help you on your parenting journey, the Soho is the smart space solution, offering a wardrobe, changing station and dresser in one ultra-compact yet stylish product. The patented one-touch hideaway changing table folds out when needed and then stores neatly away when not in use.

Designed with longevity in mind, the full-size cot bed has three base height positions, transforming into a toddler bed to grow with your child from newborn until they are approximately four years old. You’ll find optimum storage with three deep soft-close drawers, double rails in the wardrobe and smart little storage compartments for all those baby essentials.

The stylish and contemporary design, in all its white woodgrain-finished glory, complete with square brushed steel handles, has a universal appeal to suit any style, and will give one lucky winner the perfect base for their dream nursery.

And as with all Silver Cross nursery sets, the company will even send someone to build the furniture for you – now, it doesn’t get much better than that! bs

WORTH £950

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FEEL GOOD THIS SUMMER…

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On Wednesday 14 June, stores and cafés across the country will be serving up free organic mini breakfasts for the ‘Wake Up To Organic’ campaign, which aims to show just how simple it is to make the switch. Find your local store at wakeuptoorganic.co.uk

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May sees the start of National Walking Month, and this year the UK charity Living Streets is campaigning for you to #Try20 – so venture out and take baby for a stroll for 20 minutes every day. livingstreets.org.uk

4 TODDLER TIME Today is the first Wharf Weenies session for little ones aged 18 months and over at Dapdune Wharf. Enjoy story time, fun crafts and more. Be sure to dress for the outdoors, too. £3, nationaltrust.org.uk

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SPF at the ready – today is the start of Sun Awareness Week.

For more skin-saving tips and advice, visit bad.org.uk

12 LET’S PAINT

Embrace your toddler’s creative side, dress for mess, and venture to the Lightbox in Woking for some painting fun. £3 per child, adults go free. thelightbox.org.uk

Mustela SPF50+ Sun Spray £29, escentual.com

Pens at the ready, we have a few suggestions to keep you and baby busy for the next two months

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Grab your wellies and get stuck in with Peppa Pig’s Muddy Puddle Walk for Save the Children. Today’s your last chance! Register in advance at savethechildren.org.uk

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Sensory soother As the brand best known for its innovative Neckerchew, Cheeky Chompers will be unveiling its much-anticipated muslin collection this May. Babies can enjoy the comfort of organic cotton muslin in the iconic Neckerchew, the original chewy dribble bib and comforter. cheekychompers.com

Enjoy cocktails and canapés with Eimear Varian Barry

Medela’s Big Breastfeeding Café is back. Sign up for a package to host your own Café at home by emailing medelamums@gmail.com

21 PARTY TIME

Little London will be at Hamleys Regent Street from 10am, for a host of family fun. littlelondonmagazine.co.uk

Show your support for the participants of the London 10 Mile family fun run by packing up a picnic and soaking up the atmosphere in Richmond Park. london10mile.com

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To kickstart The Medicine Garden in Cobham’s Inspiration Series, enjoy an evening with social media sensation and mum-oftwo Eimear Varian Barry.

The Surrey mum will be discussing how she built her brand over canapés and cocktails. £45 each, themedicinegarden.com

15 WIN BIG

Today’s your last chance to enter our exclusive comps – this issue you could be the lucky winner of a Silver Cross Soho nursery set! babysurrey. co.uk/competitions

18 FATHER’S DAY

Be sure to show him how much you love him on this special day!

28 WILD PLAY

Magnetic toy brand SmartMax launches the My First: Safari Animals. Cute, creative and clever!

Priced £17.99, amazon.co.uk

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From a selection bonpoint.com Tobias And The Bear bib £8, ministylin.com

Wooden Story shape stacker £23.95, lullabuy.co.uk A Little Lovely Company light £7.74, en.smallable.com

EARTH ANGELS

Keep baby closer to nature with sustainable accessories and a neutral palette of brushed khaki and textured taupe This stylish rocker is suitable for newborns to babies up to seven months Charlie Crane ‘Levo’ rocker £168.95, lullabuy.co.uk

Cotton-blend appliqué dress £29, cosstores.com

Kalinka cotton romper £70, mabelchild.co.uk

Tod’s suede moccasins £98, childsplayclothing.co.uk

Mini Rodini cotton-blend sweater £42, scandimini.co.uk Cotton trousers £45, wildandgorgeous.co.uk Leather booties £48, donsje.com

Guum Barcelona plywood bassinet £279.95, theweedepartmentstore.com

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SHOPPING Cashmere cardigan £99, mariechantal.co.uk

Cotton romper £29.99, questioneverythinglondon.com

Ferm Living lamp £63.95, lullabuy.co.uk

Leather booties £49, rachelriley.co.uk

From a selection at Cam Cam Copenhagen scandiborn.co.uk

Fleece-lined cotton throw £70, 64south.co.uk

WALKING ON AIR Light-as-a-feather cotton to the palest of pastels and cloud motifs; the sky’s the limit with this look

Hape wooden plane toy £5.50, johnlewis.com

Bloomingville cushion £43.50, madeindesign.co.uk

Kissy Kissy cotton bib £7, lucyandbelle.com

Merino wool cardigan £39, scarletribbonmerino.com

This chair’s high back and ergonomic design helps to promote proper posture when breastfeeding Microsuede nursing chair £875, olliella.com

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Cam Cam Copenhagen music mobile £25, scandiborn.co.uk

SHOPPING Kenzo cotton sweatshirt from £54, childrensalon.com

Masterkidz wooden fire station £49.95, naturalbabyshower.co.uk

Oogaa silicone spoon £6.99, littlegreenhome.co.uk

Leather booties £55, thelittleshoemaker.com From a selection at Petit Bateau alexandalexa.com

FIRE AWAY!

A sunset palette of red, yellow and orange is the perfect way to inject bold summer style into baby’s nursery Tripp Trapp wooden high chair £169, stokke.com

Plywood fire engine £49.99, kiddimoto.co.uk

Lab linen quilt £59, shak-shuka.com

Bakker Made With Love bodysuit £23.22, en.smallable.com

Plush comforter £25, steiff.com

Stay ahead of the curve with iCandy’s newest model iCandy Orange pushchair £790, icandyworld.com

Arsène Et Les Pipelettes linen and cotton trousers £40, rosesandthestars.com

Skitsch table lamp £146, madeindesign.co.uk

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SHOPPING

Djeco Enchanted Fishing magnetic toy £13.75, crafts4kids.co.uk

Even babygrows can’t escape the underwater trend – check o is s ee o d s rin Cotton-mix bodysuit £30, molo.com

From a selection bebebombom.com Cotton bodysuit £49, rachelriley.co.uk

Kissy Kissy cotton romper £26, childrensalon.com

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Big Stuffed octopus soft toy £165, libertylondon.com

Cotton dress £21.99, zara.com Charlie Crane high chair £199.95, cuckooland.com

Organic cotton romper £28, piupia.co.uk

Flip XT² pushchair £529, mamasandpapas.com

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Leather moccasins £20, bobux.co.uk

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STORYTIME with daddy...

Emma O’Donovan ROU N DS U P TH E BE ST R E ADS FOR PAPA AN D BABY

JUST LIKE DADDY

By Lucy Freegard

This tale is a joyful observation of the special relationship between parent and child – a perfect gift and a lovely reminder that children cherish the little moments as much as us adults do. £6.99, Pavilion

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BOOKS

What do you do when Grandad starts acting like a penguin? Little ones will love this touching tale

ABC OFF TO SEA

By Virginie Morgand ‘A is for Adventure’ in this stylish nautical-themed introduction to the alphabet. The bright drawings from the French illustrator are sure to inspire a love of learning. £9.95, Thames & Hudson

MY PICTURES AFTER THE STORM

By Eric Veillé

With animals, shapes and scenes to spot, this witty exploration of ‘before and after’ is filled with clever rhymes and funny images. £10.99, Gecko Press

imagination in this delightful new pre-school series of board books.

Familiar themes are explored with charm and humour. £6.99, Bloomsbury

IF I HAD A DINOSAUR

By Alex Barrow and Gabby Dawnay

Perfect for pre-school palaeontologists! This little girl has her sights set on a pet that is slightly larger and considerably scalier than the norm… A joy to share any time of day. £10.95, Thames & Hudson

BEDTIME WITH TED

LOOK, THERE’S A ROCKET!

What Ted lacks in stature he certainly makes up for with his

Peep through the cut-out holes and lead baby on an intergalactic

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adventure into outer space.

Encounter aliens and help steer the spacecraft on its mission. £6.99, Nosy Crow

TRIANGLE

By Mac Barnett and Jon Klassen A brilliantly anarchic feud between a triangle and a square evolves using black and white illustrations and clever, simple text. A fantastically funny read. £12.99, Walker Books

WILLIAM BEE’S WONDERFUL WORLD OF TRUCKS

By William Bee

This visual feast will have little ones entranced for hours on end, with bright and bold characters to

seek out on each page. £12.99, Pavilion

THE LUMBERJACK’S BEARD

By Duncan Beedie

Chopping down trees means Big Jim Hickory needs to find a new home for his woodland friends.

Perhaps his beard would make the perfect temporary residence? £6.99, Templar Publishing

WHEN GRANDAD WAS A PENGUIN

By Morag Hood

Confusion ensues as a little girl realises her beloved Grandad has been replaced by a mischievous penguin. A heartwarming tale of the importance of grandparents. £11.99, Two Hoots

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Inigo & Ottilie Inigo and Ottilie wear printed cotton bodysuits, ÂŁ60 each, both Caramel.

TWO OF A KIND Meet some of our favourite double acts, as we celebrate the precious bond between twins in our at-home edit

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Luna & Pearl Luna wears printed cotton dress with matching bloomers, £59, Rachel Riley.

Pearl wears printed cotton knit dress, £48, Pepa & Co. Hair bows, £10 (set of two), Rachel Riley.

Thomas & Theo Thomas wears cotton top, from £92, and linen shorts, from £82, both Bonpoint.

Theo wears cotton top, from £92, and cotton trousers, from £62, both Bonpoint.

Sienna & Hayden Sienna and Hayden wear cotton sweaters, £24 each, and chiffon tutus, £32 each, both Bob & Blossom.

Hair bows, £10 (set of two), Rachel Riley. Cotton muslin blanket, £58, Aden + Anais.

Rocco & Jenson Rocco wears organic cotton printed babygrow, £16, Frugi.

Jenson wears organic cotton bodysuit, £9, Frugi.

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INTERVIEW

earth mother FROM SE X SYM BOL TO DEVOTED MUM AN D ENTR EPR EN EU R , Jessica Alba TALKS ABOUT H ER BABIE S, H ER BUSIN E SS AN D H OW SH E MANAGE S TO STAY IN SU PER STAR SHAPE

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INTERVIEW

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The actress is happy to attend charity events with her husband and two girls in tow

‘Dad smooches’: Jessica’s family regularly make an appearance on Instagram

as the California native lists the values at the heart of the company, but the biggest delight is the legacy she is creating for her children.

“My kids are proud of what their mother does and I’m proud to have a company that promotes the wellbeing of families and creating a healthy home environment for children everywhere,” she smiles.

While she thinks it’s ‘cool’ that her daughters get to see their mother wearing ‘many different hats’, there are downsides.

And despite her habit of playing superheroes on screen, Alba – like all of us mere mortals – only has a finite number of hours in every day. “They don’t like it if I miss too many of their school events,” she says. “I was the only mother at school who missed one Halloween party and Honor still reminds me about that!”

Although in the last few years she has scaled back her Hollywood career, only appearing in a handful of films, when the opportunity arises to get back into finest kung fu form – like for last year’s Mechanic: Resurrection opposite Jason Statham – Alba literally leaps at the chance. “I had so much fun making that movie,” she says with an enormous (and perfect) grin. “I had to train very hard and get into top shape to be ready to handle all the stunt work that was involved. I also got to do my share of butt-kicking – I’m not just the damsel in distress.”

Judging by her perfectly toned physique, Alba takes her fitness very seriously and can still kick it with the biggest action stars in the business. But while she insists she will never turn her back on Hollywood entirely, you shouldn’t expect to find her regularly on the

celebrity circuit or falling out of a club – her priority is, and always will be, her family.

“I love everything about being a parent. I didn’t even know it was possible to have this much love and joy and happiness in my life. It’s overflowing, unconditional and selfless.

I never experienced that type of thing before I had kids,” she says brightly. “It is a profound experience and I feel like I’ve finally come into my own and become the person I always should have been. I feel more grounded, free and comfortable in my own skin than I ever have before.”

For some mothers, having children can cause greater anxiety as they fret over their brood, but for Alba it has been a process of loosening up and letting go.

“Before I had kids, I was very responsible and serious,” she confesses, lowering her voice. “I used to be all about controlling my environment; everything had to be just so.

Now my idea of perfection is different. You can label bins and have a place for stuff, but when the kids go into the playroom you’re not going to say, ‘We can’t paint because how are we going to clean it up?’”

The big question though, is how does a woman with so much on her slender shoulders find time to relax? “You know, spending time with my kids kind of does take all the stress away, weirdly,” she says. “I’m in the moment with them. They make me so happy; they’re pure joy. I know they’re not going to be little forever, so I really soak up as much as I can with them. That’s kind of how I de-stress.” bs With her husband of nine years, Cash Warren

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egularly voted as one of the ‘hottest’ actresses on the planet, Jessica Alba quickly became a household name after a career-breaking turn in James Cameron’s Dark Angel. What followed were starring roles in blockbusters Sin City, Fantastic Four, Into the Blue and Machete, a whirlwind of glamorous award shows and parties, and countless magazine shoots. But following the birth of her daughters – Honor, eight, and Haven, five – with husband Cash Warren, Alba reveals that acting no longer felt like enough. Realising how many toxic baby and household products were on the market, she decided to develop her own range. Launched in 2012, The Honest Company – which produces and distributes non-toxic household goods, baby products and an organic beauty line – is now worth over a billion dollars, an outcome Alba certainly hadn’t seen coming.

“I found my direction in life – to promote and encourage a healthy lifestyle in others because it’s so important to me and if I can help provide healthier, alternative products out there, making them accessible, it means so much to me to be able to do that,” says the 35-year-old. “And I think it’s successful because it’s from the heart, and the fact that it’s doing well just makes me happy!”

Balancing life as a CEO and mother, and a ‘side-job’ as a film star, is not easy, with an average day requiring planning, dedication and lots of colouring books. “I’ll get up at 5:15am for a hot yoga or spinning class, then make breakfast for the family, and depending on the day, take Honor and Haven to school,” explains Alba. “My kids often spend time with me at the office where they’ll bring books to read or things to colour. They also love running around the office, but fortunately I have lots of babysitters to watch over them!”

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PARTY TIME

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BABY PARTIES

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osting a party for friends and their toddlers can be more than a little chaotic, so holding a gathering outside is the perfect opportunity to let them make the most of the open space and allow you to enjoy the glorious weather and longer days.

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Why not give your party a ‘glamping’ twist, with floor cushions and picnic blankets? Pile them up underneath a gazebo, teepee or canopy to provide plenty of shade for baby.

Having a food and drink station where everyone can help themselves will save you from running around. Serve up iced tea or pink lemonade in kegs or large jugs, and don’t forget those colourful straws to give your beverages a lift! You could display these, and your cutlery, in terracotta plant pots.

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Eef Lillemor bamboo tableware from £5, the-pippa-and-ike-show.com 1. Chloé cotton chambray hat £35, childrensalon.com 2. Organic cotton dress £26, welovefrugi.com 3. Organic cotton romper £24, littlegreenradicals.co.uk 4. Cotton short dungarees £35, whatmothermade.co.uk 5. Organic cotton reversible t-shirt £21, sense-organics.com

When it comes to decorating your space, be inspired by the colours in your garden and try to echo those shades. Candle lanterns will take you from afternoon to evening, while fairylights in the trees look utterly charming.

Be sure to keep your little ones occupied with games and toys. Traditional wooden toys, such as skittles, will be a hit with guests of all ages.

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REVIEW

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James Dobson, HIS WIFE CAROLIN E AN D BABY BERTIE TE ST DRIVE TH E U PPABABY CRUZ UPPABABY CRUZ American brand Uppababy, best known for its Cruz and Vista pushchairs, has really struck a chord with the UK market over the last few years. The Cruz, having been listed as one of TFL’s top five public-transport friendly buggies, is light, narrow and compact, making it a great option for town or city dwellers.

The pushchair has already clocked up a few miles along the river

THE LOWDOWN For me, choosing a pushchair felt like a massive dad milestone, and made impending fatherhood seem very real indeed. Selecting which set of wheels I was going to proudly push my newborn in was one of the few things on the to-do list that I was genuinely excited about, and which I didn’t try to delegate to my wife, Caroline. My research began by nosing around John Lewis, kicking tyres and testing the handling of several models. I hadn’t heard of Uppababy until a friend was showing off her Vista model – she told me the Cruz would be a good option for us knowing its compact size would be handy for navigating front doors and travelling. We duly followed her advice…

into the outside world, and took Bertie for a spin along the river. He looked comfortable cosied up in his carrycot, and Caroline and I were happy as Larry as we took turns pushing this swish set of wheels. The Cruz has already clocked up a fair few miles!

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Even before Bertie arrived, with the carrycot locked in place, our Uppababy looked fantastic in ‘Jake Black’, parked up by the front door ready for action. But it looks even better filled with our baby. A few days after returning home from hospital, we decided to venture

Having fumbled my way through building the cot and baby changer, putting the Uppababy together was a simple delight and the practical aspects have continued. Being the big lad that Bertie is, he was upgraded to the toddler seat after four months of blissful strolls in the carrycot. Bertie loves the seat, as it allows him to keep a lookout on what’s going on around him. One of the best features of the Uppababy is the adjustable canopy which has proven to be very handy in keeping the sun out of his eyes. The other highlight is its ability to turn on a sixpence – great for city life and a fun distraction for Bertie. The Cruz is very straightforward to collapse and assemble, and because it is smaller than a lot of buggies, it’s also reasonably lightweight to pick up and carry around.

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THE VERDICT Having been a competitive dad for six months now and forensically inspected every buggy that has crossed my path during that time, I can’t believe I hadn’t known about Uppababy before – it seems like 90% of parents in the South East own one of its designs! This is certainly no bad thing and, if anything, offered great reassurance during those early months of finding one’s feet in the parenting world.

We are thrilled that we chose the Uppababy Cruz and in its own way it has become a firm part of our new life as a trio. bs From £529.99; carrycot, £219.99, uppababy.co.uk

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New and improved We round up the latest gear for summer strolling

MOUNTAIN BUGGY DUET Not only has Mountain Buggy added improved features to its much-loved Duet double buggy, the design is now available as a single with the ‘Joey’ clip-on tote. £599, mountainbuggy.com

NUNA SUITED COLLECTION Spring sees the launch of Nuna’s Suited range, which offers premium fabrics and leather-look details for a more luxury feel. Our pick is the swanky Leaf Curv rocker. £200, nuna.eu

ERGOBABY FESTIVAL CARRIER This limited edition print, in partnership with Sophie La Girafe, is available in both the 360° and Adapt carriers, with a custom strap to keep Sophie close by. From £119.90, ergobaby.co.uk

ICOO ACROBAT XL PLUS TRIO SET This new travel system features built-in LED lights – great for late-night strolls when baby won’t settle. Have them flashing selectively or permanently lit. £749.99, icoo.de/en

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BUGABOO BEE 5 Say hello to the new and improved Bugaboo Bee 5! We’re big fans of the smoother suspension, as well as the practical, easily removable seat covers. £549, bugaboo.com

LITTLELIFE BUGGY CUP HOLDER With longer days, we find ourselves venturing further afield, so keep your drink to hand with LittleLife’s new Buggy Cup Holder, which fits most pushchair handles. £8.99, littlelife.com

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FAMILY

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FAMILY

t’s now been quite a long time since we had a baby in the house – the first one was born in 1995 and the last one in 2003 and I’m clearly about to become an unreliable witness. So very quickly, before I forget everything except living with football boots, the sound of Nu-metal from behind locked doors, mobile phones hidden under pillows at 2am and other teenagerabilia, here is a little advice I can give about firsttime fatherhood. If you’re already knee-deep in parenthood, read no further – this is entry-level stuff. But with luck there may be something slightly useful here if you’re going to be a first time father this year, and you’re feeling under-briefed or terrified.

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AS YOU PREPARE Try to think about what happens after the birth. I spent an enormous amount of time in classes talking about waters breaking and deep breathing and contractions – and much less time talking about breastfeeding and changing nappies. The birth only lasts for a matter of hours – the aftermath goes on a lifetime. It’s like war: the invasion is very quick but the occupation, that lasts forever.

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BREASTFEEDING Now really pay attention to that stuff – it’s the main source of life, and sometimes grief, for the first few months. I remember my partner Emma being plunged into despair twice by the difficulties of something she’d assumed would be a doddle. If everything is going wrong, there are breastfeeding counsellors who can come to your house for an hour (and a fee) and make everything work again.

We were rescued by Clare Byam-Cook, who arrived, assessed and repositioned the whole caboodle. If you can’t find Clare, find her book… it’s also excellent.

why there’s all the shouting. Armageddon in 30 seconds. So having one – and if possible two – changing stations, which have all the equipment, means the moment there’s a nappy to be changed, you’ve got somewhere safe to go.

ON THAT CHANGING TABLE Make sure you’ve got lots of wet wipes. The cotton-wool and lukewarm water thing is something everyone does with their first child, but no one ever bothers about with their second. Wet wipes are a perfect modern invention and do the job like nothing else.

PATERNITY LEAVE NAMES Don’t give your child your second favourite name as their second name, because you

This is the most important one of all. Everyone is entitled to two weeks off – but only 40% of men take it. And that has a bad knock-

IT’S THE TEXTURE OF LIFE WITH A BABY THAT MATTERS; ITS JOYS AND ITS BOREDOMS might need it later. I wanted to call our son Daniel – Emma wanted Jake. We called him Jake Daniel. But then we had another son and Daniel was already gone. I never got the Dan of my dreams.

THE 40-MINUTE RULE No matter how wonderful or important or close any visitor is – in the days after the birth no mother wants someone to talk to them for longer that 40 minutes. I’m talking best friends, I’m talking grandmothers, I’m talking Harry

CHANGING TABLES Most trauma post-birth happens on or around nappy changing. It’s a messy business – it needs equipment. And it’s a vicious circle.

When you’ve rushed to change a nasty nappy and you’re missing something to do so, you start to call for help just when the baby is screaming so loudly your partner can’t hear your cries, and then they start shouting, asking

Styles and Beyoncé on a surprise joint visit – 40 minutes max for all of them. When you’ve had a baby, that’s all that matters in your world, and all you want to matter. People from the outside can remind you there’s a world elsewhere which bores or confuses you, or makes you feel that you’ll never return to the world of parties, friends and normal humans eating pizza and watching The Crown. So, give your visitors time to talk about the baby and the birth and then the moment they say, “Oh, I went to a brilliant movie last night” throw the baggages out.

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on effect for everyone. Do everything you can to be as free as you can for at least two weeks after the baby is born. There are lots of reasons: because it’s great, because you’re needed, but most of all, because that’s the time you learn what a child is. The thing about babies – and children – is that they’re interesting in all their details, in all their activity and non-activity. But if you think, “I’ll just be there for the important bits,” you’ll find it hard to build up the right emotional muscles, and risk missing the message entirely.

It’s the texture of life with a baby that matters; it’s every little meaningless moment, its joys and its boredoms, and the continuing feeling of shared responsibility. Also, if the father isn’t there in those first weeks, there’s a danger it sets up a pattern of non-attendance, and “it’s really the mother’s job” for the whole of life.

So even if your work is hugely important – your other, new job is even more important.

Paternity leave is the crucial training for a job that lasts a lifetime. Good luck, guys. It’s going to be so groovy… bs

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BABY TALK

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Diary of a MUM AS BABY ROBIN BEGIN S SLEEPING TH ROUGH , Mar tha Alexander IS ON A MISSION TO DITCH TH E BAGGY SHIRTS

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’m ready to exercise again. I don’t really want to.

I feel like a car that’s failed its MOT. I’m knackered.

I know I have to try; to just put one foot in front of the other and run. Or do a sun salutation or two.

Or join my husband in his 6am HIIT sessions in the sitting room, which sounds like a herd of baby elephants doing the Gay Gordons. But I just can’t be arsed. I really can’t.

I wish all of those Instagram witches with washboard stomachs 3.5 seconds after giving birth would stop posting pictures of their waistlines: in order to satisfy their own egos they make so many other women feel like human flotsam – then have the cheek to say they are trying to inspire others. Yeah. Inspire others to lie down in the road and await oncoming traffic. I probably should be reaching out or leaning in or whatever, but I’d settle for just standing up.

I shouldn’t complain: I’ve had a lovely time posting beige carbs into my face all day, every day for six months, but all good things must come to an end. Firstly, I have to stop shopping as if I’m a nine-year-old whose mother has allowed her to have complete autonomy in Sainsbury’s (Party Rings, Frosties, Nutella). I don’t want Robin to grow up in Willy Wonka’s Chocolate Factory.

Also, I no longer want to wear shirts so huge they resemble those tarpaulin covers people use to protect their cars.

But seriously, when am I meant to be exercising? Any time I’m not changing nappies or singing Old MacDonald, I want to have a bath or sleep or look at pictures of people I don’t know on the internet. Not plod around the park like Jabba the Hutt, wheezing. Not going to yoga, where I am always the person the instructor needs to manipulate back into downward dog. I hate the plank.

I could not possibly do a class that requires any type of jumping because, to be totally frank, I was lazy when it came to my pelvic floor exercises.

My first run was not a success. Two women in headto-toe Lululemon bounded past like nubile springboks while I lumbered along like a dray horse. But I’ve done it. This moment has, unfortunately, also come at exactly the same time as my being ready to go on a night out

again. To be honest, a bottle of Picpoul and a voluble gossip is far more on brand for me than deep squats.

I can do this because Robin is sleeping through and has been for some time now (I know mothers aren’t meant to gloat about this but allow me a smidgen of smugness). How did that happen? Well, I lost the plot when one day Robin didn’t shut her eyes all day long – literally 10 hours – and hired Heidi Skudder, aka The Parent and Baby Coach, to come to the house and help Robin settle herself to sleep. There were a few tears and a lot of hand-wringing from me, but now she sleeps for 12 hours each night and is a clockwork baby. And we’re all so much happier. I’m back in the driver’s seat.

I met my best friend Mary for cocktails. It was the first time we’d had a drink together in 18 months – practically the moment she gave birth to my goddaughter Mika, I became pregnant with hers.

There was no monitor, no steriliser, no pieces of singing plastic driving me insane. Gin and tonics, flutes of champagne, espresso martinis – by 9pm I was roaring about childbirth to a table of terrified male strangers.

Tequila, salt, lime – by midnight I had taken off my boots and was undulating like Baloo to How Will I Know by Whitney Houston, having repeatedly asked a group of embarrassed teenagers if I was a MILF. The good news is, I wasn’t sick on the street, I didn’t cry and no one had to ring my husband for assistance.

Sure, I fell asleep face down on the sofa having not brushed my teeth, sweating inside pleather trousers. I woke up nose to nose with my cat and cursed with a boil-washed hangover. I was going to pay for my fun.

My husband took Robin out for the day (“Mummy has had a party time, party time, party time” he sang to the tune of Here We Go Round The Mulberry Bush, as I shuddered in my dressing gown) not because I didn’t want to see her, but because I didn’t want her to see me like this (if you have had one too many and feel guilty, do not Google ‘mums who party’ as it will make you want to bury yourself alive in the back garden).

I do need to pull myself together. Less Picpoul, more push-ups. Right, then. bs

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PREGNANCY

LABOUR of LOVE Louisa van den Bergh OF LU LU BABY GUIDE S YOU TH ROUGH TH E U N PR EDIC TABILIT Y OF GIVING BIRTH

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PREGNANCY

ven though it’s a huge topic, and undoubtedly the big moment you are counting down for, I tend to put off writing about labour and the reason is that my gorgeous boys didn’t come out that way.

They were born by caesarean section. I often ask myself: am I qualified to write about this subject – what do I know about labour? I have never been through it myself; I haven’t even had a single contraction, for goodness sake!

But do you have to have experienced labour to be able to write about it?

Arguably no. The reason I say this, and perhaps rather controversially, is that from my work and hearing thousands of birth stories from friends, family and the ladies who have been through our antenatal courses, I can honestly conclude that no two experiences of birth are the same and that is the only thing I can write with real certainty.

So what other generalisations can I tentatively make about labour?

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the third stage is a hotly debated topic, but research indicates you are at a higher risk of haemorrhage if you opt for the natural route.

HOW LONG WILL IT TAKE? ‘How long is a piece of string?’ is very relevant when it comes to labour. One of my closest friends had a 55-hour labour, including the latent phase. Others I know have delivered their babies at home on the bathroom floor as they didn’t even have time to get in the car (and yes, these were their first babies, too).

Time can depend on a myriad of factors including your baby’s position, whether or not you have been induced, where you are, how you feel, the care you are receiving and so on.

Research has shown that active labour is eight hours on average for first-time mums, and five hours for subsequent labours, so, generally, second and subsequent labours are almost always shorter and easier than the first.

WHAT WILL IT FEEL LIKE?

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THE STAGES Most labours are broken into three stages.

The first is what is usually understood to be labour: experiencing contractions which build in intensity and narrow in interval until your cervix is dilated to 10cm and you are ready to push your baby out. This first stage can be further divided into the latent and active phases. The latent phase is usually longer than the active and is when your cervix is dilated to 3cm or 4cm. From then until 10cm – or fully dilated – is the active phase. Some don’t even realise they are in the latent stage of labour, while others endure hours of painful contractions only to be told they are ‘just 1cm’.

Many also experience a phase called ‘transition’ in between the first and second phases. Contractions keep coming and mums can feel shivery and anxious, even angry and aggressive. “I’d had enough and began swearing at everyone around me,” reported one mum.

Our midwife, Victoria Cochrane, says she often has to turn away and smile at this stage, for the symptoms of transition are common and are simply a signal that mum is nearly ready to push.

The second stage of labour is the pushing stage and is when your baby is actually born – hurrah! The third is the delivery of the placenta which can be helped along with an injection of synthetic oxytocin – the hormone which makes your womb contract. Or you can choose to wait for nature to take its course – this may be hastened by breastfeeding, as that also releases oxytocin. Active versus physiological (or natural) management of

I asked some mums this question and this is what they told me: “Really intense period pains, like you have never experienced before”, “Hours of contractions with absolutely no pain. All I could feel was pressure”, “Like a hot poker in my lower back, agony”, “I felt the contractions but it wasn’t painful”, “The epidural couldn’t come quick enough!” Such a varied response to a simple question but obviously the most subjective one in the

fluid and is intended to also play a role in temperature regulation and skin protection after birth, but nowadays it is often removed immediately.

Sweat. Most women choose to give birth in a hospital – commonly very warm places. Combine this with the hard work of contracting and pushing out a baby, and things can get very sweaty. Also while we are on the subject of bodily functions, let’s briefly mention that you may do a poo in the heat of the action. Midwives are very used to this and deal with it discreetly; but it’s worth noting that your dignity is something that is usually left at the door when you have your baby. For my first emergency caesarean, I remember lying naked on the operating table while a dozen medical staff buzzed around me. I didn’t mind in the slightest, all that mattered was my son’s safe arrival.

Tears. I think it is fair to say that labour is emotional, no matter what kind you have.

From that first realisation that labour has begun, to the moment you hold your baby in your arms, it is hard to find a more intense and emotional experience.

TO PLAN OR NOT TO PLAN? While I firmly believe that it is helpful for mums to understand what may happen, I also feel that planning too much for your baby’s birth can be setting yourself up for a fall.

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PLANNING TOO MUCH CAN BE SETTING YOURSELF UP FOR A FALL – LABOUR IS UNPREDICTABLE world. Many of the positive testimonials have often been down to hypnobirthing – simple but specific self-hypnosis, relaxation and breathing techniques – something to consider if you are particularly fearful of labour.

BLOOD, SWEAT AND TEARS (AND OTHER THINGS) If you are having a baby, be prepared for blood. And lots of it. This isn’t something that people dwell on but it is worth being prepared for. It doesn’t stop once you have had your baby either – then there is the placenta to deliver and the lochia (bleeding) afterwards for up to six weeks. Once out, baby may be bloody and covered in vernix caseosa, a waxy white substance delightfully translated from the Latin for ‘cheesy varnish’, which protects baby’s skin in the womb from the amniotic

plan for these things, and as our midwives endeavour to remind mums, there are two of you in it together – you and the baby – it’s not just in your hands. In our classes, we encourage our mums to be informed, open-minded and to consider making a list of birth ‘hopes’. That way, if these hopes fail to materialise, mothers will not be too disappointed.

So, a ‘typical labour’ is impossible to pin down: no two descriptions are ever identical, but there are common elements.

Our obstetrician Dr Penny Law sums it up perfectly: “Even for women who have previously had a baby, no two births are the same. This is why I believe it is important to be as informed as possible in advance and to understand that anything can happen, because that will help you to cope with the unpredictability of giving birth.” bs

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The Breastfeeding Café with SIONED HILTON

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YOUR COMMON BREASTFEEDING QUESTIONS How do I know my baby has the right latch?

The early days are vital to get breastfeeding established and milk production initiated. First of all, find a position that you are comfortable sitting in. The principles of nursing for any baby is a good latch – chin to breast, nipple to nose, nipple falls deep into the mouth, the lower lip curls out under the nipple and the upper lip thins and curls up a little. The suck will feel a little tender for the first few days on the nipple, listen and watch for a burst of sucks and the swallowing of milk. Also look at what is going on in your baby’s nappies, as this indicates the volume of milk going through their system, too.

Is there a reason one breast may produce more milk than the other?

Mums often find that one breast can produce more milk than the other and if you’re expressing, this becomes more apparent. There are several reasons why this might happen. For example, in the early weeks after birth when your breasts’ cells are primed for feeding, this is when storage capacity is determined, and is dependent on feeding patterns at the time.

As long as your little one is content, steadily

growing and you’re meeting their needs, there is nothing to worry about.

How long should I wait after baby is born to start expressing?

I would advise you take some time to get breastfeeding established before expressing.

The early weeks with baby help you to initiate feeding, build your supply and get lots of practice. However, if you’re experiencing difficulties, your midwife may suggest you begin expressing to help initiate your supply.

What’s the best way to deal with biting during breastfeeds?

This is a tough one, as your baby is exploring how to move her tongue. Make sure the latch is deep – when she is sucking her tongue should come over her lower gum. It is usual to have a nip as they slip off the breast or get frustrated as the milk flow slows. Watch your baby and see when she does nip; anticipate this and take her off before she bites. Try to minimise your reaction as baby may interpret the shock as being pushed away, and the bite will stop your milk flow because the reflex will react to the pain. bs

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GET TALKING Breastfeeding has been proven time and time again to be the best way to feed baby. However, it’s not always as easy. Here are my tips for preparing yourself…

Having a supportive, reassuring and caring network of friends and family around you is vital, if not essential. Try to find a local breastfeeding group with peer supporters.

Chatting with other breastfeeding mothers is a brilliant way to get advice and learn some new tips from those who have experienced breastfeeding and expressing first hand. In fact, in a survey by breastfeeding brand Medela, it was found that 76% of mums believed attending a breastfeeding group help to support them.

Know what to expect and have realistic expectations; you and your baby are both new to this and it will take time to get the hang of it.

Believe in yourself! The human body is amazing, so believing in your ability to grow a baby, give birth and feed your baby is key.

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MY TODDLER GETS VERY DISTRACTED AT MEALTIMES, IGNORES HIS FOOD OR THROWS IT ON THE FLOOR. HOW CAN I ENCOURAGE HIM TO BE MORE INTERESTED IN THE FOOD HE’S EATING AND MORE WILLING TO TRY A VARIETY OF FOODS? Toddlers get bored easily. Refusing to try new foods and wanting to get down from the table is entirely normal. But giving young children some freedom and letting them get hands-on with their food is a great way to make mealtimes fun, and encourage them to try new flavours. An easy way to do this is to serve additional ingredients – such as carrots, cucumber, peppers, tomatoes, peas and grated cheese – in little bowls on the side, so they can choose which new tastes they want to try.

Another good option is to let them ‘decorate’ a bowl of porridge or natural yogurt. Give them small bowls of chopped fresh fruit – mango, raspberries, banana and blueberries – and seeds – like pumpkin, poppy and flax – and let them get creative. While they’re busy having fun they will most likely try the new flavours.

Soup is a delicious and nutritious light meal or snack option for toddlers, and a great way to bridge the gap between puréed food and more substantial meals – if time isn’t on your side, try Little Dish’s range of soups. Little ones will love dipping in toast soldiers, floating corn-cracker ‘boats’ across the soup, sprinkling on seed ‘showers’ and dropping in cheese ‘rocks’ for a calcium boost, or having a go at stirring the soup themselves.

Above all, keep the atmosphere at mealtimes relaxed and fun. Remember that food refusal and fussy eating are totally normal and they will get the hang of it.

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I’VE JUST GONE ON MATERNITY LEAVE AND HAVE BEEN THINKING ABOUT WHAT I SHOULD BE EATING WHILE BREASTFEEDING. WHAT DO I NEED TO CONSIDER? Breastfeeding is an incredible experience but one that can also be incredibly taxing, both physically and emotionally. The direct link between what a mother eats and what her child consumes means that, more than ever before, nutrition is of the utmost importance.

When breastfeeding, energy levels can definitely be strained and mothers often find themselves exhausted; it is important not to eat foods that allow for sugar highs and lows.

Keeping yourself well-fed and energised over the course of the day is key; so don’t ever think there is anything wrong with carrying around snacks for yourself, as well as baby!

The goal when you are breastfeeding is to never deplete yourself of your body’s nutrients. Another thing to consider is that by keeping a varied diet while breastfeeding, you are able to change the taste and smell of your milk, which will allow your child to be exposed to a variety of flavours. This expansion of your child’s flavour palate will allow their culinary horizons to be expanded even before he or she starts with solids, and even minimises the potential for pickiness.

Lauren Dangoor, founder of Feed Me 2 For Lauren’s full nutritional breastfeeding guide, visit babysurrey.co.uk

I WILL BE FIVE MONTHS PREGNANT WHEN WE’RE ON HOLIDAY. WHAT IS THE ZIKA VIRUS AND DO I NEED TO BE CONCERNED? The Zika virus has been demonstrated to be responsible for brain malformations in babies.

Studies in Brazil, published in The New England Journal of Medicine, showed clear evidence of this: 42% of babies born to mothers who were infected with Zika during pregnancy had brain malformations. The World Health Organisation has published guidelines for people travelling to countries where transmission via mosquitos is possible. However, transmission is also possible via sexual contact, just like other STIs. To minimise your risk, avoid travelling to countries where Zika is endemic – there is a list on the WHO website. Sexual partners of pregnant women living or returning from these areas should practice safe sex with condoms, or abstain from sexual activity throughout the pregnancy. Infection may be suspected based on symptoms and recent travel history: symptoms are usually red eyes, muscle pain, fever and headaches. A diagnosis can only be confirmed through lab tests on blood or other body fluids, such as urine, saliva or semen.

Dr Katharina Schramm MD, consultant gynaecologist at Richmond Practice

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MANY OF MY PREGNANT FRIENDS ARE TAKING THE HARMONY TEST, WHAT IS IT AND IS IT SOMETHING I SHOULD CONSIDER? I’M 12 WEEKS PREGNANT WITH NO UNDERLYING MEDICAL CONDITIONS.

WE’VE JUST MOVED HOUSE AND ARE DECORATING OUR ONE-YEAR-OLD DAUGHTER’S NURSERY. HOW CAN WE MAKE HER NEW ENVIRONMENT AS SAFE AS POSSIBLE?

The Harmony Test is a non-invasive test that measures fetal cells present in the mother’s blood to produce a 99% accurate indication of Down’s syndrome risk. The introduction of this test has been a great advancement in medicine, as with the test being non-invasive it is safer. It also tests for two additional anomalies, including Edward’s syndrome and Patau’s syndrome. Mothers of any age may be at risk. You may also, upon request, find out the sex of your baby through this test.

The test is available to pregnant women from 10 weeks’ gestation. I would advise that every woman should consider the Harmony Test as it is simple, safe and gives you valuable information. Based on the results, you are able to assess the options available to you with your doctor, who can guide you further.

It is important to discuss these options during pregnancy with your GP, as there is a lot to be done before, during and after birth. Mothers and would-be mothers should have access to sound, safe and evidencebased medical advice throughout the whole pregnancy journey, as many changes happen to your body. Additionally, after giving birth there are lots of regular checks that you and your baby should be undergoing; with an obstetrician and gynaecologist for yourself, and a paediatrician for your child.

Remember, if you do opt for a Harmony Test, it’s important that you feel looked after and supported by your healthcare choice, so be sure to do your research.

Dr Anuj Chaturvedi, medical director and GP at HealthClic

At this age babies are increasingly mobile and inquisitive. They are also completely devoid of any form of risk awareness. They fall over repeatedly, stand up underneath things and walk or run into things. This amounts to a truly exhausting responsibility, so the more you can do in advance to prevent accidents the better.

Here are my top safety tips: • Never position a cot by a radiator as little ones can either overheat or burn themselves.

The cot shouldn’t be beside a window either.

• To prevent strangulation, do not hang drawstring bags over the cot or use cotbumpers, and clip blind cords out of reach (ideally choose cordless blinds instead).

• A one year old should not have a pillow.

• Be careful with changing tables – the safest place to change your baby is on the floor.

• Fit fireguards and radiator guards to prevent her burning herself.

• Use soft corner covers for sharp corners, and door stops to prevent doors slamming.

• Secure furniture, particularly bookcases and drawers, to the wall. They can easily topple and crush a child if they try to climb them.

• Children this age will climb on anything, so be careful of pot plants, chairs and furniture by windows and on balconies.

• Keep plastic bags (particularly nappy sacks), batteries and medication well out of reach.

• The Child Accident Prevention Trust (CAPT) has recommendations on safe gap widths for open windows and the spacing for banisters; 6.5cm (2.5in) is recommended until 18 months.

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THE NINTH MONTH Marina Fogle & Dr Chiara Hunt TH E SISTER S DISCUSS TH E FINAL MONTH OF PR EGNAN C Y y the time they reach their third trimester, most women are desperate to meet their baby.

Because babies are considered ‘term’ at 37 weeks, it’s worth making sure you are ready for the arrival by then. That said, every extra day they stay inside, up until 40 weeks, is beneficial, so take the opportunity to relax – it will be your last chance for a while!

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HOW YOU MAY BE FEELING • Most likely tired and exasperated – every movement will feel like an effort.

• You will hopefully have started maternity leave by now and may notice a strong nesting instinct.

You’ll find yourself tidying and sorting endlessly. Don’t overdo it!

The most important thing is to find the time to rest.

• The hormone changes that happen in late pregnancy will make your breasts swell (even more), and you may start

producing small amounts of the first breastmilk, colostrum.

You may also notice increased amounts of vaginal discharge.

• You may feel your baby’s head drop gradually lower into the pelvis and become ‘engaged’.

When this happens, your bump might reduce a bit and you will feel less pressure on your ribs and diaphragm. This might, however, result in you feeling more pressure on your perineum.

Some women feel like their baby is about to fall out! This won’t happen and is a normal sensation.

Don’t be too concerned about whether or not baby is engaged either; for some women this happens weeks before delivery, but for others, baby doesn’t ‘drop’ until labour has started.

• As you approach term you may start to feel cramps. Although you might not be noticing them, you will likely be having Braxton Hix contractions, which are a bit like practice contractions.

You might notice your stomach becoming hard and even looking slightly dome-shaped. These can start as early 30 weeks, and while they are a good sign that your body is slowly preparing for the birth of your baby, they are not a sign that labour is starting.

AND WHAT ABOUT BABY? • By now, baby is fully ready for the outside world. Her intestine is fully formed and contains a dark green sticky substance called meconium which is passed as your baby’s first poo.

• Your midwife will check how engaged your baby is by determining how much of her head she can feel before it emerges from the pelvis. To measure this, midwives assess how many ‘fifths’ of your baby’s head they can feel. So, if they can feel three-fifths of baby’s head in your abdomen, it is three-fifths ‘palpable’ or two-fifths ‘engaged’.

• Your midwife will be feeling

your baby at every appointment and if she suspects baby is breech (head up rather than down) she will suggest you go for a scan. We know it is safer for babies to be head down at birth, so she may well suggest an ECV (external cephalic version) where an obstetrician would try to turn the baby. Annoyingly, this procedure only works in about 50-60% of cases and if it’s not successful you will be advised that a c-section rather than a vaginal delivery is safest for your baby.

• Most babies at 40 weeks weigh around 3.5kg (8lb) although it is common for boys to weigh more than girls. The average head-totoe length is 50cm. bs Dr Chiara Hunt and Marina Fogle are the founders of The Bump Class. Their book, The Bump Class: An Expert Guide to Pregnancy, Birth and Beyond is available now. thebumpclass.com

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his is the time for lots of delicious seasonal fruit and vegetables, which also coincides with new advice that suggests we should be eating even more vegetables and fruit. Rather than look at portion sizes and the number of portions a day, try to look at it in terms of variety – the more variety the better.

Start small by adding one extra vegetable to one of your meals each day, and work up from there. It’s also a good idea to think about the range of different fruits and vegetables you have over the week. Getting in a wide variety of colours is a much more realistic way of getting the vitamins and minerals you need, rather than focusing on a fixed number a day.

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This traditional dish combines small pieces of angel-hair pasta with a rich, sweet tomato and lentil sauce, cooked in olive oil with parsley.

INGREDIENTS

• dash of olive oil • ½ medium onion, peeled and chopped • 1 garlic clove, peeled and crushed • 1 medium carrot, peeled and chopped • ½ leek, trimmed and chopped • pinch of cinnamon • 227g chopped tinned tomatoes • 90g dried red lentils • 250ml low-salt vegetable stock (or water) • pinch of dried or chopped fresh parsley • 100g angel hair pasta METHOD

Heat the oil in a saucepan and cook the onion for 3-4 minutes or until soft. Add the garlic, carrot, leek and cinnamon. Cook for 5 minutes, occasionally stirring, until the carrot is tender.

Add the lentils, tinned tomatoes, vegetable stock and parsley. Bring to the boil, reduce the heat and simmer, covered, for 25 minutes.

While the lentils are cooking, bring a pan of water to the boil and add the pasta. Cook following the packet’s instructions. Drain and mix with the sauce or serve separately.

Tip: This sauce is brilliant for making pasta and meat dishes more hearty. You can also add extra veg, such as grated courgette or red pepper, for extra goodness.

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BROCCOLI BITES Preparation: 10 minutes Cooking: 25 minutes Storage: Suitable for freezing Makes 18 bites

These quick, bitesize nibbles are a great snack for on the go or lunchboxes, and are fun for children to make as well.

INGREDIENTS

• 150g broccoli, frozen or fresh, chopped • 200g oats • 1 clove garlic, crushed • 60g mature Cheddar cheese, grated • 2 eggs, beaten • 1 tsp grainy mustard • 1 tsp dried oregano • pinch of sea salt and black pepper

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This tasty tomato, carrot and pepper stew is a delicious Mediterranean staple.

INGREDIENTS

• dash of olive oil • 1 shallot or half a small onion, peeled and finely chopped • ½ garlic clove, peeled and crushed • 1 medium carrot, peeled and diced • ½ red pepper, cored and diced • 200g cherry tomatoes, halved • 75ml water • 2 basil leaves, chopped

METHOD

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Heat the olive oil in a deep, heavy bottomed pan and add the onions. Stir for a few minutes until the onions start to soften, then add the garlic and cook for another minute.

Add the carrot and red pepper and cook for a few minutes until both start to soften.

Add the tomatoes and cook for a few minutes until they start to soften, mushing them into the dish. Slowly add the water if it starts to dry out.

Finally add the basil, take off the heat and pureé into the desired consistency.

Preheat the oven to 200°C. Steam the broccoli until soft but not overcooked – around 7 minutes for fresh and 8 minutes if frozen.

Drain well, squeezing out any extra liquid, then add to a large bowl and mash.

Add the rest of the ingredients to the bowl and mix well.

Take out 1 tbsp of the mixture at a time and roll into small balls.

Place the balls on a lined or oiled baking sheet and cook for 25 minutes until they start to crisp up.

Tip: This delicious sauce can be enjoyed by baby and added to pastas, meat or fish to make a meal for the whole family.

Tip: These are great for kids’ lunchboxes or for lunch at home with a yoghurt or tomato sauce dip.

Alice Fotheringham is infant nutrition specialist at Piccolo. Piccolo is an organic baby food brand with roots in the Mediterranean approach to feeding children. The brand supports the NCT and gives 10% of its profits to food education. Head online to mylittlepiccolo.com to find out more and receive an exclusive discount off your next pouch.

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ver the last week, Polly has seemed disinterested in her 2am feed, and on my last night with the family she didn’t wake until her 4am feed. Laura, her mum, was delighted. But I am not there every night and one day I got a panicky text from Laura: “She didn’t do it last night, she woke at 2.45am, so I fed her. Have I messed it all up?”

I call her back to explain that development takes time, and that it can often seem like two steps forward, one step back. Polly is doing well developing her sleep, linking her cycles and settling herself, but we mustn’t expect too much of her. So if she wakes for a feed in the middle of the night, she must be given it.

“It’s helpful for you to watch how she feeds – don’t worry if she doesn’t seem to be very keen and don’t try to force her to take more than she wants. It’s a process, so to feed her at 2.45 isn’t going to mess things up, it’s still a step in the right direction.”

Laura laughs and her voice sounds relieved.

“So what you’re saying is that these things don’t happen overnight! It just seems as though they’re more successful when you are here, than when I’m in charge.”

The following night I am on duty again pondering Laura’s comment. Part of my role is to build parents’ confidence in their own ability to look after their babies and not rely on me. We discuss the previous night before I go to take over care of Polly.

“You did exactly the right thing,” I reassure Laura. “You followed your instincts and gave Polly what she needed. Bringing up a baby isn’t really a question of doing it by the book.

Books, websites, online forums are all useful to inform yourself, but I do feel your instinct should override anything else. No one, not even me, knows Polly like you do. I’ve had more experience of babies than you have, but I haven’t had any more experience of Polly

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than you have – much less, in fact.”

Laura smiles and I go upstairs to check on Polly. Sleeping peacefully, breathing slowly and deeply, I can tell she is in a deep sleep and probably won’t wake for several hours.

But even I don’t know what might happen between 2am and 7am, so I am prepared for anything. The next week or so might be a bit of a muddle while Polly works out how to sleep for longer, and my role is to support her in this, enabling her to do it at her own pace.

The important element is to keep the rest of her routine in place as far as possible, so I write some notes in the Sleep Diary for Laura to read the following day.

“Remember that the anchor points of Polly’s day are 7pm and 7am. We can also be fairly certain that she won’t wake up after her dream feed at 10pm until at least 2am and hopefully 2.45am. As Polly works this out, she may end up having several short feeds between 3am and 7am, and you can follow her lead. But even if she has a big feed at 6am, you must, must wake her at 7am for her breakfast feed – even if this isn’t very much.

That will keep her day on track and maintain

the structure she is used to.”

Sure enough, my night with Polly isn’t much better than Laura’s had been. Although she sleeps until 3.30am, she then wakes at the end of every sleep cycle until 6.15am and I find myself taking her in to Laura several times because all the expressed milk has been used.

At 7am I have to wake Polly and I take her to Laura, who looks at me groggily.

“What a night,” she mumbles, “What has been happening? It feels like we’ve lost any consistency we ever had.”

“Don’t worry, we’ll get there,” I encourage her. And Polly smiles in agreement. bs For more, contact Katie Price at Night Nannies on 07800 843618 or email katie@nightnannies.com. Also check out the Facebook page, Night Nannies South of England, for more tips.

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For further information please contact Mrs Drake on 01372 462627.

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Co-ed 2-4 years, Boys aged 4-13 years

Half Term – 2 Jun 9 Jun Messy Time 16 Jun Music Time 23 Jun Summer is here 30 Jun Party Time

Next Open Morning, Friday 12th May 2017 Headmaster’s Welcome at 9.30am To register please email office@parkside-school.co.uk www.parkside-school.co.uk

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MEET THE HEAD How long have you been at Downsend Pre-Prep Epsom?

I’ve been there since January this year, but I have been in teaching for more than 20 years now.

What do you see as the school’s main strengths, particularly for those in Early Years education?

I feel our main strength is the personal approach we have for each family. From the initial contact at admission, through our settling-in process, to when a child starts with us, we talk to every parent individually. We want to understand each child, their interests and their strengths so we can tailor our activities for them.

We take time every morning with the parents of our youngest children to find out about how their morning has been so far and if there is anything special needed for the day to support their child. We work closely with parents regarding afternoon naps and toilet training to ensure there are consistent routines and language between home and school. We observe and interact with individual children every day.

This personal approach enables

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VANESSA CONLAN Downsend Pre-Prep School

We speak to the new head of the co-educational school based in Epsom our children to settle quickly into school and make rapid progress in their development.

What do you see as the benefits of co-education?

We want all of our children to speak with confidence for a range of purposes and in a variety of different situations with different groups of peers and adults. In order to develop this confidence, children need to experience a wide variety of situations, including those with both genders. A further benefit of coeducation is children’s exposure to a wider range of interests and experiences. Different children bring different interests and experiences with them, and the more diverse the group, the more diverse the range of interests and experiences will be.

Do you offer any activity or after-school programmes for your younger pupils?

Our younger pupils have specialist teaching in French, music and dance each week. From Rising Reception (three and four year olds) upwards, we offer afterschool clubs. The clubs we are offering in the Summer term are arts and crafts, Ready Steady Go Kids, Mini Crickets, tennis, engineering, cookery, gardening, performing arts, forest activities and ballet.

What kind of feedback do you receive from parents and pupils?

Parents say that they really like the nurturing, family feel of the school and the wonderful grounds we have. Parents are also excited about the visions and plans we have for the school

with how we are developing the curriculum to ‘Grow Tomorrow’s Leaders’ and ensure children are well equipped for the challenges of growing up in the 21st century.

How do you see Downsend Pre-Prep Epsom progressing in the future?

Our curriculum is currently being reviewed and redesigned to increase the focus on higher order and critical thinking skills. We want children to be confident and effective communicators, to be able to negotiate, enquire, question and challenge. We want them to have a clear voice, to know that their voice has power and that it can impact positive change. Next year we would like to become a UNICEF Rights Respecting School, developing our children’s understanding of their position in the wider context of our local community, country and world. bs The next Open Afternoon at Downsend Epsom Pre-Prep is Saturday 6 May, 2pm to 4pm.

To book a place, call 01372 372311 or visit downsend.co.uk

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ASK THE EXPERTS We put your education questions to those in the know

Sharing stories and talking to your child will help improve their speech and development

IN YOUR OPINION, HOW IMPORTANT IS CREATIVITY IN THE EARLY YEARS, AND HOW DO YOU APPROACH IT? IS THERE ANYTHING WE CAN DO TO NURTURE IT AT HOME?

HOW ESSENTIAL IS OUTDOOR LEARNING IN THE EARLY YEARS? Merinda D’Aprano, prep head at Notre Dame School, says: Small children allowed to play outdoors tend to be happy, fully engaged, interested, inquisitive and bubbling with excitement. Most children spend a great deal of their educational lives indoors, but we’re now understanding far more about the growth of children’s brains, and are beginning to understand that intelligence develops through activity, making connections, creative inspiration and rehearsal.

Creativity is never nurtured best in confined conditions, and inspiration rarely strikes if prescribed outcomes are valued above great ideas. Practical activities such as camping, forest skills, Duke of Edinburgh awards and environmental studies can extend a child’s potential by encouraging and inspiring through outdoor experiences, as our Woodland Explorer sessions at Notre Dame do.

MEET THE EXPERTS

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Louise Fox Claremont Fan Court School

HOW CAN WE HELP TO DEVELOP OUR YOUNG CHILD’S COMMUNICATION AND LANGUAGE SKILLS? Louise Fox of Claremont Fan Court School, says: Your speech, expressions and intonations influence your toddler’s speech development.

Create time for talk – not time for screens.

Toddlers staring at screens will not learn to read expressions, react to questions or even turn to look at who is speaking, so turn the screen off and talk to your child.

Get their attention by saying their name.

Use short simple sentences, and ask questions, give commands and directions. As their speech develops, give your child choices: ‘Ava, do you want to play with the car or the Lego?’

Give more than one command, and ask open questions to avoid a yes/no answer.

Sharing stories teaches your child to repeat, predict and describe. Build up sentences; the car becomes a shiny car or the dog becomes a spotty dog. A treat should be something like a tent in the garden or a picnic in the park, not a go on mummy’s iPad with little opportunity for language.

It is also hard to learn to talk with a dummy – try and save it for comfort at night time. Let your child make noise, make friends and make sense of the verbal world around them.

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Naomi Bartholomew, head of prep at St Catherine’s, Bramley, says: Creativity is an essential ingredient of any Early Years setting.

Nurseries, pre-schools and reception classes should be arenas for children to explore and be creative. This should incorporate music, dance, drama, storytelling, play and art. Many settings also have the advantage of outdoor space for children to learn and create. Here at St Catherine’s, girls enjoy building dens, setting up nature trails and making use of our outdoor stage and playhouses. For those without such space, there are opportunities for visits to local parks and chances for outdoor learning.

Children are innately creative and it is the job of the skilled teacher to embrace this and build it into the child’s learning. Moments of awe and wonder come when pupils are free to be truly curious. Our girls were captivated recently by 10 chicks hatching over the course of a few days. The girls watched avidly as the chicks emerged. The artwork, writing and discussion that followed were superb. The key was the inspiration provided by the teacher and then the freedom for the children to express their interests in their own way.

Many such opportunities for creativity can also be explored at home – turning the laundry basket into a den, watching minibeasts in the garden and using items from the recycling bin to create objects, for example.

These are all learning opportunities in their own way and should bring out the child in us all!

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Whole School Open Morning Tuesday 25th April 2017 9am - 10.30am

Prep School Open Morning Wednesday 14th June 9am - 10.30am

Senior School Open Evening Wednesday 14th June 6pm - 8pm For further details and to pre-register please visit our website ewellcastle.co.uk 020 8394 3576 admissions@ewellcastle.co.uk

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Family Gardening Show

Family Gardening Show

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RHS GARDEN WISLEY Wisley Lane, Wisley, Woking GU23 6QB 0845 260 9000 rhs.org.uk/gardens/wisley There’s lots on offer for family members of all ages. Wisley has also partnered with In the Night Garden for this event, so you can take part in Upsy Daisy Yoga, plant-pot decorating and a magical trail with Iggle Piggle for tots aged up to four. For older kids, there’s face painting, bug trails and cookery classes.

Admission: Adults, £14; children, £7; under-fives go free.

Thursday 1 to Sunday 4 June.

The Tiger Who Came to Tea – Live!

RICHMOND THEATRE Little Green, Richmond TW9 1Q J 0844 871 7615 atgtickets.com Following a smash-hit West End season, the tea-guzzling tiger is back on the road in this delightful family show. Packed with oodles of magic, singalong songs and clumsy chaos, expect to be surprised in this stunning stage adaptation of the classic tale of teatime mayhem.

Admission: £15.65 each.

Friday 2 to Sunday 4 June, performance times vary.

Emergency Services Day

Jack and the Beanstalk

BROOKLANDS MUSEUM Brooklands Road, Weybridge KT13 0QN 01932 857381 brooklandsmuseum.com

PAINSHILL PARK Portsmouth Road, Cobham KT11 1JE 01932 868113 painshill.co.uk

Enjoy an impressive line-up of emergency vehicles and apparatus, as well as demos, at this exciting family event. Get up close to the forces and chat to experts about their field.

Plus, the nation’s favourite fire fighter, Fireman Sam will be making personal appearances throughout the day!

Admission: Adults, £11; children, £6; under-fives go free.

Monday 1 May, 10am to 5pm.

For some inspiring outdoor fun, join the Garlic Puppet Theatre in the walled garden at Painshill Park for a charming rendition of the fairytale classic about the boy who gets a lot more than just beans for his cow.

Perfect for families with children aged up to seven years.

Admission: £12 each.

Tuesday 30 May, 11.30am to 12.30pm and 2.30pm to 3.30pm.

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My First Ballet: Cinderella

Sandcastle Competition

Nature Week Family Fun Afternoon

Father’s Day Kite Day

Sandcastle Competition

Father’s Day

Surrey County Show

Father’s Day Kite Day

GODSTONE FARM Tilburstow Hill Road, Godstone RH9 8LX 01883 742546 godstonefarm.co.uk

PAINSHILL PARK Portsmouth Road, Cobham KT11 1JE 01932 868113 painshill.co.uk

STOKE PARK Guildford GU1 1TU 01483 890810 surreycountyshow.co.uk

HATCHLANDS PARK East Clandon, Guildford GU4 7RT 01483 222482 nationaltrust.org.uk

With bundles of buckets and spades to help you get stuck in and raise money for The Sandcastle Trust – a charity supporting families affected by rare genetic conditions. There are prizes up for grabs, too, including a family ticket to Godstone Farm.

Admission: Standard admission applies, plus £1 to enter.

Saturday 24 June, 11am to 4pm.

Celebrate Father’s Day with a beautiful country walk across Painshill’s magnificent landscaped gardens, followed by a Gentleman’s Cream Tea in the tea rooms. There is free entry for dads when they are accompanied by their children.

Admission: Adults, £8; children, £4.50; additional cost for the Gentleman’s Cream Tea. Sunday 18 June, 10am to 6pm.

Flora & Fauna WATTS GALLERY Down Lane, Compton GU3 1DQ 01483 810235 wattsgallery.org.uk Discover your green fingers and help gardener George Andrews plant flowers for the summer.

Plus, decorate a flower pot and make a bird spinner to take home at this drop-in event.

Admission: Adults, £9.50; children go free.

Tuesday 30 May to Sunday 4 June, 11am to 4pm.

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My First Ballet: Cinderella NEW VICTORIA THEATRE Peacocks Centre, Woking GU21 6GQ atgtickets.com Enjoy everyone’s favourite rags-to-riches story beautifully adapted for little ones aged three and over. With a narrator to help the audience follow the story, this is a perfect intro to the magic of ballet.

Admission: From £13.40 each.

Friday 26 May and Saturday 27 May, performance times vary.

This year, the biggest one-day agricultural show in the UK promises to be better than ever. Enjoy local foods and crafts, entertainment, floristry and farming displays. It’s a great day out for all the family.

Admission: Adults, £17; children, £6; under-fives go free.

Monday 29 May, 8am to 6pm.

Spring Spectacular BOCKETTS FARM PARK Young Street, Fetcham, Leatherhead KT22 9BS 01372 363764 bockettsfarm.co.uk Visit this half term for lots of extra activities, including birds of prey flying demos and exciting circus skills workshops.

Plus, there are plenty of animals to meet, including kid goats and lambs, as well as a full schedule of regular farm activities.

Admission: Adults, £9.20; children, £10.95; under-twos go free.

Saturday 27 May to Sunday 4 June, 10am to 5.30pm.

Bring your own kite or have a go at making one in Hatchlands’ own kite craft workshop, and then let dad show off his skills!

You’ll be flying high with all the fun you’ll be having…

Admission: Standard admission applies, plus £3 each for the kite-making workshop.

Sunday 18 June, 11am to 4pm.

Nature Week Family Fun Afternoon THE LIGHTBOX Chobham Road, Woking GU21 4AA thelightbox.org.uk Celebrate the end of May half term at this drop-in event, and use corks and other recycled materials to create your own baby owl to take home. Plus, with expert face painters on hand from 2pm, little ones can be transformed into their favourite animal.

Admission: Free; suggested donation, £2.

Friday 2 June, 1.30pm to 4pm.

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The Tortoise & The Hare

The Scarecrows’ Wedding

Creative Engineering

Spring Spectacular

The Scarecrows’ Wedding ROSE THEATRE KINGSTON 24-26 High Street, Kingston KT1 1HL 020 8174 0090 rosetheatrekingston.org This charming adaptation of Julia Donaldson and Axel Scheffler’s new bestseller promises wit, drama and wedding bells! Suitable for little ones aged three and over.

Admission: £13.50 each.

Friday 23 to Sunday 25 June, performance times vary.

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Marty MacDonald’s Toy Machine CAMBERLEY THEATRE Knoll Road, Camberley GU15 3SY 01276 707600 camberleytheatre.biz Join Marty, Pongo the Pig and Molly-Moo the Cow in this fun, musical adventure to repair the Toy Machine, save the day and give the world back its toys!

Particularly suited to tots aged two to seven years, with a cast meet-and-greet after the show.

Admission: Adults, £10.50; children, £9.50; family, £36.

Friday, 2 June, 11am.

The Tortoise & The Hare FARNHAM MALTINGS Bridge Square, Farnham GU9 7QR 01252 745444 farnhammaltings.com Join Tilly the Tortoise and Hatty the Hare as they go head to head at their school sports day.

Learn about fun and friendship, and join in the egg and spoon race as Aesop’s fable comes to life with catchy songs, fantastic puppetry and sports day prizes.

Admission: £8 each.

Friday 16 June, 2.30pm.

Storytelling THE LIGHTBOX Chobham Road, Woking GU21 4AA 01483 737837 thelightbox.org.uk Perfect for little ones under five years old, head to The Lightbox for stories, rhymes and hands-on creative fun.

Spaces are limited and will be allocated on a first-come, first-served basis at Reception from 10.30am on the day.

Admission: Free; suggested donation, £2.

Tuesdays 9 and 23 May, and 6 and 20 June, 11am to 11.40am.

Terracotta Flowers & Birds WATTS GALLERY Down Lane, Compton GU3 1DQ wattsgallery.org.uk

Creative Engineering SHALFORD MILL Shalford, Guildford GU4 8BS 01483 561389 nationaltrust.org.uk

Head to the Foyle Pottery Studio and hear how Victorian children helped Mary Watts to decorate Watts Chapel before making your own terracotta flowers and birds. Places are limited, so book early. Suitable for kids aged five and over.

Admission: £9.50 each.

Tuesday 30 May to Friday 2 June, 10.30am to 12.30pm, and 2pm to 4pm.

This half term, challenge your engineering skills and imagination at Shalford Mill.

Make windmills and watermills from everyday items that have been collected for you, plus, discover (under expert guidance) if you can make explosions from flour!

Admission: Standard admission applies, plus £2 for activities.

Wednesday 31 May and Sunday 4 June, 11am to 4.15pm.

Hatchlands Tree Trail

Spring Flowers

HATCHLANDS PARK East Clandon, Guildford GU4 7RT nationaltrust.org.uk

THE LIGHTBOX Chobham Road, Woking GU21 4AA 01483 737837 thelightbox.org.uk

Covering 400 acres, Hatchlands Park boasts a fascinating collection of ancient trees.

Head over this half term and venture around the estate to discover the secrets of the trees on this fun trail.

Admission: Adults, from £7; children, from £3.50.

Saturday 27 May to Sunday 4 June, 10am to 5pm.

Little ones can let their creative sides blossom at this drop-in workshop. With all materials provided, make your own bright and beautiful flowers using patterned and plain paper.

Admission: Free; suggested donation, £2.

Wednesday 31 May, 1.30pm to 4pm.

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RICHMOND THEATRE Little Green, Richmond TW9 1Q J 0844 871 7615 atgtickets.com With sell-out performances and hugely successful CBeebies TV adaptations, Northern Ballet returns with a brand new retelling of a classic, especially for children. With the perfect blend of ballet, music and theatre, it’s a great first-time theatre experience for kids.

Admission: £9 each.

Wednesday 7 June, 12.30pm and 2.30pm.

Little Goats ROSE THEATRE KINGSTON 24-26 High Street, Kingston KT1 1HL, 020 8174 0090 rosetheatrekingston.org Following sold-out 2016 shows, Captcha Theatre presents this interactive production for little ones aged under six. Enjoy the tale of The Billy Goats Gruff retold with puppets.

Admission: £6 each.

Saturday 6 May, 10am and 11am.

The Boy & The Mermaid FARNHAM MALTINGS Bridge Square, Farnham GU9 7QR farnhammaltings.com Based on the story by Alex Kanefsky, this new play explores the fate of a little fishing town exposed to the mercy of sea monsters and mer-creatures.

Suitable for ages six years and up, expect sea shanties, lyrical storytelling and puppetry.

Admission: £8 each.

Tuesday 30 May, 11.30am and 2.30pm.

Den Building RIVER WEY, GODALMING NAVIGATIONS AND DAPDUNE WHARF Wharf Road, Guildford GU1 4RR nationaltrust.org.uk This half term, discover how animals build their dens at Dapdune Wharf. Have a go at building your own, play hide and seek, and learn how to camouflage yourself. Plus, join in games inspired by nature.

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Teach them to swim The UK’s leading baby swimming company, Water Babies, runs fun and innovative swimming classes for newborns through to toddlers in Surrey, providing core swimming skills that could potentially save your little ones’ lives. The lessons are taught by world-class instructors and the company’s award-winning programme gives babies confidence in the water and teaches safety skills from birth.

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Classes held six days a week Monkey Music is the pre-school music group for children aged three months to four years, which won Best National Pre-schooler Development Activity – as voted for by parents!

Monkey Music introduces music to children in a fun way that they can easily understand, with specialist teachers who gently encourage social and musical skills in a stimulating environment. The classes use a combination of music, percussion instruments and visual props. More than 300 songs, musical games and movement ideas are used. Enjoy a complimentary introductory session.

For contacts and classes in your local area, visit the website. monkeymusic.co.uk

Classes across Surrey Catch-A-Balls is a local family-run friendly team who deliver fun ball game-based activity classes to help develop catching and throwing skills.

The classes enable children to master basic hand-eye coordination so they can go on to enjoy any sport they wish in the future. Teaching young children ball-handling and movement skills helps their development, confidence and gives them some of life’s essential skills.

Classes run on a termly basis, with new games and props each term to ensure the children are kept interested and get to experience a wide range of skills. catch-a-balls.co.uk

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BUSINESS Cameron and Akin believe it’s important to listen to and learn from their customers

INSPIRE AKIN ONAL & CAMERON MILLER

What inspired you to set up MORI in the first place?

Cam: The idea came to us when we were looking for gifts for our nieces and nephews. We wanted something useful and thoughtful but special enough to give as a gift. We were really surprised to discover that the essentials we found on the high street were not only poorly designed, but also mass-produced from synthetic fabrics. We decided to set out on a journey to offer an alternative, with beautifully crafted, good quality pieces for babies.

about their war with fastening 10 or more poppers while their baby is crying, we worked on a zipper sleepsuit alternative. We will launch it very soon and I know that my brother-in-law at least will be super happy.

So are your nieces and nephews an inspiration for the brand?

Akin: Definitely. My niece Su, who now lives in Prague, was one of the first to try MORI. She helped us choose the softest bamboo and organic cotton fabric, which has become our signature. Our MORI family has grown, with almost 5,000 babies wearing the pieces in more than 50 countries, and we take inspiration from them all daily.

We believe it is so important to listen to and learn from our customers. For example, after hearing from so many fathers

Why is being organic important?

Akin: I can talk for hours about why our fabric is truly the best for baby’s skin; it is ultra soft, naturally breathable and helps maintain the right body temperature. However, we also care about our planet and its limited resources, as well as our society. Bamboo grows much faster than cotton and consumes a lot less water. Also, unlike leaders of the fast fashion industry, we make sure our factories don’t outsource the production

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We meet the duo behind organic baby essentials brand MORI to find out more about the business to smaller and unaudited shops.

We visit their facilities often and oversee the entire supply chain.

Describe a typical day for you.

Akin: I start most days with coffee and jumbo oats. I then read through my emails and answer the urgent ones at home before going into the office.

I’m a bit of a workaholic – aside from meetings with the team, manufacturers or investors, I am otherwise glued to my phone or

computer screens. I also make sure to put aside an hour to connect with customers. I read through their comments, write back to them or even reach out to those who haven’t made a purchase for some time to find out how we can improve their experience with us.

What is your advice for anyone wanting to start a business?

Cam: Never lose sight of the forest through the trees. You have to build your dream one tree at a time. It is a very fulfilling experience and you need to take your time to do it. But at times, it is very easy to lose yourselves in the unnecessary details and get demotivated. That’s why it is important to take a step back to see the progress you have made.

What are your plans for 2017?

Akin: This year is an exciting one.

We’ll be launching new products, including the new bedding range to complete our Sleep Time collection and help babies (and parents) get the one thing they all need – more sleep! bs babymori.com

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