The Maryland Pendulum, Spring 2022 Edition

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The MARYLAND PENDULUM The Newsletter of the Maryland Commission on African American History and Culture Spring 2022

FAMILY AT THE HEART OF AFRICAN AMERICAN HISTORY The Commission Explores the Black Family In Maryland! As I write this, I am reflecting on the FaceTime call I had with my daughter and her son, who is my first grandson, Zakai. It was obvious that he was sleepy, but like most four-month-olds, he was fighting it with everything he had. His mother bounced him, patted him on the back, and switched him from one arm to the other, but he was still a bit fussy no matter what she did. As we prepared to end the call, we said our goodnights and I love yous, and Zakai got a fresh burst of energy. He bent over and put his entire beautiful face into the camera and tried to take the phone out of his mother's hand as if he knew what to do with it. Then he tried to imitate me, waving goodbye. That moment brings to mind my own grandmother, who, if she were alive today, at the sight of him doing these things would exclaim, 'that boy has been here before.' Taking him in her arms, she would have said to my daughter, 'Give him to me.' Then she would have held him and gently rocked him to sleep as she had done each of her children, grand, great-grand, and great-great-grandchildren hundreds of times before. And although she would have said not to hold him while he slept so as not to spoil him, she would have let him lay right there in her arms, comforting him and letting him know that he was alright. I guess that's why we all loved her so much and miss her even more because she had a way of letting us know whatever it was we were facing, we were "alright." That's the Black family - the bedrock of the Black community. Whether born into it or adopted in, whether led by two parents or one, grandparents, other relatives, or a court-appointed guardian, the

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