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PRESIDENT'S LETTER

f o r t e s i n u n i tat e Bro. Thomas Cleary, S.M. ’81

That is, among other things, what makes Chaminade the special place that it is. I want every student to feel known and loved.

I want every faculty member, staff member, alumnus, and parent to feel the same.

President

I have often said that Chaminade is a relational experience, one that fosters “radical connections” to use a phrase I read in a great

Bro. Joseph Bellizzi, S.M. ’78

book, The Generosity Crisis, co-authored by Brian Crimmins ’95

Principal

(now Chaminade’s new COO – read more on the next few pages).

Building relationships is what motivated us in September of 2020 to

Brian Crimmins ’95

get every student on campus every day during Covid…they needed

Chief Operating Officer

to be here with their friends, teachers, coaches, and mentors. They

Chris Hanley ’80

needed to be with us, not learning from home.

Executive Director of Advancement

grow over the course of four years. I experience the strength of

Deborah Kendric P ’22

to one of our nine alumni chapters throughout the country. I witness

I get to see these “radical connections” begin freshman year and these relationships that started at Chaminade every time we travel

Director of Alumni and Parent Relations

the power of these enduring relationships whenever I attend an alumnus’ wedding and see 20, 25, sometimes 30 of his Chaminade friends at the wedding reception!

Guy LaCognata ’15 Director of Communications and Marketing

Bro. Richard Hartz, S.M. ’59 Director Emeritus of Development and Alumni Relations

Mary Naglia Creative Lead

Jenna Bianco Graphic Design Assistant

Element Media Photography

Patrick Reichart '01 Peter Vanderberg William Clemens '14 Joseph Caso Michael Bruno '90 Contributors

Office of Advancement (516) 742-5555 ext. 444

Office of Communications and Marketing (516) 742-5555 ext. 492

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It never gets old, and I never take these relationships for granted.

IN THIS ISSUE President’s Letter A Radical Reconnection More Than Just a High School Chaminade's Newest Pilots

Dear Chaminade Family,

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A few weeks ago, I had the opportunity to connect with the Class of 1973 as they celebrated their 50th reunion. Beginning on a Thursday with the Gold Star Mass, the Class of 1973 had a wonderful four-day experience of Chaminade today. One of the many comments I received was this: Dear Bro. Tom, My heartfelt thanks to the faculty, students, staff, and organizers

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of the '73 reunion for the warm embrace from the Chaminade Family. Congratulations on the school's vast progress toward the objective of using faith to make a better world. Kudos on what

Torch Fund

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Leading the Way

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you have built and what you are building. In the midst of viewing the dazzling changes it occurred to me that the important things haven't changed at all in 50 years. I have never been more proud.

Fortes in Unitate, Joe Joe’s email really resonated with me. At the heart of his comments

Values and Vision

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are the people who make Chaminade what it is every day: a nurturing

Elevating the Flyer Experience

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concluded our accreditation by the Middle States Association, the

Helping Students Find Their Way

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place of learning, creativity, and faith. A few years ago, as we

I know that what we have at Chaminade is special. I also know it didn’t just happen overnight! All those who have gone before us the students, teachers, support staffs, maintenance staffs - have grown Chaminade through the years and added to the experience.

And today, nearly 200 men and women come to campus every day; they are the ones who make the student experience the absolute best. I see countless examples throughout the course of a day of people going the extra mile, and it is all for the mission of our school!

I have kept a small post-it note on my desk for the past 13 years to be a constant reminder to me of the importance of the relationships we build each day on campus: I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. - Maya Angelou My prayer is that every student, alumnus, parent, faculty and staff member feels known and loved. May our Blessed Mother guide us in our efforts!

Fortes in Unitate,

head of the visiting team delivered his final report to the faculty and staffs that were assembled in Darby Auditorium. The report was very, very supportive and complimentary of Chaminade. But there was one sentence in his comments that has stayed with me. He said,

Bro. Thomas J. Cleary, S.M. ’81

“Simply put, your students feel known and loved.”

President

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A RADICAL RECONNECTION

Brian Crimmins '95 Named Chaminade's First Chief Operating Officer

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When word started getting around that Brian Crimmins ’95 was being named the first chief operating officer in Chaminade’s 93-year history, some of his then-colleagues were taken aback. After all, he had spent the last 14 years serving as CEO of Changing Our World, Inc., a philanthropy and management consulting firm he had been with for over two decades.

As for those who weren’t shocked? Well, they had read his book.

The Generosity Crisis, which Crimmins co-authored last year, makes the case for “radical connection,” a term coined

by Crimmins and his cohorts.

“There was an appreciation that a radical connection already existed between Chaminade and me. No one who knew me was surprised at the decision.” Crimmins explained.

Crimmins, 46, hopes to parlay this concept of radical connectivity into a cornerstone of the various relationships shared by Chaminade’s stakeholders.

“I would love to hear from everyone,” said Crimmins.

“This is our school. I’m just here to do my part in moving the mission forward.”

Crimmins, one of nine children, grew up in both Bellmore and Huntington before graduating from Chaminade and enrolling at St. John’s University, where he earned both bachelor’s and master’s degrees and served as manager of the men’s basketball team. Upon graduation, Crimmins joined Changing Our World.

“Coming home to Chaminade to serve as its first COO is probably the only job I would have left for,” Crimmins admitted before pausing for a moment, flashing his trademark grin, and adding, “…other than coaching St. John’s basketball!”

A father of four, Brian and his wife Beth have been deeply committed to Catholic education. Their two daughters attend Kellenberg Memorial High School, and their two sons go to St. Anne’s Elementary School, where Beth is a kindergarten teacher. In addition, Crimmins has served as a member of Chaminade’s Board of Advisors for several years, a period during which the school has undertaken an unprecedented number of infrastructureexpanding endeavors.

100th anniversary in 2030.

“We share everything – good and bad,” Crimmins said of his friend group, which coalesced during his sophomore year and was cemented

“The 100th is a North Star of sorts, for me,” Crimmins explained.

by a memorable visit to a luxury suite during the ECAC Holiday

“My office will play a critical role in tying everything together, and

Festival college basketball showcase at Madison Square Garden.

that starts with setting goals for 2030.”

Bro. Tom also noted the significance of the occasion, adding, “We will never have another centennial celebration. I want to be better in all areas than we are today.”

Both Bro. Tom and Crimmins stressed the importance of keeping Chaminade affordable and accessible, and the imperative role of alumni engagement in the pursuit of that endeavor.

“Like many students here at Chaminade, we grew stronger as a friend group through our experiences,” he said. “I think we all grew stronger and more confident individually, as well.”

These kinds of relationships – shared by so many alumni – have been paramount in the advancement of Chaminade’s mission for nearly a century.

“Radical connections are palpable,” said Bro. Tom. “I have always felt that Chaminade was a very relational experience. It is a critical

“It’s about relationships – establishing critical, enduring connections. There is such power in those connections, and I love that.”

Alumni and Parent Relations, Campus Facilities, Communications

“Bro. Tom links generations of alumni, and as we continue

and Marketing, the Treasurer, and finance and investments. He

piece of who we are. Our shared experiences as Flyers are the foundation for the instant connections we can make with one another – anytime, anywhere.”

As COO, Crimmins will oversee the Offices of Advancement,

to see the torch being passed to a new generation of emerging

will also advise other areas within the school, including admissions,

alignment of its various departments,” noted Chaminade’s

alumni, we must make sure that we continue doing this in a

athletics, financial aid, and scholarships.

president, Bro. Thomas Cleary, S.M. ’81, who first met

meaningful way,” said Crimmins.

“Any well-run organization thrives when there is

“I hope to focus on helping the various offices that I’ll be working

Brian remains in close contact with a number of his former

with on a day-to-day basis and to begin strategic planning efforts to

Bro. Tom’s freshman English class. “Brian has such a wealth

classmates. Like many of his fellow Flyers, he is in near-daily

prepare us all for 2030,” Crimmins explained. “I want to do my part

of experience in this field; his voice will be invaluable as we

communication with a half-dozen of his closest friends via a never-

to make sure Chaminade’s legacy continues to grow over the next

develop five- and ten-year plans, goals, and benchmarks.”

ending group text.

100 years!”

Crimmins in the fall of 1991 when he was a student in

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Perhaps no benchmark will be more significant than Chaminade’s

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CHAMINADE’S NEWEST PILOTS Several New Teachers Embark on a New Journey

MORE THAN JUST A HIGH SCHOOL Chaminade Through a Parent’s Perspective For one mother of three Flyers, Myong Caiafa, the Chaminade experience has inspired a deeper sense of faith, family, and mission as a parent. Myong and her husband Gene ’88 are raising three sons: Jack ’21, who now attends New York University, Charlie ’23,

initiatives. “I first got involved when the school was raising money

now at UCLA, and Grant, a current sophomore. Supporting each of

for the science center. I was also asked to participate when Bro.

their sons in his own path has left both Gene and Myong motivated

Tom kickstarted the senior gift initiative. Calling parents and donors

to continue sharing the value of a Chaminade education with others.

is hard work, but it is so necessary to promote the amazing work

"When Gene and I were deliberating where our sons should

Chaminade does for its families. I even had a chance to volunteer

spend their high school years, Chaminade was never on my radar.

briefly in the reception area. To see the daily life inside the school

We live in Manhattan, and there were various reasons that initially

as a bystander was truly a beautiful experience for me." Myong

made us hesitate about sending our boys to Chaminade on Long

also looks forward to decorating the Christmas trees at Chaminade

Island. What truly struck me on the tour was the experience we had.

each November.

I will never forget Bro. Tom's words during the opening presentation,

“As a parent, it is important for me to understand the school's

where he shared their philosophy of taking care of the boys as

support structure, encompassing teachers, counselors, and

a whole. This really made an impact. He wasn't trying to sell us

administrators,” explains Myong. “I also praise the exceptional work

anything; he was simply telling us how it is at Chaminade. From that

of Bro. Tom, highlighting his approachable nature and his skill in

point on, we knew that this would be the right place for our boys."

leading an all-boys school through both good and challenging times.”

"People are often surprised when they discover that we commute

Myong emphasizes the importance of inspiring her sons to

from Manhattan,” reflects Myong. “However, we know the time and

do their best in conjunction with the philosophy of hard work of

effort involved is worth the experience that they would receive at

a Chaminade education. “I encourage my sons to put in the effort,

Chaminade compared to other schools that are closer. Nevertheless,

whether it’s related to college applications, academics, or any

all the sacrifices and hard work are worth it."

of their activities. They need to know the importance of taking

Family is the most important thing for Myong. "As parents, we

ownership of their work and dedicate the time and energy to

aim to be part of the school experience. It's all about how our family,

try their best - and, most importantly, being kind young men.

not just our boys, can share a faith-filled journey together," Myong

It’s important as we are responding to the culture we are in, and

emphasizes. For Myong, the blending of family life with school life

Chaminade responds well.”

has led to priceless memories. Myong says, "The car rides back and

She knows her sons are setting themselves up for success in all

forth to school became quality time with their father, their grandpa,

areas of their lives after high school. “My boys are ‘my why.’ They

and me. It's time we wouldn’t have had if the boys didn’t attend

are the heart and soul of why I do and make the decisions that

Chaminade. With two of our sons now attending college, we hold

I do. And I wanted them to be in a place where they would be

dear the precious moments we shared with them in the car.”

challenged outside their comfort zone of learning, guided in their

Myong has taken all that she has received from Chaminade and returned it tenfold through service and involvement with fundraising

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Catholic faith, and encouraged to make relationships that would

Mr. Thomas Patton graduated from Chaminade

Dr. Yunchiahn Sena comes to Chaminade

in 2006 and is the newest member of the

with an interesting and varied career. Dr. Sena

math department, teaching geometry, as

graduated from the University of Chicago. She

well as serving as Freshman Crew Coach.

works in the World Languages Department

Mr. Patton looks back fondly on his time as a

and is involved in a variety of the language

student at Chaminade. “I want to help future

clubs. “As an educator, I was looking for

graduates of Chaminade have an experience as

a spiritual and rewarding experience in

positive as mine,” Mr. Patton remarked.

education. Chaminade offers that to me.”

Mr. Anthony Balestra is a 2014 graduate

Ms. Claudia Centeno teaches Spanish and

of Islip High School who went on to earn

is an assistant moderator for the Chess Club.

a bachelors degree from the University of

A graduate of Queens College with a masters

Delaware in Mechanical Engineering.

degree in romance languages, Ms. Centeno

He teaches Honors Physics 11 and is an

has been impressed by her first few months

assistant moderator for the Science Club.

at Chaminade. “The use of technology and

“I am blown away by the camaraderie of

resources showcases the institution's

the student body. The students here are

dedication to provide an innovative and

incredibly bright, polite, and on their way

interactive learning environment.”

to becoming successful young men.”

Ms. Mary Molloy brings to Chaminade quite Mr. Gonzalo Vazquez-Jiminez is another

an array of unique experiences. In addition

Chaminade graduate who has found his

to teaching religion, she is part of Campus

way back home to continue his teaching

Ministry. “I heard amazing things about the

career. After graduating in 2018, he went

community and the impact that the graduates

on to St. John’s University. Teaching

have had in the world and in the Catholic

chemistry, he hopes his professional

community here in Long Island.”

experience at Chaminade is as rewarding as his experience as a student. “I enjoyed

my teaching experience in college, and I

After graduating from Stony Brook and

thought teaching at Chaminade would

becoming a Doctor of Pharmacy from Albany

be a good fit.”

College, Mr. Daniel Duffy ’97 taught at Long Beach High School and New Hyde Park

Ms. Mary Kate Sirianni teaches in the science department in Chemistry Lab and Research Class. A graduate of Kellenberg in 2010, Ms. Sirianni is also the moderator of

Memorial High School. “The commitment to

academic excellence is still here, as it was when I was a student.”

the Research Club. Ms. Sirianni is a former

Like Mr. Duffy, Mr. Jake Pisani is a graduate

lab director at Hofstra University. “Having

of Chaminade and has returned home. After

gone to Kellenberg, I was familiar with the

graduating in 2012, Pisani earned degrees

school and the Marianists. Everyone here

from Adelphi and Queens College. Mr. Pisani

goes out of their way to be nice and helpful.

It is a great environment!”

teaches Honors Physics 11. “I wanted to work

in a place that valued student discipline.”

be with them after they graduated.”

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Since 1930, Chaminade has been a national leader in secondary school academic achievement and has enjoyed notable recent success in college placement. Of the 399 members of the recently graduated Class of 2023, 88 received presidential scholarships, 15 received Ivy League acceptances, and 236 were accepted to the top 50 national schools as ranked by U.S. News and World Report. For the first time in many years, multiple members of the Class of 2023 were admitted to MIT, and the class valedictorian was a National Merit Scholarship Winner.

Chaminade students have also been recognized for their outstanding perfomance in Advanced Placement courses. During the 2023 school year more than 800 Flyers sat for AP exams and achieved 250 perfect scores. Additionally, 75 of our students were recognized as Advanced Placement Scholars with Distinction. For context, nationwide, only about 10% of students earn the distinction of AP Scholar or higher by the time they graduate.

Assistant Principal of Curriculum and Technology Mr. Gregory Kay '98 had this to say about our current merit program and the need to identify and provide both academic and financial support to encourage gifted students to choose Chaminade:

Chaminade Announces Expanded Presidential Scholars Merit Award Program For almost 30 years, Chaminade High School has provided top prospective incoming students with merit scholarships for high academic achievement in grammar school. Since its inception in 1994, the program has helped hundreds of students and has attracted some of the best and brightest young men in the area to attend Chaminade.

Now, with the ever-changing educational landscape in our area, Chaminade announces an investment to double the size of the merit scholarship program. Thanks to this renewed commitment, in 2024 the program will be renamed the Presidential Scholars Merit Award Program.

Prospective students who receive a merit scholarship rank at the top of their grammar schools academically and score exceptionally well on the TACHS Exam. Moving forward, the Presidential Scholars Merit Award Program will seek to enhance the application review process to include a wider range of criteria that will most assuredly expand the number of recipients and significantly increase award amounts for qualified applicants.

Kevin Conway '76 serves as a strategic advisor to the school and also has financially supported the current merit scholarship program:

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“I applaud the visionary step taken by Chaminade to expand the merit award program. Merit scholarships can help Chaminade continue to attract the most gifted students, an important part of keeping the school at the pinnacle of education in our area. It is critical to ensure all students can attend Chaminade despite their families’ financial challenges, and equally important that we take every possible step to attract the very best students. Bringing truly bright young minds to Chaminade not only provides that student with access to our outstanding academic program, but it raises the level of dialogue and learning in the classroom and helps maintain the school’s reputation for educating the brightest young men. Need- and merit-based scholarship programs are very complementary initiatives, and collectively we have to make sure Chaminade has the resources to deliver both to the fullest extent possible.”

If you’d like to find out more about how you can support our Presidential Scholars Merit Program or any of our important scholarship and annual fund programs, please contact Executive Director of Advancement Mr. Chris Hanley ’80 at chanley@chaminade-hs.org or call (516) 742-5555 ext. 509.

“Located among the nation’s top secondary schools, we understand the challenge of recruiting top students to venture beyond their local school districts. Our new Presidential Scholars Merit Award Program has been designed to encourage the best and brightest young men to consider a Chaminade education. The financial resources now available through this program will encourage and entice those students looking for a new academic challenge. This innovative initiative revolutionizes our selection process and enables us to assess a student's accomplishments beyond just their performance on the TACHS Exam, opening up the applicant pool to a wider range of talents and potential.”

As it approaches its 100th anniversary in 2030, Chaminade will continue to build out its AP course offerings and search for new and exciting ways to promote academic achievement. Our dedicated faculty will work diligently to afford our students opportunities to enter prestigious competitions, such as the Regeneron Science Talent Search, Broadcom Masters competition, and the Richard Gilder History prize.

Where do we go from here to ensure Chaminade continues to be a leader in high school academics? Chairman of the Board of Advisors and merit scholarship supporter Dick Kearns ’68 has some ideas.

“The new Presidential Scholars Merit Award Program will expand and highlight our ongoing efforts to bring the most qualified students to Chaminade. One of our primary goals is to guide these gifted students along their Chaminade journey. Additionally, we need to nurture their interests - whether it be in the sciences, math, history, or business - and to connect them with prominent alumni mentors in those fields. In 2030, we’ll be celebrating our 100th anniversary as an educational leader on Long Island and through this new program. We plan on leading from the front.”

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“I have worked with thousands of runners, and as much as I have enjoyed seeing their times improve and watching them finish races, the impacts continue long after they cross the finish line,” he explained. “I love it when people thank me for helping them lose weight and keep it off, or tell me about their happier lifestyle as a result of our work together.”

Honerkamp worked with Chaminade’s president, Bro. Thomas Cleary, S.M. ’81, as he made the transition from using an elliptical to pounding the pavement eight years ago.

“After I turned 50, I wanted to make sure I stayed healthy,” explained Bro. Tom. “At this point, though, it’s just as much about mental health. Running clears my head; it’s now something I couldn’t not do.”

Nordman, too, spoke of the impact distance running can have

Leading the Way Senior Leaders Shape the Experience for Incoming Class

on one’s life long after he leaves the track: “It carries over to your

This is why I wanted to be a Senior Leader - to try to be a role model and someone for the freshmen to lean on here at Chaminade.”

Alex Dircks’ sentiments were shared by Nick DeNatale. “I believe that seniors can have a significant influence on freshmen at

Transitioning to high school is never easy. No one understands

Chaminade. I remember the times that I looked up to upperclassmen,

the difficulty of this transition more than the incoming class of

whether it was in a religious, academic, or social setting. Now, as a

freshmen every year at Chaminade. The pride of now being a Flyer

Senior Leader, I walk into the freshman homerooms and see how

remains, but it is accompanied by trepidation, nervousness, and fear

the freshmen admire us. The camaraderie that is formed between

of the unknown. As upperclassmen, seniors have filled those shoes.

freshmen and seniors is something super-special and is important to

What better mentors to the incoming class than their older brothers

the growth of students into Chaminade Men.”

who walked those same steps of 3-C Week?

The Senior Leader Program has been a staple of the Chaminade

The Senior Leaders serve as big brothers and close friends to the freshmen, and their efforts are recognized and appreciated. Current

experience for quite a while. Bro. Thomas Terrill, S.M. '10, has a

freshman Theodore Gargiulo remarked, “The Senior Leaders who

unique perspective as a former Senior Leader and as part of the

were with our homeroom were like mentors, people we could look

team of faculty, students, and staff whose work is to ease the

up to, and also people whom we can share our thoughts with.”

transition for the newest Flyers.

Under Bro. Tom’s guidance, the program has taken on a sharper

The most recent example of the Senior Leaders serving as the big brothers of the Chaminade Family was Freshman Spirit Day.

focus. “We intentionally decreased the number of senior leaders

Alex said, “The Senior Leaders were with their homerooms through-

from previous years to reemphasize their role as leaders and provide

out the day, coaching the freshmen through various sports, such

more accountability in their mission,” remarked Bro. Tom. This

as dodgeball, ultimate frisbee, and European handball. The day

renewed focus is already bearing fruit. For the first time, the Senior

culminated in a division-wide competition of tug of war, with the

Leader Program has two officers, Alex Dircks and Nick DeNatale

Senior Leaders hyping up their homerooms and acting as mentors

(pictured above), who will further help the program meet the needs

and ‘Big Brothers’ to the freshmen all day. This is one of many

of the freshman class. Alex remembers his unique introduction

examples of the Senior Leader Program at work.”

to Chaminade in August of 2020. “We came into Chaminade

Beginning at Chaminade can seem daunting at first and the

during Covid, during which we were not able to have the proper

transition can be stressful. The faculty and staff welcome the

homeroom and Senior Leader experience. As an underclassman,

newest Flyers with optimism and enthusiasm. The Senior Leaders

I was always looking up to seniors in activities and on the lacrosse

have perhaps the greatest impact on the freshmen, and in three

field, which showed me the positive impact these role models can

years, many of those same freshmen will pay it foward and become

have on freshmen.

future Senior Leaders.

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CAPA's Bob Nordman: Our Marathon Man

work – as far as making a commitment and following through, and to your family – it makes you more dedicated,” he explained.

“Starting something and finishing it is so important in life. It’s easy to say, ‘I’m too tired, too busy, too this, too that’ – but it teaches you to make time for the things that are important.”

For Nordman, those things include his son Eric ’91, as well

Before daylight broke on Sunday, November 5, dozens of members of the Chaminade Family trekked to Staten Island to put themselves through the 26.2-mile trial of endurance that is the New York City Marathon.

If they required any advice or training tips, longtime CAPA

as grandsons Christian ’20 and Bryan Freel ’23, and their father, son-in-law Jim Freel ’93.

“Chaminade teaches you to be on time – something very important to a runner!” quipped Nordman, who stressed the importance of one’s time not only while racing, but also during

member Bob Nordman was just a phone call away. Nordman, 76,

training – and that maintaining a healthy balance in one’s life

has run in the New York City Marathon 22 times – most recently

should always be a priority.

in 2022 – clocking in at 3:08 on multiple occasions. His advice for this year’s racers?

Nordman’s accomplishments as a runner are many: at the age of 50, he completed the Finger Lakes 50 – a 50-mile trail

“In the beginning, you’re all excited and slapping hands along the

run. Continuing the numerical anomalies, Nordman also once

route, so you aren’t concentrating on your pace, your rhythms; that

completed three marathons in three different states over the

can make it difficult,” explained Nordman. “In New York, you can’t

course of three days! All told, he has run a marathon-length

start out too fast. You’re going uphill over the Verrazano Bridge,

race in all 50 U.S. states, as well as Washington, D.C.

which helps a bit, but you don’t want to go out like a rabbit and then crash and burn before the race is over.”

Still, Nordman is proudest of his family. He has been married to his high-school sweetheart, Sheila, for 53 years, and the pride

Nordman knows what he’s talking about. He has crossed the finish

in his voice is obvious when he discusses his nine grandchildren,

line in 114 races of at least marathon length since he completed his

although he is quick to note that none of them are runners – at

first course – the 1980 Turkey Trot in Garden City.

least not yet!

“I didn’t start running until my doctor suggested it to help with my

And for those of us who cheered on our fellow Flyers from

high blood pressure,” admitted Nordman, who began jogging at age

the sidewalks lining the route of the 52nd New York City

33 after not lacing up his sneakers in either high school or college.

Marathon, Nordman serves as a reminder that it is never too

“It didn’t like it very much at first, but then the doctor suggested that I should try it again to avoid going on medication, and the rest is history!”

Chaminade’s athletic director, Mr. John Honerkamp ’93, has helped several individuals turn a desire to stay healthy or lose weight into a lifestyle change.

late to start running.

“Hook up with a running club - that will give you motivation to keep training,” he advised. “It’s hard to train if you run by yourself; I didn’t do that right away.”

But Nordman pressed on – as is his wont – after discovering the great force of strength that came from such unity.

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no coach, no practice field, no uniforms. The Mineola Flyers and Merrick Falcons were born. My father was our weekend coach. Our season was November through May. Despite the adversity and the weather conditions, we could not have been happier. We were awarded the first varsity letters for soccer following the 1967-1968 season. And the rest is history.

Q: How has Chaminade continued to be a meaningful part of your life today?

Values and Vision Dr. Charles Mundhenk ’68 reflects on the enduring legacy of his Chaminade education

For Dr. Charles Mundhenk, a clinical psychologist, the years spent at Chaminade High School from 1964-1968 offered profound personal, moral, and academic growth. As a founding member of the Soccer Team, Dr. Mundhenk has a unique perspective on what makes our school community so special, and what it takes to make a difference here.

Q: Can you briefly speak to what Chaminade was like for you as a student and how it set you on your life path?

I came to Chaminade as the smartest kid in my eighth-grade class and felt that it was a liability socially. As a result, during my freshman year, I tried to be "less smart" with the belief that I would be more accepted. I learned that doing so was a disservice to myself. I wasn’t comfortable with that group.

It didn’t fit who I was as a person, student, or athlete.

I became aware of the importance of being true to myself, to value my ideas and ideals. I learned that being honest with who I am was central to my success and happiness.

Chaminade provided the opportunity to grow emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually.

My Chaminade roots run deep. My brother Robert [’63] was the first to graduate from Chaminade. I was the Class of 1968. My brother-in-law’s [Greg Toop ’68] father, George Toop, coached football at Chaminade for many years. One of my sons-in-law, Dan Neumann ’93, is also a Chaminade alum.

Q: If you could give one piece of advice to the 2024 graduating class, what would it be?

You have been given great talent, potential, and opportunity.

This reminds me of the "Parable of the Talents." Don’t bury your talents in a field for fear of losing. Those in the parable who tried and lost what they were given, or succeeded in their efforts, were rewarded similarly. Do what you love and learn from your mistakes.

Q: Is there anything else you would like to say about Chaminade or its place in your life?

Chaminade was a special place during a special time in my life. I had the opportunity to speak with several parents after a recent Boston College HS vs. Chaminade HS soccer game. I was heartened to hear the parents talk about what great friends the team members were. I also had the pleasure of meeting many of the team members. They seemed to appreciate the experience of the Boston trip. You could see both on the field and off their genuine love for each other.

Some things never change.

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Chaminade Expands Admissions Efforts and Outreach

When does the Chaminade experience begin? For the Chaminade

“We run a dynamic program,” said Mr. Safrath. “I use the word

admissions team, the answer comes even before students walk

dynamic in the sense that we can change how we do admissions

up the main steps during 3-C. In fact, it starts when a young man

every year; we have to in order to meet the needs of our interested

begins to think he may be able to see himself at Chaminade. For

students and their families. Dynamism is at the heart of everything

Director of Admissions Mr. Thomas Elder ’10 and his team, when a

we do in admissions.

prospective student says, “I was never thinking about Chaminade, but now I am,” they know they’ve done their job.

In recent years, the Office of Admissions has expanded its reach

“All the work we put into our site visits, all the planning that goes into open house, and everything we do is well worth it if only one student understands he could see himself at Chaminade," he said.

and effort to meet the needs of the ever-advancing landscape

“We are in the business of authentic connection between students

of secondary education. Led by Mr. Elder, the admissions team

and their academic goals.”

now consists of five: Mr. Paul Meyfohrt, Mr. Matthew Davis, Mr.

The work of admissions simply does not end when acceptance

Christopher Safrath ’04, and Mr. Oliver Luisi ’97, all of whom provide

letters go out. In order for newly-registered and incoming students

comprehensive outreach to the needs of prospective families.

to feel as if they immediately belong to the Chaminade Family, new

Mr. Elder has been working in recruitment and coaching for a

“Flyer Experience” programs have been instituted. Incoming students

number of years and breathes new opportunity and energy into

and their parents can attend athletic or arts events with current

the admissions effort. Admissions officers perform multiple site

students and faculty in the spring to already grow their sense of

visits to Catholic elementary schools, host 8th-grade boys for day

community here.

experiences at Saragossa Retreat Center, and empower current students to act as ambassadors for the school community.

“We have really given new life to high-school admissions

When students begin walking the main steps on their first day of school, they know that a whole community of people has been working relentlessly to accompany them to that point to make

opportunities through our robust private tour program,” continues

them know that they belong here. Just as our world changes, the

Elder. “We have entrusted seniors with these roles of student

admissions program is ready and set to adapt to the needs of all

ambassadors, who make themselves available throughout the school

young men who might see themselves as Flyers.

day so families can visit during our normal operations. Our yearround group and family touring program has really transformed how we see ourselves as an admissions program.”

Q: What is one vivid or important memory that you have from your time at Chaminade?

During my sophomore year Charlie Ruff [’66] and I wanted to start a soccer team at Chaminade. We approached Bro. Oleksiak, the then-principal at Chaminade, with our idea. He was willing to allow us to try but was clear that we had to do the work ourselves. At the beginning of our junior year, Peter Mingovits [’68] and I began the process. We had found a league, and we had numbers to field a team (actually, two). Bro. Oleksiak was clear that we could form a club, but we could not use the Chaminade name or colors. There would be

ELEVATING THE FLYER EXPERIENCE

Mr. Meyfohrt notes that the “approach to admissions makes us more accessible and accommodating to prospective families, removing as many barriers as possible so that they can come see the school, learn about it, and, hopefully, attend. The Access For All initiative allows Chaminade to become an option for students who, in the past, would never have been able to attend.”

“We get to meet many students as we ‘sell’ the many great and unique aspects of a Chaminade education,” explained Mr. Luisi. “We

Chaminade's first-ever soccer team (1967)

work at expanding our brand and exposure throughout Long Island and even beyond into the city and New Jersey.”

Mr. Paul Meyfohrt, Mr. Oliver Luisi ’97, and Mr. Christopher Safrath ’04

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HELPING STUDENTS FIND THEIR WAY Guidance Department Meets the Needs of the 21st-Century Student

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The Chaminade Guidance Department certainly looked different in the fall of 2002 when Mr. Dan Petruccio took over as director. The Guidance Department has practically tripled in physical size and now employs 11 full-time professionals to administer to the changing needs of the student body.

The Flyer Enrichment Program was created to bring guidance into the school day for every student at Chaminade.

The school’s seven counselors each handle approximately two homerooms per division; Mr. Matthew Kaplan ’97 is in charge of the Office of College Placement, while BOCES provides two psychologists and a social worker to further serve student needs.

Over 20 years later, the Guidance Department is still led

by Mr. Petruccio. Meet the staff that supports our students day-in and day-out!

Mr. Adam Giardina ’03 was the first full-time counselor brought on staff and currently serves as the director of the newly-developed Character Strong Program.

Mr. Matthew Kaplan ’97 Mr. Matthew Kaplan ’97 is in charge of the school’s Office of College Placement. He assists students in all aspects of the college admissions process.

“As the team's full-time college advisor, my approach is twofold: 1) to learn as much as I possibly can about the trends and conventions of today's college admissions landscape, and 2) to share all that I have learned with parents, students, teachers, and counselors.”

Mr. Adam Giardina ’03

“With this program I hope we are able to emphasize the values, empathy, community, and responsible decision-making abilities students will need to thrive academically and personally.”

Mr. Nicholas Auremmia

“My goal is to move forward with a team mentality to treat each case with individuality...counselors, students and parents…to be the best they can be.”

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Mr. Jarrett Armstrong ’12

“I had great counselors when I was a student, and I want to be able to give back to kids what I received.”

“I love working with students individually and as part of a team. I already feel like I’m part of the Chaminade Family.”

Mrs. Anita Ragusa has been a school psychologist since 2002 and at Chaminade since 2019. She also currently serves as one of the staff members in the bereavement group. The group supports students who have suffered a loss.

Mr. Joseph Wasserman is in his third year at Chaminade and serves as the school’s social worker. His position focuses on the social aspects of a young man’s experience.

He also works with students on academic pieces like time management, stress management, and study skills.

After school, Mr. Wasserman founded the school’s first “Jam Band.”

Mrs. Anita Ragusa

“The band fits into the puzzle of social work because the goal is to help students identify peers who share a common passion for music and make social connections by playing together.”

“I truly enjoy working at Chaminade. We have a team that works together to help the students in any capacity we can. Chaminade is not just a school; it's a family, and I feel lucky to be part of it.”

Dr. Craig Litman is in his third year at Chaminade and 22nd as a school psychologist. He works with students on a variety of issues ranging from stress and time management to anxiety and other emotional concerns.

Dr. Craig Litman

“We know that the need for guidance and mental health services has increased dramatically in the past few years, and Chaminade has been able to meet this challenge.”

Mr. Oliver Luisi ’97 has returned to Chaminade to assist with both guidance and admissions. A lifelong student with a passion for expanding his horizons, he has studied, taught, and traveled in over 25 countries around the globe.

“Perfect guidance moments and opportunities often present themselves in an out-of-the-office setting at a practice or even during a workout. It’s great to be there for a student right there in the moment.”

Mr. Jarrett Armstrong ’12 is currently in his fifth year at Chaminade. He has a passion for counseling while also coaching soccer and wrestling.

Ms. Samantha Sloane

Mr. Joseph Wasserman

Mr. Nicholas Auremmia loves to take guidance into the greater school community. As both a football and wrestling coach and a supervisor of the Physical Fitness Center, he can often be seen offering his services to students in their own environments.

Mr. Paul Meyfohrt is also in year five after spending 12 years working in admissions at Springfield College and 14 years as a counselor in Connecticut.

Mr. Paul Meyfohrt

Ms. Samantha Sloane joined the Chaminade staff this year, but she has been a counselor for over 10 years and has a passion for college counseling. She previously worked in admissions for Vanderbilt University. She also brings with her a love for the theater and for animals.

Mr. Oliver Luisi ’97

“I come to Chaminade as a graduate of the Class of 1997. I really enjoyed my time here and appreciated the uniqueness of the holistic education I received. I love working one-on-one with students and individuals, helping them deepen their selfknowledge and develop tools for personal growth.”

Mrs. Teresa DeAngelis and Mrs. Annamarie Mansueto As administrative assistants of the Guidance Department, they assist all students and visitors during the day with items such as working papers, schedules, standardized testing, college and financial aid applications, and any guidance questions they may need addressed.

Ms. Michelle Cinnamo

Ms. Michelle Cinnamo is serving in her second year of counseling at Chaminade. She is certified as a school counselor as well as a mental health counselor. She is also an assistant moderator of the Culinary Club.

“I am committed to creating a safe environment where every student feels heard, valued, and supported. I believe that it is integral to collaborate well with teachers, parents, and fellow colleagues in order to unlock student success.”

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