CEOMOM Summer 2018

July 2018

GWENDOLYN OSBORNESMITH

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CONTENTS 05 FROM THE EDITOR In this issue, we give you tips to help you enjoy your summer vacation while preparing for its inevitable end.

12 BACK TO SCHOOL MUST HAVES We're giving you our must haves from books to fashion to nutrition, CEOMOM Magazine is helping you get ready for Fall.

58 FUN SUMMER RECIPES Try these easy summer recipes that your kids will love making and will keep you cool.

69 TIPS TO KEEP FAMILY TRAVEL FUN As you embark on your summer vacations, consider these tips to ensure more fun and less stress.

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42 MEET GWENDOLYN

FAMILY. FUN. BUSINESS. Editor-in-Chief Vonna Matthews

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LETTER FROM THE EDITOR

CELEBRATING A BREAK FROM THE NORM We love summer. It is arguably the best season. Families everywhere pack up, hit the road or catch a flight for an extended vacation full of care-free fun. Summer is the perfect season to forget all responsibilities and forgo routine for relaxation and leisure, or is it?

Although vacations are welcome and it's expected that you will replace normalcy for unimaginable adventure, let's face it, life and business must continue as usual. Summer forces you to intertwine the common with the uncommon and take a break from the norm while maintaining routine. Kids are now home from school and you must develop a summer schedule full of camps, a diverse list of funfilled activities and family trips that will make even the most well traveled person envious.

In this issue, we give you tips to help you enjoy your summer vacation while preparing for its inevitable end. From tips to keep family vacations fun to our picks for back to school must haves to ways to market your business through the off-season, the CEOMOM Magazine Summer 2018 issue is sure to meet all your needs.

We interviewed a few children's book authors to bring you a great literary selection to add to your kids' summer reading list plus a couple of books for parents. We interviewed the real Bow Johnson from the hit ABC sitcom, black-ish, Dr. Rainbow Edwards-Barris, about her new book, Keeping up with the Johnsons: Bow's Guide to Black-ish Parenting. Our cover mom is the beautiful model turned COO of Smith Entertainment Group (SEG), Gwendolyn OsborneSmith. We talked to Gwendolyn about her new role with SEG and its partnership with media giant ITV America. Let's talk kid fashion with Christina Canson of Royal Kids Collection and Sarah Yasukochi of Blaze + Wander. Both are providing clothing must haves for your kids back to school and summer fashion needs.

Summer time is here and the living is easy. Now let's get back to normal.

Editor-in-Chief VONNA MATTHEWS

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LORI RICHMOND

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One Working Mom Shares How To Make Traveling For Business Easier On Your Kids When I was a corporate Creative Director, I went away on many business trips. It was never easy to put aside the mom guilt and leave my two kids— even though I knew, deep down, they’d be just fine.

Fast forward a few years: now I work close to home, and my husband is the one who travels—a lot. Last year he logged more than 125,000 miles... ouch.

After being on both (difficult) sides of this coin, I tip my hat to the parents clocking endless hours in airports, but must give a special shout-out to the parents who stay behind. Flying solo at home requires a unique kind of household chaos management, and was the inspiration for my children’s picture book about a business-traveling mama, Bunny’s Staycation. Here are some tips for both situations:

TIPS FOR TRAVELING PARENTS Unpack your child’s emotions Ask your child to help you pack—it's the perfect time to discuss their feelings about your travel. And kids know that parents can feel lonely, too. If your child worries about your feelings, offer to take a plush toy (of their choice) along as a travel companion. Your child can draw a plane ticket and pack a bag for the toy—use an inexpensive toiletry bag as a “suitcase.”

Time travel It’s difficult for small children to measure the passage of time. Just two days can feel like a month! Help them to visualize and count the days until you’ll be back by creating a simple calendar or sticker chart.

IT’S DIFFICULT FOR SMALL CHILDREN TO MEASURE THE PASSAGE OF TIME. HELP THEM TO VISUALIZE AND COUNT THE DAYS UNTIL YOU’LL BE BACK Make your connection Thanks to technology, it’s easy to be present while you’re away. Schedule a time to check in at home via FaceTime or a phone call. If you’re in a different time zone, be sure to accommodate the time zone your child is in. Go analog by leaving handwritten notes hidden around the house—when your child finds one, it’s like getting a hug from afar!

TIPS FOR PARENTS STAYING BEHIND Re-route your expectations When I'm the parent holding down the fort, I give myself a guilt-free pass on chores—the kitchen, living room, and (insert your room of choice here) remain in a state of disheveled mess. Keeping up with cleaning up is just not as important as getting everyone to school on time, helping with homework, and meeting my own freelance deadlines.

Everything else can wait.

Take off on staycation My kids and I have had many special at-home adventures as a trio. One of our favorites was to pitch a tent in the living room on a Friday night and watch movies. Have an at-home beach party by tossing an inflatable ball in the tub and wearing sunglasses at bath time, or, if you’re stuck indoors during the winter season, oversized white pom-poms make a great indoor snowball fight!

Press for assistance Thank goodness for the internet. Shopping online, using delivery services, and even outsourcing tasks to virtual assistants can help make things easier when you’re solo-parenting.

Whether you’re the business-traveling parent or the parent at home, nothing beats the feeling of relief when everyone reunites. Make sure to allow plenty of uninterrupted, device-free time for your family to recharge and reconnect—that is, until the next business trip!

About Lori Richmond Lori Richmond is a corporate creative director turned picture book maker and can relate all too well to travelfor-work parents and the bunnies who miss them. As a former contributing editor and spokesperson for the leading pregnancy and parenting brand, The Bump, Lori has appeared as an expert on Today, Good Morning America, CNN, and more. She works out of her studio in Brooklyn, New York, where she lives with her family.

Lori is also the author-illustrator of Pax and Blue and has illustrated several picture books, including A Hop Is Up, written by Kristy Dempsey, and Oopsie-Do, written

by Tim Kubart.

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Steve Richardson Back to School Books

Teaching Kids Imagination, Collaboration and Patience through "Paisley Rabbit and the Treehouse Contest"

"Paisley Rabbit’s character was partly inspired by watching my sister Margy, the interior designer, in action."

At CEOMOM Magazine, we love children’s books. We are always excited to share our favorite titles with you. Named the best picture book for kids 6 and older by the Indie Book Awards and 2018 Picture Book of the Year by Creative Child Magazine, Paisley Rabbit and the Treehouse Contest has inspired us the most. Its vivid illustrations that give you feelings of nostalgia, its story of selflessness, collaboration and gratitude and its modern take on a popular classic, “The Tortoise and the Hare,” make it a children’s book that not only every parent and child should read, but one that your children will read to their own children. Paisley’s story is sure to be a classic. We had the opportunity to interview the author, Steve Richardson, and learn what inspired him to write such an incredible story and what adventure is next for Paisley. We can’t wait!

Paisley Rabbit and the Treehouse Contest came to me when I was in Dallas, Texas visiting my sister Margaret Chambers (the family calls her Margy). She is an interior designer there and when I visit she takes me to the jobs (often multi-million dollar homes) she is working on. We will also go to The World Trade Center in Dallas and a number of antique and home décor shops. I have also been with her when she works hand-in-hand with builders and architects, some of them like Cole Smith and Larry Boerder are quite renowned and it’s interesting to watch her in action with these other very creative, talented people, all bringing their brilliance together to create masterpiece homes. It’s a team effort and the talent brought in for these expensive homes is world class. I found watching the entire process of creating these magnificent, multi-million dollar homes to be fascinating, from the architect to the foreman and builder to the interior designer.

What inspired you to write Paisley Rabbit and the Treehouse Contest?

I am always looking for concepts and ideas for books and

Looking back, I remember the exact moment the idea for Paisley Rabbit and her treehouse came to me. I had been with Margy watching her work and it

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struck me that there was a foundation for a strong story concept. As we drove through these very wealthy Dallas neighborhoods, I happened to see a treehouse and instantly I realized that that was it! The story should be about the coolest treehouse ever built. A treehouse that would be spectacular and somehow I would bring in the talented array of people like my sister and famous architects and builders to build it! At that point it was a matter of building the story around this concept and I decided a contest between school kids would be a good way to go. As a big fan of Beatrix Potter and Jill Barklem, I liked the idea of using animals for the characters and I wanted timeless, classic art at which Chris Dunn the illustrator excels.

Paisley Rabbit’s character was partly inspired by watching my sister Margy, the interior designer, in action. Coming from a middle class family, I have always been impressed with her entrepreneurial spirit and how she appears so fearless working with very powerful people coming from such a humble background. In developing Paisley, I put a lot of my sister Margy in her, and her brother Davey Rabbit was inspired by our brother David who recently passed away. The book is dedicated to him for his tough spirit dealing with so many health issues all through his life. Upon completion, Paisley’s treehouse becomes a city park and part of the ticket sales are used to raise funds for sick kids, and for part of the week sick kids get to play there. I decided to incorporate helping the less fortunate into the storyline because of watching David’s very difficult life in and out of hospitals. For me, Paisley’s treehouse is a metaphor that relates directly to the sick and poor children it eventually helps. A house brings shelter, comfort and safety to those inside, not to mention a treehouse also raises them up.

Original artwork by Chris Dunn

There are several lessons from the book. Which ones do you think are most important for kids to learn?

This is a good question and while things like reaching for the stars by thinking big, good planning and research, building a great team with diverse talents and thinking outside the box etc., are all very important, I like the way Pat in her blog, Here and There, summed it up.

She wrote: “I liked this story’s heroine Paisley Rabbit. She is caring, determined, creative, and literate–now I call that a great role model. As a leader, she relies on her team. She follows rules. She knows how to be gracious and thank others for their help. Paisley cares about everyone, her family, her brother Davy, her friends, and the town. She is not in the contest for self-gain. Her aim is to help sick kids have a place to play. That is what makes her a perfect caretaker for the best treehouse ever in the new city park.”

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Paisley Rabbit and the Treehouse Contest is a modern take on “The Tortoise and the Hare.” What similarities do these 2 stories share? What is the underlined message in both stories?

Ironically in this story the Hare wins but in the style of the Tortoise of the original story, "The Tortoise and the Hare” is a poignant moral lesson that you can be more successful by doing things slowly and steadily than by acting quickly and carelessly or being over confident. In Paisley Rabbit and the Treehouse Contest, Paisley doesn’t jump right in without a plan.

She does research, she puts together a very complex business plan, raises a lot of funds, and she interviews great, qualified professionals before she even picks out a tree to build. All the while the other animals who jumped right in on building their treehouses are nearly done before Paisley’s treehouse has even broken ground. Unfortunately for them, they are nearly done with something average and uninspired because they didn’t have the patience, creativity and big thinking to lay the groundwork for a masterpiece.

What adventures are next for Paisley Rabbit and her friends?

I have bantered around two concepts, a rocket building contest that would pit Paisley against the brilliant scientific mind of classmate Simon Shrew or something Christmas related because the illustrator Chris Dunn’s Polar Bear Santa scene was so popular, and because I love Christmas. One afternoon I reworked the text for ‘Twas the Night Before Christmas into ‘Twas the Night Before Christmas in Paisley’s Treehouse. I think it would be fun to see that classic Christmas story with animal characters and, of course, show off Paisley’s treehouse a bit more.

Get your copy of Paisley Rabbit and the Treehouse Contest at: https://www.amazon.com/Paisley-Rabbit-Treehouse-ContestRichardson/dp/097864221X.

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Ylleya Fields

Mom of 4 Creates Book Series to Meet a Cultural Need in Children's Literature"

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he ability to write children’s books is a unique gift. Creating characters that are not only visually appealing, but are relatable to young readers is no easy feat. Ylleya Fields has taken it a step further to create children’s books centered on a character her children and those like them can relate. Princess Cupcake Jones is a modern day Princess who loves her tutu and playing with her toys. She learns a variety of life lessons such as the importance of keeping her castle tidy. CEOMOM chatted with Ylleya to discuss the vision for Cupcake Jones and what’s next for the character.

What inspired the character Princess Cupcake Jones?

My children are the inspiration for Princess Cupcake Jones.

Her physical traits are inspired by my eldest two daughters. At the time when I decided to write my children’s book, there weren’t many African American picture books. Many of the books that were available didn’t have themes that my daughters could relate to. My daughters really enjoyed books like Fancy Nancy and Pinkalicious however there were no books like these that featured an African American lead character.

What is your process for creating stories for Princess Cupcake Jones? How do you determine her next adventure?

I don’t have a process! It’s a very organic and natural thing. I will literally have an experience with my children and then an idea will pop into my head, out of the blue. That usually ends up being the basis for the next story. Next, I hurry and put the notes in my phone, so I don’t forget! Then, I just wait until this process happens again. Luckily for me I self publish so I don’t have a deadline, because if I did that would be a very problematic way to write.

If I were to have a process I would first create an outline. I

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would come up with an idea or major theme and then put it into bullet points. Next, I would introduce the character, create a problem and then get the character out of that problem. That is the basis of how each of my stories should go. Whether or not I stick to that is another thing!

What is your professional background? Have you always wanted to be an author?

I actually went to school and got my associate degree in accounting. My whole focus was to take care of my son. I had an accounting degree then I went back to school and received a degree in business administration with a concentration in finance.

Then I had my daughter and she was such a ferocious reader, more so than my son. As I was reading stories to her, I thought I could do this or I could do it better. That’s when I decided I wanted to write children’s books. If you write a story that really means something to you, you can be a children’s author.

What advice would you give to a mom who wants to write her own children’s book?

I say write what you know. I am not a person who can write a scifi book. I commend those who can. I have to write stories based on my own experiences that I personally go through. That’s the easiest thing. Write what you know. You can use animals or whatever character you want to use, just write from a place of knowledge. Make sure whatever you are creating is unique and creative and is not already over saturated. Later when it comes time to promote the book, if it is unique people will be most likely want to buy it.

What advice would you give to someone who wants to self publish?

Do it. It’s a great avenue to get your words out there to gain an audience. You don’t have to wait anymore to have people publish your work. Make sure that whatever you put out is your best work. You need to really have your work edited and then edited again. Even when you think it is amazing, have it edited again.

My children are the inspiration for Princess Cupcake Jones. Her physical traits are inspired by my eldest two daughters.

Photo Credit: Stephen Midgett

Original artwork by Michael LaDuca

I would love to see her as a cartoon. I want to see her animated. That would be the epitome of everything I am doing right now.

Not only for grammar but for structure. Edit. Edit. Edit. Then when you actually hit that button and create, promote. Make sure you promote your writing. No one is going to know who you are. Really getting people to believe in what you’re saying and getting other people to want to read and listen to your work is the key.

How have your books impacted your children?

They are the inspiration for my books. My 11 year old daughter was probably 2 at the time. Now that she’s 11, she still finds so much joy in the fact that I write books. She literally ran my latest book into her school. She took 5 copies and gave them to her principal and her old elementary class.

My books instill so much pride in my children. My 3 year old is the inspiration for the series now. She gets so excited every time a new book comes out. My kids are so excited to see my face on the back cover. They also love going into the book store and seeing my books.

Where do you see the Princess Cupcake Jones book series in 5 years?

I would love to see her as a cartoon. I want to see her animated. That would be the epitome of everything I am doing right now. Of course, more books. My 6th book has already been written. It is tentatively called Cupcake Jones and the New Prince. I have a new clothing line. We want to expand upon that. I had my hands in all of the clothing line from the ordering to the designing. People have been asking us to create more toys so hopefully we will get more toys.

Princess Cupcake Jones has bookbags, dolls, gift baskets and more. How has your experience as an entrepreneur helped you in the development of the brand?

I have to flip the question to ask, How has the development of the brand helped me as an entrepreneur? I was not an entrepreneur prior to this. I had a degree in finance. I worked for someone else. From creating Princess Cupcake Jones, I have essentially become an entrepreneur. I had to learn in the beginning. When you fall you have to get back up again and not make those same mistakes. You just take it one day at a time.

Purchase your Princess Cupcake Jones books and apparel at http://www.princesscupcakejones.com.

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KATIE NOVAK, EdD LET THEM THRIVE A Playbook for Helping Your Child Succeed in School and in Life

Katie Novak, Ed.D. is a school administrator, mother of 4 and author. Katie wrote Let Them Thrive: A Playbook for Helping Your Child Succeed in School and in Life to help parents play an active role in their children’s education through informed partnerships with teachers, students and school administrators. Katie believes that all children are capable of learning anything if focus is put on evaluating teaching methods and ideals rather than limiting their ability to learn to antiquated assessments and practices. When it comes to kids adeptness at retaining and applying information, Katie presents the notion that one

size does not fit all and teaching methods should be adjusted accordingly.

Let Them Thrive is an important and must read book that forces parents and teachers to individualize the way we interact with our kids both socially and academically. Using the Universal Design for Learning (UDL) framework as its recommended teaching method, Katie equips parents and teachers with the tools they need to adopt the UDL framework and to give children options when it comes to learning. We are excited to include Let Them Thrive in our CEOMOM Book Club.

Read our interview with Katie Novak, as she dives into the inspiration behind Let Them Thrive and provides tips for how parents can be the leaders in their children’s education.

What inspired you to write Let Them Thrive: A Playbook for Helping Your Child Succeed in School and in Life?

As an educator, I see the value (and the academic results!) of embracing all our kids exactly the way they are.

When I walk into classrooms in districts who embrace personalized learning through UDL, I see kids who are motivated, resourceful and self-directed. They are thriving.

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This is because in schools where students are thriving, the systems have embraced a framework called Universal Design for Learning (UDL). The basic mantra of UDL is, “Our kids aren’t disabled or broken. Our schools are.” Because UDL is endorsed nationally, it drives me up the wall that some teachers and kids aren’t experiencing the power of that framework. There are too many kids who don’t like school or who struggle academically, socially, or emotionally and schools aren’t meeting their needs. It doesn’t have to be this way. For years, my lens has been trying to transform schools to help them best support their teachers and students, but the transformation isn’t happening fast enough. It’s time to turn out Team Momma, as together, we can make sure all our kids get what they deserve. I wrote Let Them Thrive to let parents know that every child has a right to a personalized education and we have a right to demand it. So, game on!

I became a teacher because I believe in the power of learning.

I believe that any child, and any teacher can be wildly successful if we create conditions for nurture and we provide them with relevant, authentic, meaningful opportunities to learn.

What was the defining moment that inspired you to adopt the Universal Design for Learning framework?

I became a teacher because I believe in the power of learning. I believe that any child, and any teacher can be wildly successful if we create conditions for nurture and we provide them with relevant, authentic, meaningful opportunities to learn. I believed this even when I was assigning the same book to the entire class and requiring them to write essays. I believed this when I gave long multiple choice tests that required students to memorize information that was at their fingertips on their phone. I simply didn’t know any other way to teach because I was taught that my job was to follow a script and teach a curriculum. When I first learned about UDL, I suddenly felt free to be creative, to provide options and choices for students to make their own meaning, and right away, their achievement soared.

You list several ways parents can encourage schools to apply the UDL framework. What are some ways parents can manage resistance from school administrators, etc?

As an educator, I believe that every educator is trying to do the best with what they have. If administrators are resistant, it’s because they haven’t yet learned why it’s important, what it is, and how to implement it. UDL requires a transformation of the system. It’s moving schools from being deficit-based (what’s wrong with our kids) to asset-based (what are the amazing strengths of our babies and how we can optimize their learning). Share articles with them or share books and if you still get push-back, call me. I can definitely hook you up with a UDL advocate, article, or data from my own district that will empower administrators to take the first step. I can promise you this - all administrators want students to be successful.

When you can shape that path to UDL, they will be.

Learn more about Katie and Let Them Thrive at http://katienovakudl.com. Read the full interview at http://ceomommagazine.com/category/ceomom-book-club. Order the book at https://www.amazon.com/Let-Them-Thrive-PlaybookHelping/dp/1930583168/ref=sr_1_1? ie=UTF8&qid=1530809880&sr=8-1&keywords=Let+them+thrive.

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On a Mission to Provide Healthy Snack Options Kids Will Love

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runchy Munchie Box is on a mission to provide healthy snack options that kids will not only love, but will beg for instead of their unhealthy counterparts. Founded

by Stacey Conte, mom of 3, the Crunchy Munchie Box aims to change how kids view snacks.

Stacey knows firsthand the impact food can have on your body. After extensive research to better understand what was being put in her food, Stacey decided to be proactive about what she was feeding herself and her children. She is taking the lead in helping moms provide the best nutrition for their kids. CEOMOM Magazine had the opportunity to interview Stacey to learn more about the inspiration behind Crunchy Munchie Box, the challenges she faces as a mom with a mission and the future of the brand.

What is the Crunchy Munchie Box? What can parents and kids expect from each box?

The Crunchy Munchie Box is a healthy subscription snack box for kids. It’s designed with very colorful packaging for kids. Appearance is very important for kids to determine whether they will try something new or not. For mothers, there are no artificial food dyes or allergens in the food. It’s shipped every month and it has rotating snacks.

Kids can try new stuff every month and find new favorites. We partner with small upcoming companies. Most of these items you can’t find in stores. There are a lot of unique small companies that we are working with who have the mission to get kids excited about healthy snacks.

What inspired you to create the Crunchy Munchie Box? I was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes when I was 19. My younger sister was diagnosed when she was a child. We were raised on a sugar free diet. There were a lot of foods with chemicals and artificial flavors to make them low sugar. When I got pregnant with my first child I started researching everything I was putting in my body.

It has created more of a balance, because I have found a way to incorporate my work with my family. For me, it has created more balance in our lives.

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It’s a way for moms to feel good about the foods they are letting their kids try and kids are really excited about the colors.

I was a huge Diet Coke drinker. When I found out about all of the adverse reactions and what the foods could do to your body, I went down this rabbit hole. It was a ripple effect. The more I learned the more I was intrigued. I completely cut out artificial sweeteners. After a few weeks I had horrible headaches. It took some time, but now I feel better. The energy I have as a mom of 3 now that I have changed my diet makes me feel like a new person. I try to eat a very clean diet. It changed my life.

So when I had kids I wanted to do the same thing for them. I controlled everything that went in their bodies. Now my oldest is 5 and he is active and it is becoming harder and harder to control his diet.

I believe that as a society we have grown accustomed to a certain food culture. I would bring my own snacks, but there are so many events where you are around unhealthy foods. I want to educate moms about the dangers of eating all of these foods and the damage they can do to our

bodies. The moms started to ask me questions. I started with my inner circle and family. I loved sharing that knowledge. My husband owns a junior golf tour so he has always been an entrepreneur. It hit me, I could do this. I don’t have to be limited to just reaching my inner circle. I can really help moms around the country. It’s a way for moms to feel good about the foods they are letting their kids try and kids are excited about the colors. It’s helping these really small companies get more exposure. It’s helping moms and kids not have to reach for the unhealthy snacks.

You have several box options to cater to various dietary needs. Which is your favorite?

I am a type 1 diabetic. The no sugar added box for children with diabetes is my favorite, because it is close to my heart. I was diagnosed at 19 so I wasn’t a small child, but my sister was. I can relate to kids with strict dietary needs.

Tell us a little bit about your professional

background. How did you get started in children’s health and nutrition?

I have a BS from the University of North Florida. I was on an accelerated program so I graduated in 3 years. I started in medical sales. I did my MBA in leadership on the side. I am still in medical sales. I consult with my husband who owns the largest junior golf tour in the world. Their goal is to help young golfers get scholarships. I am really inspired by my husband and his work and his work ethic. I see the dedication that it takes. You work 24/7. If you ask my husband, it isn’t work to him, it’s a passion. I love medical sales but I love the opportunity to impact families through these snack bars. I’ve been able to connect with so many people. I was able to connect with an old friend on Facebook who shared with me that her child was recently diagnosed with a sensitivity to the chemicals in artificial food dyes. I encouraged her to share her story. That’s what this is all about, helping each other and helping other mothers.

What were some of the challenges of developing your own subscription box?

It’s a business model right now that’s booming. Everything is seemingly moving to the subscription model. I am on Shopify and Cratejoy. The biggest challenge right now is spreading the word. Being a new company I don’t have the established following on Facebook and Instagram. It’s like you can never master social media because it is constantly changing. The struggle right now is getting the word out there. I have so many companies that want to work with us, but now it’s a matter of getting the word out.

You have 3 “munchie” kids of your own and you are a career woman in addition to being an entrepreneur. What does balance look like for you?

I think when you look at balance you

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compare the good and the bad, time at work and time with your family.

For me I just try to combine them all.

My son who is 5 is very involved in my business. He helps me to put the boxes together. He taste tests everything. He goes to his school and talks about why he likes to drink his organic green juice. I incorporate my kids in my videos. It has created more of a balance, because I have found a way to incorporate my work with my family. For me, it has created more balance in our lives. I am someone who doesn't really ever stop. I have my days planned out so I can cram in everything I need. On the weekends we have family time or we might make videos together and go to the park and make a video there.

What’s next for the Crunchy Munchie Box? Where do you see the subscription box in 5 years?

I am just trying to grow it very quickly and get the word out and hopefully inspire moms and kids along the way. I want to be the Etsy of foods for kids. I hope to have it take off like it has in the makeup industry. I want kids to talk about the Crunchy Munchie Box and be informed about their food choices. In 5 years, I hope to keep the momentum going and have some influencers who are interested in kids nutrition to be connected with our brand.

To learn more about the Crunchy Munchie Box and to place your order, visit https://crunchymunchiebox.com.

Abigail Wald

Back to School

Creating a Healthy Snack You Can Say Yes To

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s moms, we are constantly looking for healthy snacks for our kids.

Consumers are becoming more aware of the ingredients that are in foods and how they are prepared, forcing food manufacturers to create healthier options. Abigail Wald, the creator of the Yes Bar, is leading the way in providing healthy snack options not only for kids, but for the world.

Inspired by her sons’ allergies, Abigail developed a delicious snack bar filled with nutrients from real food including the best chocolates, nuts and dried fruits. This snack bar shaped like a cookie is one food you can say yes to.

CEOMOM Magazine was honored to speak to Abigail about what makes the Yes Bar so special and how her sons’ food allergies inspired her to change the world.

We know your sons' food allergies and health challenges inspired you to create the Yes Bar. What motivated you to turn the Yes Bar into a company?

When we would go to different events, we would have the bars with us. I would be at birthday parties with them when everyone else was having cake.

People would ask, “what is that you’re eating?” We would tell them, “you don’t want this, you want the birthday cake. I don’t know if this is really what you want.” People wanted to taste them and they would ask if I would make the bars for them. I would give people a couple and they would come back and ask for 20. People started ordering them from me so one day I just walked into Erewhon and told them I had these yummier and healthier snack bars and asked if they would like to buy them. The owner of Erewhon took a bite and said let’s get them on the shelf. I asked if I had to be a company. He told me yes and to figure it out so that’s exactly what I did!

Describe the Yes Bar. What separates it from other snack foods?

We are 100 percent real food. We are gluten free. We don’t have any fillers and we don’t use grains and we are not date based. We are a real food

It is called the Yes Bar because I was so tired of constantly saying no. I am going to turn no into a yes and offer it as a gift to the world.

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I want us to break down that barrier so that everyone believes they deserve a good and healthy snack.

they deserve a good and healthy snack. I think it is a human right to be able to eat healthy and eat real food. I think that we can be a key leader in that and start the conversation.

What advice would you give to a new mom who has learned her child has severe food allergies?

Everyday is different. Some allergies are life threatening and it can be very stressful. I would say that in so many cases, not all the time, these challenges are truly limiting. Try to find the yes inside the no. In some ways my sons’ allergies and medical challenges have made life intolerable. It wasn’t until I embraced everything that I learned that all of this is what I needed in my life. At the end of the day these are things that have torn open my heart in the best possible way. While it may seem daunting and can seem hard and difficult I truly do believe that there is so much value in everybody’s daily struggles.

snack bar where every bite is really different. This was created by me and it wasn’t created to be a product so it still has this homemade taste. You may get a little apricot with one bite and chocolate with another. You don’t get that homogenous taste.

All of the ingredients that we source are the absolute top of the line. Our chocolate is a very special chocolate we bring in from Berlin. Our fruits are naturally dried and all made without sulfites and preservatives.

Everything we use has the purest and highest quality ingredients we can find. Our taste and texture are incredible because of our ingredients.

What has been the biggest challenge starting a business in the snack food industry?

I think I brought a tremendous amount of freshness to the category. I was not a business school graduate or someone coming from the food industry. I was truly a mom wanting to feed her kids. I didn’t know you couldn’t have a lot of ingredients in your products. There is a misconception that food can only be truly healthy with 3 or fewer ingredients. Just because we are eating real food doesn’t mean we have to dumb down our taste buds. The challenge was cutting down the ingredients to cut

down costs.

Another challenge was we are round and most snack bars aren’t round. I wanted to bring the feeling that you were eating a cookie. I had to develop our own processes to make a bar that hadn’t been made before. Then we wanted certain wrapping that no other bar had used before. People said our packaging couldn’t run under the machine. I thought they needed to try and see.

We kept redefining the snack bar. I think a lot of it was just my passion and clarity of purpose. It was the fact that I wasn’t held back by prior perception. I just wanted to make sure I created a product that I wanted to eat.

Where do you see The Yes Bar In 5 years? Do you have plans to create other products?

We do have plans to create other products. I would like the Yes Bar to be at the top of the category. I want to be a snack bar that is available everywhere and not just to people that are super aware of their food choices. I want us to break down that barrier so that everyone believes

It is called the Yes Bar because I was so tired of constantly saying no. I kept thinking we are not missing out on anything. We are doing what everyone should be doing. You can stand tall in whatever your struggles are.

I am going to turn no into a yes and offer it as a gift to the world.

What does your typical day look like as a mom, a writer and a business owner?

After laughing uncontrollably, Abigail responded with, “Laughter is the most honest answer I can give.”

Looking back, what do you wish someone would have told you about the life of a mompreneur?

Absolutely nothing. If they had told me anything I would not have done it and that would have been worse. I am glad I had no idea. If I really knew what it was going to feel like it would have been hard for me to walk into. It is like becoming a parent. The joy is immeasurable and the challenges are huge. It is the living in them day to day that you discover yourself. I don’t think any of that is easy. I am glad I didn’t know, because it was all worth it.

To learn more about the Yes Bar and to place your order, visit https://www.theyesbar.com.

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Vaya Tyffyn – Keep Food Fresh OnThe-Go This high tech lunch box is perfect for kids who want to bring their lunch to school in style. Made from food-grade stainless steel, Vaya Tyffyn uses vacuum insulation technology to keep your food the way you pack it, warm or cold, for 5 hours. With convenient compartments your child can pack a balanced meal.

Place your order at https://vayalife.com/.

SPIbelt - Small Personal Item Belt Fanny packs are back, but with a more stylish and functional twist. These light belts fit around your waist and carry your essentials so you can go about your day whether it's running during track practice or walking down the hallways of school. SPIbelt’s Kids’ belts are not only great to hold personal belongings like house keys, but if your child has an allergy or diabetes or needs any type of medicine during the day, they can keep it discreetly stashed while leaving them hands-free to tackle the school day! Place your order at https://spibelt.com/.

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Christina Canson

Boys

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ROYAL KIDS COLLECTION: FASHION WITH A MESSAGE When Christina Canson set out to create a boys clothing brand, she was focused on more than just style. She wanted a collection that sent a powerful message to boys while representing the diversity of their personalities. Royal Kids Collection does just that with unique prints that boast powerful slogans and full sets that are conversation starters for anyone with a flair for style.

More parents are wanting unique clothing options for their kids that allow them to express individual style. Royal Kids Collection offers that and is a CEOMOM back to school must have.

Christina shared her vision for this luxury fashion brand for boys and what inspires her for each piece.

Tell us about the Royal Kids Collection brand.

How would you describe your signature looks?

Royal Kids Collection is a lifestyle brand that carries luxe fashion for kids, specifically boys.

Although the brand caters to boys, many of the items sold are unisex and can be shared between brothers and sisters. At the moment, we carry three vendors, Someday Soon, Little Man Happy, and Lennon & Wolfe. I would describe the signature looks as cool, comfy, and most important, conversation pieces. Most items, especially our sweat suits, have all over prints with positive statements written on them.

What inspired you to create a clothing brand for kids?

I was inspired to create a clothing brand for kids because I felt there was a void in the industry

for cool clothes for boys. When I initially came up with the idea, I only had one son, and I found it difficult buying clothes for him.

I wanted to sell clothes that reflected young boys personalities‌bold, boisterous, and fun.

What makes Royal Kids Collection unique from other clothing brands for kids?

Royal Kids Collection is a boutique aimed to empower our children through fashion. The items we sell are not only organic, ecofriendly, and fashionable‌ they spread positive messages. For example, our best seller thus far has been the Someday Soon collection that has the signature slogan printed across the back of jackets and tshirts.

Back to school must haves would have to be our hoodies and sweatshirts in neutral colors.

Where do you garner your inspiration for each design?

How involved are you in the design process?

When I was picking merchandise, I wanted items that had positive messages printed on them. The Someday Soon message instantly caught my attention, and from there, I added complementing items. I wanted items that flowed well together, essentially, I wanted a mom to be able to shop complete looks from my store.

What are your fashion must haves for back to school?

Back to school must haves would have to be our hoodies and sweatshirts in neutral colors. To date, my son tries to wear his Someday Soon “Monterey” hoodie every week.

Thankfully, it washes well and he can do just that.

What’s next for Royal Kids Collection? Where do you see the brand in 5 years?

Currently, I’m working on designing my own black label collection designed 100% by me. This collection will consist of sweat suits and bomber jackers. In the next five years, I hope to have my sweat suits in mainstream department stores like Selfridges, Nordstrom, and Bloomingdales. More important, I want to sponsor a charity that helps children in language and arts.

As a mom of 2, what sacrifices have you had to make to manage both business and family?

As a mom of 2, I’ve sacrificed many sleepless nights to bring this vision to life. I launched this collection when my second son, Karter, was just 14 days old. To me, it was my brand, my vision, and I wanted it to be represented my way. My way was simply a luxury brand for kids. Royal Kids Collection is not just a brand, it’s a lifestyle. A lifestyle of luxury that is.

To learn more about Royal Kids Collection and to shop for these amazing pieces, visit https://royalkidscollection.com.

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"WHEN I WAS PICKING MERCHANDISE, I WANTED ITEMS THAT HAD POSITIVE MESSAGES PRINTED ON THEM. THE SOMEDAY SOON MESSAGE INSTANTLY CAUGHT MY ATTENTION, AND FROM THERE, I ADDED COMPLEMENTING ITEMS. "

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Aida Yodites

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Girls

DELICATE SEAMS: HELPING GIRLS TRANSITION TO YOUNG ADULTHOOD One quote that you often hear parents say is, “Kids grow up too quickly.” One minute you’re bringing them home from the hospital and the next minute you’re shopping for training bras. Moms know the frustration that can come with choosing the right undergarments for a growing daughter. There's a point that they’re not quite ready for their first bra, but yet they are a little too mature for the juvenile designs as well.

Aida Yodites, founder of Delicate Seams, has developed a line of undergarments to meet the needs of adolescent girls as they transition to young adulthood.

Disappointed by the lack of appropriate selections for her 10-year old daughter (at the time), Aida created a line of 7

undergarment styles that are designed to transition with young ladies as their bodies experience natural developmental changes.

CEOMOM caught up with Aida to learn more about Delicate Seams and why it’s not just a brand, it’s a movement Tell us about Delicate Seams. What products do you provide?

Delicate Seams is an apparel brand exclusively for maturing young girls. Our flagship undergarment line includes 4 style tops and 3 style bottoms. Each one of our top styles is designed for a specific developmental stage of a maturing girl’s body. Our Cami is designed for the “pre-budding” girl, probably close to the age of 9 or 10. This light single layer garment is the perfect introduction to undergarment layering.

Our Bralette and Sportlette are designed with a double-layer front panel, which provides much more coverage around the chest for the “budding” young lady. Our 1st Bra is designed specifically for the “blossoming” girl. It offers a full-coverage “A” cup with minimal padding, no underwire, and no push-up effect. In addition, we think it’s the most adorable first bra you’ll ever see!

We offer 3 bottom styles; a classic Bikini, which offers a higher cut around the thigh; a Hipster, which offers a lower rise around the waist; and a Girlshort, which offers complete coverage around the entire bottom, with a more feminine flair! All of our bottoms offer flat fold-over seams to minimize those harsh panty lines that often come with the packaged juvenile panties.

I want Delicate Seams to be known for more than quality undergarments, but more for what it represents – a brand that truly cares about its young customer.

Are there other companies like Delicate Seams? What separates you from competition?

There are many popular brands out there. However, when I was on my personal search to find something very specific for my daughter, I couldn’t find anything that I had envisioned. I wanted to introduce her to more mature fabrics and trims in a way that was incredibly appropriate. The garments I was finding were either too juvenile in bright patterns, and harsher textured fabrics, or the extreme was very adult designed garments with provocative styles and laces. There were really no “in between” styles using mature blended fabrics and trims in a way that was entirely appropriate. There are many popular brands and retailers that specifically market undergarments to girls closer to a 17 year-old, and that is clearly not my target market. I am targeting the 9 to 16year old. Therefore, I feel like the existing brands are not my competitors.

Delicate Seams promotes positive messages to young girls at an age that is so impressionable - That modesty matters, that a growing and changing body is natural, that we all come in different shapes, sizes and skin tones.

I don’t know of any other brand out there that is so inclusive, and I’m very proud to say that we are.

Where do you see Delicate Seams in 5 years?

I see Delicate Seams growing from a popular and loved national brand to a global brand within 5 years. In a nutshell, my dream isn’t necessarily to become a millionaire. Better said, my dream is to give a million girls confidence because of the undergarments I’ve created for them. That would make me a very happy businesswoman, designer, and mom.

I want Delicate Seams to be known for more than quality undergarments, but more for what it represents – a brand that truly cares about its young customer. It’s unfortunate that young girls feel pressured to grow up all too quickly these days. I know it’s impossible to keep our little girls from growing up – that’s inevitable. However, I think I’ve created a brand that simply wants to hold on to them just a little longer.

To learn more about Delicate Seams and to place your order, visit https://delicateseams.com. Read Aida's full interview in our Fashion & Beauty section at http://ceomommagazine.com/category/fashionbeauty.

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Photo Credit: Aida Yodites

Delicate Seams: The Bikini This full-coverage bottom, sits below the waist with a higher cut around the leg opening. Flat seams allow for minimal panty lines and a hint of our signature stretch lace detail is on the front hip of the panty.

Photo Credit: Aida Yodites

Delicate Seams: First Bra Bundle We think every girl should love her first bra. So, we have designed ours with much thought and care about what it should look and feel like for the young lady wearing it. The Delicate Seams bra has NO underwire, NO push-up effect, and MINIMAL padding. Our super-soft stretch fabric and signature lace detail make this garment so sweet and special, and we want it to make every adolescent girl feel great!

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GWENDOLYN OSBORNESMITH FROM THE PRICE IS RIGHT TO COO OF SMITH ENTERTAINMENT GROUP

A woman of many roles, Gwendolyn Osborne-Smith embraces change as vital to living your best life. This stunning actress, recording artist, producer, model, television host, wife and mom was a familiar face on The Price is Right for 12 years. Serving as the longest running model of color on the iconic show, Gwendolyn made her exit in 2017 to build a career behind the scenes. Now the COO of Smith Entertainment Group (SEG), a production company she runs alongside husband and Emmy Award winning broadcaster/former NBA player Kenny Smith, Gwendolyn is making power moves in the world of business and entertainment. With a partnership with ITV America, upcoming projects on truTV, a new album on the horizon and a family that continues to make their mark on the world, Gwendolyn is unstoppable.

CEOMOM caught up with this busy mom to discuss her new role as COO of Smith Entertainment Group, what it was like to make such a big career move and the importance of embracing your own MAGIC.

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You recently left The Price is Right after 12 years. When did you know it was time to leave the show? How did you mentally prepare for your exit?

I’d had the feeling of wanting to leave for a few years. I just wanted to make sure it felt right. I had to make sure I was going to feel okay leaving The Price is Right and going into not working outside of the home or finding something else. Once we decided to move forward with ITV America, I knew God was giving me the sign. You are going to leave because you actually have a deal now. When I started to produce segments at The Price is Right instead of just being a model, I realized that I had grown in a way that I knew I couldn’t continue to stifle myself. I knew it would be a gracious exit. I talked to the producers of the show on how I wanted it [my exit] to be.

What advice do you have for a mom who is afraid to make a major career change due to family demands?

It was scary for me and I wanted to make sure I had the support from my family. We have older children, so I wanted to voice my concerns to them so I could be prepared to go into a place of uncertainty in my life. It is a bonding experience when you show your vulnerability to your children. My advice would be not to live in fear. You can make decisions out of fear or love.

I say always lean on the side of love.

That is what makes you smile and makes you happy. That is why we are here, to live our best lives. Try to steer towards the side of love. Always remember and believe in your own MAGIC! It never leaves you so just grab it and live your life to the fullest!

Tell us about Smith Entertainment Group. What does your role as COO entail?

SEG has been going for quite a while now. We started when we did our reality show, “Meet the Smiths”, with TBS in 2013. We produced various segments for the show. One of the segments was a commercial with

I can’t be just one thing. I am a creative force.

Hyundai. We presented to TBS how we wanted our family to be presented on the show. We wanted to be producers if we were going to move forward with Meet the Smiths.

That is how it came to fruition. To be talent and produce a television show all at the same time was a great opportunity. We realized that we had something special. We wanted to do something for ourselves and create avenues for other people who had something inspirational to share on television. ITV America loved our ideas and that’s how our partnership began.

My role is to make sure that there is a constant run of show. It’s kind of an extension of my role at home. I feel like I am the production coordinator of my home. I make sure everything runs well and the communication is consistent, and the timelines are being met. I make sure the CEO, Kenny Smith, is happy with how things are running, and everything is going according to how we want the brand to be presented.

Smith Entertainment Group just signed a major deal with ITV America. What kind of projects can we expect from that partnership?

We are working on scripted and nonscripted shows. We just finished working

on a project with truTV that includes comedy and animation. We like to gear our reality stuff towards people who are in expert positions. Then, of course the sports element is involved. I come with the lifestyle element which includes home, travel and beauty.

You are an actress, model, producer, singer, company executive, wife and mother of 5. Other than being a wife and mother which of these is your favorite role? What singing or acting projects do you have coming up?

That is an extremely hard question to answer. Of course, being a mother is number 1. Since I have never been a grownup without being a mother because I was pregnant at 17, that inspires me to be everything else. On my bad days I think about the greatness of my children. Each of them is the rebirth of myself. That is what picks me up to continue to sing and act and to be creative. Right now, I am creating a short for myself. It is to encompass all of my sketch comedy characters. I am trying to complete an album. I am flying out to Atlanta to do that and work on some recordings in the studio. It is all my favorite. I can’t make a decision. It all goes together.

One does not work without the other. I love it all. I can’t be just one thing. I am a creative force.

We know as a woman with so many roles, your typical day must be crazy.

What is your favorite part of the day?

How do you steal moments for yourself?

My favorite moments of the day constantly change. It could be I just started jogging in the morning with my 9-year-old son. He is helping keep me in shape. We are supporting one another with that. It could be when I get to sing. I love doing vocal training, even though I have to do it on FaceTime. I love being able to sing and write songs, or when I get a quiet moment like driving and singing in my car to a Bruno Mars song.

Sometimes it is the end of the night and we are just relishing in the moment during bed time. My kids are sharing every single moment and thing that happened during their day. As much as you want them to go to bed it is just the sweetest moment.

Being a model for so many years you are in the car by yourself so much going to castings. That is when I really enjoy being in the car. I can have a phone conversation if the kids aren’t with me. I can sing or I can listen to self-help books, or it can be when I get on the bike in the gym. It’s those moments when it’s just me.

With both you and your husband having such demanding careers, what do you like to do for fun as a family?

We make the most of our children’s achievements. If it’s not Kayla performing, it’s Monique acting in a show. We go on one of the lots to see her as part of the live audience. Sometimes we fly to see KJ play a game in Chapel Hill. London loves to dress up in her cheerleader outfit and cheer on her brother. She’s five.

London plays tennis and we love to go and cheer her on at her tennis matches. We are constantly making the most of the moments of their achievements.

Assuming balance is a myth, what is the key to maintaining a successful career as a wife and mother?

Balance is definitely a myth. Balancing is what we are doing. You are never going to achieve the goal of balance. It is a constant you are going to be doing in your life. When I feel like I have been a part of everything to do with myself and my children on any given day I feel like I have created a balance. If I go to bed tonight and I say I have done a bit of this and a bit of that, I feel like I am in my place of balancing in that moment.

Is there anything else you would like to add?

I am really excited that Meghan Markle is a part of the royal family. It is a joy to see someone who looks like me be a part of the royal family. It is such a touching piece of history. I can’t wait for her to have children as well and see her balancing herself.

To learn more about Gwendolyn, visit https://www.itsgwendolyn.com.

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 When I feel like I have been a part of everything to do with myself and my children on any given day I feel like I have created a balance.

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If you have a high school student at home, you know that summer plans are a constant worry. Wading through the online ads, brochures, and hearsay in PTA meetings can be exhausting, so think of the next five tips as your life raft in the waters of summer planning.

1. Let students lead!

You might be shaking your head at the thought of your child planning anything, let alone their summer activities, but hear me out. Allowing students to take the lead is a worthwhile way for them to gain planning skills and exercise their

independence. It also looks different for every student. If you have older teens (or just very independent ones), let them do the research, make the calls, fill out their summer program applications, and write their cover letters. Even if you know that you could set up that internship for them or write a stronger email, the skills your student will learn from pulling together a project like this will be just as valuable as their summer experience. Colleges are always on the lookout for independent, selfsufficient students, and you’ll be helping them by giving them space to develop these skills.

If you have a younger student or one who is particularly disengaged, it makes sense for you to take the lead for a majority of the process.

But before you do, have a conversation with them about their summer options. Is there an activity or idea that makes them light up?

Whether you decide together that they should volunteer at an animal shelter or take a class in video game design, make sure you delegate.

Have them call to get the information or contact their counselor for more ideas. Even this guided approach will help teens feel more invested in the process.

HOW COLLEGES WANT TEENS TO SPEND THEIR SUMMER VACATION Collegewise Counselor Jazzmin Estebane gives us tips on how teens can use their summer vacation to prep for college. The goal is not to create a strenuous schedule filled only with academics, but to participate in diverse programs and activities that will impress colleges.

2. Don’t equate cost with value One thing you’ll notice as you investigate summer programs and experiences is that costs start to add up, particularly if you’re paying room and board on a college campus. If you’re a price-conscious parent, know that your children can still have productive and engaging summers. Summer programs are not a must, and a more expensive program does not equate to a better one. Look for scholarship options if your student has their heart set on diving deep into a summer course at a college, but don’t discount more affordable options, such as those available through online providers or community colleges. It’s about the effort your student puts in, not the bells and whistles or an exotic locale.

3. Start local.

One way to cut costs is to start with local options. Is there a community college, local hospital, state college campus, or community center that offers camps, classes, internships, or other experiences? Summer is a great time to explore academic topics outside of the usual high school courses and to develop new interests in a low-stress environment. Local options can offer ways for students to engage without taking up their whole summer or eating up the family’s vacation fund. They’re also a great way to test the waters for students who aren’t quite ready for an intensive summer program or an experience away from home.

Also, don’t discount work as an option for summer. Parents sometimes shield their students from summer jobs, thinking that part-time gigs don’t carry the same “prestige” associated with academic programming. Admissions officers, however, see great value in work experiences, particularly when students work hard and take them seriously. Working in retail or food service may not sound glamorous, but students learn about work ethic and managing time and money. Plus, they usually get some great stories out of the experience.

4. Be a savvy shopper.

When researching summer programs, it’s easy to be swayed by name brands. But just because a program is hosted at Yale or UCLA does not mean that your student will get a leg up in their admissions process. Summer programs are enriching experiences that help students grow and allow them to explore their interests, but they’re neither an expectation nor a secret side door to admission. The reality is that most summer programs are a great business decision for colleges. They increase interest from high schoolers and allow universities to make a profit by utilizing empty dorm rooms, dining halls, and classrooms.

And programs have varying relationships with their home campuses; some are run by outside companies that simply rent space, and even those that are more closely affiliated don’t typically have a relationship with a school’s admissions office. So, before you apply or sign over the cost of tuition and room and board, ask yourself if your student is interested because they truly want to learn or because you think it’ll win them an “in” with the admissions office (it won’t).

5. Let teens take a break.

A 2014 American Psychological Association Survey showed that, during the school year, American teens are reporting stress levels higher than those reported by adults during the same period. There are many factors that account for this, from mounting admissions anxiety to high extracurricular expectations. One way to combat stress is to remember that the intensity of the school year should not extend into summer. If your child is taking on challenges like summer school courses, test prep, or academic tutoring, they need to build in room for relaxation. Students who are so overwhelmed and overscheduled that they can’t make time for friends and recreation will return to school more likely to burn out before their next break. Instead of pushing students to fill every second of summer, encourage them to find time to decompress and stick to around three structured activities during the summer.

With these tips in hand, we hope that you’ll be able to take some of the stress out of planning and start enjoying summer again! And if you’re wondering what to do next or how to find the perfect civil war history/leadership/aerospace engineering activity for your student to explore this summer, check out the entire Collegewise Summer Planning Guide.

About the Author In one way or another, Jazzmin has spent the entirety of her career guiding students through the college admissions process. Her career in admissions started at Yale, where she worked as both a Summer Recruitment Coordinator and as a Summer Residential Counselor. In these roles, Jazzmin answered students’ (and parents’) questions about Yale’s admissions process and mentored a group of incoming Yale first-years. She then accepted a position as a College Access Fellow at 12+, where she worked closely with high school juniors and seniors, helping them interpret financial aid packages and guiding them through the often difficult college search and selection process. In 2015, she made her way to California, working as an admissions officer and later as Assistant Dean of Admissions at Pomona College.

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Let's Get Social

Cyberbullying Prevention and Safe Social Media Habits for Teens

By Dr. Pamela Roggeman As soon as I buckled my seatbelt for my five-hour flight, I became painfully aware of a very unhappy toddler in the row in front of me. To my relief, the parents worked some sort of magic that immediately quelled the previous screams. Was it a new toy? A new set of sharp crayons? A sugary snack? It was none of the above - the mother handed the child her phone.

There is no going back. Our kids are connected.

While we are establishing rules of engagement for our children and their devices, we parents need to establish our own set of rules to hold us accountable for holding our children accountable, and keeping them safe. While the child in the row in front of me on the airplane was most likely not Snapchatting his pals, it’s never too early for parents to monitor their children’s online activity and talk to them about protecting their online profiles.

Taking precautions against cyberbullying should take place from the first time you allow your child to access the internet and any social platforms and apps. Objectionable or aggressive behavior has been observed as early as fourth grade.

According to a University of Phoenix survey*, nearly 60 percent of U.S. adults believe cyberbullying has gotten much more common in recent years and about the same amount, 57 percent, agree that children’s mental health is negatively affected by cyberbullying. Despite this belief, 79 percent say their children have never been the victim of cyberbullying. What this suggests is that parents may be unaware of the fact that their own children are being bullied online.

There are a variety of mobile apps that parents can use to monitor activity and prevent cyberbullying on both computers and mobile devices. A few of those apps include parental controls, time limits and internet activity reports. Just a few examples are My Mobile Watchdog and Mobicip.

According to the University survey, 57 percent of U.S adults who had a child who was cyberbullied said it occurred on social media, followed by 42 percent who said it occurred via text messaging and 28 percent who said it happened through online video games.

5. Serve as an example. Refrain from posting negative comments on your social channels and limit your connections to only people you know. Your children are more likely to make a change if you lead as an example.

Children are often afraid or embarrassed to talk about bullying with their parents. Connect with them by telling them of your own similar situations and offer to listen to their issues.

Even by following these tips, a vigilant eye is necessary when it comes to monitoring the online activity of any child. Be sure to ask questions and keep up on current trends as well as popular platforms and how children are using them. Keep an open dialogue with your child and let them know they can come to you if they sense a problem or unusual online activity.

Below are a few tips on how to get involved with children’s online profiles and ways for parents to discuss with their children how to better prevent bullying through security measures.

Here are few great resources for more information on this topic:

1. Be empathetic to their situation. Children are often afraid or embarrassed to talk about bullying with their parents. Connect with them by telling them of your own similar situations and offer to listen to their issues. Don’t approach them right away with solutions, as this may make them hesitant to share their struggles with you in the future.

2. National Bullying Prevention Center: http://www.pacer.org/bullying/resources/cyberbullying/

2. Teach them how to react. Many children may not know how to respond to a bully. Tell them to save evidence and reach out for help. Retaliating or responding could cause a bigger issue. If they feel in danger, they need to know who and when to call for help. They should also speak out if someone they know is a victim of cyberbullying.

4. https://cyberbullying.org/ - Cyberbullying Research Center

3. Protect their accounts. Many social media sites allow users to block or report people. This is not being a coward and can help stop future attacks. Make sure your children have strong passwords and don’t share them and close and lock devices and accounts when not in use, as this can lead to other forms of bullying like identity theft.

4. Perform a friends list audit. Sit down with your children to do an audit of their friends lists on social media. If a peer is engaging in bullying, encourage them to remove him/her. Ask them to keep their friends lists to people they truly know and talk to. Children may feel obligated to add everyone they know to their social sites, but this could cause bullying and security issues.

1. Check out online monitoring services like BulliPatrol

3. https://www.stopbullying.gov/ - StopBullying.gov provides information from various government agencies on what bullying is, what cyberbullying is, who is at risk, and how you can prevent and respond to bullying.

*This poll was conducted from June 15-19, 2017, among a national sample of 2,528 adults. E-interviews were conducted online and the data were weighted to approximate a target sample of adults based on age, race/ethnicity, gender, educational attainment and region.

Results from the full survey have a margin of error of plus or minus two percentage points.

Dr. Pamela Roggeman is a College of Education academic dean at the University of Phoenix.

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Stephanie Manganelli

Maternity

Photo Credit: Robert Bomgardner

STOWAWAY COLLECTION: MATERNITY WEAR THAT FLATTERS Finding out you’re pregnant can be one of the most beautiful moments of a woman’s life. As you anticipate the arrival of your new baby, you are experiencing a plethora of changes to your body. With a growing belly comes the need for new attire.

Today’s modern mom doesn’t want to give up her individual style as she prepares for her new bundle of joy. Stephanie Manganelli, founder of Stowaway Collection, has created a maternity line that allows pregnant women to maintain their fashion sense with chic and comfortable pieces. CEOMOM Magazine interviewed Stephanie to learn more about her vision for Stowaway Collection and her Summer 2018 collection.

What inspired you to start a maternity line?

My mom and I went shopping for maternity wear when I first became pregnant. We left quite disappointed by the quality and offering, everything had horrible fabric and the entire shopping process was hard! We had to travel to find a maternity store driving a good distance and then when we got there, we saw the value proposition was off. Not to mention the designs had something left to be desired. So, Stowaway Collection was born with the determination to make shopping easy (free shipping & returns so no risk to purchase), with pieces that are flattering and body conscious in luxe materials, and every piece is made in the USA.

Briefly describe the process for starting a maternity line. Is it more challenging than a traditional clothing line?

Starting a clothing line can present itself with its own challenges like finding the right vendors and funding but with a niche market you need to find people to work with who understand the niche area. It's harder and it's easier in different ways, starting a maternity line. People are passionate about this time in their lives. They've all had an experience with having kids, being pregnant, not being pregnant, not wanting kids, so it's great it touches everyone differently. But we need to find those people who understand not only a female driven business but the importance of little nuances like feel of fabric or cut of a waistband.

We're inspired by women walking around NYC. New Yorkers make everything their own and they don't care what other people think.

Describe your vision behind each collection?

We're inspired by women walking around NYC. New Yorkers make everything their own and they don't care what other people think. With this mentality, we start each collection by looking at ready-to-wear trends and the silhouettes coming into the market. Then we think how can we adapt them for the pregnant body and still make it flattering- hint: tents are not flattering. We want each piece to be something a woman who isn't pregnant yet will want to wear and something she'll want to wear even after giving birth. We want to show off a little bit of the person's personality while allowing her to make her own fashion statement.

How involved are you in the design process?

I design the majority of the pieces and have friends who are professional designers help fill in the blanks. Being a co-founder, I have an idea of what I want the brand to look like and that starts with the clothes.

What are your pregnancy must-haves?

Bottoms that sit below the waist! Stowaway Collection offers bottoms with a belly panel and without, but when you have bottoms that sit low you can wear them throughout your pregnancy and then also after postpartum without having any issues. Your stomach size will be changing (either for the better or not) and these pants allow it to change at its own pace. Not to mention if your pants are below your belly, it makes going to the bathroom easier.

Where do you see the Stowaway Collection in 5 years?

I would love to see Stowaway Collection as a recognized brand and a rite of passage. When people who aren't pregnant know where to shop when they become pregnant, we've made it. And we're working hard to hit that goal!

Assuming balance is impossible, what do you wish someone would have told you about managing family and career?

I actually don't think balance is impossible because that's what balance is- a condition where different elements are in proper proportion. As long as you're striving to feed each area of your life what is needed in priority order, it's possible! On a more realistic note, I wish someone told me sleep was the first thing to go.

For your maternity shopping and to learn more about Stowaway Collection, visit them at https://stowawaycollection.com.

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"WE WANT EACH PIECE TO BE SOMETHING A WOMAN WHO ISN'T PREGNANT YET WILL WANT TO WEAR AND SOMETHING SHE'LL WANT TO WEAR EVEN AFTER GIVING BIRTH."

WE HELP YOU GET WHAT YOUÂ NEED IN LIFE.

FUN SUMMER

RECIPES Presented by Noni Robinson

Noni Robinson is the founder of Robinson Nutrition Group, a consulting firm that develops sustainable and culturally relevant nutritional regimens using innovative approaches to health and wellness.

INGREDIENTS 3 ripe bananas 1⁄2 tablespoon milk (only if you need it) *Use nondairy milk to make this a vegan treat.

INSTRUCTIONS

WE HELP YOU GET WHAT YOU NEED IN LIFE. ONE INGREDIENT BANANA ICE CREAM

1. Peel the bananas and slice them thickly 2. Lay them on a plate and freeze until solid, around 2 hours 3. Put them in the blender or food processor and turn the machine on to blend them. At first they will spin around and stay icy, but keep at it, stopping the machine and using the wooden spoon to loosen the mixture if it stops moving. At some point, it will suddenly go creamy, like soft-serve ice cream—but if it doesn’t, add a little milk and blend until it does 4. Serve right away NOTES: To vary the flavor of your ice cream, try adding any of the following: - 1 tablespoon peanut butter - 2 tablespoons cocoa powder - 1 teaspoon vanilla - ½ teaspoon cinnamon

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SPA FRESH WATER INGREDIENTS 1/2 orange, sliced 1/2 cucumber, sliced 1/2 lemon, sliced 2-3 SPRIGS of mint (optional) 64 oz. water

INSTRUCTIONS 1. Place all ingredients into a pitcher and stir. Cover and chill in the refrigerator for 2 hours before serving.

For personal taste try different combinations of your favorite fruits and herbs

WE HELP YOU GET WHAT YOU NEED IN LIFE.

Each Serving Provides 12 calories, trace of protein, 3 grams carbohydrate, 0 gram fat, 0 gram fiber

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PICO DE GALLO FRUIT SALAD

INGREDIENTS 4 cups (or so) peeled fruit and vegetables, including any or all of these: watermelon, mango, cucumber, jicama, papaya, and pineapple cut into spears. *A "spear" is a long, narrow piece Juice of 1 lime 1 teaspoon chili powder 1/4 teaspoon salt

INSTRUCTIONS 1. Arrange the fruit and vegetables on the platter or in cups and sprinkle with lime juice, then the chili powder and salt.

2. Serve right away

Kids Summer Style Trends

by Sarah Yasukochi

Playwear gives kids a comfortable and cool style that’s perfect for any Summer day. We’ll see these essentials featured in unique prints made especially for big personalities from swimsuits to sweatshirts. Outfit your bold babes with cozy organic cottons and splashes of color so bright that you’ll have to wear shades.

Raspberry Republic Romper (Left) Raspberry Republic Bodysuits and Leggings (Right)

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Photos provided by Blaze + Wander

Gardnerandthegang Swim Collection

About the Author Sarah Yasukochi is the owner of Blaze + Wander, an online children’s boutique and pop-up shop that partners with makers around the world to outfit cool and carefree kids for their next adventure.

Blaze + Wander was recently voted California Children’s Boutique of the Year.

For more info email info@blazeandwander.com or visit www.blazeandwander.com

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2018 has been great so far with more to come.

Photo Credit: Kelvin Bulluck Pictures

LET'S GET REAL

THERAPY IS MOM SELF CARE By: Krystal Henry

Hi Moms- The summer months are finally here, and we get a welcomed break from the normal hustle and bustle of ‘mom-ing’ that happens during the school year to enjoy the fun of July and August. While you are fine-tuning the summer camp itinerary, weekend fun and vacation plans for your kids, be sure to include yourself and your own self-care. I am an advocate for mommy self-care in the form of spending a day at the spa, enjoying a girls trip and taking yourself out to dinner and a movie. I am also a strong advocate for emotional and mental self-care; i.e. therapy. I understand there are many reasons why we, as Moms, have not made our mental health a priority. In sharing reflections about my experience with therapy, I hope you join me in this form of selfcare.

REMOVE THE STIGMAThere remains an idea that going to a therapist is shameful, especially in minority communities, and if you do go; something must be wrong with you. There were several members of my family who struggled with their mental health and it was always talked about in whispers and when children were forced out of the room. This caused me to look at them, and later other women, with a bit of pity when I learned of their struggles. I then took it a step further when I learned they were under the care of a clinician. I did it in a “...oh, that’s not me...I have it all together” kind of way, until it was me and my thinking about seeking help changed drastically. The death of my father in 2010 drove me to

seek out therapy to handle my grief and my desire for intentional mental self-care took me back this year. I am personally looking to silence the idea that seeing a mental health clinician is shameful. I think about my therapist as an integral part of my wellness team right along with my husband, close friends, family and church.

SUPERWOMAN IS A MYTHAs a kid growing up in the 80’s, Wonder Woman and She-Ra were my go-to’s when I played with other kids. While I no longer tie a shirt around my neck pretending it’s a cape, there are moments when I walk around with my imaginary shield, sword and belt acting like a modern-day ‘superwoman.’ I take on too much and do not always ask for help. It is not until I am exhausted and mentally worn out that I realize I cannot do everything by myself and Wonder Woman and SheRa are characters for a reason. A few months ago, my therapist challenged me to ask for help with babysitting needs for my son outside of his father and me. I went back and forth with her presenting my reasons for not asking and the more I said it aloud, the more it dawned on me that the worst people could say was no. I ended up taking her advice and starting to ask for more help and I was able to get the help I needed. I’m glad I listened.

THERAPY IS ALL ABOUT YOUDo you like ‘me time?’ Well imagine 45-minutes to 1-hour that is all about you...that’s therapy! I do not have to share airtime with my son, spouse, friends or co-workers. Having uninterrupted time away from others, work, the phone, chores, etc. is refreshing. I told a friend that my relationship with my therapist is the best, most one-sided relationship I have. While I really like her and wish her well, I do not have to ask (or care) about her life, husband, kids, her hopes and dreams or anything about her. And guess what? She doesn’t expect me to! My therapist does not know anyone else in my life and therefore, she can look at my life in an unbiased way to help me. It allows time to focus on me, talk through what is on my ‘plate’ at the moment and get practical suggestions for next steps.

BE READY TO DO THE WORKI believe the saying ‘no pain no gain’ applies to the patient-therapist relationship in a way. You will need to come with an open mind, honest heart and willing spirit that is ready to do the ‘work.’ Think about the reason for starting therapy and what you desire to be different in your life. Remember that that reason will require you to do some things to bring about change. It will undoubtedly include a shift in your thinking and revisiting some old wounds to uncover the source for present-day behaviors; so, get ready. I am naturally a stubborn person and my therapist picked up on this in our second session, so you can only imagine my ‘work’ is sometimes a struggle. So- Will you cry sometimes? Probably! Will you be challenged? Yes. Will you always like what your therapist has to say? No. Will you make positive changes? That is the ultimate goal.

Making the decision to begin therapy takes a lot of courage. Courage to ignore the stigma, courage to look at yourself in a different way and courage to be dedicated to the work required to manifest change.

Making the decision to begin therapy takes a lot of courage. Courage to ignore the stigma, courage to look at yourself in a different way and courage to be dedicated to the work required to manifest change. In my motherhood journey I have met numerous moms, of various ages, who attend therapy on a regular basis. They’ve shared their reason(s) for starting and continuing the process. I appreciate their honesty to share their story of mental health self-care as it has inspired me to do the same. Moms- I celebrate with you for making the decision to care for your emotional and mental health and I applaud those who are beginning to think about starting the process. Below are numerous resources to help you get started. -Krystal Read this article and get resources for your therapy needs in our Health section at http://ceomommagazine.com/category/health.

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THE ROLE OF MOTHER IS BEST FULFILLED WHEN A WOMAN IS ALLOWED TO HAVE HER OWN IDENTITY SEPARATE FROM MOTHERHOOD. SELF IDENTITY IS NOURISHED THROUGH THE ACT OF SELF CARE.

KEEP FAMILY TRAVEL FUN Caz Makepeace of yTravelBlog.com shares her tips for keeping family travel fun.

1. Slow Down 2. Involve the kids from the start of dreaming and planning as well as on the road. It makes it a far better experience as the kids feel like they own it.

3. Be flexible, expect that nothing will go as planned someone will wind up in tears and it could very well be YOU. 4. Consider your accommodations and bring creature comforts.

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5. If it's too overwhelming, start local and do short trips.

Caz offers a series of tasks and worksheets to help families go through the planning process together (so that it's not left to the Moms to try and organize something everyone will love).

Visit https://www.ytravelblog.com/w elcome/family-travel/ for more information.

MEET THE CAZ FAMILY Caz and Craig Makepeace are a married couple from the Central Coast of Australia who consider the world their home.

They are serial travel addicts and have lived in 5 countries and had adventures through 52.

For the Makepeace family, life is about accumulating memories, not just possessions. They love to travel creating precious memories with their two daughters, Kalyra and Savannah.

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LEANO

INFLUENCING THE WORLD THROUGH FASHION When CEOMOM was first introduced to Karen Leano, we immediately fell in love with her style. It’s apparent why media giants such as Yahoo Style chose her as one of the fashion influencers for their digital series, “My Style.” Karen has transformed her love for fashion and background in retail into a diverse career that includes a jewelry and accessories company with her sisters, Cayetano Legacy Collection, an influential fashion blog, Paris and a Latte, with thousands of followers and of course, hosting a digital series focused on individual style. CEOMOM Magazine was super excited to interview this style influencer to learn how she does it all and to find out her fashion summer must haves.

...MORE AND MORE PEOPLE STARTED ASKING ABOUT WHAT I WAS WEARING, TRAVEL TIPS, ETC AND THE BLOG, PARIS AND A LATTE, WAS BORN. Who is Karen Leano?

I am a mother of 2, Gabriel (8) and Alessandra (5). I am a micro influencer at Paris and a Latte and cast member of Yahoo StyIe's digital series, "My Style." I am co-founder of statement accessory line, Cayetano Legacy Collection. I am a lover of travel. And I aspire to make the best life for my family and to show my kids that you can really do whatever you set your heart out to do.

Tell us about your professional background. How did you become a fashion influencer?

My professional background is in fashion. I've always worked on the retail side when I was younger and worked for stores such as Dolce & Gabbana and Macy's. After I graduated from college I moved to the corporate side of the retail business. I worked on the production team for Tommy Hilfiger.

In production you manage timelines and make sure products arrive on time. You negotiate prices based on the fabrics and trims used.

It's all about finding the right material for the right price and getting that matrix right. From then on production has been my love. I used the knowledge I learned at Tommy Hilfiger towards my family business, Cayetano Legacy Collection. I love working with our vendors in the Philippines and finding pretty gemstones with colors that are on trend for the season. I started using social media to share pictures of my travels to the Philippines and other countries as well as to show different outfit ideas with our jewelry. Then more and more people started asking about what I was wearing, travel tips, etc and the blog, Paris and a Latte, was born.

What advice do you have for a mom who wants to become a fashion influencer?

Just go for it. Document your daily life and start putting content out there. Sometimes as a mom, you get so caught up in taking care of the kids and taking care of the family that you totally lose yourself.

By having the goal of being an influencer you actually get to focus on things for yourself for once.

Instagram is an amazing platform that puts you in touch with people and brands in literally the snap of the finger. How amazing is that to have access to the world like that?

Photo Credit: Christine Casey Photo

Tag all the brands you use in your pics and be sure to take advantage of hashtags. Only post pictures or put content out there that you are proud of. This is like your resume to the world you don't want to put anything out there that doesn't inspire even you.

Tell us about your collaboration with Yahoo Style. How did this partnership begin?

Ahh, working with Yahoo Style was a dream! They found me through Instagram (this is why I truly think hashtags are important). Somehow the producer found me and they were looking to cast women to show fashion throughout the country.

For each episode they would have a topic and 3 or 4 of us girls would show our take on that topic, whether it was brunch outfit ideas, or bbq outfit ideas. Then the show segued into full episodes of just focusing on 1 influencer each episode giving a lot more details and more content about each outfit. It was a lot of fun being able to think creatively not just on the outfit but being able to document the full picture in a fun way for everyone watching.

What are your fashion summer must haves?

Summer is all about the accessories! Everyone needs to have a pretty bright colored turban headband. This just adds that element of boho chicness to your look. Plus you can double it up as a scrunchie around your topknot for the days you don't get to do your hair (which is everyday for me) or you can double it around your wrist to add a pop of color to your mom uniform of jean shorts and a white tee.

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Another must have are straw bags or wooden bags. They are so popular now and come in many different shapes and sizes. Straw bags aren't just for the beach anymore, they are the IT piece for summer fashion. We have a clutch in our line that we just can't seem to keep in stock. It looks like it’s made from straw but it's actually made from the leaves of a pineapple tree. It’s naturally dyed to different colors and it’s finished off with beautiful gemstones on the front to really make them special.

My last fashion summer must haves are Quay sunnies. Where have these been my whole life? Their prices are so reasonable and they have so many on trend styles. I'm obsessed. Sunglasses always finish off a summer look. Plus they are a necessity to cover up our dark circles after a bad night or for those days you just don't have time to do your makeup.

Tell us more about Cayetano Legacy Collection. What inspired this beautiful jewelry line?

Cayetano Legacy Collection is an accessory line I started with my sisters 7 years ago. We all live in different parts of the country. I'm the oldest and at the time was living in Minneapolis, MN (I'm now in NJ/NYC). My middle sister Gail was in Los Angeles, CA and the baby, Christine was living in NJ. We literally spanned the country. We had been brainstorming about different business ideas. We really wanted to work on a project we could all work on together.

Our original idea was fashionable laptop bags. But we all took a family trip to the Philippines back in 2011 and we saw these beautiful handmade necklaces by local artisans made of genuine gemstones there, and we were smitten. They were very much statement pieces that we knew we

wanted for ourselves and wanted to share with the world. We thought, what if we add our twist to these, changing up the colors to keep up with current trends and adjust other details to truly make it our own. Plus we loved working with these women and knowing that we were giving back to the country where our family is from. We were able to work with women and create communities and training programs to not only teach them how to make the jewelry but to also teach them valuable business lessons. It's all about giving hand-ups and not just handouts.

All of the necklaces are handmade with love, consisting of genuine gemstones that we try to source from the Philippines. We started off with necklaces and then eventually ventured into clutches, beach bags, and home goods. All of our designs are definitely inspired by our travel.

Photo Credit: Christine Casey Photo

Photo Credit: Peter Atkins Photography

...I aspire to make the best life for my family and to show my kids that you can really do whatever you set your heart out to do.

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Photo Credit: Christine Casey Photo

All of us sisters are lucky enough to travel - of course to see each other because we can only go a few months without seeing each other. But we're also lucky to travel internationally. Our pieces are very colorful and that stems from the beautiful colors you see in the Philippines. From the blue waters of their famous Boracay beaches to the colorful fruit stands, we really try to depict the beauty of the country in our designs.

The pieces are gorgeous. Which are your favorite for the summer?

Thank you so much, that really means a lot. When you put a design out there, you feel like you're putting your heart out into the world. So it's very intimidating wondering how the world will receive it. My absolute favorite is our classic piece, the Maximina turquoise. This was named after my dad's mother, so my grandmother.

Actually all of our pieces are named after special women in our lives. This

necklace specifically is special because we've had it since our first collection. I love how even though it’s a statement piece, it's still simple with one consistent turquoise color around. The gold beads around provide the perfect accent to it and the fact that it drops down into a v at the bottom is very flattering for the woman. And turquoise is the no fail color for summer. It looks amazing against a great tan. It looks nice against a white summer dress and it adds a pop of color to any other outfit. It truly is a go-to piece.

You’re a wife, mom, fashionista and jewelry designer. What does an average day look like for you?

I wish I could say my day is structured and the same every day, but it's definitely not.

I'm a mom first so my kids’ schedules dictate my own schedule. I used to be a night owl but this year I trained my body to sleep earlier so I could wake up earlier.

You feel so much more accomplished when you wake up early to a quiet house and start knocking things off your list.

I'll have my necessary cup of coffee and answer emails from vendors and such. I'll make sure shipments are on time, answer any questions our artisans may have on new designs, etc. Or I'll use this time to work on an upcoming blog post for Paris and a Latte.

Then I'll help get the kids ready for school and bring them to school. My little one is still in preschool so she's only there for 3 hours giving me a 3 hour window to get things done. I will always use one hour of that to go to the gym. Gym is absolutely mandatory in my life. I feel better, I look better, I'm just a better person after I go. I'm an avid Zumba fan and my instructor always has a small motivational tidbit to share so I carry that thought with me throughout the day. It sets the tone for a kickass day. Once I pick up the kids from school I’m back in mom mode.

To learn more about Paris and a Latte, visit http://www.parisandalatte.com. To learn more about Cayetano Legacy Collection and to place your order, visit http://www.cayetanolegacy.com.

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DR. RAINBOW EDWARDS-BARRIS The Real Bow Johnson Shares Parenting Tips in New Book

Dr. Rainbow Edwards-Barris uses humor and candor in her new book, Keeping up with the Johnsons: Bow's Guide to Black-ish Parenting If you’re huge fans of ABC’s black-ish, then you may be missing the show like we are. Well you’re in luck, because Dr. Rainbow Johnson can still grace us with her presence in book form. Her real life counterpart, Dr. Rainbow Edwards-Barris, wife of black-ish creator Kenya Barris, mother of 6, anesthesiologist and now author, has written a fun book that cleverly illustrates her parenting mishaps with lessons learned and tips for survival.

CEOMOM enjoyed an insightful conversation with Dr. Rainbow Edwards-Barris about what it’s like to see herself portrayed on TV as Rainbow Johnson, how she became an author and why her guide to parenting is no laughing matter.

Who is Dr. Rainbow Edwards-Barris?

I am a lot of things. I am foremost a mother, a wife, a daughter, a sister and a professional woman who is passionate about her family and her career. I am constantly evolving and changing, I am not one thing or one person. I am always trying to be better and do better and just be an example for the people that are close to me, and hopefully people that I meet and interact with, even on a small basis. I always hope to be something good and positive to others.

How true to character is Bow Johnson to who you are as a wife and mother?

That’s funny, because so many of the situations that the Johnson family is in are taken directly from our lives. The way the situations are played out are sometimes entertainment and sometimes not. I think that probably the biggest difference between the real Bow and Bow

Johnson would be the real Bow has a better understanding of the family dynamic and what it means to interact within that family dynamic. The character Bow is learning more so who to be and how to be as a mother. I think the real Bow still has learning to do, but is much more comfortable as a mom. I always see the Bow character as a little more unsure of herself as a mom. I think the biggest similarities would be the actual situations. There is so much of the show that is taken directly from the life we are living.

There was a recent episode where Bow made the tough decision to become a stay at home mom instead of going back to work. How close was this to your real life?

After having our last baby was the first time I had not worked in the hospital. The longest time I had ever taken off from any of my kids was the traditional six weeks. That episode was a very real and personal experience for me.

Kenya did talk to me about that episode beforehand. He wanted my input. That episode was so interesting because of the different writers in the room. There were so many different perspectives. This woman had worked so hard for her career. Going back to me constantly evolving and changing, there was a time in my career I thought I would never take off from work. As my life progresses and opportunities present themselves I have told myself that it is okay if I felt one way years ago or even yesterday, today I feel differently. I try not to allow myself to be painted into a box. I thought it was important that Kenya expressed in the episode that the decision came with a lot of thought. That time in my life felt right and the time in the character’s life felt right and not just random.

I hope that sharing my experiences with people will be a way to help other parents, especially moms, understand that others can relate to their challenges. They are not alone.

What reservations or fears, if any, did you have of black-ish having a character based on your real life?

My biggest concern was protecting my children. In the beginning of the show, as with anything especially in entertainment, it is so subjective so you don’t know how people are going to receive it.

Are they going to get it? Will they appreciate it? I go into most situations with a healthy skepticism. I am always hoping and praying for the best, but I am also aware of how things work. I have always had that sense of awareness. As the show progresses people are receiving it and understanding it in different ways. At that point, I realized it wasn’t going anywhere.

As a mom I don’t care what people say or think about me. I don‘t want my kids to be subjected to or exposed to anything negative or anything they are uncomfortable with. It has been interesting trying to find that balance with how I feel and how they feel and how to speak with them about things they are uncomfortable with or things they don’t want people to know. I just think it is important as human beings that everything is not always depicted as good, but as a parent you can’t help but want to protect your children. For us it is oftentimes so personal. Our girls are a little bit different, because they have a greater sense of awareness than our boys. They feel like they are being exposed or criticized.

They are often more like, “did he have to do that? I didn’t do that.” You have to make it entertaining. It’s been more of a growing and learning process for them as well. Sometimes I have

to think about the fact that they are growing up with this show. I have to think about what they may be feeling.

What inspired you to write Keeping up with the Johnsons: Bow’s Guide to Black-ish Parenting?

I had been thinking about writing a book for a long time, years actually. When I first started med school I was going to get my PhD as well. I often felt like there was something else I should be doing..something more. Years ago before we had our fifth child, I was talking to Kenya and said to him that I wanted to move forward with getting my PhD. Then I worked in a lab and realized I didn’t want my PhD, I wanted to teach and do more speaking to young people and girls and tell them about my life and the possibilities. He said, “maybe you should write a book. Just start writing ideas.” After we had that conversation, I started writing down some of my ideas. Sometimes I would write a quote or something specific the kids had said. I started writing down the things that were important to me which were my interactions with the kids.

I decided to take a little bit of time off after having my last baby. This was the first time I wasn’t in training after having a baby. Over that time, I started to think about the things I wanted to do. I thought of putting a book together, because this was the first time I was not actually working in the hospital.

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I figured out what I wanted the focus of the book to be which was parenting and kids.

We were moving and my sister was helping me clean up.

She told me that she found this paper and I should see it. In 2009, I had taken out a sheet of paper in a daily planner and I had started to write about the book that I wanted to write. It was such an amazing moment for me to see my book really come to be. I feel like I am the most non-creative person. I don't like how I write. This has made me really come out of my element, but it was the right time. I had been really wanting to write this book.

In a brief synopsis, tell us what the book is about.

It’s really about taking specific experiences, incidents, trips and conversations that Kenya and I have had with the kids and working through them. I show how I parent in any particular situation whether the outcome be funny or sad or thought provoking or right or wrong.

When I started, I went back and literally dictated out our real life situations and changed them into actual stories.

I have always believed that experience is such a great teacher. You can tell someone about something but when they do and experience it they learn more. There’s a wow factor. They think, now I get it. I hope that sharing my experiences with people will be a way to help other parents, especially moms, understand that others can relate to their challenges. They are not alone.

That’s how she dealt with that. Maybe I can try that solution if that comes up.

It’s not a medical book or a comedy at all. It is just a collection of ways I have interacted with my kids and how sometimes I did things wrong with them and others I did things right. Doing that may help other people learn about their own lives. You really do have to let go some of the things that don’t matter. I tell my kids that all the time. Sometimes I do put focus on things that don’t matter. I think having a career has helped me put things into perspective. Is this a big deal, does this matter? I try to convey this to my children as well. I try to let them know when I am wrong about something. I am going to work on whatever that is. Hopefully my children understand that it is okay for them to make mistakes.

You did something that you knew you weren't supposed to do. If I ask you about it tell me the truth. It’s my belief and my experience that kids are so different. I have to adjust to help them be the best person they can be according to who they are.

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5 Tips to Grow Your Business Over the Summer presented by Sarah Yasukochi Is your business affected by seasonality?

For many, although sales may slow down during the Summer months, it’s the perfect time to ramp up your Marketing efforts. Just because your clients are on vacation doesn’t mean that you need to take a break from your business until they return. We’ve got five tips to help you continue the momentum even during the off -season.

1. Gather Reviews As you wrap up your busier months, it’s the ideal time to reach out to customers for testimonials. Ask them to rate your business, share their stories, or participate in case studies about the product or service they came to you for. Focus on increasing the quality and quantity of your business reviews and build a solid online reputation.

Gathering and sharing genuine and detailed accounts from customers can help you reach other potential customers.

Equally as important, this process gives you insightful information and unique perspectives. Are customers asking for new products? Are there service updates that could help elevate your customers' experiences? Receiving this feedback during the off -season gives you plenty of time to create thoughtful responses and make improvements to your business.

2. Build your Database The off - season is a great time to organize your customer lists and grow your database.

During the summer months, update your website to encourage subscriptions to your blog and newsletter. You may also consider hosting a webinar to expand leads and generate contact info from new, potential customers. A social ad campaign could also widen your audience. Regardless of your outreach efforts, be sure to include content that encourages engagement and communicates a clear call - to - action (CTA).

3. Stay Social Social Media is as busy as ever during the Summer months. After all, when people go on vacation one thing they are sure to pack is their mobile device. Make sure your business continues to share content that keeps customers engaged. Launching a social media contest or “Like” campaign for example, can help increase your followers.

Posting timely topics and remaining active on your platforms can foster meaningful conversations. Just like the Reviews process covered in Tip 1, Social Media engagement is another great way to identify your customers' needs. Comment on customer posts, ask questions and perhaps you’ll discover ways to expand your product offerings or identify new niches that will help grow your business for all seasons.

4. Reward Customers For many businesses, sales may dip during the off - season but that doesn’t mean customers disappear completely. This is the ideal time to focus on offers like free shipping, volume discounts, referral and loyalty programs to keep customers happy and sharing their positive experiences. Promotions done right will help draw customers to your business and encourage their loyalty year - round.

5. Keep in Touch Email and Direct Mail Campaigns are a great way to stay in touch with customers all year long. Use these platforms to deliver valuable and relevant information about your business. Share how you are using your summer months to make improvements or stay up to speed on the latest innovation. Remind customers about your blog, promote your social pages, and stay current so that customers keep your business top of mind.

Sarah Yasukochi is an Independent Marketing Consultant who translates customer and market needs to develop impactful brand - building and revenue - driven solutions. In addition to providing integrated Marketing services for a variety of clients from solo - entrepreneurs to mid - sized businesses, Sarah is also building a small business of her own, Blaze + Wander recently voted California Children’s Boutique of the Year. For more info email sarahyasukochi@gmail.com or call 760.512.3369.

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Family Con is an event unlike any other. With interactive activities, entertainment, resources and information for everyone in the family, Family Con is a must attend event.

Founded by Shea Richburg, author, teacher and children and family expert, Family Con aims to educate families while giving them the experience of their lives. Taking place in the tri-state area, Shea founded Family Con to equip families with as much knowledge as possible to prepare for the future.

CEOMOM Magazine caught up with Shea to discuss her inspiration for starting Family Con, what families can expect and what’s next for this incredible event.

What is FamilyCon? What can attendees expect from this year’s event?

Family Con is the tri-state area official family convention and expo. We have large and small companies come out as exhibitors. We target companies that feature products and services in the health arena, including education, as well as entertainment that families should know about. We bring the future of ideas to families. This year’s theme is the future of families. What it encomposess is the future ideas and information that can help families make the wisest decisions regarding their needs. It is about focusing on the latest ideas and concepts. Health and technology are changing. Families don't always have access to these changes so we want to bring all of this info to them. The expo is for all families so we cater to families with babies and teenagers.

Some things families can expect are interactive activities and workshops. We will have demos from companies like Microsoft who is coming so kids can play Minecraft at Family Con. We have families that will be able to demo a virtual reality system. We have a private screening of a Warner Brothers movie, Teen Titans Movie. It comes out after Family Con. Our families will get to see it first. We are flying Michael Green out for a 45 minute STEM show. It will help kids embrace STEM. We are going to have a kids fashion show and a circus performing. We have a pet friendly

fashion show. We are embracing our animal family members this year. We will also have a family escape room. They are doing it in the hotel. We are going to do a Pokemon Tournament at Family Con which is huge. We are going to have a family friendly comedy show. We are doing a free family 1k run on the boardwalk at the beach.

What inspired you to create Family Con? The inspiration started after I was speaking at Babies R Us where I was a consultant. They had me conducting workshops at different locations

SHEA RICHBURG CREATES FAMILY CON

Family Con is the largest Family Convention in the New York, New Jersey Tri-State Area. This will be an amazing experience for you and your family and friends to manifest a happy family lifestyle.

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I AM PASSIONATE ABOUT EQUIPPING PARENTS WITH WHAT THEY NEED

TO HELP THEIR KIDS GO DOWN THE RIGHT PATHS. teaching parents about bonding with their children and various topics. My whole purpose is to prepare families to stay ahead with information to have the best family life. I did the research and saw in this area that there was a huge gap of conferences and conventions that brought the whole family together to discuss various topics. I know how important it is as parents to have all of the information that is out there. You have to be well equipped to know what is going on in the future to help your kids stay ahead of the game. We are the only convention like this in our area. There are similar events in California. My inspiration started with Babies R Us. After working with Babies R Us and pulling together all of my friends who have their own companies, I was able to execute this vision.

I stopped teaching to write my first book. I decided I did not want to go back to teaching. I self published the book and it did very well. I started getting speaker engagements from the book. A rep from Babies R Us heard one of my speeches and wanted me to speak for the company. He offered me the job of consulting with different Babies R Us locations around New Jersey. Once that was over, my husband said, “you need to start an event and bring together all of the information you’ve acquired.” I actually went back and got a certification in child psychology. All of the information that I gathered through my education, my teaching, my research and pulling together all of my associates and friends led me to produce Family Con. I am passionate about equipping parents with what they need to help their kids go down the right paths. My thirst to feed this knowledge to the parents and the kids is the passion that fuels the machine.

Tell us a little bit about your professional background.

I have a linguistics degree and I have a love for language. I was teaching before I had my first child.

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We are over the top with costumes, interactive workshops, demonstrations and more.

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What do you hope families get from attending Family Con 2018?

I hope families grow closer together. Family Con is a closer destination for people in this tri-state area where they can create memories together and appreciate one another. I hope information really lasts with them. I hope every family learns something new. It can be the smallest tutoring company that can help their kid improve SAT scores or it can be Onstar, a tracking device that they can put on their child to track their location or just learning about healthier eating. We will even have a panel that will speak on the future of toys. We hope families have memorable experiences and get some new information.

What separates you from other family conferences?

Family Con is not just a conference. We put con at the end of family because we are an over the top

production and show. It encompasses every component of the family from the babies to the pets.

Conferences usually do not have the show or interactive aspect. You are paying for the knowledge and to be entertained. We are over the top with costumes, interactive workshops, demonstrations and more. We do not exclude anyone from the family. It is a convention and a show together unlike anything else.

Where do you see Family Con in 5 years?

I can see Family Con branching out to different locations definitely on the east coast to the midwest.

Family Con branches out to New York, Pennsylvania and New Jersey now. I would love to have different sectors of America experience Family Con. I feel everyone should experience this incredible event.

To learn more about Family Con and to get your tickets, visit http://www.njfamilycon.com.

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Leena Patidar

MOM WITH IMPACT

CREATES THE APP FOR EVERYDAY GOOD

Moms, would you use an app that allows you to use your virtual spare change to transform lives and teach your kids the power of giving? Coin Up is just that app, allowing consumers to turn an everyday shopping trip into clean water, medical services and food and shelter for those in need. Started by award winning entrepreneur, Leena Patidar, Coin Up is one of the first donation apps approved for Apple’s App Store and for good reason.

Since its inception, Coin Up has donated to organizations such as March of Dimes and Project Concern International. CEOMOM Magazine chatted with Leena to learn more about the inspiration behind Coin Up and how it’s changing how her family gives.

Tell us about Coin Up? How does the app work?

Coin Up is an innovative mobile app that provides a platform for donors to give to their favorite charitable causes effortlessly. Once downloaded and registered, the app will round up everyday purchases made on your credit card or debit card to the nearest dollar and send the "spare change" directly to the person's chosen charities each month. The app is free to download and was designed to help people give to causes they are passionate about, making it easy for their spare change to have major impact. Coin Up's mission is to create a society that engages in charitable giving through the convenience of everyday transactions.

What inspired you to develop Coin Up? I have been an entrepreneur for 15 years and a major theme for my

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As I learned more about bringing social entrepreneurship into the forefront of various business models, I realized that I would gain so much more by building a company within the social impact sector. career has been innovation. As I was looking for the “next” opportunity, I started going down the path of social entrepreneurship. Mostly because I grew up visiting my extended family in India every other summer and seeing hungry, homeless children on the streets and because I am shocked at the food waste here in the US, with so many hungry people on the streets. As I learned more about bringing social entrepreneurship into the forefront of various business models, I realized that I would gain so much more by building a company within the social impact sector. Coin Up started almost 3 years ago and we first went live on the App Store about 1.5 years ago. We now have donated thousands of dollars to our nonprofits and hope to keep expanding this circle of giving back through everyday spare change.

Who are some of your nonprofit partners? Describe some of the impact Coin Up has had on them?

March of Dimes, Corazon de Vida, Project Concern International, and Heifer International. We see our charities are able to really influence and engage their donors to donate via Coin Up App like never before. Coin Up allows everyone to donate, no matter how little, and collectively make major impact like providing

scholarships, providing meals, providing care, providing clean water, and medical services. Every cent matters and counts for our nonprofits. Even $1 provides a basic toiletry kit to a child in need.

How has Coin Up impacted your family’s way of giving?

We think about this everyday. I call out and remind my family how grateful we should be for even our basic needs - water, food and light. I can’t stand any waste of these precious resources. We also try to recycle as much as possible, whenever possible. We reuse bottles, jars, and other containers, bags and utensils to minimize any waste. We also participate in charity events almost every month by volunteering, collecting donations, and building awareness through school and friends.

Congratulations on winning the “2017 Start Up Tech of the Year” Pinnacle Award. Why do you think Coin Up has resonated with so many people?

Thank you! That is so kind of you :). We are grateful that so many people see the application of a simple, convenient and seamless app that can do a world of good through your everyday transactions.

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I always wish a few things for my children - to be curious, to have empathy and to learn to adapt in various environments.

There is power in numbers as shown by March of Dimes and other charities that have collected spare change over the years. Some collect even up to $30M in physical spare change! So, as we become a “ cashless" society, how do we keep supporting our nonprofits and communities? Even more, donors see that the consistent monthly revenue stream creates a dependable source of income for the charities to continue providing their programs all year long.

You have many accomplishments including being an MIT/Sloan graduate and a CPA? What do you hope your children learn from your go-getter spirit?

I always wish a few things for my children - to be curious, to have empathy and to learn to adapt in various environments. I think these lessons always kept me motivated, made me look for my own answers to questions, gave me unique perspectives and allowed me to integrate the knowledge for innovation in business, and compassion for others in my life.

When it comes to work/life balance, how do you manage mom guilt? What does balance mean to you?

If anyone has figured out how to manage mom guilt please let me know! I am still working on that myself.

At least I have learned to give myself some space and look at what I need to do over a week of time vs. a day at a time. In a week, I am able to give time to my kids, work, life, friends, as well as, take time out for myself to hit the gym or decompress. If I try to do all of this everyday, I would certainly implode!

I find balance happens on a daily basis by figuring out how to prioritize my day, on a weekly basis by giving time to each of the important areas of my life (above), and over the year by sometimes being intensely busy and other times being completely under the radar. I think we go through different phases in our lives and we react by sometimes needing more external influences and other times needing to avoid all the noise and to get quiet so we gain direction. These are really balances within balances, so it's a journey with winding pathways that allows us to learn more about ourselves everyday.

To learn more about Coin Up and to start giving your spare change to charity, visit https://www.coinupapp.com.

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ANGELA BANKS THE ANNEX COWORKING SPACE FOR MOMS: CHANGING HOW COMPANIES MANAGE MATERNITY LEAVE

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You’ve become a new mom for the first, second or third time and that dreaded moment is approaching, the end of your maternity leave. For most moms, transitioning back to work after having a baby is one of the toughest times in their lives. You’re dealing with sleep deprivation, an unpredictable schedule, hormonal imbalance and more. On top of that you are now forced to put your baby’s care into the hands of someone else while you are expected to perform at optimal level, although you are riddled with mom guilt and the immense longing for your baby. Angela Banks, mom of 2 and founder of The Annex, understands this all too well. The Annex is a coworking space designed for moms who are transitioning from maternity leave back into a corporate environment. With a mom’s needs in mind, the space will include a nursery room, a lactation room, nannies, video monitoring and more. Slated to open in the Dallas area Spring 2019 with plans for future expansion, The Annex will change how corporate America does maternity leave.

CEOMOM chatted with Angela about why The Annex is so important to the state of maternity leave in America and how The Annex will redefine work/life balance.

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Many companies are making great strides to improve maternity policies, but there is still a lot of room for improvement in this area. This is evidenced by the fact that women continue to leave or postpone work following childbirth, contributing to the scarcity of women at executive levels.

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What is the inspiration behind The Annex?

I wanted to create a space for moms to ease back into the office at their own pace. When I returned from work following the birth of my son, I dreamed of having access to a place like this, where I didn’t have to choose between maintaining my career track and spending more time with my infant child. I wanted adult interaction and the fulfillment from my work, but not at the expense of missing all of the first year milestones and having to pump in random rooms while on client visits. I made the decision to take an additional 3 months of unpaid leave, but would have returned sooner had there been an office where I bring my nursing baby and have onsite nannies to lend a hand. There was no such place for me, but during my second pregnancy, I set out to create this space for other corporate moms. The Annex gives new moms the chance to spend more time with their infant children, in a supportive environment where they can fully heal and settle into their new “normal”, while maintaining the trajectory of their careers.

What products and services do you offer?

Our space is designed to feel like a home office. We offer the comforts of working from home, but layer on support from on-staff nannies, which actually makes it possible to get something done while your newborn is with you. A community of professional moms and a network of resources come with the package. Conference rooms are available for on-site client and team meetings. Separate access is required to enter the remainder of the office, which includes a nanny room, lactation room, break room, open gathering space and a personal “home” office for every member, equipped with a rocker and crib. Our network includes lactation consultants, sleep trainers and other local resources. Scheduling and live streaming to the nanny room will be available through the Annex app. Peace of mind is a by-product.

Are there other coworking communities like the Annex?

Not exactly. There are coworking offices that cater specifically to women, but they are geared toward all women and mostly entrepreneurs, rather than new corporate moms. They operate as traditional coworking spaces, where the client and the user are one in the same.

How will The Annex stand out from current and potential competitors?

The Annex is a whole new take on coworking, because mom’s employer covers the cost of the space, as a wellness benefit and incentive for mom to return.

I read an article by USA Today that said maternity leave is an elite benefit in America. Do you believe this is true? Why or why not?

While there are notable outliers, many US companies do not provide adequate maternity leave benefits. As compared to other developed countries, our standards are simply too low.

As the article states, these basic standards harm lower level employees more than others. Leave needs to be extended in this country for the well-being of all new moms and their children. The Annex was created to be a supplement to whatever policy is in place. We pick up where the maternity leave policy ends.

Do you think corporate America is doing enough to help women transition from maternity leave back to work? If not, what more should/can be done?

Many companies are making great strides to improve maternity policies, but there is still a lot of room for improvement in this area. This is evidenced by the fact that women continue to leave or postpone work following childbirth, contributing to the scarcity of women at executive levels.

Companies must find more ways to support working moms in this transition, or the number of moms missing from the workplace will continue to rise. I recently blogged about an article that addressed this issue, suggesting that it’s time for corporate America to come up with new solutions.

What is corporate America getting right?

Corporate America is starting to recognize the need for improved maternity benefits. Some of the large, global companies have recently increased their leave benefits in the US, to match the policies they’ve always had in place throughout other parts of the world. Hopefully, more companies will catch on to the idea and begin to make similar improvements.

Why is a coworking community for new moms a solution for America's challenges with maternity leave?

The Annex offers a solution for helping moms transition back into a corporate environment after maternity leave has ended. It’s an extension to maternity leave that gives moms a chance to experience all of the milestones that happen in that first year, which really start to show up after the “fourth trimester”, when personalities emerge and the real fun begins. It provides a comfortable place to deal with the hormonal changes that come with delivery and continue throughout the time of breastfeeding and/or pumping, allowing for the time needed to get back to normal, both physically and mentally, before officially returning to the office. It eliminates many of the distractions that come with working from home, plus it’s been my personal experience that getting out of your pajamas and leaving the house changes your mindset and leads to a more productive day. Finally, being surrounded by other moms within the community will make for an enjoyable and motivating work environment.

Your company focuses on life-work balance rather than work-life balance. What does lifework balance mean to you?

Our motto is “Life comes first”. Children have a unique way of changing our perspectives. Worklife balance was my goal before I had my son, but everything changed the moment he arrived. I extended my 3 month leave to 6 months. When I finally returned, I was still passionate about my career and the success of my firm, but there was a shift in my priorities. I had made meaningful relationships at the firm and my work allowed me to make a positive impact within my community and help support my family, but I had to make a change in how I spent my time. This new little life needed a good portion of my time and attention.

In the past, I never thought twice about rearranging my calendar to accommodate a client’s needs, but my pumping schedule and well visits were set in stone and everything else was scheduled around these times. I was also home in time for his 5:30 feeding and didn’t even glance at my email until after he was down for the night. Of course, my work was still done and clients were still happy, but life came first.

As a working mother of 2, how do you maintain life-work balance?

By setting priorities. There are only 24 hours in the day and I have to prioritize time for the things I care about most. Faith, family and friendships are my top 3. For me, balance means that the majority of my time and other resources are spent cultivating these things.

When will The Annex open? What can we expect from the initial opening?

The Annex is scheduled to launch Spring 2019.

Sign up through the website to get updates and information on upcoming events.

Learn more about The Annex at http://www.annexcommunity.com.

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Polished 10th Birthday Party Special Guest Speaker, Marshawn Evans Daniels Celebrating our 10th birthday party with the community was a perfect way to highlight God’s faithfulness to Polished over the last 10 years.

Throwing ourselves a birthday party – donuts and tacos included, obviously – and inviting everyone we knew? It made perfect sense!

Polished gathers young professional women to navigate career and explore faith. So, once we decided the menu + secured the coffee, we wanted to celebrate our birthday by celebrating the stories of everyone who would be attending. Inviting Marshawn Evans Daniels, the Godfidence Queen, seemed like the perfect next step. Marshawn is not just passionate, she is zealous about empowering women right where they are to get to where they’ve always dreamed of being. Her Dream Bigger workshop was deeply engaging, extremely challenging, and invited every woman that was present to create the space necessary to become who they were meant to be.

And the final layer of dreamy collaboration came from our pop-up shops – Accessory Jane and AlanaKayART, and our event host – Communion Neighborhood Cooperative. Getting to work with these businesses was a beautiful way for Polished to continue to pour back into our communities, the heart and soul of who we are. Plus, their art and jewelry and the event space? GORGEOUS. Our Birthday Bash was a success because it reflected the heart of Polished – real women living real lives alongside one another. Thanks to all the volunteers, every single guest, and our amazing speaker we were able to do just that. We can’t wait for the next big celebration and believe us, we are always looking for a reason to party!

Learn more about Polished at http://www.polishedonline.org/.

Attending Polished events has taught me again and again to expect the unexpected -- in the most beautiful way. When I walked into the Polished Birthday party there was beauty sprinkled everywhere, from the warm greeters to the donut displays and delicious conversation. I walked in expecting a pep talk and walked out feeling like part of the pep squad, fueled by good food, nuggets of wisdom, and new connections. I was brimming with more than just coffee. I felt empowered.

Lyndan Gann (Attendee and volunteer leader)

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