B'nai Review November

Volume 5775 Issue 4

November 2014 Cheshvan 5775– Kislev 5775

CBI Announcements

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Rabbi’s Message

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Cantor’s Message

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President’s Message

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Executive Director’s Message

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Youth

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Women’s League

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A-Team Todah Rabah Kol Nidre Update Adult Studies November Calendar Life Cycle Events Donations Advertisements

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B’nai Israel Review

Our Mission

CONTACTS

Through our congregational life, our goal is to provide the opportunity for our members and friends to experience Jewish life to its fullest. We want to transmit the ideals of Conservative Judaism to our children and grandchildren, to enable them to be knowledgeable and responsible participants in Jewish life, sensitive and ethical human beings and reliable custodians of an enduring heritage. Through the synagogue, we want to find strength and inspiration in worship and study, in the sharing of lifecycle events, in acts of caring, in reaching out to the wide Jewish and non-Jewish communities, and in concern and support for Israel.

Rabbi Jacob Luski, D.D. 727.381.4900 x207 Rabbi.luski@cbistpete.org Cantor Jonathan Schultz 727.381.4900 x305 Cantor.schultz@cbistpete.org

Ongoing Activities at CBI

Participate in Aliyot The Ritual Committee of Congregation B’nai Israel encourages worshippers to participate in services by performing aliyot.

Executive Director Susan Goldstein

Daily Services

Become a Minyanaire! Support our Daily Minyan in the Chapel: Sunday Morning: 9:00 Monday—Friday mornings: 7:45 Sunday—Thursday evenings: 6:30 Thanksgiving Day 9:00 AM Come just for the joy of davening together. You'll be glad you decided to join the growing number of CBI members and friends who do. Please sign in to be counted.

727.381.4900 x202 execdir@cbistpete.org Pauline Rivkind Preschool Interim Director Katherine Schaefer 727.381.4900 x211 preschool@cbistpete.org Pauline Rivkind Talmud Torah Education Coordinator Ricki Lewis 727.381.4900

If you like to receive an aliyah, please call the synagogue office at 727.381.4900, or speak to one of the ushers when you enter the sanctuary, and every effort will be made to accommodate your request. Those wishing to receive an aliyah on Shabbat morning are asked to arrive at services no later than 9:30 am.

We look forward to your participation.

Shalom, Morry Bornstein Ritual Committee Chair

Office Drop Box As a reminder, there is a secured drop box available at the shul and at your service when you are in the building.

It is located outside the Synagogue office across from the Judaica Shop.

You can drop off messages, contributions, etc when coming to classes, events, meetings, or when dropping off children at school. It is an easy way to communicate within the congregational family.

Drop in sometime!

Continental Breakfast

The Mitzvah Men’s Club provides a Continental Breakfast for all worshippers on Minyan Mornings in the alcove of the Social Hall. Please join the Minyanaires for the morning Shaharit service and relax and schmooze over breakfast—bagels, cream cheese, coffee cake and coffee/tea.

Sponsorship Opportunities If you are interested in sponsoring an Oneg Shabbat on Friday evening or a L’Hayim following a Morning Minyan in honor or memory of a loved one or a special occasion, please contact Susan Goldstein at execdir@cbistpete.org.

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President Alice Ettinger aliceettinger112@gmail.com Men’s Club President Steve Feld USY President Hannah Weiss

CBI Announcements

November 2014

National Ramah T-Shirt Day!

Shabbat Minha Time WITH THE EXCEPTION OF YOM TOVS- Shabbat Minha Service will be held at 12:30 pm, approximately 30-45 minutes after the conclusion of Shabbat morning services. Please direct any questions to Morry Bornstein, Ritual Committee Chair, 727.397.9955, or morborn@aol.com

November 13, 2014 Jewish War Veterans Shabbat Saturday, November 22 9:00AM

join more than 1,500 Ramahniks in expressing their love for Ramah by wearing a Ramah t-shirt.

Follow @NationalRamah and #RamahShirts and #campramah on Twitter to see our whole community dressed up for the occasion!

Give Your Sister a Lift!

All veterans of the Armed Services are invited to join us at Shabbat morning services.

VA Chaplain Reverend Rob C. McLaren will be the guest speaker.

Need a ride to Sisterhood meetings or events? We are looking for our sisters who would like “a lift” to and from CBI’s Women’s League.

We want YOU here to enjoy the fun and learn along with us!

Give Karen Kauffman a call AT LEAST 48 HOURS IN ADVANCE, so arrangements can be made to give you and your friends “a lift.”

The more the merrier they say!

Contact Karen at 727.392.1623 or 727.481.8212.

Community Inter-Faith Thanksgiving Service Sunday, November 23 4:00PM First Baptist Church of St. Petersburg 1900 Gandy Boulevard

You’re Invited!

If you’d like to “give a sister a lift,” give Karen a call.

Bikkur Holim One of the most important mitzvot in Judaism is bikkur holim –visiting the sick. It is the responsibility that the clergy of B’nai Israel take very seriously. When our members are ill or hospitalized, we want to know.

In the interest of protecting confidentiality, hospitals today are extremely cautious about sharing patient names, even with clergy. We need our congregants to communicate directly with us and to inform us of illness or hospitalization. Please call Pam Askin at 727.381.4900 x203, so that as clergy and the synagogue family we can be helpful in moments of difficult or stress.

CBI– HADASSAH BOOK DISCUSSION CLUB MEETINGS

Gulf Coast Jewish Family Services (GFJFS)

Bereavement Support Group We recently concluded several sessions of a bereavement support group led by GFJFS’s Renee Basemen at CBI. Please contact Renee at 727.450.7272 if you or someone you know is interested in forming another group.

Wednesday, November 19, 10:00am The Lost Wife by Alyson Richman 3

From the Rabbi

November 2014

When the Cantor repeats the Amidah, there is one prayer the congregation must say for itself – the Modim, the prayer of thanksgiving. One statement in the Talmud teaches that in the time of the Messiah, all the sacrifices will be abolished save one – the sacrifice of thanksgiving. Even in the perfect age, there will be a need to offer thanks.

Gratitude is the essential religious emotion. When we first wake up in the morning, we say “Modim anahnu lah” – we are grateful to You, God. Throughout the day, blessings awaken in us the sense of wonder, awe and gratitude for all we have been given. The Psalms, the prayers, the rituals we observe, all form a grand bouquet of appreciation to the One whose creation is so filled with wonder.

The American holiday that speaks most directly to the Jewish spirit is Thanksgiving. To take goodness for granted is not the Jewish way.

This Thanksgiving be sure to include blessings of acknowledgment and appreciation for our many gifts. We are thankful for the bounty we have been given, for the family and friends who warm our celebrations, for the very ability, as Rav states in the Talmud, to give thanks.

Join me in the annual Thanksgiving service sponsored by the Clergy Association of Greater St. Petersburg, to be held at First Baptist Church on Sunday afternoon, November 24 at 4:00 PM. Please share with your family and friends the translation of Modim offered by Rabbi Simkha Weintraub.

We acknowledge and proclaim that You are Adonai our God and God of our ancestors eternally, throughout all time!

You are the Rock of our lives, the Shield of our salvation, You are this One in every generation.

We thank You, We praise You – for our lives which are in Your hand, for our souls which are in Your charge, for Your miracles which are with us every day, and for Your wonders and kindnesses that are always there, morning, noon and night.

Good one – Your mercy never runs out!

Compasionate One – Your lovingkindness endures!

Eternally – Our hope is in You. Joanne joins me in wishing you a most enjoyable and meaningful Thanksgiving holiday!

Shalom,

From the Cantor One of my former rabbis used to say that Thanksgiving was his favorite holiday. I think it’s easy to see why – the message of the day is simple, yet fundamental. Although it was originally a day on which the pilgrims gave thanks to God for bringing them safely to America, for us it is a day on which we can reflect on and recall all that we are thankful for in our lives.

In the spirit of the holiday, I would like to share with you some things for which I am thankful: I am thankful that I am able to work in a profession that I love, and that I have the opportunity to serve a congregation filled with such wonderful people. I am thankful that I have my family, who are there for me in both the best and the worst of times. I am thankful to be an uncle – my niece and nephew are adorable. I am thankful to have my friends, many of whom are also colleagues.

There are many places in our formal liturgy where we thank God. Upon waking up in the morning, we say “Modeh / modah ani:” “I thank You, enduring Sovereign, for restoring my soul to me in compassion. You are faithful beyond measure.” The psalm for Shabbat begins “Tov l’hodot Ladonai (It is good to thank Adonai).” In Hallel, we say “Hodu Ladonai ki tov (Thank Adonai, for God is good).”

We even devote an entire brachah of every Amidah to thanking God: “Modim anachnu lach.” (For all you Hebrew buffs, “modim anachnu” is the plural of “modeh / modah ani”) We say this brachah three times every day, and four times on days when we have Musaf. Let’s take a look at the end of this brachah: “For all these blessings we shall ever praise and exalt You. May every living creature thank You and praise You faithfully, God of deliverance and our help. Barukh Atah Adonai, ‘The Beneficent One’ is Your name, and it is fitting to give thanks to You.” Happy Thanksgiving,

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From the President

November 2014

I gave a “State of CBI Address” on Kol Nidre evening. Thank you so much for your kind words telling me how much you enjoyed it. I am including it here for those who were unable to be at the service.

Try something that teachers have been doing forever. Before you say something that could be considered a negative, t think of at least one thing that is positive about the situation and say it first, and then think of a positive spin on the negative thing you want to say. Remember: Blame makes everyone feel bad. It is not always necessary to have the last word. Instead, say to yourself: “Today I shall try to be kind.”

Moving on to other things. We are participating with 11 Kehillot throughout United Synagogue for Conservative Judaism (USCJ) in Sulam for Strategic Planning. 147 of you completed the survey that was submitted to the entire congregation.

What you want to see: Tradition, with change – the actual reason that the Conservative Movement was formed – you are deeply concerned about the present and the future.

Youth and young families – you want to see more kids on the bimah and around everywhere. I am so proud of our young Golden Kippah Torah readers who have been on the bimah during these holidays.

Learning opportunities, especially prayer and learning during the service Music – stay tuned for information about an upcoming concert here by the group, Tizmoret, Sunday, January 18.

More lay involvement in services. ( Continued on page 7)

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From the Executive Director Gratitude: the quality or feeling of being grateful or thankful (dictionary.reference.com) This is the November issue of the B’nai Israel Review, and November is the month we, as Americans, give gratitude and celebrate a day of Thanksgiving. And we’ve just come through the Yamim Nora’im (Days of Awe), followed by the beautiful Festival of Sukkot and Shemini Atzeret (the extra day we Jews get to spend “just us” and God), ending with the joyous Simchat Torah celebration with singing and dancing with the Torah. I don’t know about you, but I’m grateful it’s over for this year (even as I look forward to doing it all over again next year)!

I feel gratitude for many people and things and, especially in this season, some special people at CBI. I’m grateful to Gerry Werner who stepped up to run our High Holy Days youth services with Youth Advisor, Bianca Levi. Gerry grew up at CBI, and shares his musical talent with us by singing in the choir. Fortunately, the High Holy Days choir gigs are limited to evening services so we drew on his talents in working with our youth. The kids paid attention, learned, and enjoyed. Thank you, Gerry.

I’m grateful to Anita Helfand and Selma Gaby for dispensing our High Holy Days tickets when Dianne Gettler left unexpectedly to marry her long-time beau and travel the world. Anita and Selma spent many hours in the small conference room writing and organizing and checking and rechecking. And Anita even took care of all the requests for “special” seating. Couldn’t have done it without y’all!

I’m grateful to Valerie Hyman who meticulously and successfully wrote an amazing grant application to the Department of Homeland Security.

Thanks to her understanding of what was required and her ability to put it on paper, CBI has been granted $75,000 to enhance our security systems. We’re close to the starting point and, when the DHS says “go,” we’ll have 18 months to complete the work. We’ll be busy in the months ahead, and it’s all thanks to Valerie’s skill and tenacity.

I’m ever grateful to Alice Ettinger for her vision and wisdom. And I’m grateful to the Executive Committee and Board of Trustees, all of whom have been open to the notion that challenges are simply pathways to opportunity. I’m grateful to be here at CBI in St. Pete, and thank you for allowing me to serve as your executive director.

B’Shalom and Happy Thanksgiving,

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February 2014

Youth Department

November 2014

USY Highlights Shalom Chaverim! For those of you who were unable to attend Selichot services, I would like to share with you my installation speech for our USY Board Members. I am Bianca Levi, the new CBI Youth Advisor. With my position I have the honor of installing our USY officers for the 2014-2015 year.

Shoshana LeVine. One of the last times I saw you, you were a little girl playing at the former day school. Now you have blossomed into a beautiful young lady with a great dedication for your friends and USY. As historian, you will have plenty of opportunity to let your artistic abilities to shine.

Robert Carroll. You are such a kind and intelligent young man. SPUSY will be very lucky to have you as a Membership and Kadima Vice President. This position is vital to our group as we hope to grow and flourish.

Tori Bishoff. Your new title as Social Action and Tikkun Olam Vice President suits you quite well. You have a heartwarming dedication to our religion and USY will be a great place for you to continue to establish your leadership.

Ari Zimmer. Your roots in Judaism are evidently steadfast. You can lead any service, quite eloquently may I add, with the charisma of an angel.

We appreciate the knowledge that you already bring to our chapter and for all to come as Israeli Affairs and Religious Education Vice President.

Lauren Klein. Programming Vice President is a large responsibility. The position is key to bringing our chapter together and engaging our members. You already have great plans for us and we cannot contain our excitement. I wish you luck and we are all glad for you to be a part of our chapter this year.

Hannah Weiss. You have great experience to contribute to our chapter this year. As Communications Vice President you know who you need to engage and the best way to do so. As previous Chapter President you have much to add. We love having you involved. I already know you're a vital part of SPUSY and I thank you for your commitment.

Hannah, you are such a lovely young lady to be around. You have a great personality with a devotion to USY like no other. Our chapter is lucky to have a President like you. I look forward to working with and mentoring you this year.

It is with great excitement and honor, I install each of you into your new positions. I will be here for you as support, guidance, and friendship.

Mazel Tov! Now that our freshman members have been inducted as well (on October 18) into SPUSY, there will be lots to come from this fantastic chapter. Not only do we have upcoming chapter events, USY Shabbat Dinner on December 5 at Dr. David and Janice LeVine’s home; we have Sub Regional, Mercaz Fall Sub Regional Convention October 31– November 2, and International events quickly approaching.

Please continue to inspire and thrive.

Stay Sweet SPUSY, Bianca A. Levi

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Pauline Rivkind Early Childhood Education Center -PRECEC Can you believe that fall is already here?

After ringing in the new year with our construction paper Shofars and decorating our Sukkah with paper plate fruits and vegetables, the students of Pauline Rivkind Early Childhood Education Center are switching gears to give thanks for the veterans that have defended our country.

Mid-November, students and staff will be taking a walking tour over to Menorah Manor to join residents in celebrating Veteran’s Day. Residents will read to the students; together they will sing patriotic songs, decorate flags, and indulge in a red, white, and blue fruit salad (strawberries, bananas, and blueberries)!

Children are also spending time this month reflecting on all the things they are thankful for during the Thanksgiving Season. The Tuesday before Thanksgiving, we will host our annual Thanksgiving Feast during school hours. The children will prepare their own cranberries, stuffing, and green beans and then share their meal together.

Enjoying a meal together as our preschool family provides our students with the opportunity to enjoy and grow together.

As the saying goes, “Memories are made when gathered around the table.”

This month is also our Dreidel Drawing along with the Craft and Gift Show on Sunday, November 16. This is Pauline Rivkind’s biggest fundraiser of the year and we appreciate any and all support. Families will be selling raffle tickets for donated items in order to raise funds for our educational program. If you are interested in making a donation or getting involved, please contact the Interim Preschool Director, Katherine Schaefer, at 727.302.9668.

Katherine Schaefer Interim Preschool Director

President’s Article, continued from page 5

November 2014

More community-based programs especially that involve other synagogues – the Temple specifically was cited. As part of our outreach, mazel tov to Janice and David LeVine on the Federation’s Yitzhak Rabin Memorial Award for Distinguished Community Service.

Leadership and communication: we are making changes already. I will be making a monthly “State of CBI” for a minute from the bimah during announcements and in the Newsletter. The Trustees and I want to let you know what is going on behind the scenes. This is not a secret society. If so, they haven’t shown me the secret handshake. There is one caveat: we are not able to disclose employment issues.

Volunteerism: We have passionate volunteers. It seems that many more of you would like to volunteer, but would like to be asked. Well I am asking. I am asking for anyone who would like to volunteer, there are myriad opportunities. Just give a call and we will help you volunteer.

What is the Board working on?

Thanks to Valerie Hyman and Susan Goldstein, we received a $75,000 Homeland Security grant for updates to our security.

We have begun to replace the carpeting around the building.

We have updated and developed several policies and procedures.

We have availed ourselves of consultation services provided by United Synagogue for Conservative Judaism (USCJ). These and other services are provided by USCJ as part of the dues we pay.

We are looking for health insurance coverage for our employees based on the newest guidelines and what is financially appropriate for CBI. We have appointed a committee to determine an appropriate model for education for all of CBI. Right after the holidays, they will begin their work.

We have revamped the curricula for the Pauline Rivkind Talmud Torah under the direction of 3rd VP, Ricki Lewis with the help of Pam Himmel, Cantor Schultz, Jacqui Wertel, Jason McMahon, and Sherri Carroll. We have installed TVs and iPads in each classroom for use by our religious school kids and Hebrew High to work with the new curriculum both at school and at home. We also have some new teachers who are using their creativity to interest and encourage our students. We welcome them all. I’m sure you have seen the New Year’s pictures in the papers and You Tube videos. If you have not, look on our website to catch a glimpse of all the fun. And I hope you will enjoy the Psalm Booklet you took at the front door. Our Hebrew High students wrote them under the direction of Janice LeVine and Amy Piper, and I am so proud of them.

Our Pauline Rivkind Early Childhood Education Center, known as the preschool, is enjoying many new students and new teachers as well.

Interim Director, Katie Schaefer is working to encourage Jewish learning and values with the help of Ricki Lewis, as well as including more of the fine education that it has always been known for. Tomorrow morning say “Hi” to the people who are at the help desk – they are some of the teachers.

We have a new grounds company and we should be seeing some changes soon. We also have improved the air conditioning and thermostats. I have already appreciated that change.

Now what you all have been waiting for, let me say something about the Kol Nidre Appeal. We have suggested that every family unit make an $18 increase over last year Kol Nidre pledge. That would give CBI $6000 more with which to carry out our business. You replied by doing so in many cases. We have about 125 families that total over $100,000 so far. If you have never given before or not in a long while, please consider giving a donation of chai - $18 or any amount would be gratefully accepted. You were given envelopes when you walked in and we will be happy to have the ushers collect them in a few moments.

Lastly, I want to welcome the children who have been born here and who are already members through their parents. That is the most exciting thing we can have. Welcome Emma Isabella Gross, Noah Elias Wein, Simon Henry Strait, Ariellah Rio Shenofsky, Ethan Arnold Benstock, and Isaiah Aaron Bloom. Look for them tomorrow in the atrium and around the sanctuary. Welcome to them and to their parents. They are our future. And to all of you who have had grandchildren and great grandchildren, mazel tov. We look forward to having them visit many times.

The children are a very important reason why we need to give as much as we can to the Kol Nidre appeal.

That brings me to the end where I say thank you to all of the people in the office, the volunteers, the Board, my friends, my St. Petersburg family, and my husband, Larry for all of your help and support. Thank you all for the opportunity to serve as president. I am proud to say that and I will work hard for CBI. On behalf of the officers and Board of Trustees I wish you a very happy and healthy New Year. May you be sealed in the Book of Life and receive all that you pray for.

B’shalom, Alice G. Ettinger, President

College Age Connection Let us keep up with your kids!

If you have a student in college or graduate school, please send the CBI Office their information. We would like their: school, year in school, major,address, email, and phone number. Send this information to: receptionist @cbistpete.org, or call 727.381.4900 x201.

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Women’s League

DONATIONS $180 – Benefactor $300 - Guardian Level $600 - Associate Patron $1,200 – Patron $2,500 - Scholarship (Annual) $5,000 - Keter Kavod (Annual) Mishpachah

Family 5775

The mishpachah theme encourages us, as Conservative/Masorti Jews, to recognize the diverse character of our families. It also encourages our communities to be pluralistic, welcoming, and open hearted. The Jewish family, in all its configurations, is the solid system of roots that supports our Tree of Life. The community lends its strength to each family and, in turn, draws renewed energy, wisdom, and direction from its cherished members. These Jewish family bonds have an immeasurable impact when cultivated in each new generation.

Women’s League for Conservative Judaism’s support of the Torah Fund Campaign helps strengthen Conservative/Masorti Judaism throughout the world, and enhances the Jewish community by recognizing and appreciating our diverse families.

This year your support of Torah Fund as a benefactor remains at a donation of $180.

CHECKS SHOULD BE MADE OUT TO “TORAH FUND” mailed to Marilyn LeVine, 1900 Park St., St. Petersburg, FL 33710 With your pledge, you will receive this beautiful gold and silver pin.

Higher gift giving is also available, $300 for Guardian, $600 for Associate Patron, see above opportunities.

CONTACT: Joanne Luski~Challahmom@aol.com or Marilyn LeVine~Babamfl@aolcom or Jennifer Sternberg for Torah Fund Cards~Jjudysternberg@gmail.com

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A-Team: CBI’s Advocacy for Israel Committee

November 2014

In my first Bulletin article I alluded to the topic of “Jewish Stereotypes.” In March 2012 the ADL publish a report called, “Attitudes Toward Jews In Ten European Countries.” The research focused on the attitudes of the general public in Austria, France, Germany, Hungary, Italy, the Netherlands, Norway, Poland, Spain and the United Kingdom. A total of 5,000 telephone interviews were performed -- 500 in each of the ten countries -- between January 2 –January 31,2012. Respondents across the continent were asked whether or not they thought the following five statements were “probably true” or “probably false.”

1) Jews are more loyal to Israel than to this country. 55% believe that Jews are more loyal to Israel than to their own country.

2) Jews have too much power in the business world. 36% of all respondents continue to believe in the traditional anti-Jewish canard that , “Jews have too much power in the business world.”

3) Jews have too much power in international financial markets. 39% of those surveyed cling to the traditional stereotype that Jews exert too much influence over international financial markets.

4) Jews still talk too much about what happened to them in the Holocaust. 41% of those surveyed believe it is “probably true” that Jews still talk too much about the Holocaust.

5) Whether they agree or disagree with the statement that “Jews are responsible for the death of Christ.” 22% agree with the statement , “Jews are responsible for the death of Christ.” Of Polish respondents, 46% agree with this statement -- the highest percentage among all of the countries surveyed.

On September 24, 2014, Abraham Foxman, National Director ADL stated, “Although factors vary depending on the country, over all, the survey findings provide an important backdrop for what is now happening in Western Europe. It is clear that attitudes do play a role in fostering this pernicious form of hatred, which has had remarkable staying power through the ages and so far no clear antidote.”

Leslie Pearlstein, MD

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Todah Rabah

November 2014

A special Todah Rabah to the following people for their dedication to CBI. Marian Lustigman-Rooth, Murray Rubin, Thelma Gilbert, Selma Gaby, Helen Kahan and Anita Helfand for helping in the CBI office Sam Cohen, Byron Kolitz, Dr. Steve LeVine, Jesse Rodman and Debbie Marmon for leading Pesukei D’Zimrah Corey Sokolov and Debbie Marmon for reading Torah Joanne Luski, Mali Feld, Michael Barth, Dr. Starr Silver, Liz Sembler, Dr. Steve LeVine and Michael Giskin.for chanting the Haftarah Wendy Levine for reading to our PRECEC Students weekly, and coordinating the Hatanei Hatorah celebration All of the clergy, the Ritual Committee, ushers , and staff for the hard work that goes into enhancing our holiday experience.

Kol Nidre Kol Nidre Campaign There are so many people to thank for helping the Kol Nidre campaign happen this year.

First of all, to Thelma and Jerry Gilbert, the honorary co-chairs, who have shown their lifelong commitment to CBI. Secondly, the campaign could not happen without the CBI office staff, especially, Susan, Melissa and Pam as well as Kesef accounting services, the company who does our bookkeeping.

You received your Kol Nidre letters and cards on Erev Kol Nidre due to the the help of the following volunteers: Sandy & Mike Slomka, Ina Sheppard, Susie van Gelder, Anita Helfand, Reva Pearlstein, Sheryl Feinman, Jackie Wertel and Ricki Lewis, CBI’s fund raising VP who supported this effort form start to finish.

An additional Todah Rabah goes to Jackie Wertel for preparing our Kol Nidre honor roll board. Todah Rabah to Alice Ettinger for delivering the Kol Nidre appeal this year with a change from many of our past appeals. Other committee members who helped when needed are Amy Giskin, Gail Frye and Pam LeCompte.

Most importantly, Todah Rabah to YOU, our CBI members without whom this campaign cannot succeed.

Todah Rabah to the 25+ of you who gave gifts this year either for the first time or first in a few years. Todah Rabah to the many of you who took the "chai" challenge and increased your gift by at least $18. That collective increase makes CBI stronger.

As of October 5, we had 167 families participating. If your gift is not in yet, IT IS NOT TOO LATE! Contact the CBI office, me, pay online or mail a check to CBI St Pete, P.O. Box 159, Montrale, NJ 07645.

Every gift counts!

Todah Rabah Laurie Reiskind

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Ways To Get Involved

November 2014

Do you want to be more active at your home away from home? Here are a few ways!

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Become a Minyanaire! We need at least ten Jews for public worship. Join with your CBI Family for the joy of davening and to support those in mourning, and join a close knit group of Minyanaires!

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Help in the CBI Office! Join our fun and welcoming CBI Staff for a few hours and help them send out mailings, filing, or organizing to keep this ship smooth-sailing!

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Become a greeter! Be the first to wish members of your CBI Family a “Shabbat Shalom” at Friday evening, or Saturday morning Shabbat Services. If you would like to take part in this tradition, contact Selma Gaby at 727.345.2887

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Read Torah! We have a wonderful teacher who can help you prepare for this honor. Liz Sembler, our Engagement Director, is always available to help you learn to chant Torah and Haftorah portions. If you are interested in learning more about how you may perform this mitzvah, contact Liz at lizsembler@aol.com, or 727.381.4900 x206.

Adult Studies

Lunch with the Rabbi

Torah 4 Seniors

Wednesday, November 19, 12:00 pm

Tuesday November 18, 11:00 am

RSVP with your Deli Lunch Order by Tuesday, November 18, at noon to Pam Askin at 727.381.4900, ext. 203 or officemgr@cbistpete.org.

Join Rabbi Luski for a deli lunch and Mishnah study.

No previous Knowledge is necessary.

Philip Benjamin Tower Rabbi Luski will lead Torah Study at Philip Benjamin Tower. All are welcome to join in the discussion.

Dialogue With The Rabbi

Talmud Made Easy Wednesday, November 19 Buns Family Library at 7:00PM

November 15

Stephen Wein continues his class studying Talmudic texts, in English.

An informal question and answer period during Shabbat morning services

All materials provided. No previous knowledge necessary.

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Calendar

November 2014

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4 Election Day—Don’t forget to vote!

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7:45 Morning Minyan 10:15 Gift & Craft Show Meeting 6:00 Chess Club 6:30 Evening Minyan 7:00 Women’s League Board

7:45 Morning Minyan 4:45 PRTT, Alef—Heh C 5:30 USY Board Meeting 5:30 Intermediate Hebrew 6:30 Evening Minyan 7:00 Hebrew High and M 7:00 MMC Board Meetin

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9:00 Morning Minyan 9:45 PRTT Sunday School 6:30 Evening Minyan USY Subregional Convention, Orlando

9:00 Morning Minyan 9:45 PRTT Sunday School 2:00 Holocaust Museum Kristellnacht Program 6:30 Evening Minyan

9:00 Morning Minyan 9:45 PRTT Sunday School 10:00 Gift & Craft Show 6:30 Evening Minyan

9:00 Morning Minyan 9:45 PRTT Sunday School 4:00 Community Thanksgiving Service 6:30 Evening Minyan Kadima Convention, Jacksonville

7:45 Morning Minyan 6:30 Evening Minyan

7:45 Morning Minyan 6:30 Evening Minyan 7:00 AIPAC Tampa Bay Conference

7:45 Morning Minyan 6:30 Evening Minyan

7:45 Morning Minyan 6:00 Chess Club 6:30 Evening Minyan

7:45 Morning Minyan 11:00 Torah for Seniors at PBT 6:00 Chess Club 6:30 Evening Minyan 7:00 BOT Meeting

7:45 Morning Minyan 6:30 Evening Minyan VPK Closed

7:45 Morning Minyan 6:30 Evening Minyan VPK Closed

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7:45 Morning Minyan 4:45 PRTT, Alef—Heh C 5:30 Intermediate Hebrew 6:30 Evening Minyan 7:00 Hebrew High and M 7:00 Israel, “After Gaza

7:45 Morning Minyan 10:00 Hadassah Book C 12:00 Lunch with the Rab 4:45 PRTT Alef-Heh Clas 5:30 Intermediate Hebrew 7:00 Hebrew High 7:00 Talmud Class, Stev

7:45 Morning Minyan 6:30 Evening Minyan No PRTT or Hebrew Hig VPK and PRECEC close

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9:00 Shabbat Morning Services,and Kiddush 11:30 Ritual Workshop: How to chant the Torah Blessings 12:30 Minha Service USY Subregional Convention, Orlando

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7:45 Morning Minyan 10:00 Library Committee Meeting 1:00 Investment Committee Meeting 6:30 Evening Minyan

7:45 Morning Minyan 10:00 Library Committee Meeting 6:30 Evening Minyan

7:45 Morning Minyan 11:30 Israel Bonds Luncheon with author Alyson Richman 5:24 Candlelighting 6:00 Kabbalat Shabbat

7:45 Morning Minyan 5:20 Candlelighting 6:30 Blue Jeans Kabbalat Shabbat

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7:45 Morning Minyan 10:00 Library Committee 6:30 Evening Minyan

7:45 Morning Minyan 5:18 Candlelighting 5:30 Carlebach Kabbalat Shabbat Kadima Convention, Jacksonville

9:00 Shabbat Morning Service Ari Weiss Bar Mitzvah and Kiddush 12:30 Minha Service

9:00 Shabbat Morning Services, and Dialogue with the Rabbi’ and Kiddush 12:30 Minha Service 7:00 YAD Havdalah 8:00 Gift & Craft Show

9:00 Shabbat Services, Veteran’s and Simcha Shabbat and Kiddush 12:30 Minha Service 6:30 Havdalah on the Beach Kadima Convention, Jacksonville

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7:45 Morning Minyan 10:00 Library Committee Meeting 6:30 Evening Minyan VPK, PRECEC, and Office Closed

7:45 Morning Minyan 5:17 Candlelighting 5:30 Kabbalat Shabbat VPK, PRECEC, and Office Closed

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9:00 Shabbat Morning Services, and Kiddush 12:30 Minha Service

November 2014

Israel 2014

“After Gaza, How Do We Achieve Peace?” with

Mr. Chaim Shacham

Consul General for Israel to Florida & Puerto Rico A Reception will follow Mr. Shacham’s presentation.

Wednesday, November 12, 2014 7:00 p.m.

At Congregation B’nai Israel 300 58th Street North, St. Petersburg, Florida

This free event is sponsored by Congregation B’nai Israel of St. Petersburg In conjunction with The Jewish Federation of Pinellas and Pasco Counties, Israel Bonds, The Jewish National Fund, The Pinellas County Board of Rabbis and the Tampa Bay Chapters of Hadassah

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Mitzvah Grams MAY 2014

Join us in wishing Mazal Tov! to members celebrating their birthdays, anniversaries and B’nai Mitzvah. Your good wishes can be part of their memories, while at the same time, supporting B’nai Israel’s commitment to help our schools, youth groups and Synagogue through your donations to our Mitzvah Fund.

“MAZAL TOV!" TO OUR NOVEMBER 6 12 13 16

Shevy and Tom Silverberg Marilyn and Jack Goldberg Shana and Matthew Gaines Alice and Larry Ettinger

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Anniversary

Joan and Gerald Benstock Aliza and Chaim Bloom Claire and Ron Yogman Joanne and Rabbi Jacob Luski

CELEBRANTS 25 27 28 30

Linda and Jack Goldfarb Terri and Jay Gross Jane and Don Silverberg Beth and Larry Figard

“YOM HULEDET SAMEAH!” TO OUR CELEBRATE YOUR NOVEMBER BIRTHDAY AND ANNIVERSARY AT SIMHA SHABBAT SATURDAY, NOVEMBBER 22 9:00AM Do a Mitzvah on your birthday,

NOVEMBER BIRTHDAY CELEBRANTS

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Adele Morris

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Jill Engelman

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Joel Taller

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Carol Katz

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Karen Reich

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Asher Gil

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Rabbi Jacob Luski

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Matthew Gould

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Anita Helfand

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Ruth Lebowitz

10 Esther Rothman

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Sandy Hershkowitz

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Pam LeCompte

10 Sheila Hutman

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Robin Perlman

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Dr. Brian Kagan

11 Dr. Leslie Weiss

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Bea Wallace

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Irma Mayer

12 Selma Gaby

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Howard Rothstein

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Joel Shane

13 Randi Rabin

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Robert Sutton

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Clare Weinstein

13 Elaine Rothstein

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Barry Kelmachter

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Cindy Weisberg

14 Barbara Levin

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Eric Ludin

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Sylvia Ayes

14 Ben Pertcheck

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Thelma Gilbert

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Marilyn LeVine

16 Phyllis Werner

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Michael Benstock

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Aldena Lew

17 Ellen Goetz

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Ana Masri

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Oren Adelson

17 Bonnie Halprin

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Frank Katz

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Steven Craig

17 Sheri Frogel

Attend the Daily Minyan!

Other Simhas Mahzor Dedication Opportunities The Ritual Committee wants to remind our Congregants that there are still opportunities to dedicate individual copies of our High Holiday Mahzorim in honor or memory of loved ones and friends, to commemorate a special Simha, etc. One Mahzor may be dedicated for $36, or you may dedicate 3 Mahzorim for $100.

Please contact Pam Askin at 727-381-4900, ext 203, or officemgr@cbistpete.org for more information.

Thank you very much!

Sincerely, CBI Ritual Committee

In Honor of:

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Check the names of everyone to whom you want to send a Mitzvah Gram.

Send this form together with your check, minimum $10 donation fro each acknowledgement to: CBI St. Pete, PO Box 159 Montvale, NJ 07645, donate online at cbistpete.org, or drop off your check in the synagogue office. *The minimum donation per acknowledgement is $10.

Please print: Your Name: ______________________________________________ Address: _________________________________________________ City, _____________________________Zip: __________________ Telephone: ______________ 15

Donations Building Maintenance Fund Jack & Linda Goldfarb

November 2014 In Honor Of Jesse Rodman

Mitzvah Fund Michael & Arlene Hurwitz Dr. Morrie & Marilyn LeVine

Camp Ramah Fund Stuart & Linda Wagner

Prayer Book Fund Murray & Myrna Rubin

Ellen Glassman Adult Studies Ben & Rita Thomas Judy Kaye

In Memory Of Sol Glassman Sol Glassman

Gail Warren Leadership Fund Jack & Linda Goldfarb Jack & Linda Goldfarb Steve Warren David & Pati Gross

In Honor Of Mali Feld Ralph & Ruth Ann Mizrahi Ralph & Ruth Ann Mizrahi Liz Sembler In Memory Of Sandi Rodman’s mother

Dr. Michael and Sandy Slomka

In Memory Of Max Rubenstein Michael Richman

Preschool Fund Sharron Memmer

Library Fund Bev Sherman Esta Blaxberg Janet Augenbaun Bev Sherman

In Memory Of Nathan Shure

Mitzvah Fund Akif Agayev Richard & Laura Manning Annette Rosch Beverly Dikman Bob & Jennifer Sternberg Lenny & Millie Gelfond Steve & Livia Wein Warren & Rebecca Simmons Anita Sher Jerry & Barbara Colen Dr. Morrie & Marilyn LeVine Dr. Morrie & Marilyn LeVine Dr. Pat Cottrille

In Honor Of

Ralph and Ruth Ann Mizraahi Dr. Ed Lurie’s Birthday Dr. Ed Lurie’s Birthday Beverly Dikman’s Birthday Dr. Ed Lurie’s Birthday Dr. Ed Lurie’s Birthday Bonnie Halprin’s dedicated service October Birthdays

Dr. Marc & Laurie Reiskind Dr. Marc & Laurie Reiskind Sam & Beulah Steel Stanley Hagendorf

Speedy Recovery Of Ethan Benstock Bob Weisberg Deborah and Pamela Steel Bob Weisberg

Ann Haendel Barry & Jackie Kanner Harriett Lieberman Jack & Linda Goldfarb Dr. Marc & Laurie Reiskind Bill Rosch Marilyn Nye

In Memory Of Michael Richman Rose Polsky Rose Poisky Michael Richman Michael Richman Helen Rosch Leonard Mauer

Michael Richman

Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund Fred Silverman Harold & Joyce Seder Sam & Sandy Janofsky Anita Sher Karen Diamond Sheila Knapp Susan Turner Lou Bader Nancy Landfish & Ed Bailey Irwin & Barbara Feinman Hymie & Judy Bader Marvin & Lee Leibson Lawrence & Renee Salzer Sylvia & Rosalind Ayes Dr. Joel Marantz Elaine & Bob Lachter Gerry Mensh Joan Benstock Morry Bornstein Eileen Richman Joel & Ellen Goetz

Susan Turner Robyn & Bryan Greenberg Shirley Sommella

Marvin & Lee Leibson Hymie & Judy Bader Dr. Phi Warren Drs. Esther & Benjamin Bloom Allen & Paula Silverberg Chief Tony Holloway & Andra Dreyfus

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In Memory Of Michael Richman Pearl Abrams Harry Janofsky Dr. Lewis Sher Dr. Michael Diamond Myer Grusmark Hugh Halpern Laura Luber Loved Ones Ben Feinman Laura Luber Sandi Rodman’s mother William Salzer Rachel Robinson Sam Marantz George Latcher Sid Mack Ruth Sheldon Harold Bornstein Michael Richman Sylvia Marks In Honor Of Misheberach, Collin Good In appreciation Hatanei Hatorah HonoreesMali Feld, Ruth Ann & Ralph Mizrachi, Jesse Rodman Speed recovery-Larry Lew In appreciation In appreciation Birth of their grandson, Isaiah Bloom In appreciation In appreciation

USY Fund Dr. Ed & Vivian Lurie Ruth Mauer

In Memory Of Rachel Robinson Nancy Selleck

USY Pilgrimage Fund Steve & Linda Grau

In appreciation Of Livia Wein

Leah Sandler

In Memory Of Lucille Sayet

Life Cycle Events

November 2014

Mazal Tov BAR MITZVAH: Drs. Leslie and Mitchell Weiss on the Bar Mitzvah of their son, Ari Weiss

Ari Weiss will be called to the Torah in honor of his Bar Mitzvah on Saturday, November 8, 2014.

Ari is in the 7th grade at Shorecrest Preparatory School. Previously, he attended Pinellas County Jewish Day School.

He enjoys playing guitar, tennis, singing and has spent the last four summers at Camp Ramah Darom.

In Memorium

His Mitzvah project was providing musical entertainment for the senior residents at Philip Benjamin Tower.

Rachel Robinson

Ari is the son of Leslie and Mitchell Weiss, and brother of Hannah Weiss. Grandparents are Sandy and Ed Levin, Bibby Weiss and the late Sydney Weiss. His family is proud of his many accomplishments and looking forward to celebrating with him.

Sister of Hannah Ayes

May God comfort the family among the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem.

Looking for a special way to honor your family and friends who are celebrating a Simha?

BUNS FAMILY TREE OF LIFE is just the answer.

What a joy it is for someone to walk into our shul and see a tribute of their Bar or Bat Mitzvah, special birthday, anniversary or wedding.

Order forms are in the synagogue office and lobby.

Minimum donation $254.

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November 2014

The American Israel Public Affairs Committee Cordially Invites You To The

TAMPA BAY ANNUAL EVENT A Foreign Policy Roundtable Featuring

Rep. Ileana Ros-Lehtinen Chairman, House Foreign Affairs Subcommittee on Middle East & South Asia &

Rep. Ted Deutch Ranking Member, house Foreign Affairs Subcommittee on the Middle East & South Asia

Monday, November 10, 2014 Dessert Reception 7:00PM

Program 7:45 PM

Grand Hyatt Tampa Bay 2900 Bayport Drive, Tampa RSVP by Thursday, November 6, 2014 at www.aipac.org/Tampa $36 Couvert

Dietary Laws Observed

This event is off-the-record and closed to the press For more information contact Elen Rickel at erickel@aiac.org or (954) 382-6110 AIPAC Tampa Bay Co-Chairs: Herb Swarzman and Brian Taub

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November 2014

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November 2014

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September 2014

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Congregation B’nai Israel B’nai Israel Review 300 -58th Street North St. Petersburg, FL 33710-7889 Tel: 727.381.4900 Fax: 727.344.1307 Website: www.cbistpete.org 24 Hour Telephone Voice Mail

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Non-Profit Organization U.S. Postage PAID St. Petersburg, Fl. Permit # 618

HAVDALAH On The Beach Saturday, November 22, 2014 6:30PM Upham Beach 6700 Beach Plaza, St. Pete Beach Join, Rabbi Jacob Luski and Cantor Jonathan Schultz, wear your flip flops, bring a flashlight, and welcome the new week as a community.

In case of rain, the program will be rescheduled.

For more information, contact Cantor Schultz at cantor.schultz@cbistpete.org.

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