Are You a Martha or a Mary?

from July 2021

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Are You a Martha or a Mary?

by Janise Copeman

Time spent away can bring a time of reflection. As I am often so busy with work and other responsibilities of everyday life, it had been a while between visits with my family and friends. It was during this reflection that the Lord placed on my heart this question: Are you a Martha or a Mary?

I realized I had not picked up my phone or checked social media, but I had actually unplugged and allowed

myself to spend time with my parents and family. This time was so special and bonding—it is all my heart wanted to do.

“Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land that the Lord your God is giving you” (Exodus 21:15).

“Children’s children are a crown to the aged, and parents are the pride of their children” (Proverbs 17:6).

This time made me think about the story of Martha and Mary. Martha was caught up in the nature of her usual business, while Mary was caught up in savoring every precious moment with the Lord—not even realizing just how precious that time was.

There will always be time for business, chores and running around, but the gift of quality time with someone you love is something you cannot buy or ever get back. Family and friends are a precious gift from the Lord—one not to be taken lightly.

Family is important because it can provide love, support, and a framework of values to each of its members. Family members teach each other, serve one another and share in the joy and sorrow of life. From the very first moments of life, children depend on their parents and family to protect them and provide for their needs. We must be listening to the Holy Spirit every moment of our lives to be led by the Lord. There are times when we need to be busy and working with what He has us to do. There are also times when He wants us to be still and lay at His feet. As I am growing older, those moments are becoming much more valuable. As my parents and siblings are getting on in years, it is really eye-opening to see where we set our priorities. Responsibilities are something we all have to be concerned with, but knowing how to prioritize them is what we must practice daily. We must learn to be in a moment and enjoy it.

You may often hear about families who may have taken each other for granted, realizing one day that they have allowed time to rob them of so many precious memories with one another. I encourage you to allow the Lord to rearrange your priorities—to value the time you have and recognize what is truly important.

About The Author

Janise Copeman lives in Trion, Georgia, is 49 years old, and she is blessed to be married to her soulmate for 26 years. She enjoys reading, writing, and encouraging others by spreading joy and love in the Lord.